Speaker 1: So we talk all the time about and we meaning
Speaker 1: the New Age movement or the metaphysical journeyers, the seekers
Speaker 1: and the coaches talk about the importance of feeling the
Speaker 1: energies behind what you want to have to draw it
Speaker 1: to you, but also the importance of letting it go
Speaker 1: and not expecting it to be delivered to you in
Speaker 1: a particular way. Nine times out of ten, the universe
Speaker 1: will provide exactly what you asked for in a way
Speaker 1: that was very unexpected. Well, we just had the conversation
Speaker 1: with Gary and Christy gray Body and Christie from an
Speaker 1: Unimaginable Life, and they said something that there's lots of
Speaker 1: things that's doing me for a loop, but this thing
Speaker 1: specifically was something that made me really like it hit
Speaker 1: home in a big way. See, they're walking us through
Speaker 1: a I want to say, it's a tactic or an
Speaker 1: activity that if you do fifteen minutes every day at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, it will help you to
Speaker 1: achieve your wildest dreams because you're getting rid of limiting
Speaker 1: beliefs and all that kind of stuff. And they said
Speaker 1: in the conversation that they've been putting this into effect
Speaker 1: for a long time and not only do you have
Speaker 1: to let go of the expectations, but rather, if you
Speaker 1: are to do these things and let go of your
Speaker 1: limiting beliefs, the likelihood is going to be very big
Speaker 1: that the person you become might even be a person
Speaker 1: that you presently right now don't want to become. Maybe
Speaker 1: be a little specific. So it doesn't sound so weird.
Speaker 1: I know it's too late, but a lot of people
Speaker 1: that do these this exercise over a course of things
Speaker 1: that have an eight week course, and I believe Christie's
Speaker 1: done it three times, so she's done this a bunch.
Speaker 1: But it seems that people will go through this course
Speaker 1: and put a lot of effort into it or really
Speaker 1: really take it seriously. Their talents activate. And Christy is
Speaker 1: a unbelievably talented spirit medium. She speaks to dead people
Speaker 1: and they talk back. Gary Bodley Gary Temple Bodley is
Speaker 1: a chandler. He has channeled an unity named Joshua for
Speaker 1: a long time. That's how we know about them. Neither
Speaker 1: one of them wanted that to happen to them when
Speaker 1: they first started. Gary said, I mean right now, if
Speaker 1: I thought back ten years ago, I would have said
Speaker 1: I did not want to be this guy, because you know,
Speaker 1: I'm this weird guy now channeling this being like I
Speaker 1: never would have wanted this to happen to me. And
Speaker 1: Christy the last thing that she wanted was to be
Speaker 1: a spirit medium. She doesn't want to talk to dead people,
Speaker 1: to see dead people, and yet that's what was activated
Speaker 1: in her. And she went on even went on to
Speaker 1: say that the gifts, because of course I asked, oh,
Speaker 1: that's production, right, that's what I really want, but she
Speaker 1: actually even said, the gifts that you want the least
Speaker 1: is probably most likely what will be activated. And so
Speaker 1: even though neither one of them wanted to have that
Speaker 1: particular talent activated for them, they don't want to become
Speaker 1: that person that they are today. Their life today is
Speaker 1: way more fitting within their mindset of what they wanted
Speaker 1: in terms of abundance. They have been able to make
Speaker 1: a wonderful life together by being who they are being.
Speaker 1: And so, coming back full circle when they said, you
Speaker 1: need to be prepared to be a completely different person
Speaker 1: than you ever expect it to be or you ever
Speaker 1: want to be, because that's the act of surrendering, and
Speaker 1: we talk about it all the time in this space,
Speaker 1: right the fact that you trust the universe, the true universe,
Speaker 1: will provide, but we can't control it. The act of
Speaker 1: controlling shuts down the manifestation. The act of wanting to
Speaker 1: control it is what causes us to not be able
Speaker 1: to access it. So, of course, if we release control,
Speaker 1: if we relinquish all of our limitations or expectations that's
Speaker 1: a better word, all of our expectations than the universe.
Speaker 1: We truly do that, then the universe will provide for
Speaker 1: us in such a much better, more robust way than
Speaker 1: we possibly could have imagined. But we have to be
Speaker 1: willing to become the people that we had no idea
Speaker 1: or no interest in becoming. This is way deeper than
Speaker 1: what I'm making it out to be here, because give
Speaker 1: you a perfect example, we had this whole conversation. I
Speaker 1: went through these exercise with them myself, and I found
Speaker 1: something so personally devastating. It was devastating only because I
Speaker 1: had been fooling myself for so long thinking one way.
Speaker 1: When I came to the realization that I had no idea,
Speaker 1: that I was heightened behind a facade like I am,
Speaker 1: and so of course I'm not getting the things I
Speaker 1: want in the speed at which I want. I talked
Speaker 1: on the show about wanting freedom. Specifically, we want in
Speaker 1: four years, we want to be digital nomadge, living out
Speaker 1: in Europe and going from country to country or whatever.
Speaker 1: That's very specific as to what we're asking for when
Speaker 1: we push deeper to find out what what the emotion is,
Speaker 1: what the actual desires were there. It came down to
Speaker 1: having the freedom to do the work that we love
Speaker 1: to do, versus having to do the things that we
Speaker 1: have to do in order to get the bills paid,
Speaker 1: that kind of thing. So that freedom is what I
Speaker 1: need to focus on, not the I want to be
Speaker 1: in four years. I'm gonna be digital nobod. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do it this way and decide it's going to happen.
Speaker 1: This is how we're gonna do it. I'm planning too much,
Speaker 1: and so I'm backing the universe into a corner. And
Speaker 1: instead of doing that, I need to be able to
Speaker 1: say I love the freedom that I have, and because
Speaker 1: I do, I have incredible amounts of freedom and I'm
Speaker 1: unbelievably blessed to have the life that I have and
Speaker 1: focus on those things and then use this exercise that
Speaker 1: they shared with us today to help us to break
Speaker 1: down the limiting beliefs that are keeping us in check,
Speaker 1: like the control issues that we have. Now, my realization
Speaker 1: that I came to during the conversation goes way deeper
Speaker 1: than what I just shared with you. It's probably wouldn't
Speaker 1: be interesting to you, but at some point in the
Speaker 1: future maybe I'll share. But what really resonated with me
Speaker 1: the most to begin with was that thought of shoe.
Speaker 1: If you're not ready to completely change everything about you
Speaker 1: in your life, then you're not ready to make the
Speaker 1: commitment to the universe that you think that you're making.
Speaker 1: Because if you have ended yourself into a corner by
Speaker 1: having certain expectations that the universes had to pain itself
Speaker 1: into a corner to give to you, and now all
Speaker 1: they can do is give you exactly what you are wanting,
Speaker 1: which is exactly what you want here, except for a
Speaker 1: little bit more. And it becomes more difficult for that
Speaker 1: manifestition to come. If you instead surrender and allow, be
Speaker 1: grateful for, and allow the changes that will come of
Speaker 1: you from you actually relinquishing control. Well, that that's what
Speaker 1: the magic happens. And that's the whole reason why I'm
Speaker 1: saying this to you right now, because WHOA. I was
Speaker 1: just in a meditation two days ago, maybe three days ago,
Speaker 1: where I sat there in the entire meditation, I was
Speaker 1: telling the universe, I'm ready, I surrender to tell me
Speaker 1: where you want me to go, show me how to
Speaker 1: move forward so that I can move my evolution forward
Speaker 1: the next step. And then three days later this conversation
Speaker 1: smacks me straight in the face with the realization that, hey,
Speaker 1: are you really ready to surrender to the universe, because
Speaker 1: if you're ready, I mean this is this is I get.
Speaker 1: It's like a sign for me that says, all right,
Speaker 1: you sure you know what you're asking for, because if
Speaker 1: you are ready, I'm going to give it to you.
Speaker 1: But before you make that commitment, I want you to
Speaker 1: see what is going to take. And I just swallowed
Speaker 1: really hard because it's scary. It's scary to think I
Speaker 1: need to change everything and it's not me changing. It
Speaker 1: would rather allow the universe to change it, to mold
Speaker 1: it into the design that it wants for me in
Speaker 1: order to provide me with those things that I want
Speaker 1: to create in a life of freedom. And I'm excited,
Speaker 1: I'm scared, and I need to sit down and really
Speaker 1: think through all of this because there's a lot more
Speaker 1: soul searching than I need to do before I can
Speaker 1: fully surrender to the universe. Now that I think about it,
Speaker 1: I want to really badly. And I've said I'm ready.
Speaker 1: I've said that I've been ready for a whole long time.
Speaker 1: People who've listened to the show for a long time,
Speaker 1: i've heard me say, Okay, I'm ray, I'm ready, Way,
Speaker 1: let's go. I'm impatient. I didn't know what I was
Speaker 1: asking for, and the universe and its infinite wisdom did
Speaker 1: not give me what I was asking for because it
Speaker 1: knew I wasn't ready. But I think I'm finally starting
Speaker 1: to see the light at the end of sudden Now
Speaker 1: I see how much work I need to do before
Speaker 1: I actually am ready, And for once, I'm excited. I'm
Speaker 1: excited about the possibility. I'm excited about the potential. Okay,
Speaker 1: this reminds me of this is a throwback to when
Speaker 1: the show first started, when I was speaking to my phone,
Speaker 1: and make that into an episode. I don't know what
Speaker 1: the audio quality is going to be, so this might
Speaker 1: never make the light of day, but I felt the
Speaker 1: need not even it urge, the need to pick up
Speaker 1: my phone and start recording my thoughts because it's a lot,
Speaker 1: and I think it's for the right people. I know,
Speaker 1: the folks that aren't ready, this won't resonate with them.
Speaker 1: So this doesn't resonate with you. Don't worry about it,
Speaker 1: don't take offense, don't be disappointed. Just keep working, keep meditating,
Speaker 1: keep reading the books, keep listening to the show, and
Speaker 1: keep questioning the decisions that you're making. Keep looking at
Speaker 1: your actions. And when this interview releases with Gary and
Speaker 1: Karen and Christie and I, I urge you strongly to
Speaker 1: listen to it because you might see the light bulb
Speaker 1: might go off in you too. If it resonates with you,
Speaker 1: I would love, truly, I would love to hear from you,
Speaker 1: because this might be something where we might need to
Speaker 1: put together a little support group so we can all
Speaker 1: go through it together. I know Gary and Christy have
Speaker 1: a community that I'm considering joining because this is the
Speaker 1: kind of thing that I think would be extremely helpful.
Speaker 1: But why not form our own little spiritual support group.
Speaker 1: So if this fasitates with you, let me know and
Speaker 1: let's see if we can move this thing forward. Because
Speaker 1: for the first time in a very long time, I
Speaker 1: see way more clearly the distance that I actually have
Speaker 1: yet to go before I can be ready for the
Speaker 1: changes that I'm asking for. And yet I'm excited to
Speaker 1: start taking a step in that direction. So I hope
Speaker 1: you take a step in a direction with me as
Speaker 1: we evolve together, because after all, this is one very
Speaker 1: lonely journey on your own. We're all in it alone
Speaker 1: by ourselves. But like is it, Ram Das or Wayne Dyer,
Speaker 1: one of those wonderful teachers, said, we're all just walking
Speaker 1: each other home. Well, it's much more fun when you're
Speaker 1: walking down the path accompanied. So once your company me
Speaker 1: all right, thanks for listening, We'll see you again.