WEBVTT 1 00:00:04.879 --> 00:00:08.240 So we talk all the time about and we meaning 2 00:00:08.279 --> 00:00:13.800 the New Age movement or the metaphysical journeyers, the seekers 3 00:00:14.240 --> 00:00:19.600 and the coaches talk about the importance of feeling the 4 00:00:19.719 --> 00:00:24.600 energies behind what you want to have to draw it 5 00:00:24.600 --> 00:00:28.000 to you, but also the importance of letting it go 6 00:00:28.440 --> 00:00:32.359 and not expecting it to be delivered to you in 7 00:00:32.399 --> 00:00:36.320 a particular way. Nine times out of ten, the universe 8 00:00:36.359 --> 00:00:39.399 will provide exactly what you asked for in a way 9 00:00:39.399 --> 00:00:45.920 that was very unexpected. Well, we just had the conversation 10 00:00:46.079 --> 00:00:49.479 with Gary and Christy gray Body and Christie from an 11 00:00:49.600 --> 00:00:55.200 Unimaginable Life, and they said something that there's lots of 12 00:00:55.240 --> 00:00:56.679 things that's doing me for a loop, but this thing 13 00:00:56.759 --> 00:01:01.719 specifically was something that made me really like it hit 14 00:01:01.759 --> 00:01:05.280 home in a big way. See, they're walking us through 15 00:01:05.599 --> 00:01:07.959 a I want to say, it's a tactic or an 16 00:01:08.040 --> 00:01:12.400 activity that if you do fifteen minutes every day at 17 00:01:12.400 --> 00:01:14.239 the end of the day, it will help you to 18 00:01:14.560 --> 00:01:17.319 achieve your wildest dreams because you're getting rid of limiting 19 00:01:17.319 --> 00:01:20.120 beliefs and all that kind of stuff. And they said 20 00:01:20.200 --> 00:01:24.120 in the conversation that they've been putting this into effect 21 00:01:24.159 --> 00:01:28.120 for a long time and not only do you have 22 00:01:28.159 --> 00:01:32.719 to let go of the expectations, but rather, if you 23 00:01:32.760 --> 00:01:34.920 are to do these things and let go of your 24 00:01:34.920 --> 00:01:38.879 limiting beliefs, the likelihood is going to be very big 25 00:01:39.799 --> 00:01:43.680 that the person you become might even be a person 26 00:01:43.719 --> 00:01:49.519 that you presently right now don't want to become. Maybe 27 00:01:49.519 --> 00:01:51.599 be a little specific. So it doesn't sound so weird. 28 00:01:52.239 --> 00:01:54.680 I know it's too late, but a lot of people 29 00:01:54.680 --> 00:01:57.480 that do these this exercise over a course of things 30 00:01:57.519 --> 00:02:00.000 that have an eight week course, and I believe Christie's 31 00:02:00.120 --> 00:02:02.519 done it three times, so she's done this a bunch. 32 00:02:04.920 --> 00:02:06.640 But it seems that people will go through this course 33 00:02:07.280 --> 00:02:09.840 and put a lot of effort into it or really 34 00:02:09.879 --> 00:02:16.919 really take it seriously. Their talents activate. And Christy is 35 00:02:17.360 --> 00:02:21.840 a unbelievably talented spirit medium. She speaks to dead people 36 00:02:22.960 --> 00:02:26.919 and they talk back. Gary Bodley Gary Temple Bodley is 37 00:02:26.960 --> 00:02:30.520 a chandler. He has channeled an unity named Joshua for 38 00:02:30.560 --> 00:02:34.800 a long time. That's how we know about them. Neither 39 00:02:34.879 --> 00:02:40.000 one of them wanted that to happen to them when 40 00:02:40.039 --> 00:02:43.280 they first started. Gary said, I mean right now, if 41 00:02:43.319 --> 00:02:47.000 I thought back ten years ago, I would have said 42 00:02:47.039 --> 00:02:49.520 I did not want to be this guy, because you know, 43 00:02:49.960 --> 00:02:53.000 I'm this weird guy now channeling this being like I 44 00:02:53.080 --> 00:02:55.879 never would have wanted this to happen to me. And 45 00:02:56.039 --> 00:02:57.960 Christy the last thing that she wanted was to be 46 00:02:58.039 --> 00:02:59.800 a spirit medium. She doesn't want to talk to dead people, 47 00:03:00.039 --> 00:03:03.719 to see dead people, and yet that's what was activated 48 00:03:03.719 --> 00:03:06.520 in her. And she went on even went on to 49 00:03:06.560 --> 00:03:11.560 say that the gifts, because of course I asked, oh, 50 00:03:11.599 --> 00:03:13.599 that's production, right, that's what I really want, but she 51 00:03:13.840 --> 00:03:17.520 actually even said, the gifts that you want the least 52 00:03:17.800 --> 00:03:23.479 is probably most likely what will be activated. And so 53 00:03:24.680 --> 00:03:27.240 even though neither one of them wanted to have that 54 00:03:28.120 --> 00:03:32.280 particular talent activated for them, they don't want to become 55 00:03:32.360 --> 00:03:36.919 that person that they are today. Their life today is 56 00:03:37.120 --> 00:03:42.479 way more fitting within their mindset of what they wanted 57 00:03:42.560 --> 00:03:45.560 in terms of abundance. They have been able to make 58 00:03:46.080 --> 00:03:52.759 a wonderful life together by being who they are being. 59 00:03:54.280 --> 00:04:00.280 And so, coming back full circle when they said, you 60 00:04:00.360 --> 00:04:04.000 need to be prepared to be a completely different person 61 00:04:04.400 --> 00:04:06.919 than you ever expect it to be or you ever 62 00:04:07.000 --> 00:04:13.240 want to be, because that's the act of surrendering, and 63 00:04:13.280 --> 00:04:15.639 we talk about it all the time in this space, 64 00:04:16.160 --> 00:04:19.040 right the fact that you trust the universe, the true universe, 65 00:04:19.040 --> 00:04:24.480 will provide, but we can't control it. The act of 66 00:04:24.519 --> 00:04:28.839 controlling shuts down the manifestation. The act of wanting to 67 00:04:28.879 --> 00:04:32.319 control it is what causes us to not be able 68 00:04:32.360 --> 00:04:38.000 to access it. So, of course, if we release control, 69 00:04:38.040 --> 00:04:45.519 if we relinquish all of our limitations or expectations that's 70 00:04:45.560 --> 00:04:49.800 a better word, all of our expectations than the universe. 71 00:04:50.399 --> 00:04:53.720 We truly do that, then the universe will provide for 72 00:04:53.839 --> 00:04:57.759 us in such a much better, more robust way than 73 00:04:57.759 --> 00:05:02.560 we possibly could have imagined. But we have to be 74 00:05:02.639 --> 00:05:08.000 willing to become the people that we had no idea 75 00:05:08.600 --> 00:05:13.040 or no interest in becoming. This is way deeper than 76 00:05:13.319 --> 00:05:17.120 what I'm making it out to be here, because give 77 00:05:17.160 --> 00:05:19.120 you a perfect example, we had this whole conversation. I 78 00:05:19.120 --> 00:05:22.319 went through these exercise with them myself, and I found 79 00:05:23.079 --> 00:05:33.519 something so personally devastating. It was devastating only because I 80 00:05:33.600 --> 00:05:38.439 had been fooling myself for so long thinking one way. 81 00:05:39.319 --> 00:05:44.639 When I came to the realization that I had no idea, 82 00:05:45.720 --> 00:05:49.839 that I was heightened behind a facade like I am, 83 00:05:50.160 --> 00:05:52.800 and so of course I'm not getting the things I 84 00:05:52.839 --> 00:05:57.040 want in the speed at which I want. I talked 85 00:05:57.160 --> 00:06:01.639 on the show about wanting freedom. Specifically, we want in 86 00:06:01.680 --> 00:06:03.560 four years, we want to be digital nomadge, living out 87 00:06:03.560 --> 00:06:05.519 in Europe and going from country to country or whatever. 88 00:06:06.959 --> 00:06:10.279 That's very specific as to what we're asking for when 89 00:06:10.439 --> 00:06:16.160 we push deeper to find out what what the emotion is, 90 00:06:16.160 --> 00:06:19.680 what the actual desires were there. It came down to 91 00:06:19.839 --> 00:06:24.519 having the freedom to do the work that we love 92 00:06:24.600 --> 00:06:26.319 to do, versus having to do the things that we 93 00:06:26.399 --> 00:06:28.480 have to do in order to get the bills paid, 94 00:06:28.519 --> 00:06:32.120 that kind of thing. So that freedom is what I 95 00:06:32.120 --> 00:06:35.600 need to focus on, not the I want to be 96 00:06:35.639 --> 00:06:37.319 in four years. I'm gonna be digital nobod. I'm gonna 97 00:06:37.319 --> 00:06:38.600 do it this way and decide it's going to happen. 98 00:06:38.639 --> 00:06:41.199 This is how we're gonna do it. I'm planning too much, 99 00:06:41.319 --> 00:06:45.639 and so I'm backing the universe into a corner. And 100 00:06:45.759 --> 00:06:48.879 instead of doing that, I need to be able to 101 00:06:48.879 --> 00:06:56.720 say I love the freedom that I have, and because 102 00:06:56.759 --> 00:07:00.959 I do, I have incredible amounts of freedom and I'm 103 00:07:01.399 --> 00:07:05.240 unbelievably blessed to have the life that I have and 104 00:07:05.279 --> 00:07:10.879 focus on those things and then use this exercise that 105 00:07:10.879 --> 00:07:15.639 they shared with us today to help us to break 106 00:07:15.720 --> 00:07:19.439 down the limiting beliefs that are keeping us in check, 107 00:07:20.040 --> 00:07:25.279 like the control issues that we have. Now, my realization 108 00:07:25.360 --> 00:07:28.800 that I came to during the conversation goes way deeper 109 00:07:28.839 --> 00:07:32.000 than what I just shared with you. It's probably wouldn't 110 00:07:32.040 --> 00:07:34.920 be interesting to you, but at some point in the 111 00:07:34.920 --> 00:07:39.759 future maybe I'll share. But what really resonated with me 112 00:07:40.040 --> 00:07:44.319 the most to begin with was that thought of shoe. 113 00:07:46.000 --> 00:07:49.120 If you're not ready to completely change everything about you 114 00:07:49.800 --> 00:07:53.439 in your life, then you're not ready to make the 115 00:07:53.480 --> 00:07:55.759 commitment to the universe that you think that you're making. 116 00:07:59.399 --> 00:08:04.759 Because if you have ended yourself into a corner by 117 00:08:04.839 --> 00:08:08.519 having certain expectations that the universes had to pain itself 118 00:08:08.560 --> 00:08:11.199 into a corner to give to you, and now all 119 00:08:11.240 --> 00:08:15.079 they can do is give you exactly what you are wanting, 120 00:08:15.120 --> 00:08:17.480 which is exactly what you want here, except for a 121 00:08:17.480 --> 00:08:20.240 little bit more. And it becomes more difficult for that 122 00:08:20.480 --> 00:08:26.560 manifestition to come. If you instead surrender and allow, be 123 00:08:26.680 --> 00:08:31.079 grateful for, and allow the changes that will come of 124 00:08:31.120 --> 00:08:38.039 you from you actually relinquishing control. Well, that that's what 125 00:08:38.159 --> 00:08:42.600 the magic happens. And that's the whole reason why I'm 126 00:08:42.639 --> 00:08:48.600 saying this to you right now, because WHOA. I was 127 00:08:48.639 --> 00:08:51.879 just in a meditation two days ago, maybe three days ago, 128 00:08:52.120 --> 00:08:54.240 where I sat there in the entire meditation, I was 129 00:08:54.279 --> 00:08:59.639 telling the universe, I'm ready, I surrender to tell me 130 00:08:59.720 --> 00:09:02.480 where you want me to go, show me how to 131 00:09:02.519 --> 00:09:05.960 move forward so that I can move my evolution forward 132 00:09:06.240 --> 00:09:10.600 the next step. And then three days later this conversation 133 00:09:11.159 --> 00:09:15.840 smacks me straight in the face with the realization that, hey, 134 00:09:16.759 --> 00:09:21.000 are you really ready to surrender to the universe, because 135 00:09:21.000 --> 00:09:23.919 if you're ready, I mean this is this is I get. 136 00:09:24.000 --> 00:09:26.200 It's like a sign for me that says, all right, 137 00:09:26.320 --> 00:09:27.879 you sure you know what you're asking for, because if 138 00:09:27.879 --> 00:09:29.440 you are ready, I'm going to give it to you. 139 00:09:30.600 --> 00:09:32.840 But before you make that commitment, I want you to 140 00:09:32.879 --> 00:09:37.000 see what is going to take. And I just swallowed 141 00:09:37.679 --> 00:09:43.039 really hard because it's scary. It's scary to think I 142 00:09:43.080 --> 00:09:45.600 need to change everything and it's not me changing. It 143 00:09:45.679 --> 00:09:49.559 would rather allow the universe to change it, to mold 144 00:09:49.679 --> 00:09:54.679 it into the design that it wants for me in 145 00:09:54.759 --> 00:09:57.399 order to provide me with those things that I want 146 00:09:57.480 --> 00:10:04.919 to create in a life of freedom. And I'm excited, 147 00:10:05.960 --> 00:10:09.600 I'm scared, and I need to sit down and really 148 00:10:09.600 --> 00:10:14.240 think through all of this because there's a lot more 149 00:10:14.639 --> 00:10:16.639 soul searching than I need to do before I can 150 00:10:16.759 --> 00:10:19.120 fully surrender to the universe. Now that I think about it, 151 00:10:19.840 --> 00:10:22.720 I want to really badly. And I've said I'm ready. 152 00:10:23.200 --> 00:10:25.519 I've said that I've been ready for a whole long time. 153 00:10:25.519 --> 00:10:27.240 People who've listened to the show for a long time, 154 00:10:27.279 --> 00:10:28.840 i've heard me say, Okay, I'm ray, I'm ready, Way, 155 00:10:28.919 --> 00:10:31.720 let's go. I'm impatient. I didn't know what I was 156 00:10:31.720 --> 00:10:34.519 asking for, and the universe and its infinite wisdom did 157 00:10:34.600 --> 00:10:36.440 not give me what I was asking for because it 158 00:10:36.519 --> 00:10:40.679 knew I wasn't ready. But I think I'm finally starting 159 00:10:40.679 --> 00:10:42.080 to see the light at the end of sudden Now 160 00:10:42.080 --> 00:10:44.559 I see how much work I need to do before 161 00:10:44.679 --> 00:10:51.200 I actually am ready, And for once, I'm excited. I'm 162 00:10:51.240 --> 00:10:58.039 excited about the possibility. I'm excited about the potential. Okay, 163 00:10:58.320 --> 00:11:01.720 this reminds me of this is a throwback to when 164 00:11:01.759 --> 00:11:04.519 the show first started, when I was speaking to my phone, 165 00:11:05.120 --> 00:11:07.440 and make that into an episode. I don't know what 166 00:11:07.519 --> 00:11:09.480 the audio quality is going to be, so this might 167 00:11:09.600 --> 00:11:13.120 never make the light of day, but I felt the 168 00:11:13.200 --> 00:11:15.960 need not even it urge, the need to pick up 169 00:11:15.960 --> 00:11:20.080 my phone and start recording my thoughts because it's a lot, 170 00:11:21.120 --> 00:11:23.600 and I think it's for the right people. I know, 171 00:11:23.679 --> 00:11:26.480 the folks that aren't ready, this won't resonate with them. 172 00:11:26.600 --> 00:11:28.960 So this doesn't resonate with you. Don't worry about it, 173 00:11:29.000 --> 00:11:33.720 don't take offense, don't be disappointed. Just keep working, keep meditating, 174 00:11:33.799 --> 00:11:38.200 keep reading the books, keep listening to the show, and 175 00:11:38.399 --> 00:11:42.759 keep questioning the decisions that you're making. Keep looking at 176 00:11:42.919 --> 00:11:49.039 your actions. And when this interview releases with Gary and 177 00:11:49.159 --> 00:11:52.720 Karen and Christie and I, I urge you strongly to 178 00:11:52.720 --> 00:11:55.600 listen to it because you might see the light bulb 179 00:11:55.720 --> 00:12:00.200 might go off in you too. If it resonates with you, 180 00:12:00.360 --> 00:12:02.960 I would love, truly, I would love to hear from you, 181 00:12:03.720 --> 00:12:05.679 because this might be something where we might need to 182 00:12:05.720 --> 00:12:07.639 put together a little support group so we can all 183 00:12:07.639 --> 00:12:10.440 go through it together. I know Gary and Christy have 184 00:12:10.480 --> 00:12:12.679 a community that I'm considering joining because this is the 185 00:12:12.759 --> 00:12:15.960 kind of thing that I think would be extremely helpful. 186 00:12:18.159 --> 00:12:21.279 But why not form our own little spiritual support group. 187 00:12:21.840 --> 00:12:23.919 So if this fasitates with you, let me know and 188 00:12:23.960 --> 00:12:25.840 let's see if we can move this thing forward. Because 189 00:12:26.480 --> 00:12:29.879 for the first time in a very long time, I 190 00:12:30.120 --> 00:12:35.600 see way more clearly the distance that I actually have 191 00:12:35.720 --> 00:12:40.080 yet to go before I can be ready for the 192 00:12:40.200 --> 00:12:44.799 changes that I'm asking for. And yet I'm excited to 193 00:12:44.919 --> 00:12:48.679 start taking a step in that direction. So I hope 194 00:12:48.679 --> 00:12:51.120 you take a step in a direction with me as 195 00:12:51.159 --> 00:12:55.519 we evolve together, because after all, this is one very 196 00:12:55.559 --> 00:12:58.000 lonely journey on your own. We're all in it alone 197 00:12:58.039 --> 00:13:03.399 by ourselves. But like is it, Ram Das or Wayne Dyer, 198 00:13:03.639 --> 00:13:06.919 one of those wonderful teachers, said, we're all just walking 199 00:13:06.960 --> 00:13:11.840 each other home. Well, it's much more fun when you're 200 00:13:11.840 --> 00:13:15.320 walking down the path accompanied. So once your company me 201 00:13:17.039 --> 00:13:20.759 all right, thanks for listening, We'll see you again.