WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.680 --> 00:00:03.759 Birthday shout out to Lexi from Brady. She is twenty 2 00:00:03.799 --> 00:00:05.440 six years old today, and I guess they both listen 3 00:00:05.480 --> 00:00:09.519 to the Minnesota Goodbye. I'm nervous today because I got 4 00:00:09.599 --> 00:00:12.039 to go to I gotta sign my will, big deal. 5 00:00:12.119 --> 00:00:14.960 It's like we've already reviewed it, signed, done out of there. 6 00:00:15.240 --> 00:00:18.359 But then I have a physical and there are a 7 00:00:18.359 --> 00:00:23.320 lot of things wrong with me right now. My back hurts. 8 00:00:23.480 --> 00:00:25.440 I sprung it at the gym the other day and 9 00:00:25.480 --> 00:00:27.359 it still hurts. And every time I like bend over 10 00:00:27.399 --> 00:00:30.120 to pick something up, it hurts. So I got to 11 00:00:30.120 --> 00:00:32.479 talk about that. I want to ask about a CEPAP 12 00:00:32.520 --> 00:00:38.880 device and just you know, just checking things out. They 13 00:00:38.880 --> 00:00:40.960 get to do the prostate exam where they put your 14 00:00:41.039 --> 00:00:44.079 finger up your heinee and poke around in there and 15 00:00:44.679 --> 00:00:48.039 and that's, you know, it's one of those things where 16 00:00:48.439 --> 00:00:51.039 it's not that bad, it's just not nobody likes to 17 00:00:51.079 --> 00:00:53.240 drop their pants in front of a stranger. And then 18 00:00:53.240 --> 00:00:54.719 they got to do the thing where they like do 19 00:00:54.759 --> 00:00:56.759 the hernia check, where you pull your pants down and 20 00:00:56.799 --> 00:00:59.560 you face the doctor and the doctor pokes his finger 21 00:00:59.640 --> 00:01:02.039 up in your nutsack and like says, turn your head 22 00:01:02.039 --> 00:01:02.399 to the side. 23 00:01:02.399 --> 00:01:02.640 More. 24 00:01:02.719 --> 00:01:05.439 Really, Yeah, hernia surgery. 25 00:01:05.560 --> 00:01:05.840 What's that? 26 00:01:06.040 --> 00:01:07.799 My dad just has hernia surgery. 27 00:01:08.159 --> 00:01:08.439 Yeah. 28 00:01:08.519 --> 00:01:11.560 It goes a little too in detail than what I 29 00:01:11.680 --> 00:01:14.480 needed to know about certain things, but I listen because 30 00:01:14.480 --> 00:01:15.040 you've got no one. 31 00:01:15.000 --> 00:01:15.599 Else to talk to. 32 00:01:15.760 --> 00:01:19.920 Something, Well, hernia can happen to him. I mean women 33 00:01:19.959 --> 00:01:22.719 and men. I guess they're more common in women, but 34 00:01:22.760 --> 00:01:26.480 basically it's the muscle wall. Tears and things that shouldn't 35 00:01:26.519 --> 00:01:28.159 go through the muscle wall poke out. 36 00:01:28.280 --> 00:01:31.079 Oh, I think yeah, I think that sounds right. 37 00:01:31.599 --> 00:01:33.760 So I'm not looking forward to that. And then I 38 00:01:33.799 --> 00:01:36.359 don't know, it's just one of those days where it's 39 00:01:36.439 --> 00:01:39.120 just not a day that I'm excited about. Yeah. 40 00:01:39.239 --> 00:01:40.680 I mean, it's a good thing that you're doing all 41 00:01:40.719 --> 00:01:42.359 of it, because it's kind of you know when you 42 00:01:42.400 --> 00:01:44.239 have like back burner things that you're supposed to do, 43 00:01:44.359 --> 00:01:47.359 like not chores, but you know life things, well, like 44 00:01:47.480 --> 00:01:49.120 I gotta get this done, you got to get this 45 00:01:49.120 --> 00:01:50.719 physical done, you gotta sign your will. 46 00:01:50.799 --> 00:01:52.599 Some things you just gotta do, and you're doing two 47 00:01:52.599 --> 00:01:53.280 of them in one. 48 00:01:53.159 --> 00:01:54.400 Way, one day. 49 00:01:54.519 --> 00:01:55.079 Good job. 50 00:01:56.079 --> 00:01:59.959 Let's move on to the emails and see what we 51 00:02:00.200 --> 00:02:04.040 got a bruin here. Let's start off with this one. 52 00:02:04.840 --> 00:02:06.359 It's kind of more for the show, but it also 53 00:02:06.400 --> 00:02:11.639 works on the Minnesota Goodbye. I'm watching today's show on YouTube, 54 00:02:11.639 --> 00:02:17.000 and I'm getting so frustrated at the Ladies Room segment. Dave, 55 00:02:17.080 --> 00:02:19.599 I do agree that everyone is judged by their number 56 00:02:19.639 --> 00:02:22.960 of sexual partners, but men are often, not always, but 57 00:02:23.039 --> 00:02:26.080 often celebrated for the number of people they've slept with, 58 00:02:26.159 --> 00:02:30.039 while women are shamed. But that's a completely separate conversation 59 00:02:30.400 --> 00:02:33.800 because that's not even what the Ladies Room topic was about. 60 00:02:34.039 --> 00:02:38.080 Dave on Love is Blind has a problem with Lauren 61 00:02:38.159 --> 00:02:41.479 having hooked up with one singular person a couple of 62 00:02:41.479 --> 00:02:44.439 weeks before coming on the show, and he thinks there's 63 00:02:44.520 --> 00:02:47.479 no way Lauren could be ready for marriage if she 64 00:02:47.599 --> 00:02:51.039 was just recently hooking up casually with someone. That was 65 00:02:51.080 --> 00:02:53.039 the topic. Not sure how y'all got talking about the 66 00:02:53.120 --> 00:02:55.639 numbers of sexual partners and how many is too many? 67 00:02:55.639 --> 00:02:58.120 But I was screaming at my phone telling Dave to 68 00:02:58.159 --> 00:03:00.759 either get back on track or leave the Ladies Room. 69 00:03:00.960 --> 00:03:04.840 I say, lovingly, you know, sometimes I just kind of 70 00:03:04.879 --> 00:03:07.000 like try to spice things up a little bit. Yeah, 71 00:03:07.120 --> 00:03:10.639 by being a little bit provocative. I would also day 72 00:03:10.680 --> 00:03:12.879 from the show. Being single for the past four years 73 00:03:13.240 --> 00:03:16.000 and having the audacity to start every conversation he had 74 00:03:16.039 --> 00:03:19.599 with so, what's wrong with you? Why are you single? 75 00:03:19.759 --> 00:03:22.120 Is a bigger red flag than Lauren having a casual 76 00:03:22.159 --> 00:03:25.240 fling with someone before coming on the show. Just one 77 00:03:25.280 --> 00:03:26.879 of the many red flags, But I digress. 78 00:03:27.120 --> 00:03:30.080 He also went up to everyone and so they go 79 00:03:30.319 --> 00:03:31.680 day of the way. It works as they get out 80 00:03:31.719 --> 00:03:33.479 of the pods. If they got engaged, they go on 81 00:03:33.520 --> 00:03:36.639 some tropical vacation. So they were in Honduras. He went 82 00:03:36.719 --> 00:03:38.520 up to every single person, like, have you guys. 83 00:03:38.360 --> 00:03:40.360 Had sex yet? Have you guys had sex yet? Because 84 00:03:40.400 --> 00:03:42.360 I haven't, Like I want to, yeah, because I haven't. 85 00:03:42.400 --> 00:03:44.520 And it's like, I don't know. 86 00:03:44.639 --> 00:03:47.319 This man puts a lot of weight on sex, and 87 00:03:47.560 --> 00:03:52.879 in certain ways not correctly, like like wondering if everyone's 88 00:03:52.879 --> 00:03:54.560 had sex, but like it's not okay that Lauren just 89 00:03:54.599 --> 00:03:57.360 had sex like before coming on the show, right exactly 90 00:03:57.400 --> 00:03:58.439 because it wasn't with him. 91 00:03:58.599 --> 00:04:00.919 Well, you know what, I think that sex is such 92 00:04:00.919 --> 00:04:05.319 an interesting, fascinating thing to me because it's like appetites 93 00:04:05.400 --> 00:04:09.120 or tastes in food. Some people think ketchup is spicy. 94 00:04:09.759 --> 00:04:12.439 Some people could never eat Tabasco sauce and would never 95 00:04:12.520 --> 00:04:15.520 touch a ghost pepper. And then some people, when it 96 00:04:15.520 --> 00:04:17.439 comes to sex, it's like, Okay, well the lights have. 97 00:04:17.360 --> 00:04:17.920 Got to be off. 98 00:04:17.959 --> 00:04:20.319 We're gonna do it in this very polite, traditional way, 99 00:04:20.959 --> 00:04:23.879 and you know, maybe once in a while on your anniversary, 100 00:04:23.920 --> 00:04:25.959 I'll give you a blowy. Yeah, and. 101 00:04:27.480 --> 00:04:30.199 I'm being serious just where you say, like in a 102 00:04:30.279 --> 00:04:31.680 nice traditional way. 103 00:04:32.040 --> 00:04:35.639 And that's how some people look at sex. And some 104 00:04:35.680 --> 00:04:38.399 people are like, yeah, give me that blah blah blah blah, 105 00:04:38.399 --> 00:04:39.680 give it to me up from the blah blah blah 106 00:04:39.680 --> 00:04:41.720 blah blah, bay harder blah blah blah blah blah whatever. 107 00:04:42.160 --> 00:04:44.240 And that's it's the same way people look at food. 108 00:04:44.279 --> 00:04:47.480 It's like I love sushi, I love exotic foods, I 109 00:04:47.519 --> 00:04:51.360 love different things. There's certain things I wouldn't eat, and 110 00:04:51.399 --> 00:04:56.040 the same thing. In the bedroom, people might feel more adventuresome, 111 00:04:56.079 --> 00:04:58.560 and some people are like, oh, ketchup is too spicy? 112 00:04:58.959 --> 00:05:01.120 You want to put it way type of thing. 113 00:05:01.600 --> 00:05:05.000 Yeah, well it's true, No, it is for sure. 114 00:05:05.040 --> 00:05:08.519 And I think that honestly, hooking up with somebody early 115 00:05:09.120 --> 00:05:13.959 might come very naturally to some people, and other people 116 00:05:14.040 --> 00:05:16.600 hooking up with somebody early. Well, there's no way we're 117 00:05:16.600 --> 00:05:20.040 gonna obviously see each other for a month before I 118 00:05:20.079 --> 00:05:22.680 would even like, let you touch my boobies. And these 119 00:05:22.720 --> 00:05:24.759 are my boobies. Yeah, I'm not talking about girls, but 120 00:05:24.800 --> 00:05:27.720 my boobies, your boobies. But I think we've all maybe 121 00:05:27.720 --> 00:05:31.480 hooked up with somebody very early in a relationship, and 122 00:05:31.519 --> 00:05:33.439 we've all like been with somebody who doesn't want to 123 00:05:33.439 --> 00:05:34.120 hook up early. 124 00:05:35.439 --> 00:05:37.360 I'm thinking I'm thinking. 125 00:05:37.160 --> 00:05:40.439 Very large honestly. So I here's a fun fact about me. 126 00:05:40.800 --> 00:05:43.000 Anytime I would hook up too early, I would be 127 00:05:43.079 --> 00:05:45.720 like okay, and then it didn't work out. I'd be like, 128 00:05:45.720 --> 00:05:47.360 it's because I hooked up too early, and so then 129 00:05:47.360 --> 00:05:48.839 I would go into the next one being like, well, 130 00:05:48.879 --> 00:05:51.000 I'm not gonna do it early. I'm gonna wait, and 131 00:05:51.040 --> 00:05:52.600 then it won't turn out. So I'm like, you know what, 132 00:05:53.000 --> 00:05:55.319 I have all of this like superstition in my brain 133 00:05:55.399 --> 00:05:57.240 over like waiting versus not waiting. 134 00:05:57.279 --> 00:05:59.199 So now I just don't give a crap anymore. It's 135 00:05:59.199 --> 00:06:01.519 if I want who I want. If I don't, I don't, Okay. 136 00:06:01.240 --> 00:06:03.800 Now that's fair. I know that I've dated girls who 137 00:06:03.800 --> 00:06:06.680 we hooked up like on night number one or night 138 00:06:06.759 --> 00:06:11.160 number two, and it was wonderful because it wasn't about 139 00:06:11.360 --> 00:06:12.199 the sex. 140 00:06:12.800 --> 00:06:13.680 If you hook up. 141 00:06:13.560 --> 00:06:16.040 Early and you really have nothing in common except, you know, 142 00:06:16.079 --> 00:06:19.560 maybe a slight love of football or whatever little thing 143 00:06:19.600 --> 00:06:22.120 you have in common, and then you have sex, well 144 00:06:22.199 --> 00:06:23.920 then it's only going to be about sex. But if 145 00:06:23.959 --> 00:06:27.639 you hook up early and you also love camping and 146 00:06:27.680 --> 00:06:30.439 you love snowboarding and you love hiking, and you love this, 147 00:06:30.600 --> 00:06:32.600 and you love this and you love cribbage and whatever, 148 00:06:33.360 --> 00:06:35.439 then it doesn't matter whether you hooked up early or not. 149 00:06:36.240 --> 00:06:41.319 I think the hookup is secondary to whether you really click. Yeah, 150 00:06:41.439 --> 00:06:44.519 maybe maybe you didn't click with any of them. 151 00:06:44.639 --> 00:06:45.079 None of them. 152 00:06:45.120 --> 00:06:45.680 Yeah, I don't know. 153 00:06:45.759 --> 00:06:47.879 Yeah, that's probably my problem. I don't click with anybody. 154 00:06:47.920 --> 00:06:48.480 Well, I don't know. 155 00:06:50.360 --> 00:06:53.399 Everyone hates me why they hate you? 156 00:06:53.680 --> 00:06:55.360 Yeah, but well that's. 157 00:06:55.199 --> 00:06:57.519 A bummer though. If I didn't click with anyone, how. 158 00:06:57.439 --> 00:06:58.959 Many were there? I'm not going to tell you that 159 00:06:59.040 --> 00:07:00.000 tell me because I want to judge. 160 00:07:00.079 --> 00:07:03.560 I'm not going to tell you because there's a number. 161 00:07:04.040 --> 00:07:08.000 Bailey is more reserved when it comes to talking about partners. 162 00:07:08.040 --> 00:07:11.120 You and I have no shame like. Bailey actually likes 163 00:07:11.160 --> 00:07:13.160 to keep things to herself. You and I are disgusting, 164 00:07:13.160 --> 00:07:14.879 and we're like, we'll tell you about that one time. 165 00:07:15.079 --> 00:07:16.639 That's because I know my mom listens. 166 00:07:16.759 --> 00:07:19.319 I'm pretty sure tell me about that time. 167 00:07:19.560 --> 00:07:22.240 And I'm always like, well whatever. At this point, it's 168 00:07:22.240 --> 00:07:24.199 all good anyway. 169 00:07:24.279 --> 00:07:26.839 Miranda writes in she's the same one that wrote this. 170 00:07:26.920 --> 00:07:28.639 She said, love you guys, just need to put my 171 00:07:28.680 --> 00:07:31.720 two cents in and actually email instead of talking to 172 00:07:31.759 --> 00:07:34.800 you on my phone like a freak. So in other words, 173 00:07:34.839 --> 00:07:36.839 I love that she listens to the Minnesota goodbye and 174 00:07:36.920 --> 00:07:38.600 talks back to us, And I love that you wrote 175 00:07:38.600 --> 00:07:40.720 in Miranda, Thank you, Miranda. 176 00:07:41.480 --> 00:07:41.639 Uh. 177 00:07:42.040 --> 00:07:46.959 Next one, I feel the sameness talking about ground hot 178 00:07:47.160 --> 00:07:50.639 Groundhog Day. Hello, everybody, feel free to use my name. 179 00:07:50.680 --> 00:07:53.079 Heard you could use some messages this week. I feel 180 00:07:53.120 --> 00:07:55.120 the sameness each day the last few months. My work 181 00:07:55.199 --> 00:07:58.480 rotation has next Tuesday off Marty Gross. So to take 182 00:07:58.800 --> 00:08:01.240 shake things up, I'm taking train down to New Orleans 183 00:08:01.319 --> 00:08:02.040 and flying back. 184 00:08:02.319 --> 00:08:03.399 Cool. 185 00:08:04.319 --> 00:08:06.519 Other points on if you grew up as a middle 186 00:08:06.560 --> 00:08:10.639 class a middle class had your college paid for outright, 187 00:08:10.759 --> 00:08:13.040 or parents had the ability to pay for it. One 188 00:08:13.079 --> 00:08:15.439 parent never worked, usually the mom, the other did. I 189 00:08:15.480 --> 00:08:17.639 had a cabin up on a lake to go to 190 00:08:17.720 --> 00:08:20.399 in the summer. Was an intern unpaid. I'm not really 191 00:08:20.399 --> 00:08:23.279 sure if they're asking questions or making statements here, so 192 00:08:23.560 --> 00:08:26.480 it's a little bit like confusing to me, but they 193 00:08:26.519 --> 00:08:28.639 do say I'm with Jenny on Vegas. I was out 194 00:08:28.639 --> 00:08:30.920 there three years ago for the first time on a 195 00:08:31.000 --> 00:08:33.960 quick stopover, and I don't drink. I really don't care 196 00:08:34.000 --> 00:08:36.679 for gambling or going out. I found an Elvis tribute 197 00:08:36.679 --> 00:08:38.759 show that was going on starting in an hour, so 198 00:08:38.799 --> 00:08:41.879 I went. So I guess they liked that. What did 199 00:08:41.919 --> 00:08:43.679 you say about Vegas? You don't really like Vegas. 200 00:08:43.759 --> 00:08:45.720 I don't really not any I'm not a huge fan 201 00:08:45.759 --> 00:08:48.159 of Vegas anymore, just because when I was younger, yeah, 202 00:08:48.159 --> 00:08:50.320 I loved it, would go out partying until five in 203 00:08:50.360 --> 00:08:53.120 the morning, but now at this point, like that's not 204 00:08:53.159 --> 00:08:55.519 my life anymore, and I don't like to gamble, so 205 00:08:55.639 --> 00:08:57.720 I can't imagine that I would love Vegas. However, there 206 00:08:57.759 --> 00:08:59.879 are a lot of like cool places around Vegas, like 207 00:09:00.279 --> 00:09:03.120 Valley National Park is over there, Like there's things you 208 00:09:03.120 --> 00:09:05.679 could drive to that I would be very interested in 209 00:09:05.720 --> 00:09:06.039 going to. 210 00:09:06.240 --> 00:09:08.480 I agree, like I think like what you said that 211 00:09:08.519 --> 00:09:11.519 there's things around Vegas. And now if I like went 212 00:09:11.519 --> 00:09:13.600 to Vegas now, I would be going for a different 213 00:09:13.639 --> 00:09:16.320 reason than what I would have gone to ten years ago, 214 00:09:16.559 --> 00:09:19.480 because ten years ago like gambling, going out to shows, whatever, 215 00:09:19.480 --> 00:09:22.600 blah blah blah clubs, And then now I'd be like, oh, 216 00:09:22.639 --> 00:09:25.840 there's I could go to all these retro places and 217 00:09:26.360 --> 00:09:29.159 hear more about like Elvis, like the emailer said and 218 00:09:29.480 --> 00:09:32.720 things like that. So I think in general we don't 219 00:09:33.000 --> 00:09:35.000 look at Vegas the same way as we once did. 220 00:09:35.559 --> 00:09:38.440 I think that's true. I we just got back from 221 00:09:38.480 --> 00:09:39.960 Las Vegas, and I will tell you it's probably my 222 00:09:40.159 --> 00:09:43.159 least fun trip we've ever had to Las Vegas. 223 00:09:43.720 --> 00:09:44.039 It was. 224 00:09:44.120 --> 00:09:45.320 It was just you know, I think the thing with 225 00:09:45.399 --> 00:09:47.559 Las Vegas is you realize if you gamble, you're going 226 00:09:47.559 --> 00:09:48.159 to lose money. 227 00:09:48.200 --> 00:09:49.960 M period. 228 00:09:50.360 --> 00:09:53.840 Yeah, I mean almost a period. If you gamble, you're 229 00:09:53.879 --> 00:09:57.120 going to lose money. You might win this time, but 230 00:09:57.159 --> 00:09:59.840 when you come back two hours later, you're probably going 231 00:09:59.879 --> 00:10:00.399 to to lose. 232 00:10:00.480 --> 00:10:00.679 Yeah. 233 00:10:00.960 --> 00:10:02.759 If you go to Las Vegas and you gamble, you're 234 00:10:02.759 --> 00:10:05.320 gonna lose money. And I know this, I've been I 235 00:10:05.399 --> 00:10:08.720 used to live there, and that's what we did. We'd 236 00:10:08.759 --> 00:10:11.279 win a little bit and then we probably lost about 237 00:10:11.320 --> 00:10:13.600 one thousand dollars gambling in Las Vegas. 238 00:10:14.080 --> 00:10:18.279 And did you have a thousand dollars worth of fun? Though? No, no, no, 239 00:10:18.320 --> 00:10:19.200 because that's what I. 240 00:10:19.120 --> 00:10:21.000 Always say with me and my mom were like, Okay, 241 00:10:21.000 --> 00:10:22.679 if we're gonna go gambling, we have to have the 242 00:10:22.720 --> 00:10:25.559 amount of money that we spend worth of fun in 243 00:10:25.639 --> 00:10:26.720 case we all of that. 244 00:10:26.960 --> 00:10:27.960 Yeah, that's a good mindset. 245 00:10:28.000 --> 00:10:28.480 Yeah, and it is. 246 00:10:28.480 --> 00:10:30.519 That's a good mindset. We did go to the Neon Museum, 247 00:10:30.519 --> 00:10:32.919 which was nice. That was like twenty bucks apiece, and 248 00:10:32.960 --> 00:10:34.720 then we went to a magic show which is like 249 00:10:34.720 --> 00:10:37.279 one hundred dollars apiece, and that was nice. It was fun, 250 00:10:37.639 --> 00:10:39.879 but Vegas is like a lot of the time. We 251 00:10:39.960 --> 00:10:41.759 walked out onto Free wont Street, We're like, well, what 252 00:10:41.759 --> 00:10:45.120 do you want to do? I don't know, we already 253 00:10:45.200 --> 00:10:47.639 did everything yesterday. What do you want to do? Let's 254 00:10:47.679 --> 00:10:50.279 go down to a Let's go down to the Luxore, 255 00:10:50.360 --> 00:10:52.279 Let's go down to New York, New York. Okay, well 256 00:10:52.399 --> 00:10:55.399 go walk in New York, New York. What is there 257 00:10:55.440 --> 00:10:57.240 to do when you walk in New York, New York? 258 00:10:57.440 --> 00:11:04.759 Three things? Gamble, drink shop, yep, oh, there's eat also eat. 259 00:11:04.799 --> 00:11:07.039 So there's four things, gamble, drink, shop, eat. 260 00:11:08.200 --> 00:11:10.679 There's a lot to look around at. 261 00:11:10.399 --> 00:11:13.559 That's that's not bad. We watch We watched the marathon. 262 00:11:13.639 --> 00:11:14.879 There was a marathon. 263 00:11:14.519 --> 00:11:16.840 Until what's the one where you like go inside and 264 00:11:16.879 --> 00:11:19.840 it seems like you're outside in like Italy, it's. 265 00:11:19.679 --> 00:11:23.240 Like the whole inside that That one is cool. 266 00:11:23.320 --> 00:11:25.240 I love that one just walking around and looking at 267 00:11:25.240 --> 00:11:27.000 it because I went to Vegas with my mom when 268 00:11:27.000 --> 00:11:29.120 I was like under twenty one. I was maybe in 269 00:11:29.200 --> 00:11:31.240 high school, middle school, and we had a great time 270 00:11:31.320 --> 00:11:33.679 just looking around at stuff and like experience. 271 00:11:33.879 --> 00:11:35.360 There is a lot to look around at this true 272 00:11:35.360 --> 00:11:37.720 and Venice is actually it is indoors, but they paint 273 00:11:37.720 --> 00:11:40.000 the ceiling to look like the sky, and they have 274 00:11:40.159 --> 00:11:44.279 the canals and they have the little lum the yes, 275 00:11:45.039 --> 00:11:47.519 and then they paddle up and down by these shops 276 00:11:47.559 --> 00:11:50.240 that you can't afford, and if you go in, they 277 00:11:50.279 --> 00:11:52.360 give you a dirty, shitty look because they know that 278 00:11:52.399 --> 00:11:54.440 you're trash and you can't afford to be in their shop. 279 00:11:54.519 --> 00:11:57.600 And they're right, because every shop you go into is 280 00:11:57.679 --> 00:12:02.320 like you know, Doulce and Bona or some very expensive 281 00:12:02.399 --> 00:12:03.159 jewelry store. 282 00:12:03.240 --> 00:12:03.919 Have you got your ouf? 283 00:12:03.960 --> 00:12:06.039 At Walmart, and you got your outfit at Walmart. You 284 00:12:06.080 --> 00:12:08.039 walk in and some guy or some woman that owns 285 00:12:08.039 --> 00:12:10.080 the store, they're looking at you like you filth. 286 00:12:10.320 --> 00:12:12.120 I don't even do out of my store. 287 00:12:12.240 --> 00:12:14.399 I don't walk into those stores because I don't want 288 00:12:14.440 --> 00:12:17.320 to deal with that. I just think it's like ridiculous 289 00:12:17.919 --> 00:12:19.679 Tony who's a friend of the show and comes on 290 00:12:19.720 --> 00:12:22.879 every once in a while. He loves a designer bag, 291 00:12:22.960 --> 00:12:25.039 so that man, every time he goes to Vegas he 292 00:12:25.120 --> 00:12:27.480 comes home with something from one of those boogie shops. 293 00:12:27.480 --> 00:12:29.320 And I was like, Oh, you and I are different, 294 00:12:29.480 --> 00:12:30.759 we have different lives. 295 00:12:30.960 --> 00:12:32.480 Yeah, so I don't know the next time I'll go 296 00:12:32.519 --> 00:12:35.240 to Las Vegas. I mean, honestly, I just I didn't. 297 00:12:35.480 --> 00:12:39.720 I enjoyed the break, I enjoyed sleeping in. We had 298 00:12:39.720 --> 00:12:42.919 a really bad steak dinner, so that kind of fucked 299 00:12:43.000 --> 00:12:45.799 up the whole food thing, and we ate twice at 300 00:12:45.799 --> 00:12:48.559 a Japanese noodle place because it was cheap and free 301 00:12:48.600 --> 00:12:51.039 and not free, but it was cheap and quick. Next one, 302 00:12:51.320 --> 00:12:53.559 Please don't say my name. I grew up in a 303 00:12:53.600 --> 00:12:57.320 lower class household with siblings and an addict mom, and 304 00:12:57.360 --> 00:13:00.000 we moved a lot my mom and I were very close. Unfortunately, 305 00:13:00.159 --> 00:13:02.519 my mom passed away last year. I'm sorry to hear that. 306 00:13:03.039 --> 00:13:05.559 I am thirty three without kids and I went on 307 00:13:05.720 --> 00:13:09.320 my first vacation a couple of months ago with my 308 00:13:09.360 --> 00:13:12.080 boyfriend to a resort. It was the first time I'd 309 00:13:12.120 --> 00:13:16.519 seen palm trees in person. It was amazing. It was 310 00:13:16.600 --> 00:13:19.399 just what it needed to relax. Now, this past year's 311 00:13:19.440 --> 00:13:22.240 events have made me reflect on my life. How if 312 00:13:22.320 --> 00:13:25.360 things were different, we could have had family trips, stability, 313 00:13:25.360 --> 00:13:28.480 and more time together. I'm realizing how much the stress 314 00:13:28.480 --> 00:13:31.639 of caring for an addict weight on me and I 315 00:13:31.639 --> 00:13:34.559 remember Mom was an addict, but they were very close. 316 00:13:35.840 --> 00:13:38.679 I'm feeling resimbment in morning, at the same time inspired 317 00:13:38.679 --> 00:13:42.240 to make life joyful. My life's journey has sparked my 318 00:13:42.360 --> 00:13:47.519 desire for sterilization. I know it's a bit of a 319 00:13:47.519 --> 00:13:52.080 different email and to take sterilization of what that's what 320 00:13:52.120 --> 00:13:54.720 they say, and to take trips when I have time 321 00:13:54.759 --> 00:13:57.240 off work. Although this may be a deal breaker with 322 00:13:57.320 --> 00:14:00.559 my boyfriend of two years. Oh, she want the boyfriend 323 00:14:00.600 --> 00:14:04.159 to get sterilized, Okay, I feel it's a right choice 324 00:14:04.200 --> 00:14:06.879 for me and I'm always saying positive life short take vacation. 325 00:14:07.360 --> 00:14:10.519 I'm wondering if anybody else has a meaningful or inspiring 326 00:14:11.080 --> 00:14:16.440 lifestyle affirmation story. Thanks for your time. I'm not sure. 327 00:14:16.600 --> 00:14:20.759 I follow this very interesting email exactly. 328 00:14:21.720 --> 00:14:24.320 Stay in sterilization as if she like, the boyfriend's going 329 00:14:24.360 --> 00:14:25.720 to get fixed so they can have. 330 00:14:26.240 --> 00:14:29.360 Yees so they can travel. Yeah, Okay, I think that's 331 00:14:29.360 --> 00:14:31.919 what she's saying. Okay, So in other words, I don't 332 00:14:31.919 --> 00:14:34.320 know that I would define that as a lifestyle affirmation, 333 00:14:34.799 --> 00:14:36.279 but I thought it was an interesting thing. 334 00:14:36.679 --> 00:14:39.919 So I mean you, I have one lifestyle affirmation that 335 00:14:40.039 --> 00:14:42.279 I always reference because it's the only one. I remember 336 00:14:42.360 --> 00:14:44.519 my mom when we were in like high school and 337 00:14:44.559 --> 00:14:48.600 we would complain about being bullied or feeling stupid or 338 00:14:48.720 --> 00:14:51.159 ugly or whatever. She would tell us to just be 339 00:14:51.720 --> 00:14:54.519 and not think about being pretty or being smart or 340 00:14:54.559 --> 00:14:57.120 being funny, to just be who we were. And I 341 00:14:57.120 --> 00:14:59.000 think about it all the time because that's what my 342 00:14:59.039 --> 00:14:59.559 mama said. 343 00:14:59.759 --> 00:15:01.200 That's very nice. That's some good advice. 344 00:15:01.240 --> 00:15:03.279 I got to be anything. I just got to be. 345 00:15:04.799 --> 00:15:06.559 I will say that one of my things that I have. 346 00:15:06.639 --> 00:15:08.919 I don't know if it's an affirmation, but it is 347 00:15:09.039 --> 00:15:11.440 to have something to look forward to And this is 348 00:15:11.440 --> 00:15:14.480 in my book and I've always thought this, I've realized 349 00:15:14.519 --> 00:15:18.480 this years ago, and I found a little meme that 350 00:15:18.480 --> 00:15:21.000 I'll read to you. A big part of being happy 351 00:15:21.039 --> 00:15:24.799 is being excited. Being excited for everything, making a cup 352 00:15:24.799 --> 00:15:27.600 of tea, seeing a friend, the next episode of your 353 00:15:27.600 --> 00:15:31.960 favorite show, buying something you've been saving up for, sunsets, traveling, 354 00:15:32.120 --> 00:15:35.600 falling in love, live a life you are excited about. 355 00:15:35.960 --> 00:15:39.279 A big part of being happy is being excited. So 356 00:15:39.360 --> 00:15:41.000 what are you excited for right now? 357 00:15:41.200 --> 00:15:42.159 Bailey? Anything? 358 00:15:43.080 --> 00:15:43.879 Today? 359 00:15:43.919 --> 00:15:46.519 I'm judging a speech tournament and I'm freaking jazzed about it. 360 00:15:46.600 --> 00:15:47.120 Are you okay? 361 00:15:47.120 --> 00:15:48.960 I can't wait because it's none of my kids. So 362 00:15:49.000 --> 00:15:51.799 I get to see brand new stuff and write feedback 363 00:15:51.840 --> 00:15:52.919 for it, and I can't wait. 364 00:15:53.840 --> 00:15:55.279 Will Jenny, what are you excited for? 365 00:15:55.480 --> 00:15:58.320 Well, if I can figure out timing with stuff, because 366 00:15:58.320 --> 00:16:00.000 I have to deal with this dog getting picked up. 367 00:16:00.080 --> 00:16:02.159 I'm going to go to a coffee shop that Bailey 368 00:16:02.200 --> 00:16:04.679 actually sent me, and I don't really want to say 369 00:16:04.679 --> 00:16:06.039 what it is, yeah, because I don't want it to 370 00:16:06.039 --> 00:16:08.320 blow up because it's brand new and it's like one 371 00:16:08.360 --> 00:16:10.200 of those coffee shops that as soon as word gets 372 00:16:10.240 --> 00:16:12.080 out everyone and their mom's going to be going to 373 00:16:12.639 --> 00:16:14.519 but I'm probably going to check it out this afternoon 374 00:16:14.559 --> 00:16:16.320 if I can figure out some other things with my schedule. 375 00:16:16.360 --> 00:16:18.279 So I'm very excited about that because I love checking 376 00:16:18.320 --> 00:16:20.960 out new spots. It's so cool, just like exploring the 377 00:16:20.960 --> 00:16:22.759 city you live in. Yeah, and then when something new 378 00:16:22.799 --> 00:16:23.799 comes up, it's always fun. 379 00:16:23.879 --> 00:16:25.480 No, I like that, that is super cool. It's fun 380 00:16:25.519 --> 00:16:27.600 to find a cool little new coffee shop. When I 381 00:16:27.600 --> 00:16:30.240 found like Monka Beans or whatever it's called over in Hopkins, 382 00:16:30.480 --> 00:16:31.600 it's like, oh, look at this. 383 00:16:31.720 --> 00:16:33.440 It's just funny because it's been there forever and you 384 00:16:33.600 --> 00:16:34.200 just discovered it. 385 00:16:34.279 --> 00:16:37.120 Yeah to Hopkins. Yeah, I mean yeah, it was cool. 386 00:16:37.320 --> 00:16:38.200 Yeah, it's so cute. 387 00:16:38.279 --> 00:16:40.039 Hello besties. 388 00:16:40.279 --> 00:16:43.120 This email says Bailey, I want to let you know, 389 00:16:43.159 --> 00:16:45.240 next time you're going to walk one of your crazy, 390 00:16:45.279 --> 00:16:48.720 insane twenty mile walks, you should walk your cute little 391 00:16:48.759 --> 00:16:52.440 butt to Old Piper In in Blaine, nineteen miles from uptown. 392 00:16:53.039 --> 00:16:54.720 My husband and I stopped in there for a late 393 00:16:54.799 --> 00:16:56.440 night snack and you wouldn't believe what I heard on 394 00:16:56.480 --> 00:17:01.919 the karaoke stage. Wait for it, Andrew Lloyd Webber Music 395 00:17:01.960 --> 00:17:04.000 of the Night and amazingly sang by the way I 396 00:17:04.119 --> 00:17:06.319 sang along and had all the feels I grew up 397 00:17:06.359 --> 00:17:11.000 listening to that soundtrack. My mom was a huge Phantom 398 00:17:11.000 --> 00:17:14.079 of the Opera fan. Anyway, it's a thing there on 399 00:17:14.160 --> 00:17:17.960 Saturday night, all Broadway opera, not your average Karaoki songs, Wow, 400 00:17:17.960 --> 00:17:20.319 and everybody seems like a professional singer. It was super 401 00:17:20.319 --> 00:17:22.480