Speaker 1: Andenogy canst so high ectas canstor It's not sorry andenogy.
Speaker 1: If you are not happy with your reality, the divine
Speaker 1: is simply not done being at work in your life.
Speaker 1: You're passing over a temporary bridge. Don't mistake that for
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Speaker 1: feeling today? If you are hearing this podcast and you
Speaker 1: are meant to be here, So keep listening on that
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Speaker 2: Sometimes we will laugh.
Speaker 1: Other times, Baby, we're gonna cry, but we will always
Speaker 1: walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self. That
Speaker 1: is babe in true connection with herself or himself.
Speaker 2: I get so many questions from men. Is your con
Speaker 2: for males? To baby?
Speaker 1: You can be an interdimensional being. I really don't care.
Speaker 1: My content is for all anyone who wants to become
Speaker 1: a better version of themselves, anyone who's ready to break
Speaker 1: free of the victim consciousness because that evil entity is
Speaker 1: running amok on this planet.
Speaker 2: Oh yes it is.
Speaker 1: I really don't care what you are, what you think,
Speaker 1: what you do. If you want to better your life,
Speaker 1: this podcast is for you. On this podcast, we unbecome
Speaker 1: who we are, not so we can fully step into
Speaker 1: exactly who we came here to be. I want you
Speaker 1: to understand that if you're not happy, it's because there's
Speaker 1: something better for you, then maybe you cannot yet see.
Speaker 1: We are so three D based as human beings that
Speaker 1: when we think of ourselves, we think about what we
Speaker 1: look like. We think about our diploma, we think about
Speaker 1: what we do. We don't think about the thoughts we have.
Speaker 1: We don't think about the past lifetimes we've had. We
Speaker 1: don't think about our energetic bodies. We don't think about
Speaker 1: the entities.
Speaker 2: That are stuck in our org fields. We don't think
Speaker 2: about any of that. No, we don't, No, we do not.
Speaker 1: We are so seduced by our three D that we
Speaker 1: believe in it more than we believe in ourselves. We
Speaker 1: believe in our reality what it looks like currently, more
Speaker 1: than we believe in what it could be. We believe
Speaker 1: in the three D more than we believe in our
Speaker 1: own potential. We believe in the three D more than
Speaker 1: we believe in a living God in divinity, and it
Speaker 1: trips us up. Sometimes what you're going through is simply
Speaker 1: something you're going through. You're going to pass over it
Speaker 1: like a bridge. It is temporary. If you're not happy,
Speaker 1: it is because your inner being is alerting you that
Speaker 1: there's something better, that there's something that is more in
Speaker 1: vibrational alignment with you that maybe you cannot yet see.
Speaker 1: But because we're so seduced by the three D, we
Speaker 1: ignore that intuitive nudge, We push it down, we try
Speaker 1: to run away from it. Every single time I said no,
Speaker 1: I want more, guess what I was delivered more. Every
Speaker 1: time I would say no, I want better treatment, I
Speaker 1: would attract better treatment. Every time I said this actually
Speaker 1: isn't worth my time. I want a better circumstance, I
Speaker 1: would get a better circumstance. But two things simultaneously have
Speaker 1: to happen. One, you have to realize you want more
Speaker 1: and state to the electromagnetic field we reside and I
Speaker 1: want more.
Speaker 2: And the second thing is you have to follow through
Speaker 2: with action. You have to say no to what your.
Speaker 1: Current circumstance is delivering to you so you can be
Speaker 1: delivered from it. You have to say, actually, no, Brad,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be a side chick because I
Speaker 1: have respect for myself and this is boring to me. Actually, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do all this work and not
Speaker 1: get paid for it. I'm going to remove myself. Does
Speaker 1: this require a dose of faith? Well, it can either
Speaker 1: require a dose of faith or at least curiosity that
Speaker 1: maybe my life doesn't have to suck.
Speaker 2: Maybe I didn't come all the way down to the
Speaker 2: planet Earth and incarnate here just to be miserable the
Speaker 2: whole time. Does that make sense to you?
Speaker 1: Does it make sense that you would choose to be
Speaker 1: a human being just to be miserable the whole time?
Speaker 1: I will say yes. In suffering, we can definitely learn,
Speaker 1: it can gift us momentum. Do you have to suffer
Speaker 1: your whole incarnation? Well no, well absolutely not, because love
Speaker 1: and fun and pleasure and joy is also your divine right.
Speaker 1: If you're not happy, you just didn't reach your peak yet.
Speaker 1: And it's not to say that you're going to have
Speaker 1: one peak. I don't believe in that. I believe we
Speaker 1: are like mountains, and we'll have many peaks and many valleys,
Speaker 1: many peaks and many valleys. But if you are not happy,
Speaker 1: it might be because you're currently in a valley and
Speaker 1: you're going up.
Speaker 2: To a peak.
Speaker 1: You are going to have more, You're gonna feel better,
Speaker 1: but you have to keep going and you have to
Speaker 1: decide that you will not accept anything else.
Speaker 2: Your life is whatever you accept it to be.
Speaker 1: When I was dealing with dermatitis for two years, I
Speaker 1: went to like four different doctors until I finally went
Speaker 1: to a homeopathic doctor who figured out I was allergic
Speaker 1: to almonds. If I would have allowed those other doctors
Speaker 1: to just be like, well, I don't really know. I
Speaker 1: guess this is just a part of your journey, I
Speaker 1: would not have been able to heal my skin. But
Speaker 1: my life is whatever I accept it to be.
Speaker 2: It gets better from here if you keep going. But
Speaker 2: if you say, well, I guess this is just the treatment.
Speaker 1: I have to accept, then you're right. If you say, well,
Speaker 1: I guess this is just how the cookie crumbles, then
Speaker 1: you're right. If you say, well, I guess that this.
Speaker 2: Is just a circumstance I'm in and I can't do
Speaker 2: anything about it, then yeah, you're right.
Speaker 1: But if you instead say this doesn't feel right, my
Speaker 1: inner being must be alerting me that there's something better
Speaker 1: for me.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep going, then you're right. If you say
Speaker 2: I'm gonna.
Speaker 1: Remove myself from the situation so I can actually be
Speaker 1: emotionally stable and not have my cortisol levels through the roof.
Speaker 1: Then you'll get more, You'll get a better circumstance.
Speaker 2: You have to not only realize that you can have more,
Speaker 2: you have to then.
Speaker 1: Make a decision through action, to remove yourself from the
Speaker 1: situation that's giving you less.
Speaker 2: Do you remember that saying growing up? You get what
Speaker 2: you get and you don't get upset. Even that is
Speaker 2: a mere lie. That's not how reality works. It's not
Speaker 2: just oh, I have this random set of circumstances and
Speaker 2: now I just gotta live through it. No, the real
Speaker 2: saying should be you get what you accept.
Speaker 1: I see people in terrible relationships and other people will
Speaker 1: come up to me and say.
Speaker 2: Why are they in that? They're in it because they
Speaker 2: accept it. There's another quote that's like, you get.
Speaker 1: The love you think you deserve. Actually, you just get
Speaker 1: what you accept. If you accept someone who is a complete.
Speaker 2: Monster, you get in the monster.
Speaker 1: But if you say no and you remove them, you
Speaker 1: create proximity from them. You say I want more. When
Speaker 1: you require more from the electromagnetic field, you get more.
Speaker 1: It's so simple, but yet we have so many emotional
Speaker 1: attachments to people, to places, to jobs that we make
Speaker 1: it harder on ourselves. We create a dialogue, a narrative,
Speaker 1: a story about who this person is, what this job is,
Speaker 1: and then it makes it harder for us to remove it,
Speaker 1: when our body is screaming at us to get on
Speaker 1: aut of there. You get simply what you accept. I
Speaker 1: have so many people dming me that they got played,
Speaker 1: that they're in situationships. I'm like, yeah, okay, take responsibility
Speaker 1: over your reality. Who's allowing that behavior? You allow them
Speaker 1: to come in and out of your life. You allow
Speaker 1: them to say, ah, we're just not really anything. I
Speaker 1: don't want to do a label. I don't really know
Speaker 1: where I'm going right now. And when you allow that
Speaker 1: person into your life, it is now your fault.
Speaker 2: It is it's your fault. They're not playing you.
Speaker 1: You were playing yourself. Don't even tell me, Cecy, I
Speaker 1: didn't see the red flags. Yes you did, and you
Speaker 1: accepted them anyway, And you get what you accept. This
Speaker 1: is actually empowering because you're realizing, wait a damn minute,
Speaker 1: I don't have to accept this. I don't have to
Speaker 1: keep going around this revolving door of just insecurity and
Speaker 1: him dealing with all these other women in this and
Speaker 1: that I can just walk out of the revolving door.
Speaker 1: I can just remove myself from the situation. I can
Speaker 1: put the power back in my hands and say this
Speaker 1: is boring to me. I can predict the bad behavior
Speaker 1: of this person.
Speaker 2: It's not even exciting anymore. It's boring.
Speaker 1: It's up to you to decide what you want and
Speaker 1: then to take action in accordance with that decision.
Speaker 2: But only you can do it. Only you have that
Speaker 2: power over your life.
Speaker 1: It's energetic law that when you really at least what's
Speaker 1: not yours, you will then receive what is.
Speaker 2: But if you hoard what is not yours, you are
Speaker 2: violating energetic law and you're not going to be able
Speaker 2: to receive what is.
Speaker 1: If you hoard money, people, resources and you know they're
Speaker 1: not really for you, you're not actually using them, there's
Speaker 1: nothing to do with your incarnation anymore.
Speaker 2: You are then going to clog up your.
Speaker 1: Availability, your capacity to receive more, and your capacity to
Speaker 1: receive a better vibrational fit. This is really a low
Speaker 1: level of codependency.
Speaker 2: Think about it. We don't realize that.
Speaker 1: So many of us are codependent until we actually start
Speaker 1: to pick apart what we're doing. A low level of
Speaker 1: Codependency is not always obvious. It's not always about needing
Speaker 1: a constant text or a call. A low level of
Speaker 1: codependency could look like staying in a relationship out of
Speaker 1: fear instead of being in a relationship for alignment. It
Speaker 1: could look like saying in something that's comfortable even though
Speaker 1: you know it's not really serving you anymore. It could
Speaker 1: be the thought we've already been through so much, We've
Speaker 1: had so many times together. Guess what A history is
Speaker 1: not a good enough reason to have a present or
Speaker 1: future with someone. And yeah, I do get to say
Speaker 1: that to you. While everyone in my reality was getting married, which.
Speaker 2: I'm very happy for. I love love and I love
Speaker 2: to celebrate love.
Speaker 1: I decided to go through a breakup from my seven
Speaker 1: year boyfriend at the time now x yeah, because I
Speaker 1: also had those thoughts of, oh, well, if everyone else
Speaker 1: is getting married, should that mean that I am. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess I'm at that age. But I'm not going
Speaker 1: to allow something like a matrix timeline to dictate how
Speaker 1: I'm going to live my life. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: allow seven years to dictate that's how I have to
Speaker 1: spend the rest of my life. The only thing Worse
Speaker 1: than being in the wrong relationship for seven years is
Speaker 1: being in the wrong relationship for seven years in one day.
Speaker 1: And really, the wrong relationship is not the correct terminology here,
Speaker 1: because it wasn't wrong for many years, but eventually it
Speaker 1: was no longer in alignment, and so I had to
Speaker 1: release it with love. A low level of codependency could
Speaker 1: look like shrinking yourself or not speaking up for your
Speaker 1: needs because you are fraid to lose that other person
Speaker 1: even though you know this is not the right thing,
Speaker 1: relationship circumstance job for you. I've done it, We've all
Speaker 1: done it. But ultimately we need to remember who we
Speaker 1: are and why we incarnated on this planet. Did you
Speaker 1: incarnate to receive mediocre love? Did you incarnate to receive
Speaker 1: a mediocre life? Did you incarnate to receive mediocre.
Speaker 2: Payment for all the work that you're doing?
Speaker 1: Is that what you came here for? And hey, some
Speaker 1: of us did just incarnate to chill, to sit back, relax,
Speaker 1: enjoy the grass. That is not me, And if you're
Speaker 1: listening to this, I know it's not you either, So
Speaker 1: don't even try to play yourself in this season. You
Speaker 1: have to one realize you can have more and how
Speaker 1: do you realize that. You realize it because your body
Speaker 1: is rejecting your current reality, relationship, job, whatever it might be.
Speaker 1: Your body is either breaking out in hives, or you
Speaker 1: have anxiety, or you have this restlessness, you have stomaches.
Speaker 1: You know, there's this little deep voice within your body
Speaker 1: that's just saying you gotta get out of this. If
Speaker 1: you are questioning something every single day, I honestly don't
Speaker 1: even think you have anxious attachment. I think you are
Speaker 1: afraid to take this step that you know you have
Speaker 1: to take.
Speaker 2: I think you're.
Speaker 1: Afraid of letting go of something that's familiar. I think
Speaker 1: you're afraid of letting go of what's not yours to
Speaker 1: receive what actually is. I gotta say, at this point
Speaker 1: in my journey, I'm seriously, why do I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm about to cry? I am seriously rethinking anxious attachment.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: There are many things I did to heal my anxious
Speaker 1: attachment and to overcome it, so I know that that's
Speaker 1: part of the reason I feel so much better now.
Speaker 1: But another part of anxious attachment I really think has
Speaker 1: nothing to do with anyone else. I think it has
Speaker 1: to do with your relationship with yourself. I think I
Speaker 1: ignored my intuition for so long. In that seven year relationship,
Speaker 1: I was fighting myself on a daily basis. Of course
Speaker 1: I'm not going to feel good. I was fighting that
Speaker 1: voice that said, get out of this, what are you doing?
Speaker 1: And I was trying to push it down. Of course
Speaker 1: I'm gonna feel anxious. Of course I'm not gonna feel happy.
Speaker 1: Of Course I'm gonna feel like I have a noose
Speaker 1: around my neck on a daily basis when I have
Speaker 1: an inner knowing that something is wrong. Yet I won't
Speaker 1: take any action to free myself of my own imprisonment
Speaker 1: that I was creating. It's funny because we pray for things,
Speaker 1: we get them, we manifest things, we get them. We
Speaker 1: really want something, and then we get it and we
Speaker 1: have it, and we have it and we hold it
Speaker 1: and we be with it, and then we realize and
Speaker 1: I want something different, or and I want something more,
Speaker 1: or this actually isn't giving me the feelings I thought
Speaker 1: it was going to give me, because why do we
Speaker 1: manifest anything, why do we want anything? It's really because
Speaker 1: the emotional outcome it's going to give us. We have
Speaker 1: to give ourselves permission. To say it's okay if I
Speaker 1: wanted this at one time, because it's not what I
Speaker 1: want any more. I'm sorry. Are you not allowed to grow?
Speaker 1: Are you not allowed to change your mind? Are you
Speaker 1: not allowed to evolve and say, hmm, I actually want more?
Speaker 2: I want something different.
Speaker 1: This doesn't really align with me anymore. You're allowed to
Speaker 1: outgrow people that you once prayed for. You're allowed to
Speaker 1: walk away even if nothing dramatic happened, but it just
Speaker 1: is no longer serving you, and you have an inner
Speaker 1: knowing that it's not serving you, You're allowed to admit.
Speaker 2: I don't want to be here anymore. I don't want
Speaker 2: to be here.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be here anymore. I don't always
Speaker 1: have to have three D evidence of why this isn't working.
Speaker 1: It just isn't period, And I'm gonna follow that intuitive knowing.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna follow that internal nudge because that's my compass.
Speaker 1: Not what everyone else is doing, not what the matrix
Speaker 1: says to do, not what people have done before me.
Speaker 1: I have to follow my own internal compass because that
Speaker 1: is what I have to help me during this incarnation.
Speaker 2: I'm finally at this point in my life where i
Speaker 2: don't have to force people to be in roles anymore.
Speaker 1: If I feel like, okay, I dated you for some
Speaker 1: time and now it's no longer in alignment, I'm.
Speaker 2: Okay with walking away.
Speaker 1: And the reason is, after I walked away from that
Speaker 1: seven year relationship, I'm now dating someone who is so
Speaker 1: much more in alignment with me, who gives me so
Speaker 1: much more emotional depth, intellectual conversation, safety, and security that
Speaker 1: being on the other end of the seven year relationship.
Speaker 1: Being in a new relationship, I can now tell you, yes,
Speaker 1: not only is there something better, especially when you feel
Speaker 1: like something's off, but also I now trust myself so
Speaker 1: much that even if my current relationship ends up ending
Speaker 1: or goes a different direction than I was originally.
Speaker 2: Maybe intending, I'm okay with that.
Speaker 1: I recognize that my ex of seven years played a
Speaker 1: role in my life, and eventually that movie just ended
Speaker 1: like all the great ones do, and the role no
Speaker 1: longer needed to be filled by him, but now someone else.
Speaker 1: And I think that when we cling onto a partner,
Speaker 1: a relationship, a job title, we only hurt ourselves because
Speaker 1: we don't realize that this person might just be a portal,
Speaker 1: this job might just be a bridge to the next
Speaker 1: version of myself. Some people, Yeah, they are your soulmate,
Speaker 1: but they are your soulmate of the season. They're meant
Speaker 1: to come in to help you learn, develop, or grow.
Speaker 1: They're meant to highlight your shadows. They're meant to help
Speaker 1: you open up to receive more love for actually the
Speaker 1: next person who's going to be able to give you
Speaker 1: even more than your current partner. This is not to
Speaker 1: say that no one's ever good enough. It's to say
Speaker 1: that people are portals. It took me a long time
Speaker 1: to break out of this shell of I'm dating this
Speaker 1: person and I have to marry them. I'm dating this
Speaker 1: person and this has to go somewhere. I'm dating this
Speaker 1: person and this needs to be every no, no, no.
Speaker 2: No no.
Speaker 1: The narrative, the dialogue I now have is I'm dating
Speaker 1: this person. I'm gonna be here in the now because
Speaker 1: they came into my reality to teach me something. They're
Speaker 1: gonna teach me something about love. They're gonna teach me
Speaker 1: something about my shadow. They're gonna teach me something about myself.
Speaker 1: They're gonna teach me something. And what I have now
Speaker 1: realized is that no man is my friend no man
Speaker 1: is my enemy, and.
Speaker 2: Actually every single man. They're my portal.
Speaker 1: They are my portal to the next version of myself.
Speaker 1: Because my life is about me, your life is about you.
Speaker 1: And it's okay to admit that. It's okay to say
Speaker 1: that I incarnated to be Cecy. I my soul focus
Speaker 1: itself into being here so I could experience life. And
Speaker 1: I have an ego like we all do, so that
Speaker 1: I can focus in and anchor into this timeline as CC.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 1: What if we could just start saying, no matter what,
Speaker 1: I'll be fine. And this person is either gonna be
Speaker 1: a portal to marriage, my shadows, a portal to the
Speaker 1: next version of myself, a portal to learning what I
Speaker 1: do and do not want. They're gonna give me some
Speaker 1: sort of momentum that's gonna push me in some sort
Speaker 1: of direction. To me, this gives me so much peace,
Speaker 1: and I allow myself to fully love.
Speaker 2: Another individual in the moment.
Speaker 1: If we are vibing, I'm going to vibe all the
Speaker 1: way to the heavens. I allow myself to really go
Speaker 1: there because I trust myself that even if it ends
Speaker 1: up being something that I'm hurt in. I trust myself
Speaker 1: to stand back up. I trust myself to transmit the energy.
Speaker 1: I trust myself to figure it out, instead of late
Speaker 1: who people have to be and then getting attached to
Speaker 1: that label that's not yet actually realized. What if we
Speaker 1: just said, no man is my friend, no man is
Speaker 1: my enemy. Every single man is my portal. No matter what,
Speaker 1: this person is going to give to me some sort
Speaker 1: of momentum that's gonna push me either to the next
Speaker 1: version of myself into the next season of my life.
Speaker 2: It's going to give me something that on some soul
Speaker 2: level I need right now.
Speaker 1: Some men are gonna be your portal to the next
Speaker 1: version of yourself through experiencing pain. They're gonna show you
Speaker 1: what you don't want. They're gonna illuminate your shadows. They're
Speaker 1: going to illuminate your past programming. But ultimately that's gonna
Speaker 1: push you to learn and evolve. Some men are going
Speaker 1: to be your portal to your own power, and they're
Speaker 1: gonna show you what you are no longer willing to accept,
Speaker 1: where you literally have to make a decision and say no,
Speaker 1: I want more from my life, and then you're gonna
Speaker 1: remove yourself from them, and then the electromagnetic fields we
Speaker 1: reside in is gonna give to you more. But the
Speaker 1: one thing I want you to understand is whether they're
Speaker 1: your portal to your pain or your power. No man
Speaker 1: should ever be your lifeline. You are your own lifeline.
Speaker 1: Divinity is your lifeline. The angels are your lifeline. The
Speaker 1: ascended masters that have chosen to be part of your
Speaker 1: spiritual team are your lifeline, not a mere mortal out there.
Speaker 1: When we make a mere mortal our lifeline, things get
Speaker 1: a little funky, okay, because then we become overly attached
Speaker 1: into codependency. And you know, I have no problem with
Speaker 1: people becoming attached to their partners, their children.
Speaker 2: I think it's normal.
Speaker 1: Our attachment system was passed down to us through survival
Speaker 1: of the fittest. In tribal times, you needed to be
Speaker 1: attached to a tribe. I don't think there's anything wrong
Speaker 1: with becoming emotionally attached to your family on some level,
Speaker 1: But when you're codependent on them, that is going too far.
Speaker 1: You're forgetting your own divinity. You're forgetting your own vessel.
Speaker 1: You're forgetting your own desires or wants, your needs, your perspective,
Speaker 1: your perception, and you're gluing yourself onto another individual and
Speaker 1: riding on their coattails. If that is happening, you need
Speaker 1: to have a come to self moment and call your
Speaker 1: power back. I lovingly and peacefully call all of my
Speaker 1: power back to me now from every person, place, dimension,
Speaker 1: and timeline. When people say they're recollecting their self, they
Speaker 1: literally mean they're recollecting their energy. So take a moment
Speaker 1: and recollect your energy. Because no one out there is
Speaker 1: your lifeline. God is your lifeline. Divinity is your lifeline.
Speaker 1: Divinity is always going to be there for you. Your
Speaker 1: physical reality, the people, the career, the places you go,
Speaker 1: it's all temporary.
Speaker 2: It's like a play. It's temporary. What is forever? That
Speaker 2: is divinity, So that needs to be your lifeline. What
Speaker 2: is forever is you?
Speaker 1: Because as long as you're alive, you're going to be
Speaker 1: experiencing this reality. If you are afraid of losing something
Speaker 1: right now, I want to ask you how much more
Speaker 1: do you miss out on by choosing to stay in
Speaker 1: a place that you're not actually happy? What are you
Speaker 1: losing by not making a change now? What are you
Speaker 1: missing out on by not making a change now? What
Speaker 1: are you giving up? By not making a change right now.
Speaker 1: There's nothing more painful than staying in a reality that
Speaker 1: you know is simply not yours anymore. It might be
Speaker 1: temporarily painful to make a change, to be in the unknown,
Speaker 1: but it's permanent displeasure to stay in a reality and
Speaker 1: make no changes when you know it's not right for you.
Speaker 1: If you want better, you have to make better decisions.
Speaker 1: You have to take better action. If you want your
Speaker 1: physical reality to shift, you.
Speaker 2: Have to shift.
Speaker 1: When I look back on my dating history in the
Speaker 1: past year, I think about every time I was on
Speaker 1: a date and the hm, I deserve better, I want more,
Speaker 1: And all of those little micro decisions of saying I
Speaker 1: actually want more and then saying no to those people
Speaker 1: and trusting that there was going to be more for
Speaker 1: me led me to my current relationship. If you want more,
Speaker 1: go find more. And if you don't know how to
Speaker 1: do that, at least release what is less because you
Speaker 1: know it's not right, because it doesn't fit anymore. And
Speaker 1: it's okay that at one time it did feel good.
Speaker 1: It's okay at one time it was resonating with you.
Speaker 1: It's okay at one time it was what you wanted
Speaker 1: and it's okay to now say and I changed, And
Speaker 1: it's okay to now say and now I want more,
Speaker 1: And it's okay to say, and now I want something different.
Speaker 1: You are allowed to change who you are, what you want.
Speaker 1: You're allowed to shift, You're allowed to receive more. You're
Speaker 1: allowed to change your mind, your hearts, your desires.
Speaker 2: You are allowed to change.
Speaker 1: I know that cancel culture makes us feel like we
Speaker 1: have to stay in a box and really make our
Speaker 1: mind up once and only once, and can never deviate
Speaker 1: from that path. But life is not linear, So give
Speaker 1: your self permission. I'm allowed to change my mind. I'm
Speaker 1: allowed to shift, I'm allowed to evolve, I'm allowed to
Speaker 1: change what I want. I think sometimes we feel guilty, like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I was in this relationship for so
Speaker 1: long I don't want. I feel like now I wasted
Speaker 1: their time and my time, and I feel bad that
Speaker 1: I can't stay in this. Your responsibility is to yourself first.
Speaker 2: Straight up.
Speaker 1: Your responsibility is to your self first. If something isn't
Speaker 1: working for you, Ultimately, you releasing yourself and them allows
Speaker 1: them to find someone in vibrational alignment with them, and
Speaker 1: you to find someone in vibrational alignment for you.
Speaker 2: It's actually in service to both of you. Both of
Speaker 2: you are able to get more when you say this
Speaker 2: is just not anymore.
Speaker 1: They might be temporarily mad at you, they might have
Speaker 1: some feelings about it, but ultimately you are allowing them
Speaker 1: to get what's theirs and allowing yourself to get what's yours.
Speaker 2: It's a gift that keeps on giving.
Speaker 1: When I got into this current relationship, I was totally
Speaker 1: feeling those feelings of oh my god, now that I
Speaker 1: got this, I'm so afraid I'm gonna lose it. It's
Speaker 1: the seesaw effect I have it. When is the other
Speaker 1: shoe gonna drop? When are things gonna get bad? I
Speaker 1: get what I want? When is it gonna be taken
Speaker 1: away from me? I've really had to work through that
Speaker 1: lower level of codependency and say, wait a damn minute.
Speaker 1: I've been through difficult ship and I've gotten myself through it.
Speaker 1: I've had really deep, dark emotions and I've transmuted it.
Speaker 1: I've used terrible experiences and I cultivated them into content
Speaker 1: to help others heal whatever happens, I will get through this.
Speaker 2: And I would have to tell myself then, no man
Speaker 2: is my friend. No man is my enemy.
Speaker 1: Every single man is my portal. So even if me
Speaker 1: and my current partner don't walk down the aisle together,
Speaker 1: we are still important soulmates of the season for one another.
Speaker 1: We are still gifting one another momentum, We are still
Speaker 1: teaching each other so many lessons. Saying this statement to myself,
Speaker 1: no manage your friend, no manage your enemy. Every man
Speaker 1: is your portal, really allows me to ease into the relationship.
Speaker 1: So I'm able to receive more. I'm able to show
Speaker 1: up as my best self. I'm able to have more fun.
Speaker 1: I'm able to lean into the love and the fun
Speaker 1: and the laughter. But if I'm so stressed out all
Speaker 1: the time, I'm so afraid to lose this. I'm so
Speaker 1: afraid to lose this, i can't even enjoy the present moment,
Speaker 1: and the present moment will pass me by. The way
Speaker 1: I've been able to relax into receptivity, the way I've
Speaker 1: been able to relax into the moment, the relationship, the
Speaker 1: way I've been able to have fun and laugh and love,
Speaker 1: is by reminding myself that no matter what, I have divinity,
Speaker 1: no matter what I know that I can trains meet
Speaker 1: the energy and I will get through it no matter what.
Speaker 1: Whatever I need in this season, whatever our soul contract
Speaker 1: must say, I'm going to be gifted those subconscious, energetic,
Speaker 1: emotional lessons. And that's what matters, because no managed just
Speaker 1: my friend, no manage just my enemy. Every single man
Speaker 1: is my portal. I love you so much. I hope
Speaker 1: this episode resonated with you and taught you a valuable
Speaker 1: lesson on how we can relax into the moment and
Speaker 1: to remember that if something isn't working out for you,
Speaker 1: you don't have to fear losing it. You actually should
Speaker 1: get excited because something even better will be on its way.
Speaker 1: I mean, even looking at Selena Gomez, she released what
Speaker 1: wasn't hers and look now she has Benny Blanco and
Speaker 1: if you listen to their podcasts that they did together, Wow,
Speaker 1: is he emotionally intelligent? Is he plugged into hers? He
Speaker 1: tuned into her. That is a great example of releasing
Speaker 1: what's not yours so you can get what is. I'm
Speaker 1: sure in the moment, it was very painful to release
Speaker 1: prior relationships that she had, but in doing so, she
Speaker 1: was able to really align with someone who could give
Speaker 1: her what she truly wants. There are so many people
Speaker 1: who say, oh my god, it was so hard in
Speaker 1: the moment, but I'm so happy I released what wasn't
Speaker 1: mine so I could get what was. I love you
Speaker 1: so much, as always the Sparkle in Me honors of
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