WEBVTT 1 00:00:04.879 --> 00:00:17.000 Uh uh uh, Hello everybody, and welcome to Rose Pricks. 2 00:00:18.480 --> 00:00:24.000 This episode is an emergency. M hm hi Cecily Hi. 3 00:00:24.320 --> 00:00:28.039 It is an emergency because our man, our man, Gary 4 00:00:28.879 --> 00:00:32.799 over at the Golden Snatch Batch is a nat. He's 5 00:00:32.880 --> 00:00:39.479 not behaving well okayere is he? 6 00:00:38.840 --> 00:00:45.359 Where is this? The world? The Bachelor universe, Golden Bachelor 7 00:00:45.439 --> 00:00:51.520 Universe has exploded with content all about and and this 8 00:00:51.600 --> 00:00:53.200 is something that I do when I when I talk, 9 00:00:53.240 --> 00:00:56.880 I have to preface. But it's all about the demise 10 00:00:57.119 --> 00:01:02.039 of Teresa and Gary's relationship. Now. One thing that really 11 00:01:02.200 --> 00:01:05.079 made me upset was let's go all the way back 12 00:01:05.120 --> 00:01:09.760 in the way back machine to a time when these 13 00:01:09.840 --> 00:01:13.200 two were just like, yeah, we're splitting up after three months. 14 00:01:13.480 --> 00:01:15.519 We're not going to mention why. You don't need to 15 00:01:15.599 --> 00:01:18.359 know that, don't worry about the details, but you know, 16 00:01:18.599 --> 00:01:22.400 I mean, things change and you know, and we were like, 17 00:01:22.719 --> 00:01:25.200 what excuse me, what do you mean that? 18 00:01:25.280 --> 00:01:27.959 Like immediately after we had to watch them on People 19 00:01:28.040 --> 00:01:29.680 magazine and like have a wedding. I mean, it was 20 00:01:29.719 --> 00:01:33.359 just insane much put into this, yes, and then there 21 00:01:33.439 --> 00:01:35.680 was oh so they put so much into it. 22 00:01:35.719 --> 00:01:39.280 And then remember there was a lot of back and 23 00:01:39.319 --> 00:01:44.640 forth where other people kind of wade in, and remember 24 00:01:44.680 --> 00:01:48.200 people were like, well, Gary was really disappointed because she 25 00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:50.400 didn't want to quit her job. But oh, first it 26 00:01:50.480 --> 00:01:53.400 was they can't figure out where to live, remember, because 27 00:01:54.640 --> 00:01:57.680 you know, her grandkids were somewhere and his grandkids were 28 00:01:57.680 --> 00:02:00.400 somewhere and their kids and oh my gosh, we can't 29 00:02:00.400 --> 00:02:04.519 figure out. We're just postponing picking a house. And so 30 00:02:04.599 --> 00:02:07.760 there was all of this back and forth of really 31 00:02:08.400 --> 00:02:12.479 not crazy reasons why they broke up. Nobody was bad 32 00:02:12.560 --> 00:02:16.319 mouthing anybody. And then remember there were a few hints 33 00:02:16.400 --> 00:02:18.759 and then this thing happened when Gary said that he 34 00:02:18.800 --> 00:02:22.879 had cancer. And then there was a thing that maybe 35 00:02:22.879 --> 00:02:26.599 Gary implied that Teresa wasn't going to be okay with 36 00:02:26.680 --> 00:02:29.319 him having cancer. Remember that, And then we had to 37 00:02:29.319 --> 00:02:33.080 do an emergency Patreon because Teresa was like, oh, hell no, 38 00:02:33.759 --> 00:02:37.080 I did not say that. That's crazy. Like what I 39 00:02:37.159 --> 00:02:40.319 said was, of course I'm here to support you, you know. 40 00:02:40.919 --> 00:02:44.159 And then Gary was like, yeah, but you didn't want 41 00:02:44.199 --> 00:02:46.280 me to be a burden and Teresa was like, that's 42 00:02:46.280 --> 00:02:49.960 in your head. All that's ridiculous. Okay. So all that 43 00:02:50.240 --> 00:02:55.400 is to say that Gary wrote a book which nobody 44 00:02:55.479 --> 00:02:58.560 asked you. Yes, he did that really fast. 45 00:02:58.680 --> 00:03:00.120 I mean, I don't know how well. I guess it's 46 00:03:00.159 --> 00:03:03.280 not that fast. I guess it's been it's been a minute. 47 00:03:03.319 --> 00:03:05.000 But he got some help. There's no way he just 48 00:03:05.039 --> 00:03:05.439 wrote that. 49 00:03:06.800 --> 00:03:09.159 No, but I guess he was working on the book 50 00:03:10.080 --> 00:03:14.800 Early Days of Teresa. Okay, this is like a little 51 00:03:15.039 --> 00:03:19.159 little bitty little side note. Okay, you know we love 52 00:03:19.199 --> 00:03:24.159 a digression. I was listening to a podcast. Do you 53 00:03:24.159 --> 00:03:26.159 ever listen to But no, you don't. You're not really 54 00:03:26.199 --> 00:03:28.439 a podcast, really don't. No, I know you don't. But 55 00:03:28.479 --> 00:03:32.159 there's a podcast called Betrayal. Okay, then tells stories about 56 00:03:32.199 --> 00:03:36.000 people who were got betrayed. And there's this one that 57 00:03:36.080 --> 00:03:39.159 I just listened to the other day about this woman 58 00:03:39.719 --> 00:03:43.639 and her name is and now I got to remember 59 00:03:43.639 --> 00:03:48.319 her first name. I think it's Nobler. Hannah Guitar. There 60 00:03:48.360 --> 00:03:50.400 is a Hannah Nobler. Okay, P I T T A 61 00:03:50.560 --> 00:03:54.439 R D. Okay. So this woman, Hannah was with this 62 00:03:54.560 --> 00:03:59.800 man with this man's and she her she had like 63 00:03:59.840 --> 00:04:02.520 a best friend, a really intense best friend, and the 64 00:04:02.560 --> 00:04:06.719 best friend introduced her to this guy and they end 65 00:04:06.800 --> 00:04:10.719 up hooking up and then they're together and they spend 66 00:04:10.759 --> 00:04:13.439 a lot of time as a foursome because her best 67 00:04:13.439 --> 00:04:17.560 friend also had a husband. Right, so they're all like swingers, no, 68 00:04:17.879 --> 00:04:21.319 like couples going out together a lot. At one point, 69 00:04:21.959 --> 00:04:25.000 Hannah's best friend like came and with her husband, came 70 00:04:25.040 --> 00:04:26.800 and stayed with them for months at a time. 71 00:04:27.160 --> 00:04:29.639 I never saved. I do not know wh I've not that. 72 00:04:29.639 --> 00:04:31.839 That's like having a hot nanny. It's the dilmst like 73 00:04:31.920 --> 00:04:34.160 I'm sorry, I don't care, I don't I just don't 74 00:04:34.160 --> 00:04:34.519 get it. 75 00:04:35.040 --> 00:04:39.639 Yeah. Agree. So, so it turns out that this husband 76 00:04:39.920 --> 00:04:43.800 she's a writer and she was working on her novel. 77 00:04:44.000 --> 00:04:46.480 Then she gets her novel published and he's having some 78 00:04:46.519 --> 00:04:49.639 sort of jealousy issues with that because he's like ok oh. 79 00:04:49.680 --> 00:04:55.959 Also also she's getting like magazine articles stuff, and he's like, well, 80 00:04:56.240 --> 00:04:57.959 can you tell him, like I have a good idea 81 00:04:58.000 --> 00:05:00.360 for an article, you know that kind of thing. She's 82 00:05:00.360 --> 00:05:03.000 happy to go like, hey, like my husband, like I 83 00:05:03.040 --> 00:05:05.000 don't know, like I have a friend who has a 84 00:05:05.000 --> 00:05:07.279 great story about this. Would you be interested? And she 85 00:05:07.399 --> 00:05:12.040 gets him like assignments but you know, yeah, so anyway, 86 00:05:12.360 --> 00:05:16.240 I'm at right, this guy's this guy's great. So time 87 00:05:16.279 --> 00:05:18.839 goes by that they're married. His jealousy is kind of 88 00:05:18.839 --> 00:05:22.800 out of control, just being a dick, and they end up. 89 00:05:23.560 --> 00:05:27.639 Oh and then she finds out that he was cheating 90 00:05:27.680 --> 00:05:32.879 on her and it's because she cheated with the guy 91 00:05:33.160 --> 00:05:37.240 with He cheated with the girl with the best friend. Oh, 92 00:05:37.600 --> 00:05:43.199 so Hannah's husband that's jealous ends up fucking her friend 93 00:05:43.439 --> 00:05:45.839 that introduced her in the first place, and she finds 94 00:05:45.920 --> 00:05:50.120 out because that friend's her husband or whatever. Her boyfriend 95 00:05:50.120 --> 00:05:52.079 I don't know if they're married or not, is the 96 00:05:52.079 --> 00:05:55.160 one who tells Hannah. So she's of course really upset 97 00:05:55.199 --> 00:06:00.720 about this. Anyway, this is all to say that Hannah 98 00:06:00.920 --> 00:06:03.240 ends up writing a book, and this is real. These 99 00:06:03.240 --> 00:06:05.480 are real people, and you can look this up. She 100 00:06:05.639 --> 00:06:08.040 wrote a book and I can't remember exactly what it's called, 101 00:06:08.279 --> 00:06:11.199 but a memoir. She gets a deal to write a 102 00:06:11.240 --> 00:06:14.279 memoir about the demise of her marriage and about how 103 00:06:14.319 --> 00:06:16.639 this her husband like cheated on her with her best friend, 104 00:06:17.839 --> 00:06:22.319 like as her editor tells her, oh my god, heads up, 105 00:06:23.560 --> 00:06:26.079 go look at this. And it turns out that the 106 00:06:26.160 --> 00:06:31.560 ex husband has written a quote novel no about his 107 00:06:31.720 --> 00:06:34.639 side of the story, which is of course totally different 108 00:06:34.680 --> 00:06:38.480 than hers, but like it's novel, like it's fiction, like 109 00:06:38.519 --> 00:06:41.800 he's trying to write, except that it's exactly like their story. 110 00:06:42.160 --> 00:06:46.560 So she finds out that it's like total facts about 111 00:06:46.600 --> 00:06:50.839 them fights they've had, like and it's really unflattering. 112 00:06:51.120 --> 00:06:53.959 This is very David Harber versus Lily Allen, which we're 113 00:06:53.959 --> 00:06:55.879 going to get to on Board again. I'm going to 114 00:06:55.959 --> 00:06:57.959 make us talk about it one more time on Board, 115 00:06:58.079 --> 00:07:00.199 just because I finally listened to the album and I 116 00:07:00.240 --> 00:07:01.199 have I have notes. 117 00:07:01.240 --> 00:07:04.920 Oh I great. But anyway, so if you look these up, 118 00:07:05.079 --> 00:07:08.600 it's really funny because so and The New York Times 119 00:07:08.639 --> 00:07:10.560 did a story about this where it said, like two 120 00:07:10.720 --> 00:07:14.319 authors both having books about their side of the story. 121 00:07:15.079 --> 00:07:18.160 They have very different sides of the story. But it's 122 00:07:18.240 --> 00:07:20.279 really funny because if you look it up, all the 123 00:07:20.360 --> 00:07:23.759 reviews on his book are so like, fuck you, you're 124 00:07:23.800 --> 00:07:26.480 an asshole, like you mistreated, like you're you know, this 125 00:07:26.560 --> 00:07:30.839 is stupid narcissistic attempt to like just have vengeance on 126 00:07:30.879 --> 00:07:34.199 your ex wife, and like, you know, it's all very 127 00:07:34.279 --> 00:07:35.839 like who's on whose pick? 128 00:07:35.839 --> 00:07:39.519 People pick sides, read them back to back and really 129 00:07:39.600 --> 00:07:41.800 like have try to have like an objective opinion on 130 00:07:41.839 --> 00:07:44.800 which one's better. I mean these days, you know, like 131 00:07:44.839 --> 00:07:46.879 who knows who helped you know, if this guy was 132 00:07:46.920 --> 00:07:49.079 able to even write his own thing, But like it 133 00:07:49.079 --> 00:07:51.439 would be interesting to me to see who had the who, 134 00:07:51.639 --> 00:07:56.600 Like it's just better better wordsmith, Yes, and also see 135 00:07:56.600 --> 00:07:58.519 this sort of back and forth. That's a great that 136 00:07:58.560 --> 00:08:00.600 should be a Netflix that that whole thing should be 137 00:08:00.639 --> 00:08:04.160 like a Netflix show. It really relationship and then the 138 00:08:04.240 --> 00:08:06.279 back to back, like I could see this as like 139 00:08:06.319 --> 00:08:07.600 an Adam McKay movie. 140 00:08:08.399 --> 00:08:10.439 You know what I mean. I love that. We should 141 00:08:10.439 --> 00:08:13.560 pitch it. We should pitch it. Let's do it. So anyway, 142 00:08:14.040 --> 00:08:16.560 all that is to say that this is literally what's 143 00:08:16.639 --> 00:08:21.519 going on with these two, with Teresa and Gary, because 144 00:08:21.519 --> 00:08:24.560 now that Gary wrote a book, He's saying a lot 145 00:08:24.600 --> 00:08:27.920 of things that Teresa's like, oh hell to the no, 146 00:08:28.560 --> 00:08:31.240 that did not happen that way. And I have all 147 00:08:31.279 --> 00:08:33.440 of it here and I'm gonna I'm going to try 148 00:08:33.480 --> 00:08:37.480 to kind of go in order. Don't want to Let's 149 00:08:37.519 --> 00:08:42.240 do it later. Okay, Yeah, let's do that at the end. Okay, Okay, 150 00:08:42.279 --> 00:08:45.159 So Gary Turner, this is the first thing I'm gonna 151 00:08:45.159 --> 00:08:49.080 read you. Gary Turner feels this was why Teresa Nist 152 00:08:49.320 --> 00:08:52.440 went on Golden Bachelor, and you know this is not 153 00:08:52.480 --> 00:08:54.600 going to be this is just so funny, like they 154 00:08:54.600 --> 00:08:57.879 are both just going at each other. Okay, so it 155 00:08:57.960 --> 00:09:01.600 says the way inaugural this is I should give credit 156 00:09:01.600 --> 00:09:04.440 where credits do. This is Yahoo dot com. The way 157 00:09:04.879 --> 00:09:08.799 Gary Turner sees it, his former bride Terreesentness wasn't there 158 00:09:08.799 --> 00:09:13.240 to make friends or even find a second chance at love. Rather, 159 00:09:13.440 --> 00:09:17.240 as he detailed in his recently released memoir, The seventy 160 00:09:17.279 --> 00:09:20.879 two year Old Financial Services Professional, although he's not seventy 161 00:09:20.879 --> 00:09:22.879 two anymore? Wasn't he seventy two when he went on? 162 00:09:23.679 --> 00:09:28.000 Yeah so he's seventy four now was singing? He says, 163 00:09:28.960 --> 00:09:33.600 Oh no, she's seventy two. The seventy two year Old 164 00:09:33.600 --> 00:09:38.159 Financial Services Professional was singularly focused on accepting his final 165 00:09:38.279 --> 00:09:42.440 rows after their three month marriage ended, in large part, 166 00:09:42.519 --> 00:09:45.200 he said, because of her decision to go back on 167 00:09:45.240 --> 00:09:50.440 her plan to retire. Gary found himself wondering if his 168 00:09:50.600 --> 00:09:54.000 one time spouse truly had signed on to the franchise's 169 00:09:54.039 --> 00:09:58.200 sixty and older spinoff for the right reasons quote, why 170 00:09:58.200 --> 00:10:01.000 did she enter a process that required such a leap 171 00:10:01.039 --> 00:10:03.759 of faith? If she was going to be inflexible. Later, 172 00:10:04.240 --> 00:10:08.080 he wrote, reflecting on both Teresa's desire to keep working 173 00:10:08.440 --> 00:10:12.039 and what he perceived to be her ambivalence towards staying 174 00:10:12.039 --> 00:10:15.240 with him in Indiana, Oh, don't worry. This is going 175 00:10:15.320 --> 00:10:17.519 to get so much juicier. I just have to lay 176 00:10:17.559 --> 00:10:20.440 this out. It's like they're both going to be like what, No, 177 00:10:20.600 --> 00:10:22.320 that's not quite it, and then they're going to lay 178 00:10:22.320 --> 00:10:26.120 into each other. Uh. Was it her goal to find 179 00:10:26.120 --> 00:10:30.480 her forever partner, perhaps to get her fifteen minutes of fame, 180 00:10:31.879 --> 00:10:34.000 or as some of the other women who were on 181 00:10:34.080 --> 00:10:37.639 the show told me, was it to capitalize on Then 182 00:10:37.679 --> 00:10:41.919 this is all in italics, winning the competition for my affection. 183 00:10:43.480 --> 00:10:47.120 My god, that's so gross, Like, dude, so gross, okay, 184 00:10:47.159 --> 00:10:50.159 sitting okay, and what fame? She's not a theme seeker 185 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:53.159 at all. She's like, oh, opposit it, no, and you're 186 00:10:53.279 --> 00:10:56.759 so okay, so he says. Because after the seventy four 187 00:10:56.840 --> 00:11:00.639 year old announced his separation from Teresa, a few of 188 00:11:00.639 --> 00:11:03.519 her fellow contestants asked if they could steal him for 189 00:11:03.559 --> 00:11:08.639 a sec quote. Several women shared a seemingly small detail 190 00:11:08.679 --> 00:11:11.879 that loomed large in my mind. Gary alleged in his 191 00:11:11.919 --> 00:11:16.480 book quote while at the mansion, Teresa was reading How 192 00:11:16.519 --> 00:11:20.720 to Win the Bachelor, a book that promises the secret 193 00:11:20.799 --> 00:11:24.000 to finding love and fame on America's favorite reality show, 194 00:11:25.399 --> 00:11:29.320 and that it says too basically to Gary quote, there 195 00:11:29.360 --> 00:11:32.200 was something about the image of Teresa curled up on 196 00:11:32.200 --> 00:11:35.440 one of the couches planning her strategy to win a 197 00:11:35.519 --> 00:11:40.679 rose that made me feel sick to my stomach. He's 198 00:11:40.720 --> 00:11:43.799 so dramatic. I know, I'm reading it, very dramatic. He 199 00:11:43.919 --> 00:11:46.279 didn't write I'm telling you he didn't write that. That 200 00:11:46.320 --> 00:11:47.960 guy did not sit down and write those words. This 201 00:11:48.039 --> 00:11:52.840 is quote, Yeah, it from his book. I'm just saying, yeah, 202 00:11:53.159 --> 00:11:56.360 I didn't know that. It's like, it's like I get 203 00:11:56.399 --> 00:11:58.159 so mad about that, Like with the Britney Spears stuff 204 00:11:58.159 --> 00:11:59.519 when people are quoting all of us, She's like she 205 00:11:59.600 --> 00:12:01.000 never put those words together. 206 00:12:01.279 --> 00:12:02.840 No, definitely the one thing. 207 00:12:02.759 --> 00:12:06.919 In like puppy emojis and like there's no way, there's 208 00:12:06.960 --> 00:12:08.919 just no. And then we talked about this, like the 209 00:12:09.000 --> 00:12:11.000 editors are probably like Brittany, we love what we've done 210 00:12:11.000 --> 00:12:13.720 so far. It's just a lot of like dancing girl 211 00:12:13.759 --> 00:12:16.240 emojis and we need a little like some verbs. 212 00:12:17.559 --> 00:12:19.519 You can't I just I just hate that. Yeah. No, 213 00:12:19.600 --> 00:12:21.759 Brittany didn't write a word of her book, by the way. 214 00:12:21.799 --> 00:12:26.639 It was all came from like interviews, clearly and clearly anyway. 215 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:28.799 But you know, Okay, So there was something about the 216 00:12:28.799 --> 00:12:31.039 image of Teresa pulled up on the couches that made 217 00:12:31.080 --> 00:12:33.080 me feel sick to my stomach. It made me think 218 00:12:33.120 --> 00:12:35.519 that her goal was never to find the next love 219 00:12:35.519 --> 00:12:41.200 of her life. It was to win. Really, Teresa insisted 220 00:12:41.320 --> 00:12:43.200 it was to make the most of a free trial 221 00:12:43.240 --> 00:12:47.519 to Audible, checking out the Audible, the audio book service 222 00:12:47.600 --> 00:12:50.639 before filming the show. Quote one of the books on 223 00:12:50.720 --> 00:12:53.519 there was How to Win the Bachelor. I go whoa, 224 00:12:53.720 --> 00:12:55.960 somebody wrote a book on how to Win the Bachelor, 225 00:12:56.159 --> 00:12:59.159 she detailed during a November fourth appearance on the Deer 226 00:12:59.240 --> 00:13:01.919 Shandy PODCAS cast, which is going to come up later. 227 00:13:02.480 --> 00:13:04.679 So I started listening to it, but I only got 228 00:13:04.679 --> 00:13:08.000 through the first chapter before my free trial ran out. Well, 229 00:13:08.240 --> 00:13:11.639 that's not true. You don't get a free trial for 230 00:13:11.679 --> 00:13:14.639 a week. I'm sure you get your first month free, 231 00:13:14.679 --> 00:13:17.480 so don't I don't buy that, Teresa. Okay, So I 232 00:13:17.480 --> 00:13:20.120 started trusting, but I only got I didn't even think 233 00:13:20.120 --> 00:13:23.480 about it when I went to the show. Still, Gary 234 00:13:23.519 --> 00:13:26.679 claimed he wasn't the only one second guessing Teresa's journey. 235 00:13:27.080 --> 00:13:29.799 He wrote that a few of her fellow contestants quote 236 00:13:29.919 --> 00:13:32.840 were upset because they felt Teresa had cheated them out 237 00:13:32.879 --> 00:13:36.639 of a chance to find love too. According to various accounts, 238 00:13:36.679 --> 00:13:38.840 almost as soon as she set foot in the mansion, 239 00:13:39.240 --> 00:13:43.840 Teresa was manipulative, describing our connection as so strong that 240 00:13:43.919 --> 00:13:46.159 our mansionmates might as well give up and go home. 241 00:13:46.519 --> 00:13:50.320 And the situation only got thornier as she began collecting roses, 242 00:13:50.840 --> 00:13:55.240 Aged alleged the former lead she falsely said, Gary only 243 00:13:55.320 --> 00:14:01.600 likes petite brunettes. No, that's Gary saying that. So looking 244 00:14:01.679 --> 00:14:05.879 back without his rose colored glasses, Gary admitted to E 245 00:14:06.120 --> 00:14:09.080 News that it was certainly a possibility Teresa was telling 246 00:14:09.159 --> 00:14:11.200 him what he wanted to hear. I felt like that 247 00:14:11.240 --> 00:14:18.360 could have been the case many times anyway. So as 248 00:14:18.360 --> 00:14:21.240 for his short lived romance to Teresa, I guess hindsight, 249 00:14:21.320 --> 00:14:23.559 being twenty twenty, I wish I would have seen those 250 00:14:23.600 --> 00:14:27.240 red flags. Those weren't even red flags. Gary shut up, 251 00:14:28.200 --> 00:14:30.240 he explained, But as much as the romance with his 252 00:14:30.360 --> 00:14:33.519 final rose recipient wilted, they really tried to make their 253 00:14:33.559 --> 00:14:34.759 love grow. 254 00:14:35.759 --> 00:14:38.759 Okay, my God, enough with like the rose. Okay, So 255 00:14:38.840 --> 00:14:41.279 I don't like when they like get off on a metaphor. 256 00:14:40.919 --> 00:14:42.919 You know, like I know, it's so stupid. 257 00:14:42.960 --> 00:14:46.440 It's the thorny, let's water this stop it. It's just 258 00:14:46.440 --> 00:14:50.440 one rose. Nobody cares. So here's some I'm just trying 259 00:14:50.440 --> 00:14:57.000 to see what to read first, because so now Teresa okay. 260 00:14:58.000 --> 00:15:00.440 Teresa Nist is ready to share her side of the 261 00:15:00.480 --> 00:15:05.000 story on the heels of Gary Turner's Tell All. She says, 262 00:15:05.279 --> 00:15:08.000 I am normally such a calm person and all I 263 00:15:08.039 --> 00:15:10.480 want is peace and joy and good things in my life. 264 00:15:10.600 --> 00:15:14.960 Teresa said, I have been so upset. I have been 265 00:15:15.080 --> 00:15:18.600 extremely upset. Anytime I talk about anything that I read 266 00:15:18.639 --> 00:15:21.720 that he said, about any interaction we had, I just go, 267 00:15:22.000 --> 00:15:23.320 that's not how it was. 268 00:15:25.480 --> 00:15:27.639 Okay. Then the course they go back to the story. 269 00:15:28.360 --> 00:15:31.759 While they initially claimed the split was mutual, they began, 270 00:15:32.039 --> 00:15:34.480 he said. She said in the media that has come 271 00:15:34.519 --> 00:15:38.440 to a head with Gary's new memoir. Ahead of the 272 00:15:38.440 --> 00:15:42.360 book's release, Gary exclusively told US Weekly that he thought 273 00:15:42.440 --> 00:15:47.240 Teresa quote should be worried about the contents and then 274 00:15:47.279 --> 00:15:49.799 she's saying that felt threatening to me. Why would he 275 00:15:49.840 --> 00:15:52.799 say something like that, Teresa said In response for him 276 00:15:52.799 --> 00:15:55.240 to say that, I have to say, was he not there? 277 00:15:55.600 --> 00:15:58.039 Does he not know the things he did? And that 278 00:15:58.240 --> 00:16:03.360 I would have so many things to say. In Teresa's perspective, 279 00:16:03.480 --> 00:16:06.320 there was a distance between her and Gary that began 280 00:16:06.559 --> 00:16:09.879 on her overnight date. It wasn't until the pair were 281 00:16:09.919 --> 00:16:12.799 in the fantasy suite and she began talking about her 282 00:16:12.919 --> 00:16:18.000 job that she felt the dynamic changed completely. Quote, he 283 00:16:18.080 --> 00:16:21.080 started proclaiming his love for me. He said, I love you, 284 00:16:21.159 --> 00:16:22.720 I love you, I love you, and I'm going to 285 00:16:22.759 --> 00:16:25.159 ask you to marry me, and whether or not you 286 00:16:25.240 --> 00:16:30.159 say yes, that's up to you. I was shocked, Teresa recalled, okay, 287 00:16:30.240 --> 00:16:33.240 And by the way, this is just me interjecting. We 288 00:16:33.559 --> 00:16:37.600 freaking called this because we said he was totally into 289 00:16:37.679 --> 00:16:40.039 Leslie until he found out that she made a fucking 290 00:16:40.080 --> 00:16:43.080 lot of money. Yeah, we all said that. Remember, we 291 00:16:43.080 --> 00:16:45.480 were like, it's so weird that turnaround that he did. 292 00:16:45.480 --> 00:16:47.440 And it was only after she talked about her job. 293 00:16:48.080 --> 00:16:50.799 I mean, he said to Leslie in her face, you're 294 00:16:50.840 --> 00:16:53.279 the one. Yes, see, I don't know I don't. I've 295 00:16:53.320 --> 00:16:55.159 never seen anything. I think that's so much worse than 296 00:16:55.159 --> 00:16:57.279 I love you because I love you. I say I 297 00:16:57.279 --> 00:16:58.399 love you to my Maleman. 298 00:16:58.720 --> 00:16:59.200 I really do. 299 00:16:59.279 --> 00:17:01.720 Honestly, I say it to him too, And I do 300 00:17:01.759 --> 00:17:05.480 love my mail man. Yes he's so hot because he's 301 00:17:05.680 --> 00:17:09.240 he's odd. I'm not gonna lie sometimes I just say 302 00:17:09.240 --> 00:17:10.880 it because it seems like he needs to hear it. 303 00:17:11.559 --> 00:17:12.359 But I'm just I love you. 304 00:17:12.440 --> 00:17:14.359 It's just like I love you, but you're the one 305 00:17:14.480 --> 00:17:17.720 in a competition. Is just that's fucking such a mind fuck. 306 00:17:17.839 --> 00:17:20.079 Oh yeah, I'm so right for him to like switch 307 00:17:20.119 --> 00:17:21.799 back and be like oh yeah, She's like yeah, by 308 00:17:21.839 --> 00:17:23.759 the way, we haven't mentioned this in like the four 309 00:17:23.799 --> 00:17:25.680 weeks we've been dating and we're about to get married. 310 00:17:25.720 --> 00:17:29.279 But yeah, I'm like a stock trader, yes or whatever, 311 00:17:29.680 --> 00:17:30.720 like what you know. 312 00:17:30.759 --> 00:17:34.000 What's funny too, is that we're complaining about mel who 313 00:17:34.079 --> 00:17:37.480 won't say anything. He's like, you know what, Honestly, neither 314 00:17:37.519 --> 00:17:38.240 of you are the one. 315 00:17:38.519 --> 00:17:40.960 Like I don't have to say I've got it Dave 316 00:17:41.000 --> 00:17:42.960 mail credit though when we were talking about it today, 317 00:17:43.000 --> 00:17:45.519 I was giving him credit or yesterday I was like, 318 00:17:45.680 --> 00:17:47.599 I actually appreciate that he doesn't lie. 319 00:17:47.799 --> 00:17:49.960 He refuses to play that game, and I kind of 320 00:17:50.240 --> 00:17:52.720 one thing right, But it's just so funny how opposite 321 00:17:52.759 --> 00:17:55.359 they are. I know Gary's telling both of them, I 322 00:17:55.400 --> 00:17:58.039 love you, You're it, You're it. Okay, so she's saying 323 00:17:58.079 --> 00:18:00.400 he started proclaiming his love to me, and I shock, 324 00:18:00.599 --> 00:18:04.000 Teresa recalled, noting that she thought Gary had a stronger 325 00:18:04.039 --> 00:18:09.440 connection with Leslie. Elsewhere in the podcast, Teresa denied Gary's 326 00:18:09.440 --> 00:18:12.920 allegations that she was reading a book to strategize. She 327 00:18:13.000 --> 00:18:15.920 said she listened to the first chapter, so then she 328 00:18:16.000 --> 00:18:19.519 repeats that part after ending. After ending the show engaged 329 00:18:19.519 --> 00:18:22.599 to Gary, Teresa claimed that there was one instance that 330 00:18:22.720 --> 00:18:26.599 alarmed her because of his alleged display of temper that 331 00:18:26.680 --> 00:18:30.599 she couldn't believe. Teresa explained that she tends to stay 332 00:18:30.680 --> 00:18:34.960 up to around midnight, whereas Gary prefers an earlier bedtime, 333 00:18:35.480 --> 00:18:39.039 and things were tense when the pair tried. Once tried 334 00:18:39.039 --> 00:18:40.759 to go to bed at seven thirty, and I have 335 00:18:40.880 --> 00:18:44.440 this in another seven thirty. I was up for like 336 00:18:44.480 --> 00:18:48.720 an hour. What. Yeah, I'm an early I'm an early 337 00:18:48.759 --> 00:18:52.480 bed person and that's insane. So I really think I 338 00:18:52.519 --> 00:18:55.680 have I'm going to come back to this because this 339 00:18:55.799 --> 00:19:00.000 part because there's more details about this. Okay, I'm gonna 340 00:19:00.119 --> 00:19:03.319 come back to that, So hold on, I have something else. Okay, 341 00:19:03.599 --> 00:19:06.640 So this is her on his temper. This is off 342 00:19:06.640 --> 00:19:11.480 of Reddit. He said. I mean, I'm going to give you. 343 00:19:11.559 --> 00:19:13.640 This is her talking on a podcast. She says, I'm 344 00:19:13.640 --> 00:19:15.880 going to give you one example. When he called me 345 00:19:15.920 --> 00:19:19.839 an East Coast snob. He called her an East Coast snob. 346 00:19:19.880 --> 00:19:21.640 I'm not going to get into nitty gritty, but I 347 00:19:21.680 --> 00:19:23.440 will tell you one little thing. I was at his 348 00:19:23.519 --> 00:19:26.480 house and he offered me a cold cut. Now, if 349 00:19:26.519 --> 00:19:29.079 anybody knows me, I don't eat cold cuts. I eat 350 00:19:29.119 --> 00:19:32.759 Mediterranean diet. I eat like such a healthy diet. And 351 00:19:32.799 --> 00:19:36.480 I just I said it like this. I said, oh no, Gary, 352 00:19:36.880 --> 00:19:38.960 thank you so much, but I don't eat cold cuts. 353 00:19:39.119 --> 00:19:41.119 And he goes, uh huh uh huh uh huh huh huh. 354 00:19:41.160 --> 00:19:43.720 And he said, you just insulted me. And I said, 355 00:19:43.759 --> 00:19:46.920 oh my god, why did I insult you? And he goes, 356 00:19:46.960 --> 00:19:50.599 you're an East Coast snob. I said, no, Gary, everybody 357 00:19:50.680 --> 00:19:53.160 on the East Coast eats cold cuts. I said, I'm 358 00:19:53.160 --> 00:19:56.240 the only one who doesn't. I said, my husband ate 359 00:19:56.319 --> 00:19:59.720 cold cuts all day long. Oh there's Oh, it's so 360 00:19:59.799 --> 00:20:03.240 much worse. This guy is a fucking asshole. And my 361 00:20:03.359 --> 00:20:05.920 husband ate opposite of me. I used to cook two 362 00:20:06.039 --> 00:20:08.839 meals like the first twenty years of my life, like, 363 00:20:09.039 --> 00:20:12.599 and I was a gourmet cook, like everything everything in town. Well, 364 00:20:12.799 --> 00:20:15.559 we'll get to the cooking. We'll get to the cooking, okay. 365 00:20:15.599 --> 00:20:17.400 So it was something like that. It was something silly 366 00:20:17.480 --> 00:20:20.519 like why am I East Coast because I don't like 367 00:20:20.599 --> 00:20:25.839 cold cuts. They're going back and forth, they're talking, and 368 00:20:25.880 --> 00:20:28.559 you said there was one instance where you meant well, 369 00:20:28.720 --> 00:20:35.440 and then he lashed out, Okay, what happened? Sure, sure, okay, okay, 370 00:20:35.519 --> 00:20:38.319 here's the story that one happened before we got married. 371 00:20:38.480 --> 00:20:41.400 So I usually go to bed at midnight, eleven thirty midnight. 372 00:20:41.519 --> 00:20:43.440 I learned Gary goes to bed at like nine or 373 00:20:43.519 --> 00:20:46.440 nine thirty. So there was a day that he had 374 00:20:46.440 --> 00:20:48.440 to get up really early, so he was going to 375 00:20:48.440 --> 00:20:51.480 bed at seven thirty. So I said, I'll keep you company. 376 00:20:52.640 --> 00:20:55.279 I'll go to bed with you, and we really went 377 00:20:55.279 --> 00:20:57.920 to bed. I earnestly tried to go to sleep. This 378 00:20:58.039 --> 00:21:00.599 is so relatable. He goes, I couldn't get to sleep, 379 00:21:00.720 --> 00:21:03.799 it's seven thirty. It's hard to fall asleep when it's 380 00:21:03.839 --> 00:21:06.240 too early for you. And I go to bed at midnight, 381 00:21:06.319 --> 00:21:08.799 so it's like almost five hours before I usually go 382 00:21:08.839 --> 00:21:11.680 to bed. So I saw he was sleeping. I said, good, 383 00:21:11.759 --> 00:21:15.400 he's peaceful, he's sleeping. Allget I try to relax and 384 00:21:15.440 --> 00:21:18.440 get tired. I went on social media. I'm eating my 385 00:21:18.519 --> 00:21:21.000 protein bar and I was up for like an hour 386 00:21:21.119 --> 00:21:23.039 and I was just about to go to sleep, and 387 00:21:23.200 --> 00:21:26.200 all of a sudden, he comes storming out of the bedroom, 388 00:21:27.079 --> 00:21:30.559 calling me a liar. You're a liar. You lied to me, 389 00:21:30.640 --> 00:21:33.279 You lied, And she says, I don't want to do 390 00:21:33.319 --> 00:21:35.799 it in his voice, but it was you lied to me. 391 00:21:35.880 --> 00:21:37.839 You lied to me. You said you were going to bed, 392 00:21:37.880 --> 00:21:38.839 but you didn't mean it. 393 00:21:39.720 --> 00:21:43.039 That's insane if that's true, And I said's true, Gary? 394 00:21:43.680 --> 00:21:46.279 No, I said no, Gary, I really tried to go 395 00:21:46.319 --> 00:21:49.079 to sleep. I couldn't. And now I was just about 396 00:21:49.079 --> 00:21:52.400 to get back in bed. A normal reaction from like 397 00:21:53.119 --> 00:21:55.720 somebody else would have been, oh you couldn't get to sleep. 398 00:21:56.000 --> 00:21:59.200 Oh yeah, okay, you know I just couldn't get to sleep. 399 00:21:59.200 --> 00:22:01.960 I didn't lie to him. Yeah, And then the person's 400 00:22:02.000 --> 00:22:04.680 going so it's really interpreting your actions in the worst, 401 00:22:04.680 --> 00:22:07.559