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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice,

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mix in some vodka.

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Speaker 2: Color a podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio

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in Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dots. Gee Ram,

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It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 3: Well, hello and welcome, Thanks for getting your pot on,

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Thanks for telling a friend Daniel. It's that time of

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year again.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it is that.

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Speaker 3: Magical time between December twenty sixth and January first, when

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we start to quietly think nothing is real, nothing's really

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going on. We don't know what day it is, right,

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I've had to ask several times, and yet everything is

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being evaluated because as we see New Year's as a

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new start, right, a fresh start. Yeah, and I say,

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it's actually a quiet audit.

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Speaker 1: Quiet audit huh huh. I mean you're taking the class

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for free.

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Speaker 4: Nobody's telling you.

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Speaker 3: No, nobody told you it's having there's no clipboard, this

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class for free, there's no email.

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Speaker 1: But so for those of you who don't know, if

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you audit a class that means you don't get creded

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for it.

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Speaker 3: It's yeah, yeah, but your brain's like already, all right,

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let's review your year.

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean, oh, kind of like.

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Speaker 1: Those YouTube videos. I get, Hey, here's what you watched

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this year? Oh okay, apparently I'm a big fan of

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Dave Ruben, who knew.

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Speaker 3: Uh, your brain doesn't go hey, solid job, you survived,

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it goes Hey, remember that goal you set in February.

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Let's go and talk about that. Yeah, we haven't done anything,

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and I go. New Year's Eve is wild because one

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minute you're counting down, there's confetti far everybody's happy.

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Speaker 4: You're grabbing somebody maybe.

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Speaker 1: By the way, tonight, if you watch all your television

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on a stream, make sure you switched for the for

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the countdown. Make sure you switch to like the the NTETTA,

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the HD TETNA so you have it in real time,

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or else you might be thirty to ninety seconds behind

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the New Year. I'm just based on experience.

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Speaker 3: So upsetting, right, I got it wrong, my god. But

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the thing is, like, you're you're all excited right at

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the end of the year, you stand up. My mother

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used to have a stand up to welcome in the

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new year. She used to put on a gown, wake

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us up. She'd have a glass of champagne to the

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new year. I'm to things, but then I go, But

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then in the next moment, you're quietly comparing yourself to

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someone you haven't spoken to since middle school, and go,

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I should really be further along.

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Speaker 1: Like they are, dude, that's every day in my life.

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I call my buddy up. I go, Do you realize

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that we are older than Tony Soprano? I go? Do

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you realize that we are like ten years past Kevin

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Arnold when he reviewed The Wonder Years? Do you realize

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that we are not pro athletes? But what that the

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athletes we grew up with are now like tired, yeah, retired, retired? Yeah,

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well that like Josh Allen was somebody we probably would

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have like watched in preschool and all of a sudden,

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now he's like our hero, and what have I done?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: But it's like, you know, okay, new year, clean slate,

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fresh start. But also, why are we still like this?

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Speaker 4: Right? That's the stuff.

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Speaker 3: And I think we kind of treat the calendar reset

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button like a video game where you're unlocking the next level,

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you know, you know what I mean. But you wake

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up tomorrow like we're recording this on New Year's Eve,

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So you wake up January first, you're the same person

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same personality, same habits, same phone, same pass words, You're

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still gonna forget and what's really changed? And somehow overnight

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you're expected to reinvent yourself?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, do you feel that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I think there's pressure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you got to prepare around Thanksgiving? Yeah, but

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then yes Christmas cubs, you're like, Okay, well I'll wait

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until after. Okay, I'll wait till after. I'll wait till after.

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I'll wait till after. That's why Tony Robinson is forgetting

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years resolutions, because when you break them, you feel more

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awful about shit.

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Speaker 3: I mean, but seriously, there are there's some people that

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let go of everything that didn't work and have a

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five year plan ready by brunch, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so what's your five year plans?

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Speaker 1: Well, this afternoon I'm going to do wind sprints and lift.

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Speaker 3: I'd rather I'd like to talk about the quiet audit

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that nobody posts. Okay, you know what I'm saying, The

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things that we go back, the one that happens when

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the noise downs, that dies.

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Speaker 1: And you ask yourself, how did I really do? How

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did I really do?

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Speaker 3: And I think, like all of us think back in

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the year, and I was thinking about this earlier because

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for members of my family, I think this was a

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you could call it a hard year.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: My brother was the one who went and kind of

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boy dropped in on my dad when he was living

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in Jersey and he's like, he can't live here alone anymore.

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Speaker 4: Bill, He's got it.

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Speaker 3: And then it was like, we're gonna move him up

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in April. And then my brother ends up going down

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there and it's like, we got to do it right now,

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there's no time. And he comes down with a truck

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and he and his wife and my sister comes up

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and I wasn't involved in any of that, and so

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they did all that heavy lifting and then Kevin gets

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him into the new place. And then I went up

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for a week with Jamison and we hung out, which

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was really nice because Jamison said, I think I had

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all the kids right. I was talking about this yesterday,

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like I'm also I think the classes that I was

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taking kind of opened my eyes to a lot of

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stuff now and the actual impact that separation has on

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a family and why it's so important to really try

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like the people that do things like that are called nesting,

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where the kids stand at You got it right, if

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you're gonna if you can't be together, and it's gonna

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be more detrimental really in the long term, where kids

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see not great relationships modeled for them and you're better

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off separate it. You know, having the one house of

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the all that stuff. Putting the kids at the forefront

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is so important, and it really wasn't the.

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Speaker 4: Case for my situation. I didn't do that. I'm guilty

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of that.

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Speaker 3: So I see that now, and I as I'm watching,

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you know, my brother did all the heavy lifting with that.

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well as the other boys, said to me, as we're

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walking out of restaurants, he goes, God, he is so funny.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he really is.

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Speaker 3: He goes, Oh my god, he's awesome. And I was

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so happy because he died four months later. Yeah, you know, I.

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Speaker 1: Didn't guess I have that moment.

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Speaker 3: I didn't expect him to die four months later. And

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and you know, I watched my sister, you know, and

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we all went through the death, which I often say

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one of the greatest gifts my dad gave me was

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that last week that he hung on and my brother,

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sister and I were in Maine together and we sat

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on the dock one night just drinking and laughing and

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having a great time and reconnecting. And I feel like

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that's been really great for the three of us. But

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then my sister goes away. There's a podcast that's up

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that I don't know if people will kind of blow

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by it or not. It's my niece and nephew really

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wanted to do a podcast like they were so excited,

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and I had brought some equipment with me. I have

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these wireless mics and they used to fit into the

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old iPhone he could record write the audio into your iPhone,

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and now everything's gone to a different adapter with iPhone,

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so it doesn't work. But my mom still had the

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old one. So we started out a podcast with my

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sister with that, but I only brought one microphone. I

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should have brought too, but I only brought one. So

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I wound up starting this podcast with my sister on

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the Lavalier mics, and they sounded muffled to me, so

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we stopped and we went downstairs and we shared one mic.

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But I had done that with her son and daughter.

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to hear these kids. They're well spoken, but.

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Speaker 1: They talk about everywhere they've been in the world.

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Speaker 3: Dan and I go, oh, my god, Costa, Rica, Galapagos Islands, Croatia.

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My nephew goes, ugh, if you don't go to France,

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save your money, Yeah, save save.

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Speaker 1: Your money, save mom's money.

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Speaker 4: Listen, save your money. Go to d C.

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Speaker 3: Because the city, the architecture. The architect that did the

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city planning for Washington d C also did a Paris

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so it's laid out the exact same.

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Speaker 4: It's very similar.

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Speaker 3: And he goes, just exchange the Eiffel Tower for the

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for the Washington Monument. And I missed a line that

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he said, and I heard it when I was listening back.

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Copenhagen is the best city in Europe. I'm telling you,

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it's the greatest city. But this is so great.

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Speaker 3: Paris, everyone's smoking everywhere. It's awful. He goes, I guess

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if you come to DC, they're all going to be vaping.

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Like this kid is ten he's ten. But the point being,

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like my sister then does take these big trips, and

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I'll tell you why. She and her husband were going

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to book a house at Bethany Beach in Delaware for

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a week and they looked at the price and went,

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we could go to Blank for the same amount of money.

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after my dad died, my sister was like, I don't

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know if I'm gonna have to move my vacation or

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not because dad was hanging on. We didn't know, And

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it was for two weeks. In August they were going

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to Iceland because the youngest guy was sick of going

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to beaches their vacations and he wanted something different.

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Speaker 4: And then they went to Croatia and they did a beach.

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of Croatia, they're keeping Bosnia clearly off the away from

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the beaches. We get to keep the beaches.

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Speaker 3: Croatia is, from what I hear, absolutely beautiful. Yeah, everybody

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speaks English, great basketball and a lot of American food

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items there. I'm both I'm considering going to Croatia, but anyway,

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uh So, the Croatia and then Copenhagen. While in Iceland,

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they take a snowmobile trip up a glacier, to the

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top of a glacier, and my sister was telling I

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don't think she told the story on the podcast. She's

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telling me more because I knew what happened obviously, But

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she said, it's like you could hardly see the people

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in front of you. Your mask is getting all wet.

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it off. And she goes, I'm on my own snowmobile

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with my daughter and her daughter's very tall. Uh, she's

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thirteen years old. And the problem is when you're driving,

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it's like when you spin, your instinct maybe to turn

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the way you're spinning, you should turn the opposite way

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to straighten your car out. Well, when you're riding a

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snowmobile an ATV, the idea is to lean into the turn.

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niece shifted the wrong way and it tipped over. Yeah,

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and she was screaming and obviously very scared.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't know I can't really see.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of fog, and the other snowmobilas are

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just a zip and bio on these things. Yeah, I

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didn't know that. So they had a guy to the

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Speaker 4: So my sister was very worried.

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Speaker 4: A glacier in Iceland. What am I gonna do?

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Speaker 3: So they come over and they they're gonna lift and

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my sister said, I got it and she holds.

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her thumb that then wrapped around the ustle and had

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to have surgery on that.

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discomfort and pain. In the podcast I did with her,

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on a little distance on that one. Yeah. So she

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she had lime disease her senior year of high school

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and it really impacted her life, you know, since then,

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and that's I opened the podcast kind of talking about that.

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at the time, and it turned out that the family

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doctor's daughter had lime disease and he found out constant

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penicillin shots helped burn it off at the time, so

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that's he did that. But my sister was like, you

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just kind of lived with the discomfort. You muddled through.

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Speaker 1: It's like what Dodd I almost said about doing morning radio.

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You just get used to feeling like garbage.

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got used to feeling like garbage.

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you get the point.

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they weren't babying you.

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get up, and here you gotta go.

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Speaker 1: I know you still, life's not going to feel sorry

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for you.

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Speaker 3: I know you got this, you know, lime disease, but

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you know you got to go to school.

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Speaker 4: I'll drive you there. You got to go.

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think that mentality has gotten you know, pushed her through.

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to a doctor and goes, this is still hurting and

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it's feeling worse.

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you need surgery on the opposite shoulder. So yeah, so

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you look at that, right, So her dies. She was

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part of helping moving out, move him up, move all

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that shit. Going through all that. She then has this

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happened her husband had broken his hand or something as well.

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her to actually go to the doctor because she's like, because.

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Speaker 4: She said, can you move it? If you can move it,

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it's not broken.

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Speaker 1: And age old line, right, And that's.

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Speaker 3: When we were always told, I mean my hand all

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fucked up because I had that mentality. So he said

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to her, yeah, but it's really hurting. He went and

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had an X ray it was broken, and she goes, oh,

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I should probably go to the doctor and then finds

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out all this shit's wrong. So we could say that

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twenty twenty five was a hard year, or or I

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can look at it as I and I did what

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I learned. I have a friend who calls me Polly,

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like Pollyanna, you know, all sunshine, because I'll write them

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positive things once in a while. And I could look

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at it and go, I.

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Speaker 4: It was a great year. It was a great year.

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Speaker 3: It had its ups and downs, but boy, I got

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to see a lot more family with the passing of

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my dad. I got closer with my brother and sister.

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I was able to spend more time with my son.

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I actually got into a program that has really made

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me analyze myself for the better. You know, I've been

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able to We got a new studio, new things are

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happening with the podcast, and I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Right, you know, it's it's it's funny because this past

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year my wife lost her father. Yeah, I lost my

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grandmother whom you know, and really I lost my grandmother

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like years ago, but this is like like she actually died.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but this is a person who's been around your

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entire life, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, like like, I'm literally not as old as

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she was when I was born. That's how long she lived.

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She lived to be ninety eight years old. Okay, And

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I look at you know how work has been tough.

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myself and go, well, look at the strides you made

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in this and and this and this. For the second

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consecutive year as of right now, I have not gone

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back to the hospital for no reason, right, I mean

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that happened.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know a couple of those don't say that. Yeah,

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not be as as scary as you had.

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Speaker 1: Well, I had several health serious health issues, yeah, after

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the pandemic. And yet you know, at the end of

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the day, every morning, every single morning, my first words

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are to God, thank you and thank you. And it

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takes me, like it takes me longer every day to

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thank God for everything I have. Yeah, and that's a blessing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And that that's my point in this as when

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you audit your year, you can look at it like, man,

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what a year. Oh man, I'm really struggling with some

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stuff with my kids.

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Speaker 4: I was able to.

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Speaker 3: You know why why Because there had to be good

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stuff too, And it's all in perspective and it doesn't

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change any of the story. It just is a different

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way of looking at it, and I believe a healthier

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way for you moving forward instead of this doom and gloom,

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which is what a lot of us do when we

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are when we audit our year, though we look back

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and go, well.

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Speaker 4: I didn't do this. I didn't do this, And I

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would rather have it be to Fitchicks or texting sorry

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Hi Bill.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wish I was. I was almost going to

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make a rule that we have to leave our phones

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out of the studio, but I need the phone in

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here for.

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Speaker 1: This, yeah, I mean for a point I'm here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And at the same time then I realized all my

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texts come through my iPad anyway, the cameras run through

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the iPad.

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Speaker 4: Fuck it right? We were you gonna say no?

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Speaker 1: Like I mean, there's two men that I have kind

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of admired over the years, and one we haven't heard

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from it in a while. He's been sick. Jordan Peterson,

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doctor Jordan Peters, who I guess you've interviewed or paneled

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with it in the other words, Tommy, But everybody can

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make fun of these guys, like I know a lot

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of people don't like them because they live on the

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argue for your limitations side of things, the victimization things.

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I'm not part of that at all because that's not

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going to help you in life. It's just not okay.

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There's one rule that Jordan Peterson has and is Ten

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Rules for Life. He actually wrote two books. There's another

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ten Rules. I haven't gotten to the second book yet.

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The first book, the first rules, don't compare. Actually one

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of the first rules is don't compare yourself to others.

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Compare yourself to yourself.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 1: In other words, track your progress. Yeah, and if you're

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not making progress, then make some progress, take some baby steps,

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do one little thing at one little thing every single day.

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By the end of the you're be like, holy col

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look what we did.

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Speaker 3: Remember the thing the guy made me with all the sun? Yes,

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I say, the one someone else's opinion the on you

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is none.

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Speaker 4: Of your business.

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Speaker 3: No, your business.

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Speaker 4: That's part of our comparison thing, which is what.

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Speaker 1: I told you. What I said that I go somebody

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else's opinion to me is none of my.

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Speaker 3: Business, right, And I've been saying that for a long

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time as well, because I had heard it from I

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don't remember somebody, and that really hit me. I want

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to sit down and.

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Speaker 1: Write down all the rules that I've learned from you

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and Tom Mulay I called ten Rules of the I

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would call it the break room. But now that that's

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taken on a different incarnation, So like the ten rules

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of Ule and Moran, Oh gosh, the biggest rule, like,

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life's not about you man. Number two, don't take yourself

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too seriously.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Number three, when you argue facts, you could say whatever

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you want. Number four, if you continue to do what

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you've always done, you'll continue to get what you've always gotten.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Number five, if you want to do something, you'll make

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the effort. And if you don't really want to do something,

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you'll find the excuse. I use that with my wife

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all the time. Yeah, that's just five. The book's gonna

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come out next March. Is it self published? Yeah? Yeah,

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I'm gonna have the a I write it, like, hey,

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write a book about these ten rules?

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Speaker 3: Why not? Why a funk not?

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Speaker 1: And then I'm gonna have the ais against each other,

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see which.

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Speaker 3: Produces just fucking do it? Like even if it's just

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a pamphlet and see if you could sell it for

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a dollar time.

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Speaker 1: I want naming right, check this out. I also want

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a case of Jamison. I love that man, but like

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to go back to my original point with Jordan Peters.

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Tony Robbins. If you know people get rip on me

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for this, but if you know Tony Robin's story, you'd

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appreciate him more. Like he had four dads, yeah, okay,

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and he came from nothing and yet but he was

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so self motivated to the point where he became not

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just a self help guru he calls himself, because I'm

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not your guru.

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Speaker 4: It's a great uh stock.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've watched it. He goes. Jim Roan was his

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was his mentor, and he learned and he took jim

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ron stuff to the next level. And it's not just

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self help, it's self motivation. It really like, if you

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want to do something, you will. If you don't, you'll

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find an excuse. He did a podcast recently with a

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married couple. I don't know what the podcast was. And

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he goes on, he goes, here's three rules for this year. Okay,

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increase your energy. You gotta stop comparing yourself to other people.

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It's funny that you brought this up. You can't control

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the outside world, but what you can't control us is

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your world internally and how you respond to things. Okay,

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so make these three decisions, he says. Number one, it's funny.

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I watched this last night. I wrote this down right

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before you call. He goes, what are you going to

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focus on? Because really what you focus on is your experience. Yeah,

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it's all in your mind. Your experience is all in

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your mind, like your nephew, like going to Copenhagen. That's

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the best, you know, because that was his experience. His

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focus was on the cigarettes in Paris versus like the

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weed Copenhagen. I think he was enlightened. And I don't

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know that it's Copenhagen.

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Speaker 3: Well, I just said to somebody last night because his

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wife is from Sweden and he had on a sweatshirt

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and I go, I go, where is that? And he

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said it's Sweden. I said, oh, And he goes, where

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did you think it was? I said, I don't know.

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I was just talking to my niece and nephew about Copenhagen.

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I thought, there, He goes, it's right across the bridge

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from Copenhagen, I said, my kit, my niece, and if.

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Speaker 4: You love that city goes.

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Speaker 3: It is a great city, one of the best in

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the world, which I never would think of.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, right, I just thought of the tobacco.

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Speaker 3: I think coffee Copenhagen.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's a type of Uh, it is it is?

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Speaker 4: It is? I forgot I never did that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. But number one, what are you going to focus on?

476
00:22:22,799 --> 00:22:24,920
Because that's what your experience, your focus ecues, your reality,

477
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:28,759
which is your feelings. Okay, so if you choose to

478
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,400
like where your focus goes, your energy flows. So like

479
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:34,799
whatever you attach meaning to, that's gonna be your meaning.

480
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:36,880
Because number two, which leads to number two, what does

481
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:41,160
this all mean? Make it mean whatever you want to mean,

482
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:45,720
not what you Oh, by default mechanism thinks, oh this sucks. No,

483
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,039
because the meaning is going to create the emotion, and

484
00:22:48,039 --> 00:22:50,200
the emotion's going to drive you one way or the other. Okay,

485
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,480
So number one, what are you going to focus on?

486
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:54,480
Number two? What does this mean? What are you going

487
00:22:54,519 --> 00:22:56,279
to allow it to mean to you? And number three

488
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,559
take that emotion to drive your decisions because to your

489
00:22:59,559 --> 00:23:04,039
decision or what control your life. Your mind is not you,

490
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:08,279
it's your soul. Your soul is you. Your mind plays games,

491
00:23:08,319 --> 00:23:11,519
but your soul. That's the essence of Bill Moran and

492
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:15,200
Danbrello and you the listener. Focus on what you could

493
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,160
control and use that.

494
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 3: Yes, but everything you're saying is something that I have

495
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,559
also said for a long time. And I even take

496
00:23:27,599 --> 00:23:31,279
it into like the more spiritual side of things, because

497
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,319
I do believe life has lived in your mind.

498
00:23:34,839 --> 00:23:35,599
Speaker 4: It totally is.

499
00:23:36,279 --> 00:23:40,119
Speaker 3: And as you're saying, that was my nephew's experience in Copenhagen.

500
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,680
If my nephew had gotten hit by a car, yeah,

501
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,240
broke his leg, it may not be the best city

502
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,680
in the world because that wasn't his experience. But I

503
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,319
also think that life is a mirror. And so if

504
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:54,160
you're getting like what reflected back you ever go, I

505
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:57,319
knew that was going to happen, Well, yeah, because you

506
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:58,440
set it up that way.

507
00:23:58,599 --> 00:24:00,799
Speaker 1: Tell me, did not tell me? What did that tell me?

508
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 3: I really believe that there is like a greater consciousness, God,

509
00:24:09,839 --> 00:24:11,599
source whatever that you.

510
00:24:11,599 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 4: Can tap into Jesus.

511
00:24:13,319 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 3: And yeah, I mean, okay, I just I think there's

512
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,640
something that you can tap into and you can just

513
00:24:21,079 --> 00:24:24,519
live better, and you have to realize, like you take

514
00:24:24,559 --> 00:24:27,720
things hereious, it's like how are you gonna handle stuff?

515
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:33,599
And sometimes you know what God made people who created

516
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,839
chemicals and things. If you're having a hard time and

517
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:37,920
you just need something that's gonna keep you a little

518
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,920
buoyant instead of always looking at the negative, go for it.

519
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,240
Take a fuck it. I don't know, just because I

520
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,920
think it's gonna it just makes life better. You don't

521
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:49,759
have to live in misery. You just don't. It's your choice.

522
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,720
It's really your choice. And I think that to me,

523
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:57,880
it's like different frequencies, different radio stations. I can't hear

524
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:01,200
what's on ninety six point five when I'm listening to

525
00:25:01,279 --> 00:25:04,680
ninety five point one and vice versa. So it's you know,

526
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,759
you got to tune into what are you gonna your

527
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:11,119
Your brain is really a receptor. I mean it's like yes,

528
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:14,440
and people often go, uh, well, what do you mean.

529
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:16,400
The way the only way I can explain this is

530
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,319
I remember, and I think she did an.

531
00:25:19,319 --> 00:25:22,599
Speaker 4: Episode about it on I Love Lucy.

532
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,839
Speaker 3: But she was driving by a radio station or down

533
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,960
by a radio station in California and all of a

534
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:36,440
sudden there was oh, it's like playing in her head. Well,

535
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:37,839
how can it play in your teeth?

536
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 1: There's no speaker like the the filling, right, the metal filling.

537
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 3: No, the metal fillings picking up the reception. Yeah, but

538
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:49,160
what's that then? What's broadcasting your fucking head? Yes, your

539
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,599
fucking head. She was hearing the stuff. And other people

540
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,519
have said that has happened. There was some kind of

541
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,000
transdust that was put on teeth back then or whatever,

542
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,200
and it could work. Well, I mean, that's your brain

543
00:25:59,319 --> 00:26:02,319
picking up a signal. I mean, and I know people go, wow,

544
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,319
it was the tooth was the Well, how my tooth

545
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:06,240
doesn't have a speech?

546
00:26:06,559 --> 00:26:06,839
Speaker 1: A speak?

547
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 3: You understand what I'm saying. So this is a receiver.

548
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:11,640
So what are you gonna let in.

549
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:14,799
Speaker 1: Right right wherever you choose to leave?

550
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean everything you're saying, But even on a

551
00:26:18,599 --> 00:26:20,480
on your spiritual side of things, what are you gonna

552
00:26:20,519 --> 00:26:23,640
let in? It's the same thing what Tony says, what

553
00:26:23,799 --> 00:26:25,880
Jesus said, they're very similar.

554
00:26:26,839 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 1: Let's not compare the two.

555
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 4: But I guess I'm not saying the same. I'm saying

556
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:31,799
that they were.

557
00:26:31,839 --> 00:26:33,519
Speaker 1: I just want that out I know you're not. I

558
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:34,359
want that out there.

559
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 3: I'm just saying that if the messages are are you know,

560
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,440
somewhat the same. I mean that's what I would say, like,

561
00:26:40,759 --> 00:26:44,240
go forth, go forth and tell no one, Go forth

562
00:26:44,279 --> 00:26:45,680
and tell no one right in the center of this.

563
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,559
And the reason I always say this is because people

564
00:26:48,599 --> 00:26:51,519
are gonna from the best interest from their I mean,

565
00:26:51,559 --> 00:26:54,440
they're gonna, hey, you know, I want my advice on this,

566
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,720
and sometimes we are looking for somebody's advice and then

567
00:26:58,759 --> 00:27:00,559
they fucking ship all over your dream.

568
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:01,799
Speaker 4: I tried that.

569
00:27:02,319 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 3: If you ever watched to tell you something, I was

570
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:08,279
gonna do a podcast. Okay, I tried a podcast, right.

571
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 1: You ever see the first episode of Modern Family, the

572
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:15,079
pilot episode, It is loaded with that. So one of

573
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,480
the couples want to adopt a baby, and they've already

574
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,559
adopted the baby, and of course Al Bundy slash and

575
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:25,160
O'Neil slash Jay, who really reinvented himself as an actor

576
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,079
with this role, going from being Al Bundy to being

577
00:27:28,519 --> 00:27:32,240
this grandfather slash stepfather slash father, and he goes, you

578
00:27:32,279 --> 00:27:33,920
don't want to do that, Why would you want to

579
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,440
do that? And then Cam the fat guy comes out

580
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:39,519
with the baby. It does the whole circle of life

581
00:27:39,559 --> 00:27:44,440
thing with little uh with the Asian baby. I forgot

582
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:48,480
her name, and all of a sudden, everybody's, everybody's mind

583
00:27:48,519 --> 00:27:51,599
set completely changes when they see that child. Put a

584
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,680
face to the pain, right a sudden. Suppose he's beautiful.

585
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,799
Oh my gosh, look at the baby. Look at the baby.

586
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,599
Speaker 3: But a face to the love.

587
00:27:59,799 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: Right now, take your dreams and make them that baby. Yeah,

588
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,160
the hell with everybody else, The heck with everybody else. Well,

589
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,839
and what they think now they do care about you, yes,

590
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:10,759
but part of it is.

591
00:28:12,279 --> 00:28:14,839
Speaker 3: But they're telling you. Yes, it's not even that. It's

592
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,880
like it didn't work for me. I'll give you a

593
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:17,480
great example.

594
00:28:17,559 --> 00:28:24,039
Speaker 4: Yeah, my radio I was you can't really say that.

595
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: I uh, that's true. I did fourteen years a hard time. Yeah,

596
00:28:30,279 --> 00:28:31,880
I and a lot of friends.

597
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 3: I was going to use radio as an example I had.

598
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,920
I had a friend who lived around the corner and

599
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,039
he went to a college. He was a little older

600
00:28:38,039 --> 00:28:41,000
than me. I had baby sat Us. Our families were close.

601
00:28:41,559 --> 00:28:44,279
I love this guy, still in touch with them. Lives

602
00:28:44,319 --> 00:28:48,519
now where we are, and came, actually drove back down

603
00:28:48,559 --> 00:28:51,079
from my dad's memorial service, and he and his brother came.

604
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,000
He was a communication major at a school up in

605
00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,039
this area and was saying to me, uh, you know

606
00:29:00,319 --> 00:29:01,960
something about well, what would you do when I was

607
00:29:02,079 --> 00:29:04,559
going radio? And he's like, yeah, everybody wants to get

608
00:29:04,559 --> 00:29:07,039
on radio. I was communication maybe or no, I'm not

609
00:29:07,079 --> 00:29:12,119
doing anything in the communication field. And for whatever reason,

610
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,200
and I don't know what this is.

611
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 4: I don't there is.

612
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:22,079
Speaker 3: It's it's not a cockiness. It's a supreme confidence that

613
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,319
I think all three of us, meaning my brother's sister

614
00:29:26,559 --> 00:29:29,359
and myself somehow have like even my sister.

615
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 4: I said, you are so.

616
00:29:30,319 --> 00:29:33,799
Speaker 3: Confident and she's like, I not, I'm not I And

617
00:29:33,839 --> 00:29:36,200
I was saying to her because she said, like, I mean,

618
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:37,680
give you an example. You got to go listen to

619
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,960
this podcast because I really, really really think that it

620
00:29:41,079 --> 00:29:42,039
is fantastic.

621
00:29:42,079 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 4: It's funny.

622
00:29:43,839 --> 00:29:44,799
Speaker 1: Your family's a riot.

623
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 4: No, she's really.

624
00:29:46,079 --> 00:29:48,559
Speaker 3: Kate doesn't want to talk. I didn't put cameras on us,

625
00:29:48,559 --> 00:29:51,440
so there's no video of it. But it was really good.

626
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:55,000
But I said to her, she was telling me about

627
00:29:55,039 --> 00:29:59,480
when she had lime disease. There were some people's so

628
00:29:59,599 --> 00:30:02,519
they sent her to a rheumatologist and the rheumatologist goes,

629
00:30:02,599 --> 00:30:06,599
there's no rheumatoid arthritis. And she said, uh, that would

630
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:08,160
be a good thing, right, But he said, I think

631
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,240
you should go see a psychologist. Now why would he

632
00:30:10,319 --> 00:30:12,359
say that. He would say that because he believes you

633
00:30:12,359 --> 00:30:16,319
have convergence. And convergence is what they believe, the young ladies,

634
00:30:16,319 --> 00:30:18,319
and I think that's kind of what it was. And

635
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,920
le Roy had remember when the girls had the texts

636
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,680
and there were more and more and more of them

637
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:27,279
not saying that you didn't have something that was going

638
00:30:27,359 --> 00:30:30,279
on in your body, but that it began in your

639
00:30:30,359 --> 00:30:33,599
mind and that sometimes that's it. And then and if

640
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:38,400
you take apart the words disase, disease in the body,

641
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,880
a lot of people tell you it starts in the mind, yes, right,

642
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:45,359
And when you're told the diagnosis, that's why so many

643
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,240
people get so much worse when they were just good.

644
00:30:48,319 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 1: Last Saturay, guy in a white coat with multiple degrees

645
00:30:51,319 --> 00:30:53,759
told you so, right. And I'm not saying you should

646
00:30:54,079 --> 00:30:57,279
you should discount that one hundred, but you become resigned

647
00:30:57,319 --> 00:30:59,640
to it, yes, right. Like I have an ex mother

648
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:05,160
in law whom has a disease, and my ex father

649
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,920
in lawed at least ten years ago when I was

650
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,599
still married to my ex wife said her disease hasn't

651
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,640
changed in fifteen years. Yeah, but she continued to get worse.

652
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

653
00:31:13,319 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 3: Why because you keep thinking about it and it could

654
00:31:16,039 --> 00:31:17,519
be or it could be over time. I mean, I

655
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,079
don't want to say that to people, but I believe you,

656
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,000
like I hear what you're saying, and I do think

657
00:31:22,039 --> 00:31:22,720
that there is a thing.

658
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 4: It's convergence.

659
00:31:23,839 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 3: And my sister said to the guy she's sitting in

660
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:31,880
his room. She's seventeen maybe eighteen years old, and I

661
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,839
had to stop and I go because what I'm about

662
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,640
to say to you, I said to her, this is

663
00:31:37,759 --> 00:31:41,880
a script out of nine oh two one zero written

664
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,839
by a grizzled forty five year old writer coming out

665
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,279
of the mouth of a supposed eighteen year old.

666
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,359
Speaker 4: This is what my sister said.

667
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 3: She said, We're sitting in the office with the doctor,

668
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:56,079
and the doctor said, you don't have a inventory earthritis.

669
00:31:56,079 --> 00:31:57,519
I don't think it's anything. I'm going to refer you

670
00:31:57,559 --> 00:32:03,400
to a psychologist. And my sister said to him, I'm

671
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,519
not faking this. This is my senior year of high school.

672
00:32:07,039 --> 00:32:08,799
And that's not how she started. I think she said,

673
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,799
is that your daughter behind you in a picture and

674
00:32:12,839 --> 00:32:15,960
he said, yeah, she's twenty years old. She said, we're

675
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,640
of a similar age. What would you do if I

676
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:23,599
were your daughter? She said, I have missed half my

677
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:29,279
senior year. Do you think I'm making this up? She goes,

678
00:32:29,319 --> 00:32:34,119
I'm in constant discomfort and I'm listening to it and

679
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:35,960
I'm paraphrasing. You got to go back and listen to

680
00:32:36,079 --> 00:32:38,119
how she actually said it. And I stopped her and

681
00:32:38,119 --> 00:32:39,799
I go, you really said that to him? And she

682
00:32:39,839 --> 00:32:43,079
said yeah. She goes, I was so pissed because I

683
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,039
was in such discomfort. And my thing was, there's a

684
00:32:46,119 --> 00:32:49,200
supreme confidence, like you got to be confident. She didn't

685
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,519
yell it, she didn't yell it at the doctor, but

686
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,119
to be eighteen and step up against somebody. And I

687
00:32:54,119 --> 00:32:57,559
said to her, you know the problem in life is

688
00:32:57,599 --> 00:33:04,000
that whether we want to believe this or not, our

689
00:33:04,079 --> 00:33:07,799
life is about feelings and how we feel in a moment.

690
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,720
Thus the perspective, Copenhagen's a great city. I didn't get

691
00:33:11,799 --> 00:33:13,720
hit by a car and break my leg right. And

692
00:33:13,759 --> 00:33:15,880
I think Tony Robbins does this with a party. Doesn't

693
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,680
he have an example of a party. He went to

694
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:19,480
a party and somebodays man that was a roaring good time.

695
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,519
And somebody else you know who sat in the corner

696
00:33:21,599 --> 00:33:24,039
and you know, had a drink spilled on and goes, yeah,

697
00:33:24,079 --> 00:33:25,400
that was the shittiest party I've ever been.

698
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:31,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, one party, and I think like it was one

699
00:33:31,119 --> 00:33:35,440
of our innercop Christmas parties. Actually is that a bag

700
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:35,920
of coke?

701
00:33:37,359 --> 00:33:37,519
Speaker 3: What?

702
00:33:37,559 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: Dombermer he in that story quick sidebar, some sue Munn

703
00:33:42,559 --> 00:33:45,559
found or somebody found an empty bag of white powder

704
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,759
had powder residue, and she goes, should we call the police?

705
00:33:48,759 --> 00:33:50,680
In dem Jones like no, no.

706
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:51,359
Speaker 3: Throw it out.

707
00:33:54,799 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: I don't And somebody goes, that was a party. Oh

708
00:33:58,599 --> 00:34:02,119
so it probably was coke, Yeah, that or baking powder, yeah,

709
00:34:02,279 --> 00:34:04,920
or fake snow for the fake I don't know how

710
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:09,039
big was the bag. I think the bag was about

711
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,719
that's a big bag for coke. That's a lot of coke.

712
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:13,760
You I mean, I don't know.

713
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 3: I don't remember, no, no, no, I'm but I do

714
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:17,320
remember this happened.

715
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 4: Have you been offered coke?

716
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,119
Speaker 1: Uh no, I've been offered opium. Have you ever seen coke?

717
00:34:22,159 --> 00:34:26,239
And I was like, uh no, live no, I got

718
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:29,000
offered opium by a dude. On the street coming out

719
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,480
of Marks, Texas hots when I was a senior in college.

720
00:34:31,519 --> 00:34:33,119
That's it. I said, no, you keep that, that's for you.

721
00:34:33,199 --> 00:34:35,840
Oh thanks, brother, that's it. I've never seen coke.

722
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 4: Okay, so cocaine.

723
00:34:37,519 --> 00:34:39,159
Speaker 3: A lot of people will they keep it in a

724
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,719
very tiny baggie, really tiny.

725
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 1: Bagg Oh my gosh, yes I have. I was lift driving.

726
00:34:47,679 --> 00:34:48,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, and.

727
00:34:50,079 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: I got a call from Lyft saying somebody forgot their

728
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,400
car keys. Can I go back and deliver them? I go,

729
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,519
hang on, I got you on the phone. I'm looking.

730
00:34:58,639 --> 00:35:00,480
I don't see any car keys. I I do fight.

731
00:35:00,639 --> 00:35:03,079
I did fight this little plastic baggy though that looks

732
00:35:03,119 --> 00:35:06,320
like oh and I just threw it out the fit.

733
00:35:06,599 --> 00:35:09,599
I just I just now love car keys. The car

734
00:35:09,679 --> 00:35:12,639
keys was the code for the coke. Yeah, I had

735
00:35:12,639 --> 00:35:15,920
no idea. I'm like, yeah, I'm not, I'm not doing

736
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:19,239
this anymore. Yeah, well, I mean, but yeah, you're right,

737
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:20,039
it's a very tiny bed.

738
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:21,519
Speaker 4: Usually it's usually a tiny bag.

739
00:35:21,599 --> 00:35:21,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

740
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,039
Speaker 1: It's not like we got zip blockbags keeping the freshness right.

741
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,440
It's got the greeds. The greeds seal.

742
00:35:29,559 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 3: I will say that when it comes to like where

743
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,519
I was talking about there's a supreme confidence. And I

744
00:35:34,559 --> 00:35:36,239
don't mean this in a cocky way, but when I

745
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,800
remember that guy saying this to me, like I'm not

746
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,800
using my degree, and the thought in my head at

747
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,880
the moment was that's you, not me.

748
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 1: Right now.

749
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 3: I never articulated that. I didn't think I would have

750
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,719
this amazing radio. That wasn't what I was saying. I

751
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,840
was just thinking of going, that's you, not me, that's

752
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:58,480
you not me. I remember the same thing little league,

753
00:35:58,559 --> 00:36:00,880
going to a tryout. Somebody said to me, oh, my

754
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,760
brothers this girl. My brothers tried out and they didn't

755
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,480
make it, and I and I remember thinking, I was

756
00:36:06,519 --> 00:36:09,440
nine years old, that's them, not me. Doesn't mean I'm

757
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,800
gonna make it. That's not what I'm saying. I'm just

758
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:15,840
saying that just because that's your experience, someone else's experience

759
00:36:16,159 --> 00:36:18,679
doesn't mean it's mine. And many times though we do

760
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,000
take the advice of somebody else, what a shitty restaurant,

761
00:36:22,039 --> 00:36:24,880
I won't go there. I've heard that about a certain

762
00:36:25,039 --> 00:36:29,079
specific restaurant. I've gone to that restaurant twice now, and

763
00:36:29,119 --> 00:36:31,719
I loved it both times. I mean, I might drank

764
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,719
a lot, So maybe that was it, but I had

765
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:34,480
no problem with it.

766
00:36:34,679 --> 00:36:35,519
Speaker 1: This is good fun.

767
00:36:35,599 --> 00:36:40,159
Speaker 3: Do uh.

768
00:36:41,079 --> 00:36:41,599
Speaker 4: I think that.

769
00:36:41,679 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 3: I think what you've said and what I've tagged onto

770
00:36:46,039 --> 00:36:47,840
some of that. It's great advice for people as you

771
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,119
aughtit the year. Yeah, just think about that. You don't

772
00:36:50,159 --> 00:36:52,320
have to do it that one way. And Dandy gave

773
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,599
you some great steps and how to move forward to

774
00:36:54,679 --> 00:36:55,639
the New York with good stuff.

775
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 4: What are you doing New Year's Eve?

776
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 1: New Year's Z I was just gonna chill with my boo.

777
00:37:00,519 --> 00:37:04,199
Speaker 4: Okay, that's it. Yeah, just the two of us. Yeah.

778
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 3: And do you do any like self improvement? You know,

779
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,039
my sister does with their kids. Every year they do

780
00:37:08,079 --> 00:37:09,199
a vision board for the year.

781
00:37:09,679 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 1: My wife does that, she does Yeah, yeah, my wife

782
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,400
does that. I just write stuff down and be like, hey,

783
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:16,480
look here's what I improve upon this year, and I've

784
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:19,880
done it, and you've improved. Oh yeah, yeah, Like I've

785
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:23,719
exercised more this year than I've ever exercised before this

786
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:24,239
past year.

787
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's good.

788
00:37:26,639 --> 00:37:29,119
Speaker 1: Now, I'd like to learn a lot. I found that

789
00:37:29,199 --> 00:37:31,840
my passion in life really, when you boil it down,

790
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,800
is learning. It's learning stuff. I love to learn stuff.

791
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:39,360
It's the retention part that I have a problem with Yeah,

792
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,800
you know, like so I have to read something twice

793
00:37:42,199 --> 00:37:44,679
under the like to really get it. Like like I've

794
00:37:44,679 --> 00:37:47,320
read the Bible like twelve times and I'm like, oh,

795
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,239
I don't remember this part Nexodus.

796
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 4: Well, what about audio?

797
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: Audio is good? But here's the thing while I'm working,

798
00:37:53,039 --> 00:37:55,440
it's hard to like listen to a podcast or audio

799
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:56,480
while working at.

800
00:37:56,440 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 3: The same time. Is instead of reading a book, what

801
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,800
if you took a walk and listened to the book.

802
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,679
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, well here's would that retain it better? It might?

803
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:06,480
I've tried that.

804
00:38:06,599 --> 00:38:06,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

805
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: I have to actively take notes though, because I'll hear

806
00:38:09,519 --> 00:38:12,079
a word like audio and I'll think, oh, I have

807
00:38:12,119 --> 00:38:14,599
an audio board at home. I'm like, you know, I

808
00:38:14,639 --> 00:38:16,920
really need to like learn how to use this audio board.

809
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:17,599
Speaker 4: You know.

810
00:38:17,679 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: Bill Moran and I could start talking ADHD. Yeah, I

811
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:24,840
put diagnosed with ADHD. So what do you every acronym

812
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:26,559
except for the game one I have.

813
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 4: LGDBQ question.

814
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:37,039
Speaker 3: I don't have that one, at least not Yeah, I

815
00:38:37,079 --> 00:38:37,360
don't know.

816
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:38,639
Speaker 1: There's only twenty twenty six.

817
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,079
Speaker 3: I did say this, and it's interesting that you're here

818
00:38:41,119 --> 00:38:43,119
because I think you would be someone who appreciate that.

819
00:38:43,159 --> 00:38:44,800
Speaker 4: Bill would well.

820
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 3: I do.

821
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 1: My brother in law, whose herd is bigger than his brain,

822
00:38:47,639 --> 00:38:48,360
appreciate that.

823
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 4: Clark.

824
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 3: I I heard something and I said this on the

825
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,760
yesterday's podcast. One of the things I hope for the

826
00:38:56,079 --> 00:38:58,480
new year is that both sides of the political aisle.

827
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,440
Why not make these like its statements without some kind

828
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,039
of fact packing it up. And here's what I heard recently,

829
00:39:05,519 --> 00:39:09,000
And it was one that I thought was interesting because

830
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,079
I think there's a lot of people who would go

831
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,840
it makes sense. And in there was a part of

832
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:19,480
this person's speech. I don't know what it was or

833
00:39:19,559 --> 00:39:24,119
discussion that I agreed with because it made sense.

834
00:39:24,679 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 4: And I'll give you both.

835
00:39:26,079 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 3: But the first one was the one that bothered me

836
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:34,480
was this eighty percent of professors at college campuses are liberal.

837
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,679
That may be true. I wish you would back that

838
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:41,159
up with a depuse study or or a poll of

839
00:39:41,199 --> 00:39:45,000
whatever shows that. However, I think that most people would go, well, yeah,

840
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,800
and there is more people who are academically inclined seem

841
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,559
to be a little more open minded to things, and

842
00:39:50,599 --> 00:39:52,400
they do seem to stay on that side of the aisle.

843
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,679
I am not saying that there are people on the

844
00:39:54,679 --> 00:39:57,119
other side of the aisle who are brilliantly smart, not

845
00:39:57,199 --> 00:39:59,679
gonna that's not my argument, right, But I go, but

846
00:39:59,719 --> 00:39:59,960
that's a.

847
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,079
Speaker 1: I think it's a different cross section of people on

848
00:40:02,119 --> 00:40:03,840
that side of the all they're out like doing and

849
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,840
learning or not doing or doing and earning.

850
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:10,199
Speaker 3: So there's so right away, like, but you can see

851
00:40:10,199 --> 00:40:12,360
where people go good. I go, that just seems a

852
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,559
little high to me, But I don't know. And then

853
00:40:14,599 --> 00:40:19,440
it was. And then you get these professors who are

854
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,639
like an art teacher, and you take an art class

855
00:40:22,679 --> 00:40:26,440
as an electorate and they're just shoving their liberal agenda

856
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:27,079
down your throat.

857
00:40:27,079 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 1: And I went, well, teaching how to paint?

858
00:40:28,519 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I go, how do you know where's the

859
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:35,119
where is.

860
00:40:35,039 --> 00:40:36,519
Speaker 4: The proof of that?

861
00:40:36,679 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 3: Most of the people I hear say that stuff haven't

862
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,800
been on a college campus in thirty years. Some of

863
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,039
them have never been on a college campus that say that.

864
00:40:44,599 --> 00:40:48,039
So I go, it fits the narrative of that. I'm

865
00:40:48,079 --> 00:40:50,840
not saying it like it fits right. It's a stereotype

866
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,320
sort of, and you can see where it would fit.

867
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,760
But I my argument would be, I've been on a

868
00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:02,679
college campus now, for that's more than most people have

869
00:41:02,679 --> 00:41:05,119
been back on the college campus, specifically at my age right,

870
00:41:05,199 --> 00:41:09,480
I'm in my mid fifties. The I didn't see that,

871
00:41:10,599 --> 00:41:13,639
certainly didn't see it from professors. What I did see,

872
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,039
and especially because I'm in a counseling program, is an

873
00:41:17,079 --> 00:41:22,800
attempt to be understanding. But there were boundaries. You understand

874
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,679
what I'm saying, like you, maybe this way, I'll try

875
00:41:25,679 --> 00:41:26,800
to meet you where you are.

876
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 4: That doesn't mean I'm pushing going there, right, Do you

877
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:30,039
get it?

878
00:41:30,119 --> 00:41:32,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I will listen to you. Yes, Like you've

879
00:41:32,599 --> 00:41:35,880
always said, when you argue facts, you can say whatever

880
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:37,320
you want. So let's listen.

881
00:41:37,559 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 4: Right.

882
00:41:38,119 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 3: So, but that's where I'm going. I wish there would

883
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,280
be like I know somebody who was at x y

884
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:48,239
Z University and left the class because they felt like

885
00:41:48,639 --> 00:41:51,679
that's more powerful to me than you know, this one

886
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,519
blanket statement, because I don't I'm not sure that that's

887
00:41:54,559 --> 00:41:56,280
exactly true, and I would say it.

888
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 4: Also on the other side, here's what I do say.

889
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:03,760
Speaker 3: Often, well, your things where uh President Trump said today

890
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:07,239
put out a and I'll sometimes I mean, there.

891
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 4: I get it.

892
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,639
Speaker 3: There's stuff that guy says that you're like, he didn't

893
00:42:09,639 --> 00:42:11,239
really say that, and then you find out he really

894
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:14,559
said it. But there's a lot of times where I

895
00:42:14,599 --> 00:42:17,400
go he didn't say that, no, and I'm I'm not

896
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,400
a fan, but I can look at something and go

897
00:42:20,599 --> 00:42:22,400
he didn't say that. And this other person kept talking

898
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,199
about we need more critical thinking, and I'm like, critical

899
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,559
thinking isn't painting with a broad brush. That's not critical thinking.

900
00:42:28,639 --> 00:42:29,559
Speaker 1: No, it's a chisel.

901
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:32,599
Speaker 3: Saying that eighty percent of we don't unless you have

902
00:42:33,079 --> 00:42:35,800
some study, don't say don't paint with the broad brush

903
00:42:36,119 --> 00:42:41,039
to say, I believe again in your opinion, majority are this.

904
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,320
Here's why I say. That is way different than painting

905
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,199
with the broad brush. And I hope on both sides,

906
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:48,800
because we can't paint just because it fits. Oh that

907
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,239
sounds like something Donald Trump will say. Sometimes I go,

908
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,159
there's no way, and then I'll look. And although he

909
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:53,880
never did, he.

910
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: Didn't say like like the like. The most famous example

911
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,280
is back somebody put up with a meme around the

912
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,960
time he got a the first time. And it was

913
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:04,800
a meme when you know the like the picture in

914
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,079
the big black white and black and white letters.

915
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 5: They said, if I were going to run for president,

916
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,719
I would run as a Republican because Republican voters are

917
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:16,239
so stupid, say John Oliver, who's left of left, goes

918
00:43:16,639 --> 00:43:17,400
he never said that.

919
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,599
Speaker 4: Okay, good, I'm really glad he never said that.

920
00:43:20,679 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 3: I'm really glad, and I'm really glad it was a

921
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:26,360
guy on the left that said it, because that's important

922
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:30,000
that we're all looking for some kind of truth, because

923
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:33,760
that's painting with a broadbrush. We believe that it fits

924
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:37,559
the narrative of Donald Trump or people on that side.

925
00:43:37,679 --> 00:43:41,000
That's not fucking fair. You don't want that done to you.

926
00:43:41,079 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 1: Like the other day, Elon got fact checked by his

927
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:49,079
own app on Rock. Okay, I mean so like and

928
00:43:49,119 --> 00:43:51,639
now I will say this. I mean they have shown

929
00:43:51,679 --> 00:43:55,400
the Harvard acceptance rates of the races, who gets accepted

930
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:58,760
to what. Okay, you can't dispute those. Those are facts.

931
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,039
But here's a form that I've created. Yeah, I can't

932
00:44:02,079 --> 00:44:05,400
wait for twenty twenty six because there's a lot of this.

933
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,039
I'm just asking questions, Like Tucker Carlson, Candice Owens have

934
00:44:08,119 --> 00:44:12,320
become just absolutely insufferable when it comes to asking questions

935
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:16,719
because does Bill moranblou Goats. I'm just asking the question.

936
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:20,280
It's it's that monkey, it's that it's that type of stuff. Right,

937
00:44:20,679 --> 00:44:24,000
here's what you bring it down. Ask critical questions. In

938
00:44:24,039 --> 00:44:30,159
other words, whatever you hear, ye mimes, make it make sense. Well,

939
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:34,039
that's all I ask. So I don't care what side

940
00:44:34,039 --> 00:44:37,840
of the ledger you're on. Make it make sense. You

941
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:41,320
make a statement, back it up. Let me don't just generalize.

942
00:44:41,559 --> 00:44:44,800
Give me concrete evidence to suggest that this is in

943
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,440
fact true. You see what's going on in Minnesota with

944
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,559
that twenty four year old citizen journalist with the Somalis

945
00:44:50,639 --> 00:44:55,280
and the daycars. Wow, that's that's pretty factual, pretty evidential.

946
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:56,559
Speaker 4: But here me.

947
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,639
Speaker 3: My father used to say something, and I said, to

948
00:44:58,639 --> 00:45:01,039
somebody wants to go that is ridiculous. When my father

949
00:45:01,159 --> 00:45:05,679
used to say, when nothing makes sense, something makes sense.

950
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,119
Speaker 4: In other words, dig a little deeper.

951
00:45:08,679 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 3: Because when nothing makes sense, when it doesn't like, doesn't

952
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,239
compute for you, it means there's something else going on.

953
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 4: Right, there's something else going on. And you know, going.

954
00:45:17,639 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 3: Back to uh, because we're kind of all over the place.

955
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 4: I had several thoughts. I don't know I got all day,

956
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:28,559
but I need I don't I need? UH? What?

957
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,159
Speaker 3: No, I got to buy a belt? I can't find

958
00:45:32,159 --> 00:45:33,960
my fucking belt, my pants keep falling down?

959
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: Are you spanking Jamison? And he hit, I wasn't.

960
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 3: I don't know where my belt.

961
00:45:37,519 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: I used to do that.

962
00:45:38,039 --> 00:45:38,519
Speaker 3: How a kid?

963
00:45:38,519 --> 00:45:39,800
Speaker 1: I used to hide my father's belts.

964
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,800
Speaker 3: How about this? How about this is oh he did?

965
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,639
How about this is a reputation. I go to get

966
00:45:44,679 --> 00:45:47,320
my hair cut this morning. A woman's talking to me

967
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,960
about stuff and she's like, uh, I heard from me

968
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:54,519
in a while. She says, to be what's going on?

969
00:45:54,599 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 4: I go, ah, you know it was good?

970
00:45:56,519 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 3: Buh? I go, I can't find my belt And she goes,

971
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:06,119
whose bedroom floor is that? Or something to that effect,

972
00:46:06,119 --> 00:46:08,079
And I'm like, am I that dude? Do I come

973
00:46:08,119 --> 00:46:08,960
across that way?

974
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 4: Like some like you know.

975
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:15,039
Speaker 1: It sucks like I hate perception because it's fine.

976
00:46:15,039 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 3: It was sort of flattering. She meant it in a way.

977
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,559
Speaker 1: When I played in the band, somebody once said, you

978
00:46:18,599 --> 00:46:20,039
know you have a bit of a reputation. Like, Okay,

979
00:46:20,119 --> 00:46:22,000
name all the chicks I've been with. I go, go,

980
00:46:22,159 --> 00:46:23,679
you want to make it make sense? I go, name it.

981
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,760
Speaker 4: She goes, well she couldn't.

982
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,559
Speaker 1: She goes, you know what, You're right?

983
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:31,519
Speaker 3: Dan was the late dad you had.

984
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:35,039
Speaker 1: Ladies liked you they did. I was single and I

985
00:46:35,119 --> 00:46:39,159
was dating, but I wasn't like, you know, like you know,

986
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:43,679
like checking my oil every night, all right, and she

987
00:46:43,679 --> 00:46:45,920
couldn't come up with anybody. Got that's my point. She goes,

988
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:47,719
I go. She goes, Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.

989
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,639
I go, yeah, yeah, I go. Just because I play

990
00:46:50,679 --> 00:46:52,920
in a band doesn't mean that I lived that lifestyle.

991
00:46:53,199 --> 00:46:54,280
This is like ten years ago.

992
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,360
Speaker 3: I would not even fight back in that stuff, like

993
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,719
to me, but I didn't want to.

994
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:00,199
Speaker 1: But at the same time, I'm like, you know what,

995
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:01,400
let's just put it to the test.

996
00:47:01,519 --> 00:47:03,800
Speaker 3: I just think things are sometimes just noise. And I

997
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,239
often think, like, if you go back to what other

998
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:10,239
people think of me as none of my business, right,

999
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,440
hard to do, easy to say, hard to do because

1000
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:17,039
our feelings get hurt, right, and so that because people

1001
00:47:17,079 --> 00:47:19,639
think of me right well, and I just said the

1002
00:47:19,639 --> 00:47:22,880
same thing. But at the same time, I go in

1003
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:26,599
a way, that's that's a that's cool, that's a all

1004
00:47:26,679 --> 00:47:29,519
right reputation. I mean, even if the woman said, oh, yeah,

1005
00:47:29,679 --> 00:47:32,480
you have a reputation, you go, you could just said yes,

1006
00:47:32,559 --> 00:47:34,840
I do, because that's something I would say. We be like,

1007
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:40,199
yes I do, and I know that when this is

1008
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:41,719
the bad thing about human beings.

1009
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 4: They're competitive.

1010
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:48,159
Speaker 3: So why is it that the Pete Davidson's the greatest

1011
00:47:48,159 --> 00:47:49,199
fucking example ever.

1012
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,039
Speaker 1: I wish you would have continued his butt cause show.

1013
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, but but he's the greatest example with women.

1014
00:47:55,519 --> 00:47:58,679
Speaker 1: Because he's not attractive. No, he's got a terrible team.

1015
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:02,519
Speaker 3: It's a it's Arion the ground Day, it's Kim Kardashian,

1016
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:04,039
it's some other hot one.

1017
00:48:04,119 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 4: It's another hot one.

1018
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,559
Speaker 3: And now I can say I think at one, Yes,

1019
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:14,400
really yes, because why why why? Yes, he's funny, he's charming,

1020
00:48:14,679 --> 00:48:17,679
but the other hot chicks gave him the hot chick vote.

1021
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 4: He got that, he got the hot chick vote.

1022
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:22,079
Speaker 1: He's got the hot two boobs up right.

1023
00:48:22,159 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 3: So if this chick said to you you have a reputation,

1024
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,880
you've got the hot chick vote, that's all you need.

1025
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:29,079
Speaker 4: That's all you need.

1026
00:48:29,159 --> 00:48:31,199
Speaker 1: Man, No, fucking this was like years ago.

1027
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:32,079
Speaker 3: That doesn't matter.

1028
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,760
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just giving an example. I just I don't

1029
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,920
want people to walk away with that. Well no, I mean,

1030
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:38,519
come on.

1031
00:48:38,639 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 4: I know you're married, and.

1032
00:48:40,519 --> 00:48:42,840
Speaker 1: That's that's that does mean something to me.

1033
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,039
Speaker 3: I understand. It means something to you. But that doesn't

1034
00:48:45,079 --> 00:48:48,960
mean everybody has a past. It's okay if there's nothing

1035
00:48:49,039 --> 00:48:49,800
wrong with that.

1036
00:48:51,519 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 1: Issue.

1037
00:48:52,119 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 3: Ah, here we go again. You're gonna beat yourself up again,

1038
00:48:55,079 --> 00:48:56,360
and that's not what we're doing.

1039
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:57,199
Speaker 1: I beat myself up.

1040
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:01,079
Speaker 3: I have a pass that I have been the worst.

1041
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,840
Like that podcast we did where you talked about I

1042
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,000
was the word don't do that to Daddy, to.

1043
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:10,159
Speaker 1: Dan to Dan.

1044
00:49:11,159 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 3: I wanted to say something else about my sister because

1045
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,079
I think there's people who've been in this situation where

1046
00:49:16,079 --> 00:49:19,599
a doctor is saying like, this is probably in your head,

1047
00:49:20,639 --> 00:49:23,960
and I just want to say this about some things.

1048
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,519
Where I started to say, life is feelings, right, I

1049
00:49:26,559 --> 00:49:33,719
really believe that we all have God inside us a director,

1050
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:35,679
and it's our intuition and it is our feelings.

1051
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:36,039
Speaker 4: Right.

1052
00:49:36,159 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 3: We know we basically know the right thing to do.

1053
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,280
If we went inside and actually looked, we could we

1054
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:42,440
could find the answer.

1055
00:49:42,159 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 4: To a lot of our issues and things.

1056
00:49:44,519 --> 00:49:48,199
Speaker 3: And it's your godlike you're made in his image, right. So,

1057
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,639
but I do think when it comes to business, there

1058
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,320
is no feelings. So when people are let go from

1059
00:49:55,360 --> 00:50:00,000
companies or they start downsizing or whatever fucking company's shitheads.

1060
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 4: But we were scared.

1061
00:50:02,199 --> 00:50:04,639
Speaker 1: We feel bad for the people that got let go.

1062
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 3: We had friends with them, We were whatever, and it's

1063
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:10,280
not a pleasant time in anybody's life, right.

1064
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 4: But business is about.

1065
00:50:12,639 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 3: Making money or losing money. It's one or the other

1066
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,280
that's going to happen, and this is a way to

1067
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,199
keep the ship aflow. I think when it comes to doctors,

1068
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:26,880
there's either this makes sense or doesn't make sense. So

1069
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:31,519
if I'm a rheumatologist and there's nothing there, therefore it

1070
00:50:31,599 --> 00:50:34,440
must be in your head. Because I'm not saying that

1071
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:36,599
I'm the greatest rheumatologists. I'm not telling you don't have

1072
00:50:36,599 --> 00:50:41,119
a second opinion. But in my expertise and in my education,

1073
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:44,239
there's nothing there, and so you almost have to be cold,

1074
00:50:44,519 --> 00:50:46,639
like you know where My sister then reaches to the

1075
00:50:46,639 --> 00:50:47,920
emotional side and goes, is that your.

1076
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,599
Speaker 4: Daughter, what would you do?

1077
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:52,639
Speaker 3: Right? Brilliant in a way to do that to somebody

1078
00:50:52,679 --> 00:50:54,639
to bring them back. But I think a lot of

1079
00:50:54,679 --> 00:50:57,000
times when we're dealing with doctors, will hear some have

1080
00:50:57,039 --> 00:50:59,280
great bedside manners, some have terrible bedside manner.

1081
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:00,320
Speaker 4: But he's great. It's job.

1082
00:51:00,679 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know, but I got your house. But

1083
00:51:03,559 --> 00:51:05,519
I think if they make if it either makes sense

1084
00:51:05,599 --> 00:51:08,519
or it doesn't, we'll keep digging to keep We'll keep

1085
00:51:08,519 --> 00:51:10,880
digging till we find it. But if you're out of

1086
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,920
my all, I am is a rheumatologist. I'm a specialist

1087
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:18,039
in this, and you don't have it right, So what

1088
00:51:18,199 --> 00:51:18,639
makes sense?

1089
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:18,840
Speaker 6: Right?

1090
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:20,639
Speaker 4: I think when you deal with doctors, we get mad

1091
00:51:20,679 --> 00:51:20,960
at them.

1092
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 3: That doctor's side, No he didn't. You just it's not

1093
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,719
you did one. You didn't get the answer you wanted. Yeah, right,

1094
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,039
because you wanted something and you have to money.

1095
00:51:30,159 --> 00:51:32,599
Speaker 1: I'm fine, you have cancer.

1096
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 4: I'm fine, I do I'm going to.

1097
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,440
Speaker 1: Uh, which brings me to point number three. Find the motivation, Yeah,

1098
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,719
find the motivation in yourself. Find the motivation in somebody else.

1099
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,960
Why are they this way? What's their motivation? Why are

1100
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:45,760
they like this? So you could understand them a little bit,

1101
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:48,199
I would, and then know how to approach the situation.

1102
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 3: Try to go into your head and look at yourself

1103
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,360
in the future. Yeah, and start acting like that.

1104
00:51:53,519 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 4: Yep.

1105
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 3: What would the version of Dan Barillo the author be

1106
00:51:59,519 --> 00:52:02,639
or whatever you were saying right, or or or the

1107
00:52:02,679 --> 00:52:04,920
comic or whatever. That is why I wear an ascot.

1108
00:52:05,119 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: Well, yes, smoking jacket and a pipe.

1109
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 4: What would he have?

1110
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:12,519
Speaker 1: The fourth chapter of Animal we talk about motivation.

1111
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 4: What would he be doing?

1112
00:52:15,519 --> 00:52:16,599
Speaker 3: Uh?

1113
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 1: You know they say dressed for the job you want. Yeah,

1114
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:21,320
think in terms of the person you want to be.

1115
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,119
Speaker 3: Yes, that's what I'm saying. Yes, yeah, go motivate about

1116
00:52:24,119 --> 00:52:26,320
a about a A, but go into the future. Yes. Yes,

1117
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:28,639
So when you say motivation, a lot of people go,

1118
00:52:28,679 --> 00:52:31,719
I can't find the motivation or or motivation or I'm

1119
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:32,400
so depressed.

1120
00:52:32,559 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 4: You gotta start feeling better about yourself.

1121
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:35,119
Speaker 3: You gotta start taking care of yourself.

1122
00:52:35,199 --> 00:52:36,159
Speaker 4: Gotta start start.

1123
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 1: With a walk, one label, one layer at a time.

1124
00:52:38,599 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, one layer.

1125
00:52:40,119 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 1: At a time, which takes me to the Buffalo bills.

1126
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:45,039
Oh dude, you want to talk about motivation.

1127
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 4: Wow, you sent me something.

1128
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:51,639
Speaker 3: On Instagram? Do you remember what you sent me?

1129
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:55,159
Speaker 1: Was it a picture of Jesus? I don't remember what

1130
00:52:55,199 --> 00:52:55,880
I sent you.

1131
00:52:55,559 --> 00:52:57,119
Speaker 3: You don't remember what you sent me?

1132
00:52:58,159 --> 00:53:00,280
Speaker 1: Was it Colin Cower talking about the team?

1133
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 3: It was not Colin Coward talking about the team. You

1134
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:04,440
sent me something else.

1135
00:53:04,519 --> 00:53:06,639
Speaker 1: Let me, uh hold on, let me Uh, I don't know.

1136
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna pull it up and but tell me as

1137
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:12,239
you were watching the game. I want to know the

1138
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:16,199
thoughts and the feelings that Dan Marilla was having when

1139
00:53:16,199 --> 00:53:18,760
the Eagles were beating the shit out of the Buffalo

1140
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:19,639
Bills in the first half.

1141
00:53:21,599 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 1: Well, my thought was, and it continued throughout the game.

1142
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:30,760
It was a theme. And that is And I as

1143
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:34,400
much as I love Joshua Patrick Allen, and I've said publicly,

1144
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:36,440
I would massages hamstrings with evaporate of the milk I

1145
00:53:36,599 --> 00:53:39,599
were asked to him and I'm not even like that,

1146
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:45,159
but he's not above reproach. And josh Allen was the

1147
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:47,159
reason that they were in that game, but it was

1148
00:53:47,199 --> 00:53:48,719
also the reason they lost that game.

1149
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,519
Speaker 3: I'm really glad that you and nobody.

1150
00:53:51,119 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 1: Wants to say that. Yeah, but I'll say it because

1151
00:53:55,519 --> 00:53:57,639
damn it, I know every word that comes out of

1152
00:53:57,639 --> 00:54:00,320
my mouth. Okay, And if you watch the game, and

1153
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:04,599
I watched it again last night, so sad, why is it?

1154
00:54:04,639 --> 00:54:05,840
I watched a condensed version.

1155
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:11,599
Speaker 3: To watch the pave again like I felt, I don't.

1156
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,119
Speaker 1: I went into the game thinking they were going to lose.

1157
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:16,039
So if they had won, it.

1158
00:54:16,159 --> 00:54:18,840
Speaker 3: Was gravy, I know, But if they pulled it out,

1159
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,559
like josh just it was like he was on the run.

1160
00:54:22,679 --> 00:54:23,599
I don't know how you make.

1161
00:54:23,559 --> 00:54:27,280
Speaker 1: That, especially with a bum foot and bum back. All

1162
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,920
he had to do was take a breath, just float

1163
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,199
the ball. But it's easy for us to say, of course.

1164
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:36,679
But he also missed Brandon Cooks on a touchdown. He

1165
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:39,199
missed Brandon Cooks on a second touchdown where he didn't

1166
00:54:39,199 --> 00:54:40,639
even throw them the ball he tried to run to

1167
00:54:40,679 --> 00:54:44,039
the end zone. Okay, he's used to getting his way

1168
00:54:44,079 --> 00:54:46,440
with calls. Like if you ever noticed, when he gets hit,

1169
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,559
he's already yelling to the ref before he hits the ground.

1170
00:54:49,599 --> 00:54:52,639
He hit me. That's a Tom Brady Patrick Mahomes thing.

1171
00:54:52,639 --> 00:54:54,599
I don't want that in my star quarterback. I don't

1172
00:54:54,639 --> 00:54:58,360
want him to be lebroning for calls. Okay, here's the

1173
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:00,800
thing he's used to getting his way with. And that

1174
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:03,679
quote fumble. That was a fumble. Now to the letter

1175
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,840
of the law, it was a tuck and the ball

1176
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,519
should it should have been you know, the balls should

1177
00:55:08,519 --> 00:55:11,159
have been spotted right there. But guess what, when you

1178
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:13,400
leave it in the hands of the officials, you're at

1179
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:16,599
the mercy of the officials. And while Dean Blandino agreed

1180
00:55:16,599 --> 00:55:18,599
that that was a tuck at an incomplete pass. They

1181
00:55:18,599 --> 00:55:21,159
didn't rule it that way, and Philadelphia went down the

1182
00:55:21,159 --> 00:55:25,960
field and scored that game. That loss was on the

1183
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,320
same dude who has rescued the team so many times

1184
00:55:28,559 --> 00:55:30,800
and you can only pull games out of here, took

1185
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:33,199
us in the fourth quarter so many freaking times.

1186
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 4: Can I also say this?

1187
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,840
Speaker 3: That defense, the Buffalo Bills defense in the second half

1188
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:40,880
was really impressive.

1189
00:55:41,079 --> 00:55:43,280
Speaker 1: Do you realize that that was Jalen Hurts didn't complete

1190
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:43,639
a pass.

1191
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:46,639
Speaker 3: Yes, I think they had one hundred and something maybe

1192
00:55:46,679 --> 00:55:48,840
seventy four yards of offense in the first half.

1193
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:51,159
Speaker 4: Is that the Eagles? I think listen to the status seven.

1194
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:51,960
This is the stack.

1195
00:55:52,079 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 1: This is the stat You're gonna love this. Yeah, the Eagles.

1196
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,880
If you include the final kneel down, ran eighteen plays

1197
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:00,800
in the second half. You take the heel down out

1198
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:04,920
of it, you have seventeen plays for seventeen yards. Yeah,

1199
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:07,519
the second half of my Super Bowl winning quarterback.

1200
00:56:07,639 --> 00:56:07,840
Speaker 3: Right.

1201
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:11,320
Speaker 1: So I mean and if you not spot in the

1202
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:15,239
short fields that they had, I mean, build win that game.

1203
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 4: Yeah at Josh and not fumbled on that, you know, right,

1204
00:56:18,039 --> 00:56:18,519
So that's.

1205
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:20,519
Speaker 1: A that's a ten to fourteen point swing.

1206
00:56:20,639 --> 00:56:22,639
Speaker 3: But do you think, like you know, we're talking about

1207
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,519
New Year's and people putting the pressure on themselves, is

1208
00:56:25,679 --> 00:56:29,559
does Josh have it feel like it really comes down

1209
00:56:29,639 --> 00:56:29,960
to him?

1210
00:56:30,079 --> 00:56:32,800
Speaker 1: Yes, he has no confidence in his receivers. I gotta

1211
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:33,159
do it.

1212
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 3: Well.

1213
00:56:33,599 --> 00:56:36,320
Speaker 1: I see that one run that he took. Yeah, he

1214
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:40,519
just kept going, why I gotta win the game? I know.

1215
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,400
And because of that, he's getting tunnel vision. He's not

1216
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:46,239
seeing the receivers. He's not seeing Brandon Cooks out to

1217
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:49,760
the flank to the right. He's not leading Khalil secure

1218
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:51,559
Like Tom Brady had a heck of a game on

1219
00:56:51,639 --> 00:56:55,079
Sunday broadcasting that game and he by the way, he

1220
00:56:55,119 --> 00:56:56,960
may not be back next year. I'll get to that

1221
00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:01,079
in a second. But but he if he leads Shakir,

1222
00:57:01,159 --> 00:57:04,639
he threw several balls behind receivers that could have been touchdowns.

1223
00:57:05,519 --> 00:57:07,239
He's not And you can say, well, it's his ankle

1224
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:09,599
while he's carrying the team. He needs to go back

1225
00:57:09,639 --> 00:57:13,199
to those drills that he had on hard knocks, or

1226
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:15,800
he is steady and throwing the ball. It's hard, though,

1227
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,079
when you got a bunch of a bunch of defenders

1228
00:57:18,079 --> 00:57:20,000
coming at you and there's only four of them, and

1229
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,039
the Eagles ran a lot of stunts, meaning guys who

1230
00:57:22,079 --> 00:57:25,400
are like switching positions and going that offensive line is

1231
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:28,559
not as good as everybody thinks it is. Yeah, they've

1232
00:57:28,559 --> 00:57:33,880
gone from fourteen sacks allowed to forty same quarterback. That's

1233
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:37,000
a lot. Yeah, I don't that's triple the amount of

1234
00:57:37,119 --> 00:57:39,480
the number of sacks that they've allowed.

1235
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 3: Now, before you get to the Tom bradything, I do

1236
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:45,719
want to play This is what Dan sent me on Instagram,

1237
00:57:45,719 --> 00:57:49,239
and they went, oh yeah, yeah, but let me play

1238
00:57:49,239 --> 00:57:49,800
it because I.

1239
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 1: Three forty five Park Avenue conspiracy.

1240
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 3: Let me hand let me see if I can start

1241
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:57,039
it again. And I think we should be connected now.

1242
00:57:58,559 --> 00:58:01,000
But this is Dan this to me, and I think

1243
00:58:01,039 --> 00:58:06,960
there are people that I may agree with you, I

1244
00:58:07,079 --> 00:58:09,239
don't or may agree with this. I should say not

1245
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:11,400
with you, because I don't know where you stand on this,

1246
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:12,079
but let me see.

1247
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 6: Sounds crazy, But the NFL source did reveal the Super

1248
00:58:17,039 --> 00:58:20,280
Bowl script to me, and I just I just wanted

1249
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:21,599
to mention it. I don't want to mention at the

1250
00:58:21,599 --> 00:58:23,920
top because everyone wants.

1251
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:26,599
Speaker 1: The top casual fans. The real ones come.

1252
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:28,599
Speaker 6: In eighteen minutes, and so I just want to mention,

1253
00:58:29,039 --> 00:58:30,039
I'm not making this up.

1254
00:58:30,119 --> 00:58:31,119
Speaker 3: This is from a real source.

1255
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 4: Do you think this is a joke.

1256
00:58:32,519 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 6: Source Bill's Rams, super Bowl, Bill's Rails or in the

1257
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:40,519
super Bowl Stafford Josh Allen. This sounds crazy, But what.

1258
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 4: Do you think?

1259
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: I would love that? Yeah, except for the fact that

1260
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:46,239
if that, if that scenario did play out, that I'd

1261
00:58:46,239 --> 00:58:48,639
be like sitting there super Bowl Week going, oh gosh,

1262
00:58:48,639 --> 00:58:49,760
this is really focused.

1263
00:58:50,039 --> 00:58:53,719
Speaker 3: So I thought, there's two things that can come out

1264
00:58:53,760 --> 00:59:00,199
of this. One is, if that happens, this guy's tell

1265
00:59:00,199 --> 00:59:03,840
on this is something that we have people have suspected.

1266
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 1: It'll be the biggest stretch ever because it would be

1267
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:07,559
two wild card teams getting to the super Bowl that's

1268
00:59:07,599 --> 00:59:08,519
never happened before.

1269
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:12,679
Speaker 3: And the other is that if he's wrong, while people

1270
00:59:12,719 --> 00:59:14,639
go will they changed the script and got out right?

1271
00:59:14,679 --> 00:59:17,119
Speaker 1: Remember the year that those two years ago, Baltimore and

1272
00:59:17,159 --> 00:59:19,000
San Francisco was supposed to be in the super Bowl.

1273
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:21,960
Remember like the not the TV guide, but the guide

1274
00:59:22,239 --> 00:59:25,000
if you fast forwarded to the Super Bowl, it would

1275
00:59:25,039 --> 00:59:28,159
say Baltimore Ravens at San Francisco forty nine ers super

1276
00:59:28,199 --> 00:59:31,519
Bowl fifty eight. Yeah, right, And it was like see

1277
00:59:31,519 --> 00:59:33,400
you look at the colors, it's purple and red. And

1278
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:35,559
then oh, we gotta do something here. Chief's gotta win.

1279
00:59:35,599 --> 00:59:38,079
We gotta get Taylor Swift in the super Bowl. So

1280
00:59:38,119 --> 00:59:41,039
that was the other conspiracy. It was one replaced with another.

1281
00:59:41,199 --> 00:59:43,159
Speaker 3: Do you believe this in any way? And no, I

1282
00:59:43,199 --> 00:59:46,960
don't at all, Okay, because I'm watching and to me,

1283
00:59:47,039 --> 00:59:53,599
I'm watching players do amazing things, really amazing things. Like

1284
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:58,119
I thought, Atlanta, you're gonna tell me that was like scripted.

1285
00:59:58,880 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 4: That win.

1286
00:59:59,639 --> 01:00:01,679
Speaker 3: I mean, they gave up a million of the rams,

1287
01:00:01,679 --> 01:00:04,719
came charging back in the second half. They just couldn't

1288
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:07,119
couldn't hold on. The bills came charging back. They just

1289
01:00:07,159 --> 01:00:09,480
couldn't hold on. They just couldn't get that two point conversion.

1290
01:00:09,559 --> 01:00:11,599
And I'm so glad they went for the two point conversion.

1291
01:00:11,639 --> 01:00:12,280
Speaker 4: To be honestly, you.

1292
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:14,239
Speaker 1: Haven't really happen to realize the amount of acting that

1293
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:14,920
has to go.

1294
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 3: On, and yet you can't get that many people. I

1295
01:00:19,519 --> 01:00:22,679
always say, I'm always wondered, I'll go back. I always

1296
01:00:22,719 --> 01:00:24,960
wonder about the Menendez brothers how to one get the

1297
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:27,880
others to go in. It was pretty horrific. Try to

1298
01:00:28,119 --> 01:00:30,119
have anybody ask you, hey, man, what are you doing tonight?

1299
01:00:30,119 --> 01:00:33,320
I want to rob a bank? No, what's wrong with you?

1300
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:37,840
You know what I'm saying? Thirty seven teams of people

1301
01:00:38,239 --> 01:00:41,760
with organizations. Yeah, oh thirty you can't.

1302
01:00:43,239 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: Okay they can't. No, it's not fixed. It could be

1303
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:49,559
massaged at certain points, I guess, but not fixed.

1304
01:00:49,599 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 4: I guess. I don't know. I still think Dan, that

1305
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:57,440
there's a chance. I really do. I know. I don't

1306
01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:57,960
know if you do.

1307
01:00:58,280 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 1: He couldn't give us the winner?

1308
01:01:00,159 --> 01:01:00,440
Speaker 3: Huh?

1309
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 1: How come he couldn't get I don't see there you go?

1310
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 3: No, No, But what I'm saying for Buffalo is I

1311
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:07,119
really think that there's still a chance. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, No,

1312
01:01:07,239 --> 01:01:12,239
I really do. I think they're like, I go, could

1313
01:01:12,239 --> 01:01:12,519
it be?

1314
01:01:12,599 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 1: I thought you meant like there's a chance.

1315
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, I meant a chance for the

1316
01:01:16,519 --> 01:01:17,280
Buffalo Bills.

1317
01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 1: I tell you something.

1318
01:01:18,559 --> 01:01:20,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, would not shock me.

1319
01:01:22,119 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 1: If you look at the NFL for first the AFC

1320
01:01:25,079 --> 01:01:28,039
and then the NFC. What team if you're the Buffalo Bills,

1321
01:01:28,039 --> 01:01:30,559
what team should scare you, Bill Moran the most?

1322
01:01:31,199 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 4: In the a f C.

1323
01:01:32,159 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 1: Yes, start with the AFT, then go to the NFC.

1324
01:01:34,079 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 3: Uh, the team that should scare you the most? I

1325
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:44,280
guess the answer I have. In the AFC would be Denver.

1326
01:01:44,519 --> 01:01:45,679
Speaker 1: Okay, how about the NFC.

1327
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 4: And in the.

1328
01:01:46,639 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 3: NFC maybe Seattle, I don't know.

1329
01:01:51,599 --> 01:01:53,239
Speaker 1: You know the team that scares me the most the

1330
01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:56,960
Buffalo Bills. Yeah, because they're gonna be They could beat

1331
01:01:57,039 --> 01:02:02,079
anybody eating this playoff field, beat them anywhere.

1332
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I believe that.

1333
01:02:04,119 --> 01:02:06,119
Speaker 1: You want to hear good news. The Buffalo Bills could

1334
01:02:06,119 --> 01:02:11,079
beat anybody. The NFL is whacked this year. It is whacked. Okay,

1335
01:02:11,159 --> 01:02:14,360
anything can happen at any given moment. Stafford was the

1336
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,239
was the club ass leader for the MVP going into

1337
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:19,079
Monday night. All of a sudden, he has a bad game. Nope,

1338
01:02:19,079 --> 01:02:20,840
we're gonna give it back to Drake may Well. Wait

1339
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:23,119
a minute. Three weeks ago, Drake may got busted by

1340
01:02:23,159 --> 01:02:27,199
the real MVP. Josh did like I hate voters, I

1341
01:02:27,239 --> 01:02:29,719
hate writers. They're all just like you.

1342
01:02:32,199 --> 01:02:32,519
Speaker 3: Love it.

1343
01:02:32,519 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 4: It gives you something to focus on.

1344
01:02:34,199 --> 01:02:36,199
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Yes, the Bills can beat

1345
01:02:36,239 --> 01:02:37,119
anybody if they want to.

1346
01:02:37,239 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 4: I believe that. I do. I really think they could.

1347
01:02:39,599 --> 01:02:43,119
Speaker 1: Beat anybody if they want to. So either right now

1348
01:02:43,159 --> 01:02:45,480
we got everybody right where we want them, or we're

1349
01:02:45,519 --> 01:02:47,360
ready for a first round exit and it doesn't matter.

1350
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,360
Everyon's going over these scenarios at WGR and I understand

1351
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:51,960
why I get it. Well, here's what happens if they

1352
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,360
play Justin Herbert's not gonna play for the Charge this week.

1353
01:02:54,599 --> 01:02:56,760
Jim Harby doesn't care about seating. He goes, look, RIRI

1354
01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:58,639
a wildcard team. I don't care who we play. And

1355
01:02:58,679 --> 01:03:01,239
you can ask my friend Peter Montemorrow know who wanted

1356
01:03:01,239 --> 01:03:02,800
to be on today, but he's got something going on.

1357
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:06,960
It's New Year's Eve. If you start rooting for matchups,

1358
01:03:07,159 --> 01:03:09,360
you always end up shooting yourself in the feet. I've

1359
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:12,000
done this. Yeah, I'm like, oh, thank god we're playing

1360
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:13,920
the Cowboys in the super Bowl and not the forty

1361
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:15,480
nine fifty two to seventeen.

1362
01:03:15,559 --> 01:03:16,679
Speaker 4: Oh crap, that was awful.

1363
01:03:16,719 --> 01:03:19,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, hey, thank god we're playing the Jacksonville

1364
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:21,719
Jaguars of the ninety five playoff. The way they might

1365
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:24,119
get a playoff game, they should scare you. I was

1366
01:03:24,159 --> 01:03:27,519
on this a month ago. But they could beat any

1367
01:03:27,559 --> 01:03:32,320
team anywhere in this conference. The Buffalo Bill and they

1368
01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:36,000
could beat anybody in the NFC. There are no studs, okay.

1369
01:03:36,199 --> 01:03:39,039
Seattle always has a stupid game. The Rams approved. They

1370
01:03:39,039 --> 01:03:40,119
always have a stupid game.

1371
01:03:40,199 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 3: You know.

1372
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:42,880
Speaker 1: The one team that actually looks the most put together

1373
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,280
in the NFC is the forty nine ers, And the

1374
01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:47,320
one team that actually looks put together the most in

1375
01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:50,199
the AFC seems to be the New England Patriots. Hey,

1376
01:03:50,199 --> 01:03:51,880
but the Bills what the Foxboro came back and.

1377
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:56,039
Speaker 3: Be I do think that the Bills would beat Patriots again,

1378
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:56,920
I really do.

1379
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:59,719
Speaker 1: I think they can. The problem is they lack focus.

1380
01:04:01,039 --> 01:04:03,800
It's always another shoe that drops.

1381
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,039
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.

1382
01:04:06,119 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 3: I I you know, we talked a lot about the

1383
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:13,639
coaching and the different things like that. Have they gotten

1384
01:04:13,719 --> 01:04:15,159
Josh the right people to be around him?

1385
01:04:15,199 --> 01:04:17,159
Speaker 4: Clearly not. I do think this.

1386
01:04:17,559 --> 01:04:21,239
Speaker 3: I think, uh, there's a chance that New England loses

1387
01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:25,159
Stefan Diggs if this choking allegation, can you know, nothing's

1388
01:04:25,159 --> 01:04:28,599
gonna happen, goes anywhere that's gonna happen. But I because

1389
01:04:28,599 --> 01:04:31,519
he has been thrilled. He's impactful for them. He really

1390
01:04:32,119 --> 01:04:32,960
he's still got.

1391
01:04:33,039 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 1: On the sideline in the locker room and on the field.

1392
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:40,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, he is motivated, and I think without him, I

1393
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,960
think they're a slightly different team.

1394
01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:47,079
Speaker 1: I mean the fact that he allegedly like choked his chef.

1395
01:04:48,079 --> 01:04:49,719
Speaker 3: Well, bitch, want to make him my mail?

1396
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:52,119
Speaker 4: Right, It's like.

1397
01:04:52,199 --> 01:04:55,199
Speaker 1: Dude, first of pink powder, which I told everybody on

1398
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,559
this show nothing would happen, and then this.

1399
01:04:57,840 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, and the.

1400
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:00,239
Speaker 1: NFL's got to investigate. They might put a on the

1401
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:02,800
accept list. I don't think they will. I don't think

1402
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:07,639
they have the cajones to do that. But I mean, look, yeah,

1403
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:11,199
like whatever for stuff, they could beat anybody.

1404
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 3: I think the Bills can and I and I think

1405
01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:15,559
it could be a lot of fun, you know, head

1406
01:05:15,559 --> 01:05:16,639
and going forward.

1407
01:05:17,039 --> 01:05:19,000
Speaker 4: I do wonder if they played Josh this.

1408
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,440
Speaker 1: Weekend one play, one play.

1409
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, did they already say that?

1410
01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: No, they haven't said it.

1411
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 4: He's got they played.

1412
01:05:25,639 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 1: The Jets are just so freaking bad and who cares

1413
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,280
if they win? Right, it's too bad because it is

1414
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:33,760
the last game at high Mark Stadium slash Rich Stadium,

1415
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:35,960
slash Ralph Wilson Stadium slash New Era Field.

1416
01:05:36,039 --> 01:05:37,599
Speaker 4: Well, that maybe why he plays.

1417
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:40,639
Speaker 1: Slash Greg Connors and Ferris Stadium. I wonder if Greg

1418
01:05:40,639 --> 01:05:42,039
told be able to take his own seat out with

1419
01:05:42,119 --> 01:05:44,280
him as he goes. You know who I am? No,

1420
01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:46,960
but in all seriousness. They are bringing back the red helmets.

1421
01:05:47,119 --> 01:05:49,519
And Peter brought this up to me last night. He goes,

1422
01:05:51,119 --> 01:05:52,280
He goes, you know what they need to do on

1423
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:53,639
that field, and I don't think they'll do it. Maybe

1424
01:05:53,679 --> 01:05:56,360
they will, will be surprised. Paint the end zones red

1425
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:59,119
like they did in the nineties, put the red helmet

1426
01:05:59,159 --> 01:06:01,559
on the in midfield like they did in the nineties.

1427
01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:03,880
Paint the field like they painted it in the nineties

1428
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:06,119
during the Kelly years. To come out with the red helmets,

1429
01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:08,079
that would be awesome, But it's a lot of work.

1430
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:10,920
It may screw with the turf from whatnot. I don't

1431
01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:11,679
know how that all works.

1432
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:14,199
Speaker 3: It may a lot be contingent on the weather.

1433
01:06:14,400 --> 01:06:17,559
Speaker 1: But that's gonna be the last game in that stadium.

1434
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,000
And you know what, and I wrote a whole thing

1435
01:06:20,039 --> 01:06:22,320
about it for the Times Awayne County. I go, you

1436
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:24,199
know what, you know, when you're gonna miss that stadium,

1437
01:06:24,559 --> 01:06:27,360
when you get your season ticket bill for the next one,

1438
01:06:27,679 --> 01:06:29,679
or you realize you can't go afford to go.

1439
01:06:29,599 --> 01:06:31,519
Speaker 4: To the next one, that's the problem. That is a

1440
01:06:31,559 --> 01:06:32,159
big problem.

1441
01:06:32,239 --> 01:06:37,639
Speaker 1: You seventeen thousand, I'm sorry, thirteen thousand extra people in

1442
01:06:37,679 --> 01:06:41,000
that stadium extra thirteen thousand extra voices because it's gonna

1443
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:42,880
be so expensive. The stadium is gonna be tighter, and

1444
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:45,440
by the way, mark my words, in ten years, in

1445
01:06:45,519 --> 01:06:48,159
ten years, the new high Mark Stadium will be obsolete

1446
01:06:48,639 --> 01:06:51,480
and it will be the only outdoor stadium north of

1447
01:06:51,519 --> 01:06:53,519
the Mason Dixon line. You really think, Oh yeah, I

1448
01:06:53,519 --> 01:06:55,440
think Pittsburgh's probably gonna go to a dome tune. Have

1449
01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:58,039
you noticed the trends here? Kansas City's the Chiefs are

1450
01:06:58,039 --> 01:07:01,280
moving to Kansas. They're getting a dome stack. The Browns

1451
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:03,880
are getting a dome stadium or I'm sorry, a roof stadium.

1452
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:07,280
Domes are out now an indoor stadium, And it looks

1453
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:09,679
like Chicago is trying to move to Indiana, make a

1454
01:07:09,679 --> 01:07:11,679
power play, and they're trying to get an indoor stadium,

1455
01:07:11,719 --> 01:07:15,119
and they just rebuilt their stadium twenty years ago. Pittsburgh's

1456
01:07:15,119 --> 01:07:17,000
do next. You mean to tell me that they're not

1457
01:07:17,039 --> 01:07:19,800
gonna try to get an indoor stadium too, because guess what.

1458
01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,519
The next big gold mine is hosting a Super Bowl.

1459
01:07:23,079 --> 01:07:24,679
The Bills can't host a super Bowl. They don't have

1460
01:07:24,719 --> 01:07:28,039
the hotel space. All right, But I'm telling you the

1461
01:07:28,039 --> 01:07:30,480
Weather's gonna be a factor. Who's gonna want to come

1462
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:32,840
to Buffalo after Josh Allen's gone unless they find another

1463
01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:35,679
Josh Allen, because who's gonna want to play in that.

1464
01:07:36,079 --> 01:07:36,519
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1465
01:07:37,119 --> 01:07:37,559
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1466
01:07:37,719 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 3: That's a great question. Uh yeah, yeah, I mean there.

1467
01:07:43,760 --> 01:07:46,000
I'm sure there's been forward thinking on all this. I'd

1468
01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:47,000
like to think, but I don't know.

1469
01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:48,119
Speaker 4: I did have.

1470
01:07:49,519 --> 01:07:51,079
Speaker 3: A relative state to me, and I think there are

1471
01:07:51,079 --> 01:07:55,760
people that clearly think this way and said to me,

1472
01:07:57,480 --> 01:08:00,760
what do you think of the new stadium? And I

1473
01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:05,119
knew what he was getting at, and I said, I

1474
01:08:05,119 --> 01:08:08,199
wish I had I thought it, and I go, just

1475
01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:12,119
don't say it. I said, I think it's great for

1476
01:08:12,159 --> 01:08:13,599
the area. I think it's great for the team. It's

1477
01:08:13,639 --> 01:08:15,840
a beloved team there. It has done so much for

1478
01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:21,600
that community. And I said, I know there's concern about

1479
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:24,640
the way it's being paid for, but I'll go back

1480
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:28,479
to this. I don't think people really understand things like this.

1481
01:08:30,079 --> 01:08:35,399
There's a budget, and that money is in the budget

1482
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:38,279
for the state. It will go to arts and entertainment,

1483
01:08:38,319 --> 01:08:40,520
and if it didn't go to Buffalo, it would have

1484
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:44,119
gone to some other projects, maybe not one big project,

1485
01:08:44,119 --> 01:08:46,520
but other projects around the state and nothing would have.

1486
01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 4: Happened probably in this area.

1487
01:08:48,039 --> 01:08:50,640
Speaker 3: And so when we hear that Governor Kathy Hokeel really

1488
01:08:50,640 --> 01:08:54,279
pushed for Buffalo, Yeah, she's pushing for the money to

1489
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:56,640
go there. But the money is budgeted. It's not like

1490
01:08:56,680 --> 01:08:57,359
because people.

1491
01:08:57,119 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 4: Are like, what about this, what about the schools? It's

1492
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:00,840
not in the budget and it's not.

1493
01:09:01,039 --> 01:09:02,960
Speaker 1: I think that there's like this big bank account that.

1494
01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:04,920
Speaker 3: The state has not going to be spent that way.

1495
01:09:04,960 --> 01:09:07,800
And I think that's really important to remind people because yes,

1496
01:09:08,359 --> 01:09:10,840
I hear you, you're making a lot of sense when

1497
01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:13,520
you say things like what about education or making this

1498
01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:14,359
or making that?

1499
01:09:15,119 --> 01:09:16,479
Speaker 4: I got it.

1500
01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 3: But there's a budget, and the budget is arts and entertainment,

1501
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:22,079
and if the money didn't go there, it would go

1502
01:09:22,279 --> 01:09:25,600
on arts and entertainment elsewhere. Maybe not one big project

1503
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:27,880
that's going to get all the attention, but it would

1504
01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:32,239
have gone to fixing a theater or building a new whatever.

1505
01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:32,720
Speaker 4: Down in the city.

1506
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:35,640
Speaker 3: And it's not something that enriches our area. I do

1507
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:37,680
think this could potentially enrich our area.

1508
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:38,920
Speaker 4: It is less, it.

1509
01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:41,600
Speaker 3: Is smaller than the other stateium. I think you were saying,

1510
01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:42,920
was it thirteen thousand less.

1511
01:09:43,199 --> 01:09:46,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, that seventy three thousand seats to about sixty thousand seats.

1512
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:48,840
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I think it was sixty two when I.

1513
01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:49,239
Speaker 4: Looked it up.

1514
01:09:49,319 --> 01:09:50,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, yeah.

1515
01:09:50,399 --> 01:09:53,079
Speaker 3: Still that's like no, no, no, no, no. I only know

1516
01:09:53,159 --> 01:09:55,520
that again because then when I'm talking, they're looking it

1517
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:59,520
up at the dinner table. I felt like I was

1518
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:02,840
being grilled. I'd be, you know, because I said, I

1519
01:10:02,920 --> 01:10:05,239
think it's like I said, they were one of the largest.

1520
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:06,199
Speaker 1: Used to my tax dollars.

1521
01:10:06,720 --> 01:10:07,520
Speaker 4: Well, yes, and.

1522
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 3: That's where I always go. I understand, I'm not going

1523
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,039
to argue with you. Is there a wasted money, Yes,

1524
01:10:12,359 --> 01:10:15,279
sure there is, but this is a budget and there

1525
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:18,359
it's gonna stay that way, and it's not for the schools.

1526
01:10:18,359 --> 01:10:20,760
And I want to go back to what you said about.

1527
01:10:20,600 --> 01:10:23,159
Speaker 1: But still comes from us though, But yeah, yes, it.

1528
01:10:23,119 --> 01:10:24,159
Speaker 4: Comes from the taxpayers.

1529
01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:28,880
Speaker 3: And we don't we don't make the budget, right, I mean,

1530
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:30,640
it's the people we vote for that make the budget.

1531
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:33,800
Some people don't fucking budget they're themselves.

1532
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, no, hi Billy big Bucks, No.

1533
01:10:40,159 --> 01:10:46,159
Speaker 3: Sorry, nuts New York City with Jeff that's crazy crazy.

1534
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:48,399
And then you just kind of go find fucking I'll

1535
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:50,479
pay for it, you know. And it takes him an

1536
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:52,600
hour to get everywhere because he's riding buses and ship

1537
01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:54,359
and I go, I'm not doing that. I won't take

1538
01:10:54,359 --> 01:10:59,640
it an uber. I'll be lucky that.

1539
01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:01,560
Speaker 1: You're with me. I didn't say that you didn't take

1540
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:02,000
the subway.

1541
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 3: We did, Yeah, I mean I took the subway up

1542
01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:08,840
to Little Ireland with him, and I took the subway

1543
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:12,239
when we left one bar. It's on the subway. There's

1544
01:11:12,279 --> 01:11:14,720
one subway that runs across Staddn Island. We took that

1545
01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:16,760
and it dropped us off and it was wonderful. When

1546
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:20,119
we went to another bar and I said good night,

1547
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:24,720
I'm out and my man stayed yeah. Oh wow, okay, yeah,

1548
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:26,720
he was bagged up. The next day, he gets on

1549
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:27,479
the ferry.

1550
01:11:27,199 --> 01:11:28,680
Speaker 4: With me because we're gonna go update and he's like,

1551
01:11:30,319 --> 01:11:31,880
there's a dug a doublets upstairs.

1552
01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:35,199
Speaker 3: I go, I got you. What do you normally gets

1553
01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:39,279
double It?

1554
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:42,800
Speaker 4: Just a muffin and a coffee, All right, okay, yeah,

1555
01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:46,800
it'll be fine. This is crazy. It's like the jelly

1556
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:47,800
Green Giant got drunk.

1557
01:11:49,800 --> 01:11:51,960
Speaker 3: I wanted to touch something because you you you brought

1558
01:11:52,039 --> 01:11:56,720
up earlier about I don't know if you Maybe I'm wrong,

1559
01:11:56,760 --> 01:11:58,279
but I thought I heard you say something about like

1560
01:11:59,159 --> 01:12:04,039
Ivy League school and yeah, acceptance, acceptance and stuff. So

1561
01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:08,880
these are stats that you can look up. In nineteen

1562
01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:12,920
sixty eight, I believe in all of the Ivy League

1563
01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:17,439
schools there may have been twelve I'm gonna say black

1564
01:12:18,399 --> 01:12:22,439
students or students who identified as black. I don't know

1565
01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:25,039
that there was any other minorities at that time. I

1566
01:12:25,039 --> 01:12:30,319
don't know, but I read this and now in twenty

1567
01:12:30,359 --> 01:12:34,960
twenty five, I think at Harvard, so it's not all

1568
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:38,840
the Ivy League but Harvard, I believe, or it might

1569
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:43,640
have been Harvard Yale, but either one fifty majority of

1570
01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:46,840
students identify as something other than white.

1571
01:12:47,159 --> 01:12:48,600
Speaker 4: Okay, so.

1572
01:12:50,359 --> 01:12:55,880
Speaker 3: We say DEI was needed to give people of different

1573
01:12:55,960 --> 01:13:00,159
skin tones an opportunity to have an excellent education if

1574
01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:02,279
they may, if you know, if they could get in.

1575
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:06,319
But we're trying to encourage that and build more diversity,

1576
01:13:06,399 --> 01:13:08,520
and I think that's important. I think you get better

1577
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:11,840
ideas different cultures. Every college looks to try to keep

1578
01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:15,239
a balance. They just do, you know, for a cultural

1579
01:13:15,279 --> 01:13:19,680
perspective and stuff. People have a big problem with DEI.

1580
01:13:21,359 --> 01:13:26,079
I would say my argument there would be have we

1581
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:35,000
saturated DEI and should it be changed not getting done

1582
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:40,399
away with when it comes to education, Instead of making

1583
01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:48,439
it about trying to fit certain parameters of people, why

1584
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:49,840
don't we open this up to.

1585
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:53,119
Speaker 4: People of lower income.

1586
01:13:54,319 --> 01:13:57,680
Speaker 3: DEI on income not that you're not going to meet

1587
01:13:57,680 --> 01:14:00,479
the qualifications of the school to get in, but a

1588
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:02,319
lot of those people don't have opportunity. Let me tell

1589
01:14:02,319 --> 01:14:08,640
you something about I have family members that have specific

1590
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:13,520
tutors for what they identify as weak spots in their

1591
01:14:13,600 --> 01:14:18,199
children's education. Those are people of means, and there are

1592
01:14:18,239 --> 01:14:22,119
also some of them are people of different ethnicities. So

1593
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:25,920
you can't tell me you're building a culturally diverse college

1594
01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:31,920
when you let in the Royalty of Thailand's daughter who

1595
01:14:32,039 --> 01:14:34,960
has been had all kinds of stuff and she arrives

1596
01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:38,039
on a private plane. That isn't really adding the diversity

1597
01:14:38,039 --> 01:14:42,520
that the purpose of DEI was. So if you want

1598
01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:44,760
to keep it, I think it has to go to economics,

1599
01:14:45,079 --> 01:14:49,159
especially for education, because there's too many many bright minds

1600
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,720
that I think that miss out on opportunities because they're

1601
01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:57,119
just not available. And I think you'll hear people say

1602
01:14:58,039 --> 01:15:00,239
I mean, talk to anybody whose kid is playing like

1603
01:15:01,319 --> 01:15:04,880
elite hockey or elite soccer. Right, I don't know that

1604
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:07,520
there's elite football. Maybe there isn't, I'm not really sure.

1605
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:08,760
Usually asked college and.

1606
01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:11,560
Speaker 1: Some other football, it's is usually high school college. Yeah, so,

1607
01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:13,279
but it is the most meritorious.

1608
01:15:13,680 --> 01:15:16,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think there's I don't think that there's.

1609
01:15:18,239 --> 01:15:19,239
Speaker 4: A AU football.

1610
01:15:19,279 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 3: Maybe there is, I don't know, but even basketball a

1611
01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:26,119
lot of times, like I had a relative father was

1612
01:15:26,119 --> 01:15:32,119
from Puerto Rico, went to West Point, stayed in the

1613
01:15:32,199 --> 01:15:37,399
army for twenty years, is it, became a neurosurgeon. When

1614
01:15:37,479 --> 01:15:39,479
I was fifteen in the eighties, he was building a

1615
01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:44,680
twenty thousand foot extension on his house. Twenty thousand Wow,

1616
01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:47,079
it's the size of a small grocery store. Yes, you

1617
01:15:47,119 --> 01:15:47,600
know what I'm saying.

1618
01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:49,159
Speaker 1: I mean the whole foods. You know what I'm saying,

1619
01:15:49,239 --> 01:15:49,800
next to the kitchen.

1620
01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:52,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'll go okay.

1621
01:15:52,399 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 3: And yet, because he was Puerto Rican, his children could

1622
01:15:59,000 --> 01:16:06,159
I could qualify for or meet quotas. But they also

1623
01:16:06,199 --> 01:16:10,079
were on like an elite soccer team that I think

1624
01:16:10,119 --> 01:16:12,439
I heard the father say, well, they probably gone on

1625
01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:15,720
there because I could afford to pay. And I mean

1626
01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:19,600
our friend Kevin. Talk to Kevin, his son Tyler is

1627
01:16:19,680 --> 01:16:22,479
one of the best hockey players in the county we

1628
01:16:22,560 --> 01:16:25,359
live in. In high school, he's considered one of the best.

1629
01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:28,960
I don't think that there is anybody in that high

1630
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:32,800
school hockey and travel hockey that isn't aware of who

1631
01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:35,399
Tyler Muror is. I'm not just saying that the.

1632
01:16:35,399 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 1: Kid was autograph week the kid is.

1633
01:16:37,960 --> 01:16:41,600
Speaker 3: The kid is really good. But I saw somebody last

1634
01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:46,039
night who was a hockey player, And Kevin said to me,

1635
01:16:47,119 --> 01:16:50,079
can you introduce me to that guy? And then I said, yep,

1636
01:16:50,199 --> 01:16:52,439
And so I introduced him and he comes back over

1637
01:16:52,479 --> 01:16:54,439
and he goes, that guy really wanted my son on

1638
01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:59,439
his team. And it was the expense of the team,

1639
01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:01,800
Like you got to pay for all this other stuff.

1640
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:03,239
You gotta pay for the jersey, you gotta pay for this,

1641
01:17:03,560 --> 01:17:06,239
and it was the entry was in. So when I

1642
01:17:07,039 --> 01:17:10,239
there is a barrier to entry for some of these things, right,

1643
01:17:10,359 --> 01:17:14,359
if I have dyslexia and my parents don't have the

1644
01:17:14,399 --> 01:17:16,359
means to get me help other than what's in the

1645
01:17:16,359 --> 01:17:19,920
public school, and maybe I'm not so bad that there

1646
01:17:19,920 --> 01:17:21,640
isn't some other kid that's going to get the help

1647
01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:23,840
before me, because that's what happens in a public school.

1648
01:17:24,159 --> 01:17:25,840
So now I go through. But if I had had

1649
01:17:25,880 --> 01:17:30,600
that tutor, could I have not hated school and learn?

1650
01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:32,840
And you understand what I'm saying, And that's why I go,

1651
01:17:33,359 --> 01:17:35,439
is there a better way to do DEI when it

1652
01:17:35,479 --> 01:17:39,560
comes to education where we're helping people of lesser means

1653
01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:42,439
like someone in Appalachi. I mean, look, one of the

1654
01:17:42,439 --> 01:17:47,560
most brilliant people Nobel Prize winner was Appalation, right. I

1655
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:49,640
mean sometimes it cream will rise to the top, but

1656
01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:54,960
you know, beautiful mind, it's about the He's from Appalachia.

1657
01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:58,000
You know, he's like a hillbilly, right, And so I'm

1658
01:17:58,039 --> 01:18:01,239
just saying, like, could we give more opportunity instead of

1659
01:18:01,279 --> 01:18:04,239
trying to continue with the quotas which a lot of

1660
01:18:04,239 --> 01:18:05,880
those people are already coming from.

1661
01:18:05,920 --> 01:18:08,760
Speaker 1: Means, that's all I think the d I'm not a

1662
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:10,479
fan of DEI at all. I think it's an echo

1663
01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:13,920
chamber of just pandering, I really do. But as far

1664
01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:17,239
as socioeconomic stuff, yeah, that's so let's take the race

1665
01:18:17,239 --> 01:18:19,199
out of it and let's just go with like income.

1666
01:18:19,319 --> 01:18:19,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1667
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:21,760
Speaker 1: But the thing is that you can kind of make

1668
01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:23,199
that up. Who's investigating it?

1669
01:18:23,319 --> 01:18:24,119
Speaker 3: Right? Well?

1670
01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:25,479
Speaker 4: True, you can.

1671
01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:29,880
Speaker 3: I mean, I understand your own businesses and thirty grand

1672
01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:31,279
and I understand.

1673
01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:35,479
Speaker 1: I mean, I have a family member who emancipated his

1674
01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:38,319
daughter so she could go to college, a very prestigious

1675
01:18:38,319 --> 01:18:40,720
college in the area for next to nothing. Yeah, but

1676
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:43,119
he had the means, Yeah, yeah, I know the tricks.

1677
01:18:43,199 --> 01:18:46,560
I mean, it's it's so mucked up that there's no

1678
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:47,560
way to do it right.

1679
01:18:47,760 --> 01:18:50,640
Speaker 4: No, you're right, I'm just thinking like that was That's

1680
01:18:50,640 --> 01:18:51,760
what That's.

1681
01:18:51,399 --> 01:18:54,239
Speaker 1: Why I go back to the first segment we did

1682
01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:57,359
Tony Robbit. If you want to do something, you'll find

1683
01:18:57,399 --> 01:19:00,760
a fricking way. Josh Allen said a thousand emails and

1684
01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:02,079
got two responses.

1685
01:19:02,159 --> 01:19:03,359
Speaker 4: Yep, for scholarships.

1686
01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:06,840
Speaker 1: Look where we're at now everybody's got a story. So

1687
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:10,600
here's here's the motivation. Ready, yep, go create your story.

1688
01:19:10,680 --> 01:19:11,119
Speaker 4: There it is.

1689
01:19:11,279 --> 01:19:15,800
Speaker 1: It's always it's always a nutty story that you're like, Wow,

1690
01:19:16,359 --> 01:19:19,119
that's how you make it. Go write your story.

1691
01:19:19,159 --> 01:19:21,720
Speaker 3: You just said it. There it is. How did you

1692
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:23,239
not make it? No, I'm kidding.

1693
01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:24,720
Speaker 1: Still write my story.

1694
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:28,079
Speaker 4: That me too, Me too, my friend, me too.

1695
01:19:28,199 --> 01:19:31,359
Speaker 3: I'm right there with you, everyone, and I if you're

1696
01:19:31,359 --> 01:19:32,960
listening to this, it'll be New Year's Day, so you

1697
01:19:33,039 --> 01:19:36,800
survived New Year's Eve and I wish you God bless

1698
01:19:36,960 --> 01:19:39,399
the best in twenty twenty six. May God be with

1699
01:19:39,479 --> 01:19:41,800
you and we will see you Danny.

1700
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:43,079
Speaker 1: In twenty twenty six, God willing.

1701
01:19:43,279 --> 01:19:43,760
Speaker 4: Next year.

1702
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 1: Yes, see it next year, God bless you, Dan.

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01:19:46,039 --> 01:19:53,920
Speaker 3: I seems California ba