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<v Speaker 1>to house whisper dot Design. All right, it's been a

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<v Speaker 1>morning of kind of just a casual conversation between friends,

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<v Speaker 1>of freeing your mind when it comes to approaching your remodel,

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<v Speaker 1>so that you think a little bit bigger, so you

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<v Speaker 1>dream a little bit bigger, a little bit more creatively,

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<v Speaker 1>remodel instead of doing what you normally do, which is

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<v Speaker 1>to your credit of making do not when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to customizing your home. Now is the time to not

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<v Speaker 1>make do and get out of the way of your home.

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<v Speaker 1>Now is the time for the home to get out

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<v Speaker 1>of your way and for it to give and to move.

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<v Speaker 1>Got me all right? Well, a little more on this

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<v Speaker 1>as we go, But right now I'm taking calls on

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go back to the phones. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to Let's talk to Laura. Hey, Laura, welcome home.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi bean. I have a question in regards to retrociting

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<v Speaker 2>my at events, I have an at a fan and

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<v Speaker 2>a whole house fan. Can we retrofit the event with

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<v Speaker 2>those two things in there?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, you absolutely can. First of all, the whole

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<v Speaker 1>house fan is it does not need retrofitting. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>a part of the venting system. A whole house fan

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<v Speaker 1>is what is drawing air from your open windows at night,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, drawing air through the house and pushing it

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<v Speaker 1>out through the attic. And so a whole house fan

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<v Speaker 1>number one only creates positive pressure out of the attic

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<v Speaker 1>and it is not a vent for embers to get

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<v Speaker 1>into one way or the other. The attic fan, an

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<v Speaker 1>attic fan is a fan that is attached to a

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<v Speaker 1>vent that you know, exhausts hot air out of an

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<v Speaker 1>attic and it creates a vacuum from another vent, probably

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<v Speaker 1>just across the way. And yeah, and that's never a

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<v Speaker 1>problem because the attic fan is attached to a vent,

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<v Speaker 1>and it can be detached from the vent. It can

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<v Speaker 1>have like the the ember proof vent retrofit placed right

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<v Speaker 1>there and then reattached and remounted so or the mber

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<v Speaker 1>proof vent can be mounted on the outside if need be.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's all done very attractively and very quickly. So yes,

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<v Speaker 1>there's absolutely no reason to not move forward with the

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<v Speaker 1>ember proof vents. Brand Guard they're my favorite, and they

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<v Speaker 1>will help you and whether you measure up the situation

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<v Speaker 1>yourself or if you call a place like brand Guard

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<v Speaker 1>and say, hey, can you send somebody out. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>do direct installs, but what they do is they have

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<v Speaker 1>a full network of certified installers all over southern California,

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<v Speaker 1>so they'll put you in touch with somebody who will

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<v Speaker 1>come out and who will size up exactly your situation,

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<v Speaker 1>order exactly what you need, and get it popped in

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<v Speaker 1>there right away.

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<v Speaker 2>Regisitting the vents, something that a homeowner to do is

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<v Speaker 2>just getting some fine mesh and putting it on the vents.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I'm like inside of the attic events.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so itself, that's a really good question there are.

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<v Speaker 1>This is one of the reasons why a company like

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<v Speaker 1>brand Guard doesn't employ their own installers, because they do

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of just sending vents out to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>DIY capable homeowners. So yeah, homeowners are you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you've got some DIY skills, it is. It's not a

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<v Speaker 1>very complex thing at all. To do and and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're willing to get up in the attic or

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<v Speaker 1>get up there and do a little work there, it

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<v Speaker 1>can be done pretty easily. The so I'm now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>drawing a quick little line here, splitting your question in

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<v Speaker 1>two or the answer into and yes, so, yes, a

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<v Speaker 1>homeowner can do this. Some homeowners don't want to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what the installers are for. But a homeowner can

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<v Speaker 1>do this. And when it comes to the vents themselves, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>getting some finer mesh is better than the stuff you've got. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>a finer mesh and installing that is better than the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff you've got. But finer mesh is not as good

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<v Speaker 1>as a fully certified and tested and proven ember proof vent. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just an ember proof vent like for the

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<v Speaker 1>Brand Guard vents. They're not just a finer mesh system.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually have a patented baffle system in which the

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<v Speaker 1>air gets redirected through and there are places where even

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<v Speaker 1>if an EMBER got through you know, mesh layer number one,

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<v Speaker 1>it gets trapped in a baffle and it can't get

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<v Speaker 1>into the attic. And that's just the first stage, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the ember stage. And these vents are also rated to

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<v Speaker 1>shut down the transmission of radiant heat once the fire

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<v Speaker 1>actually gets close, and shut down the transmission of flames,

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<v Speaker 1>so flames and radiant heat won't get into the attic

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<v Speaker 1>and ignite things because of intense heat, and the flames

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<v Speaker 1>cannot come in through the vents because these vents will

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<v Speaker 1>self seal once a flame reaches that point of nearing

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<v Speaker 1>the vents. So they are very very different than just

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<v Speaker 1>finer mesh. But finer mesh on your attic screens is

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<v Speaker 1>better than the big stuff that you've got, So I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to make it perfectly clear. Amberproof addict vents

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<v Speaker 1>is not just about finer mesh, but that is definitely

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<v Speaker 1>better than taking no action at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Great.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much, Jaanlie. I really appreciate her. You

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<v Speaker 2>help them all the homeowners out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much, Lauren, thanks for listening. I really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate your question. Really really good question, really good. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure we've split that hair before, but now everybody

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<v Speaker 1>can benefit from that answer and from more answers, which

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<v Speaker 1>we will do, can't I being sharp the house whisper

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<v Speaker 1>at your service. Good Saturday morning to you. We're just

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<v Speaker 1>having some nice conversations talking about getting our heads in

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<v Speaker 1>a remodeling space, being the best possible custom home owners

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<v Speaker 1>that we can be, because, you know, customizing your home

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<v Speaker 1>for most of us not a thing that we're trained

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<v Speaker 1>to think about because we're so used to making do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just helping you breathe a little deeper, have

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more creative space and possibility around you

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<v Speaker 1>with some tips. And we'll have a few more of

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<v Speaker 1>those as we go. But right now I'm taking calls.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go back to the phones, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to Terry. Hey, Terry, welcome home.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I had a tub shower vinyl combination and

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<v Speaker 3>on the top flip of the tub, there are some

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<v Speaker 3>great spots coming in and I'm very concerned it could

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<v Speaker 3>be some kind of resting molding that's coming through. It

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't seem I want to wash off. Should I be concerned?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Okay, So I'm gonna I'm gonna be conscientious here

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<v Speaker 1>and just qualify my answer with the I haven't seen

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<v Speaker 1>it or tested it, so but I'm gonna give you

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<v Speaker 1>my best guess. Okay, Okay, when it comes to that,

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<v Speaker 1>those gray blotches and gray spots that you find on

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<v Speaker 1>the vinyl and or fiberglass tubs. Sometimes tubshower surrounds right

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<v Speaker 1>down there in the corners, right right on the top

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<v Speaker 1>lip kind of. And and I know that the very

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<v Speaker 1>first thought is that, oh, no, mold, and that's dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>And so here's the thing. If it is mold, okay, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>And let's assume I'm gonna assume for a momentary that

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<v Speaker 1>you know that you keep a clean house and that

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't neglected this bathroom for thir years, and all right, mold.

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<v Speaker 1>For as dangerous as mold can potentially be in some circumstances,

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<v Speaker 1>the fact is mold out in the you know, out

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<v Speaker 1>in the daylight, out exposed where it can be easily cleaned.

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<v Speaker 1>It is. It is not tenacious as far as being

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<v Speaker 1>able to clean it. It does not fight cleaning very much.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have a lot of fight to put up there.

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<v Speaker 1>So if it were mold, you'd be able to take

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<v Speaker 1>a you know, you'd be able to take a bleach

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<v Speaker 1>mixture and wipe it on there and it would just

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<v Speaker 1>simply be going away. You'd be able to take just

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<v Speaker 1>a regular household cleaner and it would go away. Mold

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<v Speaker 1>is not like I'm not going anywhere and you're all dead.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just not mold. It likes to grow in the

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<v Speaker 1>dark and in the moist and not get exposed out

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<v Speaker 1>where everybody can see it. So that being said, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not one hundred percent ruling it out, but in my experience,

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<v Speaker 1>ninety nine times out of one hundred, when we've got

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<v Speaker 1>these gray spots and speckles and blotches happening, it is

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<v Speaker 1>soap scum mixed with hard water, meaning mineralization leftover that

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<v Speaker 1>ends up collecting in the corners. And that's why it's

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<v Speaker 1>so dang hard to clean, because it's kind of this

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<v Speaker 1>resinous mixture of soap scum wrapped around leftover hard water minerals.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why they're gray, by the way, because they're

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<v Speaker 1>kind of rocky mineralization, and that's why it's tougher to clean.

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<v Speaker 1>And so there are some products that will help you

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<v Speaker 1>do that, like you know, but you just got to

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<v Speaker 1>find got to make sure, like is it CLR the

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<v Speaker 1>calcium lime and rust. You just got to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that a product like that which just knocks right through

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<v Speaker 1>mineral deposits isn't going to do damage to the actual

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<v Speaker 1>surface of the vinyl. The safest route to go to

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<v Speaker 1>start with at least, and I always recommend, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>do the least toxic approach. The safest route to start

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<v Speaker 1>with would be taking some baking soda, just regular old

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<v Speaker 1>you know, baking soda, mixing it with some water and

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<v Speaker 1>making a paste and covering over those pasting it all

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<v Speaker 1>over and let it sit on there for several hours

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<v Speaker 1>and then come back with a little bit of elbow

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<v Speaker 1>grease and see if you can't get most of it

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<v Speaker 1>off that way. Baking soda does an amazing job of

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<v Speaker 1>cutting through that and also lifting up mineralization. But as

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<v Speaker 1>far as your fear is concerned, my guess is that

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard water deposits mixed with soap scum, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why it's being so tenacious to clean.

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<v Speaker 3>Good ideas in the corners. It's on the top shelf lid,

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<v Speaker 3>So that's what I was concerned. If it was rush

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<v Speaker 3>so good, I would clean it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much, Thank you, Terry. Good luck with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you're you're gonna you're gonna get the better

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<v Speaker 1>of it. I'm sure do we have you know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>pop you on the hold. But let's talk to Monica.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Monica, welcome home.

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<v Speaker 4>on the ceiling drips or whatever. I look at my

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<v Speaker 1>your living rooms? Cling and and the paint is starting

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<v Speaker 4>Of it, Yeah, starting to peel it like you could

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<v Speaker 1>Let's paint the living room ceiling, but we got to

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<v Speaker 1>But everybody, remember remember when you were talking to a

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<v Speaker 1>long time. Paint is ninety percent prep. All right, thanks

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<v Speaker 1>so much for the question, and we actually got that out.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Home with Dean Sharp on demand from

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<v Speaker 1>KFI AM six forty, CAFI AM six forty, live streaming,

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<v Speaker 1>and HD everywhere on the iHeartRadio app. You are Home

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<v Speaker 1>with Dean Sharp, the house whisper that is me. We're

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<v Speaker 1>having a conversation this morning about kind of freeing up

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<v Speaker 1>your mind as remodeling season is approaching, becoming a custom homeowner,

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<v Speaker 1>not just expecting a custom home to appear before your eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>To get a custom home, you need to be a

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<v Speaker 1>custom homeowner. We got to stop thinking so much about

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<v Speaker 1>little bit bigger. We're going to talk a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>questions about your home. Let's talk to Spencer. Hey, Spencer,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome home.

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<v Speaker 5>Heydan, can you hear me?

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<v Speaker 1>I can?

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<v Speaker 5>So I have a closet door that is broken. It's

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<v Speaker 5>in a church, it's on a wall full of mirrors,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's quite old. Let's go at forty years old,

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<v Speaker 5>and so matching the door is a little hard. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>I called around, got a bunch of really high quotes,

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<v Speaker 5>and then somebody said, why don't you talk to a

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<v Speaker 5>that's probably going to be like maybe two hundred and fifty

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<v Speaker 5>Have somebody fixed the glass? Am I on the right track?

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<v Speaker 5>That's basically my question?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it? Is it a regular framed door, like it

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<v Speaker 1>has a wood frame all around it and there's a

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<v Speaker 1>mirror inset into it?

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<v Speaker 6>Correct? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Metal? But yeah, yeah, okay, so there's so you're saying

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<v Speaker 1>it's metal on the on the edge, So is the

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<v Speaker 1>whole door? Can you know? Cause there are sliding closet

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<v Speaker 1>doors that are basically just all all mirror with metal

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we're talking about. Yeah, yeah, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>here's here's where you're on the right track. You're on

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<v Speaker 1>the right track by exploring all of your options. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>one thing to replace the whole door. You may not

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<v Speaker 1>be able to find one that matches right, And so

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<v Speaker 1>call a couple of glass companies and have them come

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<v Speaker 1>because it's it's relatively thin glass, it's not heavy duty glass,

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<v Speaker 1>You're probably totally on the right track. That's it, all right, buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>That was an easy one. Wow, I was so easy.

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<v Speaker 1>I got time for another one. Let's talk to Scott. Hey, Scott,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome home.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey Dean.

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I am well, sir. How can I help you?

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<v Speaker 6>Cool? Well?

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<v Speaker 4>So, I don't know what I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 6>I have because of finances, I probably have two projects.

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<v Speaker 6>And then an older mobile home. It's paneled, not drywall

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<v Speaker 6>to dry wall well, actually the entire place in the

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<v Speaker 6>and all, and I just don't know which order to

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<v Speaker 6>I do the wall first?

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<v Speaker 1>Change out the door, change out the door first? Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no there's no switching out. Yeah there, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's yes, surgically, you know, like if you came and said, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>wall around it. And you know, it could it be done. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it could be done, but it's a lot of hassle

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<v Speaker 1>and uh is there still a risk of doing some

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<v Speaker 1>damage to the dry wall anyway. Yes. So in that circumstance,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've got some uh some uh, you know, major

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<v Speaker 1>doors and windows. We build a brand new house, doors

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<v Speaker 1>to drywalling. Okay, So in your case, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>say the same thing, just to change out the side

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<v Speaker 1>and glass door and then you've got nothing to worry about.

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<v Speaker 1>You know exactly where to cut the drywall to. It'll

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<v Speaker 6>That sounds tabulous. Thank you, Dean, you and Tina have

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<v Speaker 6>a great weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Appreciate it well, Thank you, buddy, Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Appreciate you guys. You guys are so kind. Wow, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a second call. I'm going to try and do three. Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome home. Jeff, are you there? Did we lose Jeff?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Man? I really wanted to do three calls? Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>are you with me? Now? Maybe not? All right? Dang

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<v Speaker 1>here I was finally in a position to get three

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine. No, sorry, all right. Uh, let's transition back

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<v Speaker 1>then to to where I started today's show. There are

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<v Speaker 1>no bad ideas. There are only bad decisions. And by

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<v Speaker 1>saying that, what I'm trying to communicate is the front

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<v Speaker 1>end here, that ideas, the I, the ideation, the thinking

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<v Speaker 1>up and the planning and the dreaming, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to expand that and not worry about like somehow, oh

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<v Speaker 1>that I shouldn't be spending money. Ideas are not decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>A decision is taking a set of ideas or an idea,

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<v Speaker 1>shaping it into a you know, a strategy, and then

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<v Speaker 1>pulling the trigger. That's a decision. And bad decisions are bad,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean bad decisions, you know, to take things on

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<v Speaker 1>can cost you money, can cost you all sorts of things.

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<v Speaker 1>But an idea is not a decision. It's just an idea,

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<v Speaker 1>and the best decisions come from a rich pool of

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<v Speaker 1>working with hundreds thousands of homeowners, at this point, the

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<v Speaker 1>thing I see perhaps most common in the typical homeowner

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<v Speaker 1>is this self editing at the very beginning. I walk

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<v Speaker 1>in the door, and I'm there to help you dream

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<v Speaker 1>and to think of things, And already I see you're

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't had the means or the or the will

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<v Speaker 1>But a custom home, a custom remodel. Now it's time

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<v Speaker 1>that also puts something on you that you're not used

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<v Speaker 1>to doing so much, and that is thinking bigger thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>and collecting more creative ideas. All right, more on that,

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<v Speaker 1>right after we find out what is going on? Gean

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<v Speaker 1>Sharp the house whisper, Welcome home. Thanks for joining us

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<v Speaker 1>on the program today. All right, I've got some final

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts about our topic today. Of there are no bad ideas,

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<v Speaker 1>only bad decisions, kind of freeing your mind as you

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<v Speaker 1>approach your remodel. Some of you are like, why doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>he just get down to the brass tax of like

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<v Speaker 1>how to install a toilet. We've spent plenty of time

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<v Speaker 1>doing that, my friend, plenty of time doing that. But

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to approaching anything you change on your home.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I always say, design matters most. And

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<v Speaker 1>to get to that place of getting the right design,

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<v Speaker 1>you as the homeowner, need to stop self editing so

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<v Speaker 1>early upfront. You need to free yourself up. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>review where what we've already discussed so far, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to give you still a couple of more

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<v Speaker 1>great tips along the way. Here Custom home starts with

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<v Speaker 1>a custom thinking homeowner. Okay, freeing yourself not to make

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<v Speaker 1>do now the house is going to move out of

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<v Speaker 1>your way. Create a judgment free sandbox. I'm using air quotes,

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<v Speaker 1>can you hear them? A judgment free sandbox to play

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<v Speaker 1>in that could be a folder on your computer. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's a physical folder sitting on your desk, maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>a maybe it's a Pinterest board, whatever the case is.

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<v Speaker 1>But a sandbox is a place where you can just

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<v Speaker 1>collect ideas judgment free. You're not judging them. You're putting

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<v Speaker 1>things in there because you like them. Period. It's all

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<v Speaker 1>that you know need be or you're interested in it,

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<v Speaker 1>or you're gonna pursue it and check it out. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>give yourself that freedom. And what does a judgment free

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<v Speaker 1>area look like? When like, if we're working with two people,

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<v Speaker 1>like a couple working on a remodel, you know, designing

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<v Speaker 1>it in your minds together, dreaming it up together. I

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<v Speaker 1>would say this one of the most important lessons I

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<v Speaker 1>ever opted into the design process is and I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm just going to say life in

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<v Speaker 1>general is the rules of improv comedy. Okay, improv. If

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<v Speaker 1>you've ever seen improv done and done it well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think most people have seen it done. Is when you

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<v Speaker 1>know somebody on stage just starts kicking out an idea,

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<v Speaker 1>unscripted idea, and then they've got a partner up there

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<v Speaker 1>and they just work off of that idea. And they

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<v Speaker 1>just create a whole thing. They're improvising as they go,

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<v Speaker 1>and the people who do it, well, it's just genius

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<v Speaker 1>and it's super entertaining. At the root of all of

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<v Speaker 1>that is a principle or a rule, and the rule

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<v Speaker 1>is that improv that good improvisation, good creative process is

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<v Speaker 1>all about. It starts with yes. And that's the response

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<v Speaker 1>to somebody yes. And the opposite, which is the death

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<v Speaker 1>of improvisation and the death of creativity, is no. But okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what I mean is you you have a thought.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, maybe I'm your partner and you have a thought,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, you know, here's a crazy thought. What

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<v Speaker 1>if our home could do? Right? My role as your partner,

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<v Speaker 1>because these are not decisions, these are ideas. My role

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<v Speaker 1>of your partner is to acknowledge that, Yes, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a crazy thought, but yeah, I see the value there.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's interesting. You know. I'm not saying that we

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<v Speaker 1>should enact it tomorrow, but yeah, yes, and and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I can feed something else into that. And now all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, see that's yes and yes. And the

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<v Speaker 1>opposite of that in communication and in life is no. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's ridiculous. And that's where we crush these these potentially

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<v Speaker 1>really value ideas, and we keep them from growing into

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<v Speaker 1>something else, something that really will make a difference. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's yes and you know, and not always no or

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<v Speaker 1>well but but you know that you know that's the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thing. So the rule is yes and not

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<v Speaker 1>no and but got it all right, because remember, an

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<v Speaker 1>idea is not a decision. So there's no need to

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<v Speaker 1>fear an idea. It's not a decision. It's an idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Embrace it, play with it. Window shopping is free. There's

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<v Speaker 1>no need to narrow it to your budget, research, explore, learn,

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<v Speaker 1>don't pre categorize yourself. Know that most of your ideas

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<v Speaker 1>won't make it into the project in the form that

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<v Speaker 1>they first arrive, but they may spark the most important

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<v Speaker 1>idea that does change the game. And I'll give you

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<v Speaker 1>these last two little tidbits here. Give yourself time. You

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<v Speaker 1>always hear me harping on spending time and slowing it down.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing truly outstanding is designed or built overnight. Even with

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<v Speaker 1>a well thought out design. We encourage you to layer

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<v Speaker 1>a project as much as you can, because you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>with every new completed phase of the project, that project.

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<v Speaker 1>As your home starts to change shape, it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>alter the way you experience the space, and it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>give birth to other ideas. Take the time, layer things out,

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<v Speaker 1>take the time to allow it even as you change it,

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<v Speaker 1>allow it to change you, because that's what happens in

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<v Speaker 1>a really good custom design scenario. Remember the iron triangle.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got three sides time, quality, and cost, and the

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<v Speaker 1>rule is inviolable. You can have any two of those

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<v Speaker 1>sides of the triangle that you want, and you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it with the third side. Okay, so if

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<v Speaker 1>you want it done fast and excellent but overnight like

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<v Speaker 1>fast and excellent, time and quality, get ready to write

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<v Speaker 1>a big check. You're going to pay for it in

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<v Speaker 1>the cost. If you want it done fast and cheap, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem. All you're going to sacrifice is quality, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're like most people and you want it

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<v Speaker 1>the best value possible and the best quality possible, then

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<v Speaker 1>guess what you have to spend. You pay for it

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<v Speaker 1>by taking your time. And that's the thing. Give yourself time.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't last tip, don't try to design the space. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>just jump into the space. Okay, don't be a designer,

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<v Speaker 1>be a homeowner, be the person living in the space.

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<v Speaker 1>Describe what you want to do in it, and how

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<v Speaker 1>you want to feel in it, and what you want

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<v Speaker 1>to experience in it. Those are the most important questions

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you and yourself right up front. Those are

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<v Speaker 1>the questions I ask you right up front, so you

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<v Speaker 1>ask them of yourself. All right, that's all we've got

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<v Speaker 1>time for today. We have spent the time wisely. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we're going to be right back here tomorrow for

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<v Speaker 1>the big show. Tomorrow's show, we're going to be talking

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<v Speaker 1>with two Los Angeles attorneys who specialize in damage law,

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<v Speaker 1>specialize in claims to insurance companies after a disaster, or

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<v Speaker 1>a pipe breaks or an entire neighborhood burns down, all

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<v Speaker 1>of the above and more. It's going to be a super,

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<v Speaker 1>super interesting and informative show. That's tomorrow's show. Don't miss

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<v Speaker 1>it until then, though, Get out there in this beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>day and get busy building yourself a beautiful life, and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see you tomorrow. This has been Home with Dean Sharp,

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<v Speaker 1>the House Whisper. Tune into the live broadcast on ka

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