Speaker 1: Made a decision.
Speaker 2: Oh face sunny sun on.
Speaker 1: I had a vision.
Speaker 2: Night.
Speaker 1: What's up, everybody?
Speaker 3: Welcome to for Crime outlouds It's Crime Outlast.
Speaker 1: It's Friday, Friday. Wait it was Friday, it's Monday. Uh yeah.
Speaker 3: Last night I was watching have you seen this the
Taylor the Taylor Hawkins Tribute Contents concerts?
Speaker 4: I didn't. I saw that. It's that.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I got sun.
Speaker 4: I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I was. I was.
Speaker 3: Yesterday was Sunday and I was tired. The kids were
gone off doing their own thing. I was home alone
and I was like, I'm gonna watch a movie. I
watched The Stanford Experiment.
Speaker 1: Is that? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did you see that?
Speaker 4: I did?
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: It was good about what the psychologists did at Stanford
set up prison and guards.
Speaker 4: Some of them the prisoners and some of them the guards.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it was really good watch that.
And while I was watching that, I got a text
from my nephew Nick, who knows I love the Food Fighters,
and was like, oh my god, Anti Lenna, are you
watching the Taylor And I was like, how are you
watching this where? And he was like, it's on Paramount.
So of course I got a download the Paramount app
and I'm like trying to sign it, so I have
the parents. So I get Paramount and then I wasn't
I wasn't expecting, you know. I was like, okay, I'll
watch a little bit of it. I started to watch it.
I was bawling.
Speaker 1: It gave me chills.
Speaker 3: It gave me all the feels like Dave Grohl saying, uh,
He's saying times like these, and and they show like
him and Taylor Hawkins Hawkins, Taylor Yeah, up on the
big screen behind him and he and the audience is
singing with him, and he just started ball he started
crying and it made me cry. I was like, oh
my god, oh my god, so good. And then late
and then so I was telling Nick that and he goes, oh,
wait till you see Taylor Hawkin's.
Speaker 1: Son on the drums.
Speaker 3: And so later in the concert they played the song
here there goes My.
Speaker 1: He and he played the drums. He's like sixteen, he's.
Speaker 4: So who was playing the drums the whole time?
Speaker 3: It was a whole bunch of different artists, Paul McCartney,
Christy Hines from The Pretenders, the guy from a CD.
Speaker 1: So they all, you know, metallic all like.
Speaker 3: Different members of bands were playing, like the drums. There
was one song they did with a bunch of drums
behind them. It was like they showed They didn't show
the whole concert. They were showing highlights. So as far
as I saw, so for this song, it was it
was his son, you know. I mean I could show,
I could show you the video, but I know this
is a podcast, but it was. I just it gave
me chills. And this kid killed it. I mean he
killed it like he can. You just show a little bit.
I just just and we'll put it up on our thing.
Speaker 1: This is the beginning.
Speaker 4: Look, oh my god, killing you. Okay, Kylen, show the
other clip. He's amazing.
Speaker 1: I know now. Now we'll put it up. You'll see it.
Go to our facebook page. You'll see it. Look at that.
Speaker 3: Dave Bowl is facing him.
Speaker 1: And he's smiling.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Okay, how fucking I have chills.
Speaker 1: I chills, chills, chill, chills.
Speaker 3: I mean, you gotta Oh it was so good.
Speaker 1: I was screaming in my bedroom.
Speaker 3: I'm like, holy shit, I did not expect that to
come out of this little kid. Wow, that's his dad,
you know, Oh my god, it was so good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 4: And then this makes me feel kind of shitty about myself,
like when I'm like, you know what I mean when
you see like if you're watching American Idol or The
Voice or anything like that and you see like a
kid who's there, they're like, I'm thirteen, and then you're like,
I will never achieve a quarter of the greatness my
verson's already, Like how right?
Speaker 1: I know?
Speaker 4: And you know it's not sometimes it's not just natural talents,
like you can tell that they work really hard and
they're smart.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm a loser. I know, I know.
Speaker 4: How did I just make that about me? But it's
so beautiful, Like his dad is a drummer, so you
just go, Wow, that shit is in your blood, right,
his blood?
Speaker 1: What'd you think that was? Yeah?
Speaker 2: That was incredible. That was amazing. And yeah, I'm sure
you can find the video online, but for those of
you listening, you should go watch that because I'd never
even seen it before and I'm in now I'm wanting
to watch the rest of the video now.
Speaker 1: Oh it's so good, so good. Yeah, anyway, it was.
Speaker 3: It was a really like and so Sonny by the way,
before Sonny loves music, and before he left the house,
he comes in my room to talk to me. He's
wearing a shirt of what is it? He got it
from Target. I think it's led Up.
Speaker 1: I can't remember.
Speaker 3: I think it was led Zeppelin at Wimbley Stadium, which
is where that concert was.
Speaker 1: And he asked me where the stadium. He goes, YEA,
that's it. I said it's in London. He goes, That's
what I thought.
Speaker 3: And then he was like, you know, it sucks because
all the bands I love I can't see in concert
because he went to that shitty concert at the Rose
Bowl that sucked, and we were talking about that. He goes,
I would love to be able to see like you know,
Rush or Queen or.
Speaker 1: Uh, led Zeppelin or what.
Speaker 3: You know, pining fluid like he's like all these bands,
and I go, well, you got the food. This is
before I heard from Nicholas. I said, well, you got
the food fighters. Whenever they come back, I don't know
if they're going to be playing.
Speaker 1: I had no idea.
Speaker 4: What's his name? Robert Plant was just like the Hollywood Bowl.
Speaker 3: Yes, and uh, the singer Roger Waters is coming to town.
So he said that he goes, I want to see
Roger Waters. I want to go to his concert. I
was like, okay, well I guess I'll look into it. Whatever,
and then and.
Speaker 1: Then he left.
Speaker 3: I wanted and then he left, and then Nick sent
me that text and I was like, Sonny, when are
you coming home? I want to show you something and anyway,
and then Nick was like, well, they're coming to that.
They're going to do the show in Los Angeles at
the end of September, the Food Fighters that that whole show. Yeah,
the Taylor Hawkins tribute. Oh they are, Yeah, that's what
he said. Oh, so now I want to look into it.
Speaker 1: Now. It's like, Sonny went to that.
Speaker 4: The Food Fighters should tour with this with Taylor Hawk.
Speaker 1: I know that's what I was thinking. But he's so young.
Speaker 4: He's in school, Like so what quit school? Yeah, a
little baby face school on the road. Yeah, what a
what kind of opportunity squandering would that be? If you
were like, no, I'm sorry, I'm going grade.
Speaker 1: Yeah, going to my going to tour with the Food Fighters? Yeah,
do you imagine?
Speaker 4: Yeah, school of hard Knocks, get your I mean that
would be so cool.
Speaker 1: What an opportunity?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean tons of kids leave school to go
perform Broadway shows and like, I mean, come on, yeah,
come on, I mean be movie stars. It's no different.
Speaker 3: I bet you he is gonna eventually he must because
Jesus Christ, that kid can play.
Speaker 1: He should play with the food fighters.
Speaker 4: There would be such a huge draw for them too,
not that there are not already a huge draw.
Speaker 1: Right right, So anyway, Yeah, it was a that was
Monday night.
Speaker 4: Lesson night was exciting you ever you ever scrolling through,
like you know, you're online and you see a video
and or you see like a thing like a link
to a story. Yeah, and even though it's sponsored, You're like,
this is like I kind of want to know, you know,
it'll like very click baby, yes, cause, uh I came
upon one the other day that was about this dog
that the headline was like this pregnant dog won't give
birth for like the craziest reason, and I'm like, I
don't know, like I want to know more, right, Like
have you seen this.
Speaker 2: Kaitlin, I have not only seen this, but I saw
someone online like screenshotted this click baity article and then
had it like it was like this dog won't give
birth for the craziest reason this horse won't give birth,
for the crazy reason this pig won't get and it
was just all these different animals at the same exact headline.
Speaker 4: Yeah. So, so I saw the dog one for and
I was like, okay, all right, I'm gonna just see
I'm gonna just go to the link and see if
I can figure it out quicker, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So Also, sometimes you can go into the comments and
they'll tell you what they'll skip to the reason, like
you know. But I go in the thing and it's like, okay,
there's going to be like fifty slide and I'm not
exaggerating because you click on it and it says, okay,
this guy had this dog and it was very pregnant
and it wouldn't give birth, and so the guy's like okay,
oh my gosh. The guy takes it to the vet.
And then the real clickbaity part was that the vet
called the police. And then they're like, do you want
to know why? And I'm like, yes, I do. So
I go to the next slide. Well, then they have
to take you back to the beginning of the story,
like they go, all right, well, if you want to
know why the police had to get involved. We got
to tell you how they even got the dog in
the first place. And to tell you how they got
the dog in the first place, you need to know
that they had another dog that they loved very much.
This man and like his wife had this other dog.
Now their dog passed away. They wanted to get another
dog because they love this dog so much, so they
really wanted to get a sibling. They had gotten this
dog from a breeder.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.
Speaker 4: They wanted to get a dog from the same family
line because they love this dog so much. So they
there was this other dog, and then they wanted that
dog to have to breed. So they went to this
the dog. They brought it to this doctor and the
doctor was like, I can get the dog pregnant. And
this is a really long story. And then you're like, okay,
all right, let me get to the next slide. You're like, okay,
all right. So then they got the doctor that vet
got the dog pregnant. They're like, okay, good to go.
Now this dog's pregnant. And then the dog, now the
dog's pregnant, but it won't give birth.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: But what you also need to know and then it
was like slide after slide and I'm like, oh my god,
like this is so many slides.
Speaker 1: This is my whole afternoon.
Speaker 4: But now I'm super hooked in. Right. So then, Okay,
you probably wondering like what happened? Why didn't the dog
want to give birth? And I'll tell you it's because
the doctor who got their dog the dog pregnant, inserted
a microchip to track like because they they they they
implanted the babies. The puppies were going to be these
super valuable dogs. So this vet was like not scrupulous.
The guy who helped get the dog pregnant was not scrupulous,
and he was going to track the puppies and then
try to get them back and sell them for like
a lot of money. And I was like what. So
I was like, okay, but why wouldn't the dog get birth?
Did the dog know that there were micro ships in
there in its belly? And then they're like and then
the vet that they took it to was like had
heard about this doctor, Like it was so confoluted, right,
So then at the end, I'm like, okay, so the
microchips in there and I still don't really understand. Then
the very last slide, They're like and then the oh.
Speaker 1: So then they they.
Speaker 4: Figured it out and they got the they got the
puppies out. They had to do a cesarean section, and
they get the puppies out, and then they asked the
guy like, do you want to keep the puppy even
though it's got the it's this strange microchip situation, and
or you could sell it and make a lot of money.
And the guy's like, no, I want to keep the
puppy because of the bloodline, and we love this We're
gonna love this dog and give it a great life.
And then at the very very end, it says this
story is a work of fiction. Oh my god, they're
all fictional. What they're fictional? And I was like, I was,
I was yelling at my computer. I was like, you
stole forty five minutes of my time. I was so,
I was like, fictional.
Speaker 1: What what the ever?
Speaker 4: Never please it for them because it's all ads on
every page. Every time you click you have to like
X out like whatever ad. It's all pop ups the
whole time.
Speaker 3: I would have given up the third slide and this
is like, well, I guess I'm never going to know.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and then I googled this thing because I
was actually going to talk about it, like a couple
of weeks ago, because I was still mad. I was
all heated up about it. My bean was steamed.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: And then when I googled it, like Cayln said, I
found Oh, this horse won't give birth, this pig won't
give birth.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, this.
Speaker 4: Is just a thing that's going around and people like
us just get hooked, like I all right, I gotta know.
Speaker 1: But did you buy? I never knew.
Speaker 4: I never found out because it wasn't even fucking true.
Speaker 1: Did you did you buy any ads?
Speaker 3: Like did you did you get like a no?
Speaker 1: No? But I I did buy a repellent or whatever.
Speaker 4: I a bra I'm wearing it right now. It's like
a stretchy because you know, I can't go back to
the underwire bras. And I clicked on a I saw
a bra ad for like people like me who gained
some weight during COVID and can't fit into their bras,
and I clicked on one. It was like a pretty color,
it was this color. Yeah, buying it?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: And then I ended up getting like thirteen thousand ads
for the same bra. But from different companies. Well, I know,
so now every time I scroll on my Facebook it's
just all ads for Bras and I'm like, yeah, I
already bought it, I know, own it. And then of
course I went to another company it's called like Parade
because there was because because I was getting all the ads,
I was like, okay, well this one's a pretty color too, right,
I bought another one and it was super shitty like quality.
It was like terrible, Yeah, what is it?
Speaker 3: It's our boyfriend algorithm, that's that's fucking with us. I
bought Sunny a pair of like cool board shorts that
I saw on Instagram.
Speaker 4: Uh huh that were real.
Speaker 3: I was like, he needs new, he needs like he
needs uh the like shorts to go swimming. Yeah, because
he's wearing the same ones over He's got one pair.
So I was like, oh, I'll get those. These are
now all of a sudden, al thinks I want to
buy boys trunks swim trunks. So all day long, that's
all I want to do, is I hear. I was like,
hear you like that, look look at this company.
Speaker 1: Look at that them. You're like, I don't need anymore.
Stop Like how do you stop?
Speaker 4: It like why You're like, oh, I get it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know you love.
Speaker 4: Me, and I know you want you want what I want.
You're you just started looking out for my interests, but
like you gotta stop.
Speaker 1: Enough of the board shorts. So I bought a care
for it.
Speaker 4: No, I know that's what and you know it's another one.
If you go on to Poshmark and our front terra
will we'll attest to what's up.
Speaker 1: With Poshmark by the way, So Poshmark.
Speaker 4: Is all good, you know, if you want to buy
stuff that's used. So like, let's say, because because I
wanted to buy myself some board shorts to go over
my bathing suit so that my cellulate wasn't hanging out
everywhere when I was at Lake Gregory catching COVID.
Speaker 1: Right, So you go.
Speaker 4: On Poshmark and I'm like, okay, let me look for
some board shorts. But if you click away from it, oh,
they will email you and they'll be like, hey, hey,
we've noticed that you kind of like these light blue
board shorts. How about we give you a two dollars
off shipping.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like.
Speaker 4: Right, yeah, I can't even look at something for one
second without you being like I see you want that, right, No,
I didn't want it. I just clicked by it. It's
not even the right size for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, with me alone. They're like, don't let it get away.
Speaker 4: While you're at it, how about this coach bag?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: No, I wanted to buy myself a nice purse off
of Poshmark. So I bought this like small pat leather
red like old Louis Vauton for like one hundred and
something like twenty bucks or something. I thought it would
be like a decent size. I get it and it's
the size of a wallet.
Speaker 1: It's a wristlet. It's like what am I?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I was like, wait a minute, I paid over one
hundred dollars for this. This it's like for a Barbie doll,
Like it's not a purse. Yeah, Like what am I gonna?
I thought this was it?
Speaker 3: They may get it's on like the picture and I'm
sure they gave the dimension.
Speaker 1: But who's good.
Speaker 4: Who's getting out of tape measure and going let me
look exactly what that size is.
Speaker 1: You're like, it's supposed to be a purse.
Speaker 3: Right, They need to put a picture of it, like
you know, in real life, like with a person holding
it so you can.
Speaker 4: See a newspaper day, right, So like, no, they don't
do that because they know they're going to lose like
eighty nine percent of their business.
Speaker 3: So I was like, and now Poshmark's like, oh, you
like this person, you want this person, you want that.
Speaker 1: I keep getting emails and I'm like, all right, I
had to like stop unsubscribe.
Speaker 3: Or whatever because I kept getting every single day and
email from Poshmark.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh, I'm constantly unsubscribing first stuff, Mecha said, and
we I know we've talked about this before. But when
it comes up in your email, like I have gmails,
so it comes up on the top and it will
say do you want to unsubscribe? And I'll hit yes,
But that doesn't actually unsubscribe you. You have to actually
go down and this.
Speaker 1: They do this to you on purpose.
Speaker 4: You can't unsubscribe where it says unsubscribe.
Speaker 1: They're tricking you.
Speaker 4: They're like, you thought you unsubscribe, are going to send
you twice as many Yeah, actually just changed your preferences
to like fourteen times a day. So you have to
scroll all the way to the bottom of the email
and then it says it'll be in the tiniest, tiniest,
tiniest letters, even way smaller than the ones at the top.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 4: It'll be like do you want to unsubscribe? And then
you're like yeah, so you click on that and they're like, oh,
you want to change your preferences right, don't want to
another Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a oh I was.
Speaker 4: Trying to cancel out of. And I should just tell you.
So we had a we had a product.
Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm going to say? I think so.
Speaker 4: So we had a product something that we were doing
ads for and we had to give our payment information
it's like a year ago, and they said no, no, no,
don't worry, it's free.
Speaker 1: You just give you just have to put.
Speaker 4: Your payment information just so that we can clear shipping
or whatever. And after this, you remember, Kaitlin, I was like,
no more, not doing that anymore. Yeah, getting so they
so they kept sending me the product and I was like,
I guess they're sending me like six months worth of
this product. And they kept sending it to me and
then turned out no, they were like, oh, heym, your
card was declined. You need to update like your uh
expiration data and you need to update your card, and
I was like, the hell, I'm going to update my
card and then it turned out they've been charging me
for an entire year. Uh. And then I was like, well, okay,
first of all, even though my card is not working anymore,
you know, leave it to these people to figure out
a right, like to just keep trying it until they're like,
all right, we'll let you pay, you know. So I
go to cancel. They won't let you cancel.
Speaker 1: They're like, hmmm, not so fast.
Speaker 4: They're like, if you really want to cancel, you need
to talk to the dermatologist first. And I was like,
the hell, I'm talking to a.
Speaker 1: Dermatol what right?
Speaker 4: And then it's just they're trying to trick you. They're
trying to get you to not quit. So I'm like no, no, no.
So then you go to their payment page and then
there's small small letters like do you want to cancel?
You hit yes. Then they go, m how about how
about you talk to the dermatologists. No, I want to cancel.
Speaker 1: They're like, how about we just send you?
Speaker 4: How about we send you how about you just put
it on pause? No I want to cancel.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 4: How about we just give you twenty percent off, No, right,
how about right now? And then they're like, do you
really want to cancel? And then they're like, okay, one
more step, we have to verify your canceling. You know,
just give us your pin number to just give us
the new card and then we'll let you cancel.
Speaker 3: It's like, oh my god, it's maddening. I have this
whole issue with credit cards right now. That's first of all,
let's talk about something.
Speaker 4: So speaking of concerts, Albe just went to the weekend
at the Sofi.
Speaker 2: I heard I know someone that went to that one too.
Speaker 1: I know people that went to that. Yeah. But guess what.
Speaker 4: Albie went on Friday night, not on Saturday night.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay.
Speaker 4: So Elbe goes to the concert and first of all,
she her school was off on Friday. They had a
four day weekend instead of a three day weekend, so
she wanted to get a new outfit to wear the concert,
and she dragged me to them all with her. You know, listen,
you don't have to ask me. Twice. I was like,
go spend time with my girl. Yeah, and it was
really funny. I thought you might appreciate this. You know,
this girl is all about like she used to be
so modest and now she's just like hoing it up,
you know, And I had it was everything. I was like,
don't don't like, if she's feeling good about her body,
let her feel good about her body, Like it's not
for me to be like, oh, you're really going to
wear that, shouldn't you be covered up more? The only
thing I did say she wanted a little skirt.
Speaker 1: She wanted to wear a skirt.
Speaker 4: And like a halter top, like she wanted to really
do it up. Yeah, And I was like okay. And
then I found myself kind of getting in the spirit
of the thing and I was like, look at this,
this is pretty slutty, and she would just laugh and
she's like, oh, yeah, that's cute. I was like, look
at this top, this is hoye. She was like, yeah,
that's cute. She and then anyway, so she ended up
picking out an outfit, and I'm telling you, I was
so good about the only thing. I was like, do
you think you might get cold and want to like
just bring something to the little cover up like for
when you're And she was like, no, probably not, it's.
Speaker 1: Pretty hot up. Yeah I know. I said the same
thing in Natalia. The other day she was going out
and I was like.
Speaker 4: Okay, like a trench coat.
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't you want to get it? Where's one of
your overside sweatshirts?
Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like, mom's one hundred and ten degrees out.
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, but you're going down, like to
sell self based like, that's.
Speaker 1: Going to go down, it's going to get cold.
Speaker 4: Inglewood's a little little shit's a bomby ninety eight at night.
Speaker 1: So the other.
Speaker 4: News is that she was like I she was going
to drive, and I was like, so freaked out for
her because I'm like, oh, yeah, drive to Inglewood with
her friends because she's been driving a year, so she's
legal after eleven. I think I might have told you
this last week. I was, but I was like, okay,
you're gonna She was like, I'm gonna go to my
friend's house and we're all gonna get the car. We're
going to drive to Englewood. We already pre bought a
parking space. Buy parking spaces. Now. I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good.
Speaker 4: She gets to save the trauma that I always have
when I'm like, wait, we're at UCSD and there's we're
eighteen miles away from the actual campus, and then I
have to download an app?
Speaker 1: What she buy it?
Speaker 4: She's mature bypasses all that they got themselves. So anyway,
I was like, this was me projecting my own neurosis.
I was like, okay, but like, first of all, make
sure you take a picture where you're parked. Ah, not
that she's gonna get murdered like in Inglewood, but more like,
but what if you.
Speaker 1: Can't find your car? Yes, she's like, but you know
what was great?
Speaker 4: She kind of understood it. She was like, Mom, don't worry.
I'm with My friends that I'm with are are the
same way. We're gonna take lots of pictures.
Speaker 1: Of where we're parked. We're all like on it.
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, but a lot of times when
somebody else is driving me, I'm like.
Speaker 1: Whoa, yeah, where I park? Right? I know who cares
where we are? I don't know. I care like, get
out of the car, start walking. I don't think twice
about it. I'm like, you got this, you're driving, not me.
My problem? No, we have to go back, and I'm like,
I what, I don't know? I don't know, problem problem?
Who's got the problem.
Speaker 4: So Elvi was like, no, Mom, my friends are not
like that.
Speaker 1: I told her that.
Speaker 4: I was like, Elvi, I'm just saying I don't really
care where people park when I'm not the one driving.
She's like, no, no, no, But my friends were all
paranoid like that. And I was like, and if you're
going to go to the bathroom, like go and you
go together, like do not. I don't want you leaving
the herd, like don't, don't be off by yourself, and
don't I don't want you going to get like a pretzel,
like I'll go. No no, She was like, don't worry, Mom,
leave me with this anyway. So they went and they
had a great time. And the only thing I will
say about my own paranoia was that she went her
phone was not charged up, but she knew I was
going to be worried about that, so she was like, Mom,
I know, you know, because I go on like through
sixty my phone's about to die. She goes, but don't worry, Like,
as soon as I get back to the car, I'll
charge it. You have her friend Hannah, I have her number.
She was like, it's all good. So then she texted
me when she got back to the car. She was like,
I'm in the car. It's all good. And then I
went to sleep. And then John like followed her, watched
her drive home. He was like, of course there's stuff
at McDonald's. He's like giving me the play by play. Yeah, okay.
So she gets home, she's like, everything was great, except
for we had like the worst seats.
Speaker 1: We were so far away.
Speaker 4: Next day, her another one of her friends was going
with two of her friends and they got these bomb
seats and she was so jealous. She was having the
worst FOMO. She was like, oh, my friend got tickets
and they got like amazing seeds and I'm like so mad.
They didn't even spend that much more money than we spent.
And then she came home and she was like shut
and front. She was like, mom, guess what. The Weekend
bailed after like two.
Speaker 1: Songs, I know, And didn't he like show up two
hours late? Didn't they?
Speaker 3: They started the show from when I heard, like really
late two hours Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well he was late for her night too though,
but yeah, apparently the second night, the opener came out,
performed some producer, and then the Weekend finally came out. Yeah,
and then played a couple of songs and was like,
oh my voice.
Speaker 1: That's so sorry.
Speaker 4: I think give you the show, and Elbie was like, mom,
there were like massive amounts of like celebrities there, like
it was like.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's awful.
Speaker 4: Wow. Yeah, did you hear any other gossip about it?
Speaker 3: That's all I heard was he was really late and
did like two songs and was that well.
Speaker 4: Remember people played the super Bowl.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I was like, over Rady.
Speaker 1: Just have like one song. I don't know. Does he
have like a whole album collection. I don't know. I'm
sure the kids know, but I only know one song.
Speaker 4: I mean I do think I do too, save it for.
Speaker 1: Save your Tears for a Day. I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's like it's not a good song. I don't like
any weekend songs.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't even know any I couldn't tell you
the names. I just I've heard, like in the car,
I'll look down when a song is on and I'll
see the weekend.
Speaker 4: Yeah you heard your song, and you're like, I don't
like this song, and then you look and it's like, oh,
of course it's by the weekend. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I have the same problem with post malone. So there's
one song and it circles like that song.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like that song. But then I was like,
so maybe I do like post Malone. So I started
listening to other songs. I was like, next, we like
it sounds like he's auto tuning himself constantly, Like.
Speaker 4: Oh, that's like a thing. That's a certain songs and
I hate it, hate it. It's horrible. Yeah, that's not me.
Speaker 3: Don't have to condition my children to that horror. That's bullshit,
that's horrible. Yeah, that's I don't want my kids listening
to this.
Speaker 4: And then don't you feel sort of old and you're
like you like this? Like then I feel like I'm
like some grandma going get off my lad.
Speaker 1: I got.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would rather hear Wet Ass Pussy at least
like you can, like she's like song, like she's got
lyrics and stuff and whatever. But like, but like with
the auto tuning, it's so awful.
Speaker 1: It's really bad.
Speaker 3: It's and I don't want my kids getting a judged
like listening like thinking.
Speaker 1: That's okay, it's not okay.
Speaker 4: You know. Uh, last night I went to a little
bar I went to a barbecue last night. Yeah, it
was really fun and uh, the one of Elbie's friends,
Elbe couldn't go because she was at work, but I
was with a bunch of my mom friends and a
bunch of their teen kids did come. The teens. Yeah,
I sound like I'm in up with people. Hey teens.
So one of those teens offered to drive me and
my friend Cecily home, and we were laughing. We were
laughing about it because so we're like, I don't like
driving with teenagers, Like I don't like you know, he
hasn't had his license a full year, but we were like,
but he was. This was so cute. He was so
into driving us.
Speaker 1: So he was like, you guys.
Speaker 4: His name is Jack.
Speaker 1: He's like the sweetest kid. He was like, do you
guys want to drive with me?
Speaker 4: Because our other friend the parents were going to drive us,
but we were gonna have to crowd in to their
like Ford Flex with We're going to be like, you know,
six and seven passengers. So we're like, I was like
all right, and he was like.
Speaker 1: You will, you'll drive with me? Cool?
Speaker 4: And then so he goes, oh, if you guys drive
with me, then my girlfriend can drive with me too,
because her parents don't let her drive with me because
I haven't my license a full year. But since you're licensed,
she dragged me. So I tell the parents of this girl.
I was like, they said, all right, and I was like,
don't worry, I'm going to backseat drive, right, you know,
make sure things are on up and up. So we
get in the car and we were laughing so hard.
First of all, it was so cute because it was
such tea.
Speaker 1: He was like, yes, lit'll go. That's cute.
Speaker 4: And then he was playing old Rolling Stones and David Bowie.
It was all my music.
Speaker 1: We love. That's awesome.
Speaker 4: It was all from my art and Cecily and I
were like, oh my god, Like you have good taste
in music. He's like, this is all I've been listening
to lately. I don't even like the new shit. Yeah,
but I forgot what the Bowie song was that he
was playing, but it was like a great song. He
was like blasting it up. And then we started having
so much fun. I was like, we started giving him
like telling him really bad driving tips, Like we were like,
all right, change lanes, don't check.
Speaker 1: Your blind spot, Like, oh my god.
Speaker 4: He was like, shut up, you guys. We were like
throwing the brakes right. I was like, I'm sorry, but
I told your mom I was gonna help with the.
Speaker 1: Back beat it up. We're late. Yeah, it was really fair.
Speaker 3: It's weird that boys have good tasted from what I'm experiencing,
have by and Sonny's got friends that like that music too,
So boys have a better taste. I don't know from
what I'm experiencing. Natalia's side of things and sunny side
of things way better to be with Sonny and his
friends in the car than Italian are. Although I will
say Natali.
Speaker 1: Has been listening to a lot of Elvis a lot,
so that's good.
Speaker 4: Yeah. But the thing is like when we were kids, kids,
like when we were teenagers, oldies to like what's oldies
to them would have been like us listening to like, I'm.
Speaker 3: Son he figured it out like the thirties, yeah, which
is like what like he's listening to like the beginning
of Pink Floyd and led Zeppelin and he's figuring out
the timeline. And he was like, so when you were sixteen,
be like if you were listening to music from the thirties, he.
Speaker 4: Said, right, or but let's even let's even be more
generous and now, like when we were like in the eighties,
let's say we were listening to music from the fifties
that was I remember me and my friend found these
old songs. One of them was called black Slacks, and
we would make ourselves listen to to our mom's old
records and we're like, it goes black Slacks, Black Backs.
No no, no, no no no no no no, no,
no no, you know, and we're like, oh, this is fun,
Like we would listening to it, but not like out
with our friend. We're not going to be like listening
to it for pleasure, right of course, we were like
making ourselves like wide in our you know, we love
the fact that we knew certain songs that were from
the fifties and that was only thirty years.
Speaker 1: Yes, I know, I know it's weird.
Speaker 4: I know, like we never would have been like listening
to like Yeah Leaders and black rock and Lawrence Welk though.
Speaker 1: We were like, oh this music from the thirty wow.
Speaker 4: Right, yes, but these kids are having it's better. I
think our age of music.
Speaker 1: Was better, right, I agree.
Speaker 4: And it still sounds I feel like it still sounds
almost sort of modern. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely, Like it
doesn't sound super dago or does it just not sound
dated to us because we listened to it.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know, because the kids are the boys
are listening. You're talking about that like.
Speaker 4: The yeah, I'm talking about like our kids listening to
like Rolling Stones. Does it sound as dated as like
when we would turn on fifties music.
Speaker 1: You don't feel like anything?
Speaker 4: No, it doesn't, right, Kaelin.
Speaker 2: No, I don't think so. I mean, you know, just
because that kind of music was like just some of
the best rock that was ever created, whereas that fifties
music was like just such a completely different style of music.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: You can listen back today and it's like, oh, it's
just like a rock band would play today. That was
just what set the tone for it, whereas the fifties
music was I mean that was just different music entire.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yeah true.
Speaker 2: I Mean when I listen to those kinds of songs,
I don't think like, oh this is oldies music at all.
But if I listened to something from the fifties, I'm like, oh, yeah,
this is yeah that kind of do walk music, Like Okay,
this is kind of oldies music.
Speaker 4: Yeah, But then everything now has like some kind of
like a hip hop bass, right, you know, some kind
of yeah. And I don't mean a bass like a
bass guitar. I mean like the bass of the songs
is a lot of like it's a totally different genre,
feels like right right, yeah, but I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, my phone is blowing up.
Speaker 4: Who's calling you?
Speaker 1: Because it's you.
Speaker 3: Know, it's a holiday. The kids are calling me work,
it's calling.
Speaker 4: Me so so update on my kids' school. Yes, I
think it's still it's going well.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So when Sadie went to Portole and now I say
the name, because who cares? She doesn't you do it?
You guys don't know. I mean, she doesn't go to
the school name.
Speaker 1: Don went there?
Speaker 4: Oh really yeah, the typical big, big middle school in
the valley. So when she was when she went there,
it took her I got to say, like at least
seven months before she even had one person who she
I found out she was speaking to that invited her
to do something. And remember it was the girls the
Build a Bear, Yes, the build a Bear plan. So
now she's at this new school and the other day
she was like, hey, can you take me to the mall?
I told you this on the other show because Elbie
took her with my friend and I was like, okay,
and I think I just assumed her friend was from
back from the other school and anyway, so I went
and picked them up at the mall, and this girl
was like adorable, like the cutest, like Sadie's height, and
little glasses and like a little bit of makeup and
like cute earrings and like, I don't.
Speaker 1: Know, she was like such a normally cute kid.
Speaker 4: And they were just like chit chit chattering in the
car like a nice girl. But I did want to
say this, and I hope, I hope none of these
people you're gonna, you're gonna, you're gonna totally understand what
I mean. But like, what is it with other parents
that don't volunteer.
Speaker 1: To do jack shit?
Speaker 4: I I don't understand none of these kids ever. And
I'm grateful. I just want to say I complain because
it's a podcast, right, It's right, wouldn't be really that
entertaining if I was just like, I just want to
tell you everything I'm grateful for, right, So, like I'm
grateful that my kids are starting to have some friends, right,
But I just want to vent about the fact that,
like they never ever have rides anywhere. Yes, either we
pick up and take home or nothing, or they don't
make the plane.
Speaker 3: I was in the same boat as you, same thing.
The parents just don't Where are these parents that are volunteering?
How come I'm the one that's always.
Speaker 1: Going to pick them up?
Speaker 3: I mean I must have driven Sunny and Italia to
Disneyland and picked up a bunch of times over the summer.
Speaker 1: This summer. Where's these parents your kids going to Disneyland?
You're just gonna let the other parents just take care
of it? Like what what do you think? What's going on?
Speaker 4: And by the way, so Sadie said, hey, can we
pick up my friend? She doesn't never ride? And so
Elbie went found this house, picked the girl up, took
her to the mall. You'd think maybe the parent would
be like, oh, I'll go get them at the mall,
right and drop your kid off. No, not only that,
but I start getting text from Sadie like later on
going hey, let's call this little girl, like Susie, Hey,
what time are you going to get us? Because or
what like she was like okay, we're ready to be
picked up, and then before I leave, she's like, hey,
what time are you going to get here, because Susie's
mom wants to know, like what time she's getting home.
Speaker 1: And I was like, bitch, well, then have Susan's.
Speaker 4: Mom come get right, that's the other thing. But I'm
like fine, So I go, well, I don't know I'm
leaving right now. I'll probably be there in like twelve minutes,
fifteen minutes, and then whatever time it takes to get
her home. I don't even know her address at this point.
I don't know because I hadn't checked. Okay, so I go,
I pick them up. I go, all right, you can
tell your mom will be home at this time. I
get the address, I go, it's like even a little
bit hard to find. I drop her off, pull in
the driveway, she gets out of the car, goes up
to the door. I see a person open the door
and doesn't poke her head or go like thank you,
no acknowledgment that somebody like I was like on my uber, right,
it's so did your kids just take an uber? Because
so otherwise your daughter is with a new friend, Like
you don't even know the parents, you don't know anything
about it. She just got to ride both ways. You
can't even poke your head up and be like.
Speaker 1: How about a way?
Speaker 4: How about I don't care if you flip me off something.
Speaker 1: Ride home? I know, I know, it's so bizarre to me.
Speaker 3: I would get I would also get the hey, can
you take us to the mall?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 3: Can you pick us back up and get my friend
home by seven? Because she needs to be home by seven?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 1: What why?
Speaker 3: Well, I was like, well, then have her mother come
get her?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: Why do I have to do it on your timeline?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 4: But then I feel like I have to because as
a special safe with Xander's he hasn't like he's been
working on having more friends and like right, So I'm
like I feel this way about like, well, beggars can't
be choosers. If he's like, well, this person can come,
but they can't their parents can't drive them. It's like,
all right, well, I guess we'll have to If that happened,
then I gotta go pick them up.
Speaker 1: And but then same thing.
Speaker 4: Then you get them somewhere and it's like they can't
pick them up either, Like they can't like nope.
Speaker 1: And it'll be freaking far oh yeah, oh yeah.
Speaker 4: It's another one from last night. Xander's friend. The girl
needed a ride back home, and it was John. John
had done the first leg of the drive because I
was at this barbecue and John's like, by the way,
like when this girl needs to be taken back home,
it's far, Like it's really far.
Speaker 1: That's bullshit. It is such both.
Speaker 3: You know what else too, like Natalia will do, uh,
we're gonna go them Saturday, we want to go to
the mall, so can you take us, take us and
pick us up, and then I'll go. I do, I'm
doing both. I'll take you, but then somebody's got to
pick you up, or I'll pick you up. Somebody's got
to take you. And then she's like, well nobody can
do it, and I'm like, well, then you can't go,
and miraculously little Susie's.
Speaker 1: Mom will come and pay.
Speaker 3: There's but for the most part that I've tried that
a few times and then it's like they can't go
because they don't have anybody going and picking up right, right,
I don't get it.
Speaker 4: And then my kids will do nothing.
Speaker 3: Right and it's a Saturday or it's a Sunday. Don't
tell me you're that busy you can't write.
Speaker 4: And then I'm like, well, you have not that busy,
Like even though even though I am, because I'm like
I'm I'm trying to write a book. I've got, like,
you know, other kids that I'm trying to deal with.
I might have like a podcast. I have to like
teach a class. Like a lot of times when I'm teaching,
then I'm just like, I'm sorry, I'm out right, but
you got to figure it out.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: But if I'm not teaching, then I'm like, oh, I
speaking of teaching. By the way, I have a Tuesday
class that still has some openings if anybody wants to
take my memoir writing class, which is so at memore writing.
I'm gonna teach you how to right about your life.
It's really fun. They're swearing involved. It's from It starts
at five pm the Tuesday one goes from like five
to seven Pacific time. It's over zoom.
Speaker 1: Just reach out to me.
Speaker 4: It's on Facebook or that's awesome. Stephanie Wilder tailor at
gmail dot com.
Speaker 1: That's awesome.
Speaker 4: Get more info. It starts September twentieth.
Speaker 1: Oh, it's coming up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's coming up in the next couple of weeks
it starts, so do that.
Speaker 1: Lot all right, everybody, well, thank you
Speaker 4: And uh yeah you're a pair now, don't have it enough,
letting go