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Speaker 1: What's up, gentlemen. I'm Johnny Depth, author of one thousand

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first dates Portrait of a Palm Beach Player, and today

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I'm giving you a truth most guys learn too late.

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You've got to stay away from weak women. I'm not

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talking about women who've had it rough. I'm not talking

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about trauma, heartbreak, or life experience. We've all got scars.

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I'm talking about women who have no compass, no clarity,

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no strength of character, no sense of self. The type

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of woman who can't decide what to eat, where to go,

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what she wants in life, and expects you to figure

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it out for her. At first, you think it's cute,

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maybe even feminine, but over time it's draining. She leans

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on you, not just for guidance, but for identity. She

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doesn't support your mission, she attaches to it. She can't

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regulate her emotions, so she makes you responsible for them.

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That's not femininity. That's dead weight. Not a life coach.

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You're not a rescue swimmer. You're not here to carry

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her across the river of her own indecision and anxiety.

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You want a woman who brings feminine strength, not chaos

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in a pretty dress. Here's what most guys don't realize

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a weak woman can't respect you. She might admire your drive,

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she might enjoy the perks of being with you, but

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she won't respect you because deep down she knows she's

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not your equal. And when a woman knows she's not

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your equal, two things happen. She resents you, she sabotages

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the relationship because she doesn't feel safe, she feels exposed,

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and instead of building with you, she chips away at you,

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testing you, draining you, creating drama just to feel relevant.

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Ask yourself this, how many times have you felt exhausted

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after spending time with a woman who needed you to

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validate every thought, fix every emotion, and direct every decision.

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That's not partnership. That's parent and you're not her father.

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You're a man with a mission, a man who leads,

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who builds, who dominates in the world because he doesn't

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waste time carrying passengers who should be driving their own

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damn car. Weak women don't want to grow, They want

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to lean. They want to download their emotional software into

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your hard drive and blame you when it crashes. Here's

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how you spot them. Early constant indecision, frequent emotional spirals,

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no close female friends, no hobbies, no mission, no depth,

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always talking about how crazy everyone else is, never accountable,

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always the victim. Cut it off early, walk away, don't

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try to fix it, don't try to explain, because you know.

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The moment you start trying to justify your boundaries to

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a weak woman, well you've already lost frame. Strong men

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need strong women, not masculine, not bossy, but resilient. A

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woman who knows how to hold herself together, bring peace,

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not pressure. A woman with standards, values, and feminine strength.

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If you're chasing softness without substance, you'll pay for it

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in time, in energy, and money in mental bandwidth. And

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when you finally wake up, she'll already be draining someone else.

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So gentlemen, stay away from weak women. It's not your

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job to fix her. It's your job to choose better.

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And when you start choosing better, your entire life gets lighter, sharper,

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more focus. You'll feel it immediately, peace and peace. That's power.

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Beach Player. Click the link in the description I'm Johnny Depth,

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stay sharp, stay dangerous, and never waste your strength on

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a woman who won't carry her own weight.