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Speaker 1: I made a dissension sunny sound. I had a visions

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nice what's happening party?

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Speaker 2: People in the hissie, Hey, hey, whoop, Happy Friday.

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Speaker 1: Yay, it's Friday Friday.

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Speaker 3: We had a good show on Tuesday. Well it was

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good for me because I got some stuff off my chest.

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But I promised that I was going to tell you

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give you a little update. Now, don't like go try

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to find Sadie and tell her that I'm talking about her.

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I feel now did in a Patreon last time where

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we talked about showing initiative. Yeah, okay, so here's just

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a little story. So Sadie, so there's a to do

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just to go to community college. So remember I told

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you the story.

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Speaker 1: Before about how.

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Speaker 3: We found out we had to go in person to

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school and tell them that we couldn't seem to get

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her registered for school. And then when the woman finally

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was like okay, just show, I was like, can you

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just show her on your computer? And when she showed her,

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the woman was like, oh, you didn't apply, really right,

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remember that you have to apply to another thing. It is,

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in Sadie's defense, it's very confusing. Yeah, she thought she applied.

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I thought she applied, but then she was getting no

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confirmation emails. Well it turned out she hadn't applied, okay,

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so now she applied, But then I'd have to be

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like did you get because you have to wait it's

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like twenty four to forty eight hours. Then you get

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a confirmation email, which means you can do the next step,

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which is apply to the Promise Program, which gets you

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free community college. Okay. So then i'd have to be like,

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so did you check your email?

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Speaker 1: Do you have it?

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Speaker 3: And then I told you that. She was like nope,

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nothing yet. And then after it had been two weeks,

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I was like, really, because now we're going to have

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to go in there again. Yeah, and then she was like,

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oh wait here it is okay, right, this is what

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I'm dealing with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So she says to me, hey, in order to keep

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going with the process of the Promise Program, I have

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to register for classes. Okay. So then I tell her,

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I want you to go look at all of the

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rate my professor, figure out what classes you want to take,

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and then you know, right, you don't have to know everything.

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Speaker 2: Then I get the rate my professor. I like that, yeah, yeah,

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because some of these professors are hourrible?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Anyway, So she does that, she tells me, but of

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course she needs me to be sitting with her while

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she does it. Well, I think I told you that.

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She was like, oh, I can't go. I can't get

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on the site from my computer. There's always like a problem, right.

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So I'm like, okay, well I'm having no trouble on

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my computer. You can come use my computer. Okay, So

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then we get through. She when she does stuff though,

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she spends a few hours, you know, so she gets

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she's written down all the classes she wants to take, okay,

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So then she has to do right, she has to

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have an appointment with a counselor. Okay, so can you

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make an appointment with a counselor?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So she's like, do you think I should do it

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in person? And I was like, knowing you, yes, I

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think that would be better because then stuff is harder online.

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So she makes it for whatever date. I'm like great,

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she goes. So then she goes, can you come with

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me to my appointment? I was like, okay, sure. Now

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do I want Sadie to be able to do stuff

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on her own?

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Speaker 1: I do?

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Speaker 3: But real talk, do I think she's fully capable of

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asking the right questions. I don't think so. I think

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she needs prodding. And I think I had that other

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Patreon where I was talking about like.

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ask the questions. Maybe she like gets intimidated, like you

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know what I mean.

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and I don't know which what stops her. I think

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that she thinks that she can't do stuff. I do

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think she's can get very shut down, and I think

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she doesn't. I think it takes her brain also a

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little bit longer to take in information, so my brain's

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always working fast. I got a million questions. I got like,

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but she will not ask the right questions and then

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think she has no questions and then later be like,

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and she'll go I don't know right. So I was like, okay,

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strictly business, you know.

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just going to be in the background a little backup

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so at first, the woman's pretty friendly about it. She's like, oh,

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that's great, that's fine, Like, you know, I wish I

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had back up when I was having to figure these

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things out. You know, it's hard. So I'm like, okay, cool, cool.

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talking to Sadie and she's like, okay, so what are

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you looking to do? Are you looking to transfer? And

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Sadie says, well, I'd like to have the option. Now

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Sadie has told me I really don't care. I don't

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want to necessarily transfer, but I said it was kind

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of my I was like, you don't want to rule

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it out though, right right in case, what if you

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love a certain ass like let's say you love graphic design,

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and you're like, you know what I wanted. I want

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to go to I want to finish up at a

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four year school. Maybe you want to go away to school,

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like maybe by next year you're gonna you don't want

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to rule it out, I said, but you don't have

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to take all like hard classes up front. You're not

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you're not trying to get into U c l A.

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So she's like okay. So she's like, okay, so that's

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what I'm trying to do. So she had looked at

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all the ges. Okay, it doesn't really matter. The point

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is the woman's asking her what she wants to do.

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want to have the option of transferring. So the woman goes, okay, great,

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so you're going to need to take math. So you're

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going to need do you want to take precoculus or

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do you want to take statistics? No? And in my mind,

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alarm bells are going off because I'm like, this kid

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is not First of all, Xander had a horrible time

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with statistics, right, he got a three on his AP test,

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which would be a passing grade for other schools. Chapman

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does not accept a three, so it was kind of whatever.

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and things come more easily to him, I'm like this

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poor girl starting out of the gate. She's had me

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in statistics. This is a kid who was like, would

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probably have rather not gone to college. Like she's kind

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of doing us all a favor by herself. She's like,

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I want the discipline of going to school, but she

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was really looking forward to taking like some fun classes.

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a college level English class, and like do you want

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statistics or do you want you know, pre calc? And

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Speaker 2: Someone, I'm like, okay, don't talk, Like do I pipe

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Speaker 3: So I was like, can I ask a question? And

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they both look at me, and I was like, well,

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does she does she have to take like the math

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toes into going to school, back to being back in school,

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and like, could we just do the English and then

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like a couple of classes she wants. So the woman goes, well,

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have the option to transfer, we think it's best for

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kids to like get it out of the way start

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doing it, because, especially because it's a continuation, it leaves

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too much of a break from doing math.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: So I was like okay, but she wasn't. She didn't

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even take any math her senior year. She's already been

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on a math break. I said, Now I'm like starting

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Speaker 2: Media, like, get out of the way, Sadie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, step back.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm just saying not for nothing. But like

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you know, she has never taken stats. So it's not

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like she or pre Kalc. I just I said I

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worry about her. I thought she was going to be

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able to take some more fun classes. So now she

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is giving me the side, not Sadie the lady. The

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lady's giving me the side. I like, Okay, whose meeting

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is this. So she looks at Sadie and she goes, okay,

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is that what you want to do?

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Speaker 1: You want to not take math?

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Speaker 3: So Sadie is like, sure, that would be good. So

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then she's talking to Sadie about other classes and none

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of them are sounding fun. Linette and we'd gone to

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your vibe, like, yeah, explore and here's what's great about this,

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out of the gate. Now you can take photography. Yeah,

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made it sound totally different. So now she's talking to

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I was like, but couldn't she

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you could take history of photography. And I'm looking at

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Sadie's face. I'm sitting at an angle so that I'm

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looking at both of them. I'm looking at Sadie's face.

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Speaker 2: But she's not good at like speaking advocating for herself, right.

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Speaker 3: So now I'm having the parent thing a battle in

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advocate for herself? Do I just let her be steamrolled?

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take a middle ground where I'm just prodding Sadie a

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little bit. I was like, hey, Sadie, do you have

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to take that class? Like is there something else that

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Speaker 1: Does she have?

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Speaker 2: And then what if, like instead of doing the possibility

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of transferring, like what if she puts that aside and

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then just takes classes and then maybe can she later

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down the road, like decide to transfer to like maybe

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a trade school with a photography school.

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Speaker 1: Or something like that instead of a university And.

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to do two years of community and then maybe go

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to like beauty school, like hairdresser, you know, which I

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am all for super protected from AI.

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Speaker 1: Yes, for sure, robots.

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Speaker 3: Are not cutting our hair yet yea, you know, soon,

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but not this not this year. So I'm like, so

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like maybe. Oh, so then I say, couldn't she take

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some more fun classes? So now the counselor's a little

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bit annoyed, and she's like, well, it sounds like what

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you're suggesting is not going the transfer route, right, And

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general education gees to set her up to transfer, but

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not like super hard ones, and then also take classes

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that she's interested in. And she's like, well, the new

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why does she even need statistics if she's going to

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go into like an art because she's an art major.

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She's like, well, that's just how they do it. She goes,

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but what you're so I said, okay, I go I'm promised,

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she's looking at me like huh. But I felt like

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we were under the impression that she could take at

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least a few classes that she enjoys and looks forward

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to being in school. But it seems like you're saying

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for her photography class, she has to be in the

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history of photography, which doesn't really sound like a hands

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on I thought there were some hands on photography classes.

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Speaker 1: So now she's kind.

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Speaker 3: Of fully like, well there are. Then she she goes,

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is that what you want to do for God? So

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Sadie goes, yeah. Anyway, they kind of start to work

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it out. So I'm like, in my mind, I was like,

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you gotta you gotta stop like interfering. You've got to

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let her step up and like handle her own business,

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you know, don't do this. So I was like, hey,

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I'm gonna I'm gonna step out and I'm gonna let

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you to like finish the meeting.

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Speaker 1: Sadie looks at me and.

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Speaker 3: She goes like, don't hide eyes like, ah, do not leave,

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and she goes, why no, you can stay, and I

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was like, okay, I just thought leave you to like

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I feel like I'm talking too much, and Sadie was like, no,

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you're not, and I go, okay, okay, I just did

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not say anything after that.

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Speaker 2: Well, they needed to get on the right road first

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of all, like they both needed to get on the

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right page of what she's interested in and that for

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her to help her and they needed that's but that's

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where you came in, Like you had to get them.

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You had to direct traffic and go like, this is

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what she wants, this is what she doesn't want, this

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is what she's looking at. Okay, now that lady understands

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and Sadie's like, yeah, that is what I want.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now you guys go.

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Speaker 3: It's so hard though to know if you're doing too

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much I know, or if you're you know. But then

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I don't want to have to then go do cleanup

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right after she gets signed up for things she doesn't

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want and then later this is how my brain works

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then like then I'm going to be like are you happy?

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Is this what you want? And she's going to be like,

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I mean not really, And then I'm going to say.

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Speaker 1: Well, why didn't you speak up? And then she's going to.

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Speaker 3: Say because I thought that's what I had.

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Speaker 2: To do, right, And I'm going to say, but there's

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a lot of ways to do it, yeah, you know,

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so anyway, then the woman just goes, Okay, so you're

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going to want to just go enroll in those classes

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that we picked out.

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Speaker 3: Sadie goes okay. Then cut too, though this was like

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a week and a half ago. I go okay. So

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the other day she comes in my room. Now, mind you,

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my kids are doing nothing right now. Either one of

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them have jobs. I'm not counting Elbe in this. Albie

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has a basically is working full time. Sadie and Sander

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not working, not as far as I can tell, actively

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seeking employment, not really doing a lot of chores, sleeping

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late every day. But then Sadie will come in my room.

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Speaker 1: Hi, mom, what's up?

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Speaker 3: So the other day I just said, hey, so did

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you ever did you enroll? Get your enrollment? Yeah, because

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you have to enroll in order to get the promise

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program going. Okay, she goes, oh no, not yet. She goes,

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I thought you were going to do it with me.

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Speaker 1: Oh, no.

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Speaker 3: It's like I kind of finally was like, Sadie, I

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cannot be like in charge of everything. I'm feeling the

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pressure of you and Xander. I feel like I have

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to be like up your asses about everything I have to.

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Speaker 1: I can't.

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Speaker 3: You need to be checking your email, you need to

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have gone on there. I go, do you even know?

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Did you even look into it to see if you

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can't do it?

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Speaker 1: If you need me?

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Speaker 3: And she goes no, And I was not being that nice.

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I was like, I need you to make some initiative,

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take some initiatives, make an effort, go.

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Speaker 1: See what it's like.

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Speaker 3: If it's hard, I will certainly come and help you. Right,

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but you have to you can't just wait for me.

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You're going to miss all the deadlines and then we're

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going to be in school.

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Speaker 2: Right then she's like you know, she was like okay, yeah,

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well she just needed that talk.

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Speaker 3: But then the next time I talked to her, she's like,

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I'm all enrolled.

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Speaker 1: See. I was like, wow, See, they just need that.

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Speaker 2: Little extra talk, that little extra push, you know, and

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that's great. Like did she get the classes that she wanted?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's in.

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Speaker 3: She's in doing like two D design she's doing a graphicle,

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a two D design introductory introduction to photography and the

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English class.

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Speaker 1: Right for that's great, No, that's perfect.

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Speaker 3: See winning, winning, winning, you did it, so yeah, I guess.

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So I'm just oh, it's a constant. Now I'm doing

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too much, I'm doing too little, I'm doing too much.

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Speaker 1: Step back, do more. Help them out.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, they're going to miss their deadline.

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Speaker 1: I know. This is like being I know, I know. Yeah,

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I mean I don't have like.

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Speaker 2: My kids are gone, so I mean they're home, but

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they take care of their own except you know, Natalia.

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Speaker 1: Still wants you to go grocery shops because she still.

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Speaker 2: Wants me to go get her prescriptions and her grocery.

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Speaker 1: Even Maker or done his appointment. Blah blah blah. Yeah, yes,

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he's still still kids. They are still kids.

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Speaker 3: You got to arrange for Sonny's car.

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Speaker 2: Yes, gonna get him his car in a couple of weeks.

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That's gonna be exciting.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, it's not like they're handling. That's true, right,

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the school stuff, that's.

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Speaker 2: Great, yeah, yeah, but yeah, I mean they just need

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the little like a little push.

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Speaker 1: But that's great. That's good. Good for her, so your.

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Speaker 3: Kids don't come to you at all. Like, uh, I

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I need an apartment. I need well that the apartments.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Like so Sonny had to move out of his

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other apartments, so we had to look for a new

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apartment for him. We found the new apartment, but now

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we're like putting in the application, you know, blah blah blah,

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doing all that. So yes, and then her with her

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new place. But that was taken care of a while ago.

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But yeah, all the housing stuff you gotta take care.

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I'm gonna have to fly to Oregon and get Sonny

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set up because I don't think this house, this apartment

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is furnished. So I'm gonna have to get him a

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bed and he also has a kitchen and so I

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you know, to like check it out. That's going to

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be like a couple of weeks after we move into

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the new house.

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Speaker 1: My god, that's gonna be a lot and.

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Speaker 2: There's gonna be construction going on. And then so I

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have all this other stuff going on. Got to sell

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the condo, got to get like construction done at this

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new house. You know, like when do we how do

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I time it? Blah blah blah. I had the landlords

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come over. They were very bummed that I'm moving. They

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were like, you're our first, our first tenant, and like

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you spoiled us because you were so great, and they

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came over. They have boy girl twins that are three

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oh and they redid this house for them, but because

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their kids are so little, they're living with the in

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laws to get to have help, so they don't want

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to move out yet. So they were hoping I was

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going to stay until their kids went to kindergarten, and

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I was like no. So they came over and like

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took a tour of the house of anything that's like

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needs to be patched up, and there's really nothing, like

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the house was great and good shape, and they were

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really nice and lovely, and then they were like I said, like,

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but I'm staying for the month of August so that

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I can move. Take that, you know, And I really

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want to get Natalia, like going to Santa Barbara and

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getting her. I don't want her to move into the

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new house and then go and move her into Santa

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Barbara and she's going like August twenty second, so I

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want to move, like officially move, like right after she moves,

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so I'm trying to time that. But now the tenants

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are like, can we have people come by looking at

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the house and maybe you could.

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Speaker 1: Leave a little earlier in August. And I was like,

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oh yeah. I was like, uh, all right, well I'll try.

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What did they have somebody new to come in there? No,

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not yet. No, you just want it empty.

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Speaker 2: They want it they want to be able to show it.

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I guess, and then maybe have time to fix up.

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I'll paint a little bit and then have people move in.

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And they're thinking, like September is a tough time to

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get a rental, but like in our area. I told them,

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I said, you're not going to have a problem renting

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this house. It's going to get snatched up quick. And

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they're like, yeah, we're just you were so good, like

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you know, you don't have little kids banging the walls

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and stuff.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, well so long.

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Speaker 3: That's so interesting that they want with twins. They want

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to live with in laws.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they want the help, they need help. I guess

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you know they didn't have an olga.

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Speaker 1: I mean, couldn't they just get an olga? No?

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Speaker 2: I guess they're very happy just living. Yeah, well it's

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probably free.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you get the hands on help, yeah, grandparents. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So but oh my god, that's a lot with that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I know in my non drinking program, we say

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just like next indicated action, like just do the next thing.

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Try not to let your brain get like, oh my god,

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I have a hundred things that I'm going to have

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to get done. Yeah, just go okay, what's next? Right,

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file this paperwork, what's done, what's the next thing? Get

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this started? Then then yeah, what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's what I'm trying to do, like one room

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at a time, one kitchen at a time, like thinning

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things out, getting rid of stuff. I've been going through

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all these boxes in the garage that we just packed

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up and like in a hurry and like moved, and

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it's like do I need to keep this stuff? Do

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I want to keep this stuff? Just continuously going through

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all that. So that's what I'm trying to do right now,

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you know. And then also think about the construction that

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I got to line up the av guy, I got

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to get the electrician guy, I got to get the

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you know what I mean, like when are they going

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to come kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: It's just going to be tough. So it'll be fine.

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Speaker 3: Though, electrician, like because of your building another room or

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just in general, why do you need an electrician.

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Speaker 1: For the for the bathroom? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then for construction, Yeah, for the construction stuff,

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and then you need the guide for the TVs and

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the Wi Fi and all that. They're like got to

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figure out when when are we going to be actually

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living there? When should they come? You know, just trying

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to figure out. And then also you know, again with

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Sonny and Italia moving in the kind of moving in

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the middle of it. I mean, Sonny's going later in September,

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so he'll be at the new house for a little while.

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But then you know, so I'm trying to get her.

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She's going to be another big job.

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Speaker 3: Does she need a lot of stuff? Like do they

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aren't going to fully move back in with you when

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they're done with college. I don't know, but you're going

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to You're you're behaving as if they will.

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Speaker 1: So they need their full rooms.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean they are going to live with me

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full time, you know, or whenever. I mean, that's going

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to be their home spot. So that's why I got

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to put in another bathroom.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so they won't. They don't have like a room

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at Adam's new house.

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Speaker 2: That I don't know. I have no idea. I don't

471
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:53,079
know what's going on over there. It's under construction as

472
00:23:53,079 --> 00:23:53,640
far as I know.

473
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,279
Speaker 1: Oh it still is. Yeah.

474
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 3: So that so they haven't said, hey, we're going to

475
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,599
have our own rooms. No.

476
00:24:00,599 --> 00:24:03,039
Speaker 2: No, I mean they say like, yeah, maybe we can

477
00:24:03,079 --> 00:24:05,680
stay at Dad sometimes, you know, if we want to

478
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,960
be out in that area where our friends are and

479
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,559
we just want to spend the night out there, they'll

480
00:24:09,599 --> 00:24:12,119
have his house. But I don't know when it's ready

481
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,160
or I don't know if anything of fish. I have

482
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,119
no idea write what's going on. So I just that

483
00:24:17,519 --> 00:24:18,960
my house is their home base.

484
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,079
Speaker 3: Now are you excited a little bit?

485
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 2: I am excited. I'm excited. It's just I just want

486
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,799
to get situated and get in there. You know, Suzanne's

487
00:24:29,839 --> 00:24:33,200
been living there now for a few months and she

488
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,440
called me she had a little bit of a breakdown.

489
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 1: Oh no.

490
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,039
Speaker 2: Well, also the house that they bought, they bought a

491
00:24:39,079 --> 00:24:42,680
house they moved in like a month ago. The plumbing

492
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,759
went haywire and they had to move out into an

493
00:24:45,799 --> 00:24:49,319
airbnb because they couldn't use running water.

494
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,599
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, what, she's been through a lot.

495
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: And then they went to the airbnb for like a

496
00:24:55,319 --> 00:24:59,279
night and electricity went out, just went out. Electricity went

497
00:24:59,319 --> 00:25:01,839
out like an our neighbor just over there, like just

498
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:03,400
went out.

499
00:25:03,519 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 1: And then they were like what.

500
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 2: Then they went back to their house that's under construction,

501
00:25:07,759 --> 00:25:12,119
but they don't have running wire, running water, so they

502
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,039
were only there for a couple hours and then they

503
00:25:14,039 --> 00:25:15,359
had to go back and.

504
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 1: Then the lights came back on, so and then they

505
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:17,319
went back.

506
00:25:17,519 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 2: But anyway, she was like, it's just an adjustment because

507
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,960
she's like, you know, we've lived she's lived in the

508
00:25:23,599 --> 00:25:26,880
valley her whole life, and then she's lived out in

509
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,200
the city with her boyfriend last couple of years, you know,

510
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,559
like by the Century City Mall and there's tons of things,

511
00:25:33,599 --> 00:25:35,880
there's restaurants and stuff. And then she's like, it's just

512
00:25:36,039 --> 00:25:39,200
different in Valencia, and she's like, it's just an adjustment.

513
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,880
And she's like, so I was kind of having like

514
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,599
this meltdown. And also they were also seeing her husband,

515
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:49,279
her boyfriend's children. Adult children were coming over all the

516
00:25:49,319 --> 00:25:52,559
time for dinners throughout the week, and now they don't

517
00:25:52,559 --> 00:25:56,720
come because they're all living other places. And also they

518
00:25:56,759 --> 00:26:00,799
lived way far away now, right, so they have Gracie,

519
00:26:00,799 --> 00:26:05,720
her daughter, that's there for the summer. Yeah, so it's

520
00:26:05,799 --> 00:26:06,680
kind of an adjustment.

521
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,519
Speaker 3: It will be one. I mean moving is just hard

522
00:26:11,559 --> 00:26:12,559
in general.

523
00:26:12,519 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 2: Just being in a new you know, a new city,

524
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,039
a new area, a new town. Like you have, I

525
00:26:17,039 --> 00:26:20,240
have all my places to go, you know, my traders, you.

526
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 3: Already know what you I mean, you lived, you moved

527
00:26:23,039 --> 00:26:23,759
into the same.

528
00:26:23,599 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 2: Neighborhood based yeah right, yeah, yeah, I'm in the same neighborhood.

529
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I have all my stuff.

530
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,039
Speaker 2: Plus I get Pasadena that's close by, you know if

531
00:26:31,079 --> 00:26:31,720
I need a mall.

532
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I mean, it's hard.

533
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,839
Speaker 3: That's one of the reasons why I don't want to move,

534
00:26:39,039 --> 00:26:41,359
just because I'm like, you know what my trader Joe's

535
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,200
is like, yeah, that's why we converted the garage rather

536
00:26:45,279 --> 00:26:47,960
than moving, because I was like, we're if we moved

537
00:26:48,039 --> 00:26:51,279
at that time, it would be a parallel, but we're

538
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,240
we would need we needed bedrooms because remember Sadie and

539
00:26:54,319 --> 00:26:58,559
Xander were sharing a room still right up until I

540
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,799
was like, these kids are not star in high school,

541
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,559
like without their own room, right, that's crazy. So we

542
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,559
got them their own room in middle school. I mean

543
00:27:05,599 --> 00:27:09,559
they were started middle school right now, Remember our bedroom.

544
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,200
I mean they were fine because they shared a room

545
00:27:12,279 --> 00:27:15,079
since they were little. I think I told you they

546
00:27:15,079 --> 00:27:17,519
almost didn't want to split up. They were almost a

547
00:27:17,559 --> 00:27:20,640
little bit bummed about it. It's like, trust me, you're

548
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,440
going to be happy. You just need your own space.

549
00:27:24,559 --> 00:27:28,119
Like that's crazy. But I mean when we were looking,

550
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,240
we were like, Okay, we could move into like deep

551
00:27:30,599 --> 00:27:32,839
Woodland Hills, but really we'd have to go to like

552
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,319
West Hills and we're going.

553
00:27:36,279 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: To put a lot.

554
00:27:37,279 --> 00:27:39,039
Speaker 3: It's going to be very expensive, and it's going to

555
00:27:39,039 --> 00:27:43,279
be kind of a lateral move. We might get one

556
00:27:43,319 --> 00:27:47,119
more bedroom, but we're going to be really far for that.

557
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:53,559
But converting our garage was actually relatively inexpensive added value

558
00:27:53,559 --> 00:27:56,240
to our house, and I was like, the bonus is

559
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:56,720
we don't.

560
00:27:56,559 --> 00:27:57,039
Speaker 1: Have to move.

561
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,799
Speaker 3: Yes, everything stays the same. I go to the same

562
00:28:00,839 --> 00:28:03,400
trader Joe's, I go to my same gym, I go

563
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,640
to Yeah, see Creature of Habits. I know I'm going

564
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,680
to miss all the stuff I go to. But but

565
00:28:10,799 --> 00:28:13,839
you're then be in a pretty populated area.

566
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,079
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not like right, Yeah, I mean there's a

567
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:17,640
lot of it's still like way out there.

568
00:28:17,799 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: No, there's you know, they got the Trader Joe's there.

569
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 3: There's a really good sushi restaurant kind of near you. Okay,

570
00:28:24,279 --> 00:28:27,519
tell you, Okay, there's yeah that you're going to find

571
00:28:27,519 --> 00:28:29,400
your like coffee place, and you're and.

572
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 2: Also like Don's lived there for so long, like she's

573
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,559
right there and that Susan like we're all going to

574
00:28:34,599 --> 00:28:36,920
be close by each other. So that'll be nice. Yeah,

575
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,799
that's why I'm doing it. Really, You're going to be

576
00:28:39,839 --> 00:28:41,960
so happy. You're going to just be able to like

577
00:28:42,039 --> 00:28:46,680
five minutes away from your friends. Yeah, no traffic right

578
00:28:46,759 --> 00:28:49,799
out there, except just traffic when you're trying to go anywhere. Right,

579
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,519
but where are you going, i know, well to work

580
00:28:52,559 --> 00:28:55,240
once a week. Yeah, it's not that far from here.

581
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:56,880
Oh yeah, it's pretty good.

582
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: It's really not.

583
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just the five has a lot of con struction.

584
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:08,799
But anyway, so Karen Reid, there's just a lot of stuff.

585
00:29:09,079 --> 00:29:16,599
I mean, I used to like there. So basically, Aiden

586
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:21,440
Carney filed for an anti slap lot, so he's trying

587
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:25,720
to get his motions. That's turtle Boy. Okay, So Turtle

588
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,960
Boy is trying to get his motion dismissed. The the

589
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:33,319
the lawsuit of uh, what do you call it? A

590
00:29:33,519 --> 00:29:38,960
witness intimidation based on the anti slap law. But the

591
00:29:39,039 --> 00:29:43,640
problem is he has the same judge that is also

592
00:29:43,799 --> 00:29:47,480
with Karen Reid. And this judge now has a bad

593
00:29:47,519 --> 00:29:49,720
taste in his mouth because he thinks that Turtle Boy

594
00:29:49,839 --> 00:29:50,920
leaked that I told you.

595
00:29:50,839 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: About this last week.

596
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,519
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and they proved it and and Karen Reid's

597
00:29:55,599 --> 00:29:58,960
lawyer went to the court and showed to the court

598
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,880
this is the the judge was wrong. But the judge

599
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,480
is kind of like a boomer and old. He's just like, okay, whatever.

600
00:30:04,759 --> 00:30:08,519
So it's kind of it's not good for him. It's

601
00:30:08,519 --> 00:30:11,000
not good for him because he's got this this judge

602
00:30:11,039 --> 00:30:14,240
that already has a bad taste in his mouth. So anyway,

603
00:30:14,279 --> 00:30:17,960
they went through the anti slap motion. But I watched

604
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:21,359
Melanie Little's stream and she is really good and she

605
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:25,200
breaks everything down like but the thing is is like

606
00:30:25,279 --> 00:30:29,880
when you're when you're watching them promote the case, they

607
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,920
have to go through and show why they think that

608
00:30:33,079 --> 00:30:37,680
these diffen that the Mcalberts are are, you know, the

609
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:42,920
real criminals in this case. So it's interesting interesting, P

610
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:49,079
see interesting for Sae about all the when they're doing

611
00:30:49,079 --> 00:30:51,279
this lawsuit and she's and they're breaking down on her

612
00:30:51,319 --> 00:30:54,440
stream or whatever, and they're in court they're showing like

613
00:30:54,799 --> 00:30:57,640
it really shows to me, like, Wow, she really did

614
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,319
not do this, and they really went above and be

615
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,200
on to try and cover this up. And there's so

616
00:31:03,279 --> 00:31:06,039
many other now corruption cases that are coming from this

617
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:11,240
Norfolk County district, uh, from all these other people that

618
00:31:11,319 --> 00:31:13,920
have been put in jail, and now they're getting their

619
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:19,119
try their you know day in court. So I don't know,

620
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,759
I just I just found it. It's just it's it's ongoing.

621
00:31:24,039 --> 00:31:27,359
We'll see if he gets the motion dismissed tomorrow. I

622
00:31:27,359 --> 00:31:29,720
think he's got a court date and then Karen Reid

623
00:31:29,759 --> 00:31:31,880
had a court date today to get her phone back

624
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:33,759
because they've had her phone forever.

625
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 1: And it's just a lot going on. But uh, we'll

626
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:38,319
just see.

627
00:31:38,359 --> 00:31:41,799
Speaker 3: I mean, it's just Karen Reid's suing is just to

628
00:31:41,839 --> 00:31:42,720
go to trial.

629
00:31:43,359 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 2: That's I mean, it's there. They plan on taking it

630
00:31:46,519 --> 00:31:49,519
to trial. Yeah, I mean, they they are not going

631
00:31:49,599 --> 00:31:50,000
to stop.

632
00:31:50,119 --> 00:31:51,079
Speaker 1: They they they're.

633
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 2: Suing the district, they're suing the those the people in

634
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,480
the house. They're suing the cops, they're suing the DA.

635
00:31:58,359 --> 00:32:00,039
You know, they're like top to by.

636
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,839
Speaker 1: You know. So but it's moving forward. It's moving forward.

637
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 2: But they having all these like court dates like to

638
00:32:07,799 --> 00:32:10,400
dismiss this or to do that, and every time they

639
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,680
do it, and Melanie Little streams it. It's so interesting

640
00:32:13,799 --> 00:32:16,920
because per se, because.

641
00:32:18,839 --> 00:32:21,599
Speaker 1: Because it just they.

642
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 2: They have all these like other like all these other

643
00:32:26,039 --> 00:32:28,599
all these other pieces of evidence that I really didn't

644
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,200
know like from the trial or the way they really

645
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:35,000
break it down, you know, like that Colin Albert really

646
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,359
was like in the house and they tried to cover

647
00:32:37,519 --> 00:32:40,720
him up the fact that here's one thing I'll just say,

648
00:32:41,119 --> 00:32:44,640
so Colin Albert was like seventeen years old and he

649
00:32:44,759 --> 00:32:46,759
was he was the one that did that video like

650
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,160
bang bang pull up, fuckers, I'll fuck you up and

651
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,960
stuff like that. Okay, so he was in the house.

652
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:57,720
He already had issues with John O'Keefe before this, and

653
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,440
I think that he popped off and he had the

654
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:05,799
the bruises on his wrist, the scabs on his wrist.

655
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,839
Speaker 1: And so they tried to they're like trying to cover

656
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:07,119
it up.

657
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 2: So his father Chris Albert joined the Selective Board that

658
00:33:11,839 --> 00:33:16,400
the committee Selective Board Committee so that he and he

659
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,640
got on board like after it happened, so that he

660
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,519
could be in charge of what was going on in

661
00:33:22,559 --> 00:33:25,599
the cops in the Canton Police Department and their investigations.

662
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:28,839
Oh wow, like really like you know what I mean

663
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,440
that just these kinds of things, it's really really interesting.

664
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:37,160
I mean, can't stay that anymore interesting. They need to

665
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:40,240
do a documentary, That's what I'm saying. They really do.

666
00:33:40,599 --> 00:33:44,079
Somebody should be following them along right now, like yeah,

667
00:33:44,599 --> 00:33:48,079
with a camera. And I think like Turtle Boy's been

668
00:33:48,079 --> 00:33:50,400
saying that he is coming out with a documentary and

669
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,839
like an offer for a movie movie, you know, and

670
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,480
he's got like these production companies he's talking to. But

671
00:33:56,519 --> 00:34:00,640
he's got to get through facing ninety years in jail. This,

672
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:05,119
He's got to get this like dismissed for witness intimidation

673
00:34:05,519 --> 00:34:09,159
for these and it was like he everything that they

674
00:34:09,199 --> 00:34:13,400
were showing on this anti slap he was doing like protesting,

675
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,599
like he was protesting outside.

676
00:34:14,599 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: He had a bullhorn.

677
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 2: He like, you know, a need like showed up to

678
00:34:18,159 --> 00:34:21,079
Jennifer McCabe's soccer game and was like why did you google?

679
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,639
You know, so they're like, that's witness. But then you're

680
00:34:23,639 --> 00:34:26,079
watching the video. She's like laughing and her husband's like

681
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,480
trying to like, you know, pick on Turtle Boy, like whoa,

682
00:34:28,559 --> 00:34:30,920
you're so short? How tall are you? Like he's like

683
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:32,559
do they really seem intimidated?

684
00:34:32,639 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

685
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,599
Speaker 2: And then he has text messages that they were like

686
00:34:36,039 --> 00:34:39,079
fucking with him. They it was just there's all these

687
00:34:39,079 --> 00:34:42,360
things that show like they're not they're not intimidating, like, yeah,

688
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:46,000
that witness intimidation. Like he's saying it's freedom of speech,

689
00:34:46,079 --> 00:34:49,800
First Amendment, you know, like Jennifer McCabe and the other

690
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,480
they went to the cops and was like, can we

691
00:34:51,519 --> 00:34:53,800
get him to shut up? And the judge was like

692
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,559
denied it and said no because it's first Amendment. He

693
00:34:56,599 --> 00:34:59,320
can say what he wants on his show, right, you know.

694
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 3: So then why is this case going forward?

695
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: Well?

696
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:05,679
Speaker 2: I don't hopefully they're going to get it dismissed. I

697
00:35:05,679 --> 00:35:07,679
guess that they're going to find out this week, but

698
00:35:08,519 --> 00:35:11,159
you know it is, he's being prosecuted by the same

699
00:35:11,199 --> 00:35:17,280
people that prosecuted Karen Reid, And I guess now the

700
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,320
district attorney is going to be done with his job

701
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,079
and now they're going to hire They're going to like

702
00:35:22,159 --> 00:35:24,639
vote for somebody else to come in. And they've been

703
00:35:24,679 --> 00:35:27,199
interviewing all these candidates and Adam Ditsch is one of

704
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,320
them that Turtle Boy's supporting and Karen Reid is supporting

705
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,239
because he's like, there's been like fishy shit and I

706
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:34,760
want to get to the bottom of it. I want

707
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:35,920
to get in there and I'm going to see what's

708
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,360
going I want to make it right with the police department,

709
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,719
you know, I want to have a better reputation for them.

710
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:46,159
And so we'll see. Yeah, that more stuff.

711
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, have you been watching any TV shows that are good?

712
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:53,559
Speaker 2: So?

713
00:35:54,119 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I told you.

714
00:35:55,079 --> 00:35:58,639
Speaker 2: I don't know how I found this series on Hulu.

715
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,400
I think it's on It's actually on like the ID

716
00:36:01,599 --> 00:36:02,559
channel or something.

717
00:36:02,639 --> 00:36:04,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I couldn't find it on Hulu. I think

718
00:36:04,679 --> 00:36:08,519
I went on Amazon. Oh you found it, Okay, Okay,

719
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,920
what's it? I don't even know what it's called. Well,

720
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,639
i'd have to look back at our text messages. Oh.

721
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, there was just this one episode. It was just

722
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,440
one of these true crime shows, like every episode is different,

723
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,039
it's a different story and in some of the episodes,

724
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:29,360
the victim like lives and you're shocked, and then in

725
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:34,960
some episodes the victim is dead. And so this one

726
00:36:35,039 --> 00:36:38,800
episode is called Fight Like a Mother. Yeah, and it

727
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,239
was it. I watched it before I went to bed

728
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,480
and I had nightmares, and I then I text Stephanie

729
00:36:43,519 --> 00:36:45,760
the next day, I'm like, you got to watch this episode.

730
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:47,079
Speaker 1: It was like traumatizing.

731
00:36:47,679 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

732
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,519
Speaker 3: But on Wednesday, I wrote watching Fight Like a Mother.

733
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,320
So you you told me about it before that, So

734
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,360
now I'm just going back in our texts.

735
00:36:56,639 --> 00:36:57,679
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, found it.

736
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:01,079
Speaker 3: Okay, you said, dude, you have to watch an episode

737
00:37:01,079 --> 00:37:03,159
from this show on Hulu. It's called No One Can

738
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,880
Hear You Scream. That's right, no one can hear you scream.

739
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,199
And it was episode five, Fight Like a Mother.

740
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:13,119
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, oh, I mean I don't know it was

741
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:19,320
this well, it's every young girl's worst nightmare. Yes, yeah.

742
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,559
And she's she was a young mom. She was a

743
00:37:21,599 --> 00:37:22,679
single mom.

744
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 2: She had her son who was like, I don't know,

745
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:29,679
maybe seven years old at the time, and she went out.

746
00:37:30,039 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: She was very responsible.

747
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 2: She went out one night with her the son was

748
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,880
at her mom's house at his grandma's. She went out

749
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:41,719
to play pool with her guy friend and it's like

750
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,119
these guys like show up in this bar where they're

751
00:37:44,119 --> 00:37:46,599
playing pool, and they were like, yeah, they didn't look

752
00:37:46,639 --> 00:37:49,440
like they were from around here, and they were like, hey,

753
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,320
well want to play pool, Like she was a very

754
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,360
attractive young mother, and they were like, let's play pool,

755
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:58,639
like kind of like creeping on her. And then and

756
00:37:58,679 --> 00:38:01,119
then they were like, I guess they were like, let's

757
00:38:01,119 --> 00:38:04,000
go back to like his her friend, like her friend.

758
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:06,119
Speaker 3: Friend was like, hey, you guys want to come on

759
00:38:06,159 --> 00:38:08,719
over to my house and like play pool And she

760
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,760
was like dude, what like yeah, or you don't invite them?

761
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,400
And he was like what they seem great?

762
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:17,760
Speaker 1: Right? And then and yeah, and then he was like, uh, I'll.

763
00:38:17,559 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 2: Go get the alcohol. Her friend let's call him Alan,

764
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,079
I'll go get the alcohol. And he was like and

765
00:38:22,079 --> 00:38:25,199
he's like I'll just walk there, and he says to her, hey,

766
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:26,960
can he give them a ride to my house?

767
00:38:27,199 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 3: I know I would still be pretty mad. She She

768
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:31,559
made a point later in going.

769
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 1: Like yeah, spoiler alert, God, spoiler alert.

770
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 2: She said, I didn't expect it, but yeah it was

771
00:38:37,039 --> 00:38:39,880
a horrific So yes, I mean she gets in the

772
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:44,159
car with these three fucking hoodlums and shock her. They

773
00:38:44,159 --> 00:38:46,239
don't go to his house to hang out. They fucking

774
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,320
take her. They take over her, and they take her

775
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,800
car and then they drive around and then.

776
00:38:52,159 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, bad stuff stuff happened, and they're basically like psychopaths.

777
00:38:57,199 --> 00:38:58,280
Speaker 1: Psycho paths.

778
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,199
Speaker 2: And then they go like kind of like yeah, I

779
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,880
mean they tried it, Like they're like, well, we can't

780
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,400
keep her around, we got to get rid of her.

781
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,440
And they try to kill her, and then they go off,

782
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,960
and then they go on another killing spree. Kill some

783
00:39:10,039 --> 00:39:13,159
other guy, remember the guy at the junkyard, kill him

784
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,559
for I don't know, because there were no reason. They

785
00:39:15,559 --> 00:39:19,000
were trying to steal parts for money, thinking she's dead

786
00:39:19,639 --> 00:39:20,519
and she wasn't.

787
00:39:20,639 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: Then they pick up.

788
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 3: This hitchhiker just for fun. He's hitch hiking and they're like, yeah,

789
00:39:26,039 --> 00:39:28,400
we'll give you a ride. Yeah, and then that guy's

790
00:39:28,519 --> 00:39:30,199
just but in the car. He's like, how did I

791
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:30,679
get hurt?

792
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 2: Yeah?

793
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 1: He gets in the back of the car.

794
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,639
Speaker 2: There's blood all over the car and he's like wait

795
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,880
what and they're like, yeah, we just we had a

796
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,519
little messy Like yeah, last guy in the car was

797
00:39:40,519 --> 00:39:43,360
a little messy. We got a little messy and you

798
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:48,280
know how it goes and the Hitchhiker's like, yeah, it's

799
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:49,199
nervous laughter.

800
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 1: Ah.

801
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a really interesting episode. Yeah it was good.

802
00:39:54,599 --> 00:39:58,159
Speaker 3: So I went on a little binge of I was like,

803
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,639
I have to find something because I like to listen

804
00:40:00,639 --> 00:40:03,199
to podcasts at the gym. I was like, I got

805
00:40:03,199 --> 00:40:05,239
to find something that I already know. I like that

806
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,960
I listen to again that I haven't heard in a while.

807
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:12,679
So I went and listened to Heaven's Gate podcast again. God,

808
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:15,400
it's so good. It's one of my facts. Such a

809
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,800
good podcast. It's like eight episodes or something like that.

810
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,719
And then I like to go into my like you

811
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:25,000
might also like this, And I found some other podcasts

812
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,239
that I've listened to not that long ago. But I

813
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:33,840
re listened to Sympathy Pains. Listen to that one now, phenomenal.

814
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,519
It's so good. Oh my god, you've got to listen

815
00:40:36,599 --> 00:40:37,400
to Sympathy Pains.

816
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:38,079
Speaker 1: What's it about?

817
00:40:38,079 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 3: It's about this woman, Hey, I write that down, who

818
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:47,559
is total like Munchausen's She's faking all these like does

819
00:40:47,599 --> 00:40:51,000
she fakes a disability? She works at a camp where

820
00:40:51,039 --> 00:40:54,159
I'm disabled. She goes to a camp and pretends that

821
00:40:54,199 --> 00:40:56,199
she like can't walk, she's in a wheelchair.

822
00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:00,519
Speaker 1: I saw this document I saw this. Oh it was

823
00:41:00,639 --> 00:41:03,360
really there's a documentary on this one. I'm sure it was.

824
00:41:03,519 --> 00:41:06,840
Oh my god. Yeah. The podcast is so good.

825
00:41:06,679 --> 00:41:08,760
Speaker 3: Because she's kind of like a samand a lot of

826
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,039
she scams all these different people. So each episode is

827
00:41:12,079 --> 00:41:14,079
they have a different person, like a different time of

828
00:41:14,079 --> 00:41:17,199
her life when she was completely and her whole thing

829
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,280
is that she's constantly pretending that she's pregnant and that

830
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:25,519
then she either has a miscarriage she pretends or she

831
00:41:25,639 --> 00:41:29,199
starts having saying that she had a baby and she's

832
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:32,400
sending people pictures of like a baby's and then saying

833
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:36,840
that like the baby died, and like she has these

834
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,559
people that she tells them, oh, you're the godmother of

835
00:41:39,599 --> 00:41:42,519
the baby. She just takes advantage of all these people,

836
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,119
right right. It's so good a good scammer.

837
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

838
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 3: And then so then after I listen to that, I

839
00:41:50,039 --> 00:41:52,920
re listened to Scamanda Oh podcast.

840
00:41:53,119 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 2: I recently rewatched that on Hulu.

841
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:58,039
Speaker 3: I mean it's pretty good.

842
00:41:58,119 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: It is pretty good.

843
00:41:59,599 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I love the last scene where the

844
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,800
FBI shows up and surrounds our house and she's kind

845
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,840
of just like yeah, like very calm about it, like

846
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:09,400
I knew this was going to happen.

847
00:42:09,559 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 3: Well. In the podcast, the guy was saying that the

848
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:16,000
police officer was saying that she was obviously been taking

849
00:42:16,039 --> 00:42:19,360
a lot of xanax so that people be able to

850
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:20,960
lie easier because they don't.

851
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 1: Care, right right, Wow, So.

852
00:42:24,199 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 3: They found and he was like, sure enough, we found

853
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,559
all the xanax that she was on.

854
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: I mean, how the hell she pulled that off?

855
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: Was just insane, going to those hospitals taking pictures just this,

856
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:38,440
how do you do that?

857
00:42:38,519 --> 00:42:39,599
Speaker 1: And how sick are you?

858
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 2: Like?

859
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,199
Speaker 1: What is going on in your brain?

860
00:42:41,599 --> 00:42:44,039
Speaker 3: I know? But the only thing that was a little

861
00:42:44,079 --> 00:42:46,800
weird and kind of dumb was that she'd whatever it

862
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,360
was something whatever was going on with somebody else. She'd

863
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,800
be like, oh, yeah, I've got that too. So like

864
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:55,679
her her stepdaughter, who she called her bonus daughter, right, uh,

865
00:42:56,159 --> 00:42:59,079
had cancer. So then right after that she was like,

866
00:42:59,159 --> 00:43:00,440
oh my god, me too.

867
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,159
Speaker 1: Yeah that's right.

868
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,599
Speaker 3: If somebody else had something wrong with them or whatever,

869
00:43:05,639 --> 00:43:08,280
she'd be like, oh my god, same, yeah, same. The

870
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,400
thing that would happen whatever. It was like the cancer

871
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,239
would come back in some remote area and it would

872
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:17,960
have just happened to somebody else in their lives. Yeah,

873
00:43:18,039 --> 00:43:23,599
and she'd be like, that's what happened to me, but

874
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:27,159
you know in her blogs and stuff. Yeah yeah, but

875
00:43:27,199 --> 00:43:32,119
the I'm sorry, but the husband, Cody or Cory or whatever,

876
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:33,599
never went to jail for it.

877
00:43:33,599 --> 00:43:36,559
Speaker 1: They never pressed charges against him. There's no there's no way.

878
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,320
He didn't know, no way, how do you not know?

879
00:43:39,599 --> 00:43:43,039
Speaker 3: And the mom and the mom too, her mom was

880
00:43:43,119 --> 00:43:46,519
like raising money. But then they realized that the mom

881
00:43:47,679 --> 00:43:51,440
like somehow the mom well obviously never went to a

882
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,840
treatment with her if the mom didn't know about it,

883
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:56,679
but the mom was always trying to raise money and

884
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,679
didn't pay any money, like if because they were like,

885
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:02,880
well if she's Oh the mom was like going on

886
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:06,800
all these expensive vacations and stuff, and they're like, why

887
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:12,840
is she Scamanda having fundraisers right, begging the church for money,

888
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,199
but the mom's like not giving her any. But the

889
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,039
moms spending tens of thousands of dollars on didn't.

890
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: She say she didn't talk to her mom during that

891
00:44:21,079 --> 00:44:21,880
time or something.

892
00:44:22,159 --> 00:44:24,679
Speaker 3: No, the mom was like all about it like, oh

893
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:26,119
my god, my poor daughter.

894
00:44:26,559 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: Do you think so did her mom know? I think

895
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,840
the mom was in on it too. Yeah, yeah, she

896
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:32,239
was going on those vacations.

897
00:44:33,119 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, right, Yeah, yeah,

898
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,639
I mean didn't they say that she was? Amanda was

899
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:44,360
very like when she was younger. She was always like

900
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,079
a you know, like a pick me try, like you know,

901
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,280
just wanted to be like everybody else, like you know

902
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:49,920
kind of thing.

903
00:44:50,079 --> 00:44:53,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, so weird. Wow.

904
00:44:54,039 --> 00:44:57,199
Speaker 3: All right, well, so I highly recommend going back, yeah

905
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:58,760
and re listening to stuff.

906
00:44:58,840 --> 00:44:59,599
Speaker 1: I want to go.

907
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 2: Back and and rewant listener the Elizabeth Holmes is that

908
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:03,880
her name?

909
00:45:04,039 --> 00:45:06,800
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the Blood bat the Blood Yeah, that's a

910
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:11,079
good one. Also, don't forget about twin Flames A twin Flame.

911
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:12,719
That's a great podcast.

912
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: Yes that was so that's a.

913
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,559
Speaker 3: Good documentary too. But if you just want to listen

914
00:45:16,599 --> 00:45:19,480
to something while you're you know, yeah, like I I

915
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:21,559
go to the gym and walk the dog, so I

916
00:45:21,599 --> 00:45:23,880
can't be like watching you. I don't want to watch

917
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:24,519
it on my phone.

918
00:45:24,599 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: Right yeah.

919
00:45:26,199 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 3: Anyway, all right, well let's do our last I'm going

920
00:45:31,039 --> 00:45:33,400
to do it out of order. I'm going to say

921
00:45:34,079 --> 00:45:37,920
Basic Becky, I love basically on her website just basic

922
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923
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and use the code fcol to get you a discount.

924
00:45:43,519 --> 00:45:47,079
Speaker 1: Wilma and freda same thing. If you're in.

925
00:45:47,119 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 3: Palm Springs or Palm Desert, say you're with for Crying

926
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:55,199
out Loud, gets you a latte or a mimosa. Family

927
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:59,239
Skepticals a podcast about raising kids without being dragged down

928
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:02,239
by religion. In so, if you want to just do

929
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:05,400
your own thing and you don't want any like church

930
00:46:05,559 --> 00:46:09,119
or whatever, yeah, it's all good. Listen to that podcast.

931
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,599
Speaker 1: And yeah, and of.

932
00:46:11,519 --> 00:46:15,760
Speaker 3: Course our friend Adam Lerner, Adam's got a car. Go

933
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,039
check them out. And let's say hi to our friends.

934
00:46:18,119 --> 00:46:22,440
Dick is prolicking, Nikki, call your girls, Elizabeth Williamson.

935
00:46:22,039 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: Got a lot of kids, but Rita's rocking them. And

936
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:26,719
Bassie yet Polly, we.

937
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:30,599
Speaker 3: Love your peancakes, Valerie, Bubba Fenwood gets out of the park, Katerina,

938
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,920
check that Moeller, Gabby and Missy fighting like a mother

939
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:34,679
those two.

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Speaker 1: Is Sean vaj Pe, Rebecca Newman, Kelly b.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no explanation needed, No, just pick your ass up.

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She'll throw on a diaper and come get your ass

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right and to hip hop class.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Alicia's golante to city on Monday. Let's see with the

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coffee app it. Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Sandra not easy

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being green, Christa get strapped, Katie's rolling on e woom.

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Thanks everybody, We love you. Guys your parent now, don't

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f it up

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Speaker 1: That Angele