Speaker 1: Jenny, would you like to do the honors?
Speaker 2: Yes, Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. When I
Speaker 2: walked into the studio this morning and I found Fallon
Speaker 2: Lane flat on her back on the floor, and I
Speaker 2: thought she was dead, and I was like, what are
Speaker 2: you doing?
Speaker 1: You should like get out of the way. Oh my god. Oh.
Speaker 2: I slammed open the door because I thought maybe i'd
Speaker 2: scare you did and then I realize you're on the ground,
Speaker 2: and I felt like I was about to hate you.
Speaker 1: I got here so early, Can I be honest? I'm
Speaker 1: avoiding my dog and which one rank? He's so annoying.
Speaker 1: He's so he's in this like puppy phase that is
Speaker 1: driving me crazy. He eats shit constantly, like your things,
Speaker 1: like oh poop, yeah, stuff, And I got the little
Speaker 1: pills to try to break him of eating poop. It
Speaker 1: is so disgusting the guy it's and you it can
Speaker 1: cause like real health issues. He is in the yard,
Speaker 1: he's excavating shit, and he comes in the house and
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, let's go to the cat litter box.
Speaker 1: He'll poop eat his own poop. And I'm constantly watching him.
Speaker 1: I'm screaming like stop and then Edith the cat. I
Speaker 1: told Jaco's like it was endless yesterday, which shows how
Speaker 1: much work Jake does. Edith pukes on the carpet. I
Speaker 1: run to get cleaning stuff. I clean it up, and
Speaker 1: He's just like, oh, yeah, one taste, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: get the hell. It's so gross it makes it's making
Speaker 1: me not want to cuddle him at all, like well, yeah,
Speaker 1: grossing me out, poopy breath, mouth and and he's just
Speaker 1: and he's I can't relax. I cannot relax because I'm like,
Speaker 1: what is he chewing? What is he eating? And yeah,
Speaker 1: and you know, so that's where I'm at. I'm avoiding
Speaker 1: my dog. So I came in early. Yeah, I had
Speaker 1: some emails just in too that I've been putting off there,
Speaker 1: like the kind that takes mental thought of do I
Speaker 1: want to say yes to this commitment or no? So
Speaker 1: that's where I'm at.
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 1: How is your weekend going?
Speaker 2: My weekend's going good. I haven't done barely anything. I've
Speaker 2: been hiding in the shadows of my house because I
Speaker 2: got a like laser treatment in my face and so, yeah,
Speaker 2: I have this one sunspot and I I think you
Speaker 2: might have still been the show on the part of
Speaker 2: the morning show when it started appearing, because I thought
Speaker 2: maybe it was skin cancerous and I was like, what
Speaker 2: the heck is this And my esthetition was like, no,
Speaker 2: that's like some sun damage starting to come in. And
Speaker 2: basically this laser treatment just pulls the pigment right out
Speaker 2: and it goes away. And I know you have to
Speaker 2: like probably consistently be doing these, and I don't like
Speaker 2: to think about that, but I've done one before. So anyways,
Speaker 2: my face has been puffy and now it's like sandpaper
Speaker 2: texture right now. And so I told Pan and I
Speaker 2: was like, get ready, you're gonna get to see my
Speaker 2: big old puffy face.
Speaker 1: You can't tell the texture right now. Yeah, it only
Speaker 1: looks puffy around like your upper cheek eye area. Uh huh.
Speaker 1: But I because I got the same thing as you,
Speaker 1: and I remember it did stay sandpipery the full ten days,
Speaker 1: like they said.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which I'm like, great. I'm looking at my week ahead.
Speaker 2: I don't have anything too crazy. But this coming weekend
Speaker 2: I'm going to Wisconsin where we got tickets for a
Speaker 2: concert to take my mom too, so I'll be back
Speaker 2: home with them. So it's like whatever. But I'm doing
Speaker 2: this pickupball events on Tuesday, where I'm going to be sweating,
Speaker 2: I think, and I am like, great because I'm probably
Speaker 2: gonna be in prime peeling and i have to it's
Speaker 2: like for charity whatever. I'm like, well, it's hard to
Speaker 2: do these treatments and plan around your life, is what
Speaker 2: it came to. Because I was going to do it
Speaker 2: last weekend, but we had a three day weekend, so
Speaker 2: I kind of wanted that to be free to go
Speaker 2: do something over the weekend. So anyways, that's that. That
Speaker 2: was pretty much my entire weekend. Andrew and I did
Speaker 2: very basic necessities we needed to do around the house,
Speaker 2: and I just dropped him off at the airport. He'll
Speaker 2: be gone in Europe for the next week and can
Speaker 2: I know this. So he's going to go see his
Speaker 2: friend who's originally from Macedonia, and they were supposed to
Speaker 2: do this ski trip.
Speaker 1: Where is Macedonia.
Speaker 2: It's close to Greece, okay, and so they're supposed to
Speaker 2: do this ski trip, but they're not getting as much
Speaker 2: snow anymore and whatever, things are up in the air
Speaker 2: now and his friend is this fantastic like chef baker
Speaker 2: whatever So Andrew's going to Europe to like almost go
Speaker 2: work with him. Like I think he has his own
Speaker 2: shop now, I don't really know. He does all kinds
Speaker 2: of random business ventures, and so he's gonna go work.
Speaker 2: They're playing on hiking, They're gonna hopefully still go snowboarding
Speaker 2: one a couple of days. They have to like drive
Speaker 2: out of the way. It just depends on like the
Speaker 2: weather and stuff. But as I was taking him to
Speaker 2: the airport, I'm like, man, I can't believe you're going
Speaker 2: to Europe before I am.
Speaker 1: Like, really, how did I not know? You haven't been?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I've only been out of the country
Speaker 2: to Mexico a couple of times, and then Thailand and Tahiti,
Speaker 2: so well never Thailand.
Speaker 1: But still you're right, Europe is like Europe is usually
Speaker 1: the first place people go.
Speaker 2: I know in Mexico. I know the first place mine
Speaker 2: was was Mexico, but then Thailand was like the first thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah you really just bab went crazy, I know. So
Speaker 2: he's like, yeah, but I'm not going to like the
Speaker 2: good part of Europe, and I was like, Babe, You're
Speaker 2: still going to Europe though it's still a different landscape
Speaker 2: and whatever. But he's like, yeah, but it's not like
Speaker 2: I'm going to Italy and doing a bunch of things
Speaker 2: there without you. And I'm like, I know, but I'm jealous.
Speaker 2: And I told him yesterday that I will be planning
Speaker 2: the next trip for us while he's on this trip,
Speaker 2: because I want to go somewhere in like the summertime.
Speaker 2: And I don't give a shit that he's like, oh,
Speaker 2: they're spending a ton of money and doing that, Like
Speaker 2: Mama still wants to get out and travel the world too.
Speaker 2: So but I want to ask you this because I
Speaker 2: feel like it's a pretty normal thing in relationships, or
Speaker 2: maybe I'm just a little crazy. So yesterday we're sitting
Speaker 2: on the couch and I don't know what my deal was.
Speaker 2: I was just like irritated because I got up a
Speaker 2: little earlier and I wanted just some me time. Well
Speaker 2: ten minutes later, I hear him clonking down the stairs, just.
Speaker 1: Kind of abnormal. Won't He usually kind of lay in
Speaker 1: and rest a little bit in the morning.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's up in the air sometimes with him.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so I think he started to get up
Speaker 2: earlier again, but for a little while he kind of
Speaker 2: started to sleep in after we had put Mickey down
Speaker 2: because like he didn't have that responsibility of taking care
Speaker 2: of her anymore. So I hear him clonking and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: I just like wanted to sit around and enjoy like
Speaker 2: a peaceful, quiet morning. Yeah, and he is just chatty
Speaker 2: chatty chatty all the time, and five days a week
Speaker 2: I have to come in and do that for work.
Speaker 2: So I like to just sit and like enjoy some peace.
Speaker 2: And he sits down and everything he does is bugging
Speaker 2: the hell out of me. Okay, everything like a voice
Speaker 2: to text he was doing, or talk to text whatever
Speaker 2: it's called. And then he goes and gets raspberries and
Speaker 2: he's eating raspberries next to me, which isn't that a
Speaker 2: lot of a food, But you know me, I don't
Speaker 2: like chewing noises, and I'm like, oh my god, I
Speaker 2: can't focus on anything, like any little noise he made.
Speaker 2: It was like oh yeah, you know. And so I
Speaker 2: was irritated with him like half the day yesterday for
Speaker 2: no reason, like he wasn't doing anything that I should
Speaker 2: be irritated with. But then as I go to take
Speaker 2: him to the airport this morning, I'm almost crying because
Speaker 2: I'm so saddy, okay, like and like, what who is
Speaker 2: this person?
Speaker 1: Isn't possible even though you have an implant, your period
Speaker 1: would be arriving.
Speaker 2: Yes, it is very possible, but I'm like, this is
Speaker 2: such a drastic change of emotion from one day to
Speaker 2: the next. But yeah, I were like, just for the racket.
Speaker 2: I am you are crazy, but I am too. So
Speaker 2: there was never a point where like I snapped at
Speaker 2: him about anything yesterday. But I definitely wasn't like super
Speaker 2: like happy, go lucky when we were doing things, Like
Speaker 2: I was pretty quiet and just like kept to myself
Speaker 2: most of the day, and like when he'd want to talk,
Speaker 2: I just like give him the bare minimum he needed
Speaker 2: to have a conversation. But I didn't really like talk
Speaker 2: a ton. So anyways, Yeah, I just like was laughing
Speaker 2: at myself as I waved goodbye to him, and I
Speaker 2: was taking a bunch of pictures of him like leaving,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, god, you crazy lady. He probably thought
Speaker 2: the same thing. He's like, gone, got him.
Speaker 1: Get away for a week from this lunatic.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: I'm sure that if Jake and Andrew sat down and
Speaker 1: shared stories, they probably like, shoot, them and they'd be
Speaker 1: I mean, because we did that about them anyway. But
Speaker 1: Jake has also gone. They he took the kids to
Speaker 1: call it they're skiing, So I'm solo too, but I didn't.
Speaker 1: I like, I don't know what to do solo anymore.
Speaker 1: I have felt very stir crazy. Yesterday we had pre
Speaker 1: planned because I knew they were going to be gone.
Speaker 1: So Tina and I went because she had reached out
Speaker 1: to me kind of over Christmas break and she's like,
Speaker 1: I want to do Plate's class with you, and I
Speaker 1: said okay, and then I never like set one up
Speaker 1: with her, so I was like, hey, would you want
Speaker 1: to do it? She's like yes, and she was. I
Speaker 1: felt like she seemed naturally very good at it. And
Speaker 1: when we left, she said that she thinks like her
Speaker 1: dance history really because it's really like it's it's a
Speaker 1: very dancery kind of but not like I think it's
Speaker 1: made for kind of dancer people, if you will. So
Speaker 1: I was like, she goes, was that like an easier
Speaker 1: class or a harder class? And I was like for me,
Speaker 1: you know how like you rate instructors, you know, it's
Speaker 1: just like peloton. If I don't want my ass kicked.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to take a certain instructor. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I in my mind have my list in order of
Speaker 1: hard to less hard instructors, and I did this one
Speaker 1: is like lower on my list.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: However, when I said to Tina though, I was like,
Speaker 1: cause she's like, I remember you said like you wanted
Speaker 1: to cry your first one. I was like, Tina, I
Speaker 1: was far more out of shape than you are right
Speaker 1: now when I did my first one. I go. My
Speaker 1: first one though, was with what I consider the hardest instructor,
Speaker 1: and but I still think I would have thought that
Speaker 1: one was hard on my first one. But it really
Speaker 1: does make me really proud because, like, especially with AB stuff,
Speaker 1: how much I can tell my AB area has strengthen
Speaker 1: your core strength. It's very good. Now.
Speaker 2: See, I would die, I think if I went to pilates,
Speaker 2: because that is probably my weakest part of my body
Speaker 2: is my core, and I use it's so weird because
Speaker 2: that used to be really I used to have a
Speaker 2: strong core when I played sports in high school and stuff.
Speaker 2: But I just don't work out that area. So when
Speaker 2: I see like plates classes, I'm like, I think I
Speaker 2: would not be able to do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the things like you know, like just an example,
Speaker 1: like where you're sitting on your butt and your legs
Speaker 1: are out straight, yeah, and you're you're kind of gonna
Speaker 1: be and you're just sitting there doing like up and
Speaker 1: down stuff. That stuff would have just gassed me. I
Speaker 1: would have died. Now I could do it for a
Speaker 1: very very long time. Like pretty good ab strength now,
Speaker 1: which is good because she was non existent there for
Speaker 1: a while. But then we went Tina got a flight
Speaker 1: of Mimosa's. Everyone thought we were sharing am I posted
Speaker 1: a picture and I'm like, no, all three were Tina's.
Speaker 1: I got a coffee. She's out of contrucderance it. But
Speaker 1: she's already started like kind of actually laying out wedding stuff.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna have to have her back on the
Speaker 1: podcast when she gets to that point. Yeah, we should,
Speaker 1: or at least after the wedding or something, which she's thinking,
Speaker 1: like a lot of the I'm supposed talk about it.
Speaker 1: But my friend Abby from.
Speaker 2: College, Yes, she picked out her dress this week and
Speaker 2: the hotel so I got to see that very beautiful.
Speaker 2: I'm going to found friend who was like habitually not
Speaker 2: habitually single, just dating a lot, and then it was
Speaker 2: never working out with them.
Speaker 1: Yes, she's you know, forty years old. She's never been
Speaker 1: engaged or anything. And she the last long, long term
Speaker 1: relationship was like when I still lived in Indiana and
Speaker 1: then I moved away and she was still with him
Speaker 1: for a few years after that, and then they broke up.
Speaker 1: And since then, I don't think she's really had She's
Speaker 1: had some that last maybe six months, but not like
Speaker 1: long term. So I'm really happy for her. Are you
Speaker 1: guys been a bachelot party for her? Yeah? So I
Speaker 1: actually texted her about that. I'm like, hey, what's the vibe.
Speaker 1: Are you thinking you want to like kind of go
Speaker 1: somewhere close to Indiana like driveable or are we going
Speaker 1: to go destination? She's like, no, I want to do
Speaker 1: something closerh like drive away. She just wants a cute
Speaker 1: airbnb she wants She's like, I don't care about bar scenes.
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that really, I want to
Speaker 1: go somewhere like maybe they have like a like a
Speaker 1: river you can float down, or a hike or something.
Speaker 1: I was like, cool, like yeah that was music to
Speaker 1: my ears.
Speaker 2: Yeah sounds lovely.
Speaker 1: Yeah me too, And she said She's going to pick
Speaker 1: some kind of like dark like maybe like a wine
Speaker 1: color kind of dressed for our pridesmade dresses. And I
Speaker 1: was like, yep, like that. I lean into something and
Speaker 1: things that I like, you know, it's about me obviously
Speaker 1: for her big well.
Speaker 2: Of course, is she having a big wedding.
Speaker 1: I don't know how many people. The place looks like
Speaker 1: I could hold a decent amount of people. She has
Speaker 1: a big family. I don't know about her husband to be.
Speaker 1: I've never met him, which is super bizarre. But I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not in the same state dessert. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I'll meet him before like the wedding weekend because
Speaker 1: if I depending on where the bachelorette party is, I
Speaker 1: may not go to Indiana or that right, So I'm like,
Speaker 1: I may not meet him until the weekend of the wedding,
Speaker 1: which is crazy. It's not like I'm gonna be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't approve or something, but I don't know. It's
Speaker 1: it's bizarre. I haven't told you this. I was going
Speaker 1: back and forth. I'd shared on the podcast. I got
Speaker 1: into a fight with my sister.
Speaker 2: Yeah, really, your sister that lives in Florida that you're
Speaker 2: decently close with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I won't go on into too many details
Speaker 1: because something's got to remain private. But I've felt a
Speaker 1: very weird distance between us for like a while. Okay,
Speaker 1: but I think, you know, I I've listened to that
Speaker 1: book that a lot of people have talked about, you
Speaker 1: like let the Robbins let them, And one of the
Speaker 1: things she talks about is just your friendships really really
Speaker 1: depend on proximity.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: So she's my sister, so she'll always be part of
Speaker 1: my life, but we're not as close as and now
Speaker 1: we are in very different phases of life. I mean,
Speaker 1: her kids are grown out of the house, she's like retired,
Speaker 1: she's now by the way, trying to get her real
Speaker 1: estate license, which she's like it's so hard. And then
Speaker 1: she you know, she's like fifty years old, going to
Speaker 1: be in October, and I'm raising a toddler. I mean,
Speaker 1: we're just in very different places, and I'm like working
Speaker 1: two jobs. It's very different. So I have felt some
Speaker 1: weird vibes for a while. And I can't remember if
Speaker 1: I shared stuff on the podcast about my fortieth birthday
Speaker 1: or not with her. I don't remember I did on
Speaker 1: the radio show because I was being a little petty
Speaker 1: at the time. Yeah, But basically, I for Kara's fortieth birthday,
Speaker 1: I threw her a very large, lavish party. I rented
Speaker 1: a venue, I catered it. I like it was a
Speaker 1: surprise party. I spent a lot of money on everything.
Speaker 1: I bought her a very expensive birthday present. And for
Speaker 1: my fortieth birthday, she venmoed me one hundred dollars. Now, okay,
Speaker 1: you might have shared that, yet I do not care
Speaker 1: about the amount. I do not need care I have.
Speaker 1: I'm fine, I don't need things right. My feelings were
Speaker 1: hurt because she venmoed me cash like every other birthday. Sure,
Speaker 1: venmo me cash, if that's what you want to do,
Speaker 1: I venmo her cat. I don't care. But my feelings
Speaker 1: were hurt, and I was like, she couldn't even send
Speaker 1: me a card, she couldn't pick out a single like
Speaker 1: ho actual physical gift, like it just my It was
Speaker 1: like that. And but I went back and forth if
Speaker 1: I was going to say something to her, and then
Speaker 1: I decided it was just unnecessary. It would just make
Speaker 1: her feel bad, and I just decided to not. But
Speaker 1: I still felt like the little ping of resentment in
Speaker 1: my body because of it. Right, so fast forward, I
Speaker 1: was like, hey, we had talked about maybe one day
Speaker 1: going to Hawaii, maybe we do.
Speaker 2: It over Christmas.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. I said, hey, I'm going to do
Speaker 1: Hawaii over spring break. We're going to take mom, love
Speaker 1: for you to come. And then this is where things
Speaker 1: got really awkward and bad. So she was upset. She
Speaker 1: wanted to go for her fiftieth in October, okay, And
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, well, too bad. I can't take the
Speaker 1: kids out of school for a week in October. We're
Speaker 1: doing it over spring break because that's when we have off.
Speaker 1: And she was like, well, let me look at dates
Speaker 1: and stuff. Then she's like the resort you're staying at
Speaker 1: is too expensive. I said, okay, well we could look
Speaker 1: at other places if that, if you can go, Nope,
Speaker 1: I can't afford to go. You guys have fun. But
Speaker 1: I could feel the passive aggressive anger there, and I
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, let her be passive aggressive angry.
Speaker 1: My sister is known quoted as saying she doesn't plan
Speaker 1: vacations until either one month or one week before the
Speaker 1: vacation because something big always happens that they have to
Speaker 1: cancel their vacation. We work very differently. Yeah, I book
Speaker 1: nine to twelve months in advance. She can't book so I.
Speaker 1: And she also changes her mind a lot. I'm not
Speaker 1: booking a big, expensive vacation a month out and based
Speaker 1: on the like the possibility that something quote unquote big
Speaker 1: is going to happen to cancel the vacation and.
Speaker 2: It's going to be twice the amount. Yes, especially to
Speaker 2: a place like Hawaii.
Speaker 1: I know so I, but I'm in a place where
Speaker 1: I can cancel, like the hotel. I booked it for
Speaker 1: that reason in case for some reason she could figure
Speaker 1: it out. Anyway. Finally came to a head on like
Speaker 1: Friday over something involving my grandma, and we were just
Speaker 1: texting back and forth. I'm like, screw this, I call her.
Speaker 1: I'm like, Kara, We're never going to like have a
Speaker 1: decent conversation over text. So it just turned into all
Speaker 1: of that coming out on her side. She feels like
Speaker 1: I don't want I don't want her her family to
Speaker 1: be a part of my life. She wanted to do
Speaker 1: something big for my fortieth and I said no, She's
Speaker 1: like I wanted to go on vacation with you and Jake.
Speaker 1: But you said no, you just wanted to go with
Speaker 1: your husband and I go. You never once said you
Speaker 1: want to go, I go. And you're right, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want to go on a family vacation. She's like, no,
Speaker 1: me and my husband and you and Jake. I go, Yeah,
Speaker 1: no offense, Kara, But for my big birthday I did not.
Speaker 1: I don't remember you saying that to me, but I
Speaker 1: still in this moment, would not want to go on
Speaker 1: vacation with you and Brian. I wanted to go on
Speaker 1: a fancy ass overpriced, like quick vacation with just Jake,
Speaker 1: and I don't feel bad about that.
Speaker 2: No, and you shouldn't.
Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't want a party like I
Speaker 1: threw you. That's my nightmare. I don't like parties like
Speaker 1: that because I always feel like I have to be
Speaker 1: the host, even if it's for me, and then it
Speaker 1: feels exhausting. I don't like parties like that. And so
Speaker 1: I was like, you're right, I told you not to
Speaker 1: throw me one. And then she was like, I feel
Speaker 1: like you don't want to be a part of my life.
Speaker 1: You don't involve me. You like never call me and
Speaker 1: I was like, actually, I'm the only one that calls,
Speaker 1: but I didn't say that. I just held it out
Speaker 1: back because I'm like, I'm gonna let her have her moment.
Speaker 1: And then she feels like she's not a part of
Speaker 1: my daughter's life. And I'm like, well, we FaceTime you.
Speaker 1: She's like not enough, and I was like, why can't
Speaker 1: you call me? She's like, you guys are too busy,
Speaker 1: and I just let it go because I'm like, dude,
Speaker 1: when she was younger and had two kids and their
Speaker 1: schedules were crazy, she was never calling me and FaceTime didn't.
Speaker 1: I don't think it even exists when they were young,
Speaker 1: but they I had to just call and know that
Speaker 1: I was probably gonna get a voicemail and they'd call
Speaker 1: me back when they could. So it's crazy to me
Speaker 1: that she's retired and she knows I'm working two jobs
Speaker 1: and has a kid, but it's on me to do
Speaker 1: all the calls because she says she can never call
Speaker 1: at the right time. And I was like, but I
Speaker 1: didn't say anything back. I was just like, Okay, I
Speaker 1: can work harder on finding time. Maybe we do a
Speaker 1: once a week thing where all of face times you
Speaker 1: but man, it's so crazy to me to still have
Speaker 1: random arguments with my sister this late and late in life.
Speaker 1: But I also think that it's like it's because we
Speaker 1: don't talk, we don't know what's going on. We both
Speaker 1: want to not cause is shoes, so instead we just
Speaker 1: probably bitch to our husbands about the other one until
Speaker 1: it finally comes to a head. I guess, but I
Speaker 1: hope moving forward things will be fine. Because she said
Speaker 1: that she this one thing. She said that she was
Speaker 1: mad because I booked Hawaii for my birthday when she
Speaker 1: wanted it for hers, and I go, Kiara, I cannot
Speaker 1: help that my birthday falls near Dylan's spring break. That's
Speaker 1: just how the calendar year works. I did not book
Speaker 1: Hawaii for my birthday. And she's like, Okay, well, it's
Speaker 1: like once again, your kids are out of high school. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I cannot take Dylan his senior year of high school
Speaker 1: out of school for a week. I'm sorry, I'm not
Speaker 1: doing it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I feel like, yes, I see what you're saying.
Speaker 2: With like your surprise, you're still having like arguments and
Speaker 2: fights with your sibling this at this point in life.
Speaker 2: I just think that that's how family works. Though it's
Speaker 2: true because I mean I have to I am Switzerland
Speaker 2: with my sisters, where I have to control the fights
Speaker 2: that happen between them, because it's usually I know, but
Speaker 2: like I've had somewhere. I've been frustrated with my sisters. Yes, absolutely,
Speaker 2: but usually it's the two of them going at each
Speaker 2: other and me having to jump in and be like, hey,
Speaker 2: this point of view makes sense, and this point of
Speaker 2: view makes sense, so let's like see each others and
Speaker 2: let's come together, you know. But usually, yes, I don't
Speaker 2: fight with them, but I am like not living with
Speaker 2: them and so and I know that they're really excited
Speaker 2: usually when I come home because they don't get to
Speaker 2: see me as much and I'm obviously the fond one, the.
Speaker 1: Life of the party.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I still get shocked because I mean there's
Speaker 2: still things that irritate the shit out of me with
Speaker 2: both my sisters that I want to argue with them
Speaker 2: and be like, hey, you realize this and this that
Speaker 2: and one thing I will back you up on with
Speaker 2: the thing of face timing and like her being upset
Speaker 2: that like she feels like you don't want her in
Speaker 2: your life. I am the one who facetimes my sister
Speaker 2: to see the kids. And yes, it's a fifty to
Speaker 2: fifty that I get an answer from them. But then
Speaker 2: she does always call me back, like usually that same
Speaker 2: day as she can. But it's pretty rare that she
Speaker 2: facetimes me, and I am not upset about that whatsoever.
Speaker 2: She has two little kids. One that's like probably like
Speaker 2: having three kids, because my nephew is a handful. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so I don't care that I have to like call
Speaker 2: and I understand that, and I think I think so
Speaker 2: many people get frustrated when a person has little kids
Speaker 2: and their life revolves around that kid in their schedule,
Speaker 2: and then you feel like, oh, you don't care about
Speaker 2: my life at all because it's always about you and
Speaker 2: your kid's schedule. And I'm like, well, yeah, they have
Speaker 2: an added factor in their life that I like. For me,
Speaker 2: I don't have a kid to like work around and stuff.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I actually have to make like a mental note sometimes
Speaker 1: to be like or like even in my notes app like, hey,
Speaker 1: make like text this person this week, check in with
Speaker 1: this person this week kind of things like that, because
Speaker 1: I my days are very, very full. Yeah, and I'm
Speaker 1: a super crazy schedule, and so I don't want people
Speaker 1: to feel like I'm so self involved. It's I mean,
Speaker 1: I am to a degree, but I also am just
Speaker 1: like exhausted. So I now try to like I'll try
Speaker 1: to call people on my ride home after work, but
Speaker 1: I usually like, I don't want to even talk because
Speaker 1: I've talked all day long. But I'm like, that might
Speaker 1: be the only time I talk to people, so I've
Speaker 1: been Yeah, I try really hard to like, remember, Okay,
Speaker 1: my sister's taking this test, let me check in with
Speaker 1: her and see if she passed. Like, I'll put notes
Speaker 1: in my calendar to try to check in with people,
Speaker 1: but I still am gonna miss stuff and.
Speaker 2: We'll get I want you to know that I don't
Speaker 2: give a shit if you don't check in on me
Speaker 2: about things, like it's okay, you are very good at
Speaker 2: checking in, so like ends on the week, No, I
Speaker 2: feel like you are, especially if I'm ever dealing with anything.
Speaker 2: You are super good at checking in. But I that's
Speaker 2: like one thing I've gotten frustrated with friendships is like
Speaker 2: them thinking that you should always be checking in on them,
Speaker 2: but then they don't reciprocate. Yeah, and it's like okay,
Speaker 2: but I have a life too, and it's not that
Speaker 2: I'm not checking in on you because I don't want to.
Speaker 2: It's because I have a life and I got busy,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Yeah, so yeah, I will.
Speaker 2: Can I tell you since you brought up having that
Speaker 2: note in your phone? Yeah, a note that I started
Speaker 2: in my phone as of last week.
Speaker 1: Oh god.
Speaker 2: Yes, It's titled things my tummy doesn't like.
Speaker 1: Okay, so I am good to take. It's good track
Speaker 1: that Jenny.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I decided because after we had gotten back
Speaker 2: from going up to mom Bohemia last week, there was
Speaker 2: not a lot of food in the house, and I
Speaker 2: ate this bowl of spicy ramen. Absolute worst thing I
Speaker 2: could have done, I know, but the thing icy rock. Okay,
Speaker 2: So Andrew always eats it and I'll have like a
Speaker 2: bite of it here and there, but I never make
Speaker 2: it for myself. But there was just nothing that appealed
Speaker 2: to me of what we had, and so I'm like, whatever,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make this, so I ate it. Thirty minutes later,
Speaker 2: things just hit the fan, you know. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: I really have got you. Like I have ideas in
Speaker 2: my head of things that don't work with my system.
Speaker 2: But I really got a hone in and stop eating
Speaker 2: things I know are going to make me miserable because
Speaker 2: it is a domino effect. When something hurts my stomach,
Speaker 2: it then lingers for days. It fucks with my serotonin,
Speaker 2: it doesn't let me sleep well, and then it infiltrates
Speaker 2: into my work life. And so like that whole week,
Speaker 2: I just felt like garbage. And so that anyways, so
Speaker 2: I added this into my phone as a reminder to
Speaker 2: me myself when I go to Costco or Target or wherever,
Speaker 2: like you do not buy these things. And so so
Speaker 2: far is just spicy ramen and peanut butter. But like
Speaker 2: peanut butter, that's one of your top food groups, I know.
Speaker 2: But so I can eat peanut butter as like you know,
Speaker 2: if we went on a ski trip and we had
Speaker 2: peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for lunch, that's not bad.
Speaker 2: But the problem is your girl can't be left alone
Speaker 2: in a house the jar of peanut butter or else
Speaker 2: she gets a spoon out and she starts spoon feeding
Speaker 2: her mouth with it. I cannot be controlled. So the
Speaker 2: other day I made this like protein puppy chow, just
Speaker 2: to start getting the peanut butter out of the house
Speaker 2: because I needed it for a different recipe I recently made.
Speaker 2: So that's the update on my life and my notes
Speaker 2: app and the things that I just laugh at when
Speaker 2: I look at my notes app.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm like, where is this the weird stuff you
Speaker 1: keep in your notes? But I am excited to hear
Speaker 1: if they're updates, you can let us know what you're
Speaker 1: adding to the list.
Speaker 2: Yeah, can I tell you one other thing? So, when
Speaker 2: we went to my Bohemia last weekend, I I just
Speaker 2: you know, I'm tired, I'm drained, whatever. So I go
Speaker 2: to chat GPT for a little help because I'm like,
Speaker 2: I want to do this Instagram post, but I can't
Speaker 2: think of anything quirky to put in the caption. So
Speaker 2: I write, give me five funny Instagram captions about spending
Speaker 2: a ski weekend with my boyfriend, and I'm going to
Speaker 2: read you some of them. It says he thinks he's
Speaker 2: my ski instructor. I think he's my crash test dummy. Okay,
Speaker 2: nothing says romance like fighting over who forgot the boot
Speaker 2: warmers he shreds. I survive true love on the slopes
Speaker 2: If we can make it through an icy black diamond. Together,
Speaker 2: we can make it through anything. Let me find like
Speaker 2: one or two more old mine. He's fast, I'm quote
Speaker 2: cautiously adventurous, true ski trip combatibility. Nothing says romantic getaway
Speaker 2: like me wiping out in front of my boyfriend. So
Speaker 2: after you heard all these captions, do you see what
Speaker 2: I'm getting at here?
Speaker 1: Yeah? The theme is that he's great at skiing, but because
Speaker 1: you're a girl, you're not. What the fuck?
Speaker 2: I know? Literally was like, our are you serious? Like
Speaker 2: this is the first time I think I've ever used
Speaker 2: Chad GPT and felt it was extremely sexist. Yeah, I'm like,
Speaker 2: and to be fair, yes, he is a better snowboarder
Speaker 2: than me, but I'm also good. Yeah, So like, no,
Speaker 2: he's not my crash test dummy, Like are you serious?
Speaker 2: So i sat there and I'm reading up to Andrew
Speaker 2: and I'm like, this is ridiculous.
Speaker 1: Chat GPT dick God, just like that myself being like
Speaker 1: why from the very first one, I'm like, wait, why
Speaker 1: is she He's shredding and wheah is she not?
Speaker 2: So I was like cause I'm like, okay, I looked
Speaker 2: back at my prompt to see if I like put
Speaker 2: something in there, and I always said was funny Instagram
Speaker 2: caption about spending a ski weekend with my boyfriend. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so that should not have to do with the fact,
Speaker 2: like there should not have been a theme of he
Speaker 2: was great and I am clearly awful at snowboarding.
Speaker 1: That's weird. Yeah. By the way, we only have like
Speaker 1: a couple of minutes left, and I do want to
Speaker 1: jump into Love is Blind, but maybe you need to, like,
Speaker 1: if you tell chat GPT once like, don't do that,
Speaker 1: it probably won't ever do it again.
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, Okay, it does should I have gotten in
Speaker 2: an argument with no.
Speaker 1: I don't don't make that. Don't do that, but like
Speaker 1: be like, hey, this hurt my feelings and maybe just
Speaker 1: like you know, manipulate it a little bit. But it's
Speaker 1: like it does learn get to know you. It's creepy,
Speaker 1: but it's whatever. At this point, this is what life is.
Speaker 1: I do want to talk about Love is Blind basically
Speaker 1: because we're caught up. We both watch the new three episodes.
Speaker 1: I agree with everyone it is one of two most
Speaker 1: boring seasons of all time. I just feel like everyone is.
Speaker 1: It's not that I don't want people to be happy.
Speaker 1: I just feel like there's a little bit of almost
Speaker 1: fake nice happy.
Speaker 2: Well it's the Minnesota passive aggressiveness.
Speaker 1: Right, So here's what I'll break down. Because now I'm
Speaker 1: on Minneapolis TikTok. Yes, I don't know if you saw
Speaker 1: this video, but this guy made me laugh. And he's like,
Speaker 1: it's not because we're humble, it's because they actively producers
Speaker 1: have to search really hard to find people who don't
Speaker 1: know each other. He's like, and I'm going to show
Speaker 1: you how impossible that is. He pops up a picture
Speaker 1: of him and Sarah. He's like, I want to problem
Speaker 1: with Sarah picks up a picture I think, post a
Speaker 1: picture of like Molly or someone that's my cousin.
Speaker 2: Posted another.
Speaker 1: What He's like, I don't even live in Minnesota, and
Speaker 1: I know every single person basically on the show. He's like,
Speaker 1: it's impossible for in Minnesota to find people who don't
Speaker 1: know people. So he's like, and I was like, that's
Speaker 1: a really good point. Secondly, the guy Davey a lot
Speaker 1: of people. I actually know people who know Dave, but
Speaker 1: I don't know Dave. He got some people say a
Speaker 1: bad edit in the beginning, right because he was the
Speaker 1: guy doing the why you single, ye, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 1: What goes wrong with you? That thing? I thought it
Speaker 1: was annoying, but I was also like whatever. I also
Speaker 1: truly thought he would pick Molly based solely on the
Speaker 1: sexual aspect of things. So when he picked the other girl,
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh my gosh, maybe he really is
Speaker 1: trying to change, right, So now this whole narrative that
Speaker 1: he cannot quote unquote get past someone she hooked up with. Fake,
Speaker 1: He's trying to be the nice guy. This girl made
Speaker 1: the perfect TikTok. As soon as he got his phone back,
Speaker 1: he went and looked up Mollie. And he is now
Speaker 1: trying to find a way to not be the bad
Speaker 1: guy to America and end it with Lauren without being
Speaker 1: the bad guy. And because this is ridiculous. To think
Speaker 1: that these people did not have sex lives and partners
Speaker 1: before this show is insane and I just feel so
Speaker 1: bad looking at this girl, Lauren or whatever her name is.
Speaker 1: First of all, Lauren skin, hair, eyes, perfection, okay, and
Speaker 1: just everyone's comparing it by the way, those two they're
Speaker 1: saying she looks in actions like Pam from the office,
Speaker 1: and he looks and acts like Roy, her shitty first
Speaker 1: boyfriend who worked downstairs, and it is killing me.
Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, oh, so I also have mutual friends
Speaker 2: with like lots of people who are friends with Dave
Speaker 2: and then also someone who's really good friends with Lauren,
Speaker 2: and so they know a lot about stuff. But we
Speaker 2: haven't asked like Andrew and I haven't been asking people
Speaker 2: for that because we do want to watch it in
Speaker 2: real time and then like discuss after the season's done.
Speaker 2: And yeah, I feel Andrew said that he feels like
Speaker 2: they would not be acting the way he's acting if
Speaker 2: they would just have sex. He's like, if they would
Speaker 2: have had sex in the Baha or wherever they were
Speaker 2: hunder us, He's like, I bet you a million bucks
Speaker 2: that he'd be like whatever.
Speaker 1: He is, that's all he wanted to talk about, Like
Speaker 1: you guys fuck yet Yeah, it's all her though, you know,
Speaker 1: I just want to go, oh, you get to see
Speaker 1: it just stressing out. He just wants to have sex
Speaker 1: so bad.
Speaker 2: And I also feel like I have so many opinions
Speaker 2: about these people, but it's also weird for me to
Speaker 2: even say it because I have people who I'm actually
Speaker 2: friends with that on the show and then really like
Speaker 2: very close connections, not like a friend of a friend
Speaker 2: of a friend that knows this person, like pretty close connections.
Speaker 2: And so I don't want to be a dick because
Speaker 2: I also know that production plays a huge role in
Speaker 2: building how the show shows a person on there, and
Speaker 2: so I feel like some people are going to be
Speaker 2: really salty, being like I got the worst at it
Speaker 2: ever and this is why you think this of me,
Speaker 2: But this is who I really am. And it's just
Speaker 2: it does suck for them, But at the same time,
Speaker 2: you can't feel bad because they sign up for that,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: The other thing with Dave is on TikTok I'm getting
Speaker 1: is that he can't commit to Lauren because he's actually
Speaker 1: in love with his sister. Because yes, I've seen that
Speaker 1: has ever been more like there's a moment it has
Speaker 1: made me so uncomfortable where like they're like, this is
Speaker 1: the moment Dave realized he's in love with his sister. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And it plays a clip of them like on a
Speaker 1: couch talking and he's talking about his sister and he
Speaker 1: like says something super complimentary and his cheeks flush.
Speaker 2: He like has this like look.
Speaker 1: Back in his head and everyone's like, oh, like, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm.
Speaker 2: Not gonna do that to him.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not gonna be laugh because especially since are
Speaker 1: you watching this season A White Lotus yet?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did we talk about this?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Yeah. So I'm getting super super super incest
Speaker 1: vibes from Patrick Schwarzenegger, the sister, and the brother.
Speaker 2: It's so weird.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's super creepy, all three of them. I'm getting it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's just on the top of my mind. I
Speaker 1: think too that it's making me laugh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And once again going back to the like everyone
Speaker 2: in Minnesota knows each other, I like, for a brief moment,
Speaker 2: was like, Man, if I would have been single when
Speaker 2: this was going on, I absolutely would have tried to
Speaker 2: go on the show, I think, Yeah, But I also
Speaker 2: would have known for a fact that I would have
Speaker 2: known so many people, because there was a point in
Speaker 2: my life where I walked into the loop and I
Speaker 2: knew five different groups of people, all of which I
Speaker 2: slept with one person in each different group. So it's like,
Speaker 2: it really is hard to like unless you live really
Speaker 2: far out of the metro area and you don't come
Speaker 2: into the city at all and you stick to like
Speaker 2: your one city you live in. I just feel like
Speaker 2: this season was hard to find people who don't know
Speaker 2: each other, and maybe that is how it's been in
Speaker 2: other seasons and we just don't know it. But I
Speaker 2: just I don't know. I feel like I've never seen
Speaker 2: people seem to have mutual connection rights. But I haven't
Speaker 2: watched all the Lovesplining seasons. I think I've only watched
Speaker 2: like three of them.
Speaker 1: I've watched most. I think it was DC or one
Speaker 1: other one that was also super boring that I fast
Speaker 1: forwarded through a lot. There's usually one super toxic couple
Speaker 1: that keeps me in so right now it's like a
Speaker 1: play between a couple of them that are decent, but
Speaker 1: I'm still fast forwarding through the others because they're boring
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I hope they found love, but whatever,
Speaker 2: I know. And so Andrew's gone this week and we've
Speaker 2: been watching it together, and I go, Babe, I'm not
Speaker 2: waiting for you. I'm sorry, like I for my job
Speaker 2: because we talk about it on the show obviously, and
Speaker 2: you do two. It's like, I need to watch these.
Speaker 2: I'm going to watch them because he's not back till
Speaker 2: next Monday, and he's like that's fine, Like, just don't
Speaker 2: tell me anything.
Speaker 1: Though, I tell that about White Lotus. I'm like, I
Speaker 1: will be watching this without you. He's like that's fine,
Speaker 1: I'll watch it okay. So anyway, that's our time. Thanks
Speaker 1: for listening, yep love yeah bye