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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Wine and Wine Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Kelsey and I'm Ellie. This is your dose of friendship,

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<v Speaker 2>fun and figuring life out together.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's be besties because life is messy, wine helps.

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<v Speaker 2>And whiny is optional. Hi. Hello, how's it going.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good about you?

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<v Speaker 2>So good? How's life? What's what's happening?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, same old just busy wish and we got

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<v Speaker 1>some snow.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I know what is winter without snow? Right,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't hurt my feelings because I found I won't

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<v Speaker 3>found out I won't be able to ski this.

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<v Speaker 1>Year though, So wait, why well, well we normally get

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<v Speaker 1>some free passes. Oh no, I'm not getting passes this year.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, it's not in the budget to pay

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<v Speaker 3>for those one and fifty dollars day passes, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, skiing is so expensive. Like I talked to my

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<v Speaker 2>friends about it all the time and they're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you should like start skiing, and I'm like, dude, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't even know how to ski and it's so expensive

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<v Speaker 2>to start. Like I'm just like it's a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>It just gets more and more expensive every Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like I'll just I'll just chill for bed. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But AnyWho, Okay, well, here we are. We got a wine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we do, yes, and you're gonna die at the

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<v Speaker 1>name of the wine.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's hear it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So the name of this episode is the wine

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<v Speaker 3>where Ellie does it for the plot.

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<v Speaker 2>I stay doing it for the plot. It's crazy, gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>It's amazing. But this wine is called trouble Maker.

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<v Speaker 2>I am a trouble maker, and I love that the

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<v Speaker 2>amount of eye rolls I get from my girlfriends. They're like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my fuck, Like we can't tell you to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's almost one of those things where it's like

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<v Speaker 2>they tell me one thing, yeah, and it solidifies the

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<v Speaker 2>fact that I need to do the complete opposite, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I will never listen to them, so they almost have

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<v Speaker 2>to use reverse psychology basically. Yeah. And I was talking

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<v Speaker 2>to my girlfriends the other day and they were like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let's try it now, and then we're doing it and

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<v Speaker 2>being super supportive, and then I'm like, wait, this sounds

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<v Speaker 2>really weird, Like stop doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, wait, don't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh goodness, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, anyway, Troublemaker, Troublemaker.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a red blend, and the description says it is

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<v Speaker 3>jammy boisonberry and BlackBerry with a fresh hint of raspberry.

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<v Speaker 1>The blend is an awful.

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<v Speaker 3>Lot, is a sirah petite serraw a French word I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know how to pronounce.

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<v Speaker 1>And a zinfidel.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my goodness.

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<v Speaker 1>Should we try this?

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<v Speaker 2>My goodness? Yes, let's clink to this clean clink.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, give it a good sniff, give it a.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we swirling first? I still don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know swirling.

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<v Speaker 1>Sirling the sniff. It does kind of smell jammy, but not.

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<v Speaker 2>Like in like I feel like I got a swirl again.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, let's see. Yeah, it smells a bit sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>It smell a bit sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this a blend? Did you say? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a blend?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? I do love me a good blend, though blend.

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<v Speaker 2>I love a good blend. Look at these legs, huh.

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<v Speaker 3>I know we still don't fully understand the legs, but

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<v Speaker 3>it does have some nice legs.

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<v Speaker 2>The way it's coming down, that is pretty. Listen the legs,

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<v Speaker 2>be Leagan, right now, leggs are legged.

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<v Speaker 1>She's got some nice legs.

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<v Speaker 2>She's got some nice legs. She is a troublemaker them

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<v Speaker 2>Damn troublemakers always have nice legs.

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<v Speaker 1>All the legs, legs for days.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm not mad at it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not either. That finished so smooth.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm. Yes, this is what a troublemaker would taste like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, this is so good.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, just going back for more, guys, that was good.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm here for it. This is probably, like so far,

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<v Speaker 2>one of my faves.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's my fave too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, all around, I give it a are we

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<v Speaker 2>we're raiding it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, out of five stars.

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<v Speaker 2>See, I'm not a big wino though, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to. I'm gonna do a four point five.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, i'd probably do the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>This is probably one of my favorite wines that almost

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<v Speaker 3>and each ever tried, you know a couple of really

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<v Speaker 3>really good ones in Italy.

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<v Speaker 2>The finish is so good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I I feel normidic, like, I don't feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm gonna get like heartburn.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel good about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, guys, we're giving it a four out of five,

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<v Speaker 3>our highest rating so far. And for those of you

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<v Speaker 3>wondering the price ranges, anywhere from sixteen ninety nine to

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<v Speaker 3>twenty dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it, except for I bought it on sale.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you know, it was on Sally twelve bucks.

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<v Speaker 2>Hell yeah, because I'm a budget We we love a

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<v Speaker 2>good budget.

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<v Speaker 1>But normal price range is about seventeen to twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>Hell yeah, that's perfect. That's a good like go to

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<v Speaker 2>wine for, like to bring to a party or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. Okay, well here we are here. We are

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<v Speaker 2>talking about doing it for the plot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so Ellie, tell me what have you been doing

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<v Speaker 1>for the plot?

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<v Speaker 2>So aggressive? Right? Okay, you guys, I need to start

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<v Speaker 2>off by saying that I sorry, the sun is in

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<v Speaker 2>your eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>The sun is in my eyes a little bit. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's cool. I'll just lean forward.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I feel bad. We can close the curtains here

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<v Speaker 2>in a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, We're good right now, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>We're like recording in the middle of the day, which

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<v Speaker 2>is a first for us. This is also a first

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<v Speaker 2>for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Normally record right after work in the evenings.

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<v Speaker 2>Mmm. So I mean, what's what's a little What's a

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<v Speaker 2>little wine at like three o'clock in.

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<v Speaker 1>The afternal, It's it's not morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're doing it. Here we are. But okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>going back to this story here, going back to when

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<v Speaker 2>Ellie does it for the plot, I was on Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>the other day and I was just scrolling through reels.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw this reel and I'm like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was this girl talking about how she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to start dating like a man, and she

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<v Speaker 2>was like swiping right on everything because yeah, well you know, like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys will just swipe, slip, slap, sipe, swipe until the

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<v Speaker 3>hope they get a match.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, and I've never I'm not one to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm I feel like I'm a normal person who has.

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<v Speaker 1>Like picky standards. Nothing wrong with that, Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Like there's a bio. I read the bio. I make

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<v Speaker 2>sure the.

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<v Speaker 1>Whole profile, makes sure the pictures look good, the whole

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<v Speaker 1>string them exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I make sure the horoscopes aligned with my horoscope. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>got to see the Yeah, all the things right. And

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<v Speaker 2>so anyways, I like, I spend my time looking at

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<v Speaker 2>him and then I go left for no, right for yes.

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<v Speaker 2>And this girl was like, okay, so I'm swiping right

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<v Speaker 2>on all of them. Yeah, and she's like, then once

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<v Speaker 2>I get my matches, then I'm sending out like very

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<v Speaker 2>generic like messages to them. And then she's like, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I can get more like just matches and

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<v Speaker 2>dates through that and all the things. She was just like,

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<v Speaker 2>so she was just swiping right and just giving them

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<v Speaker 2>like generic messages, you know, and so that way she

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<v Speaker 2>can just kind of just get more dates and kind

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<v Speaker 2>of go from there. So I'm like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to do that and I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to see how it works, see what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, because at this point I'm doing it

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<v Speaker 2>for the pot and so and I'm not gonna lie like, ugh,

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<v Speaker 2>I can go on a tangent about this, but I

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<v Speaker 2>am a little bit picky. Yes, as you should be,

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<v Speaker 2>as as I should. I deserve that, And I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like here's the thing, and I say this example scenario

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<v Speaker 2>all the time, but like when I'm dating online, like

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<v Speaker 2>on dating apps, I do get a little very specific

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<v Speaker 2>on like looks and like yes, bios and all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like there would be a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>guys on the dating apps that I would give a

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<v Speaker 2>chance to in real life because then I like actually

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<v Speaker 2>meet them, I see their personality and all the things,

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<v Speaker 2>and so it's kind of almost unfair, I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm that person. Like if I were to meet

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<v Speaker 2>a person in person, not on the dating app at all,

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<v Speaker 2>and they weren't like that cute, but their personality was

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<v Speaker 2>so cute, like it softens me to them, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, that's really endearing or they're super cute,

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<v Speaker 2>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I hate dating apps is because you

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<v Speaker 1>can't get that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because I'm very attracted to personality more than you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like looks help obviously, but you can't get that,

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<v Speaker 3>yeah they're dating apps unless.

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<v Speaker 1>You have been talking to them for a minute totally.

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like I feel like that's how us

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<v Speaker 2>girls are kind of wired, Like we're very much like

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the majority of us girlies place personality

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<v Speaker 2>above looks, yes, whereas guys, I think the place looks first,

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<v Speaker 2>and then it's personality, you know. So anyho, back to this,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Yeah, I'm just gonna fucking do it

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<v Speaker 2>and we'll just go from there, you know, because it's

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<v Speaker 2>not like I have a hard time matching with people.

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<v Speaker 2>My thing is is I never really say yes to

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<v Speaker 2>people yes, So out of like a hundred, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>crazy because it's kind of a validated this, but out

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<v Speaker 2>of one hundred, I would probably say I say yes

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<v Speaker 2>to maybe three to four people, right, And so it's

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<v Speaker 2>not like I really say yes a lot of the time.

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<v Speaker 2>But then when you think about it, if I say

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<v Speaker 2>yes to somebody, they also have to say yes to

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<v Speaker 2>me exactly, so like half the time they probably won't

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<v Speaker 2>say yes, So then the numbers dwindle even more so

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<v Speaker 2>like to two yeah, exactly. And so anyhow, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, I'm gonna do this and I'll see

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<v Speaker 2>how it goes. So I like hop onto my bumble

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<v Speaker 2>and I start swiping right just like I wasn't even

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<v Speaker 2>looking because I was like I don't want to look

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<v Speaker 2>and like get my brain into it and like second

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<v Speaker 2>guess something and like go left and stead or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>it for five minutes. Anyways, long story short, within like

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<v Speaker 2>a minute, I was out of likes and I was like, okay, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>well that's happening right now. But anyways, you have to

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<v Speaker 2>apparently pay for like unlimited likes or whatever. Really, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, why are you trying to make money for me?

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<v Speaker 2>But anyways, so dumb, so dumb. So I was like, screw,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna do it for a week. So I paid.

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<v Speaker 2>I paid like ten bucks for a week of unlimited

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<v Speaker 2>likes or whatever. And so I'm like, all right, So

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<v Speaker 2>I've been doing it for a couple days or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>and I tie myself for like five minutes. And five

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<v Speaker 2>minutes doesn't seem long. But if you're just swiping, like right.

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<v Speaker 1>Right river right, Yeah, how's your thumb feeling?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's it's rough. It's rough, like carpol tunnel up

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<v Speaker 2>in this bitch, you know what I mean. Yes, So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like just swiping, swipe, swiping, and then I leave

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<v Speaker 2>it alone. And then maybe like an hour or two later,

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<v Speaker 2>I look and see and for every five minutes of swiping,

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<v Speaker 2>I probably get thirty ish matches.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty decent.

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<v Speaker 2>And then from there what I do is I go

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<v Speaker 2>to the matches and then I start unmatching the people

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<v Speaker 2>I really don't want to talk to, just because like

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad. Some of my girlfriends were like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>why do you just why don't you just let them be,

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<v Speaker 2>like why are you unmatching them? And I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 2>kind of feel bad because, like so with Bumble, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure some of you guys know, some of you guys don't.

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<v Speaker 2>But with Bumble, the girl has to reach out first,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have to reach out within twenty four hours

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<v Speaker 2>of the match, and then after that, the guy reaches

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<v Speaker 2>back out and he has to do it within twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four hours, and if we both do it within twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four hours, then the match is actually okay set. But

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<v Speaker 2>if one of us doesn't do that, then they go away.

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<v Speaker 2>So if I like let them sit there for a day,

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<v Speaker 2>then they go away. Or if I send out a

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<v Speaker 2>then I go away for them. So anyways, all that

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<v Speaker 2>to say is like it's basically like this fucking timer

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<v Speaker 2>of like twenty four hours, and I just feel bad

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about like a guy out there like matching with

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<v Speaker 2>me and they're like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna like

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<v Speaker 2>talk to this girl, like let's see if she messages,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I never do, so I'd rather like pull

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<v Speaker 2>off the band aid, you know, and just like just

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<v Speaker 2>be like sorry that was a mistake or something like

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<v Speaker 2>I would just rather them just like not be waiting

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<v Speaker 2>for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, like from back when I was on dating apps,

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<v Speaker 3>like that is how a guy dates. So you're trying

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<v Speaker 3>to you're trying to currently use bumble like a guy

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<v Speaker 3>would use it.

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<v Speaker 1>They do that, they'll swipe, swipe, swapsitpe, swipe, and then

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<v Speaker 1>just unmatch. That's so crazy, is I remember I'd look

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<v Speaker 1>in there and I'm like.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, I matched with this person and then

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<v Speaker 3>all of a sudden they were just gone.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're still doing it, doing it exactly you were

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like God intended it too, Oh my gosh. And

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<v Speaker 2>so AnyWho, I like, so I'm doing that right. And

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<v Speaker 2>so then I go on later on that day and

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<v Speaker 2>I do the same thing. Five minutes of swiping. Then

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<v Speaker 2>in a couple hours I'll start unmatching. Anyways, I started

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<v Speaker 2>like doing the calculations in my head and I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>adding up all these people. When I tell you, Kelsey,

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<v Speaker 2>I was at like one hundred and thirty match at

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<v Speaker 2>one point, and it's.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot to handle.

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<v Speaker 2>That was a lot overwhelming, overwhelming as full guess how

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<v Speaker 2>many I like said yes too?

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<v Speaker 1>How many? Like maybe ten?

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's been super optimistic. Oh no, yeah, none at

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<v Speaker 2>that point. Oh shit, not at that point. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, holy shit, i think I'm the problem. I

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm the problem. And so AnyWho I like kept

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<v Speaker 2>doing it. So I've been doing it for a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of day and at this point, I'm at like over

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<v Speaker 2>three hundred matches, Like, ah, together, I think I'm closer

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<v Speaker 2>to like the four hundred range. I'm probably like three

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<v Speaker 2>sixty or something. Girl, But listen, I've literally only been

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<v Speaker 2>talking to like three to four new matches, so at

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<v Speaker 2>this point, crazy, I'm not the one percentile.

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<v Speaker 1>Like like how big is your dating pool? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>is your radius?

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<v Speaker 3>Like are you just doing where we live or are

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<v Speaker 3>you going Like no, I'm going to eighty miles out?

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<v Speaker 2>I not eighty, but I think I'm doing like sixty five,

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<v Speaker 2>which is kind of like an hour's drive away, would

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<v Speaker 2>you say?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it depends on which direction you're going, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>an hour hour and a half.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, Like I'm probably going like two hours drive

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<v Speaker 2>away ish, so like sixty seventy miles out And then

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<v Speaker 2>you don't even want to know way age range.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, you're going out to sixty five year olds

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<v Speaker 3>to get those sugar daddies, those sugarnanis just please tell

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<v Speaker 3>me you're just not doing eighteen year olds.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, no, no, not at all. Well

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing currently well. At one point it was like

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<v Speaker 2>twenty seven okay to like forty six. But then at

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<v Speaker 2>one point it was like, would you like to adjust

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<v Speaker 2>your filters because you've swiped on basically everybody. So I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you taw.

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<v Speaker 1>Dating pool guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Side note, it's so much not the greatest, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sorry for any Utah guys listening, but like we have

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<v Speaker 3>to already narrow down the fact that like seventy percent

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<v Speaker 3>of the people are LDS.

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<v Speaker 1>And we are not.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so that does narrow down our dating selection, yeah significantly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's right. I didn't even think about that, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so so I had to adjust my filters. So I

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<v Speaker 2>moved up the mileage, like the miles or whatever, up

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<v Speaker 2>like farther away ish, and then I brought down the

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<v Speaker 2>dating to like maybe twenty five year olds and then

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<v Speaker 2>up to like fifty you know what I mean. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, gosh. So anyways, I'm obviously still getting matches,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm still at the like one out of one hundred,

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<v Speaker 2>if that makes sense. Yeah, Like that is the ratio

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<v Speaker 2>that's happening right now. And I'm like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I was going to be more optimistic about this,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't think that's the case. And so I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I'm picky or if like the

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<v Speaker 2>algorithm is just giving me like shit like matches or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly think it's just our location.

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<v Speaker 3>Like if you were to probably do the same experiment

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<v Speaker 3>in like New York or California.

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<v Speaker 1>Hmm, I just I think it would be better.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like I was saying, like our dating pool,

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<v Speaker 3>we're we have a significantly smaller dating pool as non

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<v Speaker 3>LDS people. And I'm not saying that like we're not

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<v Speaker 3>we would never like not date an LDS person.

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<v Speaker 1>But our values just don't match.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 3>We drink swear, so yeah, so sorry, sorry, Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 3>that's totally true.

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<v Speaker 2>And like I do feel like it's getting a bit

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<v Speaker 2>more diverse here as the years go on, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>still not enough to like make it in the normal range.

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<v Speaker 2>In comparison to like the us of them makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>So that is the tricky part, but that is that's

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<v Speaker 2>currently what I'm doing for the plot right now. Is

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<v Speaker 2>it's just that experiment. So I'm like, I think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like four days in and I do have to cancel that.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I think it's like can find a connection?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, and anyways, So I don't know, it's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like, now that I'm reflecting back on it, I'm like, fuh,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if this is like I overthink about

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<v Speaker 2>their feelings if that makes sense. Yeah, And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>would it be so weird for like a guy to

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<v Speaker 2>match with some girl and then all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 2>she's gone. But then I'm like, fuck, that happens to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Too, happens you know all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the dating scene out there is just

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<v Speaker 2>fucking ruthless. It is like it's the wild World West.

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<v Speaker 3>No. I am so so glad I don't have to

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<v Speaker 3>deal with it anymore, you know, I hope.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh we're not.

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<v Speaker 1>Married yet, so no.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, well don't break up with me, please no

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<v Speaker 2>kelsey yah stop. But yeah no, it's I talk to

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<v Speaker 2>my girlfriends about this all the time, and I am

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<v Speaker 2>that single friend in the friend group and they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>I could not imagine, Like most of my girlfriends are

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<v Speaker 2>like married with two kids, you know, at this point,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like, I could not imagine getting back out there.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, guys, it's fucking ruthless. It is ruthless.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's exactly why we're having you do it for

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<v Speaker 1>the plot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, because I can't. It's so much. It's so much,

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<v Speaker 2>and like it's so crazy because like when I changed

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<v Speaker 2>it to like people that were like twenty five or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>there's even this option that was like can we like

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<v Speaker 2>go down a couple years or up a couple of years,

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<v Speaker 2>depending or whatever, and I think it's like switched on

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<v Speaker 2>to yes or whatever. So I'm like going through my

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<v Speaker 2>matches and there's like twenty three twenty four year olds

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<v Speaker 2>who are like matching with me, and I'm like, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>They want you to be a sugar mama. Bro, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like but wait, hold please, because I can't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, please get out of here. And there was

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<v Speaker 2>this one bio how old was this guy? I think

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<v Speaker 2>he was like twenty seven, which still isn't bad, but

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<v Speaker 2>he said something like I like older women. Oh, And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, wait, are also literally doing it for the plot?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like they are, but I'm not saying that.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, you know, you're obviously a dime piece, but

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<v Speaker 3>like for someone that young to be matching with someone

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<v Speaker 3>our age, it's like, yeah, not twenty seven, but i

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<v Speaker 3>mean like the twenty three twenty four year olds.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's ten years.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fucking crazy, right, I'm like, can are you? It

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<v Speaker 2>makes me wonder if they're not looking at the age,

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<v Speaker 2>like are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they do. It's a guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I honestly don't think they just looking at your stunning face.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's crazy because like I'm that person who like

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<v Speaker 2>my normal like swiping method, not this like doing it

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<v Speaker 2>for the plot one. But I look at the first

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<v Speaker 2>pro like picture, then I look at age, then I

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<v Speaker 2>look at height, then I look at bio, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I look at all the rest you know, yep, And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just like, they.

423
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<v Speaker 3>Literally just look at the picture and they're like yes,

424
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<v Speaker 3>And I honestly think that they just have it open

425
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<v Speaker 3>to anyone anywhere, any age.

426
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<v Speaker 1>Kind of a thing too.

427
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<v Speaker 2>That is so crazy to me. Yeah, yeah, so.

428
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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like, Will's younger than me, but not ten

429
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<v Speaker 3>years younger than Yeah, how much younger. It's like three

430
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<v Speaker 3>and a half years. We would have been four grades

431
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<v Speaker 3>apart in school.

432
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<v Speaker 1>No, it's weird.

433
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<v Speaker 2>It's like a senior dating like an eighth grade or something.

434
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's really creepy to think about that way, especially

435
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<v Speaker 3>because he's literally the exact same It just my sister,

436
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<v Speaker 3>No shut up.

437
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my younger sister, Courtney. They are six days apart.

438
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<v Speaker 2>No shut up.

439
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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's all so right now you don't think about it,

440
00:21:14.519 --> 00:21:15.079
<v Speaker 1>but like, yeah, I.

441
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<v Speaker 3>Don't think about it when you're younger. Yeah, a senior

442
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<v Speaker 3>dating in eighth grader.

443
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you know what's funny. I think about this,

444
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<v Speaker 2>like not all the time, but like randomly, I'll think

445
00:21:24.640 --> 00:21:27.599
<v Speaker 2>about it and I'm like, why this is true. I

446
00:21:27.640 --> 00:21:30.039
<v Speaker 2>am currently at that age where I can date the

447
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<v Speaker 2>sun or the dad, right, you know what I mean? Yeah,

448
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<v Speaker 2>Like it's so weird, it's weird. But also I'm here

449
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<v Speaker 2>for it. Yeah I am too, because once again, we're

450
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<v Speaker 2>doing it for the part, doing it for the plot,

451
00:21:46.240 --> 00:21:49.000
<v Speaker 2>and so yeah, that's kind of my dating. Doing it

452
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<v Speaker 2>for the plot. Story is this experiment and we'll kind

453
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<v Speaker 2>of just see how it goes. Like I'm just kind

454
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<v Speaker 2>of I'm open to anything right now. Like I'm just

455
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<v Speaker 2>very koombay all about it.

456
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<v Speaker 1>You know, see how your couple decent matches go.

457
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah there. I mean that's funny. There's this one,

458
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<v Speaker 2>this one he has a dog on his profile and.

459
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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, dog's always got me.

460
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm like, your dog's really cute. And he's like, yeah,

461
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<v Speaker 2>that's what I put him on there, and I'm like

462
00:22:16.839 --> 00:22:19.039
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, you know what's up, you know what's up.

463
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<v Speaker 2>And then there's this other one right now, but he's

464
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<v Speaker 2>kind of giving me the ick already, like once you

465
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<v Speaker 2>get the ick, you can't go back.

466
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<v Speaker 1>I go back, you cannot come back.

467
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<v Speaker 2>You cannot come back from the ick. And so he's

468
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<v Speaker 2>giving me the ick because he's like kind of a

469
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<v Speaker 2>little like too much oh and a little.

470
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<v Speaker 1>Like overbearing from like the get go.

471
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I'm like, bro, play cool or like.

472
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<v Speaker 3>When they start calling you babe and sweetheart or good

473
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<v Speaker 3>morning beautiful like every five seconds.

474
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<v Speaker 1>And it's like I haven't even met in person yet.

475
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I know this sounds so weird, but I

476
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<v Speaker 2>feel like I can fill his energy from here, if

477
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<v Speaker 2>that makes sense. And it's so much it's like it's

478
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<v Speaker 2>almost I know this, like I'm not trying to be

479
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<v Speaker 2>like this person who fucking tooots my own horn. But

480
00:23:04.200 --> 00:23:07.279
<v Speaker 2>it makes away girl too. No, it makes me feel

481
00:23:07.319 --> 00:23:09.640
<v Speaker 2>like he's thinking like, oh yeah, I'm watched with this

482
00:23:09.839 --> 00:23:14.559
<v Speaker 2>like hot babe, and like he's just so like just

483
00:23:15.000 --> 00:23:18.519
<v Speaker 2>I know it sounds like but like thirsty, like overly thirsty.

484
00:23:18.799 --> 00:23:22.000
<v Speaker 2>So he's like, he's like, what's up, what's what do

485
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<v Speaker 2>you do? Like like last night he was like, I

486
00:23:26.880 --> 00:23:28.359
<v Speaker 2>was like, yeah, I just got dining it out with

487
00:23:28.359 --> 00:23:31.359
<v Speaker 2>my girlfriends, blah blah blah. He's like, okay, yeah, cool,

488
00:23:31.400 --> 00:23:32.960
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm not doing anything. You want to come over?

489
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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, bro, I legit, yeah, I legit. Just

490
00:23:36.839 --> 00:23:38.720
<v Speaker 2>started talking to you like yesterday.

491
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's weird.

492
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<v Speaker 2>I said, I can't, like I can't, like what do

493
00:23:42.880 --> 00:23:46.400
<v Speaker 2>you mean? Yeah? And he's like oh, like he's like okay,

494
00:23:46.799 --> 00:23:49.759
<v Speaker 2>like nothing was gonna happen. I'm like, yeah, fucking whatever.

495
00:23:50.039 --> 00:23:52.440
<v Speaker 3>You're like, dude, it's asked me on a date in

496
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<v Speaker 3>a couple of days. I'm not coming over in twenty minutes.

497
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<v Speaker 2>That's also what's kind of so sussy is like, because

498
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<v Speaker 2>I also read like on bumble, you can see what

499
00:24:02.880 --> 00:24:05.200
<v Speaker 2>they're there for, So like, are they looking for a

500
00:24:05.240 --> 00:24:10.160
<v Speaker 2>long term? Short term intimacy without commitment is basically just

501
00:24:10.200 --> 00:24:15.000
<v Speaker 2>like DTF, you know, and like life partner, la la la.

502
00:24:15.240 --> 00:24:18.359
<v Speaker 2>So when guys come out with this energy and I

503
00:24:18.440 --> 00:24:21.039
<v Speaker 2>look at their profile and I'm like, you little fuck

504
00:24:21.119 --> 00:24:24.759
<v Speaker 2>you said you want a long term like relationship and

505
00:24:24.799 --> 00:24:26.400
<v Speaker 2>you're doing this like you're.

506
00:24:26.119 --> 00:24:27.920
<v Speaker 3>Literally doing it just because they know they'll get more

507
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<v Speaker 3>women that way, and then that's not what they're actually wanting.

508
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<v Speaker 2>It's so icky.

509
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<v Speaker 3>I can't Yeah, girl, I know we're doing it for

510
00:24:36.240 --> 00:24:38.559
<v Speaker 3>the plot. You might need to get off that damn dating. Oh,

511
00:24:38.839 --> 00:24:41.440
<v Speaker 3>I know, I know you're so iggy. Well you know

512
00:24:41.480 --> 00:24:43.240
<v Speaker 3>what's crazy is like and I can't say a lot.

513
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<v Speaker 3>I do know two people, two different couples that have

514
00:24:45.480 --> 00:24:48.240
<v Speaker 3>gotten married off a tender yes, so same. Does there

515
00:24:48.319 --> 00:24:51.000
<v Speaker 3>is success, yes for sure, but it gave me so

516
00:24:51.119 --> 00:24:55.759
<v Speaker 3>much egg yes, And like who I am as a

517
00:24:55.799 --> 00:24:59.519
<v Speaker 3>person is I go in waves so like I won't

518
00:24:59.559 --> 00:25:01.440
<v Speaker 3>date for like whole year and I don't even care,

519
00:25:01.559 --> 00:25:02.880
<v Speaker 3>like I'm just living life whatever.

520
00:25:03.519 --> 00:25:05.680
<v Speaker 2>And then one day, I'm like, I should get on

521
00:25:05.720 --> 00:25:07.559
<v Speaker 2>a dating app. And then I do it for like

522
00:25:07.599 --> 00:25:10.519
<v Speaker 2>a couple months, three months, whatever, and then I'm over

523
00:25:10.599 --> 00:25:15.640
<v Speaker 2>it and I'm like, oh, you know, like I'm just

524
00:25:15.759 --> 00:25:19.079
<v Speaker 2>so exhausted by it, and then I'm so then I

525
00:25:19.119 --> 00:25:21.559
<v Speaker 2>get off of it for like another year. Then I

526
00:25:21.599 --> 00:25:23.880
<v Speaker 2>get back on it for like a couple months, and

527
00:25:23.960 --> 00:25:26.880
<v Speaker 2>so anyways, right now is the couple month thing, and

528
00:25:27.279 --> 00:25:30.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm slowly on my like burnout train, Like I'm my

529
00:25:30.599 --> 00:25:32.960
<v Speaker 2>hop off here in like the next month or so

530
00:25:33.960 --> 00:25:36.759
<v Speaker 2>and then just like take a little breather, you know,

531
00:25:37.000 --> 00:25:40.400
<v Speaker 2>because it's too much. It's it's a lot of energy.

532
00:25:40.759 --> 00:25:44.079
<v Speaker 2>It is, you know, even it's even if you're trying

533
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<v Speaker 2>to keep it casual, which obviously I want to keep

534
00:25:46.480 --> 00:25:49.160
<v Speaker 2>all of them casual in the beginning, you know, because

535
00:25:49.160 --> 00:25:55.759
<v Speaker 2>you don't want to put all your eggs in one basket. No, no, totally,

536
00:25:55.839 --> 00:25:58.720
<v Speaker 2>you don't want to do that. And I used to

537
00:25:58.720 --> 00:26:01.720
<v Speaker 2>be that person who did that, and it just never worked.

538
00:26:01.720 --> 00:26:03.440
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, why am I putting all this energy

539
00:26:03.440 --> 00:26:07.279
<v Speaker 2>out there? So even by not doing that, though, it's

540
00:26:07.279 --> 00:26:10.759
<v Speaker 2>still you're still expending some energy that I'm like, I

541
00:26:10.839 --> 00:26:13.359
<v Speaker 2>just want to conserve my energy at this moment.

542
00:26:13.200 --> 00:26:14.359
<v Speaker 1>And I don't blame you one bit.

543
00:26:14.599 --> 00:26:17.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I'm kind of just like, well, but this

544
00:26:17.359 --> 00:26:21.599
<v Speaker 2>is a really good experiment, and I feel like this

545
00:26:21.759 --> 00:26:27.039
<v Speaker 2>is only reinforcing my idea that I had already that

546
00:26:27.519 --> 00:26:31.359
<v Speaker 2>I am more of a person that would have better

547
00:26:31.440 --> 00:26:36.240
<v Speaker 2>success meeting somebody in real life than on a dating app. Yeah,

548
00:26:36.279 --> 00:26:38.680
<v Speaker 2>because I feel like I would give a lot more

549
00:26:38.799 --> 00:26:42.279
<v Speaker 2>chances to guys if they were actually in real life.

550
00:26:42.599 --> 00:26:44.480
<v Speaker 3>Them and you talk to them, you know, they're actual

551
00:26:44.640 --> 00:26:47.240
<v Speaker 3>interest they're fake interests.

552
00:26:47.359 --> 00:26:50.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and like just who they are, like their personality,

553
00:26:50.920 --> 00:26:53.839
<v Speaker 2>And I feel like I'm really good at reading like energy,

554
00:26:53.920 --> 00:26:56.359
<v Speaker 2>Like I feel like if you feel genuine and nice,

555
00:26:56.519 --> 00:26:57.759
<v Speaker 2>like I'm here for it, you know.

556
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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So if any of our Bessie's out there have

557
00:27:01.519 --> 00:27:04.160
<v Speaker 3>a single brother or friend.

558
00:27:04.079 --> 00:27:08.319
<v Speaker 2>Uh, I'm looking for a man in finance trust fun

559
00:27:08.680 --> 00:27:16.799
<v Speaker 2>six to five the worst, but yes, totally, I will

560
00:27:16.799 --> 00:27:19.119
<v Speaker 2>say though, you guys, I am five eleven. I'm a

561
00:27:19.119 --> 00:27:21.079
<v Speaker 2>tall girly so shit.

562
00:27:20.960 --> 00:27:24.319
<v Speaker 1>Tall girly so keep got them legs just like our wine.

563
00:27:25.079 --> 00:27:27.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so just keep that in mind. Keep that in mind,

564
00:27:27.880 --> 00:27:30.680
<v Speaker 2>but I'm open to it slide into my DMS. Girlies,

565
00:27:31.039 --> 00:27:33.039
<v Speaker 2>give me your rex and we'll go from there.

566
00:27:33.279 --> 00:27:35.400
<v Speaker 1>Ellie is now taking applications.

567
00:27:35.799 --> 00:27:38.839
<v Speaker 2>I am, let's let's see it. Kelsey will leave you

568
00:27:39.039 --> 00:27:42.599
<v Speaker 2>and approve. Yes, but applications come through doing it for

569
00:27:42.640 --> 00:27:47.000
<v Speaker 2>the plot, yes exactly. Anyways, well, thanks for like hearing

570
00:27:47.079 --> 00:27:48.640
<v Speaker 2>all about my do it for the plat?

571
00:27:48.839 --> 00:27:50.160
<v Speaker 1>Yes, thanks for telling us.

572
00:27:50.279 --> 00:27:53.079
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we'll definitely have to like come back to this

573
00:27:53.160 --> 00:27:54.240
<v Speaker 2>and you talk about again and.

574
00:27:54.440 --> 00:27:55.559
<v Speaker 1>We'll give you guys some updates.

575
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we'll give you the tea, yes, the tea and

576
00:27:58.279 --> 00:28:02.519
<v Speaker 2>the wine. Yeah, yes, because we're drinking wine. Yes, but

577
00:28:02.680 --> 00:28:04.599
<v Speaker 2>this was like a tea wine thing.

578
00:28:04.759 --> 00:28:06.640
<v Speaker 1>Maybe one day we'll just do a spill the tea

579
00:28:06.640 --> 00:28:09.480
<v Speaker 1>and we'll have tea. You'll mix it up, you do that.

580
00:28:09.519 --> 00:28:10.839
<v Speaker 1>I have to be stuck on wine.

581
00:28:10.920 --> 00:28:14.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love it. Yeah, I love the wine. I

582
00:28:14.039 --> 00:28:17.200
<v Speaker 2>love it. Yeah, we're like wait, hold on wait wait

583
00:28:17.480 --> 00:28:21.319
<v Speaker 2>need wine too? Oh goodness, I love it. Anyway. All right,

584
00:28:21.359 --> 00:28:24.039
<v Speaker 2>well we'll catch you guys later, talk to you later. Bye.

585
00:28:26.799 --> 00:28:29.279
<v Speaker 2>All right e, besties, that's it for this episode of

586
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<v Speaker 2>the Wine and Wine Podcast.

587
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<v Speaker 1>Don't leave us.

588
00:28:31.680 --> 00:28:35.079
<v Speaker 3>Hang in, like subscribe and follow or else we'll drink

589
00:28:35.119 --> 00:28:37.519
<v Speaker 3>all the wine without you kidding.

590
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<v Speaker 2>Kind of, and hey, tell a friend they need be

591
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<v Speaker 2>besties too.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye.