WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.120 --> 00:00:05.000 Hi everybody, Good morning. It's Monday. I am back from 2 00:00:05.040 --> 00:00:09.439 a long weekend of baby poops and babies crying and 3 00:00:09.560 --> 00:00:13.320 babies breaking down aka vacation in my world. 4 00:00:13.320 --> 00:00:14.960 I forgot what it was like to have kids that 5 00:00:15.080 --> 00:00:16.600 are your age and to be in the car for 6 00:00:16.600 --> 00:00:19.199 that long. Yeah, like when they've had enough, did you feed? 7 00:00:19.280 --> 00:00:20.079 Did that happen? 8 00:00:20.239 --> 00:00:20.800 Well, they had. 9 00:00:20.760 --> 00:00:22.839 Enough five minutes into the car. They don't like the car, No, 10 00:00:23.039 --> 00:00:24.960 I got it. Like, everybody's got to be watching something. 11 00:00:24.960 --> 00:00:28.399 There's all sounds day. You'll cry for hours. Sometimes it's 12 00:00:28.440 --> 00:00:30.399 so bad. The fireman and I just look at each 13 00:00:30.399 --> 00:00:33.960 other and we die laughing. That is like, those are 14 00:00:34.000 --> 00:00:36.600 the moments where I'm like I picked the right partner, right, 15 00:00:36.719 --> 00:00:39.240 because you just look at each other and it's laughable. 16 00:00:39.280 --> 00:00:41.320 And if you didn't have each other in those moments, 17 00:00:41.320 --> 00:00:44.479 you would want to just like drive off the tobin. Yeah, 18 00:00:44.840 --> 00:00:48.359 but it's you know, and again, if you have young 19 00:00:48.479 --> 00:00:50.920 kids like five and under and you're traveling, you know, 20 00:00:50.960 --> 00:00:53.039 it's it is a it's a full time job because 21 00:00:53.079 --> 00:00:55.039 like with everything that I have to pack and getting it, 22 00:00:55.119 --> 00:00:56.719 you know, they need all of their things and their 23 00:00:56.799 --> 00:01:01.359 lovies have to come and in the end becomes a 24 00:01:01.399 --> 00:01:05.640 full time job. But it's always amazing seeing like one ride, 25 00:01:05.719 --> 00:01:07.840 one smile, and I'm like, okay, it was worth the hell. 26 00:01:08.120 --> 00:01:10.719 One time, we're stuck in traffic and my oldest was 27 00:01:10.719 --> 00:01:12.439 a baby at the time. He started crying like he 28 00:01:12.480 --> 00:01:14.599 was uncomfortable. We had nothing we can do. We're not 29 00:01:14.640 --> 00:01:17.120 a traffic jam. Yeah, all of a sudden he stops. 30 00:01:17.159 --> 00:01:19.799 He blinked his eyes and is vomited like everywhere. But 31 00:01:19.840 --> 00:01:21.760 the awful thing is we couldn't pull off to the side. 32 00:01:21.799 --> 00:01:23.959 We had to sit and smell that for an hour. 33 00:01:24.359 --> 00:01:26.959 Oh that's what I remember most about having kids, like 34 00:01:27.000 --> 00:01:27.519 super young. 35 00:01:27.799 --> 00:01:31.439 My issue is I'm a big woman, Like I'm massive, 36 00:01:31.439 --> 00:01:34.560 you're tall, I'm big. I gotta try to crawl back 37 00:01:34.599 --> 00:01:40.560 there multiple times because somebody needs a snack, somebody needs this. Mommy, mommy, mommy. 38 00:01:40.599 --> 00:01:42.799 So I got to get in between the two car seats. 39 00:01:42.799 --> 00:01:45.680 It's not me. Yeah, that's the fore Runner is nice. 40 00:01:45.719 --> 00:01:47.680 It's a bigger car, but it's not made for a 41 00:01:47.799 --> 00:01:49.640 large woman getting in between those two car seats. 42 00:01:49.640 --> 00:01:51.400 Do you give them like iPads? Because we had a 43 00:01:51.439 --> 00:01:53.239 car one time that had the screens on the back 44 00:01:53.239 --> 00:01:55.560 of like that just to headrest and it was amazing. 45 00:01:55.680 --> 00:01:59.400 Son. We preemptively borrowed my mom's iPad for this trip because, 46 00:01:59.400 --> 00:02:01.519 like I wasn't any games. We had to do what 47 00:02:01.560 --> 00:02:02.599 we had to do. How would your weekend? 48 00:02:02.879 --> 00:02:04.040 I was good, It was low key. 49 00:02:04.120 --> 00:02:07.400 I was first weekend having like a baseball game, whether 50 00:02:07.560 --> 00:02:09.599 it's mine or one for like my kids, So it 51 00:02:09.680 --> 00:02:11.560 was relaxing. I slept in for the first time in 52 00:02:11.759 --> 00:02:14.879 months months. Dude, baseball, as much as I love the 53 00:02:14.919 --> 00:02:17.400 sport and as much as I loved watching my both 54 00:02:17.439 --> 00:02:21.080 my son's play, the travel baseball is in well, first, 55 00:02:21.159 --> 00:02:25.199 it's a racket. Firste there are too many paraments out 56 00:02:25.199 --> 00:02:27.599 there who think if their kid plays travel baseball that 57 00:02:27.639 --> 00:02:29.280 they're getting signed in a couple of years. 58 00:02:29.280 --> 00:02:29.840 That's not the reason. 59 00:02:29.879 --> 00:02:31.039 Only question you got to pay to get in. 60 00:02:31.639 --> 00:02:32.360 Do you want to know how. 61 00:02:32.319 --> 00:02:32.800 Much it is? 62 00:02:33.240 --> 00:02:35.080 What do you want to how much it is per 63 00:02:35.120 --> 00:02:38.560 season guests for one child on average? 64 00:02:38.599 --> 00:02:39.719 And I'm averaging out. 65 00:02:39.599 --> 00:02:41.599 Well, you're you're gassing right now. So I'm gonna go 66 00:02:41.639 --> 00:02:42.599 three hundred. 67 00:02:42.479 --> 00:02:48.800 Three thousand, three thousand dollars again. 68 00:02:48.919 --> 00:02:54.319 No, I'm three thousand, yep, No, No, you need to 69 00:02:54.400 --> 00:02:56.240 go home. You have to go to You and your 70 00:02:56.280 --> 00:02:58.080 wife need to look at yourselves in the mirror and 71 00:02:58.080 --> 00:02:59.319 you both need to slap yourself. 72 00:02:59.479 --> 00:02:59.639 No. 73 00:03:00.199 --> 00:03:04.759 What for baseball, Yes, it is the biggest racket in 74 00:03:04.800 --> 00:03:07.479 the listen. I grew up playing sports like baseball was 75 00:03:07.639 --> 00:03:09.879 a large part of my life for thirty something years. 76 00:03:09.919 --> 00:03:13.919 I just went back to like this travel baseball. There's 77 00:03:13.960 --> 00:03:17.360 issues within. The unfortunate thing is too many parents are 78 00:03:17.360 --> 00:03:19.960 putting too much stock into this. At least half the 79 00:03:20.000 --> 00:03:22.919 players playing in these in these leagues should not be 80 00:03:23.000 --> 00:03:27.319 playing baseball at this level. So these organizations are just 81 00:03:27.319 --> 00:03:30.039 taking money and making a ton. I'm not trying to. 82 00:03:29.960 --> 00:03:31.599 Get me out of this because like I want to 83 00:03:31.639 --> 00:03:32.439 slap you three. 84 00:03:33.879 --> 00:03:36.000 All right, it's right three thousand and five. 85 00:03:36.199 --> 00:03:37.960 These kids better be good at sports because this is 86 00:03:38.000 --> 00:03:38.360 this is. 87 00:03:38.319 --> 00:03:42.000 Wildly and the jam In Morning Show with DJ four 88 00:03:42.080 --> 00:03:43.639 and it's saw T Morning. 89 00:03:43.840 --> 00:03:46.680 Cousin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four 90 00:03:46.759 --> 00:03:47.120 or five. 91 00:03:49.960 --> 00:03:54.759 I'm going to Venmill right now. We all know that 92 00:03:54.800 --> 00:03:58.439 when we send somebody money on Venmo, you look around. 93 00:03:58.680 --> 00:04:01.680 Yeah yeah, I definitely look at the emojis and see 94 00:04:01.680 --> 00:04:02.280 what they put there. 95 00:04:03.360 --> 00:04:06.639 Venmo used to be diabolical. Venmo used to like show 96 00:04:06.719 --> 00:04:07.919 you what people were paying. 97 00:04:07.960 --> 00:04:11.680 That's right, we pay, we pay some people on there 98 00:04:11.680 --> 00:04:13.080 so you can see that. We a picture of like 99 00:04:13.120 --> 00:04:15.199 a house or like a flex and. 100 00:04:17.000 --> 00:04:17.279 Mind. 101 00:04:17.680 --> 00:04:20.160 Yeah, well, first off, who doesn't make their venmo private? 102 00:04:20.240 --> 00:04:23.079 That is the strangest thing on plannet to make like 103 00:04:23.199 --> 00:04:27.759 make it private. It's no one's business. No one's business. 104 00:04:27.399 --> 00:04:30.040 Like egg planning, moojis and all kinds of weird things. 105 00:04:30.000 --> 00:04:32.079 Like this is my own friend. I begged her to 106 00:04:32.120 --> 00:04:34.480 not be I begged her to make her venmo private. 107 00:04:34.519 --> 00:04:38.000 Happy marathon, Eve by yourself some coffee, lunch PrePost marathon 108 00:04:38.120 --> 00:04:40.439 needs on me. I know you're going to crush tomorrow. 109 00:04:40.480 --> 00:04:42.879 I'm so excited for you. I'm so proud of you. 110 00:04:42.879 --> 00:04:44.399 You're writting a novel on here and I. 111 00:04:44.319 --> 00:04:44.839 Can see it. 112 00:04:45.199 --> 00:04:46.959 But at least they took off the pricing though, because 113 00:04:46.959 --> 00:04:49.560 that was another thing. Once you saw that you could judge, 114 00:04:49.800 --> 00:04:51.120 can really judge. 115 00:04:50.879 --> 00:04:52.040 Or to mean the pricing like how much? 116 00:04:52.160 --> 00:04:53.439 Because I don't think it tells you like any more, 117 00:04:53.439 --> 00:04:55.399 like how much they gave, right, It just tells you. 118 00:04:55.560 --> 00:04:58.319 It doesn't really No, Yeah, yeah that's. 119 00:04:58.519 --> 00:05:00.920 Private because I didn't people to see how much I 120 00:05:00.920 --> 00:05:03.120 was paying for whatever it was. Yeah, oh so now 121 00:05:03.120 --> 00:05:03.759 it doesn't matter. 122 00:05:04.759 --> 00:05:07.399 Now they're gonna see whatever you describe the payment asks. 123 00:05:07.519 --> 00:05:09.560 Okay, but they'll see sometimes I pay a guy with 124 00:05:09.560 --> 00:05:11.319 a flexed arm. It's like, what's that for. 125 00:05:12.480 --> 00:05:13.519 I'm telling you it's wild. 126 00:05:18.079 --> 00:05:21.800 I say all this to say that I there's so okay. 127 00:05:22.079 --> 00:05:24.120 Just to set this up for you, there's coworkers that 128 00:05:24.680 --> 00:05:28.399 work here. One works in this building, one works in 129 00:05:28.480 --> 00:05:32.480 a different one, but both in radio. The one was 130 00:05:32.519 --> 00:05:37.160 telling me a story about how his brother is married 131 00:05:37.319 --> 00:05:39.040 with a kid on the way, like she has a 132 00:05:39.079 --> 00:05:45.920 baby in her womb, and he Venmo requests her for 133 00:05:46.079 --> 00:05:50.240 anything they do. So the example he gave, listen to me. 134 00:05:50.560 --> 00:05:55.920 The example he gave was we all went out to bowl. Okay, 135 00:05:55.920 --> 00:06:00.639 they went bowling, but they had chicken fingers and fries. Okay, 136 00:06:00.720 --> 00:06:03.399 there were four people, so there were the two brothers 137 00:06:03.560 --> 00:06:08.120 and their two wives. The one brother paid for the 138 00:06:08.199 --> 00:06:13.560 chicken fingers and fries, and Venmo requested his own brother, 139 00:06:14.160 --> 00:06:19.680 his brother's wife, and his own wife for chicken fingers 140 00:06:19.720 --> 00:06:23.240 and fries. We're talking like three dollars and sixty two cents. 141 00:06:23.279 --> 00:06:24.720 Like that's embarrassing, right, that. 142 00:06:24.759 --> 00:06:29.480 Is the strangest thing I've that's beyond embarrassing. 143 00:06:29.600 --> 00:06:33.120 I could almost understand if they were like teenagers, right, 144 00:06:33.519 --> 00:06:35.959 and you're counting each dollar and all that stuff. But 145 00:06:36.000 --> 00:06:38.879 if you're a doll if you're an adult and married 146 00:06:39.000 --> 00:06:40.680 or whatever it is, you should not. 147 00:06:40.600 --> 00:06:41.040 Be doing that. 148 00:06:41.120 --> 00:06:43.839 I also couldn't imagine the conversation if the chicken fingers 149 00:06:43.879 --> 00:06:46.079 and fries bill came out for twelve dollars and he 150 00:06:46.319 --> 00:06:47.759 held it up and said, how do you guys want 151 00:06:47.800 --> 00:06:48.680 to do this? Do what? 152 00:06:49.079 --> 00:06:52.240 Yeah? Give it me, like, I'll pay it's twelve dollars, right. 153 00:06:52.560 --> 00:06:54.800 Yeah there. I don't know if you guys feel like this, 154 00:06:54.879 --> 00:06:57.519 but I think there's a certain threshold of amount of 155 00:06:57.519 --> 00:06:59.680 money where I'm like not gonna say venmo me. 156 00:07:00.120 --> 00:07:00.439 Yeah. 157 00:07:00.560 --> 00:07:03.240 I think for the most part, maybe over ten dollars, 158 00:07:03.560 --> 00:07:04.279 I would even. 159 00:07:04.079 --> 00:07:06.480 Push it like ten to twenty yeah, like anything above 160 00:07:06.600 --> 00:07:08.160 like below that, I'm not gonna ask. 161 00:07:08.040 --> 00:07:10.680 At minimum you're gonna say to the person. If to me, 162 00:07:10.720 --> 00:07:12.439 if it was something that was ten bucks, I'd be like, oh, 163 00:07:12.439 --> 00:07:14.079 can I venmo you? Or like I'll give you care. 164 00:07:14.399 --> 00:07:16.680 I would say those words out loud if it was 165 00:07:16.720 --> 00:07:23.279 like three or four dollars. Yeah, three, then three, Like, 166 00:07:25.279 --> 00:07:27.279 but your own wife. 167 00:07:27.319 --> 00:07:30.360 If you're if you're doing that to your wife, then 168 00:07:30.439 --> 00:07:33.240 then like something's up, right, Like I'm not saying something's 169 00:07:33.279 --> 00:07:34.720 up on the side or anything like that, but like 170 00:07:35.240 --> 00:07:38.759 that is something diabolical than yourself. Yeah, that's gonna lead 171 00:07:38.759 --> 00:07:40.839 to probably this relationship not working out at the end 172 00:07:40.839 --> 00:07:41.120 of the day. 173 00:07:41.199 --> 00:07:43.120 You have deep rooted issues, like you have a baby 174 00:07:43.160 --> 00:07:46.920 on the way, sir. Yeah, three dollars, three dollars. That 175 00:07:46.959 --> 00:07:49.319 would be like if every time the fireman was driving 176 00:07:49.360 --> 00:07:51.199 home from work and grab me a coffee, he would 177 00:07:51.279 --> 00:07:54.399 venmo request me for the coffee. 178 00:07:54.560 --> 00:07:56.000 You know, And I've said this in the past, like 179 00:07:56.079 --> 00:07:58.959 if you have like separate bank bank accounts, that's an 180 00:07:59.000 --> 00:08:01.759 issue for me because we share everything. Right, this is 181 00:08:01.879 --> 00:08:04.959 a thousand times worse than that. Well, no, I have 182 00:08:05.000 --> 00:08:06.959 some re Well I know you do, but I wasn't. 183 00:08:06.759 --> 00:08:07.199 Talking to you. 184 00:08:07.240 --> 00:08:10.680 I was talking just in general. But you don't live 185 00:08:10.720 --> 00:08:13.079 this life because this is like ten levels deeper than that. 186 00:08:13.879 --> 00:08:17.279 This is crazy. Like I feel sad for her. I 187 00:08:17.319 --> 00:08:20.480 feel sad for her, like she she maybe she didn't 188 00:08:20.480 --> 00:08:22.360 even want the chicken fingers and fries, but that was 189 00:08:22.480 --> 00:08:25.000 what the consensus said, and now she got to pay 190 00:08:25.000 --> 00:08:26.439 three sixty two for well. 191 00:08:26.360 --> 00:08:28.920 I feel sad for him that he's worrying about this. 192 00:08:28.920 --> 00:08:30.839 This is what he's thinking about and doing the math 193 00:08:31.000 --> 00:08:33.000 in his head while those chicken fingers are Maybe there was. 194 00:08:32.960 --> 00:08:35.480 A conversation to have before man and they were like, hey, 195 00:08:35.519 --> 00:08:37.519 you know, I don't know what the convo would be. 196 00:08:37.840 --> 00:08:40.440 But again, don't you picture someone picking up how do 197 00:08:40.440 --> 00:08:42.840 you guys want to do this? And it says twelve dollars? 198 00:08:42.960 --> 00:08:46.639 I'm like, give me me, but what's your threshold? Number four? 199 00:08:46.639 --> 00:08:50.000 And like you where you feel as if, Yeah, I'm 200 00:08:50.080 --> 00:08:52.200 kind of with you anything on the twenty, maybe even 201 00:08:52.240 --> 00:08:52.799 at thirty. 202 00:08:53.080 --> 00:08:55.080 And I'm kind of like that it is what it is. 203 00:08:56.279 --> 00:08:59.080 I just think if it's like double ditch, like if 204 00:08:59.080 --> 00:09:03.519 we hit ten bucks, I at least offer, hey, let 205 00:09:03.519 --> 00:09:04.799 me get let me get you some cash, let me 206 00:09:04.879 --> 00:09:07.519 vemo you the ten I think the person's usually gonna 207 00:09:07.519 --> 00:09:07.799 say no. 208 00:09:08.320 --> 00:09:09.639 I mean, now, if we're going out to dinner to 209 00:09:09.679 --> 00:09:11.600 a nice place and there's a group before you, then 210 00:09:11.639 --> 00:09:14.279 there's an open conversation around around the table and well, 211 00:09:14.399 --> 00:09:15.720 some people don't even believe in that. 212 00:09:16.399 --> 00:09:19.840 Well, actually, if you guys want to put the contact 213 00:09:19.840 --> 00:09:22.519 clothes together. That's on you. This same person once I 214 00:09:22.559 --> 00:09:26.039 was out to dinner with him and we all agreed 215 00:09:26.080 --> 00:09:28.360 to go out to dinner to the to the State, 216 00:09:28.440 --> 00:09:31.519 this steakhouse in the city, and there was like six 217 00:09:31.679 --> 00:09:34.200 or seven of us at the table. It was agreed 218 00:09:34.240 --> 00:09:35.919 upon that we were going to go out to dinner 219 00:09:35.919 --> 00:09:37.720 and there was going to be one bill, and that 220 00:09:37.840 --> 00:09:41.480 was what it was. We talked about it. The bill 221 00:09:41.559 --> 00:09:43.879 comes and everyone just puts their card down and says, okay, 222 00:09:43.879 --> 00:09:48.039 we are we splitting it six ways? That up. He says, no, 223 00:09:48.639 --> 00:09:49.320 I only. 224 00:09:49.240 --> 00:09:54.320 Ate a salad, Like that's embarrassing, so uncomfortable, especially. 225 00:09:53.960 --> 00:09:56.840 Embarrassing because the convo was already had. Yes, now the 226 00:09:56.919 --> 00:10:00.000 convo was not had with him though. 227 00:10:00.120 --> 00:10:02.600 He should have just said I like to get my 228 00:10:02.600 --> 00:10:03.480 bill separate. 229 00:10:04.200 --> 00:10:05.879 So then before y'all went. 230 00:10:05.919 --> 00:10:08.159 Yes or Asian, when we first sat down on the 231 00:10:08.200 --> 00:10:10.279 table like hey, I'm going to get a separate bill, 232 00:10:10.679 --> 00:10:12.600 I would have been like, Okay, you're a loser, but 233 00:10:13.840 --> 00:10:17.200 that's better than us now having to do the math, 234 00:10:17.320 --> 00:10:18.519 and you know, it's stupid. 235 00:10:18.759 --> 00:10:20.440 I'm not of the belief if I sit down at 236 00:10:20.440 --> 00:10:22.440 the table and I have a salad, and the bill 237 00:10:22.559 --> 00:10:24.600 is eight hundred dollars that I'm splitting it with y'all. 238 00:10:24.840 --> 00:10:30.679 Y'all got me f up doing that. Y'all crazy for 239 00:10:30.759 --> 00:10:32.039 you to eat. I don't know. 240 00:10:32.080 --> 00:10:34.720 It's not the easiest, yeah thing for you because you 241 00:10:34.799 --> 00:10:37.240 having drinks all me, yes, but having for late a 242 00:10:37.480 --> 00:10:39.159 me you having salmon all meat. 243 00:10:39.240 --> 00:10:40.919 I had a salad, but yes. 244 00:10:40.960 --> 00:10:43.080 But at the end of the day, we're paying for 245 00:10:43.159 --> 00:10:45.679 the the whole occasion environment. 246 00:10:45.840 --> 00:10:50.159 I don't care the group twelve dollars, give me the bill. 247 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:52.320 I'm i chipping on the on the tip. I'm coold 248 00:10:52.320 --> 00:10:55.200 with that. I'm not buying y'all drinks and your food. Yeah, 249 00:10:55.240 --> 00:10:58.360 crazy eights, Yeah, twelve bucks. 250 00:11:00.039 --> 00:11:00.919 Let's just be happy. 251 00:11:01.039 --> 00:11:04.159 Yeah. I think when you go to a dinner like that, 252 00:11:04.279 --> 00:11:07.159 there's the general consensus like, okay, we're split at least. 253 00:11:07.159 --> 00:11:08.919 I always going with that knowledge. But that's neither here 254 00:11:08.960 --> 00:11:10.840 nor there. We're talking about a three or four dollars 255 00:11:10.879 --> 00:11:15.360 ven like that, And actually you're right, it's him like 256 00:11:15.840 --> 00:11:19.320 he he because think about it, he had to go 257 00:11:19.399 --> 00:11:23.639 find them, hit the three sixty two and then hit request. Yeah, 258 00:11:23.679 --> 00:11:25.240 like he had to go through the whole thing. With 259 00:11:25.320 --> 00:11:29.799 his own wife. His own wife three dollars and sixty two. 260 00:11:29.879 --> 00:11:31.200 Now he's doing that for her. 261 00:11:31.279 --> 00:11:33.759 He's doing that in every aspect of life, buys coffee 262 00:11:33.759 --> 00:11:36.440 for people, he's thinking about, Oh, she owes me ninety cents. 263 00:11:36.559 --> 00:11:40.039 That's where if he's thinking three sixty two, he's thinking less. 264 00:11:40.159 --> 00:11:42.200 And this isn't the thing about being cheap. This is 265 00:11:42.200 --> 00:11:45.519 almost borderline I think of like you're crazy for goal. 266 00:11:45.960 --> 00:11:49.960 Yeah, that's nice. A girl up six one seven nine 267 00:11:50.080 --> 00:11:53.000 three one one nine four five six one seven nine 268 00:11:53.080 --> 00:11:55.519 three one one nine four five Are we oh here 269 00:11:55.639 --> 00:12:00.759 asking our significant others for three sixty two three sixty two? Hi, everybody, 270 00:12:00.799 --> 00:12:04.320 good morning. It's ashing the gam of morning show. It's funny. 271 00:12:04.480 --> 00:12:09.720 We're talking about a person that I know that is 272 00:12:09.759 --> 00:12:12.000 the type where you could go out to dinner and 273 00:12:12.039 --> 00:12:14.799 he'll be He'll immediately say, well, I only got this, 274 00:12:14.919 --> 00:12:17.960 so I'm not paying that amount. 275 00:12:18.559 --> 00:12:18.799 You know. 276 00:12:19.039 --> 00:12:24.360 He Venmo requested his own wife who's pregnant, for three 277 00:12:24.440 --> 00:12:27.399 dollars and sixty two cents because they ordered a round 278 00:12:27.399 --> 00:12:30.559 of chicken fingers and fries like crazy land. 279 00:12:30.720 --> 00:12:33.000 So if he's on the way home and he has 280 00:12:33.080 --> 00:12:35.559 to buy diapers, is he splitting that with his wife. 281 00:12:35.679 --> 00:12:37.120 Yes, that's crazy. 282 00:12:37.519 --> 00:12:40.279 Yeah. The way we do it in our house is 283 00:12:40.320 --> 00:12:42.519 like we kind of every other it. If we notice 284 00:12:42.519 --> 00:12:45.720 that the diapers are almost empty, I might order them. 285 00:12:45.799 --> 00:12:48.120 Then the next time he will. I know some people 286 00:12:48.120 --> 00:12:50.360 don't like I don't get that either. 287 00:12:50.399 --> 00:12:52.879 I know you get like three three pots there. I 288 00:12:52.919 --> 00:12:54.159 don't like it just one pot. 289 00:12:54.879 --> 00:12:56.440 I know that I was gonna say, I know you 290 00:12:56.440 --> 00:12:58.399 don't like that, and I, you know the fireman, I 291 00:12:58.440 --> 00:13:00.919 kind of have this unwritten, like if I grab lunch, 292 00:13:01.440 --> 00:13:04.759 he might then later order dinner. Like we try to 293 00:13:04.799 --> 00:13:08.559 really make it as even as possible, but he definitely 294 00:13:08.559 --> 00:13:09.240 pays for more. 295 00:13:09.279 --> 00:13:10.720 But I can sum make that one that one. I 296 00:13:10.720 --> 00:13:14.039 can understand and comprehend. The whole asking for three dollars 297 00:13:14.080 --> 00:13:14.639 is crazy. 298 00:13:14.759 --> 00:13:18.960 Three I would feel I would feel legit disrespected. Like 299 00:13:19.000 --> 00:13:25.039 are you okay? Annie is in Canton? Hi, Good morning Annie. 300 00:13:25.159 --> 00:13:28.279 What do you think it's insane to ever ask your 301 00:13:28.320 --> 00:13:30.399 spouse for money? Like what if they go to grocery 302 00:13:30.399 --> 00:13:32.279 shopping and they spend five hundred, You're not going to 303 00:13:32.320 --> 00:13:33.759 throw a couple of hundo their way? 304 00:13:35.320 --> 00:13:39.039 Oh no, absolutely. What I'm saying is I think three 305 00:13:39.080 --> 00:13:41.960 dollars and ninety two cents for chicken fingers and fries 306 00:13:42.000 --> 00:13:42.519 is insane. 307 00:13:42.600 --> 00:13:44.320 No, it's like sad. 308 00:13:45.799 --> 00:13:49.440 Yeah, when it comes to buying groceries like you mentioned 309 00:13:49.440 --> 00:13:52.440 you and the fireman splitting going and buying dump s 310 00:13:52.440 --> 00:13:55.559 diapers or whatever like twitching off, I don't see that 311 00:13:55.600 --> 00:13:59.399 as an issue. What the issue is is that you're 312 00:13:59.440 --> 00:14:03.519 asking for three dollars ninety two cents. I think that 313 00:14:03.519 --> 00:14:06.600 that's a little much. It's I don't I don't see 314 00:14:06.600 --> 00:14:09.679 the need for that. What is mine is yours, What 315 00:14:09.879 --> 00:14:14.360 is yours is mine also, So it's like I don't 316 00:14:14.360 --> 00:14:15.799 see the need in that. I find that kind of 317 00:14:15.840 --> 00:14:17.600 embarrassing to know. 318 00:14:17.720 --> 00:14:21.679 I do too, especially with your partner, Like I wouldn't 319 00:14:21.720 --> 00:14:24.399 even thank you for the call Anny ask a stranger 320 00:14:24.399 --> 00:14:29.480 for three sixty two No, like, you know, fine, it's 321 00:14:29.559 --> 00:14:34.240 keep it. Susan is in Rhode Island. Hi, Susan, Susanne, Susan, 322 00:14:34.399 --> 00:14:41.120 Hey Heaven, Susan. Yeah, Susan, Okay, So tell us your story. 323 00:14:41.200 --> 00:14:44.919 All right. So, basically, my friend was dying for me 324 00:14:44.960 --> 00:14:47.000 to meet her boyfriend for the first time. I'm like, fine, 325 00:14:47.039 --> 00:14:50.080 we can go out. They basically just a dinner. We 326 00:14:50.200 --> 00:14:52.799 went out to dinner, had some appetizer drinks all that. 327 00:14:54.159 --> 00:14:56.240 Towards the end of the night, her boyfriend was in 328 00:14:56.279 --> 00:14:59.360 the bathroom, so check came. I wasn't thinking twice. I 329 00:14:59.440 --> 00:15:01.840 always thought my card down. I'm thinking we're gonna split it. 330 00:15:03.159 --> 00:15:05.559 I'm assuming either three ways or he's going to cover 331 00:15:05.679 --> 00:15:09.279 for her meal, as he should. I don't tend to 332 00:15:09.279 --> 00:15:11.679 pay for me, but I suspect him to pay for her. 333 00:15:12.440 --> 00:15:14.519 My friend puts her card down on top of it, 334 00:15:15.120 --> 00:15:17.960 So it ended up getting splitting two ways, and I 335 00:15:18.039 --> 00:15:19.559 paid for basically half of his meal. 336 00:15:20.480 --> 00:15:23.840 No, so you and your friends split for the three 337 00:15:23.879 --> 00:15:30.200 of you? Yes, oh my god, they went See that's 338 00:15:30.519 --> 00:15:33.279 because they went ahead and counted themselves as one. Like, 339 00:15:33.360 --> 00:15:34.799 that's not you don't do that. 340 00:15:34.960 --> 00:15:37.799 Plus she invited you out to then she should have 341 00:15:37.840 --> 00:15:38.679 covered the whole bill. 342 00:15:38.720 --> 00:15:40.279 You shouldn't have had to pay anything. 343 00:15:40.440 --> 00:15:41.080 Exactly. 344 00:15:42.600 --> 00:15:44.559 Homeboys go fit for her? 345 00:15:44.720 --> 00:15:45.799 And are they still together? 346 00:15:47.840 --> 00:15:48.120 Yeah? 347 00:15:48.279 --> 00:15:51.360 So next week he's actually hitting my man, and my 348 00:15:51.519 --> 00:15:54.000 man was like, I'm not I'm not putting my card 349 00:15:54.039 --> 00:15:54.519 down for her. 350 00:15:54.919 --> 00:15:57.759 Hey, facts, you know what, we I like him too. 351 00:15:57.840 --> 00:16:01.039 He's defending his girl. That's very strange. But also I 352 00:16:01.039 --> 00:16:03.399 feel like that's more like your your friend should have 353 00:16:03.440 --> 00:16:08.879 said if if she knew he was, I thought, yeah, 354 00:16:08.960 --> 00:16:11.919 I know, I'm just saying, given that situation, if that's me, 355 00:16:12.039 --> 00:16:13.440 if I know that he's not gonna put the car 356 00:16:13.519 --> 00:16:14.960 for I'm gonna put my card down and be like, 357 00:16:15.159 --> 00:16:17.399 I'll take care of this. Because that's that's so weird, 358 00:16:17.399 --> 00:16:18.559 all right, to see and thank you for the car 359 00:16:18.720 --> 00:16:20.879 people get when the bill comes, people get weird. 360 00:16:21.120 --> 00:16:23.759 No, that that's she shouldn't have even put down that car. 361 00:16:23.919 --> 00:16:28.639 No, I think her friend exactly, especially if her man 362 00:16:28.720 --> 00:16:31.879 wasn't gonna put his car downing, that's weird. That's very weird. 363 00:16:32.480 --> 00:16:34.399 Katie's in New Hampshire. Katie, we're running a little bit 364 00:16:34.399 --> 00:16:39.840 out of time. But you say, if you offer something 365 00:16:39.960 --> 00:16:42.360 to get something for somebody on the way to work, 366 00:16:42.600 --> 00:16:43.399 you'll pay. 367 00:16:44.840 --> 00:16:45.639 Yeah, definitely. 368 00:16:45.679 --> 00:16:48.559 So like if I am grabbing stuff for someone, I'm 369 00:16:48.600 --> 00:16:51.000 not going to expect to be paid back. So in 370 00:16:51.120 --> 00:16:54.480 your friend's case, if he ordered chicken tenders and then shared, 371 00:16:54.919 --> 00:16:58.000 definitely don't expect to get paid back. But if somebody 372 00:16:58.240 --> 00:17:00.279 asked you to pick up something for them, and I'm 373 00:17:00.279 --> 00:17:03.399 going to expect it, even if it's under ten dollars. Like, 374 00:17:03.440 --> 00:17:05.000 if you're asking me to stop at a Roma Joe's 375 00:17:05.000 --> 00:17:07.279 and get in a rush or get something at Starbucks, 376 00:17:07.559 --> 00:17:10.880 then I'm going to expect you already know the average 377 00:17:10.880 --> 00:17:12.720 cost of that and I'm going to get a Venmo 378 00:17:12.839 --> 00:17:14.279 for it because i went out of my way to 379 00:17:14.319 --> 00:17:15.079 grab it for you. 380 00:17:15.440 --> 00:17:19.559 What if it's under five dollars, maybe if. 381 00:17:19.400 --> 00:17:22.519 You're asking me, then I would still expect you to 382 00:17:22.759 --> 00:17:24.480 at least offer offer it. 383 00:17:24.559 --> 00:17:28.839 Yeah, no, I yeah, I can see the offer, and 384 00:17:28.880 --> 00:17:30.799 then you do the quick little thing where you're like, oh, no, 385 00:17:30.920 --> 00:17:33.519 it's good, but like okay. For example, Katie, we've talked 386 00:17:33.519 --> 00:17:36.680 about this before. Santi gets mine and his coffee every 387 00:17:36.720 --> 00:17:39.400 single morning, so we go every other like I'll pay 388 00:17:39.440 --> 00:17:40.920 for a week and then you know what I mean, 389 00:17:40.920 --> 00:17:43.680 like we because it's Starbucks and it can get pricey. 390 00:17:44.640 --> 00:17:47.799 That's like an unset mutual agreement though, because you're already rotating. 391 00:17:47.880 --> 00:17:48.599 We're rotating. 392 00:17:48.720 --> 00:17:48.960 Yeah. 393 00:17:49.480 --> 00:17:50.440 Yeah, although, Hey, I. 394 00:17:50.839 --> 00:17:53.279 Have instances too where I go out with my friends. 395 00:17:53.319 --> 00:17:55.680 We have three girls, we'll catch up and just go 396 00:17:55.720 --> 00:17:58.680 out for dinner, and I've had like the last two 397 00:17:58.799 --> 00:17:59.759 times we've gone out. 398 00:18:00.240 --> 00:18:01.599 We usually all three. 399 00:18:01.400 --> 00:18:04.079 Will split it, and there's one person that usually never 400 00:18:04.119 --> 00:18:06.640 brings their card but will send me the VENMO to 401 00:18:06.680 --> 00:18:09.200