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Speaker 1: This is tj Amanda and j Ron's second date update on.

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Speaker 2: kJ one O three. Jordan and Okay, see welcome to

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the second date update. Hey, A little confused why you're

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not getting another date with Lily here? Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Really really confused. Lily and I had a really really

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good time, big hugbye, really enthusiastics you soon.

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Speaker 2: Right, Uh, and then I don't.

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Speaker 4: Really hear anything from her for like a little like

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a day or two, which I was like, okay, okay,

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you know, and then so I texted her, uh for

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you know, I sent her some texts and still nothing.

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So yeah, yeah, just really really confused.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll get Lily on the phone and then we'll

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find out what really happened.

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Speaker 4: You're racking my brain right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're listen. If it was as boring and vague

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as you made it out to be, then I don't

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know what her problem is. But if you did something

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else to screw it up, she's gonna tell us. Okay, Okay, okay,

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get ready Jordan.

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Speaker 4: The second Date Update with tj Amanda and j Rod

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on kJ one oh three.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Lily, Welcome to the second date update.

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Speaker 5: Jerry.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I'll just be honest you sounded a little like okay,

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said us or something, Jordan did I know.

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Speaker 5: I The date was great. The problem was more so

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everything that happened afterwards. It felt like it went from

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first date to relationship in like a matter of twelve hours.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: First of all, he sent me flowers the next day,

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and then he also followed it up with a playlist

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called Our Songs.

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Speaker 2: And why is that funny? You laughing experience a lot?

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Speaker 5: Well, it's just see, Amanda gets it. We had just

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known each other for like six hours. So it was

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just far too much.

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Speaker 2: Jordan, come on in here, which which Jordan just said,

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he kind of reached out to you a little bit afterwards.

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I didn't know about flowers and the beautiful our Songs

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playlist that you said, So it's.

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Speaker 5: Just too much, way too much.

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Speaker 2: Why is this too much?

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Speaker 5: No? I mean the flowers were beautiful and thank you,

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but like after one date, I don't know, and then

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also following up with the playlist called our Songs.

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Speaker 4: It just.

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Speaker 2: I think that's a name for the playlist, buddy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I meant, I honestly meant, just like some of

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the bands that we we talked about during the date

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that we both that we both really enjoyed, and so yeah,

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I get that. I definitely, I definitely could have renamed

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the playlists.

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Speaker 5: The difference between there's sometimes a difference between nice guy

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and love bombing. And this is where I just like,

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don't know where this is going and just seeing your

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friends here. Maybe don't send flowers after just the first date,

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like bring them to the second one.

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Speaker 6: I like some advice momentarire, this is great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds good.

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Speaker 4: Is literally this sounds like we're not going on a

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second date.

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Speaker 5: I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, well I get you know what I'm I get,

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you know, a bum that you don't want to go

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out again. But I'm definitely not going to apologize for

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for just being like nice and I'm sorry that you

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took it as love bombing.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and thank you Jordan for a great date.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're welcome, Okay, by Lily, let you go by. Yeah,

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I don't think you should have to apologize either. I'm sorry.

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I'm I'm over women craping on men because they're not

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they nice thing. Sorry, I sent you flowers. Sorry, I

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sent you a playlist of songs that we talked about

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on the date. Maybe our songs was the wrong title. Yeah,

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there's somebody's looking at me like, oh you poor king.

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Speaker 6: You could talk about this till I blow in the face,

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so I'll just save it. But I think you're a

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very sweet guy, so you just keep.

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Speaker 2: Doing what you're doing. Okay, thank thank you, thank you.

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I want to see you blue in the face. What

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do you have to say, sweetest.

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Speaker 3: Most chilvery amazing thing I've ever heard. I feel like

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in this day and age with Chilbury is dead. No

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men give flowers anymore. Like complaining that a man just

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sent you flowers and made you a playlist. That's astonishing

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to me. Go him. I hope he never changes.

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Speaker 5: That was amazing.

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Speaker 6: See, Okay, you need to find a guy like that.

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Speaker 2: I want you guys to talk. Thank you, thank you

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for supporting us. Nice guys. Nice guys don't always finish last. Sorry.

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Like some of us, we wait for the opportunity be like,

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oh this is someone I want to buy some flowers for,

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and then you're like, oh two nice yeah, and.

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Speaker 3: This no, I hope he never changes. That is like,

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and that like makes I don't want guys.

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Speaker 5: To seem like Oh my god, I should not send.

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Speaker 3: There are girls out there that would kill for that

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and that would love that.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you that's a very good flower. Good point.

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I'm good. Okay, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Bye.

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Speaker 2: See Amanda. See.

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Speaker 6: I know everybody's different.

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Speaker 2: I respect that you should. You should change your frame

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of mind.

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Speaker 6: Everybody can have a different frame of mind, and that's

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what makes the world go.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, let me go for boy three sounds like, man,

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I just can't win. That's what I say. We can't win.

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Why why do you say that?

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Speaker 4: Well, we can't be two nights, we can't be bubbled

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Like can I say that once a show, once a show.

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Speaker 2: We can get away with that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like one way or another.

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Speaker 3: And I guess let's just stand here and see what

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they want next. I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean you kind of hit on something that's true,

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is stand there and see what they want next.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of what we want.

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Speaker 6: We want you to stand there and be open and

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available and react and listen and then go from there.

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Whereas if you just like patently have this move where

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you're like I'm gonna get her flowers like that doesn't

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feel like you're really listening to what we want. It

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just feels like a move that you do because it

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seems like the right thing to do.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I didn't get your name. What's your name, Bob?

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It sounds like Amanda wants a butthole, wants a guy

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who's a butthole.

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Speaker 6: That's no, I don't want about I mean the butthole five.

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Speaker 1: County right, Okay, bye, all right, let's move on from this, okay,

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KJJ man J right in the morning, No more anyway,

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No

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Speaker 2: Out the seventh, Tam and Paula