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Speaker 1: All right, guys, we're going to Windsor this morning. Second

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date up date. I hope we can make a love connection.

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Ben has been waiting on the line. Good morning, Ben, Hey,

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how's it going. It's going well. I hope we can

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help you out. Obviously, second date update. You must have

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gone on a great first date, but now you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess so. I mean it hurts the heart,

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but I guess that's what happened. I love that, all right.

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It was awesome. We went to this restaurant, flirting, hand touching,

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a little bit of laughing. It was great. It was

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a good time. You know, you have a lot in common.

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I don't know why would be getting ghosted.

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Speaker 1: She has jobs.

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Speaker 2: It's like my job. I have a cat. She has

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a cat. Everything's good. At the end of the night,

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I went home and I've tried to call them get

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in contact since she has been getting in contact with you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Well that's weird because you say, Ben, there

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was a lot of flirting, like you're on the date.

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You're you're like touching each other, you know, laughing. You

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can feel there's a connection.

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Speaker 2: That's how I felt about it. I don't know if

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it seems like it was reciprocal. I couldn't tell. I mean,

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I have a pretty good radar for these things. I think.

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Speaker 1: Did you make her laugh?

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Speaker 2: I'd like to think so, I laugh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it sounds like a good date. It sounds like

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a good like basic date. I don't want to say basic,

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but like, I don't see any red flags.

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Speaker 3: Now, did you make like any inappropriate jokes or like

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something that maybe could have been taken the wrong way

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if you're joking a lot, No, I don't think.

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Speaker 1: Did you get it? Did you drink too much?

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Speaker 2: To drink too many? I don't think so. I kept

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like I was able to drive home by the.

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Speaker 1: End of the night.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Oh oh wait, you said that there was touching.

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Did you get too handsy?

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. It was a little pinky scratch,

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it was a butterfly kiss.

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Speaker 1: Nothing great, Okay, Okay, Jeff has nothing to say. Nothing,

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then listen. It sounds like a good date. It sounds

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like you guys had a connection. Obviously you have a

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lot in common, the job, the cats, the whole thing.

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We're going to call up Avery and we're going to

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ask her about the date. You're going to be listening

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in at any point. If you want to talk to her,

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just jump on the line.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like they have a lot in common. Same job, Yeah,

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I mean, sounds like it was a normal date, same career. Hmmm.

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Hi is Avery there? Yes, Hi, Avery, It's Courtney. Avery.

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It's Walmart chef.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Avery, it's Savannah.

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Speaker 1: We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the radio.

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Speaker 4: Oh, Hiday, Hey, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Well, it is second Date Update. That's when if you

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go on a first date, you get ghosted, call us

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and we get answers. Avery, You're on second Date Update

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this morning.

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Speaker 2: Oh all right, I'll feel you in.

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Speaker 1: Ben called us. Said he took you to a real Yeah,

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took you to a really nice restaurant. He said, you

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guys had a great time. He thought that there was

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a really strong connection between the two of you. You

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have the same job in finance. You both have a cat.

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He said. At one point, I think you might have

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held hands or at least been a little deeper, like

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heavy petting or something like that. I thought, he said,

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like little touches. He didn't say that, Avery. He said

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he felt a connection. He has reached out to you

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for another date. Do you want to tell us how

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the date went for you?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 4: I mean, uh, it was great. It was it was

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a really it was a good date. All right. We

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went to Yeah, we did go to a nice restaurant.

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He packed me up and drove me o for a restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 4: But at the end of the date he called me

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an uber, which, okay, fine, I get it. You know,

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maybe I'm not of your way or whatever. But then

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on top of it, he Benmo recush for a all.

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Speaker 1: Right, Avery, hold two seconds, back it up. He picks

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you up, brings you out on a date, and then

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at the end of the day he calls you an

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uber and sends you a Venmo request. Yes, yes, yeah,

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what that's so come on.

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Speaker 4: It's like, I mean, you know, I get stuff, Yes.

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Speaker 1: Ben, yes, Ben, Ben's on Avery, Ben's on the line.

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Speaker 2: Ben, You're sorry, sorry to buy you an uber and

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get you a ride right to your house? Hold on.

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Speaker 1: You didn't buy her an uber?

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Speaker 3: If you Venmo requested or hold up one second, Ben,

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you called her an uber?

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Speaker 2: All right? Sorry, I called you an uber and uh

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requested you a little money afterwards. You know, it's the

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first day. We may not we may never see each

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other again. I thought it was a connection. I would

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have loved to see you again. I still would. I

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would like to, but I don't know. I didn't think

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why didn't drive me home? Then?

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Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you just drive me home?

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Speaker 2: I mean it eve had been a long day. I

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was hoping that you know, I can pick it was

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a long day. I didn't have any innswest in going

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to your house that night, to.

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Speaker 1: Be honest, going you're making it sound like you're going

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to her house to go to her house and go

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in the house. You just needed to drop her off.

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Speaker 2: Then, I know, maybe I got ahead of myself, so you.

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Speaker 1: Were thinking if you drove her home, she might want

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you to go in the house, and then something might happen.

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Speaker 4: Trust me, I did not. Then Trust me, I did not.

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You didn't have to worry about that. I just you

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picked me up. You drove me. It's part of the

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date to take me home, and then on top of it,

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you didn't even pay for it. That's rude.

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Speaker 2: Though it was a nice day.

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Speaker 1: See what would have been rude is if he just

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left you at the restaurant. No picked her up, take

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her home. You don't thank him, he's an idiot.

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Speaker 3: No. I mean, if you picked her up, then I

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think that there's the expectation that you should drive her home.

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But if you don't want to drive her home and

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you wanted to call her an uber, like, that's fine,

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but don't be like, hey, I'm going to call you

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an uber and then Venmo request her for the uber

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like at that point, just let her call her own uber.

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Speaker 4: He asked like he was going to pay for it, right,

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He was like, let me let me get this.

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Speaker 3: You know, right, And that's the weird part.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let me get the man supposed to pay for

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the drink.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Ben food, you didn't have to pay for it.

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Just don't offer, all right, Usually I thank you, Jeff.

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Stop thinking him, Ben, he's an idiot. Sorry, come on, Ben?

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Can I and Ben and Avery? I just I am

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going to I feel for you, Avery. I know it

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felt kind of like he picked you up. He should

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have taken you home. Do you guys have any interest

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if you go or Avery, I should ask you to

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go on another date and we'll pick up the tab.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not hard.

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Speaker 2: No, are you picking up the tab for the uber

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as well? Or just the restaurant or what's going on?

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Speaker 4: I would have done it wouldn't be there, wouldn't be

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an uber if you had just driven me home.

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Speaker 1: Wow, we're not gonna settle this one. There is no

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love connection. Uh, but you guys keep us posted on

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uh on everything. And thank you so much for being

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on second day updated. Ben, you've got your answer, well.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, I got it there.

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Speaker 4: There won't be any more updates. Thanks guys,