WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.280 --> 00:00:17.600 Andenogy canst so high ectas canstor It's not sorry andenogy. 2 00:00:19.239 --> 00:00:22.800 If you are not happy with your reality, the divine 3 00:00:22.879 --> 00:00:25.719 is simply not done being at work in your life. 4 00:00:26.239 --> 00:00:30.640 You're passing over a temporary bridge. Don't mistake that for 5 00:00:30.800 --> 00:00:34.880 your permanent home. What's a positive bitches? How are we 6 00:00:35.039 --> 00:00:38.880 feeling today? If you are hearing this podcast and you 7 00:00:38.960 --> 00:00:42.200 are meant to be here, So keep listening on that 8 00:00:42.280 --> 00:00:43.560 Bitch's Positive Podcast. 9 00:00:43.679 --> 00:00:44.759 Sometimes we will laugh. 10 00:00:44.880 --> 00:00:48.439 Other times, Baby, we're gonna cry, but we will always 11 00:00:48.479 --> 00:00:52.600 walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self. That 12 00:00:52.799 --> 00:00:56.359 is babe in true connection with herself or himself. 13 00:00:57.200 --> 00:00:59.880 I get so many questions from men. Is your con 14 00:01:00.759 --> 00:01:02.399 for males? To baby? 15 00:01:02.840 --> 00:01:05.599 You can be an interdimensional being. I really don't care. 16 00:01:06.120 --> 00:01:10.040 My content is for all anyone who wants to become 17 00:01:10.079 --> 00:01:13.120 a better version of themselves, anyone who's ready to break 18 00:01:13.280 --> 00:01:17.400 free of the victim consciousness because that evil entity is 19 00:01:17.519 --> 00:01:18.680 running amok on this planet. 20 00:01:18.719 --> 00:01:19.439 Oh yes it is. 21 00:01:19.840 --> 00:01:21.879 I really don't care what you are, what you think, 22 00:01:21.959 --> 00:01:24.319 what you do. If you want to better your life, 23 00:01:24.400 --> 00:01:28.400 this podcast is for you. On this podcast, we unbecome 24 00:01:28.439 --> 00:01:30.239 who we are, not so we can fully step into 25 00:01:30.439 --> 00:01:34.640 exactly who we came here to be. I want you 26 00:01:34.799 --> 00:01:38.239 to understand that if you're not happy, it's because there's 27 00:01:38.319 --> 00:01:41.959 something better for you, then maybe you cannot yet see. 28 00:01:42.200 --> 00:01:44.959 We are so three D based as human beings that 29 00:01:45.040 --> 00:01:47.079 when we think of ourselves, we think about what we 30 00:01:47.200 --> 00:01:49.480 look like. We think about our diploma, we think about 31 00:01:49.480 --> 00:01:52.120 what we do. We don't think about the thoughts we have. 32 00:01:52.680 --> 00:01:55.239 We don't think about the past lifetimes we've had. We 33 00:01:55.319 --> 00:01:58.159 don't think about our energetic bodies. We don't think about 34 00:01:58.159 --> 00:01:59.000 the entities. 35 00:01:58.719 --> 00:02:00.560 That are stuck in our org fields. We don't think 36 00:02:00.560 --> 00:02:03.040 about any of that. No, we don't, No, we do not. 37 00:02:03.560 --> 00:02:07.439 We are so seduced by our three D that we 38 00:02:07.640 --> 00:02:10.080 believe in it more than we believe in ourselves. We 39 00:02:10.199 --> 00:02:12.800 believe in our reality what it looks like currently, more 40 00:02:12.879 --> 00:02:14.759 than we believe in what it could be. We believe 41 00:02:14.800 --> 00:02:17.360 in the three D more than we believe in our 42 00:02:17.520 --> 00:02:19.960 own potential. We believe in the three D more than 43 00:02:20.000 --> 00:02:23.840 we believe in a living God in divinity, and it 44 00:02:24.080 --> 00:02:28.960 trips us up. Sometimes what you're going through is simply 45 00:02:29.039 --> 00:02:31.599 something you're going through. You're going to pass over it 46 00:02:31.759 --> 00:02:34.680 like a bridge. It is temporary. If you're not happy, 47 00:02:34.800 --> 00:02:38.000 it is because your inner being is alerting you that 48 00:02:38.159 --> 00:02:42.400 there's something better, that there's something that is more in 49 00:02:42.520 --> 00:02:47.719 vibrational alignment with you that maybe you cannot yet see. 50 00:02:48.639 --> 00:02:51.520 But because we're so seduced by the three D, we 51 00:02:51.719 --> 00:02:55.240 ignore that intuitive nudge, We push it down, we try 52 00:02:55.319 --> 00:02:58.360 to run away from it. Every single time I said no, 53 00:02:58.520 --> 00:03:03.599 I want more, guess what I was delivered more. Every 54 00:03:03.719 --> 00:03:06.919 time I would say no, I want better treatment, I 55 00:03:06.919 --> 00:03:10.479 would attract better treatment. Every time I said this actually 56 00:03:10.560 --> 00:03:13.879 isn't worth my time. I want a better circumstance, I 57 00:03:13.960 --> 00:03:17.879 would get a better circumstance. But two things simultaneously have 58 00:03:18.039 --> 00:03:21.080 to happen. One, you have to realize you want more 59 00:03:21.240 --> 00:03:24.240 and state to the electromagnetic field we reside and I 60 00:03:24.360 --> 00:03:24.879 want more. 61 00:03:25.199 --> 00:03:27.360 And the second thing is you have to follow through 62 00:03:27.439 --> 00:03:30.360 with action. You have to say no to what your. 63 00:03:30.319 --> 00:03:33.560 Current circumstance is delivering to you so you can be 64 00:03:33.680 --> 00:03:37.400 delivered from it. You have to say, actually, no, Brad, 65 00:03:37.680 --> 00:03:40.400 I don't want to be a side chick because I 66 00:03:40.680 --> 00:03:45.719 have respect for myself and this is boring to me. Actually, no, 67 00:03:46.639 --> 00:03:48.639 I'm not going to do all this work and not 68 00:03:48.759 --> 00:03:52.319 get paid for it. I'm going to remove myself. Does 69 00:03:52.439 --> 00:03:56.639 this require a dose of faith? Well, it can either 70 00:03:56.719 --> 00:03:59.840 require a dose of faith or at least curiosity that 71 00:04:00.319 --> 00:04:02.159 maybe my life doesn't have to suck. 72 00:04:02.560 --> 00:04:04.400 Maybe I didn't come all the way down to the 73 00:04:04.479 --> 00:04:07.240 planet Earth and incarnate here just to be miserable the 74 00:04:07.479 --> 00:04:11.719 whole time. Does that make sense to you? 75 00:04:12.000 --> 00:04:13.759 Does it make sense that you would choose to be 76 00:04:13.879 --> 00:04:16.839 a human being just to be miserable the whole time? 77 00:04:17.199 --> 00:04:20.800 I will say yes. In suffering, we can definitely learn, 78 00:04:21.000 --> 00:04:23.639 it can gift us momentum. Do you have to suffer 79 00:04:23.720 --> 00:04:29.360 your whole incarnation? Well no, well absolutely not, because love 80 00:04:29.600 --> 00:04:34.079 and fun and pleasure and joy is also your divine right. 81 00:04:35.040 --> 00:04:38.439 If you're not happy, you just didn't reach your peak yet. 82 00:04:38.800 --> 00:04:40.560 And it's not to say that you're going to have 83 00:04:40.759 --> 00:04:42.839 one peak. I don't believe in that. I believe we 84 00:04:42.920 --> 00:04:46.639 are like mountains, and we'll have many peaks and many valleys, 85 00:04:46.800 --> 00:04:50.279 many peaks and many valleys. But if you are not happy, 86 00:04:50.560 --> 00:04:52.600 it might be because you're currently in a valley and 87 00:04:52.720 --> 00:04:53.360 you're going up. 88 00:04:53.319 --> 00:04:53.839 To a peak. 89 00:04:54.279 --> 00:04:56.600 You are going to have more, You're gonna feel better, 90 00:04:56.839 --> 00:04:58.480 but you have to keep going and you have to 91 00:04:58.600 --> 00:05:00.879 decide that you will not accept anything else. 92 00:05:01.040 --> 00:05:03.240 Your life is whatever you accept it to be. 93 00:05:03.839 --> 00:05:06.680 When I was dealing with dermatitis for two years, I 94 00:05:06.800 --> 00:05:09.680 went to like four different doctors until I finally went 95 00:05:09.720 --> 00:05:12.600 to a homeopathic doctor who figured out I was allergic 96 00:05:12.639 --> 00:05:16.720 to almonds. If I would have allowed those other doctors 97 00:05:16.800 --> 00:05:19.000 to just be like, well, I don't really know. I 98 00:05:19.040 --> 00:05:21.240 guess this is just a part of your journey, I 99 00:05:21.759 --> 00:05:25.120 would not have been able to heal my skin. But 100 00:05:25.360 --> 00:05:27.319 my life is whatever I accept it to be. 101 00:05:27.959 --> 00:05:31.240 It gets better from here if you keep going. But 102 00:05:31.360 --> 00:05:35.399 if you say, well, I guess this is just the treatment. 103 00:05:35.079 --> 00:05:39.199 I have to accept, then you're right. If you say, well, 104 00:05:39.759 --> 00:05:42.720 I guess this is just how the cookie crumbles, then 105 00:05:42.720 --> 00:05:47.279 you're right. If you say, well, I guess that this. 106 00:05:47.399 --> 00:05:49.199 Is just a circumstance I'm in and I can't do 107 00:05:49.319 --> 00:05:51.920 anything about it, then yeah, you're right. 108 00:05:52.759 --> 00:05:56.639 But if you instead say this doesn't feel right, my 109 00:05:56.759 --> 00:05:59.360 inner being must be alerting me that there's something better 110 00:05:59.439 --> 00:05:59.720 for me. 111 00:06:00.079 --> 00:06:03.399 I'm gonna keep going, then you're right. If you say 112 00:06:03.480 --> 00:06:04.160 I'm gonna. 113 00:06:03.959 --> 00:06:06.439 Remove myself from the situation so I can actually be 114 00:06:06.600 --> 00:06:10.160 emotionally stable and not have my cortisol levels through the roof. 115 00:06:11.040 --> 00:06:14.120 Then you'll get more, You'll get a better circumstance. 116 00:06:14.399 --> 00:06:18.360 You have to not only realize that you can have more, 117 00:06:19.399 --> 00:06:20.199 you have to then. 118 00:06:20.199 --> 00:06:22.879 Make a decision through action, to remove yourself from the 119 00:06:22.920 --> 00:06:25.319 situation that's giving you less. 120 00:06:25.560 --> 00:06:28.079 Do you remember that saying growing up? You get what 121 00:06:28.199 --> 00:06:31.600 you get and you don't get upset. Even that is 122 00:06:31.680 --> 00:06:36.040 a mere lie. That's not how reality works. It's not 123 00:06:36.240 --> 00:06:38.720 just oh, I have this random set of circumstances and 124 00:06:38.759 --> 00:06:43.000 now I just gotta live through it. No, the real 125 00:06:43.439 --> 00:06:46.800 saying should be you get what you accept. 126 00:06:47.480 --> 00:06:50.480 I see people in terrible relationships and other people will 127 00:06:50.480 --> 00:06:51.519 come up to me and say. 128 00:06:51.759 --> 00:06:54.199 Why are they in that? They're in it because they 129 00:06:54.319 --> 00:06:57.959 accept it. There's another quote that's like, you get. 130 00:06:57.879 --> 00:07:00.920 The love you think you deserve. Actually, you just get 131 00:07:01.000 --> 00:07:05.560 what you accept. If you accept someone who is a complete. 132 00:07:05.240 --> 00:07:07.360 Monster, you get in the monster. 133 00:07:08.000 --> 00:07:10.839 But if you say no and you remove them, you 134 00:07:10.959 --> 00:07:14.240 create proximity from them. You say I want more. When 135 00:07:14.279 --> 00:07:18.160 you require more from the electromagnetic field, you get more. 136 00:07:19.120 --> 00:07:22.639 It's so simple, but yet we have so many emotional 137 00:07:22.680 --> 00:07:25.759 attachments to people, to places, to jobs that we make 138 00:07:25.800 --> 00:07:29.639 it harder on ourselves. We create a dialogue, a narrative, 139 00:07:29.680 --> 00:07:32.319 a story about who this person is, what this job is, 140 00:07:32.720 --> 00:07:35.279 and then it makes it harder for us to remove it, 141 00:07:35.680 --> 00:07:38.480 when our body is screaming at us to get on 142 00:07:38.639 --> 00:07:44.600 aut of there. You get simply what you accept. I 143 00:07:44.720 --> 00:07:47.639 have so many people dming me that they got played, 144 00:07:48.079 --> 00:07:51.480 that they're in situationships. I'm like, yeah, okay, take responsibility 145 00:07:51.560 --> 00:07:55.199 over your reality. Who's allowing that behavior? You allow them 146 00:07:55.279 --> 00:07:57.360 to come in and out of your life. You allow 147 00:07:57.519 --> 00:08:01.279 them to say, ah, we're just not really anything. I 148 00:08:01.319 --> 00:08:02.720 don't want to do a label. I don't really know 149 00:08:02.759 --> 00:08:04.600 where I'm going right now. And when you allow that 150 00:08:04.680 --> 00:08:06.879 person into your life, it is now your fault. 151 00:08:07.319 --> 00:08:10.079 It is it's your fault. They're not playing you. 152 00:08:10.240 --> 00:08:12.399 You were playing yourself. Don't even tell me, Cecy, I 153 00:08:12.399 --> 00:08:14.439 didn't see the red flags. Yes you did, and you 154 00:08:14.600 --> 00:08:18.560 accepted them anyway, And you get what you accept. This 155 00:08:18.839 --> 00:08:22.600 is actually empowering because you're realizing, wait a damn minute, 156 00:08:22.920 --> 00:08:24.759 I don't have to accept this. I don't have to 157 00:08:24.839 --> 00:08:28.959 keep going around this revolving door of just insecurity and 158 00:08:29.199 --> 00:08:31.120 him dealing with all these other women in this and 159 00:08:31.199 --> 00:08:34.440 that I can just walk out of the revolving door. 160 00:08:34.799 --> 00:08:38.000 I can just remove myself from the situation. I can 161 00:08:38.080 --> 00:08:40.120 put the power back in my hands and say this 162 00:08:40.360 --> 00:08:44.320 is boring to me. I can predict the bad behavior 163 00:08:44.440 --> 00:08:45.000 of this person. 164 00:08:45.080 --> 00:08:47.720 It's not even exciting anymore. It's boring. 165 00:08:48.440 --> 00:08:50.919 It's up to you to decide what you want and 166 00:08:51.000 --> 00:08:53.600 then to take action in accordance with that decision. 167 00:08:54.120 --> 00:08:56.519 But only you can do it. Only you have that 168 00:08:56.679 --> 00:08:57.720 power over your life. 169 00:08:57.960 --> 00:09:00.639 It's energetic law that when you really at least what's 170 00:09:00.720 --> 00:09:04.559 not yours, you will then receive what is. 171 00:09:05.200 --> 00:09:08.919 But if you hoard what is not yours, you are 172 00:09:09.240 --> 00:09:12.600 violating energetic law and you're not going to be able 173 00:09:12.679 --> 00:09:14.519 to receive what is. 174 00:09:15.799 --> 00:09:22.080 If you hoard money, people, resources and you know they're 175 00:09:22.120 --> 00:09:24.519 not really for you, you're not actually using them, there's 176 00:09:24.600 --> 00:09:26.320 nothing to do with your incarnation anymore. 177 00:09:26.799 --> 00:09:29.600 You are then going to clog up your. 178 00:09:29.559 --> 00:09:34.519 Availability, your capacity to receive more, and your capacity to 179 00:09:34.639 --> 00:09:38.960 receive a better vibrational fit. This is really a low 180 00:09:39.080 --> 00:09:40.120 level of codependency. 181 00:09:40.399 --> 00:09:43.960 Think about it. We don't realize that. 182 00:09:44.200 --> 00:09:47.840 So many of us are codependent until we actually start 183 00:09:47.919 --> 00:09:50.120 to pick apart what we're doing. A low level of 184 00:09:50.200 --> 00:09:54.519 Codependency is not always obvious. It's not always about needing 185 00:09:54.600 --> 00:09:57.840 a constant text or a call. A low level of 186 00:09:57.919 --> 00:10:01.559 codependency could look like staying in a relationship out of 187 00:10:01.679 --> 00:10:05.879 fear instead of being in a relationship for alignment. It 188 00:10:05.960 --> 00:10:08.919 could look like saying in something that's comfortable even though 189 00:10:09.000 --> 00:10:14.279 you know it's not really serving you anymore. It could 190 00:10:14.519 --> 00:10:18.519 be the thought we've already been through so much, We've 191 00:10:18.679 --> 00:10:23.240 had so many times together. Guess what A history is 192 00:10:23.320 --> 00:10:25.320 not a good enough reason to have a present or 193 00:10:25.480 --> 00:10:28.799 future with someone. And yeah, I do get to say 194 00:10:28.879 --> 00:10:32.519 that to you. While everyone in my reality was getting married, which. 195 00:10:32.360 --> 00:10:34.399 I'm very happy for. I love love and I love 196 00:10:34.480 --> 00:10:35.240 to celebrate love. 197 00:10:35.759 --> 00:10:38.279 I decided to go through a breakup from my seven 198 00:10:38.360 --> 00:10:43.519 year boyfriend at the time now x yeah, because I 199 00:10:43.720 --> 00:10:46.720 also had those thoughts of, oh, well, if everyone else 200 00:10:46.799 --> 00:10:50.360 is getting married, should that mean that I am. I mean, 201 00:10:50.399 --> 00:10:52.960 I guess I'm at that age. But I'm not going 202 00:10:53.080 --> 00:10:57.919 to allow something like a matrix timeline to dictate how 203 00:10:58.080 --> 00:11:01.559 I'm going to live my life. I'm not going to 204 00:11:01.679 --> 00:11:04.399 allow seven years to dictate that's how I have to 205 00:11:04.480 --> 00:11:07.639 spend the rest of my life. The only thing Worse 206 00:11:07.679 --> 00:11:09.840 than being in the wrong relationship for seven years is 207 00:11:09.919 --> 00:11:12.240 being in the wrong relationship for seven years in one day. 208 00:11:12.679 --> 00:11:16.279 And really, the wrong relationship is not the correct terminology here, 209 00:11:16.320 --> 00:11:19.799 because it wasn't wrong for many years, but eventually it 210 00:11:20.399 --> 00:11:22.840 was no longer in alignment, and so I had to 211 00:11:22.960 --> 00:11:27.360 release it with love. A low level of codependency could 212 00:11:27.399 --> 00:11:30.159 look like shrinking yourself or not speaking up for your 213 00:11:30.279 --> 00:11:32.960 needs because you are fraid to lose that other person 214 00:11:33.080 --> 00:11:37.120 even though you know this is not the right thing, 215 00:11:37.639 --> 00:11:42.679 relationship circumstance job for you. I've done it, We've all 216 00:11:42.799 --> 00:11:45.440 done it. But ultimately we need to remember who we 217 00:11:45.559 --> 00:11:49.039 are and why we incarnated on this planet. Did you 218 00:11:49.320 --> 00:11:55.159 incarnate to receive mediocre love? Did you incarnate to receive 219 00:11:55.480 --> 00:12:00.080 a mediocre life? Did you incarnate to receive mediocre. 220 00:11:59.639 --> 00:12:01.759 Payment for all the work that you're doing? 221 00:12:03.440 --> 00:12:05.799 Is that what you came here for? And hey, some 222 00:12:06.000 --> 00:12:10.759 of us did just incarnate to chill, to sit back, relax, 223 00:12:11.759 --> 00:12:15.320 enjoy the grass. That is not me, And if you're 224 00:12:15.399 --> 00:12:17.240 listening to this, I know it's not you either, So 225 00:12:17.320 --> 00:12:20.519 don't even try to play yourself in this season. You 226 00:12:20.840 --> 00:12:23.440 have to one realize you can have more and how 227 00:12:23.480 --> 00:12:26.559 do you realize that. You realize it because your body 228 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:31.120 is rejecting your current reality, relationship, job, whatever it might be. 229 00:12:31.559 --> 00:12:34.240 Your body is either breaking out in hives, or you 230 00:12:34.320 --> 00:12:37.120 have anxiety, or you have this restlessness, you have stomaches. 231 00:12:37.440 --> 00:12:40.840 You know, there's this little deep voice within your body 232 00:12:41.039 --> 00:12:43.799 that's just saying you gotta get out of this. If 233 00:12:43.840 --> 00:12:47.159 you are questioning something every single day, I honestly don't 234 00:12:47.200 --> 00:12:49.840 even think you have anxious attachment. I think you are 235 00:12:49.879 --> 00:12:52.320 afraid to take this step that you know you have 236 00:12:52.440 --> 00:12:52.799 to take. 237 00:12:53.080 --> 00:12:53.720 I think you're. 238 00:12:53.559 --> 00:12:56.320 Afraid of letting go of something that's familiar. I think 239 00:12:56.320 --> 00:12:58.600 you're afraid of letting go of what's not yours to 240 00:12:58.679 --> 00:13:02.399 receive what actually is. I gotta say, at this point 241 00:13:02.480 --> 00:13:07.480 in my journey, I'm seriously, why do I feel like 242 00:13:07.480 --> 00:13:12.159 I'm about to cry? I am seriously rethinking anxious attachment. 243 00:13:12.679 --> 00:13:13.320 Oh my god. 244 00:13:13.799 --> 00:13:16.039 There are many things I did to heal my anxious 245 00:13:16.039 --> 00:13:19.600 attachment and to overcome it, so I know that that's 246 00:13:19.759 --> 00:13:21.799 part of the reason I feel so much better now. 247 00:13:22.679 --> 00:13:26.840 But another part of anxious attachment I really think has 248 00:13:26.919 --> 00:13:28.679 nothing to do with anyone else. I think it has 249 00:13:28.759 --> 00:13:32.240 to do with your relationship with yourself. I think I 250 00:13:32.240 --> 00:13:36.159 ignored my intuition for so long. In that seven year relationship, 251 00:13:36.759 --> 00:13:39.240 I was fighting myself on a daily basis. Of course 252 00:13:39.279 --> 00:13:41.399 I'm not going to feel good. I was fighting that 253 00:13:41.519 --> 00:13:43.320 voice that said, get out of this, what are you doing? 254 00:13:43.360 --> 00:13:44.639 And I was trying to push it down. Of course 255 00:13:44.639 --> 00:13:47.440 I'm gonna feel anxious. Of course I'm not gonna feel happy. 256 00:13:47.799 --> 00:13:50.320 Of Course I'm gonna feel like I have a noose 257 00:13:50.399 --> 00:13:53.320 around my neck on a daily basis when I have 258 00:13:53.600 --> 00:13:56.320 an inner knowing that something is wrong. Yet I won't 259 00:13:56.399 --> 00:14:00.919 take any action to free myself of my own imprisonment 260 00:14:01.120 --> 00:14:05.320 that I was creating. It's funny because we pray for things, 261 00:14:05.639 --> 00:14:09.080 we get them, we manifest things, we get them. We 262 00:14:09.240 --> 00:14:11.279 really want something, and then we get it and we 263 00:14:11.480 --> 00:14:13.200 have it, and we have it and we hold it 264 00:14:13.279 --> 00:14:15.519 and we be with it, and then we realize and 265 00:14:15.639 --> 00:14:18.200 I want something different, or and I want something more, 266 00:14:18.519 --> 00:14:21.440 or this actually isn't giving me the feelings I thought 267 00:14:21.440 --> 00:14:23.039 it was going to give me, because why do we 268 00:14:23.159 --> 00:14:25.720 manifest anything, why do we want anything? It's really because 269 00:14:25.720 --> 00:14:28.559 the emotional outcome it's going to give us. We have 270 00:14:28.720 --> 00:14:31.600 to give ourselves permission. To say it's okay if I 271 00:14:31.720 --> 00:14:33.840 wanted this at one time, because it's not what I 272 00:14:33.960 --> 00:14:37.039 want any more. I'm sorry. Are you not allowed to grow? 273 00:14:37.639 --> 00:14:39.879 Are you not allowed to change your mind? Are you 274 00:14:40.039 --> 00:14:42.960 not allowed to evolve and say, hmm, I actually want more? 275 00:14:42.960 --> 00:14:43.759 I want something different. 276 00:14:43.799 --> 00:14:46.879 This doesn't really align with me anymore. You're allowed to 277 00:14:47.039 --> 00:14:50.000 outgrow people that you once prayed for. You're allowed to 278 00:14:50.080 --> 00:14:53.200 walk away even if nothing dramatic happened, but it just 279 00:14:53.360 --> 00:14:55.360 is no longer serving you, and you have an inner 280 00:14:55.559 --> 00:14:59.960 knowing that it's not serving you, You're allowed to admit. 281 00:15:00.240 --> 00:15:03.720 I don't want to be here anymore. I don't want 282 00:15:03.759 --> 00:15:04.159 to be here. 283 00:15:04.519 --> 00:15:07.000 I don't want to be here anymore. I don't always 284 00:15:07.039 --> 00:15:09.320 have to have three D evidence of why this isn't working. 285 00:15:09.759 --> 00:15:16.360 It just isn't period, And I'm gonna follow that intuitive knowing. 286 00:15:16.799 --> 00:15:20.159 I'm gonna follow that internal nudge because that's my compass. 287 00:15:20.879 --> 00:15:23.840 Not what everyone else is doing, not what the matrix 288 00:15:23.879 --> 00:15:26.519 says to do, not what people have done before me. 289 00:15:27.039 --> 00:15:30.159 I have to follow my own internal compass because that 290 00:15:30.919 --> 00:15:34.440 is what I have to help me during this incarnation. 291 00:15:35.080 --> 00:15:41.519 I'm finally at this point in my life where i 292 00:15:41.600 --> 00:15:45.440 don't have to force people to be in roles anymore. 293 00:15:46.320 --> 00:15:50.000 If I feel like, okay, I dated you for some 294 00:15:50.200 --> 00:15:53.360 time and now it's no longer in alignment, I'm. 295 00:15:53.279 --> 00:15:54.440 Okay with walking away. 296 00:15:54.559 --> 00:15:57.639 And the reason is, after I walked away from that 297 00:15:57.759 --> 00:16:01.480 seven year relationship, I'm now dating someone who is so 298 00:16:02.039 --> 00:16:04.840 much more in alignment with me, who gives me so 299 00:16:05.120 --> 00:16:09.879 much more emotional depth, intellectual conversation, safety, and security that 300 00:16:10.240 --> 00:16:13.200 being on the other end of the seven year relationship. 301 00:16:13.240 --> 00:16:16.240 Being in a new relationship, I can now tell you, yes, 302 00:16:16.399 --> 00:16:19.000 not only is there something better, especially when you feel 303 00:16:19.080 --> 00:16:24.080 like something's off, but also I now trust myself so 304 00:16:24.320 --> 00:16:29.320 much that even if my current relationship ends up ending 305 00:16:29.679 --> 00:16:33.679 or goes a different direction than I was originally. 306 00:16:33.320 --> 00:16:35.840 Maybe intending, I'm okay with that. 307 00:16:36.600 --> 00:16:39.759 I recognize that my ex of seven years played a 308 00:16:39.919 --> 00:16:44.480 role in my life, and eventually that movie just ended 309 00:16:44.799 --> 00:16:47.759 like all the great ones do, and the role no 310 00:16:47.919 --> 00:16:51.519 longer needed to be filled by him, but now someone else. 311 00:16:52.720 --> 00:16:56.279 And I think that when we cling onto a partner, 312 00:16:56.840 --> 00:17:02.840 a relationship, a job title, we only hurt ourselves because 313 00:17:03.840 --> 00:17:08.039 we don't realize that this person might just be a portal, 314 00:17:08.960 --> 00:17:11.119 this job might just be a bridge to the next 315 00:17:11.240 --> 00:17:19.559 version of myself. Some people, Yeah, they are your soulmate, 316 00:17:19.839 --> 00:17:23.759 but they are your soulmate of the season. They're meant 317 00:17:23.839 --> 00:17:25.960 to come in to help you learn, develop, or grow. 318 00:17:26.079 --> 00:17:29.039 They're meant to highlight your shadows. They're meant to help 319 00:17:29.079 --> 00:17:31.720 you open up to receive more love for actually the 320 00:17:31.839 --> 00:17:33.680 next person who's going to be able to give you 321 00:17:33.920 --> 00:17:38.319 even more than your current partner. This is not to 322 00:17:39.240 --> 00:17:41.720 say that no one's ever good enough. It's to say 323 00:17:41.799 --> 00:17:48.920 that people are portals. It took me a long time 324 00:17:49.200 --> 00:17:52.640 to break out of this shell of I'm dating this 325 00:17:52.759 --> 00:17:55.880 person and I have to marry them. I'm dating this 326 00:17:56.039 --> 00:17:59.279 person and this has to go somewhere. I'm dating this 327 00:17:59.440 --> 00:18:02.319 person and this needs to be every no, no, no. 328 00:18:02.519 --> 00:18:02.799 No no. 329 00:18:03.400 --> 00:18:06.920 The narrative, the dialogue I now have is I'm dating 330 00:18:07.000 --> 00:18:09.480 this person. I'm gonna be here in the now because 331 00:18:09.519 --> 00:18:12.759 they came into my reality to teach me something. They're 332 00:18:12.759 --> 00:18:14.920 gonna teach me something about love. They're gonna teach me 333 00:18:15.000 --> 00:18:17.599 something about my shadow. They're gonna teach me something about myself. 334 00:18:17.839 --> 00:18:21.319 They're gonna teach me something. And what I have now 335 00:18:21.440 --> 00:18:25.799 realized is that no man is my friend no man 336 00:18:26.000 --> 00:18:27.680 is my enemy, and. 337 00:18:27.799 --> 00:18:31.279 Actually every single man. They're my portal. 338 00:18:32.160 --> 00:18:36.160 They are my portal to the next version of myself. 339 00:18:37.279 --> 00:18:42.279 Because my life is about me, your life is about you. 340 00:18:42.920 --> 00:18:45.319 And it's okay to admit that. It's okay to say 341 00:18:45.400 --> 00:18:52.720 that I incarnated to be Cecy. I my soul focus 342 00:18:52.839 --> 00:18:58.519 itself into being here so I could experience life. And 343 00:18:58.680 --> 00:19:02.400 I have an ego like we all do, so that 344 00:19:02.559 --> 00:19:06.799 I can focus in and anchor into this timeline as CC. 345 00:19:07.039 --> 00:19:08.559 So I'm gonna do that. 346 00:19:09.440 --> 00:19:12.440 What if we could just start saying, no matter what, 347 00:19:13.200 --> 00:19:17.960 I'll be fine. And this person is either gonna be 348 00:19:18.039 --> 00:19:22.920 a portal to marriage, my shadows, a portal to the 349 00:19:22.960 --> 00:19:26.079 next version of myself, a portal to learning what I 350 00:19:26.200 --> 00:19:28.640 do and do not want. They're gonna give me some 351 00:19:28.880 --> 00:19:31.160 sort of momentum that's gonna push me in some sort 352 00:19:31.200 --> 00:19:36.200 of direction. To me, this gives me so much peace, 353 00:19:37.200 --> 00:19:40.039 and I allow myself to fully love. 354 00:19:39.920 --> 00:19:42.240 Another individual in the moment. 355 00:19:42.480 --> 00:19:45.240 If we are vibing, I'm going to vibe all the 356 00:19:45.319 --> 00:19:48.079 way to the heavens. I allow myself to really go 357 00:19:48.160 --> 00:19:50.759 there because I trust myself that even if it ends 358 00:19:50.880 --> 00:19:53.599 up being something that I'm hurt in. I trust myself 359 00:19:53.680 --> 00:19:56.799 to stand back up. I trust myself to transmit the energy. 360 00:19:57.079 --> 00:19:59.880 I trust myself to figure it out, instead of late 361 00:20:00.440 --> 00:20:02.400 who people have to be and then getting attached to 362 00:20:02.480 --> 00:20:06.640 that label that's not yet actually realized. What if we 363 00:20:06.880 --> 00:20:09.440 just said, no man is my friend, no man is 364 00:20:09.519 --> 00:20:12.640 my enemy. Every single man is my portal. No matter what, 365 00:20:12.880 --> 00:20:15.000 this person is going to give to me some sort 366 00:20:15.039 --> 00:20:17.079 of momentum that's gonna push me either to the next 367 00:20:17.200 --> 00:20:19.880 version of myself into the next season of my life. 368 00:20:20.200 --> 00:20:22.519 It's going to give me something that on some soul 369 00:20:22.640 --> 00:20:24.200 level I need right now. 370 00:20:24.720 --> 00:20:28.240 Some men are gonna be your portal to the next 371 00:20:28.319 --> 00:20:31.960 version of yourself through experiencing pain. They're gonna show you 372 00:20:32.039 --> 00:20:34.839 what you don't want. They're gonna illuminate your shadows. They're 373 00:20:34.880 --> 00:20:38.759 going to illuminate your past programming. But ultimately that's gonna 374 00:20:38.799 --> 00:20:41.720 push you to learn and evolve. Some men are going 375 00:20:41.799 --> 00:20:44.559 to be your portal to your own power, and they're 376 00:20:44.559 --> 00:20:47.640 gonna show you what you are no longer willing to accept, 377 00:20:47.720 --> 00:20:50.240 where you literally have to make a decision and say no, 378 00:20:50.680 --> 00:20:53.000 I want more from my life, and then you're gonna 379 00:20:53.039 --> 00:20:55.720 remove yourself from them, and then the electromagnetic fields we 380 00:20:55.799 --> 00:20:58.200 reside in is gonna give to you more. But the 381 00:20:58.279 --> 00:21:01.160 one thing I want you to understand is whether they're 382 00:21:01.160 --> 00:21:04.039 your portal to your pain or your power. No man 383 00:21:04.119 --> 00:21:08.400 should ever be your lifeline. You are your own lifeline. 384 00:21:08.759 --> 00:21:12.680 Divinity is your lifeline. The angels are your lifeline. The 385 00:21:12.759 --> 00:21:15.440 ascended masters that have chosen to be part of your 386 00:21:15.519 --> 00:21:19.920 spiritual team are your lifeline, not a mere mortal out there. 387 00:21:20.799 --> 00:21:23.880 When we make a mere mortal our lifeline, things get 388 00:21:23.920 --> 00:21:28.519 a little funky, okay, because then we become overly attached 389 00:21:28.559 --> 00:21:32.119 into codependency. And you know, I have no problem with 390 00:21:32.279 --> 00:21:35.160 people becoming attached to their partners, their children. 391 00:21:35.559 --> 00:21:36.559 I think it's normal. 392 00:21:36.759 --> 00:21:40.240 Our attachment system was passed down to us through survival 393 00:21:40.279 --> 00:21:42.440 of the fittest. In tribal times, you needed to be 394 00:21:42.559 --> 00:21:45.480 attached to a tribe. I don't think there's anything wrong 395 00:21:45.880 --> 00:21:50.720 with becoming emotionally attached to your family on some level, 396 00:21:50.960 --> 00:21:54.799 But when you're codependent on them, that is going too far. 397 00:21:55.319 --> 00:21:58.440 You're forgetting your own divinity. You're forgetting your own vessel. 398 00:21:58.599 --> 00:22:01.519 You're forgetting your own desires or wants, your needs, your perspective, 399 00:22:01.599 --> 00:22:05.319 your perception, and you're gluing yourself onto another individual and 400 00:22:05.559 --> 00:22:08.960 riding on their coattails. If that is happening, you need 401 00:22:09.039 --> 00:22:11.640