Speaker 1: Why do certain men never get friends owned they walk
Speaker 1: into any social situation, Women compete for their attention, other
Speaker 1: men respect them instantly. Meanwhile, most guys get labeled as
Speaker 1: nice and forgotten within minutes. But here's the twisted part.
Speaker 1: These men aren't better looking, richer, or more charming. They
Speaker 1: understand one dark psychological truth that ninety nine percent of
Speaker 1: men will never learn because it destroys everything you've been
Speaker 1: taught about attraction. Most men spend their entire lives confused,
Speaker 1: chasing love, validation, and happiness from women, only to end
Speaker 1: up heartbroken, used, or trapped in relationships that slowly drain
Speaker 1: their soul. But two hundred years ago, Schopenhauer exposed the
Speaker 1: raw truth about what you call love, and it's nothing
Speaker 1: like the fairy tale you've been sold. Carl Jung said,
Speaker 1: everything that irritates us about others can lead us to
Speaker 1: a better understanding of ourselves. But Schopenhauer went deeper. He
Speaker 1: didn't just observe human behavior. He dissected the biological machinery
Speaker 1: controlling it, revealing truth so uncomfortable that society still refuses
Speaker 1: to acknowledge them. Schopenhauer didn't believe in romantic fantasies. He
Speaker 1: saw love for what it really is. Not a spiritual bond,
Speaker 1: not destiny, not some mystical connection between souls, but a
Speaker 1: biological trick, a ruthless illusion designed by nature for one
Speaker 1: singular purpose, reproduction. Here's the uncomfortable truth that will shatter
Speaker 1: everything you thought you knew about relationships. When you feel
Speaker 1: that electric attraction, that obsessive desire, that absolute conviction that
Speaker 1: she's the one, your brain isn't connecting with her soul.
Speaker 1: It's calculating subconsciously, assessing fertility markers, genetic compatibility, survival advantages,
Speaker 1: and women their attraction operates the same way, just with
Speaker 1: different evolutionary priorities. Schopenhauer wrote love is the ultimate goal
Speaker 1: of almost all human effort. It is more important than
Speaker 1: anything else in life. But he didn't mean that romantically.
Speaker 1: He meant it as a warning, recognizing love as a trap,
Speaker 1: a fleeting chemical high that fades the moment it serves
Speaker 1: its biological purpose. Think about this, honestly. How many men
Speaker 1: have you watched completely destroy themselves for a woman who
Speaker 1: later walked away without a second thought. How many marriages
Speaker 1: have you witnessed crumble once the initial passion evaporated. That's
Speaker 1: not coincidence, that's not bad luck. That's nature's design working
Speaker 1: exactly as intended. Young understood that we project our unconscious
Speaker 1: desires onto others, creating elaborate fantasies about who they are.
Speaker 1: But Schopenhauer revealed something darker. These projections aren't random romantic delusions.
Speaker 1: Their strategic biological programs designed to make you serve genetic
Speaker 1: imperatives that have nothing to do with your individual happiness
Speaker 1: or fulfillment. Here's the brutal reality that most men refuse
Speaker 1: to accept. Women don't choose men based on fairness, loyalty, devotion,
Speaker 1: or even logic. They follow an ancient selection program, hardwired
Speaker 1: over millions of years to seek status, security, and genetic superiority.
Speaker 1: A man's devotion means absolutely nothing if he can't provide
Speaker 1: these evolutionary requirements. Schopenhauer saw this with devastating clarity. Women
Speaker 1: are rarely guided by reason, He observed, they are ruled
Speaker 1: by instinct and emotion. This isn't misogyny, its biological observation
Speaker 1: that modern science has repeatedly confirmed. Look at the evidence
Speaker 1: everywhere around you, dating apps, where eighty percent of women
Speaker 1: compete for the same top twenty per cent of men,
Speaker 1: completely ignoring decent, hard working, loyal men divorce courts where
Speaker 1: decades of commitment and sacrifice are awarded with financial ruin
Speaker 1: and separation from children. History filled with kings who literally
Speaker 1: died for mistresses who betrayed them the moment a better
Speaker 1: option appeared. The pattern never changes because the underlying biology
Speaker 1: never changes. Most men operate under a catastrophically false assumption.
Speaker 1: They believe love is mutual and reciprocal, that if they
Speaker 1: just sacrifice enough, care enough, prove they're worth enough, they'll
Speaker 1: eventually be rewarded with loyalty and genuine affection. They think
Speaker 1: relationships are based on fairness and moral reciprocity. But Schopenhauer warned,
Speaker 1: to be loved one must not be just but clever.
Speaker 1: Women don't fall for nice. They don't fall for fair,
Speaker 1: they don't fall for devoted. They fall for strength, not
Speaker 1: just physical, but social, financial, and psychological dominance. This is
Speaker 1: why the good guy finishes last. Isn't just a bitter saying.
Speaker 1: It's a biological law. The good guy doesn't finish last
Speaker 1: because he's unworthy or because women are evil. He finishes
Speaker 1: last because he fundamentally misunderstands the game being played. He
Speaker 1: thinks love is earned through service and sacrifice. Women's biology
Speaker 1: is programmed to be attracted to men who don't need
Speaker 1: to serve anyone men who are served. Have you ever
Speaker 1: noticed how women lose interest once they've seen cured a man.
Speaker 1: How the dynamic suddenly reverses and the chase begins going
Speaker 1: the other way. Schopenhauer called this the tragedy of possession.
Speaker 1: The thrill isn't in having, it's in conquering. Once the
Speaker 1: conquest is complete, Biology moves on to the next target.
Speaker 1: That's why men who cling too hard, who make her
Speaker 1: the center of their universe, inevitably watch her walk away.
Speaker 1: But here's the twist that changes everything. This isn't women's fault.
Speaker 1: It's nature's programming. And the man who understands this stops
Speaker 1: wasting energy on blame and starts developing strategy. Schopenhower saw
Speaker 1: what most men today still refuse to admit. The rules
Speaker 1: of attraction aren't fair, they aren't logical, and they certainly
Speaker 1: aren't designed in your favor. While modern society preaches equality
Speaker 1: and fairness, biology operates on completely different laws. And the
Speaker 1: man who ignores this biological reality has already lost before
Speaker 1: the game begins. Here's the brutal truth that will disturb
Speaker 1: everything you bear leave about modern relationships. Women hold the
Speaker 1: ultimate leverage, not because they're cruel or manipulative by choice,
Speaker 1: but because nature designed them to be the selectors in
Speaker 1: the reproductive process. From the moment puberty hits, a woman's
Speaker 1: sexual market value piques, while a man's must be painstakingly
Speaker 1: built through struggle, achievement, status, and survival. Schopenhauer put it bluntly.
Speaker 1: Women are suited to being the nurses and teachers of
Speaker 1: our childhood by the very fact that they themselves are childish, frivolous,
Speaker 1: and short sighted. He wasn't insulting them, he was highlighting
Speaker 1: an evolutionary truth. A woman's youth and beauty are her
Speaker 1: primary currency, and she instinctively knows how to spend this
Speaker 1: currency for maximum return. Look around at the modern landscape.
Speaker 1: The average man today is drowning in a psychological paradox
Speaker 1: that's destroying his sanity. He's told to be emotionally vulnerable
Speaker 1: and sensitive while women still gravitate toward dominance and strength.
Speaker 1: He's shamed for wanting traditional masculinity, while alpha males dominate
Speaker 1: dating apps and social hierarchies. He's work to exhaustion, providing
Speaker 1: resources in a system that rewards his sacrifice with divorce
Speaker 1: courts and paternity uncertainty. Schopenhauer warned of this centuries ago
Speaker 1: when he wrote, women are directly fitted for acting as
Speaker 1: the nurses and teachers of childhood by the fact that
Speaker 1: they are themselves childish, frivolous, and short sighted. In a word,
Speaker 1: they are big children all their lives. But here's where
Speaker 1: the situation becomes truly dangerous for modern men. Contemporary women
Speaker 1: haven't just embraced their biological power, they've weaponized it through
Speaker 1: technology and social structures. Social media has transformed attention into
Speaker 1: an economy, and the average man has become an unpaid labourer.
Speaker 1: In this system. He's simps, he orbits. He competes desperately
Speaker 1: for scraps of validation from women who will never commit
Speaker 1: to him. Why does this happen Because he's been sold
Speaker 1: a fundamental lie that devotion and niceness alone are enough
Speaker 1: to earn love and loyalty. Here's where Schopenhauer's inside become
Speaker 1: truly disturbing. He made an observation that modern psychology confirms,
Speaker 1: but mainstream culture refuses to discuss. Women are systematically trained
Speaker 1: to be incapable of genuine love. This sounds harsh until
Speaker 1: you understand what he actually meant. Female love is fundamentally conditional.
Speaker 1: It's tied to utility, not to the person himself. A
Speaker 1: man isn't cherished for his essential being, his character, or
Speaker 1: his soul. He's valued for what he provides status, security,
Speaker 1: genetic material, emotional validation, resources protection. The moment he stops
Speaker 1: providing these things, or fails to maintain his value relative
Speaker 1: to other available options, the love evaporates as if it
Speaker 1: never existed. This isn't cynicism, it's survival programming that's been
Speaker 1: refined over millions of years. Women are biologically hardwired to
Speaker 1: continuously seek the best possible mate for their offspring. If
Speaker 1: a man stagnates in his development, she will resent him.
Speaker 1: If he falls behind other men in status or capability,
Speaker 1: she will replace him. And modern society doesn't just accept this,
Speaker 1: it celebrates it as female empowerment and knowing your worth.
Speaker 1: Schopenhauer divided men into two fundamental categories that explain everything
Speaker 1: you see in modern dating. Those who serve and those
Speaker 1: who are served. The beta male exhausts himself trying to
Speaker 1: prove his worth through sacrifice, devotion, and service. The alpha
Speaker 1: commands worth effortlessly through presence, confidence, and power. One begs
Speaker 1: for loyalty and receives contempt. The other inspires obsession without trying.
Speaker 1: You can see this pattern destroying men everywhere. The office
Speaker 1: worker who sacrifices his health working overtime for promotions, hoping
Speaker 1: it will make his wife respect him again, only to
Speaker 1: watch her grow more contemptuous of his desperation. The jim
Speaker 1: rat who transforms his physique thinking it will win back
Speaker 1: her affection, only to discover that women now want him
Speaker 1: for physical pleasure but still won't commit emotionally. Simp who
Speaker 1: spends his paycheck on a woman who ghosts him the
Speaker 1: second a higher status man shows interest. These men aren't
Speaker 1: victims of circumstance, their volunteers in their own psychological destruction
Speaker 1: because they refuse to see what Schopenhauer exposed centuries ago.
Speaker 1: Schopenhauer uncovered a disturbing truth that modern psychology now confirms,
Speaker 1: but mainstream culture desperately hides. Women don't compete like men.
Speaker 1: They don't challenge you directly. They don't flex their power
Speaker 1: where you can see it. Their greatest weapon is invisible, instinctive,
Speaker 1: and devastatingly effective emotional manipulation and reality distortion. While men
Speaker 1: fight with their fists or their logic, women wage psychological
Speaker 1: warfare through perception itself. They don't need to conquer territories.
Speaker 1: They manipulate reality until you believe their victory was your
Speaker 1: idea all along. Consider this dynamic that's probably playing out
Speaker 1: in your relationships right now. When a man wants something,
Speaker 1: he asks for it directly or demands it open. When
Speaker 1: a woman wants something, she creates elaborate psychological scenarios where
Speaker 1: you end up giving it to her voluntarily, often while
Speaker 1: believing you initiated the idea yourself. Schopenhauer saw this clearly.
Speaker 1: Women are adapted to a sedentary life by their lack
Speaker 1: of physical strength, and to the care of children by
Speaker 1: their natural inclination. Hence, they live more in the present
Speaker 1: than men. But this present moment focus gives them a
Speaker 1: dangerous advantage in psychological combat. They read micro expressions, tone shifts,
Speaker 1: and social dynamics with supernatural accuracy. When you think you're
Speaker 1: having a casual conversation. She's conducting a psychological interrogation, gathering
Speaker 1: intelligence about your weaknesses, in securities, fears, and pressure points.
Speaker 1: Modern men believe they're in control of their relationships and interactions.
Speaker 1: They're catastrophically wrong. From the first date to the divorce papers,
Speaker 1: women guide every interaction through subtle tests that most men
Speaker 1: fail without even realizing they're being tested. The compliance test,
Speaker 1: how quickly you rearrange your entire schedule and priorities to
Speaker 1: accommodate her whims. The frame test, whether you maintain your
Speaker 1: position and values when she becomes emotional, or if you
Speaker 1: cave to avoid conflict. The investment test, whether you end
Speaker 1: up chasing her harder than she chases you, revealing your
Speaker 1: higher level of need and investment. Schopenhauer warned women are
Speaker 1: instinctively crafty and have an innate talent for deception. This
Speaker 1: isn't moral evil, it's evolutionary programming, refined over millions of years.
Speaker 1: In a world where physical strength alone didn't guarantee survival
Speaker 1: or reproductive success, emotional intelligence and psychological manipulation became the
Speaker 1: ultimate survival tools. The women who couldn't navigate and control
Speaker 1: male psychology didn't reproduce successfully. The genes of emotionally manipulative
Speaker 1: women dominated the gene pool because these tactics worked reliably
Speaker 1: across cultures and centuries. Here's where modern men walk blindly
Speaker 1: into psychological traps that destroy their lives. They consistently confuse
Speaker 1: a woman's attention an affection for genuine interest and love.
Speaker 1: But Schopenhauer revealed the dark reality behind this confusion. Women
Speaker 1: are most drawn to men who don't need them. He observed,
Speaker 1: the moment you make a woman your primary purpose, your
Speaker 1: main source of validation, or your reason for living is
Speaker 1: the exact moment she loses respect for you and begins
Speaker 1: looking for your replacement. This explains every pattern that confuses
Speaker 1: and destroys modern men. Why nice guys finish last, Why
Speaker 1: marriages crumble after men sacrifice their individual ambitions for the relationship.
Speaker 1: Why women pursue emotionally unavailable men while rejecting devoted ones.
Speaker 1: Why she loses interest the moment you become too available
Speaker 1: or invested. It's not that women consciously want to be
Speaker 1: treated poorly or desire unhealthy relationships. They're biologically programmed to
Speaker 1: seek men of higher value than themselves, and nothing destroys
Speaker 1: perceived value faster than desperate neediness, constant availability, or making
Speaker 1: her the center of your universe. Every single interaction you
Speaker 1: have with a woman contains an unspoken power struggle. Most
Speaker 1: men lose this battle before they even realize it's begun,
Speaker 1: because they're operating from completely false assumptions about female psychology.
Speaker 1: She cries during arguments to avoid taking responsibility for her actions,
Speaker 1: and you comfort her instead of holding her accountable. She
Speaker 1: withholds physical and emotional affection to train you into compliance
Speaker 1: with her wishes, and you try harder to please her
Speaker 1: instead of recognizing the manipulation. She flirts with other men
Speaker 1: to test your confidence and measure your reaction, and you
Speaker 1: either become jealous, proving insecurity, or try to compete, proving
Speaker 1: you can be controlled. Schopenhauer called this the tyranny of
Speaker 1: the week. Using perceived vulnerability as a weapon to control
Speaker 1: stronger adversaries, women leverage their emotional states, their tears, their
Speaker 1: apparent fragility to manipulate men who could physically dominate them
Speaker 1: but are psychologically enslaved by protective instincts and romantic idealism.
Speaker 1: Man who falls for these tactics becomes a psychological slave.
Speaker 1: The man who recognizes them and remains unmoved becomes psychologically untouchable.
Speaker 1: But here's where Schopenhauer's philosophy transforms from depressing observation to
Speaker 1: revolutionary liberation. His most powerful insight wasn't about female nature,
Speaker 1: It was about male potential for transcendence. The first step
Speaker 1: to freedom is seeing the chains, he wrote. Once you
Speaker 1: understand that female behavior isn't personal is biological programming, you
Speaker 1: stop taking it personally. You stop wasting emotional energy on resentment, blame,
Speaker 1: or trying to change what can't be changed. You stop
Speaker 1: begging for loyalty and start inspiring it through your own
Speaker 1: value and strength. The most dangerous lies, Schopenhauer realized, aren't
Speaker 1: the ones women tell men. They're the lies men tell
Speaker 1: themselves about the nature of love, relationships, and female psychology.
Speaker 1: After exposing these brutal truths about attraction and power dynamics,
Speaker 1: Schopenhouer offered something far more valuable than mere understanding, a
Speaker 1: practical path to psychological liberation. This isn't about defeating women
Speaker 1: or winning some battle between the sexes. It's about transcending
Speaker 1: the entire game by becoming so internally complete that external
Speaker 1: validation becomes optional rather than essential. Modern men make one
Speaker 1: fatal error that destroys their lives. They believe happiness, fulfillment,
Speaker 1: and self worth come from female validation and approval. Schopenhauer
Speaker 1: saw through this illusion with devastating clarity. The happiness which
Speaker 1: we receive from ourselves is greater than that which we
Speaker 1: obtain from our surroundings. He wrote, The men who truly
Speaker 1: thrive in life aren't those who successfully conquer women. They're
Speaker 1: those who have conquered themselves first. They develop purposes so consuming,
Speaker 1: so intrinsically rewarding, that female attention becomes a pleasant bonus
Speaker 1: rather than a life or death necessity. History's most remarkable men,
Speaker 1: the artists, inventors, warriors, philosophers, empire bis builders, weren't distracted
Speaker 1: by the desperate chase for romantic validation. They were too
Speaker 1: busy creating legacies that outlasted their lifetimes. Schopenhauer identified three
Speaker 1: critical areas where men must achieve mastery to transcend the
Speaker 1: biological and social programming that enslaves most humans. Economic sovereignty.
Speaker 1: Schopenhower warned that money is human happiness in the abstract,
Speaker 1: not for the material possessions it can buy, but for
Speaker 1: the psychological freedom it provides. The man who controls his
Speaker 1: financial destiny cannot be controlled through economic manipulation or dependency.
Speaker 1: He's not forced to tolerate disrespect, accept bad treatment, or
Speaker 1: compromise his values because he needs someone else's resources for survival.
Speaker 1: Most men un knowingly surrender their power by becoming financially
Speaker 1: dependent on others or by living paycheck to paycheck. This
Speaker 1: economic vulnerability makes them susceptible to manipulation and forces them
Speaker 1: to accept situations that don't serve their highest good. Economic
Speaker 1: sovereignty gives you the power to walk away from any relationship, job,
Speaker 1: or situation that doesn't meet your standards. Philosophical depth, most
Speaker 1: men live on complete autopilot, accepting social conditioning and cultural
Speaker 1: programming without question. They believe what they're told to believe,
Speaker 1: want what they're told to want, and pursue goals that
Speaker 1: were installed by others rather than chosen consciously. The exceptional
Speaker 1: man cultivates intellectual independence. He reads philosophy, studies psychology, understands history,
Speaker 1: and develops critical thinking skills that allow him to see
Speaker 1: through propaganda and social manipulation. When you can think for yourself,
Speaker 1: you become immune to the psychological techniques that control most people.
Speaker 1: This intellectual development isn't about accumulating information. It's about developing
Speaker 1: the wisdom to distinguish between truth and comfortable lies, between
Speaker 1: authentic desires and programmed wants, between genuine relationships and transactional arrangements.
Speaker 1: Physical mastery the body isn't just a tool for attraction
Speaker 1: or health. It's the foundation of psychological strength and the
Speaker 1: vessel through which your will operates in the physical world.
Speaker 1: Physical weakness inevitably breeds mental weakness, emotional fragility, and spiritual confusion.
Speaker 1: This doesn't mean becoming a professional athlete or bodybuilder. It
Speaker 1: means developing the kind of physical competence and confidence that
Speaker 1: makes you unshakable in any situation. When you know you
Speaker 1: can handle yourself physically, you naturally become more psychologically resilient
Speaker 1: and emotionally stable. Physical training also develops discipline, delayed gratification,
Speaker 1: pain tolerance, and mental toughness that carry over into every
Speaker 1: area of life. The man who is pushed through physical
Speaker 1: barriers knows he can overcome any obstacle through persistence and will.
Speaker 1: Here's where Schopenhauer's wisdom becomes truly revolutionary. And life changing.
Speaker 1: The safest way of not being very miserable is not
Speaker 1: to expect to be very happy. This isn't pessimism. Its
Speaker 1: emotional armor that protects you from the devastating disappointments that
Speaker 1: destroy most men's psychological stability. When you stop expecting others
Speaker 1: to make you happy, you stop being crushed when they
Speaker 1: inevitably fail to do so. When you stop needing approval
Speaker 1: and validation from others, you stop being hurt by its absence.
Speaker 1: The modern man who stops begging for love, approval, and
Speaker 1: fairness suddenly finds these things flowing to him naturally. Why.
Speaker 1: Because he's removed himself from the desperate masses competing for
Speaker 1: scraps of attention and validation, He's become psychologically scarce, and
Speaker 1: scarcity creates attraction and respect. This is the paradox of
Speaker 1: attraction that most men never understand. The less you need something,
Speaker 1: the more likely you are to receive it. The less
Speaker 1: you chase, the more you're pursued, the less you invest emotionally,
Speaker 1: the more others become invested in you. The battle between
Speaker 1: men and women isn't personal, it's biological theater that's been
Speaker 1: playing out across millennia. The man who awakens to this
Speaker 1: reality stops taking female behavior personally, starts responding strategically rather
Speaker 1: than emotionally. He doesn't resent female nature because he understands
Speaker 1: it's not a conscious choice, its evolutionary programming operating below
Speaker 1: the level of awareness. Instead of fighting against this programming
Speaker 1: or trying to change it, he adapts to it by
Speaker 1: becoming immune to its effects on his psychological state. He
Speaker 1: builds a life so compelling, so internally rewarding, that female
Speaker 1: attention becomes optional rather than essential. He develops purposes so
Speaker 1: consuming that he's no longer distracted by the need to
Speaker 1: chase validation. He becomes so comfortable with solitude that companionship
Speaker 1: must genuinely add value to his life rather than fill
Speaker 1: an emotional void. Schopenhauer's ultimate lesson cuts to the core
Speaker 1: of human existence. We forfeit three fourths of ourselves in
Speaker 1: order to be like other people. The choice is yours.
Speaker 1: You can continue sacrificing your authentic self to fit others' expectations,
Speaker 1: chasing approval from people who don't understand or appreciate your
Speaker 1: true nature, or you can step into the psychological path
Speaker 1: that comes from complete self acceptance and inner sovereignty. This
Speaker 1: journey isn't about becoming cold, cruel, or indifferent to others
Speaker 1: well being. It's about developing the kind of inner strength
Speaker 1: that doesn't need external validation to prove itself. It's about
Speaker 1: becoming so psychologically complete that you can engage with others
Speaker 1: from a position of abundance rather than neediness. When you
Speaker 1: no longer need anyone else to complete you, validate you,
Speaker 1: or behave a certain way for you to maintain your peace,
Speaker 1: you achieve genuine freedom, and freedom not neediness, not desperation,
Speaker 1: not validation. Seeking is what attracts authentic connection and genuine respect.
Speaker 1: The path to this understanding is brutal and lonely. It
Speaker 1: requires you to face psychological shadows you've been avoiding your
Speaker 1: entire life. You must kill parts of yourself that still
Speaker 1: beg for approval, still seek external validation, still believe that
Speaker 1: someone else can provide what you must develop within yourself.
Speaker 1: But on the other side of this inner work lies
Speaker 1: something that most men never experience. The ability to love
Speaker 1: without attachment, to care without trying to control, to engage
Speaker 1: with others without losing yourself in the process. Schopenhauer spent
Speaker 1: his entire life studying the nature of human suffering, and
Speaker 1: his conclusion wasn't despair, it was liberation. When you understand
Speaker 1: the biological and psychological forces that control most humans, you
Speaker 1: can consciously choose to transcend them. The red pill isn't
Speaker 1: about hating women or becoming bitter about relationships. It's about
Speaker 1: loving truth enough to rebuild yourself according to reality rather
Speaker 1: than comfortable illusions. This is where your real life begins,
Speaker 1: not when you finally get what you think you want
Speaker 1: from others, but when you no longer need anything from
Speaker 1: anyone to be complete. The strong don't walk alone because
Speaker 1: they hate company. They walk alone because they refuse to
Speaker 1: compromise their inner tranquility for anyone who doesn't match their
Speaker 1: level of psychological development. And in that philosophical solitude, they
Speaker 1: discover a strength that makes them magnetic to the rare
Speaker 1: individuals who actually deserve their presence. M