WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.320 --> 00:00:06.559 You're listening to KFI A six forty on demand. John, 2 00:00:06.599 --> 00:00:07.879 Welcome to the Jesus Christ Show. 3 00:00:09.279 --> 00:00:12.240 Hey, thanks for having me on. I'd like to talk 4 00:00:12.279 --> 00:00:15.359 about rank apocrisy in. 5 00:00:15.320 --> 00:00:17.079 The church or outside of the church. 6 00:00:17.559 --> 00:00:22.280 Well, that's what it's everywhere. It's not just the church, 7 00:00:22.359 --> 00:00:27.399 it's our government, it's our cities, it's our whole world. 8 00:00:27.519 --> 00:00:34.640 And it's almost comedic in some senses. When you think 9 00:00:34.679 --> 00:00:37.799 about it, you know, it's just absolutely sad. 10 00:00:38.200 --> 00:00:44.880 Well, hypocrisy is not new the word or the problem for. 11 00:00:45.000 --> 00:00:49.039 The American life. There are differences that you can most 12 00:00:49.079 --> 00:00:55.240 assuredly put your finger on. We had what we can 13 00:00:55.320 --> 00:00:59.159 call honest leaders back in the fifties and sixties, and 14 00:01:00.119 --> 00:01:05.040 it seems like these days acubular the total of whether 15 00:01:05.120 --> 00:01:10.439 it's a Republican or Democratic party has been trillion dollars 16 00:01:10.439 --> 00:01:12.879 of debt on our children's shoulders. 17 00:01:12.640 --> 00:01:16.319 John, John, do you really really think you had honest 18 00:01:16.400 --> 00:01:17.879 leaders in the fifties and sixties? 19 00:01:19.000 --> 00:01:21.719 Well, I would say that more so than today, they 20 00:01:21.760 --> 00:01:23.640 weren't perfectly okay? 21 00:01:23.799 --> 00:01:28.719 Now? Is that is that because that the systems that 22 00:01:28.799 --> 00:01:33.079 exist today, for instance, the Internet and the type of 23 00:01:33.120 --> 00:01:37.120 reporting that goes on, it's probably a little more gutsy 24 00:01:37.280 --> 00:01:42.879 in some sense, has not just uncovered more. Nowadays, it's 25 00:01:42.920 --> 00:01:45.159 easier to find things out, or it's harder to hide 26 00:01:45.200 --> 00:01:48.680 them in the reverse than it was in the fifties 27 00:01:48.680 --> 00:01:49.280 and sixties. 28 00:01:50.079 --> 00:01:53.120 Well, I would say that there's no doubt that in 29 00:01:53.200 --> 00:01:56.879 the fifties and even in the sixties, there were good 30 00:01:57.040 --> 00:02:01.599 conservative politicians who were willing to sacrifice up to fifty 31 00:02:01.719 --> 00:02:06.439 seventy five, sometimes even ninety percent of their income to 32 00:02:07.000 --> 00:02:10.719 prove their belief and not burdening their children and paying 33 00:02:10.840 --> 00:02:14.199 their bills and not putting it off onto their children's shoulders. 34 00:02:14.479 --> 00:02:17.199 I see. So you're saying that the core of the 35 00:02:17.240 --> 00:02:20.520 individual is different, that you've got people getting into politics 36 00:02:20.879 --> 00:02:24.560 who are getting into politics for wrongs. 37 00:02:24.800 --> 00:02:29.639 Who have a millionaires, calling themselves Republican and even calling 38 00:02:29.680 --> 00:02:34.439 themselves Christians, when you know, Jesus didn't go around with 39 00:02:35.159 --> 00:02:38.800 a chest of gold and gold crops. 40 00:02:38.840 --> 00:02:41.800 Okay, but there's John there's a difference. That wasn't my purpose. However, 41 00:02:41.879 --> 00:02:43.879 I did say that if you go into a town 42 00:02:44.400 --> 00:02:47.680 and they don't feed you, and they don't you know, 43 00:02:47.800 --> 00:02:49.879 clothe you and put you up and all of this, 44 00:02:50.120 --> 00:02:53.000 that you're to kick the sand off your sandals and 45 00:02:53.000 --> 00:02:56.439 never go back there again. I did say that there 46 00:02:56.599 --> 00:02:59.599 if that there were things that people needed to travel 47 00:02:59.639 --> 00:03:03.280 with most certainly there's. Money is not evil. The Bible 48 00:03:03.360 --> 00:03:06.759 does not say that money is the root of all evil. 49 00:03:06.879 --> 00:03:09.120 It says that the love of money is the root 50 00:03:09.159 --> 00:03:10.360 of all kinds of evil. 51 00:03:11.080 --> 00:03:13.159 A rich man I'm trying to get through heaven and 52 00:03:13.199 --> 00:03:16.520 into God's good graces is like a camel going through 53 00:03:16.560 --> 00:03:17.719 the eye of a needle. 54 00:03:17.759 --> 00:03:20.879 Why does everyone difficult? Difficult? Not impossible? Are you saying 55 00:03:20.919 --> 00:03:22.000 that Solomon is not in. 56 00:03:21.919 --> 00:03:25.680 Heaven what I'm saying. 57 00:03:26.360 --> 00:03:29.360 No. But you want to make a broad brush concept, John, 58 00:03:29.360 --> 00:03:33.120 which is not fair. Money is only a tool. It's 59 00:03:33.159 --> 00:03:36.759 when people see it as the end all that it 60 00:03:36.840 --> 00:03:39.439 becomes a problem. But money is just a tool, and 61 00:03:39.479 --> 00:03:41.520 it can do great things. You would agree with that, 62 00:03:41.560 --> 00:03:42.680 wouldn't you, John. 63 00:03:43.520 --> 00:03:46.319 Sure, But give me evidence of it to day. 64 00:03:47.199 --> 00:03:50.599 Oh goodness, there's all kinds of charities that are doing 65 00:03:50.639 --> 00:03:52.000 wonderful things with money. 66 00:03:52.400 --> 00:03:56.479 Money can't denying that the trillion dollars of debt hanging 67 00:03:56.520 --> 00:03:57.199 over our. 68 00:03:57.960 --> 00:03:59.680 That doesn't have to do with money. That has to 69 00:03:59.719 --> 00:04:01.919 do with the use of money. The improper use of 70 00:04:01.960 --> 00:04:03.759 money debt. 71 00:04:02.759 --> 00:04:07.159 For century reality. John, There our politicians are as corrupt 72 00:04:07.199 --> 00:04:08.159 as our churches. 73 00:04:08.439 --> 00:04:12.000 Okay, John, I know the entire world is going to 74 00:04:12.080 --> 00:04:15.240 hell on a greased poll. I get it. But it's 75 00:04:15.280 --> 00:04:17.920 no different than it was. It's no different than it 76 00:04:18.000 --> 00:04:20.519 was two thousand years ago. I know that that that 77 00:04:20.560 --> 00:04:23.120 frustrates people. I know it's easier for you to say 78 00:04:23.720 --> 00:04:26.480 in my day it was better. But that's not the truth, John, 79 00:04:26.720 --> 00:04:27.160 that's not. 80 00:04:27.759 --> 00:04:36.399 It's a society of parasites. Why so, John, Because everything 81 00:04:36.600 --> 00:04:42.079 is geared towards maximum leveraged profitability. These days, we will 82 00:04:42.120 --> 00:04:44.800 go to China to get cheap labor. 83 00:04:45.000 --> 00:04:46.800 Do you know what that is, John? Do you know 84 00:04:46.839 --> 00:04:50.480 what that comes from? It comes from success. No, it 85 00:04:50.519 --> 00:04:55.399 comes it comes from success because people get soft when 86 00:04:55.439 --> 00:04:59.519 there's success. Success is always the downfall of anything. It 87 00:04:59.560 --> 00:05:01.759 was the debt fall of the Roman Empire, all that 88 00:05:01.800 --> 00:05:04.680 and lead in the water, but it's the downfall of 89 00:05:04.720 --> 00:05:10.519 any corporation. Corporations stop producing a product and start managing 90 00:05:10.600 --> 00:05:14.319 a piggy bank and they and it folds a country. 91 00:05:14.759 --> 00:05:19.519 Uh starts with freedoms, focusing on the freedoms John, and liberties, 92 00:05:20.360 --> 00:05:23.639 and then gets focused on what those how much money 93 00:05:23.680 --> 00:05:27.120 you can make from those liberties, and then seeing seizing 94 00:05:27.160 --> 00:05:30.759 on those liberties and that can You know, liberty can 95 00:05:31.000 --> 00:05:33.839 can kill as well. But you do it because it's right, 96 00:05:34.560 --> 00:05:38.519 not because people abuse it or don't abuse it. Liberty 97 00:05:38.560 --> 00:05:42.079 is something that is God given and should be enforced, 98 00:05:43.240 --> 00:05:47.519 should be allowed and enjoyed. However, it can be misused, 99 00:05:48.480 --> 00:05:51.079 just like money. So what you're telling me is not 100 00:05:51.120 --> 00:05:53.879 the use of or the existence of, it's the misuse of. 101 00:05:56.240 --> 00:06:00.399 It's taking something that is good. For instance, an knife 102 00:06:00.519 --> 00:06:04.519 in the hand of a surgeon can heal, in the 103 00:06:04.600 --> 00:06:08.319 hand of a mugger can take a life. But you 104 00:06:08.399 --> 00:06:13.120 can't just all those things you're saying have existed forever, John, 105 00:06:13.600 --> 00:06:17.240 You can hear, I mean, complain about them in scripture 106 00:06:19.279 --> 00:06:22.120 when I turn over the tables of the money changers 107 00:06:22.199 --> 00:06:24.360 in the temple and I say, you are making my 108 00:06:24.480 --> 00:06:31.360 father's house out to be this den of money exchanging 109 00:06:31.759 --> 00:06:40.120 and a marketplace two thousand years ago, John, you could 110 00:06:40.199 --> 00:06:47.240 read writings from Socrates talking about the way children are 111 00:06:47.480 --> 00:06:51.920 in his day. You can read all kinds of things 112 00:06:51.920 --> 00:06:55.160 throughout history people complained about the same thing. What were 113 00:06:55.160 --> 00:06:59.759 they complaining about in scripture two thousand years ago tax collectors. 114 00:07:03.240 --> 00:07:07.399 It doesn't change, because in order for it to change, 115 00:07:07.600 --> 00:07:12.639 a heart needs to change. I was tongue firmly planted 116 00:07:12.680 --> 00:07:15.639 in cheek when I said that it is easier for 117 00:07:16.519 --> 00:07:18.199 a camel to go through an eye of a needle 118 00:07:18.560 --> 00:07:20.959 than it is for a rich man to get into heaven. 119 00:07:23.120 --> 00:07:27.040 I was telling people that it is difficult, but it's 120 00:07:27.040 --> 00:07:32.040 not impossible. It's difficult because a rich man that only 121 00:07:32.040 --> 00:07:34.720 cares about money has a hard time taking his eyes 122 00:07:34.959 --> 00:07:38.600 and his gaze off anything but money. And the only 123 00:07:38.639 --> 00:07:41.759 way to get in heaven is to know God. And 124 00:07:41.800 --> 00:07:43.879 the only way to know God is to give God 125 00:07:43.959 --> 00:07:49.480 your attention. But make no mistake, John, if you think 126 00:07:49.519 --> 00:07:53.519 things were better back in the day, it was just 127 00:07:53.560 --> 00:07:55.439 that it was harder to find out when people were 128 00:07:55.439 --> 00:07:59.839 doing wrong. Unfortunately, what you're seeing now is although a 129 00:08:00.240 --> 00:08:05.279 gross exaggeration through reality shows and the like, because they're 130 00:08:05.319 --> 00:08:09.120 cutting out every you know, they're editing it for the 131 00:08:09.160 --> 00:08:14.199 most vulgar interactions in life, because that's what causes people 132 00:08:14.879 --> 00:08:20.920 to be interested in watching it. But I will tell 133 00:08:20.920 --> 00:08:26.680 you this, people have always done these things. The Ten 134 00:08:26.720 --> 00:08:29.920 Commandments weren't written just in case people start murdering just 135 00:08:29.959 --> 00:08:33.559 in case people start coveting, just in case people start 136 00:08:33.600 --> 00:08:38.360 doing adultery. It's because people were doing it then, thousands 137 00:08:38.360 --> 00:08:42.240 of thousands of years ago. And the best thing to 138 00:08:42.279 --> 00:08:45.639 do is not worry about everyone else, but to worry 139 00:08:45.639 --> 00:08:48.919 about John. To start with yourself and where your heart is, 140 00:08:48.960 --> 00:08:50.639 and not to live that way, and not to be 141 00:08:50.720 --> 00:08:54.080 that person, and not to think that way, and then 142 00:08:54.159 --> 00:09:02.879 try and make it as contagious as possible. Ryan, Welcome 143 00:09:02.919 --> 00:09:03.919 to the Jesus Christ Show. 144 00:09:04.320 --> 00:09:06.919 Hi, how are you sorry? I'm supposed to ask that. 145 00:09:07.159 --> 00:09:10.519 Oh, that's okay, I am fine. How can I help you? 146 00:09:11.519 --> 00:09:15.480 I was born in Huntington Park, California, in nineteen fifty eight. 147 00:09:16.279 --> 00:09:18.960 On my seventh birthday, my dad and I were in 148 00:09:18.960 --> 00:09:22.039 the house all alone, and my mother had walked on 149 00:09:22.080 --> 00:09:25.799 my dad again. Last thing my dad said to me 150 00:09:25.879 --> 00:09:29.480 is happy birthday, sport. And I heard deafening roar. My 151 00:09:29.519 --> 00:09:31.559 dad shot himself and killed himself right there in front 152 00:09:31.559 --> 00:09:35.200 of me. I ended up the boys Home in adel Georgia, 153 00:09:36.080 --> 00:09:39.600 and they told me that, you know, I had blaspheen 154 00:09:39.720 --> 00:09:42.000 the Holy Spirit and I was going to hell. I'm 155 00:09:42.000 --> 00:09:44.960 only marching my marking my time, so I went in 156 00:09:44.960 --> 00:09:47.399 the Marine Corps, spent two years and there, and then 157 00:09:47.399 --> 00:09:49.039 I went in the Seals because I found that I 158 00:09:49.039 --> 00:09:51.039 could be just as derogator. I figured, if I'm going 159 00:09:51.120 --> 00:09:53.480 to go to hell, then I'm gonna pay the way. 160 00:09:53.759 --> 00:09:57.360 It's already been written down. So I did that, and 161 00:09:57.519 --> 00:09:59.879 just seems that all in my life I ran in 162 00:10:00.080 --> 00:10:03.879 the people that were just they wouldn't they based everything 163 00:10:03.919 --> 00:10:08.200 off of a one time talking to you. I was 164 00:10:08.360 --> 00:10:11.720 when I was in Iraq. I had a bad brain 165 00:10:11.759 --> 00:10:14.080 injury and I've got shrapping off through my legs when 166 00:10:14.080 --> 00:10:18.039 I was in Fallujah, and you know, I called your 167 00:10:18.039 --> 00:10:19.720 show here a couple of weeks ago because I was 168 00:10:19.759 --> 00:10:23.159 really wondering, you know, if I if I had some 169 00:10:23.320 --> 00:10:27.240 way to repent and maybe get into heaven. Of course, 170 00:10:27.320 --> 00:10:29.919 the screener told me that I was drunk, and then 171 00:10:29.960 --> 00:10:32.120 again today she hung up on me, and they just you. 172 00:10:32.080 --> 00:10:35.159 Know, well, you know what, there's a there's a policy 173 00:10:35.240 --> 00:10:39.120 on the program. And this isn't personal against you, but 174 00:10:39.200 --> 00:10:42.399 there's a policy on the program because people do time 175 00:10:42.440 --> 00:10:45.320 of day that we are alive and things like that 176 00:10:45.320 --> 00:10:49.559 that people do from time to time called drunk, and 177 00:10:49.559 --> 00:10:52.440 and that there you know from dealing with people that 178 00:10:52.440 --> 00:10:54.879 are drunk from time to time that there's not a 179 00:10:54.879 --> 00:10:56.879 whole lot you can do for them when they're in 180 00:10:56.919 --> 00:11:01.159 that state. No, So so that does happen from time 181 00:11:01.200 --> 00:11:04.200 to time. But more importantly, you're on now, and I 182 00:11:04.240 --> 00:11:06.440 want to tell you that blasphemy the Holy Spirit, the 183 00:11:06.440 --> 00:11:11.080 only unpardonable sin uh is a continual sin. And you 184 00:11:11.080 --> 00:11:13.360 you can't be doing it right now. You wouldn't even 185 00:11:13.360 --> 00:11:16.519 be calling or questioning if you were in that state. 186 00:11:16.600 --> 00:11:17.279 You wouldn't care. 187 00:11:17.879 --> 00:11:19.600 Well, you know what I wonder is because it says 188 00:11:19.639 --> 00:11:23.480 in the battle you shall not commit murder. Well, that 189 00:11:23.600 --> 00:11:25.759 was with my job. I mean, it wouldn't. I don't know. 190 00:11:25.799 --> 00:11:28.679 You call it murder, Morris, You didn't murder, you killed. 191 00:11:28.679 --> 00:11:30.799 There's a difference. There really is a deal. 192 00:11:31.159 --> 00:11:33.159 So I beg the different with you a few times. 193 00:11:32.960 --> 00:11:33.039 And. 194 00:11:34.559 --> 00:11:36.000 For that you will be accountable. 195 00:11:36.600 --> 00:11:40.519 And you know, I'm just wondering. I mean that, shall 196 00:11:40.519 --> 00:11:42.519 I'm not commit murder? Now? Shall I not? Thank the 197 00:11:42.559 --> 00:11:45.080 Lawd's name in a vain And it says anyone who 198 00:11:45.120 --> 00:11:47.600 takes away from this book or whatever you know in 199 00:11:47.720 --> 00:11:50.960 revelations and then comes down answer real specific anyone who 200 00:11:51.000 --> 00:11:53.799 speaks a word against the Sun of Man will be forgiven, 201 00:11:54.360 --> 00:11:56.759 and against God will be forgiven. But whoever speaks a 202 00:11:56.759 --> 00:11:59.120 way against the Holy Spirit won't be forgiven in this 203 00:11:59.200 --> 00:12:03.480 age or the age come something. It's real clear there. 204 00:12:03.759 --> 00:12:07.240 Yes, but I don't, okay, But now I need to 205 00:12:07.279 --> 00:12:10.440 explain to you why, because you know time goes by quickly. 206 00:12:10.960 --> 00:12:14.480 So imagine if you were driving in a car and 207 00:12:14.519 --> 00:12:16.159 you're driving down a road and there's a cliff at 208 00:12:16.159 --> 00:12:19.200 the end of the road, and your family and friends 209 00:12:19.240 --> 00:12:22.240 are lined on that road and they're telling you, Ryan, 210 00:12:22.399 --> 00:12:24.000 there is a cliff at the end of the road. 211 00:12:24.080 --> 00:12:26.039 And you roll up the windows of the car and 212 00:12:26.080 --> 00:12:28.360 they start screaming, Ryan, there's a cliff at the end 213 00:12:28.360 --> 00:12:29.960 of the road. You go off it, you'll die. And 214 00:12:30.000 --> 00:12:33.399 you turn up the music and they start screaming and screaming, Ryan, 215 00:12:33.480 --> 00:12:34.960 there is a cliff at the end of the road. 216 00:12:35.000 --> 00:12:36.960 You have to stop. If you don't stop, you'll go 217 00:12:37.039 --> 00:12:39.480 off the cliff and you will die. And you ignore 218 00:12:39.519 --> 00:12:43.519 them and go off the cliff, you die, right, So 219 00:12:44.000 --> 00:12:47.039 blasphemy the Holy Spirit is every time the Spirit woos you, 220 00:12:47.120 --> 00:12:49.919 touches your heart, tries to get you to come to 221 00:12:50.080 --> 00:12:52.720 me that takes you to the Father. So if you 222 00:12:52.759 --> 00:12:55.039 don't go through that process, if you don't go you 223 00:12:55.080 --> 00:12:57.919 don't accept the Holy Spirit that brings you to Christ, 224 00:12:58.000 --> 00:13:01.840 that brings you to the Father, then you've rejected that. 225 00:13:02.080 --> 00:13:04.440 Unto death. The moment you die, you can't go back 226 00:13:04.480 --> 00:13:07.960 the same way. Ryan, you know this that if a 227 00:13:08.000 --> 00:13:10.120 bullet leaves the gun and enters a body and kills 228 00:13:10.120 --> 00:13:12.279 that person, you can't say, oh no, now I see 229 00:13:12.320 --> 00:13:16.080 the consequences. I would like to take that back. You can't. 230 00:13:16.360 --> 00:13:19.039 And it's the same with God. Unto death. When you die, 231 00:13:19.320 --> 00:13:22.320 your decision is final. That's what blasphem me and the 232 00:13:22.360 --> 00:13:30.600 Holy Spirit is. That's the finality of it. Clara, Welcome 233 00:13:30.639 --> 00:13:31.639 to the Jesus Christ Show. 234 00:13:32.679 --> 00:13:34.039 Thank you for taking my call. 235 00:13:34.000 --> 00:13:35.120 My pleasure. How can I help you? 236 00:13:36.720 --> 00:13:40.159 I cheated on my husband. We were married four or 237 00:13:40.200 --> 00:13:45.360 thirty years. I'm recovering alcoholic and probably drank over. Maybe 238 00:13:45.360 --> 00:13:48.200 we drifted apart years ago. We were young. I was 239 00:13:48.279 --> 00:13:50.519 in tenth grade and he was the ninth and we 240 00:13:50.559 --> 00:13:53.919 would have been married thirty years. But now I'm in 241 00:13:53.919 --> 00:13:56.159 a relationship almost me and a half years. He has 242 00:13:56.200 --> 00:14:01.080 a girlfriend and I feel sod of what I did. 243 00:14:01.720 --> 00:14:03.720 I'm sorry that I did it, but I didn't love 244 00:14:03.759 --> 00:14:05.600 him the way a man should I woman should love 245 00:14:05.639 --> 00:14:05.919 a man. 246 00:14:06.840 --> 00:14:09.720 And no, well wait wait, wait, wait, wait wait, this 247 00:14:09.799 --> 00:14:14.639 is You're in a relationship now for three years and 248 00:14:14.679 --> 00:14:17.840 you said something a girlfriend. 249 00:14:18.799 --> 00:14:21.720 He has a girlfriend. Now we're divorced with been divorced. 250 00:14:21.919 --> 00:14:27.639 Okay, So your ex husband. 251 00:14:26.519 --> 00:14:29.240 And the man that i'm now with asked me to 252 00:14:29.240 --> 00:14:32.200 marry him. And first I want to know if I'll 253 00:14:32.240 --> 00:14:33.559 be forgiven for what I did. 254 00:14:34.480 --> 00:14:39.600 Well, yes, yes, you're You're forgiven. But God forgives those 255 00:14:39.639 --> 00:14:43.759 who reckon who truly repent and turn from the that 256 00:14:43.799 --> 00:14:45.559 which they were a participant in. 257 00:14:46.159 --> 00:14:48.080 And I made my amends to him, you know. And 258 00:14:49.159 --> 00:14:51.919 he wanted to work out the marriage. He wanted a chance, 259 00:14:51.919 --> 00:14:54.039 and I didn't. I didn't want to go to counsel, 260 00:14:54.159 --> 00:14:57.879 and I just why I didn't want to go back 261 00:14:58.600 --> 00:15:00.440 for when I was afraid I would dream again. Like 262 00:15:00.440 --> 00:15:01.879 I said, I'm a recovering alcoholic. 263 00:15:02.120 --> 00:15:04.000 But what does that have to do with your Was 264 00:15:04.120 --> 00:15:05.360 your ex husband a drinker? 265 00:15:05.960 --> 00:15:06.200 Yeah? 266 00:15:06.279 --> 00:15:09.200 They all do, Yeah, the family all drinks and everything, 267 00:15:09.279 --> 00:15:11.480 But is he. 268 00:15:11.480 --> 00:15:12.919 Is he an alcoholic? 269 00:15:13.600 --> 00:15:16.039 I don't think so. I don't think he is, and 270 00:15:16.480 --> 00:15:17.519 then he wouldn't. 271 00:15:17.200 --> 00:15:18.879 Like he wouldn't have given it up for you and 272 00:15:18.960 --> 00:15:20.120 just not had it around the house. 273 00:15:22.039 --> 00:15:24.360 I don't think. So they still drink now, you know. 274 00:15:24.399 --> 00:15:27.320 I'm friends with him and talk to him, but I 275 00:15:27.679 --> 00:15:30.399 didn't love him the same. I didn't have that love. 276 00:15:30.440 --> 00:15:37.120 I don't know what, Clara, that's that's really it's garbage. 277 00:15:37.120 --> 00:15:39.840 I hear that all the time, and it's garbage. You're 278 00:15:39.879 --> 00:15:41.960 gonna the next guy. You're gonna wake up and he's 279 00:15:41.960 --> 00:15:44.679 gonna have bad breath in the morning too, and he's 280 00:15:44.720 --> 00:15:46.919 going to that. That whole falling in and out of 281 00:15:47.000 --> 00:15:52.240 love thing is not real. It's just it's it's people 282 00:15:52.320 --> 00:15:54.919 not wanting to work towards the relationship anymore. 283 00:15:56.080 --> 00:15:57.039 Maybe that wasn't. 284 00:15:57.320 --> 00:15:58.279 Maybe, well, that. 285 00:15:58.200 --> 00:16:01.519 Can happen with anyone. And if you can't work it there, 286 00:16:01.559 --> 00:16:04.039 then I don't think you deserve another one. The whole 287 00:16:04.039 --> 00:16:09.679 point is is if it's not disposable, it's this concept 288 00:16:09.720 --> 00:16:12.519 of you know, breaking the china and going, well, yes, 289 00:16:12.519 --> 00:16:14.360 but that's because I didn't want that plate, but I 290 00:16:14.360 --> 00:16:15.960 want a new piece of china, and I'm gonna eat 291 00:16:16.000 --> 00:16:17.399 off of this one. And it's gonna I'm gonna keep 292 00:16:17.399 --> 00:16:19.840 it cleaning. No, it's people. If you don't respect the 293 00:16:19.879 --> 00:16:23.399 relationship for what it is, and that is good and bad, 294 00:16:23.600 --> 00:16:26.279 for better, for worse and sickness and in health and 295 00:16:26.799 --> 00:16:30.080 working towards it and giving the opportunity. God's always going 296 00:16:30.120 --> 00:16:33.840 to want you to reconcile, always unless they're beating you 297 00:16:33.960 --> 00:16:39.000 or there's uh, there's any kind of abuse physical emotional. 298 00:16:39.559 --> 00:16:41.080 We did have that that it could have been for 299 00:16:41.120 --> 00:16:41.960 a number of reasons. 300 00:16:42.000 --> 00:16:44.440 You know, there's all kinds. But it depends if you 301 00:16:44.480 --> 00:16:47.679 are a participant in it. If you're a participant in 302 00:16:47.759 --> 00:16:49.960 it and you and you're drinking and the like or 303 00:16:49.960 --> 00:16:50.519 bringing that in. 304 00:16:51.159 --> 00:16:53.440 Okay, just that's the past. Though, what can I do? 305 00:16:53.720 --> 00:16:55.159 You know, I can't change it. 306 00:16:55.399 --> 00:16:57.159 Well, but I don't want you to relive it. I 307 00:16:57.240 --> 00:16:59.919 realize that that that can't change. But you have to. 308 00:17:01.279 --> 00:17:03.240 So you're in a different place now. 309 00:17:03.799 --> 00:17:05.559 Right, So do I marry again? 310 00:17:06.000 --> 00:17:08.559 But you bring the old you know, you bring the 311 00:17:08.599 --> 00:17:14.119 stuff into it. The marrying again is is your choice because. 312 00:17:13.799 --> 00:17:16.279 If I'm living in sin. You know, we went to church, 313 00:17:16.400 --> 00:17:18.319 we try to go to church together. We're both spiritual, 314 00:17:18.960 --> 00:17:22.759 and they frown, you know, they said, if you're living together, 315 00:17:22.839 --> 00:17:25.200 we'll find out, and so we didn't. Never went back, 316 00:17:26.279 --> 00:17:29.440 you know, because we're living together. So what do you know? 317 00:17:29.119 --> 00:17:30.839 So you haven't really changed? 318 00:17:31.599 --> 00:17:32.119 What do you mean? 319 00:17:32.400 --> 00:17:34.119 Well, you're kind of doing things the way you want 320 00:17:34.119 --> 00:17:36.519 to do them because it's convenient. 321 00:17:36.799 --> 00:17:38.920 I prayed about it. I pray about it. 322 00:17:39.000 --> 00:17:40.680 I pray you pray about living together. 323 00:17:41.319 --> 00:17:43.079 No, I pray about making the right choices. 324 00:17:43.319 --> 00:17:47.759 Okay, while you're making the wrong choices. So which would 325 00:17:47.839 --> 00:17:50.440 if you were? Have you been in the program at all? 326 00:17:50.640 --> 00:17:51.480 A yes? 327 00:17:51.599 --> 00:17:51.799 Yes? 328 00:17:51.839 --> 00:17:53.680 Okay. Are you going to sit there and tell them 329 00:17:53.680 --> 00:17:57.680 that you're you're praying about it while you're drinking? No, okay, 330 00:17:57.680 --> 00:18:01.799 but you're you're doing something, You're living a situation that 331 00:18:01.839 --> 00:18:05.119 doesn't glorify God, and then you're telling me you're praying 332 00:18:05.119 --> 00:18:09.079 about it. My concern is this, and it's not the situations. 333 00:18:09.119 --> 00:18:11.119 They will change. We talk about that all the time. 334 00:18:11.359 --> 00:18:14.359 And I'll give you that the old relationship is gone. 335 00:18:14.599 --> 00:18:18.440 But all you're doing is bringing the same stink into 336 00:18:18.480 --> 00:18:24.200 a new relationship. You need to work on you, not 337 00:18:24.240 --> 00:18:24.960 a relationship. 338 00:18:25.000 --> 00:18:27.799 I think God. Okay, in my I think God brought 339 00:18:27.839 --> 00:18:30.920 us together. We've been together three and a half years. 340 00:18:30.960 --> 00:18:33.279 And there's people that think that God calls them to 341 00:18:33.359 --> 00:18:37.480 kill other people. In this particular case, you're saying that 342 00:18:37.519 --> 00:18:40.640 God brought you together. That may very well be, and 343 00:18:40.680 --> 00:18:43.599 then you abuse it by living together and going against 344 00:18:43.759 --> 00:18:45.920 God's desire for your relationship. 345 00:18:47.039 --> 00:18:48.680 So we definitely don't have his. 346 00:18:48.799 --> 00:18:51.640 Blessings, not in its current state. It doesn't mean that 347 00:18:51.680 --> 00:18:53.240 I don't love you, or doesn't mean that I don't 348 00:18:53.240 --> 00:18:55.200 want the best for you and that this can't work out. 349 00:18:55.640 --> 00:18:57.920 None of that's true. Of course, it can work out. 350 00:18:58.920 --> 00:19:01.319 It means it means that you're doing it your own way, 351 00:19:03.200 --> 00:19:06.119 and you didn't do it right the first time, and 352 00:19:06.160 --> 00:19:07.960 it won't change this time. You and I will just 353 00:19:07.960 --> 00:19:09.160 be talking in a couple of years. 354 00:19:09.039 --> 00:19:12.079 From now and the current situation that I'm in, and 355 00:19:12.319 --> 00:19:15.200 am I to leave them? I love them? 356 00:19:15.440 --> 00:19:18.160 Yeah? Love them separately? Or get married. Why don't you 357 00:19:18.200 --> 00:19:19.000 guys get married? 358 00:19:19.960 --> 00:19:21.039 That's what I'm asking. 359 00:19:21.359 --> 00:19:23.440 Okay, well, but in that context, why is it taken 360 00:19:23.599 --> 00:19:26.759 three years? Why did you move in first? 361 00:19:27.000 --> 00:19:28.920 I shouldn't have if I made a mistake. 362 00:19:28.759 --> 00:19:31.839 Okay, but but this is what I want to know, honey. 363 00:19:31.920 --> 00:19:34.119 I don't care about that The situation can come and go, 364 00:19:34.200 --> 00:19:37.039 the guys can come and go. I care about you, 365 00:19:37.640 --> 00:19:40.200 and you keep taking the same luggage with you and 366 00:19:40.279 --> 00:19:42.799 wondering why, wondering why every room you go to has 367 00:19:42.839 --> 00:19:46.400 bed bugs. I'm saying they're in your luggage. You're bringing 368 00:19:46.400 --> 00:19:47.359 them to every room. 369 00:19:47.920 --> 00:19:49.880 And haven't been with many men. My husband was the 370 00:19:49.920 --> 00:19:53.240 first and this is the second. But I just want 371 00:19:53.279 --> 00:19:54.680 to I know I did it wrong. 372 00:19:54.920 --> 00:19:57.240 How long were you How long were you separated from 373 00:19:57.279 --> 00:19:57.960 your ex husband? 374 00:19:58.160 --> 00:19:59.799 Well, I went to Solber Living, so we were so 375 00:20:00.039 --> 00:20:01.440 worrited about two years. 376 00:20:01.519 --> 00:20:06.640 Okay, and you did you come across the uh, your 377 00:20:06.759 --> 00:20:08.480 new bo and so. 378 00:20:11.319 --> 00:20:11.720 I did. 379 00:20:12.559 --> 00:20:14.279 And they tend to frown upon that, don't they. 380 00:20:15.079 --> 00:20:17.799 It was suggested not to get in a relationship. 381 00:20:17.839 --> 00:20:20.880 It was suggested very strong. It was oh boy, that 382 00:20:20.920 --> 00:20:22.759 seems to be a running theme now, doesn't it. 383 00:20:23.240 --> 00:20:23.440 Yeah? 384 00:20:23.640 --> 00:20:24.000 It does? 385 00:20:24.200 --> 00:20:29.720 Okay, So why why do you not follow directions? Everyone is. 386 00:20:31.200 --> 00:20:34.160 I just made wrong decisions? You know, I made wrong decisions, 387 00:20:34.160 --> 00:20:34.880 and I can't. 388 00:20:34.720 --> 00:20:37.279 I can't impact time, I know, but those But I'm 389 00:20:37.319 --> 00:20:39.599 not worried about the past. I'm worried about the present 390 00:20:39.640 --> 00:20:42.359 and the future. And if you continue down this path, 391 00:20:42.599 --> 00:20:44.680 You're going to continue to make bad decisions and they're 392 00:20:44.680 --> 00:20:47.240 going to bite you in the fanny. And that's what 393 00:20:47.279 --> 00:20:49.839 I don't want. There's ways around this, and it doesn't 394 00:20:49.880 --> 00:20:55.200 mean people make these false dilemmas that it's either loneliness 395 00:20:55.240 --> 00:20:58.440 forever and ever and ever or make bad choices. That's 396 00:20:58.519 --> 00:21:01.119 just not right. That's, you know, like the thief who says, well, 397 00:21:01.319 --> 00:21:03.519 you know, ripping people off is all I know how 398 00:21:03.559 --> 00:21:06.960 to do. Are you? Are you kidding me? You're smarter 399 00:21:07.079 --> 00:21:07.319 than that. 400 00:21:08.279 --> 00:21:12.440 Yeah, I just, you know, I just so bad about it. 401 00:21:12.240 --> 00:21:15.240