WEBVTT 1 00:00:09.000 --> 00:00:12.839 Hello, and welcome to Psychic Teachers. I'm your host Samantha Fay. 2 00:00:13.160 --> 00:00:14.480 And I'm Deb Bowen. 3 00:00:14.679 --> 00:00:17.480 And today we're coming to you with our monthly question 4 00:00:17.640 --> 00:00:21.440 and answer show. We have some wonderful questions and of 5 00:00:21.480 --> 00:00:24.480 course some fabulous stories to share with you. Just as 6 00:00:24.519 --> 00:00:26.440 a reminder, if you want to share a story or 7 00:00:26.519 --> 00:00:30.320 question with Psychic Teachers, just email us Psychic Teachers at 8 00:00:30.440 --> 00:00:33.359 gmail dot com. Deb you want to start us. 9 00:00:33.280 --> 00:00:39.640 Off absolutely, This first question says Swen is approaching. That 10 00:00:39.759 --> 00:00:41.679 means Halloween for those of you who may not be 11 00:00:41.719 --> 00:00:44.759 familiar with that term. And I asked my father for 12 00:00:44.840 --> 00:00:49.039 a sign. I ask for something specific. When I was 13 00:00:49.079 --> 00:00:52.079 a little girl, my father would play guitar and sing 14 00:00:52.119 --> 00:00:55.520 me a song about shoes. It was my favorite that 15 00:00:55.600 --> 00:00:58.719 he sang to me. It was our connection when I 16 00:00:58.799 --> 00:01:01.439 was a child. I asked him to send me a 17 00:01:01.520 --> 00:01:05.719 sign that I would be okay in these uncertain times. 18 00:01:06.480 --> 00:01:12.439 Anxiety sucks. I ask for red shoes. I went to 19 00:01:12.480 --> 00:01:15.319 support a friend at an open mic night, not my 20 00:01:15.439 --> 00:01:19.000 usual outing or atmosphere. There was a young man with 21 00:01:19.120 --> 00:01:23.319 a shiny red guitar. It was candy Apple red. Someone 22 00:01:23.359 --> 00:01:26.799 at the table said, oh, look that guitar reminds me 23 00:01:26.879 --> 00:01:30.439 of Dorothy's red shoes. Not only was this a guitar, 24 00:01:30.680 --> 00:01:34.159 my father's instrument and solids in this world, it was 25 00:01:34.200 --> 00:01:38.799 associated with red shoes. I just knew my Daddy was 26 00:01:38.879 --> 00:01:42.359 reassuring me. I hope this brought a smile to your face, 27 00:01:42.439 --> 00:01:44.959 as it really did to mine, and I wanted to 28 00:01:45.079 --> 00:01:48.920 share thank you so much for that. I just love 29 00:01:49.040 --> 00:01:53.799 that that kind of clear validation, and that is so 30 00:01:54.519 --> 00:01:58.879 incredibly specific. It's just such a gift. And as you 31 00:01:59.000 --> 00:02:02.359 are reminding of your connection with your father and the 32 00:02:02.400 --> 00:02:06.040 science that he has sent you, I just love you. 33 00:02:06.079 --> 00:02:08.039 And I have to tell you that as Samantha and 34 00:02:08.039 --> 00:02:12.080 I are recording this episode, we are celebrating what would 35 00:02:12.080 --> 00:02:15.000 have been our friend Jenny Granny Jean the Palm Reader's 36 00:02:15.400 --> 00:02:20.280 ninety seventh birthday. So thank you for making a smile 37 00:02:20.360 --> 00:02:21.400 with this great story. 38 00:02:22.280 --> 00:02:25.120 I love it. And what would make that person say 39 00:02:25.719 --> 00:02:28.919 the red guitar reminds them of Dorothy's red shoes, Like 40 00:02:29.000 --> 00:02:31.840 I could see comparing I don't know a red guitar 41 00:02:32.000 --> 00:02:36.840 to a Rock Stars guitar, but to shoes. That spirit at. 42 00:02:36.680 --> 00:02:40.159 Work, well, it really is. And of course the old 43 00:02:40.240 --> 00:02:42.759 rock and roll girl that I am. As I'm reading this, 44 00:02:43.479 --> 00:02:48.000 I'm hearing an old Elvis Costello song where the chorus says, 45 00:02:48.039 --> 00:02:51.400 I used to be disgusted, Now I try to be amused. 46 00:02:51.759 --> 00:02:53.960 The angels want to wear my red shoes. 47 00:02:58.120 --> 00:03:01.400 I love it all right, and says I attended a 48 00:03:01.479 --> 00:03:05.000 mediumship group reading where my father came through. The medium 49 00:03:05.039 --> 00:03:09.639 identified two important dates, the eighth and the thirty first. Well, 50 00:03:09.719 --> 00:03:11.800 my father was born on the thirty first and died 51 00:03:11.840 --> 00:03:15.520 on the eighth. She provided great detail of foods I've eaten, 52 00:03:15.639 --> 00:03:18.080 things I've bought, all in just this last week to 53 00:03:18.159 --> 00:03:21.000 show he's around me. She gave details that she could 54 00:03:21.039 --> 00:03:23.479 not have known about my experience with my father during 55 00:03:23.520 --> 00:03:26.280 his illness. Before his death, she told me he wants 56 00:03:26.319 --> 00:03:29.280 me to be tougher, that I'm kind hearted and often 57 00:03:29.319 --> 00:03:32.199 others take advantage of me. I've been told I'm an 58 00:03:32.240 --> 00:03:35.319 EmPATH by my therapist, hence my intense emotions and why 59 00:03:35.360 --> 00:03:38.879 I care so deeply about others. My question is, how 60 00:03:38.919 --> 00:03:41.240 does an EmPATH get tougher? How do I take this 61 00:03:41.280 --> 00:03:45.120 message from my dad to help me on my life's journey. Well, 62 00:03:45.120 --> 00:03:47.280 I thought this was a really good question. Deb and 63 00:03:47.319 --> 00:03:51.240 I also think it's a good example of how mediumship works, 64 00:03:51.280 --> 00:03:54.400 because they'll try to give you some validating things about 65 00:03:54.759 --> 00:03:57.919 the emotions of the personality of the person, some specifics 66 00:03:57.960 --> 00:04:00.439 like their birth date or death date. But the fact 67 00:04:00.479 --> 00:04:04.319 that she provided so many minute details of things she'd 68 00:04:04.360 --> 00:04:06.599 done that week just to show that the dad was 69 00:04:06.639 --> 00:04:09.439 around her is the sign of a really good medium. 70 00:04:09.879 --> 00:04:12.840 But also this is how a reading should work. You 71 00:04:12.879 --> 00:04:15.800 give details, you give validations, and then you bring through 72 00:04:15.840 --> 00:04:18.639 the message. And his message was that she needs to 73 00:04:18.680 --> 00:04:20.519 be tougher, that she's. 74 00:04:20.439 --> 00:04:21.480 Very, very kind hearted. 75 00:04:22.040 --> 00:04:24.199 I don't think it needs to be an either or. 76 00:04:24.319 --> 00:04:26.879 I don't think that you have to be tough or 77 00:04:26.959 --> 00:04:30.199 kind hearted. I believe that you can and should be both. 78 00:04:30.319 --> 00:04:32.279 We have to be tough, we have to be strong, 79 00:04:32.720 --> 00:04:35.319 we have to be resilient, but we also have to 80 00:04:35.319 --> 00:04:38.800 be tender and empathic and kind hearted. I think the 81 00:04:38.839 --> 00:04:43.279 best way to work on that is to practice sacred selfishness. 82 00:04:43.319 --> 00:04:48.120 So start with doctor Bud Harris's book called Sacred Selfishness, 83 00:04:48.480 --> 00:04:51.720 which really really helped me when I started to embrace 84 00:04:51.800 --> 00:04:55.240 my empathy and try to set boundaries. That book and 85 00:04:55.560 --> 00:04:58.240 so many like it, I think Brene Brown's work would 86 00:04:58.279 --> 00:05:01.399 also be really great for you to look into, because 87 00:05:01.399 --> 00:05:04.040 both of them talk about how important it is to 88 00:05:04.480 --> 00:05:07.920 put yourself first, to not see it as being selfish, 89 00:05:08.600 --> 00:05:10.519 to really focus on who you are and what you 90 00:05:10.560 --> 00:05:13.480 want and make sure your needs are met. And that 91 00:05:13.560 --> 00:05:17.199 comes through practicing sacred selfishness and through setting really really 92 00:05:17.240 --> 00:05:20.399 firm boundaries. And the thing with boundaries is you have 93 00:05:20.480 --> 00:05:23.879 to set them once and twice and three times, and 94 00:05:23.959 --> 00:05:27.000 sometimes dozens of times if you're dealing with difficult people. 95 00:05:27.399 --> 00:05:30.160 But each time you set that boundary, it gets easier 96 00:05:30.199 --> 00:05:33.360 and easier and easier, and you'll see that you're able 97 00:05:33.399 --> 00:05:37.279 to maintain your kind heart, but also your inner strength 98 00:05:37.319 --> 00:05:38.040 will flourish. 99 00:05:38.519 --> 00:05:42.079 I've been reading a lot of Anne LaMotte lately. I 100 00:05:42.120 --> 00:05:44.399 just love her work. I just love her way of 101 00:05:44.680 --> 00:05:47.079 being in the world. And one of the things that 102 00:05:47.120 --> 00:05:50.120 she says that she's probably pretty famous for is you 103 00:05:50.160 --> 00:05:53.000 know everything will work again if you unplug it for 104 00:05:53.040 --> 00:05:56.839 a few minutes, including you, And I think that's a 105 00:05:56.879 --> 00:06:00.800 part of that taking care of yourself is backing away, 106 00:06:01.680 --> 00:06:06.399 unplugging and then replugging and setting those boundaries while you're 107 00:06:06.439 --> 00:06:06.759 doing that. 108 00:06:07.199 --> 00:06:09.959 Yeah, I agree, and I like to ask myself to 109 00:06:10.319 --> 00:06:11.560 is this mind to carry? 110 00:06:11.959 --> 00:06:12.879 You? Know? Good question. 111 00:06:13.000 --> 00:06:16.040 Yeah, when you're worried about someone, or someone's coming to 112 00:06:16.079 --> 00:06:19.360 you with their issues or they're pulling on you too much, 113 00:06:20.319 --> 00:06:23.839 I always have this reflex, this instant response to dive 114 00:06:23.920 --> 00:06:25.560 in and help out, and I've had to learn to 115 00:06:25.560 --> 00:06:27.399 ask myself is this mind to carry? 116 00:06:27.720 --> 00:06:30.399 All? Right? Our next one says, my question is about 117 00:06:30.399 --> 00:06:35.319 telepathy and how you approach long distance connections. Do either 118 00:06:35.360 --> 00:06:38.879 of you have stories of time when you've received or 119 00:06:38.959 --> 00:06:43.319 sent messages telepathically to someone. I'm curious to hear about 120 00:06:43.360 --> 00:06:47.639 any experiences where you felt someone thinking about you, or 121 00:06:47.680 --> 00:06:51.439 had a sudden nudge to check in on someone, especially 122 00:06:51.439 --> 00:06:55.959 if they turned out any help or support. Additionally, do 123 00:06:56.040 --> 00:06:59.399 you have a specific technique or practice that you use 124 00:06:59.800 --> 00:07:03.759 when trying to connect with someone telepathically. I've heard people 125 00:07:03.800 --> 00:07:07.879 describe the sensation of telepathy as similar to feeling someone 126 00:07:08.000 --> 00:07:11.000 watching you, so I'd be fascinated to hear if you've 127 00:07:11.040 --> 00:07:14.920 experienced anything like that too. Well, this is an interesting question. 128 00:07:15.240 --> 00:07:20.199 I guess the people I've so deeply emotionally and spiritually 129 00:07:20.439 --> 00:07:24.920 connected to just kind of stay that way. We just 130 00:07:25.079 --> 00:07:30.279 know if my phone rings it. Sometimes I know it's 131 00:07:30.319 --> 00:07:33.040 going to be Joel. For example, have there been times 132 00:07:33.319 --> 00:07:37.759 where I have set down with the intention of connecting 133 00:07:37.759 --> 00:07:42.120 to someone telepathically. Absolutely, there have been those times. And 134 00:07:42.199 --> 00:07:44.920 for me, it's not so much of being able to 135 00:07:45.040 --> 00:07:48.839 see someone or feel someone watching me, or vice versa. 136 00:07:48.920 --> 00:07:53.199 I often, because of being such an auditory communicator, hear 137 00:07:53.240 --> 00:07:55.959 their voice or ask them to hear mine. So that's 138 00:07:56.240 --> 00:07:58.920 the primary Claire and I bring them all in. But 139 00:07:59.000 --> 00:08:03.120 that's the primary that I use when I'm doing telepathic work. 140 00:08:03.360 --> 00:08:07.040 And often the reverse is true. If I know someone 141 00:08:07.120 --> 00:08:09.720 needs to talk to me and they're sending me a message, 142 00:08:09.800 --> 00:08:12.720 I hear their voice or hear a song that I 143 00:08:12.800 --> 00:08:14.199 know is one of their favorite songs. 144 00:08:14.199 --> 00:08:16.920 For example, I always wonder if you know, like when 145 00:08:16.920 --> 00:08:19.800 you go to text someone and you get your phone 146 00:08:19.839 --> 00:08:22.399 out and you unlock the screen and then a text 147 00:08:22.439 --> 00:08:25.319 comes in from them, I always wonder, is that that 148 00:08:25.399 --> 00:08:26.759 must be a form of telepathy? 149 00:08:27.079 --> 00:08:29.240 Well, of course it is in the modern world. 150 00:08:29.519 --> 00:08:31.560 Or if you show up for lunch with a friend 151 00:08:31.600 --> 00:08:34.679 and you're both wearing the same colors. What I teach 152 00:08:34.759 --> 00:08:37.240 my be your Own Psychic class, one of the partner 153 00:08:37.279 --> 00:08:41.840 exercises we do is called the sender receiver exercise, and 154 00:08:42.000 --> 00:08:45.919 that's where you're assigned a partner and you're given symbols 155 00:08:45.960 --> 00:08:49.480 and numbers and images to send to your partner, and 156 00:08:49.480 --> 00:08:52.799 then your partner has to receive it and try to guess, 157 00:08:53.039 --> 00:08:55.399 you know, if it's one, two, three, four or five, 158 00:08:55.519 --> 00:08:57.600 or what letter it is and so on, and then 159 00:08:57.639 --> 00:09:00.759 you switch roles because some people are better at sending 160 00:09:01.039 --> 00:09:05.320 telepathically and others are better at receiving telepathically, and I 161 00:09:05.320 --> 00:09:08.679 think it's important to know which of those two is 162 00:09:08.720 --> 00:09:11.879 your strength. So this listener could try doing that with 163 00:09:11.919 --> 00:09:15.399 a friend. It's a really fun way to play with telepathy. 164 00:09:16.240 --> 00:09:20.159 There's also a crystal that is known as the telepathic stone, 165 00:09:20.200 --> 00:09:24.200 and that is angelite. And it's said, according to Melody 166 00:09:24.240 --> 00:09:28.519 and Judy Hall, if you buy two pieces of angelite, 167 00:09:28.559 --> 00:09:31.720 and you keep one and give one to your child, 168 00:09:31.879 --> 00:09:34.720 your partner, your best friend, whoever you want to try 169 00:09:34.720 --> 00:09:40.200 this with, that it will enhance your ability to connect telepathically. 170 00:09:40.240 --> 00:09:43.240 The one experience I've had with telepathy that stands out 171 00:09:43.279 --> 00:09:46.720 to me, I often get messages in my dreams, and 172 00:09:46.799 --> 00:09:49.480 a couple of years ago, I had a dream that 173 00:09:49.559 --> 00:09:52.639 a friend I knew from a long time ago. I 174 00:09:52.679 --> 00:09:56.080 hadn't seen this person in over twenty years, was in 175 00:09:56.200 --> 00:09:59.399 really really dire streets, was going through quite a depression. 176 00:10:00.120 --> 00:10:03.000 And in the dream, his whole family, a bunch of 177 00:10:03.080 --> 00:10:07.039 us were all gathered around this couch trying to talk 178 00:10:07.080 --> 00:10:09.159 and just you know, cheer him up and things like that. 179 00:10:09.600 --> 00:10:11.039 But I hadn't spoken to him. I had no idea 180 00:10:11.080 --> 00:10:12.840 where he was. I wasn't going to be like, hello, 181 00:10:13.600 --> 00:10:15.559 you know, how to dream about you that you were 182 00:10:15.679 --> 00:10:17.960 very sad, Like what do you do with that? So 183 00:10:18.120 --> 00:10:20.720 I just wrote an affirmation for him that he is 184 00:10:20.799 --> 00:10:22.840 healthy and happy, and I lit a candle for him 185 00:10:22.840 --> 00:10:25.440 that day, and I just went to work and went 186 00:10:25.440 --> 00:10:28.039 about my day. And when I came home, I had 187 00:10:28.080 --> 00:10:30.799 an email from him saying, Hey, is there any way 188 00:10:30.879 --> 00:10:32.840 I could schedule a reading with you? I really need 189 00:10:32.879 --> 00:10:35.120 some help now. I don't know if that was from 190 00:10:35.159 --> 00:10:38.240 the dream, the candle, the intention of the prayer, but 191 00:10:38.320 --> 00:10:39.960 I thought that was really interesting. 192 00:10:40.399 --> 00:10:43.159 Well it is, and I mean, you just never know 193 00:10:43.200 --> 00:10:46.080 how those things are going to evolve, do you no? 194 00:10:46.279 --> 00:10:50.080 But it's I think telepathy is absolutely fascinating, and this 195 00:10:50.200 --> 00:10:53.320 listener could also look at I think it's called Psychic Spies. 196 00:10:53.639 --> 00:10:58.039 The Russell targ documentary it's on Amazon Prime fascinating and 197 00:10:58.080 --> 00:11:00.679 they talk about some of the research they did telepathy, 198 00:11:00.720 --> 00:11:04.759 and it focuses mainly on remote viewing, but looking into 199 00:11:04.799 --> 00:11:07.639 that work could be helpful too. Our next one says, 200 00:11:07.840 --> 00:11:11.200 my mother passed away in August three years ago. On 201 00:11:11.240 --> 00:11:14.200 August twenty first, she and I discussed that she would 202 00:11:14.240 --> 00:11:15.879 try to give me a sign to let me know 203 00:11:16.000 --> 00:11:19.120 she was around. And Okay, since she passed, I have 204 00:11:19.200 --> 00:11:21.919 not received a sign that could not be chalked up 205 00:11:21.960 --> 00:11:26.039 to coincidence. And like you both say, sometimes we're given signs, 206 00:11:26.080 --> 00:11:29.320 but we want more. On October fourth, at about three 207 00:11:29.480 --> 00:11:31.960 thirty pm, I was driving to work, missing my mother 208 00:11:32.080 --> 00:11:35.440 so terribly as she was my very best friend. I 209 00:11:35.480 --> 00:11:37.440 began to talk out loud in the car to her, 210 00:11:37.919 --> 00:11:40.480 asking her for a sign, telling her I needed a 211 00:11:40.519 --> 00:11:42.679 sign that I could not dispute that I knew for 212 00:11:42.799 --> 00:11:45.799 sure solid it was her. As I stopped at the 213 00:11:45.879 --> 00:11:48.159 light in front of me, I looked at the license 214 00:11:48.200 --> 00:11:51.440 plate of the car. It was from Tennessee. That is 215 00:11:51.480 --> 00:11:53.600 where she had lived for the last thirty years of 216 00:11:53.600 --> 00:11:57.279 her life. I smiled and said, I see it, Mom, 217 00:11:57.320 --> 00:12:00.039 but that could be coincidence. I need something that I 218 00:12:00.159 --> 00:12:03.320 know for sure it's you. Two hours later, at work, 219 00:12:03.600 --> 00:12:06.360 I was talking to a teenage co worker. We ended 220 00:12:06.440 --> 00:12:09.399 up realizing that her boyfriend was best friends with my 221 00:12:09.559 --> 00:12:12.519 great nephew. Kind of a long story, a lot of 222 00:12:12.559 --> 00:12:15.720 thin threads came together here. She was so surprised that 223 00:12:15.799 --> 00:12:19.039 he was my great nephew. A few minutes later, she said, 224 00:12:19.480 --> 00:12:21.720 he always wears a necklace with a picture on it. 225 00:12:21.799 --> 00:12:23.279 I want to show it to you and see if 226 00:12:23.279 --> 00:12:26.279 you know who it is. I said, okay, So she 227 00:12:26.360 --> 00:12:28.919 opens her phone and enlarged the photograph on the chain 228 00:12:29.000 --> 00:12:31.159 hanging around his neck, and turned her phone around to 229 00:12:31.200 --> 00:12:34.639 show me. When I looked, it was my mother's face, 230 00:12:35.000 --> 00:12:37.960 a picture of her in her forties, smiling back at me. 231 00:12:38.080 --> 00:12:40.679 It took my breath away. I started to cry. 232 00:12:41.240 --> 00:12:41.679 I could not. 233 00:12:41.759 --> 00:12:43.759 Believe it was my mom looking back at me from 234 00:12:43.799 --> 00:12:47.399 the photo. One hour after that, I was telling the 235 00:12:47.440 --> 00:12:50.200 young man who was my manager what I had experienced. 236 00:12:50.960 --> 00:12:53.039 He hugged me and said, I'm so happy for you 237 00:12:53.120 --> 00:12:56.159 that your mama said hi. She was a real cat. 238 00:12:56.840 --> 00:12:59.200 I didn't know her well, but she seemed really cool. 239 00:12:59.279 --> 00:13:02.600 She was a real cat. At that moment, my mind 240 00:13:02.799 --> 00:13:06.399 was totally blown. Her husband of thirty plus years and 241 00:13:06.440 --> 00:13:09.679 her father and all of his family always called her cat. 242 00:13:10.000 --> 00:13:14.039 Everyone else called her Kathy. So within less than five hours, 243 00:13:14.360 --> 00:13:17.200 she showed me Tennessee, the state she lived in with 244 00:13:17.240 --> 00:13:20.320 her husband for the whole of their marriage, her actual 245 00:13:20.360 --> 00:13:22.879 picture smiling back at me, and the name she was 246 00:13:22.960 --> 00:13:27.360 called by the people that were very closest to her. Wow, 247 00:13:27.759 --> 00:13:31.240 that is incredible and it just shows you how you know, 248 00:13:31.279 --> 00:13:35.200 DEBUTAI are always saying, ask for a sign, state the sign, 249 00:13:36.039 --> 00:13:38.279 give a time limit, and if you don't get it. 250 00:13:38.720 --> 00:13:40.679 You know, if you're if you're asking for a sign 251 00:13:40.679 --> 00:13:43.639 from your guide about a decision you should make and 252 00:13:43.679 --> 00:13:46.480 you don't get that sign, well then there's your answer. 253 00:13:46.919 --> 00:13:49.000 But if you're asking for a sign from a loved 254 00:13:49.039 --> 00:13:52.000 one that they're okay and they don't give you a sign, 255 00:13:52.639 --> 00:13:54.879 I think it is perfectly fine to be just as 256 00:13:54.879 --> 00:13:57.639 pushy as this listener was. I love that she got 257 00:13:57.639 --> 00:14:00.399 a little frustrated and talked out loud on the and 258 00:14:00.519 --> 00:14:02.879 was like, I need a sign now, and the mom 259 00:14:02.879 --> 00:14:05.559 gave her a sign Tennessee, and she was like, yeah, 260 00:14:05.600 --> 00:14:07.559 that's not enough. I need more. And then her mom 261 00:14:07.639 --> 00:14:09.399 was like, you want more. I got more. 262 00:14:09.759 --> 00:14:14.480 And I understand the hesitancy to accept the first sign 263 00:14:14.519 --> 00:14:17.320 that shows up because you know, yeah, coincidence. I mean, 264 00:14:17.360 --> 00:14:21.279 it's possible. So I get wanting more. But at some point, 265 00:14:21.879 --> 00:14:24.960 I think we also have to just trust and believe. 266 00:14:26.039 --> 00:14:28.879 And I think that that's sometimes the hardest thing for 267 00:14:29.039 --> 00:14:33.159 us to do, is to say, yes, this really was 268 00:14:33.320 --> 00:14:37.320 a sign, and I'm grateful for it, and I'll stop now. 269 00:14:37.720 --> 00:14:39.720 Yeah, we don't want to bug them, but I. 270 00:14:39.600 --> 00:14:41.200 Think they're busy over there. 271 00:14:41.279 --> 00:14:44.559 They're busy there, and they have to learn how to 272 00:14:44.600 --> 00:14:48.320 manipulate energy and thoughts and talk about telepathy, to put 273 00:14:48.360 --> 00:14:51.120 those ideas and words into other people's heads. Like our 274 00:14:51.159 --> 00:14:54.039 first story, I think that was her father making that 275 00:14:54.080 --> 00:14:57.000 man say that ray guitar reminds me of Dorothy's red shoes. 276 00:14:57.320 --> 00:15:00.320 Well, and she didn't have to push for that, it 277 00:15:00.440 --> 00:15:01.919 just came. Yeah. 278 00:15:01.960 --> 00:15:04.000 But like when you ask for your loved one to 279 00:15:04.080 --> 00:15:07.240 play a song for you, and you're pushing your grocery 280 00:15:07.279 --> 00:15:10.240 card through the store and over the musac comes the 281 00:15:10.279 --> 00:15:13.279 exact song you asked for. I think that loved one 282 00:15:13.320 --> 00:15:15.480 on the other side had to use telepathy and the 283 00:15:15.519 --> 00:15:18.879 intent of their energy to get that song to be 284 00:15:18.919 --> 00:15:21.120 played at that exact moment, and so that takes they 285 00:15:21.120 --> 00:15:22.720 have to learn how to do all of that. 286 00:15:23.480 --> 00:15:25.720 It takes a bit of energy to do it. 287 00:15:26.200 --> 00:15:29.759 Yes, But I still say, if you were grieving and 288 00:15:29.799 --> 00:15:32.559 you're struggling, and you just you just need a postcard 289 00:15:32.600 --> 00:15:34.879 from heaven, I think it's okay to be pushy like this, 290 00:15:35.240 --> 00:15:37.879 but I want you to get that sign, then let 291 00:15:37.960 --> 00:15:38.159 it be. 292 00:15:38.480 --> 00:15:41.159 But you also need to give them time. Yes. I 293 00:15:41.320 --> 00:15:45.279 so remember the morning that Jean died and Ralph and 294 00:15:45.360 --> 00:15:48.919 I literally were walking across the parking lot to go 295 00:15:49.039 --> 00:15:51.679 to the funeral home to make the arrangements, and he 296 00:15:51.840 --> 00:15:54.320 is wailing, and he said, I need her to give 297 00:15:54.399 --> 00:15:56.480 me a sign. I need her to let me know 298 00:15:56.600 --> 00:16:00.360 she's okay. She hadn't been dead fifteen minutes. I said, 299 00:16:00.480 --> 00:16:02.720 you gotta give her a few minutes to get oriented, 300 00:16:04.039 --> 00:16:06.960 you know. And so part of that sometimes is I 301 00:16:07.039 --> 00:16:09.919 need to remember that earth time and time across the veil. 302 00:16:09.919 --> 00:16:11.480 It is not necessarily to say. 303 00:16:11.879 --> 00:16:15.639 Well, and it's also their personality, you know, like our 304 00:16:15.679 --> 00:16:18.559 mom gave us that sign through wordle the day after 305 00:16:18.679 --> 00:16:21.840 she died. But that's her personality, you know. I told 306 00:16:21.879 --> 00:16:24.039 you she'll cut through any line and be like, no, no, 307 00:16:24.080 --> 00:16:27.080 my daughters need this, whereas my dad took months to 308 00:16:27.080 --> 00:16:29.240 give us a sign. And that could be because he 309 00:16:29.279 --> 00:16:31.519 passed from Alzheimer's, but it could also be because his 310 00:16:31.600 --> 00:16:36.039 personality is much more observant. Let me hold back, let 311 00:16:36.120 --> 00:16:38.519 me evaluate and study this, let me really learn all 312 00:16:38.559 --> 00:16:41.279 of this. So you have to take into account the 313 00:16:41.399 --> 00:16:45.279 energy of their personality too, right, But I love that 314 00:16:45.360 --> 00:16:47.960 her mother was a built and like why I want 315 00:16:47.960 --> 00:16:50.919 to know why the great nephew is wearing his great 316 00:16:50.919 --> 00:16:53.440 aunt's picture or would that be his great great aunts 317 00:16:53.480 --> 00:16:54.480 picture around his neck? 318 00:16:54.799 --> 00:16:57.799 I wondered about that too, But I mean, that's too 319 00:16:57.799 --> 00:17:02.080 big for me right now. But yeah, yeah, pretty wild. 320 00:17:02.240 --> 00:17:05.000 I love it all right, Let's take a quick break 321 00:17:05.079 --> 00:17:08.319 and will be right back with some more wonderful stories 322 00:17:08.319 --> 00:17:12.200 and questions. 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And of 352 00:18:55.480 --> 00:18:59.000 course I'm always honored when you subscribe to my free newsletter. 353 00:19:00.000 --> 00:19:03.839 Scribe button is at the bottom of my website homepage. 354 00:19:04.319 --> 00:19:07.720 And again, all the information about these courses and more 355 00:19:07.920 --> 00:19:10.720 is on my website Deboen dot com. 356 00:19:12.799 --> 00:19:13.480 Welcome back. 357 00:19:13.839 --> 00:19:17.839 Our next one says I only recently discovered your podcast 358 00:19:17.880 --> 00:19:21.480 and have been listening to older episodes. About a week ago, 359 00:19:21.559 --> 00:19:25.319 I found an episode of yours about chakra cleansing. I'll 360 00:19:25.359 --> 00:19:28.279 be honest, I'm not sure I completely believe in things 361 00:19:28.359 --> 00:19:31.400 like chakras, but I'm open minded enough to read about 362 00:19:31.440 --> 00:19:35.400 it and even tried a chakra cleansing chant today on YouTube. 363 00:19:35.559 --> 00:19:38.880 Oddly enough, as I tried the solar plexus chant, I 364 00:19:38.960 --> 00:19:41.599 quite literally got short of breath and felt a very 365 00:19:41.640 --> 00:19:44.880 deep sadness. The moment the video moved on to the 366 00:19:44.920 --> 00:19:48.839 next chakra chant, my shortness of breath and sadness went 367 00:19:48.880 --> 00:19:52.960 away instantly. I looked up symptoms that the solar plexus 368 00:19:53.039 --> 00:19:56.559 might be bought and found a list of seventeen symptoms. 369 00:19:56.839 --> 00:20:00.119 The only symptom I have of the seventeen listed for 370 00:20:00.160 --> 00:20:04.519 a block solar plexus chakra is diabetes, which was fully 371 00:20:04.599 --> 00:20:11.519 under control without meditation, without medication until I had the coronavirus. 372 00:20:11.960 --> 00:20:14.359 Since then, I've only been able to manage my blood 373 00:20:14.400 --> 00:20:18.359 sugar with medication, even though I exercised more than ever 374 00:20:18.440 --> 00:20:22.400 before and have a healthy diet and lifestyle. I find 375 00:20:22.400 --> 00:20:24.519 it odd that this is the one and only health 376 00:20:24.559 --> 00:20:27.079 problem I have and is linked to the one and 377 00:20:27.240 --> 00:20:31.039 only chakra cleansing chant. They gave me a negative physical 378 00:20:31.400 --> 00:20:35.839 and emotional reaction. We have chakras all over our bodies. 379 00:20:35.880 --> 00:20:40.279 This is an ancient Sanscript word. The word chakra means weal, 380 00:20:40.799 --> 00:20:46.160 so it's an old methodology of being in the world. 381 00:20:46.599 --> 00:20:50.000 You have chakras in your hands, for example, but the 382 00:20:50.079 --> 00:20:53.440 major chakras in your torso are the seven that this 383 00:20:53.599 --> 00:20:57.440 listener is talking about here, and each of the chakras 384 00:20:57.519 --> 00:21:03.480 has a connection to phyle being, emotional being, and spiritual 385 00:21:03.519 --> 00:21:07.119 being within us colors of the rainbow. It goes on 386 00:21:07.200 --> 00:21:10.880 and on and on, and your solar plexus chakra is 387 00:21:10.920 --> 00:21:13.839 the chakra that is most connected to what we call 388 00:21:13.960 --> 00:21:16.880 gut feeling. That's where it comes from. It's dealing with 389 00:21:17.319 --> 00:21:22.480 the guts and the intuition of our being. But what 390 00:21:22.559 --> 00:21:26.279 I would suggest to you is that if you came 391 00:21:26.359 --> 00:21:30.680 away from that meditation with a feeling and a belief 392 00:21:30.720 --> 00:21:35.400 and a thought that you need more work on managing 393 00:21:35.480 --> 00:21:39.720 your diabetes, and that you're paying attention to that intuition 394 00:21:39.839 --> 00:21:42.599 of knowing that your chakra did its job. 395 00:21:44.160 --> 00:21:46.880 I'll tell you what else is stored there, though, is anger. 396 00:21:47.359 --> 00:21:50.559 We will store anger in our solar plexus and sometimes 397 00:21:50.640 --> 00:21:54.039 our heart chakra, but the solar plexus is where we 398 00:21:54.680 --> 00:21:58.640 have our will, our sense of determination, our sense of justice. 399 00:21:58.759 --> 00:22:02.720 And I think whenever you're diagnosed with something like diabetes, 400 00:22:03.880 --> 00:22:06.799 I would think there'd be anger. I know my former 401 00:22:06.839 --> 00:22:09.559 mother in law have dealt with diabetes the last twenty 402 00:22:09.599 --> 00:22:12.440 five years of her life, and you know she dealt 403 00:22:12.440 --> 00:22:14.759 with it with grace like this listener, But you know 404 00:22:14.799 --> 00:22:16.720 she was kind of mad. I mean there were times 405 00:22:16.759 --> 00:22:19.359 we'd be at holiday gatherings and people will be passing 406 00:22:19.839 --> 00:22:24.359 chocolate dessert after cheesecake after pecan pie, and she'd be like, no, no, 407 00:22:24.440 --> 00:22:26.400 thank you, and you know that's kind of make you 408 00:22:26.480 --> 00:22:29.079 kind of mad, like why me? And so it could 409 00:22:29.079 --> 00:22:32.519 have just been a reaction to that. Other times, though, 410 00:22:32.559 --> 00:22:35.480 I've done chakra cleansings and I'll have a strong reaction 411 00:22:35.599 --> 00:22:38.920 in one chakra and I'll do some I'll send some 412 00:22:39.039 --> 00:22:40.880 light and some healing to it, and the next day 413 00:22:40.880 --> 00:22:43.680 I'll do the same chakra clearing meditation and I don't 414 00:22:43.720 --> 00:22:46.759 have a reaction there. So, just as our auras and 415 00:22:46.799 --> 00:22:50.000 our vibrations and our frequencies shift and change all the time, 416 00:22:50.400 --> 00:22:53.279 I think the blockages and our chakras can shift and change. 417 00:22:53.000 --> 00:22:56.519 All the time too, I do too, Okay. 418 00:22:56.559 --> 00:22:58.720 Our next one says my brother and sister in law 419 00:22:58.759 --> 00:23:01.000 recently bought a house in my city and needed some 420 00:23:01.039 --> 00:23:04.240 help getting the new house in order before they started unpacking. 421 00:23:04.960 --> 00:23:06.880 I was over at their house on move in day 422 00:23:06.960 --> 00:23:10.039 doing some cleanup in the backyard. While cleaning up some 423 00:23:10.079 --> 00:23:12.960 brush around a small tree, I found sitting at the 424 00:23:12.960 --> 00:23:14.920 base of the tree what looks like a cluster of 425 00:23:14.960 --> 00:23:18.359 selenite crystals. I picked up the crystal matrix and it 426 00:23:18.359 --> 00:23:21.240 felt like it weighed about two pounds. I was shocked 427 00:23:21.279 --> 00:23:23.720 to see something like this in a random city in 428 00:23:23.759 --> 00:23:26.720 the United States. I guess in my mind, I always 429 00:23:26.759 --> 00:23:29.000 thought if I ever found a crystal out in the wild, 430 00:23:29.319 --> 00:23:32.480 it would be while traveling abroad, exploring through caves or 431 00:23:32.480 --> 00:23:36.000 something exotic like that. I'm actually friends with the previous 432 00:23:36.039 --> 00:23:38.799 owners of the house my brother had just purchased, so 433 00:23:38.839 --> 00:23:41.079 I immediately texted them and asked if they had left 434 00:23:41.119 --> 00:23:43.799 it behind. They had no idea what I was talking 435 00:23:43.799 --> 00:23:46.400 about and told me I could keep whatever I found. 436 00:23:46.960 --> 00:23:49.200 I then took the crystal inside the house to inspect 437 00:23:49.240 --> 00:23:52.519 it more closely. Excitedly, I displayed the crystal on the 438 00:23:52.599 --> 00:23:55.440 kitchen table to show off my miraculous discovery to my 439 00:23:55.480 --> 00:23:59.039 brother and sister in law. The pair were less than amused, 440 00:23:59.079 --> 00:24:02.279 as they are not nerds like me. Oh, I feel 441 00:24:02.279 --> 00:24:04.440 that pain. That wouldst. 442 00:24:05.359 --> 00:24:07.400 A and you're not a nerd. I just have to 443 00:24:07.440 --> 00:24:08.480 say that, But anyway. 444 00:24:08.200 --> 00:24:10.559 Go ahead, No, I would be like to you. Oh, 445 00:24:10.599 --> 00:24:12.960 that would make me bad, okay. I told them. The 446 00:24:13.000 --> 00:24:16.119 previous owners were unaware of the crystal and seemingly not 447 00:24:16.240 --> 00:24:18.599 interested in it. I then asked my brother if he 448 00:24:18.640 --> 00:24:20.759 and his wife would like to keep the crystal They 449 00:24:20.759 --> 00:24:22.920 were puzzled by my question and told me in the 450 00:24:23.000 --> 00:24:25.559 nicest way possible that they do not want to keep 451 00:24:25.559 --> 00:24:28.200 a rock, and I was welcome to take it home. 452 00:24:28.759 --> 00:24:31.240 Oh my gosh, this is like the Ugly Duckling story. 453 00:24:32.240 --> 00:24:34.680 After getting them settled into the house, drove to one 454 00:24:34.720 --> 00:24:37.559 of the local metaphysical stores to have the crystal identified. 455 00:24:38.079 --> 00:24:40.039 The owner of the store told me she believes it's 456 00:24:40.039 --> 00:24:43.480 a slenite crystal on matrix, likely from a mine in Mexico. 457 00:24:44.000 --> 00:24:46.720 I was a little puzzled by the location she suggested 458 00:24:46.720 --> 00:24:48.640 to me. I was not sure how she was able 459 00:24:48.640 --> 00:24:50.559 to guess the exact mind in the world that the 460 00:24:50.599 --> 00:24:53.200 crystal came from, and I suppose I had assumed that 461 00:24:53.240 --> 00:24:55.519 the crystal had just emerged from the earth in my city. 462 00:24:56.160 --> 00:24:59.200 Regardless of the correct identification, I have had this crystal 463 00:24:59.240 --> 00:25:01.680 for a few weeks now, and to my surprise, I 464 00:25:01.720 --> 00:25:05.640 feel absolutely nothing from it. Okay, I'm feeling so bad 465 00:25:05.680 --> 00:25:09.160 for this crystal. Can I just interject that this is 466 00:25:09.279 --> 00:25:12.960 like the little crystal that could. Typically with my crystals, 467 00:25:13.000 --> 00:25:15.680 I can hold them and immediately feel a change my vibration. 468 00:25:16.240 --> 00:25:18.920 With this crystal, though, I don't feel anything, not that 469 00:25:18.960 --> 00:25:22.079 I feel anything bad or negative. There's just blankness. I 470 00:25:22.119 --> 00:25:24.200 did a smoke cleanse on the crystal and set it 471 00:25:24.240 --> 00:25:26.599 near my altar so I can appreciate it, but it 472 00:25:26.599 --> 00:25:28.880 feels no different than having a random cup sitting on 473 00:25:28.960 --> 00:25:31.599 my desk. I just don't feel anything. So with all 474 00:25:31.640 --> 00:25:34.279 of this set, I have a few questions. I've never 475 00:25:34.359 --> 00:25:37.240 actually had a slenite crystal, so maybe the blankness I 476 00:25:37.240 --> 00:25:40.279 feel from the crystal is typical of slenite and I'm unaware. 477 00:25:41.039 --> 00:25:42.880 I also wonder if my lack of connection with the 478 00:25:42.920 --> 00:25:45.359 crystal means that I should part ways with it. I 479 00:25:45.440 --> 00:25:47.599 wonder if the sal Andie could serve someone else much 480 00:25:47.640 --> 00:25:50.319 better than it serves me. I would hope that somebody 481 00:25:50.359 --> 00:25:53.319 else could experience the positive benefits of this crystal. 482 00:25:52.920 --> 00:25:53.480 In their home. 483 00:25:54.279 --> 00:25:57.480 Is it unethical for me to sell the crystal? I mean, 484 00:25:57.519 --> 00:26:00.079 I found it, but it was not even on my property. 485 00:26:00.599 --> 00:26:02.920 Though I was given permission to do whatever I want 486 00:26:02.960 --> 00:26:05.359 with it. I feel almost a little guilty making a 487 00:26:05.400 --> 00:26:08.279 profit off of a crystal that seemingly doesn't belong in 488 00:26:08.319 --> 00:26:11.200 my space. I've been trying to manifest more money lately 489 00:26:11.240 --> 00:26:13.359 as times are a little bit rough, so I thought 490 00:26:13.359 --> 00:26:15.119 maybe this was a gift from the universe so I 491 00:26:15.119 --> 00:26:17.720 could make a little money. But maybe I'm reading into 492 00:26:17.720 --> 00:26:21.039 this completely incorrectly. Okay, I have a lot of thoughts 493 00:26:21.079 --> 00:26:24.400 about this, and you probably do. Two deb My first thought, 494 00:26:24.799 --> 00:26:28.079 so if you guys if old longtime listeners might remember 495 00:26:28.200 --> 00:26:30.680 that I have a tree growing in my yard and I, 496 00:26:30.880 --> 00:26:32.559 when my kids were little, I turned it into a 497 00:26:32.599 --> 00:26:35.279 fairy tree, and I put a little fairy door, a 498 00:26:35.279 --> 00:26:38.839 little fairy village, eventually a little path, a mailbox so 499 00:26:38.880 --> 00:26:41.079 the kids could write to the fairies, little fairy let 500 00:26:41.119 --> 00:26:44.200 you get the picture. And when I did that, magical 501 00:26:44.200 --> 00:26:47.119 things happened around this tree. Plants grew up that I 502 00:26:47.160 --> 00:26:51.119 didn't put there, and crystals would appear, and I would 503 00:26:51.119 --> 00:26:54.559 take the crystal into the home, thinking how lovely the 504 00:26:54.559 --> 00:26:56.720 fairies gave me a crystal, and I ate the same 505 00:26:56.759 --> 00:27:00.000 reaction to those crystals, like nothing, and I realized, oh, 506 00:27:00.079 --> 00:27:03.240 they're not for me, therefore the earth, therefore this tree, 507 00:27:03.519 --> 00:27:05.960 and so I left them back out there. So my 508 00:27:06.119 --> 00:27:09.480 first thought when I read this was, maybe that crystal 509 00:27:09.519 --> 00:27:12.640 needs to stay in that at the base of that 510 00:27:12.680 --> 00:27:17.720 tree where she found it. Selenite is a cleansing stone 511 00:27:18.039 --> 00:27:20.279 it does have. It's one of the few that never 512 00:27:20.319 --> 00:27:22.319 needs to be cleansed, and it does lift and raise 513 00:27:22.359 --> 00:27:24.759 the vibrations of a home. It helps connect you with 514 00:27:24.799 --> 00:27:28.279 your spirit, guides, with angels. It has a light feeling 515 00:27:28.359 --> 00:27:31.440 to it, so it's I don't believe it's not like 516 00:27:31.519 --> 00:27:34.400 cele andite has a blank feeling like you were asking about. 517 00:27:34.960 --> 00:27:38.680 It usually does help you feel lighter, more connected within 518 00:27:39.000 --> 00:27:42.279 and to your higher self and your guides. But then 519 00:27:42.559 --> 00:27:44.559 deb when she said that she was going through a 520 00:27:44.559 --> 00:27:46.920 little bit of financial stuff and thought maybe this is 521 00:27:46.960 --> 00:27:49.440 a gift, then I thought, well, well, yeah, that makes sense. 522 00:27:49.599 --> 00:27:52.359 Maybe it did appear for her so that she could 523 00:27:52.400 --> 00:27:54.279 sell it and make a little bit of money. And 524 00:27:54.319 --> 00:27:56.839 the reason why she didn't have a connection to it 525 00:27:56.880 --> 00:27:58.960 is so that she would think to sell it, because 526 00:27:58.960 --> 00:28:00.960 if she had this huge connect to it, she would 527 00:28:00.960 --> 00:28:03.079 never want to part ways with it. 528 00:28:03.920 --> 00:28:06.880 What do you think does selenite grow on a matrix? 529 00:28:07.440 --> 00:28:07.920 It can? 530 00:28:08.880 --> 00:28:11.400 Okay, I mean I'm sitting here looking at this beautiful 531 00:28:11.440 --> 00:28:13.920 piece of selenite that you gave me some years ago. 532 00:28:13.960 --> 00:28:17.279 Do you remember it's about it's about fourteen inches long. 533 00:28:17.680 --> 00:28:20.440 My memory or my images at selenite didn't grow on 534 00:28:20.480 --> 00:28:22.000 a matrix. But okay, well. 535 00:28:21.880 --> 00:28:26.400 Think about like like gypsum with selenite, right, you know, 536 00:28:26.559 --> 00:28:31.880 desert rose selenite. Sometimes the icy clear gypsum selenite grows 537 00:28:31.920 --> 00:28:33.880 in a beautiful, like spiky matrix. 538 00:28:35.119 --> 00:28:40.240 Well, that's true, it does. Okay, there's nothing unethical about 539 00:28:40.279 --> 00:28:42.880 selling this. I mean it was the stone was given 540 00:28:42.920 --> 00:28:45.680 to you by the property owner to do it as 541 00:28:45.720 --> 00:28:48.279 you wish, So yes, you could sell it. But the 542 00:28:48.359 --> 00:28:51.279 other thing that's coming to mind, is it while you 543 00:28:51.319 --> 00:28:55.359 could do that, I just wonder if you can just 544 00:28:56.000 --> 00:28:58.680 be with it for a bit and that a person 545 00:28:58.720 --> 00:29:03.519 who actually needs that stone will appear and you can 546 00:29:03.559 --> 00:29:06.079 give it away. I know that happens to me sometimes, 547 00:29:06.440 --> 00:29:10.799 where I am suddenly very aware that there is somebody 548 00:29:11.000 --> 00:29:13.559 and that I'm working with they're talking to who needs 549 00:29:13.559 --> 00:29:16.200 a particular rock, and I pass it on. And I 550 00:29:16.240 --> 00:29:18.640 have rocks that have certainly been passed on to me. 551 00:29:18.720 --> 00:29:20.559 And like I said, I'm just talking about a piece 552 00:29:20.559 --> 00:29:23.279 of alle Nighte Samantha gave me a while back. So 553 00:29:23.519 --> 00:29:25.880 I'm asking you to just be with it for a 554 00:29:25.920 --> 00:29:30.559 bit and just wait for an answer from the stone itself. 555 00:29:30.680 --> 00:29:32.920 It'll tell you what to do with it. Yeah. 556 00:29:33.039 --> 00:29:34.839 I just think the fact that she's been trying to 557 00:29:34.920 --> 00:29:39.799 manifest more lately, and she is connected to crystals, this 558 00:29:39.920 --> 00:29:42.559 could just be a gift for her to use to 559 00:29:42.599 --> 00:29:44.079 help boost her income. 560 00:29:44.559 --> 00:29:49.039 Well. Absolutely, Okay. The next one says, thank you for 561 00:29:49.119 --> 00:29:53.200 this six Ways episode, the one we just did on 562 00:29:53.279 --> 00:29:55.920 six Ways to jump start your intuition. I think she's 563 00:29:55.920 --> 00:29:59.839 talking about I see a woman's eye at my third 564 00:30:00.079 --> 00:30:04.440 I too. It felt personal and a bit shocking at first. 565 00:30:04.680 --> 00:30:07.920 I used to see purple light when I first started meditating, 566 00:30:08.279 --> 00:30:11.160 but now the eye is common. I feel it is 567 00:30:11.240 --> 00:30:15.000 the divine, feminine connecting with me. The amount that her 568 00:30:15.039 --> 00:30:18.599 eye is open or closed is a barometer of how 569 00:30:18.640 --> 00:30:22.160 connected I am at the moment. It usually starts out 570 00:30:22.200 --> 00:30:25.039 closed when I first sit on my mat, but then 571 00:30:25.200 --> 00:30:29.400 opens and changes as I progress. Sometimes a gentle hand 572 00:30:29.440 --> 00:30:33.079 comes out of the eye to hold my heart or 573 00:30:33.279 --> 00:30:37.920 feed meat upgrades. Occasionally two hands come out to form 574 00:30:38.000 --> 00:30:41.240 two halves of a heart, which reminds me how loved 575 00:30:41.240 --> 00:30:45.079 I am. If I am calm, not seeking an answer 576 00:30:45.079 --> 00:30:49.000 to a question, then a wave of loving acceptance floods 577 00:30:49.079 --> 00:30:53.200 towards me. It's only happened twice but it caused such 578 00:30:53.279 --> 00:30:56.559 a change in me that I popped out of meditation 579 00:30:57.160 --> 00:31:01.559 because the frequency was so big. This started four months ago, 580 00:31:02.079 --> 00:31:04.720 so I'm still learning how she and I work together. 581 00:31:05.880 --> 00:31:09.599 Wow, we actually got a lot of emails about that, 582 00:31:09.720 --> 00:31:12.400 and so I think it must be more common, which 583 00:31:12.440 --> 00:31:13.160 is nice to know. 584 00:31:14.000 --> 00:31:14.440 It is. 585 00:31:14.799 --> 00:31:17.200 I've never seen anything come out of the eye when 586 00:31:17.240 --> 00:31:19.920 I meditate and I see and I you know, i'd 587 00:31:19.960 --> 00:31:21.880 be a little freaked out by that. But I know 588 00:31:22.039 --> 00:31:25.000 what she says about the eye. I know, like if 589 00:31:25.039 --> 00:31:28.720 I have moved away from meditation for a couple of days, 590 00:31:28.759 --> 00:31:31.279 I haven't taken time to really ground and send her 591 00:31:31.319 --> 00:31:34.440 and go within. And then after like three or four days, 592 00:31:34.440 --> 00:31:37.000 I'll close my eyes to meditate. That that eye I 593 00:31:37.039 --> 00:31:40.079 see and my third eye is closed. It's like she's saying, Nope, 594 00:31:40.119 --> 00:31:42.039 you haven't made time for me. I'm not making time 595 00:31:42.079 --> 00:31:42.400 for you. 596 00:31:42.960 --> 00:31:44.079 Oh wow. Yeah. 597 00:31:44.119 --> 00:31:46.640 And then if I keep my practice up like I'm 598 00:31:46.680 --> 00:31:50.200 supposed to, it is open that eye. But it's nice 599 00:31:50.240 --> 00:31:52.400 to know that other people have that experience too. 600 00:31:52.960 --> 00:31:55.720 It absolutely is. And I know about the eye, but 601 00:31:56.440 --> 00:32:01.480 the hands coming out and the heart, that's what's how 602 00:32:01.559 --> 00:32:02.440 lovely that is. 603 00:32:03.200 --> 00:32:05.519 I know right, And I like that. She said when 604 00:32:05.559 --> 00:32:10.799 she meditates without seeking an answer, she gets that loving feeling. 605 00:32:11.359 --> 00:32:13.680 I know exactly what she means by that too, Like 606 00:32:13.759 --> 00:32:18.000 when you're just meditating to commune and connect, it is 607 00:32:18.079 --> 00:32:22.039 so much better for me anyway than when I'm meditating 608 00:32:22.119 --> 00:32:25.000 with that you know, anxious. I need an answer, I 609 00:32:25.079 --> 00:32:25.799 need guidance. 610 00:32:26.680 --> 00:32:28.759 Yeah, sometimes you just don't need to. Sometimes you just 611 00:32:28.799 --> 00:32:32.519 need to be receptive. Yeah, absolutely lovely, Thank you. 612 00:32:33.440 --> 00:32:35.359 Our next one says, I was wondering if you had 613 00:32:35.400 --> 00:32:39.160 any suggestions for crystals to have during labor and birth. 614 00:32:39.799 --> 00:32:43.079 Along with that, what to do with them beforehand. I'm 615 00:32:43.079 --> 00:32:45.480 going to go back and listen to previous crystal episodes, 616 00:32:45.519 --> 00:32:48.000 but I'm thinking cleanse and where or work with them 617 00:32:48.039 --> 00:32:51.319 for at least two weeks beforehand. Yes, okay, So there's 618 00:32:51.359 --> 00:32:54.799 a lot of great crystals for labor and birth. My 619 00:32:54.960 --> 00:32:59.480 favorite is unakite. It is the stone of birth and rebirth. 620 00:33:00.200 --> 00:33:04.440 Moonstone is also really really wonderful for that, as is 621 00:33:04.640 --> 00:33:10.160 pink opal or pink calcite. Those are both very nurturing stones. 622 00:33:11.319 --> 00:33:15.200 White quartz, I think it's called snowy white quartz is 623 00:33:15.279 --> 00:33:18.559 really good if you choose to nurise your baby. It's 624 00:33:18.559 --> 00:33:22.119 said to help make the breastfeeding process a little bit 625 00:33:22.160 --> 00:33:25.279 easier because for first time moms it's not always so easy, 626 00:33:26.279 --> 00:33:28.880 and what I would recommend. She's absolutely right. It does 627 00:33:28.920 --> 00:33:31.599 take about two weeks for a crystal to resonate with 628 00:33:31.640 --> 00:33:35.680 your energy, so you would want to get your unikite 629 00:33:35.880 --> 00:33:39.079 or your moonstone, or whichever stone you're drawn to for 630 00:33:39.119 --> 00:33:42.400 that and wear it for at least two weeks beforehand. 631 00:33:42.960 --> 00:33:48.039 I recommend getting a unikite pendant or some beads and 632 00:33:48.079 --> 00:33:51.720 making your own bracelet or making your own necklace and 633 00:33:51.960 --> 00:33:55.079 really putting your energy into it and wearing that all 634 00:33:55.160 --> 00:33:59.720 the time so that stone is with you constantly and 635 00:33:59.799 --> 00:34:03.880 you can really help to connect deeper with with your 636 00:34:03.920 --> 00:34:07.559 baby and the labor and birth process. And as you're 637 00:34:07.599 --> 00:34:11.880 working with your unikite or your pink opal or your moonstone, 638 00:34:12.280 --> 00:34:14.800 you can you can really use it to as a 639 00:34:15.000 --> 00:34:18.280 like a meditation touchstone and hold it while you're trying 640 00:34:18.280 --> 00:34:21.760 to talk to your baby. Can't recommend that enough, especially 641 00:34:21.840 --> 00:34:25.320 during the third trimester, when I believe the soul is 642 00:34:25.400 --> 00:34:28.679 really in that in that body and can hear you 643 00:34:29.079 --> 00:34:31.880 and you can visualize an easy labor and birth, and 644 00:34:31.960 --> 00:34:34.480 you can talk to the baby about you know how 645 00:34:34.519 --> 00:34:36.519 great it will be when they when they I used 646 00:34:36.559 --> 00:34:38.119 to say to my kids all the time at my 647 00:34:38.199 --> 00:34:41.559 third trimester, the quicker you go to the light when 648 00:34:41.599 --> 00:34:44.119 you feel a little pressure, the quicker you'll be in 649 00:34:44.239 --> 00:34:47.039 mommy's arms. Remember those stories, deb. 650 00:34:47.079 --> 00:34:51.960 I too, I work you have pretty easy labors, and I've. 651 00:34:51.880 --> 00:34:55.280 Had super easy, very fast labors, and I really believe 652 00:34:55.320 --> 00:34:57.800 it's because I talked to them and told them, like, Okay, 653 00:34:57.920 --> 00:35:00.280 in a couple of weeks, you're gonna feel really height 654 00:35:00.320 --> 00:35:02.360 and constricted, and it's going to be a little scary. 655 00:35:02.920 --> 00:35:04.719 And then you're going to feel like this pushing and 656 00:35:04.760 --> 00:35:07.440 squeezing sensation and you're going to see this big light 657 00:35:07.519 --> 00:35:09.000 and you're not going to know what to do. Go 658 00:35:09.119 --> 00:35:11.519 to the light. Quicker you do that, the quicker, you're 659 00:35:11.519 --> 00:35:14.360 in my arms. 660 00:35:14.840 --> 00:35:17.800 Okay, Sabbeth, that was really interesting. 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I took a break from 679 00:36:41.239 --> 00:36:43.719 meditating and have been doing it again for a couple 680 00:36:43.719 --> 00:36:46.400 of years, but I've not been able to ground like 681 00:36:46.480 --> 00:36:49.360 I used to. When I try to drop a grounding 682 00:36:49.400 --> 00:36:51.800 cord down into the center of the earth, it does 683 00:36:51.840 --> 00:36:55.719 not stay. It immediately springs up and I cannot get 684 00:36:55.719 --> 00:36:58.639 it to connect to the center no matter what I 685 00:36:58.719 --> 00:37:02.679 try to visualize, it does not work. I've even tried 686 00:37:02.719 --> 00:37:05.480 grounding by spreading roots out of my feet and they 687 00:37:05.519 --> 00:37:09.760 won't go into ground. They stay superficial, only going an 688 00:37:09.760 --> 00:37:12.559 inch or so down. Because of this, I do not 689 00:37:12.679 --> 00:37:15.840 feel like I'm ever in my body. This just causes 690 00:37:15.880 --> 00:37:18.320 a lot of problems for me. Any idea what's going 691 00:37:18.360 --> 00:37:21.280 on in how to fix this? Let me offer a 692 00:37:21.320 --> 00:37:24.119 suggestion here, because I'm a firm believer and the feet 693 00:37:24.159 --> 00:37:28.239 on the ground root thing. But it can't just be oh, 694 00:37:28.280 --> 00:37:33.280 I'm sending roots down from my feet. What's important about 695 00:37:33.320 --> 00:37:38.320 the feet grounding technique is that you envision that the 696 00:37:38.440 --> 00:37:42.679 roots coming from your feet connect to the roots of 697 00:37:42.760 --> 00:37:45.960 everything else in the planet. Do you remember the great 698 00:37:46.159 --> 00:37:49.719 book called The Overstory by Richard Powers, and he writes 699 00:37:49.800 --> 00:37:52.559 about and several other writers have two over the past 700 00:37:52.599 --> 00:37:56.599 couple of years, about the notion that there's this network 701 00:37:56.679 --> 00:38:00.679 of roots that basically hold the planet together, and all 702 00:38:00.719 --> 00:38:04.519 the tree roots talk to each other. When we meditate 703 00:38:04.639 --> 00:38:09.360 and can envision our roots from our feet connecting to 704 00:38:09.559 --> 00:38:14.280 those other roots, then we too become grounded and a 705 00:38:14.360 --> 00:38:18.679 part of all that is. And not only are we 706 00:38:18.840 --> 00:38:22.519 sending roots down to be connected, but that energy of 707 00:38:22.599 --> 00:38:26.320 connection is coming back up into us. So rather than 708 00:38:26.360 --> 00:38:28.880 thinking of it as just going down, think of it 709 00:38:28.920 --> 00:38:33.280 as a circular flow of energy from what's below us, 710 00:38:33.360 --> 00:38:36.440 through us and back down around, so that it's both 711 00:38:37.079 --> 00:38:42.079 a giving and receiving reciprocal kind of relationship. In that 712 00:38:42.239 --> 00:38:45.239 kind of grounding, I know another way that folks really 713 00:38:45.400 --> 00:38:49.159 find it important to ground is that they bend down 714 00:38:49.599 --> 00:38:52.079 or kneel down and put their hands on the earth 715 00:38:52.119 --> 00:38:56.920 as well. So that seems to help other folks, not 716 00:38:57.000 --> 00:39:00.480 just your feet, but to use your hands as well. 717 00:39:00.559 --> 00:39:03.960 I had this problem during the COVID lockdowns. I think 718 00:39:04.000 --> 00:39:06.119 it was because I was picking up on well, I 719 00:39:06.199 --> 00:39:08.440 was feeling anxious and worried too, but I think I 720 00:39:08.519 --> 00:39:12.360 was picking up on the anxiety as well. And one 721 00:39:12.400 --> 00:39:15.000 thing that helped me a lot. I realized I couldn't 722 00:39:15.199 --> 00:39:18.599 feel that grounding energy because I just wasn't grounded. So 723 00:39:18.960 --> 00:39:20.840 there was nothing for me to connect to because I 724 00:39:20.960 --> 00:39:24.239 was just feeling disconnected, and so I had to do 725 00:39:24.280 --> 00:39:26.960 a lot of work to connect myself. And so I 726 00:39:27.000 --> 00:39:30.199 started journaling and writing down my worries and getting all 727 00:39:30.239 --> 00:39:32.800 of that out of my body, and that helped a lot. 728 00:39:33.320 --> 00:39:36.920 And then I did a different meditation that really helped me. 729 00:39:37.079 --> 00:39:39.559 And instead of a lot of times when I meditate, 730 00:39:39.559 --> 00:39:42.039 I always picture myself like walking up a mountain or 731 00:39:42.079 --> 00:39:45.480 going up high so that I'm elevating my energy. But 732 00:39:45.599 --> 00:39:48.039 I started doing a meditation where I was walking deep 733 00:39:48.119 --> 00:39:50.639 into the forest and I found a big, big tree 734 00:39:50.679 --> 00:39:53.639 with a huge trunk, and there was an opening in 735 00:39:53.679 --> 00:39:56.559 the trunk and I walked into that and went down 736 00:39:57.199 --> 00:40:01.239 wooden stairs, like from the tree trunks to the earth, 737 00:40:01.400 --> 00:40:04.960 and that actually helped me a lot. I do have 738 00:40:05.000 --> 00:40:09.239 a funny story my older sister. There's a pretty well 739 00:40:09.280 --> 00:40:11.719 known documentary It came out I think about five years 740 00:40:11.719 --> 00:40:15.679 ago on grounding. I believe it's still on YouTube. And 741 00:40:15.719 --> 00:40:18.119 she was looking at all the science about how important 742 00:40:18.119 --> 00:40:21.360 it is to ground your energy, and so she bought 743 00:40:21.440 --> 00:40:26.079 a grounding mat. You can buy mattresses that ground your 744 00:40:26.199 --> 00:40:29.119 energy while you sleep and you plug them in. They're 745 00:40:29.199 --> 00:40:32.159 kind of pricey, so you can also buy grounding mats 746 00:40:32.599 --> 00:40:34.599 that you just step on, you know, like while you're 747 00:40:34.599 --> 00:40:37.519 brushing your teeth and washing your face. But she watched 748 00:40:37.519 --> 00:40:39.480 this documentary and she's like, I'm going to buy this 749 00:40:39.559 --> 00:40:43.559 grounding mat so she's married to a brilliant engineer, but 750 00:40:43.760 --> 00:40:48.039 you know engineers, they're very, very left brained, analytical, so 751 00:40:48.079 --> 00:40:51.360 she didn't really tell him, you know, hey, underneath the 752 00:40:51.440 --> 00:40:53.800 sheets and everything, I have a grounding mat plugged in. 753 00:40:54.280 --> 00:40:57.800 She just put it in and didn't tell them, and 754 00:40:57.960 --> 00:41:01.719 she started sleeping beautifully, and he started sleeping great, and 755 00:41:01.760 --> 00:41:04.559 his back pain started to go away. And after like 756 00:41:04.599 --> 00:41:06.719 a week he said to her, I don't know what's happening. 757 00:41:07.719 --> 00:41:10.400 Am I cutting down on caffeine? Like I'm sleeping so great, 758 00:41:10.440 --> 00:41:13.000 my back doesn't hurt. And so she finally told him 759 00:41:13.119 --> 00:41:17.119 there's a grounding mat underneath all the sheets. And I 760 00:41:17.199 --> 00:41:19.639 don't know if he's a believer now, but that definitely 761 00:41:20.000 --> 00:41:23.119 changed his mind on grounding. So I would recommend you 762 00:41:23.159 --> 00:41:26.519 can try that as well, but just know that sometimes 763 00:41:26.559 --> 00:41:28.960 this is common as we're just picking up on the 764 00:41:29.119 --> 00:41:32.800 energies within us and around us. You can also look 765 00:41:32.840 --> 00:41:37.760 into the Shumann resonance and see if your energy reacts 766 00:41:37.760 --> 00:41:40.920 to that. There's different sites you can follow on social 767 00:41:40.960 --> 00:41:43.920 media that will tell you what the residence of the 768 00:41:43.960 --> 00:41:47.440 earth is every day, and sometimes that can give you 769 00:41:47.519 --> 00:41:51.440 an idea of where your energy is okay. Next one says, 770 00:41:51.960 --> 00:41:55.719 recently a longtime friend passed away, and the night before 771 00:41:55.719 --> 00:41:58.800 the viewing, he was in my dream. Nothing odd or 772 00:41:58.920 --> 00:42:02.679 dramatic orge that I recall, but clearly he was in 773 00:42:02.719 --> 00:42:06.280 my dream. My question is it more likely that I 774 00:42:06.440 --> 00:42:10.079 manufactured his image or could he have pushed himself into 775 00:42:10.119 --> 00:42:14.679 my dream for a reason I can't understand. Well, I 776 00:42:14.719 --> 00:42:17.480 suppose it is possible that you were just thinking about 777 00:42:17.559 --> 00:42:19.280 him and had a dream of him, But the fact 778 00:42:19.320 --> 00:42:21.599 that it stayed with you and it was so vivid, 779 00:42:21.719 --> 00:42:24.079 and it feels like there was a motion connected to it, 780 00:42:24.760 --> 00:42:27.599 I do believe that he was visiting you. That is 781 00:42:27.639 --> 00:42:31.440 something I've seen many many times when talking to people 782 00:42:31.440 --> 00:42:34.559 who've lost loved ones, and it's something I've experienced too. 783 00:42:34.760 --> 00:42:38.360 I'm sure you have as well. Deb There's this feeling 784 00:42:38.559 --> 00:42:43.679 of I remember when a family member died and she 785 00:42:43.880 --> 00:42:45.559 was around all of us and she kept saying, I 786 00:42:45.599 --> 00:42:48.079 have three days, I have three days. I'm not going anywhere, 787 00:42:48.119 --> 00:42:49.800 I have three days before I have to cross into 788 00:42:49.840 --> 00:42:53.480 the light. And she was saying her goodbyes to everyone, 789 00:42:54.199 --> 00:42:56.480 and so she would pop up in dreams or I 790 00:42:56.519 --> 00:42:59.360 would just feel her around us, and so it could 791 00:42:59.360 --> 00:43:01.440 just be that he would popping in just to say 792 00:43:01.480 --> 00:43:03.519 his goodbyes before he moved into the light. 793 00:43:04.400 --> 00:43:07.519 What do you think, Yeah, I think so. I mean 794 00:43:07.559 --> 00:43:11.400 when we had that kind of an intense emotional connection 795 00:43:11.559 --> 00:43:14.599 to someone and they're across the veil and they're trying 796 00:43:14.639 --> 00:43:17.880 to get oriented, that's one of the times we're most 797 00:43:17.920 --> 00:43:20.119 likely to be able to catch up with them and 798 00:43:20.159 --> 00:43:22.639 talk to them or hear from them in some way. 799 00:43:23.360 --> 00:43:25.440 I think they come in our dreams often. I know 800 00:43:25.480 --> 00:43:26.360 my mom did that. 801 00:43:26.639 --> 00:43:30.119 It's a beautiful way for them to say I'm with you, 802 00:43:30.320 --> 00:43:34.039 I'm seeing that you're there, that you're connecting and saying goodbyes, 803 00:43:34.079 --> 00:43:36.360 and so I want to say goodbye too. One of 804 00:43:36.400 --> 00:43:40.000 my favorite books about stories like that is called Postcards 805 00:43:40.000 --> 00:43:41.159 from Heaven. Do you remember that? 806 00:43:41.320 --> 00:43:41.519 When? 807 00:43:41.599 --> 00:43:42.960 Was it written in like the eighties? 808 00:43:43.480 --> 00:43:45.480 I think so, And it's a great book. 809 00:43:45.360 --> 00:43:47.960 It is, and I believe it's still in print. It's 810 00:43:47.960 --> 00:43:50.719 written by a couple and they just collected a whole 811 00:43:50.800 --> 00:43:53.880 bunch of stories like this of loved ones who had 812 00:43:53.880 --> 00:43:56.639 died and came back through dreams or signs like the 813 00:43:56.639 --> 00:43:59.559 ones we've shared in today's show to say a little 814 00:43:59.559 --> 00:44:02.199 goodbye and so that's why they called it Postcards from Heaven. 815 00:44:02.280 --> 00:44:03.719 So I recommend you check that out. 816 00:44:04.480 --> 00:44:07.920 Okay, do we have time for one more, Samantha, Yes, okay. 817 00:44:08.239 --> 00:44:11.280 I was out doing our weekly shopping this Sunday and 818 00:44:11.360 --> 00:44:14.719 let my kids play on those rides. On the middle 819 00:44:14.719 --> 00:44:18.039 of the shopping center. While I was standing waiting for 820 00:44:18.119 --> 00:44:22.199 the ride to finish, a blue happy Birthday balloon floated 821 00:44:22.239 --> 00:44:26.159 towards me. Without using my intuition. I grabbed the balloon 822 00:44:26.239 --> 00:44:28.880 and let my kids play with it. We took it 823 00:44:28.960 --> 00:44:31.400 home and I left it in the formal living room. 824 00:44:32.000 --> 00:44:33.840 I went to the kitchen and made lunch, but I 825 00:44:33.880 --> 00:44:37.480 had feeling something was behind me. I looked back and 826 00:44:37.519 --> 00:44:40.119 the balloon had floated into the kitchen, right behind me. 827 00:44:40.920 --> 00:44:43.599 I thought, how odd, since there was no breeze or 828 00:44:43.679 --> 00:44:46.239 air flow that would have moved it so far. I 829 00:44:46.320 --> 00:44:48.320 grabbed the balloon and took it back to the living 830 00:44:48.400 --> 00:44:52.400 room about twenty feet away, and went back to the kitchen. 831 00:44:53.280 --> 00:44:56.280 Within minutes, I had the same inkling that something was 832 00:44:56.320 --> 00:45:00.280 behind me again, and there it was again. My heart 833 00:45:00.360 --> 00:45:03.039 starts racing and I put the balloon in a box. 834 00:45:03.639 --> 00:45:06.079 My husband returns home and I tell him the story, 835 00:45:06.639 --> 00:45:10.000 and he reminds me that it was his deceased nephew's 836 00:45:10.000 --> 00:45:13.559 birthday a couple of days ago. Then it all clicked. 837 00:45:14.119 --> 00:45:18.320 Since his nephew's passing, I have dozens of happenings that 838 00:45:18.440 --> 00:45:22.079 remind me of him. I've also been meditating and using 839 00:45:22.119 --> 00:45:26.159 crystals to close the door to signs from him, as 840 00:45:26.199 --> 00:45:30.119 I do not enjoy the interaction. I find it puzzling 841 00:45:30.159 --> 00:45:32.679 as to why I keep getting these messages from him. 842 00:45:33.079 --> 00:45:36.079 But I'm not close to his parents or even fond 843 00:45:36.119 --> 00:45:39.760 of them, nor was I close to this nephew before 844 00:45:39.800 --> 00:45:44.559 his passing. But I'm still thankful for this gift. I 845 00:45:44.599 --> 00:45:47.199 really enjoy listening to the podcast and want to thank 846 00:45:47.239 --> 00:45:53.000 you for creating a safe space to share experiences. Well, 847 00:45:53.320 --> 00:45:56.400 my goodness, he certainly wanted you to know he was around, 848 00:45:56.440 --> 00:45:56.760 didn't he. 849 00:45:57.840 --> 00:46:01.000 Oftentimes I feel they can only connect with the person 850 00:46:01.280 --> 00:46:04.920 who's not grieving, which it doesn't sound like she is, 851 00:46:05.639 --> 00:46:10.559 and the person that is most intuitive right. So I 852 00:46:10.599 --> 00:46:14.119 think that's why he's able to get these messages to her. 853 00:46:14.840 --> 00:46:17.159 And I know necessarily that he wanted her to do 854 00:46:17.199 --> 00:46:20.440 anything with them. I don't think he needed her to 855 00:46:20.639 --> 00:46:23.280 go tell his parents anything about him, but I think 856 00:46:23.480 --> 00:46:26.960 he just needed to say, you know, yeah, there really 857 00:46:27.000 --> 00:46:29.719 is life after and I can really connect with you 858 00:46:29.880 --> 00:46:31.400 in some way. 859 00:46:31.639 --> 00:46:35.960 And it might be for her husband too, maybe because 860 00:46:35.960 --> 00:46:39.239 it was his nephew, so maybe it was connect you know, 861 00:46:39.280 --> 00:46:42.039 a message for him that he's okay. But I would 862 00:46:42.039 --> 00:46:44.679 also say keep him in your prayers, because whenever I 863 00:46:44.719 --> 00:46:47.880 hear nephew like, it just makes me feel like he 864 00:46:47.920 --> 00:46:49.719 died before his time, right. 865 00:46:50.280 --> 00:46:53.639 Yeah, yeah, it does. I mean certainly younger in some way. 866 00:46:54.039 --> 00:46:58.800 Yeah, And oftentimes when younger people pass, they're desperate to 867 00:46:58.840 --> 00:47:00.840 get a message to their p and they're going to 868 00:47:00.960 --> 00:47:03.519 use any way that they can just to let them 869 00:47:03.559 --> 00:47:06.880 know I made it, I'm okay. And so just keep 870 00:47:06.920 --> 00:47:09.800 him in your prayers, I would, I would say. And 871 00:47:09.840 --> 00:47:13.320 speaking speaking of sad things, before we wrap up, we 872 00:47:13.400 --> 00:47:16.760 have a long time listener that deb and I just 873 00:47:16.880 --> 00:47:21.800 adored named Ruben. Every year on our birthday and every holiday, 874 00:47:21.960 --> 00:47:25.679 he would handmake cards for Deb and myself and he 875 00:47:25.679 --> 00:47:30.000 will absolutely interested them Lady Deborah and Lady Samantha. 876 00:47:30.480 --> 00:47:31.679 It was just so sweet. 877 00:47:31.719 --> 00:47:35.039 Anyway, we just found out that he passed away in 878 00:47:35.159 --> 00:47:39.039 October and we are just so so sad to hear 879 00:47:39.119 --> 00:47:41.719 that news, and just wanting to ask you to keep 880 00:47:41.760 --> 00:47:44.920 Reuben in your prayers and just send him some light 881 00:47:45.000 --> 00:47:47.559 as you're listening to this. We would be very very grateful. 882 00:47:48.079 --> 00:47:51.079 Please please do. I think one of the things that 883 00:47:51.280 --> 00:47:55.800 I so appreciated and loved about him was that the 884 00:47:55.920 --> 00:48:01.960 cards were so deeply personal. He really listened to us 885 00:48:02.039 --> 00:48:06.639 as we talked and knew what really resonated with us, 886 00:48:06.760 --> 00:48:10.960 and the cards were three dimnche they just lovely. I 887 00:48:11.000 --> 00:48:14.280 still have them, astman, I have all those cards, and 888 00:48:14.320 --> 00:48:17.440 I just think that's just such a lovely thing from 889 00:48:17.480 --> 00:48:20.639 such a kind, kind person. So please keep him in 890 00:48:20.679 --> 00:48:22.639 your thoughts. He was a delightful. 891 00:48:22.159 --> 00:48:26.119 Person, definitely was. And thank you guys so much for 892 00:48:26.239 --> 00:48:28.639 listening to us this week. We hope you enjoy these 893 00:48:28.719 --> 00:48:31.480 questions and stories. Remember you can always send us one 894 00:48:31.519 --> 00:48:35.000 Psychic Teachers at gmail dot com. 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