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Speaker 1: I made a discusion.

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Speaker 2: Pay Sunny Sun on ahead a vision.

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Speaker 1: Why it's nice? What's up? Everybody? Welcome to pat No,

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welcome to for kind of loud. We just recorded a

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Patreon welcome to the regular show. Yes it was. It

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was a funny Patreon. You guys got to check it out. Yeah.

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I told a little story that here's a little story

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about uh, about somebody that you'll you'll totally understand why

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it's a patreon. Yeah, it's funny. Yeah, But I have

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another story that I feel like doesn't have to be

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a Patreon because like, fuck this bitch. But I can't wait.

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Classic Stephanie's stories. Here we come and nothing really happened,

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but it's just like you will totally understand. Okay. First

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of all, I though, I want to give an update.

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So last week, last Monday, I can't believe this was

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only a week ago. Yeah, I was deep in my

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GLP one journey, right right, Yeah, you're like five days

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in or something. Yeah, And I was complaining, right because

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I said I did. I felt kind of off and

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I couldn't eat at all.

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Speaker 2: But when I left you last week, we were walking

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out to the car and you were like, oh yeah,

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pizza does sound good, right, Okay, Then that didn't.

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Speaker 1: Last I was still it's still I would say, yes.

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That was Monday, probably at least until Wednesday, I was

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still like I really don't feel like I can eat wow.

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But by Thursday I was feeling better. So I had

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done the shot Thursday night. Okay. By Thursday, I was

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definitely feeling better, but I was also like, I don't

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know if I'm going to do it again, right. I

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have been getting DM after DM after DM of people

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that want this lady, right, Okay. So I should also say,

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in my own defense, this is always so meta because

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it's like I say something on the show, then there's

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feedback on Facebook group that makes me feel bad. You know.

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So the first time I talked about wanting to try

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a GLP one and said, listen, I know I'm not

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like heavy, right, and that's why I don't think a

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doctor would give it to me. I was very clear

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on that. I was clear on the fact that my

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brain had been messed with by seeing so many ads

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from people that are not overweight, but that are like

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I just had a few pounds to lose, but I

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couldn't do it because of menopause because my body's changed

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and this is the first thing that helped me shed

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those last pounds. Also, no sugar cravings, no whatever. So

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I was lulled into like, this is great. I should

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be doing this too, Why not me? Right when I

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brought it up on the show, I brought it up

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with tremendous trepidation of like, are you guys gonna judge

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me for even wanting to do this? Like yeah, but

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everybody was like, absolutely, you should do it. Knowing that

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I didn't have a lot of weight to lose, people

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were like, I think you should. It's changed my life.

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I think it's great, right, that's right. Yeah, yeah, And

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I got inspired and I was like, well, you know what,

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I'm gonna try it and I will report back. So

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then I try it. I don't have like the greatest reaction,

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but I wasn't like dying. I wasn't I wasn't like

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super sick or yeah, like throwing up. I didn't have

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a crazy reaction. I just felt like it was strong

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for you your body. Yeah. Well, after that show came out,

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there was like a whole thing of people that are

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that were like yeah, you know, basically kind of like

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you shouldn't have done that. You know, it's not good

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for you. It's not studied, and like, I mean a

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lot of like schooling me. Right, oh, and then you're

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just getting it from a friend, like with no prescription.

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It's like I feel that people were all raw raw,

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and like, let's get on that before. As soon as

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I have one like negative thing to say, people are like, well,

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told you, so you should have done it. And it's like, no,

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you didn't tell me, so absolutely nobody waih in like

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maybe you shouldn't do this, or here's something to look

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out for nobody, absolutely nobody.

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Speaker 2: Right, So I was like you to do it what

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you felt is you know the best for yourself.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, this is not a medical show.

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I don't know if you know this, but yes, did

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I graduate medical school? Yes? Did I do an internship

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and then a fellowship and then a few years at

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a hospital. Yes?

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Speaker 2: Does that make me able to give libert in between

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law school?

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Speaker 1: I don't have a PhD or whatever you know you

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should have. Yeah? Okay, yeah, so like, please don't come

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to me for medical advice. All I'm doing is now

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I sound really defensive, but my whole goal was just

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to be like transparent, yeah, which I think most people

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appreciate no matter what from all the people that were like,

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forget the haters, give me the number. Yeah. So anyway,

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I was like, you know, I don't know if I

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really like that feeling, and I don't think, you know,

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I want to feel that right, So maybe I won't

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do it again, and if I do, I'm going to

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do it at just half the dose. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So come Friday, I'm like totally back to normal really,

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which is not great because I'm like, well, wait a minute,

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what do you mean back to normal like eating cravating

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by Friday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean not like, oh my god, I want

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to go eat a huge bag of candy, but like, oh,

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I totally feel so fine. Okay. So I'm like I'm

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still gonna wait. I think if I do it, I'm

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going to do it on Sunday. Did you still have

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those sugar cravings? No? Not really. I was like, I

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really like how I feel right now, which is I

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still don't want to eat everything in sight. I want

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to eat when I'm hungry, but hunger pings came back, okay, good.

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a couple hours later, I was like starving, right, which

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is normal. Yeah, that's good, and I wasn't really having cravings.

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So then by Saturday I was like, well, I like

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how I feel right now, so maybe I should do

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another shot, just a small amount to keep that going

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right right, Yeah, So I did. Okay, So Saturday night

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I did another shot, but I did one milligram ofpatite. Yeah,

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and I can report that it's like great, really, yeah,

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I'm not hungry, but like I could eat. You can't eat? Yeah,

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like I could eat? Okay, like if you if you

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hose gotta eat, hose got to eat, that's what they

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should call it. Yeah, I just got to eat, you

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know how could eat? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Eat?

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Speaker 1: You eat? No, I just feel like I feel like

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I'm hungry like normal, but I a'm full faster and

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I don't. I'm not craving meals. That's good. I'm not

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like thinking right now about like what's my next meal.

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for breakfast and I still feel like full, not uncomfortably full,

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but like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're good and then until you'll go home and

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eat dinner and you'll be fine, totally fine, that's great,

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and no sugar cravings none.

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Speaker 1: Well, there you go. Have you lost any weight yet?

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Mm hmm. Really I've lost like three pounds really yeah? Wow? Okay, yeah,

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maybe a little bit more. But I don't know how

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much of that is just from the week of the

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medication and how much is from because I already didn't

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eat sugar, yeah, since October third. Okay, so you're you're

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like on week two and a.

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Speaker 2: Half on the shots.

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Speaker 1: No one and a half one and a half yeah, okay,

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well yeah, yeah, you know, no, no one and a

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half because Thursday to Thursday, then I did it again

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Speaker 2: Okay, so like a week and a half. So maybe

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this is your dose and maybe this will work for you.

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Speaker 1: Like if I could shed a few of my postmenopause

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pounds and feel fine, I think I can not eat

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sugar on my own.

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Speaker 2: So you would stop in the past, Yeah, like I'm not. Yeah,

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I don't think I need it. Okay, that's awesome. Now

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I want to try it.

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Speaker 1: No, now I'm going to be like the Facebook group. No,

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you are skinny?

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Speaker 2: Now I have extra pounds on me, you know, menopausal

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extra weight.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I think I could. Although hard for

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us women, it's so hard to find that balance between

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like listen, we all want to like love our bodies

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and accept you know, aging gracefully. There are so many

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messages out there though, telling right that like, look how

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easy it is and you can you know, anybody can

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do it now and blah blah blah. Yeah, well I'm

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I'm happy that you stuck on it and I think

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you're gonna do good. I'm like doctor knock around you.

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All these people were like you've got to call your

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doctor and like the truth is, I'm not gonna write,

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I'm just telling you. You can all say that, and

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I was like, yeah, I will. I think I responded

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to some people. I will definitely tell him, No, these

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are gps. They're not as opposed to gpl ones or whatever, right,

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they're not. This isn't like if you're very overweight and

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it would be very good for your health. Of course

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they're going to like say like, yeah, you should be

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on it. I don't think doctor Knacharand is going to

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be like great idea, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well so you figured it out on your own

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with your medical license, and you know, you're very honest,

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and that's all that people care about is honesty, really

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like being transparent, and you know people are going to

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say things, they're going to say things, but for the

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most part, people respect honesty. And that's you know, that's

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what you did.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that I'm being irresponsible. I'm not telling

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anybody else to do it except when we do ads

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for it. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You're just telling your your story and how you've reacted

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to it and your beliefs on why you want it,

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and you know, that's that's all that we can ask.

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Speaker 1: And you did. Yeah, And I think that the dose

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normal starting dose, was just like a little bit too

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strong because this dose, which is just a baby dose,

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it's basically microdosing. Yeah, if you look it up and

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you google it, it says there's no that this dose

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doesn't help really anything, but it helped me. Starting dose

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is two point five. Everything I've read says that you

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take that it's not supposed to have any like efficacy

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until you're like a month in, and then you're on

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a high enough dose to work, but you worked too well, right, right,

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so you dropped it down. That's how you remember it.

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Speaker 2: You go to too well, say that's your meta degree showing.

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Speaker 1: Cool advice, and like I am, I am qualified to

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tell you that too stands for too well to remember.

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Speaker 2: That right too well? Well, that's great, that's good. I

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was wondering about you. I was thinking about you.

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Speaker 1: I think like people wanted yea, they like the update. Yeah,

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I like the I like the update too.

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Speaker 2: I was going to text you, but then I got

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swept into going on this river trip with my friends

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tell me about it, so I was put We planned

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this like months ago to go back to Glenn's riverhouse

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in Lake have Asu.

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Speaker 1: And uh it was it's dawn.

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Speaker 2: It was supposed to be Glenn, Mike Don, Glenn's wife Brandy, Don, me,

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our other friend Craig, and you know, just us going

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to the house again that weekend before it gets cold.

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Speaker 1: We was Craig the one though that No, that's not.

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Speaker 2: Mark, Okay, I called him, no, no, no, none of.

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Speaker 1: Us talked to him.

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Speaker 2: Craig was the drummer of a band when we were younger,

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and he's just the sweetest guy ever. Okay, So it

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was just us. And then last week Phil tweaked his back.

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Speaker 1: I went to Florida.

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Speaker 2: Olgas stayed with him for a week and I was like,

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there's no way I can leave him again for the weekend,

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you know, and Olga just was with him, so I

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can ask her again. Then Dawn at the same time,

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was like, she had an audit at her she owns

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a cemetery in Palmdale, and she had an audit and

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she had a meeting with the guy from the audit whatever,

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and she was like she couldn't go. And I think

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part of the reason why she couldn't go is because

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I wasn't going. But anyway, then they all left on Thursday.

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airplane parts whatever, so he gets these jets, these private jets.

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and fly home on Sunday. Wow, yeah, instead of drive

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and so anyway, so they left on Thursday. Then they

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got there and then like Craig found out that we

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weren't going, and he was like, wait a minute, I

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just found out you guys aren't coming. What the fuck

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why am I going? And he's like, I miss you guys.

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I wanted to see you guys. And they were making

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me feel guilty and I was like, you know what,

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let me just ask Olga. So I asked Olga and

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she's like, sure, I could be there, and I go,

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if I leave on Friday and come home, we're going

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to fly back on Sunday. So if Don and I

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rent a car, fly up on our drive up on Friday,

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leave the car there and fly home with them, I'll

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be home on Sunday by like one point thirty two

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o'clock because we're leaving early. And she's like, yeah, no problem.

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On Lineta. She shouldn't talk like that. So I was

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like okay. Then Don was able to figure out her business.

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was done. We didn't leave on Friday until like one thirty.

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It took us five hours to drive up there. Oh

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my god, five fucking hours on Friday. Made them come

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take the plane, I know, come pick us up. Yeah no,

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not going to do that. But so, but we had

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a good road trip. You know, it was fun like

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the old days. You know, talked a lot and then

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listened to music and stuff and then talk some more

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and you know, sat in traffic and but then when

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we got there, it was so worth it. It made

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my whole night because we got there and was like dark.

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So I called Glenn. I'm like, we're here, but I

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can't see your house. So he's like, I'm coming out.

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So him, all the guys came out to greeta. They

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were like, yay, you're here. I was like so happy

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because these guys I've known for like forty years since

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i was a kid, you know, since I was in

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junior high. They're like my brothers, you know. And so

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and then Brandy his wife. Glenn and Brandy are like

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the best couple. Like they they are so great entertainers.

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They cooked breakfast, Glenn made this big dinner. Then Glenn's

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friends with the band Warrant and Warrant was playing at

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the casino out there on Saturday night. Oh wow, yeah,

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so he invited those guys over for Friday night. When

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we got there, he made barbecue steaks and chicken.

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Speaker 1: It was delicious, so good.

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Speaker 2: And then Saturday we went.

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Speaker 1: Uh he invited the Warrant guys. Yeah yeah, because they

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were in town and these friends were you on Friday night? Yeah,

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after we got there, out with the guys from War Yeah,

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two of them. What yeah, super sweet, super buried the

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lead on this whole story. I know, I know, I know.

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I mean they were a huge band.

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Speaker 2: They were, and Don and I were listening to some

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of their music on the way.

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Speaker 1: Uh, yeah, I should play him. Heaven isn't too far away.

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Speaker 2: They sing that song, they sing She's My Cherrybye, oh

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my God. Yeah, because their original singer died a long

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time ago, so they have the new one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but he's good. He was good. Yeah, they were great.

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They were so much fun.

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Speaker 2: They played outdoors at the casino out there, and then

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so we went to the show on Saturday night, which

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was fun.

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Speaker 1: We all sat outside, watched Warrant play.

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Speaker 2: Took a picture with the band backstage, and then we

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went to the casino after and I didn't want to gamble.

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Some of them were gambling, and of course Dawn, who's

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the big gambler. She just sat at the poker video

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poker and she won like four grand.

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Speaker 1: She stayed.

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Speaker 2: We all left and it's a twenty minute drive from

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the casino back to Glen's house. And she stayed and

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took an uber back to Glenn's house, and Glenn and

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I waited up for her till like one o'clock in

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the morning her to come back because she just she

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couldn't leave because she was on a winning streak, so

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she won all that money. And then we went on

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the boat the next day and we were, you know,

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driving around the lake and it was so fun. It

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was really nice. I'm so glad we went. It was

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a lot of fun. And then it came time to

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fly home, and this jet was really small, like kind

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of teeny tiny, but the two pilots are like X

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Air Force military pilots that are very you know, experienced,

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and Glenn's like, I'm not going to put our lives

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in danger, so I wasn't nervous.

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Speaker 1: But then there's Down who's like, I'm getting freaked out.

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Speaker 2: Then I have to get on this plane, and she's

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like freaking out, and then Glenn's like feeding into it,

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like we're gonna do barrel rolls.

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Speaker 1: Down She's like, a shut up, don't say that.

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Speaker 2: He's like, I'm gonna tell the pilot and to do

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some barrel rolls. Obviously he's joking, but She's like stuck,

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you know. And so Brandy, Glen's wife, was like, knock

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it off. We're not going to talk about it. Don't

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tease her. We're getting on the plane. Don't bring it

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up once we get on the plane. And Don had

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to listen to Brandy so she couldn't bring it up anymore,

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and she was fine.

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Speaker 1: It was a smooth ride.

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Speaker 2: We were home in forty five minutes to the airport

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and ban Eyes and I was back home at like

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one point thirty two o'clock yesterday.

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Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, so it was really nice. We had

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a great time. Did the guys from weren't Gamble with you? Guys?

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We didn't see them after the show, but one of

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them liked me. He did. Yeah. Was he cute at all? Yeah?

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He was cute.

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Speaker 2: He's cute Italian cute, but he lives like in Tamecia.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. He was far and I don't know,

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kind of perfect long distance. Yeah, like X Rocker. Was

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he in the original lineup? I think so?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he was, and I you know, I

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mean you see him on stage then he's even cuter.

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Yeah yeah, but now then not really my type. Oh yeah,

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but it was funny. You know, it was nice. I

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mean it was flattering, but yeah, so uh.

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Speaker 1: I kind of love that for you though I'm not

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saying like, if he's not your type, I trust you.

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But yeah, that is so flattering. Yes, it is flattering.

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Speaker 2: This fucking Warrant, I know, I know, I know, you

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forget so many songs that they have that you you remember, dude, Yeah,

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they were.

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Speaker 1: They were big when I was in high school. They

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were like the biggest thing. Yeah, Warrant Rat Yeah yeah, yeah,

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And that's so funny that you just mentioned Rat because

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John is good friends with Now you're gonna make me

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Stephen Piercy. No, Stephen Pearcy is the was the main guy.

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But there's another Bobby Blotzer. Nope, Oh my god. Now

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I'm gonna have to look it up, but I don't

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want to, like pause this hold on members. That's the

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only names I know I'll tell you of Rapped, and

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John's good friends with one of them. Yeah, yeah, they're friends.

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That's so funny. Uh my god, why is it not

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coming up? Well, yeah, it's a friend of John's and

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they were working on a possible podcast together and I've

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met him many times. He's really really nice, but it's

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weird that it's not really coming up. Well.

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Speaker 2: The guys and Warrant were really sweet, very nice, funny,

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fun to hang out with. They kicked ass on stage,

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They sounded really great. It was outdoors venue, it was

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so it was you know because we used to listen

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to that when we were kids. So it just brought

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back memories for us. And it's just so fun when

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you see your old school friends together, you know, because

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we never get to hang out. Everybody's got families, kids, marriage, whatever,

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so when we get together a couple times a year,

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it's fun. So it was I'm glad we did. It

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would an adventure, Yeah, it was an adventure all right.

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Speaker 1: I wish, like I could go with you guys sometime.

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Then I was. Then it just made me think though

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because I was going to go, Oh, I wish I

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could go sometime. And then I was thinking that I

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had I had a little adventure. So my friend, my

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friend Bonnie Bonnie McFarlane, yeah, comedian was in town for

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a couple of days, and so we were going to

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get together and go to dinner, which we did, and

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then I mean, she's like one of my very closest friends.

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I talked to her on the phone probably like three

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times a week, and she doesn't live out here, no,

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So we were best friends in our twenties. We met

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doing stand up and we decided that we were going

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to be screenwriters together. I wrote a screenplay. So we

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were new friends and we had that kind of friendship

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chemistry where we were just like hung out all the time.

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We went to open mic nights or just like comedy

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nights together, did shows. And then we were like, we

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should write a screenplay. Two girls writing a screenplay. So

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we immediately started just hanging out in like bars and

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writing a screenplay. And then we wrote a screenplay that

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we'd never written one before. And then we got all

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these meetings and we thought we were going to be

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I legitimately thought I was going to be a millionaire. Yeah,

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those people were getting deals and yeah back then, yeah,

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agent sent the script out and it was so back then,

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the way they did it was so different than how

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it is now. It was you might remember this even

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just from working in TV, but there was a day

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of the week. It was on a Tuesday. A lot

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of things dropped on a Tuesday, so like records came

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out on Tuesdays, So scripts went to went out from

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agencies received scripts on Tuesdays, and then they know the

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agencies send them to the studios and they all get

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them like on a Tuesday, right, and then they're like

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in competition with each other. So we sent out that

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our agents sent out the script on a Tuesday. By

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like Wednesday, we had like forty meetings set up. Wow,

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I mean, so I should like forget thinking we were

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going to get We were like and it was oh

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my god. Out of sid Ganis's company, all these really

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big companies that did big movies, you know, all the

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big studios, but then also these like this one called

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like Alphaville. Right. So our agent was like, sid Ganis's

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company wants to do a preemptive like they want to

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do a development deal with you guys, but they want

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to take it off the market, like they want to yeah,

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And we were like, no thanks, we're just getting started,

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like yeah, because you'd we back in those days, you

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would hear about people that would get deals from oh, yeah,

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five hundred against five hundred, which means you get paid

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five hundred and then if they make the movie, you

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get another five hundred thousand, right, million against a million.

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They were.

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Speaker 2: They were given out development deals. When I was at

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TV and ABC to left and right, people are getting

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development deals to create their own TV show. Yeah, a

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lot of comedians deals, usually.

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Speaker 1: The Montreal coming back with development.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it was a big time. I mean even Carmen

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Electra got it in a development deal. Never went anywhere.

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But like so many people were getting development deals, it

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doesn't work like that anymore.

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Speaker 1: No, I was sort of I came up a little

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bit on the tail end of that, like when I

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went I did Montreal Comedy Festival, the New Faces, which

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is where they find all the people for these development deals.

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Now I'd already been doing stand up like ten years,

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so I was so nervous. Another one of those things

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where I was like, oh my god, I'm on the

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cusp of greatness, Like this is everything I've been working for.

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You know, they've never taken me to Montreal before. I've

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never been asked. I'm finally being asked. Like it's all

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riding on this, I'm going to be super famous. I

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write so many things in my life where I was like,

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well about to be hugely famous, look at world, and

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you know what, I'm happier with the way things worked out,

468
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because I just don't know how being super famous would

469
00:26:42,759 --> 00:26:45,839
possibly be a good thing for me. It wouldn't. But

470
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,400
when I went to Montreal, I was so nervous and

471
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,880
it was a lot of so new faces can mean

472
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,920
a lot of things. It can mean people who have

473
00:26:55,319 --> 00:26:57,759
literally never been on a big stage before and only

474
00:26:57,799 --> 00:27:00,960
done like coffeehouses. Or I could mean people like me

475
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:02,880
who'd done a lot of stand up but just had

476
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:07,000
never been like discovered. Yeah, so I went up. You

477
00:27:07,039 --> 00:27:11,160
get two sets. The shows go like Thursday, Friday, Saturday night,

478
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:15,279
and each comedian gets two different sets on two different nights.

479
00:27:15,279 --> 00:27:18,079
So I was up like Friday and Saturday night. Uh huh,

480
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:25,000
So I do my sets Thursday night comedians go up.

481
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,960
Everybody bombed. So I was very nervous. But my night

482
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,559
I had a great set. I kind of killed, and

483
00:27:32,559 --> 00:27:34,759
then my next set I kind of killed and like

484
00:27:35,759 --> 00:27:39,079
not literally nothing happened really, And when I kind of

485
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,079
followed up on it, my agent was like, Yeah, the

486
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,599
people already knew who you were, and the guy who

487
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,079
booked you only booked you because he had so many

488
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,720
real life new faces that he needed somebody that would

489
00:27:51,799 --> 00:27:52,200
do well.

490
00:27:52,599 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 2: Oh, interesting. That's kind of a backhanded comp.

491
00:27:57,319 --> 00:28:01,599
Speaker 1: Such a backhand yes, wow. Because I was so relieved,

492
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,599
because you know how nervous I get. I was so

493
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:07,680
petrified about it that, I mean, I was sick with

494
00:28:07,839 --> 00:28:10,200
nerves about it. And then I was so relieved that

495
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,440
it went well that you know, once you do that,

496
00:28:12,519 --> 00:28:15,599
you're like, well, okay, here come the offers, right, And

497
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,640
then I was like, really, all that for such a

498
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:23,079
tough business, so entertain in Canada, Yeah, such a tough business.

499
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,599
So we have all these meetings for this screenplay, and

500
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:32,799
meeting after meeting people are blowing smoke up our ass.

501
00:28:32,839 --> 00:28:35,400
Oh my god, this was like this, this is a

502
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,839
modern day working girl movie. Our movie was called Falling Up.

503
00:28:40,519 --> 00:28:44,440
Originally we called it the untitled don Knots Project, just

504
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:50,279
to be funny, that is funny, and then we called

505
00:28:50,279 --> 00:28:53,240
it Falling Up. And it was about this girl who

506
00:28:53,519 --> 00:28:57,240
is like a Janine Garoffalo type. Because this was many

507
00:28:57,279 --> 00:28:59,480
many years ago, she was kind of a big thing.

508
00:28:59,640 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 2: Ye.

509
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: So this girl had kind of like a bad attitude

510
00:29:02,519 --> 00:29:09,000
and just and has this friend who's really rich, and

511
00:29:09,039 --> 00:29:12,200
the friend's dad runs an advertising agency or has a

512
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,440
friend that does I don't remember the details of it,

513
00:29:14,519 --> 00:29:19,519
but basically, she accidentally becomes like really big in advertising,

514
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,720
gets like a really low level job, but she is

515
00:29:22,799 --> 00:29:26,880
desperate for a job, and then she does. She accidentally

516
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,480
is good at advertising. Yeah, and then she falls in

517
00:29:29,519 --> 00:29:32,200
love and then you know it's a it's but the

518
00:29:32,279 --> 00:29:36,240
movie was ahead of its time. I had like a

519
00:29:36,279 --> 00:29:39,880
scene where she the girl's really nervous and then the

520
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,400
night before her first day of work and then she

521
00:29:42,519 --> 00:29:45,640
closes her eyes and then turns off the light and

522
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:49,759
then you just hear the buzz of a vibrator. That's funny,

523
00:29:49,759 --> 00:29:52,400
and it was before it's time. Yeah, we were like,

524
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:57,599
oh my god, that's pretty razy out and yeah, people

525
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,160
freaking loved it. They, like I said, we'd have meetings.

526
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,880
They'd be like, oh my god, you guys are amazing.

527
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,400
You're like the next big thing. But we think this

528
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,319
movie is a little bit too small. What else do

529
00:30:08,359 --> 00:30:12,559
you got? So we had an idea for a more

530
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,839
high concept movie and then we would pitch that. Anyway,

531
00:30:16,279 --> 00:30:19,720
long story short, I had just started dating John not

532
00:30:19,799 --> 00:30:22,240
that long before, and I was really scared that like

533
00:30:22,279 --> 00:30:24,160
I was going to get just too rich and be

534
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:32,200
intimidating and nothing ever happened. Oh that, But Bonnie and

535
00:30:32,279 --> 00:30:36,359
I stayed friends, been friends forever. She got married to

536
00:30:36,519 --> 00:30:42,119
Rich voss Y Adian, moved to New Jersey, her daughter

537
00:30:42,799 --> 00:30:45,759
had a baby right around the same time that I

538
00:30:45,799 --> 00:30:49,000
had my kids who just started college this year. Oh wow.

539
00:30:49,039 --> 00:30:51,680
And she still does stand up. Oh she does. So

540
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,400
we're still friends. Yeah, So we see each other when

541
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,119
she's like in La Yeah, and like it hasn't been

542
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:03,200
that often. So anyway, the whole reason I'm telling you, well, okay,

543
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,119
so I went to the comedy store with her, and

544
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:07,640
it was just very funny to.

545
00:31:07,599 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 2: Be hell, that's a that's a fun thing to do.

546
00:31:11,599 --> 00:31:13,240
Like it was venture fun.

547
00:31:13,319 --> 00:31:15,839
Speaker 1: But like I used to do the comedy store all

548
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,880
the time, right in my twenties, right, and now I'm

549
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,160
like in my late fifties. So it's just so weird,

550
00:31:21,279 --> 00:31:24,680
you know. Yeah. Yeah, to be in those spaces and

551
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,519
just like all those years later and have like the

552
00:31:27,559 --> 00:31:30,119
weight staff going like, excuse me, do you have a

553
00:31:30,119 --> 00:31:32,000
ticket to the show? I would have to ask you

554
00:31:32,079 --> 00:31:40,039
to like move right right right, yeah. Yeah. But all

555
00:31:40,119 --> 00:31:44,319
that was just to tell you that this other friend

556
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:48,440
of mine I was saying, oh, you know, I went

557
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,160
to the comedy store or whatever, and she was like,

558
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,640
I would have gone why didn't you do? Like you

559
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,160
should have called me? Like she was legitimately kind of

560
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,559
salty that I hadn't called her really, and you know

561
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:03,079
that feeling when somebody when you're like, well but but

562
00:32:03,119 --> 00:32:06,000
why would like I hate it? Right, you're not really

563
00:32:06,039 --> 00:32:09,160
friends with the good friends with my other Yeah? Yeah,

564
00:32:09,359 --> 00:32:11,039
you know when people are like, wow, I can't believe

565
00:32:11,079 --> 00:32:11,599
you didn't.

566
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,599
Speaker 2: Like yes, yes, well I would never say that to

567
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,000
anybody million years.

568
00:32:17,079 --> 00:32:18,839
Speaker 1: That's what I thought of when I was like, I

569
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,319
would have gone to the rip, like you're not our

570
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:27,880
friend from high school? Okay, but thank you? Well you

571
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,960
had gone to the river with us next time. But

572
00:32:30,079 --> 00:32:32,559
you know what I'm saying. When I was saying that,

573
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,240
I was trying to like, I don't really mean like,

574
00:32:36,279 --> 00:32:38,200
why didn't you invite me? Why? Stuff?

575
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I get it. So any good acts at

576
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:44,200
the comedy store.

577
00:32:45,839 --> 00:32:53,519
Speaker 1: So my podcast partner Cecily loves this comedian named Dak's Flame,

578
00:32:54,039 --> 00:33:00,359
who I guess is very very subtle and she thinks

579
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,519
is doing like basically an inside joke. And I met

580
00:33:03,559 --> 00:33:06,480
him backstage and I was like, oh my god, I

581
00:33:06,559 --> 00:33:09,480
do a podcast my friend that I do a podcast with,

582
00:33:09,559 --> 00:33:16,160
like Loves You, and he was very clearly autistic. Okay.

583
00:33:17,119 --> 00:33:20,039
But and then I brought this news to Cecily and

584
00:33:20,079 --> 00:33:23,920
she was like, well, maybe, but I still think he's

585
00:33:24,079 --> 00:33:25,720
very in on the joke and I was like, well,

586
00:33:25,759 --> 00:33:28,920
that could be, but when you have a conversation with him,

587
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,359
he's not. It's not like a wink wink where he's like, yeah,

588
00:33:32,359 --> 00:33:34,119
I'm going to go out there and do a character, right,

589
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:44,079
Like his offbeat nature is what makes his yes act yes.

590
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,799
So it was kind of funny because I was trying

591
00:33:45,799 --> 00:33:47,799
to tell her. I'm like, I don't think he's doing

592
00:33:47,799 --> 00:33:50,599
a character. Yeah. She was like, no, I'm pretty sure

593
00:33:50,599 --> 00:33:52,640
he is. And I was like, well, I literally just

594
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,480
talked to him for ten minutes and I tell you

595
00:33:55,559 --> 00:33:58,039
unless he's but she thinks he's more of like an

596
00:33:58,079 --> 00:34:00,960
Andy Kaufman type, Okay, let's see. Then I had a

597
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:06,599
conversation with Andrew Santino, Uh huh, who's kind of like

598
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:10,119
he does a podcast with Bobby Lee. Oh yeah, okay,

599
00:34:11,079 --> 00:34:14,440
and he was super nice and we were talking about

600
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:21,639
how much we love Chili's because we were talking about

601
00:34:21,639 --> 00:34:25,079
being like comedians that moved to the valley. Yeah, oh yeah,

602
00:34:25,119 --> 00:34:28,480
and are like, you know, not cool right right? Yeah?

603
00:34:28,519 --> 00:34:34,199
He was really sweet. Yeah. Oh I had a jump

604
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:40,320
scare because I saw poly Shore. Oh really you saw? Really?

605
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:44,760
He was there? Yeah, he looks eighty. Really the last

606
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,639
time you've seen Paul Show? I don't think I've seen

607
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:51,119
him recently. It's not good. I'm sure he's bald, right,

608
00:34:52,119 --> 00:34:54,440
I think he was. He was wearing a hat, and

609
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:58,119
he was wearing like a green Adida's track suit kind

610
00:34:58,119 --> 00:35:01,639
of thing, and he just looked like an old Miami jew.

611
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,320
Oh yeah, just had that like gray gray, like kind

612
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:10,679
of curly unruly hairs, like an old face. Yeah. I

613
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,639
was like, oh no, poor Polly, I know. But then

614
00:35:13,679 --> 00:35:16,800
I was like, does that what I look like? But

615
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,199
you know, when you see somebody, because I think he's

616
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,079
younger than I am.

617
00:35:20,519 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody ages differently. I could see that. I could

618
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:25,679
see that in him.

619
00:35:26,039 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. Maybe he's spent so many years in a dark

620
00:35:30,559 --> 00:35:36,239
like smoky club club and he's still there. Huh, Show's

621
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:41,679
hunting the halls. Wow did he perform? I mean I

622
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,760
didn't see too many people perform because I kept getting

623
00:35:46,119 --> 00:35:48,880
we I kept trying to watch people in the main room. Like,

624
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,440
let's see, when I got there, Dane Cook was performing.

625
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:57,880
Really yeah, it's the same people. Yeah. No, I didn't

626
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,199
see Polly perform. I don't even know if he on

627
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,239
the lineup. He might have just been hanging out.

628
00:36:02,159 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 2: Hanging out. Wow, Oh that's pretty interesting. That sounds fun though.

629
00:36:06,559 --> 00:36:07,840
I know I had a fun night.

630
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:15,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you did the Halloween Okay, so yeah,

631
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:19,320
I saved this story. This is how i'll because you

632
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:23,400
know we're heading into the final Yeah, okay, so I'm

633
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:30,519
at my So have we talked about the See, this

634
00:36:30,559 --> 00:36:32,199
is where I get fucked up in the head because

635
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,760
we did Patriot right, and I told you a story

636
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:39,960
about something that happened at our fall fundraiser. Yeah, so

637
00:36:40,039 --> 00:36:44,920
the fall fundraiser we've been gearing up for. And like,

638
00:36:46,159 --> 00:36:50,360
by the way, please you guys help me make better

639
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:55,360
boundaries about like yeahing out right, because it's only as

640
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,000
they say, like twenty percent of the people do eighty

641
00:36:58,039 --> 00:37:00,280
percent of the work. Yeah, but in this case, saidt

642
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,480
our school, it's like ten percent of the people do

643
00:37:02,599 --> 00:37:06,920
ninety percent of the work, right, So you volunteered to work.

644
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,519
I mean I use the term volunteer very loosely. Yeah,

645
00:37:10,599 --> 00:37:12,920
I say yes to one thing and then suddenly I'm

646
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:19,119
on every email, every event. Yeah. So yes, I was

647
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,719
the one completely in charge of getting all the silent

648
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,880
auction items. Oh yeah, and did that last year. I

649
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,079
did it last year and I did it again this year.

650
00:37:28,159 --> 00:37:32,199
And then there's a lot of paperwork involved. And the

651
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:37,239
woman that I kind of was working with, who's amazing.

652
00:37:37,599 --> 00:37:39,840
I name check her Nancy because I love her and

653
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,400
she's just the hardest worker and she's super helpful and

654
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:47,760
she never complains, which makes her less fun to complain too. Right, Yeah,

655
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,039
she doesn't ever go I know what the I know

656
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,440
those people yeah like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry you

657
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:53,960
fed love it.

658
00:37:54,119 --> 00:37:57,599
Speaker 2: And I'm like, Nancy, come on, tell me how you

659
00:37:57,639 --> 00:37:58,280
really feel.

660
00:37:58,519 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 1: She's super nice, yeah, and doesn't get rattled very easily.

661
00:38:02,199 --> 00:38:06,679
It does so much work and is very good. But anyway,

662
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:10,559
and she's also a mom that I do speech judging with.

663
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,519
Oh yeah, she does a lot of stuff. Most of

664
00:38:14,559 --> 00:38:18,039
the moms that I talk about in this group do everything.

665
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:21,519
It's just like where the rest of the people too

666
00:38:21,559 --> 00:38:25,360
smart to say yes to stuff. Yes, so they're like

667
00:38:25,559 --> 00:38:30,239
as needed, there's somehow I'm like, oh, I guess I'm

668
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,719
co chair of the fundraising committee. Okay, I know I

669
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,719
said I would, but then I tried to get out

670
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,119
of it, and then they were like, don't worry in

671
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,239
name only, and I'm like, this is not in name then,

672
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:44,440
So I was in charge of that. I don't want

673
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:49,320
to other people did help collect things, so I don't

674
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,400
want to say like, oh my god, I did every

675
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:56,400
single part of it myself. I didn't, So I'm I'm

676
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,840
in charge of it. I have to come in. I

677
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:00,920
had to come to the school. Well, I was supposed

678
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:01,760
to be there at nine am.

679
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:04,079
Speaker 2: So do you have to get those baskets and everything

680
00:39:04,159 --> 00:39:06,079
and wrap them and all that too?

681
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, did I tell you that? So I couldn't

682
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,800
find any baskets because I'd used all the ones from

683
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:17,480
last year, right that one of our listeners hooked me

684
00:39:17,559 --> 00:39:19,639
up with some baskets last year. This year, I had

685
00:39:19,679 --> 00:39:23,039
no baskets, so I had to go the route of

686
00:39:23,639 --> 00:39:27,079
Facebook Marketplace. Yeah did I tell you that? No? Oh

687
00:39:27,119 --> 00:39:31,079
my god, I've got all these messages going with these people.

688
00:39:31,119 --> 00:39:32,960
There's a lot of bait and switch going on with

689
00:39:33,079 --> 00:39:37,199
Facebook Marketplace, and I'm like, looking there's like a couple

690
00:39:37,199 --> 00:39:39,880
of baskets here. Then there's like one person that has

691
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,400
like a ton of baskets. But you know it's like Pacoima, right,

692
00:39:43,599 --> 00:39:47,119
like no thanks, yeah right, I don't like my school

693
00:39:47,159 --> 00:39:50,519
that much. Yeah, but I do find one that's like

694
00:39:50,599 --> 00:39:54,559
Granada Hills and she's got all these baskets and I

695
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,960
arrange to go get them from this lady. Yeah. And

696
00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,920
you know, you show up in front of somebody's house

697
00:40:00,039 --> 00:40:02,079
and then you're trying to message them through the app

698
00:40:02,119 --> 00:40:05,679
and then they're like, oh, I'm sorry, that's my mom. Okay,

699
00:40:05,679 --> 00:40:08,000
I'll call my mom and tell her that you're so

700
00:40:08,079 --> 00:40:11,679
you're out front. It's all like ah, then I get it.

701
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,599
She comes and meets me. I have to go to

702
00:40:13,639 --> 00:40:18,679
her back shed. I'm like I'm going to get murdered, right, Like,

703
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,639
don't take me in the shed? Yeah.

704
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 2: Too many dateline documentaries now? But did shesting? My husband like,

705
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:26,599
what's the address.

706
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,760
Speaker 1: Where I am? You have too much dateline? And then

707
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,079
I told her that. I was like, you know, it's

708
00:40:31,119 --> 00:40:33,679
always like a little sus when you're just going to

709
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,320
a random person's house. Says No, I totally get it.

710
00:40:36,559 --> 00:40:38,119
And I was like and also like, why do you

711
00:40:38,119 --> 00:40:40,920
have all these baskets? Because then she opens this shed

712
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,719
and it's just full of baskets. Really yeah, and she

713
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:47,199
was like, oh, well, because I do. I don't know.

714
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:51,000
She does something for her school or she sells something,

715
00:40:51,079 --> 00:40:52,920
and I'm like okay, and then she's like, but I

716
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:57,800
should tell you the price, which was five dollars a basket,

717
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,400
which I thought I could bargain her down like two

718
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:05,199
for five. She's like that's five and up. Really minimum

719
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:09,000
is five. Now I'm like, oh god, itch, you already

720
00:41:09,039 --> 00:41:12,119
got me, like, you know, six miles from my house.

721
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:17,159
Now you're gonna tell me, like, so, so, how much

722
00:41:17,199 --> 00:41:21,559
are they at? Like Michael's They're a lot? Oh they are, okay,

723
00:41:21,679 --> 00:41:25,199
I think I don't know, they're like ten bucks? Yeah, right,

724
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:29,000
so it's not like that biggest savings but definitely not

725
00:41:29,079 --> 00:41:31,320
a savings. If she's going to be like, well, this

726
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,719
one's ten dollars, yeah, I'm like, well, I could just

727
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,760
go buy them, right, So then this is what happens.

728
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:37,760
I go, well, oh, I feel like I could just

729
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:40,119
go buy them new, and she goes, yeah, you can try,

730
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:44,360
oh you know, And now I'm like I'm already here. Yeah,

731
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,000
now are you going to do? Ready to get this

732
00:41:46,199 --> 00:41:49,039
over right? But I'm like, oh, I really guess I

733
00:41:49,119 --> 00:41:52,239
misunderstood because I thought they were all five dollars. She goes, No,

734
00:41:52,559 --> 00:41:54,960
like a lot of these baskets are worth way more

735
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,760
than five dollars, way more. Some of these have like

736
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:02,440
a cloth lining in it. Oh you know. So now

737
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,880
I'm like haggling. I'm like, okay, well how much for

738
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,760
this one? She goes, I could do that one for eight?

739
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,760
Oh my gosh. So look I ended up buying some baskets.

740
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,320
She does. I'm like, could you do this one for five?

741
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:18,400
She's like, all right, I'll do that one for five.

742
00:42:18,559 --> 00:42:22,719
I ended up buying fifty dollars worth of baskets. Okay, okay,

743
00:42:23,559 --> 00:42:27,079
So I've done a lot of work leading up to this. Yes,

744
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:32,000
I gathered, I got all the items together. I bought

745
00:42:32,039 --> 00:42:36,400
the shred stuff, and then my friend Sam, who I

746
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:39,320
talked about in the Patreon yeah, came and helped me.

747
00:42:39,599 --> 00:42:41,960
I went to get all the baskets together. Then I

748
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,079
had to show up at school. I was supposed to

749
00:42:44,119 --> 00:42:46,800
show up at nine am. And remember I've been on

750
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:51,599
zooms like every day every week leading up to this, Yeah,

751
00:42:51,599 --> 00:42:53,159
and if I don't show up for a zoom, I

752
00:42:53,159 --> 00:42:58,079
have to feel like guilty about it, right, like yeah, sorry, Okay.

753
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,039
So they wanted everyone to show up at nine, and

754
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,519
then I was laying in bed in the morning and

755
00:43:03,559 --> 00:43:07,239
I'm like, I'm not going in there at nine, you know.

756
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:10,119
Speaker 2: And usually when they tell you that nobody else shows

757
00:43:10,199 --> 00:43:12,920
up at nine, I don't. Yeah, I know, and it's like,

758
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,679
why am I the jackass that showed up at nine? Yeah,

759
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,159
that was the thing a lot of I hated that.

760
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,559
Speaker 1: With like a breakfast sandwich from Starbucks, eat my coffee,

761
00:43:22,679 --> 00:43:24,880
and like no one's there, and you're outside the.

762
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:28,639
Speaker 2: Gate, going where is everybody? Even the organizer's not there

763
00:43:28,679 --> 00:43:31,519
at nine? Yes, I hate that. Yes, So I stay

764
00:43:31,559 --> 00:43:32,000
in bed.

765
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:36,159
Speaker 1: I wait at like nine forty five, you know, I

766
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,679
get an email with the other volunteers like okay, guys,

767
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:42,360
like you need to be heading over like no one's here,

768
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,440
oh god, oh my gosh. I get there at like

769
00:43:45,559 --> 00:43:52,119
I don't know, Torsing spend all morning setting up, running around,

770
00:43:52,159 --> 00:43:55,199
bringing out tables, going you know whatever. I was doing

771
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,960
like a ton of work. I was tired. So then

772
00:43:58,559 --> 00:44:01,199
I'm like everything is set up and I was like,

773
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,480
you know what, the thing started at three, and I

774
00:44:03,559 --> 00:44:06,519
was like it was like one, yeah, I'm like, I'm

775
00:44:06,519 --> 00:44:09,800
going to bail. Really like twelve forty five, I was like,

776
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,880
I'm gonna go home. I'm going to go home and

777
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:15,079
I'm going to rest for a little while and I'm

778
00:44:15,079 --> 00:44:17,480
going to change my clothes and then I'm gonna come

779
00:44:17,559 --> 00:44:21,599
back with kids, which I did. I get there before three.

780
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,880
The place is already like there's no parking happ and

781
00:44:25,199 --> 00:44:31,199
jammed people. So I go over to the place where

782
00:44:31,199 --> 00:44:34,679
I to the where the auction items and the baskets are,

783
00:44:36,119 --> 00:44:40,480
and there's like another mom who's volunteering, and I'm having

784
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,719
this thing where I'm like, I don't I don't know

785
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,719
if I know her. She looks familiar, but I don't

786
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,039
know her name, and I think I might be confusing

787
00:44:48,079 --> 00:44:51,199
her with like a different mom from the school. But

788
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,440
I don't really want to say, like, what's your name

789
00:44:54,519 --> 00:44:58,960
in case she's like, seriously, yeah, I've been on zooms

790
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,039
together like every week. So I was just like, I'm

791
00:45:02,079 --> 00:45:04,639
Stephanie by the way, you know, And then she's like

792
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:08,679
I won't say her name, but she's like, yeah, I'm

793
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:12,280
Sally it was exactly as I thought. She's like, yeah,

794
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,320
we were on the zooms together. I'm like, totally. Sometimes

795
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,800
it's just a leak out of context, yes, you know,

796
00:45:18,079 --> 00:45:23,039
and she's yeah, okay. So she's already established herself as

797
00:45:23,079 --> 00:45:26,199
my op a tiny bit because she's annoyed annoyed that

798
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:30,039
I didn't know who she was. So then she starts

799
00:45:30,119 --> 00:45:34,280
kind of arguing with me about the So we don't

800
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:40,000
call the baskets h raffles. I don't call it a raffle.

801
00:45:40,039 --> 00:45:43,320
You call it an opportunity drawing. I don't really understand why.

802
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:46,239
It has something to do with California law, okay, something

803
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:50,119
about gambling, yea. And so they call it an opportunity

804
00:45:50,199 --> 00:45:53,320
drawing and you drop your ticket half a ticket into

805
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,360
the box of the item you would like to win.

806
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,880
Then at the end they draw one of the tickets

807
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:01,519
out and that person wins. Okay, to silent auction where

808
00:46:01,519 --> 00:46:03,559
you put down your name and how much you're willing

809
00:46:03,599 --> 00:46:07,679
to spend, right, okay. So she's asking me some question

810
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:12,079
about the opportunity drawing, and then she's like, so everybody

811
00:46:12,119 --> 00:46:15,480
gets a ticket for the opportunity drawing, right, correct? And

812
00:46:15,519 --> 00:46:17,599
I'm like, no, you have to buy them. They're five

813
00:46:17,639 --> 00:46:21,360
dollars each or five for twenty. And she's like, but

814
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:27,480
opportunity drawings, like are where everybody gets a chance. That's

815
00:46:27,519 --> 00:46:30,480
why they call it that everybody has an opportunity. H

816
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,840
In my mind, I'm like, shut up, what do you

817
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:37,840
tell who cares rights talking to me? But I'm like,

818
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,400
well no. I was like, well, that's just what they

819
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:45,079
call it here because they can't say raffles, so it's

820
00:46:45,079 --> 00:46:48,119
called opportunity drawing. And I swear to you. She's like

821
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:52,519
kind of giving me a yeah, but still like that's

822
00:46:52,559 --> 00:46:55,039
what it's supposed to be called. And finally I was like,

823
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,480
I don't I don't know what it's supposed to be called.

824
00:46:58,559 --> 00:47:01,519
I just know that not every everybody gets a ticket, right,

825
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:04,880
So yeah, don't hand everybody a ticket, because that's not

826
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,519
what this is. We have another thing that's a door

827
00:47:07,559 --> 00:47:11,199
prize that everybody who brings a guest. I'm trying to

828
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,239
be nice. I'm like, man, maybe you're using it with

829
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:16,199
the thing where everybody that brings a guest gets a

830
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,079
ticket and then at the end they're going to draw.

831
00:47:18,199 --> 00:47:22,519
She goes, no, no opportunity, and she's just arguing wow,

832
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:26,079
And then I was like, I don't know, I don't know,

833
00:47:26,559 --> 00:47:28,559
but this is what we're doing. And then she was

834
00:47:28,639 --> 00:47:32,280
like okay, oh, like she got mad. I had to

835
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,280
apologize and I was like, I'm sorry, I'm on a

836
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:40,239
new medication and right now I haven't eaten in five days.

837
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,559
Then we got along fine, and then I was just

838
00:47:44,679 --> 00:47:46,960
joking around with her and like forgave me and that

839
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,079
you were being fine, but also I was still a

840
00:47:50,159 --> 00:47:52,480
little bit salty, like why are you trying to argue

841
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:56,039
with me? You popped in here to work an hour

842
00:47:56,119 --> 00:47:58,559
at this booth, yet while I've been here, I've been

843
00:47:58,559 --> 00:48:01,880
working on this thing for months. Let it go. Yeah, okay,

844
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:05,159
but here's the thing that happened that I was teasing

845
00:48:05,199 --> 00:48:12,960
to on the uh patreon. Yeah, so I'm dealing with

846
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,199
the story that is on the patreon right right, and

847
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:20,679
I'm walking this person around and in the patreon, I said,

848
00:48:20,679 --> 00:48:22,960
And then there was a situation with my kids. Yes,

849
00:48:23,119 --> 00:48:26,280
So I walk over to where they're like doing this

850
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:30,119
thing a mechanical bowl, and I see Sadie and Xander,

851
00:48:30,159 --> 00:48:36,119
and Sadie looks stricken like she's looks very upset, looks

852
00:48:36,159 --> 00:48:38,360
like maybe she was about She definitely looked like she

853
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,400
was about to cry. And so of course I'm like,

854
00:48:40,639 --> 00:48:43,159
oh my god, Sadie, what's wrong. Are you okay? And

855
00:48:43,199 --> 00:48:47,519
she was like yeah, she's like okay, She's like and

856
00:48:47,559 --> 00:48:50,519
then Xander goes mom like kind of whispers me. He's

857
00:48:50,559 --> 00:48:55,519
like that mom over there, and then he yelled at

858
00:48:55,519 --> 00:48:59,400
Sadie like totally bitched her out for nothing what she

859
00:48:59,559 --> 00:49:05,880
accused Sadie of bumping into her daughter and not apologizing. Wow,

860
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:10,039
So he's telling me this. I see the who they're

861
00:49:10,039 --> 00:49:13,320
talking about out of the corner of my eye, and

862
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,800
then Sadie's like, Mom, don't say anything. Don't say anything,

863
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:20,760
like and but Sadie's upset, and she was like, mom,

864
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:24,199
I didn't touch her daughter. And if I did, of

865
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:27,719
course I would apologize, Like, oh my god, I didn't

866
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:30,239
touch him. And then so then.

867
00:49:30,679 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 2: I'm looking and Sadie's like, don't look at her. Yeah,

868
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,239
and what do you do? You turn around and look

869
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:37,599
right out.

870
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 1: So I looked right at that bitch, and I was like,

871
00:49:40,079 --> 00:49:43,079
and she looked like a bitch. She looked like a bitch.

872
00:49:44,039 --> 00:49:46,920
I hope she's listening. I hope somehow somebody might get

873
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:50,320
it that a mom at the school has this little podcast. Yeah,

874
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:54,840
because oh my god, she is so lucky. Old Stephanie

875
00:49:55,119 --> 00:49:58,440
reared her ugly head and I was like, oh, hell

876
00:49:58,639 --> 00:50:04,360
to the nor. First of all, Sadie's tiny, by the way, Yeah,

877
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:09,159
this mom is like with her. She just looks. I

878
00:50:09,199 --> 00:50:11,400
can't explain how she looked. She was wearing like these

879
00:50:11,519 --> 00:50:15,320
big oversized like kind of sunglas glasses. I hate, I

880
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:19,239
hate those other oversized sunglasses, big oversized sunglasses. I think

881
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:23,760
she definitely like considered herself glamorous. It was gm is

882
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:28,079
in like a quirky way, like the worst kind, right, glamorous,

883
00:50:28,119 --> 00:50:30,800
then go all the way, have lip filler and do

884
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,480
all that right. Don't try to go halfway and then

885
00:50:33,519 --> 00:50:37,599
be quirky. It'd be a redhead and like have like

886
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:42,039
kind of sparkly glasses. Like it ain't working right. She's

887
00:50:42,079 --> 00:50:45,280
with her daughter and she's helping her daughter do something,

888
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:48,760
and then Sadie goes, mom, don't see anything because her

889
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,159
daughter was already She's like whispering to this. She's like, Mom,

890
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:55,320
her daughter was already so embarrassed by how the mom

891
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,920
was acting, it's gonna make it worse. The daughter do

892
00:50:59,199 --> 00:51:01,039
it because of the daughter. And I was like okay,

893
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,280
but Xander, who's usually pretty calm about things, was like, Mom,

894
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:09,880
it was bad. Really, she's a bitch. And I was like,

895
00:51:10,079 --> 00:51:13,239
so now I'm looking at her. Yeah, she sees me

896
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:17,360
looking at her and fucking has a problem. Oh, really

897
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:20,480
gives me like a what you looking at like? She

898
00:51:20,599 --> 00:51:23,519
kind of gives me like like like, oh you see

899
00:51:23,519 --> 00:51:26,079
something you staring at me? And then she gives me

900
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:28,920
she does a hand yester like get the fuck out

901
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:33,239
of here like that, And I was like, wow, okay, Wow,

902
00:51:33,559 --> 00:51:36,000
I don't think you know who you're dealing with. First

903
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:38,519
of all. First of all, I do a lot for

904
00:51:38,599 --> 00:51:39,440
this fucking school.

905
00:51:39,519 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 2: Well that's the first and foremost. I don't think you

906
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:48,280
know why I was here exactly this morning setting up

907
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,159
and I've been working on this for a month. Yeah,

908
00:51:51,199 --> 00:51:55,599
so you got a lot of fucking nerves you Yeah,

909
00:51:55,639 --> 00:51:56,840
you barely even go here.

910
00:51:57,039 --> 00:51:59,559
Speaker 1: You've just started at this. Yeah, you're ten minutes here.

911
00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:02,599
I was so mad, and I was I was like,

912
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,679
you know what this is for the best. First of all, Also,

913
00:52:07,039 --> 00:52:11,400
if you listen to the Patreon tomorrow, I was dealing

914
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:15,880
with another situation, so I also didn't quite have time

915
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:17,480
for it, but I would have made time for it,

916
00:52:17,559 --> 00:52:20,760
you know what I'm saying. But Sadie's like, mom, just

917
00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:24,760
don't and I'm like, okay, yeah, I walk away, and

918
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:27,239
then I'm dealing with this other situation.

919
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,079
Speaker 2: Which had nothing to do with you at all. The

920
00:52:30,119 --> 00:52:31,639
other situation we're talking about.

921
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,119
Speaker 1: Nothing to do with me. So then I'm but I'm

922
00:52:34,199 --> 00:52:36,559
but I'm trying to deal with something helping someone else,

923
00:52:36,639 --> 00:52:40,360
helping someone else. And then I'm walking away and I

924
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:43,519
see the lady again, and she sees me, and she

925
00:52:43,599 --> 00:52:46,119
gives me another look like I dare you. She gives

926
00:52:46,159 --> 00:52:50,280
me a look, and I was like, okay, that's so tough.

927
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:55,920
I did some deep breathing. I was like, Okay, nothing

928
00:52:55,920 --> 00:53:00,280
good can come of this, because I really did. I'm

929
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:02,599
not going to say I ate it to myself, but

930
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:06,480
I just was like, Sadie asked me not to say anything.

931
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,159
She doesn't need any drama. She's going to be performing soon.

932
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She doesn't need there to be like because if I

933
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say something, obviously this lady is off her rocker. Yeah,

934
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then the lady's going to say something like obviously she's

935
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looking for a fight. Yeah, and I don't want like,

936
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and also you can come of it.

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Speaker 2: Sadie has to go to school with this girl too, Yeah,

938
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who was embarrassed?

939
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Speaker 1: Peter. Sadie was like, I think that the daughter like

940
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has something going on with her, like some kind of

941
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special needs. OK. So like and also it's not the

942
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daughter's fault. So why did the hell did the daughters

943
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,840
get hurt? Yeah? Exactly. I don't want to be involved

944
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:47,639
in like mom drama, right, so I just chose to

945
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go like whatever, wow, And then she that woman left

946
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:54,119
a few minutes later. Good for you, Stephanie, and didn't

947
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like seek me out. If she'd sought out a problem,

948
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then I would have handled this right, but because she

949
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would have handled her. But I'm like, I'm not going

950
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to be the one after my daughter has asked me

951
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not to. Yeah, crazy, I'm not gonna go walk up

952
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to her and ask for trouble, right right? Well you

953
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did the right thing.

954
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Speaker 2: Yeah wow, Jesus Christ, what is wrong with some of

955
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these parents? Just like and then you're at a fucking

956
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halloween you know, a fundraiser for the school.

957
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: Why are you like talking shit to a kid? And

958
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if you're a Newish parent at the school, like, why

959
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,519
don't make enemies some at a child, right, at a

960
00:54:35,559 --> 00:54:39,679
student at the school where your daughter has just started attending, right,

961
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,400
and then mad Dog the mom of that daughter. It's

962
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crazy behavior.

963
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Speaker 2: It is crazy. Yeah, yeah, you did the right thing.

964
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You don't want to fuck with that.

965
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Speaker 1: The more I learn about people, though, the more I'm like,

966
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:56,920
there's a lot of crazy moms out right. Yeah. Yeah,

967
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So how was the rest of it? The rest of

968
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it was fine. I think I'll have I should have,

969
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like maybe a couple more stories for Friday. Okay, Yeah,

970
00:55:08,119 --> 00:55:10,920
we'll have more to talk about on Friday. Okay, Well,

971
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let's say hi to our people, like Stephanie's a stinker wrinker,

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and Sandra it's not easy being green and Jennifer get up,

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and Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Leslie with the coughing and

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Alicia Escalante from the City of al Monte. Kelly Brandt

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will take you to where you have to go. Yeah,

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and Rebecca is so cute and Sean is so cute.

977
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Speaker 2: They just had their anniversary I saw on Facebook and

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his wife Ah, congratulations.

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