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<v Speaker 1>Your tooth has been bothering you, so you went and

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<v Speaker 1>got some fake They.

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<v Speaker 2>Had some fake jealous She came.

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<v Speaker 3>Back into the room like she had just had oral surgery,

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<v Speaker 3>Like she's loopy in the head, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>My mouth is dumb.

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<v Speaker 5>Now I don't know, I don't know what I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 5>Just realize I cannot be held a catle over my

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<v Speaker 5>actions topographical.

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<v Speaker 3>Then we got o ointments growds to no longer hold

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<v Speaker 3>me responsible as an adult.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels so much better.

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<v Speaker 1>I am surprised they don't have just a little, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>needlefull heroin in there for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm gonna try heroin now.

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<v Speaker 6>A couple of big stories that we are following.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, it looks like President Trump is going to sign

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<v Speaker 1>the Lake and Riley Act here. This will be the

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<v Speaker 1>first legislation to get a signature since he went back

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<v Speaker 1>into the White House.

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<v Speaker 6>Named in the memory of Lake and Ryley.

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<v Speaker 1>This nursing student killed by an illegal alien in Georgia

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<v Speaker 1>would allow the detention of undocumented immigrants accused of theft

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<v Speaker 1>related crimes. He had apparently been released many times on

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<v Speaker 1>those theft related crimes before being accused of murder. Fed

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<v Speaker 1>Reserve kept their interest rates level. Investors widely expected that

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<v Speaker 1>the decision to maintain the current level does pause a

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<v Speaker 1>series of three consecutive interest rate cuts imposed by the

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<v Speaker 1>Fed over the final months of last year. And the

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<v Speaker 1>National Weather Services it is cold and getting colder. We

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<v Speaker 1>could see temperatures into the mid twenties in some parts

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<v Speaker 1>of La County tonight into tomorrow morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Did we ever play the thing?

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<v Speaker 4>This is by far my favorite day to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>I just why why you're low grade high?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it makes you high. You guys, it's Origella.

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<v Speaker 3>At nineteen year old on a zema right now, like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's very strange to see you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 2>Institution.

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<v Speaker 6>Here's here's the other thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Justin she has this has been dry January, probably the

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<v Speaker 1>most chemically intoxicated.

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<v Speaker 3>She's what's true?

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<v Speaker 4>I am sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not know that was that was that was

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<v Speaker 3>just below my Dave week the backle of the previous

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<v Speaker 3>It's okay, it's all right.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm basically dying of a toothpaint.

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<v Speaker 1>No, and I'm sorry of Justin Warshon was joined as

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about parenting stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh and you still parent?

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<v Speaker 4>Yep? So far.

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 7>I sorry, sorry interrupting, interrupting party of one. I was

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<v Speaker 7>reading People magazine last night and it came across an

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<v Speaker 7>article about a documentary on HBO. An Update on our

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<v Speaker 7>Family is the name of the documentary, and it opened

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<v Speaker 7>me up to this whole world I did not know existed,

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<v Speaker 7>and I'm terrified of it. And it is people who

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<v Speaker 7>have kids and go on YouTube and chronicle their entire

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<v Speaker 7>lives with their kids. Husbands are in on it, wives, kids,

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<v Speaker 7>They document everything from sun up to sundown, and they

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<v Speaker 7>make money off of it, sponsorships and stuff. And the

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<v Speaker 7>whole thing is that, like some people have babies just

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<v Speaker 7>to get more followers, because when baby news happens, there's

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<v Speaker 7>a an obvious bump in followership. And the more followers

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<v Speaker 7>you have, the more lucrative endorsements you have, and all

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<v Speaker 7>of that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's terrifying how prevalent it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I every time you hear about this, where you know, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I've yet to see a successful family have a reality show,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's a point like come out and be like

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<v Speaker 3>everything was great, like we maintained just and you start

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<v Speaker 3>to wonder, like, is a lot of the drama produced

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<v Speaker 3>because they need to make it interesting or does it

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<v Speaker 3>become this thing where your job has now become interesting

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<v Speaker 3>so you have to manifest drama in your life where

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<v Speaker 3>normally there might not be any. Or is it a

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<v Speaker 3>genuine reflection that just most family struggle, like most people

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<v Speaker 3>are just struggling to have what we would like to

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<v Speaker 3>be a regular normal life. I don't know, but this

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<v Speaker 3>seems like just a horrible reason to have a family.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just like when my my son, who wanted

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<v Speaker 3>he wants to be an actor, he came to be

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<v Speaker 3>when it's eight and I just flat out told him no,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like because, and he's like why, and I gocuse. Statistically,

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<v Speaker 3>it doesn't break well for you because dads are built

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<v Speaker 3>to squash dreams. Exactly, Thank you, Gary. I thought I

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<v Speaker 3>was doing my job to make him creative. Right, he

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<v Speaker 3>has to have an abusive father so he can lash

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<v Speaker 3>out and write negative characters his fathers and movies. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>all he want to do is work. He just wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to work. I hate every family movie ever made where

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<v Speaker 3>the dad is like, I'm just trying to pay for

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<v Speaker 3>you in this three thousand square foot house. But I'm

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<v Speaker 3>the animal, I'm the villain. Oh, we're only happy when

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<v Speaker 3>dad's not working.

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<v Speaker 6>Welcome.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, evidently I'm coming in hot and I apologize.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad for dat.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean right, how why would you have like

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<v Speaker 3>you don't. You don't make a person for content. That's

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<v Speaker 3>not a reason to have it.

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<v Speaker 7>That's exactly what they take of it is is that

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<v Speaker 7>you're making things for content. You're using your family for content.

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<v Speaker 7>And it's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 3>And the volume of time that your kids like you

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<v Speaker 3>just hear so many interviews of people who grow up

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<v Speaker 3>in entertainment, and now they have to learn about dealing

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<v Speaker 3>with the idea that all of their mistakes are publicized

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<v Speaker 3>whereas ours aren't. Right, Like, we get to screw up

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<v Speaker 3>and nobody really knows. But if somebody who's famous screws

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<v Speaker 3>up or they have a million followers on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 6>It's hard to hide from that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I still like there was a couple I

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<v Speaker 3>saw documentary. I think it was a documentary on like

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was maybe you porn or something or

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<v Speaker 3>porn Hub.

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<v Speaker 1>It is like some kind of there was a this

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<v Speaker 1>where you watch your documentaries. Yeah, why is that not?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great there's a lot of them. Got I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't even scratched the surface, it seems. But really short anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>About this, Yes, it was about like the development of

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<v Speaker 3>the porn hub site. And I think there was like

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<v Speaker 3>there or something. There was a family that was there.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh it was Ashley Madison. I'm sorry all of the

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<v Speaker 3>greats that I'm going through, but there was a family

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<v Speaker 3>that they were.

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<v Speaker 4>Like a good Christian couple.

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<v Speaker 3>And then it came out that this that the husband

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<v Speaker 3>who was on this YouTube channel, that they were a

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<v Speaker 3>good Christian couple, he was having multiple affairs through Ashley Madison,

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<v Speaker 3>and then he had to kind of deal with that

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<v Speaker 3>publicly because people started finding out when there was a

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<v Speaker 3>data leak about who was on Ashley Madison and his

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<v Speaker 3>name came up. So like, I just and it's rough, right,

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<v Speaker 3>Like how like I just don't know of anybody who

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<v Speaker 3>comes out of that okay where the family seems good.

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<v Speaker 3>But how many of your friends have families that you

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<v Speaker 3>would say like they're doing great, like maybe or maybe

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<v Speaker 3>not even great, but just good.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I you know, there I can think of a few,

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<v Speaker 1>a handful probably that probably overshare about stuff, but they

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<v Speaker 1>only overshare the most positive stuff. And you know it

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<v Speaker 1>can't be all positive. It just can't. There's just no way.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, and I'm even saying, like in your circle of friends,

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<v Speaker 3>all of our circle of friends, I would say probably

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<v Speaker 3>my perception is that at least seventy percent of my

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<v Speaker 3>friends have a really good family life, Like things are good?

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<v Speaker 4>Right? Is that? Do you think that I'm wrong about that?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? What's your definition of good?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, not like.

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<v Speaker 3>Your marriage is on the rocks. Yeah, not the marriages

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<v Speaker 3>on the rocks. The kids are being neglected or or

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<v Speaker 3>like out of line.

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<v Speaker 1>It may not be easy, but it's good. Yes, Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about seventy percent. But I mean because

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think people would be They're less likely

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<v Speaker 1>to share with you the information that would make I

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<v Speaker 1>think that it is not so good.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's because I've made this joke recently. I was

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<v Speaker 3>hanging out with people, and I'm not good at that.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I say everything like I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I say the things I mess up, I say the

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<v Speaker 3>things that I succeed at.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>People tell me all the time, like that's probably something

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<v Speaker 3>you shouldn't be telling you.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm glad you come in here and do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone, let's talk about emotional Well, which one do you want?

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<v Speaker 6>You want a hardest age or let's.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk about emotional emotional.

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<v Speaker 3>Regulation the emotional So what they found is that the

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<v Speaker 3>common factor or the best way or the parent who

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<v Speaker 3>has the most impact on a kid who can regulate

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<v Speaker 3>their emotions is a father. Because fathers are prone to,

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<v Speaker 3>like they use the example of rough house, like rough

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<v Speaker 3>housing while while you're wrestling with your kid and you

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<v Speaker 3>have a smile on their face and they feel like

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<v Speaker 3>they're doing stuff that's rough, but they never get hurt,

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<v Speaker 3>right that that teaches them to kind of deal with

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit of anxiety. And dads are also prone

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<v Speaker 3>to like push their kids to more risky situations.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>As an example, my kids used to jump on our

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<v Speaker 1>bed and we would do a pillow fight. Yeah, many

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<v Speaker 1>many days, many many days out of the week. And

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<v Speaker 1>the rule was the first person who cries the first cry, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>game's over, games over all, shuts down and kick out

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<v Speaker 1>of those kids to start out fun and funny and

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, push them over and get old. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>that in that vein and not eighteen no, no, we

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<v Speaker 1>tried that once. I did not worry, you cried, but

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<v Speaker 1>I there was a time when I would ramp up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you'd get it, and then there was like

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<v Speaker 1>this is going to go on forever unless one of

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<v Speaker 1>these guys cry. So I just rare back and what.

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<v Speaker 2>Am throw a kid against a wall?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 6>I never did that.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just knock him off the bed because that

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<v Speaker 1>at least the floors carpeted.

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<v Speaker 6>You would purpose.

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<v Speaker 2>What I'm hearing is you would purposefully make your children cry.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's what a father does, Shannon, Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm regulating their emotions interesting else, teaching them to.

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<v Speaker 3>Deal with the negative experience, which that's to me is

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<v Speaker 3>I really can resonate with that, Like I really think

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<v Speaker 3>that that's what dads do.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that this whole.

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<v Speaker 7>I left all the corporal punishment up to my brother.

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<v Speaker 6>I think, oh what they outsourced it.

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<v Speaker 7>In terms of being thrown against a wall and things

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<v Speaker 7>like that pillow fight, stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 6>He would do that to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Or something something that makes you go wouldn't know what

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<v Speaker 2>That was my brother too.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you What kind of stuff did you do

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<v Speaker 7>Mafia movies, football games, go to the Wiener Schnitzel, I.

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<v Speaker 3>it's a scary movie, probably a little bit beyond your years,

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<v Speaker 4>That makes you feel a little uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>What about in your house?

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<v Speaker 7>Who's the emotional who drives the emotional train?

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<v Speaker 4>How dare you don't I'm not going to step on

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<v Speaker 7>I was just curious if it's the woman in any

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<v Speaker 7>of these situations, it definitely is.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm probably I would say my wife is closer to

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<v Speaker 3>the Gary unemotional spectrum than she is to uh.

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<v Speaker 4>Your city, my definite, like easily. But I'm also the guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Like we just had this, we went through this with

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<v Speaker 3>He found a local place that was within walking distance

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, no, he can walk, he's got a phone.

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<v Speaker 3>It's initiative, yes, yes, and so I want to keep

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<v Speaker 3>that to me, is like kind of what they're talking

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<v Speaker 3>about a.

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<v Speaker 4>Baby praise on myself. I'm crushing it like these dads

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<v Speaker 4>in this study.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, it's true, that's good. I mean, I think initiatives

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<v Speaker 7>should be rewarded. Especially we're talking yesterday about kids coming

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<v Speaker 3>Right, they don't know what to do. And that's and again,

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<v Speaker 3>all of this was uncoached. It just came out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 3>The only coaching I get him was like here, like

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<v Speaker 4>He would say, well, what are they going to ask?

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<v Speaker 4>Or what should I ask?

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<v Speaker 3>And I talked him through it, and he wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>go through every possible scenario and I just told him.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, listen, there's so many variables, it's not worth planning.

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<v Speaker 4>To this level.

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<v Speaker 2>You should drop them off at Chris Little's house.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh he'll, he'll really run him through the ring.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, the interview, he would. He was kind of known

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<v Speaker 7>for asking bizarre questions like, you say you were dropped

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<v Speaker 7>in at the bottom of a blender, how would you

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<v Speaker 6>How do you get out?

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<v Speaker 2>How do you get out?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Man, I didn't even make it to the interview.

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<v Speaker 4>When I applied.

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<v Speaker 3>Past the writing exam, I will, I'm going to I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to come up with some fun scenarios.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a writing exam, not when I.

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<v Speaker 4>Submitted to be.

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<v Speaker 3>When I was working here, I tried to be an

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<v Speaker 2>I failed him exam at Fox News in New York.

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<v Speaker 4>I have that in common then, only mine was name.

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<v Speaker 2>All the justices.

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<v Speaker 6>On the Supreme Court.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was like twenty two.

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<v Speaker 6>I do like that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's business.

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<v Speaker 1>Male parents tend to be more supportive of their kids

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<v Speaker 1>taking risks. But I think there's at least a percentage

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<v Speaker 1>of that, which is I don't care what you do

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<v Speaker 1>for a dad, Like well.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm gonna start to see the difference between

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<v Speaker 1>diesel and gasoline, like, which warns Hotter, you'd be like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>learned age, you're gonna learn something.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if you're gonna learn the difference.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I am.

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<v Speaker 4>I've always been wired.

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<v Speaker 3>As emotional as I am about my kids, I have

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<v Speaker 3>always been wired to let them fail because I, like

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<v Speaker 3>I told my son, I go, either you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>get a job or you're gonna learn from this experience.

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<v Speaker 3>I go, don't try to overplan and over calculate the

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<v Speaker 3>whole thing. I said, just go and try it. You've

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<v Speaker 3>never done this before, so it's unreasonable to expect yourself

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<v Speaker 3>to be good at it.

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<v Speaker 4>Plan that. You're just gonna go in there and either

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<v Speaker 4>do it or you're gonna learn something. And that's all

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<v Speaker 4>you got to do. And he got the job, so

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<v Speaker 4>it all worked out for him, And I was wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>I definitely thought he was not going to get a job.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, dang, I missed that opportunity.

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<v Speaker 7>Just to do my due diligence. You do live in

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<v Speaker 7>the valley. This is not adult related, is it?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 6>At the age of thirteen.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, Jesus, you can operate the boom or something.

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<v Speaker 2>The boom like the microphone, Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>The microphone like okay, yeah, I see on.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a pretty sure you know where he's working.

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<v Speaker 3>I do know what he's working. I mean, could they

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<v Speaker 3>be playing like Piegal out of the back for money?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing wrong with that. In fact, you need the

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<v Speaker 2>address I've.

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<v Speaker 4>You're on the air.

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<v Speaker 6>Did I just randomly picked illegal?

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<v Speaker 4>Look how it activated her?

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<v Speaker 3>Like the Ora Joe wore off and it's when you

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<v Speaker 3>mentioned gambling she came alive.

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<v Speaker 1>Adrenaline does amazing things. Justin thank you as always.

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<v Speaker 2>The Orange War Off.

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<v Speaker 6>listen to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Go to KFI forty dot com, slash Gary and Shannon

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