WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.840 --> 00:00:03.439 Welcome to that I'm still fun podcast. So let's do 2 00:00:03.560 --> 00:00:05.919 like a little as I call it, housekeeping to kick 3 00:00:05.960 --> 00:00:09.039 things off. So we have a Jenny and I both 4 00:00:09.080 --> 00:00:12.119 have vacations that are kind of overlapping in a weird way. 5 00:00:12.679 --> 00:00:15.640 So we've figured out a way to keep it from 6 00:00:15.679 --> 00:00:19.719 like being multiple weeks without a new podcast is next 7 00:00:19.760 --> 00:00:22.920 week we'll have a mini episode and the week after 8 00:00:23.039 --> 00:00:25.600 we will be off, yes, and then we'll be back 9 00:00:25.679 --> 00:00:28.960 the following week with a full episode because basically how 10 00:00:29.039 --> 00:00:32.039 our vacations line up is it lines up perfectly to 11 00:00:32.119 --> 00:00:36.439 overlap where there's no possible way to record that a 12 00:00:36.479 --> 00:00:39.719 few weeks. Yeah, one day off. So but you know, 13 00:00:39.799 --> 00:00:42.880 we appreciate you listening and hanging out with us. 14 00:00:43.719 --> 00:00:47.439 First we should probably say thank you. Hell Yeahie, who 15 00:00:47.759 --> 00:00:50.840 is a super big fan of all of our shows. 16 00:00:50.840 --> 00:00:52.960 I think, y the podcast, all that stuff. 17 00:00:53.000 --> 00:00:54.920 But all of a sudden, Vat walks into my prod 18 00:00:55.000 --> 00:00:57.880 studio this morning and hands me these crumbled cookies. He's like, 19 00:00:57.880 --> 00:00:59.880 here you go, and I was like what are these 20 00:01:00.039 --> 00:01:01.679 and he's like, well, they're from Brie. 21 00:01:01.880 --> 00:01:03.759 Like I was supposed to know. Yeah, I was like, 22 00:01:03.759 --> 00:01:04.200 what do you mean? 23 00:01:04.200 --> 00:01:05.719 I'm just what is this about it? He's like, oh, 24 00:01:05.719 --> 00:01:09.319 that's right. This was supposed to be a surprise. Okay, 25 00:01:09.959 --> 00:01:13.120 but yeah, Bree sent us the Crumble cookies to celebrate 26 00:01:13.239 --> 00:01:17.040 our slightly belated one year of I'm Still fun. 27 00:01:17.000 --> 00:01:18.879 Well, first of all, thank you so much. That is 28 00:01:18.920 --> 00:01:21.439 so incredibly thoughtful and it's funny because we didn't even 29 00:01:21.480 --> 00:01:24.840 realize we'd been doing this for a year. Yeah, kep 30 00:01:24.959 --> 00:01:26.359 better track of it than us, and we are going 31 00:01:26.439 --> 00:01:30.040 to hammer these cookies. Crumble Cookies. I some people hate them. 32 00:01:30.079 --> 00:01:31.719 I don't get it. I do get it either. 33 00:01:31.799 --> 00:01:33.640 Like everyone's like they're so overrated, and I was like, 34 00:01:33.640 --> 00:01:36.159 they're not. Though they're always good, they might, I mean 35 00:01:36.200 --> 00:01:38.480 maybe a certain flavor you might not like. Right, you're 36 00:01:38.480 --> 00:01:40.319 gonna at least if you get a variety pack, you're 37 00:01:40.319 --> 00:01:42.920 gonna at least love half of the flavors. 38 00:01:42.920 --> 00:01:45.319 I feel like I don't overly follow the girl on 39 00:01:45.359 --> 00:01:47.760 TikTok Nara Smith, but like she's so popular that her 40 00:01:47.799 --> 00:01:49.920 videos will pop up you know what I'm talking about. 41 00:01:50.079 --> 00:01:51.799 She's the one that is the soft voice and makes 42 00:01:51.799 --> 00:01:54.079 everything from scratch and half of it's become like a joke. 43 00:01:54.120 --> 00:01:56.040 And she's a model and her husband lucky as a 44 00:01:56.040 --> 00:01:59.120 model and blah blah blah. But like she they're on 45 00:01:59.319 --> 00:02:00.799 I don't know what, they're doing, some kind of road trips, 46 00:02:00.799 --> 00:02:02.680 so they're you know, she's not baking everything at home, 47 00:02:03.000 --> 00:02:05.599 but they got like there. It's also one of those 48 00:02:05.640 --> 00:02:08.759 things that I get so annoyed with where they're both thin, 49 00:02:08.879 --> 00:02:11.960 beautiful models, Like she was in their hammering cookies like 50 00:02:12.000 --> 00:02:15.520 they were. So she'll be like, so Lucky you wanted pizza, 51 00:02:15.639 --> 00:02:18.919 so we had six pizzas and like Lucky ate all 52 00:02:18.960 --> 00:02:21.639 of it. And that's how she talks. And I'm like, 53 00:02:22.280 --> 00:02:24.319 how the hell what kind of habitalism you got, Lucky. 54 00:02:24.319 --> 00:02:26.560 I'm jealous and same with her, but that you know, 55 00:02:26.599 --> 00:02:29.240 that's just jealousy. But they went and got cinnabon, and 56 00:02:29.280 --> 00:02:31.840 she's like I thought they were vile, and I'm like, 57 00:02:31.960 --> 00:02:34.919 who thinks cinnabon is vile? It's so good. I mean, 58 00:02:34.960 --> 00:02:37.479 I get like, there are some cinnamon rolls out there 59 00:02:37.520 --> 00:02:42.159 that suck because right and disgusting, but like, I'm not 60 00:02:42.159 --> 00:02:43.759 even gonna say, but there is a place in the 61 00:02:43.800 --> 00:02:47.680 Twin Cities that people love. I feel like I might 62 00:02:47.719 --> 00:02:50.520 know who might know what it is. And I've had 63 00:02:50.560 --> 00:02:52.719 a like two or three times in every single time. Like, 64 00:02:52.879 --> 00:02:54.840 I do not get the hype here. 65 00:02:54.719 --> 00:02:58.759 Because it's so dry every time one specific place that 66 00:02:58.800 --> 00:03:01.599 comes to mind for me. But to be fair, there's 67 00:03:01.599 --> 00:03:05.919 something else there that they're known for that's really good. 68 00:03:06.080 --> 00:03:08.599 But also like this is like the runner up is 69 00:03:08.599 --> 00:03:09.159 the cinnabon. 70 00:03:09.759 --> 00:03:12.800 Yes, I wrote it down on my note. Yes, I 71 00:03:12.840 --> 00:03:13.719 wrote it on my notes. 72 00:03:13.800 --> 00:03:16.080 Dude, Yes, that's exactly what it is. 73 00:03:16.120 --> 00:03:18.159 Everyone like I'll be like, where's a good cinemonarole? And 74 00:03:18.319 --> 00:03:21.240 ninety nine percent of their response will be that. I'm like, no, dog, 75 00:03:21.360 --> 00:03:23.479 I've had it, and I've had it more than once, 76 00:03:23.759 --> 00:03:24.759 and it's asked. 77 00:03:24.919 --> 00:03:26.400 You're like, I'm gonna go to the busy mall of 78 00:03:26.439 --> 00:03:27.520 America and give me a cinema. 79 00:03:27.599 --> 00:03:30.240 I would rather do that. Yeah, I'm like, that's so funny. 80 00:03:30.240 --> 00:03:32.080 I'm glad I'm not alone to that. But I'm like, 81 00:03:32.319 --> 00:03:35.159 your your mouth nose dry? Do these people? Do these 82 00:03:35.199 --> 00:03:38.840 people have the most salivating mouths in the world out there? 83 00:03:38.879 --> 00:03:42.919 I don't know. Another huge milestone in addition to our 84 00:03:43.000 --> 00:03:45.039 one year anniversary, she would make out, by the way, 85 00:03:45.039 --> 00:03:47.800 for our anniversary, I would love to little ASMR makeout 86 00:03:47.840 --> 00:03:51.120 from us. I got my period. Yeah, shout it from 87 00:03:51.159 --> 00:03:51.919 the rooftops. 88 00:03:52.039 --> 00:03:55.439 The girl, it's a soon nummy like, thank you for asking. 89 00:03:55.919 --> 00:03:59.280 No, I did feel extra crampy like for two days, 90 00:03:59.319 --> 00:04:03.719 but I mean, I've never had horrible cramps, but you know, 91 00:04:03.840 --> 00:04:05.840 day one and especially day two would be a little 92 00:04:05.840 --> 00:04:07.159 bit worse. But I did feel like it was a 93 00:04:07.159 --> 00:04:11.360 little bit more intense than normal. And I don't know, 94 00:04:11.599 --> 00:04:14.000 there's a weird part of me that's proud that I 95 00:04:14.039 --> 00:04:18.480 am not officially dried up yet. Yeah, I'm sure it's 96 00:04:18.480 --> 00:04:22.720 around the corner, but many many years. I'm also really 97 00:04:22.759 --> 00:04:24.360 happy that I got it out of the way before 98 00:04:24.879 --> 00:04:27.720 my trip to Italy, where no one wants to start 99 00:04:27.759 --> 00:04:30.279 a period tsunami on like a what seven or eight 100 00:04:30.279 --> 00:04:34.000 hour flight pass, So we did get really quick. I 101 00:04:34.040 --> 00:04:35.959 do want it like because we're just on the topic. 102 00:04:36.000 --> 00:04:38.199 One of our emails did have a little bit to 103 00:04:38.279 --> 00:04:40.560 do with that, So I'm going to do that one 104 00:04:40.600 --> 00:04:44.199 really quick. But she said, Hey, Fallon and Genny, I'm 105 00:04:44.199 --> 00:04:46.720 a big fan, and listen to the morning show, the podcast, 106 00:04:46.839 --> 00:04:49.480 and the afternoon show. We'll shout out for all the support. 107 00:04:49.800 --> 00:04:53.079 I heard you talking the other week about having a 108 00:04:53.240 --> 00:04:56.439 group get together for talking about perimenopause and menopause. I 109 00:04:56.519 --> 00:04:59.480 was forty two when i started perimenopause, and two years 110 00:04:59.560 --> 00:05:02.959 later I'm still in it. What really helped was seeing 111 00:05:03.000 --> 00:05:07.319 a sexual health doctor. Okay, she specializes in hormones, sex 112 00:05:07.399 --> 00:05:10.480 and medications things like that. She even showed me on 113 00:05:10.519 --> 00:05:13.120 a screen exactly what I looked like down there and 114 00:05:13.160 --> 00:05:16.519 how my estrogen was low. It was crazy. Anyways, I 115 00:05:16.560 --> 00:05:18.560 would love to have a group or some women to 116 00:05:18.600 --> 00:05:21.360 talk to about this because it's a very difficult. It's 117 00:05:21.439 --> 00:05:24.600 very difficult going through. Thank you so much and keep 118 00:05:24.639 --> 00:05:27.560 doing what you're doing. You guys are awesome. It's from Nicole, 119 00:05:27.959 --> 00:05:31.120 so I thought that one fit in with that discussion. 120 00:05:31.160 --> 00:05:33.560 So thanks Nicole. I don't think I realized. I guess 121 00:05:33.560 --> 00:05:35.600 I should have known there were like sexual doctors, but 122 00:05:35.639 --> 00:05:37.920 I didn't know that there was. I know there were 123 00:05:37.959 --> 00:05:39.319 probably sex therapists. 124 00:05:39.800 --> 00:05:42.720 Well, I know that there's like specific people. If somebody 125 00:05:42.759 --> 00:05:44.600 sent me this because I talked about how I always 126 00:05:44.639 --> 00:05:46.399 pee my pants when I jump on a trampoline or 127 00:05:46.399 --> 00:05:49.040 any consualancy thing, you know, and people are like, Tony, 128 00:05:49.079 --> 00:05:51.920 that's not normal, like for not having kids and whatever, 129 00:05:52.319 --> 00:05:54.079 and I'm like, it's been my whole life, and so 130 00:05:54.199 --> 00:05:57.759 somebody's sent me like the Vagina Whisperer on Instagram I 131 00:05:57.759 --> 00:05:59.959 think is their names. Yeah, but they're specifically a Pelp 132 00:06:00.160 --> 00:06:02.360 Florida therapists or therapists whatever. 133 00:06:02.439 --> 00:06:04.399 So I knew about that, But no, I didn't know 134 00:06:04.720 --> 00:06:09.000 that's there. So what did you guys? Did we talk 135 00:06:09.040 --> 00:06:11.360 about this? What did you decide you're doing for your 136 00:06:11.439 --> 00:06:12.199 actual trip? 137 00:06:13.600 --> 00:06:16.879 The tentative plan is we are gonna head down to 138 00:06:17.240 --> 00:06:21.199 like the Utah area mostly, so I think we're gonna 139 00:06:21.399 --> 00:06:25.480 go into Colorado and hit like the Great Sand Dunes 140 00:06:25.680 --> 00:06:28.600 National Park or something, and then we're gonna head over 141 00:06:28.680 --> 00:06:30.279 to like Bryce Cannon. 142 00:06:30.560 --> 00:06:33.920 Canyon, Canyon, Canyon, Zion. 143 00:06:33.800 --> 00:06:39.759 The Arches, tons of little park little, tons of big 144 00:06:39.959 --> 00:06:43.839 parks over there, and then circle back up maybe probably 145 00:06:43.879 --> 00:06:45.879 through the Black Hills in South Dakota. It's just it's 146 00:06:46.560 --> 00:06:49.240 Minnesota is just so in a spot where like for 147 00:06:49.360 --> 00:06:52.199 you to get to anywhere, you gotta travel at least 148 00:06:52.240 --> 00:06:54.759 through a couple boring states to get to something good 149 00:06:54.800 --> 00:06:57.279 most of the time. So I think that's kind of 150 00:06:57.319 --> 00:07:00.319 the tentative plan. I was still kind of on the 151 00:07:00.399 --> 00:07:03.399 side of wanting to go out east and see the 152 00:07:03.439 --> 00:07:06.519 fall colors, but they might be done by then, because 153 00:07:06.560 --> 00:07:08.319 I think they're already happening right now. 154 00:07:08.439 --> 00:07:12.839 Kind of how depends on where you go. So like 155 00:07:12.959 --> 00:07:16.879 we were, I'm doing like a weekend girls trip in November. 156 00:07:17.000 --> 00:07:19.360 It's literally a weekend with my girls back home from Indiana, 157 00:07:19.399 --> 00:07:21.360 and we were going to go to Asheville. Well guess 158 00:07:21.439 --> 00:07:25.160 what the hurricane Oh took it hotways we're supposed to go, 159 00:07:26.120 --> 00:07:29.319 And obviously our trip is irrelevant. I just I can't 160 00:07:29.360 --> 00:07:31.399 imagine what those people are going through. But like today 161 00:07:31.879 --> 00:07:34.000 we were like we I started texting when I'm like, 162 00:07:34.040 --> 00:07:36.519 we probably should make a call on this, guys, And 163 00:07:36.600 --> 00:07:38.560 so I just went ahead and canceled my flight and 164 00:07:38.600 --> 00:07:40.680 the airbnb. Today We're going to find a different location. 165 00:07:40.759 --> 00:07:46.360 Who cares. But places like Asheville, they were like, not 166 00:07:46.480 --> 00:07:49.160 that they would have still been turning colors in November, 167 00:07:49.240 --> 00:07:53.040 but they definitely would still be like through October and stuff, 168 00:07:53.079 --> 00:07:55.199 which now that doesn't matter, but yeah, I. 169 00:07:55.120 --> 00:07:57.600 Think so that was kind of like where I wanted 170 00:07:57.639 --> 00:08:01.160 to go. But to be fair, lots of places are 171 00:08:01.160 --> 00:08:04.000 getting snow already and we just don't have a built 172 00:08:04.000 --> 00:08:06.680 out van. Yeah, we have to like really make sure 173 00:08:06.680 --> 00:08:08.639 we're going to a climate that's gonna work with what 174 00:08:08.680 --> 00:08:10.959 we have because we don't have air conditions, we don't 175 00:08:11.000 --> 00:08:13.720 have heat, so we have to have some mild in 176 00:08:13.800 --> 00:08:16.439 between of sorts or else, like we're gonna have to 177 00:08:17.519 --> 00:08:19.279 not stay in the campra van, which, to be fair, 178 00:08:19.480 --> 00:08:21.920 I know that this being our first trip and us 179 00:08:22.000 --> 00:08:23.839 not having much in the camera van, I think we 180 00:08:23.920 --> 00:08:27.279 will probably end up maybe booking a motel here and 181 00:08:27.319 --> 00:08:30.519 there or an airbnb or something, and we've decided that's 182 00:08:30.560 --> 00:08:33.039 fine just because like we literally only have a cabinet 183 00:08:33.080 --> 00:08:37.120 and a bed in there. That's right, it, But man, 184 00:08:37.200 --> 00:08:39.320 I want to go back though for a second. Mother 185 00:08:39.480 --> 00:08:43.080 Nature is not your friends out big surf for you 186 00:08:43.440 --> 00:08:46.720 for your forty big birthday, and now a hurricane for 187 00:08:46.799 --> 00:08:47.759 your girls trip. 188 00:08:48.120 --> 00:08:49.879 I know that that one's not as big of a deal, 189 00:08:50.039 --> 00:08:53.080 but wow, I know someone else made that comment. I 190 00:08:53.120 --> 00:08:55.720 was like, oh, yeah, I'm really just no one wants 191 00:08:55.720 --> 00:08:58.600 me to probably book. I swear if something happens to 192 00:08:58.600 --> 00:09:00.559 Italy and the next week, I'm gonna be pissed. 193 00:09:00.960 --> 00:09:03.440 So far, it looks good because our friend I'm there. 194 00:09:03.679 --> 00:09:06.200 I know, you know. By the way, This has nothing 195 00:09:06.240 --> 00:09:08.440 to do with anything except that I thought it would 196 00:09:08.480 --> 00:09:10.759 pass this so long. And I bet most people already 197 00:09:10.759 --> 00:09:14.600 know this. But I listened to a podcast called National 198 00:09:14.600 --> 00:09:17.679 Park after Dark, and I've been way off listening lately 199 00:09:17.759 --> 00:09:20.679 because I've been busy listening to some other things. I 200 00:09:20.720 --> 00:09:22.840 found like a I realized I've been listening to my 201 00:09:22.840 --> 00:09:25.679 favorite podcast for like a year, and so I was like, 202 00:09:25.759 --> 00:09:27.759 and they have an episode every day, so I don't 203 00:09:27.879 --> 00:09:30.120 listen to this office I've never shared it. I'm never 204 00:09:30.120 --> 00:09:33.080 going to share it. But it's rude. It's rude, and 205 00:09:33.080 --> 00:09:34.480 people are like, why do you even bring it up? 206 00:09:34.639 --> 00:09:36.679 But it took the place of some others I was 207 00:09:36.720 --> 00:09:41.840 listening to. So but National Park after Dark they do 208 00:09:41.919 --> 00:09:45.600 trail tales and people will ride in about their experiences, 209 00:09:45.639 --> 00:09:48.840 and I always get so hype when they it's someone 210 00:09:48.840 --> 00:09:52.000 from Minnesota riding in. It'll always be like Boundary Waters 211 00:09:52.000 --> 00:09:54.879 for the most part. But first of all, this week, 212 00:09:55.039 --> 00:09:59.879 the two girls are from like up East Coast, the 213 00:10:00.080 --> 00:10:03.519 hosts a podcast, and their voices sound so similar I've 214 00:10:03.559 --> 00:10:05.600 never once been able to tell the difference. And then 215 00:10:05.759 --> 00:10:10.120 every but they the girl who wrote in wrote in 216 00:10:10.639 --> 00:10:13.080 Minnesota words and They were like, I don't know how 217 00:10:13.080 --> 00:10:16.639 I'm supposed to say this uf ufta, And I was like, oh, ufta, 218 00:10:16.840 --> 00:10:18.279 and it made me laugh. There's no way I would 219 00:10:18.279 --> 00:10:20.120 have known how to pronounce that before I moved here. Either, 220 00:10:20.120 --> 00:10:23.960 I probably would have said ufta also. But they were 221 00:10:24.000 --> 00:10:26.759 talking about one of the trail tills was people going 222 00:10:26.759 --> 00:10:28.919 on a hike passing dogs, and then they passed one 223 00:10:28.960 --> 00:10:30.240 of the people and one of the dogs on the 224 00:10:30.240 --> 00:10:32.399 way back, but not the other one because the dog 225 00:10:32.440 --> 00:10:34.879 got like heat stroke one the other ones and it 226 00:10:34.919 --> 00:10:37.759 was too heavy to carry down. But they I don't 227 00:10:37.799 --> 00:10:39.120 know if I just wanted to pass this along. If 228 00:10:39.159 --> 00:10:41.440 you go on hikes with dogs, I guess there are 229 00:10:41.480 --> 00:10:44.480 these harnesses you can buy that you can like attach 230 00:10:44.519 --> 00:10:47.360 a dog to you. It wouldn't be easy necessarily, but 231 00:10:47.440 --> 00:10:51.080 if something happened where your dog couldn't walk, you could 232 00:10:51.080 --> 00:10:55.159 buy these harnesses to get them down to safety, and 233 00:10:55.320 --> 00:10:57.279 obviously would be way easier than you trying to carry 234 00:10:57.320 --> 00:10:58.919 it with like just your arms, like you attach it 235 00:10:58.960 --> 00:11:02.399 to your back or to your frat. And I was like, oh, 236 00:11:02.600 --> 00:11:05.240 I should have realized that they created something like that, 237 00:11:05.279 --> 00:11:06.679 but I just never thought of it because I don't 238 00:11:06.720 --> 00:11:10.159 have hiking dogs, but some people do, and like obviously 239 00:11:10.200 --> 00:11:12.279 their dogs were physically able to do it, but they 240 00:11:12.320 --> 00:11:14.960 just they hate stroked, and so the dog was ended 241 00:11:15.039 --> 00:11:17.759 up being fine. But like a lot of the parks, 242 00:11:19.159 --> 00:11:22.120 they won't come in to rescue an animal, They will 243 00:11:22.120 --> 00:11:26.120 only come in to rescue a human, so they couldn't 244 00:11:26.120 --> 00:11:29.279 get help. And they also didn't have cell signal anyway 245 00:11:29.279 --> 00:11:33.399 in the park to find people. So that's I just 246 00:11:33.440 --> 00:11:35.600 thought that was like interesting to like pass along, Like 247 00:11:35.639 --> 00:11:37.879 if you're going on big hikes with your dog, even 248 00:11:37.879 --> 00:11:39.639 if they're in great health, it might be something to 249 00:11:39.679 --> 00:11:40.799 look into investing in. 250 00:11:41.039 --> 00:11:43.600 I don't know that I've necessarily seen anything like that before, 251 00:11:43.679 --> 00:11:45.840 but I do follow a lot of campervand people. They 252 00:11:45.840 --> 00:11:48.000 all have like dogs and cats and stuff, and like 253 00:11:48.159 --> 00:11:50.919 one person literally brings their cat on hikes and like 254 00:11:51.240 --> 00:11:54.120 the cat is like I don't know if it's a harness. 255 00:11:54.240 --> 00:11:56.879 It probably is a harness, like attached to the backpack 256 00:11:56.919 --> 00:11:59.159 that they wear, not like a kid carrier. It's like 257 00:11:59.159 --> 00:12:00.960 so literally the cat's was like sitting on top of 258 00:12:01.000 --> 00:12:03.840 a backpack. But I've seen where they kind of like 259 00:12:03.960 --> 00:12:06.159 fall a little bit and they're able to still catch 260 00:12:06.159 --> 00:12:08.639 them because they're like attached on the backpack or something. 261 00:12:08.720 --> 00:12:11.679 I don't know, but oh, that's interesting. Yeah, can I 262 00:12:11.720 --> 00:12:14.279 say so? I know you're not revealing the podcast that 263 00:12:14.360 --> 00:12:15.799 you were talking about, and I don't think I'm going 264 00:12:15.840 --> 00:12:17.360 to reveal the one I'm talking about either. 265 00:12:17.519 --> 00:12:20.279 Oh this is the worst. There's a reason why. 266 00:12:20.440 --> 00:12:25.000 So if somebody had suggested a podcast that revolves around anxiety, 267 00:12:25.759 --> 00:12:27.759 so I went to give it a listen, and literally 268 00:12:27.799 --> 00:12:30.039 the first episode, I just picked a random episode where 269 00:12:30.039 --> 00:12:34.000 the title seemed interesting to me, and it was about HSPs, 270 00:12:34.039 --> 00:12:37.559 which stands for highly sensitive people and then M paths 271 00:12:37.799 --> 00:12:40.080 and so that saying like, what the difference is if 272 00:12:40.120 --> 00:12:43.120 you are one of those, you might have this characteristic whatever. 273 00:12:43.559 --> 00:12:46.279 I'm listening, and I turned it off after probably seven 274 00:12:46.320 --> 00:12:50.360 minutes because I immediately knew that this was two girls 275 00:12:50.360 --> 00:12:54.080 who have anxiety, but they don't have the background or 276 00:12:54.080 --> 00:12:56.279 the credentials to be talking about the things that they're 277 00:12:56.320 --> 00:12:58.919 talking about in a way that you should believe them. 278 00:12:59.000 --> 00:13:02.480 Because one of them was trying to describe what HSPs 279 00:13:02.559 --> 00:13:05.000 mean and what the characteristics. 280 00:13:04.399 --> 00:13:06.240 Were, and they probably are just reading something they pulled 281 00:13:06.240 --> 00:13:08.240 off of, like chest GPS. 282 00:13:08.279 --> 00:13:10.519 They literally one girl goes, well, that's weird. I think 283 00:13:10.519 --> 00:13:12.679 that that's what an EmPATH is. And she's like, no, 284 00:13:12.759 --> 00:13:14.879 this is for HSPs. And she's like, well, what's your 285 00:13:14.919 --> 00:13:17.960 source and she goes, oh, it's like and she said, 286 00:13:18.000 --> 00:13:19.840 like someone's name and it turned out to be a 287 00:13:19.919 --> 00:13:22.679 blog like blog. And then the other girl goes, well, 288 00:13:22.679 --> 00:13:26.120 I'm reading from like psychology dot com right now and 289 00:13:26.159 --> 00:13:28.480 this is what it says. And so I had to 290 00:13:28.480 --> 00:13:30.679 turn it off pretty much immediately because I was like, 291 00:13:31.679 --> 00:13:34.080 I love people who are willing to talk about their anxiety, 292 00:13:34.159 --> 00:13:37.960 but if you're talking about it from a doctor perspective, 293 00:13:38.279 --> 00:13:40.559 you should be a doctor. If you're talking about it 294 00:13:40.559 --> 00:13:45.200 from your own personal experience, then I feel like that's 295 00:13:45.240 --> 00:13:47.759 totally fine whatever. But I just think there are so 296 00:13:47.799 --> 00:13:50.679 many podcasts out there where people just trust that the 297 00:13:50.679 --> 00:13:53.080 persons speaking is an expert just because they have a 298 00:13:53.080 --> 00:13:56.080 podcast and they aren't, and so I don't know. So 299 00:13:56.120 --> 00:13:58.960 many people start podcasts, and sometimes I just I get 300 00:13:59.000 --> 00:14:01.600 frustrated being in the podcasting world. 301 00:14:01.600 --> 00:14:02.200 Ourselves. 302 00:14:02.639 --> 00:14:04.960 You and I, yeah, we give advice every once in 303 00:14:05.000 --> 00:14:07.399 a while if people ask us for advice, but we're 304 00:14:07.440 --> 00:14:10.679 not giving you want to talk about GOV and oh 305 00:14:10.759 --> 00:14:13.320 Zembek and we're like, we don't know, no ideas, Yeah 306 00:14:13.320 --> 00:14:15.519 this is but we are open about that. 307 00:14:15.559 --> 00:14:16.759 You know, we aren't coming in like. 308 00:14:16.879 --> 00:14:19.399 Okay, so you should do this if you're like trying 309 00:14:19.440 --> 00:14:21.919 to lose some weight and whatever. So it was just 310 00:14:22.000 --> 00:14:24.519 kind of I was bummed because I was excited because 311 00:14:24.519 --> 00:14:26.039 I thought it was like a podcast I would be 312 00:14:26.080 --> 00:14:26.639 able to get into. 313 00:14:26.759 --> 00:14:29.559 And I immediately was like no, no, I yeah, I 314 00:14:29.559 --> 00:14:32.879 hate that I had someone not the exact same situation. 315 00:14:32.919 --> 00:14:36.360 But I had someone recommend a book recently and she's 316 00:14:36.399 --> 00:14:38.559 like best book I read this year, and I downloaded it. 317 00:14:38.600 --> 00:14:42.639 But I'm an audiobook person and I within like a 318 00:14:42.759 --> 00:14:46.120 chapter was like I cannot listen to this. The author 319 00:14:46.480 --> 00:14:51.480 did the audio and she I've actually heard before that 320 00:14:52.000 --> 00:14:58.200 most publishers prefer the author to not do the audio 321 00:14:58.240 --> 00:15:02.039 because they're not professional. If they're like an actor or something, 322 00:15:02.080 --> 00:15:04.759 then yeah, you expect them probably to do narrate their 323 00:15:04.799 --> 00:15:07.320 own book or like Britney Spears had Michelle Williams do it, 324 00:15:07.320 --> 00:15:11.399 but she's an actress. And this author's voice drove me 325 00:15:11.480 --> 00:15:13.279 so insane. I'm like, I don't care how good the 326 00:15:13.279 --> 00:15:15.360 book is I'll never listen to it because I cannot 327 00:15:15.399 --> 00:15:19.080 hear the voice. And that's why sometimes that people say 328 00:15:19.080 --> 00:15:20.519 that they hate the sound of my voice. I'm like, 329 00:15:21.159 --> 00:15:23.720 I get it. That sucks because that's the top thing 330 00:15:23.720 --> 00:15:26.759 I can't change. But you it really is. You have 331 00:15:26.799 --> 00:15:29.159 to be able to enjoy the sound of someone's voice 332 00:15:29.240 --> 00:15:32.279 or it ruins the entire experience for you. Like I said, 333 00:15:32.360 --> 00:15:34.080 very different than that, but it stinks when you have 334 00:15:34.120 --> 00:15:35.879 something recommended that you want to check out and you 335 00:15:36.120 --> 00:15:38.399 like that, Nope, immediately turn it off. And then if 336 00:15:38.399 --> 00:15:40.159 they check back in later, like would you think and 337 00:15:40.159 --> 00:15:43.159 you're like, I actually hated it. You don't say that 338 00:15:43.200 --> 00:15:44.960 because that'd be awful, but yeah. 339 00:15:45.000 --> 00:15:47.799 Yeah, I feel you. Well, man, I haven't seen you 340 00:15:47.879 --> 00:15:50.360 since last week. Did you do anything super fun this week? 341 00:15:50.399 --> 00:15:50.639 Kind of? 342 00:15:51.000 --> 00:15:52.440 I think you've texted me on Friday and you're like, 343 00:15:52.480 --> 00:15:53.919 what are you doing this weekend? And I texted you 344 00:15:53.919 --> 00:15:56.840 back saying what about you? And you never responded. You 345 00:15:56.919 --> 00:15:58.559 reponded to something not else, But you don't. 346 00:15:58.480 --> 00:16:01.080 I know, because well I think I didn't know what 347 00:16:01.120 --> 00:16:04.320 I was doing. Number One, sad, hav anything exciting planned? 348 00:16:04.399 --> 00:16:10.159 But also I've been like really bad during our show. Lately, 349 00:16:10.240 --> 00:16:12.440 like before, I feel like I had more time to 350 00:16:12.519 --> 00:16:15.639 respond during mining cult show, but lately, man, I have 351 00:16:15.879 --> 00:16:19.440 like had no time. I texted you at eleven thirty am. 352 00:16:19.879 --> 00:16:22.440 Yeah, it was when I was like leaving work for 353 00:16:22.480 --> 00:16:25.000 the day on to Friday, or actually was probably like 354 00:16:25.000 --> 00:16:26.240 eleven because it was Friday. 355 00:16:26.559 --> 00:16:28.080 Hold on, let me check my schedule. 356 00:16:28.480 --> 00:16:31.600 You you would ask me first, like what are you 357 00:16:31.679 --> 00:16:33.960 doing this weekend? And I had responded maybe it was 358 00:16:34.159 --> 00:16:37.200 until I got home, but regardless, it was definitely before noon, 359 00:16:37.720 --> 00:16:39.679 and then I was like what about you? 360 00:16:39.799 --> 00:16:43.399 And then we texting. I don't know what happened, Jenny. 361 00:16:43.879 --> 00:16:46.240 I don't know. Another thing I've been doing lately with 362 00:16:46.399 --> 00:16:49.759 texting is anytime anyone asks me a question, I'd take 363 00:16:49.759 --> 00:16:52.200 a full twenty four hours to respond to them. Not you, 364 00:16:52.360 --> 00:16:57.279 because you're like but like I realized, I am who 365 00:16:57.279 --> 00:17:01.000 I've always hated. Now I can't stand people who take 366 00:17:01.039 --> 00:17:02.840 forever to respond to a text and like your phone's 367 00:17:02.840 --> 00:17:05.680 in your hand twenty four to seven, like unless you 368 00:17:05.720 --> 00:17:07.559 work at a job that I know, Like you're a 369 00:17:07.599 --> 00:17:09.880 doctor and your phone isn't on you like I, which 370 00:17:09.880 --> 00:17:11.240 I don't have any doctor friends. I don't know why 371 00:17:11.240 --> 00:17:14.480 that was my example, but like it drives me crazy. 372 00:17:14.599 --> 00:17:16.880 I'm like, just respond to me, and then it makes 373 00:17:16.920 --> 00:17:19.759 me feel like a loser that I so easily respond 374 00:17:19.759 --> 00:17:22.759 to everyone. But mine is not about that. Mine is 375 00:17:22.839 --> 00:17:27.200 I need to mentally decide if I can take on 376 00:17:28.000 --> 00:17:31.920 the thought process of their question. Yep. And it's usually 377 00:17:32.559 --> 00:17:35.559 a question about my time. Yeah, it's almost always like 378 00:17:35.680 --> 00:17:38.240 could you do this? And I'm like, I need twenty 379 00:17:38.240 --> 00:17:40.759 four hours to decide if I mentally can do this 380 00:17:40.960 --> 00:17:43.559 thing you're asking me to do with my time next week. 381 00:17:44.160 --> 00:17:46.319 And that's fair because you're super busy. 382 00:17:46.480 --> 00:17:48.359 Bad though, I'm like, people are going to start being like, 383 00:17:48.400 --> 00:17:51.119 goose bitch, but you're really busy. 384 00:17:51.200 --> 00:17:54.200 I think that that's a completely fair thing to not 385 00:17:54.319 --> 00:17:57.440 respond immediately about something that like involves your time. I 386 00:17:57.759 --> 00:18:00.759 h that's fair if it's like something that needs an 387 00:18:00.799 --> 00:18:03.680 answer because of something happening the next day, that I 388 00:18:03.680 --> 00:18:04.599 could understand that. 389 00:18:04.759 --> 00:18:05.880 But I don't know. 390 00:18:05.920 --> 00:18:07.960 I mean, I've always been the queen of not responding 391 00:18:07.960 --> 00:18:10.799 to text right away, Like I know, well, okay, to 392 00:18:10.839 --> 00:18:12.960 be fair, you're like in the middle of your show 393 00:18:13.079 --> 00:18:16.519 from two to six, and that is prime nappy time 394 00:18:16.559 --> 00:18:20.559 for me, so I oftentimes except to make I will 395 00:18:20.599 --> 00:18:22.680 wake up at like twenty minutes into an app, I 396 00:18:22.680 --> 00:18:24.920 will look at my phone off this twenty seven texts 397 00:18:24.960 --> 00:18:27.440 for me and yeah, I'll see like twenty seven texts 398 00:18:27.440 --> 00:18:29.240 from Falance and I'll be like, oh, I'll answer this 399 00:18:29.319 --> 00:18:31.519 vitu later. Yeah, and then I completely forget. 400 00:18:31.400 --> 00:18:33.279 That's what I've been doing. I've been like I'll see 401 00:18:33.319 --> 00:18:35.519