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<v Speaker 1>You know, we really live in a world that's full

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<v Speaker 1>of competing beliefs and values and choices, and what you

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<v Speaker 1>believe shapes how you live and ultimately who you become.

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<v Speaker 1>But the good news is God hasn't left us to

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<v Speaker 1>figure it all out alone.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, today, on Pastor Rick's Daily Hope, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to continue our series Reframing Your Worldview, where Rick Warren

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<v Speaker 1>unpacks powerful truths from God's Word to help you see

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<v Speaker 1>life clearly and live it with confidence and purpose. And

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<v Speaker 1>now here's Pastor Rick with the final part of a

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<v Speaker 1>message called how did the world get so messed Up?

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<v Speaker 3>You know how a parent grieves when they see their

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<v Speaker 3>child messing up, and they see their child really blowing

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<v Speaker 3>their life. Multiply that a zillion times with God going,

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<v Speaker 3>I created them, I love them, And they're walking away

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<v Speaker 3>like they don't even know, and they're hurting each other,

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<v Speaker 3>and they're abusing each other, and they're being mean to

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<v Speaker 3>each other, and they're killing each.

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<v Speaker 2>Other, and on and on.

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<v Speaker 3>Somebody who finally came to Christ after putting up with

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of pain, don't want you to hear her story?

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<v Speaker 2>Would you give her a warm welcome?

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<v Speaker 4>I was born three months premature with some physical deformities,

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<v Speaker 4>so growing up I felt different than everyone else. My

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<v Speaker 4>mom tried to make me feel special, but her actions

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<v Speaker 4>instead made me feel inferior. Mom was always on a

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<v Speaker 4>diet and continually took appetite suppressants. Since I wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>be beautiful like my mom, I started taking them too.

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<v Speaker 4>At the age of five, I was already controlling my

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<v Speaker 4>food intake and headed for a life of anorexia. I

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<v Speaker 4>would take the meat on my dinner plate and put

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<v Speaker 4>it under my booster seat because it had fat on it.

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<v Speaker 4>Growing up, I never got to see what healthy relationship

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<v Speaker 4>look like. All my relationships were pretty much shallow and

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<v Speaker 4>superficial and broken. I could give you plenty of evidence

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<v Speaker 4>that we live in a fallen world. My parents fought

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<v Speaker 4>a lot. Then my dad abandoned our family for another woman.

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<v Speaker 4>After that, my mom would drink and take out her

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<v Speaker 4>anger on us kids with violent behavior. Many times I

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<v Speaker 4>felt helpless, abandoned, depressed, guilty, and scared. In school, my

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<v Speaker 4>brother and I learned to stop, drop and roll during

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<v Speaker 4>a fire, so we used that same technique at home

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<v Speaker 4>to protect ourselves from our mother's blows. As mom's drinking worsened.

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<v Speaker 4>I felt I needed to take control of our family.

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<v Speaker 4>I would sneak change out of my mom's wallet, ride

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<v Speaker 4>my bike to the corner store, buy dinner, and then

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<v Speaker 4>sneak the change back into my mom's wallet before she

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<v Speaker 4>would wake up. Eventually, my brother and I went to

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<v Speaker 4>live with my dad's stepmom and three stepbrothers, but I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't learn anything about healthy relationships there either. I became

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<v Speaker 4>the object of my older stepbrother's abuse and meanness, with

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<v Speaker 4>such pranks as flushing my hamster down the toilet and

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<v Speaker 4>putting my cat in the freezer alive. I felt violated

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<v Speaker 4>and angry. I became a prisoner in my own home,

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<v Speaker 4>running as fast as I could to my bedroom when

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<v Speaker 4>I got home from school and wouldn't come out except

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<v Speaker 4>for dinner. When my mom remarried, I was finally able

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<v Speaker 4>to move back in with her. In high school, I

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<v Speaker 4>engaged in many shallow relationships based on physical appearance. It

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<v Speaker 4>didn't matter if the boys were drug addicts, alcoholics, or

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<v Speaker 4>only wanted sex. I dated them if they were cute.

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<v Speaker 4>When my brother became very good looking, I noticed that

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<v Speaker 4>girls befriended me to get to him and When the

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<v Speaker 4>kids at school learned that we had some famous relatives,

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<v Speaker 4>they all wanted to be our friends. These experiences confirmed

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<v Speaker 4>my inner feelings that no one really liked me for me.

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<v Speaker 4>My fear of rejection made me feel very insecure and

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<v Speaker 4>defensive in my search for an authentic relationship as a

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<v Speaker 4>broken person in a broken world. I met my husband

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<v Speaker 4>not long after graduating high school. He was tall, gorgeous, athletic,

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<v Speaker 4>and very quiet. As we did Ken made derogatory comments

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<v Speaker 4>about me. This reconfirmed my low self image and feelings

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<v Speaker 4>of being different, deformed, and ugly, but I hid these

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<v Speaker 4>fears beneath a mask of being fun, hilarious, and outgoing.

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<v Speaker 4>I felt that I could earn his love this way

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<v Speaker 4>since I had found conditional acceptance in the workplace as

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<v Speaker 4>an overachiever and boss pleaser. So I tried my best

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<v Speaker 4>to impress Ken. But three months after we moved in together,

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<v Speaker 4>I caught Ken and a lie and he admitted he

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<v Speaker 4>had cheated on me. I was heartbroken and furious, but

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't end the relationship. We eventually got married, but

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<v Speaker 4>we both wore masks to hide our weaknesses from each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Our relationship was shallow and superficial. I controlled everything. One

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<v Speaker 4>day I told Ken it was time to have children.

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<v Speaker 4>I figured that was what was missing in our relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>But during my pregnancy I gained a lot of weight

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<v Speaker 4>and four of my teeth fell out. Ken became disgusted

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<v Speaker 4>with my appearance and turned to pornographic videos that only

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<v Speaker 4>made me feel more inferior, ugly, and unacceptable. Ken told

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<v Speaker 4>me how unhappy he was and how it was all

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<v Speaker 4>my fault, but he agreed to go to marriage counseling.

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<v Speaker 4>After four months of counseling, Ken admitted he was having

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<v Speaker 4>another affair. I hit bottom. I was in shock and

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<v Speaker 4>lost all sense of reality. That depressing night, I was

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<v Speaker 4>completely emptied of myself. I asked God to fill my

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<v Speaker 4>empty body with himself and to show me where I

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<v Speaker 4>could learn about Jesus. The following Sunday, I took Lauren,

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<v Speaker 4>our daughter now too, to find Jesus. Right down the

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<v Speaker 4>street from our home was a large church. As I

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<v Speaker 4>made my way up the driveway, I kept yelling to God,

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<v Speaker 4>are you sure this is where you want me to go?

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<v Speaker 4>As I entered the worship center. Here at Saddleback, the

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<v Speaker 4>music was beautiful. Pastor Rick had planned a message on

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<v Speaker 4>building better relationships and sex and marriage. This service was

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<v Speaker 4>just for me. I tried to write down everything being said,

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<v Speaker 4>but there wasn't enough room on the bulletin. I saw

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<v Speaker 4>there was a tape table and got that day's message.

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<v Speaker 4>Ken listened to it at home, but said it was

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<v Speaker 4>too late. He said, if only I had found out

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<v Speaker 4>about this church sooner, things may have been different. I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't agree. I knew i'd found a home at Saddleback.

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<v Speaker 4>Ken and I did try counseling once more through a

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<v Speaker 4>lay counselor here at Saddleback, but Ken said there was

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<v Speaker 4>no hope of keeping our marriage together.

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<v Speaker 5>He was in love with his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>He said that he had actually been with her for

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<v Speaker 4>four of the six years we were married. A few

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<v Speaker 4>days later, in Class one oh one here at Saddleback,

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<v Speaker 4>I reflected on this and thought, I hate men, all men.

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<v Speaker 4>I am never going to make myself vulnerable to another

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<v Speaker 4>man again, and I am never going to trust another

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<v Speaker 4>man as long as I live.

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<v Speaker 5>But before I could finish.

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<v Speaker 4>That thought, Pastor Brett said, everybody, look up here. Your

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<v Speaker 4>father in Heaven loves you. He wants you to put

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<v Speaker 4>all your trust in one man, Jesus Christ who died

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<v Speaker 4>on the cross so you could live forever with him.

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<v Speaker 4>I knew God had spoken to me At that very moment.

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<v Speaker 4>I committed my life to Christ and I was baptized.

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<v Speaker 4>The following weekend. At my baptism, Pastor Brett told me

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<v Speaker 4>that Master John of celebrate Recovery would be baptizing me.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought, I can't imagine being in recovery, let alone

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<v Speaker 4>being able to celebrate it. There were just too many

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<v Speaker 4>painful experiences in my life. The following week Ken decided

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<v Speaker 4>to leave me and stay with his girlfriend. I felt helpless,

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<v Speaker 4>completely rejected, and I fell into a very deep depression.

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<v Speaker 4>In despair, I bought two bottles of sleeping pills to

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<v Speaker 4>end it all. Relationships just weren't worth the pain, I thought.

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<v Speaker 4>But then I got a call from the lay counselor

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<v Speaker 4>whom Ken and I had seen a month before. He

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<v Speaker 4>said he was following up on our visit at the

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<v Speaker 4>lowest point in my life. He was like an angel

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<v Speaker 4>sent from God to me. I told him I had

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<v Speaker 4>been baptized and that Ken had moved out. I did

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<v Speaker 4>not tell him I was going to kill myself right then.

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<v Speaker 4>He said he was so sorry about Ken. And that

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<v Speaker 4>he had been praying for us. I could not believe

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<v Speaker 4>that this person we saw maybe two times was praying

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<v Speaker 4>for us. God was reminding me that even though I'd

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<v Speaker 4>been rejected by my husband, that God loved me, that

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<v Speaker 4>my life does matter, and that God did not want

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<v Speaker 4>me dead.

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<v Speaker 5>He was not finished with my life.

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<v Speaker 4>The next day, I decided to attend celebrate recovery here

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<v Speaker 4>at Saddlebach for the first time. I cried all night

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<v Speaker 4>that first night, but one lady, Debby, gave me a

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<v Speaker 4>big hug and told me she was exactly where I

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<v Speaker 4>was two years prior. Another woman, Lisa, gave me a

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<v Speaker 4>hug and a phone list of our small group. She

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<v Speaker 4>said I could call her any time. I taped my

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<v Speaker 4>small group's phone list on my kitchen cabinet and thanked

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<v Speaker 4>God for twenty women who knew exactly what I was feeling.

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<v Speaker 4>I was no longer alone in my small group. I

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<v Speaker 4>began to learn about what it takes to build a

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<v Speaker 4>deep relationship with Jesus and healthy relationships with others. I

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<v Speaker 4>learned about how our fears keep us from being authentic

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<v Speaker 4>with each other, and how to break.

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<v Speaker 5>Down the walls of isolation.

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<v Speaker 4>Slowly, God began to replace unhealthy beliefs and reactions with

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<v Speaker 4>healthy ones. For the first six months, I continued in

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<v Speaker 4>a deep depression and a huge pity party, but everyone

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<v Speaker 4>in my small group just kept loving me unconditionally. I

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<v Speaker 4>had a difficult time understanding this because it was the

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<v Speaker 4>first time that I had experienced unconditional love. Based on

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<v Speaker 4>Pastor Rick's list of the results of living in a

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<v Speaker 4>fallen world, I guess you could say that I was

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<v Speaker 4>batting one thousand percent. I experienced them all. Disasters, deformities,

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<v Speaker 4>decay and death, distress and disappointment, distance and discord in relationships,

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<v Speaker 4>discontent with my life, and spiritual darkness. But I am

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<v Speaker 4>so grateful to Jesus Christ for this church family and

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<v Speaker 4>my recovery small group. My small group has been a

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<v Speaker 4>safe place to develop healthy relationships and recover from the

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<v Speaker 4>effects of sin in my past. As a result, I've

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<v Speaker 4>seen so many of my broken relationships restored, including with

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<v Speaker 4>my mom, my dad, my stepmom, one of my stepbrothers,

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<v Speaker 4>and my own brother and sister in law. And God

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<v Speaker 4>has used me to help them too. A few years ago,

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<v Speaker 4>I gave my test ammonia at celebrate recovery. That very night,

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<v Speaker 4>my stepdad had a heart attack. Two days later, my

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<v Speaker 4>stepsister and I went to visit him, and I was

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<v Speaker 4>able to pray with him and lead him to Christ.

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<v Speaker 4>I know now that Jesus will never leave me or

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<v Speaker 4>reject me. He loves me unconditionally, and with the security

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<v Speaker 4>that comes from that kind of love, I would no

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<v Speaker 4>longer run or hide from my feelings. Of course, I

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<v Speaker 4>still struggle with issues, but I remember this is not heaven,

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<v Speaker 4>which is perfect. It's Earth where we are getting ready

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<v Speaker 4>for heaven. I'm grateful that God gave me a choice,

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<v Speaker 4>showed me my need for a savior, and demonstrated his

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<v Speaker 4>grace to me. Enclosing, I'd like to share three Bible

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<v Speaker 4>verses that describe how Jesus Christ has transformed my life.

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<v Speaker 4>Psalm one sixteen eight says you, O, Lord, have delivered

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<v Speaker 4>my soul from death, my eyes from tears, and my

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<v Speaker 4>feet from stumbling. Zephaniah three seventeen says the Lord, your

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<v Speaker 4>God is with you. He is mighty to save. He

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<v Speaker 4>will take great delight in you. He will quiet you

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<v Speaker 4>with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing

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<v Speaker 4>and Psalm thirty one fourteen says Lord, I trust you.

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<v Speaker 4>I have said you are my God, and my life

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<v Speaker 2>In the Bible, Jesus is often.

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<v Speaker 3>The Lamb of God takes away that sin. There was

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<v Speaker 3>They'd been faithful believers all through all all that persecution

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<v Speaker 2>The Lamb one, the Lamb one God is allowing.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything to continue because he is the Lamb of God

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<v Speaker 2>So how should I respond? Write these down real quick?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just going to mention themnumber one, since God is

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<v Speaker 3>his grace. First, receive God's grace daily. Receive it daily.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't need grace just to be saved and get

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<v Speaker 3>the sin of one man, that's Adam. Death began to

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody else is in the same boat. But now how

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<v Speaker 3>much greater is the result of what one other man,

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<v Speaker 3>all who receive God's abundant grace are freely put right

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<v Speaker 3>with him and will rule in life through Christ. If

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<v Speaker 3>you haven't received that grace, you do it before you

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<v Speaker 3>leave today. Number two, Remember this place is temporary. This

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing you see is gonna last.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm here on earth for just a little while, thank God,

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<v Speaker 3>with all the pain that's in it. And this world

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<v Speaker 3>is not our home. We're looking forward to our everlasting

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<v Speaker 3>God's taking us to a place a whole lot better.

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<v Speaker 3>Now you look at the Word and think this is

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<v Speaker 2>My needs are not being met.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm just going to go out ignore what God says,

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<v Speaker 3>to meet my needs. And God says, that's a major mistake.

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<v Speaker 3>The Bible says this, my people have done two evil things.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm the source of your life, and I'm here to

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<v Speaker 2>And you reject that, and you.

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<v Speaker 3>Turn, you go after brackish cistern water which can't even

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<v Speaker 2>Come to me now.

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<v Speaker 3>If you have not released your needs to God, you

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<v Speaker 2>So I want us to bow our heads and we're

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<v Speaker 3>You know the heart of every person here, and you

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<v Speaker 2>In our lives.

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<v Speaker 3>You know the pain, You know the suffering, You know

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<v Speaker 3>And so I pray that today many will open their

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<v Speaker 3>I want to be in your family before you shut

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<v Speaker 3>you pray, say, Dear God, I open my life to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for loving me, thank you for creating me.

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<v Speaker 2>In your name, I pray Amen. There's one other thing

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm waiting on you to tell them. The Bible

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<v Speaker 3>and it wasn't worth I'll tell you. Let me tell

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<v Speaker 3>Rick and I hope you enjoyed today's broadcast. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>if you just prayed that prayer for the very first time,

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<v Speaker 3>or you just recommitted your life to Jesus again today,

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<v Speaker 3>would you let me know about it. There's something real

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<v Speaker 3>about sharing your commitment. So write me Rick at pastor

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<v Speaker 3>Rick dot com and say, Rick, I prayed that prayer

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<v Speaker 3>of commitment, I gave my life to Christ. And I'll

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<v Speaker 3>send you some material that will help you on your

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<v Speaker 3>bless you.

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<v Speaker 1>What a great message from Pastor Rick today. There's something

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<v Speaker 1>I always take away from his message. Now here's Rick

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<v Speaker 1>with today's offer.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I've been a pastor for over three decades,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've been teaching the Word of God for over

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<v Speaker 3>four decades. And in all of that time, the number

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<v Speaker 3>one question I've been asked by people is this, how

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<v Speaker 3>can I change? Or why can't I change? I've talked

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<v Speaker 3>to literally thousands and thousands of people who want to

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<v Speaker 3>change but are just stuck and they can't figure out

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<v Speaker 3>how to get unstuck. You know, the truth is you

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<v Speaker 3>can't change on your own because will power alone isn't

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<v Speaker 3>enough to make permanent changes. Sure, you can force yourself

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<v Speaker 3>to change for a month or two months, but pretty

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<v Speaker 3>soon you're going to go back to your old ways.

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<v Speaker 3>Pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps is not enough.

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<v Speaker 3>Talking yourself into a change by positive thinking is not enough.

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<v Speaker 3>The Bible says, true transformational change only comes through the

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<v Speaker 3>power of God inside you. So let me ask your

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<v Speaker 3>personal question, how do you want to be different at

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<v Speaker 3>the end of this year? What changes would you like

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<v Speaker 3>to make in your life? What goals would you like

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<v Speaker 3>to see accomplished in your life. Well, it isn't going

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<v Speaker 3>to happen on your own. You're going to need God's

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<v Speaker 3>power and I want you to understand how to plug

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<v Speaker 3>in to God's power. That's why I'm sending out God's

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<v Speaker 3>Power to Change your Life, a book that I've written.

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<v Speaker 3>When you give a financial gift to support Daily Hope

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<v Speaker 3>percent supported by listeners. We have no other outside source

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<v Speaker 3>of income. It's supported by your gifts. And when you

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<v Speaker 3>give to support this ministry this month, I want to

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<v Speaker 3>give back to you this book, God's Power to Change

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<v Speaker 3>your Life. Thanks a lot for listening today, and thanks

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<v Speaker 3>for helping support Daily Hope. We love you, We thank

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<v Speaker 3>God for you, and we hope you'll continue to listen

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<v Speaker 3>to this broadcast as we look into God's word for

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<v Speaker 3>our daily hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Go to Pastorick dot com to get your copy of

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<v Speaker 1>this great resource. That's Pastorick dot com. Or you could

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<v Speaker 1>just text the word hope to seven oh three to

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<v Speaker 1>to oh nine. This program is sponsored by Pastor Rick's

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<v Speaker 1>Daily hope and your generous financial support
