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Speaker 1: I made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Pay sunny sound on ahead a vision. It's night.

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Speaker 1: What's up motherfuckers? Happy Tuesday?

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Speaker 2: Yay, so much to talk about, I know. So today's

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election day?

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Speaker 1: Yes for us?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is it for other places? Could be but at Los Angeles,

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big big one. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: California. Yeah, California is electing a governor. Hello governor. So

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I almost it's so crazy. Okay, it's it's not that crazy.

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But maybe some people who live in California will relate

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to this. The struggle, the struggle is real. Yeah, the governor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so but Sarah is for.

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Speaker 2: Democrats, right, So that's Steve Hilton is the Republican that

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we do not want.

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Speaker 1: We would love for him to not even be on

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the ballot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Isn't he a foreigner? He's like British?

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Speaker 2: Uh oh yeah yeah yeah yeah, fuck that guy.

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Speaker 1: Anyway.

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Speaker 2: Also this guy Bianco who's not even who's not gonna

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make it now. But there's two Besarah and Tom Steyer.

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A lot of people are like Tom Styre is just

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a billionaire, you know, And Okay, every morning I wake

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up and I look at threads, Yeah, and I shouldn't

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want it's just.

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Speaker 1: So toxic over there.

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Speaker 2: It's it's almost as bad as Twitter if you're in

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the right algorithm. It's a lot of pretty left leaning fun.

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There's some interesting stories, but then you there's so much transphobia.

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I can't even tell you how people are just like hateful. Yes,

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but anyway, this doesn't have that much to do well.

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It is related in a roundabout way. So I have

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been feeling really torn because and I'm not gonna I'm

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not gonna this is not all this is not like

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all political. It's just that there's some really good things

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about Besara. So remember Eric Swalwell, the scandal, Yeah, got

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kicked out.

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Speaker 1: We were all going to vote for Swallwell.

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Speaker 2: We all loved Swallwell, and then we found out that

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he's a terrible guy. Yeah you know, sexual assault.

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Speaker 1: Or et cetera.

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Speaker 2: Bye, okay, now we were all like okay, what now, Hey,

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who are we voting for? Right, And then people were

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like deciding and like, let's get Then everybody kind of

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got behind Sarah Katie Porter. Used to be a big

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fan of Katie Porter. Some just some really not great

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stuff has come out about us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, some of our stuff.

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Speaker 2: And also some of it's kind of funny, but she's

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got a temper, but.

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Speaker 1: He does seem to have a temper.

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Speaker 2: The thing that really puts a bad taste in my

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mouth now is like, get out of the fucking race.

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Speaker 1: She should have gotten out of the race. Like that just.

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Speaker 2: Shows what a narcissist you are if you're like, you

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have no chance of winning, but now you're just gonna

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fuck it f for everybody. Yeah, get out, yeah, yeah.

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But we have what's called a jungle primary, which is like,

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you know, there's like a fucking name to ball it. Okay,

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but here's the thing, but Sarah is kind of the

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safe choice at this point. A lot of people are

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very mad at Tom Steyer, and you know, they're just like,

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he's a billionaire. We're not going to allow that. He's

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just gonna he's gonna get in there and then just

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do a bunch of billionaire ship for himself.

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Speaker 1: But I kind of like him, and I I.

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Speaker 2: Mean and also in some weird ways, even though it's different.

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Speaker 1: And some of you guys.

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Speaker 2: Are screaming at me right now and you're mad, and

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that's okay. I totally understand. If we were on threads,

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you'd all come for me and cancel me, and I

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was going back and forth. Okay, here was my thinking.

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So Tom Steyer has been very vocally on the side

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of trans writes right, and it takes some balls to

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see yes, to just be like, I don't care, this

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is what I stand for right now. Some people might say,

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but but Sarah has always stood for trans write right.

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Speaker 1: But has he?

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Speaker 2: Like, if you really go back anyway, a lot of

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people are like beautiful people people. Many people are like, well,

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Tom Steyer, like, he has had really shitty views in

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the past, and all of a sudden he's running for governor.

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Speaker 1: What is his past? What did he what's his He's.

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Speaker 2: A billionaire who's done a lot of He's been invested

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in a lot of shady like you know, a lot

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of shady steeds and not shady stuff. But but he's

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been for himself and he's.

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Speaker 3: So he doesn't have a history of working in politics.

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He's more of a business guy. Yes, yeah, I don't

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think there's anything wrong just because they're a business person.

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be run like a business, right, you know, I think

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I'd rather have maybe a business person than another politicians

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that just says everything you want to hear and then

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doesn't end up doing anything right.

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Speaker 1: Listen, it's so hard to know.

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Speaker 2: So John and I were going back and forth and

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back and forth and back and forth. Then I saw

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we've been watching these polls really carefully. Now I am

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hoping that Tom Stier gets enough votes that he and

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Besarah become the only ones on the ticket. We can

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only do that if some people vote for Sire because

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but Sarah is ahead. He's like a twenty eight percent,

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Stires at like twenty two percent, and Hilton's at like

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twenty one last I check. So I was like, fuck it,

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I'm voting for Styre. But then I was like, I

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can't tell anybody except I can say it on the

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podcast and I'll put up with the backlash there. But

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you can't say something like that. You can't put it

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on like threads because people will just be.

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Speaker 3: Like, you're so stupid. Oh God, everybody's stupid.

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Speaker 2: Because Mark Ruffalo said you wanted to vote for he

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was voting for Syre. He expressed support, and so did

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Jane Fonda, by the way, and people lost their minds

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at Mark Ruffalo. But anyway, so I did my ballot

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John did his ballot, and then Elbie did her ballot.

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She's home, and then I took our ballot. Oh okay,

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but here's what happened.

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Speaker 1: What happened. I filled out my ballot but accidentally. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Also, I should have voted for I know I should

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have voted for Karen Bass, but like a lot of people,

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I do not think she has done a great job,

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and she's done a bad job. Of course, I don't

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want Spencer Pratt in there, like that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: But I did put in. I did do my vote

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for Nthia Anythia. Yeah. So here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I had accidentally, not accidentally, but I had voted for

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Karen Bass, and I was like fuck. And then I

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had made a couple of other mistakes, so I was like,

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this is my mail in ballot. So I'm like, damn it,

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I gotta go vote in person. This is why I

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have always vote in person. I don't I'm always afraid

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I'm gonna fuck something up or miss something.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and I like it. It's kind of

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like a tradition. It's fun. It was fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I have to walk fill down the street

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to vote. Can't do that anymore.

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Speaker 1: But all right.

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Speaker 2: So I went in person to our closest polling place

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and then I gate, you have to. I turned in

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my gave them my ballot, and then they canceled it

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out and then I okay, voted with the machine.

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Speaker 1: And then I had Lbie and.

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Speaker 2: John's ballots and they have to be dropped off in

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the ballot box.

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Speaker 1: So this morning I walked.

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Speaker 2: Bob, sorry, oh no, no, I walked into the ballot box.

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But this is where you'll feel better to do that.

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I had to go through the park. I had to

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go through Balbo Park, which is just fucking lousy with squirrels,

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and Bob is obsessed with squirrels.

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Speaker 1: And sure enough.

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Speaker 2: There was one squirrel and he just told me so

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hard that I luckily did not make the mistake I

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made when I broke my foot and I just let.

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Speaker 1: Go the leash.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I was like, sometimes you have to do that,

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I know, go go go try right, and then I

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but oh but when I before I let go the leash,

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I fell because he's so strong he pulled me off

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my feet.

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Speaker 1: I fell.

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Speaker 2: So instead of getting dragged, I just like my leash

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and let him go do his thing, right, right, I know,

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and then somebody was like, are you okay? And yes,

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when I voted exactly. I hate when I see people

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fall like that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: There's something about somebody tripping and falling that really breaks

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my heart.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but you can't help

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but laugh, right I do laugh.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but it's like, aham, so, so you got all that.

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Speaker 1: That's good, that's all taken care of.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that all that is to say who I

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voted for, So you guys can all come for me.

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Speaker 3: Yep, you know, everybody listen, we all live here and

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we have to make what we think is the right choice.

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And I think I'm with you with Styre, like you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's just I live in a different district too,

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so I have a different we have a different mayor.

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that's going to be a whole different story. But so

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but yeah, so tomorrow I'm going to go vote Ma

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and Italia good. Yeah, me and my girl yeah uh

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so yes. So Ni's Sonny was home for a couple

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of days for his dad's birthday and Walk of Fame

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got his walk star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame and.

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Speaker 1: They enjoyed it.

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Speaker 3: They had a long day, but they went to this

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celebration because they got to see Jimmy cousin, sal Tony

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Barbieri was there, Daniel Kellison like, oh wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: They called Daniel uncle buzz a boo uh huh because

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he was always buzzed when we would, you know, hang

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out with back and then anyway, So yeah, they had

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and they saw Ray and Chris Ray and some of

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the ace holes were there and it was a nice day.

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Speaker 1: And the huh was Addie? All yeah, Addie was there. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was getting texts throughout the day like so great

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seeing your kids. I haven't seen him in a long time.

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Ray texted me. Addie texted me Olga was there. Olga

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wa with the kids. She didn't want to go by herself,

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so she came to our house and they went together,

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which was cute, and then they came back to my

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house hung out and then they had a big steak dinner.

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Speaker 1: But the thing I bring it up.

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Speaker 3: Is that if you haven't seen it, Jimmy's Jimmy's speech

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that he had to give for Adam was so touching

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and so sweet, and he got choked up, start crying

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a little bit, a little bit like he said something

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like people know that Adam and I don't see I.

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I to I and politics, but but I want him

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to know, like I'm proud of him.

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Speaker 1: And then he got choked up and he goes, I.

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Speaker 3: Am because he was thinking about And it did bring

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me back to when you know, I was dating Adam

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like two months after he met Jimmy. So I saw

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that relationship blossom and they loved each other and was

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they would not leave each other's side. And Jimmy, I

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feel like he was thinking about back because then he

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brought up you know, Adam was grew up in Los

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Angeles and you know, grew up poor whatever and made

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himself out of something and blah blah blah. So I

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could see, like, you know, that nostalgic thing coming back

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to Jimmy, which was really sweet. And then they all

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met for dinner that night and had a nice dinner,

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and Jimmy slipped my kids a little christ a little

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birthday gift because my kids are going to be twenty

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in a couple of days.

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Speaker 1: Wow, in a couple of days. Yeah. June seventh. Oh

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my god, I for twenty years old. Yeah, yeah, twenty

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years old. Yeah. So it was really sweet.

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Speaker 3: And I sent him an email and thanked him, and

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he wrote back and he said something like it was

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so great seeing your kids. And then he said, you

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give him like five dollars.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I gave him like in nicols.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's very generous.

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Speaker 1: Gave him some cash.

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Speaker 3: And then he said yeah, and then he said it

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was great seenior kids. And then he said and Ray

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didn't throw any feces, so I would say it was

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a good day.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's funny. Yeah. So because our Ray is sober. Yes,

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we love Ray, I know.

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Speaker 3: So then Ray started texting me and asking, you know,

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he's like, it was good to see your kids, and

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I miss you know, seeing you. I was telling him

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that I'm looking to buy a house and uh he

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was like, you know, Ray has good aesthetics. You know,

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he comes from that construction background. And I told him

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I was looking at the new development houses and he

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was like, I said, I need somebody to come with me.

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You know, it's a big decision by myself. Yeah, and

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I would love for you to come look. So he

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was like, any time you want I'll come out there

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and check him out, so he's gonna come with me.

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I took Sunny to look at the new houses before

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he left, and uh, he loved it. He loved it

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out there. He was like, yeah, it was like it's

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not that bad. It's not that bad. It's not that's

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too far of a drive. It's going to be an adjustment.

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But I showed him the couple different houses that are

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available and the different layouts and he liked it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So that made me happy.

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Speaker 3: So I got one down and I got to take

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Natalia out there and one to go.

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Speaker 1: So did you see anything?

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Speaker 2: It was just more of looking at like it's stuff

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that has to get ready and you have to think

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you figure out the landscaping.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, because I'm still on the list of getting

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listings twice a week of any other new listings out

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there of just regular houses that are not new development,

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and there's nothing. It's the same five houses every week,

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maybe another one a new one that came up that

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I liked, but it was like way over my price.

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I was like, okay with no pool. So I'm like,

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you know, if I'm going to get a house out there,

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I might as well just get a brand new house

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and put it the way I want it and like

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it and within my budget. And yeah, so you know,

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so I think I'm gonna be pulling the trigger pretty quick.

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Speaker 1: I think I have to. Wow. Yeah, I mean, you know,

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clock's a ticken.

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Speaker 3: So I want to get going, like soon, the sooner

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I get in the new house, the sooner I get

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my little my little boy dog yo. I want to

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get a little boy. Name him maybe Luca. I'd say

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that last week. Luca Rotzi, little Luca Brotzi, I love it.

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Or a little Veto or Clemenza, Clemenza, Oh my god, clemmy, clemmy.

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That's the name of one of the dogs on Real

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Speaker 1: But yeah, little Klemmy, little Veto. I don't know. I

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like Vito. Vito's got like a hard like veto, veto.

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Speaker 3: Veto, veto, No, get over here, Vita hey veto.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's what if you know, he Bob knows when

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I'm like Bob, Bob is good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah you want that, and then you can call

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him Bobby, you say that, like, of.

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Speaker 1: Course, sometimes I call him Lauren Bobert. Sometimes I call

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him just whatever comes out. Yeah, go with dogs right

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Speaker 2: It's like Lulu for bobb Alulu.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so cute. Yeah. So the sooner I get

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So his home and Italia's home. Yeah, well, no,

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Sonny went back. Senny's back to school. He just came

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home for it, right, okay, because he's not going to

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be done until mid June.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that the Italian's home. Yeah yeah, so he's on

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the same schedule as Lbie. Yes, right, she graduates Today's

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believe she graduates a.

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Speaker 1: Week into in like two weeks.

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Speaker 3: I cannot believe that you have a daughter graduating UCLA.

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It's when you had a daughter that could, that didn't

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make herself a bagel when I met you.

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Speaker 1: I know, I and two h three year olds.

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Speaker 2: Like crazy, this is how long we've been together. I

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know she's graduating college. That's insane, and I know it

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feels like yesterday that I was just like Lynette, I can't,

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I can't do it. It's too hard, it's too much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, little kid three little kiddies. Yeah, were you gonna

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tell me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a story and you were okay, well

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you were gonna. I feel like you were gonna either

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compliment me or backhand.

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Speaker 3: This is what Okay, it ties into this, Okay, Okay.

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So over the weekend, we've talked about my friend Glenn.

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He's got four kids. He's got three girls and a son.

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The son's the youngest, his daughter's second oldest daughter is

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the same age as Sonny in Italia, and he has

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the house on the lake and by Lake Havasu Lake House.

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And Glenn calls me over the weekend at like where

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he sent me a text on Saturday night, at like

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eleven thirty at night, his phone is off, like he's

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a dad, and he's down for the count by like

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nine o'clock, but he call.

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Speaker 1: He texts me, are you up at eleven thirty?

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Speaker 3: And I happen to be up because Natalia had friends over,

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which you'll hear about on Patreon. So he calls to

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tell me that, Okay, a lot of parents can relate

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to this. Remember when I took these kids to the

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stage coach and I was the only parent, and luckily

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my friend met me down there. He took his daughter

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and a bunch of her friends to the to the

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river for the weekend, and a couple guys, a couple

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of girls, and you know, he had two guy friends

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that were that were with him that were older, you know,

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his age. I think he said one of them was

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a experienced lifeguard.

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Speaker 1: And the kids wanted.

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Speaker 3: To go wakeboarding take him out on the wake So

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he has a boat, takes the kids out. He never

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even when he's with us, he never drinks when he's

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driving the boat ever, and so okay, so he's sober,

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and he's not really a big drinker anyway. But so

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he wants the kids want to learn how to lake wakeboard,

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so he hires this woman that's very experience in teaching

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kids to wakeboard. So he has her on board, plus

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his guy friend that's like a lifeguard. Okay, and then

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like you know, six or seven kids okay, so they

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he also has them sign a waiver. And some of

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these kids are like nineteen and twenty years old, so

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they sign. Everybody signs a waiver. So he's got like

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his shit protected. There's one kid he doesn't know that well,

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but he's athletic. He's tall, he's like plays water polo,

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I sing and so he's out there, he's trying to

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get up on the wakeboard. He gets up a couple

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times and then he falls and he's down for the

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count and he can't get up and he's like screaming

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in pain, and they get him.

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Speaker 1: They put him in the.

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Speaker 3: Boat and he was in pain, and it turns out

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broke his femur and snapped it in half.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Yeah, I know, I know.

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Speaker 3: Glenn, who's very calm and collected and it's got his

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shit together, was freaking out because it happened that day

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at like eleven. He's still the kid had to be

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airlifted to the hospital in Arizona and they had to

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give him like ketamine because the morphine wasn't working enough.

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beyond freaked out. And also he said that he said

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that that the parents of the kid still it was

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like midnight, haven't reached out the Glen.

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Speaker 1: What which is weird? Where did the parents go to

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the hospital.

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Speaker 3: Yes, the parents flew out went to the hospital. But

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one of the kids, when I kept asking that that

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that's weird. He would tell me that one of the

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girls is very close with his parents, the kid's parents.

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Speaker 2: Wait, why did he have to be airlifted to Arizona. Wait,

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it's in Arizona. They're in Arizona. Oh, they're at the river,

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like it's by Lake Avisu. Okay, so there's like the

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hospital in Arizona. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So yes, So the parents came out, went to the hospital,

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but never like reached out to Glenn and and it

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was just he was so rattled, like he but I

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kept telling him. I said, Glenn, you did everything right.

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You had them sign waivers. Nobody was drinking, the kids,

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weren't you weren't drinking, kids were nothing on board.

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Speaker 2: Yes, shit happens, It happens. But he was like, I can't.

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He was sending me these texts yesterday.

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Speaker 3: So the kid had surgery yesterday, and he said, you

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would not believe what happened. One of the kids had

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to be Oh, oh that's the original text. He said

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that he wanted to tell me that. One of the

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paramedics called the wakeboarding coach and commended everyone on board,

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said they did a great job with the boat and

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they were very impressed, which is comforting. But still, you know,

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the kid was in surgery yesterday and still have not

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heard from the kid's parents. Kid made it out of surgery.

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They put a rod in his and his feet and

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the rat.

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Speaker 2: How's he finding out about what's going on with the

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surgery if there, if the parents aren't contacting him.

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure because I'd just been texting with Glenn.

471
00:25:09,519 --> 00:25:11,240
He even sent me a picture of the of the

472
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:15,559
X ray of the break, which is awful. So he

473
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:19,319
must be talking to somebody. I don't know he's you know,

474
00:25:19,839 --> 00:25:23,720
he was just traumatized. And so anyway, I was at

475
00:25:23,759 --> 00:25:27,359
Suzanne's house last night, her new house with Suzanne and Dawn.

476
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:31,680
We've known Glenn since he was fourteen years old his dad.

477
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:35,480
We met him like three months after his dad died suddenly,

478
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:39,200
like a heart attack. His mom was this crazy Jewish

479
00:25:39,839 --> 00:25:42,440
like zel Marie. We used to call her zel Marie

480
00:25:42,519 --> 00:25:46,200
the Barbarian and she'd scream at Glenn. She was and

481
00:25:46,319 --> 00:25:48,279
it was just him. He had an older brother that

482
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,759
was already out of the house. So Glenn was like fourteen.

483
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,319
He dated Dawn for a long time. He was a

484
00:25:53,319 --> 00:25:56,839
total dick. He was like cocky as shit, driving his

485
00:25:56,839 --> 00:25:59,519
four or fifty five, Like if you would have told

486
00:25:59,599 --> 00:26:02,960
us what a great father and how successful Glenn turned

487
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,039
out with no cou didn't even graduate high school, went

488
00:26:06,079 --> 00:26:09,720
to Birmingham, didn't graduate, and just went to work and

489
00:26:09,759 --> 00:26:15,480
built a family business for himself. Successful, great husband, great father.

490
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,400
This is what I was saying, Like if you would

491
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,279
have told us back then, like hey, in thirty years

492
00:26:21,279 --> 00:26:22,880
from now, this is how Glenn is going to be

493
00:26:23,319 --> 00:26:27,519
the father of these, you know, beautiful kids that are successful,

494
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:33,279
A great husband, great debt, built his own business, super responsible.

495
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,200
We would have been like, get the fuck out of here,

496
00:26:36,759 --> 00:26:39,680
no way, Glenn. You mean the guy that fucking makes

497
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,839
you guzzle one fifty one at the drive in that

498
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,400
like writs all over you with a sharpie when you

499
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,000
pass out. That Glenn, Glenn the one that fights with

500
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:51,039
Don and calls her a psycho bitch and like yells

501
00:26:51,079 --> 00:26:53,799
at like like they would fight all the time, like

502
00:26:54,279 --> 00:26:57,000
and Don was so over dramatic, like Glenn pushed me

503
00:26:57,079 --> 00:26:59,799
down those stairs, you know, Like Glenn never laid a

504
00:26:59,799 --> 00:27:01,880
hand on anybody, but that's how they were. They were,

505
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,839
like he called Don Norman Bates, you know for psycho

506
00:27:05,759 --> 00:27:08,519
he was, and he was you know, he cheated on

507
00:27:08,599 --> 00:27:13,599
all his girlfriends, but like it's just insane. But anyway,

508
00:27:14,279 --> 00:27:17,480
that is like a traumatic thing that happened to my friend.

509
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 2: I mean, what do you think happened with Glenn? Like

510
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,440
when did the change happen? We were thinking about it

511
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,599
because I don't know. I think in our twenties, everybody

512
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,240
floated in different directions. Everybody got like especially us girls,

513
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:32,559
we got married, had kids.

514
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 3: Glenn was just went to work. And I think that

515
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,720
Glenn has always been very smart. That's why we loved it.

516
00:27:39,799 --> 00:27:43,519
He's very charismatic, it's very funny, but he's also got

517
00:27:43,519 --> 00:27:47,480
a good like survival instinct. You know, he was on

518
00:27:47,519 --> 00:27:49,680
his own at age fourteen pretty much, you know, just

519
00:27:49,839 --> 00:27:53,920
running a muck and left to his own devices. Like

520
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,079
I said, didn't graduate, and I think he just realized,

521
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,880
like I got to get my shit together. At some point,

522
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,839
I'm becoming a man. I need to start working. I

523
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,720
don't know how he got into his businesses selling airplane parts.

524
00:28:07,039 --> 00:28:09,599
I think he's got a big warehouse, got employees that

525
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,640
work for him, listens to our show three days, four

526
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:17,160
days a week. And you know, I think when he

527
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:21,599
met his wife, he probably started to settle down because

528
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:25,519
she's not like him. She's very sweet. She's not like

529
00:28:25,759 --> 00:28:28,680
Dawn like she's very you know, she was a school teacher.

530
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,759
I think, great mother, great wife, and I think he

531
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,440
like fell in love and was like this is and

532
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,799
hates people that cheat like he we have friends we

533
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:39,400
talked about.

534
00:28:40,039 --> 00:28:40,559
Speaker 1: He does not.

535
00:28:40,799 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 3: He's not down for that. Like I would never cheat

536
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,960
on my way. You know, he's just got I don't know,

537
00:28:46,119 --> 00:28:48,720
it's just it's crazy. Yeah, we all turned out to

538
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,200
be great parents, but he's the one where we would

539
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,799
have been like thought he would be in jail, like

540
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,880
it's something or you know, I don't know. I mean,

541
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,079
we never but we were sitting around last night really

542
00:28:59,119 --> 00:29:02,079
thinking about it, and then Suzanne brought up this story

543
00:29:02,119 --> 00:29:05,000
where we were in Lake HAVISU when we were like

544
00:29:05,079 --> 00:29:09,359
sixteen or seventeen. Suzanne broke her shoulder. Some guy picked

545
00:29:09,359 --> 00:29:12,400
her up and like started drunk, started carrying her and

546
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,599
then fell and she dislocated her shoulder. So we were

547
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,480
in Laughlin and she went to the hospital and then

548
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,240
she had to be like in bed the rest of

549
00:29:20,279 --> 00:29:22,599
the trip. And she was like, we were talking about

550
00:29:22,599 --> 00:29:24,200
it yesterday and she's like you know, took care of

551
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,359
me and stayed with me and didn't go out un

552
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,359
even back then. And he took care of our friend

553
00:29:30,359 --> 00:29:34,160
that died from cancer when she was dying. Really that

554
00:29:34,319 --> 00:29:37,799
we were thinking, not Jen. We had another friend Shannon

555
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:41,000
that died. That was she was dying and nobody was

556
00:29:41,039 --> 00:29:43,759
taking care of her. She lived by herself. Her mom

557
00:29:43,839 --> 00:29:48,720
died of cancer too. She smoked a lot, not as

558
00:29:48,799 --> 00:29:53,119
much as me. How old was she She died when

559
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,640
she was like twenty two. Oh my god, Yeah she

560
00:29:56,799 --> 00:29:59,400
had she had like some kind of cancer even when

561
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,519
she was young, like at fourteen, cervical cancer. But then

562
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,519
ran in her family and yeah, she was living on

563
00:30:07,559 --> 00:30:10,559
her by herself and nobody was. Glenn would go over

564
00:30:10,599 --> 00:30:13,400
there and help bathe her, brought her food when he

565
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,559
didn't have any money. He'd at that time, he wasn't married,

566
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,839
he didn't have his own business. He was just working

567
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,599
and he would just he was like, I just felt

568
00:30:21,599 --> 00:30:24,200
for her. So, you know, he's always had that risk

569
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:28,880
like do the right thing mentality. He's like he makes

570
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:31,680
his kids work for everything they want, put some on

571
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,519
the butt, like he's really I look for him for

572
00:30:34,839 --> 00:30:39,240
advice a lot too, So anyway. I mean, it's it's

573
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,359
you know, it's a story that I thought a lot

574
00:30:41,359 --> 00:30:44,480
of parents maybe some could relate, you know, when you're

575
00:30:44,839 --> 00:30:47,799
taking your kids and their friends on a vacation and

576
00:30:48,279 --> 00:30:49,400
accidents do happen.

577
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,279
Speaker 1: But he was trump.

578
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 3: He couldn't sleep, and the next day he was like,

579
00:30:54,079 --> 00:30:57,400
I just feel awful, awful for their pant for the

580
00:30:57,519 --> 00:31:01,599
kid and his parents, you know. But now he's at

581
00:31:01,599 --> 00:31:07,359
his surgery and it's okay. But yeah, I mean, well, yeah,

582
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:08,680
I mean, stuff happens.

583
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

584
00:31:09,599 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 2: Also, it's funny because I was thinking when we were

585
00:31:14,039 --> 00:31:16,839
talking on our Patreon about the fact that, like I

586
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,599
was just not a good kid, right, that came up

587
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:24,200
on our Patreon, and it's like, up until I had

588
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,559
a kid, I was unsure if I was going to

589
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,640
have a kid because I don't know. There's a thing

590
00:31:30,799 --> 00:31:35,480
where I feel very irresponse, like how I see myself

591
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,319
and how I am in the world. Because John always

592
00:31:39,359 --> 00:31:41,599
laughs at me because he's like, you see yourself as

593
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:47,119
this like rebel, like crazy, like you know, underdog, and

594
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,400
he goes, it's carried over from when you were young,

595
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,640
because you're not like that. You're not the way you

596
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:57,440
pursued yourself and I'm like ill being like a badass.

597
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: But then I'm always like, oh, I'll do the right thing.

598
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,039
Speaker 3: Well, no, but you like definitely stuck up for your

599
00:32:02,119 --> 00:32:04,400
kids when they were in school and writing letters and

600
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:05,680
emails and stuff.

601
00:32:06,039 --> 00:32:08,799
Speaker 2: Yes, but is that even But that's not really being

602
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,559
like a like I almost see myself as this slacker mom.

603
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:17,039
That's like, you know, but I overcare. I've overinvested. But

604
00:32:17,079 --> 00:32:19,960
I wasn't sure how I would be because I wasn't

605
00:32:20,039 --> 00:32:23,920
raised by somebody who was well, they were very underinvested

606
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,640
in my happiness or well being. I would say they

607
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,200
didn't care that much. I mean, I was just thinking though,

608
00:32:31,279 --> 00:32:33,920
and I've you know, I've told you this story before.

609
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: But when I was I.

610
00:32:36,279 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: Think the moment, I mean, I had a I didn't

611
00:32:41,519 --> 00:32:44,400
feel very loved as a young kid. I think I

612
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:47,000
had a lot of anger in me and that's one

613
00:32:47,039 --> 00:32:49,480
of the things that drove my kind of like doing

614
00:32:49,519 --> 00:32:53,640
bad things. Also, I do have a little bit of

615
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:58,200
a spicy personality. Yeah, so maybe there was a lack

616
00:32:58,279 --> 00:33:00,839
of empathy, I don't know, whatever.

617
00:33:01,039 --> 00:33:02,559
Speaker 1: I was kind of bullied.

618
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 3: So then I have to lead others right right now.

619
00:33:05,039 --> 00:33:09,079
It wasn't great. No, but it makes sense to me

620
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:12,920
because of how your parents treated you, like you know,

621
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,480
you felt like you had to protect yourself. Because if

622
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,720
your parents aren't going to like look out for you

623
00:33:18,799 --> 00:33:22,119
and have empathy and protect you, who's going to I

624
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:23,039
at a young.

625
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 1: Age, like I only had yehself? Yeah for sure.

626
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I think that built up that you know,

627
00:33:30,079 --> 00:33:30,680
tough shell.

628
00:33:31,039 --> 00:33:34,559
Speaker 2: But the moment, I would say that the moment, like

629
00:33:34,599 --> 00:33:36,480
if I could, if there was a before and an

630
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:40,400
after for me, it would be like I said, I've

631
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,200
told you this story, but it would be when I

632
00:33:42,319 --> 00:33:46,039
was when we'd moved to We moved from Spokane, Washington

633
00:33:46,039 --> 00:33:50,799
to Springfield, Massachusetts, and we were staying with this woman.

634
00:33:51,799 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: Who and you were howled I was.

635
00:33:54,599 --> 00:33:58,079
Speaker 2: I had just turned sixteen so when we were I

636
00:33:58,119 --> 00:34:00,400
mean it was the summer, so I'm a July birthday,

637
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,319
So we moved like that summer. So I had was

638
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,839
fifteen probably when we left, and then I was sixteen

639
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:10,840
when we got there. And as I as I told

640
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,599
you this story, my stepfather had not been speaking to

641
00:34:14,639 --> 00:34:16,960
me for a while. He just didn't like me. So

642
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,039
I was going to have to travel separately. I did

643
00:34:21,079 --> 00:34:23,679
not want to move I had just fought we I

644
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,920
had only moved in before seventh grade, so I'd lived

645
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:31,280
in Spokane seventh, eighth, ninth, and tenth, and I'd made

646
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,519
I had I had a super best friend. I was

647
00:34:33,519 --> 00:34:36,480
a best friender. I had my friend Jamie, and she

648
00:34:36,639 --> 00:34:37,840
was my best best friend.

649
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,559
Speaker 1: And you didn't have a family, you had your friends.

650
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:42,559
He was my she was my family.

651
00:34:42,599 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 2: I slept at her house all the time. She lived

652
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,360
across the street from me. Her mom kind of felt

653
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:51,639
like my mom. One time when my mom threw a

654
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:55,880
jar at me across the room, a glass like a

655
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,280
mason jar, and it shattered on the wall above my head,

656
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,840
and there was glass in my hair. I wrote about

657
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:05,639
this in Drunkish, and they the freaking legal department of

658
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,000
drunk of my book company, was asking me if I

659
00:35:09,039 --> 00:35:10,840
wanted to for sure put this in the book because

660
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,599
I could get sued. And I was like, yeah, it happened.

661
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:19,159
My friend will attest to it. She remembered it totally clearly. Hmm.

662
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,280
I went crying over to her house. I had glass

663
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,239
all in my hair and on my clothes and her

664
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,119
I sat on the floor in front of her. Mom

665
00:35:29,159 --> 00:35:31,679
sat on a chair behind me, and picked glass out

666
00:35:31,679 --> 00:35:34,159
of my hair. Oh my god, like an hour and

667
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,159
our stephan her her mom, who was a total alcoholic

668
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,920
died of alcoholism, was still like freaking five times. The

669
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:46,320
parent like right, She was like, I can't believe your parents.

670
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,519
Speaker 1: They're awful, like and that too.

671
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 3: Makes an impression on a young kid's brain when you

672
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,840
hear other parents talking like, hey, your parents are fucking

673
00:35:57,119 --> 00:35:58,000
you know, dipshits.

674
00:35:58,079 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So many of my friends.

675
00:36:00,079 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 2: So we moved to Springfield and I'm staying at this

676
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:08,719
woman's house who was a total crazy nightmare, this woman

677
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,119
that was a friend of my mother's, and we're staying

678
00:36:11,119 --> 00:36:15,679
at her house and I get into an argument with her. Shocking,

679
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:18,119
I know, but she was really crazy and she accused me,

680
00:36:18,639 --> 00:36:22,480
remember the story. She accused me of spilling nail polish

681
00:36:23,039 --> 00:36:25,519
on her carpet. And I was like, do you see

682
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:29,119
I did not polish my nails. Your daughter did. She

683
00:36:29,199 --> 00:36:31,440
was like, my daughter would never and I was like,

684
00:36:31,599 --> 00:36:34,440
I didn't use any nail polish. I didn't spill any

685
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,920
nail polish. And then she started screaming at me. And

686
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,559
then my mother did not stick up for me, and

687
00:36:40,599 --> 00:36:45,280
then I it was really really awful. So my mother

688
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:49,360
kicks me out of the house, which is not her house.

689
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:54,679
Speaker 1: This was this was it. I was like, okay.

690
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:59,760
Speaker 2: My mom, at just turned sixteen, was like, by sea,

691
00:37:00,079 --> 00:37:02,880
get out of this house. I'm in a city. We

692
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,800
don't live anywhere yet, we don't have a house. We're

693
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,239
staying with her friend. And she was like, I don't

694
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:09,079
care where you go.

695
00:37:09,199 --> 00:37:10,199
Speaker 1: Just you can come back.

696
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,079
Speaker 2: So I'll just never forget the feeling of walking down

697
00:37:15,119 --> 00:37:15,800
the sidewalk.

698
00:37:16,199 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 1: Well, first I grab some snacks.

699
00:37:18,159 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 2: Because I was like, I didn't have any money right right, well,

700
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,440
hadn't even worked yet at that point, I did not

701
00:37:24,559 --> 00:37:27,760
have a dime to my name. My mother did not care.

702
00:37:28,079 --> 00:37:31,199
My stepfather already hated me, so he was like, fucking

703
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,400
that's child The door hit. Yeah, that's horrible. It is

704
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:38,360
child abuse. So I was walking on the sidewalk. I'll

705
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:43,079
just never forget walking and I was like, okay, that's it.

706
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:47,039
Like I've got nobody. I don't know how I'm going

707
00:37:47,119 --> 00:37:50,320
to eat, or where I'm going to sleep, or what

708
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,320
I'm going to do. But I knew my mom meant

709
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:55,960
absolute business. Like my mom, and it was at that

710
00:37:56,119 --> 00:37:58,400
moment that I was like I only have myself right,

711
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,440
and I'm going to have to figure it out and

712
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,840
I'm going to always have to work and I'm gonna

713
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,239
have to because in my mind though, I was like,

714
00:38:06,199 --> 00:38:11,239
I'm too like I'm not a street kid. I can't

715
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:12,280
just go be a hooker.

716
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,199
Speaker 1: Yeah I know, I know, you know what I mean.

717
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 2: I can't Like even though you had the boobs for it,

718
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:17,880
I had the boobs for it.

719
00:38:18,519 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: But like you know what I mean?

720
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,679
Speaker 2: I was like, I can't even get myself sex trafficked,

721
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,760
and what am I going to do? Like, I'm not

722
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,239
going to get I don't even have bus fare to

723
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,639
get on a bus to Hollywood so that I could

724
00:38:29,639 --> 00:38:31,920
get off at a bus station and have some guy

725
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:35,400
try to like tring me out as a hooker. Obviously

726
00:38:35,559 --> 00:38:38,719
I was a virgin anyway, but I'm like, what am

727
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,760
I going to do? So I went and the only

728
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,119
thing I could think of doing was calling my aunt

729
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:48,800
collect So I walked to like this and I was like,

730
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:52,519
should I just go to the police, like turn myself in. No,

731
00:38:52,639 --> 00:38:57,119
I don't have anywhere to go. Then my thought was,

732
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,440
then they're going to go to my going to go

733
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,760
to my mom and say, like you got to take

734
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,480
her back, and I was like, she's not going to

735
00:39:07,199 --> 00:39:09,960
or she'll pretend and then kick me out again. So

736
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:11,440
I was like, okay, I'm gonna call my aunt.

737
00:39:11,559 --> 00:39:15,760
Speaker 3: There was homeless shelters ided, that's where I ended her teenagers,

738
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,159
that's where I ended up. Wow.

739
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,679
Speaker 1: So I went to the grocery. Your aunt didn't take it.

740
00:39:21,119 --> 00:39:23,679
Speaker 2: My aunt would not pick me up. So my aunt

741
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,400
is your new jersey. I was like, can you send?

742
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,480
Is she your mom's sister, my mother's sister.

743
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 1: She didn't want to get involved. Oh my god, what

744
00:39:32,519 --> 00:39:33,599
is with your family?

745
00:39:34,079 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 2: So yeah, and I never This is why I'm not

746
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:39,519
close to even my relatives like that. This is why

747
00:39:39,519 --> 00:39:42,639
I'm not close to my cousins, the aunt and uncle,

748
00:39:42,679 --> 00:39:46,400
because they didn't believe what was going on in my

749
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:51,719
house because my mom told them a different story. So

750
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,119
so I called my aunt collect and then I was

751
00:39:54,159 --> 00:39:56,360
like crying, and I go, I don't have anywhere to go.

752
00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:00,760
Can you like, I don't know, Like can I come

753
00:40:01,079 --> 00:40:04,360
to you? And she was like no, I can't get

754
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:08,159
in between, Like that's my that's my sister. I can't

755
00:40:08,199 --> 00:40:10,039
I can't get involved. I can't get in between that.

756
00:40:11,039 --> 00:40:14,199
Speaker 1: But then she offer like, hey, how about I help you.

757
00:40:14,519 --> 00:40:16,599
Speaker 2: She thought that that was she thought we were just

758
00:40:16,599 --> 00:40:18,320
in I was just having a fight with my mom.

759
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: My God.

760
00:40:19,199 --> 00:40:23,800
Speaker 2: So some girl I had met at the Jewish community

761
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:27,159
center at the swimming pool was happened to pull up

762
00:40:27,199 --> 00:40:30,360
into this and was like, oh my god.

763
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:31,280
Speaker 1: Stephanie, you know.

764
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 2: And I was crying and I told her what happened,

765
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,679
and she was like, Okay, I have a friend whose

766
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:37,639
parents are out of town.

767
00:40:37,679 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 1: You can come stay with her. So I was like okay.

768
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 2: So she brings me to this girl's house that I

769
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,400
don't know, and I sleep there for the night, and

770
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,519
then the girl the next day was like, I mean,

771
00:40:47,519 --> 00:40:49,760
you can't just like live here, and I was like,

772
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:53,480
I know. So I called my mother and I was

773
00:40:53,559 --> 00:40:56,960
like She answered the phone and she was super cold.

774
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,559
Speaker 1: She didn't care where i'd been the night before. She

775
00:40:59,639 --> 00:40:59,960
knew it.

776
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 2: I didn't know anybody in the town. I'd only lived there.

777
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:07,079
I'd only been there like two weeks. So she said, okay,

778
00:41:08,079 --> 00:41:10,000
I have I'm going to send you to the I'm

779
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,840
gonna there's a place that will take you.

780
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:17,199
Speaker 1: Your mother has a fucking severe personality no offense disorder.

781
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:23,599
Speaker 2: And then she said, but you can't go. They can't

782
00:41:23,639 --> 00:41:26,320
take you until tomorrow, and you can't come in the house,

783
00:41:26,679 --> 00:41:29,480
so you can sleep in the car. So I saw

784
00:41:29,519 --> 00:41:33,000
in the car with the door. Yeah, wow, had the

785
00:41:33,039 --> 00:41:36,559
dog sleeping in the car too. She's not that nice.

786
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,920
So I slept in the car and then the next

787
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,079
day she drove me and I stayed at this runaway

788
00:41:41,079 --> 00:41:43,679
shelter for a couple of weeks, and then the runaway

789
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:47,280
shelter was like, she's not a runaway, Like, by law,

790
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:51,880
you can't just abandon. You have to take her right wow,

791
00:41:52,039 --> 00:41:54,360
or she becomes a word in the state or something.

792
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:58,360
So she begrudgingly like took me back. And then I

793
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,079
lived with them for an o like two years, and

794
00:42:01,119 --> 00:42:02,199
then I got the fuck.

795
00:42:02,039 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: Out of there. That's fucking traumatizing.

796
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,599
Speaker 3: I remember you telling this story about being at this

797
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:12,159
at the shelter, but I forgot about the whole because I.

798
00:42:12,119 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 2: Made it kind of funny because I was like, not

799
00:42:15,119 --> 00:42:19,360
really a runaway. So I show up that summer I'd

800
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,320
stayed with my father and his new young wife who

801
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,679
was like twenty four, and she took me shopping at

802
00:42:24,679 --> 00:42:27,960
fred Siegel and I got like this, like a little like.

803
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:31,599
Speaker 1: A sailor yeah, fit like a little squirt yeah.

804
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 2: And a cute little sailor top and like some very

805
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,000
expensive sunglasses.

806
00:42:35,119 --> 00:42:37,079
Speaker 1: Yeah. So these were like the clothes I had.

807
00:42:37,559 --> 00:42:42,559
Speaker 2: So I roll up to like runaway shelter, like's pretty cute,

808
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:44,639
you know, And the kids were like.

809
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:50,280
Speaker 1: The fuck, oh my god. So they weren't.

810
00:42:50,119 --> 00:42:53,079
Speaker 2: Super excepting right away, and then of course I was like,

811
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,079
we've got a this is ridiculous. They're not letting you

812
00:42:56,119 --> 00:42:59,599
watch TV like you've gotten your chores done, like you're

813
00:43:00,039 --> 00:43:02,960
you're you didn't commit any crime, right, And I was

814
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:06,079
like writing letters and like you know, wow, you could

815
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:06,920
wait to get rid of it.

816
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 3: So now like you would think, now, no wonder why

817
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,800
you didn't know if you wanted to have kids, you know, Like, well.

818
00:43:12,639 --> 00:43:15,559
Speaker 2: I just remember, like I said, that was like before

819
00:43:15,599 --> 00:43:18,280
and after I was like, that's true. If I can

820
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:24,880
survive like just being thried like you my regular seeming parents. Yeah,

821
00:43:26,039 --> 00:43:28,920
keep in mind I hadn't really done anything like I'm saying.

822
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:31,800
I wasn't like the greatest kid, but at this point

823
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:35,239
I wasn't like an alcoholic, I wasn't a drug addict.

824
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:38,880
I wasn't shop leeping, around or sleeping around. I was

825
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:42,199
like getting good grades. Yeah at that point anyway, whatever,

826
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:43,800
that's insane, but.

827
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831
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833
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834
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843
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but yeah, I just feel like.

844
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 2: You can't go back to the innocence of Like I

845
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:56,039
got a little hardened by that experience and then was

846
00:44:56,079 --> 00:44:57,119
always like I.

847
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,199
Speaker 1: Gotta be scrappy. I got to look out for myself.

848
00:44:59,199 --> 00:45:02,199
Speaker 3: I wasn't just a experience that was that was being

849
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,800
that you were traumatized like that something that was.

850
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 1: That was definitely a trauma.

851
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,039
Speaker 3: I mean, I bet a lot of people I think

852
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,679
that are listening if they think about friends that they

853
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,679
grew up with in the past, and you would think like, wow,

854
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,000
they're never they're not going to turn out to if

855
00:45:21,039 --> 00:45:23,559
you ask them back then. But now you're still friends

856
00:45:23,559 --> 00:45:26,159
with them, and you see what great parents they are,

857
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,360
great husbands or wives they'd become, and you're like, well,

858
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,280
I would have never thought that they would have been,

859
00:45:31,679 --> 00:45:35,320
you know, that way or could have gone the other way.

860
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:40,639
Speaker 2: I think that if had I been maybe like spoiled

861
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,920
or I don't know, but yeah, I think the scrappiness

862
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:47,719
came from that. Yeah, I still I feel I don't

863
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,320
remember having a lot of anxiety as a young kid.

864
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:55,760
So the anxiousness I think came from the feeling of

865
00:45:55,800 --> 00:46:00,960
like being you're being taken care of and then somehow

866
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,199
and I feel like you can relate to this too.

867
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:08,639
I feel like I've always attracted people to me, and

868
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,920
not so much as an older adult the friends I've made,

869
00:46:12,039 --> 00:46:14,679
but I always attracted people to me that like needed

870
00:46:14,679 --> 00:46:17,639
a mom, especially when I was younger. Yeah, Like I

871
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,840
became the one that somehow, even though in my mind

872
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:24,199
I felt very irresponsible, but I had to be responsible.

873
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:26,159
Speaker 1: I had to. I was the one who had to take.

874
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 2: Care of shit, who like made sure that I had

875
00:46:29,079 --> 00:46:32,360
car insurance and that I like even though in my

876
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:36,280
early twenties I was a mess and I couldn't I

877
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,760
was getting parking tickets and all the same. But as

878
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,440
I got older, I was the one. Like then I

879
00:46:42,519 --> 00:46:45,039
was the one who was like, we need groceries, yeah,

880
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:47,639
right right, And people would be like what, like.

881
00:46:47,639 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, when I had lived with my roommates, yeah,

882
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:53,400
it's definitely like that was more of my in my thirties,

883
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:57,599
I guess, or later twenties, when you start to really

884
00:46:57,599 --> 00:47:00,360
go like, okay, I'm an adult, now I'm renting, I

885
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,159
have a real job. Now I got to keep up

886
00:47:03,199 --> 00:47:06,280
on my parking tickets or my you know, health insurance

887
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:10,519
or parking or car insurance whatever, then that changes. But

888
00:47:11,079 --> 00:47:16,000
in my in my late teens and early twenties, I was, yeah,

889
00:47:16,199 --> 00:47:18,639
I'd have Dawn show me how to balance a checkbook.

890
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,000
I did not know how to balance a checkbook and

891
00:47:22,079 --> 00:47:25,039
she came over and I still I kept that checkbook forever.

892
00:47:25,599 --> 00:47:27,000
That's when I was a bud like girl.

893
00:47:27,679 --> 00:47:31,039
Speaker 1: Right, right, Well we were always broke, right, so what

894
00:47:31,159 --> 00:47:32,079
was there to balance?

895
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:32,679
Speaker 2: Right? Yeah?

896
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: Right?

897
00:47:33,039 --> 00:47:36,039
Speaker 2: It was not real lucky. I mean I was lucky

898
00:47:36,079 --> 00:47:37,599
if I could pay my rent every month?

899
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:41,519
Speaker 3: Right, And didn't you have more jobs that were cash right,

900
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:43,760
like yeah, tips and stuff or no?

901
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,519
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah. I waited tables a lot. Yeah.

902
00:47:46,559 --> 00:47:49,320
Speaker 3: I was scared to wait tables because I didn't feel

903
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,360
like I could. I didn't want to do anything with

904
00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:55,159
the cash register. I didn't want to like take people's

905
00:47:55,199 --> 00:47:57,480
money and then give them back the change, because I

906
00:47:57,519 --> 00:48:01,320
don't think that fast with numbers. You are good with that,

907
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,079
especially being a poker player.

908
00:48:05,599 --> 00:48:06,199
Speaker 1: So I was.

909
00:48:06,119 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 3: Always like I got to find a job or like

910
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:09,840
when I worked at the preschool, you know, I was

911
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:12,079
like I had a nine to five job and you know,

912
00:48:12,119 --> 00:48:14,480
I don't have to deal with cash.

913
00:48:14,559 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 2: But didn't you get frustrated that you weren't making a

914
00:48:17,039 --> 00:48:18,400
lot of money? Oh?

915
00:48:18,599 --> 00:48:19,679
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah.

916
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:23,320
Speaker 3: I was like I wanted a car with a window

917
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,199
in the back. The car was my window was busted

918
00:48:26,199 --> 00:48:27,559
and I just drove around.

919
00:48:27,639 --> 00:48:29,280
Speaker 1: But I couldn't have. I didn't have enough money to

920
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:29,960
get it fixed.

921
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,639
Speaker 3: It was around the time where my dad was like, Okay,

922
00:48:33,199 --> 00:48:35,679
time to like figure out what you want to do.

923
00:48:36,199 --> 00:48:39,840
Get a resume, start sending it to the production companies.

924
00:48:40,079 --> 00:48:42,480
And then once I got a job in production in

925
00:48:42,519 --> 00:48:45,119
the entertainment business, that's when I was like, okay, I

926
00:48:45,159 --> 00:48:48,000
got it. Now four one K and shit like what

927
00:48:48,039 --> 00:48:50,360
the hell is that? Or now I got to like

928
00:48:50,559 --> 00:48:53,199
do my W two forms, Like who's going to show.

929
00:48:53,079 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 1: Me how to do that? Shit?

930
00:48:54,159 --> 00:48:54,280
Speaker 2: Right?

931
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 3: I always had to ask somebody like hey, like one

932
00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,360
of the co workers, you know, right right? So when

933
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:01,159
I was in my early so, I was always asking

934
00:49:01,199 --> 00:49:02,039
other people, but.

935
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: Well, could you go to your dad for stuff?

936
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,639
Speaker 3: Because I'm yeah, my dad mom, not my mom. My

937
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:10,400
dad would help me. But when I was at work

938
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,639
and I didn't know how to do something, like they

939
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gave it to me.

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Speaker 1: There.

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Speaker 3: I always found like an older lady in the office

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that became like my mom. There was one, there was

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two of them, Kathy and Diane. I'm still friends with

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them on Facebook. And they were like the mothers in

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the office. So I'd go like, hey, how do you

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do when computers came on board and it was all

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orange on the screen and it was doss and shit

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and floppy discs. I was like, to get the job.

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I was like, yeah, yeah, I know how to do that.

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I know how to do word. And I was like, no,

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I don't, No, I don't. And I had to go

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sit with like Kathy McMahon in the kitchen one night

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and she showed me how to do it, you know,

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like I just figured it out.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean come a long way.

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Speaker 2: I've always been attracted to older kind women. Yes, you know,

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anytime I had a therapist, I always wanted Some of

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my friends would have therapists that were like our age,

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and I feel that's weird.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no.

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Speaker 2: I want somebody who's at least like twenty years older

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than me. Yeah, I've been through some shit. Yeah, and

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like you know, it's like a mom figure. I remember,

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excuse me, my therapist. That was the hippie that looked

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like Diane, that actress. She was eaten, yes, but and

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she would talk about sex and like free, like she

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was very hippie, dippy and she yeah, she was like

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in her older sixties, early seventies. And then she was

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Gina Kimmel's therapist, and we both noticed that she started

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falling asleep right she started like snoring in the middle

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of a session.

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine how that would feel. She was a Buddhist.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she would sit, you know, she would sit with

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her two feet planted on the floor and her seat

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and her palms on the top of her legs, on

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her thighs, you know, like sitting up straight. Towards the end,

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she'd like slump down and her like head would start

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nodding off.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 3: Eventually we're like, okay, but I still follow her on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: She still asks how I'm doing well. You were still

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seeing her a little bit over zoom. I did. After

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she moved, she moved out of the state. I saw

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her over zoom and then.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was I wanted then I went to somebody

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in person, so I wanted to go in person. Now

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I need to find another therapist.

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Speaker 1: Actually probably, I mean my kids love at first.

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Speaker 2: I remember I took Xander to a therapist in person.

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It was right before COVID, and then COVID shut everything

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down and that woman ghosted us a lot. Yeah, I

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kept texting her and going, uh, because Xander really liked

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you like, can you see him? And she never ever

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got back to me again. She did it to my

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other friend too, who was way madder than I was

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because her it had seen this person a few times

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all it's bullshit, and she kind of specialized in what

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we were going through. So I was really really not

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happy with that. And then all you could find was

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people that would see them online. So I was like,

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this is all we can do right now. And now,

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I mean Xanders had the same therapist for years and

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he loves them same and he had my kids probably

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loves it at Zoom. Yeah, my kids too, same and

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they've had the same this therapist in person.

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Speaker 1: Oh I don't think my kids have either.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I think he's been going to him for like five years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my kids too have been going to the same

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woman for a couple of years now. They had Brittany,

1011
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remember her. Yeah, fucking Britney bitch. She was the worst.

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Speaker 1: Even my kids came.

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Speaker 3: Up on their own like Britney's not doing it for us,

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like because I never told them my problems with Britney,

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but they came they were like, can we find another therapist?

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And yeah, they've been with her. She's great, She's awesome.

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Speaker 1: So that's good.

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00:53:02,039 --> 00:53:04,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I asked other stories.

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Speaker 1: I'll save it for Friday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have a whole other show to fill with stories.

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00:53:10,599 --> 00:53:13,119
But let's say hi to our friends. We got Dick

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is frolicking, Nikki call your girl. Elizabeth Williamson's got a

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lot of kids, and she's a great mom. She's a

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00:53:19,079 --> 00:53:21,000
great mind. I see your mom and it up on

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Facebook all the time. And Rita Bassiette is a great

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call mom. Yeh. Help helping with Elizabeth Williamson's kids. And Polly,

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we love your pancakes. And Valerie hits it out of

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the park and Katerina girl, check that Moeller already and

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00:53:36,119 --> 00:53:39,679
make sure you've lost Gabby and Missy they were at

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that runaway shelter with me. They were years ago. Yeah,

1031
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,079
yeah they came out, Okay they did.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Rebecca Lubin is cute. Kelly Brandt, she's your aunt.

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She'll be a good ant. She would be a good aunt,

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she'd pick you up.

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Speaker 2: And Das my stations, Yes absolutely, Alicia's Goalante City Vale Monte,

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Leslie with the coughing, Aaron Dirty Sanchez, Sandra stud Easy

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being Green, Chrisa get your stuff and Katie's rolling on

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e then we have our business shout outs. We've got Adam.

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Adam's got a car. You know what he does. Check

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him out.

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Speaker 1: Just talked about him yesterday to my friends.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, The Family Skepticals a podcast about raising kids

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without religion. So you should check them out. The Family Skeptical.

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Wilma and Frida. If you're in Palm Springs or Palm Desert,

1045
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reminding you Wilma and Frida the best brunch in town.

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00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:33,800
Basic Becky just basic Beecky dot com. She's got a

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website full of like fun you know, mugs, t SPADs, mousepads. Yeah,

1048
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and see what she's got and tell her you're with

1049
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fcol Maren's got Sugar Skull on the island of Kawhi.

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If you're vacationing there, you can check them out. They

1051
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:57,880
have delicious desserts. They do wedding cakes. Their Instagram is

1052
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:01,159
at Sugar Skull eighth A. And if you want to

1053
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get there and use a travel agent, go with Waves

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and Wonder Travel.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's on Facebook.

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Speaker 2: It's Christine Concierge travel planner. Jacob is our boy with

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and he's given a shout out. To the ACLU. He

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also was so.

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Speaker 1: Sweetie sent me some money for feeding.

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Speaker 2: Yes Day laborers. Thank you, Jay, you Jacob, You're the best.

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And realtor alert Leilani Armstrong. She does a Sacramento area

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and East Bay area. She's an og F col er

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and you can use her for your real estate needs

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five three zero four hundred three three three four and

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her day number is zero two two five four zero

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for zero And uh yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'll do the rest on Friday. Okay, we love you guys.

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Thanks for the support. Yeah, you're a parent, now, don't

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f it up.

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Speaker 1: I think that ankles