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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I hope we can make a love connection you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>it is time for second date update. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>Torrington or Ricky's on the line getting ghosted after a

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<v Speaker 1>first date.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, Ricky, Hey, good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to the show. I hope we can get you

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<v Speaker 3>some answers.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that'd be awesome. Nice thanks for having me on.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys, listen anytime.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we're going to start with tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>this date. The producer says, the girl's name was Gina.

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<v Speaker 2>You went on a date with Yeah, Gina and I

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<v Speaker 2>met at a party. We've got a lot of mutuals

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<v Speaker 2>in common, okay, and I don't know, we just hit

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<v Speaker 2>it off, you know what I mean, Like that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of chemistry that's like immediate and I secured the digits.

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<v Speaker 2>At the end of the night. We lined up a dates.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah. The following weekend we went out for brunch,

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<v Speaker 2>local place, had a couple of mimosas. It was awesome,

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<v Speaker 2>the venue was incredible. The conversation was just she's a

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<v Speaker 2>really magnetic person.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't get enough and I thought it went really

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<v Speaker 2>really well.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you just say I couldn't get enough oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>That is Actually after we ate, like the weather was

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<v Speaker 2>really beautiful, I asked her if she'd be down for

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<v Speaker 2>a walk. So we went over to a park this's nearby,

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<v Speaker 2>and we walked around for a couple hours in the

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<v Speaker 2>weather and just talked.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Ricky, my man, you said you had a bunch

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<v Speaker 3>of mutual friends.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the word on the street with these mutual friends

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<v Speaker 1>or has it been radio silence from them?

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<v Speaker 3>Question?

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<v Speaker 2>I honestly haven't heard anything from anybody. Oh okay since

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<v Speaker 2>that date.

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<v Speaker 3>This sounds like an incredible date.

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<v Speaker 1>You go to brunch, a walk in the park, and

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<v Speaker 1>you've since reached out to her and she's not responded.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing, nothing. And I haven't been too crazy, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I sent a follow up text the next day, Hey

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<v Speaker 2>whinn you're free you next week? Nothing waited a few days,

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<v Speaker 2>like Tuesday, Wednesday. I reached out again. Seems like you're busy.

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<v Speaker 2>Hit me up when you've got more time. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't heard from her.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, this is what we're gonna do. We're gonna just

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<v Speaker 1>have you on hold. We're gonna call up Gina and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to ask her, just to be honest, tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about the date and we'll see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>get some answers as to why she's ghosting.

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<v Speaker 2>You'd great, We're gonna.

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<v Speaker 3>Call her up.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll be listening in. Feel free to jump in. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>give her a call. Like a bad kiss. Yeah, like

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<v Speaker 1>a real sloppy aggressive Yeah, that's gonna be a big pass.

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<v Speaker 3>Or like a lizard tongue, you know. Oh, Jeef making me.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, use Gina there?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Hey, Gina is Courtney Gina.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Walmart chef. Hey, Gina, it's Savannah. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the radio. You're on Kiss ninety five seven

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<v Speaker 1>this morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Gina.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh oh okay, all.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, well listen, I just I'll fill you in.

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<v Speaker 1>We're calling you because you're on something called second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Go on a first date, it's fabulous. You get ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>after that, and you want answers. That's where we come in.

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<v Speaker 1>We get you the answers.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, got it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's a little shocking. Take a deep breath, okay. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Ricky called us, told us about a great first date.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys met at a party. You have mutual friends.

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<v Speaker 1>You went out to brunch. He set a date for brunch.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, brunch was fabulous. At one point he said

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't get enough. Yeah, yes, oh my god, it

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<v Speaker 1>made my heart. Anyway, he couldn't get enough. Then you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went for a great walk in the park, ended

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<v Speaker 1>the day with a kiss. He's reached out to you

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<v Speaker 1>when you are ghosting him, so just out of curiosity,

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<v Speaker 1>we're wondering why you haven't like reached out to him,

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<v Speaker 1>why you're ghosting up.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, the date was good, all right, and he's kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like talking about stuff he liked and it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>He was talking about how you really like Nascar. I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, that's cool. Cars at school, okay. And then

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<v Speaker 4>he was like he told me that he had a

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<v Speaker 4>race car bed.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. And I was wait, like I was a kid,

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<v Speaker 3>yeah yeah, interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, yeah, I thought he was joking,

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<v Speaker 4>so I last and he was like, no, I'm not joking,

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<v Speaker 4>and he showed me a picture and he did actually

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<v Speaker 4>literally have a race carbet.

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<v Speaker 3>Now didn't have a side car for you. Oh I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have side cars.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you're telling me the date was great, but

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<v Speaker 1>when he told you he loves Nascar and he currently

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<v Speaker 1>sleeps in a race car bed, that's when you were like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're ghosting, We're donna can't do this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, like the race or the NASCAR thing

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<v Speaker 4>is fine, but like the race car beet, like for

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<v Speaker 4>a child.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I bring him in? Ricky?

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<v Speaker 2>Ricky, Hey enough, what's up? Sorry? I didn't realize that,

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<v Speaker 2>like having niche interests was such a big deal for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we just say I think that a deal for you? Bet?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there you go.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's not It's fine if you're into cars

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<v Speaker 4>or like NASCAR or whatever, that's fine. But like race

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<v Speaker 4>car beds are for children. That's like a thing for

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<v Speaker 4>like a little kid. It's really, really weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see a problem with the race car bed, Ricky.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on your sign because I guarantee you. I guarantee yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you hold on and let me finish my thought. I

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<v Speaker 1>guarantee you. He changes the sheets really quick. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna ask car joke.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you like really like you don't have they changed

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<v Speaker 3>the tires. I'm done. You're in a race car bed.

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<v Speaker 3>I guarantee he changes the sheet super quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I'm a little shocked that this is such a

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<v Speaker 2>big deal for you. Gena. Everybody's got interests, everybody's got

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<v Speaker 2>things that they like. You spent a long time telling

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<v Speaker 2>me about your crystal collection, which I don't think anything

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<v Speaker 2>close to real, by the way, but I hit you

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<v Speaker 2>back up, like, I think that's a little weird. But overall,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you were I thought you were a really

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<v Speaker 2>great person, and so I was willing to overlook some

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<v Speaker 2>of your interests that I thought were kind of weird. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but you don't do the same thing for other people, Ricky.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm currently holding really the.

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<v Speaker 2>Deal breaker for you with that, I guess, Ricky, where

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<v Speaker 2>do you want to go for.

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<v Speaker 1>I just stood up for you, Ricky, and I'm currently

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<v Speaker 1>holding a smoky forts in my hand.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't see a problem with the crystals. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't see a problem with his bed. Maybe it's an

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<v Speaker 1>adult version, doesn't have cup holders by any chance.

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<v Speaker 3>Or anything fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's got some sound effects. Okay, good luck.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you find somebody who sleeps in a bed

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<v Speaker 2>that you think is cool enough. Crystal bed, crystal bed, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>go go find a crystal bed, guy, Tina.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think you guys remember for each other

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<v Speaker 1>because you were kind of like going at her about

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<v Speaker 1>having a crystal collection and she's upset about the whole

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<v Speaker 1>NASCAR like race car bed.

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<v Speaker 3>So let's just say listen, you went on you went

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<v Speaker 3>on a date. There won't be another one. That's it.

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<v Speaker 2>There you go, learning experience and you got your answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, all right, guys, Well, thank you for being

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<v Speaker 1>so honest and open and being on second date and update.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure yeah, thanks guys,
