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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, that listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to tell you this, some of you out

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<v Speaker 2>there listening to me right now, you need to make

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<v Speaker 2>better life decisions. You need to make better life decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>Too many people in this world.

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<v Speaker 1>Are making bad choices and decisions. And you already know that.

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<v Speaker 1>All I talk.

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<v Speaker 2>About is the mindset, because it's everything. If your mindset

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<v Speaker 2>is not right, you're gonna make bad choices and decisions

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<v Speaker 2>because you have not gained mental maturity. You have not

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<v Speaker 2>grown mentally where you should be or where you could be.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's a fact. People are just acting and reacting.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not thinking through to the consequences. You know, some

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<v Speaker 2>of you out there, you think you bad. Nobody can

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<v Speaker 2>say anything to you because you think you're so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone's always badder than you. Always.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to start with that negative attitude.

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<v Speaker 2>It is not cute, it's not macho, it's not pretty,

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<v Speaker 2>it's awful because when you think like that, you go

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<v Speaker 2>around making bad choices and decisions that can alter your

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<v Speaker 2>life forever, all because you think you're bad. Some of

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<v Speaker 2>you out there, and you're so angry. But guess what,

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<v Speaker 2>You've been angry ever since you can remember. Now you

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<v Speaker 2>know that it's sad. That is ridiculous. You've been angry

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<v Speaker 2>as long as you can remember, just an angry person.

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<v Speaker 1>You've allowed what you've gone through just.

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<v Speaker 2>To make you better and angry and just so full

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<v Speaker 2>of rage. You've gotten so comfortable being that way. You

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<v Speaker 2>go out, you commit murder. You go out, you commit

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<v Speaker 2>road rage. You know, because you're so angry.

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<v Speaker 1>You go out, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Cause fights because you're so angry, and you've chosen to

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<v Speaker 2>stay angry all of your life. Self inflicted pain, that's

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<v Speaker 2>all it is. Anytime you choose to remain the same,

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<v Speaker 2>it's self inflicted pain.

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<v Speaker 1>You deserve better than that.

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<v Speaker 2>You make rash decisions when you're angry. You make bad

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<v Speaker 2>decisions when you're angry, and many of you have made

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<v Speaker 2>life altering decisions because of your anger. When every day

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<v Speaker 2>that you live it's an opportunity to change, it's an

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity to be better, it's an opportunity to get.

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<v Speaker 1>Rid of that anger.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to see how angry you are and

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<v Speaker 2>how ugly it is, start journaling.

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<v Speaker 1>Journal your life, because.

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<v Speaker 2>Journaling will help you to see the behavior that you

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<v Speaker 2>actually have and the behavior that you could have.

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<v Speaker 1>If you start thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>Through to the consequences, thinking about what you're doing before

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<v Speaker 2>you do it, replacing that old just quick to react

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<v Speaker 2>with a better choice.

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<v Speaker 3>Start journaling, it will help you. You have to want

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<v Speaker 3>to change, you have to want to be a better person.

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<v Speaker 3>Some of you, you have so much hate in your heart.

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<v Speaker 3>You're hating people who are dead and gone. You're hating

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<v Speaker 3>people who hurt you long ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of them are dead in their grace, and you're

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<v Speaker 2>still holding on to all of that negativity because that

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<v Speaker 2>one person you can't get away from is yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead of choosing to change, you're choosing to remain.

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<v Speaker 2>The same, the same, mean, bitter, hateful, angry person, when

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<v Speaker 2>every day you live is.

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<v Speaker 1>Another chance to be better.

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<v Speaker 2>But instead, what people do is they're mad at themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>They're mad at the world, the world they're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>You project your heart and your pain and your anger

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<v Speaker 2>and all of those negative things onto people that didn't

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<v Speaker 2>do it because you don't have any self control. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't think through to the consequences. You just react or act.

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<v Speaker 1>You must make better decisions and choices.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of you, you're out there, you're cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're wrong, you're wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>And the women and men who are getting into relationships

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<v Speaker 2>with people who are already in relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to make better choices and decisions. Some of

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<v Speaker 2>you out there and you're eating yourselves to death eating yes,

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<v Speaker 2>just go bah bah blahaaba, eating yourself to death. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a sin. Guttny is a sin. You have to make

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<v Speaker 2>better choices and decisions. I'm not saying it to hurt you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying that to help you. People must start making

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<v Speaker 2>better choices and decisions for their lives, point blank. No

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<v Speaker 2>one is gonna do it for you. You have to

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<v Speaker 2>do it for yourself. You can be better, but you

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<v Speaker 2>have to want it. You have to entertain the thought.

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<v Speaker 2>You are the one who have to do something different.

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<v Speaker 2>I did a recent episode about financial wisdom. You have

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<v Speaker 2>to make better decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you going to spend your.

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<v Speaker 2>Money because your neighbor spending theirs? And for what you

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you think you assume the neighbor is spending theirs.

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<v Speaker 1>They got a new car, so you gotta get a

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<v Speaker 1>new car.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever you see someone have, you want to be one

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<v Speaker 2>up on them and they can afford it. You're struggling,

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<v Speaker 2>and that goes for people with lots of money. And

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<v Speaker 2>people with little money because people make bad life decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of you, all you do is gamble all your

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<v Speaker 2>money away, gamble all of your money away. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>pay your bills, You take from your children because gambling

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<v Speaker 2>is more important that Gambling has possessed you. It has

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<v Speaker 2>taken control in your.

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<v Speaker 1>Life, becau of you allowed it.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to wake up and make better life decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>No one can do it for you. You can't do

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<v Speaker 2>it for anyone. You have to do it for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>So many people should just be sick.

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<v Speaker 1>And tired, I mean, dog gone, sick.

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<v Speaker 2>And tired of living the same vicious cycle.

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<v Speaker 1>But they're not. They're not.

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<v Speaker 2>They keep making the same bad choices and decisions, getting

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<v Speaker 2>the same terrible results. Many of you, you're getting into relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that person is someone you shouldn't be with.

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<v Speaker 2>You know how they speak to you, you know how

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<v Speaker 2>they treat you, you know how they disrespect you, but

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<v Speaker 2>you still want them in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Make that make sense, Make it make sense.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you wondering why you're in such chaos, why

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<v Speaker 2>you're in such pain in your heart, because of the

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<v Speaker 2>choices and decisions you're making. You're letting what your eyes,

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<v Speaker 2>see what your heart feel, your desires and your wants,

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<v Speaker 2>and your emotions and your feelings. You letting all of

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<v Speaker 2>those things rule you, control you lead you into bad

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<v Speaker 2>situations and bad relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>You must make better choices and decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of you have children, and you let your children

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<v Speaker 2>run you. They control you, and then you wondering why

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<v Speaker 2>you're crying. Oh, they're beating me, they're cursing me out. Duh,

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<v Speaker 2>because you gave them the power to do it. You

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<v Speaker 2>gave them the power to do it. If I would

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<v Speaker 2>have tried that with my mom, oh, I wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 2>here right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I guarantee you if it.

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<v Speaker 2>And if I was, I would have such a big

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<v Speaker 2>gap in between my teeth because she'd been knocked the

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<v Speaker 2>front ones out. I'm just telling you, your kids, and

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<v Speaker 2>any other person in your life, husband, wife, friend, neighbor, coworker, boss,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care who it is. They will be to

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<v Speaker 2>you what you have allowed them to be. They will

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<v Speaker 2>treat you how you have allowed them to treat you.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you are the teacher, you teach your child exactly

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<v Speaker 2>how they can treat you. You teach them that they

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<v Speaker 2>can curse you out. You teach them that they can

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<v Speaker 2>beat you. You teach them that they can disrespect you.

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<v Speaker 2>You teach them that they can leave and come back

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<v Speaker 2>when they want to. You teach them that they can

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<v Speaker 2>punch holes in the walls.

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<v Speaker 1>And you have taught them.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you made bad choices and decisions. Everything we go through,

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<v Speaker 2>we have to look at ourselves. What role did we play?

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<v Speaker 2>How did we contribute? See, a lot of people want

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<v Speaker 2>to blame Oh, they want to blame their parents or

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<v Speaker 2>whomever the caregivers were. They want to blame them because

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<v Speaker 2>they went through trauma and tragedy as a child.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awful. No child on.

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<v Speaker 2>Earth should ever go through trauma or tragedy because of

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<v Speaker 2>their parents or some other adult or anyone. Because kids

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<v Speaker 2>commit crimes against kids, no one. But what I'm saying

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<v Speaker 2>to you, you do not have to allow any negativity

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<v Speaker 2>that you're going through to dictate the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a choice.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a decision made by you. You can blame who

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<v Speaker 2>you want to, but it does not benefit you.

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<v Speaker 1>You can blame who you want to, but it does

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<v Speaker 1>not make you better.

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<v Speaker 2>You as an adult, have to be responsible for whatever

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<v Speaker 2>you do, whatever you allow, whoever you allow in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>You are responsible. Some people, they don't choose to change.

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<v Speaker 2>They allow everything negative that they went through to shape

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<v Speaker 2>their current lives. They do things nefarious and just horrible

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<v Speaker 2>things because of the things that was done to them.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not how you become better. You don't become better

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<v Speaker 2>by doing the same things or worse. You become better

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<v Speaker 2>by being better.

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<v Speaker 1>Hiding and.

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<v Speaker 2>Sneaking and doing things what you think are in secret

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<v Speaker 2>does not make you a better person.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes you worse.

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<v Speaker 2>And no one on the face of the earth should choose,

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<v Speaker 2>willfully choose to be worse. You must make better choices

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<v Speaker 2>and decisions. When I chose to change, I mean, I've

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<v Speaker 2>never been that far out there, but I've done some things.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I've done some things that I'm not proud of.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I chose to change man for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>never look back. Never. You have to want better for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>So many people in this world are of unhealed hearts

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<v Speaker 2>and minds, and because people are fuelled by their thoughts,

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<v Speaker 2>their feelings, and their emotions, people are led into terrible

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<v Speaker 2>situations and into terrible relationships with terrible people because they

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<v Speaker 2>cannot see beyond their feelings that wants, their desires and

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<v Speaker 2>things of that nature. So they're led wrong. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>why it's so important that people start making better choices

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<v Speaker 2>and decisions. Grow ever, Ever, Ever, you will never grow

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<v Speaker 2>and mature to the person that you could be by

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<v Speaker 2>remaining the same. And that's all I'm saying. I'm leaving

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<v Speaker 2>it right there. Thank you for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Please share.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate you so much. I love each and every

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<v Speaker 2>one of you. I end every episode the same, and

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<v Speaker 2>I hope and I pray that.

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<v Speaker 1>You do it. Do it for yourself, think on it,