Speaker 1: And that's why I never read the comment.
Speaker 2: I just want to like, I'm not even gonna look
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we're all I have an angry closs.
Speaker 2: That is life. But that's hard, like unless it's like
Speaker 2: NBA team or something.
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Speaker 1: my guest today is somebody who proves that there's no
Speaker 1: expiration date on reinvention. She grew up in Houston, took
Speaker 1: a leap at thirty two, quit her retail management job
Speaker 1: the day after her very first scene for Bangbros. Packed up,
Speaker 1: and was in La a week later. Seventeen years, a
Speaker 1: few well earned breaked and several reinventions later, she's shooting
Speaker 1: for everyone from Browsers to Evil Angel to Adult Time,
Speaker 1: building her brand on OnlyFans and Minx, producing her own
Speaker 1: creator events, and oh yeah, training for a marathon. She
Speaker 1: turns fifty this September and swears she's just getting started.
Speaker 1: Please welcome the Unstoppable Melanie Monroe. Yay, I love that.
Speaker 1: That sounds so Axcitty. Is this so nice to like?
Speaker 1: Hear like somebody kind of like you spit all your
Speaker 1: accolades out in one sitting. You're like, God, I do
Speaker 1: I I was super cute, I do a lot, I'm accomplished.
Speaker 2: I'm a busy girl.
Speaker 1: Yeah shit. So let's talk about your beginnings, because you're
Speaker 1: in retail management and you started at thirty two, and
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of people start in this industry earlier.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of debate over whether or not, like
Speaker 1: eighteen's too young. So how is it for you getting
Speaker 1: in at thirty two? Are you glad that you waited
Speaker 1: that long? I'm very glad that I waited.
Speaker 3: I feel like everything in my life was kind of
Speaker 3: started late because I was in a relationship from fifteen
Speaker 3: to twenty seven. Wow, I had the same boyfriend from
Speaker 3: fifty to twenty seven and I didn't get to do anything.
Speaker 2: He like kept me in the house.
Speaker 3: He was a DJ, and so I feel like I
Speaker 3: missed all the college fun years. So I feel like
Speaker 3: at around thirty is when I was like, you know what,
Speaker 3: like I feel twenty and that's when I just went
Speaker 3: a little bit wild.
Speaker 1: They say thirty is the new twenty thirties. I mean,
Speaker 1: my thirties were fantastic. I had the best time in
Speaker 1: my thirties. Yeah, I having a really good time. Forties
Speaker 1: has kind of been better for me. But it's just
Speaker 1: it's just different, I guess, right. Okay, So you were
Speaker 1: working in retail management. So what prompted the switch.
Speaker 3: It was a gradual like Girls Gone Wild for me.
Speaker 3: So I was managing a retail store in Houston and
Speaker 3: I had just gotten single at the time, and so
Speaker 3: over those few years, I mean, I was just learning
Speaker 3: how to like match my toenail polish, like put makeup on.
Speaker 3: All of these kind of things just started going out,
Speaker 3: like twenty eight, twenty nine thirty and I got transferred
Speaker 3: to a store in Bell Harbor in Florida, and yeah,
Speaker 3: Florida's the gateway drug.
Speaker 2: Florida was my in Miami was my gateway drug. A
Speaker 2: long story short.
Speaker 3: I met some people, and you know, I met like
Speaker 3: an agent and I met one of the owners of
Speaker 3: one of the companies and they were like, yeah, I
Speaker 3: just come check out this shoot. And I checked out
Speaker 3: in the VIP. I don't know if you remember that one.
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 2: I checked that out and I was like that's kind
Speaker 2: of cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I.
Speaker 3: Was too scared to do it. And then I was
Speaker 3: just like, you know what, let's try it. No one's
Speaker 3: gonna see this movie, like, let's go. So I shot
Speaker 3: one the next day. I shot at Bangro's first, and
Speaker 3: then Reality King's the next day, and I was still
Speaker 3: working at that at the retail store. I don't know
Speaker 3: if I can say the brand, but I was still
Speaker 3: working for Lacoste.
Speaker 2: Okay, And I got on my scooter.
Speaker 3: I was going to work and there was some construction
Speaker 3: guys and some guys at the scooter rental place, and
Speaker 3: they're like, they literally put my scene up the next day.
Speaker 2: And they're like we just I fow you. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: And I was like, there's no hiding it from this point, like, yeah,
Speaker 3: they literally put the movie up the next day.
Speaker 1: Wow. Those are two big brands too, which you probably
Speaker 1: didn't realize.
Speaker 2: At the time.
Speaker 1: I assume I didn't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I had no idea what I was getting into.
Speaker 3: But for me, it was just like, you know, balls
Speaker 3: to the wall, let's go, yeah, have a good time.
Speaker 1: I mean, how did that conversation start though, Because you're like,
Speaker 1: I met some people and they talked me into doing
Speaker 1: like adult work, and that's usually it's not that simple.
Speaker 3: Well, it was like, okay, so I you know, I
Speaker 3: was doing retail. I wasn't making the money that I
Speaker 3: wanted to make.
Speaker 1: Of course I was in retail.
Speaker 3: I was even managing the store, like I was barely
Speaker 3: getting by. Yeah, and it was a guy, and he's
Speaker 3: was more trying to push me into like escorting. He
Speaker 3: was trying to push me that way, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: this could be fun money. But then all in that
Speaker 3: same week he was also like, you should do a movie.
Speaker 3: That's gonna help this, that's gonna help that, and.
Speaker 1: So like, okay, I mean, how sexual were you before
Speaker 1: you got into the industry. Was this always something that
Speaker 1: was ever in the back of your mind.
Speaker 2: I had never seen a porn until I shot a porn.
Speaker 1: I hadn't an introduction.
Speaker 2: I had never seen a porn movie.
Speaker 3: I was like this, you know, like growing up in
Speaker 3: sheltered having this jealous boyfriend who literally just kept me
Speaker 3: under wraps in the house. Like I was like this
Speaker 3: weird jealous girlfriend and I was like, there's no way
Speaker 3: I'll let him watch a dirty movie, Like I don't
Speaker 3: want to see that stuff.
Speaker 1: Were you one of those people that considered that cheating?
Speaker 1: I did, you know?
Speaker 3: Watchn I totally did, And so yeah, it was crazy
Speaker 3: for me.
Speaker 2: It was crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't realize how much that like that guy
Speaker 3: in my life like shaped who I was. But he
Speaker 3: was just turning me into what he wanted me to be.
Speaker 3: Of course, definitely wasn't who I am.
Speaker 1: Of course, So walk me through that first scene, Like,
Speaker 1: what were you thinking when you shut up on set?
Speaker 1: Were you nervous?
Speaker 3: I was very nervous, but they made it so comfortable.
Speaker 3: It was like you I for me, it was like
Speaker 3: getting dulled up. I felt like a little princess, like
Speaker 3: people were holding my water for me, and it was
Speaker 3: like unusual, like every every little thing they did just
Speaker 3: made it so comfortable that it actually was a lot
Speaker 3: of fun. And I was super nervous. And you can
Speaker 3: tell probably the first two years of porn. You can
Speaker 3: tell I had no idea what I was doing because
Speaker 3: I'm like making the photographer laugh. So I'm talking the
Speaker 3: whole photoshoot and every picture is my mouth like talking.
Speaker 3: You can tell I didn't know what I was doing
Speaker 3: at all. Yeah, and I was super insecure. Wait, they
Speaker 3: just made you feel like a princess, like gassing you up.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's good, that's beautiful.
Speaker 2: That's beautiful, Like this is great, Like I want to
Speaker 2: do this every day, and so I did.
Speaker 1: So do you remember who you did your first scene with?
Speaker 3: I don't remember who the first scene was with, but
Speaker 3: I do remember that I think it was the Reality Kings.
Speaker 2: It was the guy I can't remember, the.
Speaker 3: Milk Hunter, the original Milk Hunter, and he would he
Speaker 3: put a beer can like on my butt, like.
Speaker 2: I just remember that. It was awesome.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, his name was Sean something. That was my second scene.
Speaker 1: I don't remember my first name was. Okay, that's all right.
Speaker 1: So when the scene came out, did you watch it?
Speaker 1: I couldn't watch it.
Speaker 3: Like I saw a couple of like little clips, and
Speaker 3: I just couldn't watch the whole thing. I just lost
Speaker 3: my mat. I didn't watch any of my movies the
Speaker 3: first five years of porn.
Speaker 1: Okay, so when the movie is such a weird, No,
Speaker 1: I trust me, Like people ask me why I won't
Speaker 1: shoot porn. I don't even like looking at myself in
Speaker 1: the Marijuan sex like if I ever, I can't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would not be able to watch myself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. Like I've made like some sex tapes
Speaker 1: like with significant others.
Speaker 2: I don't watch those.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I don't know, like they watch the
Speaker 1: guy like the guy watches watching them. Yeah, there's one
Speaker 1: blowjob video that I have, which is very good. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: very good at it. Yeah, but I don't actually know
Speaker 1: where that that is anymore either.
Speaker 3: That's so funny. No, I think it was like a mixture.
Speaker 3: It had to do with like me looking at those pictures,
Speaker 3: because the first thing you see is your pretty girls, right,
Speaker 3: your pictures, and so me looking at how goofy I looked,
Speaker 3: and like I could tell I was talking in every
Speaker 3: single picture.
Speaker 2: I think that deterred me from what to see me.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh if I don't like did they
Speaker 1: publish all the photos and even edit them? Oh god,
Speaker 1: I hate it.
Speaker 3: When coming back then, back then, your entire photo set
Speaker 3: on the internet for everyone to see.
Speaker 1: And that photographer didn't have the decency to delete the
Speaker 1: bad ones or even just tell me to shut up.
Speaker 3: And yeah, yeah, I'm nervous, right, I'm taking in front
Speaker 3: of somebody. I'm nervous, so I'm talking like naturally, my
Speaker 3: personality is to make everybody else laugh. That's the virgo
Speaker 3: in us, right, Yeah, yeah, so I'm just talking and
Speaker 3: laughing and trying to make everybody comfortable so that I'm
Speaker 3: comfortable of course.
Speaker 2: And yeah it was bad, It was so bad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would go on the internet and see every
Speaker 3: single angle and I was like.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, So what made you decided to keep going?
Speaker 1: It was fun.
Speaker 3: I was making good money, and for me, everybody asked like,
Speaker 3: what's your favorite thing about it? Well, I love the acting,
Speaker 3: I love getting dressed up, I loving playing I love
Speaker 3: playing dress up. But it's also good money, and that
Speaker 3: good money equals freedom for me, and I didn't have
Speaker 3: freedom for.
Speaker 1: A really long time. Yeah, that's true. I didn't have freedom.
Speaker 3: And so for me, like the freedom of being able
Speaker 3: to make my own schedule, even though I want to
Speaker 3: work every day, just the freedom of being able to
Speaker 3: do that is amazing.
Speaker 1: When you got like your first chick keeps me going,
Speaker 1: When you got like your first big check or you know,
Speaker 1: had that steady income.
Speaker 2: Do you remember what your first splurge was.
Speaker 3: My first splurge was packing up my U haul, paying
Speaker 3: off the apartment in Miami and going straight to La
Speaker 3: almost a week about a week and a half later,
Speaker 3: I moved away.
Speaker 1: Oh wow.
Speaker 2: I shot maybe four or five movies and then I
Speaker 2: was out.
Speaker 1: And then you were like, goa, that was my slurge.
Speaker 2: This is my thing.
Speaker 1: I'm going to La.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make this work.
Speaker 1: Yep. Wow, Yeah, that's amazing. Did you tell your family
Speaker 1: and friends back in he like what you were doing.
Speaker 3: I didn't tell anybody, no, okay, I didn't tell family. Okay,
Speaker 3: but my friends all knew and.
Speaker 1: Then I'm assuming family found out eventually they did, Yes,
Speaker 1: And was that positive?
Speaker 3: I didn't have a lot of the family members of
Speaker 3: my life. But my mom she wasn't cool with it.
Speaker 3: She hasn't been cool with it the first twelve years.
Speaker 3: Now she's okay, it took twelve years. It took twelve years. Yeah,
Speaker 3: Now she's finally like.
Speaker 2: You know, Kelly, I don't judge you.
Speaker 3: You know, she says, my real She's like, Kelly Kay,
Speaker 3: she's real from Houston where Kelly Kay. I'm just not
Speaker 3: going to judge you anymore. And I'm like, okay, all right, Mom, good,
Speaker 3: that's good.
Speaker 2: I'm glad you came around. It took her a while.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So you've been in and out of the industry
Speaker 1: for over seventeen years. Yes, sometimes leaving for family. Sometimes
Speaker 1: when you fall in love, what pulls you back every time?
Speaker 3: I miss it. It's fun, It's really fun. I've even
Speaker 3: like taken acting classes. My favorite part of porn is
Speaker 3: the acting features. I want more features, but even the
Speaker 3: ones with the setups, you know, the acting. You know
Speaker 3: it's a top ad so it takes a couple hours
Speaker 3: just to shoot that part.
Speaker 1: Can you explain to those who don't know what an
Speaker 1: AD scene is?
Speaker 3: An AD scene automatically you look at it and the
Speaker 3: first thing you think is that's going to be a
Speaker 3: long day. So you clock that in your head that
Speaker 3: it's not going to be like sixty eight hours or
Speaker 3: it's going to be more like ten to twelve hours.
Speaker 3: That's because they want to get extra angles, extra shots
Speaker 3: they shoot.
Speaker 2: It's a longer storyline and.
Speaker 3: That's just so they can put you at the top
Speaker 3: of the page when you click on the website. But
Speaker 3: that's what you want. That's awesome. I don't dread it
Speaker 3: at all. I'm like, please give those all to me.
Speaker 3: I don't want to be an update.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah. So like ad scenes, generally, you'll see,
Speaker 1: like if you go on a tube site, you'll see
Speaker 1: like those little speeded up gifts and often there's these
Speaker 1: really outrageous moments that very specific with their direction about
Speaker 1: how you capture certain moments and from Mike Kwaser shoots
Speaker 1: a lot of them. He's so good at them.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 1: Towards the end of my directing career, when I was
Speaker 1: doing one of my last scenes for Twisty's, we did
Speaker 1: a Christmas scene and it was an ad scene and
Speaker 1: I took one look at the script and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: fuck this. And I called Mike and I was like,
Speaker 1: can you please shoot this ad scene for me? Like
Speaker 1: I will pay you out of my own income, Like
Speaker 1: I don't want to do it, Like it's just it is. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well he's so he makes it fun though, Yeah, and
Speaker 1: he's so experienced that he knows exactly how to get it.
Speaker 1: But like there's these just ridiculously goofy moments and they
Speaker 1: want these particular shots that are sometimes like really difficult
Speaker 1: to get like logistically, Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: They're like up and under your leg and they're like
Speaker 2: make your face.
Speaker 1: Really crazy, Yeah there are You're always like oh like
Speaker 1: this big, like ridiculous expression.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 3: The first one Mike ever shot with me, it was
Speaker 3: to catch a predator spoof.
Speaker 2: Oh, and it was hilarious.
Speaker 1: It was so funny. How do you make that funny?
Speaker 3: It was It's just because the way they were talking
Speaker 3: like the guy was acting just like Chris Hansen.
Speaker 2: It was really funny.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it is kind of like it was
Speaker 3: a little different the way they made it a storyline, but
Speaker 3: it was fun.
Speaker 1: What is one of your favorite scenes that you've done.
Speaker 1: One of my favorites is I just because it was different.
Speaker 2: It was with who was It?
Speaker 3: Rachelle Ryan and Lollie Dames and Damian Dayski and Diego
Speaker 3: Perez and we were on one of those We were
Speaker 3: in Miami, literally felt like we were in the jungle
Speaker 3: someone's crazy jungle backyard and we were on one of
Speaker 3: those tour buses, like the ones that are open on
Speaker 3: the top.
Speaker 1: Okay, so we rode that around.
Speaker 3: Everybody that was like working on the set were extras.
Speaker 3: We had more extras and it was like a whole
Speaker 3: tour bus scene. That was one of my favorites, just
Speaker 3: because it was so fun and different and it was
Speaker 3: really funny, like were slamming on the brakes and then
Speaker 3: I fallen, you know, my mouth falls on a dick.
Speaker 2: It's fun.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it does.
Speaker 2: It's it's a super cute scene.
Speaker 1: It was who was It for Brassers? Justs brosers, All right,
Speaker 1: go look it up, guys.
Speaker 2: It was really cute, all right.
Speaker 1: So you talk about reinventing yourself with each return, new look,
Speaker 1: new vibe, new niche, So walk me through how you
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 3: Well, For one thing, we're very close in age. As
Speaker 3: you get older, you start to pay more attention to
Speaker 3: what you eat, in your health, and like, you know,
Speaker 3: you just take better care of yourself once you get,
Speaker 3: especially into your forties. But every time I come back,
Speaker 3: I'm in better shape. I change my hair and it
Speaker 3: gets better. I learned how to do my makeup better,
Speaker 3: like everything is better. And just over the years, I've
Speaker 3: just been getting a lot healthier. My mom's a professional runner,
Speaker 3: so she's trained me to run marathons. So when I
Speaker 3: say reinvent, it's just reinvent my look and definitely reinvent
Speaker 3: my body type.
Speaker 2: And just i feel like I'm just.
Speaker 3: You know, I'm trying to be that fine wine thing,
Speaker 3: aging like fine wine.
Speaker 2: So I'm just trying.
Speaker 3: Each time I come back, I'm just better and I
Speaker 3: feel better and it's like cool and the breaks help.
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course you don't want to get burnt out.
Speaker 1: No, Well, and also like I mean, you know, the
Speaker 1: milf thing, wasn't always like a such a big niche
Speaker 1: as it is now. Now it's one of the most
Speaker 1: popular niches. It is, I mean back back in my day,
Speaker 1: but you know, I mean I've been in for twenty
Speaker 1: seven years, so wow, that's awesome. So early, like in
Speaker 1: my you know, shooting and directing career, you know, if
Speaker 1: you were like twenty eight, it was like, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: at the end career. And then and then honestly, I
Speaker 1: think the Internet really was responsible for helping to like
Speaker 1: fuel what people actually wanted to see and create.
Speaker 2: Work for that.
Speaker 1: Yes, and it feels like it happened with American Pie
Speaker 1: and like Stiffler's Mom, like the whole mill thing, that's
Speaker 1: where that came from. But I can't imagine that a
Speaker 1: movie had that much packed on society. I think it's
Speaker 1: maybe just that moment when we saw like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: like people are like older women and are attractive. And
Speaker 1: I think also too, like you know, like you said,
Speaker 1: you take better care of yourself with just how much
Speaker 1: we've learned about health and fitness and oh yeah, biohacking
Speaker 1: and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know for sure, Yeah, I entered right when
Speaker 3: it was just getting started, because that's, you know, right
Speaker 3: when I moved to La Lisa Ann was my agent
Speaker 3: for about a year, which is awesome, and that's right
Speaker 3: when she did the Sarah Palin was right around that time,
Speaker 3: and and so yeah, that's just right when it started
Speaker 3: getting popular. Yeah, and I just the only thing I
Speaker 3: hated about that was thanks to my mom, I have
Speaker 3: pretty good jeens. When I would get on set, they
Speaker 3: would do my makeup and the director would come in
Speaker 3: there and be like, put darker, lipstick, maker, look older,
Speaker 3: put change to close them off, lots of mave like that's.
Speaker 1: The only thing I didn't like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, it's definitely it was fun.
Speaker 1: It was fun.
Speaker 3: I'm super lucky at the time that they came in
Speaker 3: and the people that were around me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was great. Yeah, they really helped.
Speaker 1: Okay, so Melanie, tell me a little bit about marathon running.
Speaker 1: I well, I'm clearly no longer the shape that I
Speaker 1: was six months ago or whatever, but like I could,
Speaker 1: I remember, I was so proud of myself.
Speaker 2: I was in a oranginary.
Speaker 1: I got to three miles. Yeah, and that was like
Speaker 1: that felt like such an achievement. But I cannot imagine
Speaker 1: running twenty seven miles.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's twenty six point two miles, and it's crazy.
Speaker 3: It's a roller coaster of emotions. My mom, you know,
Speaker 3: she trained me. I've run three now and I'm working
Speaker 3: towards a fourth very soon. I can't always train for
Speaker 3: marathons because I get I get really skinny, and I
Speaker 3: just don't I don't like the way I look when
Speaker 3: I'm really skinny. I like, I want some meat on
Speaker 3: my bones.
Speaker 1: So what keeps you running the marathons? Then? So it's
Speaker 1: obviously not like just a fitness thing. It's like an
Speaker 1: achievement thing.
Speaker 3: It's yeah, it's a challenge, and the runners high is
Speaker 3: a real thing, and it's very addictive.
Speaker 2: I have addictive personality already. It just feels so good
Speaker 2: to run.
Speaker 1: I get.
Speaker 3: I work out so much, so many thoughts in my
Speaker 3: head when I'm training. The most that you'll train up
Speaker 3: to is I think maybe a sixteen or seventeen training session.
Speaker 3: You won't run over that for a marathon. That's about
Speaker 3: as far as you run and your training and it's like,
Speaker 3: you know, short runs, long runs. She makes it up
Speaker 3: for me. But when you actually get to the race,
Speaker 3: when you're on about mile twenty of twenty six. That's
Speaker 3: when it is more painful to slow down and walk
Speaker 3: than it is to run. And it's hard to describe
Speaker 3: to somebody, but it hurts. It's like you can't stop.
Speaker 3: You just have to keep pushing it and pushing it,
Speaker 3: and you laugh, you cry. You get this like runners high,
Speaker 3: Like it's insane.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: I laughed for like an hour. I cried for like
Speaker 3: an hour. Every race I do the same thing. Wow,
Speaker 3: But it feels so good after when you're done, Like
Speaker 3: it's just like, you know, I like to set goals
Speaker 3: and accomplish them.
Speaker 1: So yeah, my my brother was He doesn't do it anymore,
Speaker 1: but he was an ultra runner, which is one hundred miles. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm good on that's easy to be.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: He ran for like twenty seven twenty six hours straight.
Speaker 1: Like they don't even stop to pee. It was pee
Speaker 1: in their pants. They do.
Speaker 2: They do when my mom's trying to get a certain time,
Speaker 2: She's like.
Speaker 1: You know, that's just what happens. Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: guess like it's gonna the wind is gonna dry you off.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's probably like all water at that point.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. It is it's intense.
Speaker 3: It's like she's she's seventy two and she runs a
Speaker 3: four and a half hour marathon at Boston and I
Speaker 3: think my best time is five hours thirty minutes.
Speaker 2: So that just tells you, like wow.
Speaker 3: But once you, once you become a runner, like it's
Speaker 3: you can't ever stop. You always want to do it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but lately I've just been trying to do a lot
Speaker 3: more weights, you know, but I miss it.
Speaker 1: So that's why I'm I've heard that like weightlifting can
Speaker 1: actually be kind of better for you.
Speaker 3: It or like it is especially in your forties, like yeah,
Speaker 3: when the hormones start moving around and all that crazy stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's the it's the weight training that's that's more important.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So you're turning fifty in September. I am, And
Speaker 1: you say, like you feel like that you're just getting started.
Speaker 1: I do. Do you really feel that way or some
Speaker 1: of that just the old Like we got to pretend
Speaker 1: like we don't care about getting old.
Speaker 3: I used to be so worried about getting older, like
Speaker 3: late thirties, early forties, but now I'm like proud of
Speaker 3: my age and not tell everybody this is great. And
Speaker 3: it didn't tell anybody. But I got married this last break. Oh,
Speaker 3: I wasn't shooting mainstream. I was just doing just my
Speaker 3: of I got married for two years, and I say,
Speaker 3: I'm just getting started now because I know that I
Speaker 3: will never do that again.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to.
Speaker 2: Get married again.
Speaker 3: You want to kick it together forever, fine, but no paperwork.
Speaker 3: That was my first marriage, and I feel like I'm
Speaker 3: just getting started out because I have a whole new
Speaker 3: outlook after that. I've had relationships and I've stopped when
Speaker 3: I fall in love and like lived with somebody for
Speaker 3: a while. But you know, the marriage thing was intense.
Speaker 3: I didn't think I was ever going to do it.
Speaker 3: I don't know what I was thinking.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, yeah, I mean I had a
Speaker 1: starter marriage before I met my current hunt. But so
Speaker 1: you you're saying that you have a whole new outlook
Speaker 1: on life. Now, what does that mean?
Speaker 3: Because during that marriage, you know, that's that was my
Speaker 3: first time being a relationship where OnlyFans was around. And
Speaker 3: I made a lot of sacrifices. Some of them it
Speaker 3: was like a compromise who set down on how to
Speaker 3: talk right? But I made a lot of I stopped
Speaker 3: doing a lot of things that I really didn't want
Speaker 3: to do, but also like I was in love, and
Speaker 3: I just know now after going through that the past
Speaker 3: couple of years, I'm never going to do that again.
Speaker 3: I'm never gonna stop doing what I like to do
Speaker 3: and being myself.
Speaker 2: For a relationship. I finally learned my lesson.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it took three relationships and one marriage to do that,
Speaker 3: but I learned my lesson this time, and I feel
Speaker 3: really good about it. I have Brittany Andrews to look
Speaker 3: up to. She's still trucking and she just got married. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and she looks amazing and she's still going.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, I feel like.
Speaker 3: I'm good, Like, yeah, you know, older women are popular
Speaker 3: right now, so that's why I have that good outlook.
Speaker 2: It's like I'm excited.
Speaker 1: I mean, are you interested in like dating again? And
Speaker 1: how is dating for you? Are you even trying?
Speaker 3: My divorce isn't final until my birthday because it's six
Speaker 3: months in California.
Speaker 1: Have to wait.
Speaker 3: Okay, I've been thinking about that a lot, and I'm like,
Speaker 3: I always said I would never date an industry guy,
Speaker 3: but I'm I'm thinking, like, maybe, you know, I might
Speaker 3: consider that.
Speaker 1: I don't know, there's a lot of cute guys there are. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what about what about a fan? Do you think you'd
Speaker 1: ever date a fan?
Speaker 2: My last relationship was a fan, the one you married,
Speaker 2: or in being honest, he was a client.
Speaker 1: Ah, gotcha, gotcha client that never stopped calling and never
Speaker 1: went away, and then that did not work out. What
Speaker 1: do you so do you think you be open to
Speaker 1: dating a fan again or is there something about that
Speaker 1: dynamic that doesn't work?
Speaker 2: It wasn't really like part of it.
Speaker 3: I think that that's just kind of how we met,
Speaker 3: but after that it wasn't even like, you know, a
Speaker 3: thing for us.
Speaker 1: I would definitely date a fan again, for sure.
Speaker 3: Okay, but there's just so many cool things that industry
Speaker 3: couples are doing nowadays, Like there's a whole space for that,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, maybe there's a cutie for me.
Speaker 1: Out there, like when Pornhub's best Couple. Yeah, that's so cute.
Speaker 1: So what do you look for in me?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: What are the physical and like mental characteristics that like
Speaker 1: you would require to get you to settle down.
Speaker 3: I don't have physical okay, you know, just as long
Speaker 3: as I'm attracted to them. But I'm also very attracted
Speaker 3: to people from their inside. So and you have you
Speaker 3: have to be funny. You have to be a funny guy,
Speaker 3: and you have to laugh at my jokes too.
Speaker 2: You be funny, and you always have to think I'm funny.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I need you to want to have a
Speaker 3: good time, Like I want to go out and explore,
Speaker 3: like I'm halfway through my life now.
Speaker 2: I want to travel, I want to see the world.
Speaker 3: I want to work hard, which is why I think
Speaker 3: an industry guy would be perfect for me at this point.
Speaker 2: I always said for so.
Speaker 3: Long, I'm such a hypocrite. I could never date a
Speaker 3: porn guy. And like my whole outlook has changed now
Speaker 3: recently too. Okay, yeah, so if you're in the industry, holler.
Speaker 2: Hit me up.
Speaker 1: Do you think that the industry treats performers over forty
Speaker 1: over fifty differently than it used to? I mean, you've
Speaker 1: been in and out for a while, Like, how do
Speaker 1: you see that?
Speaker 3: Back then, there was always just like this thing like
Speaker 3: we weren't as good as.
Speaker 2: The younger girls.
Speaker 3: I kind of had that feeling, But nowadays I feel
Speaker 3: like as far as like the industry people, the directors
Speaker 3: and stuff, they appreciate us way more on set.
Speaker 2: Oh, I love shooting molves. Yeah, it was my favorite.
Speaker 1: When it got to do like milf movies, I'm like,
Speaker 1: they're going to be on time, they're going to bring
Speaker 1: their wardrobe. They would have read the script. Yeah, they're
Speaker 1: going to like the same music as me. I'll depeche
Speaker 1: Mode on and they'll know rocking out. It's true.
Speaker 3: I can tell that they're like, you know, they have
Speaker 3: better days when when there's older women on set.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was always like happier to shoot MILFs.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, we know what we're doing. Like that's
Speaker 3: that's the secret is like, yeah, the experience that that
Speaker 3: makes everything better.
Speaker 1: So you're manifesting your first feature film with a major
Speaker 1: company this year. If you could have like the dream Shoe,
Speaker 1: what would that be?
Speaker 3: Just like a cool location like I saw recently like
Speaker 3: redid one that was like a girl's like a camp.
Speaker 1: Oh, like a summer camp thing. Yes, uh, I can't.
Speaker 2: Remember the name, but it was so cool. I would
Speaker 2: have did the best camp conversion camp. Yeah, I think
Speaker 2: that's the name.
Speaker 1: It was like my I didn't see it.
Speaker 2: I don't ever watch born. I didn't watch it.
Speaker 1: I just saw like you know, yeah, but I think
Speaker 1: it was about like, you somewhere you're supposed to send
Speaker 1: like lesbians and they straighten them out or something that's awesome.
Speaker 2: That was the That was the sense that I got.
Speaker 2: Or maybe they flipped.
Speaker 1: They probably flipped that obviously everyone remains lesbians at the end.
Speaker 1: That that was the gist that I got.
Speaker 2: Nice.
Speaker 1: Nice.
Speaker 3: I even two summers ago when I because I wasn't
Speaker 3: shooting mainstream, I took some acting classes here in LA
Speaker 3: and I'm like, that's what I'm manifesting.
Speaker 1: I really want to do.
Speaker 2: I've always wanted to do one.
Speaker 3: So yeah, fully, somebody like finds a you know, a
Speaker 3: character for me, any particular role that you'd like to play.
Speaker 1: I'd love to be mean.
Speaker 2: Comedy would comedy would? It would be easy and fun.
Speaker 3: But again I like a auld challenge, so something scary
Speaker 3: or somebody is just be a mean person.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'd like to be the villain. Okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes there's are more dynamic roles speaking of
Speaker 1: like being mean. Do you do any like dommy mommy
Speaker 1: type content? I do?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: And do you do you enjoy that it's fun? Yeah?
Speaker 3: All my customs are like stepmommy stuff. Yeah, it's awesome.
Speaker 3: So they're fun. I play all the different characters.
Speaker 1: So how do you draw the line between because I
Speaker 1: find that I struggle with this sometimes. How do you
Speaker 1: draw the line between like giving the customer what they
Speaker 1: want in terms of, you know, level of meanness versus
Speaker 1: like just flat out insulting them. I can't use some
Speaker 1: of the words that they want me to use. I
Speaker 1: just can't do it. It's just not in me. It's
Speaker 1: not who I am. But I can I can make
Speaker 1: it cool.
Speaker 3: In other ways, so they're still going to get the
Speaker 3: whole vibe that they wanted. Yeah, I just I struggle
Speaker 3: with that a lot. I just can't be all the
Speaker 3: way mean to people. If you want me to tell
Speaker 3: you have you know, like do you have a tiny penis?
Speaker 3: I will, but I'm just not going to say it
Speaker 3: too crazy and too derogatory. But I'm just going to
Speaker 3: make up for it with hotness, hopefully.
Speaker 1: It's surprising how many guys are into small penis humiliation.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, it is. It is a thing.
Speaker 3: I mean, I try I try to imagine like what
Speaker 3: that feels like and how that's exciting, and the only
Speaker 3: thing I could come up with in my head was that,
Speaker 3: you know, I have an area of opportunity is my thighs.
Speaker 3: I can always tone up my thighs, right, But I
Speaker 3: do get a little turned on when the guy makes
Speaker 3: me feel comfortable and he's like, oh, I like all
Speaker 3: this jelly moving around, Like when a guy says that
Speaker 3: to me, Like, normally that would be kind of offensive,
Speaker 3: but I like that.
Speaker 2: So I guess that's how kind of maybe they feel.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I know what you're saying.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, They're like, oh, I like all those
Speaker 3: dimples in your butt, and I'm like, oh, okay, I like.
Speaker 2: That kind of.
Speaker 1: But that's like making you feel good about what you
Speaker 1: perceive to be a flaw, sure, whereas this is making
Speaker 1: you feel bad about what people perceive as a flaw
Speaker 1: that turns you on.
Speaker 2: I don't have the human to say that.
Speaker 3: I try so hard to understand it, and like, so
Speaker 3: I can only you can only pull from your personal
Speaker 3: We don't have penises, so we definitely know how important
Speaker 3: that is.
Speaker 1: It's hard.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean I'll get a little crazy and
Speaker 3: I'll just be like, yeah, like riding your dick.
Speaker 2: It feels like I'm just scissoring somebody.
Speaker 3: Like I'll come up with some creative ways to cut
Speaker 3: them down, but it's still not mean.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Well, how is penis size for you?
Speaker 1: Like, in terms of how important it is, penisize is
Speaker 1: not important to me. Some of the best sex I've
Speaker 1: had is just because the guy is really passionate and
Speaker 1: takes his time and sometimes like even with a very
Speaker 1: small penis, like I'm good, Yeah, I'm good. Like they
Speaker 1: know how to work it, they move their hips around.
Speaker 1: For me, it's just all about that, Like you know,
Speaker 1: sexy the beginning the fore play. What advice would you
Speaker 1: give to men who would like to be a better
Speaker 1: lover communicate?
Speaker 2: I say, make sure you ask the woman what she likes.
Speaker 3: Then you're gonna be confident because you know you're doing
Speaker 3: what she likes, you know what I mean. So that's
Speaker 3: my biggest thing is just like I like to talk
Speaker 3: and it's fun to talk about it, Like if you're
Speaker 3: at dinner, like talk about the sex, but you're actually
Speaker 3: getting the information that you need.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: But when you do get back after dinner, you know
Speaker 3: what you're doing it right?
Speaker 2: You know a little bit, what do you like what
Speaker 2: personally gets you going.
Speaker 3: I love kissing and I like what I used to
Speaker 3: call it back in the day, dry humping.
Speaker 2: I'm from Texas. I used to call it hunting.
Speaker 1: I've never heard that before.
Speaker 3: That's a Texas thing, the down South thing, I guess. Yeah,
Speaker 3: Like I like making out with clothes on first.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so like that anticipation, drawing it out, M yeah,
Speaker 1: I find it. You know, speaking to so many women
Speaker 1: about this topic, is that a lot of guys I
Speaker 1: think are rushed and they rush through the foreplay yep,
Speaker 1: and they don't realize that like women take a while
Speaker 1: to get there. And I feel like also unfortunately, a
Speaker 1: lot of men get their like sex education or their
Speaker 1: knowledge of women's pleasure from porn and the four place
Speaker 1: never that long. Yeah, you just don't have time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're also shooting it generally for the male gaze, and
Speaker 1: they're not interested in seeing a long yeah amount of
Speaker 1: four places.
Speaker 2: So for them, it's like the girl's.
Speaker 1: Like wet immediately.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but no, that's just because like when you were
Speaker 3: kissing me, I spit in my hand and I was
Speaker 3: putting some water on it, and you're like, oh, you're
Speaker 3: so wet, and I'm like, no, it's been thirty seconds.
Speaker 1: I'm not wait, I just tricked you.
Speaker 3: But yeah, and then I also if they're gonna like
Speaker 3: rush right into sex, then I just have to suck
Speaker 3: the dick because that actually turns me on because I'm
Speaker 3: like gazing into their eyes and it kind of I
Speaker 3: like to tease, so I get turned on from teasing.
Speaker 3: So if you let me suck your dick long enough beforehand,
Speaker 3: then I can get get where I need to be.
Speaker 1: If you're not going to do any work.
Speaker 2: Right, if you let me mm hmmm. I love how
Speaker 2: you say that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you, well, I guess some guys are probably
Speaker 1: they're like, no, get off, get off. Yeah, they're afraid
Speaker 1: they're gonna like come too early. Yeah, and that's what
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have this cool thing that I do, Like
Speaker 3: my mouth is on it, but my tongues would on
Speaker 3: around inside like.
Speaker 1: That's my jam on it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like to I like to work the head first, like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm pretty good at it. It may
Speaker 3: not translate that well on camera because you can't see
Speaker 3: what my tongue is doing, but trust me, like there's
Speaker 3: a lot going on.
Speaker 2: There's a party underneath there that you can't see it is.
Speaker 2: I've perfected that part at least.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, working in this industry, you get
Speaker 1: you get to have your practice. So that's good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I have another trick, like I'm revealing
Speaker 2: all my tricks. Lady, Yes, I want to hear it
Speaker 2: checks out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, check this out, ladies and gentlemen. So I chew
Speaker 3: the blue Orbit gum. Okay, the blue one, and for me,
Speaker 3: that's the best kissing gum. But right before, if I
Speaker 3: if I feel like he's going to go down on me,
Speaker 3: right before, I'll spit some of that you know, gum
Speaker 3: juice in my hand and rub it all my pussy.
Speaker 3: My pussy tastes good. It's like nice and all minthy.
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's my little trick.
Speaker 1: Oh wow.
Speaker 3: So I never worry if I'm a little sweaty, uncomfortable
Speaker 3: and no problem, just put some blue Orbit juice on there, okay,
Speaker 3: and it works.
Speaker 2: That's so specifically blue Orbit gum. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I feel like that's just the best one. Yeah me,
Speaker 3: that's just in my opinion, I don't know. And then
Speaker 3: I can keep it in my mouth the whole time,
Speaker 3: up in my jaw if I'm sucking a dick, and
Speaker 3: it makes it kind of menthoughy and the guy seem
Speaker 3: to like that, Oh my.
Speaker 1: God, Wow, we're making a whole like sensory experience. It's
Speaker 1: like a thing.
Speaker 3: And then I'm not uncomfortable because I know my pussy
Speaker 3: tastes like gum.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I love that, Tami maybe, but
Speaker 1: hey no, no, no, no, we're all about that here.
Speaker 1: So you love costumes, themes and like funny setups. Yes,
Speaker 1: what's the most fun or the most ridiculous.
Speaker 2: Concept you've ever shot? I think they're both.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say ridiculous, but I would say super cheesy.
Speaker 3: Like I ordered like the Little Aladdin lamp and it
Speaker 3: had the Genie costume, and like we did the is
Speaker 3: from my olafe and we did the cute little me
Speaker 3: and Finny Finny, he's so cute.
Speaker 2: I put the Genie costume on. We did like the
Speaker 2: purple magic bubble like every time.
Speaker 3: I even rubbed the thing here and he was in
Speaker 3: my backyard and he was like homeless dude.
Speaker 1: So he had holes in.
Speaker 3: The thing, and so he found the Genie thing and
Speaker 3: he rubbed it. I peered, I snapped my fingers. And
Speaker 3: he has a house and money, and then he wishes
Speaker 3: for something else, and then in the bedroom that he
Speaker 3: wishes to fuck the genie.
Speaker 2: So he fucks the genie.
Speaker 3: And then after I said, I'm gonna go take a shower,
Speaker 3: make sure you don't rub the lamp again. If you
Speaker 3: rub it the fourth time, you only get three, you
Speaker 3: lose everything. And so he rubs it again, and then
Speaker 3: he's back in my backyard homeless again, and we cut
Speaker 3: up his socks. And then listen, I love the but
Speaker 3: I like I love producing those little things, like all
Speaker 3: those little cosplays what you call it, right, Yeah, I
Speaker 3: love cosplay.
Speaker 2: It's fun.
Speaker 1: Do you have any favorite cosplay costumes? Specifically?
Speaker 3: They're all fun. The only thing I haven't done that
Speaker 3: I really want to do is Scooby Doo Like. I
Speaker 3: even know there's a van in San Diego. You can
Speaker 3: rent it and they'll drive it.
Speaker 1: Up the hole.
Speaker 2: Oh really, the actual van yet I haven't got.
Speaker 3: I know there's been plenty of Scooby Doos, but I
Speaker 3: haven't done one myself.
Speaker 1: Would you be, Daphne, probably yes, yeah, definitely. So speaking
Speaker 1: of producing, let's talk about the content events that you produce,
Speaker 1: create and direct. Yes, you recently did one with seventeen creators,
Speaker 1: just give us a little more intell on what that's
Speaker 1: all about.
Speaker 2: That was crazy.
Speaker 3: So I like to get together and do you know,
Speaker 3: the bigger the group, the better for collabing and exposure
Speaker 3: for everybody. And I've done several with like, you know,
Speaker 3: ten girls, which was a lot, planning the whole day
Speaker 3: from start to finish, the concepts, the costumes, all of that.
Speaker 3: But I took on a really really big one and
Speaker 3: I said, I'm gonna do We're gonna do Saint Patti's Day,
Speaker 3: We're gonna do Easter, and then we'll do a gym
Speaker 3: one because the house had a nice gym and you
Speaker 3: don't ever get to really fucking a gym.
Speaker 1: That's hard to do.
Speaker 3: So we invited seventeen people and only three guys. Three
Speaker 3: of them were the fellies. And it's a lot. It's
Speaker 3: a lot, you know, corraling all these girls and like
Speaker 3: having everybody put their phones down. But I had to
Speaker 3: plan out a schedule, we had to order costumes, we
Speaker 3: had to do plan the social media and everything. And
Speaker 3: it turned out perfect and everybody was like, I can't
Speaker 3: believe you're doing this, like and it was hard.
Speaker 2: It was very very hard, but I pulled it off.
Speaker 3: And so like, yeah, I'm going to help Kender Cox
Speaker 3: is going to do an event, you know in one
Speaker 3: of my friends and she's going to hire me to
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 2: So people are actually hiring me now to help them. Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the putting together the logistics for those
Speaker 1: things are crazy. I mean we did the strip chat
Speaker 1: House in February and that was twenty five girls. Wow,
Speaker 1: And that was a lot I didn't do like well,
Speaker 1: I mean it was my agency that put it together,
Speaker 1: Like you know, I have to credit like the team
Speaker 1: that I work with did an amazing job. Yeah. Like
Speaker 1: logistically even, and it comes down to like things that
Speaker 1: like a lot of people don't think about, like parking,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like that's a big part
Speaker 1: of it. And like how's everyone We're you going to
Speaker 1: put everybody in like all the ideas, he's in the
Speaker 1: paperwork and going to make sure everyone does it right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a lot. It was a full day. I
Speaker 3: think we got there at like nine o'clock. Everyone showed
Speaker 3: up around ten thirty and we didn't leave till seven thirty.
Speaker 3: It was a full day, but we got three really
Speaker 3: good scenes end up being super cute.
Speaker 2: And then I had everything planned out.
Speaker 3: I had every single TikTok we were going to do,
Speaker 3: every single ig we're going to do, Like everything was
Speaker 3: planned out.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I probably those two weeks before it happened, I probably
Speaker 3: worked like fifty hours.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah week.
Speaker 2: It's everything just putting it together beforehand.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but everybody was so gracious and thankful, and I'll
Speaker 3: do it again, but I'm not going to do it
Speaker 3: that me people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think Ted is going to be like my limit. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah. You've been in the industry for a while. Do
Speaker 1: you have any like long term friendships that have lasted
Speaker 1: across like your seventeen years in the industry?
Speaker 2: You know what I had.
Speaker 3: There's girls like that I that I met a long
Speaker 3: time ago that we may not even talk for two
Speaker 3: or three years, but then when we link up again,
Speaker 3: it's like we you know, it's like nothing.
Speaker 2: It was like we talked yesterday, which is kind of cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Do you find that the sex work community is like welcoming?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that it's like a big, big family,
Speaker 3: and then you know, we all we get into our
Speaker 3: arguments and every you know, women, we're gossipy, in general,
Speaker 3: and we have gossip with gosspel gossip, you know. But
Speaker 3: if somebody like, when it's time to come together, we
Speaker 3: always come together.
Speaker 1: What would you say to people who, you know, say
Speaker 1: that the porn industry is evil and degrading to women
Speaker 1: and like Ruin's relationships and the fabric of society overall.
Speaker 1: I just think that's crazy. It's not true at all.
Speaker 2: I'm yeah, I feel like it's just we're just all
Speaker 2: normal people. We just have really fun jobs like we do.
Speaker 3: And I think, you know, back then it was a
Speaker 3: little different, but now it's like we don't care what
Speaker 3: people think, and most people think it's cool. There's a
Speaker 3: lot of misconceptions that fans have, but yeah, it's like
Speaker 3: we're one big, happy family. We're responsible, we look out
Speaker 3: for each other, you know, we make really good decisions.
Speaker 2: The most common misconception that you come across.
Speaker 3: That were not clean, like yeah when and I just
Speaker 3: I know so many women who just have never been
Speaker 3: tested their entire lives, but they're out there, yeah wildin.
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's not it's not only just like you know, testing, right,
Speaker 1: because we have a pretty strict protocol for testing, but
Speaker 1: also like hygiene yeah, like porn stars are the most
Speaker 1: hygienic people. Oh yeah, Ever, I mean, look at your
Speaker 1: gum trick just that on itself, right doing that. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: we're so clean.
Speaker 3: And then I'm you know, I'm already like OCD about everything,
Speaker 3: so I'm like one of those German It's funny. I'm
Speaker 3: shoot porn and I get a lot of juices. But
Speaker 3: I'm also a germophobe. So oh yeah, we're clean. I
Speaker 3: got a spray when I get off set, I got
Speaker 3: this spreayet that spray, and when I get there, you know,
Speaker 3: spring water right up inside. Like ye, the water bottle
Speaker 3: doesn't have enough stream water stream for me. Really, I
Speaker 3: use the spring. I use the water bottle and it
Speaker 3: just gush it up.
Speaker 1: Oh, you don't even use it. You don't even use
Speaker 1: a because most people take the douche.
Speaker 2: So what it's common.
Speaker 1: For performers to douche before a scene, at least here
Speaker 1: in America. I have to say, I traveled to Europe
Speaker 1: and I shot in Europe, and they don't generally do
Speaker 1: that there. Doushes like don't exist in Europe. But what
Speaker 1: they do do is they usually take a shower right
Speaker 1: before the scene, right, So like God, for bitch, do
Speaker 1: you have a location without a shower?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Because I have been yelled at for that.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So anyways, they'll replace the like vinegar solution in
Speaker 1: the douche with water because you know, for people that
Speaker 1: are shooting that frequently, all that solution and your body
Speaker 1: can throw your pH off.
Speaker 2: So water is generally safer. But you don't even use that.
Speaker 1: I can't use applicatorn nice smooth applicator. You're just gonna take.
Speaker 2: One of those.
Speaker 1: Water bottles to show it up there.
Speaker 3: I get my spring water and I've been down and
Speaker 3: I just crushed crushed the water bottle. It goes up
Speaker 3: in there like it's clean one shot. I don't gotta
Speaker 3: worry about the little drip coming out of the top
Speaker 3: of the douche. That's not enough for me. That's not
Speaker 3: gonna do anything that little water sprinkle of water in there.
Speaker 3: But that's just my opinion.
Speaker 1: Hey, whatever works for you.
Speaker 3: Sometimes people look at me crazy when I tell them
Speaker 3: that I clean out with water, but with a water bottle,
Speaker 3: But then I think it's kind of normal. Now, yeah,
Speaker 3: a lot of I think a lot more people do
Speaker 3: it than I thought.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't been on set for a bit, so, but.
Speaker 3: Sometimes people are like looking at me, like does she
Speaker 3: just say give me a water bottle?
Speaker 1: Like do you need a douche?
Speaker 2: No, you gotta spring water. Let's go.
Speaker 1: So, after everything, the leaps, the breaks, the reinventions, what
Speaker 1: advice would you give the woman who's thirty two, miserable
Speaker 1: in her day job and wondering if it's too late
Speaker 1: to do something as bold as join the adult industry.
Speaker 1: It is never too late. It is never too late.
Speaker 3: If it's meant for you when you'd start doing it,
Speaker 3: it's just gonna it's gonna happen. Yeah, And it's a
Speaker 3: lot of fun, no matter at what level you're at.
Speaker 3: If you're just like beginning and you don't shoot a
Speaker 3: lot of scenes but you're just doing content and stuff like,
Speaker 3: it's as long as you're creative and you have a
Speaker 3: good personality.
Speaker 2: I think that goes a really long way nowadays.
Speaker 3: Because there's a lot of beautiful girls, there's a lot
Speaker 3: of beautiful people. But I feel like if you have
Speaker 3: good work ethic and you're positive, you can go far
Speaker 3: and it's easy.
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you know now that you wish
Speaker 1: you had known? When you first started, Like, would you
Speaker 1: have done anything differently?
Speaker 2: Goodness, I wouldn't have taken breaks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm kind of lucky with the of and stuff,
Speaker 3: just because I've been in for so long. You still
Speaker 3: have a fan base and they kind of never go away.
Speaker 1: They're like where did you go?
Speaker 3: But they always seem to come back, which is awesome.
Speaker 3: But if I would do anything differently, I would have
Speaker 3: never quit.
Speaker 2: Do you think that you'd be further along in your
Speaker 2: career if you hadn't? Probably? Yeah, okay, yeah for sure
Speaker 2: for sure.
Speaker 1: So I mean, but you did mention earlier that you
Speaker 1: know sometimes like the breaks were good for you mentally.
Speaker 1: So nowadays, assuming that you're no longer, you're not going
Speaker 1: to take a break anytime soon. No, Right, how do
Speaker 1: you unwind from work? And how do you like keep
Speaker 1: that work life balance going? I work a lot.
Speaker 3: The good thing about nowadays and what's popular is I
Speaker 3: love doing like THEFTV and stuff, So that is actually
Speaker 3: fun for me. And people would say, no, you're working,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, no, I'm unwinding, Like I have so
Speaker 3: much fun with my girls when we do these shoots,
Speaker 3: like we laugh all day long.
Speaker 2: Like work is fun for me.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I feel I can't sit at home and
Speaker 3: like sit in my bed or sit on my couch,
Speaker 3: like I just can't sit down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think good. Yeah, the virgo.
Speaker 1: It's the virgo.
Speaker 3: And it's also that mentality that never went out of
Speaker 3: my brain, like yeah, I missed, I missed those years
Speaker 3: and I'm like always trying to make up for that.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I know, I get that. It is
Speaker 2: so hard for me to relax. It's the virgo in you.
Speaker 1: We're both virgos. Yeah, it's bad. Like I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a bath and I'm gonna run a
Speaker 1: bubble bath. I'm gonna bring my book. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: work on my phone.
Speaker 2: Yeah, fucking forty minutes later, well my.
Speaker 1: Yeah, in the bathtub, like I haven't touched my book. Yep,
Speaker 1: I'm like just I just I was like, oh, I'll
Speaker 1: do this one thing, and then m forty minutes later,
Speaker 1: in the bass cold, I'm like sending an email.
Speaker 2: It's true.
Speaker 3: I think the only time when I just won't touch
Speaker 3: my phone, and I guess it's I love working out,
Speaker 3: I love exercise, I like being outdoors. So those are
Speaker 3: the times like when I go hiking by running canyon.
Speaker 2: I don't have cell service, so I have to be
Speaker 2: well with nature. Yeah that's helpful.
Speaker 3: So I think that's the most unwinding thing that I
Speaker 3: do is when I'm outside working out.
Speaker 1: No, I'm definitely I So I go like hiking around
Speaker 1: my house, especially now, like there's so much I can't
Speaker 1: do at the moment.
Speaker 2: So I go like hiking around my house and I am.
Speaker 1: One like, oh shit, because like things occur to me
Speaker 1: when I when it's kind of quiet, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I gotta do this. I gotta do this. And then
Speaker 1: I'll stop and I'll fire off an email and I'll
Speaker 1: get back and I'll be like, God, I didn't get
Speaker 1: that much exercise, but I got a lot of other
Speaker 1: shit done. Yeah God Yeah, Well, Melanie, thank you so
Speaker 1: much for coming on.
Speaker 2: Thank you for having me.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do a separate segment for my Patreon members
Speaker 1: because I know you guys send me some questions, but
Speaker 1: for now, where can people find you? And anything in
Speaker 1: particular to look forward to this year.
Speaker 3: Yes, I have a lot of really cool collabse like
Speaker 3: in fact, I finally got to shoot with Jason Love
Speaker 3: last week.
Speaker 1: I was so excited about this awesome. I guess put
Speaker 1: oil on his body once.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I shot it.
Speaker 1: I shot like a solo of him from many bits
Speaker 1: like forever ago. Yeah, and I remember like I had
Speaker 1: someone had to oil him up. I mean, there wasn't
Speaker 1: anyone else to do it. And it was outside and
Speaker 1: it was sunny by the pool, like you can't be dry. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it was so much fun.
Speaker 3: His assistant shot everything for us and planned everything out
Speaker 3: for us. So I just showed up at his house
Speaker 3: and it was great. It comes out July nineteenth, but
Speaker 3: you can find everything.
Speaker 2: It's just Melanieminoe dot com.
Speaker 1: Fantastic, so easy, and you guys can find me on
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