WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.040 --> 00:00:02.160 It's a Minnesota Goodbye with Jenny and Bailey, and von 2 00:00:02.200 --> 00:00:04.200 Vante is just finishing some stuff up, so he'll be 3 00:00:04.360 --> 00:00:07.400 on this in just a second. So we have lots 4 00:00:07.400 --> 00:00:09.320 of emails we're going to get right into, and this 5 00:00:09.359 --> 00:00:11.839 one says, dear Jenny and Bailey with Dave gone, I 6 00:00:11.919 --> 00:00:14.160 want to bring up some topics with you. Some are 7 00:00:14.199 --> 00:00:17.440 controversial and one is a request. I will say so 8 00:00:17.519 --> 00:00:20.039 this comes from Mitch, the first one that you sent in. 9 00:00:21.160 --> 00:00:23.399 It has to do with things that we've. 10 00:00:23.160 --> 00:00:25.399 Talked about on the show sort of, but also it 11 00:00:25.440 --> 00:00:28.519 gets like a little bit political, so I'm not really 12 00:00:28.559 --> 00:00:30.239 going to talk about that. I will just say that 13 00:00:30.239 --> 00:00:33.119 Bailey and I do agree with your point with you, Mitch, Yeah, 14 00:00:33.159 --> 00:00:35.240 we agree with your points that you were you made 15 00:00:35.799 --> 00:00:38.640 and yeah you said you asked us where do you 16 00:00:38.679 --> 00:00:41.560 come down on this? So moving on to the next one, 17 00:00:41.600 --> 00:00:45.280 it says, have you ever done any micro rule breaking? 18 00:00:45.880 --> 00:00:48.159 Examples of this might be going to the movies, buying 19 00:00:48.159 --> 00:00:51.039 a ticket and then going to another movie after asking 20 00:00:51.039 --> 00:00:52.960 for a glass of water at a fast food restaurant 21 00:00:53.000 --> 00:00:55.200 but filling it with soda, going through the airport gate 22 00:00:55.240 --> 00:00:57.719 and board group one when you're really in boarding group 23 00:00:57.840 --> 00:01:01.759 five or bringing snacks slide drinks into the theater. 24 00:01:02.359 --> 00:01:03.320 Mitch, I've done all those. 25 00:01:03.439 --> 00:01:05.799 Actually, no, I've never gone to the movies bought a 26 00:01:05.840 --> 00:01:08.040 ticket and then gone to another one. I've never done 27 00:01:08.079 --> 00:01:10.439 that one, but as a kid, i'd definitely asked for. 28 00:01:10.400 --> 00:01:12.640 A water and like up set. 29 00:01:12.959 --> 00:01:17.159 Honestly, I would say Southwest is the airline where you 30 00:01:17.400 --> 00:01:19.439 have to be in certain boarding groups, and then if 31 00:01:19.480 --> 00:01:21.599 you're in the later ones, you're basically getting the middle 32 00:01:21.640 --> 00:01:25.120 seat because you choose your seat. One time, Andrew and 33 00:01:25.200 --> 00:01:27.480 I did jump into like a group that was a 34 00:01:27.519 --> 00:01:30.120 little bit earlier. He got away with it, and then 35 00:01:30.239 --> 00:01:33.040 someone else like caught me. Oh no, like the gate 36 00:01:33.040 --> 00:01:35.079 guy caught me. And I did want to do it in. 37 00:01:35.079 --> 00:01:36.280 The first place. It was his idea. 38 00:01:36.400 --> 00:01:38.280 I'm going to put the blame on him, and I 39 00:01:38.319 --> 00:01:39.760 was like, oh, I'm so sorry, like I'll go to 40 00:01:39.799 --> 00:01:41.000 the back of the line, and he's like, no, it's 41 00:01:41.000 --> 00:01:43.239 fine because he knew I was with Handy, so he's 42 00:01:43.239 --> 00:01:45.280 like you can go, and I'm like, oh, okay, that's 43 00:01:45.280 --> 00:01:47.000 the only time I've done that. And of course, like 44 00:01:47.200 --> 00:01:49.599 we've talked about this, I bring food into the movie 45 00:01:49.599 --> 00:01:52.200 theater I know that people disagree with that, but I 46 00:01:52.280 --> 00:01:54.239 do that every once in a while. However, I always 47 00:01:54.239 --> 00:01:56.719 buy my popcorn at the movie theater if I want popcorn. 48 00:01:57.079 --> 00:02:00.000 What about you, guys, any micro rule breaking? You said 49 00:02:00.120 --> 00:02:02.480 you do the fast food thing, filling up your Yeah, 50 00:02:02.519 --> 00:02:03.040 I've done that. 51 00:02:03.400 --> 00:02:05.799 I it's first of all, this is I think this 52 00:02:05.879 --> 00:02:08.599 is a good idea to bring on the main show, 53 00:02:08.599 --> 00:02:11.879 because I think this is fascinating. But I don't think 54 00:02:11.919 --> 00:02:15.280 it's necessarily rule breaking. But usually I always try. 55 00:02:15.439 --> 00:02:17.039 Oh well, I guess this kind of feels like a 56 00:02:17.120 --> 00:02:17.520 rule break. 57 00:02:17.560 --> 00:02:19.479 But if I go to like a Mexican restaurant and 58 00:02:19.479 --> 00:02:22.400 they have chips and salsa, I will say, just keep 59 00:02:22.439 --> 00:02:25.039 the chips and salsa coming. I will have this margarita, 60 00:02:25.080 --> 00:02:27.599 and I will tip you handsomely and I just eat 61 00:02:27.680 --> 00:02:29.599 my whole meal. Is the chips and salsa, which is 62 00:02:29.960 --> 00:02:33.039 comes free. I do say that, but then I do 63 00:02:33.120 --> 00:02:36.159 tip them handsomely. I tip them like forty percent because 64 00:02:36.159 --> 00:02:40.240 I know that they're not making any money on my meal. 65 00:02:40.639 --> 00:02:43.360 But also I know I'm about to fill up on 66 00:02:43.400 --> 00:02:45.560 these chips and salsa. Yeah, and then I'll order at 67 00:02:45.639 --> 00:02:48.719 least one, if not two, margarita's and then just really 68 00:02:48.759 --> 00:02:51.960 really tip them well, and usually they seem like fine 69 00:02:52.000 --> 00:02:55.199 with it. Yeah, but also maybe they hate me on 70 00:02:55.240 --> 00:02:58.879 the inside. I don't know, but I've done that for years. 71 00:02:58.919 --> 00:03:00.680 But that's all I want to eat. It's the chips 72 00:03:00.680 --> 00:03:02.479 and salsa, Like I don't want a real meal. I 73 00:03:02.560 --> 00:03:06.039 might like add guawk or like hot kso whatever. 74 00:03:06.000 --> 00:03:07.199 Do you only have one margarita? 75 00:03:07.759 --> 00:03:09.199 One or two? Okay? Yeah? 76 00:03:09.280 --> 00:03:13.960 I would like from a server perspective, I would probably 77 00:03:14.000 --> 00:03:16.159 believe you that you would tip me handsomely, but like 78 00:03:16.240 --> 00:03:18.599 I wouldn't know for sure, so I'd probably be like, well, 79 00:03:18.599 --> 00:03:20.000 this is a gamble, but whatever. 80 00:03:20.240 --> 00:03:21.840 But then I always do tip handsomely. 81 00:03:21.919 --> 00:03:22.120 Yeah. 82 00:03:22.199 --> 00:03:23.800 Yeah, And they don't have to spend a lot of 83 00:03:23.800 --> 00:03:25.280 time helping me because all you have to do is 84 00:03:25.319 --> 00:03:26.599 come back with the little. 85 00:03:26.520 --> 00:03:29.120 Scoop, the chip scoop, throw some more chips. 86 00:03:28.840 --> 00:03:31.639 In there, boomed on easy right, I'm an easy woman. 87 00:03:31.479 --> 00:03:33.599 What about you, Yvonne? Micro Rule breaks. 88 00:03:33.479 --> 00:03:36.280 Was always in the movies when I was in high school, 89 00:03:36.280 --> 00:03:38.280 like with friends, so I would all not always, but 90 00:03:38.400 --> 00:03:40.159 a lot of times we would buy a ticket and 91 00:03:40.199 --> 00:03:42.840 be like, you know, AMC goes so deep? Like when 92 00:03:42.879 --> 00:03:44.599 you're in the back of the theaters, like nobody's back 93 00:03:44.599 --> 00:03:47.599 there watching. So yeah, I'd go into another movie, like, oh, well, 94 00:03:47.639 --> 00:03:50.280 Wicked's done, Gladiator two's a bet to start a new 95 00:03:50.280 --> 00:03:52.599 showing in about twenty minutes. I'll just walk around, get 96 00:03:52.680 --> 00:03:54.240 new popcorn, and then go into the movie. 97 00:03:54.319 --> 00:03:56.240 Whatnot. I also don't know if this is like a 98 00:03:56.280 --> 00:03:57.599 micro I forget. 99 00:03:57.319 --> 00:03:59.400 What she called it, micro rule breaking. 100 00:03:59.680 --> 00:04:03.240 I let go into If I'm grocery shopping, I would 101 00:04:03.280 --> 00:04:05.360 like if I'd be thirsty, grab a drink and start 102 00:04:05.439 --> 00:04:07.639 drinking it in the store and then show up with 103 00:04:07.680 --> 00:04:09.439 it like damn near done by the time I get 104 00:04:09.439 --> 00:04:10.560 to the counter, but then pay for it. 105 00:04:10.560 --> 00:04:12.360 Then, yeah, I know that's like frowned. I don't know 106 00:04:12.400 --> 00:04:14.199 if it's like Michael rodbreaking, but it's definitely like frowned 107 00:04:14.199 --> 00:04:14.479 to Pond. 108 00:04:14.560 --> 00:04:16.079 Yeah, my grandma used to do that all the time. 109 00:04:16.480 --> 00:04:19.360 I think that's just like a normal thing in Ohio. Yeah, 110 00:04:19.399 --> 00:04:21.240 you're thirsty, start drinking your drink here, and just pay 111 00:04:21.240 --> 00:04:22.360 for it when you get to the end. 112 00:04:23.600 --> 00:04:25.560 Love it, okay, And then Mitch continues on with one 113 00:04:25.600 --> 00:04:28.120 last thing and says, third, when is Bailey going to 114 00:04:28.160 --> 00:04:29.319 do a parody song? 115 00:04:29.399 --> 00:04:32.120 She's funny and has a great voice. Let's get one going. 116 00:04:32.439 --> 00:04:33.399 Thank you, Mitch. 117 00:04:33.600 --> 00:04:35.959 I should do a parody song, honestly, I have, Like 118 00:04:36.319 --> 00:04:38.759 I had plans for one during the summertime, but they 119 00:04:38.759 --> 00:04:41.959 were kind of like parody songs that pointed out my flaws, 120 00:04:42.000 --> 00:04:44.040 and everybody was like, don't talk about your flaws because 121 00:04:44.040 --> 00:04:46.160 then people will agree with you and then your flaws 122 00:04:46.160 --> 00:04:46.920 will be highlighted. 123 00:04:47.000 --> 00:04:49.399 So I have to come up with what to sing about. 124 00:04:49.480 --> 00:04:51.720 Maybe I'll sing about like maybe I'll do it to 125 00:04:51.839 --> 00:04:55.959 like the tune of Defying Gravity and make it about ye, or. 126 00:04:56.319 --> 00:04:58.680 You're a parody song for me, Mitch. Fun fact, I 127 00:04:58.680 --> 00:05:02.399 actually wrote a parody song. Yeah, and Dave like read 128 00:05:02.399 --> 00:05:04.360 it and every like we went through it. But it 129 00:05:04.439 --> 00:05:06.480 was kind of about me being lonely, and it was 130 00:05:06.519 --> 00:05:08.560 in the like little time and off where my girlfriend 131 00:05:08.560 --> 00:05:10.279 a Lista moved here, so it kind of didn't make sense. 132 00:05:10.120 --> 00:05:12.639 After that, Oh yeah, though you still don't have friends. 133 00:05:12.720 --> 00:05:14.160 Yeah, But a lot of it was about like how 134 00:05:14.199 --> 00:05:16.800 I was like completely la oh yeah. 135 00:05:17.199 --> 00:05:20.680 But I think the last one I did was to 136 00:05:20.720 --> 00:05:24.120 Harry Styles late night talking. I did late night snacking 137 00:05:24.240 --> 00:05:25.720 because I get up in the middle of the night 138 00:05:25.720 --> 00:05:26.600 and need snacks. 139 00:05:26.920 --> 00:05:29.120 So yes, missed. 140 00:05:29.160 --> 00:05:30.959 Well, Jenny, do you miss that era? And you listening 141 00:05:31.040 --> 00:05:33.160 do you miss that era? Like doing a parody songs 142 00:05:33.199 --> 00:05:33.600 on the show. 143 00:05:35.800 --> 00:05:39.120 Not really, because honestly, it's a lot of work to 144 00:05:39.160 --> 00:05:40.040 do parody songs. 145 00:05:40.399 --> 00:05:41.759 The production aspect of it. 146 00:05:42.000 --> 00:05:44.600 Like I know, you think we might just you know, 147 00:05:44.680 --> 00:05:46.240 sing it in one take and nail it. 148 00:05:46.279 --> 00:05:47.199 That's not how it goes. 149 00:05:47.319 --> 00:05:49.519 There's a lot more elements that go into it. So 150 00:05:50.000 --> 00:05:52.759 from a production side, not the easiest part of a 151 00:05:52.800 --> 00:05:55.240 parody song is writing it, which you probably would think 152 00:05:55.240 --> 00:05:57.199 that that's the hardest part of It's not is actually 153 00:05:57.199 --> 00:06:00.519 performing it and syncing it up to the music, adding 154 00:06:00.560 --> 00:06:04.199 sound effects if that's required. So I don't really miss 155 00:06:04.319 --> 00:06:06.680 that as much. But also I'm not like a huge 156 00:06:06.680 --> 00:06:10.240 parody person. I like more of like the parodies where 157 00:06:10.879 --> 00:06:13.600 it wasn't singing. It was like a bit like Dixonsider 158 00:06:14.279 --> 00:06:17.279 or like the family feud that's so inappropriate that we 159 00:06:17.319 --> 00:06:21.399 can never play anymore. Yeah, yeah, we can't. We can't 160 00:06:21.439 --> 00:06:23.759 do those ones. And then I just want to make 161 00:06:23.800 --> 00:06:26.800 sure I say his signature. It says thank you dart Lick, 162 00:06:26.920 --> 00:06:29.399 dart Lick, and that's for Mitch. So thanks for your email. 163 00:06:31.600 --> 00:06:33.680 Okay, let's see what do we got next. 164 00:06:33.759 --> 00:06:37.519 Here there is someone who sent in Fallon's doppelganger, and 165 00:06:37.519 --> 00:06:41.920 I'm gonna be honest, I don't really see it myself, but. 166 00:06:43.519 --> 00:06:45.639 Cool, love it. 167 00:06:45.839 --> 00:06:46.360 Love it is. 168 00:06:47.600 --> 00:06:50.519 Well, she's older, and I would say that, like if 169 00:06:50.519 --> 00:06:52.680 someone showed me that, I'd be a little bit. Like 170 00:06:53.199 --> 00:06:57.120 someone did send me a doppelganger on Instagram yesterday. I'm 171 00:06:57.160 --> 00:06:59.959 a girl like performing Glinda's I don't know when to 172 00:07:00.079 --> 00:07:03.480 Glinda's songs and she is so pretty, and I was like, 173 00:07:03.560 --> 00:07:06.439 this is the nicest doppelganger anyone's ever sent to me. 174 00:07:06.560 --> 00:07:08.439 I don't really think I look like her, but Andrew's like, 175 00:07:08.439 --> 00:07:10.439 oh yeah, you look like her. But I sent it 176 00:07:10.480 --> 00:07:11.759 to I was like, thank you for this. 177 00:07:12.240 --> 00:07:13.680 Usually, yeah I want to see that. 178 00:07:13.920 --> 00:07:16.279 Usually people send me home and I'm like, oh yeah. 179 00:07:16.319 --> 00:07:20.199 Usually people send me videos wach like Rottweiler's rolling on 180 00:07:20.240 --> 00:07:22.560 the ground and they're like doppelganger and I'm like, why 181 00:07:22.560 --> 00:07:23.079 would you do. 182 00:07:23.079 --> 00:07:23.439 That to me? 183 00:07:23.560 --> 00:07:26.079 If anyone does that, you send me them so I 184 00:07:26.120 --> 00:07:29.279 can DM them and be like, you're me be a 185 00:07:29.399 --> 00:07:33.639 nicer person. Okay, I will be honest. For some reason, 186 00:07:33.680 --> 00:07:35.480 I'm not entirely sure if we read this one from 187 00:07:35.519 --> 00:07:37.040 our lovely secretary Breed. 188 00:07:37.800 --> 00:07:39.920 So if we have already, just Bailey, you let me know. 189 00:07:39.959 --> 00:07:40.199 Okay. 190 00:07:40.639 --> 00:07:42.959 Dave just doesn't delete emails all the time, so I 191 00:07:43.040 --> 00:07:44.240 don't know which ones for sure. 192 00:07:44.439 --> 00:07:47.399 So it says, hey, fuckers, just want your attention. Good morning. 193 00:07:47.959 --> 00:07:50.319 I'm sitting in the hockey rink wondering if my evening 194 00:07:50.600 --> 00:07:54.519 evening coffee gamble will be a regret in a couple hours. 195 00:07:54.680 --> 00:07:57.279 It's moments like these that I find myself questioning my 196 00:07:57.319 --> 00:08:00.120 life choices. But a last here I am speaking. I'm 197 00:08:00.160 --> 00:08:02.319 missing garbage day. We were talking about how if you 198 00:08:02.360 --> 00:08:05.920 forget to put your garbage out? Shit yesterday. Oh it's Tuesday, okay, 199 00:08:05.920 --> 00:08:09.680 go Tomorrow's my garbage day, she says. Last week this 200 00:08:09.839 --> 00:08:13.160 was almost me, but I made a heroic save a'l 201 00:08:13.199 --> 00:08:17.560 bite while looking like a drown sewer rat made its 202 00:08:17.600 --> 00:08:19.079 way out of hibernation. 203 00:08:19.600 --> 00:08:20.480 Let me paint you a picture. 204 00:08:20.519 --> 00:08:22.639 I'm about to cozy into my corner of the couch 205 00:08:22.639 --> 00:08:24.319 and I hear the garbage truck in the call the sack, 206 00:08:24.439 --> 00:08:27.240 meaning I have a max of thirty seconds before We're 207 00:08:27.319 --> 00:08:31.360 stuck with overflowing garbage for seven days in my lilac 208 00:08:31.639 --> 00:08:36.519 colored sweatpants, my dart Lick tea, accompanied by my quote 209 00:08:36.519 --> 00:08:39.320 mom sweater the long cart. Again that's too comfy to 210 00:08:39.320 --> 00:08:40.600 get rid of, but too hideous to. 211 00:08:40.519 --> 00:08:43.000 Wear out in the I know exactly what you're talking about. 212 00:08:43.080 --> 00:08:44.600 That was my get up as I hurried into my 213 00:08:44.679 --> 00:08:47.879 husband's oversized sneakers, praying none of my neighbors would be outside. 214 00:08:47.919 --> 00:08:51.360 They weren't, but my kid's bus was. Sorry, boys, please 215 00:08:51.360 --> 00:08:56.360 forgive mama woo. That made my stash sweaty. Now, she says, 216 00:08:56.399 --> 00:08:59.360 the purpose of my email twofold one. You briefly discussed 217 00:08:59.440 --> 00:09:02.120 music video done in one take. I don't know how 218 00:09:02.120 --> 00:09:05.159 to pronounce this Kieza Hideaway is a Kieza. I don't 219 00:09:05.159 --> 00:09:09.840 know k I E s z a hideaway. Check it out. 220 00:09:09.879 --> 00:09:12.159 It's impressive. I know that song, I just don't know 221 00:09:12.200 --> 00:09:14.720 how to pronounce the artists. And then second, just wanted 222 00:09:14.759 --> 00:09:17.840 to share someone on my radar because knowing the filthy 223 00:09:18.000 --> 00:09:21.600 zero focks given bean diddling crowd that listens, and you 224 00:09:21.720 --> 00:09:23.039 dirty bitches, you'll love him. 225 00:09:23.360 --> 00:09:26.240 It's Derek khill on Ig. So it's d E. 226 00:09:26.559 --> 00:09:32.120 R I c underscore c h I l l on Instagram. 227 00:09:32.399 --> 00:09:36.679 He's a hilarious comment comedian who's fuck this House segments 228 00:09:36.759 --> 00:09:40.200 on the miserable parts of homeownership give me such delight, 229 00:09:40.759 --> 00:09:46.000 Annie Whoso mctuozel love Yeah, Secretary Brie, also Horny Shannon, 230 00:09:46.039 --> 00:09:48.559 and Saint Paul. Maybe give yourself some time in the 231 00:09:48.639 --> 00:09:51.080 shower slash bath with music, drown out the noise and 232 00:09:51.200 --> 00:09:54.120 enjoy your time. So that was once again we Shannon 233 00:09:54.200 --> 00:09:56.440 had wrote in yesterday and last week and she I 234 00:09:56.559 --> 00:09:59.559 believe she's living with her son and wife or something 235 00:09:59.639 --> 00:10:01.879 like that. I was talking about getting out there and 236 00:10:01.919 --> 00:10:05.840 getting some a action. So thank you so much Secretary 237 00:10:05.919 --> 00:10:09.440 Brie for that one. Next email says Dave, Jenny Bailey, 238 00:10:09.519 --> 00:10:12.200 and von I hope you're all doing well. Longtime listener here. 239 00:10:12.639 --> 00:10:15.320 With mental health being a big topic on the station lately, 240 00:10:15.480 --> 00:10:17.840 I thought of an idea for a group therapy session. 241 00:10:18.320 --> 00:10:22.759 I've been experiencing something called disassociation during stressful situations at work, 242 00:10:22.759 --> 00:10:25.360 where it feels like I'm watching myself from the outside. 243 00:10:25.720 --> 00:10:26.480 But it's more than that. 244 00:10:26.720 --> 00:10:29.480 It's like I'm my own cheerleader, encouraging myself as I 245 00:10:29.559 --> 00:10:33.879 perform really well. As a youngish software engineer, this often 246 00:10:33.960 --> 00:10:36.519 happens in high stakes meetings where I feel out of 247 00:10:36.600 --> 00:10:38.919 my depth but end up nailing it as I've as 248 00:10:38.960 --> 00:10:42.200 if I've watched myself without actually doing anything. It got 249 00:10:42.240 --> 00:10:44.879 me thinking, do you, as DJs ever feel this way? 250 00:10:44.960 --> 00:10:46.960 Like during your rap battles when you're coming up with 251 00:10:47.080 --> 00:10:49.039 lyrics on the spot? Do you feel like you're both 252 00:10:49.159 --> 00:10:52.200 performing and cheering yourself on thinking yeah, I'm doing it. 253 00:10:53.159 --> 00:10:57.360 When I mentioned this to my new psychiatrist, she seemed concerned, 254 00:10:57.440 --> 00:11:00.039 but honestly, I wouldn't change it for the world. It 255 00:11:00.080 --> 00:11:02.480 feels like a superpower. I love when it happens and 256 00:11:02.840 --> 00:11:04.759 wish I had more of it. To be honest, I'm 257 00:11:04.840 --> 00:11:07.200 curious if others, even in different fields, have felt this 258 00:11:07.279 --> 00:11:10.039 way during intense moments. I'd also love to hear a 259 00:11:10.080 --> 00:11:13.519 psychiatrist or therapists perspective on this. I'd be happy to 260 00:11:13.600 --> 00:11:15.320 chat about this on a call for a group therapy 261 00:11:15.399 --> 00:11:18.320 session and here if anyone else has had something similar. 262 00:11:19.080 --> 00:11:21.799 This comes from Darren. Darren, maybe we'll do that as 263 00:11:21.840 --> 00:11:23.679 a group therapy. I will definitely put it in our 264 00:11:24.120 --> 00:11:28.759 list of options for group therapy, so I'll start with it, 265 00:11:28.840 --> 00:11:31.519 because I definitely have had like a lot of mental 266 00:11:31.600 --> 00:11:34.799 health things happened to me and kind of aggressively in 267 00:11:34.840 --> 00:11:37.799 the last year. And I think the reason your psychiatrist 268 00:11:38.159 --> 00:11:40.960 was concerned is because disassociation can be a really, really 269 00:11:41.080 --> 00:11:43.759 negative thing when it comes to mental health. And I 270 00:11:43.919 --> 00:11:47.039 definitely experience that when my anxiety was at an all 271 00:11:47.120 --> 00:11:51.519 time high, and you do a pretty good job explaining it. 272 00:11:51.639 --> 00:11:53.679 I don't really know if I can explain. 273 00:11:53.360 --> 00:11:57.200 Exactly what I go through, but like it happened to 274 00:11:57.279 --> 00:12:00.960 me just yesterday where I completely disassociated and Andrew looked 275 00:12:01.000 --> 00:12:03.799 at me and he could just see this like blank 276 00:12:03.879 --> 00:12:06.080 stare on my face, and it was because I was 277 00:12:06.120 --> 00:12:10.440 dealing with something stressful. And so I think that's why 278 00:12:10.519 --> 00:12:14.360 you're the or psychiatrist is concerned, is because you are 279 00:12:14.480 --> 00:12:18.039 using it in a very positive way, but disassociation can 280 00:12:18.120 --> 00:12:20.480 be very negative when it comes to certain forms of 281 00:12:20.559 --> 00:12:23.679 mental health. What about you, guys, Have you guys ever 282 00:12:23.759 --> 00:12:26.120 experienced anything like this, either in a positive or negative way? 283 00:12:26.279 --> 00:12:29.240 I think transparently, and I probably should even be saying this, 284 00:12:29.320 --> 00:12:32.240 but like sometimes on this show, I'm like saying things 285 00:12:32.279 --> 00:12:34.039 and I'm at the like at the end of my sentence, 286 00:12:34.080 --> 00:12:37.200 I'm like, wow, like I just formulated that thought, yeah, 287 00:12:37.240 --> 00:12:39.759 and I just disassociate because, you know, and I don't 288 00:12:39.759 --> 00:12:41.279 know if this is because I'm just still fairly new 289 00:12:41.360 --> 00:12:43.519 to radio, and you know, there's a there's you know, 290 00:12:43.639 --> 00:12:46.200 good radio personalities, and there's poor ones, and then there's 291 00:12:46.519 --> 00:12:50.559 me who's like you hear learning, And sometimes I'm like, 292 00:12:50.639 --> 00:12:53.320 oh shit, okay, that went well or yeah, like your example, 293 00:12:53.440 --> 00:12:55.440 like a rap battle or when we do genre game 294 00:12:55.519 --> 00:12:59.879 or even mixtape game. Transparently, sometimes I have a scenario 295 00:13:00.080 --> 00:13:01.879 written and sometimes I know the song and I just 296 00:13:02.200 --> 00:13:03.320 will see where the wind takes me. 297 00:13:03.639 --> 00:13:06.279 Sure, and sometimes you know, it's just it's weird. 298 00:13:06.360 --> 00:13:08.039 But I think I realize that most with this job 299 00:13:08.080 --> 00:13:10.519 because it's something that I want to excel in and 300 00:13:10.639 --> 00:13:13.159 I want obviously to make sense because you care about 301 00:13:13.159 --> 00:13:14.240 what we have to say, but I don't want to 302 00:13:14.240 --> 00:13:17.600 say something stupid mm hmm. And then sometimes in life, 303 00:13:17.840 --> 00:13:20.000 but I think I experienced it most when I'm like 304 00:13:20.080 --> 00:13:22.279 doing the show because I want to do good. Yeah, 305 00:13:22.679 --> 00:13:25.840 but I'm just like mindful of like, okay, this is 306 00:13:26.159 --> 00:13:29.360 this person is asking us for advice on this Do 307 00:13:29.519 --> 00:13:30.240 I give advice? 308 00:13:30.399 --> 00:13:33.039 This way. Oh wait a minute, it's just I don't know, 309 00:13:33.200 --> 00:13:33.720 it's bizarre. 310 00:13:34.120 --> 00:13:36.480 What about Yeah, I honestly, I feel like I have 311 00:13:36.559 --> 00:13:39.320 the opposite of what Darren is talking about. I do 312 00:13:39.480 --> 00:13:42.399 not necessarily associate unless I'm like driving and then I'm like, wait, 313 00:13:42.440 --> 00:13:43.120 how did I get here? 314 00:13:43.279 --> 00:13:43.480 Yeah? 315 00:13:43.679 --> 00:13:47.519 But I if I'm like working on the show, I 316 00:13:48.240 --> 00:13:51.039 like here, I could be talking to Dave and he could. 317 00:13:50.919 --> 00:13:52.559 Look at me in a certain way, and I will 318 00:13:53.240 --> 00:13:55.879 associate so much not disassociate. 319 00:13:55.919 --> 00:13:57.080 I will be like, why did he look at me 320 00:13:57.159 --> 00:13:57.279 like that? 321 00:13:57.320 --> 00:13:57.840 What does he think? 322 00:13:57.879 --> 00:13:57.960 Oh? 323 00:13:58.000 --> 00:13:58.279 My god? 324 00:13:58.320 --> 00:14:00.279 I need to write out everything that I'm saying. I 325 00:14:00.320 --> 00:14:02.120 need to make sure that everything is funny that I'm saying. 326 00:14:02.440 --> 00:14:05.120 I like literally write out most of my daily Bailey's 327 00:14:05.159 --> 00:14:07.879 word for word because thinking off the cuff, like yeah, 328 00:14:07.919 --> 00:14:11.159 I did improv, I do theater, but like, I don't know. 329 00:14:11.279 --> 00:14:15.159 I'm more I'm literally the opposite of dissociating at any 330 00:14:15.200 --> 00:14:18.600 given time, because I don't want to appear like I 331 00:14:18.639 --> 00:14:20.879 don't know what I'm talking about because I did not, 332 00:14:21.919 --> 00:14:25.159 you know, go to school for radio. Yeah, this isn't 333 00:14:25.200 --> 00:14:28.080 something I worked towards my entire life. So I just 334 00:14:28.159 --> 00:14:30.480 don't want people to think that I don't deserve to 335 00:14:30.559 --> 00:14:33.039 be here because it's fun. So I like it here 336 00:14:33.080 --> 00:14:34.080 and I don't want people to be like, you know, 337 00:14:34.159 --> 00:14:36.360 who sucks, Bailey, let's get rid of her. Oh no, 338 00:14:36.879 --> 00:14:41.879 So yeah, I over associate with absolutely everything. In my 339 00:14:42.000 --> 00:14:44.440 old jobs, I probably could have cared not all of them, 340 00:14:44.480 --> 00:14:46.080 but like some of them, I probably could have cared 341 00:14:46.080 --> 00:14:48.759 a little bit more. So maybe I dissociated a little bit. 342 00:14:48.840 --> 00:14:51.600 But yeah, Ton, but that's a really good email, Darren, 343 00:14:51.639 --> 00:14:53.200 thanks for sending that in. I would say that none 344 00:14:53.200 --> 00:14:56.080 of us really necessarily disassociate. Specifically he brought up like 345 00:14:56.200 --> 00:14:58.080 rap battle or genre game or something. I think that 346 00:14:58.679 --> 00:15:02.000 we just always are talking constantly and never know what 347 00:15:02.039 --> 00:15:04.960 we're gonna say. So I guess it's kind of just 348 00:15:05.039 --> 00:15:07.399 like what naturally happens. I don't think we're like doing 349 00:15:07.440 --> 00:15:09.960 it in a way where we look outside of ourselves 350 00:15:10.000 --> 00:15:11.159 and look at us performing. 351 00:15:11.240 --> 00:15:12.759 It's just like what we do all the time. 352 00:15:12.840 --> 00:15:14.720 Yeah, but I Bailey, I've said this to you before. 353 00:15:14.759 --> 00:15:17.159 You do such a good job at like the improvising 354 00:15:17.279 --> 00:15:19.759 and always having like your quick witted Yeah, that's one 355 00:15:19.759 --> 00:15:22.480 of my favorite things about you. I appreciate that, said 356 00:15:22.519 --> 00:15:24.120 that to you, so you do the fact that you 357 00:15:24.399 --> 00:15:26.600 feel the need to write down what you're gonna say. 358 00:15:26.720 --> 00:15:29.120 Yeah, you may be over those different like the planned bits, 359 00:15:29.399 --> 00:15:31.240 like if it's planned, I have to write it down, 360 00:15:31.399 --> 00:15:33.519 or like a daily Bailey, I gotta write it down. 361 00:15:33.639 --> 00:15:35.440 Like if I if somebody said, Bailey, what do you 362 00:15:35.480 --> 00:15:39.360 got going on, I'd be like, yeah, nothing, I don't know, 363 00:15:40.039 --> 00:15:41.480 So I have to write it down in order to 364 00:15:41.559 --> 00:15:42.759 like have it come out correctly. 365 00:15:43.080 --> 00:15:44.559 Or like yesterday when you guys were like, how is 366 00:15:44.600 --> 00:15:46.879 your trip with date or a trip with date? How 367 00:15:47.000 --> 00:15:50.200 is your day with trip? I was just like, uh oh, shoot. 368 00:15:50.279 --> 00:15:51.720 I knew we were gonna talk about it, but I 369 00:15:51.759 --> 00:15:55.440 didn't write anything down, so I was like we we 370 00:15:55.799 --> 00:15:56.440 walked around. 371 00:15:57.600 --> 00:15:59.600 It is one thing like behind the scenes for all 372 00:15:59.679 --> 00:16:03.039 of us is like obviously we go and live our lives, 373 00:16:03.120 --> 00:16:06.360 and sometimes whatever we're doing outside of work becomes a 374 00:16:06.480 --> 00:16:09.240 bit for the show or a topic or something. And 375 00:16:09.519 --> 00:16:12.600 I've had to find myself on weekends if something funny happens, 376 00:16:12.639 --> 00:16:14.399 I have to write a note in my phone because 377 00:16:14.440 --> 00:16:16.879 when we all gather on Sundays to start planning for 378 00:16:16.960 --> 00:16:18.679 the week, I forget so much that. 379 00:16:18.799 --> 00:16:20.759 Happens now in my life because am I better at that? 380 00:16:20.879 --> 00:16:23.440 Because yeah, I'm still I feel like I'm still learning that. Like, 381 00:16:23.799 --> 00:16:27.639 if something happens that's interesting, entertaining, whatever, I have to 382 00:16:27.679 --> 00:16:30.679 write it down and I'm not like mastered that yet. 383 00:16:30.679 --> 00:16:34.279 Or even finding the entertainment value into yeah in anything. 384 00:16:34.399 --> 00:16:36.559 This morning, me and Bailey almost got locked in the elevator. 385 00:16:36.759 --> 00:16:39.320 Yeah, my first thought was not shit. My first thought 386 00:16:39.399 --> 00:16:40.960 was literally like, this will be a great break for 387 00:16:41.039 --> 00:16:41.759 the show, and I. 388 00:16:41.879 --> 00:16:44.279 Was thinking shit. So I'm still learning that. 389 00:16:44.559 --> 00:16:46.039 So yeah, anyway, oh my god, that's funny. 390 00:16:46.159 --> 00:16:48.279 But I'm I'm very much like you obviously, I've been 391 00:16:48.320 --> 00:16:50.240 doing this for a long time, so everything's like, Okay, 392 00:16:50.279 --> 00:16:51.879 this will be a bit then and then that'll be 393 00:16:51.919 --> 00:16:53.679 a bit and then like when my friends are telling 394 00:16:53.720 --> 00:16:55.399 me a story, I'm like, ooh, can I should ask 395 00:16:55.440 --> 00:16:57.000 them if they'd be okay with me talking about this on. 396 00:16:57.000 --> 00:16:58.120 The radio to get better at that. 397 00:16:59.039 --> 00:17:00.559 Yeah, And I don't want to spend too much time 398 00:17:00.559 --> 00:17:02.679 on this. Does that bother Andrew because it bothers my 399 00:17:02.679 --> 00:17:03.360 girlfriend Alyssa. 400 00:17:04.920 --> 00:17:07.039 Maybe some people have noticed this, but I've actually like 401 00:17:07.160 --> 00:17:09.559