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<v Speaker 1>Jenny, would you like to do the honors?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. When I

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<v Speaker 2>walked into the studio this morning and I found Fallon

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<v Speaker 2>Lane flat on her back on the floor, and I

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<v Speaker 2>thought she was dead, and I was like, what are

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<v Speaker 2>you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>You should like get out of the way. Oh my god. Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I slammed open the door because I thought maybe i'd

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<v Speaker 2>scare you did and then I realize you're on the ground,

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<v Speaker 2>and I felt like I was about to hate you.

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<v Speaker 1>I got here so early, Can I be honest? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>avoiding my dog and which one rank? He's so annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>He's so he's in this like puppy phase that is

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<v Speaker 1>driving me crazy. He eats shit constantly, like your things,

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<v Speaker 1>like oh poop, yeah, stuff, And I got the little

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<v Speaker 1>pills to try to break him of eating poop. It

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<v Speaker 1>is so disgusting the guy it's and you it can

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<v Speaker 1>cause like real health issues. He is in the yard,

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<v Speaker 1>he's excavating shit, and he comes in the house and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh, let's go to the cat litter box.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll poop eat his own poop. And I'm constantly watching him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm screaming like stop and then Edith the cat. I

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<v Speaker 1>told Jaco's like it was endless yesterday, which shows how

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<v Speaker 1>much work Jake does. Edith pukes on the carpet. I

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<v Speaker 1>run to get cleaning stuff. I clean it up, and

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<v Speaker 1>He's just like, oh, yeah, one taste, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>get the hell. It's so gross it makes it's making

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<v Speaker 1>me not want to cuddle him at all, like well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>grossing me out, poopy breath, mouth and and he's just

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<v Speaker 1>and he's I can't relax. I cannot relax because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is he chewing? What is he eating? And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, so that's where I'm at. I'm avoiding

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<v Speaker 1>my dog. So I came in early. Yeah, I had

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<v Speaker 1>some emails just in too that I've been putting off there,

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<v Speaker 1>like the kind that takes mental thought of do I

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<v Speaker 1>want to say yes to this commitment or no? So

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<v Speaker 1>that's where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>How is your weekend going?

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<v Speaker 2>My weekend's going good. I haven't done barely anything. I've

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<v Speaker 2>been hiding in the shadows of my house because I

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<v Speaker 2>got a like laser treatment in my face and so, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I have this one sunspot and I I think you

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<v Speaker 2>might have still been the show on the part of

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<v Speaker 2>the morning show when it started appearing, because I thought

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it was skin cancerous and I was like, what

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<v Speaker 2>the heck is this And my esthetition was like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>that's like some sun damage starting to come in. And

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<v Speaker 2>basically this laser treatment just pulls the pigment right out

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<v Speaker 2>and it goes away. And I know you have to

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<v Speaker 2>like probably consistently be doing these, and I don't like

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<v Speaker 2>to think about that, but I've done one before. So anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>my face has been puffy and now it's like sandpaper

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<v Speaker 2>texture right now. And so I told Pan and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, get ready, you're gonna get to see my

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<v Speaker 2>big old puffy face.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't tell the texture right now. Yeah, it only

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<v Speaker 1>looks puffy around like your upper cheek eye area. Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>But I because I got the same thing as you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember it did stay sandpipery the full ten days,

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<v Speaker 1>like they said.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, which I'm like, great. I'm looking at my week ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have anything too crazy. But this coming weekend

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to Wisconsin where we got tickets for a

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<v Speaker 2>concert to take my mom too, so I'll be back

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<v Speaker 2>home with them. So it's like whatever. But I'm doing

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<v Speaker 2>this pickupball events on Tuesday, where I'm going to be sweating,

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<v Speaker 2>I think, and I am like, great because I'm probably

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be in prime peeling and i have to it's

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<v Speaker 2>like for charity whatever. I'm like, well, it's hard to

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<v Speaker 2>do these treatments and plan around your life, is what

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<v Speaker 2>it came to. Because I was going to do it

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<v Speaker 2>last weekend, but we had a three day weekend, so

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of wanted that to be free to go

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<v Speaker 2>do something over the weekend. So anyways, that's that. That

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<v Speaker 2>was pretty much my entire weekend. Andrew and I did

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<v Speaker 2>very basic necessities we needed to do around the house,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just dropped him off at the airport. He'll

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<v Speaker 2>be gone in Europe for the next week and can

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<v Speaker 2>I know this. So he's going to go see his

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<v Speaker 2>friend who's originally from Macedonia, and they were supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>do this ski trip.

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<v Speaker 1>Where is Macedonia.

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<v Speaker 2>It's close to Greece, okay, and so they're supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>do this ski trip, but they're not getting as much

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<v Speaker 2>snow anymore and whatever, things are up in the air

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<v Speaker 2>now and his friend is this fantastic like chef baker

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<v Speaker 2>whatever So Andrew's going to Europe to like almost go

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<v Speaker 2>work with him. Like I think he has his own

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<v Speaker 2>shop now, I don't really know. He does all kinds

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<v Speaker 2>of random business ventures, and so he's gonna go work.

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<v Speaker 2>They're playing on hiking, They're gonna hopefully still go snowboarding

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<v Speaker 2>one a couple of days. They have to like drive

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<v Speaker 2>out of the way. It just depends on like the

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<v Speaker 2>weather and stuff. But as I was taking him to

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<v Speaker 2>the airport, I'm like, man, I can't believe you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to Europe before I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, really, how did I not know? You haven't been?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I've only been out of the country

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<v Speaker 2>to Mexico a couple of times, and then Thailand and Tahiti,

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<v Speaker 2>so well never Thailand.

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<v Speaker 1>But still you're right, Europe is like Europe is usually

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<v Speaker 1>the first place people go.

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<v Speaker 2>I know in Mexico. I know the first place mine

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<v Speaker 2>was was Mexico, but then Thailand was like the first thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you really just bab went crazy, I know. So

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, yeah, but I'm not going to like the

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<v Speaker 2>good part of Europe, and I was like, Babe, You're

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<v Speaker 2>still going to Europe though it's still a different landscape

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<v Speaker 2>and whatever. But he's like, yeah, but it's not like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to Italy and doing a bunch of things

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<v Speaker 2>there without you. And I'm like, I know, but I'm jealous.

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<v Speaker 2>And I told him yesterday that I will be planning

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<v Speaker 2>the next trip for us while he's on this trip,

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<v Speaker 2>because I want to go somewhere in like the summertime.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't give a shit that he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>they're spending a ton of money and doing that, Like

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<v Speaker 2>Mama still wants to get out and travel the world too.

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<v Speaker 2>So but I want to ask you this because I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like it's a pretty normal thing in relationships, or

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I'm just a little crazy. So yesterday we're sitting

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<v Speaker 2>on the couch and I don't know what my deal was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like irritated because I got up a

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<v Speaker 2>little earlier and I wanted just some me time. Well

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<v Speaker 2>ten minutes later, I hear him clonking down the stairs, just.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of abnormal. Won't He usually kind of lay in

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<v Speaker 1>and rest a little bit in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's it's up in the air sometimes with him.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so I think he started to get up

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<v Speaker 2>earlier again, but for a little while he kind of

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<v Speaker 2>started to sleep in after we had put Mickey down

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<v Speaker 2>because like he didn't have that responsibility of taking care

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<v Speaker 2>of her anymore. So I hear him clonking and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I just like wanted to sit around and enjoy like

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<v Speaker 2>a peaceful, quiet morning. Yeah, and he is just chatty

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<v Speaker 2>chatty chatty all the time, and five days a week

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<v Speaker 2>I have to come in and do that for work.

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<v Speaker 2>So I like to just sit and like enjoy some peace.

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<v Speaker 2>And he sits down and everything he does is bugging

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<v Speaker 2>the hell out of me. Okay, everything like a voice

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<v Speaker 2>to text he was doing, or talk to text whatever

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<v Speaker 2>it's called. And then he goes and gets raspberries and

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<v Speaker 2>he's eating raspberries next to me, which isn't that a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of a food, But you know me, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like chewing noises, and I'm like, oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't focus on anything, like any little noise he made.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like oh yeah, you know. And so I

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<v Speaker 2>was irritated with him like half the day yesterday for

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<v Speaker 2>no reason, like he wasn't doing anything that I should

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<v Speaker 2>be irritated with. But then as I go to take

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<v Speaker 2>him to the airport this morning, I'm almost crying because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so saddy, okay, like and like, what who is

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<v Speaker 2>this person?

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't possible even though you have an implant, your period

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<v Speaker 1>would be arriving.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it is very possible, but I'm like, this is

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<v Speaker 2>such a drastic change of emotion from one day to

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<v Speaker 2>the next. But yeah, I were like, just for the racket.

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<v Speaker 2>I am you are crazy, but I am too. So

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<v Speaker 2>there was never a point where like I snapped at

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<v Speaker 2>him about anything yesterday. But I definitely wasn't like super

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<v Speaker 2>like happy, go lucky when we were doing things, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I was pretty quiet and just like kept to myself

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<v Speaker 2>most of the day, and like when he'd want to talk,

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<v Speaker 2>I just like give him the bare minimum he needed

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<v Speaker 2>to have a conversation. But I didn't really like talk

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<v Speaker 2>a ton. So anyways, Yeah, I just like was laughing

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<v Speaker 2>at myself as I waved goodbye to him, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was taking a bunch of pictures of him like leaving,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, god, you crazy lady. He probably thought

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<v Speaker 2>the same thing. He's like, gone, got him.

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<v Speaker 1>Get away for a week from this lunatic.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that if Jake and Andrew sat down and

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<v Speaker 1>shared stories, they probably like, shoot, them and they'd be

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, because we did that about them anyway. But

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<v Speaker 1>Jake has also gone. They he took the kids to

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<v Speaker 1>call it they're skiing, So I'm solo too, but I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I don't know what to do solo anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I have felt very stir crazy. Yesterday we had pre

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<v Speaker 1>planned because I knew they were going to be gone.

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<v Speaker 1>So Tina and I went because she had reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to me kind of over Christmas break and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do Plate's class with you, and I

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<v Speaker 1>said okay, and then I never like set one up

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<v Speaker 1>with her, so I was like, hey, would you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do it? She's like yes, and she was. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like she seemed naturally very good at it. And

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<v Speaker 1>when we left, she said that she thinks like her

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<v Speaker 1>dance history really because it's really like it's it's a

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<v Speaker 1>very dancery kind of but not like I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>made for kind of dancer people, if you will. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, she goes, was that like an easier

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<v Speaker 1>class or a harder class? And I was like for me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how like you rate instructors, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like peloton. If I don't want my ass kicked.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to take a certain instructor. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I in my mind have my list in order of

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<v Speaker 1>hard to less hard instructors, and I did this one

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<v Speaker 1>is like lower on my list.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>However, when I said to Tina though, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>cause she's like, I remember you said like you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to cry your first one. I was like, Tina, I

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<v Speaker 1>was far more out of shape than you are right

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<v Speaker 1>now when I did my first one. I go. My

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<v Speaker 1>first one though, was with what I consider the hardest instructor,

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<v Speaker 1>and but I still think I would have thought that

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<v Speaker 1>one was hard on my first one. But it really

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the things like you know, like just an example,

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<v Speaker 1>are out straight, yeah, and you're you're kind of gonna

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<v Speaker 1>which is good because she was non existent there for

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<v Speaker 1>of Mimosa's. Everyone thought we were sharing am I posted

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<v Speaker 1>a picture and I'm like, no, all three were Tina's.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a coffee. She's out of contrucderance it. But

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<v Speaker 1>she's already started like kind of actually laying out wedding stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna have to have her back on the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast when she gets to that point. Yeah, we should,

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<v Speaker 1>or at least after the wedding or something, which she's thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>But my friend Abby from.

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<v Speaker 2>College, Yes, she picked out her dress this week and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to found friend who was like habitually not

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<v Speaker 2>habitually single, just dating a lot, and then it was

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, she's you know, forty years old. She's never been

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<v Speaker 1>engaged or anything. And she the last long, long term

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<v Speaker 1>then I moved away and she was still with him

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<v Speaker 1>for a few years after that, and then they broke up.

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<v Speaker 1>long term. So I'm really happy for her. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>guys been a bachelot party for her? Yeah? So I

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<v Speaker 1>actually texted her about that. I'm like, hey, what's the vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you thinking you want to like kind of go

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<v Speaker 1>to go destination? She's like, no, I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>something closerh like drive away. She just wants a cute

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<v Speaker 1>airbnb she wants She's like, I don't care about bar scenes.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that really, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, cool, like yeah that was music to

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah sounds lovely.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah me too, And she said She's going to pick

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<v Speaker 1>some kind of like dark like maybe like a wine

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, is she having a big wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how many people. The place looks like

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<v Speaker 1>I could hold a decent amount of people. She has

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<v Speaker 1>a big family. I don't know about her husband to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never met him, which is super bizarre. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not in the same state dessert. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I'll meet him before like the wedding weekend because

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<v Speaker 1>if I depending on where the bachelorette party is, I

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<v Speaker 1>may not go to Indiana or that right, So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I may not meet him until the weekend of the wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>which is crazy. It's not like I'm gonna be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't approve or something, but I don't know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's bizarre. I haven't told you this. I was going

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth. I'd shared on the podcast. I got

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<v Speaker 1>into a fight with my sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, really, your sister that lives in Florida that you're

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<v Speaker 2>decently close with.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I won't go on into too many details

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<v Speaker 1>because something's got to remain private. But I've felt a

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<v Speaker 1>very weird distance between us for like a while. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think, you know, I I've listened to that

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<v Speaker 1>book that a lot of people have talked about, you

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<v Speaker 1>like let the Robbins let them, And one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things she talks about is just your friendships really really

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<v Speaker 1>depend on proximity.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's my sister, so she'll always be part of

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<v Speaker 1>my life, but we're not as close as and now

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<v Speaker 1>we are in very different phases of life. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>her kids are grown out of the house, she's like retired,

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<v Speaker 1>she's now by the way, trying to get her real

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<v Speaker 1>estate license, which she's like it's so hard. And then

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<v Speaker 1>she you know, she's like fifty years old, going to

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<v Speaker 1>be in October, and I'm raising a toddler. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just in very different places, and I'm like working

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<v Speaker 1>two jobs. It's very different. So I have felt some

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<v Speaker 1>weird vibes for a while. And I can't remember if

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<v Speaker 1>I shared stuff on the podcast about my fortieth birthday

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<v Speaker 1>or not with her. I don't remember I did on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show because I was being a little petty

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<v Speaker 1>at the time. Yeah, But basically, I for Kara's fortieth birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>I threw her a very large, lavish party. I rented

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<v Speaker 1>a venue, I catered it. I like it was a

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<v Speaker 1>surprise party. I spent a lot of money on everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I bought her a very expensive birthday present. And for

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<v Speaker 1>my fortieth birthday, she venmoed me one hundred dollars. Now, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you might have shared that, yet I do not care

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<v Speaker 1>about the amount. I do not need care I have.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, I don't need things right. My feelings were

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<v Speaker 1>hurt because she venmoed me cash like every other birthday. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>venmo me cash, if that's what you want to do,

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<v Speaker 1>I venmo her cat. I don't care. But my feelings

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<v Speaker 1>were hurt, and I was like, she couldn't even send

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<v Speaker 1>me a card, she couldn't pick out a single like

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<v Speaker 1>ho actual physical gift, like it just my It was

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<v Speaker 1>like that. And but I went back and forth if

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to say something to her, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I decided it was just unnecessary. It would just make

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<v Speaker 1>her feel bad, and I just decided to not. But

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<v Speaker 1>I still felt like the little ping of resentment in

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<v Speaker 1>my body because of it. Right, so fast forward, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, we had talked about maybe one day

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<v Speaker 1>going to Hawaii, maybe we do.

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<v Speaker 2>It over Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah. I said, hey, I'm going to do

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<v Speaker 1>Hawaii over spring break. We're going to take mom, love

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<v Speaker 1>for you to come. And then this is where things

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<v Speaker 1>got really awkward and bad. So she was upset. She

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go for her fiftieth in October, okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, well, too bad. I can't take the

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<v Speaker 1>doing it over spring break because that's when we have off.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was like, well, let me look at dates

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. Then she's like the resort you're staying at

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<v Speaker 1>is too expensive. I said, okay, well we could look

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<v Speaker 1>at other places if that, if you can go, Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't afford to go. You guys have fun. But

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<v Speaker 1>I could feel the passive aggressive anger there, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know what, let her be passive aggressive angry.

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<v Speaker 1>My sister is known quoted as saying she doesn't plan

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<v Speaker 1>vacations until either one month or one week before the

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<v Speaker 1>vacation because something big always happens that they have to

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<v Speaker 1>cancel their vacation. We work very differently. Yeah, I book

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<v Speaker 1>nine to twelve months in advance. She can't book so I.

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<v Speaker 1>And she also changes her mind a lot. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>booking a big, expensive vacation a month out and based

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<v Speaker 1>on the like the possibility that something quote unquote big

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<v Speaker 1>is going to happen to cancel the vacation and.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be twice the amount. Yes, especially to

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<v Speaker 1>I know so I, but I'm in a place where

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<v Speaker 1>I can cancel, like the hotel. I booked it for

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<v Speaker 1>that reason in case for some reason she could figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out. Anyway. Finally came to a head on like

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<v Speaker 1>Friday over something involving my grandma, and we were just

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<v Speaker 1>texting back and forth. I'm like, screw this, I call her.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Kara, We're never going to like have a

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<v Speaker 1>decent conversation over text. So it just turned into all

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<v Speaker 1>of that coming out on her side. She feels like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want I don't want her her family to

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<v Speaker 1>be a part of my life. She wanted to do

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<v Speaker 1>something big for my fortieth and I said no, She's

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<v Speaker 1>like I wanted to go on vacation with you and Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>But you said no, you just wanted to go with

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<v Speaker 1>your husband and I go. You never once said you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go, I go. And you're right, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go on a family vacation. She's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>me and my husband and you and Jake. I go, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no offense, Kara, But for my big birthday I did not.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember you saying that to me, but I

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<v Speaker 1>still in this moment, would not want to go on

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<v Speaker 1>vacation with you and Brian. I wanted to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a fancy ass overpriced, like quick vacation with just Jake,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't feel bad about that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, and you shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I didn't want a party like I

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<v Speaker 1>threw you. That's my nightmare. I don't like parties like

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<v Speaker 1>that because I always feel like I have to be

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<v Speaker 1>feels exhausting. I don't like parties like that. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you're right, I told you not to

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<v Speaker 1>throw me one. And then she was like, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't want to be a part of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't involve me. You like never call me and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, actually, I'm the only one that calls,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't say that. I just held it out

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<v Speaker 1>back because I'm like, I'm gonna let her have her moment.

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<v Speaker 1>And then she feels like she's not a part of

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter's life. And I'm like, well, we FaceTime you.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like not enough, and I was like, why can't

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<v Speaker 1>you call me? She's like, you guys are too busy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just let it go because I'm like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>when she was younger and had two kids and their

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<v Speaker 1>schedules were crazy, she was never calling me and FaceTime didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it even exists when they were young,

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<v Speaker 1>but they I had to just call and know that

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<v Speaker 1>I was probably gonna get a voicemail and they'd call

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<v Speaker 1>me back when they could. So it's crazy to me

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<v Speaker 1>that she's retired and she knows I'm working two jobs

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<v Speaker 1>and has a kid, but it's on me to do

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<v Speaker 1>at the right time. And I was like, but I

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<v Speaker 1>can work harder on finding time. Maybe we do a

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<v Speaker 1>once a week thing where all of face times you

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<v Speaker 1>random arguments with my sister this late and late in life.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also think that it's like it's because we

419
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<v Speaker 1>don't talk, we don't know what's going on. We both

420
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<v Speaker 1>want to not cause is shoes, so instead we just

421
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<v Speaker 1>probably bitch to our husbands about the other one until

422
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<v Speaker 1>it finally comes to a head. I guess, but I

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<v Speaker 1>hope moving forward things will be fine. Because she said

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<v Speaker 1>that she this one thing. She said that she was

425
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<v Speaker 1>mad because I booked Hawaii for my birthday when she

426
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<v Speaker 1>wanted it for hers, and I go, Kiara, I cannot

427
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<v Speaker 1>help that my birthday falls near Dylan's spring break. That's

428
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<v Speaker 1>just how the calendar year works. I did not book

429
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<v Speaker 1>Hawaii for my birthday. And she's like, Okay, well, it's

430
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<v Speaker 1>like once again, your kids are out of high school. Yeah,

431
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<v Speaker 1>I cannot take Dylan his senior year of high school

432
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<v Speaker 1>out of school for a week. I'm sorry, I'm not

433
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<v Speaker 1>doing it.

434
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So I feel like, yes, I see what you're saying.

435
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<v Speaker 2>With like your surprise, you're still having like arguments and

436
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<v Speaker 2>fights with your sibling this at this point in life.

437
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<v Speaker 2>I just think that that's how family works. Though it's

438
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<v Speaker 2>true because I mean I have to I am Switzerland

439
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<v Speaker 2>with my sisters, where I have to control the fights

440
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<v Speaker 2>that happen between them, because it's usually I know, but

441
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<v Speaker 2>like I've had somewhere. I've been frustrated with my sisters. Yes, absolutely,

442
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<v Speaker 2>but usually it's the two of them going at each

443
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<v Speaker 2>other and me having to jump in and be like, hey,

444
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<v Speaker 2>this point of view makes sense, and this point of

445
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<v Speaker 2>view makes sense, so let's like see each others and

446
00:20:52.160 --> 00:20:56.000
<v Speaker 2>let's come together, you know. But usually, yes, I don't

447
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<v Speaker 2>fight with them, but I am like not living with

448
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<v Speaker 2>them and so and I know that they're really excited

449
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<v Speaker 2>usually when I come home because they don't get to

450
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<v Speaker 2>see me as much and I'm obviously the fond one, the.

451
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<v Speaker 1>Life of the party.

452
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I still get shocked because I mean there's

453
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<v Speaker 2>still things that irritate the shit out of me with

454
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<v Speaker 2>both my sisters that I want to argue with them

455
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<v Speaker 2>and be like, hey, you realize this and this that

456
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<v Speaker 2>and one thing I will back you up on with

457
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<v Speaker 2>the thing of face timing and like her being upset

458
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<v Speaker 2>that like she feels like you don't want her in

459
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<v Speaker 2>your life. I am the one who facetimes my sister

460
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<v Speaker 2>to see the kids. And yes, it's a fifty to

461
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<v Speaker 2>fifty that I get an answer from them. But then

462
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<v Speaker 2>she does always call me back, like usually that same

463
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<v Speaker 2>day as she can. But it's pretty rare that she

464
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<v Speaker 2>facetimes me, and I am not upset about that whatsoever.

465
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<v Speaker 2>She has two little kids. One that's like probably like

466
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<v Speaker 2>having three kids, because my nephew is a handful. Yeah,

467
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<v Speaker 2>so I don't care that I have to like call

468
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<v Speaker 2>and I understand that, and I think I think so

469
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<v Speaker 2>many people get frustrated when a person has little kids

470
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<v Speaker 2>and their life revolves around that kid in their schedule,

471
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<v Speaker 2>and then you feel like, oh, you don't care about

472
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<v Speaker 2>my life at all because it's always about you and

473
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<v Speaker 2>your kid's schedule. And I'm like, well, yeah, they have

474
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<v Speaker 2>an added factor in their life that I like. For me,

475
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<v Speaker 2>I don't have a kid to like work around and stuff.

476
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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I don't know.

477
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<v Speaker 1>I actually have to make like a mental note sometimes

478
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<v Speaker 1>to be like or like even in my notes app like, hey,

479
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<v Speaker 1>make like text this person this week, check in with

480
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<v Speaker 1>this person this week kind of things like that, because

481
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<v Speaker 1>I my days are very, very full. Yeah, and I'm

482
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<v Speaker 1>a super crazy schedule, and so I don't want people

483
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<v Speaker 1>to feel like I'm so self involved. It's I mean,

484
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<v Speaker 1>I am to a degree, but I also am just

485
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<v Speaker 1>like exhausted. So I now try to like I'll try

486
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<v Speaker 1>to call people on my ride home after work, but

487
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<v Speaker 1>I usually like, I don't want to even talk because

488
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<v Speaker 1>I've talked all day long. But I'm like, that might

489
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<v Speaker 1>be the only time I talk to people, so I've

490
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<v Speaker 1>been Yeah, I try really hard to like, remember, Okay,

491
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<v Speaker 1>my sister's taking this test, let me check in with

492
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<v Speaker 1>her and see if she passed. Like, I'll put notes

493
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<v Speaker 1>in my calendar to try to check in with people,

494
00:23:10.039 --> 00:23:11.799
<v Speaker 1>but I still am gonna miss stuff and.

495
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<v Speaker 2>We'll get I want you to know that I don't

496
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<v Speaker 2>give a shit if you don't check in on me

497
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<v Speaker 2>about things, like it's okay, you are very good at

498
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<v Speaker 2>checking in, so like ends on the week, No, I

499
00:23:20.799 --> 00:23:24.160
<v Speaker 2>feel like you are, especially if I'm ever dealing with anything.

500
00:23:24.160 --> 00:23:26.960
<v Speaker 2>You are super good at checking in. But I that's

501
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<v Speaker 2>like one thing I've gotten frustrated with friendships is like

502
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<v Speaker 2>them thinking that you should always be checking in on them,

503
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<v Speaker 2>but then they don't reciprocate. Yeah, and it's like okay,

504
00:23:37.079 --> 00:23:39.039
<v Speaker 2>but I have a life too, and it's not that

505
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<v Speaker 2>I'm not checking in on you because I don't want to.

506
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<v Speaker 2>It's because I have a life and I got busy,

507
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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. Yeah, so yeah, I will.

508
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<v Speaker 2>Can I tell you since you brought up having that

509
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<v Speaker 2>note in your phone? Yeah, a note that I started

510
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<v Speaker 2>in my phone as of last week.

511
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<v Speaker 1>Oh god.

512
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<v Speaker 2>Yes, It's titled things my tummy doesn't like.

513
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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I am good to take. It's good track

514
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<v Speaker 1>that Jenny.

515
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So I decided because after we had gotten back

516
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<v Speaker 2>from going up to mom Bohemia last week, there was

517
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<v Speaker 2>not a lot of food in the house, and I

518
00:24:07.960 --> 00:24:11.680
<v Speaker 2>ate this bowl of spicy ramen. Absolute worst thing I

519
00:24:11.720 --> 00:24:14.799
<v Speaker 2>could have done, I know, but the thing icy rock. Okay,

520
00:24:15.079 --> 00:24:17.240
<v Speaker 2>So Andrew always eats it and I'll have like a

521
00:24:17.279 --> 00:24:18.920
<v Speaker 2>bite of it here and there, but I never make

522
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<v Speaker 2>it for myself. But there was just nothing that appealed

523
00:24:22.200 --> 00:24:24.519
<v Speaker 2>to me of what we had, and so I'm like, whatever,

524
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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna make this, so I ate it. Thirty minutes later,

525
00:24:28.559 --> 00:24:30.480
<v Speaker 2>things just hit the fan, you know. So I'm like, okay,

526
00:24:30.759 --> 00:24:33.359
<v Speaker 2>I really have got you. Like I have ideas in

527
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<v Speaker 2>my head of things that don't work with my system.

528
00:24:35.680 --> 00:24:38.160
<v Speaker 2>But I really got a hone in and stop eating

529
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<v Speaker 2>things I know are going to make me miserable because

530
00:24:40.640 --> 00:24:44.079
<v Speaker 2>it is a domino effect. When something hurts my stomach,

531
00:24:44.480 --> 00:24:47.240
<v Speaker 2>it then lingers for days. It fucks with my serotonin,

532
00:24:47.400 --> 00:24:49.920
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't let me sleep well, and then it infiltrates

533
00:24:49.920 --> 00:24:53.160
<v Speaker 2>into my work life. And so like that whole week,

534
00:24:53.279 --> 00:24:56.559
<v Speaker 2>I just felt like garbage. And so that anyways, so

535
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<v Speaker 2>I added this into my phone as a reminder to

536
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<v Speaker 2>me myself when I go to Costco or Target or wherever,

537
00:25:03.599 --> 00:25:06.240
<v Speaker 2>like you do not buy these things. And so so

538
00:25:06.319 --> 00:25:09.480
<v Speaker 2>far is just spicy ramen and peanut butter. But like

539
00:25:09.559 --> 00:25:11.880
<v Speaker 2>peanut butter, that's one of your top food groups, I know.

540
00:25:12.680 --> 00:25:15.640
<v Speaker 2>But so I can eat peanut butter as like you know,

541
00:25:15.640 --> 00:25:16.880
<v Speaker 2>if we went on a ski trip and we had

542
00:25:16.880 --> 00:25:19.960
<v Speaker 2>peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for lunch, that's not bad.

543
00:25:20.000 --> 00:25:22.440
<v Speaker 2>But the problem is your girl can't be left alone

544
00:25:22.440 --> 00:25:24.400
<v Speaker 2>in a house the jar of peanut butter or else

545
00:25:24.400 --> 00:25:27.279
<v Speaker 2>she gets a spoon out and she starts spoon feeding

546
00:25:27.279 --> 00:25:29.839
<v Speaker 2>her mouth with it. I cannot be controlled. So the

547
00:25:29.880 --> 00:25:33.599
<v Speaker 2>other day I made this like protein puppy chow, just

548
00:25:33.640 --> 00:25:35.799
<v Speaker 2>to start getting the peanut butter out of the house

549
00:25:35.880 --> 00:25:38.680
<v Speaker 2>because I needed it for a different recipe I recently made.

550
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<v Speaker 2>So that's the update on my life and my notes

551
00:25:42.640 --> 00:25:44.799
<v Speaker 2>app and the things that I just laugh at when

552
00:25:44.799 --> 00:25:45.799
<v Speaker 2>I look at my notes app.

553
00:25:45.880 --> 00:25:48.559
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I'm like, where is this the weird stuff you

554
00:25:48.640 --> 00:25:50.519
<v Speaker 1>keep in your notes? But I am excited to hear

555
00:25:50.559 --> 00:25:52.440
<v Speaker 1>if they're updates, you can let us know what you're

556
00:25:52.440 --> 00:25:53.680
<v Speaker 1>adding to the list.

557
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, can I tell you one other thing? So, when

558
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<v Speaker 2>we went to my Bohemia last weekend, I I just

559
00:26:00.480 --> 00:26:02.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, I'm tired, I'm drained, whatever. So I go

560
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<v Speaker 2>to chat GPT for a little help because I'm like,

561
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<v Speaker 2>I want to do this Instagram post, but I can't

562
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<v Speaker 2>think of anything quirky to put in the caption. So

563
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<v Speaker 2>I write, give me five funny Instagram captions about spending

564
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<v Speaker 2>a ski weekend with my boyfriend, and I'm going to

565
00:26:15.640 --> 00:26:19.519
<v Speaker 2>read you some of them. It says he thinks he's

566
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<v Speaker 2>my ski instructor. I think he's my crash test dummy. Okay,

567
00:26:23.680 --> 00:26:26.359
<v Speaker 2>nothing says romance like fighting over who forgot the boot

568
00:26:26.359 --> 00:26:31.200
<v Speaker 2>warmers he shreds. I survive true love on the slopes

569
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<v Speaker 2>If we can make it through an icy black diamond. Together,

570
00:26:34.519 --> 00:26:36.440
<v Speaker 2>we can make it through anything. Let me find like

571
00:26:36.480 --> 00:26:40.319
<v Speaker 2>one or two more old mine. He's fast, I'm quote

572
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<v Speaker 2>cautiously adventurous, true ski trip combatibility. Nothing says romantic getaway

573
00:26:46.720 --> 00:26:49.279
<v Speaker 2>like me wiping out in front of my boyfriend. So

574
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<v Speaker 2>after you heard all these captions, do you see what

575
00:26:52.640 --> 00:26:53.519
<v Speaker 2>I'm getting at here?

576
00:26:53.640 --> 00:26:56.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? The theme is that he's great at skiing, but because

577
00:26:56.200 --> 00:26:58.559
<v Speaker 1>you're a girl, you're not. What the fuck?

578
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<v Speaker 2>I know? Literally was like, our are you serious? Like

579
00:27:01.119 --> 00:27:02.759
<v Speaker 2>this is the first time I think I've ever used

580
00:27:02.799 --> 00:27:06.519
<v Speaker 2>Chad GPT and felt it was extremely sexist. Yeah, I'm like,

581
00:27:07.160 --> 00:27:09.799
<v Speaker 2>and to be fair, yes, he is a better snowboarder

582
00:27:09.799 --> 00:27:12.720
<v Speaker 2>than me, but I'm also good. Yeah, So like, no,

583
00:27:12.839 --> 00:27:15.960
<v Speaker 2>he's not my crash test dummy, Like are you serious?

584
00:27:16.000 --> 00:27:18.119
<v Speaker 2>So i sat there and I'm reading up to Andrew

585
00:27:18.160 --> 00:27:20.880
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, this is ridiculous.

586
00:27:20.200 --> 00:27:26.279
<v Speaker 1>Chat GPT dick God, just like that myself being like

587
00:27:26.400 --> 00:27:28.720
<v Speaker 1>why from the very first one, I'm like, wait, why

588
00:27:28.839 --> 00:27:30.720
<v Speaker 1>is she He's shredding and wheah is she not?

589
00:27:31.039 --> 00:27:33.279
<v Speaker 2>So I was like cause I'm like, okay, I looked

590
00:27:33.279 --> 00:27:35.559
<v Speaker 2>back at my prompt to see if I like put

591
00:27:35.640 --> 00:27:37.920
<v Speaker 2>something in there, and I always said was funny Instagram

592
00:27:37.960 --> 00:27:41.200
<v Speaker 2>caption about spending a ski weekend with my boyfriend. Yeah,

593
00:27:41.240 --> 00:27:43.359
<v Speaker 2>so that should not have to do with the fact,

594
00:27:43.440 --> 00:27:45.359
<v Speaker 2>like there should not have been a theme of he

595
00:27:45.599 --> 00:27:48.400
<v Speaker 2>was great and I am clearly awful at snowboarding.

596
00:27:48.599 --> 00:27:52.880
<v Speaker 1>That's weird. Yeah. By the way, we only have like

597
00:27:52.920 --> 00:27:54.839
<v Speaker 1>a couple of minutes left, and I do want to

598
00:27:54.920 --> 00:27:58.119
<v Speaker 1>jump into Love is Blind, but maybe you need to, like,

599
00:27:58.200 --> 00:28:01.279
<v Speaker 1>if you tell chat GPT once like, don't do that,

600
00:28:01.839 --> 00:28:03.240
<v Speaker 1>it probably won't ever do it again.

601
00:28:03.319 --> 00:28:06.039
<v Speaker 2>Oh interesting, Okay, it does should I have gotten in

602
00:28:06.039 --> 00:28:07.799
<v Speaker 2>an argument with no.

603
00:28:07.799 --> 00:28:09.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't don't make that. Don't do that, but like

604
00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:11.960
<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, this hurt my feelings and maybe just

605
00:28:12.000 --> 00:28:14.519
<v Speaker 1>like you know, manipulate it a little bit. But it's

606
00:28:14.559 --> 00:28:18.359
<v Speaker 1>like it does learn get to know you. It's creepy,

607
00:28:18.440 --> 00:28:20.960
<v Speaker 1>but it's whatever. At this point, this is what life is.

608
00:28:21.359 --> 00:28:23.079
<v Speaker 1>I do want to talk about Love is Blind basically

609
00:28:23.079 --> 00:28:26.039
<v Speaker 1>because we're caught up. We both watch the new three episodes.

610
00:28:26.400 --> 00:28:30.039
<v Speaker 1>I agree with everyone it is one of two most

611
00:28:30.079 --> 00:28:34.680
<v Speaker 1>boring seasons of all time. I just feel like everyone is.

612
00:28:34.839 --> 00:28:36.279
<v Speaker 1>It's not that I don't want people to be happy.

613
00:28:36.400 --> 00:28:39.480
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like there's a little bit of almost

614
00:28:39.640 --> 00:28:41.079
<v Speaker 1>fake nice happy.

615
00:28:41.599 --> 00:28:43.640
<v Speaker 2>Well it's the Minnesota passive aggressiveness.

616
00:28:43.720 --> 00:28:46.799
<v Speaker 1>Right, So here's what I'll break down. Because now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on Minneapolis TikTok. Yes, I don't know if you saw

618
00:28:50.119 --> 00:28:52.000
<v Speaker 1>this video, but this guy made me laugh. And he's like,

619
00:28:52.359 --> 00:28:55.400
<v Speaker 1>it's not because we're humble, it's because they actively producers

620
00:28:55.440 --> 00:28:57.440
<v Speaker 1>have to search really hard to find people who don't

621
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<v Speaker 1>know each other. He's like, and I'm going to show

622
00:28:59.160 --> 00:29:01.359
<v Speaker 1>you how impossible that is. He pops up a picture

623
00:29:01.400 --> 00:29:03.279
<v Speaker 1>of him and Sarah. He's like, I want to problem

624
00:29:03.279 --> 00:29:05.359
<v Speaker 1>with Sarah picks up a picture I think, post a

625
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<v Speaker 1>picture of like Molly or someone that's my cousin.

626
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<v Speaker 2>Posted another.

627
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<v Speaker 1>What He's like, I don't even live in Minnesota, and

628
00:29:10.680 --> 00:29:13.039
<v Speaker 1>I know every single person basically on the show. He's like,

629
00:29:13.119 --> 00:29:16.359
<v Speaker 1>it's impossible for in Minnesota to find people who don't

630
00:29:16.359 --> 00:29:18.240
<v Speaker 1>know people. So he's like, and I was like, that's

631
00:29:18.279 --> 00:29:23.160
<v Speaker 1>a really good point. Secondly, the guy Davey a lot

632
00:29:23.200 --> 00:29:26.000
<v Speaker 1>of people. I actually know people who know Dave, but

633
00:29:26.079 --> 00:29:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know Dave. He got some people say a

634
00:29:29.000 --> 00:29:31.720
<v Speaker 1>bad edit in the beginning, right because he was the

635
00:29:31.720 --> 00:29:35.079
<v Speaker 1>guy doing the why you single, ye, what's wrong with you?

636
00:29:35.200 --> 00:29:37.240
<v Speaker 1>What goes wrong with you? That thing? I thought it

637
00:29:37.319 --> 00:29:40.559
<v Speaker 1>was annoying, but I was also like whatever. I also

638
00:29:40.759 --> 00:29:44.359
<v Speaker 1>truly thought he would pick Molly based solely on the

639
00:29:44.400 --> 00:29:47.640
<v Speaker 1>sexual aspect of things. So when he picked the other girl,

640
00:29:48.200 --> 00:29:51.799
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Oh my gosh, maybe he really is

641
00:29:51.920 --> 00:29:56.079
<v Speaker 1>trying to change, right, So now this whole narrative that

642
00:29:56.160 --> 00:30:00.359
<v Speaker 1>he cannot quote unquote get past someone she hooked up with. Fake,

643
00:30:00.680 --> 00:30:03.480
<v Speaker 1>He's trying to be the nice guy. This girl made

644
00:30:03.480 --> 00:30:06.279
<v Speaker 1>the perfect TikTok. As soon as he got his phone back,

645
00:30:06.400 --> 00:30:09.319
<v Speaker 1>he went and looked up Mollie. And he is now

646
00:30:09.440 --> 00:30:11.200
<v Speaker 1>trying to find a way to not be the bad

647
00:30:11.240 --> 00:30:15.480
<v Speaker 1>guy to America and end it with Lauren without being

648
00:30:15.519 --> 00:30:18.720
<v Speaker 1>the bad guy. And because this is ridiculous. To think

649
00:30:18.759 --> 00:30:21.799
<v Speaker 1>that these people did not have sex lives and partners

650
00:30:21.839 --> 00:30:26.279
<v Speaker 1>before this show is insane and I just feel so

651
00:30:26.440 --> 00:30:29.319
<v Speaker 1>bad looking at this girl, Lauren or whatever her name is.

652
00:30:29.759 --> 00:30:35.119
<v Speaker 1>First of all, Lauren skin, hair, eyes, perfection, okay, and

653
00:30:35.279 --> 00:30:39.160
<v Speaker 1>just everyone's comparing it by the way, those two they're

654
00:30:39.160 --> 00:30:41.880
<v Speaker 1>saying she looks in actions like Pam from the office,

655
00:30:42.279 --> 00:30:45.000
<v Speaker 1>and he looks and acts like Roy, her shitty first

656
00:30:45.039 --> 00:30:48.920
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend who worked downstairs, and it is killing me.

657
00:30:49.079 --> 00:30:53.079
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yes, oh, so I also have mutual friends

658
00:30:53.119 --> 00:30:55.319
<v Speaker 2>with like lots of people who are friends with Dave

659
00:30:55.400 --> 00:30:57.559
<v Speaker 2>and then also someone who's really good friends with Lauren,

660
00:30:57.640 --> 00:31:00.640
<v Speaker 2>and so they know a lot about stuff. But we

661
00:31:00.759 --> 00:31:03.559
<v Speaker 2>haven't asked like Andrew and I haven't been asking people

662
00:31:03.559 --> 00:31:05.039
<v Speaker 2>for that because we do want to watch it in

663
00:31:05.079 --> 00:31:07.839
<v Speaker 2>real time and then like discuss after the season's done.

664
00:31:08.480 --> 00:31:12.799
<v Speaker 2>And yeah, I feel Andrew said that he feels like

665
00:31:13.359 --> 00:31:15.279
<v Speaker 2>they would not be acting the way he's acting if

666
00:31:15.319 --> 00:31:17.319
<v Speaker 2>they would just have sex. He's like, if they would

667
00:31:17.319 --> 00:31:19.440
<v Speaker 2>have had sex in the Baha or wherever they were

668
00:31:19.519 --> 00:31:22.039
<v Speaker 2>hunder us, He's like, I bet you a million bucks

669
00:31:22.039 --> 00:31:23.599
<v Speaker 2>that he'd be like whatever.

670
00:31:23.559 --> 00:31:26.880
<v Speaker 1>He is, that's all he wanted to talk about, Like

671
00:31:26.920 --> 00:31:29.480
<v Speaker 1>you guys fuck yet Yeah, it's all her though, you know,

672
00:31:29.480 --> 00:31:31.200
<v Speaker 1>I just want to go, oh, you get to see

673
00:31:31.240 --> 00:31:33.680
<v Speaker 1>it just stressing out. He just wants to have sex

674
00:31:33.799 --> 00:31:34.559
<v Speaker 1>so bad.

675
00:31:34.920 --> 00:31:37.200
<v Speaker 2>And I also feel like I have so many opinions

676
00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:39.920
<v Speaker 2>about these people, but it's also weird for me to

677
00:31:40.000 --> 00:31:42.359
<v Speaker 2>even say it because I have people who I'm actually

678
00:31:42.400 --> 00:31:45.480
<v Speaker 2>friends with that on the show and then really like

679
00:31:45.880 --> 00:31:48.039
<v Speaker 2>very close connections, not like a friend of a friend

680
00:31:48.039 --> 00:31:51.160
<v Speaker 2>of a friend that knows this person, like pretty close connections.

681
00:31:51.200 --> 00:31:53.119
<v Speaker 2>And so I don't want to be a dick because

682
00:31:53.640 --> 00:31:57.319
<v Speaker 2>I also know that production plays a huge role in

683
00:31:57.440 --> 00:32:00.960
<v Speaker 2>building how the show shows a person on there, and

684
00:32:01.000 --> 00:32:03.759
<v Speaker 2>so I feel like some people are going to be

685
00:32:03.799 --> 00:32:06.440
<v Speaker 2>really salty, being like I got the worst at it

686
00:32:06.480 --> 00:32:08.240
<v Speaker 2>ever and this is why you think this of me,

687
00:32:08.319 --> 00:32:10.480
<v Speaker 2>But this is who I really am. And it's just

688
00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:12.240
<v Speaker 2>it does suck for them, But at the same time,

689
00:32:12.279 --> 00:32:14.240
<v Speaker 2>you can't feel bad because they sign up for that,

690
00:32:14.440 --> 00:32:14.680
<v Speaker 2>you know.

691
00:32:14.920 --> 00:32:19.920
<v Speaker 1>The other thing with Dave is on TikTok I'm getting

692
00:32:20.440 --> 00:32:23.599
<v Speaker 1>is that he can't commit to Lauren because he's actually

693
00:32:23.640 --> 00:32:26.200
<v Speaker 1>in love with his sister. Because yes, I've seen that

694
00:32:26.279 --> 00:32:29.000
<v Speaker 1>has ever been more like there's a moment it has

695
00:32:29.119 --> 00:32:32.079
<v Speaker 1>made me so uncomfortable where like they're like, this is

696
00:32:32.119 --> 00:32:34.839
<v Speaker 1>the moment Dave realized he's in love with his sister. Yeah,

697
00:32:34.880 --> 00:32:36.480
<v Speaker 1>And it plays a clip of them like on a

698
00:32:36.559 --> 00:32:39.119
<v Speaker 1>couch talking and he's talking about his sister and he

699
00:32:39.240 --> 00:32:42.079
<v Speaker 1>like says something super complimentary and his cheeks flush.

700
00:32:42.119 --> 00:32:43.319
<v Speaker 2>He like has this like look.

701
00:32:43.200 --> 00:32:45.920
<v Speaker 1>Back in his head and everyone's like, oh, like, and

702
00:32:45.960 --> 00:32:46.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm.

703
00:32:46.559 --> 00:32:48.039
<v Speaker 2>Not gonna do that to him.

704
00:32:48.200 --> 00:32:54.039
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm not gonna be laugh because especially since are

705
00:32:54.079 --> 00:32:55.839
<v Speaker 1>you watching this season A White Lotus yet?

706
00:32:55.960 --> 00:32:56.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

707
00:32:56.319 --> 00:32:57.160
<v Speaker 1>Did we talk about this?

708
00:32:57.400 --> 00:32:57.519
<v Speaker 2>No?

709
00:32:57.839 --> 00:33:02.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, Yeah. So I'm getting super super super incest

710
00:33:02.319 --> 00:33:06.079
<v Speaker 1>vibes from Patrick Schwarzenegger, the sister, and the brother.

711
00:33:06.279 --> 00:33:07.000
<v Speaker 2>It's so weird.

712
00:33:07.119 --> 00:33:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's super creepy, all three of them. I'm getting it.

713
00:33:09.480 --> 00:33:09.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

714
00:33:09.799 --> 00:33:12.000
<v Speaker 1>So it's just on the top of my mind. I

715
00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:13.599
<v Speaker 1>think too that it's making me laugh.

716
00:33:13.839 --> 00:33:17.519
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And once again going back to the like everyone

717
00:33:17.519 --> 00:33:20.400
<v Speaker 2>in Minnesota knows each other, I like, for a brief moment,

718
00:33:20.519 --> 00:33:22.640
<v Speaker 2>was like, Man, if I would have been single when

719
00:33:22.640 --> 00:33:24.680
<v Speaker 2>this was going on, I absolutely would have tried to

720
00:33:24.720 --> 00:33:26.920
<v Speaker 2>go on the show, I think, Yeah, But I also

721
00:33:27.000 --> 00:33:29.400
<v Speaker 2>would have known for a fact that I would have

722
00:33:29.440 --> 00:33:31.400
<v Speaker 2>known so many people, because there was a point in

723
00:33:31.400 --> 00:33:33.920
<v Speaker 2>my life where I walked into the loop and I

724
00:33:34.000 --> 00:33:37.000
<v Speaker 2>knew five different groups of people, all of which I

725
00:33:37.079 --> 00:33:40.000
<v Speaker 2>slept with one person in each different group. So it's like,

726
00:33:40.559 --> 00:33:44.519
<v Speaker 2>it really is hard to like unless you live really

727
00:33:44.599 --> 00:33:47.160
<v Speaker 2>far out of the metro area and you don't come

728
00:33:47.160 --> 00:33:49.400
<v Speaker 2>into the city at all and you stick to like

729
00:33:49.440 --> 00:33:52.079
<v Speaker 2>your one city you live in. I just feel like

730
00:33:52.200 --> 00:33:54.359
<v Speaker 2>this season was hard to find people who don't know

731
00:33:54.400 --> 00:33:56.680
<v Speaker 2>each other, and maybe that is how it's been in

732
00:33:56.720 --> 00:33:58.519
<v Speaker 2>other seasons and we just don't know it. But I

733
00:33:58.640 --> 00:34:01.240
<v Speaker 2>just I don't know. I feel like I've never seen

734
00:34:01.799 --> 00:34:05.200
<v Speaker 2>people seem to have mutual connection rights. But I haven't

735
00:34:05.200 --> 00:34:07.839
<v Speaker 2>watched all the Lovesplining seasons. I think I've only watched

736
00:34:07.880 --> 00:34:08.719
<v Speaker 2>like three of them.

737
00:34:08.880 --> 00:34:12.079
<v Speaker 1>I've watched most. I think it was DC or one

738
00:34:12.119 --> 00:34:14.239
<v Speaker 1>other one that was also super boring that I fast

739
00:34:14.280 --> 00:34:18.000
<v Speaker 1>forwarded through a lot. There's usually one super toxic couple

740
00:34:18.079 --> 00:34:22.400
<v Speaker 1>that keeps me in so right now it's like a

741
00:34:22.480 --> 00:34:25.360
<v Speaker 1>play between a couple of them that are decent, but

742
00:34:25.400 --> 00:34:27.519
<v Speaker 1>I'm still fast forwarding through the others because they're boring

743
00:34:27.559 --> 00:34:27.760
<v Speaker 1>to me.

744
00:34:27.880 --> 00:34:29.679
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, I hope they found love, but whatever,

745
00:34:29.920 --> 00:34:31.960
<v Speaker 2>I know. And so Andrew's gone this week and we've

746
00:34:32.000 --> 00:34:33.960
<v Speaker 2>been watching it together, and I go, Babe, I'm not

747
00:34:34.000 --> 00:34:37.039
<v Speaker 2>waiting for you. I'm sorry, like I for my job

748
00:34:37.119 --> 00:34:38.960
<v Speaker 2>because we talk about it on the show obviously, and

749
00:34:39.000 --> 00:34:41.639
<v Speaker 2>you do two. It's like, I need to watch these.

750
00:34:41.760 --> 00:34:43.519
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to watch them because he's not back till

751
00:34:43.719 --> 00:34:47.440
<v Speaker 2>next Monday, and he's like that's fine, Like, just don't

752
00:34:47.440 --> 00:34:48.239
<v Speaker 2>tell me anything.

753
00:34:48.320 --> 00:34:50.519
<v Speaker 1>Though, I tell that about White Lotus. I'm like, I

754
00:34:50.559 --> 00:34:52.719
<v Speaker 1>will be watching this without you. He's like that's fine,

755
00:34:52.760 --> 00:34:56.400
<v Speaker 1>I'll watch it okay. So anyway, that's our time. Thanks

756
00:34:56.400 --> 00:34:58.400
<v Speaker 1>for listening, yep love yeah bye