Speaker 1: Your tooth has been bothering you, so you went and
Speaker 1: got some fake They.
Speaker 2: Had some fake jealous She came.
Speaker 3: Back into the room like she had just had oral surgery,
Speaker 3: Like she's loopy in the head, Like.
Speaker 4: My mouth is dumb.
Speaker 5: Now I don't know, I don't know what I'm doing.
Speaker 5: Just realize I cannot be held a catle over my
Speaker 5: actions topographical.
Speaker 3: Then we got o ointments growds to no longer hold
Speaker 3: me responsible as an adult.
Speaker 2: It feels so much better.
Speaker 1: I am surprised they don't have just a little, you know,
Speaker 1: needlefull heroin in there for you.
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna try heroin now.
Speaker 6: A couple of big stories that we are following.
Speaker 1: Uh, it looks like President Trump is going to sign
Speaker 1: the Lake and Riley Act here. This will be the
Speaker 1: first legislation to get a signature since he went back
Speaker 1: into the White House.
Speaker 6: Named in the memory of Lake and Ryley.
Speaker 1: This nursing student killed by an illegal alien in Georgia
Speaker 1: would allow the detention of undocumented immigrants accused of theft
Speaker 1: related crimes. He had apparently been released many times on
Speaker 1: those theft related crimes before being accused of murder. Fed
Speaker 1: Reserve kept their interest rates level. Investors widely expected that
Speaker 1: the decision to maintain the current level does pause a
Speaker 1: series of three consecutive interest rate cuts imposed by the
Speaker 1: Fed over the final months of last year. And the
Speaker 1: National Weather Services it is cold and getting colder. We
Speaker 1: could see temperatures into the mid twenties in some parts
Speaker 1: of La County tonight into tomorrow morning.
Speaker 2: Did we ever play the thing?
Speaker 4: This is by far my favorite day to be here.
Speaker 1: I just why why you're low grade high?
Speaker 2: I don't think it makes you high. You guys, it's Origella.
Speaker 3: At nineteen year old on a zema right now, like,
Speaker 3: it's very strange to see you.
Speaker 4: I don't understand.
Speaker 2: Institution.
Speaker 6: Here's here's the other thing.
Speaker 1: Justin she has this has been dry January, probably the
Speaker 1: most chemically intoxicated.
Speaker 3: She's what's true?
Speaker 4: I am sorry.
Speaker 3: I did not know that was that was that was
Speaker 3: just below my Dave week the backle of the previous
Speaker 3: It's okay, it's all right.
Speaker 2: I'm basically dying of a toothpaint.
Speaker 1: No, and I'm sorry of Justin Warshon was joined as
Speaker 1: we talk about parenting stuff.
Speaker 6: Uh and you still parent?
Speaker 4: Yep? So far.
Speaker 2: So?
Speaker 7: I sorry, sorry interrupting, interrupting party of one. I was
Speaker 7: reading People magazine last night and it came across an
Speaker 7: article about a documentary on HBO. An Update on our
Speaker 7: Family is the name of the documentary, and it opened
Speaker 7: me up to this whole world I did not know existed,
Speaker 7: and I'm terrified of it. And it is people who
Speaker 7: have kids and go on YouTube and chronicle their entire
Speaker 7: lives with their kids. Husbands are in on it, wives, kids,
Speaker 7: They document everything from sun up to sundown, and they
Speaker 7: make money off of it, sponsorships and stuff. And the
Speaker 7: whole thing is that, like some people have babies just
Speaker 7: to get more followers, because when baby news happens, there's
Speaker 7: a an obvious bump in followership. And the more followers
Speaker 7: you have, the more lucrative endorsements you have, and all
Speaker 7: of that.
Speaker 2: It's terrifying how prevalent it is.
Speaker 3: I every time you hear about this, where you know, like,
Speaker 3: I've yet to see a successful family have a reality show,
Speaker 3: and that's a point like come out and be like
Speaker 3: everything was great, like we maintained just and you start
Speaker 3: to wonder, like, is a lot of the drama produced
Speaker 3: because they need to make it interesting or does it
Speaker 3: become this thing where your job has now become interesting
Speaker 3: so you have to manifest drama in your life where
Speaker 3: normally there might not be any. Or is it a
Speaker 3: genuine reflection that just most family struggle, like most people
Speaker 3: are just struggling to have what we would like to
Speaker 3: be a regular normal life. I don't know, but this
Speaker 3: seems like just a horrible reason to have a family.
Speaker 3: And I just like when my my son, who wanted
Speaker 3: he wants to be an actor, he came to be
Speaker 3: when it's eight and I just flat out told him no,
Speaker 3: I'm like because, and he's like why, and I gocuse. Statistically,
Speaker 3: it doesn't break well for you because dads are built
Speaker 3: to squash dreams. Exactly, Thank you, Gary. I thought I
Speaker 3: was doing my job to make him creative. Right, he
Speaker 3: has to have an abusive father so he can lash
Speaker 3: out and write negative characters his fathers and movies. Yeah,
Speaker 3: all he want to do is work. He just wanted
Speaker 3: to work. I hate every family movie ever made where
Speaker 3: the dad is like, I'm just trying to pay for
Speaker 3: you in this three thousand square foot house. But I'm
Speaker 3: the animal, I'm the villain. Oh, we're only happy when
Speaker 3: dad's not working.
Speaker 6: Welcome.
Speaker 3: Yeah, evidently I'm coming in hot and I apologize.
Speaker 2: I feel bad for dat.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean right, how why would you have like
Speaker 3: you don't. You don't make a person for content. That's
Speaker 3: not a reason to have it.
Speaker 7: That's exactly what they take of it is is that
Speaker 7: you're making things for content. You're using your family for content.
Speaker 7: And it's disgusting.
Speaker 3: And the volume of time that your kids like you
Speaker 3: just hear so many interviews of people who grow up
Speaker 3: in entertainment, and now they have to learn about dealing
Speaker 3: with the idea that all of their mistakes are publicized
Speaker 3: whereas ours aren't. Right, Like, we get to screw up
Speaker 3: and nobody really knows. But if somebody who's famous screws
Speaker 3: up or they have a million followers on YouTube.
Speaker 6: It's hard to hide from that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I still like there was a couple I
Speaker 3: saw documentary. I think it was a documentary on like
Speaker 3: I think it was maybe you porn or something or
Speaker 3: porn Hub.
Speaker 1: It is like some kind of there was a this
Speaker 1: where you watch your documentaries. Yeah, why is that not?
Speaker 1: It's a great there's a lot of them. Got I
Speaker 1: haven't even scratched the surface, it seems. But really short anyway.
Speaker 3: About this, Yes, it was about like the development of
Speaker 3: the porn hub site. And I think there was like
Speaker 3: there or something. There was a family that was there.
Speaker 3: Oh it was Ashley Madison. I'm sorry all of the
Speaker 3: greats that I'm going through, but there was a family
Speaker 3: that they were.
Speaker 4: Like a good Christian couple.
Speaker 3: And then it came out that this that the husband
Speaker 3: who was on this YouTube channel, that they were a
Speaker 3: good Christian couple, he was having multiple affairs through Ashley Madison,
Speaker 3: and then he had to kind of deal with that
Speaker 3: publicly because people started finding out when there was a
Speaker 3: data leak about who was on Ashley Madison and his
Speaker 3: name came up. So like, I just and it's rough, right,
Speaker 3: Like how like I just don't know of anybody who
Speaker 3: comes out of that okay where the family seems good.
Speaker 3: But how many of your friends have families that you
Speaker 3: would say like they're doing great, like maybe or maybe
Speaker 3: not even great, but just good.
Speaker 1: Well, I you know, there I can think of a few,
Speaker 1: a handful probably that probably overshare about stuff, but they
Speaker 1: only overshare the most positive stuff. And you know it
Speaker 1: can't be all positive. It just can't. There's just no way.
Speaker 3: Well, and I'm even saying, like in your circle of friends,
Speaker 3: all of our circle of friends, I would say probably
Speaker 3: my perception is that at least seventy percent of my
Speaker 3: friends have a really good family life, Like things are good?
Speaker 4: Right? Is that? Do you think that I'm wrong about that?
Speaker 6: Well? What's your definition of good?
Speaker 4: I mean, not like.
Speaker 3: Your marriage is on the rocks. Yeah, not the marriages
Speaker 3: on the rocks. The kids are being neglected or or
Speaker 3: like out of line.
Speaker 1: It may not be easy, but it's good. Yes, Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know about seventy percent. But I mean because
Speaker 1: I think I think people would be They're less likely
Speaker 1: to share with you the information that would make I
Speaker 1: think that it is not so good.
Speaker 3: And that's because I've made this joke recently. I was
Speaker 3: hanging out with people, and I'm not good at that.
Speaker 3: Like I say everything like I don't.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 3: I say the things I mess up, I say the
Speaker 3: things that I succeed at.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 3: People tell me all the time, like that's probably something
Speaker 3: you shouldn't be telling you.
Speaker 6: I'm glad you come in here and do it.
Speaker 1: Everyone, let's talk about emotional Well, which one do you want?
Speaker 6: You want a hardest age or let's.
Speaker 2: Talk about emotional emotional.
Speaker 3: Regulation the emotional So what they found is that the
Speaker 3: common factor or the best way or the parent who
Speaker 3: has the most impact on a kid who can regulate
Speaker 3: their emotions is a father. Because fathers are prone to,
Speaker 3: like they use the example of rough house, like rough
Speaker 3: housing while while you're wrestling with your kid and you
Speaker 3: have a smile on their face and they feel like
Speaker 3: they're doing stuff that's rough, but they never get hurt,
Speaker 3: right that that teaches them to kind of deal with
Speaker 3: a little bit of anxiety. And dads are also prone
Speaker 3: to like push their kids to more risky situations.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: As an example, my kids used to jump on our
Speaker 1: bed and we would do a pillow fight. Yeah, many
Speaker 1: many days, many many days out of the week. And
Speaker 1: the rule was the first person who cries the first cry, Yeah,
Speaker 1: game's over, games over all, shuts down and kick out
Speaker 1: of those kids to start out fun and funny and
Speaker 1: like you know, push them over and get old. Yeah
Speaker 1: that in that vein and not eighteen no, no, we
Speaker 1: tried that once. I did not worry, you cried, but
Speaker 1: I there was a time when I would ramp up,
Speaker 1: you know, you'd get it, and then there was like
Speaker 1: this is going to go on forever unless one of
Speaker 1: these guys cry. So I just rare back and what.
Speaker 2: Am throw a kid against a wall?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 6: I never did that.
Speaker 1: I would just knock him off the bed because that
Speaker 1: at least the floors carpeted.
Speaker 6: You would purpose.
Speaker 2: What I'm hearing is you would purposefully make your children cry.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what a father does, Shannon, Hello.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm regulating their emotions interesting else, teaching them to.
Speaker 3: Deal with the negative experience, which that's to me is
Speaker 3: I really can resonate with that, Like I really think
Speaker 3: that that's what dads do.
Speaker 4: Is that this whole.
Speaker 7: I left all the corporal punishment up to my brother.
Speaker 6: I think, oh what they outsourced it.
Speaker 7: In terms of being thrown against a wall and things
Speaker 7: like that pillow fight, stuff like that.
Speaker 6: He would do that to you.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but your dad wasn't a guy who would
Speaker 3: wrestle or do any now, but would he make you
Speaker 3: do like kind of scary things like I don't know,
Speaker 3: go out on a fishing boat.
Speaker 2: Or something something that makes you go wouldn't know what
Speaker 2: to do with a fishing boat.
Speaker 7: Okay, did you not really?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: That was my brother too.
Speaker 4: What did you What kind of stuff did you do
Speaker 4: with your watch?
Speaker 7: Mafia movies, football games, go to the Wiener Schnitzel, I.
Speaker 3: Still think, I mean, honestly, I think Sitzel and Mafia
Speaker 3: movies definitely count as we're taking risks right, yes, Like
Speaker 3: it's a scary movie, probably a little bit beyond your years,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: That makes you feel a little uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: What about in your house?
Speaker 7: Who's the emotional who drives the emotional train?
Speaker 4: How dare you don't I'm not going to step on
Speaker 4: that landmark.
Speaker 7: I was just curious if it's the woman in any
Speaker 7: of these situations, it definitely is.
Speaker 3: I'm probably I would say my wife is closer to
Speaker 3: the Gary unemotional spectrum than she is to uh.
Speaker 4: Your city, my definite, like easily. But I'm also the guy.
Speaker 3: Like we just had this, we went through this with
Speaker 3: I was starting to tell Gary off the air. My
Speaker 3: thirteen year old came and said, I want to get
Speaker 3: a job, and my wife's first reaction was you're too
Speaker 3: young to have a job, And I said, no, I
Speaker 3: give it a shot. And then I talked to her
Speaker 3: in private. I said, let's not tell him that he's
Speaker 3: too young, like, let him go try to figure out.
Speaker 3: He found a local place that was within walking distance
Speaker 3: of our house and he wanted to go there to
Speaker 3: do the thing where you say, hey, I want to
Speaker 3: get a job. And she's like, well, go drive him,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, no, he can walk, he's got a phone.
Speaker 3: It's initiative, yes, yes, and so I want to keep
Speaker 3: that to me, is like kind of what they're talking
Speaker 3: about a.
Speaker 4: Baby praise on myself. I'm crushing it like these dads
Speaker 4: in this study.
Speaker 7: Yes, it's true, that's good. I mean, I think initiatives
Speaker 7: should be rewarded. Especially we're talking yesterday about kids coming
Speaker 7: out of college and they're getting fired because they don't
Speaker 7: show initiative.
Speaker 3: Right, they don't know what to do. And that's and again,
Speaker 3: all of this was uncoached. It just came out of nowhere.
Speaker 3: The only coaching I get him was like here, like
Speaker 3: I kind of role played the scenario.
Speaker 4: He would say, well, what are they going to ask?
Speaker 4: Or what should I ask?
Speaker 3: And I talked him through it, and he wanted to
Speaker 3: go through every possible scenario and I just told him.
Speaker 3: I said, listen, there's so many variables, it's not worth planning.
Speaker 4: To this level.
Speaker 2: You should drop them off at Chris Little's house.
Speaker 4: Oh he'll, he'll really run him through the ring.
Speaker 7: Yeah, the interview, he would. He was kind of known
Speaker 7: for asking bizarre questions like, you say you were dropped
Speaker 7: in at the bottom of a blender, how would you
Speaker 7: get out?
Speaker 6: How do you get out?
Speaker 2: How do you get out?
Speaker 4: Oh? Man, I didn't even make it to the interview.
Speaker 4: When I applied.
Speaker 3: Past the writing exam, I will, I'm going to I'm
Speaker 3: going to come up with some fun scenarios.
Speaker 2: That's a writing exam, not when I.
Speaker 4: Submitted to be.
Speaker 3: When I was working here, I tried to be an
Speaker 3: anchor at one point on the weekend or overnight.
Speaker 2: I failed him exam at Fox News in New York.
Speaker 4: I have that in common then, only mine was name.
Speaker 2: All the justices.
Speaker 6: On the Supreme Court.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like twenty two.
Speaker 6: I do like that.
Speaker 2: It's business.
Speaker 1: Male parents tend to be more supportive of their kids
Speaker 1: taking risks. But I think there's at least a percentage
Speaker 1: of that, which is I don't care what you do
Speaker 1: for a dad, Like well.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna start to see the difference between
Speaker 1: diesel and gasoline, like, which warns Hotter, you'd be like, okay,
Speaker 1: learned age, you're gonna learn something.
Speaker 6: I don't know if you're gonna learn the difference.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I am.
Speaker 4: I've always been wired.
Speaker 3: As emotional as I am about my kids, I have
Speaker 3: always been wired to let them fail because I, like
Speaker 3: I told my son, I go, either you're going to
Speaker 3: get a job or you're gonna learn from this experience.
Speaker 3: I go, don't try to overplan and over calculate the
Speaker 3: whole thing. I said, just go and try it. You've
Speaker 3: never done this before, so it's unreasonable to expect yourself
Speaker 3: to be good at it.
Speaker 4: Plan that. You're just gonna go in there and either
Speaker 4: do it or you're gonna learn something. And that's all
Speaker 4: you got to do. And he got the job, so
Speaker 4: it all worked out for him, And I was wrong.
Speaker 4: I definitely thought he was not going to get a job.
Speaker 1: You're like, dang, I missed that opportunity.
Speaker 7: Just to do my due diligence. You do live in
Speaker 7: the valley. This is not adult related, is it?
Speaker 4: No? I don't think so.
Speaker 6: At the age of thirteen.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Jesus, you can operate the boom or something.
Speaker 2: The boom like the microphone, Oh.
Speaker 4: The microphone like okay, yeah, I see on.
Speaker 2: Like a pretty sure you know where he's working.
Speaker 3: I do know what he's working. I mean, could they
Speaker 3: be playing like Piegal out of the back for money?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with that. In fact, you need the
Speaker 2: address I've.
Speaker 4: You're on the air.
Speaker 6: Did I just randomly picked illegal?
Speaker 4: Look how it activated her?
Speaker 3: Like the Ora Joe wore off and it's when you
Speaker 3: mentioned gambling she came alive.
Speaker 1: Adrenaline does amazing things. Justin thank you as always.
Speaker 2: The Orange War Off.
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