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<v Speaker 1>It's the Minnesota Goodbye, It's Friday. We're about to have

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<v Speaker 1>a three day weekend. I think we're all probably a

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<v Speaker 1>little excited for it. It's weird because I've been a

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<v Speaker 1>part of the show for a long time, so I've

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<v Speaker 1>had a very similar schedule for many years. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you get off your Christmas break, you come back

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<v Speaker 1>to work for a couple of weeks, then all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, you get a random Monday off, and then

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<v Speaker 1>in a month you get another random Monday off for

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<v Speaker 1>President's Day, and then you don't have anything for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time unless you use vacation. And it's like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to do a five day week for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple months straight.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, even you.

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<v Speaker 3>Though, like last year because this was like when I

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<v Speaker 3>joined the show, you took your week off in May

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<v Speaker 3>because you went to.

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<v Speaker 4>Where in March?

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<v Speaker 1>I did March because I went on a snowboarding trip.

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<v Speaker 1>I usually do like two snowboarding trips, And the last

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<v Speaker 1>couple of years, I've had two vacations like right away,

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<v Speaker 1>which I don't like in the beginning of the year

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<v Speaker 1>because I've had bachelorette parties that have been destination parties

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<v Speaker 1>on top of a snowboarding trip and so luckily this

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<v Speaker 1>year we are going snowboarding, but only for a few days,

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<v Speaker 1>will be gone at the end of March.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, what I want to know is there's I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if it's like the UK or just other countries period.

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<v Speaker 4>You know how much PTO they get.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's because they believe in people needing mental breaks.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, they do. They get they call it holiday.

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<v Speaker 3>They get like ten weeks like to start, weeks to

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<v Speaker 3>start what are your sources? And with our company, the

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<v Speaker 3>way it works, I think we've said this on the

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<v Speaker 3>radio before, it's like the more time you accrue at

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<v Speaker 3>like with iHeart, the more days you get off. But

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<v Speaker 3>to start you get like you get a half sick day.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, no, for sure, I didn't have.

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<v Speaker 6>I had one singular vacation day all of last year

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<v Speaker 6>when I started in May.

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<v Speaker 1>So we do a crew sick days pretty easily, but

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<v Speaker 1>we don't really use those because we try to show

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<v Speaker 1>up to work every day unless we are really really sick.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, I think in the first like handful of

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<v Speaker 1>years that I Heart, you get five days of vacation,

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<v Speaker 1>which it really isn't a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>I went, oh do you get ten.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh really, okay, well that's good sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for the first five years we get ten in

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<v Speaker 3>Oh and then after that, after another five years, you

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<v Speaker 3>get five more and so on and so forth.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I didn't know that for sum reason. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was only five. I can't remember anymore what it

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<v Speaker 1>was like when I first started.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it like?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't even remember.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyways, all right, we'll get to some emails and

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<v Speaker 1>buy some emails. I mean one because if we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really get many, which is fine, but feel free to

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<v Speaker 1>send them in. Dave's going to be back on Tuesday

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<v Speaker 1>because we're off on Monday. Like I said, So it

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<v Speaker 1>says last it was a few days ago. If somebody

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<v Speaker 1>had emailed them about what to put on their kids

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<v Speaker 1>jersey on the back of their jerseys because they were

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<v Speaker 1>kind of concerned about putting their child's name, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or if they put it nickname their last name.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>So this person says, good morning, my thoughts on kids

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<v Speaker 1>sports jerseys, Be a friend to the coach and put

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<v Speaker 1>the kid's first name. It's hard for coaches and parents

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<v Speaker 1>to remember all the names. Also, you will get so

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<v Speaker 1>many of these each season. Your kids play, they do

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<v Speaker 1>not get passed down to younger siblings. So it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't if you got their last name, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>it's not good like you're going to use that jersey

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<v Speaker 1>and for the younger sibling when they become that age

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<v Speaker 1>or something. So just put the first name that says

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<v Speaker 1>love you guys. That's from Rachelle. So hopefully that helps

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<v Speaker 1>the person who had emailed in about that earlier this week.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, wouldn't it be would have passed it down

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<v Speaker 3>to somebody else with the same first name either.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but they're saying you're not going to pass it

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<v Speaker 1>down period because when you do sports, you get a

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<v Speaker 1>new jersey anyways, so they're not gonna be.

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<v Speaker 5>Able to wear that same jersey, sure, is what they're saying.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's no point, So just put the first name

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<v Speaker 2>on it.

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<v Speaker 4>I still would have put the last name.

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<v Speaker 3>I went through this phase in like middle school where

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<v Speaker 3>you guys know, I love watching like Law and Order,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was I also watch a Chicago Fire, which

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<v Speaker 3>is a firefighters show. So I went through a phase

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<v Speaker 3>where I was calling people just by their last names, like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yo, has what up? Lutenberger?

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<v Speaker 6>Hey?

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<v Speaker 2>Ryan?

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<v Speaker 3>And I just feel like, because it's sports, I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>going to keep that going and just do the last name.

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<v Speaker 6>I always thought that was weird when people referred to

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<v Speaker 6>people as their last name, because they only ever did

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<v Speaker 6>that in Harry Potter, and I was just like, why

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<v Speaker 6>is he calling him malfoy?

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<v Speaker 2>That's his last name. That doesn't make any sense.

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<v Speaker 5>We used to call certain people by their last names.

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<v Speaker 2>It just depends. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it on what your last name was,

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<v Speaker 1>if it was a cool last name or not. Then

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<v Speaker 1>if it was like my yeah, my Lutenberger. Actually some

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<v Speaker 1>people did call me that. My US history teacher in

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<v Speaker 1>tenth grade, he called me Lutenberger all the time until

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<v Speaker 1>I got one hundred on one hundred percent on his quizzes.

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<v Speaker 1>And his tests were so hard because it was like

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<v Speaker 1>taking a college course. He would spew out so much

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<v Speaker 1>information and you had to study every single bit of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But he was one of my favorite teachers. But everyone

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<v Speaker 1>knew mister Walter was one of the hardest teachers. And

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<v Speaker 1>I got one hundred percent on one of his tests

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like the only ones. So he called

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<v Speaker 1>me queene because he started demean you the queen or

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<v Speaker 1>the King if she got like one hundred percent, So

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<v Speaker 1>then I got switched to Queenee, but then I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I ever got one hundred percent after that, so.

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<v Speaker 6>I was talking to So yesterday I went to the

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<v Speaker 6>Saturday Dumpling Company, which was delicious, with my friend Katie

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<v Speaker 6>Cap shout out Katie Cap. And we were talking about

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<v Speaker 6>our favorite teachers because we went to middle school and

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<v Speaker 6>high school together, so every time we're together, we always

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<v Speaker 6>end up talking a little bit about high school, and

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<v Speaker 6>we were talking about our favorite teachers, and similarly, like

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<v Speaker 6>you said, oh, this is a teacher everybody hates, but

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<v Speaker 6>you liked him. He was like one of your favorite teachers.

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<v Speaker 6>And we were talking about our favorite teachers and one

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<v Speaker 6>of my favorite teachers.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, that guy was such a creep.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh I hated that guy, and I was like, really,

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<v Speaker 6>he was my favorite teacher. But then she also like

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<v Speaker 6>hated the physics teacher and I loved him because he

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<v Speaker 6>let us watch The Big Bang Theory, and she was

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<v Speaker 6>like right, She's like, all I remember was that he

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<v Speaker 6>would he would keep like falling asleep in class and

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<v Speaker 6>we would be like, why are you falling asleep?

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like Oh sorry, I was just trying to

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<v Speaker 2>make a baby all night.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh god, And I remember that all the time.

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<v Speaker 6>She's like, I cannot believe that a teacher said that

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<v Speaker 6>to a bunch of like tenth.

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<v Speaker 5>Mile They would not get away with that nowadays.

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<v Speaker 2>Not nowadays.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I okay, So not to get into super creepy stories,

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<v Speaker 1>but I told Bailey and Dave the story. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't remember if you were in the studio vut when

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<v Speaker 1>this happened a couple of days ago. So I had

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<v Speaker 1>an our teacher in like seventh or eighth grade, and

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked him a lot. Like art, yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>I liked him a lot, but there was some rumors

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<v Speaker 1>that flew around that he had like makeup in his desk.

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<v Speaker 1>And nowadays that wouldn't you wouldn't really like necessarily blink

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<v Speaker 1>an eye on things like that. But back then it

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<v Speaker 1>he dress up at night?

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<v Speaker 2>Like it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it was just a different time that we

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<v Speaker 1>were like, we don't understand, and we were young, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I loved him. I thought he was great, but

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<v Speaker 1>like one time I was kind of like messing around

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<v Speaker 1>with him and one of my pieces of art. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted it to still be featured on this board, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was taking it down, so I grabbed it and

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<v Speaker 1>tried to put it back up there, like because I

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<v Speaker 1>was a little shit, but like also we had like

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<v Speaker 1>a fun like the class was fun, Like that was

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<v Speaker 1>shit we could do there, and he like grabbed it

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<v Speaker 1>and like pinned me to the table while he grabbed it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did the example on Bailey of what he did.

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<v Speaker 2>David arrested.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Dave was like, no, that is not okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I know it wasn't okay, and it kind

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<v Speaker 4>I should say, but I should react, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I do love him, and like whatever, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>is what it is. But it kind of like added

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<v Speaker 1>to the fact that he had makeup in his desk

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<v Speaker 1>that I kind of got a little creeped out by

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<v Speaker 1>him for this is weird. But then I forgot about

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<v Speaker 1>it because I was a kid and I was like, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know whatever, he's my teacher.

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<v Speaker 5>I like him, he's fun.

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<v Speaker 2>And now you're looking back on it, like that was weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, what grade was this, like seventh or eighth.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, my school was also the weird period where like

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<v Speaker 3>kids are grown enough to kind of know what's going on,

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<v Speaker 3>but also they just go along with things like not enough,

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<v Speaker 3>not developed enough to form their own opinions.

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<v Speaker 4>That's creepy, right.

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<v Speaker 3>I wish that I had not I wish, but like

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<v Speaker 3>it would have been so interesting to see when I

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<v Speaker 3>went to school a teacher that had some type of

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<v Speaker 3>scandal going on.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like so many people.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I mean, yeah, there were some There were some

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<v Speaker 1>bad scandals. I don't even want to get into it

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<v Speaker 1>because it's pretty morbid.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody died, but there was like a big scandal with

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<v Speaker 1>a teacher sleeping with a kid, and like.

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<v Speaker 2>This, Okay, that does not happen in mine.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The cliff notes version is he was like the cross

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<v Speaker 1>country teacher or coach slash math teacher. He was my

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<v Speaker 1>math teacher at one point too, and he slept with

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<v Speaker 1>one of his cross country girls and uh he you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to trial for it, all this stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was very, very very athletic, and one day

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<v Speaker 1>That's some kind of soap opera story you can tell

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<v Speaker 1>about your teachers.

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<v Speaker 6>if you asked him a question like about his life,

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<v Speaker 6>And he said, like he used to work in gosh,

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<v Speaker 6>And he said that they were right next to like

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<v Speaker 6>to grab this kid who's like flailing around and he's

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<v Speaker 6>but he had told this story like literally the entire

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<v Speaker 2>Like, uh huh huh, and then what happened. He's the dopest.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, though probably shouldn't be telling those stories very confidential

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<v Speaker 1>for what his job should.

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<v Speaker 5>Have been, right, I don't know. Yeah, that feels like

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<v Speaker 5>it breaks a lot of rules, maybe a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Who knows.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, there's a show on Peacock.

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<v Speaker 3>It's canceled now, but it's called One of Us Is

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<v Speaker 3>Lying and it's based off book and it's about these

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<v Speaker 3>five kids that go to detention, but in detention, one

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<v Speaker 3>of them dies, and so the four of them, the

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<v Speaker 3>other four kids are now suspects and it's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's based on a book.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I just said that, Oh did you?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh sorry?

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<v Speaker 4>And it's it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Good, but I always like wish again. Not really, but

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<v Speaker 3>it'd be just cool to just see something like this

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<v Speaker 3>play out as like a background character in real life, like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>what the fuck do those kids going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Like a Riverdale episode?

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, Riverdale like Euphoria I think are way too dramatic. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe I just went to a school where like all

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<v Speaker 3>this crazy shit was not going on where like Zendeo

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think there's plenty of people who did

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<v Speaker 1>the things on Euphoria, but I don't I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 5>So was it Riverdale a little more soap operay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Reverdale is like kind of it's more like supernatural, kind

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<v Speaker 6>like things that are happening in Reverdel that would never

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<v Speaker 2>But it's a comic book, so it makes sense. Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but yeah, Euphoria, I remember watching all of that

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<v Speaker 6>and just being like, is this what people were like?

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<v Speaker 6>And I just was never invited to these parties? What's happening?

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<v Speaker 6>But I don't think it actually happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, I mean, I think that U four

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<v Speaker 5>But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I definitely went to some sketchy situations when

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<v Speaker 1>I was in high school, and I remember going Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I do not partake in drugs, never have, never will,

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<v Speaker 1>but I remember going to this one party and my

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<v Speaker 1>friend Pete Barts was tripping on acid and he was

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<v Speaker 1>having a really bad trip and his jaw was going

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<v Speaker 1>like all over the all over the place. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like he was talking to me, but he was like, Jenny,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm freaking out right now, and his jaw was going everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, Pete, you're fine, You're fine, You're

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<v Speaker 5>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyways, that scared me enough to be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never ever even like look at acid. So that

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<v Speaker 1>was a lesson for me, I guess. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely listen. I was a good kid and I went

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<v Speaker 1>to school and I got good grades. But I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>I should to ben in.

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<v Speaker 5>My mom would absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Die if she knew some of the shit that I

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<v Speaker 1>did when I was younger, Like, she would die.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to ask you a question, but I kind

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<v Speaker 3>of want to pitch it as a topic for the

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<v Speaker 3>actual show.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure have you how often were you guys skipping school?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 4>Never?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, see that's what I'm saying, Like I was a

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<v Speaker 4>Well, and maybe this is something we could do on

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<v Speaker 4>the show next week.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I used to skip class a lot, and I

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<v Speaker 3>want to know how some people got caught, So, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I would love for parents or even like people just

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<v Speaker 3>to say how my mom caught me. Like twelfth grade,

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<v Speaker 3>Me and at the time girlfriend used to skip class

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<v Speaker 3>all the time to.

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<v Speaker 4>Go home and study growth.

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<v Speaker 3>And I got away with it because I was part

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<v Speaker 3>of like so many clubs and things that I would

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<v Speaker 3>just tell my teachers that I was skipping. I'd be like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I have to go do this for orchestra, we have rehearsal,

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<v Speaker 3>or like I have to go to this other campus

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<v Speaker 3>to take photos for yearbook or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>And we would go to my.

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<v Speaker 3>Mom's house all the time, and my room was in

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<v Speaker 3>the basement, even if my mom wasn't home or was

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<v Speaker 3>home or whatever, like we'd somehow get away with it.

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<v Speaker 3>My mom never found that out until maybe until a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of months ago, I think we I said that

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<v Speaker 3>as a father Dave on the show, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, She's like, what the heck?

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<v Speaker 3>But I would love But there's so many because like

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<v Speaker 3>life three sixties a thing, or like find my iPhone

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<v Speaker 3>and parents like that tried to track their kids now.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, or even like from people I would like to

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<v Speaker 6>hear from people like way back when, like how did

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<v Speaker 6>they get before all those things?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what were you doing, even if it wasn't to

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<v Speaker 3>go home and just you know, do that shit like

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<v Speaker 3>maybe some kids got caught like at the corner store

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<v Speaker 3>smoking cigarettes or some shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, never me.

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<v Speaker 6>Literally anytime they would even have like not once we

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<v Speaker 6>even had in high school it was like below for

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<v Speaker 6>it's like super cold, like negative thirty, and they made

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<v Speaker 6>school optional and I went to school, so I never

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<v Speaker 6>I went the opposite direction instead of skipping, I would

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<v Speaker 6>go on an optional day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, Bailey was kind of reminiscing over some feelings

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<v Speaker 1>she had yesterday when you were at the high school.

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<v Speaker 1>And normally we would read emails on this. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to like ignore one emails, we just don't have

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<v Speaker 1>any new ones. So that's why we've kind of turned

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<v Speaker 1>this into a Johnny Kathy, Bailey, Jenny talk about whatever

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<v Speaker 5>But Bailey were, so.

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<v Speaker 2>I work at a high school.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm a coach for a speech team and I've done

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<v Speaker 6>it for eleven years and it's really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it a lot. And every time I'm like.

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<v Speaker 6>With the students, I just feel like energized and like

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<v Speaker 6>having conversations with them where they're like, you know, forming

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<v Speaker 6>better writer, researcher.

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<v Speaker 2>All that stuff. It's just like something that just brings

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<v Speaker 6>So then every time I leave and I walk alone

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<v Speaker 6>to be alone in my apartment with my cat, and

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<v Speaker 6>I always on my way to my car see parents

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<v Speaker 6>walking in with their kids of various ages, Like either

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<v Speaker 6>they're carrying like a Duffel bag, or it's like parent

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<v Speaker 6>teacher conferences and they've got two parents with the kid

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<v Speaker 6>who's all walking in and talking about what teachers are

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<v Speaker 6>going to go see or whatever. And like watching these

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<v Speaker 6>like parents walk in with their kids, I just look

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<v Speaker 6>at the kids and I'm like, oh, that must be nice.

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<v Speaker 3>That would be nice, Like you're like what your parent

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<v Speaker 3>walking you in?

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<v Speaker 2>No, like it would be nice to have a kid.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, And I but it's like a weird, a weird

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<v Speaker 6>feeling for me because I don't like babies, like period,

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<v Speaker 6>and I feel like as long as you're wearing a diaper,

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<v Speaker 6>you're a baby to me.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't want to change diapers.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to not know how to communicate with

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<v Speaker 6>a child, and if you're a baby, I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>how to communicate with you. But I like kids, but

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<v Speaker 6>obviously you can't like get pregnant and have a five

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<v Speaker 6>year old, Like that's not how it works. And also

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<v Speaker 6>like I am dating someone, but I'm not we're not serious,

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<v Speaker 6>Like I don't have any prospects of getting married and

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<v Speaker 6>having a baby. Even if I met someone today, like

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<v Speaker 6>it would still be like two years before I could

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<v Speaker 6>potentially even like birth a child, and I don't really

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<v Speaker 6>want to, but I want a kid really bad and

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<v Speaker 6>not really bad. Anyway, It's it's a weird, it's a

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<v Speaker 6>complicated situation. So yeah, anyway, it was just a weird

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<v Speaker 6>thing that I experienced yesterday and I experience often when

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<v Speaker 6>I see parents with children. And I posted about it

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<v Speaker 6>on my Instagram baileyon air and people were reaching out

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<v Speaker 6>and they were like, oh, you should be like a

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<v Speaker 6>big sister for like big sister, big brother kind of thing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that, Yeah they do.

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<v Speaker 6>But then also like with that, it's kind of like

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<v Speaker 6>your an aunt where you like show up, do a

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<v Speaker 6>fun thing and then leave and I kind of romanticize

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<v Speaker 6>like the mundane stuff like bringing my kid to an

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<v Speaker 6>like a parent teacher conference kind of situation. But then

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<v Speaker 6>people are like, you could do it, you can adopt,

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<v Speaker 6>you can foster, and I'm just not at a place

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<v Speaker 6>right now where i could do any of that, but

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<v Speaker 6>it is something that i'd be like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 6>it'd be nice to have a kid in general. You know,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if you feel the same way. Jenny,

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<v Speaker 6>as like someone who is in their early to mid

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<v Speaker 6>thirties who still doesn't have like the things that everybody

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<v Speaker 6>around you has, and you're like, hmm, well, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean my thoughts on kids are a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually like kids in the baby phase much more

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<v Speaker 1>than I will probably once they become like four or five.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I kind of think kids get to be a

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<v Speaker 1>little annoying. But sure, I know so many people who

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<v Speaker 1>have said I felt the same way about kids until

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<v Speaker 1>they were my own, Like I found kids annoying too

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<v Speaker 1>until they were my own. So I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really look at anyone with kids and think like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I want that, or oh maybe I'll never have that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have those feelings, but I do also obviously

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<v Speaker 1>I have Andrew as a partner so like, if we

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<v Speaker 1>decided to have kids, honestly, we probably would not go

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<v Speaker 1>to the traditional route like we could if all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden we decided we want kids, we would have

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<v Speaker 1>them tomorrow without getting married right now, Like we don't care.

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<v Speaker 4>So oh, that's what you mean by traditional route, Like you.

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<v Speaker 5>Would like the whole, like you get married, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>You wouldn't have it your own, you would just adopt.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I mean yeah, I mean there's no part

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<v Speaker 1>of me that ever wants to be pregnant that I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a huge, huge thing for me, and I've like

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<v Speaker 1>not to get into like the nitty gritty of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But the reason for that for me is, honestly, it

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<v Speaker 1>has a lot to do with my mental health. I

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<v Speaker 1>am very, very scared for what will happen to me

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<v Speaker 1>mentally if I were to be pregnant, because I deal

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<v Speaker 1>with some issues and you know, like being pregnant already

480
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<v Speaker 1>screws up a whole little bit and it has you

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<v Speaker 1>all over the place emotionally, and I just don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how I will react, just because I deal with some

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<v Speaker 1>really bad anxiety issues.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't really want to be pregnant. I'm not really scared

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<v Speaker 1>of the thought of pushing a baby out. Do I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do that? No, that's not the part of

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<v Speaker 1>pregnancy that scares me. It's honestly the emotions that I

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<v Speaker 1>could potentially go through because of it. So yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>my thoughts on it.

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<v Speaker 3>Whening you get in pregnant, I just feel like Jenny,

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<v Speaker 3>you love them in the baby stage.

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<v Speaker 4>Bailey doesn't want to do diapers. Why don't you guys

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<v Speaker 4>have a kid together.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll have a kid together, Jenna over the.

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<v Speaker 3>First three years, and then when it starts having a

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<v Speaker 3>mind of its own, Bailey.

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<v Speaker 6>You, once you potty train it, I'll take it, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>I just don't want to change diapers period.

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<v Speaker 3>Anytime I've talked to me and Alyssa, funny enough, recently,

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<v Speaker 3>there's been a lot of baby talk looming in the air,

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<v Speaker 3>and I came home one day and I.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like, just something we want to talk about? Is

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<v Speaker 4>something want to tell me it's gonna happen?

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<v Speaker 3>I will, I know for a fact in the next

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<v Speaker 3>I will say four years, because Alyssa is not much

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<v Speaker 3>older but two years older than me, but so like transparently,

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<v Speaker 3>like she knows like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess what fertility clock.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she talks.

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<v Speaker 3>About that, and I know that I want kids, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm glad that the listen and I are on the

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<v Speaker 3>same page. But we just like Ulyssa just got here

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<v Speaker 3>six months ago, like literally, think like last week made

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<v Speaker 3>six months.

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<v Speaker 4>We still have so much to do before we like.

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<v Speaker 3>Tied, like sit down and settle online, right and exactly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and I just having a kid as a like you said, Bailey,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to. I'm not a big like change

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<v Speaker 3>diaper's kid guy, or I'm not me and a list

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<v Speaker 3>are not ready to give up our sleep.

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<v Speaker 4>Or yeah, you know shit like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Your whole life changes, it does, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And like I feel like my life has already changed

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<v Speaker 3>so much in the past year and a half, right,

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<v Speaker 3>Like March will be a year for me on this show,

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<v Speaker 3>which is already like I'm still adjusting to that. And

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<v Speaker 3>she liked that and then being a list of being

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<v Speaker 3>here a new job, but there was a grander point

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<v Speaker 3>that I was going to make and I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>lost it. But yeah, I am going to have kids,

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<v Speaker 3>I wondered. I'm gonna tell you, guys, how did Dave

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well, no, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Dave Ason, you were here back then yeah, and gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even remember what Palin Wellen told me before

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<v Speaker 1>it was announced on the radio. I don't remember how

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<v Speaker 1>she even said it on the radio, though, but because

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<v Speaker 1>I had known for a little bit already for.

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<v Speaker 5>You, no, yeah, I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she made a big deal about it,

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<v Speaker 1>because she never She wasn't really she didn't want kids

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<v Speaker 1>for a while and then she changed her mind on that,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I think it was kind of just like

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<v Speaker 1>a oh, by the way, I'm pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>Right sort of by the way.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, if you have any thoughts on that,

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<v Speaker 1>feel free to email us Ryan Show at katiewb dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Dave's going to be back next week. We are off

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<v Speaker 1>on Monday, though, just a heads up, so there will

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<v Speaker 1>not be a new Minnesota goodbye then, but thanks for listening,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope you enjoy your weekend.
