Speaker 1: This is tj Amanda and j Ron's second date update on.
Speaker 2: kJ one O three. Jordan and Okay, see welcome to
the second date update. Hey, A little confused why you're
not getting another date with Lily here? Right?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Really really confused. Lily and I had a really really
good time, big hugbye, really enthusiastics you soon.
Speaker 2: Right, Uh, and then I don't.
Speaker 4: Really hear anything from her for like a little like
a day or two, which I was like, okay, okay,
you know, and then so I texted her, uh for
you know, I sent her some texts and still nothing.
So yeah, yeah, just really really confused.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll get Lily on the phone and then we'll
find out what really happened.
Speaker 4: You're racking my brain right now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're listen. If it was as boring and vague
as you made it out to be, then I don't
know what her problem is. But if you did something
else to screw it up, she's gonna tell us. Okay, Okay, okay,
get ready Jordan.
Speaker 4: The second Date Update with tj Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one oh three.
Speaker 2: Hi, Lily, Welcome to the second date update.
Speaker 5: Jerry.
Speaker 2: Hi, I'll just be honest you sounded a little like okay,
said us or something, Jordan did I know.
Speaker 5: I The date was great. The problem was more so
everything that happened afterwards. It felt like it went from
first date to relationship in like a matter of twelve hours.
Speaker 2: Oh wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: First of all, he sent me flowers the next day,
and then he also followed it up with a playlist
called Our Songs.
Speaker 2: And why is that funny? You laughing experience a lot?
Speaker 5: Well, it's just see, Amanda gets it. We had just
known each other for like six hours. So it was
just far too much.
Speaker 2: Jordan, come on in here, which which Jordan just said,
he kind of reached out to you a little bit afterwards.
I didn't know about flowers and the beautiful our Songs
playlist that you said, So it's.
Speaker 5: Just too much, way too much.
Speaker 2: Why is this too much?
Speaker 5: No? I mean the flowers were beautiful and thank you,
but like after one date, I don't know, and then
also following up with the playlist called our Songs.
Speaker 4: It just.
Speaker 2: I think that's a name for the playlist, buddy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I meant, I honestly meant, just like some of
the bands that we we talked about during the date
that we both that we both really enjoyed, and so yeah,
I get that. I definitely, I definitely could have renamed
the playlists.
Speaker 5: The difference between there's sometimes a difference between nice guy
and love bombing. And this is where I just like,
don't know where this is going and just seeing your
friends here. Maybe don't send flowers after just the first date,
like bring them to the second one.
Speaker 6: I like some advice momentarire, this is great.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds good.
Speaker 4: Is literally this sounds like we're not going on a
second date.
Speaker 5: I don't think so.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, well I get you know what I'm I get,
you know, a bum that you don't want to go
out again. But I'm definitely not going to apologize for
for just being like nice and I'm sorry that you
took it as love bombing.
Speaker 5: Yes, and thank you Jordan for a great date.
Speaker 2: Okay, you're welcome, Okay, by Lily, let you go by. Yeah,
I don't think you should have to apologize either. I'm sorry.
I'm I'm over women craping on men because they're not
they nice thing. Sorry, I sent you flowers. Sorry, I
sent you a playlist of songs that we talked about
on the date. Maybe our songs was the wrong title. Yeah,
there's somebody's looking at me like, oh you poor king.
Speaker 6: You could talk about this till I blow in the face,
so I'll just save it. But I think you're a
very sweet guy, so you just keep.
Speaker 2: Doing what you're doing. Okay, thank thank you, thank you.
I want to see you blue in the face. What
do you have to say, sweetest.
Speaker 3: Most chilvery amazing thing I've ever heard. I feel like
in this day and age with Chilbury is dead. No
men give flowers anymore. Like complaining that a man just
sent you flowers and made you a playlist. That's astonishing
to me. Go him. I hope he never changes.
Speaker 5: That was amazing.
Speaker 6: See, Okay, you need to find a guy like that.
Speaker 2: I want you guys to talk. Thank you, thank you
for supporting us. Nice guys. Nice guys don't always finish last. Sorry.
Like some of us, we wait for the opportunity be like,
oh this is someone I want to buy some flowers for,
and then you're like, oh two nice yeah, and.
Speaker 3: This no, I hope he never changes. That is like,
and that like makes I don't want guys.
Speaker 5: To seem like Oh my god, I should not send.
Speaker 3: There are girls out there that would kill for that
and that would love that.
Speaker 2: I'll tell you that's a very good flower. Good point.
I'm good. Okay, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3: Bye.
Speaker 2: See Amanda. See.
Speaker 6: I know everybody's different.
Speaker 2: I respect that you should. You should change your frame
of mind.
Speaker 6: Everybody can have a different frame of mind, and that's
what makes the world go.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, let me go for boy three sounds like, man,
I just can't win. That's what I say. We can't win.
Why why do you say that?
Speaker 4: Well, we can't be two nights, we can't be bubbled
Like can I say that once a show, once a show.
Speaker 2: We can get away with that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like one way or another.
Speaker 3: And I guess let's just stand here and see what
they want next. I don't know.
Speaker 6: I mean you kind of hit on something that's true,
is stand there and see what they want next.
Speaker 2: That's kind of what we want.
Speaker 6: We want you to stand there and be open and
available and react and listen and then go from there.
Whereas if you just like patently have this move where
you're like I'm gonna get her flowers like that doesn't
feel like you're really listening to what we want. It
just feels like a move that you do because it
seems like the right thing to do.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I didn't get your name. What's your name, Bob?
It sounds like Amanda wants a butthole, wants a guy
who's a butthole.
Speaker 6: That's no, I don't want about I mean the butthole five.
Speaker 1: County right, Okay, bye, all right, let's move on from this, okay,
KJJ man J right in the morning, No more anyway,
No
Speaker 2: Out the seventh, Tam and Paula