Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, that listen.
Speaker 2: I have to tell you this, some of you out
Speaker 2: there listening to me right now, you need to make
Speaker 2: better life decisions. You need to make better life decisions.
Speaker 2: Too many people in this world.
Speaker 1: Are making bad choices and decisions. And you already know that.
Speaker 1: All I talk.
Speaker 2: About is the mindset, because it's everything. If your mindset
Speaker 2: is not right, you're gonna make bad choices and decisions
Speaker 2: because you have not gained mental maturity. You have not
Speaker 2: grown mentally where you should be or where you could be.
Speaker 2: And that's a fact. People are just acting and reacting.
Speaker 2: You're not thinking through to the consequences. You know, some
Speaker 2: of you out there, you think you bad. Nobody can
Speaker 2: say anything to you because you think you're so bad.
Speaker 2: Someone's always badder than you. Always.
Speaker 1: You have to start with that negative attitude.
Speaker 2: It is not cute, it's not macho, it's not pretty,
Speaker 2: it's awful because when you think like that, you go
Speaker 2: around making bad choices and decisions that can alter your
Speaker 2: life forever, all because you think you're bad. Some of
Speaker 2: you out there, and you're so angry. But guess what,
Speaker 2: You've been angry ever since you can remember. Now you
Speaker 2: know that it's sad. That is ridiculous. You've been angry
Speaker 2: as long as you can remember, just an angry person.
Speaker 1: You've allowed what you've gone through just.
Speaker 2: To make you better and angry and just so full
Speaker 2: of rage. You've gotten so comfortable being that way. You
Speaker 2: go out, you commit murder. You go out, you commit
Speaker 2: road rage. You know, because you're so angry.
Speaker 1: You go out, you.
Speaker 2: Cause fights because you're so angry, and you've chosen to
Speaker 2: stay angry all of your life. Self inflicted pain, that's
Speaker 2: all it is. Anytime you choose to remain the same,
Speaker 2: it's self inflicted pain.
Speaker 1: You deserve better than that.
Speaker 2: You make rash decisions when you're angry. You make bad
Speaker 2: decisions when you're angry, and many of you have made
Speaker 2: life altering decisions because of your anger. When every day
Speaker 2: that you live it's an opportunity to change, it's an
Speaker 2: opportunity to be better, it's an opportunity to get.
Speaker 1: Rid of that anger.
Speaker 2: If you want to see how angry you are and
Speaker 2: how ugly it is, start journaling.
Speaker 1: Journal your life, because.
Speaker 2: Journaling will help you to see the behavior that you
Speaker 2: actually have and the behavior that you could have.
Speaker 1: If you start thinking.
Speaker 2: Through to the consequences, thinking about what you're doing before
Speaker 2: you do it, replacing that old just quick to react
Speaker 2: with a better choice.
Speaker 3: Start journaling, it will help you. You have to want
Speaker 3: to change, you have to want to be a better person.
Speaker 3: Some of you, you have so much hate in your heart.
Speaker 3: You're hating people who are dead and gone. You're hating
Speaker 3: people who hurt you long ago.
Speaker 2: Some of them are dead in their grace, and you're
Speaker 2: still holding on to all of that negativity because that
Speaker 2: one person you can't get away from is yourself.
Speaker 1: Instead of choosing to change, you're choosing to remain.
Speaker 2: The same, the same, mean, bitter, hateful, angry person, when
Speaker 2: every day you live is.
Speaker 1: Another chance to be better.
Speaker 2: But instead, what people do is they're mad at themselves.
Speaker 1: They're mad at the world, the world they're doing.
Speaker 2: You project your heart and your pain and your anger
Speaker 2: and all of those negative things onto people that didn't
Speaker 2: do it because you don't have any self control. You
Speaker 2: don't think through to the consequences. You just react or act.
Speaker 1: You must make better decisions and choices.
Speaker 2: Some of you, you're out there, you're cheating.
Speaker 1: You know you're wrong, you're wrong.
Speaker 2: And the women and men who are getting into relationships
Speaker 2: with people who are already in relationships.
Speaker 1: You know you're wrong.
Speaker 2: You need to make better choices and decisions. Some of
Speaker 2: you out there and you're eating yourselves to death eating yes,
Speaker 2: just go bah bah blahaaba, eating yourself to death. That's
Speaker 2: a sin. Guttny is a sin. You have to make
Speaker 2: better choices and decisions. I'm not saying it to hurt you.
Speaker 2: I'm saying that to help you. People must start making
Speaker 2: better choices and decisions for their lives, point blank. No
Speaker 2: one is gonna do it for you. You have to
Speaker 2: do it for yourself. You can be better, but you
Speaker 2: have to want it. You have to entertain the thought.
Speaker 2: You are the one who have to do something different.
Speaker 2: I did a recent episode about financial wisdom. You have
Speaker 2: to make better decisions.
Speaker 1: Are you going to spend your.
Speaker 2: Money because your neighbor spending theirs? And for what you
Speaker 2: you know, you think you assume the neighbor is spending theirs.
Speaker 1: They got a new car, so you gotta get a
Speaker 1: new car.
Speaker 2: Whatever you see someone have, you want to be one
Speaker 2: up on them and they can afford it. You're struggling,
Speaker 2: and that goes for people with lots of money. And
Speaker 2: people with little money because people make bad life decisions.
Speaker 2: Some of you, all you do is gamble all your
Speaker 2: money away, gamble all of your money away. You don't
Speaker 2: pay your bills, You take from your children because gambling
Speaker 2: is more important that Gambling has possessed you. It has
Speaker 2: taken control in your.
Speaker 1: Life, becau of you allowed it.
Speaker 2: You have to wake up and make better life decisions.
Speaker 2: No one can do it for you. You can't do
Speaker 2: it for anyone. You have to do it for yourself.
Speaker 2: So many people should just be sick.
Speaker 1: And tired, I mean, dog gone, sick.
Speaker 2: And tired of living the same vicious cycle.
Speaker 1: But they're not. They're not.
Speaker 2: They keep making the same bad choices and decisions, getting
Speaker 2: the same terrible results. Many of you, you're getting into relationships.
Speaker 1: You know that person is someone you shouldn't be with.
Speaker 2: You know how they speak to you, you know how
Speaker 2: they treat you, you know how they disrespect you, but
Speaker 2: you still want them in your life.
Speaker 1: Make that make sense, Make it make sense.
Speaker 2: And then you wondering why you're in such chaos, why
Speaker 2: you're in such pain in your heart, because of the
Speaker 2: choices and decisions you're making. You're letting what your eyes,
Speaker 2: see what your heart feel, your desires and your wants,
Speaker 2: and your emotions and your feelings. You letting all of
Speaker 2: those things rule you, control you lead you into bad
Speaker 2: situations and bad relationships.
Speaker 1: You must make better choices and decisions.
Speaker 2: Some of you have children, and you let your children
Speaker 2: run you. They control you, and then you wondering why
Speaker 2: you're crying. Oh, they're beating me, they're cursing me out. Duh,
Speaker 2: because you gave them the power to do it. You
Speaker 2: gave them the power to do it. If I would
Speaker 2: have tried that with my mom, oh, I wouldn't be
Speaker 2: here right now.
Speaker 1: I guarantee you if it.
Speaker 2: And if I was, I would have such a big
Speaker 2: gap in between my teeth because she'd been knocked the
Speaker 2: front ones out. I'm just telling you, your kids, and
Speaker 2: any other person in your life, husband, wife, friend, neighbor, coworker, boss,
Speaker 2: I don't care who it is. They will be to
Speaker 2: you what you have allowed them to be. They will
Speaker 2: treat you how you have allowed them to treat you.
Speaker 2: Because you are the teacher, you teach your child exactly
Speaker 2: how they can treat you. You teach them that they
Speaker 2: can curse you out. You teach them that they can
Speaker 2: beat you. You teach them that they can disrespect you.
Speaker 2: You teach them that they can leave and come back
Speaker 2: when they want to. You teach them that they can
Speaker 2: punch holes in the walls.
Speaker 1: And you have taught them.
Speaker 2: Because you made bad choices and decisions. Everything we go through,
Speaker 2: we have to look at ourselves. What role did we play?
Speaker 2: How did we contribute? See, a lot of people want
Speaker 2: to blame Oh, they want to blame their parents or
Speaker 2: whomever the caregivers were. They want to blame them because
Speaker 2: they went through trauma and tragedy as a child.
Speaker 1: That's awful. No child on.
Speaker 2: Earth should ever go through trauma or tragedy because of
Speaker 2: their parents or some other adult or anyone. Because kids
Speaker 2: commit crimes against kids, no one. But what I'm saying
Speaker 2: to you, you do not have to allow any negativity
Speaker 2: that you're going through to dictate the rest of your life.
Speaker 1: That's a choice.
Speaker 2: That's a decision made by you. You can blame who
Speaker 2: you want to, but it does not benefit you.
Speaker 1: You can blame who you want to, but it does
Speaker 1: not make you better.
Speaker 2: You as an adult, have to be responsible for whatever
Speaker 2: you do, whatever you allow, whoever you allow in your life.
Speaker 2: You are responsible. Some people, they don't choose to change.
Speaker 2: They allow everything negative that they went through to shape
Speaker 2: their current lives. They do things nefarious and just horrible
Speaker 2: things because of the things that was done to them.
Speaker 2: That's not how you become better. You don't become better
Speaker 2: by doing the same things or worse. You become better
Speaker 2: by being better.
Speaker 1: Hiding and.
Speaker 2: Sneaking and doing things what you think are in secret
Speaker 2: does not make you a better person.
Speaker 1: It makes you worse.
Speaker 2: And no one on the face of the earth should choose,
Speaker 2: willfully choose to be worse. You must make better choices
Speaker 2: and decisions. When I chose to change, I mean, I've
Speaker 2: never been that far out there, but I've done some things.
Speaker 2: I mean, I've done some things that I'm not proud of.
Speaker 1: But when I chose to change man for me, I
Speaker 1: never look back. Never. You have to want better for yourself.
Speaker 2: So many people in this world are of unhealed hearts
Speaker 2: and minds, and because people are fuelled by their thoughts,
Speaker 2: their feelings, and their emotions, people are led into terrible
Speaker 2: situations and into terrible relationships with terrible people because they
Speaker 2: cannot see beyond their feelings that wants, their desires and
Speaker 2: things of that nature. So they're led wrong. And that's
Speaker 2: why it's so important that people start making better choices
Speaker 2: and decisions. Grow ever, Ever, Ever, you will never grow
Speaker 2: and mature to the person that you could be by
Speaker 2: remaining the same. And that's all I'm saying. I'm leaving
Speaker 2: it right there. Thank you for listening.
Speaker 1: Please share.
Speaker 2: I appreciate you so much. I love each and every
Speaker 2: one of you. I end every episode the same, and
Speaker 2: I hope and I pray that.
Speaker 1: You do it. Do it for yourself, think on it,