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Speaker 1: All right, you guys, are you ready for second date update?

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Maybe we can make a love connection.

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Speaker 2: Yes, let's do it. Absolutely. Second date update.

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Speaker 1: If you go on a first day but you get

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ghosted and you want to know why, call us. Dustin

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is on the line to tell us about a great

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first day.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Dustin, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 3: How was it going guys?

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's going well. So you're getting ghosted. Tell us

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about the first date you went on.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So I went on a date with Abby and

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I thought we had a really great time. I took

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her kayaking down the Farmington and it was a beautiful

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day and I thought we had a great time. I

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go kayaking all the time, and I just want to

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show her a great time.

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Speaker 1: I just went paddle boarding down the Farmington myself. It

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is like that would be the perfect date. Yeah, so

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you're out there, beautiful weather, Farmington water was great, You're

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doing your kayak thing. Okay, so you felt like she

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was having a good time and you guys were connecting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought it was great. I mean that was

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basically for the and then I texted her for a

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second date and I have been completely ghosted.

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Speaker 2: A Dusty, my buddy you weren't like splashing her with

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the water where you I know how women are when

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when women are around water, they're a different creature.

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Speaker 3: Some No, No, we just we just had a nice

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kayak all right.

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Speaker 2: Hmmm. I don't even know what it could be that. No,

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I mean it sounds it sounds like it was a

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great date. It sounds you know what it is.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I think it sounds like it's something different, out

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of the ordinary. Yeah, maybe she's not used today. Did

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she seem like an outdoorsy kind of girl.

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Speaker 3: I mean, she seemed down to go for go kayak

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thing and then I think she had a good time. Okay,

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but I know what's happening.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I do have a single girlfriend. I always

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ask her, do you want to go kayaking or paddle boarding?

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She's like, why would I do that? Yeah, but you

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know what I mean, she's the type is not outdoorsy.

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That's the only thing I can think of. This is

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what we're gonna.

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Speaker 2: Do, Dustin.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call up Abby and you're going to be

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listening in and we're just gonna ask her why she's

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ghosting you.

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Speaker 2: If you're ready to get the answers, We're ready to

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call Abby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm ready. I'd love to find out and see

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if there's a possibility for a second date.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hold on. That just sounds like such a unique

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first date. Like yeah, no, I like that because I

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feel like the worst dates are when it's white trash.

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I mean, that's what Courtney and her friends do. Yef,

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I am not white trash. Do not say that to me.

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Speaker 1: I am sorry, Abby, it is Courtney from Kiss in

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the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey it's Walmart chef who just got yelled at. And

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hey it's Savannah. No, Walmart called me white trash, So

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I'm not gonna have that apologize.

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Speaker 1: I will turn your mic off and kick you off

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all of this anyway, Abby, the reason we're calling, I

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know it's kind of shocking to answer the phone and

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we're fighting, but we have something that's called, hopefully you're

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familiar with it, second date Update. You go on a

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first date, you get ghosted, we get a phone call,

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and we try to get answers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you are.

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Speaker 1: On second date Update and I will just filll you obviously.

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You know, we just want you to be honest. Dustin

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called us. Dustin said he took you on a first

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date kayaking, and that it was a beautiful day and

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it was great weather, and he thought you had a

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great time, and he's reached out to you for a

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second day, but you are totally ghosting him.

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Speaker 4: That's true. No, I am ghosting him, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, that was honest.

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Speaker 1: Honest, I respect that right up front. Why are you

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ghosting him after this date?

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean it's kind of surprising to hear that

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he thought it was great and beautiful and everything, because

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I personally had the worst time, probably one of the

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worst things I'd ever been on, to be honest. Oh wow, yeah,

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we I mean he immediately wanted to go well, so

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the date we wanted to go, well, he wanted to

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go kayaking, okay, And I had told him I had

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never done that before, okay, but he just like completely

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disregarded that, like he just didn't hear it. And when

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we got onto the water, he just took off like

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he I don't I didn't know anybody could paddle that

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fast on a boat before. But I was like, whoa, yeah,

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he took off, and there I am like spinning in circles,

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not knowing how to handle these little tattle things or whatever. Okay,

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and I'm like fighting for my life out there and

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he's gone.

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Speaker 3: That is oh my.

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Speaker 1: God, all right, he's on the line, Dustin. That is frightening.

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She didn't even know how to kayak, and you just

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kind of put her in the kayak and sent her

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down the Farmington.

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Speaker 3: Dude, Abby, I'm so sorry. I did not realize that

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you were so afraid, and I totally would have stayed

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with you and tried to help you more. I didn't

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even realize.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he didn't like turn around and say like, hey,

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where is she?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just used to like going down with

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my buddies and we just kind of take off and

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go and then meet up at the end. So I

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guess that was my bad. I'm really sorry. I really

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didn't mean to leave you behind like that, did you really?

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Speaker 2: He really?

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Speaker 1: Did you really have no idea that Abby was struggling

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with her kayak and you had no idea?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you didn't look back at all, like, hey,

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I wonder where she's at.

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Speaker 3: I mean when I saw her, I thought she was okay.

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She seemed she sees she was a little farther behind,

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but I thought it was okay. So I guess I

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just didn't know.

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Speaker 4: I was literally making my own little teacup ride, just

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spinning in circles there panicking.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I can picture it though, because I mean,

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you know I can kayak now, but when you're first learning,

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you're like which way to the do I paddle? And

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how do I go straight? And I get it, it

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can be frightening.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. That was really not my intention. I really

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thought we were having a good time. I mean, could

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I maybe take you for a second date to make

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up for it?

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Speaker 4: I would do as a second on the land.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 4: I was just going to say, as long as it's

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on land, both see it on the ground. No like

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water or anything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no water, no boats. I mean that that would

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be great.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I like this.

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Speaker 1: You would have never known, you know what, you would

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have never known, Dustin if you hadn't called us.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you apologized.

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Speaker 1: I mean I do think that you just weren't aware

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because typically men were just kind of into themselves and

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getting the kayak and go.

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Speaker 2: I get it.

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Speaker 1: But now that you know that's what happened, I am

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so glad you apologized. And you know what, Abby, I'm

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so glad you accepted the apology.

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Speaker 4: I mean, this is a really cute way of doing it,

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and so how could I say no?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: And you know what, the second this is what we're

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gonna do. We're gonna pay for the date. You go

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do whatever you want, maybe go to a nice dinner.

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I don't know, and go mini golf. You can't lose

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each other on the mini golf course. You know, you

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could do something like that bowling That so fun. Yeah,

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all right, listen, we're going to pick up the tab

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as long as you keep us posted. One of you

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has to call us after the second date.

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Speaker 2: Okay, will do