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Speaker 1: This is tj Amanda and j Rob's second date updates on.

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Speaker 2: kJ one three. Hi Angela and Oka, say, I understand

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your scoring dates at the work conference? Is that what

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happened here?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, as you said, I met at this work

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conference mixer a couple of weeks ago. Okay, so we

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share one of those you know, those little tall tables

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that they have.

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Speaker 2: Place to put your little plastic plate in your drink.

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Speaker 4: He didn't know anyone there, so he hung out with me,

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so there was the connection. He asked me out. We

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met a couple of days for a burger, some drinks,

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you know, just trying to get to know each other,

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that kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that was a date. That was that was we'll

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call that the first date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we could call it the first okay.

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Speaker 2: The work conference was just a meeting.

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Speaker 1: This is a date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 4: And then in so he texts that when I messaged him,

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but when I asked him out, he did not reply,

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and so it was it was weird for me because

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I thought we really hit it off, you know, with

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the with the whole date. I'm kind of confused. Yeah, yeah,

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I need to know, I mean, do do I do

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I pursue him or do I just kind of move on?

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I don't know, because honestly, I thought we had something

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or was starting something. You know, little Michael Jackson's starting something.

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Speaker 5: I thought, you know, maybe maybe not.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Angela, You're fun. I don't know what

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Ethan's steel is if he can't see how much fun

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you are. So okay, we'll get an you thre on

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the phone, and we'll just ask him and hopefully get

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you another date. Okay, okay, all right, we'll take a break,

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play chilly songs and we'll figure this out. For the

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second date update kJ what el thread, tj Amanda and

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Jay Rod in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the second date update with tj Amanda and j

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Rod kje three got Ethan on the second date update

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Hi Ethan, then, hey, okay, we'll just get right to it.

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Speaker 2: You really want to talk about this, so okay, okay,

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you have this date with Angela? Okay, she said, you

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guys are laughing, having fun and everything, and now you're

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just kind of just slowly just giving her like a

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just a slow ghosting.

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Speaker 4: What's going on?

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Speaker 5: Uh? She I get the feeling that she's high maintenance.

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Speaker 3: Oh why she sent her burger back three or four times.

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She's first of buns to toasted, and then her fries

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were too mushy or whatever, so she asked for onion rate. Okay, yeah,

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and then and then and then after a couple of times.

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Speaker 5: Then when that comes out, she she sends the onion

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rings back because they weren't crispy enough. And then she

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actually told the waiter. I'm just remembering this now, she

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actually made a comment with the waiter that the beer

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could be colder.

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Speaker 2: That request a lot if amazing. This I'm mating as Amanda,

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I know. So is that your deal? Because she wants

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things a certain way? That's too much for you.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, it's too much drama. Just eat your food, Angel.

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Speaker 4: Okay, First of all, I was totally polite. It was

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not rude, not raised my boys, was in condescending. I

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even joke with the server. I mean they were nice

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about everything. I didn't make a scene.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what to do with the waiter has

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to be nice, that's their job.

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Speaker 4: I'm paying for dinner that I wanted a certain way.

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Speaker 5: I get that, But for me, it's not really about

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the food. It's it's about you if you can find

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that much drama with a burger and prize, But what's

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it going to be like when something bigger goes wrong?

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Speaker 2: Or here's a thought.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it says I know what I like good grief,

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and I'm not afraid to.

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Speaker 3: Ask for it.

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Speaker 4: Maybe like I don't know, my god, someone here get it,

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someone here gets.

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Speaker 2: It good g Okay, you're saying I can't go on

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dates with this woman because the way she treats her burger,

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the drama involved in that is too close to real

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life for me.

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Speaker 5: I guess I'm looking for someone who can just roll

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with it. You know, everything doesn't have to be so

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dramatic good grief.

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Speaker 4: I I just don't settle for just anything. If I

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like my burger or a certain way, and I am

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paying for my burger to be a certain way, I

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don't know. Maybe my logic's all, but I would expect

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my burger to be the way.

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Speaker 5: I want it. It's the massage.

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Speaker 4: To me, maybe not maybe not to you time. Well,

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if they got it right the first time, then I

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wouldn't have sent it back.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't even know if this is about you

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guys anymore. I think it's about the restaurants. A fault

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sounds like it's terrible restaurants. Okay, okay, so even you

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don't even want to go out again, and I know

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you were busy, so we're just gonna let you go.

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Thanks for coming on the second date up date.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, thanks.

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Speaker 2: Okay, bye?

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Speaker 5: Angela.

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Speaker 3: Oh he was kind of worked up.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I mean, am I wrong?

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Speaker 4: Am I missing? Something?

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Speaker 5: Is a red flag war?

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Speaker 1: A bid?

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Speaker 4: A lady sends her burger back because it wasn't right.

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I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Well, I haven't a p We'll let some other people

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decide to and we'll we'll talk about is this make

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you undtable or just make someone who likes their burger

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a certain way? I don't know. But Angela, sorry we

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couldn't get you another date. Thanks for coming on the

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second date update. Thank you guys, good grief.

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Speaker 4: Angela agreed, good great bye bye?

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, besides the sending the burger back,

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she seems fine. She also seems a little feisty. She's

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a little feisty where if the burger is and how

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she wants it, She's gonna make sure she wants it.

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Speaker 5: That way.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I'd be a little spicy. Is that

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an undateable thing? I personally would be like, yes, Sarah,

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I'm talking to my wife. You huh, there is a

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pickle within five feet of your plate. It's okay, you

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can still eat. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, you

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should get it the way?

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Speaker 3: Well I get it.

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Speaker 4: I mean three times, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't let's talk about four or five, six, seven,

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if you want to talk about the second eight update.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she just equaled my entire lifetime of sending food back,

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according to him.

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Speaker 2: Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, So in your

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whole life, you've sent food back three times and she

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did it in one meal.

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Speaker 5: Well maybe fine, but including the prize and the onion

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rings and everything, she beat me, beat you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. So does that mean that you'll

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be like good enough? I just want to eat my food?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly. Listening, you know, there's people working pretty hard

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in that kitchen, and they're trying to do the best

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they can. You know, it's really good. Yeah, yeah, I'm done.

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Speaker 2: You can send it back one time, but the third

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time you may have a little extra sauce on your Burger.

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You know, what I'm saying might make somebody upset. I'm

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with you. I'm not sending it back either, just eat it.

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But I'm also with her, like, well, okay, do it

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right the first time and I don't have to send

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it back now. I don't know. I don't know, Okay,

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go up. Thanks for calling. Appreciate you after no