Speaker 1: Hi everybody, Good morning. It's Monday. I am back from
Speaker 1: a long weekend of baby poops and babies crying and
Speaker 1: babies breaking down aka vacation in my world.
Speaker 2: I forgot what it was like to have kids that
Speaker 2: are your age and to be in the car for
Speaker 2: that long. Yeah, like when they've had enough, did you feed?
Speaker 2: Did that happen?
Speaker 3: Well, they had.
Speaker 1: Enough five minutes into the car. They don't like the car, No,
Speaker 1: I got it. Like, everybody's got to be watching something.
Speaker 1: There's all sounds day. You'll cry for hours. Sometimes it's
Speaker 1: so bad. The fireman and I just look at each
Speaker 1: other and we die laughing. That is like, those are
Speaker 1: the moments where I'm like I picked the right partner, right,
Speaker 1: because you just look at each other and it's laughable.
Speaker 1: And if you didn't have each other in those moments,
Speaker 1: you would want to just like drive off the tobin. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's you know, and again, if you have young
Speaker 1: kids like five and under and you're traveling, you know,
Speaker 1: it's it is a it's a full time job because
Speaker 1: like with everything that I have to pack and getting it,
Speaker 1: you know, they need all of their things and their
Speaker 1: lovies have to come and in the end becomes a
Speaker 1: full time job. But it's always amazing seeing like one ride,
Speaker 1: one smile, and I'm like, okay, it was worth the hell.
Speaker 2: One time, we're stuck in traffic and my oldest was
Speaker 2: a baby at the time. He started crying like he
Speaker 2: was uncomfortable. We had nothing we can do. We're not
Speaker 2: a traffic jam. Yeah, all of a sudden he stops.
Speaker 2: He blinked his eyes and is vomited like everywhere. But
Speaker 2: the awful thing is we couldn't pull off to the side.
Speaker 2: We had to sit and smell that for an hour.
Speaker 2: Oh that's what I remember most about having kids, like
Speaker 2: super young.
Speaker 1: My issue is I'm a big woman, Like I'm massive,
Speaker 1: you're tall, I'm big. I gotta try to crawl back
Speaker 1: there multiple times because somebody needs a snack, somebody needs this. Mommy, mommy, mommy.
Speaker 1: So I got to get in between the two car seats.
Speaker 1: It's not me. Yeah, that's the fore Runner is nice.
Speaker 1: It's a bigger car, but it's not made for a
Speaker 1: large woman getting in between those two car seats.
Speaker 2: Do you give them like iPads? Because we had a
Speaker 2: car one time that had the screens on the back
Speaker 2: of like that just to headrest and it was amazing.
Speaker 1: Son. We preemptively borrowed my mom's iPad for this trip because,
Speaker 1: like I wasn't any games. We had to do what
Speaker 1: we had to do. How would your weekend?
Speaker 4: I was good, It was low key.
Speaker 2: I was first weekend having like a baseball game, whether
Speaker 2: it's mine or one for like my kids, So it
Speaker 2: was relaxing. I slept in for the first time in
Speaker 2: months months. Dude, baseball, as much as I love the
Speaker 2: sport and as much as I loved watching my both
Speaker 2: my son's play, the travel baseball is in well, first,
Speaker 2: it's a racket. Firste there are too many paraments out
Speaker 2: there who think if their kid plays travel baseball that
Speaker 2: they're getting signed in a couple of years.
Speaker 4: That's not the reason.
Speaker 1: Only question you got to pay to get in.
Speaker 4: Do you want to know how.
Speaker 5: Much it is?
Speaker 2: What do you want to how much it is per
Speaker 2: season guests for one child on average?
Speaker 4: And I'm averaging out.
Speaker 1: Well, you're you're gassing right now. So I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: three hundred.
Speaker 4: Three thousand, three thousand dollars again.
Speaker 1: No, I'm three thousand, yep, No, No, you need to
Speaker 1: go home. You have to go to You and your
Speaker 1: wife need to look at yourselves in the mirror and
Speaker 1: you both need to slap yourself.
Speaker 6: No.
Speaker 2: What for baseball, Yes, it is the biggest racket in
Speaker 2: the listen. I grew up playing sports like baseball was
Speaker 2: a large part of my life for thirty something years.
Speaker 2: I just went back to like this travel baseball. There's
Speaker 2: issues within. The unfortunate thing is too many parents are
Speaker 2: putting too much stock into this. At least half the
Speaker 2: players playing in these in these leagues should not be
Speaker 2: playing baseball at this level. So these organizations are just
Speaker 2: taking money and making a ton. I'm not trying to.
Speaker 1: Get me out of this because like I want to
Speaker 1: slap you three.
Speaker 4: All right, it's right three thousand and five.
Speaker 1: These kids better be good at sports because this is
Speaker 1: this is.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to Venmill right now. We all know that
Speaker 1: when we send somebody money on Venmo, you look around.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I definitely look at the emojis and see
Speaker 4: what they put there.
Speaker 1: Venmo used to be diabolical. Venmo used to like show
Speaker 1: you what people were paying.
Speaker 2: That's right, we pay, we pay some people on there
Speaker 2: so you can see that. We a picture of like
Speaker 2: a house or like a flex and.
Speaker 5: Mind.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, first off, who doesn't make their venmo private?
Speaker 1: That is the strangest thing on plannet to make like
Speaker 1: make it private. It's no one's business. No one's business.
Speaker 9: Like egg planning, moojis and all kinds of weird things.
Speaker 1: Like this is my own friend. I begged her to
Speaker 1: not be I begged her to make her venmo private.
Speaker 1: Happy marathon, Eve by yourself some coffee, lunch PrePost marathon
Speaker 1: needs on me. I know you're going to crush tomorrow.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited for you. I'm so proud of you.
Speaker 1: You're writting a novel on here and I.
Speaker 9: Can see it.
Speaker 2: But at least they took off the pricing though, because
Speaker 2: that was another thing. Once you saw that you could judge,
Speaker 2: can really judge.
Speaker 9: Or to mean the pricing like how much?
Speaker 2: Because I don't think it tells you like any more,
Speaker 2: like how much they gave, right, It just tells you.
Speaker 1: It doesn't really No, Yeah, yeah that's.
Speaker 10: Private because I didn't people to see how much I
Speaker 10: was paying for whatever it was. Yeah, oh so now
Speaker 10: it doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: Now they're gonna see whatever you describe the payment asks.
Speaker 2: Okay, but they'll see sometimes I pay a guy with
Speaker 2: a flexed arm. It's like, what's that for.
Speaker 9: I'm telling you it's wild.
Speaker 1: I say all this to say that I there's so okay.
Speaker 1: Just to set this up for you, there's coworkers that
Speaker 1: work here. One works in this building, one works in
Speaker 1: a different one, but both in radio. The one was
Speaker 1: telling me a story about how his brother is married
Speaker 1: with a kid on the way, like she has a
Speaker 1: baby in her womb, and he Venmo requests her for
Speaker 1: anything they do. So the example he gave, listen to me.
Speaker 1: The example he gave was we all went out to bowl. Okay,
Speaker 1: they went bowling, but they had chicken fingers and fries. Okay,
Speaker 1: there were four people, so there were the two brothers
Speaker 1: and their two wives. The one brother paid for the
Speaker 1: chicken fingers and fries, and Venmo requested his own brother,
Speaker 1: his brother's wife, and his own wife for chicken fingers
Speaker 1: and fries. We're talking like three dollars and sixty two cents.
Speaker 4: Like that's embarrassing, right, that.
Speaker 1: Is the strangest thing I've that's beyond embarrassing.
Speaker 2: I could almost understand if they were like teenagers, right,
Speaker 2: and you're counting each dollar and all that stuff. But
Speaker 2: if you're a doll if you're an adult and married
Speaker 2: or whatever it is, you should not.
Speaker 4: Be doing that.
Speaker 1: I also couldn't imagine the conversation if the chicken fingers
Speaker 1: and fries bill came out for twelve dollars and he
Speaker 1: held it up and said, how do you guys want
Speaker 1: to do this? Do what?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Give it me, like, I'll pay it's twelve dollars, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah there. I don't know if you guys feel like this,
Speaker 1: but I think there's a certain threshold of amount of
Speaker 1: money where I'm like not gonna say venmo me.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think for the most part, maybe over ten dollars,
Speaker 1: I would even.
Speaker 2: Push it like ten to twenty yeah, like anything above
Speaker 2: like below that, I'm not gonna ask.
Speaker 1: At minimum you're gonna say to the person. If to me,
Speaker 1: if it was something that was ten bucks, I'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: can I venmo you? Or like I'll give you care.
Speaker 1: I would say those words out loud if it was
Speaker 1: like three or four dollars. Yeah, three, then three, Like,
Speaker 1: but your own wife.
Speaker 2: If you're if you're doing that to your wife, then
Speaker 2: then like something's up, right, Like I'm not saying something's
Speaker 2: up on the side or anything like that, but like
Speaker 2: that is something diabolical than yourself. Yeah, that's gonna lead
Speaker 2: to probably this relationship not working out at the end
Speaker 2: of the day.
Speaker 1: You have deep rooted issues, like you have a baby
Speaker 1: on the way, sir. Yeah, three dollars, three dollars. That
Speaker 1: would be like if every time the fireman was driving
Speaker 1: home from work and grab me a coffee, he would
Speaker 1: venmo request me for the coffee.
Speaker 2: You know, And I've said this in the past, like
Speaker 2: if you have like separate bank bank accounts, that's an
Speaker 2: issue for me because we share everything. Right, this is
Speaker 2: a thousand times worse than that. Well, no, I have
Speaker 2: some re Well I know you do, but I wasn't.
Speaker 4: Talking to you.
Speaker 2: I was talking just in general. But you don't live
Speaker 2: this life because this is like ten levels deeper than that.
Speaker 1: This is crazy. Like I feel sad for her. I
Speaker 1: feel sad for her, like she she maybe she didn't
Speaker 1: even want the chicken fingers and fries, but that was
Speaker 1: what the consensus said, and now she got to pay
Speaker 1: three sixty two for well.
Speaker 2: I feel sad for him that he's worrying about this.
Speaker 2: This is what he's thinking about and doing the math
Speaker 2: in his head while those chicken fingers are Maybe there was.
Speaker 10: A conversation to have before man and they were like, hey,
Speaker 10: you know, I don't know what the convo would be.
Speaker 1: But again, don't you picture someone picking up how do
Speaker 1: you guys want to do this? And it says twelve dollars?
Speaker 1: I'm like, give me me, but what's your threshold? Number four?
Speaker 10: And like you where you feel as if, Yeah, I'm
Speaker 10: kind of with you anything on the twenty, maybe even
Speaker 10: at thirty.
Speaker 9: And I'm kind of like that it is what it is.
Speaker 1: I just think if it's like double ditch, like if
Speaker 1: we hit ten bucks, I at least offer, hey, let
Speaker 1: me get let me get you some cash, let me
Speaker 1: vemo you the ten I think the person's usually gonna
Speaker 1: say no.
Speaker 2: I mean, now, if we're going out to dinner to
Speaker 2: a nice place and there's a group before you, then
Speaker 2: there's an open conversation around around the table and well,
Speaker 2: some people don't even believe in that.
Speaker 1: Well, actually, if you guys want to put the contact
Speaker 1: clothes together. That's on you. This same person once I
Speaker 1: was out to dinner with him and we all agreed
Speaker 1: to go out to dinner to the to the State,
Speaker 1: this steakhouse in the city, and there was like six
Speaker 1: or seven of us at the table. It was agreed
Speaker 1: upon that we were going to go out to dinner
Speaker 1: and there was going to be one bill, and that
Speaker 1: was what it was. We talked about it. The bill
Speaker 1: comes and everyone just puts their card down and says, okay,
Speaker 1: we are we splitting it six ways? That up. He says, no,
Speaker 1: I only.
Speaker 2: Ate a salad, Like that's embarrassing, so uncomfortable, especially.
Speaker 10: Embarrassing because the convo was already had. Yes, now the
Speaker 10: convo was not had with him though.
Speaker 1: He should have just said I like to get my
Speaker 1: bill separate.
Speaker 9: So then before y'all went.
Speaker 1: Yes or Asian, when we first sat down on the
Speaker 1: table like hey, I'm going to get a separate bill,
Speaker 1: I would have been like, Okay, you're a loser, but
Speaker 1: that's better than us now having to do the math,
Speaker 1: and you know, it's stupid.
Speaker 10: I'm not of the belief if I sit down at
Speaker 10: the table and I have a salad, and the bill
Speaker 10: is eight hundred dollars that I'm splitting it with y'all.
Speaker 9: Y'all got me f up doing that. Y'all crazy for
Speaker 9: you to eat. I don't know.
Speaker 10: It's not the easiest, yeah thing for you because you
Speaker 10: having drinks all me, yes, but having for late a
Speaker 10: me you having salmon all meat.
Speaker 4: I had a salad, but yes.
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, we're paying for
Speaker 2: the the whole occasion environment.
Speaker 10: I don't care the group twelve dollars, give me the bill.
Speaker 10: I'm i chipping on the on the tip. I'm coold
Speaker 10: with that. I'm not buying y'all drinks and your food. Yeah,
Speaker 10: crazy eights, Yeah, twelve bucks.
Speaker 4: Let's just be happy.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think when you go to a dinner like that,
Speaker 1: there's the general consensus like, okay, we're split at least.
Speaker 1: I always going with that knowledge. But that's neither here
Speaker 1: nor there. We're talking about a three or four dollars
Speaker 1: ven like that, And actually you're right, it's him like
Speaker 1: he he because think about it, he had to go
Speaker 1: find them, hit the three sixty two and then hit request. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like he had to go through the whole thing. With
Speaker 1: his own wife. His own wife three dollars and sixty two.
Speaker 4: Now he's doing that for her.
Speaker 2: He's doing that in every aspect of life, buys coffee
Speaker 2: for people, he's thinking about, Oh, she owes me ninety cents.
Speaker 1: That's where if he's thinking three sixty two, he's thinking less.
Speaker 2: And this isn't the thing about being cheap. This is
Speaker 2: almost borderline I think of like you're crazy for goal.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's nice. A girl up six one seven nine
Speaker 1: three one one nine four five six one seven nine
Speaker 1: three one one nine four five Are we oh here
Speaker 1: asking our significant others for three sixty two three sixty two? Hi, everybody,
Speaker 1: good morning. It's ashing the gam of morning show. It's funny.
Speaker 1: We're talking about a person that I know that is
Speaker 1: the type where you could go out to dinner and
Speaker 1: he'll be He'll immediately say, well, I only got this,
Speaker 1: so I'm not paying that amount.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: He Venmo requested his own wife who's pregnant, for three
Speaker 1: dollars and sixty two cents because they ordered a round
Speaker 1: of chicken fingers and fries like crazy land.
Speaker 2: So if he's on the way home and he has
Speaker 2: to buy diapers, is he splitting that with his wife.
Speaker 4: Yes, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: Yeah. The way we do it in our house is
Speaker 1: like we kind of every other it. If we notice
Speaker 1: that the diapers are almost empty, I might order them.
Speaker 1: Then the next time he will. I know some people
Speaker 1: don't like I don't get that either.
Speaker 2: I know you get like three three pots there. I
Speaker 2: don't like it just one pot.
Speaker 1: I know that I was gonna say, I know you
Speaker 1: don't like that, and I, you know the fireman, I
Speaker 1: kind of have this unwritten, like if I grab lunch,
Speaker 1: he might then later order dinner. Like we try to
Speaker 1: really make it as even as possible, but he definitely
Speaker 1: pays for more.
Speaker 2: But I can sum make that one that one. I
Speaker 2: can understand and comprehend. The whole asking for three dollars
Speaker 2: is crazy.
Speaker 1: Three I would feel I would feel legit disrespected. Like
Speaker 1: are you okay? Annie is in Canton? Hi, Good morning Annie.
Speaker 1: What do you think it's insane to ever ask your
Speaker 1: spouse for money? Like what if they go to grocery
Speaker 1: shopping and they spend five hundred, You're not going to
Speaker 1: throw a couple of hundo their way?
Speaker 11: Oh no, absolutely. What I'm saying is I think three
Speaker 11: dollars and ninety two cents for chicken fingers and fries
Speaker 11: is insane.
Speaker 1: No, it's like sad.
Speaker 11: Yeah, when it comes to buying groceries like you mentioned
Speaker 11: you and the fireman splitting going and buying dump s
Speaker 11: diapers or whatever like twitching off, I don't see that
Speaker 11: as an issue. What the issue is is that you're
Speaker 11: asking for three dollars ninety two cents. I think that
Speaker 11: that's a little much. It's I don't I don't see
Speaker 11: the need for that. What is mine is yours, What
Speaker 11: is yours is mine also, So it's like I don't
Speaker 11: see the need in that. I find that kind of
Speaker 11: embarrassing to know.
Speaker 1: I do too, especially with your partner, Like I wouldn't
Speaker 1: even thank you for the call Anny ask a stranger
Speaker 1: for three sixty two No, like, you know, fine, it's
Speaker 1: keep it. Susan is in Rhode Island. Hi, Susan, Susanne, Susan,
Speaker 1: Hey Heaven, Susan. Yeah, Susan, Okay, So tell us your story.
Speaker 12: All right. So, basically, my friend was dying for me
Speaker 12: to meet her boyfriend for the first time. I'm like, fine,
Speaker 12: we can go out. They basically just a dinner. We
Speaker 12: went out to dinner, had some appetizer drinks all that.
Speaker 12: Towards the end of the night, her boyfriend was in
Speaker 12: the bathroom, so check came. I wasn't thinking twice. I
Speaker 12: always thought my card down. I'm thinking we're gonna split it.
Speaker 12: I'm assuming either three ways or he's going to cover
Speaker 12: for her meal, as he should. I don't tend to
Speaker 12: pay for me, but I suspect him to pay for her.
Speaker 12: My friend puts her card down on top of it,
Speaker 12: So it ended up getting splitting two ways, and I
Speaker 12: paid for basically half of his meal.
Speaker 1: No, so you and your friends split for the three
Speaker 1: of you? Yes, oh my god, they went See that's
Speaker 1: because they went ahead and counted themselves as one. Like,
Speaker 1: that's not you don't do that.
Speaker 10: Plus she invited you out to then she should have
Speaker 10: covered the whole bill.
Speaker 9: You shouldn't have had to pay anything.
Speaker 12: Exactly.
Speaker 9: Homeboys go fit for her?
Speaker 1: And are they still together?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 12: So next week he's actually hitting my man, and my
Speaker 12: man was like, I'm not I'm not putting my card
Speaker 12: down for her.
Speaker 1: Hey, facts, you know what, we I like him too.
Speaker 1: He's defending his girl. That's very strange. But also I
Speaker 1: feel like that's more like your your friend should have
Speaker 1: said if if she knew he was, I thought, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, I'm just saying, given that situation, if that's me,
Speaker 1: if I know that he's not gonna put the car
Speaker 1: for I'm gonna put my card down and be like,
Speaker 1: I'll take care of this. Because that's that's so weird,
Speaker 1: all right, to see and thank you for the car
Speaker 1: people get when the bill comes, people get weird.
Speaker 9: No, that that's she shouldn't have even put down that car.
Speaker 1: No, I think her friend exactly, especially if her man
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna put his car downing, that's weird. That's very weird.
Speaker 1: Katie's in New Hampshire. Katie, we're running a little bit
Speaker 1: out of time. But you say, if you offer something
Speaker 1: to get something for somebody on the way to work,
Speaker 1: you'll pay.
Speaker 13: Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 14: So like if I am grabbing stuff for someone, I'm
Speaker 14: not going to expect to be paid back. So in
Speaker 14: your friend's case, if he ordered chicken tenders and then shared,
Speaker 14: definitely don't expect to get paid back. But if somebody
Speaker 14: asked you to pick up something for them, and I'm
Speaker 14: going to expect it, even if it's under ten dollars. Like,
Speaker 14: if you're asking me to stop at a Roma Joe's
Speaker 14: and get in a rush or get something at Starbucks,
Speaker 14: then I'm going to expect you already know the average
Speaker 14: cost of that and I'm going to get a Venmo
Speaker 14: for it because i went out of my way to
Speaker 14: grab it for you.
Speaker 1: What if it's under five dollars, maybe if.
Speaker 14: You're asking me, then I would still expect you to
Speaker 14: at least offer offer it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I yeah, I can see the offer, and
Speaker 1: then you do the quick little thing where you're like, oh, no,
Speaker 1: it's good, but like okay. For example, Katie, we've talked
Speaker 1: about this before. Santi gets mine and his coffee every
Speaker 1: single morning, so we go every other like I'll pay
Speaker 1: for a week and then you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: like we because it's Starbucks and it can get pricey.
Speaker 14: That's like an unset mutual agreement though, because you're already rotating.
Speaker 1: We're rotating.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, although, Hey, I.
Speaker 14: Have instances too where I go out with my friends.
Speaker 14: We have three girls, we'll catch up and just go
Speaker 14: out for dinner, and I've had like the last two
Speaker 14: times we've gone out.
Speaker 15: We usually all three.
Speaker 14: Will split it, and there's one person that usually never
Speaker 14: brings their card but will send me the VENMO to
Speaker 14: cover and then they're looking at their receipt and they're
Speaker 14: literally just paying like fourteen ninety nine for whatever their
Speaker 14: meal was, not even doing tip or anything. I haven't
Speaker 14: ever said anything because I mean, in the back of
Speaker 14: my mind, I'm like, Okay, well that's kind of cheap.
Speaker 6: But at the same time, I.
Speaker 14: Have never said anything because I'm literally covering tax and
Speaker 14: tip for them, so it's not like it's thirty dollars
Speaker 14: or fifty dollars.
Speaker 15: I just eat the cough.
Speaker 1: No, you do feel type of way, And it's just
Speaker 1: there's something about the money, like the bill thing that
Speaker 1: you you you would hope they would at least say,
Speaker 1: can I send you the tip or whatever? All right, Katie,
Speaker 1: well thank you for the call. No, I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: when the bill comes people get weird.
Speaker 9: When Katie and them get into a fight, and with
Speaker 9: that friend, the friendship is over. I been paid, Yeah,
Speaker 9: you broke.
Speaker 1: That's definitely good coming out. But I think if you're
Speaker 1: listening and you're like, I venmoded my husband three dollars
Speaker 1: last night, we might want to reconsider Okay.
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Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, good morning. Listen. Cole people had sent this
Speaker 1: to me. It's just we had a lot going on
Speaker 1: and I never got to it. But Son, did you
Speaker 1: see the meetup heard around the world.
Speaker 4: I did because you were talking about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, a turtle boy meeting up. Maybe, I mean it
Speaker 1: looked like a meetup. I don't know how else they
Speaker 1: would just run into each other.
Speaker 2: Ben Affleck, here's the thing, come, Here's what my soul
Speaker 2: says to me right now, is that clearly the Karen
Speaker 2: Read story is going to be told, and maybe Ben
Speaker 2: Affleck's going to be the one to tell it, which
Speaker 2: is amazing because his directing skills, I would say, are
Speaker 2: better than him as an actor.
Speaker 1: Tell people because they might not know that Ben. About
Speaker 1: Ben's production company.
Speaker 2: So Ben and Masstart are a production company. I forget
Speaker 2: what the name of it is, but they they put
Speaker 2: you some good movies. They like to tell like biopics.
Speaker 2: They like to tell true stories. But again going back
Speaker 2: to Benby and director, the Town Gone, Baby Gone like
Speaker 2: his director skills are amazing.
Speaker 1: And they did the Jordan film.
Speaker 4: They did it was called Air Right Air.
Speaker 1: That was really good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so hopefully this is what they're doing.
Speaker 2: And also it's important that people from Boston tell the
Speaker 2: story because you can't have some idiot from La totally.
Speaker 1: And I think if you're going to tell the story,
Speaker 1: Turtleboy does have to be included. And I think Ben's
Speaker 1: probably trying to get ahead of that because there's gonna
Speaker 1: be others that are going to try to make this film.
Speaker 1: It was so funny though. I thought one of the
Speaker 1: best parts about it is obviously Aiden and Ben. There's
Speaker 1: a photo of them, Turtleboy and Ben Affleck, and then
Speaker 1: there's a picture of Ben Affleck with Turtleboy's kids and
Speaker 1: they had no idea who he was, and he goes,
Speaker 1: I just told him take a picture with him. It's Batman.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well yeah, well technically not really now because the Batman
Speaker 2: has now evolved, but he was that he was at
Speaker 2: one point.
Speaker 1: Man. Ben just looks like sun kissed. He looked handsome, happy,
Speaker 1: like smirking. Cites me, dude.
Speaker 2: Well, usually if I guess at this point, then they've
Speaker 2: probably already signed the papers and signed the deal, so
Speaker 2: maybe he is the one to produce this.
Speaker 1: Do we think we'd ever have a shot at getting
Speaker 1: Turtleboy on this show? I would love to chat with him.
Speaker 4: I feel like we would. Why wouldn't we, right, if
Speaker 4: you know him?
Speaker 1: I mean I would ask Nick, But I don't know Nick. Listen, Nick,
Speaker 1: he's taking some time off. Yeah, so you know, if
Speaker 1: you know, if you know Turtle Boy, I'd love to
Speaker 1: get him in here, get him in the studio. Aiden,
Speaker 1: come on, Aiden, don't worry. I'll just ask eighty percent
Speaker 1: of the questions about your time with Ben Sadly and.
Speaker 5: The Jamie Morning Show with d J four and it's
Speaker 5: such a good morning.
Speaker 8: Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
Speaker 8: or five.
Speaker 1: Hi Rebod, good morning. We're coming up. We're two days
Speaker 1: away from the anniversary of Drake, my dog, going to
Speaker 1: dog Heaven. And I mentioned this because I really I
Speaker 1: know there are other people who feel the same way
Speaker 1: as me, and I I hate even talking about this
Speaker 1: because it I feel so bad. Obviously, Drake is in heaven.
Speaker 1: So now at the house, it's Teddy and the fireman's.
Speaker 4: Dog that doesn't a name.
Speaker 1: Well, it's not my dog. So my relationship with Teddy
Speaker 1: has changed so drastically, and if when I really start
Speaker 1: to think about it, I get emotional and I feel
Speaker 1: because I feel like, okay, I kind of start to
Speaker 1: hate myself, and I think anybody else who's in the
Speaker 1: situation that I'm in right now, where you it's like
Speaker 1: trench time, Like you're in the trenches. I mean, I
Speaker 1: have an eight month old baby and I have a
Speaker 1: three year old. So when I get home and it's
Speaker 1: time for people's like to get attention from me, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm on the bottom of the list. And so the
Speaker 1: dog is also down there on the on the bottom
Speaker 1: of the list. And little things that the dog used
Speaker 1: to do that I used to think were like funny
Speaker 1: and cute, now send me to the moon, okay, Like okay,
Speaker 1: For example, he has this thing where he likes to
Speaker 1: pick up a ball, yeah and drop it at the
Speaker 1: top of the steps. It hits every step and goes down, Okay,
Speaker 1: Like he used to do this, and I used to
Speaker 1: crack up. I used to in Dorchester. I thought it
Speaker 1: was hilarious. Yeah, because he likes to eat a tennis
Speaker 1: ball while he eats his food. It's very strange. But
Speaker 1: now he picked up that ball yesterday and I looked
Speaker 1: at him and I said, you're not going to do
Speaker 1: it because I can't. I'm not dealing with I was
Speaker 1: so like, I'm just being touched and grabbed and somebody
Speaker 1: needs something all the time. And you know, whereas I
Speaker 1: think about this often about how my life on the
Speaker 1: weekends used to be at what dog park? Are we
Speaker 1: going too? Like I'm hungover, I'm waking up at nine am,
Speaker 1: ten am, I'm on DJ Jewels time. Okay, I'm sleeping in.
Speaker 1: I'm living life. I don't have any priorities and other
Speaker 1: than the dogs, you know. And so I saw this,
Speaker 1: this girl post this meme and she's like she's panning
Speaker 1: her house and she's like, this isn't setting me off.
Speaker 1: And it's her kid like coloring on the walls. And
Speaker 1: she's like, this isn't setting me off. And it's her
Speaker 1: other kid like throwing eggs at the wall. She's like,
Speaker 1: this is and it's the dog just staring at her.
Speaker 1: It's so true, like any small thing that the dog
Speaker 1: does now drives me mental and it's I hate it.
Speaker 1: I hate myself. I have had to take a step back.
Speaker 1: This was like last week and I said to myself,
Speaker 1: every day, you need to give the dog five minutes.
Speaker 1: You have to force yourself to add it in to
Speaker 1: the schedule of the day and just sit down and
Speaker 1: give him five minutes of pets and five minutes of
Speaker 1: cuddles and five because if I don't force it on myself,
Speaker 1: he just falls by the wayside because I, like, I
Speaker 1: don't have time for myself now, mind you, it sounds
Speaker 1: like I'm I like not enjoying my life. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: change anything. I am so blessed and I'm so lucky
Speaker 1: and I but I do be feeling bad for that
Speaker 1: dog because it's just our relationship isn't what it used
Speaker 1: to be.
Speaker 2: I think I can understand it, like you're feeling bad
Speaker 2: for him and the dog not getting attention. But I
Speaker 2: guess I don't get the he makes you mad when
Speaker 2: he looks at you type of thing.
Speaker 1: And like the dog's breathing and he's looking at.
Speaker 2: Him like what, And the poor thing just wants your
Speaker 2: eductions all he wants.
Speaker 1: That's all he wants, and it's just it's just and
Speaker 1: like then the baby is sleeping, God forbid somebody rings
Speaker 1: the doorbell, the dogs showing his teeth. You are a
Speaker 1: miniature golden doodle. What are you gonna do? He's growling,
Speaker 1: he's barking, the dogs waking up. Now I go to pee,
Speaker 1: I'm tripping over him. He's he's following me. I'm I
Speaker 1: want to put him out for adoption.
Speaker 2: My favorite thing that I've seen your dog do consistently
Speaker 2: is when he's a dog on the TV and it
Speaker 2: barks at it.
Speaker 4: It's so funny.
Speaker 1: Try try, try, try, trying to watch nineteen twenty three
Speaker 1: on Sunday with the Horses and the Lion. There's a
Speaker 1: there's a scene where there's a lion on the porch
Speaker 1: and he's up. I can't even hear the talking between
Speaker 1: the people because he's up at the screen. Mondy, you
Speaker 1: you have a you have fluffy hair. What are you
Speaker 1: gonna do to that lion? It's just I I hate
Speaker 1: admitting this and even hearing myself talk like I want
Speaker 1: to slap my own self. I get it, and I
Speaker 1: know people are listening like you bitch, no, like you
Speaker 1: love your like and I do. I love my dog.
Speaker 1: But it's just again, like my priorities, they have changed
Speaker 1: and the list of people getting attention. I said to
Speaker 1: Santia the other day, Jewels, I'm like, the one thing
Speaker 1: I do for myself during the day is go to
Speaker 1: the gym. That's it. When I get home, like I
Speaker 1: my my time is my kids and whatever we need
Speaker 1: to do with them, that that's what we do. So that,
Speaker 1: Like Teddy, I think it's.
Speaker 4: A normal thing.
Speaker 2: My wife used to bring our dog to work, like
Speaker 2: back in the day, like single day. Then we had
Speaker 2: four kids, and then the dog is now now at
Speaker 2: the bottom. I think it's a natural thing and it's okay.
Speaker 1: I remember my neighbor shout out to Nick when I
Speaker 1: lived this was like years and years and years ago.
Speaker 1: But he would make fun of me because I was
Speaker 1: the my dogs are my kids, like Drake and Teddy
Speaker 1: or I was single at the time, like my life
Speaker 1: revolved around them, four or five walks a day, We're
Speaker 1: going to dog parks, Like every photo in my phone
Speaker 1: is of the dogs. And he was like, wait till
Speaker 1: you get a boyfriend, Like he would like literally say
Speaker 1: like things like that, Wait do you get a boyfriend,
Speaker 1: Wait you get a husband, Wait till you have kids,
Speaker 1: Like when you have kids, your pictures on your phone
Speaker 1: aren't gonna be of your dogs? And I said, who
Speaker 1: are you talking to? Like these are my Yes. I
Speaker 1: took a picture of Teddy the other day. I almost
Speaker 1: cried because I was like I hadn't taken one in
Speaker 1: like a week, two weeks, three weeks.
Speaker 3: It is sad.
Speaker 2: Is there a world where you could just walk the
Speaker 2: dog once a day and then that way there's the
Speaker 2: attention there.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, we're gonna get to that, and I think we'll
Speaker 1: get it there.
Speaker 4: I just think that at some point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just think this chapter of my life, like
Speaker 1: this isn't the whole book. This is just the chapter.
Speaker 1: And you know I I'm not, They're not. They're only
Speaker 1: going to be this this little for a little bit
Speaker 1: of time, and so that that's it. Like my attention
Speaker 1: is there because I'd be looking at myself in the
Speaker 1: mirror sometimes and it's horrifying what I see.
Speaker 4: Scary, just like.
Speaker 1: Massive cast type level. I'm like, bitch, are you okay?
Speaker 1: But I don't. I just don't have the time, Like
Speaker 1: I just don't so it that that's what it is.
Speaker 1: I will look like a drug addict.
Speaker 4: You know. It's funny.
Speaker 2: At some point you know you'll probably get another dog
Speaker 2: like down the road. You say that, but if your doughter,
Speaker 2: you can start asking for a dog.
Speaker 1: Acte, No, you can.
Speaker 4: You're never getting a dog yet. I don't believe you.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you.
Speaker 3: It's done.
Speaker 4: People have have like No.
Speaker 1: I've also come to the realization that I don't like dogs.
Speaker 1: I like my own dogs, and that's it. I don't
Speaker 1: I'm done like dog. No, I don't.
Speaker 4: Yes, you do.
Speaker 3: What do you mean?
Speaker 1: I don't. I really don't. I just don't.
Speaker 2: Point it was going to be that when you do
Speaker 2: eventually get like another dog, it comes into like the situation.
Speaker 2: They come into the situation with the kids already there,
Speaker 2: so like they're pecking like order. They understand it, and
Speaker 2: your your whole relationship with them is from that perspective.
Speaker 4: It's not going from one to five. What did you
Speaker 4: just say when you bring a dog in.
Speaker 1: I want to understand, but I'm confused.
Speaker 2: So when you eventually get like another dog, right, you're
Speaker 2: bringing them into like a family with kids and aweso,
Speaker 2: so they understand their role in the pack before they
Speaker 2: went from me in the top to the bottom.
Speaker 1: You're right, Okay, Now do you have dogs.
Speaker 2: It's a different dynamic, and you will like dogs again.
Speaker 2: I won't, yes, you will. I don't believe that you'll
Speaker 2: never get a dog again. You know how many people
Speaker 2: have stated the same exact thing, I'm never getting a
Speaker 2: dog again.
Speaker 1: To be honest, I feel like such trash that I
Speaker 1: even told you guys these things. It admitted, these things
Speaker 1: that I would love. I'm just going to give the
Speaker 1: number out and pray that one person I understand now.
Speaker 1: I just need one person to be like ash I
Speaker 1: get it. And if nobody calls, I'm I was gonna
Speaker 1: make a bad joke right there, six one seven, I
Speaker 1: was gonna say a Tobin thing six one seven, nine,
Speaker 1: three one five. Please Hi, everybody, good morning, It's Ashley
Speaker 1: in the jam of morning show. I feel like I've
Speaker 1: been holding this in and I thought to myself, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna admit this, and then people are gonna
Speaker 1: be like, she's a horrible person, like and I listen,
Speaker 1: my dogs were my life. They were my life and
Speaker 1: then I had kids, and not that they're not a
Speaker 1: part of my life anymore, but they're just not high
Speaker 1: on the priority list. And it's making me feel bad.
Speaker 1: I have had to have sit down corombos with myself
Speaker 1: where I'm like, Okay, you have to pencil in Teddy
Speaker 1: time where you at least look at him and pet him,
Speaker 1: because if not, the day will go by and I
Speaker 1: will not have had a second of time with him.
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, I'm done with dogs. This is it.
Speaker 1: When Teddy goes to heaven, that is it for me.
Speaker 1: I'm wrapping up in a bow my time with dogs.
Speaker 1: I can't do it anymore. I can't.
Speaker 4: It'll be like a three year break. Then you'll get
Speaker 4: another one.
Speaker 1: No, I won't. Katie is in Lynn. Katie, I said,
Speaker 1: I just need one person to understand what I'm saying
Speaker 1: because I feel so awful even admitting it and saying it.
Speaker 1: And thank god, hey there are others of us because
Speaker 1: the phones are lighting up, But you get what I'm
Speaker 1: saying right because I say it. It makes me literally
Speaker 1: feel like I should just just walk right into the
Speaker 1: depths of hell.
Speaker 15: I feel the exact same. I have two dogs. So
Speaker 15: I have an eight year old American bulldog, Mex who
Speaker 15: was my first baby, and I made the mistake of
Speaker 15: treating him like a human child his entire life and
Speaker 15: then when he turned five, we got another dog because
Speaker 15: we didn't want him to be old and alone. So
Speaker 15: now I have a three year old boss a Terrier,
Speaker 15: and now I have a one year old and my
Speaker 15: daughter is I mean, she's everything. So unfortunately my two
Speaker 15: babies as they are at the end of the list, like, yeah,
Speaker 15: they're lucky if they get a walk once a week.
Speaker 4: I know, I know.
Speaker 1: And what's crazy is like a one year old, like
Speaker 1: your your hands are taken like physically, there's nothing you
Speaker 1: can do. You're yeah, and it's like one of those
Speaker 1: things where it's like, okay, we we could just put
Speaker 1: the TV on and you know, play with the dogs
Speaker 1: a little bit, but then we feel like bad parents
Speaker 1: for just putting on the TV and not coming up
Speaker 1: with you know, like games and stuff to do without
Speaker 1: It's just it's a never ending cycle of just trying
Speaker 1: to get through the day.
Speaker 15: I know, it really is. And then you feel so
Speaker 15: bad because it's like, oh, you know, you want to
Speaker 15: make time for you, You want to make things for
Speaker 15: your kids, like your socks, and then your husband. It's
Speaker 15: like I don't want to make time for anybody about
Speaker 15: myself at this point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And then kitty. We feel guilty for that.
Speaker 1: It's crazy. Yeah, yeah, it's nuts. All right, Well, thank you,
Speaker 1: there's more of us. Okay, Tiana is in New Bedford.
Speaker 1: It's just like, not only is the dog at the
Speaker 1: bottom of the list, but also if the dog like
Speaker 1: eats a kernel of food wrong, it sends me. I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't. It's just a lot right now.
Speaker 11: I know it makes you feel so guilty.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 1: No, it's it's it's terrible. I mean and and I
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm telling myself straight up, you got it.
Speaker 1: You gotta put the dog. You got to carve out
Speaker 1: dog time because if not, I know.
Speaker 11: Maybe just including with the girls do it all together.
Speaker 16: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, thank you, thank you for the I know
Speaker 1: there's no answer. There's there's no there's no answer, you know.
Speaker 1: But Millie is in Boston. Milly, you get what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: Good morning, good morning.
Speaker 1: Good morning, Thank god you guys are all calling. Or
Speaker 1: else I would be like, hey, let me run to
Speaker 1: the bathroom, and I would just go to backs and
Speaker 1: cast and never come back.
Speaker 6: But yeah, what said. Yes, when your kids grow up
Speaker 6: and they're like ten, twelve and they're not in need
Speaker 6: of you anymore. You're gonna get.
Speaker 9: An all the dogs.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not. It's nice of you to say,
Speaker 1: but i'm not.
Speaker 6: It gets to the point where you're neglecting yourself literally,
Speaker 6: and like you're neglecting the dog as well. That's why,
Speaker 6: because you don't have time for other than your children's.
Speaker 6: And you don't neglect your kids because they cry and
Speaker 6: they mommy you all the time. But the dog does it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. I appreciate the call. I have to
Speaker 1: go to Lisa real quick and fall river because I
Speaker 1: know we're running out of time. But Lisa, like, you
Speaker 1: get what Lisa says when the dog brees, No, you
Speaker 1: get it's serious. It's serious.
Speaker 13: I get it.
Speaker 6: I get it. My kids are like, mom, just look
Speaker 6: at us.
Speaker 14: I'm like, stop itself.
Speaker 1: I know, I know. The other day Teddy was Teddy
Speaker 1: was licking his palls and it was all I could hear,
Speaker 1: Like there was eight hundred things happening in the house,
Speaker 1: but I could hear that. I was like, I just
Speaker 1: hear it. I'm at my I'm at my edge so bad, me.
Speaker 12: Too, feel so bad.
Speaker 6: But yeah, and then like you're trying to get out
Speaker 6: the door and then they run.
Speaker 4: The wet No.
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah no mine mine, mine will trip me,
Speaker 1: Mine'll trip me. Do yeah no, I'm not Lisa. Thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you. So oh yeah, you know what.
Speaker 4: I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: All right, thanks bab. Yeah no, I know I feel
Speaker 1: that we're rushing off. We just have a lot of time.
Speaker 1: But the amount of times like this, I'll be just
Speaker 1: goodn't like I have to say. I just had to
Speaker 1: be like, get in your bed and lay down because
Speaker 1: mommy's gonna lose it.
Speaker 2: You can give your dog away. This farms in Vermont
Speaker 2: apparently like taking dogs, so.
Speaker 1: You know what, you know, I think Teddy would get
Speaker 1: along with Chloe exactly.
Speaker 5: In the morning show with J four and it's suns.
Speaker 8: Mornington's number one for hip hop jamming ninety four or five.
Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, good morning. Just as a reminder, Santin and
Speaker 1: I are here. DJ Forren is going to be out
Speaker 1: for the remainder of the week. He's in this a
Speaker 1: Manican Republic, which is amazing because it's your you know,
Speaker 1: your home.
Speaker 4: It is you know what.
Speaker 2: I forgot to ask him before he laughed, if I
Speaker 2: gave him money, would he bring me back some cigars.
Speaker 1: He definitely will. Yeah. I mean if he's not getting
Speaker 1: his teeth done at that time. I never forgot, Like,
Speaker 1: let's have a chat about that. Never forget. He very
Speaker 1: nonchalantly mentioned to us he's going to the dr with
Speaker 1: his kids. He can't wait. He's all excited, blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: and he's like, yeah, I might like get my teeth done.
Speaker 1: What And he said, you can get your teeth white
Speaker 1: and over there for three hundred dollars, no insurance, just
Speaker 1: straight cash. Sounds sus as hell.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But the thing is that you don't want to
Speaker 2: do that on vacation. What if something goes wrong, then
Speaker 2: you spend your whole vacation with your mouth hurting.
Speaker 1: That's just crazy. I also feel like, just go to
Speaker 1: the dentist here, like stay in America? Will you say that?
Speaker 2: I say that because my mother used to go down
Speaker 2: because my parents live down there, and she would get
Speaker 2: surgeries done down there, and one time she almost died.
Speaker 1: Because like, yeah, like that's why I say that this
Speaker 1: one'll like do it here because you've scared me.
Speaker 2: Now, the medical system here in the United States, there
Speaker 2: are so many protocols in place that you have to go. Remember,
Speaker 2: you're going to a third world, which I'm not saying
Speaker 2: you can't get stuff done there, but it's not as
Speaker 2: safe as like the hospitals here in Boston, like drastically different.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Right, So I would never elect to go down there
Speaker 2: to do anything like that. Maybe the teeth whitening, yeah,
Speaker 2: but I wouldn't choose to do it while on vacation.
Speaker 1: A positive with the teeth whitening is you're not getting
Speaker 1: like put under earth anything. Yeah, I mean, but yeah,
Speaker 1: that is. I might list one hundred things I would
Speaker 1: do other than getting my teeth whitened on vacation. Use
Speaker 1: a cress white strip for the.
Speaker 2: Love, yeah, something like, spend time at the buffet, go
Speaker 2: hang out the casino, chill on the beach vacation.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Anyways, he's gonna be on all week, so it'll just
Speaker 1: be you and I. And then the tough part is
Speaker 1: when he gets back next week, his teeth were already
Speaker 1: whiter than yours, because I mean, somebody with no teeth
Speaker 1: has better. But we're talking about well, no, I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: and now it's going to be really bad if he
Speaker 1: does that, really bad. Just look down don't yo, don't
Speaker 1: make eye contact. Land Oh.
Speaker 7: Dashyam in Morning Show with DJ four and it's saw
Speaker 7: Takeig Morning, Bustin's.
Speaker 8: Number one for hip hop jam in ninety four five.
Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, good morning. We are checking in on you.
Speaker 9: What's up?
Speaker 1: What's going on? Tell us everything? Six one seven, three
Speaker 1: one one five. That is six one seven nine three
Speaker 1: one one nine four five. We're talking about you, your life,
Speaker 1: your world. Our Lenny is going to be first up
Speaker 1: because today is your birthday.
Speaker 11: Hi, everybody, how are you?
Speaker 1: Happy birthday?
Speaker 15: Thank you?
Speaker 11: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Do you have a big plans tonight for your birthday?
Speaker 15: Well, I'm currently stopping shop.
Speaker 12: I'm gonna get myself some balloons. I ordered a cake.
Speaker 6: Hi.
Speaker 12: They printed my picture on the cake and I'm going
Speaker 12: out to dinner with my kids later.
Speaker 1: I love that. Listen, sometimes you have to just do
Speaker 1: what you want for yourself. Go get yourself some balloons.
Speaker 1: I've done that as well.
Speaker 12: Yes, I'm big on spoiling myself and not waiting around
Speaker 12: for anybody to do for me.
Speaker 1: I love to hear it. I love to hear it.
Speaker 1: Our Lenny. Happy birthday, Babe. Shout out to the Pisces
Speaker 1: of the world.
Speaker 12: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Have a great day, you too, babe. Happy birthday. Talia
Speaker 1: is in Boston. Talia has a PSA for everyone, Babe.
Speaker 14: Good morning, good morning that today we're good.
Speaker 1: I feel like you're gonna this is gonna be a PSA.
Speaker 1: You're also gonna scare everybody. But you're right though.
Speaker 3: I know you're right.
Speaker 1: You're on your way to Dana Farber right now, So
Speaker 1: tell everybody your PSA.
Speaker 5: All right.
Speaker 13: So my PSA is, if you feel something weird on
Speaker 13: your body, don't be scared, do something about it. Yeah,
Speaker 13: and actually you can be scared, but do something about it. Anyways,
Speaker 13: when I was on vacation back in October, I was
Speaker 13: down and Outer Banks, having a time gorgeous place. I
Speaker 13: was doing my nightly skincare, which includes a little facial
Speaker 13: massage and glashaw. I always take my skin pare down
Speaker 13: to my neck because Mom always taught me that your
Speaker 13: neck skin is also just as important as your face.
Speaker 13: And when I was doing like my lotion kind of
Speaker 13: into my jawline, right between the corner of my jaw
Speaker 13: and my ear lobe, I felt an odd lump.
Speaker 11: And my dad had.
Speaker 13: Fought lymphoma the last few years and he felt his
Speaker 13: lumps first in his neck as well, so it was
Speaker 13: an immediate red flag. I enjoyed my vacation as much
Speaker 13: as I could, but when I got back, I went
Speaker 13: to my PCP and fast forward.
Speaker 16: It was months and months of waiting and wondering, multiple scans, bioceies,
Speaker 16: inconclusive results, and finally a surgery and the day after Christmas,
Speaker 16: diagnosed with a extremely rare salivary gland cancer called a
Speaker 16: cynic cell carcinoma, which affects one hundred to one hundred
Speaker 16: and fifty people a year at most.
Speaker 1: God, that is found crazy And yeah, your spirits are
Speaker 1: just so high, you sound great, but that is it
Speaker 1: is crazy.
Speaker 13: I had, coincidentally, the last year or so really gotten
Speaker 13: my health and wellness together, both body, mind and soul.
Speaker 13: I lost one hundred pounds. I got really into like
Speaker 13: holistic healing, like energy healing and sound bass and stuff
Speaker 13: like that, and meditation, so I unknowingly prepared myself really
Speaker 13: well to go into something that's like super super scary.
Speaker 1: Are you going for chemo right now?
Speaker 13: So I am doing seven weeks of week's day, every
Speaker 13: single day radiation and then once a week I get
Speaker 13: chemo and yes, today is my CHIMO day, so this
Speaker 13: is my second treatment. I just started my treatment last week.
Speaker 1: Wow, man, that is crazy. But you're right. If you
Speaker 1: feel something or see something, and even if you're like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it could be nothing, make the appointment. Just,
Speaker 1: you know, make the appointment.
Speaker 13: Make the appointment. And if I can just I did
Speaker 13: start like a little blog just to kind of share
Speaker 13: my story. If anyone is on substack, it's called Cancer Contemplation.
Speaker 13: And I did have a friend that started to go
Speaker 13: fund me for me. It's on my Instagram LinkedIn bio.
Speaker 13: My ig is where's Talia?
Speaker 6: All one word?
Speaker 1: Where's Talia? All right, babe, we'll check it out. Good
Speaker 1: luck today stay strong.
Speaker 4: Followed her back there.
Speaker 1: This is so crazy because so yesterday we had we're
Speaker 1: having some work done in the house and we're using
Speaker 1: a guy by the name of Dave, super nice guy.
Speaker 1: He's actually done a ton of work in the house
Speaker 1: that we're living in now previously for the for the
Speaker 1: other owners. And he's talking to me and he starts
Speaker 1: to tell me the story about he's at like a
Speaker 1: hockey tournament or something with his twelve year old kid
Speaker 1: and his throat hurt and he had commonly got strep throat.
Speaker 1: So he was like, oh, damn, I have strep throat.
Speaker 1: So he goes he gets medicine for his strep throat.
Speaker 1: A week later, doesn't go away, so he goes to
Speaker 1: his doctors. He's like, oh, something's up, like, I have
Speaker 1: strep throat. Was not strep throat thro cancer Jesus, but
Speaker 1: again stayed on top. But he the doctors basically told
Speaker 1: him like he had never smoked day in his life.
Speaker 1: He's not like a big drinker. And the doctors told him, like,
Speaker 1: you take care of your body, and the fact that
Speaker 1: you did that is how you're surviving. But by the
Speaker 1: time he got to the doctor's guys, he was staged four.
Speaker 1: And not only did he survive it, but he's like
Speaker 1: working in my house.
Speaker 2: Did I tell you though? The whole thing of waiting
Speaker 2: for your physical like once a year is not ideal.
Speaker 2: I feel like if you can go in there more often.
Speaker 2: I get my blood work like every three months, and
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm on top of things. I see
Speaker 2: a guy who's a biohavy. That's good, it is, but
Speaker 2: I just always stay on top of it. I know
Speaker 2: I'm the extreme op say things, but if you feel
Speaker 2: something that seems a little bit off, get it checked out.
Speaker 10: Sucks that we can't afford to go to the hospital, broh.
Speaker 10: Otherwise I think more people would. I think people would
Speaker 10: go there if they knew there wasn't gonna get a
Speaker 10: five thousand dollars bill at that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I think also it turns into a situation where like,
Speaker 1: you know, I need Okay, for for instance, I have
Speaker 1: a mole on that my inner thigh that i've that
Speaker 1: I've seen it came when I had the baby. Whatever,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I should get that checked out because
Speaker 1: it's new. They can see me in December.
Speaker 4: But first you have to go to primary referral.
Speaker 1: I had to make seventeen calls to get the referral
Speaker 1: for the German talk. I'm telling you, it's like they
Speaker 1: make it. They make it so you don't go, and
Speaker 1: it's it's weird.
Speaker 2: But if you can find these people out there, there,
Speaker 2: people who have these wellness spots that like out there
Speaker 2: who can help.
Speaker 1: So yeah, all right, well there you have it. Let's
Speaker 1: let's go to the phones.
Speaker 4: But that mall but the most I'm gonna go.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go. Six one
Speaker 1: seven nine three one one nine four five six one
Speaker 1: seven nine three one one nine four five. We are
Speaker 1: checking in on you. What's up?
Speaker 9: Call us?
Speaker 1: Good morning, We're checking in on you. What's going on?
Speaker 9: How are you?
Speaker 1: Fourd's on the phone right now, so I want to
Speaker 1: make sure he's part of this conversation. But C four
Speaker 1: has been holding C four is in Lynn. What's going on?
Speaker 6: Good morning, good people.
Speaker 1: Good morning. We got some big news.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I got some big news.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 17: Every time I get on the A I got I
Speaker 17: got something for you. But this one, this song that
Speaker 17: I got for you guys, is actually very special. It's
Speaker 17: a remix to the song I showed you guys before,
Speaker 17: called Like the Way. But the thing on this remix,
Speaker 17: it's somebody very familiar to you. You guys, You and
Speaker 17: Santy to be exact, that's on this remix.
Speaker 3: Uh huh is it gregor cap No?
Speaker 17: Not them, not them, but uh someone someone real familiar,
Speaker 17: I would say, And uh, I can't for you guys
Speaker 17: to hear it.
Speaker 3: Well we do it.
Speaker 1: We have a clip, so let's play it. Let's see
Speaker 1: who it is.
Speaker 5: Let go DJ for see.
Speaker 3: I not the way you're feeling, the way you're dancing
Speaker 3: on me. I can go all that. Baby, put it
Speaker 3: on me. You can bring your best friend. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: bring my homiees.
Speaker 1: We don't want no problems.
Speaker 3: We just shun a paul. I like the way you feeling,
Speaker 3: the way you're dancing on me. I can go all night. Baby,
Speaker 3: put it on me. You can bring your best friend.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring my homie. We don't want who problems
Speaker 3: or we just shun a pause.
Speaker 5: We gotta step it up.
Speaker 2: You gotta take it up.
Speaker 12: You know the stuff.
Speaker 4: Baby, Let's take a club. Just know your cup, now,
Speaker 4: get your hair cuffs.
Speaker 5: And sure enough we be going up.
Speaker 3: I said, baby, because you man, I just know.
Speaker 4: I'm sure the tickets.
Speaker 3: I like the way you feel, the way you're dancing
Speaker 3: on me.
Speaker 14: I can go on that.
Speaker 3: Baby, put it on me.
Speaker 14: You could you.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring my home meet. We don't want to
Speaker 3: probably well. I like the way you feel where you're
Speaker 3: getting all me. I could go on that baby putting
Speaker 3: on You can put your best I'm gonna bring my
Speaker 3: home week.
Speaker 9: You don't want problem.
Speaker 1: I like it the first time we played it. I
Speaker 1: like it even better now. But wait a second, that's
Speaker 1: not you singing.
Speaker 10: No, no, no, that's my heart said, I put on
Speaker 10: my production my production hat. I was gonna say that one,
Speaker 10: DJ Khalid, that there you go, I DJ Khalid, did
Speaker 10: you know what I mean? I heard the original and
Speaker 10: I was like, you know what, I think I could
Speaker 10: spice this up a little bit. So me and C
Speaker 10: four got into the studio and I pretty much got
Speaker 10: my producer on and there you have it.
Speaker 9: That's the remix.
Speaker 2: I like the better.
Speaker 1: I like the remix better. See for no offense to
Speaker 1: the o G. That's nice.
Speaker 9: That's streaming everywhere, so go run that up. You know
Speaker 9: what I mean? You got DJ phone trying to get
Speaker 9: into a bad feel me.
Speaker 1: Where do we Where do we find it? Like Apple
Speaker 1: Music all the things?
Speaker 17: That song is available on all streaming platforms.
Speaker 3: Whatever you listen to me.
Speaker 5: Is it gone? It'll be on there.
Speaker 6: It's called.
Speaker 17: Like the way DJ forn remix.
Speaker 3: They're at all platform streaming right now.
Speaker 1: I like that, all right, see four, thanks for the call.
Speaker 1: Look at you. He's like DJ Khaled, Now I'm trying
Speaker 1: to cool.
Speaker 4: Is that your first one?
Speaker 1: Is that the first time you've done that.
Speaker 9: Yeah, that's the first time I really like sat down
Speaker 9: and will to produced son.
Speaker 1: So yeah, we switched that whole thing up all the
Speaker 1: way stopped. I look said I didn't because I didn't know.
Speaker 1: It was just like S featuring I was.
Speaker 9: Not there yet.
Speaker 1: Will be the day I will cup. Hi, everybody, good
Speaker 1: morning Daddy in the gam In.
Speaker 7: Morning Show with d J Foreign it's such good Mornington's
Speaker 7: number one for hip hop.
Speaker 8: He am in ninety four or five.
Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, good morning. One thing that we cannot escape
Speaker 1: we've discussed is father time.
Speaker 4: Father time.
Speaker 5: Man.
Speaker 1: Father time be catching up to all of us. You know,
Speaker 1: my neck's starting to look wrinkly, but that's neither here there.
Speaker 1: I set up a meeting with a lawyer to do
Speaker 1: my dad's will, to do power of attorney and some
Speaker 1: of the things that you know, I've been wanting to
Speaker 1: do with him. He's far and you know right now
Speaker 1: his health is good, but let's just call it what
Speaker 1: it is, my dad's and take the best care of himself.
Speaker 1: We're only getting older, and it's so strange having these conversations,
Speaker 1: like you just kind of feel like your parents are invincible,
Speaker 1: you know, and you never want to think about these
Speaker 1: things happening. But you know, he he there was no
Speaker 1: pushback from him. He absolutely is like, yes, we need
Speaker 1: to get this stuff done. And I think we know
Speaker 1: it's the right move, but it just, like I it
Speaker 1: just makes me sad. Yeah, And of course he keeps joking,
Speaker 1: what are you trying to kill me? I'm like, Dad,
Speaker 1: that's it humbles you, right, it absolutely does.
Speaker 2: When you're younger, you think you have all the time
Speaker 2: in the world with yourself, with your parents, all that stuff.
Speaker 2: But the old do you get, you realize you don't.
Speaker 2: Some mortality starts to come into play, like right now,
Speaker 2: I've been thinking about this a lot, Like my parents
Speaker 2: are approaching their eighties, so I think my dad is
Speaker 2: seventy nine. I probably am only going to see them
Speaker 2: a handful of times because they live so far away,
Speaker 2: like they like, and I think about that. I like,
Speaker 2: that is crazy.
Speaker 1: That makes me sad.
Speaker 2: And really because if you look at the obits and
Speaker 2: all these like people are dying like like all the time,
Speaker 2: it could be any day.
Speaker 4: Really if you think about it, like you just don't know,
Speaker 4: you don't.
Speaker 1: And you know, then I go into this like dark
Speaker 1: thought process of like the girls doing it for me.
Speaker 1: You know, it's just like this whole circle of life thing.
Speaker 1: And again, I know this is the right thing to
Speaker 1: be doing. And the lawyer has been great helping us out,
Speaker 1: especially because he's in Pennsylvania and I'm here and I'm
Speaker 1: with you, Like I don't see him as often as
Speaker 1: I'd like, but now having young kids, he tries to
Speaker 1: come to the house at least once a month, once
Speaker 1: every two months, which has been really nice. My mother's
Speaker 1: ten minutes up the road, a godsend, thank god she's
Speaker 1: so close. But this is just stuff that happens with time,
Speaker 1: and it's you know, I've heard these stories from people
Speaker 1: about not setting this stuff up and how like they
Speaker 1: everybody urges you to like make sure you have God
Speaker 1: forbid so that I'm just trying to like do that,
Speaker 1: but it's I hate it. I don't want to be
Speaker 1: doing it. It makes me sad, even though I know
Speaker 1: we should have all this paperwork done.
Speaker 4: Do you do it for yourself? Do you have you
Speaker 4: done a wool for yourself?
Speaker 1: No iluted? And even you talking to me about it
Speaker 1: made me feel weird on the inside.
Speaker 2: Because I think what Unfortunately would you never know what
Speaker 2: could happen to anything? Right, so if anything were to
Speaker 2: happen to you and the fire man, like at least
Speaker 2: you know, like how the chips will fall, who will
Speaker 2: take care of the kids and all this stuff. But
Speaker 2: when you start having those conversations and like the lawyer
Speaker 2: will ask you straight up so bluntly, it's like wow,
Speaker 2: so you really have to think about who is the
Speaker 2: best person to take care of them? And we had
Speaker 2: to go through all of that, like we had to say,
Speaker 2: who's gonna take care of the finances, who's going to
Speaker 2: take care of the trust, who's going to take care
Speaker 2: of the kids, who has power of attorney, like all
Speaker 2: the way out to tell college and all that. And
Speaker 2: if one of us is is like a vegetable, what
Speaker 2: are we going to do when we pull the plug?
Speaker 2: Do we pull the plug? At what point do we do?
Speaker 2: All this stuff?
Speaker 4: You think about so much?
Speaker 1: If that's the proper way to say.
Speaker 2: That, well, I pulled the plug. No, like vegetable say
Speaker 2: it like when anybody knows what I'm talking about? Right, Sorry,
Speaker 2: if you're incapacitated in the hospital, yeah, brain dead, fine, fine.
Speaker 1: Brain But you know what I mean no, I don't.
Speaker 1: I do know what you mean, but it horrifies me
Speaker 1: and it's humbling. Did you guys agree quickly? Because I
Speaker 1: don't know if the farm I would agree.
Speaker 2: Because we did this years ago, and I will say
Speaker 2: years back, I kind of had like, well that doesn't
Speaker 2: make sense.
Speaker 4: That's not the older I got.
Speaker 2: It's Clearver's day how things should fall, and we were
Speaker 2: on the same page with pretty much everything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, my god's a little rift.
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is things like this just make you really,
Speaker 1: really really and it's emotional, but you just gotta soak
Speaker 1: up every second time exactly it.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hate Father Time sadly and the.
Speaker 5: Gamine Morning Show with DJ fourn It's Sautig Morning.
Speaker 8: Cusin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
Speaker 8: or five.
Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, good morning. I certainly do think it's an
Speaker 1: X factor that Santi makes people in this building particularly
Speaker 1: feel so comfortable that they will just say anything. I'm
Speaker 1: flabbergasted at what I just heard out in that hallway.
Speaker 4: I could send to you that you got real unhumbable
Speaker 4: fast what happened.
Speaker 1: So he's he's chatting with somebody. Let's just say, somebody
Speaker 1: that works in the building down the hall, and he
Speaker 1: were all of us were coming out of the bathroom
Speaker 1: and we were chatting about like being in there, and
Speaker 1: she actually made the comment to me, She's like, you
Speaker 1: peace so fast? It is like do all moms pee fast?
Speaker 1: And I was like, which is weird to ask? And
Speaker 1: then she gave me a couple of examples of other
Speaker 1: moms that pie fast. And I'm like, Honey, I go
Speaker 1: to the bathroom because i have to go. I'm not
Speaker 1: like frolicking in there, you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: I'm waiting and then I go when I have to go.
Speaker 1: So I said, I think I was doing that even
Speaker 1: before I had a kid. And then Santi just you
Speaker 1: know how he is, Oh, do you ever do you
Speaker 1: ever like do number two in those bathrooms? As just
Speaker 1: like that, it was no, you said the word, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, you ever in those bathrooms?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 5: I think?
Speaker 4: I said, do you ever go number two at work?
Speaker 1: Yeah? In those bathrooms?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, yes, And she answered honestly. And as she's answering,
Speaker 1: which I'll tell you what her answer was, I thought
Speaker 1: to myself, I'd have to be dead, Like what do
Speaker 1: you would just look at him and be like, no,
Speaker 1: but you know what it is.
Speaker 9: Santi has a way where he approaches You've every yeah
Speaker 9: he disarmed.
Speaker 1: Yes, he does.
Speaker 9: Arms you with this way he because it's very non
Speaker 9: chill love, so chill, it's very like.
Speaker 4: It's a normal thing.
Speaker 9: But then when you really step back and you leave
Speaker 9: the conversation, you're like, yo, why did he ask me that.
Speaker 1: Studio down there? Like, I just tell that man that
Speaker 1: I poop in here.
Speaker 4: I have a reason why.
Speaker 1: By the way, her her first response to him was
Speaker 1: I she yeah, but it was like an emergency, well
Speaker 1: like and then she goes, yeah, I'm like that one
Speaker 1: day I had to go there was this one time
Speaker 1: I had to go so many times, like I thought
Speaker 1: to myself, I shouldn't be in here. It's so bad.
Speaker 1: What are you saying, lady? Why are you telling us this?
Speaker 2: We all do it, so I feel like it's a relatable. No,
Speaker 2: I think for us to work on the air here
Speaker 2: on our show, we have time limits to the bathroom.
Speaker 2: So if you extend that by like a minute, the
Speaker 2: assumption is is that you're going like to the bathroom,
Speaker 2: like for real, Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1: We only can go to the bathroom at certain times.
Speaker 1: So if you see somebody that's out of place in there,
Speaker 1: you know maybe. But again, my whole thing is like
Speaker 1: reverse the situation. That's me and I'm being asked that question.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I honestly don't like why is she
Speaker 1: really answering is the question?
Speaker 4: Because it's a human thing that we all do, so
Speaker 4: for her it's normal.
Speaker 9: She was comfortable again, she was This guy took off
Speaker 9: the shackles and everything, just like he really talks to
Speaker 9: you like that man, this question he's asked me.
Speaker 1: When I walk away, I'm like, why did I even
Speaker 1: tell this? Why did I say that he's going to
Speaker 1: judge me. I've done it too, There's no question. He
Speaker 1: asks the weirdest, the weirdest, weirdestatest question.
Speaker 5: Do you know?
Speaker 1: He once asked me if I was out, if I
Speaker 1: was out, like I was at the grocery. Story said,
Speaker 1: and somebody went to grab something at the grocery store
Speaker 1: past me and like their penis like grazed my leg.
Speaker 1: He was like, Ashley, like, you're just there and he
Speaker 1: goes to grab the cereal box next to you and
Speaker 1: it touches. He's like, is that cheating? What are you
Speaker 1: talking about? But by the way, you know what I did,
Speaker 1: answered it this whole path of like, well did he
Speaker 1: do it on purpose or was he grabbing the lucky
Speaker 1: terms next to the fort loops And that's where like
Speaker 1: I I, it's stupid.
Speaker 2: But it's in narrows that could happen in life. So
Speaker 2: I just want to know how one would handle in
Speaker 2: case it comes up.
Speaker 1: Is that cheating? She's down there thinking, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I just admitted to him that I poop in here,
Speaker 1: and I just again it's crazy, like that's all I
Speaker 1: said you. I'd have to be dead when you know that.
Speaker 10: Nothing is safe from that answer, because they're just going
Speaker 10: to use that and run on ed talk about you.
Speaker 10: That lady's mortified.
Speaker 2: My girl here one time that admitted that she goes
Speaker 2: to the bathroom with her boyfriend the door open, they
Speaker 2: like earn the bathroom.
Speaker 4: At at the same time, I can't let let go.
Speaker 1: She actually the last time you did it, which was
Speaker 1: like last week, she was like, can you please stop? Like,
Speaker 1: can you please stop bringing that up? I don't do that. Yeah, technically,
Speaker 1: I mean you're the one that's what this is abused.
Speaker 2: Actually your abuse?
Speaker 4: Are you know I'm not.
Speaker 5: And the jam In Morning Show with d J Foreign it's.
Speaker 8: Saw Morner Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in
Speaker 8: ninety four or five.
Speaker 1: All right, babe, that is going to do it for us.
Speaker 1: I want to say I'm proud of you. We made
Speaker 1: through most of this show without you making in front
Speaker 1: of where Foreign is saying the Dominican Republic.
Speaker 2: Well, people are going to tell him, so I shut
Speaker 2: my mouth this time. But like it was, a shy
Speaker 2: would have chosen to say some other place. Yeah, we
Speaker 2: leave it at that.
Speaker 1: We know bougie boy.
Speaker 2: All right, shout outs oh, shout out to four now
Speaker 2: enjoying some bottom shelf liqueur.
Speaker 1: All right, babes, if I missed anything at Ashley Fellman
Speaker 1: two weeks and the Ashley, we will talk to you
Speaker 1: tomorrow later