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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice

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mix in some vodka. Colored a podcast from the Mac

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of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor

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Chrysler Dots jeep Ram. It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast. Way,

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I'll get ready for this. I'm sorry, welcome, get ready

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for this. Laura's here, this is this could be, this

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could be crazy.

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Speaker 2: Just last night.

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Speaker 1: Well, sorry, Benny, Sorry? What?

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Speaker 2: Sorry? Vinny?

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Speaker 1: Oh Vinnie?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Why you don't think Vinnie likes you?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. My college roommate's name was Bennie b

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I n n y because we had His last name

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was ben Zach. So anytime I hear Vinnie, I always

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think of my I always think of Bennie.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. He just likes to pick on me.

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It's not like I read the comments.

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Speaker 1: Yes you do. No, I have to.

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Speaker 2: I have because that's why I know that Kim. I

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don't know her last name. Okay, but Kim is always

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like I like Mark Moore. That's what I'm like me too.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry that this is going on.

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Speaker 2: I think it's funny.

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Speaker 1: That hurts, that's nice, you know, I don't I understand. Wow,

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I think I mean.

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Speaker 2: No, because it's two completely different people.

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Speaker 1: I know what you mean, but it also is one

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of those things that kind of sort of stays with

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you a little bit, doesn't it a little bit? Like

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you remember, look, look, lord, my entire life has been

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this right. The reason I started the podcast is because

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I didn't know what else to fucking do when my

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world imploded on itself. So I go, all right, we'll

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try this. But those comments, I'm not going to say

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that they sting. I know exactly what you're saying, and

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it's very strange because I almost feel like you can't

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verbalize it. I'm aware of it. It doesn't bother me,

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but I'm aware of it. Yeah, I'm aware.

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Speaker 2: Like I when you do a post, I always click

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on to see what clip you posted, and so then

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you just see like the top comments pop up, and

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so that's where I see them. But there was one

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time somebody picked on me for saying for how much

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I say like, and I know I did, and now.

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Speaker 1: I have replied, why would you not?

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I listened to it,

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and now I can't even stand listening to it. I

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don't care. But then there was someone else who said, like,

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how big my eyes are.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's actually a compliment, because the worst thing to

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me is to have like a really just like a

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big nose, a big nose like me. I got a

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fucking island in the middle of my face. But the

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rest of it, that's fine. I don't care. The guys

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are nice, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: I actually and I've talked to you about some ideas

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for the podcast. I appreciate when people are more interactive.

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I enjoy when I see like a little pop up

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in somebody comment something, yes, whether it's about me or

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completely different.

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Speaker 1: Well, probably the weakest area of the podcast would be

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because I focus so much in the beginning on making it.

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I didn't want to do right, so I just did

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what I did on the radio, but it was all audio.

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And what I'm learning is that so much a podcast

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is video. We have the cameras and we have the lights,

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and we've done all that stuff, but to make that

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bigger in some way, and I haven't been able to

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do that. Though those numbers are like non existent compared

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to the download numbers. They're light night and day. And

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to podcast throughout my days. And there is one specific

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podcast that I listened to when whenever it's like send

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Speaker 1: To who it does. And that's and that's the big thing, right,

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I always believed and I have no idea why. And

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this is so not anything I expected to talk about,

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But during COVID, everybody's day got shifted. Right. You were

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working from home, so you probably didn't start. You had

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was doing a mid day talk show. A mid day

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talk show in a market this size is unheard of

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because we don't have the long commute, the long commutes

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to long form radio are. During COVID, those are numbers

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shot through the fucking roof. Really yeah, I had like

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all kinds of corporate guys going, hey, congrats, elations whatever, bullshit,

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you know what I mean. And I knew what it was,

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but it was because the show was good. It was

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like really good. But people during the day, what are

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this now I'm stuck. And they really liked it. And

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that's where I go. Yeah, And it was like friends

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on the radio and people you could relate to, and

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so I know exactly what you're saying. And that's what

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podcasts have become for so many people, is something that

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podcasts like mine because it's not like if someone if

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you tell somebody I'm doing a podcast, what's it about? Okay,

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so a lot of them are niche right, I'm true crime,

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American history, I'm dinosaurs whatever. Yeah, this is I don't

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fucking know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, people ask me like, how do you prepare?

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Speaker 1: You don't I say, I don't show it, don't you

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show up? And I like it that way and I

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did all my radio shows pretty much that way. More were,

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and I guess it's bad because, like, I should probably

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send out an email, and if I had more time

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and more stuff, I would send it to more people

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and say, hey, man, these are the things we're gonna

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hit on. But most of the time I like the

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true reaction, and that's why this will be bad. I

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always enjoyed smart people, and I know that sounds a

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little silly, but smart smart people can just keep up

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with you. Laura has an opinion on this. Laura has this.

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I know this, and once I get to know you,

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I know what buttons I can push and not push,

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and I can make it look like I'm doing nothing.

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I'm just sitting here. I may talk the least I

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could give a shit. It's not like my ego. I

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don't care, but I know when I'm setting up.

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Speaker 2: I had a client this week seriously say you don't

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hold back on that podcast, and I was like, no,

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I tell it like it is. She has a friend

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who wants to start a podcast. This friend is going

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through a divorce. This friend had an open marriage and

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a lot wants to spill the tea on her ex husband.

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Speaker 2: She does not live around here, she's in DC.

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Speaker 1: Who gives a ship? I don't eat her in I

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can send her a link.

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Speaker 2: I probably could, because she.

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Speaker 1: Even help her. I can help her do.

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Speaker 2: So I'll tell you who it is if air. But

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this friend is concerned about what she'll put out there

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for her kids to listen to.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So that's that's a really big thing. Because I

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tonight because you're very open, and I was going to play.

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I sat today, I go, oh, it's just going to

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be me and Laura because apparently there's a there is

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there a rift or a tiff that I'm not aware of. No,

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I'm dead serious. No, I'm dead serious. So I didn't

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know it was going to be doing me. I thought

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there was somebody else. But I wrote would you rather?

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Speaker 2: By our text messages?

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Speaker 1: Of course it is, of course it is. But we're

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all over the place here, And I apologize because let

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me give a little backstory here, a little bit of backstory. Uh,

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so you know exactly where I am at this moment.

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I it's been an I have a lot. Everybody has

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a lot. Everybody has a lot. I don't even like

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saying that I have a lot, but there's been a

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lot of shit going on. I have a moving in

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a couple of days, not far in the same I

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like where I live.

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Speaker 2: So still the most stressful event you'd go through in life.

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Speaker 1: Well, Laura, I'm not even prepared for it. Financially. Things

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are up and down and all over the place. And

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I've got hey, can I get new sneakers? And can

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I this? And I have food and I don't even

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know and I last night. When I get stressed out,

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I don't reach for the bottle. I reach for sugar.

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I lived a mile from what was a Right Aid

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sixteen ounces AM and ms. I would practically finish that

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it starts to taste bad. It starts to taste bad.

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climbing all over me. Last night, my son and I

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you know what I'm going. And I went to Wegmans

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and I bought cookies with Reese's Pieces in them, so

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it was like it was chocolate chips and the Reese's

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I bought him doritos. I practically ate all of that.

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white bread. I always eat something else. I put I smear,

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you know, like natural peanut butter on two pieces of

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white bread, full of them in half. Eight those. Then

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Speaker 2: Peanut butter sandwich. Peanut butter and jelly sandy.

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Speaker 1: Peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Then uh and thedas I had,

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and I think there was something else in there. I'm

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not remembering right now. And I have not eaten today

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because I go I can't eat for like three days.

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I gotta get this out of my system. And on

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the way here, I'm like, it was another stressful day.

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I'm getting punched. It feels like I always equate everything that,

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like fighting and boxing. It's kind of dumb. But I

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was like, god, man, I'm taking a couple of hits today.

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I think it's just me and Laura and I'm gonna

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buy a bottle of wine. It's already fucking empty. Laura

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had one. Laura had one, Yeah, and I wish I

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could go get another bottle. I could just go and

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drink all day? Can we is there? Like? Can you

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can you instacart wine? Shut up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: This is real, Yeah you can.

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Speaker 2: I actually instacart from Century a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But because if I want like a whole.

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Speaker 1: But you need you can't do just a bottle?

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Speaker 2: Oh you normally can. I'll look it up.

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Speaker 1: I need a case of one. Well anyway, so that

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that's where I was at, and I don't know why

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today I was like, I got a drink. I ran home,

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took my son, said to him, listen, man, I got

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you know podcast stuff. Some people have been sending me

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things going, hey, it's like wizardry. I know Doug was

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in here there on Saturday because he took a picture

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and posted it, and we didn't put the episode out

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till Tuesday, but I put out the video then yeah

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as well, and it all worked out. But the fact

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that Kevin is not here tonight, let's get into that

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for just a moment.

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Speaker 2: By the way, I could instac her, but the earliest

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that would get here is eight fifteen pm. Yeah, we

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don't want so we need a bottle now. Well, if

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Kevin wants to suck up, he cannot. So okay, we

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know that Kevin and I have have this love hate

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relationship where he's one of my dearest people, but that

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we fuck with each other hard, you know. So leading

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up to the birthday party, he was all in. Then

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a few days before he said that he didn't know

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if he'd be able to make it because of Tyler's

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golf sectional. Well, I'm under the assumption that golf sectionals

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is he's going and he's watching Tyler hit all eighteen holes.

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He's there walking along the course like you're at the

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fucking Masters, And I was like, how long does that take?

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My party starts at four, you know. So then he

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texts while at the party and you know, I'm not

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going to make it, and then like on the following Monday.

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Speaker 1: But hang on at that point, but you're someone understanding,

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you go.

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Speaker 2: So fucking around with him, like on Facebook, Matt had

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done this post, and that's when I, you know, poked

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the baron. I was like, well, Matt, we don't need

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as much food. Then if Kevin's not or I told Kevin, hey,

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isn't salm in town Send, salmon your place. He's over eighteen,

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So you know, Kevin and I funk around with each

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other like that. So then you know he's he's probably

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sitting at home right now listening to this ass clenched

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so hard and it's hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Take a lump of Kevin's ash, you get a diamond

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in a week.

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Speaker 2: But so he said, oh, you know, Tyler's golfing got

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moved up and everything. The rain that day, yes, rain delay,

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all this stuff. So I just.

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Speaker 1: All legit. Yep.

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Speaker 2: So then the following Monday, but he eventually texts me

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while at the party. I text him, I was like,

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are you gonna calm and a you're gonna make at

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you know, and he was like, I'm not gonna make it.

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I was like, you suck, you suck the balls or whatever.

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So then I find out on Monday, Yeah, that it wasn't.

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He wasn't at the golf tournament. He never even had

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to go and pick up Tyler because Carrie did.

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Speaker 1: So.

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Speaker 2: He admits that he's just drinking with his buddies in

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his garage, and I was like, what the fuck, Kevin,

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you've known about this. I literally came to your house

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like two weekends ago and we sat in your garage

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and had a drink and talked about it. So that

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is where I was more butt hurt than anyone who

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said shit online, because I love Kevin. It was sad.

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I you know, he's somebody who I hold near and deer.

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Speaker 1: Somebody just texted into five or five two of sixty

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eight eighty sixty six. Oh my god. Bill is now

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going to be an elite level instacarter. Ha ha ha.

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I enjoy the vast array of opinions topics, and yesterday,

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relate with a lot. Let me see him. I relate

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with a lot of things you all talk about. I

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think you do pretty well interacting with texting callers. You're good.

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Speaker 2: Look at that interaction.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for texting, Thank you for texting. I don't

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know who was I love that. I do know Vinnie's number.

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It was not Vinnie's number. I'll just say that I

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know that it's Vinnie's number.

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Speaker 1: Was not Viny's.

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Speaker 2: But yeah. So then Kevin like two days later text

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me and says, do you want to know the true story?

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Speaker 1: Vinny says, if they pull your hair lore and that

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means they like you just having fun, honey.

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Speaker 2: Much love. I send a ponytail today, I can.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well that is where you can pull it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but so I usually.

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Speaker 1: Pull it into two parts and then you can pull

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it this way in that way.

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Speaker 2: I was wearing pigtails that not.

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Speaker 1: That I know anything about that at all.

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Speaker 2: So Kevin owes me an explanation, but he said he

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wants to like do it over a drink. So I

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told him, all right, next time I'm in. So I

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thought he would be in tonight.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so he said to me, and I am going

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to spill this Kevin, and I love you like a

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brother seriously, because he wrote me saying, uh, and I'm

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going to paraphrase here, Uh, you've had four great shows

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this week. I don't want to be the fifth and

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fuck it up. And I so, which was odd, right, Yeah,

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but I that's always Kevin's like self deprecating him. Yeah,

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So I thought, all right, buddy, and so I write

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back and go, you never fuck it up and I

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love when you're in and bubblah. And so I call

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him because it was bothering me. It was bothering me

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because I go, this doesn't make any sense. So then

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I go, are you in or yeah, yeah, and blah

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blah blah. And then I said, well, by the way,

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I don't know if you know Laura's coming in, and

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he went, oh, yeah, I got, I got. He goes listen,

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I got a lot to do for the Canadian trip.

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We're not really speaking right now. Who does that? So

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I'm like, he's hurt. Well, so okay, by the way,

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I have a solution to our problem. But it might

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be it's a little selfish.

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Speaker 2: Kevin constantly will text me at eight o'clock at night

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on a weekend, what are you doing? And I already

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have plans? So no shit, it's I love hanging out

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with Kevin, but you can't. You have to plan ahead

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with me. I I book up, and I book up.

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Speaker 1: Yes. Let me tell you one of the greatest things

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you can learn to do in life is get out

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ahead of things, and Laura is fucking way out ahead

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of things. No, you are, Yeah, and that's a great thing.

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That's how you have a more balanced, happy life because

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you can plan and then when something doesn't go right,

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it doesn't throw the whole thing off course, it just means, okay,

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so tonight, that's this, but I still have this to

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look forward to and this to look forward. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so so he knew the plan was said party

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with me all day on the seventeenth. Then he didn't

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show up, So yeah, that sucked. He's one of the

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people I care about.

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Speaker 1: I know, so I did say that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But it's not like I'm mad at him. I

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just because that way, if.

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Speaker 1: Kevin was there, I think the I think the party

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would have changed because we'll see.

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Speaker 2: That that's the whole Billified crew.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. The bad part is I had my

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son with me, not bad, and let me rephrase that

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because that sounds awful. I had him with me, and

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I had him with me on purpose because there was

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some stuff going on and I needed him there. I

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wanted to keep eyes on this guy. And he was

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not happy at first and then totally warmed up and

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then said to me later, because I did want to

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make sure that I showed a but Greg's thing because

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my other son was there, and I felt a little

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bad because I your party was just at that point

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where it was like, oh, we're swinging, We're swinging into

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the area. I like, I knew, and I knew so.

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Speaker 2: Good for the first I was so good and even

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now I'm still like, I wish I remembered it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, yeah, I totally understand what you're saying. Yeah, so, yeah, Kevin,

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I don't even know where I was going. What was

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I gonna say something? I'm thinking of other people or

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popping in my head.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm saying that I was bummed he wasn't there. Like,

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I'm not like upset, but I was. I was bummed. No.

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Speaker 1: Oh, So Jamison said to me when we got home,

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he goes, man, I wish we could go back. I

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had a great time. Yeah, And I'm like, yeah, yeah

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he did. He loved playing basketball with your son and

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his friend. It was two on one and Jamison at

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once in a while. I mean, he's like six to

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one and these are what are they eight? Ten years old? Okay,

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He's jumping up and just it's like Shack just beating

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the ball out of there. But this one, whoever, your

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son's friend was so Colton's cocky. Colton's cock and cocky,

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but he backs it up and your son is like

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a quiet assassin. He says nothing, and he's training threes.

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He's like pass like he's got and Jameison at one

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point goes, they're starting to kill me. They're starting to

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kill me. Butever once in a while was just going

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and just dunk on him. But I mean it was

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just it was he had a great time and I

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and I'm like, yeah, I would have ubered home, but

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I can't do that in front of him. I can't

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get all stupid.

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Speaker 2: It does happen, and it's better than showing him to

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drink and drive.

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Speaker 1: It's one hundred percent, you know, you know what, that's

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a really good point. That's a really good point. We'll

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take a moment. By the way, Danny has a gift

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for you.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, well, why do we need an uber? Then

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I totally forgot he did text me and I can't.

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Speaker 1: I can't. Who knows what it is. I can't drink

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your birthday gift, although I.

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Speaker 2: Will, I think we will be opening it up.

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Speaker 1: He did text me though, Who did text you? Danny?

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Speaker 2: Danny?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, you can't drink that with me. We

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got it, I said, Josh. Reserve Laura. That's you and

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Joe on a quiet night in front of.

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Speaker 2: The Joe doesn't drink red.

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Speaker 1: Oh he doesn't. I'll pretend. I'll pretend. I'm gonna pretend

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I'm Joe for a moment. Here we go.

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I love the song, love the original. Oh shit, I'm

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Speaker 2: Jack Johnson.

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Speaker 1: Okay, great call. Wow, that's amazing, good polls. But I

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drinking our second bottle of wine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And you just saw where did you see Dave?

469
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 2: He was at Syracuse, So.

470
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 1: You went to Syracuse and he went to Ye. But

471
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,000
did you see a c mac oh Kate Brown? So

472
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,920
came Brown did two shows in the shittiest weather. Ye.

473
00:26:07,279 --> 00:26:10,359
My buddy is like the head of security there, and

474
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,039
I was talking to him the other day and he's like,

475
00:26:12,039 --> 00:26:13,920
oh my god, I just freezed my ass off. Yeah.

476
00:26:14,079 --> 00:26:16,519
I was like, Laura was there, but no wonder Laura

477
00:26:16,599 --> 00:26:17,559
was like in a park.

478
00:26:17,759 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 2: A furc Yeah yeah, cowboy boots it all.

479
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: This is a Jimmy Buffett song. Oh okay a pirate

480
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:30,720
fls at forty and I love this is from Jack

481
00:26:30,799 --> 00:26:33,240
Johnson put Jack Johnson and Friends years ago, and I

482
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,839
loved this version of this college.

483
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:41,039
Speaker 2: Yes, I was very much Jack Johnson dashboard oar, Dave Matthew.

484
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,880
So I still try and see Dave when he comes

485
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:45,279
to town.

486
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 1: You know, Dave used to just go get his haircut

487
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,000
when he would come to town. Really, it would just

488
00:26:52,039 --> 00:26:55,480
show up. Yeah. I think he also might not have

489
00:26:55,519 --> 00:26:58,359
been here, might have been Pennsylvania that he went out

490
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:02,960
on a bike ride by himself and wound up getting

491
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:06,440
a flat tire or something, and some people pulled over

492
00:27:06,599 --> 00:27:08,480
gave him a ride, and he gave him front row seat.

493
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:09,799
Speaker 2: I heard that.

494
00:27:10,319 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

495
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 2: One of my favorite concerts I ever went to was

496
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,319
Hershey Park and it was Dave and oar.

497
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,680
Speaker 1: Really Dave and Oar. Yeah, I'm not as familiar, like

498
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,759
I couldn't tell you an oar song, but anytime I do,

499
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:26,359
I know like, I like it, but I'm not as familiar.

500
00:27:26,799 --> 00:27:29,400
And Dave was one of those. He was the borderline

501
00:27:29,559 --> 00:27:32,279
jam band stuff like he could be short or long,

502
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:39,480
jam is jampan and uh. I have never seen Dave live. Yeah,

503
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:40,680
I know it's good.

504
00:27:40,759 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 2: I love it.

505
00:27:41,839 --> 00:27:44,559
Speaker 1: I want to go see Benson Boone. I think he's

506
00:27:44,599 --> 00:27:49,720
there on the Is it Thursday? Yeah, I can't even Okay,

507
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,640
I'm so fucked up on dates. I'm sending people things.

508
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,119
Another podcast is going to start here. We're going to

509
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:59,559
try to I have no idea how this will word.

510
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,559
Speaker 3: And my dates are all goofed on Thursday.

511
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: There are and by the way, I've color coded my

512
00:28:05,559 --> 00:28:09,319
calendar after looking at you, I am serious color coded

513
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,200
my fun because of Laura.

514
00:28:14,839 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 2: My I know Beds and Boone sold out, but you

515
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:18,359
can buy.

516
00:28:19,279 --> 00:28:25,599
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, tell you something not even

517
00:28:25,599 --> 00:28:28,599
inside her scoop. This is something that brother Weez has

518
00:28:28,599 --> 00:28:30,119
said on the radio for years. He used to be

519
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,359
a constant promoter. There's no such thing as sold out

520
00:28:34,279 --> 00:28:38,720
day of go show up, get there a little bit earlier.

521
00:28:39,519 --> 00:28:44,200
They hold back seats for friends and family. So I

522
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,359
wanted to see Hall of notes years ago. I know

523
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,319
it sounds queer. Maybe you hate holotes, you go, what

524
00:28:49,319 --> 00:28:51,960
what's wrong? Darrel Hall used always come into the deli

525
00:28:52,039 --> 00:28:54,480
I worked at, and people would flood him. So he

526
00:28:54,519 --> 00:28:56,759
stopped coming in, and just as wife would come in.

527
00:28:57,079 --> 00:28:59,519
And I used to always think to myself, I'm slicing

528
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:04,319
what ever it was? Beloney, let's say for Daryl Hall,

529
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,000
like that was a cool thing for me. Yeah, and

530
00:29:07,119 --> 00:29:11,319
I loved his music. I love Daryl solo. Apparently that

531
00:29:11,599 --> 00:29:13,359
he does too, because he and Oates are not to

532
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:19,240
go so uh he has What will happen is they

533
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,920
hold back? So I called a friend of mine. Uh,

534
00:29:22,039 --> 00:29:25,519
many people probably know this guy in town where we live, Elvio.

535
00:29:25,799 --> 00:29:28,880
Elvio is part of the band Daughtry. He knew the drummer.

536
00:29:29,079 --> 00:29:31,759
The drummer was able to reserve seats. We had fifth

537
00:29:31,799 --> 00:29:36,599
row seats. Yeah. No, so if you like, if you

538
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:40,480
go even But by the way, you don't need somebody

539
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,640
else to be the intermediary. You can go to yourself

540
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,400
because they want to sell those seats, but they hold

541
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,759
them back because friends and family somebody may fly in. Hey,

542
00:29:50,759 --> 00:29:53,279
it's the fingerlegs. I'd love to see you understand what

543
00:29:53,279 --> 00:29:56,400
I'm saying, So check that out in any content.

544
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,319
Speaker 2: You go to my wants to take her ten year

545
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,119
old son for his first concert to what Ben Boone Boone,

546
00:30:02,359 --> 00:30:05,559
and she was like, it's sold out, And I, you know,

547
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,119
went on stub Hub or whatever and told her, you

548
00:30:09,119 --> 00:30:13,000
can buy tickets for one hundred dollars, but you'll see

549
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:13,799
long long.

550
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

551
00:30:16,039 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 2: I like lawn a lot.

552
00:30:17,519 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: Well, I like long too, but I don't want to

553
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:20,799
pay one hundred dollars for long.

554
00:30:22,519 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 2: Tickets.

555
00:30:23,519 --> 00:30:24,759
Speaker 1: Fucking rice for real.

556
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,319
Speaker 2: Dave was seventy dollars for lawn.

557
00:30:28,519 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: Wow, just at face value.

558
00:30:31,279 --> 00:30:34,119
Speaker 2: Face value got off Ticketmaster of the Day that came on.

559
00:30:34,599 --> 00:30:36,079
Speaker 1: Has happened with everything.

560
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:40,319
Speaker 2: Ticket you know what? Expensive And Dave is no opener.

561
00:30:41,079 --> 00:30:43,799
He's never been, he's never had. Was the guy who

562
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,440
used to play with him, Tim Reynolds. Tim Reynolds love

563
00:30:47,559 --> 00:30:50,599
some data, Yeah, like Dave and Tim sometimes tore it

564
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:55,880
out together. Yes, but he's no opener. He plays there's

565
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,920
never a verified set list. It's just they make it

566
00:30:59,039 --> 00:31:03,759
up on the go or right before podcasts. Yeah, but

567
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,920
I love that. I love and I even love that

568
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,880
he doesn't really have newer music that you go and

569
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,200
you get the classics and you know what to expect,

570
00:31:12,799 --> 00:31:16,640
and so you know, I left right when the encore

571
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,559
went to break okay, so that I could get on

572
00:31:20,559 --> 00:31:22,680
the road because I drove back and I had driven

573
00:31:22,759 --> 00:31:25,240
everyone and the girls fell asleep in the car.

574
00:31:25,319 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: And wait, you went with the ladies only to wat

575
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,759
show Dave I went to in Syracuse.

576
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was Tuesday. I went with Joe to Kane Brown.

577
00:31:35,519 --> 00:31:37,920
But we've seen Kane. This is our third time seeing

578
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:38,640
him now together.

579
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:42,799
Speaker 1: So what is your thing? What makes like? We were

580
00:31:42,799 --> 00:31:46,559
talking about this last night and I said that my

581
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,440
son and I had a pretty rough night before I

582
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,799
came over to do the podcast, and I spent a

583
00:31:52,839 --> 00:31:54,880
lot of time and I try to think about things.

584
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,559
I try to think critically. I don't know if I'm

585
00:31:57,759 --> 00:31:59,680
I like to think I'm capable of that. And I

586
00:31:59,799 --> 00:32:03,079
did a lot of philosophy stuff in college. But I

587
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,319
was thinking about it, and I go. So many people

588
00:32:05,319 --> 00:32:08,799
talk about love language, right what make and I go?

589
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,279
But the base, the baseline of love language is what

590
00:32:12,359 --> 00:32:16,759
makes you tick. I've always said a great boss knows

591
00:32:17,319 --> 00:32:20,440
their people. I know that Laura wants to be at

592
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,880
her kids soccer game at three o'clock. And Laura's willing

593
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:27,200
to make fifty grand a year. But I also know that,

594
00:32:27,359 --> 00:32:30,200
you know, Tyler over here wants to run through fucking

595
00:32:30,279 --> 00:32:33,160
walls and make one hundred and fifty to two hundred

596
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,160
thousand dollars a year and doesn't give a shit. And

597
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,599
I need to be as the manager, the person that

598
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:41,480
can see. I need to know my people. And I

599
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:45,839
was like, this is an interesting it's an interesting thing.

600
00:32:46,039 --> 00:32:48,720
What makes you tick. That's what love language really is,

601
00:32:49,079 --> 00:32:51,599
what makes you tick. Some people like to hear in

602
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,720
the morning, hello, my love, welcome to a new day.

603
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,519
And other people go, shut the fuck up. You're gonna

604
00:32:57,519 --> 00:33:00,000
make me throw up in my fucking mouth with your

605
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,640
phony shit, right, But somebody else loves that. And I

606
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,559
was thinking, even with our kids, like as I'm listening

607
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,559
to my son, and I thought he was being very disrespectful.

608
00:33:10,559 --> 00:33:13,079
I'm like, when I step back, I go, I mean,

609
00:33:13,119 --> 00:33:14,480
I think he was trying to tell me I need

610
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:18,279
a break. I need a break. Like his thing was like,

611
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:20,400
you know, all right, hey, I got it. No, I

612
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:22,640
don't want to hear about it. I'm done. I got it,

613
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:25,839
I got it, I got it. I need a break, right,

614
00:33:25,839 --> 00:33:28,079
But I'm taking it as you're being a disrespectful punk.

615
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,599
And I think everybody's language is different.

616
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 2: I don't know, I get that, yeah yeah.

617
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,119
Speaker 1: And I think that we look at kids and go,

618
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,680
fuck you. You gotta do what I say old school

619
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,319
parenting needs to come back. Well maybe not.

620
00:33:43,119 --> 00:33:46,839
Speaker 2: I just I'm like, do what makes you happy. And

621
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,599
the reason one of the reasons why I love live

622
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,839
music so much, whether it's a big name concert or

623
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:58,359
a small jam band in Rochester, is most people don't

624
00:33:58,359 --> 00:34:00,799
show up if they don't want to be there. Yeah,

625
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:06,519
go you pay, so you are around other people when

626
00:34:06,519 --> 00:34:11,000
they're happy. It's contagious and so I say, I love

627
00:34:11,079 --> 00:34:14,199
to just look at people in their element. So that's

628
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:18,880
why I will go to country, to Dave, to rock,

629
00:34:19,119 --> 00:34:25,119
to anything. Live music just it's such. It's like an

630
00:34:25,119 --> 00:34:28,920
effordigiac in a way. It makes people happy. They're just

631
00:34:29,519 --> 00:34:33,400
you know, genuine in that element and that.

632
00:34:34,199 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 1: You're going to take me somewhere to something I've never

633
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:41,000
really talked about. But I feel like you believe in vibration.

634
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 2: Oh absolutely.

635
00:34:43,119 --> 00:34:47,280
Speaker 1: And I meet with a group like it has sometimes

636
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:51,400
depending on everybody's schedule, but it's a variety, and everybody

637
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,079
in the group is more educated than I am. And

638
00:34:54,639 --> 00:34:56,079
one of the guys you've made fun of me for

639
00:34:56,079 --> 00:34:58,480
saying that on the podcast, Well it doesn't matter. But

640
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:04,039
they're all doctorates and there's something about that vibration. And

641
00:35:04,079 --> 00:35:08,000
you're absolutely right. And our whole point, I believe as

642
00:35:08,079 --> 00:35:11,639
human beings is to be happy. And sometimes when you

643
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,480
I mean think about anything, like I don't feel like

644
00:35:14,559 --> 00:35:16,800
exercising today, but I go to the gym and around

645
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,360
a group of people who want to exercise, and I

646
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:22,920
had the best workout I've had in the last fifteen days. Right,

647
00:35:23,119 --> 00:35:27,639
But why is that? Because my vibration ere everything goes up.

648
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,599
And that's the same thing with music, and I think

649
00:35:29,679 --> 00:35:32,840
music music is all vibration. It's all vibration.

650
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 2: Lucas, my older son is into Kendrick Lamar and Travis

651
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:44,320
Scott in that type of He's into rap and if

652
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:47,079
there was a concert I could take him to that's

653
00:35:47,079 --> 00:35:50,119
more local, I a hundred percent go, even though it's

654
00:35:50,159 --> 00:35:51,000
not my style.

655
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:52,559
Speaker 1: The same thing.

656
00:35:52,639 --> 00:35:57,119
Speaker 2: Do you see people happy enjoying it? They are in it.

657
00:35:57,199 --> 00:36:04,239
Like the lyrics. I'm such a lyrical person and hence

658
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:08,360
my without fear my other music tattoo. I mean, it

659
00:36:08,559 --> 00:36:12,320
just it brings me so much stoy.

660
00:36:13,559 --> 00:36:17,039
Speaker 1: So getting to like so Laura, I don't know, I

661
00:36:17,079 --> 00:36:22,760
can't say that. You let me ask you this sex

662
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:28,880
after divorce, reclaiming Laura's interfreak and I think there is

663
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,719
an interfreak. And I think you've admitted that there's an interfreak.

664
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,719
How has How was it after leaving a long marriage

665
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,199
for you? Because I think there's people Here's why I

666
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:45,000
asked this question, not to be yes till lighting a

667
00:36:45,039 --> 00:36:47,360
little bit. I'm not going to lie. But at the

668
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,519
other end of it, there's a lot of people who

669
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,599
are in a similar situation. There's a lot of people

670
00:36:53,639 --> 00:36:56,239
who are in marriages that are thinking, like I can't

671
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,039
do this anymore. There's no affection here, there's no anything.

672
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:04,519
Speaker 2: I thought. It was scary as hell, really really, yeah,

673
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,920
even as sexual as I am, and I will say

674
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:12,599
that there was. I mean, people who listen frequently here

675
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,719
and my close friends know that there was a divorce

676
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:19,280
and then there was a breakout because there is a

677
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,679
divorce from my husband who we had not slept together

678
00:37:22,679 --> 00:37:23,360
in a long time.

679
00:37:23,639 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 1: Really, when you say a long time, what would be

680
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:26,320
a long time.

681
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,280
Speaker 2: I think we slept together twice in the last year

682
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:30,239
of them of our marriage.

683
00:37:30,079 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: Your marriage, Okay, yeah, I think the average is like,

684
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,039
what three to four times a week? People?

685
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,119
Speaker 2: Oh, no, the average is way less than that, is it, really?

686
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:45,280
I think the average is maybe three to four No, no,

687
00:37:45,679 --> 00:37:49,880
I don't think I okay, gotcha, Like, honestly, I think

688
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:52,559
it's once a week.

689
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 1: What well, I can see that with schedules and things.

690
00:37:57,039 --> 00:37:59,920
But is there also a point where you're like just

691
00:38:00,079 --> 00:38:01,760
not attracted to the I don't know.

692
00:38:02,039 --> 00:38:06,079
Speaker 2: Yeah, I oh god, yeah, I think so. I don't

693
00:38:06,119 --> 00:38:08,480
even think it's physical attraction though. I think there's such

694
00:38:08,519 --> 00:38:11,480
a difference between You can still be physically attracted to

695
00:38:11,519 --> 00:38:13,199
your partner, but if they don't help out, if they

696
00:38:13,199 --> 00:38:14,320
don't put in the work.

697
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:18,199
Speaker 1: That's a female to play thing. I agree, But that's

698
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,760
a female thing. I think most guys are like.

699
00:38:21,079 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 2: Like you get the ick, Like if you see your

700
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,079
husband or your partner and do something and you're like, oh, like,

701
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:32,480
I'm weird. There's some things as I am, there are

702
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,599
some things that turned me off so bad, and I'm like, oh,

703
00:38:35,559 --> 00:38:38,239
if you woe, it's got a poison ivy breakout, right,

704
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,679
now I'm like, do not even come close to me.

705
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 1: No, but I understand that because that could spread onto

706
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:43,880
your body.

707
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 2: It's gross, it's so gross, but.

708
00:38:45,679 --> 00:38:51,679
Speaker 1: That could That seems normal to me. A character in

709
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:52,679
Batman if.

710
00:38:52,599 --> 00:38:55,199
Speaker 2: You do, like if you say something stupid.

711
00:38:55,679 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: That really that turns you off? Really yeah? Really like wow, okay,

712
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:03,960
like what give me one?

713
00:39:04,079 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 2: Okay. So the other day, literally the other day with Joe,

714
00:39:08,199 --> 00:39:11,960
Love you Dearly Joe, but he said something that I

715
00:39:12,039 --> 00:39:15,239
totally disagreed about, and he was like, oh, that was

716
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,760
a dumb way to die. And I just thought that

717
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,239
that was so stupid to say. I was like, there's

718
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,840
nothing that's a dumb way to die or that's funny, like,

719
00:39:23,159 --> 00:39:27,199
and it was a it was a act of God. Yeah,

720
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:31,039
a tragedy that killed these people and that's funny. That

721
00:39:31,119 --> 00:39:32,840
was dumb way to die. And I was like ew,

722
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:36,639
Like as we were about to go have sex touch.

723
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait what you're we're like.

724
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 2: On the staircase to Sunday and I was like, ew,

725
00:39:42,159 --> 00:39:43,159
that just gave me the eck.

726
00:39:44,159 --> 00:39:46,119
Speaker 1: What were you watching that people died?

727
00:39:46,519 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 2: I was like scrolling through Instagram and it was like

728
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:53,079
a boat crash. Oh, yeah, people died. He's like, that's funny,

729
00:39:53,119 --> 00:39:54,840
that's a dumb way to die. I was like, what

730
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,119
the fuck is wrong with you? Get out of my back.

731
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:58,639
Speaker 1: What was it that turned you off?

732
00:40:00,159 --> 00:40:04,199
Speaker 2: Well, because I'm such an EmPATH felt bad for the people. Yes, yes,

733
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:05,480
And he thought it was funny.

734
00:40:05,599 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, how is it being in an EmPATH?

735
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:09,679
Do you have a hard time? Like?

736
00:40:10,079 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 2: Oh, things affects me emotionally a lot.

737
00:40:13,039 --> 00:40:18,079
Speaker 1: Really, I get Yeah, So as somebody who does organizing

738
00:40:18,119 --> 00:40:20,920
and you go into someone's home and let's say there's

739
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:24,679
hoarders and things, can you feel sort of their energy

740
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,400
of things and their pain through the way you can?

741
00:40:27,559 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 2: And I think that that's good with helping with compassion

742
00:40:30,639 --> 00:40:35,280
and patience for clients because they open up to me.

743
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,280
A lot of people cried to me, Like I was

744
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:42,519
with a elderly guy today who is a war veteran

745
00:40:42,679 --> 00:40:46,039
and disabled and he was just telling me his life story.

746
00:40:46,079 --> 00:40:49,880
And I can tell what you need from me when

747
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:53,320
they're talking and expressing their feelings and everything that they've

748
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:59,039
gone through. But in the outside world it does affect

749
00:40:59,079 --> 00:41:02,119
me a lot. And I wasn't so empathetic.

750
00:41:01,639 --> 00:41:04,199
Speaker 1: When you say, like that is it people you know,

751
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,800
or could be a complete stranger standing next to you

752
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,119
and me anything.

753
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 2: It could be a complete stranger. If people know me,

754
00:41:13,159 --> 00:41:16,760
you know, I am a lover of everybody, like I

755
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:22,239
am so open to people. So when you hear about

756
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:29,840
a black person getting murdered or you know, a transgender,

757
00:41:30,039 --> 00:41:34,320
well I'm just saying about, like I know, any any

758
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:39,239
hate crime. Those really really bother me. They really affect me.

759
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,400
And again I wish I didn't feel so deeply.

760
00:41:41,519 --> 00:41:42,800
Speaker 1: Do you watch the news?

761
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 2: I try not to anymore. I really stopped during COVID

762
00:41:46,199 --> 00:41:50,320
once my kids started asking questions questions about the news,

763
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,400
because I was like a news freak. I had it

764
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:53,400
on all the time.

765
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:59,199
Speaker 1: Your kids are. It was interesting because I saw your

766
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,480
weekend post right you put up a bunch of stuff

767
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,000
and your son was pitching in the game, and it

768
00:42:04,079 --> 00:42:06,599
sound like, I can you focused on him. I couldn't

769
00:42:06,599 --> 00:42:08,320
see where the ball was going. I could only hear

770
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:12,679
the reaction, and it sounds like you have you and

771
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:16,719
your X in some way have instilled a real confidence

772
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,400
in these boys, which is I think amazing. Yeah, just

773
00:42:21,119 --> 00:42:23,360
I was watching that and I'm like, that's a kid

774
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,599
who's confident. In his ability. No matter what the fuck

775
00:42:26,679 --> 00:42:29,440
is happening out here, it all comes from in here.

776
00:42:29,639 --> 00:42:33,199
Speaker 2: Lucas kills it in sports he is, I.

777
00:42:33,159 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 1: Mean, but he just knows in himself. That's how I

778
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,679
sound telling you like the cocky kid, And forgive me,

779
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,199
I don't mean to make it, not in a negative way.

780
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,119
But he was a little allowed and by the way,

781
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,599
backed it up. But he played my son one on one.

782
00:42:46,679 --> 00:42:49,159
My son is six one and two hundred pounds and

783
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,760
these two ten year olds are taking them on. And

784
00:42:52,079 --> 00:42:54,960
I said to you, your son is the silent assassin.

785
00:42:55,519 --> 00:42:57,559
He didn't. He never went out of his way to

786
00:42:57,599 --> 00:42:59,639
be cocky, or he let the other guy do all

787
00:42:59,679 --> 00:43:02,840
the talking. But he was right. He needell a lot

788
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:04,159
of shot. Yeah.

789
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 2: So but back to the sacks.

790
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,679
Speaker 1: Yes, well, I don't want to do that. You know what,

791
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,480
Maybe we take a break and we find out what's

792
00:43:13,519 --> 00:43:17,559
on your bedroom bucket list? What's left to check off? Oh?

793
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,920
Oh okay, well is there?

794
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,639
Speaker 2: Oh yeah? Oh Jesus Christ, Yeah to left.

795
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:25,119
Speaker 1: To check off?

796
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 2: Yeah?

797
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: Like okay, I will ask like what when we come

798
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:33,639
back right after this? Got a home improvement conundrum. Time

799
00:43:33,679 --> 00:43:37,519
to call in the superheroes. Mac of all trades, leaky

800
00:43:37,599 --> 00:43:41,119
faucett wall that mysteriously as a hole in it kitchen

801
00:43:41,199 --> 00:43:43,920
looking like it's stuck in the nineties, Mac of all

802
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:47,559
Trades is here to save the day. No capes, just

803
00:43:47,679 --> 00:43:52,039
expert repairs, remodeling, and handyman services that get the job

804
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:56,079
done right. Call them today at five eighty five two

805
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,760
zero two ninety two eighteen. Connors and Ferris handles workers,

806
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:04,840
social security, disability and personal injury cases. Listen, I get it.

807
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:08,639
Workers' comp claims can be real pain. But Connors and

808
00:44:08,679 --> 00:44:12,280
Ferris are here to fight for you and get you

809
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:15,840
the compensation you deserve. Whether you threw out your back

810
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:18,000
on the job, slipped when you should a grip, or

811
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,960
your boss thinks overtime means free labor. Spoiler, it doesn't.

812
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,239
They've got your back. At Connors and Ferris, with offices

813
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,719
in New York City, Syracuse, Rochester, and Buffalo, They're the

814
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:33,639
go to team for getting the compensation you deserve. No gimmicks,

815
00:44:33,679 --> 00:44:38,239
no nonsense, just real results. Call Connors and Ferris two

816
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,440
six' to two. Comp that's two six' to two Comp

817
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:47,559
for Connors. And ferris i'm sorry for, someone else but

818
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:48,960
it's good.

819
00:44:48,519 --> 00:44:52,079
Speaker 4: To see if fail not really hope if, you do,

820
00:44:52,559 --> 00:44:55,000
and well hope.

821
00:44:55,039 --> 00:45:03,320
Speaker 1: You do and well she was running Like the.

822
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,800
Speaker 4: DENNIS outside i left the boat a little bit.

823
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:07,599
Speaker 1: Of boat it's.

824
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:20,679
Speaker 4: Cold and now from put, the boat gad out of. The, food, no, waitized.

825
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 2: Sure what's FUNNY is i just looked outside and realized

826
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,480
it's still. Light outside sheel.

827
00:45:23,559 --> 00:45:26,800
Speaker 1: LIKE that i apologize that we're so long with, you

828
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:30,119
tonight but there's a lot of dirty talk during, the

829
00:45:30,199 --> 00:45:36,559
Breaks and i'm trying to get. The, Feld, GOD laura i.

830
00:45:36,599 --> 00:45:39,760
CAN'T believe i CAN'T believe i looked at this SHIP

831
00:45:40,159 --> 00:45:41,440
like i really can't.

832
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:45,159
Speaker 2: Believe that sometimes you DON'T realize i can't look at

833
00:45:45,159 --> 00:45:46,239
the SITUATION that i.

834
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:49,559
Speaker 1: WAS in i can't look at the same you in the.

835
00:45:49,599 --> 00:45:52,559
SAME way I just. I go and then there were

836
00:45:52,639 --> 00:45:54,880
things in THE picture i. Didn't Notice and, you're like

837
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,880
and our video's not WORKING AND i i just fucking

838
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,159
the video should be, working tonight because this is the

839
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:10,920
night it Needs for, It's, like kevin how are you doing? At?

840
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 5: Home, Kevin dude we're trying to.

841
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,760
Speaker 2: Text one of, my friends talking about like our new

842
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:29,400
dy photos that we would send to, each other like as,

843
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:30,519
a female.

844
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: Just like do you know who? You're?

845
00:46:31,559 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 2: Texting yes like, you know what do you think of?

846
00:46:36,079 --> 00:46:39,960
This shot, you know when friends are, single together we

847
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:46,920
were like each other's, empowering motivator motivator and, you know

848
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,679
if you're dating someone that, you're into where you'd, be

849
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:51,239
like what do you think about this photo?

850
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:55,679
Speaker 1: Of? Me or really you get it like? A, preview yes?

851
00:46:56,599 --> 00:46:58,559
A LITTLE and i would, BE like i love.

852
00:46:58,639 --> 00:47:00,039
Speaker 2: This photo if she would send me.

853
00:47:00,079 --> 00:47:02,039
Speaker 1: Like you got you got a little pimble on? Her

854
00:47:02,079 --> 00:47:03,920
ass we need, To yeah or.

855
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:05,599
Speaker 2: If she would send me a photo of like one

856
00:47:05,599 --> 00:47:08,559
angle versus, another angle like what PHOTO should i? Send

857
00:47:08,679 --> 00:47:11,559
him i'd give her my. Honest feedback you, would? Yeah?

858
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:15,320
Speaker 1: Really yeah and you like? That shit? Love it do

859
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:16,280
you like the? Female?

860
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:19,280
Speaker 2: FORM oh i think women are way more beautiful to.

861
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 1: LOOK at i, Do, TOO yeah i, Always YEAH BUT

862
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:27,679
I i i. Have been i'm only going to say

863
00:47:27,679 --> 00:47:31,000
this because we're two bottles of one in, his PODCAST

864
00:47:31,679 --> 00:47:34,920
but i. Have been my therapist called? A, womanizer REALLY

865
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,239
and i NEVER thought. I, was no doesn't that seem

866
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,920
like a? Mean thing what is? A WOMANIZER because i

867
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:45,760
don't even Know if i'm. Exactly sure smooth like manipulating.

868
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:51,599
Speaker 2: To, women yeah like it's sort of. A, conquest.

869
00:47:51,639 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 1: Yeah see that THAT'S where i Die because i'm not very.

870
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,119
Speaker 2: LIKE sexual, I don't.

871
00:47:57,039 --> 00:48:01,039
Speaker 1: I DON'T but i DO LIKE I i i. LOVE

872
00:48:01,079 --> 00:48:06,159
women i fucking. Love women, it's bad. You know and

873
00:48:07,039 --> 00:48:12,639
the more feminine and the, MORE whatever i, am like, oh, god,

874
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,679
damn YEAH it's i have. A weakness it's. My, Kryptonite,

875
00:48:17,079 --> 00:48:17,920
okay no.

876
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 2: WELL no I mean i think you're. Allowed to but

877
00:48:21,519 --> 00:48:23,719
that's who. You are and that's the THING is i

878
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,840
hate when people try to Act, like okay.

879
00:48:26,679 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 1: So here's the. Bad Part and i'm probably gonna get

880
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,280
in trouble, for this but when on, a VIDEO but

881
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:37,159
i would get Accused OF and i have often defended

882
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:41,840
women in, This ARGUMENT like i have heard women say

883
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:46,559
it's hard to, be hot and, people, go oh give

884
00:48:46,559 --> 00:48:49,639
me a, fucking break, fuck you you Fucking and, i'm,

885
00:48:49,679 --> 00:48:55,440
like no anytime you're nice to. Any, guy anytime if

886
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:59,119
you're an attractive woman and you're nice to, a guy

887
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,280
they think they have a shot and they mistake the

888
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:07,159
niceness as flirting or they take mistake the nicest as

889
00:49:07,199 --> 00:49:10,000
a pass of some kind and. It's not it's just

890
00:49:10,119 --> 00:49:16,239
you being, a, normal conscientious kind. Human Being and, I'm

891
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:17,440
RIGHT am? I wrong.

892
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to. Sound, conceited, conceited.

893
00:49:26,599 --> 00:49:28,280
Speaker 1: Yeah but you're three and five or no one thinks.

894
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:29,440
Are CONSUMED but.

895
00:49:31,079 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 2: I do get hit on a. Good amount i'm sure.

896
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 1: You do i'm sure.

897
00:49:35,039 --> 00:49:38,519
Speaker 2: YOU do i am someone WHO want i will go because.

898
00:49:38,519 --> 00:49:42,840
You're NICE it's i think it's a mix. Of things.

899
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:47,159
I'm nice i'm. Always smiling so people do misconstrue.

900
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,519
Speaker 1: Like, That guys GUYS Do.

901
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,519
Speaker 2: I, HEY man i think how.

902
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: She wants to suck? My NIPPLES how?

903
00:49:55,679 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 2: I NOT like i dress for the gem and for

904
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,840
my jobs in black leggings most days and LIKE a

905
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:06,320
t shirt And.

906
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: A zeppa well, you're working, and yes SO if.

907
00:50:09,559 --> 00:50:13,559
Speaker 2: I am very SWEATY and i Go to wegmans in

908
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:16,360
black leggings and the tank TOP because i take off

909
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,079
my SWEATSHIRT because i was hot in, THE day i have,

910
00:50:19,199 --> 00:50:21,519
Had comments yeah.

911
00:50:23,119 --> 00:50:24,119
Speaker 1: It's, Just you.

912
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,119
Speaker 2: I've had But like i've. HAD comments i loves me and,

913
00:50:28,119 --> 00:50:31,519
woman Too and i'm is? That NICE and i think

914
00:50:31,639 --> 00:50:33,800
the FACT that i don't wear a wedding Ring because i'm.

915
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,800
Not married people definitely.

916
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:42,119
Speaker 1: KNOW that i will Say because we've talked about a

917
00:50:42,159 --> 00:50:46,480
number of things tonight and and certainly alluded. To him

918
00:50:47,039 --> 00:50:51,519
your boyfriend is a very he's just rolls with it

919
00:50:51,559 --> 00:50:57,199
all and. KNOWS true i would think truly trust. You, yep,

920
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:01,320
yeah YEAH and i think you're very. Trust. WORTHY yeah

921
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,480
i know there's a lot of talk. About, stuff well

922
00:51:03,519 --> 00:51:04,079
and you know.

923
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 2: He knows of. My past he But.

924
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: But laura has, talked about, you know, swinger stuff not

925
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,079
so much that she wants to participate, in it but

926
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:16,039
wants to be around.

927
00:51:16,159 --> 00:51:18,199
Speaker 2: Or WHY and i talk about this with him all.

928
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,960
THE time i talked. About it he heard all of

929
00:51:21,039 --> 00:51:22,880
us talk about it all. WEEK along i was with

930
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:27,480
my girlfriends and we were like five horny women all

931
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,800
week and long talking. About shit and he just heard it.

932
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:31,440
All night what was some.

933
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 1: Of the stuff because you had texted some PEOPLE and

934
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,960
i was on that take kau well not just Me.

935
00:51:38,199 --> 00:51:41,039
And kevin, oh yeah the guy who blew off. Your,

936
00:51:41,039 --> 00:51:44,320
birthday yeah but there was a lot of things said. In.

937
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 2: THERE yeah i was just saying that a lot of,

938
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:52,360
my friends the females in the couples are way more

939
00:51:52,559 --> 00:52:00,679
open and curious and into the voyeurism and. Exploring past

940
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,119
just like sex with your partner at home behind. Closed

941
00:52:04,159 --> 00:52:06,480
doors and the men are the ones who, are, like,

942
00:52:06,639 --> 00:52:08,840
nope nope well Because they.

943
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:12,760
Speaker 1: HERE'S why i think for, most men that opens up

944
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:16,920
an opportunity for you to not be. With them and

945
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:21,400
there's something about that loyalty to the male ego that's. Very.

946
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:22,960
IMPORTANT really i do.

947
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,559
Speaker 2: Have one friend who, was like she her desires to

948
00:52:25,599 --> 00:52:28,639
watch her husband with another partner's and that's. Not me

949
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,199
that's NOT what. I, want.

950
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 1: Yeah wouldn't that? Be? Weird, YEAH yeah.

951
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:33,840
Speaker 2: I don't even want to.

952
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 1: Swap it but you showed me pictures? Of, you okay

953
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:42,320
does that seeing you in? Those pictures how does that

954
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:45,760
make you feel hot? And? Horny? Or? Oh yeah.

955
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 2: LIKED bring i loved teasing LIKE whoever i was seeing at,

956
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:54,760
that time like sending a. Hot picture, HOLY shit i

957
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:58,000
KNEW what i was doing to. Those people, all.

958
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 1: Right let's do a little would you Rap? With laura

959
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:07,880
would You Rather laura laura lives On, the edge accidentally

960
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:13,239
accidentally send a nude to your boss or to your

961
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:17,599
kid's school? Group chat what would you rather to?

962
00:53:17,679 --> 00:53:18,639
Speaker 2: My Boss because i'm.

963
00:53:18,639 --> 00:53:26,119
Speaker 1: My boss have you ever had a texting fail with something?

964
00:53:26,159 --> 00:53:27,960
Like that because you do live.

965
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 3: On me oh, one time oh, my god this was

966
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:33,360
not even that.

967
00:53:33,559 --> 00:53:38,039
Speaker 2: LONG ago i have had so many. Text fails but

968
00:53:38,119 --> 00:53:40,239
ONE time i had been with the client. THAT day

969
00:53:40,679 --> 00:53:42,960
i got back to. My House this joe was not

970
00:53:43,039 --> 00:53:45,440
living with me at, this, point okay and he had

971
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,519
cleaned my. Entire HOME and i went to text, him

972
00:53:48,559 --> 00:53:50,639
like thank you. So much it makes me want to suck.

973
00:53:50,679 --> 00:53:54,239
Your TALK and i sent it to THE client i

974
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:54,880
had been with.

975
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: That day and the, CLIENT said i don't think that

976
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,239
this is not. For, me, WRONG cock.

977
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:07,119
Speaker 2: I Have had i've done numerous things like That because

978
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,719
i'm not as bad with you, As texting but like

979
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:11,760
if clients.

980
00:54:11,079 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait did you say as bad? As?

981
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:14,199
Me yes WHAT if? I?

982
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 2: Texted no when you have like two hundred and eighty

983
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:20,480
text MESSAGES people i don't respond to during, The.

984
00:54:20,519 --> 00:54:22,760
Speaker 1: Day i'm way. Over, that.

985
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:27,639
Speaker 2: Yeah okay So sometimes i'll go to Respond to joe

986
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,800
or another FRIEND and i respond to a client.

987
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 3: Something dirty well it's kind, of yeah, believe me they all.

988
00:54:35,039 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 1: Appreciate it they all. Appreciate. It uh would you rather

989
00:54:40,159 --> 00:54:45,559
sleep with your ex one last time or let your

990
00:54:45,639 --> 00:54:50,639
current boyfriend read Your entire google search history out loud

991
00:54:52,039 --> 00:54:54,280
into a microphone on. This podcast.

992
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 2: It depends ON.

993
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:57,199
Speaker 1: What x.

994
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:03,039
Speaker 2: There's SOME actions i would love to sleep.

995
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:09,360
Speaker 1: With both really is? It? Really? Yeah why what? Is

996
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:10,239
it they were fun?

997
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:11,639
Speaker 2: In bed what does?

998
00:55:11,679 --> 00:55:12,840
Speaker 1: That? Mean? Oh?

999
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 2: Good? Sex good, you know flipping me around all the,

1000
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:18,360
good times like just.

1001
00:55:18,639 --> 00:55:22,079
Speaker 1: Good good but why are the fucking cameras not? Working?

1002
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,320
Tonight tonight? Why good?

1003
00:55:24,639 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 2: You know talk like? JUST adventurous i had some there

1004
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:30,719
were some really, Boring people.

1005
00:55:31,199 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: So what what is boring? To you like the?

1006
00:55:36,679 --> 00:55:41,119
Speaker 2: Same, position yeah the, same, one two, Three STEPS like

1007
00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:44,559
i go down, on you you go to do?

1008
00:55:44,639 --> 00:55:48,119
Speaker 1: It missionary but what if it's? Like talking i've, had.

1009
00:55:48,159 --> 00:55:51,920
That dude i've had situations where it's like you on

1010
00:55:52,079 --> 00:55:55,000
top and, you know you from behind, and yeah but

1011
00:55:55,119 --> 00:55:58,159
there's something hot about all. Of it. CAN'T stop i

1012
00:55:58,199 --> 00:55:59,920
would do that routine over, and.

1013
00:56:00,159 --> 00:56:04,920
Speaker 2: Yeah and that great position that is, like yeah years

1014
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:06,960
ago but, still there.

1015
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: Throw my back out and. My head would you would

1016
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:17,199
you rather only have sex and complete, Silence? Forever laura

1017
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:21,559
or only while a kid's cartoon plays loudly in. The

1018
00:56:21,559 --> 00:56:25,440
background you can't you can't pick.

1019
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:29,559
Speaker 2: The, CARTOON god i want to go cartoon BUT also i,

1020
00:56:29,599 --> 00:56:33,280
feel like, you know if you were like gagged and you,

1021
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:42,320
can't talk that's. Still hot so, oh yeah.

1022
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: All right would you rather sleep or would you rather

1023
00:56:45,519 --> 00:56:51,840
be caught by your kids mid makeout Or by joe's

1024
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:56,519
mom mid four play or role play my kid's?

1025
00:56:56,559 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 4: Mid?

1026
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 1: Makeout really why you wouldn't want to be caught by? His?

1027
00:56:59,079 --> 00:57:03,519
Speaker 2: Mom, no no but like my kids seeing Me kiss

1028
00:57:03,599 --> 00:57:03,960
joe all?

1029
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 1: The? Time yeah how? Do they how are they? With

1030
00:57:07,039 --> 00:57:09,360
that because it has to be a, word thing but

1031
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,800
they also must see their dad with. Someone.

1032
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 2: NEW yeah i don't know if, they kiss but they

1033
00:57:17,559 --> 00:57:23,320
probably Have, FIVE no I just i'm so really loving.

1034
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 1: That, You no i'm sure.

1035
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:31,639
Speaker 2: They kiss they're. Lovely together, but, Yeah no i'd rather

1036
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:33,000
have my kids watch me make Out.

1037
00:57:33,039 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: With, JOE okay I mean joe in.

1038
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 2: Front of them all.

1039
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:46,119
Speaker 1: The time would you rather give up sex for a year? Or,

1040
00:57:47,039 --> 00:57:50,960
die no give up your vibrator for. A.

1041
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 2: Month oh i'd rather give up my vibrator for a

1042
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:56,800
month than sex for. A. Year yes.

1043
00:58:01,079 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 1: How often does the vibrator come into the?

1044
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:05,480
Speaker 2: ACTUAL act i would say about a quarter of. THE

1045
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:07,960
time a quarter of the time some type of. Sex,

1046
00:58:08,039 --> 00:58:11,840
toy yeah not always just, the vibrator but like some type.

1047
00:58:11,679 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: Of like what else? Is there there's?

1048
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:18,679
Speaker 2: A cockring, Whoa, eybody yeah there's so many things that.

1049
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:21,559
Speaker 1: They vibrate uh, huh, YEAH yeah i.

1050
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 2: Would say there's a toy about twenty.

1051
00:58:23,119 --> 00:58:27,719
Speaker 1: Five percent of. The time. That's, all, yeah okay he.

1052
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:32,039
Speaker 2: Just good he does? Good manually what that he? Does? Good,

1053
00:58:32,159 --> 00:58:34,199
MANUALLY yes I get.

1054
00:58:35,199 --> 00:58:39,159
Speaker 1: I don't Know what. I'M saying I think, i, yeah.

1055
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:42,599
Speaker 2: Wait did you did you not use toys In.

1056
00:58:42,599 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: The, oh, no NO well i don't Know what i'm,

1057
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:48,920
talking about, but no, come. On bullshit i've. Had, toys, yeah,

1058
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:53,679
Yes yes i've, had TOYS but i would use toys almost.

1059
00:58:53,719 --> 00:58:55,119
Every time oh.

1060
00:58:55,039 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 2: Really yeah, OH yeah i don't feel the Need.

1061
00:58:58,639 --> 00:59:01,039
Speaker 1: For oh we'll See then I'm not i'm not getting the.

1062
00:59:01,079 --> 00:59:04,239
Speaker 2: Deal done but like there are the AT the, buildo

1063
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:10,880
party the. One vibrator that camera is literally my favorite

1064
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:11,239
thing in the.

1065
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: Entire world what did? You, BUY well i bought, a lot.

1066
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 2: But there's this one green one and it like is,

1067
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:21,400
very bendable so like you can hit both like your

1068
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:23,920
clip AND your g spot at the. Same time. Insert

1069
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:26,400
it but a lot, of times like we will just

1070
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:29,400
like even if he's we're, having Sex like joss put

1071
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:33,800
it on. The clips it is. Literally magical it's.

1072
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:37,519
Speaker 1: My, favorite yeah but sometimes having, that, no, no you

1073
00:59:37,559 --> 00:59:40,599
KNOW what i? Should say not every TIME had i use,

1074
00:59:40,679 --> 00:59:42,519
the TOY but i could see using.

1075
00:59:42,519 --> 00:59:44,079
Speaker 2: A toy, Oh YEAH.

1076
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:47,039
Speaker 1: And i would THINK when i was a, younger GUY

1077
00:59:47,159 --> 00:59:49,360
oh i must not be doing the getting the. Job

1078
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:52,880
done and the, answer, is, oh no. You're fine this

1079
00:59:53,119 --> 00:59:53,840
just makes.

1080
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 2: Everything BETTER but I have i have one of my really,

1081
00:59:57,039 --> 01:00:00,880
good Friends, like google you Give you IT'S like i

1082
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:01,239
don't need.

1083
01:00:01,280 --> 01:00:02,119
Speaker 1: A toy i just use.

1084
01:00:02,199 --> 01:00:07,679
Speaker 2: My fingers oh god all. The, time yeah IT'S too

1085
01:00:09,119 --> 01:00:09,400
i love.

1086
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 1: A toy I'VE never.

1087
01:00:11,559 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 2: I can't you've, YOU'VE no i can't open up bottle.

1088
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: Of, three okay there HAVE been. I, Can't seriously i'm,

1089
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:30,480
SURE photo i got what you're doing and we're not,

1090
01:00:30,599 --> 01:00:34,519
a camera and why is that what the flip? Happened

1091
01:00:34,519 --> 01:00:40,239
tonight But here i've had women WHERE like, I go

1092
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:43,199
i shouldn't be in, this situation and my head fucks, with,

1093
01:00:43,239 --> 01:00:46,239
Me right BUT then i see what pleasure, they're GETTING

1094
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:50,719
and i wind up just going, manually right and then

1095
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:53,199
they take my hand and shove it in. Their mouth,

1096
01:00:53,719 --> 01:00:57,679
oh yeah And then i'm back in.

1097
01:00:57,719 --> 01:01:00,719
Speaker 2: The, game yeah that's.

1098
01:01:00,719 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 1: Not Nasty it's oh, My, GOD laura i can't believe

1099
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:07,559
this is the. Whole podcast this Is The lord's. Filtering

1100
01:01:07,599 --> 01:01:11,840
podcast would you rather give? Up? Sex oh never mind? The,

1101
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:16,039
vibrator yeah the group. Sex thing very curious about that,

1102
01:01:16,079 --> 01:01:18,920
with YOU because i think you really would like to. Do, that.

1103
01:01:20,599 --> 01:01:23,519
Speaker 2: Wait group SEX or i.

1104
01:01:23,519 --> 01:01:25,679
Speaker 1: DON'T know i think if you got into like a

1105
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:29,559
sex club or whatever that you would be it would

1106
01:01:29,599 --> 01:01:32,840
be too much like you couldn't you would wind up.

1107
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:39,519
Speaker 2: JOINING in i would, REALLY No, I joe joe would

1108
01:01:39,559 --> 01:01:40,360
have to be a part, of that.

1109
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:43,039
Speaker 1: Like in.

1110
01:01:43,079 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 2: SOME aspects, I mean i'm not going to do something

1111
01:01:46,119 --> 01:01:52,119
without him or without permission, or yeah single days you,

1112
01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:58,480
REALLY yeah i MEAN if i had gone to like a, swinger's,

1113
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:00,920
club again it has to be good looking people like

1114
01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:05,480
it can't be. Very afraid and THAT'S why i told

1115
01:02:05,519 --> 01:02:08,960
you my friend who went to the sex Club. In

1116
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:14,119
toronto she was very like not knowing what. To expect

1117
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:17,280
AND then i remember how she, described it was like

1118
01:02:17,519 --> 01:02:19,599
this do faced girl like came up to me and,

1119
01:02:19,679 --> 01:02:22,360
WAS like i want to suck. Your boobs HOW would i? Tell,

1120
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:25,800
Her no, SHE'S like i, enjoyed it, you know but

1121
01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:29,360
she went up there with no expectations and then her

1122
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:30,719
stories have just been amazing.

1123
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:32,719
Speaker 1: Ever since could you? DO that i.

1124
01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 2: DON'T know i. Don't know it would depend on. The

1125
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:43,280
situation it would depend on, my partner and, you Know

1126
01:02:45,519 --> 01:02:47,559
but I'M so i want to know more.

1127
01:02:47,599 --> 01:02:49,639
Speaker 1: About it we'll take. A break i got to try

1128
01:02:49,639 --> 01:02:52,639
to get these, cameras WORKING and i got. More, questions Yeah.

1129
01:02:52,719 --> 01:02:54,800
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Speaker 2: Did you get the? CAMERAS on i can't get.

1157
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:26,199
Speaker 1: THEM on i don't. Know why i've tried many times

1158
01:04:26,199 --> 01:04:29,000
a restarted. THE computer i don't know. What happened i'm

1159
01:04:29,039 --> 01:04:31,960
so upset, about this such a problem it kind of

1160
01:04:32,079 --> 01:04:34,199
is because, and YEAH because i like.

1161
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:36,239
Speaker 2: CAMERAS well i.

1162
01:04:36,239 --> 01:04:38,880
Speaker 1: Start thinking about people who, may WATCH and i go,

1163
01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:46,159
A maybe i'm listen to this song, Right Here bonding

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01:04:46,239 --> 01:04:52,559
ray coming. To uh august twenty Third, to max it's?

1165
01:04:52,639 --> 01:04:54,679
My birthday is the? Day Before.

1166
01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:07,639
Speaker 2: Bonnie Philified, TO bonnie, I, know, oh, actually wow the

1167
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:12,320
day is? That good, Oh no I'm fraid i'm Going

1168
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:13,360
to thomas on the.

1169
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: Twenty first the twenty third is what day For? The?

1170
01:05:16,159 --> 01:05:18,719
Saturday saturday So, a.

1171
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 2: Friday motherfucker we could do that because you want to

1172
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,360
know what we're all going to be Doing On Saturday Fairport.

1173
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:28,360
Music fest, oh YEAH.

1174
01:05:29,119 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 1: But i would Go To Bonnie Rado. Fairport music This

1175
01:05:32,079 --> 01:05:36,320
Song naked time was really written about a woman's, biological

1176
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:40,119
clock and it was just in The naked time that

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01:05:40,239 --> 01:05:43,360
she was debating and her boyfriend and was? It right

1178
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:48,000
and was? It this and was it that? She had

1179
01:05:48,199 --> 01:05:51,360
can you how hard it is to be? A woman you?

1180
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:55,119
Know What maybe i'm a giant fucking vagina WITH eyes

1181
01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:59,880
i feel. WOMEN'S stuff i, oh, god damn it's hard.

1182
01:05:59,920 --> 01:06:02,159
TO me i think it's hard to be. A woman we. Get,

1183
01:06:02,239 --> 01:06:06,719
JUDGED well i always say like the hot girl syndrome where,

1184
01:06:06,719 --> 01:06:09,480
people go whoa? FUCK her, i, go yeah you're just

1185
01:06:09,639 --> 01:06:11,960
nice to. A guy, i, KNOW guys i am. A

1186
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:14,400
guy i don't think you're gonna meet more guy. THAN

1187
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:17,159
me i love going fucking if, you CAN if i

1188
01:06:17,199 --> 01:06:20,760
can go mock my hairs, On fire i'll. DO it i.

1189
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:23,280
Love That and i'm almost fifty four years OLD and

1190
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:26,000
i would still. DO that i have. No idea people

1191
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,920
talk about testosterone. DROPPING whatever i still wake up with a.

1192
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:33,159
BONER occasionally i, JUST yeah i, don't know it's. Not

1193
01:06:33,239 --> 01:06:36,880
UNCOMMON so i JUST but, i, go boy there's something

1194
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:39,960
about women as they. GET older, i, go fuck that's a.

1195
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:43,920
Shitty life you're nice to a guy and. Like, you Right,

1196
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:48,039
here's laura, pretty lady, blue eyes, blonde hair and, just,

1197
01:06:48,079 --> 01:06:49,960
says hey how. You doing and all of, A sudden

1198
01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:53,239
you're like she was just like, Right hair and that's what.

1199
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:56,599
Guys think and it's, a, terrible terrible. Awful, THING.

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01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:04,000
Speaker 2: Again i had my shit go on with, the guy

1201
01:07:04,960 --> 01:07:08,480
but then there were numerous guys who were married who

1202
01:07:08,519 --> 01:07:09,719
would hit.

1203
01:07:09,719 --> 01:07:11,519
Speaker 1: On me or why why do you?

1204
01:07:11,559 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 2: THINK that i have, No IDEA and i got so disgusted,

1205
01:07:14,960 --> 01:07:17,960
by it and because there were some PEOPLE that i

1206
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:20,840
didn't even know that they, were married but it was

1207
01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:23,440
a friend of a FRIEND and i would talk to

1208
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:26,280
them And then i'd find out that they're. Fucking married

1209
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:30,599
and it, was, like look the GUY THAT i i

1210
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:34,760
was with like that was that was, Very real like

1211
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:37,960
it was not just like, A oh i'm hooking up with.

1212
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:42,559
This guy it was a two, year long like deeply in.

1213
01:07:42,639 --> 01:07:47,480
Loved thing so it really affected me and it made

1214
01:07:47,519 --> 01:07:49,679
me hate man for.

1215
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 1: A moment, so yeah.

1216
01:07:53,199 --> 01:07:55,679
Speaker 2: But THAT'S why I THINK i. I dated why?

1217
01:07:55,719 --> 01:07:59,639
Speaker 1: Do women why are some women like guy like guys

1218
01:07:59,719 --> 01:08:03,000
that eat him? Like ship, oh yeah passed.

1219
01:08:02,719 --> 01:08:03,920
Speaker 2: That bottle finish.

1220
01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:11,039
Speaker 1: It Guys, OH laura i took your birthday Present, it no.

1221
01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 2: It's okay Danny, and beth thank.

1222
01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:17,279
Speaker 1: You guys beth. FUCKED up i don't think.

1223
01:08:17,079 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 2: It's GUYS because i want to deal with guys who

1224
01:08:20,039 --> 01:08:23,039
treated me. Like shit EVEN THOUGH i i did, the

1225
01:08:23,079 --> 01:08:31,279
one it was it was manipulative and. Gaslighting forever BUT

1226
01:08:31,319 --> 01:08:36,000
then i very much learned, after that like to not deal.

1227
01:08:36,039 --> 01:08:38,039
With that so THAT'S why i had such a wall

1228
01:08:38,119 --> 01:08:38,720
up for a.

1229
01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 1: Long time what would be your no shame zone is

1230
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:44,840
there such. A thing no shame in?

1231
01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 2: WHAT way i.

1232
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:47,239
Speaker 1: Don't know. NO shame i.

1233
01:08:47,279 --> 01:08:48,239
Speaker 2: DON'T think i have shame in.

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01:08:48,359 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 1: ANYTHING anymore i don't think you. Do, EITHER no i

1235
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:51,199
Don't think.

1236
01:08:51,159 --> 01:08:53,680
Speaker 2: I'm so accepting OF who, i AM what i, went

1237
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:55,279
through and what is it.

1238
01:08:55,199 --> 01:09:02,359
Speaker 1: With guys that you would want guys, to RECOGNIZE because

1239
01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:05,079
i do think that. There is i've always, said That

1240
01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:08,479
and I'VE said i have said it on, This podcast

1241
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:10,680
i've said it on. THE radio i think women. Are

1242
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:14,640
smarter AND then i, go well and then people go, well,

1243
01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:17,079
this this and, go okay hang on. A second i'm

1244
01:09:17,119 --> 01:09:22,039
not going to equate necessarily all. JUST intellectual i, think

1245
01:09:22,079 --> 01:09:27,640
emotionally women are way more intelligent, than men way. MORE

1246
01:09:27,680 --> 01:09:32,000
intelligent i can, read things. UNDERSTAND situations i think guys

1247
01:09:32,119 --> 01:09:36,720
are very myopic in their, you know whatever, they're doing

1248
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,199
that's what. THEY'RE doing i look back on my own

1249
01:09:39,239 --> 01:09:41,840
LIFE and, i, go yeah it was all, about this

1250
01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:45,840
and everything else. Was PERIPHERAL if i had time to get,

1251
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:48,239
TO it i got, to it and that was, human

1252
01:09:48,279 --> 01:09:52,000
beings that. WAS people i. LOVED people i would tell

1253
01:09:52,039 --> 01:09:55,039
you today my NAME that i love more than anything on.

1254
01:09:55,039 --> 01:09:57,119
THIS planet i think.

1255
01:09:57,359 --> 01:10:02,840
Speaker 2: That it changes with age at when you're IN young

1256
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:06,319
i think people like, the chase they like, the play,

1257
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:12,319
they like, you know to beep around going through, a

1258
01:10:12,319 --> 01:10:15,359
divorce having a lot of friends go. THROUGH divorces i

1259
01:10:15,399 --> 01:10:18,960
am friends with women who are twenty six, To, sixty like,

1260
01:10:19,119 --> 01:10:22,840
no joke you saw my. BIRTHDAY bird i really. IT'S

1261
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:26,760
funny I never i never ask SOMEONE when i hang out,

1262
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:30,159
with him how knew how old. They are it's never

1263
01:10:30,319 --> 01:10:36,399
been a question. For ME but i think anyone who

1264
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:41,000
was mature or past that like new young stage, of love,

1265
01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:46,279
be direct don't. Play games and there's that saying that

1266
01:10:46,680 --> 01:10:49,560
if he, likes you, you'll know if, he doesn't you'll.

1267
01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:55,479
Be confused joe was, so FORWARD like i want to be,

1268
01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:58,520
WITH you i want us to fall, in love and

1269
01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:02,359
he Actually was i'm not going to sleep with you

1270
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:03,920
until you let me call you.

1271
01:11:04,079 --> 01:11:04,159
Speaker 1: My.

1272
01:11:04,239 --> 01:11:09,439
Speaker 2: Girlfriend wow, yeah yeah which was so different than the.

1273
01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 1: Last year he needs to, get, laid, so yeah fucking girlfriend.

1274
01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:15,239
It is Yeah, he oh.

1275
01:11:15,279 --> 01:11:17,640
Speaker 2: But no it took me a BIT because i was

1276
01:11:18,039 --> 01:11:23,600
terrified over what of being in an. ACTUAL relationship i didn't,

1277
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:26,439
want that but it was. So hard he showed me,

1278
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:28,479
so much how much he wanted to be.

1279
01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 1: With me how hard is it with you? Have, children

1280
01:11:32,359 --> 01:11:37,520
uh it's it's. It's hard i've had my kid come

1281
01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:42,520
home and and someone will. Be there and it, was nothing.

1282
01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:46,520
Absolutely nothing but he would go he said to me

1283
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:48,800
like he was very charming and, all this and then

1284
01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:52,640
said to, ME later i live, here, Too YEAH and i,

1285
01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:55,399
would go what are you? Talking about because to me

1286
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:58,000
it was it was. Absolutely nothing it was, a woman

1287
01:11:58,399 --> 01:12:02,960
but it. Meant. Nothing yeah and his, thing, WAS well

1288
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:07,079
i live, here too and this Is where i'm. Learning

1289
01:12:07,119 --> 01:12:10,479
ABOUT and i equated to the love. LANGUAGE talk i

1290
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:12,600
heard my sister and brother in law talking about this

1291
01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:16,760
ONCE and i, was, like MAN fuck, i mean but it's,

1292
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:19,720
to me it's it's almost like, A boss a great

1293
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:23,720
boss understands what makes, you tick what's Gonna. Make laura

1294
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,159
laura wants to be at every soccer game for, a

1295
01:12:26,239 --> 01:12:28,479
kid and she needs to leave by. Three o'clock AND

1296
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:31,319
if I pay laura sixty thousand dollars, a year she's. Fucking,

1297
01:12:31,359 --> 01:12:34,159
HAPPY meanwhile I got dan, over Here and dan wants

1298
01:12:34,199 --> 01:12:35,479
to run through walls and he wants to make one

1299
01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:38,079
hundred and, fifty thousand and he's gonna work you know

1300
01:12:38,159 --> 01:12:41,199
twenty four. TO seven i don't need To make Laura.

1301
01:12:41,279 --> 01:12:44,439
AND dan i don't have to see them. AS equals

1302
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:46,840
i Can see laura, as hey you go and you're

1303
01:12:46,840 --> 01:12:49,199
happy to. Do that i'm happy that, You're here i'm

1304
01:12:49,199 --> 01:12:51,319
happy you, have That and i'm happy you. Accept This

1305
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:54,279
and dan wants to do THAT and. I go it's

1306
01:12:54,319 --> 01:12:56,720
almost like the love language is more what makes. You

1307
01:12:56,880 --> 01:13:00,439
tick and So as i'm listening to, you know my kid,

1308
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:03,800
AND stuff, i go there's different, Things here LIKE what

1309
01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:07,399
i would take is disrespect isn't. Necessarily disrespect it's. Something

1310
01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:10,439
DIFFERENT and, i wonder like even, with you as you

1311
01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:14,800
look at, your kids your boyfriend and, YOUR stuff i.

1312
01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:16,319
DON'T know i have no idea what it.

1313
01:13:16,399 --> 01:13:19,680
Speaker 2: Just said and you just said the same scenario that

1314
01:13:19,760 --> 01:13:23,159
you said like two. Segments AGO probably i love, your bell.

1315
01:13:23,199 --> 01:13:25,960
Speaker 1: My, fucking hammer. Your HEART am? I really it's?

1316
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 2: So Great.

1317
01:13:28,199 --> 01:13:31,239
Speaker 1: Or i'm gonna? Fucking? Die WHAT? Am? I really WHAT do?

1318
01:13:31,319 --> 01:13:31,800
I do.

1319
01:13:33,319 --> 01:13:36,319
Speaker 2: Please check in on us tomorrow call five eight five.

1320
01:13:38,039 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 1: Two eighty eight. Sixty, six okay why did the fucking?

1321
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:45,359
Cameras out? MORE time i need?

1322
01:13:45,399 --> 01:13:47,720
Speaker 2: More like that was, A, great no it was so

1323
01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:53,319
amazing you just did the whole again and talking about what.

1324
01:13:53,359 --> 01:13:56,199
People text but then so many TIMES like i lose

1325
01:13:56,800 --> 01:13:58,840
thought my kids and my kids are.

1326
01:14:00,319 --> 01:14:03,840
Speaker 1: But. Meaning joe that's the part Where like janison came

1327
01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:07,439
in and there was nothing. Going, on. Yeah nothing BUT

1328
01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:09,399
when i came, Back up, he's, like, hey man can

1329
01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:11,399
you give me a? Heads Up and, i'm. LIKE bro

1330
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:14,239
i Didn't know i'm saying bro to. MY kid i

1331
01:14:14,279 --> 01:14:16,439
didn't know that this person was. STOPPING by i had.

1332
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:20,600
No idea it, Means nothing it, meant nothing but to

1333
01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:23,119
him it. Meant everything so how hard is that? For

1334
01:14:23,199 --> 01:14:24,399
you THAT'S where i.

1335
01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:30,880
Speaker 2: WAS going i was very Serious about JOE before i

1336
01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:32,000
introduced the kids, to.

1337
01:14:32,039 --> 01:14:34,720
Speaker 1: Him SEEING now i think. It's important but there.

1338
01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 2: Were also there was like one Guy That, lucas MATT

1339
01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:43,319
that i had hung out with like a. Year before

1340
01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:47,000
we're gonna Call him zach because that was. His NAME

1341
01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:52,279
but i hung Out with zach and like the FALL

1342
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:55,760
of i, don't know twenty twenty two, or whatever and.

1343
01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:58,239
Speaker 1: It just zach. Was, eighteen, No.

1344
01:14:58,239 --> 01:15:00,680
Speaker 2: No zach he was probably a couple of years.

1345
01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:03,239
Speaker 4: But not.

1346
01:15:03,399 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 2: For me. Oh no and then like a year later

1347
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:11,199
he had, reached out tried to rekindle it AND like i, was,

1348
01:15:11,239 --> 01:15:13,760
like no we can just. Be friends but we ended

1349
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:16,560
up taking our kids to a football, game Together a bill's,

1350
01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:19,000
game together because he, was, Like oh i'm going to

1351
01:15:19,079 --> 01:15:22,119
Go with let's Call him noah because as it was,

1352
01:15:22,159 --> 01:15:25,520
his SON and i, was, LIKE oh i have Tickets

1353
01:15:25,520 --> 01:15:26,399
for lucas.

1354
01:15:26,119 --> 01:15:28,520
Speaker 1: And he would say that you're terrible as, this game

1355
01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:32,920
so let's call, Him well noah because that was, His name.

1356
01:15:33,840 --> 01:15:36,319
Speaker 2: Zach if you're listening or if you say This on

1357
01:15:36,359 --> 01:15:38,359
instagram because you still follow me, and like, my. Shit

1358
01:15:38,399 --> 01:15:43,840
whoa But so Zach and Noah and LUCAS and i

1359
01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:47,239
went To a bills game Together and Lucas and noah

1360
01:15:47,319 --> 01:15:50,119
hit it off because they're like nine and ten in

1361
01:15:50,159 --> 01:15:52,680
the backseat together and, they're like you two, should DATE

1362
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:55,840
and i was, like no did it like not going to?

1363
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:58,640
Work out but we ran into my ex husband who

1364
01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:01,359
was also at, the GAME and i, Was, like ethan This,

1365
01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:05,520
is zach This, is Ethan and zach, was, like oh

1366
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:08,279
that gave me like the biggest big dick Energy because

1367
01:16:08,359 --> 01:16:11,920
zach is, a, big tall like good looking guy and, he's,

1368
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:14,239
Like yeah ethan just looked at me and was, like,

1369
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:18,279
oh intimidated but we were. Just there we went, as

1370
01:16:18,359 --> 01:16:22,680
friends like, you know and so that Was maybe, lucas,

1371
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:24,199
says first how hard is it.

1372
01:16:24,119 --> 01:16:31,079
Speaker 1: To be i'll, say you but a woman like misconstrued things,

1373
01:16:31,079 --> 01:16:32,199
with GUYS.

1374
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:37,279
Speaker 2: And i do think they not. LEAD people, i, tried

1375
01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:39,079
no not. LEAD people i.

1376
01:16:39,119 --> 01:16:42,119
Speaker 1: BELIEVE that i, believe THAT but i might.

1377
01:16:42,359 --> 01:16:45,279
Speaker 2: Call a horror in. A slut and that's what Happened

1378
01:16:45,319 --> 01:16:47,439
with zach IS because i want to commit. To him,

1379
01:16:47,520 --> 01:16:51,119
he's like you're. A whore oh, MY gosh i TOLD

1380
01:16:51,119 --> 01:16:53,039
you i did not want. A, relationship.

1381
01:16:52,560 --> 01:16:54,760
Speaker 1: Yeah right and you try to be opening.

1382
01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:58,159
Speaker 2: Up, front yeah it WAS very i, was very very.

1383
01:16:58,239 --> 01:17:02,600
Speaker 1: Very clear it's INTERESTING because i always wonder with women

1384
01:17:03,199 --> 01:17:06,199
because as, a guy you're, just, like, yeah, whatever, Whatever

1385
01:17:06,319 --> 01:17:12,079
whatever but you hear the stories and on the other

1386
01:17:12,279 --> 01:17:14,680
end of that is not just. A story it's a,

1387
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:18,840
human being and it's somebody who. Has FEELINGS and i

1388
01:17:18,880 --> 01:17:22,199
think sometimes when women are put in compromising positions and

1389
01:17:22,239 --> 01:17:24,159
so to get out, of that maybe they give. It,

1390
01:17:24,239 --> 01:17:27,079
up yeah, you know and it feels good in. The

1391
01:17:27,119 --> 01:17:30,279
moment they're enjoying, it too and we're onto the. Next

1392
01:17:30,279 --> 01:17:33,880
thing but then we call. Her. Slut yep we don't

1393
01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:36,640
call the. Guy slut we don't say nasty things. About

1394
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:39,600
him and that's the stuff, THAT like i wish there

1395
01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:42,359
was a WAY that, i could LIKE if i could

1396
01:17:42,399 --> 01:17:45,680
get my three sons here on the podcast even and

1397
01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:50,119
just find a way to articulate that without, you know

1398
01:17:50,319 --> 01:17:54,079
you Know what, i'm saying without opening up an avenue

1399
01:17:54,119 --> 01:17:57,279
for them. To go, but, she, yeah yeah you know

1400
01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:59,800
you used to hear, about well she dressed a. Slutty,

1401
01:17:59,840 --> 01:18:04,560
WAY okay i can't argue that there are some outfits

1402
01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:07,399
that are probably a little more provocative. Than others but

1403
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:09,640
that doesn't mean that she can't wear that and not

1404
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:13,000
want you to. Do something is she looking? For? Attention

1405
01:18:13,239 --> 01:18:17,960
probably does she necessarily want it? From? You probably do

1406
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:20,359
you Understand what, i'm saying oh, And so but yet

1407
01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:23,720
we throw it into this general thing and go but

1408
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:26,800
we want the attention from you and. We're guys it's

1409
01:18:26,800 --> 01:18:29,319
a little. More Neutral like i'm going to show off

1410
01:18:29,319 --> 01:18:31,920
on the basketball court and if you pay attention, TO

1411
01:18:31,960 --> 01:18:34,439
me i, look Good but i'm not wearing something that

1412
01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:37,079
you knows, nu huggers so all of a sudden you

1413
01:18:37,119 --> 01:18:39,880
can see my, you know my camel toe. Or whatever.

1414
01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:43,479
YOU know i hate to be, that graphic but do

1415
01:18:43,520 --> 01:18:45,960
you Understand what? I'm, Saying LIKE and i think that

1416
01:18:46,319 --> 01:18:49,520
to Me as i've gotten OLDER and i did not have.

1417
01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:55,239
Any daughters and it's funny because we're writing a pilot

1418
01:18:55,359 --> 01:18:58,760
right now and in the pilot it's based on, my

1419
01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:01,119
LIFE but i have a thirteen year. Old daughter the

1420
01:19:01,319 --> 01:19:04,800
character the main characters the main character as the thirteen year.

1421
01:19:04,800 --> 01:19:07,800
Old daughter and it's changed my thinking a little bit

1422
01:19:07,880 --> 01:19:09,920
IN that i, was, LIKE oh i never thought, of

1423
01:19:09,920 --> 01:19:12,600
this but it's a way to separate Myself from but,

1424
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:16,279
believe me this is. Painful enough it's fucked. PAINFUL enough

1425
01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:19,199
i have no idea why we're. Doing this but the

1426
01:19:19,399 --> 01:19:22,279
Uh as, I'M watched i, go boy being A woman

1427
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:28,279
i think is very hard because every guy you know

1428
01:19:28,399 --> 01:19:30,640
wants to stick their dick. In it i'm sorry to be.

1429
01:19:30,680 --> 01:19:35,039
Speaker 2: That, blunt no, it's TRUE and i feel like there

1430
01:19:35,039 --> 01:19:38,000
are times where EVEN if i went out and sweatpants in.

1431
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:40,279
The sweatshirt here's the.

1432
01:19:40,319 --> 01:19:43,199
Speaker 1: Worst, part though you're on, This podcast you've said a lot.

1433
01:19:43,199 --> 01:19:46,359
Of things you've been very open. About stuff some guy

1434
01:19:46,439 --> 01:19:51,319
hears that and goes and you shoot. Them down what. The,

1435
01:19:51,319 --> 01:19:54,479
fuck yeah, come on you're. A horror i know you're.

1436
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:56,760
A horror i. Heard that do you Know understand, i'm

1437
01:19:56,760 --> 01:19:58,479
saying but we can't. Protect that, but yet at the,

1438
01:19:58,520 --> 01:20:01,600
same time if it was, Another guy we've had guys

1439
01:20:01,640 --> 01:20:05,000
in here talk about watching people paying them, to watch

1440
01:20:05,359 --> 01:20:08,560
and we don't say anything but negative. About that what?

1441
01:20:08,720 --> 01:20:11,239
Is THAT and i don't mean to BE like i hope, people,

1442
01:20:11,279 --> 01:20:14,399
go oh you're gying fucking vagina and you're a little

1443
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:16,840
bit of a. Woke guy i'm. Not woke i'm. Not

1444
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:20,359
anything i'm just pointing out this has BEEN since i

1445
01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:22,520
hatched on. THE planet i have felt, this.

1446
01:20:22,399 --> 01:20:25,079
Speaker 2: Way well earlier when you were talking about what's the

1447
01:20:25,119 --> 01:20:27,600
word that, you use LIKE when i pick up. On,

1448
01:20:27,680 --> 01:20:31,159
VIBRATIONS yes i have always met an. Energy PERSON so

1449
01:20:31,439 --> 01:20:33,680
i actually was not someone who was on the. Dating

1450
01:20:33,680 --> 01:20:37,319
apps really IT was i met people out and about

1451
01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:42,359
and it was always you give good ENERGY and i

1452
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:44,520
just hit it off and it did not call it

1453
01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:50,079
care race age like worry about. YOU know i met,

1454
01:20:50,079 --> 01:20:53,920
a guy the football player Down, in florida right and

1455
01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:57,680
HIM and i had an, amazing connection but he Lived.

1456
01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:01,479
In cincinnati like it is all about just that energy

1457
01:21:01,520 --> 01:21:02,920
and what you put, out there.

1458
01:21:03,039 --> 01:21:04,800
Speaker 1: And and i'm attracted.

1459
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:05,359
Speaker 2: To that.

1460
01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:12,560
Speaker 1: So in IN that i will talk about men's vulnerability

1461
01:21:13,039 --> 01:21:16,079
and not being able to measure up necessarily like my,

1462
01:21:16,279 --> 01:21:22,640
digging boom and and yet that doesn't really Necessarily necessarily

1463
01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:25,199
i'm not going to say, it doesn't but necessarily it.

1464
01:21:25,239 --> 01:21:26,680
Doesn't matter no.

1465
01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:32,520
Speaker 2: CAN if i were to Talk About joel's, joe's vulnerability, no,

1466
01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:40,640
no no no. No no he SUPPORT when i say. About

1467
01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:43,920
this and it was other, people too when they would

1468
01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:48,000
walk into. MY house i HAVE not i have a. Nice,

1469
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:52,000
HOUSE yes i had a few GUYS who i hung

1470
01:21:52,039 --> 01:21:55,800
out with after a. Few dates if they, Came over, they're,

1471
01:21:55,840 --> 01:22:01,000
like oh you just. Live here my ex husband makes

1472
01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:05,000
a good amount, of, money right AND so i feel

1473
01:22:05,039 --> 01:22:08,399
like you got to measure up to ANYONE that i

1474
01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:13,359
have dated ever. Since him they realize that and, they're, Like,

1475
01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:17,039
oh God like. I'M not i don't make half a million.

1476
01:22:17,079 --> 01:22:19,319
A year but that's that is NOT what i. Care

1477
01:22:19,359 --> 01:22:25,279
ABOUT never i. Believe, that yeah it was it was a, nice,

1478
01:22:25,279 --> 01:22:28,680
benefit sure but it was NEVER what i. Cared ABOUT

1479
01:22:28,680 --> 01:22:32,840
but i think that to men, to women you compare

1480
01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:33,960
how you look compared To.

1481
01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:37,359
Speaker 1: Any, oh shit it's so funny.

1482
01:22:36,760 --> 01:22:39,479
Speaker 2: To a guy you compare how much.

1483
01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:42,279
Speaker 1: YOU make i heard about women in overalls over the

1484
01:22:42,319 --> 01:22:43,199
age of forty the.

1485
01:22:43,239 --> 01:22:46,000
Speaker 2: Other day, oh, yeah yeah, Oh, yeah okay.

1486
01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:48,600
Speaker 1: You're, over forty Shouldn't, Wear okay i'll.

1487
01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:51,640
Speaker 2: WEAR overalls i don't give. A shit, i Mean as

1488
01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:53,479
i'm in my black leggings and a sweatshirt.

1489
01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:57,399
Speaker 1: RIGHT now i think black leggings seen that the sweatshow

1490
01:22:57,399 --> 01:23:00,720
would be. More acceptable but it is funny that that's

1491
01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:04,239
a very good point. That. YOU yeah i think guys

1492
01:23:04,239 --> 01:23:08,840
are very sensitive to those sorts, of things and there's

1493
01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:13,239
something in our psyche where you can't be in the

1494
01:23:13,439 --> 01:23:15,880
moment with. The person AND what i always try to,

1495
01:23:15,920 --> 01:23:20,840
tell anybody especially, my son's is if somebody's giving you

1496
01:23:20,920 --> 01:23:25,800
their time to be, with you appreciate. The time don't.

1497
01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:29,039
Waste it try to appreciate it as much, As possible

1498
01:23:29,399 --> 01:23:33,039
try to, be fun try to, be alive try to enhance.

1499
01:23:33,079 --> 01:23:36,960
Their time because all of us only have so much

1500
01:23:37,000 --> 01:23:39,279
time in, the planet the fact that they're spending it

1501
01:23:39,319 --> 01:23:42,079
with you is a. REAL compliment i really, think that

1502
01:23:42,720 --> 01:23:45,119
and it's SOMETHING that i think is lost on all.

1503
01:23:45,239 --> 01:23:48,920
Of us we, all, think eh it's A, fucking, MONDAY

1504
01:23:49,000 --> 01:23:51,359
man i gotta, YOU know i gotta Go see laura at,

1505
01:23:51,439 --> 01:23:55,000
five o'clock fuck law. Or, whatever No but i'm just saying.

1506
01:23:55,079 --> 01:23:59,600
Like whatever and the, thing, is No and laura could

1507
01:23:59,640 --> 01:24:03,199
do and other things with. Her time that's her gift

1508
01:24:03,399 --> 01:24:06,079
and the fact that she's sharing it. With you should. Appreciate,

1509
01:24:06,119 --> 01:24:10,840
That yeah and that's the. Wine, talking no that's.

1510
01:24:10,880 --> 01:24:12,880
Speaker 2: The truth time, is.

1511
01:24:12,880 --> 01:24:16,920
Speaker 1: Valuable yes oll of our but everybody's time. Is VALUE

1512
01:24:17,159 --> 01:24:19,479
and i think that all of us need to really

1513
01:24:19,560 --> 01:24:23,560
recognize that because your time. Is finite at, some point

1514
01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:29,399
you do leave this form in. This planet and, you

1515
01:24:29,439 --> 01:24:31,199
know if you want to make the most, of whatever

1516
01:24:31,359 --> 01:24:34,039
or you want to have, a life shouldn't. Be miserable

1517
01:24:34,039 --> 01:24:36,359
it SHOULD be i think it should. Be happy you should.

1518
01:24:36,399 --> 01:24:39,079
Be happy and if someone's giving you, the time that's

1519
01:24:39,199 --> 01:24:39,800
their gift.

1520
01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:41,520
Speaker 2: To you one of the Things that.

1521
01:24:41,520 --> 01:24:44,399
Speaker 1: I've Done if kevin doesn't come to your fourtieth, birthday

1522
01:24:44,399 --> 01:24:52,399
party he SHOWED the i am no gift.

1523
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:56,079
Speaker 2: To, You No i'm i'm not worthy of. His time

1524
01:24:56,520 --> 01:25:00,159
BUT like i have always one of my things to

1525
01:25:00,239 --> 01:25:03,239
DECOMPRESS because i have clients, To, her like how do

1526
01:25:03,279 --> 01:25:05,680
you go like this all, day LONG and, i say

1527
01:25:05,720 --> 01:25:07,520
do you compress? THAT night i read a lot. OF,

1528
01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:13,319
books i, you. Know relax but this doing. The podcast

1529
01:25:13,359 --> 01:25:15,640
when people FIND out i do the podcast, or like

1530
01:25:15,680 --> 01:25:17,800
how is, That time, i'm like, to me. IT'S creative

1531
01:25:18,359 --> 01:25:21,279
i have always been. A writer, I write i've TALKED

1532
01:25:21,279 --> 01:25:23,800
about i write a lot. OF poetry i write, A

1533
01:25:23,960 --> 01:25:26,399
journal and, to me this is still like a. Creative

1534
01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:28,239
outlet so instead of sitting.

1535
01:25:28,239 --> 01:25:30,239
Speaker 1: At home oh we're talking about a lot.

1536
01:25:30,119 --> 01:25:34,600
Speaker 2: Of yeah but still instead of sitting at home writing or,

1537
01:25:35,239 --> 01:25:37,880
you know, doing reading this is still creative.

1538
01:25:37,880 --> 01:25:39,840
Speaker 1: To me how long have you? Kept journals?

1539
01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:44,840
Speaker 2: Long TIME like i can find journals from? HIGH school

1540
01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:49,680
i WOULD you i don't journal, every DAY but i journal.

1541
01:25:49,680 --> 01:25:54,359
Speaker 1: A lot but would you ever read your journal from

1542
01:25:54,399 --> 01:25:57,159
like ten years ago on? This day so could we

1543
01:25:57,239 --> 01:26:01,000
Do a laura on? This day like, you know what

1544
01:26:01,039 --> 01:26:04,399
are we in twenty? Twenty five dark journals? Twenty fifteen

1545
01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:06,960
but it wouldn't it be fun to hear you read

1546
01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:09,520
it and then explain what you were feeling at that

1547
01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:14,960
moment and how that. HAS transformed i really think that

1548
01:26:15,319 --> 01:26:18,239
one of the great things about things like what we're,

1549
01:26:18,239 --> 01:26:22,479
doing here the independence of it is that it's not beholden.

1550
01:26:22,520 --> 01:26:26,640
TO anybody. I don't i don't have overlords from whatever

1551
01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:31,199
network telling me it's A little Mooring, and LAURA because

1552
01:26:31,359 --> 01:26:34,439
i think that's one of the most. Relatable, things yeah in,

1553
01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:38,079
my opinion you reading your journal from ten, years ago

1554
01:26:38,199 --> 01:26:41,479
fifteen years ago, and, saying hey didn't turn out.

1555
01:26:41,520 --> 01:26:43,479
Speaker 2: That, way yeah but like something could.

1556
01:26:43,520 --> 01:26:46,439
Speaker 1: Help, THOUSANDS yeah. I don't i.

1557
01:26:46,479 --> 01:26:50,119
Speaker 2: Write it's a lot. Of poetry it's a LOT of.

1558
01:26:50,119 --> 01:26:52,720
Speaker 1: I would love to hear. YOUR poetry i am curious about.

1559
01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:57,520
Speaker 2: Mean, poetry, mean yeah it's a lot about.

1560
01:26:57,880 --> 01:27:01,079
Speaker 1: That you motherfucking hicic with your small, you.

1561
01:27:01,000 --> 01:27:06,439
Speaker 2: Know it's a lot about the guy and like promises and.

1562
01:27:06,439 --> 01:27:08,960
All that BUT then i also write a lot to.

1563
01:27:09,079 --> 01:27:10,760
Speaker 1: My. Kids healthy oh it.

1564
01:27:10,800 --> 01:27:11,760
Speaker 2: Is healthy it's.

1565
01:27:11,800 --> 01:27:12,560
Speaker 1: REALLY healthy i.

1566
01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:16,760
Speaker 2: Think the LAST thing i Wrote was lucas's. TENTH birthday

1567
01:27:17,159 --> 01:27:20,359
i wrote him a note because he said to me

1568
01:27:20,439 --> 01:27:24,479
the other DAY that I favorite camden anger one. Is

1569
01:27:24,720 --> 01:27:29,279
hurt it didn't hurt because it's, somewhat True because camden.

1570
01:27:30,079 --> 01:27:34,119
Needs me cam is the one who has like, some disabilities, YOU,

1571
01:27:34,159 --> 01:27:40,359
know adhd impulse, behavior Control and lucas is so independent and,

1572
01:27:40,399 --> 01:27:43,439
self sufficient AND so i sort of wrote a Note

1573
01:27:43,479 --> 01:27:47,239
to lucas comparing that to how my mom was with

1574
01:27:47,279 --> 01:27:49,439
me and. MY kids i was always the independent one

1575
01:27:50,000 --> 01:27:52,039
and my sister was always the one who needed like

1576
01:27:52,079 --> 01:27:54,600
a little more guidance from. My MOM and i, wrote

1577
01:27:54,640 --> 01:27:56,960
THAT like i wrote a whole Thing to Lucas that

1578
01:27:57,000 --> 01:27:59,880
i'll eventually give, to him but that was the LAST thing.

1579
01:28:00,039 --> 01:28:02,479
I wrote it has to be inspired, By something, SO

1580
01:28:03,560 --> 01:28:04,840
yeah i.

1581
01:28:04,880 --> 01:28:06,119
Speaker 1: DON'T know i think it's.

1582
01:28:06,279 --> 01:28:10,359
Speaker 2: Very, interesting yeah because he's not going to understand it.

1583
01:28:10,439 --> 01:28:13,960
Right Now at i'm not going to Understand that cam needs, me,

1584
01:28:14,039 --> 01:28:17,640
more right But that i'm like so Proud, Of, lucas

1585
01:28:18,039 --> 01:28:20,479
yes for at ten being who he is.

1586
01:28:20,640 --> 01:28:25,119
Speaker 1: And, confident, solid athletic like all. THOSE things i. See

1587
01:28:25,159 --> 01:28:27,319
IT and i don't even know. The kid really a.

1588
01:28:27,520 --> 01:28:31,239
Speaker 2: Single MOM when i only have them half, the time

1589
01:28:32,199 --> 01:28:33,800
THERE'S sometimes i need.

1590
01:28:33,840 --> 01:28:36,239
Speaker 1: A guy will you give them? Those?

1591
01:28:36,359 --> 01:28:40,079
Speaker 2: LETTERS absolutely i. Have started i've had a journal going

1592
01:28:40,119 --> 01:28:42,279
for both of THEM since i was pregnant with each. Of,

1593
01:28:42,279 --> 01:28:46,640
Them wow and it's like that's sort of it's always

1594
01:28:46,640 --> 01:28:48,159
been a thought of like their wedding gift.

1595
01:28:48,439 --> 01:28:52,479
Speaker 1: Or something there was a GIRL that i was absolutely

1596
01:28:52,520 --> 01:28:56,920
infatuated and, prevented myself if there's such a thing as

1597
01:28:57,039 --> 01:29:00,960
from falling in Love with and we had, hooked UP

1598
01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:06,119
but i was in some relationship sort of, half in half.

1599
01:29:06,159 --> 01:29:09,880
Out clearly and she told me that she wrote a

1600
01:29:09,960 --> 01:29:13,720
letter basically what we would Call a lincoln letter today

1601
01:29:13,960 --> 01:29:15,960
and never said it about how angry. She WAS and

1602
01:29:16,000 --> 01:29:20,560
i thought that is the, most mature HEALTHY thing i

1603
01:29:20,560 --> 01:29:22,680
had ever. Heard OF but i couldn't say THAT because i,

1604
01:29:22,720 --> 01:29:24,520
was like oh the fuck? Is This and, i'm like

1605
01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:28,479
that's actually, really smart because you get out all, the

1606
01:29:28,600 --> 01:29:32,279
poison and the rest of us hold that poison in

1607
01:29:32,800 --> 01:29:37,680
and then it becomes resentment and anger and it just

1608
01:29:37,960 --> 01:29:39,199
you just push it down and it's.

1609
01:29:39,239 --> 01:29:42,760
Speaker 2: Not GOOD why I say i still have to write

1610
01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:48,720
about SOMEONE like i still have hurt feelings or things

1611
01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:50,600
that pop in my mind, at TIME and i just

1612
01:29:50,720 --> 01:29:52,279
write It out and a lot OF times i send

1613
01:29:52,359 --> 01:29:53,279
It to renee now and.

1614
01:29:53,239 --> 01:29:54,840
Speaker 1: She's, like oh. That's GOOD.

1615
01:29:56,119 --> 01:29:58,800
Speaker 2: But i used to send it. To him, You did,

1616
01:29:59,159 --> 01:30:01,399
oh yeah you got ship all? The time what? The

1617
01:30:01,520 --> 01:30:04,239
fuck especially well when we, were together he got like

1618
01:30:04,479 --> 01:30:05,000
a lot.

1619
01:30:04,840 --> 01:30:07,399
Speaker 1: Of, effusive yeah positive.

1620
01:30:07,439 --> 01:30:10,920
Speaker 2: But positive but then but then, EVEN afterwards i would

1621
01:30:10,920 --> 01:30:14,840
be like we would pass each other at picking up

1622
01:30:14,880 --> 01:30:17,760
our kids, or SOMETHING and i would WRITE and i

1623
01:30:17,800 --> 01:30:19,680
would send it to HIM because i just didn't know

1624
01:30:19,680 --> 01:30:22,680
how to express myself. In WORDS but i could always.

1625
01:30:22,399 --> 01:30:28,479
Speaker 1: Like write so and, His response i'm.

1626
01:30:28,520 --> 01:30:30,720
Speaker 2: SO sorry I wish i could be. With, you.

1627
01:30:32,119 --> 01:30:37,520
Speaker 1: Yeah and then we. Killed me, it's interesting but when

1628
01:30:37,560 --> 01:30:40,000
you send, your girlfriends what do? They say?

1629
01:30:40,760 --> 01:30:43,319
Speaker 2: That's powerful how did you just come up? With that i'll,

1630
01:30:43,359 --> 01:30:45,560
be like there's Been times i've literally been in a

1631
01:30:45,680 --> 01:30:49,159
Car with renee and like written something and, she's like

1632
01:30:49,199 --> 01:30:50,920
you just came up, With That and, i'm like.

1633
01:30:50,840 --> 01:30:57,680
Speaker 1: How does someone like that relate? To you someone who

1634
01:30:57,680 --> 01:31:03,119
seems a Little more she, Was, everything yeah so, but,

1635
01:31:03,279 --> 01:31:05,479
reserved instilled, didn't judge and.

1636
01:31:07,199 --> 01:31:09,239
Speaker 2: Because he would go to her and claim How.

1637
01:31:09,199 --> 01:31:13,159
Speaker 1: Much, yeah baby, he knew he knew the buttons as

1638
01:31:14,079 --> 01:31:18,640
it's a, Smart. MAN laura i apologize for whatever SHIP

1639
01:31:18,680 --> 01:31:21,000
show i put. ON tonight i have no idea. OF

1640
01:31:21,119 --> 01:31:23,760
it i bought a bottle of wine and then we

1641
01:31:23,840 --> 01:31:25,960
Opened up danny's bottle of wine and we finished. As

1642
01:31:25,960 --> 01:31:28,119
well i'm so shocked by THE time i.

1643
01:31:28,159 --> 01:31:30,239
Speaker 2: Got here you would drink the, whole bottle except for

1644
01:31:34,000 --> 01:31:36,119
you see me? A glass.

1645
01:31:36,960 --> 01:31:42,640
Speaker 1: What are? My guys WHAT am i? Gonna do i'm

1646
01:31:42,640 --> 01:31:46,760
gonna call one of your friends sick take me home to. Their.

1647
01:31:46,800 --> 01:31:49,359
House moran we'll see you.

1648
01:31:49,439 --> 01:31:52,119
Speaker 4: Next week Seeing the Mat with Landen and mamma's lack

1649
01:31:52,159 --> 01:31:55,399
of bridge and, No sandstay Bowl of bark And The

1650
01:31:55,520 --> 01:31:56,600
bastland Gates

1651
01:31:58,680 --> 01:32:01,640
Speaker 1: See karla And with tennessee and the