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Speaker 1: Made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Oh face sunny sun on.

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Speaker 1: I had a vision.

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Speaker 2: Night.

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Speaker 1: What's up, everybody?

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Speaker 3: Welcome to for Crime outlouds It's Crime Outlast.

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Speaker 1: It's Friday, Friday. Wait it was Friday, it's Monday. Uh yeah.

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Speaker 3: Last night I was watching have you seen this the

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Taylor the Taylor Hawkins Tribute Contents concerts?

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Speaker 4: I didn't. I saw that. It's that.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I got sun.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I was. I was.

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Speaker 3: Yesterday was Sunday and I was tired. The kids were

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gone off doing their own thing. I was home alone

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and I was like, I'm gonna watch a movie. I

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watched The Stanford Experiment.

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Speaker 1: Is that? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Did you see that?

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Speaker 4: I did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It was good about what the psychologists did at Stanford

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set up prison and guards.

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Speaker 4: Some of them the prisoners and some of them the guards.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it was really good watch that.

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And while I was watching that, I got a text

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from my nephew Nick, who knows I love the Food Fighters,

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and was like, oh my god, Anti Lenna, are you

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watching the Taylor And I was like, how are you

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watching this where? And he was like, it's on Paramount.

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So of course I got a download the Paramount app

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and I'm like trying to sign it, so I have

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the parents. So I get Paramount and then I wasn't

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I wasn't expecting, you know. I was like, okay, I'll

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watch a little bit of it. I started to watch it.

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I was bawling.

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Speaker 1: It gave me chills.

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Speaker 3: It gave me all the feels like Dave Grohl saying, uh,

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He's saying times like these, and and they show like

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him and Taylor Hawkins Hawkins, Taylor Yeah, up on the

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big screen behind him and he and the audience is

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singing with him, and he just started ball he started

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crying and it made me cry. I was like, oh

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my god, oh my god, so good. And then late

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and then so I was telling Nick that and he goes, oh,

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wait till you see Taylor Hawkin's.

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Speaker 1: Son on the drums.

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Speaker 3: And so later in the concert they played the song

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here there goes My.

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Speaker 1: He and he played the drums. He's like sixteen, he's.

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Speaker 4: So who was playing the drums the whole time?

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Speaker 3: It was a whole bunch of different artists, Paul McCartney,

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Christy Hines from The Pretenders, the guy from a CD.

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Speaker 1: So they all, you know, metallic all like.

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Speaker 3: Different members of bands were playing, like the drums. There

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was one song they did with a bunch of drums

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behind them. It was like they showed They didn't show

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the whole concert. They were showing highlights. So as far

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as I saw, so for this song, it was it

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was his son, you know. I mean I could show,

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I could show you the video, but I know this

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is a podcast, but it was. I just it gave

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me chills. And this kid killed it. I mean he

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killed it like he can. You just show a little bit.

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I just just and we'll put it up on our thing.

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Speaker 1: This is the beginning.

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Speaker 4: Look, oh my god, killing you. Okay, Kylen, show the

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other clip. He's amazing.

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Speaker 1: I know now. Now we'll put it up. You'll see it.

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Go to our facebook page. You'll see it. Look at that.

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Speaker 3: Dave Bowl is facing him.

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Speaker 1: And he's smiling.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, Okay, how fucking I have chills.

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Speaker 1: I chills, chills, chill, chills.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you gotta Oh it was so good.

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Speaker 1: I was screaming in my bedroom.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, holy shit, I did not expect that to

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come out of this little kid. Wow, that's his dad,

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you know, Oh my god, it was so good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 4: And then this makes me feel kind of shitty about myself,

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like when I'm like, you know what I mean when

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you see like if you're watching American Idol or The

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Voice or anything like that and you see like a

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kid who's there, they're like, I'm thirteen, and then you're like,

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I will never achieve a quarter of the greatness my

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verson's already, Like how right?

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Speaker 1: I know?

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Speaker 4: And you know it's not sometimes it's not just natural talents,

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like you can tell that they work really hard and

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they're smart.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm a loser. I know, I know.

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Speaker 4: How did I just make that about me? But it's

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so beautiful, Like his dad is a drummer, so you

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just go, Wow, that shit is in your blood, right,

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his blood?

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Speaker 1: What'd you think that was? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: That was incredible. That was amazing. And yeah, I'm sure

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you can find the video online, but for those of

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you listening, you should go watch that because I'd never

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even seen it before and I'm in now I'm wanting

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to watch the rest of the video now.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's so good, so good. Yeah, anyway, it was.

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Speaker 3: It was a really like and so Sonny by the way,

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before Sonny loves music, and before he left the house,

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he comes in my room to talk to me. He's

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wearing a shirt of what is it? He got it

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from Target. I think it's led Up.

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Speaker 1: I can't remember.

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Speaker 3: I think it was led Zeppelin at Wimbley Stadium, which

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is where that concert was.

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Speaker 1: And he asked me where the stadium. He goes, YEA,

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that's it. I said it's in London. He goes, That's

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what I thought.

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Speaker 3: And then he was like, you know, it sucks because

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all the bands I love I can't see in concert

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because he went to that shitty concert at the Rose

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Bowl that sucked, and we were talking about that. He goes,

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I would love to be able to see like you know,

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Rush or Queen or.

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Speaker 1: Uh, led Zeppelin or what.

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Speaker 3: You know, pining fluid like he's like all these bands,

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and I go, well, you got the food. This is

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before I heard from Nicholas. I said, well, you got

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the food fighters. Whenever they come back, I don't know

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if they're going to be playing.

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Speaker 1: I had no idea.

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Speaker 4: What's his name? Robert Plant was just like the Hollywood Bowl.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and uh, the singer Roger Waters is coming to town.

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So he said that he goes, I want to see

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Roger Waters. I want to go to his concert. I

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was like, okay, well I guess I'll look into it. Whatever,

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and then and.

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Speaker 1: Then he left.

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Speaker 3: I wanted and then he left, and then Nick sent

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me that text and I was like, Sonny, when are

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you coming home? I want to show you something and anyway,

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and then Nick was like, well, they're coming to that.

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They're going to do the show in Los Angeles at

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the end of September, the Food Fighters that that whole show. Yeah,

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the Taylor Hawkins tribute. Oh they are, Yeah, that's what

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he said. Oh, so now I want to look into it.

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Speaker 1: Now. It's like, Sonny went to that.

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Speaker 4: The Food Fighters should tour with this with Taylor Hawk.

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Speaker 1: I know that's what I was thinking. But he's so young.

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Speaker 4: He's in school, Like so what quit school? Yeah, a

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little baby face school on the road. Yeah, what a

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what kind of opportunity squandering would that be? If you

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were like, no, I'm sorry, I'm going grade.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, going to my going to tour with the Food Fighters? Yeah,

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do you imagine?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, school of hard Knocks, get your I mean that

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would be so cool.

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Speaker 1: What an opportunity?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean tons of kids leave school to go

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perform Broadway shows and like, I mean, come on, yeah,

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come on, I mean be movie stars. It's no different.

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Speaker 3: I bet you he is gonna eventually he must because

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Jesus Christ, that kid can play.

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Speaker 1: He should play with the food fighters.

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Speaker 4: There would be such a huge draw for them too,

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not that there are not already a huge draw.

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Speaker 1: Right right, So anyway, Yeah, it was a that was

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Monday night.

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Speaker 4: Lesson night was exciting you ever you ever scrolling through,

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like you know, you're online and you see a video

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and or you see like a thing like a link

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to a story. Yeah, and even though it's sponsored, You're like,

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this is like I kind of want to know, you know,

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it'll like very click baby, yes, cause, uh I came

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upon one the other day that was about this dog

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that the headline was like this pregnant dog won't give

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birth for like the craziest reason, and I'm like, I

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don't know, like I want to know more, right, Like

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have you seen this.

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Speaker 2: Kaitlin, I have not only seen this, but I saw

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someone online like screenshotted this click baity article and then

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had it like it was like this dog won't give

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birth for the craziest reason this horse won't give birth,

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for the crazy reason this pig won't get and it

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was just all these different animals at the same exact headline.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So, so I saw the dog one for and

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I was like, okay, all right, I'm gonna just see

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I'm gonna just go to the link and see if

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I can figure it out quicker, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So Also, sometimes you can go into the comments and

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they'll tell you what they'll skip to the reason, like

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you know. But I go in the thing and it's like, okay,

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there's going to be like fifty slide and I'm not

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exaggerating because you click on it and it says, okay,

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this guy had this dog and it was very pregnant

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and it wouldn't give birth, and so the guy's like okay,

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oh my gosh. The guy takes it to the vet.

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called the police. And then they're like, do you want

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to know why? And I'm like, yes, I do. So

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I go to the next slide. Well, then they have

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to take you back to the beginning of the story,

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like they go, all right, well, if you want to

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know why the police had to get involved. We got

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to tell you how they even got the dog in

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the first place. And to tell you how they got

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the dog in the first place, you need to know

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that they had another dog that they loved very much.

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This man and like his wife had this other dog.

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Now their dog passed away. They wanted to get another

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dog because they love this dog so much, so they

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really wanted to get a sibling. They had gotten this

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dog from a breeder.

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Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 4: They wanted to get a dog from the same family

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line because they love this dog so much. So they

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there was this other dog, and then they wanted that

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dog to have to breed. So they went to this

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the dog. They brought it to this doctor and the

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doctor was like, I can get the dog pregnant. And

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this is a really long story. And then you're like, okay,

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all right, let me get to the next slide. You're like, okay,

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all right. So then they got the doctor that vet

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got the dog pregnant. They're like, okay, good to go.

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Now this dog's pregnant. And then the dog, now the

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dog's pregnant, but it won't give birth.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: But what you also need to know and then it

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was like slide after slide and I'm like, oh my god,

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like this is so many slides.

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Speaker 1: This is my whole afternoon.

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Speaker 4: But now I'm super hooked in. Right. So then, Okay,

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you probably wondering like what happened? Why didn't the dog

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want to give birth? And I'll tell you it's because

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the doctor who got their dog the dog pregnant, inserted

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a microchip to track like because they they they they

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implanted the babies. The puppies were going to be these

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super valuable dogs. So this vet was like not scrupulous.

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and he was going to track the puppies and then

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try to get them back and sell them for like

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a lot of money. And I was like what. So

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I was like, okay, but why wouldn't the dog get birth?

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Did the dog know that there were micro ships in

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there in its belly? And then they're like and then

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the vet that they took it to was like had

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heard about this doctor, Like it was so confoluted, right,

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microchips in there and I still don't really understand. Then

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the very last slide, They're like and then the oh.

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puppies out. They had to do a cesarean section, and

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they get the puppies out, and then they asked the

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guy like, do you want to keep the puppy even

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though it's got the it's this strange microchip situation, and

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or you could sell it and make a lot of money.

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puppy because of the bloodline, and we love this We're

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gonna love this dog and give it a great life.

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story is a work of fiction. Oh my god, they're

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all fictional. What they're fictional? And I was like, I was,

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I was yelling at my computer. I was like, you

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stole forty five minutes of my time. I was so,

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I was like, fictional.

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Speaker 1: What what the ever?

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Speaker 4: Never please it for them because it's all ads on

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every page. Every time you click you have to like

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X out like whatever ad. It's all pop ups the

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whole time.

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Speaker 3: I would have given up the third slide and this

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is like, well, I guess I'm never going to know.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and then I googled this thing because I

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was actually going to talk about it, like a couple

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of weeks ago, because I was still mad. I was

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all heated up about it. My bean was steamed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And then when I googled it, like Cayln said, I

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found Oh, this horse won't give birth, this pig won't

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give birth.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, this.

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Speaker 4: Is just a thing that's going around and people like

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us just get hooked, like I all right, I gotta know.

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Speaker 1: But did you buy? I never knew.

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Speaker 4: I never found out because it wasn't even fucking true.

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Speaker 1: Did you did you buy any ads?

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Speaker 3: Like did you did you get like a no?

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Speaker 1: No? But I I did buy a repellent or whatever.

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Speaker 4: I a bra I'm wearing it right now. It's like

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a stretchy because you know, I can't go back to

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the underwire bras. And I clicked on a I saw

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a bra ad for like people like me who gained

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some weight during COVID and can't fit into their bras,

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and I clicked on one. It was like a pretty color,

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it was this color. Yeah, buying it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And then I ended up getting like thirteen thousand ads

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for the same bra. But from different companies. Well, I know,

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so now every time I scroll on my Facebook it's

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just all ads for Bras and I'm like, yeah, I

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already bought it, I know, own it. And then of

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course I went to another company it's called like Parade

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because there was because because I was getting all the ads,

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I was like, okay, well this one's a pretty color too, right,

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I bought another one and it was super shitty like quality.

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It was like terrible, Yeah, what is it?

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Speaker 3: It's our boyfriend algorithm, that's that's fucking with us. I

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bought Sunny a pair of like cool board shorts that

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I saw on Instagram.

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Speaker 4: Uh huh that were real.

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Speaker 3: I was like, he needs new, he needs like he

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needs uh the like shorts to go swimming. Yeah, because

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he's wearing the same ones over He's got one pair.

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So I was like, oh, I'll get those. These are

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now all of a sudden, al thinks I want to

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buy boys trunks swim trunks. So all day long, that's

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all I want to do, is I hear. I was like,

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hear you like that, look look at this company.

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Speaker 1: Look at that them. You're like, I don't need anymore.

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Stop Like how do you stop?

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Speaker 4: It like why You're like, oh, I get it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know you love.

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Speaker 4: Me, and I know you want you want what I want.

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You're you just started looking out for my interests, but

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like you gotta stop.

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Speaker 1: Enough of the board shorts. So I bought a care

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for it.

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Speaker 4: No, I know that's what and you know it's another one.

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If you go on to Poshmark and our front terra

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will we'll attest to what's up.

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Speaker 1: With Poshmark by the way, So Poshmark.

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Speaker 4: Is all good, you know, if you want to buy

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stuff that's used. So like, let's say, because because I

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wanted to buy myself some board shorts to go over

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my bathing suit so that my cellulate wasn't hanging out

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everywhere when I was at Lake Gregory catching COVID.

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Speaker 1: Right, So you go.

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Speaker 4: On Poshmark and I'm like, okay, let me look for

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some board shorts. But if you click away from it, oh,

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they will email you and they'll be like, hey, hey,

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we've noticed that you kind of like these light blue

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board shorts. How about we give you a two dollars

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off shipping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like.

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Speaker 4: Right, yeah, I can't even look at something for one

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second without you being like I see you want that, right, No,

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I didn't want it. I just clicked by it. It's

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not even the right size for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, with me alone. They're like, don't let it get away.

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Speaker 4: While you're at it, how about this coach bag?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, I wanted to buy myself a nice purse off

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of Poshmark. So I bought this like small pat leather

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red like old Louis Vauton for like one hundred and

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something like twenty bucks or something. I thought it would

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be like a decent size. I get it and it's

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the size of a wallet.

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Speaker 1: It's a wristlet. It's like what am I?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I was like, wait a minute, I paid over one

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hundred dollars for this. This it's like for a Barbie doll,

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Like it's not a purse. Yeah, Like what am I gonna?

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I thought this was it?

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Speaker 3: They may get it's on like the picture and I'm

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sure they gave the dimension.

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Speaker 1: But who's good.

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Speaker 4: Who's getting out of tape measure and going let me

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look exactly what that size is.

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Speaker 1: You're like, it's supposed to be a purse.

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Speaker 3: Right, They need to put a picture of it, like

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you know, in real life, like with a person holding

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it so you can.

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Speaker 4: See a newspaper day, right, So like, no, they don't

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do that because they know they're going to lose like

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eighty nine percent of their business.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, and now Poshmark's like, oh, you

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like this person, you want this person, you want that.

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Speaker 1: I keep getting emails and I'm like, all right, I

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had to like stop unsubscribe.

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Speaker 3: Or whatever because I kept getting every single day and

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email from Poshmark.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh, I'm constantly unsubscribing first stuff, Mecha said, and

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we I know we've talked about this before. But when

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it comes up in your email, like I have gmails,

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so it comes up on the top and it will

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say do you want to unsubscribe? And I'll hit yes,

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But that doesn't actually unsubscribe you. You have to actually

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go down and this.

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Speaker 1: They do this to you on purpose.

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Speaker 4: You can't unsubscribe where it says unsubscribe.

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Speaker 1: They're tricking you.

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Speaker 4: They're like, you thought you unsubscribe, are going to send

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you twice as many Yeah, actually just changed your preferences

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to like fourteen times a day. So you have to

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scroll all the way to the bottom of the email

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and then it says it'll be in the tiniest, tiniest,

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tiniest letters, even way smaller than the ones at the top.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 4: It'll be like do you want to unsubscribe? And then

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you're like yeah, so you click on that and they're like, oh,

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you want to change your preferences right, don't want to

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another Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a oh I was.

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Speaker 4: Trying to cancel out of. And I should just tell you.

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So we had a we had a product.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm going to say? I think so.

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Speaker 4: So we had a product something that we were doing

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ads for and we had to give our payment information

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it's like a year ago, and they said no, no, no,

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don't worry, it's free.

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Speaker 1: You just give you just have to put.

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Speaker 4: Your payment information just so that we can clear shipping

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or whatever. And after this, you remember, Kaitlin, I was like,

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no more, not doing that anymore. Yeah, getting so they

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so they kept sending me the product and I was like,

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I guess they're sending me like six months worth of

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this product. And they kept sending it to me and

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then turned out no, they were like, oh, heym, your

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card was declined. You need to update like your uh

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expiration data and you need to update your card, and

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I was like, the hell, I'm going to update my

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card and then it turned out they've been charging me

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for an entire year. Uh. And then I was like, well, okay,

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first of all, even though my card is not working anymore,

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you know, leave it to these people to figure out

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a right, like to just keep trying it until they're like,

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all right, we'll let you pay, you know. So I

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go to cancel. They won't let you cancel.

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Speaker 1: They're like, hmmm, not so fast.

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Speaker 4: They're like, if you really want to cancel, you need

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to talk to the dermatologist first. And I was like,

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the hell, I'm talking to a.

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Speaker 1: Dermatol what right?

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Speaker 4: And then it's just they're trying to trick you. They're

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trying to get you to not quit. So I'm like no, no, no.

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So then you go to their payment page and then

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there's small small letters like do you want to cancel?

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You hit yes. Then they go, m how about how

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about you talk to the dermatologists. No, I want to cancel.

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Speaker 1: They're like, how about we just send you?

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Speaker 4: How about we send you how about you just put

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it on pause? No I want to cancel.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 4: How about we just give you twenty percent off, No, right,

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how about right now? And then they're like, do you

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really want to cancel? And then they're like, okay, one

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more step, we have to verify your canceling. You know,

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just give us your pin number to just give us

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the new card and then we'll let you cancel.

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Speaker 3: It's like, oh my god, it's maddening. I have this

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whole issue with credit cards right now. That's first of all,

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let's talk about something.

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Speaker 4: So speaking of concerts, Albe just went to the weekend

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at the Sofi.

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Speaker 2: I heard I know someone that went to that one too.

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Speaker 1: I know people that went to that. Yeah. But guess what.

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Speaker 4: Albie went on Friday night, not on Saturday night.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: So Elbe goes to the concert and first of all,

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she her school was off on Friday. They had a

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four day weekend instead of a three day weekend, so

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she wanted to get a new outfit to wear the concert,

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and she dragged me to them all with her. You know, listen,

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you don't have to ask me. Twice. I was like,

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go spend time with my girl. Yeah, and it was

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really funny. I thought you might appreciate this. You know,

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this girl is all about like she used to be

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so modest and now she's just like hoing it up,

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you know, And I had it was everything. I was like,

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don't don't like, if she's feeling good about her body,

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let her feel good about her body, Like it's not

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for me to be like, oh, you're really going to

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wear that, shouldn't you be covered up more? The only

473
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,400
thing I did say she wanted a little skirt.

474
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 1: She wanted to wear a skirt.

475
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,400
Speaker 4: And like a halter top, like she wanted to really

476
00:21:41,839 --> 00:21:44,839
do it up. Yeah, And I was like okay. And

477
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,759
then I found myself kind of getting in the spirit

478
00:21:46,799 --> 00:21:48,200
of the thing and I was like, look at this,

479
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:52,359
this is pretty slutty, and she would just laugh and

480
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,720
she's like, oh, yeah, that's cute. I was like, look

481
00:21:54,759 --> 00:21:58,359
at this top, this is hoye. She was like, yeah,

482
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,960
that's cute. She and then anyway, so she ended up

483
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,839
picking out an outfit, and I'm telling you, I was

484
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:06,839
so good about the only thing. I was like, do

485
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,720
you think you might get cold and want to like

486
00:22:08,799 --> 00:22:11,359
just bring something to the little cover up like for

487
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,599
when you're And she was like, no, probably not, it's.

488
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,039
Speaker 1: Pretty hot up. Yeah I know. I said the same

489
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,440
thing in Natalia. The other day she was going out

490
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:18,880
and I was like.

491
00:22:19,319 --> 00:22:21,279
Speaker 4: Okay, like a trench coat.

492
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't you want to get it? Where's one of

493
00:22:23,799 --> 00:22:25,400
your overside sweatshirts?

494
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:29,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like, mom's one hundred and ten degrees out.

495
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,319
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, but you're going down, like to

496
00:22:32,559 --> 00:22:34,359
sell self based like, that's.

497
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 1: Going to go down, it's going to get cold.

498
00:22:35,799 --> 00:22:39,079
Speaker 4: Inglewood's a little little shit's a bomby ninety eight at night.

499
00:22:41,759 --> 00:22:42,599
Speaker 1: So the other.

500
00:22:42,559 --> 00:22:45,319
Speaker 4: News is that she was like I she was going

501
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:49,960
to drive, and I was like, so freaked out for

502
00:22:50,039 --> 00:22:52,759
her because I'm like, oh, yeah, drive to Inglewood with

503
00:22:52,799 --> 00:22:55,359
her friends because she's been driving a year, so she's

504
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,000
legal after eleven. I think I might have told you

505
00:22:58,039 --> 00:23:00,759
this last week. I was, but I was like, okay,

506
00:23:00,759 --> 00:23:02,839
you're gonna She was like, I'm gonna go to my

507
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,519
friend's house and we're all gonna get the car. We're

508
00:23:05,519 --> 00:23:07,759
going to drive to Englewood. We already pre bought a

509
00:23:07,799 --> 00:23:11,559
parking space. Buy parking spaces. Now. I didn't know that.

510
00:23:11,799 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good.

511
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,839
Speaker 4: She gets to save the trauma that I always have

512
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,880
when I'm like, wait, we're at UCSD and there's we're

513
00:23:20,079 --> 00:23:22,720
eighteen miles away from the actual campus, and then I

514
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:23,880
have to download an app?

515
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: What she buy it?

516
00:23:25,519 --> 00:23:29,519
Speaker 4: She's mature bypasses all that they got themselves. So anyway,

517
00:23:29,599 --> 00:23:34,160
I was like, this was me projecting my own neurosis.

518
00:23:34,279 --> 00:23:36,920
I was like, okay, but like, first of all, make

519
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:41,359
sure you take a picture where you're parked. Ah, not

520
00:23:41,519 --> 00:23:44,960
that she's gonna get murdered like in Inglewood, but more like,

521
00:23:45,079 --> 00:23:45,599
but what if you.

522
00:23:45,599 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 1: Can't find your car? Yes, she's like, but you know

523
00:23:49,319 --> 00:23:49,920
what was great?

524
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 4: She kind of understood it. She was like, Mom, don't worry.

525
00:23:52,519 --> 00:23:55,119
I'm with My friends that I'm with are are the

526
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,920
same way. We're gonna take lots of pictures.

527
00:23:57,599 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 1: Of where we're parked. We're all like on it.

528
00:23:59,519 --> 00:24:02,279
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, but a lot of times when

529
00:24:02,319 --> 00:24:04,480
somebody else is driving me, I'm like.

530
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 1: Whoa, yeah, where I park? Right? I know who cares

531
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,880
where we are? I don't know. I care like, get

532
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:17,039
out of the car, start walking. I don't think twice

533
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:21,359
about it. I'm like, you got this, you're driving, not me.

534
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,200
My problem? No, we have to go back, and I'm like,

535
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:29,440
I what, I don't know? I don't know, problem problem?

536
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:30,480
Who's got the problem.

537
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 4: So Elvi was like, no, Mom, my friends are not

538
00:24:34,279 --> 00:24:34,519
like that.

539
00:24:34,599 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 1: I told her that.

540
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 4: I was like, Elvi, I'm just saying I don't really

541
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,599
care where people park when I'm not the one driving.

542
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,400
She's like, no, no, no, But my friends were all

543
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,200
paranoid like that. And I was like, and if you're

544
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,119
going to go to the bathroom, like go and you

545
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:50,599
go together, like do not. I don't want you leaving

546
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,519
the herd, like don't, don't be off by yourself, and

547
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,000
don't I don't want you going to get like a pretzel,

548
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,359
like I'll go. No no, She was like, don't worry, Mom,

549
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,680
leave me with this anyway. So they went and they

550
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:06,440
had a great time. And the only thing I will

551
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:11,160
say about my own paranoia was that she went her

552
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,400
phone was not charged up, but she knew I was

553
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,240
going to be worried about that, so she was like, Mom,

554
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,440
I know, you know, because I go on like through

555
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,880
sixty my phone's about to die. She goes, but don't worry, Like,

556
00:25:21,039 --> 00:25:22,720
as soon as I get back to the car, I'll

557
00:25:22,839 --> 00:25:25,359
charge it. You have her friend Hannah, I have her number.

558
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,839
She was like, it's all good. So then she texted

559
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,319
me when she got back to the car. She was like,

560
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,000
I'm in the car. It's all good. And then I

561
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,640
went to sleep. And then John like followed her, watched

562
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,000
her drive home. He was like, of course there's stuff

563
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,559
at McDonald's. He's like giving me the play by play. Yeah, okay.

564
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,079
So she gets home, she's like, everything was great, except

565
00:25:43,079 --> 00:25:44,720
for we had like the worst seats.

566
00:25:44,799 --> 00:25:46,039
Speaker 1: We were so far away.

567
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 4: Next day, her another one of her friends was going

568
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,000
with two of her friends and they got these bomb

569
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,480
seats and she was so jealous. She was having the

570
00:25:55,519 --> 00:25:58,400
worst FOMO. She was like, oh, my friend got tickets

571
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,480
and they got like amazing seeds and I'm like so mad.

572
00:26:01,519 --> 00:26:04,240
They didn't even spend that much more money than we spent.

573
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,680
And then she came home and she was like shut

574
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,680
and front. She was like, mom, guess what. The Weekend

575
00:26:12,759 --> 00:26:14,240
bailed after like two.

576
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: Songs, I know, And didn't he like show up two

577
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:18,920
hours late? Didn't they?

578
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,799
Speaker 3: They started the show from when I heard, like really

579
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,480
late two hours Yeah.

580
00:26:23,599 --> 00:26:26,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, well he was late for her night too though,

581
00:26:27,039 --> 00:26:30,160
but yeah, apparently the second night, the opener came out,

582
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:37,440
performed some producer, and then the Weekend finally came out. Yeah,

583
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,359
and then played a couple of songs and was like,

584
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:40,640
oh my voice.

585
00:26:41,559 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: That's so sorry.

586
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 4: I think give you the show, and Elbie was like, mom,

587
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,559
there were like massive amounts of like celebrities there, like

588
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:48,200
it was like.

589
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's awful.

590
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 4: Wow. Yeah, did you hear any other gossip about it?

591
00:26:54,519 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 3: That's all I heard was he was really late and

592
00:26:58,039 --> 00:27:01,559
did like two songs and was that well.

593
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 4: Remember people played the super Bowl.

594
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:03,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

595
00:27:03,319 --> 00:27:05,519
Speaker 4: I was like, over Rady.

596
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 1: Just have like one song. I don't know. Does he

597
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,920
have like a whole album collection. I don't know. I'm

598
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,319
sure the kids know, but I only know one song.

599
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 4: I mean I do think I do too, save it for.

600
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: Save your Tears for a Day. I don't know.

601
00:27:20,319 --> 00:27:23,279
Speaker 4: It's like it's not a good song. I don't like

602
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:24,319
any weekend songs.

603
00:27:24,599 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't even know any I couldn't tell you

604
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,200
the names. I just I've heard, like in the car,

605
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,480
I'll look down when a song is on and I'll

606
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:33,279
see the weekend.

607
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 4: Yeah you heard your song, and you're like, I don't

608
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:36,839
like this song, and then you look and it's like, oh,

609
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,319
of course it's by the weekend. Yeah.

610
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:42,759
Speaker 3: I have the same problem with post malone. So there's

611
00:27:42,799 --> 00:27:45,319
one song and it circles like that song.

612
00:27:45,599 --> 00:27:50,599
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

613
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like that song. But then I was like,

614
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,559
so maybe I do like post Malone. So I started

615
00:27:55,559 --> 00:28:01,000
listening to other songs. I was like, next, we like

616
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:05,000
it sounds like he's auto tuning himself constantly, Like.

617
00:28:08,519 --> 00:28:11,519
Speaker 4: Oh, that's like a thing. That's a certain songs and

618
00:28:11,559 --> 00:28:14,799
I hate it, hate it. It's horrible. Yeah, that's not me.

619
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:19,640
Speaker 3: Don't have to condition my children to that horror. That's bullshit,

620
00:28:19,839 --> 00:28:23,039
that's horrible. Yeah, that's I don't want my kids listening

621
00:28:23,079 --> 00:28:23,160
to this.

622
00:28:23,279 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 4: And then don't you feel sort of old and you're

623
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:27,960
like you like this? Like then I feel like I'm

624
00:28:28,039 --> 00:28:30,200
like some grandma going get off my lad.

625
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:31,039
Speaker 1: I got.

626
00:28:33,039 --> 00:28:36,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would rather hear Wet Ass Pussy at least

627
00:28:36,319 --> 00:28:38,920
like you can, like she's like song, like she's got

628
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,640
lyrics and stuff and whatever. But like, but like with

629
00:28:42,759 --> 00:28:45,720
the auto tuning, it's so awful.

630
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: It's really bad.

631
00:28:46,759 --> 00:28:49,359
Speaker 3: It's and I don't want my kids getting a judged

632
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,039
like listening like thinking.

633
00:28:50,759 --> 00:28:52,319
Speaker 1: That's okay, it's not okay.

634
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,559
Speaker 4: You know. Uh, last night I went to a little

635
00:28:55,599 --> 00:28:57,839
bar I went to a barbecue last night. Yeah, it

636
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:03,519
was really fun and uh, the one of Elbie's friends,

637
00:29:03,559 --> 00:29:05,359
Elbe couldn't go because she was at work, but I

638
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,279
was with a bunch of my mom friends and a

639
00:29:07,279 --> 00:29:10,240
bunch of their teen kids did come. The teens. Yeah,

640
00:29:10,279 --> 00:29:12,559
I sound like I'm in up with people. Hey teens.

641
00:29:13,799 --> 00:29:16,680
So one of those teens offered to drive me and

642
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,000
my friend Cecily home, and we were laughing. We were

643
00:29:20,079 --> 00:29:23,559
laughing about it because so we're like, I don't like

644
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,640
driving with teenagers, Like I don't like you know, he

645
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,039
hasn't had his license a full year, but we were like,

646
00:29:28,279 --> 00:29:30,160
but he was. This was so cute. He was so

647
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:31,359
into driving us.

648
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:33,759
Speaker 1: So he was like, you guys.

649
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:34,359
Speaker 4: His name is Jack.

650
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,319
Speaker 1: He's like the sweetest kid. He was like, do you

651
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:37,319
guys want to drive with me?

652
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,039
Speaker 4: Because our other friend the parents were going to drive us,

653
00:29:41,039 --> 00:29:42,640
but we were gonna have to crowd in to their

654
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,920
like Ford Flex with We're going to be like, you know,

655
00:29:45,039 --> 00:29:49,359
six and seven passengers. So we're like, I was like

656
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:50,640
all right, and he was like.

657
00:29:50,599 --> 00:29:53,039
Speaker 1: You will, you'll drive with me? Cool?

658
00:29:53,599 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 4: And then so he goes, oh, if you guys drive

659
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,759
with me, then my girlfriend can drive with me too,

660
00:29:57,839 --> 00:29:59,720
because her parents don't let her drive with me because

661
00:29:59,759 --> 00:30:02,519
I haven't my license a full year. But since you're licensed,

662
00:30:02,759 --> 00:30:05,559
she dragged me. So I tell the parents of this girl.

663
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,799
I was like, they said, all right, and I was like,

664
00:30:07,839 --> 00:30:10,319
don't worry, I'm going to backseat drive, right, you know,

665
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,319
make sure things are on up and up. So we

666
00:30:13,359 --> 00:30:15,400
get in the car and we were laughing so hard.

667
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,079
First of all, it was so cute because it was

668
00:30:17,119 --> 00:30:17,599
such tea.

669
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: He was like, yes, lit'll go. That's cute.

670
00:30:21,279 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 4: And then he was playing old Rolling Stones and David Bowie.

671
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:27,440
It was all my music.

672
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 1: We love. That's awesome.

673
00:30:29,039 --> 00:30:31,359
Speaker 4: It was all from my art and Cecily and I

674
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,279
were like, oh my god, Like you have good taste

675
00:30:33,319 --> 00:30:35,039
in music. He's like, this is all I've been listening

676
00:30:35,079 --> 00:30:37,839
to lately. I don't even like the new shit. Yeah,

677
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,839
but I forgot what the Bowie song was that he

678
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,400
was playing, but it was like a great song. He

679
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,279
was like blasting it up. And then we started having

680
00:30:44,279 --> 00:30:46,599
so much fun. I was like, we started giving him

681
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,319
like telling him really bad driving tips, Like we were like,

682
00:30:49,319 --> 00:30:52,240
all right, change lanes, don't check.

683
00:30:52,119 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: Your blind spot, Like, oh my god.

684
00:30:54,559 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 4: He was like, shut up, you guys. We were like

685
00:30:58,799 --> 00:31:02,880
throwing the brakes right. I was like, I'm sorry, but

686
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:04,480
I told your mom I was gonna help with the.

687
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: Back beat it up. We're late. Yeah, it was really fair.

688
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 3: It's weird that boys have good tasted from what I'm experiencing,

689
00:31:14,799 --> 00:31:19,559
have by and Sonny's got friends that like that music too,

690
00:31:19,799 --> 00:31:22,599
So boys have a better taste. I don't know from

691
00:31:22,599 --> 00:31:25,799
what I'm experiencing. Natalia's side of things and sunny side

692
00:31:25,839 --> 00:31:27,960
of things way better to be with Sonny and his

693
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,839
friends in the car than Italian are. Although I will

694
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:31,640
say Natali.

695
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:33,359
Speaker 1: Has been listening to a lot of Elvis a lot,

696
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,119
so that's good.

697
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:41,119
Speaker 4: Yeah. But the thing is like when we were kids, kids,

698
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,839
like when we were teenagers, oldies to like what's oldies

699
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,400
to them would have been like us listening to like, I'm.

700
00:31:48,279 --> 00:31:51,039
Speaker 3: Son he figured it out like the thirties, yeah, which

701
00:31:51,119 --> 00:31:55,079
is like what like he's listening to like the beginning

702
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:59,079
of Pink Floyd and led Zeppelin and he's figuring out

703
00:31:59,119 --> 00:32:02,400
the timeline. And he was like, so when you were sixteen,

704
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,200
be like if you were listening to music from the thirties, he.

705
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 4: Said, right, or but let's even let's even be more

706
00:32:08,279 --> 00:32:11,200
generous and now, like when we were like in the eighties,

707
00:32:11,279 --> 00:32:13,319
let's say we were listening to music from the fifties

708
00:32:13,519 --> 00:32:16,880
that was I remember me and my friend found these

709
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,160
old songs. One of them was called black Slacks, and

710
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,319
we would make ourselves listen to to our mom's old

711
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:26,920
records and we're like, it goes black Slacks, Black Backs.

712
00:32:27,119 --> 00:32:28,960
No no, no, no no no no no no, no,

713
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,200
no no, you know, and we're like, oh, this is fun,

714
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,160
Like we would listening to it, but not like out

715
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,400
with our friend. We're not going to be like listening

716
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,359
to it for pleasure, right of course, we were like

717
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,599
making ourselves like wide in our you know, we love

718
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,200
the fact that we knew certain songs that were from

719
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,599
the fifties and that was only thirty years.

720
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,599
Speaker 1: Yes, I know, I know it's weird.

721
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 4: I know, like we never would have been like listening

722
00:32:51,039 --> 00:32:56,279
to like Yeah Leaders and black rock and Lawrence Welk though.

723
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: We were like, oh this music from the thirty wow.

724
00:33:00,559 --> 00:33:03,519
Speaker 4: Right, yes, but these kids are having it's better. I

725
00:33:03,559 --> 00:33:06,640
think our age of music.

726
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: Was better, right, I agree.

727
00:33:08,359 --> 00:33:11,119
Speaker 4: And it still sounds I feel like it still sounds

728
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:14,359
almost sort of modern. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely, Like it

729
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,640
doesn't sound super dago or does it just not sound

730
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,400
dated to us because we listened to it.

731
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know, because the kids are the boys

732
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:22,920
are listening. You're talking about that like.

733
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,279
Speaker 4: The yeah, I'm talking about like our kids listening to

734
00:33:25,319 --> 00:33:28,519
like Rolling Stones. Does it sound as dated as like

735
00:33:28,559 --> 00:33:30,680
when we would turn on fifties music.

736
00:33:30,559 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: You don't feel like anything?

737
00:33:31,759 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 4: No, it doesn't, right, Kaelin.

738
00:33:33,279 --> 00:33:36,039
Speaker 2: No, I don't think so. I mean, you know, just

739
00:33:36,079 --> 00:33:38,039
because that kind of music was like just some of

740
00:33:38,079 --> 00:33:41,039
the best rock that was ever created, whereas that fifties

741
00:33:41,119 --> 00:33:43,880
music was like just such a completely different style of music.

742
00:33:44,079 --> 00:33:44,319
Speaker 1: Right.

743
00:33:44,359 --> 00:33:46,119
Speaker 2: You can listen back today and it's like, oh, it's

744
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,759
just like a rock band would play today. That was

745
00:33:48,839 --> 00:33:50,480
just what set the tone for it, whereas the fifties

746
00:33:50,559 --> 00:33:52,960
music was I mean that was just different music entire.

747
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yeah true.

748
00:33:56,079 --> 00:33:58,319
Speaker 2: I Mean when I listen to those kinds of songs,

749
00:33:58,319 --> 00:34:01,519
I don't think like, oh this is oldies music at all.

750
00:34:01,559 --> 00:34:03,680
But if I listened to something from the fifties, I'm like, oh, yeah,

751
00:34:03,759 --> 00:34:06,400
this is yeah that kind of do walk music, Like Okay,

752
00:34:06,519 --> 00:34:07,799
this is kind of oldies music.

753
00:34:08,199 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, But then everything now has like some kind of

754
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,159
like a hip hop bass, right, you know, some kind

755
00:34:14,159 --> 00:34:17,239
of yeah. And I don't mean a bass like a

756
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,159
bass guitar. I mean like the bass of the songs

757
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,760
is a lot of like it's a totally different genre,

758
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,480
feels like right right, yeah, but I don't know.

759
00:34:26,679 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, my phone is blowing up.

760
00:34:30,159 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 4: Who's calling you?

761
00:34:31,159 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 1: Because it's you.

762
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,199
Speaker 3: Know, it's a holiday. The kids are calling me work,

763
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:35,000
it's calling.

764
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:41,280
Speaker 4: Me so so update on my kids' school. Yes, I

765
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,079
think it's still it's going well.

766
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:43,639
Speaker 1: Yeah.

767
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 4: So when Sadie went to Portole and now I say

768
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:48,840
the name, because who cares? She doesn't you do it?

769
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,880
You guys don't know. I mean, she doesn't go to

770
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:52,440
the school name.

771
00:34:52,559 --> 00:34:53,280
Speaker 1: Don went there?

772
00:34:53,679 --> 00:34:56,679
Speaker 4: Oh really yeah, the typical big, big middle school in

773
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,159
the valley. So when she was when she went there,

774
00:34:59,559 --> 00:35:02,280
it took her I got to say, like at least

775
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,079
seven months before she even had one person who she

776
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,960
I found out she was speaking to that invited her

777
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,320
to do something. And remember it was the girls the

778
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,280
Build a Bear, Yes, the build a Bear plan. So

779
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:20,199
now she's at this new school and the other day

780
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,000
she was like, hey, can you take me to the mall?

781
00:35:22,039 --> 00:35:23,719
I told you this on the other show because Elbie

782
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:27,000
took her with my friend and I was like, okay,

783
00:35:27,159 --> 00:35:29,400
and I think I just assumed her friend was from

784
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,599
back from the other school and anyway, so I went

785
00:35:32,639 --> 00:35:35,079
and picked them up at the mall, and this girl

786
00:35:35,159 --> 00:35:40,480
was like adorable, like the cutest, like Sadie's height, and

787
00:35:41,199 --> 00:35:43,599
little glasses and like a little bit of makeup and

788
00:35:43,639 --> 00:35:45,320
like cute earrings and like, I don't.

789
00:35:45,199 --> 00:35:47,199
Speaker 1: Know, she was like such a normally cute kid.

790
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 4: And they were just like chit chit chattering in the

791
00:35:50,559 --> 00:35:54,800
car like a nice girl. But I did want to

792
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:56,519
say this, and I hope, I hope none of these

793
00:35:56,559 --> 00:35:59,599
people you're gonna, you're gonna, you're gonna totally understand what

794
00:35:59,599 --> 00:36:03,800
I mean. But like, what is it with other parents

795
00:36:04,079 --> 00:36:05,880
that don't volunteer.

796
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: To do jack shit?

797
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 4: I I don't understand none of these kids ever. And

798
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:14,400
I'm grateful. I just want to say I complain because

799
00:36:14,519 --> 00:36:18,480
it's a podcast, right, It's right, wouldn't be really that

800
00:36:18,679 --> 00:36:20,559
entertaining if I was just like, I just want to

801
00:36:20,599 --> 00:36:23,000
tell you everything I'm grateful for, right, So, like I'm

802
00:36:23,039 --> 00:36:25,840
grateful that my kids are starting to have some friends, right,

803
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,360
But I just want to vent about the fact that,

804
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:32,880
like they never ever have rides anywhere. Yes, either we

805
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,679
pick up and take home or nothing, or they don't

806
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:36,320
make the plane.

807
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:39,519
Speaker 3: I was in the same boat as you, same thing.

808
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,480
The parents just don't Where are these parents that are volunteering?

809
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,119
How come I'm the one that's always.

810
00:36:45,679 --> 00:36:46,639
Speaker 1: Going to pick them up?

811
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,679
Speaker 3: I mean I must have driven Sunny and Italia to

812
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:53,039
Disneyland and picked up a bunch of times over the summer.

813
00:36:53,079 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 1: This summer. Where's these parents your kids going to Disneyland?

814
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,119
You're just gonna let the other parents just take care

815
00:36:59,159 --> 00:37:01,719
of it? Like what what do you think? What's going on?

816
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 4: And by the way, so Sadie said, hey, can we

817
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,000
pick up my friend? She doesn't never ride? And so

818
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:11,719
Elbie went found this house, picked the girl up, took

819
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,360
her to the mall. You'd think maybe the parent would

820
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,360
be like, oh, I'll go get them at the mall,

821
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,320
right and drop your kid off. No, not only that,

822
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,199
but I start getting text from Sadie like later on

823
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:26,440
going hey, let's call this little girl, like Susie, Hey,

824
00:37:27,559 --> 00:37:30,239
what time are you going to get us? Because or

825
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,119
what like she was like okay, we're ready to be

826
00:37:32,119 --> 00:37:33,920
picked up, and then before I leave, she's like, hey,

827
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:35,960
what time are you going to get here, because Susie's

828
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,199
mom wants to know, like what time she's getting home.

829
00:37:38,679 --> 00:37:41,159
Speaker 1: And I was like, bitch, well, then have Susan's.

830
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,159
Speaker 4: Mom come get right, that's the other thing. But I'm

831
00:37:43,199 --> 00:37:45,280
like fine, So I go, well, I don't know I'm

832
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,239
leaving right now. I'll probably be there in like twelve minutes,

833
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:50,519
fifteen minutes, and then whatever time it takes to get

834
00:37:50,519 --> 00:37:52,320
her home. I don't even know her address at this point.

835
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,079
I don't know because I hadn't checked. Okay, so I go,

836
00:37:55,599 --> 00:37:58,480
I pick them up. I go, all right, you can

837
00:37:58,519 --> 00:38:00,079
tell your mom will be home at this time. I

838
00:38:01,159 --> 00:38:03,639
get the address, I go, it's like even a little

839
00:38:03,679 --> 00:38:06,159
bit hard to find. I drop her off, pull in

840
00:38:06,199 --> 00:38:08,400
the driveway, she gets out of the car, goes up

841
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,440
to the door. I see a person open the door

842
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:15,840
and doesn't poke her head or go like thank you,

843
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:19,400
no acknowledgment that somebody like I was like on my uber, right,

844
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,480
it's so did your kids just take an uber? Because

845
00:38:22,559 --> 00:38:26,519
so otherwise your daughter is with a new friend, Like

846
00:38:26,599 --> 00:38:28,519
you don't even know the parents, you don't know anything

847
00:38:28,559 --> 00:38:30,559
about it. She just got to ride both ways. You

848
00:38:30,639 --> 00:38:32,519
can't even poke your head up and be like.

849
00:38:32,639 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 1: How about a way?

850
00:38:33,519 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 4: How about I don't care if you flip me off something.

851
00:38:37,559 --> 00:38:41,280
Speaker 1: Ride home? I know, I know, it's so bizarre to me.

852
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 3: I would get I would also get the hey, can

853
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:44,679
you take us to the mall?

854
00:38:45,039 --> 00:38:45,519
Speaker 1: Okay?

855
00:38:45,639 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 3: Can you pick us back up and get my friend

856
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,000
home by seven? Because she needs to be home by seven?

857
00:38:50,119 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 2: Right?

858
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: What why?

859
00:38:52,159 --> 00:38:54,559
Speaker 3: Well, I was like, well, then have her mother come

860
00:38:54,599 --> 00:38:55,440
get her?

861
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 4: Right?

862
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 1: Why do I have to do it on your timeline?

863
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:58,119
Speaker 3: Right?

864
00:38:58,199 --> 00:39:00,119
Speaker 4: But then I feel like I have to because as

865
00:39:00,119 --> 00:39:03,360
a special safe with Xander's he hasn't like he's been

866
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,639
working on having more friends and like right, So I'm

867
00:39:06,679 --> 00:39:09,719
like I feel this way about like, well, beggars can't

868
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:12,199
be choosers. If he's like, well, this person can come,

869
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,559
but they can't their parents can't drive them. It's like,

870
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,920
all right, well, I guess we'll have to If that happened,

871
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,239
then I gotta go pick them up.

872
00:39:19,559 --> 00:39:20,519
Speaker 1: And but then same thing.

873
00:39:20,559 --> 00:39:22,199
Speaker 4: Then you get them somewhere and it's like they can't

874
00:39:22,199 --> 00:39:24,639
pick them up either, Like they can't like nope.

875
00:39:24,679 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: And it'll be freaking far oh yeah, oh yeah.

876
00:39:28,119 --> 00:39:31,519
Speaker 4: It's another one from last night. Xander's friend. The girl

877
00:39:31,599 --> 00:39:33,760
needed a ride back home, and it was John. John

878
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:35,639
had done the first leg of the drive because I

879
00:39:35,679 --> 00:39:39,159
was at this barbecue and John's like, by the way,

880
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,159
like when this girl needs to be taken back home,

881
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,599
it's far, Like it's really far.

882
00:39:45,039 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 1: That's bullshit. It is such both.

883
00:39:47,559 --> 00:39:50,280
Speaker 3: You know what else too, like Natalia will do, uh,

884
00:39:50,679 --> 00:39:52,559
we're gonna go them Saturday, we want to go to

885
00:39:52,559 --> 00:39:54,639
the mall, so can you take us, take us and

886
00:39:54,679 --> 00:39:57,039
pick us up, and then I'll go. I do, I'm

887
00:39:57,039 --> 00:39:59,400
doing both. I'll take you, but then somebody's got to

888
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,079
pick you up, or I'll pick you up. Somebody's got

889
00:40:01,079 --> 00:40:03,400
to take you. And then she's like, well nobody can

890
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,000
do it, and I'm like, well, then you can't go,

891
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:09,239
and miraculously little Susie's.

892
00:40:08,639 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 1: Mom will come and pay.

893
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 3: There's but for the most part that I've tried that

894
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:14,920
a few times and then it's like they can't go

895
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,400
because they don't have anybody going and picking up right, right,

896
00:40:17,679 --> 00:40:18,480
I don't get it.

897
00:40:18,639 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 4: And then my kids will do nothing.

898
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,159
Speaker 3: Right and it's a Saturday or it's a Sunday. Don't

899
00:40:23,159 --> 00:40:24,920
tell me you're that busy you can't write.

900
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:27,199
Speaker 4: And then I'm like, well, you have not that busy,

901
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,039
Like even though even though I am, because I'm like

902
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,039
I'm I'm trying to write a book. I've got, like,

903
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,920
you know, other kids that I'm trying to deal with.

904
00:40:36,079 --> 00:40:38,880
I might have like a podcast. I have to like

905
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,679
teach a class. Like a lot of times when I'm teaching,

906
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,559
then I'm just like, I'm sorry, I'm out right, but

907
00:40:43,639 --> 00:40:44,440
you got to figure it out.

908
00:40:44,519 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

909
00:40:45,079 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 4: But if I'm not teaching, then I'm like, oh, I

910
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,280
speaking of teaching. By the way, I have a Tuesday

911
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:54,000
class that still has some openings if anybody wants to

912
00:40:54,039 --> 00:40:58,599
take my memoir writing class, which is so at memore writing.

913
00:40:59,199 --> 00:41:00,800
I'm gonna teach you how to right about your life.

914
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:05,239
It's really fun. They're swearing involved. It's from It starts

915
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,920
at five pm the Tuesday one goes from like five

916
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,199
to seven Pacific time. It's over zoom.

917
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:12,519
Speaker 1: Just reach out to me.

918
00:41:12,639 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 4: It's on Facebook or that's awesome. Stephanie Wilder tailor at

919
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:16,840
gmail dot com.

920
00:41:17,079 --> 00:41:17,599
Speaker 1: That's awesome.

921
00:41:17,679 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 4: Get more info. It starts September twentieth.

922
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:21,159
Speaker 1: Oh, it's coming up.

923
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's coming up in the next couple of weeks

924
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,199
it starts, so do that.

925
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,079
Speaker 1: Lot all right, everybody, well, thank you

926
00:41:28,599 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 4: And uh yeah you're a pair now, don't have it enough,

927
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:37,199
letting go