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<v Speaker 8>Good Evening from The New York Times best selling author

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<v Speaker 8>of Facing the Scream, The First and Last Days of

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<v Speaker 8>about depression and anxiety? What really causes depression and anxiety

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<v Speaker 8>and how can we really solve them? Award winning journalist

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<v Speaker 8>Johann Hari suffered from depression since he was a child

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<v Speaker 8>and started taking antidepressants when he was a teenager. He

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<v Speaker 8>was told that his problems were caused by a chemical

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<v Speaker 8>imbalance in his brain. As an adult trained in the

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<v Speaker 8>social sciences, he began to investigate whether this was true,

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<v Speaker 8>and he learned that almost everything we have been told

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<v Speaker 8>about depression and an anxiety is wrong. Across the world,

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<v Speaker 8>Harry found social scientists who are uncovering evidence that depression

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<v Speaker 8>and anxiety are not caused by a chemical imbalance in

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<v Speaker 8>our brains. In fact, they are largely caused by key

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<v Speaker 8>problems with the way we live today. Harry's journey took

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<v Speaker 8>him from from a mind blowing series of experiments in Baltimore,

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<v Speaker 8>to an Amish community in Indiana to an uprising in Berlin.

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<v Speaker 8>Once he had uncovered the nine real causes of depression

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<v Speaker 8>and anxiety, they led him to scientists who were discovering

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<v Speaker 8>seven very different solutions, ones that work. It is an

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<v Speaker 8>epic journey that will change how we think about one

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<v Speaker 8>of the biggest crises in our culture today. His Ted

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<v Speaker 8>talk Everything you Think You Know about Addiction Is Wrong

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<v Speaker 8>has been viewed more than eight million times and revolutionized

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<v Speaker 8>the global debate. This book will do the same. The

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<v Speaker 8>book that we're featuring, the Seething is Lost Connections Uncovering

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<v Speaker 8>the real causes of depression and the unexpected solutions with

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<v Speaker 8>my special guest journalist and author Johann Hari. Thank you

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<v Speaker 8>very much for a Greenness interview and welcome back to

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<v Speaker 8>the program. Johann Hari.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey Dan, it's ready to get to be back with you.

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<v Speaker 6>And you're still the only radio host who says my

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<v Speaker 6>name right first time round. That's eternally great.

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<v Speaker 8>Wow. I'm I'm grateful I can do that because I'm

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<v Speaker 8>usually butchering people's names. So there we go. Congratulations on

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<v Speaker 8>this book. This is amazing. Let's get right to this.

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<v Speaker 8>You talk about being eighteen years old when you first

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<v Speaker 8>swallowed your first antidepressant and it was Paxel, and you

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<v Speaker 8>started this book three years ago. Take us back to

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<v Speaker 8>that first time and your experience with antidepressants, and then

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<v Speaker 8>tell us about the impetus for this book, the reason

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<v Speaker 8>for this book and where you started and three years ago.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, the answer to those questions is really interconnected.

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<v Speaker 7>Dan.

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<v Speaker 6>There were these two mysteries that were hanging over me.

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<v Speaker 6>The first was ninety years old. Every year I've been

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<v Speaker 6>alive in Britain, the United States, and Canada, depression and

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<v Speaker 6>anxiety have increased, and I wanted to understand why, what's

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<v Speaker 6>going on? Why do so many more people all around

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<v Speaker 6>us seem to be becoming so distressed? And the second

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<v Speaker 6>mystery was more personal. When I was a teenager, as

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<v Speaker 6>you mentioned, I went to my doctor and I explained

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<v Speaker 6>that I had this feeling like pain was kind of

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<v Speaker 6>bleeding out of me. I didn't understand it, I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>I feel quite ashamed of it. I didn't know why

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<v Speaker 6>this was happening, and my doctor told me a story

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<v Speaker 6>about why I felt this way. He said, as entirely

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<v Speaker 6>biological story. He said, well, we scientists have discovered what

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<v Speaker 6>causes this kind of will, causes depression. There's a chemical

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<v Speaker 6>called serotonin in people's brains. Some people are naturally lacking it.

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<v Speaker 6>You're clearly one of them. And the solution is just

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<v Speaker 6>that we need to give you these drugs. So I

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<v Speaker 6>started taking as you say, packed and I felt an

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<v Speaker 6>immediate and significant boost, and for several months I felt

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<v Speaker 6>radically better. But after a while this sense of pain

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<v Speaker 6>started to kind of bleed back through. So I went

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<v Speaker 6>back to my doctor. He said, clearly I didn't give

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<v Speaker 6>you a high enough dose. I started taking a higher dose. Again.

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<v Speaker 6>I felt better again, I started to feel a lot

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<v Speaker 6>with side effects, so I started putting on a lot

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<v Speaker 6>of weight, for example. Again this sense of pain started

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<v Speaker 6>to bleed back through, and I got a higher dose.

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<v Speaker 6>And it was kind of in this cycle until I

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<v Speaker 6>was taking the maximum possible dose for thirteen possible for

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<v Speaker 6>thirteen years, at the end of which I was still depressed. Right.

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<v Speaker 6>I had felt some benefits initially, but I was still depressed.

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<v Speaker 6>So for my bit lost connections, I really want to

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<v Speaker 6>go on this journey to understand what's to really solve

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<v Speaker 6>these two mysteries, what's happening here? Right? So I ended

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<v Speaker 6>up going traveling, as you say, over forty thousand miles

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<v Speaker 6>to meet the leading experts in the world about what

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<v Speaker 6>causes depression and anxiety and what solved them, and to

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<v Speaker 6>go to places that had very different perspectives on this.

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<v Speaker 6>And I think I learned many things for this book

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<v Speaker 6>but on this but one of the most important to

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<v Speaker 6>me was I realized that until I went to my

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<v Speaker 6>doctor when I was a teenager, I thought my depression

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<v Speaker 6>and anxiety were all in my head, meaning, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I was just being weak. I needed to man up,

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<v Speaker 6>I needed to be tougher, you know, insert whatever stigmatizing

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<v Speaker 6>cliche you want there. And then for the next thirteen years,

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<v Speaker 6>I thought depression was all in my head, meaning it

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<v Speaker 6>was just a kind of chemical imbalance in my brain.

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<v Speaker 6>But actually, what I learned on this journey is from

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<v Speaker 6>the leading experts in the world, there are real biological

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<v Speaker 6>factors that can make you more sensitive to these problems.

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<v Speaker 6>There are real brain changes, your genes, and so on,

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<v Speaker 6>which are write about in the book, But actually the

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<v Speaker 6>main causes of these problems, according to for example, the

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<v Speaker 6>World Health Organization, the leading medical body in the whole world,

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<v Speaker 6>are largely not in our heads. They're mostly in specific

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<v Speaker 6>factors in the way we're living. I learned there are

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<v Speaker 6>nine causes of depression and anxiety for which there is

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<v Speaker 6>scientific evidence. Two of them are biological, seven of them

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<v Speaker 6>are factors in the way we live. And once you

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<v Speaker 6>understand that, it leads you to a very different set

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<v Speaker 6>of solutions, ones that are more effective.

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<v Speaker 8>Before you did this, though, or a part of this

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<v Speaker 8>entire process, before you come to the realizations that you

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<v Speaker 8>do in this book, though, you had to look at

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<v Speaker 8>the studies from the pharmaceutical companies. You had to look

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<v Speaker 8>at the importance of Seeble effect, and you looked at

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<v Speaker 8>someone named Irving Kersh's work and the Emperor's new drugs.

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<v Speaker 8>So tell us a little bit about this work that

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<v Speaker 8>he had done and the research that you did into

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<v Speaker 8>those studies that he did.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, So we need to have a more nuanced conversation

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<v Speaker 6>about chemical ancy depressants, because too often this debate is

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<v Speaker 6>framed as either are you fool or against amcal antidepressants,

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<v Speaker 6>which I think is too simplistic a way of thinking

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<v Speaker 6>about this. So one of the things that really startled

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<v Speaker 6>that depression is caused by low serotonin in the brain,

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<v Speaker 6>there was never a time when half of the scientists

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<v Speaker 6>in the field believed that. Professor Andrew Scarlett, Princeton University

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<v Speaker 6>says it is deeply misleading and unscientific to say depression

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<v Speaker 6>is caused by low serotonin in the brain. One of

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<v Speaker 6>the leading experts here in Britain, Dr David Healy, said

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<v Speaker 6>to me, Yeah, you couldn't even call that story discredited

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<v Speaker 6>because it was never credited. There was never a time

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<v Speaker 6>when half of the scientists in the field believe it.

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<v Speaker 6>The reason we were sold that story that it was

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<v Speaker 6>about low serotonin in the brain is because that was

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<v Speaker 6>the story that was most popular with drug company prs.

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<v Speaker 6>That was the story that made it easiest to sell

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<v Speaker 6>you drugs because what it tells you is, oh, you've

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<v Speaker 6>just got a natural chemical imbalance in your brain and

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<v Speaker 6>these drugs are restoring you to a natural state. Right now,

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<v Speaker 6>that's not true. That doesn't mean these drugs have no

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<v Speaker 6>value mentioned Professor Irvin Kersho's the leading expert on this

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<v Speaker 6>at Harvard Medical School who's done really important research on

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<v Speaker 6>this question. And there's many things he discovered, but I

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<v Speaker 6>think the most important is depression is often measured by

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<v Speaker 6>something called the Hamilton scale. I've always felt really sorry

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<v Speaker 6>for whether Hamilton was that we only remember him by

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<v Speaker 6>measuring how miserable we are. But the habit of scale

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<v Speaker 6>goes to give you a sense of it from one

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<v Speaker 6>where you would be dancing around in ecstasy or maybe

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<v Speaker 6>and to give you a sense of what movement on

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<v Speaker 6>the Hamilton scale looks like. If you improve your sleep patterns,

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<v Speaker 6>you'll generally gain six points on the Hamilton scale. And

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<v Speaker 6>if your sleep patterns deteriorates to say, you know, you

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<v Speaker 6>have a kid or something, have a baby, you'll generally

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<v Speaker 6>lose six points on the Hamilton scale. What Professor kersh

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<v Speaker 6>The way it works is everyone knows what if you

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<v Speaker 6>When the original applications were being made for antidepressants to

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<v Speaker 6>it turned out the drug companies did something very similar.

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<v Speaker 6>They basically selectively released the studies. So only the studies

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<v Speaker 6>which suggested the drugs had a really powerful effectas were released,

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<v Speaker 6>picture of how well they did. What professor Kershpound is

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<v Speaker 6>if you look at the data, all the data, not

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<v Speaker 6>just the stuff that they released to the public. But

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<v Speaker 6>what he showed is, on average, chemical antidepressants moved people

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<v Speaker 6>one point eight points on the Hamilton scale. So remember,

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<v Speaker 6>improving your sleep patterns gives you a six point boost

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<v Speaker 6>on average, chemical anti depressants give you a one point

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<v Speaker 6>eight point boost. There's a few things that are important

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<v Speaker 6>initially got more over time, I got less. Important to say,

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<v Speaker 6>there's a debate. Some people think it works better with

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<v Speaker 6>people with severe depression, and it's important to say some

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<v Speaker 6>scientists think that that Professor Kirsher's figures slightly underestimate it,

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<v Speaker 6>and that it's more like three points on the Hamilton scale.

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<v Speaker 6>But once you understand that, what you can see is

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<v Speaker 6>a few things. Firstly, one point eight points is worth

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<v Speaker 6>having for some people, right, some people that boost will

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<v Speaker 6>you can also see why for most people over time,

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<v Speaker 6>their depression and their anxiety. You need more. And one

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<v Speaker 6>of the people who really helped me to understand one

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<v Speaker 6>went to interview and he explained to me, just by coincidence,

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<v Speaker 6>chemical and antidepressants were first introduced in that country, and

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<v Speaker 6>the local doctors, the Cambodian doctors didn't know what these

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<v Speaker 6>and he explained he explained what these drugs were, and

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<v Speaker 6>they said to him, oh, we don't need those, we

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<v Speaker 6>don't need them, We've already got antidepressants. And he said,

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<v Speaker 6>what do you mean. He thought they were going to

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<v Speaker 6>Instead they told him a story. They told them about

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<v Speaker 6>and got his leg blown off, and they gave him

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<v Speaker 6>an artificial leg. They're good at that in Cambodia, as

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<v Speaker 6>I saw myself when I was there, and they he

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<v Speaker 6>He didn't want to get out of bed, kind of

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<v Speaker 6>classic depression, they said to Derek, So we gave him

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<v Speaker 6>an antidepressant. Derek said, what was it. They explained that

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<v Speaker 6>they went and sat with him, they listened to him.

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<v Speaker 6>They realized that his pain made sense, that he wasn't

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<v Speaker 6>He wouldn't have to be in this situation that was

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<v Speaker 6>causing him so much distress. So they brought him a cow.

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<v Speaker 6>Within a month, he stopped crying. His depression went away,

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<v Speaker 6>they said to Derek, So that cow was an antidepressant. Right,

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<v Speaker 6>that's what you mean. What those Cambodian doctors knew, intuitively

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<v Speaker 6>is what the World Health Organization, the leading medical body

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<v Speaker 6>If you're depressed, if you're anxious, you're not crazy. You're

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<v Speaker 6>not a machine with broken parts. You're a human being

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<v Speaker 6>with unmet needs, and you need support and help to

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<v Speaker 6>get those needs met. And this is one of the

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<v Speaker 6>things that really united not all, but most of the

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<v Speaker 6>causes of depression and anxiety that I learned about. Everyone

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<v Speaker 6>listening to your showdown knows that they have natural physical needs. Right.

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<v Speaker 6>You need food, you need water, you need cleaner, you

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<v Speaker 6>need shelter. If I took them away from you, you

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<v Speaker 6>would be in real trouble, real fast. Right. There's equally

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<v Speaker 6>strong evidence that human beings have natural psychological needs. You

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<v Speaker 6>need to feel you belong, You need to feel your

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<v Speaker 6>people see you and value you. You need to feel

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<v Speaker 6>you've got a secure future. And our culture is good

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<v Speaker 6>at many things, but we've been getting less and less

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<v Speaker 6>good at meeting these underlying psychological needs but very large

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<v Speaker 6>numbers of people. And that is one is not the

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<v Speaker 6>only one, but that's one of the key reasons why

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<v Speaker 8>You've found out a little bit more as well, because

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<v Speaker 8>we mentioned that you were decribed antidepressants at eighteen years

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<v Speaker 8>of age. Sure, and you also looked at and you

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<v Speaker 8>chronicle about what the lands had concluded and the studies

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<v Speaker 8>they did specifically for use with antidepressants with teens, and

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<v Speaker 8>so what were those conclusions.

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<v Speaker 6>This was really shocking for me. So the Lancer, which

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<v Speaker 6>journeys and journals in the world, published a very detailed

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<v Speaker 6>study that found that it looked at i think it

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<v Speaker 6>was seventeen chemical antidepressants for teenagers and it found that

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<v Speaker 6>all but one didn't work at all. And so it

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<v Speaker 6>recommended they'd not be given to teenager. One thing it

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<v Speaker 6>I was in fact given as a teenager PASO, And

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<v Speaker 6>it was quite shocking as well to see some of

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<v Speaker 6>the leaked memos from the drug company that produced these

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<v Speaker 6>drugs saying they didn't work for teenagers. But I think

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<v Speaker 6>one of the other names for the drug is peroxetine,

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<v Speaker 6>and I think the wording of the memo was that

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<v Speaker 6>it would be commercially unacceptable for the profile of peroxetine

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<v Speaker 6>to release that information, so they didn't, So they carried

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<v Speaker 6>drug companies and they had to make a big payout

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<v Speaker 6>in court because of the court found they had in

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<v Speaker 6>fact misled people about giving antidepressants to teenagers. So I

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<v Speaker 6>think again what that shows is I'm not arguing that

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<v Speaker 6>we should take chemicalanty depressants off the menu. They do

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<v Speaker 6>give some relief to some people. What I'm arguing is

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<v Speaker 6>we need to radically expand the menu because they're not

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<v Speaker 6>solving the problem for extremely large numbers of people. It

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<v Speaker 6>doesn't mean they have no value, but it does mean

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<v Speaker 6>we need a lot more options. And one of the

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<v Speaker 6>things that was so fascinating to me was meeting all

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<v Speaker 6>over the world with people who were acting on this insight.

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<v Speaker 6>So I'll talk about one of the causes of depression anxiety,

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<v Speaker 6>and then someone who decided to effectively do the equivalent

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<v Speaker 6>of what those Cambodian doctors want to do, which is

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<v Speaker 6>bind a cow for the problem. Right, So we are

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<v Speaker 6>the loneliest that has ever existed. There's a study that

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<v Speaker 6>asks Americans how many close friends do you have who

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<v Speaker 6>you can call on in a crisis? And when they

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<v Speaker 6>was five. Today the most common answer is none. It's

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<v Speaker 6>not the average, but it's the most. There were more

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<v Speaker 6>people who say none than any other option, which is

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<v Speaker 6>kind of startling, right. And I remember I thought about

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<v Speaker 6>this a lot because I interviewed extensively the leading expert

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<v Speaker 6>on loneliness in the world, a man who sadly actually

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<v Speaker 6>died this week, a wonderful guy called Professor John Cassiopo,

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<v Speaker 6>who did really groundbreaking research on this, and Professor Cassiopo

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<v Speaker 6>discovered what he discovered many things. One's shocking one. He showed,

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<v Speaker 6>so when we're stressed, we release a hormone called corssol.

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<v Speaker 6>He showed that feeling acutely lonely is as stressful for

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<v Speaker 6>human beings as being punched in the face by a stranger.

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<v Speaker 6>And he explained to me, you know, if you think

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<v Speaker 6>about why are you and I able to have this conversation, Dan,

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<v Speaker 6>it's partly because our ancestors on the savannahs of Africa

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<v Speaker 6>were really good at one thing, right. They weren't bigger

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<v Speaker 6>than the animals they took down, they weren't faster than

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<v Speaker 6>the animals they took down, but they were incredibly good

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<v Speaker 6>at banding together into tribes and cooperating. Every human instinct

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<v Speaker 6>is to live in a tribe. Bes need to hive,

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<v Speaker 6>Humans need a tribe. If you think about the circumstances

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<v Speaker 6>where we evolve, if you were separated from the tribe,

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<v Speaker 6>you were frightened and anxious and depressed for a really

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<v Speaker 6>good reason. You were probably about to die, right, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>And those are the impulses we have. We are the

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<v Speaker 6>first humans to ever try to live without tribes. It's

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<v Speaker 6>contrary to our human nature, and especially because one of

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<v Speaker 6>the heroes of my book Lost Connections is someone who

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<v Speaker 6>really absorbed this insight in this research and began to

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<v Speaker 6>weird down to Abbey accent, I'm British, or though I

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<v Speaker 6>spent life in the US and here in London at

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<v Speaker 6>the moment. In East London there's an extraordinary doctor called

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<v Speaker 6>Sam Everington. So Sam is a general practitioner in a

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<v Speaker 6>for a long time, although sadly he was never my doctor.

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<v Speaker 6>And Sam was really uncomfortable because like me, he's not

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<v Speaker 6>blanket the opposed to chemical antidepressants. But he could just

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<v Speaker 6>see he had loads of patients coming to him who,

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<v Speaker 6>for example, were really lonely, and he could just see

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<v Speaker 6>that this wasn't solving their problem, you know that for

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<v Speaker 6>most of them. So he decided to try something different.

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<v Speaker 6>One day, a woman came to him called Lisa Cunningham.

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<v Speaker 6>Lisa had been shut away in her home with crippling

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<v Speaker 6>depression and anxiety for seven years. She'd barely left her

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<v Speaker 6>house and Sam said to Lisa, don't worry, I'll carry.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm giving you the drugs. I'm also going to prescribe

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<v Speaker 6>something else. I'm going to prescribe for you to take

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<v Speaker 6>part in a group. So there was an area behind

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<v Speaker 6>the doctor's surgery that was just kind of like scrubland, right,

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<v Speaker 6>And he said to Lisa, what I'd like you to

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<v Speaker 6>do is to turn up twice a week. I'll come

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<v Speaker 6>and support you. And the group of other depressed and

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<v Speaker 6>anxious people were going to turn this scrubland into a

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<v Speaker 6>beautiful garden. The first meeting of the group, Lisa was

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<v Speaker 6>literally physically sick with anxiety, but she kept going. And

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<v Speaker 6>several things happened in this group. One is these were

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<v Speaker 6>inner city East London people don't know anything about the

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<v Speaker 6>natural world, right. They started to put their fingers in

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<v Speaker 6>the soil. They started to teach themselves gardening, and they

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<v Speaker 6>interacting with the natural world is a very powerful antidepressant

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<v Speaker 6>for reasons we can talk about if you want. They

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<v Speaker 6>group who was sleeping on the local public bus. Right

421
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<v Speaker 6>the drivers would just let him sleep on the night bus.

422
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<v Speaker 6>Everyone else in the group was like, well, of course

423
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<v Speaker 6>you're depressed if you're sleeping on the bus. They started

424
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<v Speaker 6>pressuring the local authority to get this guy a home,

425
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<v Speaker 6>and they succeeded. It was the first time done something

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<v Speaker 6>for someone else in years, and it made them feel great.

427
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<v Speaker 6>Over the weeks and months and then years, the garden

428
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<v Speaker 6>began to grow, the way Lisa put it to me,

429
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<v Speaker 6>as the garden began to bloom, we began to bloom.

430
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<v Speaker 6>There was a study in Norway that found a very

431
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<v Speaker 6>similar program prescribing people to take part in gardening was

432
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<v Speaker 6>more than twice as effective as chemical antidepressants. I think

433
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<v Speaker 6>for a kind of obvious reason, right, it's dealing with

434
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<v Speaker 6>the reasons, some of the reasons why they were depressed

435
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<v Speaker 6>in actions in the first place, and everywhere away in

436
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<v Speaker 6>the world. I write about seven different kind of alternative

437
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<v Speaker 6>antidepressants because I think anything that reduces depressions should be

438
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<v Speaker 6>regarded as an antidepressant. That program is an antidepressant. But

439
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<v Speaker 6>why do we hear all the time about the drugs

440
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<v Speaker 6>which have some value, and not about, for example, this program,

441
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<v Speaker 6>which was shown to be twice as effective. It's because

442
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<v Speaker 6>there's a ten billion dollar industry in drugging Lisa, and

443
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<v Speaker 6>there's a zero billion dollar industry in getting her to

444
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<v Speaker 6>learn gardening with other depressed and anxious people and bonding

445
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<v Speaker 6>with other people. So we've ended up with a very

446
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<v Speaker 6>distorted picture what explains depression and anxiety. It's not that

447
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<v Speaker 6>the biological stories. There are real biological explanations for depression

448
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<v Speaker 6>anxiety which do contribute to it. There are real brain

449
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<v Speaker 6>changes that happen when you become depressed, and there are

450
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<v Speaker 6>obviously real your genes can make you significantly more sensitive

451
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<v Speaker 6>to these problems. But what we've been told is a

452
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<v Speaker 6>story that focuses almost entirely on those factors and barely

453
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<v Speaker 6>all on the wider factors which the World Health Organization

454
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<v Speaker 6>says are the main drivers of this crisis.

455
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<v Speaker 8>This book is called Lost Connections, and so you talk

456
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<v Speaker 8>about disconnection and then later reconnecting and the ways.

457
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<v Speaker 2>To do that.

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<v Speaker 8>You talk about though not to dwell on, and people

459
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<v Speaker 8>know this, but this is startling. You say that twenty

460
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<v Speaker 8>first century man, we check our phone every six and

461
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<v Speaker 8>a half minutes, and if you're a teen, you send

462
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<v Speaker 8>an average of one hundred texts a day. Again, where

463
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<v Speaker 8>is society right now? And as you describe sort of

464
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<v Speaker 8>the opposite of where maybe it should be? How does

465
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<v Speaker 8>that work? How does that happen despite everything that we're

466
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<v Speaker 8>trying and intending to do?

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<v Speaker 6>Apparently, So I wanted to understand this and the role

468
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<v Speaker 6>that our obsession with our phones and these devices might

469
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<v Speaker 6>be playing in this crisis. So one of the places

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<v Speaker 6>I went was the first ever Internet rehab center in

471
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<v Speaker 6>the United States. It's a place called a Restart Washington.

472
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<v Speaker 6>It's just outside Spokane in Washington State. And then the

473
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<v Speaker 6>woman who runs it co founded it, is called Dr

474
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<v Speaker 6>Hillary Cash's a really extraordinary person, and she became a

475
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<v Speaker 6>kind of accidental expert on this because she happened to

476
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<v Speaker 6>have an office near the Microsoft officers in the nineties,

477
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<v Speaker 6>so she saw the first wave of Internet addiction that

478
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<v Speaker 6>later becomes a kind of TSUN army. And it was

479
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<v Speaker 6>I've got a bit. When I arrived at this Internet

480
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<v Speaker 6>rehab center. My first thing I did, absolutely instinctively get

481
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<v Speaker 6>out of the car's clearing in the woods, was I

482
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<v Speaker 6>glanced at my phone and felt really irritated though I

483
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<v Speaker 6>didn't have any self overception and couldn't check my email,

484
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<v Speaker 6>and I was like, oh wait, you're in an Internet

485
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<v Speaker 6>rehab center. You're in the right place, right And what's

486
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<v Speaker 6>fascinating is they get all kinds of people that restart Washington,

487
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<v Speaker 6>but one of the biggest group, the biggest kind of

488
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<v Speaker 6>demographic group they get, is young men who've often become

489
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<v Speaker 6>obsessed with these multiplayer role player games like World of

490
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<v Speaker 6>Warcraft and Doctor Cash said to me, what do these

491
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<v Speaker 6>young men get out of these games? They get the

492
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<v Speaker 6>things they used to get from the culture but no

493
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<v Speaker 6>longer get. They get a sense of tribe, they get

494
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<v Speaker 6>a sense of identity, They get a way to rise,

495
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<v Speaker 6>to gain points, to gain status. These are things that

496
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<v Speaker 6>culture doesn't give to these young men, anyway to give

497
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<v Speaker 6>to many people anymore. You know, there's a study in

498
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<v Speaker 6>Britain that found the average British child now spends less

499
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<v Speaker 6>time outdoors than the average maximum security prisoner because by law,

500
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<v Speaker 6>a maximum security prisoner has to have seventy minutes a day,

501
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<v Speaker 6>and most kids don't get that. So you think about

502
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<v Speaker 6>the profoundly strange environment in which these kids have grown

503
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<v Speaker 6>have grown up. So what it is is an attempt

504
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<v Speaker 6>to fill the whole that's been left by the connections

505
00:27:14.519 --> 00:27:16.599
<v Speaker 6>we've lost. Now it's not a good way to fill

506
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<v Speaker 6>that hole. And I think as I spent a lot

507
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<v Speaker 6>of time there speaking to people that came to think

508
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<v Speaker 6>that the relationship between social media and social life, I

509
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<v Speaker 6>think is a bit like the relationship between pornography and sex. Right.

510
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<v Speaker 6>I'm not opposed to pornography. Sometimes I look at it,

511
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<v Speaker 6>but if your entire sex life consisted just of looking

512
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<v Speaker 6>at pornography, you would go around constantly frustrated and irritated.

513
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<v Speaker 6>Because we didn't evolve to look at images of sexual images,

514
00:27:43.559 --> 00:27:46.960
<v Speaker 6>just we evolved to have sex, right, and no one

515
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<v Speaker 6>spends an hour looking at porn and feels valued and

516
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<v Speaker 6>held and satisfied the way you do worce. You've had

517
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<v Speaker 6>sex if it goes right, you know, not every time, obviously,

518
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<v Speaker 6>and in a similar way, you know. It also made

519
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<v Speaker 6>me think about the moment in history when the Internet arrives, right,

520
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<v Speaker 6>so the internet arrives in our lives for most of

521
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<v Speaker 6>us in the late nineties the early two thousands, when

522
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<v Speaker 6>a lot of the factors that are driving up depression

523
00:28:13.319 --> 00:28:16.079
<v Speaker 6>and anxiety that I write about in Lost Connections had

524
00:28:16.200 --> 00:28:19.400
<v Speaker 6>already massively been supercharged. Right. I go through nine courses,

525
00:28:19.839 --> 00:28:23.720
<v Speaker 6>most of them had risen by them or had all

526
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<v Speaker 6>remained high. And actually what's interesting is the Internet arrives

527
00:28:30.480 --> 00:28:33.680
<v Speaker 6>and it looks a lot like the things we've lost. Right,

528
00:28:34.839 --> 00:28:37.880
<v Speaker 6>We've lost our friends, so it looks like it Facebook friends,

529
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<v Speaker 6>We've lost our status officers, status updates. Right, But actually

530
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<v Speaker 6>it's a parody of the thing we've lost. Now, this

531
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<v Speaker 6>is not to say, of course, and doctor Cash, who

532
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<v Speaker 6>runs the start Washington, said this very clearly. You know,

533
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<v Speaker 6>it's not to say that the Internet is a bad thing,

534
00:28:52.279 --> 00:28:54.720
<v Speaker 6>or that would be ludicrous. Right, she's on Facebook, I'm

535
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<v Speaker 6>on Facebook. But if it dominates too much of your

536
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<v Speaker 6>life evolve to interact through screens, it doesn't meet our

537
00:29:02.799 --> 00:29:08.240
<v Speaker 6>deeper needs. Right. The deeper communication we need is this

538
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<v Speaker 6>face to face communication where we see it into each

539
00:29:11.200 --> 00:29:14.559
<v Speaker 6>other's eyes. We send these forms of communication, those are

540
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<v Speaker 6>the forms of communication that meet out deeper needs.

541
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<v Speaker 7>And so.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I think this is partly there's an element where

543
00:29:24.079 --> 00:29:27.240
<v Speaker 6>this Internet obsession is a symptom of the disconnection we have.

544
00:29:27.359 --> 00:29:31.319
<v Speaker 6>And then, of course, in some ways it makes it worse.

545
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<v Speaker 6>It forces us. For example, if you spend an hour

546
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<v Speaker 6>scrolling through Instagram, one of the things you do is

547
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<v Speaker 6>you end up making lots of comparisons. And one of

548
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<v Speaker 6>the things we know is one of the things that

549
00:29:41.000 --> 00:29:44.160
<v Speaker 6>makes people much more depressed is thinking about your life

550
00:29:44.359 --> 00:29:48.119
<v Speaker 6>externally and looking at other people's lives externally rather than

551
00:29:48.119 --> 00:29:50.359
<v Speaker 6>thinking about what you actually value, makes you more depressed.

552
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<v Speaker 6>There's kind of a lot of things going on there.

553
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<v Speaker 8>We should talk about that too, because really, what you say,

554
00:29:59.359 --> 00:30:03.319
<v Speaker 8>disconnection from meaning of values is very, very important. And

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<v Speaker 8>you talk about extrinsic and intrinsic motives, so intrinsic and

556
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<v Speaker 8>extrac intrinsic values as well. So explain that. And it's

557
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<v Speaker 8>key to happiness or its connection to happiness.

558
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<v Speaker 6>So we all know that junk food has taken over

559
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<v Speaker 6>our diets and made us physically sick.

560
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<v Speaker 8>Right.

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<v Speaker 6>I said this with no sensens superiorready, because between the

562
00:30:25.880 --> 00:30:28.680
<v Speaker 6>ages of twenty and thirty I basically lived off KFC. Right.

563
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<v Speaker 6>I tell the story in the Book of How on

564
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<v Speaker 6>Christmas Eve two thousand and nine, at lunch time, I

565
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<v Speaker 6>went to my local KFC. Makes even Saturday's Christmas Eve

566
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<v Speaker 6>and I said my standard order, which I will even

567
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<v Speaker 6>repeat because it's so disgusting. And one of the guys

568
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<v Speaker 6>behind the canter said, oh, Johan, we're so glad you're here.

569
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<v Speaker 6>And I was like okay, and he went back, you know,

570
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<v Speaker 6>behind the ovens and everything, and he brought out a

571
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<v Speaker 6>massive Christmas card they'd brought me, the entire staff had

572
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<v Speaker 6>brought me, and it said to our best customer. My

573
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<v Speaker 6>heart sank, partly because I thought, this is even the

574
00:31:00.400 --> 00:31:02.960
<v Speaker 6>fried chicken store I come to the most right. So

575
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<v Speaker 6>we all know how jung food appeals to the part

576
00:31:05.640 --> 00:31:07.480
<v Speaker 6>of us that evolved to need food, but it doesn't

577
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<v Speaker 6>give us nutrition. It doesn't give us, you know, the

578
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<v Speaker 6>things we need. A very similar thing has happened to

579
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<v Speaker 6>our values. So the thousands of years, philosophers have said,

580
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<v Speaker 6>if you think life is about money and status, you

581
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<v Speaker 6>and you know how you look to other people, you're

582
00:31:23.400 --> 00:31:26.680
<v Speaker 6>much more like it's become depressed and unhappy. But weirdly,

583
00:31:27.000 --> 00:31:30.119
<v Speaker 6>no one had actually scientifically investigated this until an extraordinary

584
00:31:30.160 --> 00:31:32.759
<v Speaker 6>man I got to know, called professor Tim Kasser who's

585
00:31:32.759 --> 00:31:36.000
<v Speaker 6>at Knox College in Illinois, and Professor Casson Knu. You'd

586
00:31:36.000 --> 00:31:39.640
<v Speaker 6>already been discovered that there are basically two ways human

587
00:31:39.680 --> 00:31:42.960
<v Speaker 6>beings motivate each other motivate ourselves. To put it crudely, so,

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<v Speaker 6>imagine you play the piano in the morning because you

589
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<v Speaker 6>love it.

590
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<v Speaker 8>Right.

591
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<v Speaker 6>If you do that, that's an intrinsic reason to play

592
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<v Speaker 6>the piano. You're doing it just because the thing you're

593
00:31:53.000 --> 00:31:55.519
<v Speaker 6>doing gives you joy and pleasure. Right, You're not doing

594
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<v Speaker 6>it to get anything else out of it. You're just

595
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<v Speaker 6>doing it for that experience. Okay, Now, imagine you played

596
00:31:59.880 --> 00:32:02.279
<v Speaker 6>the piano not because you love it, but in a

597
00:32:02.400 --> 00:32:05.480
<v Speaker 6>dive bar to make the rent, right, or because your

598
00:32:05.519 --> 00:32:07.559
<v Speaker 6>parents are really pressuring you because they want you to

599
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<v Speaker 6>be a piano maestro, or maybe to impress a woman.

600
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<v Speaker 6>You know, maybe there's some piano fetishist out there. Right,

601
00:32:13.079 --> 00:32:15.960
<v Speaker 6>that would be an extrinsic reason to play the piano.

602
00:32:16.440 --> 00:32:18.640
<v Speaker 6>You're not doing it because you love it. You're doing

603
00:32:18.680 --> 00:32:20.400
<v Speaker 6>it to get something else out of it. Right now.

604
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<v Speaker 6>Of course, we're all a mixture of intrinsic and extrinsic motivations.

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<v Speaker 6>Every human being is. But what Professor Kassa showed is

606
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<v Speaker 6>several things that are really important. As a culture. We

607
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<v Speaker 6>have become much more driven by these junk values, by

608
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<v Speaker 6>these extrinsic values, than we were before. And the more

609
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<v Speaker 6>you are driven by these junk values, these extrinsic values,

610
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<v Speaker 6>the more you will become depressed and anxious by quite

611
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<v Speaker 6>a significant effect. There's now been more than two dozen

612
00:32:51.240 --> 00:32:54.279
<v Speaker 6>studies that have shown this across the world, and there's

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<v Speaker 6>several reasons for us. Professor Kassa has discovered lots of

614
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<v Speaker 6>reasons why living this way makes us so depressed. I'll

615
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<v Speaker 6>just give you two examples. One is one of the

616
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<v Speaker 6>things that makes human beings feel really good is what

617
00:33:09.839 --> 00:33:12.920
<v Speaker 6>are called flow states. So there are moments when you're

618
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<v Speaker 6>doing something you love. So for me it's writing, for

619
00:33:15.880 --> 00:33:18.920
<v Speaker 6>someone else it might be running or singing or whatever,

620
00:33:19.799 --> 00:33:22.400
<v Speaker 6>and you're just in the zone and you feel you're

621
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<v Speaker 6>flowing in the moment and time seems to just melt away.

622
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<v Speaker 6>That's called the flow state, right. They make people feel

623
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<v Speaker 6>really good. We need them as human beings. And what

624
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<v Speaker 6>Professor Cassa showed is the more you are driven by

625
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<v Speaker 6>junk values, by how you look to other people, the

626
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<v Speaker 6>less you get into these flow states. So you imagine

627
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<v Speaker 6>when you're playing the piano and because you love it.

628
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<v Speaker 6>And now imagine you suddenly stop you in the middle

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<v Speaker 6>of playing the piano because you love it, and suddenly

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<v Speaker 6>you think, how do I look to all the other

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<v Speaker 6>people in this room? Am I the best piano player

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<v Speaker 6>in the United States today? How much am I going

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<v Speaker 6>to be paid for playing this piano? You can see

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<v Speaker 6>how that would jolt you out of the flow state

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<v Speaker 6>right more we were driven by junk values. The more

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<v Speaker 6>that happens, you can see this. I mean the other

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<v Speaker 6>day I went to a music concert, right, amazing concert,

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<v Speaker 6>and you just see people who are in the moment,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, listening to this great performer, and suddenly they

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<v Speaker 6>get out their phones and they want to show off

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<v Speaker 6>on Facebook that they're at this thing, right, and you

642
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<v Speaker 6>can see how it jolts them out of the experience

643
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<v Speaker 6>out at the moment, we are all being jolted out

644
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<v Speaker 6>of these blowstates much more because we've all become driven

645
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<v Speaker 6>much more by junk values. Another example would be Professor

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<v Speaker 6>Kassa found that the more we're driven by junk values,

647
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<v Speaker 6>the more the worse our relationship has become. So I'll

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<v Speaker 6>give you a concrete example. This is going to sound

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<v Speaker 6>like a little bit of a dig, but I don't

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<v Speaker 6>mean it as a dig. In two thousand and nine,

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<v Speaker 6>Milania Trump went to speak at NYU, this is long

652
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<v Speaker 6>before the political stuff happened, and a student asked hers

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<v Speaker 6>something like, would you have married Donald Trump if he

654
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<v Speaker 6>wasn't rich? And she replied, do you think he would

655
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<v Speaker 6>have married me if I wasn't beautiful? And what that

656
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<v Speaker 6>shows is how much their relationship is driven by these

657
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<v Speaker 6>extrinsic values. So what Millennia and Trump knows is if

658
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<v Speaker 6>she got fat is over. What Donald Trump knows is

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<v Speaker 6>if he lost his status and money is over. Right, Now,

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<v Speaker 6>you can see why that would be a more insecure

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<v Speaker 6>anxious relationship than say someone who'd say, you know what,

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<v Speaker 6>I love my husband whether he's rich or poor. I

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<v Speaker 6>love my wife whether she's fat or thin. Right, it's

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<v Speaker 6>the difference between everything being contingent and things being secure. Now,

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<v Speaker 6>as a culture, we have become much more like Dol

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<v Speaker 6>than Milania Trump, and much less like people who have

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<v Speaker 6>more secure relationships. So those are just two of some

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<v Speaker 6>of the reasons why these junk values are making us

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<v Speaker 6>feel so much worse. And again that shows all this evidence.

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<v Speaker 6>Professor Casser and other people have found shows you can

671
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<v Speaker 6>see why it's way too simplistic to just say to

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<v Speaker 6>someone it's just a chemical imbalance in your brain. Of

673
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<v Speaker 6>course things are happening in your brain. I don't think

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<v Speaker 6>a chemical imbalance is the right way to describe that.

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<v Speaker 6>But there are real things happening in your brain. But

676
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<v Speaker 6>you can see why it's too simplistic. Your your brain

677
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<v Speaker 6>changes in line with the way you live, right in

678
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<v Speaker 6>the same way that if I start lifting weights my

679
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<v Speaker 6>arms will get bigger. Doesn't mean I've got on disease.

680
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<v Speaker 6>I mean I'm using my arms differently. And so we've

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<v Speaker 6>been told the story that's too simplistical. We need to

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<v Speaker 6>have a much more complex conversation about what causes the

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<v Speaker 6>depression of anxiety and how to solve them.

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<v Speaker 8>dot com slash murder. Johann, you were talking about status

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<v Speaker 8>and we were talking about you also, just start to

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<v Speaker 8>talk about e classist. I'm mispronounced that. Sorry us a

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<v Speaker 8>little bit about this, tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 8>status and respect and this alpha baboon named Solomon.

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<v Speaker 6>So this is really fascinating to me. When when I

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<v Speaker 6>feel depressed, I say, like a lot of people that

714
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<v Speaker 6>I feel down. And one of the things I learned

715
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<v Speaker 6>is that's a little bit more than a kind of metaphor.

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<v Speaker 6>So one of people he's made a really big breakthrough

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<v Speaker 6>in understanding depression is a guy called Professor Robert Sapolski

718
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<v Speaker 6>who's at Stanford University, and when he was in his

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<v Speaker 6>early twenties, he went to go and live with a

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<v Speaker 6>troop of baboons in Kenya and the savannahs of Kenya,

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<v Speaker 6>and his job was to find out when are baboons

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<v Speaker 6>most stressed, right, And so when baboons are stressed, like

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<v Speaker 6>human beings, they release a hormone called cortisol. So what

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<v Speaker 6>Rober's job was party to do is just dart these

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<v Speaker 6>baboons and then take blood samples from them. And baboons live,

726
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<v Speaker 6>male baboons, interestingly, not the women, but the male baboons

727
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<v Speaker 6>live in a very strict hierarchy. So so there's forty

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<v Speaker 6>men in the baboon troop. Number one knows he's above

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<v Speaker 6>number two. Number two knows he's above number three all

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<v Speaker 6>the way down to number fourteen. And where you are

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<v Speaker 6>in the hierarchy determines what you get to eat, who

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<v Speaker 6>you get to have sex with, you know, so the

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<v Speaker 6>top baboon gets to have sex with all the women

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<v Speaker 6>in the bottom baboon doesn't get to have sex with anyone, right,

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<v Speaker 6>and suppressor Suposki lives with this this group, and baboons

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<v Speaker 6>move through the hierarchy, right, So sometimes you rise to

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<v Speaker 6>become the top baboon, the king of the swingers, and

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<v Speaker 6>then you can get knocked down from your position. As

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<v Speaker 6>you get older and you get weaker, some younger guy

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<v Speaker 6>is going to come up and start having sex with

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<v Speaker 6>the women in front of you and eventually drive you

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<v Speaker 6>out right. And what Professor Sepolski found was two things

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<v Speaker 6>the baboons are most There are two circumstances where baboons

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<v Speaker 6>are most stressed. One is when their status is insecure,

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<v Speaker 6>So the top baboon when the young men are circling,

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<v Speaker 6>is insecure about whether he can keep his position. And

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<v Speaker 6>the second is when you're at the bottom of the hierarchy.

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<v Speaker 6>That the baboons at the bottom were stressed constantly. And

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<v Speaker 6>what happens is the baboons that are at the bottom,

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<v Speaker 6>that are stressed constantly, look a lot like depressed human beings.

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<v Speaker 6>They withdraw, they don't want to get up. They keep

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<v Speaker 6>their bodies low, their heads low, they keep their heads down.

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<v Speaker 6>They show what's called a submission response. It's basically a

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<v Speaker 6>way of saying, okay, you beat me, just leave me alone. Stop,

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<v Speaker 6>stop stop harassing and attacking me. Right, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 6>You got me right? That's called the submission response. And

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<v Speaker 6>what Professor Sepolski and quite a lot of other social

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<v Speaker 6>scientists have argued is that modern human depression is part

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<v Speaker 6>of what's going on there. Is basically, if you are

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<v Speaker 6>stressed and insecure too much about your status, or you

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<v Speaker 6>feel you're at the bottom of the pile too much,

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<v Speaker 6>you experienced these physical sensations which are a bit like

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<v Speaker 6>the ancient forms of the submission response, the kind of

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<v Speaker 6>what baboons experience of submission response, and what's into One

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<v Speaker 6>of the ways we know this is that so baboons

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<v Speaker 6>always live in a hierarchy, right, but humans don't always

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<v Speaker 6>live in strict hierarchies. Our hierarchy is mary. So, for example,

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<v Speaker 6>Norway is a very equal country. So the richest Norwegian

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<v Speaker 6>is not that much richer than the poorest Norwegian. The

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<v Speaker 6>United States today is a massively unequal society.

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<v Speaker 8>That the.

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<v Speaker 6>Five heirs to the Walmart fortune own more than the

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<v Speaker 6>bottom one hundred million Americans, right, So you can see

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<v Speaker 6>some societies have there's you know, a few baboons at

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<v Speaker 6>the top, and you know, and everyone else is like

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<v Speaker 6>the baboon at the bottom, and there's some have a

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<v Speaker 6>big middle, right. And what we know, and Professor Kate

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<v Speaker 6>Pickett and Professor Richard Wilkinson have shown this really powerful

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<v Speaker 6>along with other people is the more a society becomes unequal,

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<v Speaker 6>the more people feel humiliated, the more people feel defeated,

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<v Speaker 6>the more depression and anyis al grows up, grows up. Right.

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<v Speaker 6>So one of the things that's happening is we live

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<v Speaker 6>in an environment that makes us feel Jesus, I'm being

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<v Speaker 6>defeated here, right. If you're constantly being bombarded with images

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<v Speaker 6>of people who are so much richer than you, and

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<v Speaker 6>there is no way you're ever going to get up

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<v Speaker 6>to being to joining the of it. This is tiny

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<v Speaker 6>early at the top, and everyone else is constantly stressed

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<v Speaker 6>and harassed and humiliated that produces more depression and anxiety.

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<v Speaker 6>This is one of the nine causes a depression and

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<v Speaker 6>anxiety that are about lost connections. It's a disconnection from

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<v Speaker 6>a sense that you are respected and have a status.

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<v Speaker 8>I mentioned butchered neuroplasticity and its importance in this, and

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<v Speaker 8>it's good news for people tell us about this.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you don't want to butcher people's brains. That's sort

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<v Speaker 6>of a bad sign. So a lot of people are

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<v Speaker 6>I had misunderstood this, and this is very important to

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<v Speaker 6>think about how we end stigma as well, so against

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<v Speaker 6>depression and anxiety and things like addiction as well, which

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<v Speaker 6>is the subject of my previous book, Chasing the Scream

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<v Speaker 6>with You, and I talked about on the show. So

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<v Speaker 6>what often happen is people will be shown an image

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<v Speaker 6>of the brain of a depressed person and they'll be

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<v Speaker 6>told this is what this is depression. You can see

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<v Speaker 6>the brain is very different to a non depressed person's

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<v Speaker 6>brain in all sorts of ways. This shows depression is

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<v Speaker 6>a brain disease and it's an inherent problem, right, And

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<v Speaker 6>lots of people have debunked this, but one of the

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<v Speaker 6>people who really helped me to understand This is a

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<v Speaker 6>wonderful guy called Professor Mark Lewis. So Professor Lewis has

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<v Speaker 6>has shown and explained your brain changes as many other

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<v Speaker 6>scientists shims as well. Your brain changes according to how

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<v Speaker 6>you use it. Right, Like I mentioned before, we all

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<v Speaker 6>know this about other parts of our body. If I

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<v Speaker 6>started lifting weights, which I tragically don't, but if I

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<v Speaker 6>started lifting weights, my arms would become much bigger. It

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<v Speaker 6>doesn't mean I've got an arm disease. It means using

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<v Speaker 6>my arms differently, a very similar process happens with our brains.

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<v Speaker 6>So London taxi drivers famously have to sit a really

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<v Speaker 6>difficult examination to get their license to be a London

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<v Speaker 6>taxi driver. It's really hard to get this license. You

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<v Speaker 6>have to memorize the map of London. It takes on

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<v Speaker 6>average three years to do it. It's called the knowledge.

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<v Speaker 6>If you do brain scans of London taxi drivers, their

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<v Speaker 6>brains look very different to your brain and my brain.

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<v Speaker 6>The part of the brain that relates to spatial awareness

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<v Speaker 6>is called hippercampus, is much bigger and more developed. Right now,

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<v Speaker 6>that doesn't mean that being a London taxi driver is

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<v Speaker 6>a brain disease. Obviously, right now, The danger with the

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<v Speaker 6>story we tell about brains is it's true, as you

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<v Speaker 6>become depressed, your brain changes. Now you're usually you're becoming

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<v Speaker 6>depressed because of these wider factors that we're talking about

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<v Speaker 6>and many of the others we haven't talked about yet.

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<v Speaker 6>Your brain changes. Your brain changes in ways that do

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<v Speaker 6>make it harder to get out of that state. But

836
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<v Speaker 6>it's important to stress. When you are given the support

837
00:44:59.760 --> 00:45:03.519
<v Speaker 6>and love and the interventions that we know work to

838
00:45:03.639 --> 00:45:06.480
<v Speaker 6>reduce depression and anxiety, your brain will change out of

839
00:45:06.559 --> 00:45:09.679
<v Speaker 6>that state of depression. So this is called neuroplasticity. The

840
00:45:09.800 --> 00:45:13.960
<v Speaker 6>brain restructures itself according to how you use it right,

841
00:45:14.480 --> 00:45:16.559
<v Speaker 6>and so the danger what we do when we tell

842
00:45:16.599 --> 00:45:20.440
<v Speaker 6>people these stories about people's brains. If we tell a

843
00:45:20.519 --> 00:45:23.639
<v Speaker 6>static story about the brain, first of it, it's not true,

844
00:45:23.679 --> 00:45:27.960
<v Speaker 6>but secondly that actually traps people. It makes them, you know,

845
00:45:28.400 --> 00:45:31.599
<v Speaker 6>it makes them think, oh, JESU, weal, I'm just biologically different,

846
00:45:31.920 --> 00:45:33.639
<v Speaker 6>and to me, one of the worst things we do.

847
00:45:34.760 --> 00:45:37.519
<v Speaker 6>One of the biggest problems about the story we tell

848
00:45:37.719 --> 00:45:42.280
<v Speaker 6>about depression just being a chemical imbalance or just being

849
00:45:42.320 --> 00:45:45.320
<v Speaker 6>some other problem in the brain is it tells people

850
00:45:45.400 --> 00:45:49.679
<v Speaker 6>that their pain is meaningless. It's just a malfunction. Right,

851
00:45:50.559 --> 00:45:53.400
<v Speaker 6>And one of the most important things I learned is

852
00:45:53.440 --> 00:45:56.320
<v Speaker 6>that our pain is not meaningless. Right. It is a

853
00:45:56.440 --> 00:45:59.679
<v Speaker 6>signal is telling us something. It's telling us that are

854
00:45:59.840 --> 00:46:02.679
<v Speaker 6>same has moved in a direction that does not meet

855
00:46:03.119 --> 00:46:05.880
<v Speaker 6>our underlying needs. It tells us that we've got to

856
00:46:06.000 --> 00:46:08.840
<v Speaker 6>change some of the ways we live together. Right, that's

857
00:46:08.880 --> 00:46:12.159
<v Speaker 6>a really important signal if we pathologize that. You know,

858
00:46:12.440 --> 00:46:13.920
<v Speaker 6>an analogy that kept coming to me. This is a

859
00:46:13.960 --> 00:46:16.920
<v Speaker 6>trivial analogy, but you know, I spend a lot of

860
00:46:16.920 --> 00:46:19.519
<v Speaker 6>my time in the US, and it always amazes me

861
00:46:20.719 --> 00:46:23.840
<v Speaker 6>the existence of indigestion pills, right, things like pepto bismal,

862
00:46:24.519 --> 00:46:26.719
<v Speaker 6>and whenever I'm offered them, I always want to say

863
00:46:26.760 --> 00:46:30.639
<v Speaker 6>to people, for wait a minute, Indigestion isn't a malfunction.

864
00:46:31.519 --> 00:46:33.920
<v Speaker 6>Indigestion is a signal from your body that you're eating

865
00:46:33.960 --> 00:46:35.960
<v Speaker 6>too fast. Right. You don't want to get rid of

866
00:46:36.000 --> 00:46:38.000
<v Speaker 6>that signal. That's a really important signal. If you don't

867
00:46:38.000 --> 00:46:39.920
<v Speaker 6>listen to it, you're gonna hurt your stomach, give yourself

868
00:46:39.960 --> 00:46:43.159
<v Speaker 6>stomach ache, you're gonna put on weight, you're gonna make

869
00:46:43.159 --> 00:46:43.880
<v Speaker 6>yourself unwell.

870
00:46:44.119 --> 00:46:44.239
<v Speaker 7>Right.

871
00:46:44.719 --> 00:46:47.880
<v Speaker 6>That it's not a pathology to experience indigestion in a

872
00:46:47.920 --> 00:46:49.880
<v Speaker 6>similar way. Don't want to take that analogy too far,

873
00:46:49.960 --> 00:46:54.480
<v Speaker 6>because depression is infinitely more agonizing than indigestion. But depression

874
00:46:54.559 --> 00:46:57.559
<v Speaker 6>is a signal, right, It's a signal that something's going wrong.

875
00:46:58.159 --> 00:47:00.320
<v Speaker 6>We need to listen. We need to stop insult that

876
00:47:00.440 --> 00:47:04.079
<v Speaker 6>signal and start listening to it and honoring it. That

877
00:47:04.159 --> 00:47:06.079
<v Speaker 6>doesn't mean that people should just sit with the signal

878
00:47:06.119 --> 00:47:08.480
<v Speaker 6>any more than you should just sit with indigestion. It

879
00:47:08.559 --> 00:47:10.559
<v Speaker 6>means that it's a signal that's telling us the direction

880
00:47:10.679 --> 00:47:11.719
<v Speaker 6>in which we need to change.

881
00:47:14.920 --> 00:47:20.360
<v Speaker 8>You talk about and spend some time in acknowledging and

882
00:47:20.440 --> 00:47:25.239
<v Speaker 8>overcoming childhood trauma, is something you write about. Tell us

883
00:47:26.000 --> 00:47:26.639
<v Speaker 8>what you found.

884
00:47:28.199 --> 00:47:30.000
<v Speaker 6>This was the hardest part of the book for me

885
00:47:30.079 --> 00:47:35.840
<v Speaker 6>to write for lots of reasons. So I'm telling you

886
00:47:35.920 --> 00:47:39.400
<v Speaker 6>the story of how this was discovered. And at first

887
00:47:39.599 --> 00:47:41.800
<v Speaker 6>your listeners are going to think, why is he telling

888
00:47:41.880 --> 00:47:45.199
<v Speaker 6>us this? This is a completely different subject. But I

889
00:47:45.440 --> 00:47:47.320
<v Speaker 6>think you can only understand the breakthrough that was made

890
00:47:47.320 --> 00:47:50.400
<v Speaker 6>if you understand this. So in the mid nineteen eighties,

891
00:47:51.039 --> 00:47:53.480
<v Speaker 6>a wonderful scientist I got to know called Dr Vincent

892
00:47:53.519 --> 00:47:58.159
<v Speaker 6>Feliti was working in San Diego and he was approached

893
00:47:58.199 --> 00:48:00.239
<v Speaker 6>by kinds of Permanente, who are one of the not

894
00:48:00.320 --> 00:48:03.719
<v Speaker 6>for profit medical providers in California, and they said, look,

895
00:48:03.719 --> 00:48:06.280
<v Speaker 6>we've got this really big problem. Obesity was massively rising

896
00:48:06.360 --> 00:48:08.719
<v Speaker 6>in California like in the rest of the country, and

897
00:48:08.840 --> 00:48:11.559
<v Speaker 6>everything they were trying just wasn't working, like giving people

898
00:48:11.679 --> 00:48:14.599
<v Speaker 6>nutritional advice that kind of thing. And they were like, look,

899
00:48:14.599 --> 00:48:17.679
<v Speaker 6>this is really screwing with people's health and with our budget.

900
00:48:18.079 --> 00:48:22.159
<v Speaker 6>So they gave Vincent a really big budget to just

901
00:48:22.239 --> 00:48:24.440
<v Speaker 6>do Blue Sky's research to figure out what the hell

902
00:48:24.559 --> 00:48:29.840
<v Speaker 6>was going on. Right, So Vincent starts to work initially

903
00:48:29.880 --> 00:48:32.519
<v Speaker 6>with a group of three hundred and fifty extremely obese people.

904
00:48:32.559 --> 00:48:34.400
<v Speaker 6>These were people who weighed more than four hundred pounds,

905
00:48:35.400 --> 00:48:38.199
<v Speaker 6>and one day he had this, well, seems like a

906
00:48:38.280 --> 00:48:42.519
<v Speaker 6>really stupid idea. He just said, what would happen if

907
00:48:42.519 --> 00:48:46.320
<v Speaker 6>they literally just stopped eating and we gave them the

908
00:48:46.440 --> 00:48:49.039
<v Speaker 6>vitamin supplements that they would need so they wouldn't get

909
00:48:49.159 --> 00:48:52.320
<v Speaker 6>like scurvy and whatever. And so they decided to do it,

910
00:48:52.400 --> 00:48:55.480
<v Speaker 6>obviously with like massive medical supervision and lots of doctors

911
00:48:55.559 --> 00:48:58.639
<v Speaker 6>monitoring it. And the crazy thing is in one sense

912
00:48:58.679 --> 00:49:02.440
<v Speaker 6>it worked. They did, in fact lose loads of weight. Right,

913
00:49:02.840 --> 00:49:05.320
<v Speaker 6>So there was one woman in the program, so I'm

914
00:49:05.360 --> 00:49:09.239
<v Speaker 6>going to call Susan to protect her medical confidentiality, who

915
00:49:09.320 --> 00:49:12.519
<v Speaker 6>went down from more than four hundred pounds to one

916
00:49:12.599 --> 00:49:15.760
<v Speaker 6>hundred and thirty eight pounds. Everyone was celebrating, you know,

917
00:49:16.159 --> 00:49:19.880
<v Speaker 6>her life has been saved. And one day something happens

918
00:49:19.880 --> 00:49:24.719
<v Speaker 6>that no one expected. She freaked the hell out. She

919
00:49:24.840 --> 00:49:28.280
<v Speaker 6>goes to KFC or wherever it was. She starts obsessively eating,

920
00:49:29.159 --> 00:49:31.559
<v Speaker 6>and quite quickly she's back at was not quite where

921
00:49:31.559 --> 00:49:35.119
<v Speaker 6>she was, but a really high weight Vincent called her

922
00:49:35.159 --> 00:49:37.800
<v Speaker 6>in and said, Susan, what happened? She said, I don't know,

923
00:49:37.920 --> 00:49:41.400
<v Speaker 6>I don't know. She was really ashamed, and he said, well,

924
00:49:41.440 --> 00:49:43.360
<v Speaker 6>tell me about the day that you cracked. What happened.

925
00:49:43.880 --> 00:49:45.599
<v Speaker 6>It turned out that day something had happened to her

926
00:49:45.599 --> 00:49:47.960
<v Speaker 6>that never happened to her when she was obese. A

927
00:49:48.159 --> 00:49:51.400
<v Speaker 6>man had hit on her and it really freaked her out.

928
00:49:51.760 --> 00:49:54.599
<v Speaker 6>And Lynda started to ask, well, that's interesting. When did

929
00:49:54.679 --> 00:49:56.400
<v Speaker 6>you start to put on weight? In her case, it

930
00:49:56.480 --> 00:49:58.599
<v Speaker 6>was when she was eleven. He said, well, what happened

931
00:49:58.599 --> 00:50:00.440
<v Speaker 6>when you were eleven? That didn't happen when you were

932
00:50:01.079 --> 00:50:05.000
<v Speaker 6>you know, ten or fourteen, and she looked down and

933
00:50:05.119 --> 00:50:08.079
<v Speaker 6>she said, well, that's when my grandfather started to rape me.

934
00:50:10.360 --> 00:50:14.199
<v Speaker 6>Vincent started to talk to everyone in the program. He

935
00:50:14.360 --> 00:50:16.679
<v Speaker 6>discovered that fifty five percent of them had put on

936
00:50:16.760 --> 00:50:19.480
<v Speaker 6>their extreme weight in the way of being sexually abused,

937
00:50:20.719 --> 00:50:24.599
<v Speaker 6>which really startled him. He began to realize this thing

938
00:50:24.679 --> 00:50:27.679
<v Speaker 6>that seemed like it was just an irrational pathology putting

939
00:50:27.719 --> 00:50:29.840
<v Speaker 6>on loads of weight, which is of course extremely dangerous,

940
00:50:30.880 --> 00:50:34.719
<v Speaker 6>in fact, was performing a function for these people. It

941
00:50:34.880 --> 00:50:37.360
<v Speaker 6>was protecting them from sexual attention. As Susan put it,

942
00:50:38.360 --> 00:50:43.039
<v Speaker 6>overweights overlooked, and that's what I needed to be. And

943
00:50:43.199 --> 00:50:46.480
<v Speaker 6>so this was still quite a small study. So Vincent

944
00:50:46.519 --> 00:50:48.519
<v Speaker 6>got a load of funding from the Center for Disease Control,

945
00:50:48.559 --> 00:50:50.880
<v Speaker 6>obviously one of the most important bodies in the US,

946
00:50:51.760 --> 00:50:53.119
<v Speaker 6>and they start and they gave him a load of

947
00:50:53.159 --> 00:50:55.840
<v Speaker 6>money so that every single patient it came to Kus

948
00:50:55.880 --> 00:50:58.679
<v Speaker 6>of Permanente in the next year for anything, whether it

949
00:50:58.760 --> 00:51:03.920
<v Speaker 6>was headaches, broken legs, schizophrenia, anything, was given a questionnaire

950
00:51:04.119 --> 00:51:06.400
<v Speaker 6>and the questionnaire asked, firstly, did any of these ten

951
00:51:06.480 --> 00:51:08.880
<v Speaker 6>bad things happen to you when you were a child?

952
00:51:09.079 --> 00:51:13.079
<v Speaker 6>Things like you know, sexual abuse, dosical abuse, and then

953
00:51:13.119 --> 00:51:14.840
<v Speaker 6>it asked have you had any of these problems as

954
00:51:14.840 --> 00:51:20.480
<v Speaker 6>an adult? Things like obesit, addiction, And then at the

955
00:51:20.559 --> 00:51:24.159
<v Speaker 6>last minute they added depression and suicide attempts. When the

956
00:51:24.239 --> 00:51:28.519
<v Speaker 6>CDC added up the figures, they were absolutely stunned. For

957
00:51:28.599 --> 00:51:33.320
<v Speaker 6>every category of childhood trauma you experienced, you were radically

958
00:51:33.440 --> 00:51:36.119
<v Speaker 6>more likely to become depressed and anxious. If you had

959
00:51:36.159 --> 00:51:39.519
<v Speaker 6>had six of those categories of childhood trauma, you were

960
00:51:39.880 --> 00:51:43.360
<v Speaker 6>three thousand, one hundred percent more likely to have attempted

961
00:51:43.400 --> 00:51:45.239
<v Speaker 6>suicide as an adult than somebody who had none of

962
00:51:45.320 --> 00:51:48.079
<v Speaker 6>those categories. Right, you don't get figures like this in

963
00:51:48.159 --> 00:51:51.840
<v Speaker 6>science very often. One of the reasons I found this

964
00:51:51.960 --> 00:51:55.320
<v Speaker 6>really hard was because and I actually was very resistant

965
00:51:55.360 --> 00:51:58.800
<v Speaker 6>to this, And it made me realize why I had

966
00:51:58.960 --> 00:52:04.239
<v Speaker 6>stayed this simplistic idea that depression is just a chemical

967
00:52:04.280 --> 00:52:07.000
<v Speaker 6>imbalance in our brains, because you know, even quite early on,

968
00:52:08.119 --> 00:52:10.480
<v Speaker 6>I had suspicions that this story couldn't be right. I'm

969
00:52:10.480 --> 00:52:12.280
<v Speaker 6>not an idiot, right, if it was just a problem

970
00:52:12.360 --> 00:52:14.679
<v Speaker 6>in people's brains, why would it be rising so much? Right?

971
00:52:16.760 --> 00:52:19.679
<v Speaker 6>But I think one of the reasons I stayed with

972
00:52:19.800 --> 00:52:22.519
<v Speaker 6>that story is when I was a child, my mother

973
00:52:22.599 --> 00:52:25.519
<v Speaker 6>had been very ill, and my dad had been in

974
00:52:25.599 --> 00:52:30.760
<v Speaker 6>a different country, and I had experienced some very extreme

975
00:52:31.159 --> 00:52:34.880
<v Speaker 6>acts of abuse from an adult in my life. I

976
00:52:34.960 --> 00:52:36.480
<v Speaker 6>didn't want to think about that. I don't want to

977
00:52:36.519 --> 00:52:38.320
<v Speaker 6>think that was still playing out in my life. I

978
00:52:38.360 --> 00:52:40.159
<v Speaker 6>didn't want to reckon with it. I didn't want to

979
00:52:40.440 --> 00:52:42.920
<v Speaker 6>think about the shame I felt about that. But one

980
00:52:42.920 --> 00:52:44.679
<v Speaker 6>of the reasons I stayed with this is because of

981
00:52:44.719 --> 00:52:48.440
<v Speaker 6>what doctor Feliti discovered. Next. So, if you'd gone to

982
00:52:48.480 --> 00:52:50.440
<v Speaker 6>a doctor and you've filled in this questionnaire, as everyone

983
00:52:50.480 --> 00:52:53.639
<v Speaker 6>in San Diego had who was with Kus of Permanente,

984
00:52:55.000 --> 00:52:57.639
<v Speaker 6>your doctor was told the next time you come in,

985
00:52:58.239 --> 00:53:01.239
<v Speaker 6>say to the patient something like, I see that when

986
00:53:01.280 --> 00:53:04.440
<v Speaker 6>you were a child you were sexually abused. I'm really

987
00:53:04.519 --> 00:53:07.679
<v Speaker 6>sorry that happened to you. That should never have happened.

988
00:53:08.719 --> 00:53:11.840
<v Speaker 6>Would you like to talk about it? And a significant

989
00:53:11.880 --> 00:53:14.119
<v Speaker 6>minority of people said, I don't want to talk about it,

990
00:53:14.199 --> 00:53:17.800
<v Speaker 6>but most people did. On average, the conversation lasted five minutes,

991
00:53:17.840 --> 00:53:20.920
<v Speaker 6>and then some of those people were told, I can

992
00:53:20.960 --> 00:53:22.760
<v Speaker 6>refer you to a therapist to talk about it more.

993
00:53:23.519 --> 00:53:28.480
<v Speaker 6>What they found was just that five minute conversation and

994
00:53:28.599 --> 00:53:32.800
<v Speaker 6>nothing else led to a really significant falling depression of anxiety,

995
00:53:33.039 --> 00:53:34.800
<v Speaker 6>and the people who referred on to a therapist haven't

996
00:53:34.800 --> 00:53:37.719
<v Speaker 6>even bigger falling depression of anxiety. What that tells us,

997
00:53:39.000 --> 00:53:40.880
<v Speaker 6>it's with a much wider body of knowledge that we have,

998
00:53:41.800 --> 00:53:47.320
<v Speaker 6>is that shane is catastrophic for human beings. It's devastating.

999
00:53:48.480 --> 00:53:53.039
<v Speaker 6>For example, we know that in the age crisis, openly

1000
00:53:53.159 --> 00:53:56.559
<v Speaker 6>gay men died on average two years later than closetive

1001
00:53:56.639 --> 00:53:58.840
<v Speaker 6>gay men, even when they got medical care at the

1002
00:53:58.840 --> 00:54:02.280
<v Speaker 6>same time. Shame destroys you, and giving people ways to

1003
00:54:02.400 --> 00:54:06.360
<v Speaker 6>release shame is very powerful. After in that experiment, one

1004
00:54:06.440 --> 00:54:09.360
<v Speaker 6>of the a woman in her eighties, wrote to her

1005
00:54:09.440 --> 00:54:12.800
<v Speaker 6>doctor after they had this conversation. She'd been sexually abused.

1006
00:54:12.840 --> 00:54:15.639
<v Speaker 6>She said, thank you so much for asking. I thought

1007
00:54:15.679 --> 00:54:18.920
<v Speaker 6>I was gonna die and nobody would ever know. And again,

1008
00:54:18.960 --> 00:54:22.119
<v Speaker 6>it was in the childhood trauma. It was when I

1009
00:54:22.199 --> 00:54:23.719
<v Speaker 6>was researching this child too traumahich is one of the

1010
00:54:23.800 --> 00:54:26.760
<v Speaker 6>nine causes I write that in Lost Connections of Depression

1011
00:54:26.800 --> 00:54:30.360
<v Speaker 6>and Anxiety. It was there that I really got a

1012
00:54:30.480 --> 00:54:33.800
<v Speaker 6>sense of howp unethical it was that I was told

1013
00:54:33.880 --> 00:54:36.199
<v Speaker 6>that it was just a chemical imbalance. You know a

1014
00:54:36.360 --> 00:54:40.400
<v Speaker 6>thirteen years I was given chemical ancy depressants. Never once

1015
00:54:40.480 --> 00:54:43.239
<v Speaker 6>did any doctor say to me, is that any reason

1016
00:54:43.320 --> 00:54:45.760
<v Speaker 6>you might feel this way? And I think this is

1017
00:54:45.840 --> 00:54:50.559
<v Speaker 6>really it's not that. You know, doctors are very overstressed

1018
00:54:50.599 --> 00:54:52.320
<v Speaker 6>and they have very little time to spend with their

1019
00:54:52.400 --> 00:54:54.760
<v Speaker 6>patients and have a lot of sympathy for them, and

1020
00:54:54.840 --> 00:54:56.920
<v Speaker 6>as a society, we've only given them one lever to

1021
00:54:57.000 --> 00:54:59.320
<v Speaker 6>pull right, which is chemical anity depressants, I mean, and

1022
00:54:59.400 --> 00:55:03.119
<v Speaker 6>a little bit of therapy in some cases. So I'm

1023
00:55:03.159 --> 00:55:04.760
<v Speaker 6>not so much anger with the doctor, but as a

1024
00:55:04.800 --> 00:55:07.840
<v Speaker 6>society and as a culture, we have to reckon with

1025
00:55:08.000 --> 00:55:10.840
<v Speaker 6>the scientific evidence about what is actually causing this crisis

1026
00:55:10.920 --> 00:55:13.800
<v Speaker 6>of depression and anxiety, and we have to look at

1027
00:55:13.800 --> 00:55:15.440
<v Speaker 6>the best solutions, and we have to offer more than

1028
00:55:15.599 --> 00:55:18.039
<v Speaker 6>just drugs. Drug should remain on the table. Of course,

1029
00:55:18.679 --> 00:55:21.159
<v Speaker 6>I'm arguing for expanding the menu of options, not for

1030
00:55:21.280 --> 00:55:24.239
<v Speaker 6>taking anything off the menu. But we have to do

1031
00:55:24.360 --> 00:55:26.199
<v Speaker 6>a much better job with this.

1032
00:55:28.760 --> 00:55:32.360
<v Speaker 8>You call it social prescribing. But you did find something

1033
00:55:33.679 --> 00:55:38.679
<v Speaker 8>very profound that is available to everyone. What did you

1034
00:55:38.719 --> 00:55:41.000
<v Speaker 8>find it was so profound? And why is it so

1035
00:55:41.119 --> 00:55:43.639
<v Speaker 8>profound in regards to depression.

1036
00:55:44.000 --> 00:55:46.440
<v Speaker 6>There's so many things that I learned. I mean, I'll

1037
00:55:46.480 --> 00:55:49.159
<v Speaker 6>give you one example one that really affected me. So

1038
00:55:49.280 --> 00:55:52.519
<v Speaker 6>I went to Berkeley and met this brilliant academic called

1039
00:55:52.679 --> 00:55:57.320
<v Speaker 6>Dr Bretford, who did with her colleagues this research that

1040
00:55:57.440 --> 00:56:00.480
<v Speaker 6>really blew my mind. Actually, So they wanted to figure out,

1041
00:56:01.519 --> 00:56:04.039
<v Speaker 6>if you deliberately decided you were going to spend more

1042
00:56:04.119 --> 00:56:07.639
<v Speaker 6>time trying to be happy, would you become happier? Right,

1043
00:56:07.719 --> 00:56:09.280
<v Speaker 6>so let's say that you Dan thought, right, from now

1044
00:56:09.320 --> 00:56:11.320
<v Speaker 6>on I'm going to spend two hours a night trying

1045
00:56:11.360 --> 00:56:14.760
<v Speaker 6>to make myself happy. Would you actually become happier? And

1046
00:56:14.880 --> 00:56:19.519
<v Speaker 6>they looked at this in four countries the United States, Russia, China,

1047
00:56:19.639 --> 00:56:23.960
<v Speaker 6>and Japan, and what they discovered was totally fascinating. In

1048
00:56:24.039 --> 00:56:27.360
<v Speaker 6>the United States, if you try deliberately to make yourself happier,

1049
00:56:28.079 --> 00:56:31.239
<v Speaker 6>you do not become happier. But in the other places,

1050
00:56:31.320 --> 00:56:33.559
<v Speaker 6>if you tried to make yourself happier, you do become happier.

1051
00:56:33.599 --> 00:56:36.280
<v Speaker 6>They were like, what's going on why? And what they

1052
00:56:36.400 --> 00:56:39.800
<v Speaker 6>discovered was in the United States and Canada and Britain,

1053
00:56:39.840 --> 00:56:43.639
<v Speaker 6>I'm pretty sure if you try to make yourself happier,

1054
00:56:44.199 --> 00:56:47.960
<v Speaker 6>generally what you do is something for yourself, you try

1055
00:56:48.039 --> 00:56:51.000
<v Speaker 6>to get promotion, you buy something for yourself, you show

1056
00:56:51.000 --> 00:56:54.400
<v Speaker 6>off on Instagram, whatever it is. Generally, in the other

1057
00:56:54.519 --> 00:56:59.039
<v Speaker 6>countries Russia, China, and Japan, if you tried to make

1058
00:56:59.079 --> 00:57:02.840
<v Speaker 6>yourself happier, you generally did something for someone else. You

1059
00:57:03.039 --> 00:57:05.360
<v Speaker 6>do something for your friends, your family, and your community.

1060
00:57:05.920 --> 00:57:08.800
<v Speaker 6>So we have an individualistic idea of what it means

1061
00:57:08.840 --> 00:57:12.079
<v Speaker 6>to be happy, and they have a collective idea of

1062
00:57:12.159 --> 00:57:14.400
<v Speaker 6>what it means to be happy. And it turns out

1063
00:57:14.519 --> 00:57:18.079
<v Speaker 6>our model of happiness just doesn't work very well. Right,

1064
00:57:18.199 --> 00:57:21.320
<v Speaker 6>It's just not very effective. It's not the species we are.

1065
00:57:22.320 --> 00:57:25.519
<v Speaker 6>In fact, if human beings had been individualists from the start,

1066
00:57:25.599 --> 00:57:27.159
<v Speaker 6>you and I wouldn't be having this conversation because the

1067
00:57:27.159 --> 00:57:29.039
<v Speaker 6>species would have died out because they wouldn't have been

1068
00:57:29.039 --> 00:57:33.559
<v Speaker 6>able to cooperate enough to survive. Right, Their theory of

1069
00:57:33.559 --> 00:57:36.000
<v Speaker 6>happiness and more collective theory of happiness does work. And

1070
00:57:36.079 --> 00:57:38.679
<v Speaker 6>I've tried to very deliberately move myself and I realized

1071
00:57:38.719 --> 00:57:41.280
<v Speaker 6>that in the past, not every time, but a lot

1072
00:57:41.360 --> 00:57:45.000
<v Speaker 6>of the time when I felt these painful feelings coming, generally,

1073
00:57:45.079 --> 00:57:47.239
<v Speaker 6>what I would do would be something for myself, right,

1074
00:57:47.679 --> 00:57:50.400
<v Speaker 6>I would try to dig myself up in some way now.

1075
00:57:50.480 --> 00:57:52.719
<v Speaker 6>When I feel those painful feelings coming, generally, what I

1076
00:57:52.840 --> 00:57:55.239
<v Speaker 6>try to do is do something for someone else. And

1077
00:57:55.280 --> 00:57:56.719
<v Speaker 6>I don't mean, you know, I'm not like, oh for it.

1078
00:57:56.719 --> 00:57:58.360
<v Speaker 6>I don't turn up with a free car for someone.

1079
00:57:58.719 --> 00:58:01.039
<v Speaker 6>I just leave my phone at home and try to

1080
00:58:01.119 --> 00:58:02.639
<v Speaker 6>go and sit with them and listen to them. We

1081
00:58:02.719 --> 00:58:04.679
<v Speaker 6>live in a culture where people are so isolated, with

1082
00:58:04.800 --> 00:58:08.360
<v Speaker 6>so few people are heard and seen that just turning

1083
00:58:08.440 --> 00:58:10.159
<v Speaker 6>up and being present with people it's one of the

1084
00:58:10.199 --> 00:58:13.280
<v Speaker 6>most and really being present is one of the most

1085
00:58:13.320 --> 00:58:15.360
<v Speaker 6>powerful things we can do. So there are lots of

1086
00:58:15.440 --> 00:58:18.000
<v Speaker 6>things I go through in lost connections, lots of things

1087
00:58:18.039 --> 00:58:20.440
<v Speaker 6>that people can do. Some of them are individualistic things,

1088
00:58:20.480 --> 00:58:23.079
<v Speaker 6>some of them are bigger things we need to fight

1089
00:58:23.199 --> 00:58:29.000
<v Speaker 6>for collectively. But there are these solutions waiting for us,

1090
00:58:29.000 --> 00:58:30.519
<v Speaker 6>and there is evidence that they work.

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00:58:34.199 --> 00:58:37.880
<v Speaker 8>In your conclusion, for yourself. And I mean, that's why

1092
00:58:37.960 --> 00:58:41.480
<v Speaker 8>this is so important for everybody. Everybody's touched by depression.

1093
00:58:41.880 --> 00:58:46.639
<v Speaker 8>Everyone will be is touched by it by someone around them,

1094
00:58:47.159 --> 00:58:50.880
<v Speaker 8>or they will. For yourself and for everyone listening, and

1095
00:58:51.000 --> 00:58:55.559
<v Speaker 8>for everyone that reads this book, for those people that

1096
00:58:55.679 --> 00:58:58.480
<v Speaker 8>are grieving, for those people that believe that they have

1097
00:58:58.880 --> 00:59:04.920
<v Speaker 8>some legitimate source of depression. What is the good news?

1098
00:59:05.840 --> 00:59:08.639
<v Speaker 8>What is what you found?

1099
00:59:09.559 --> 00:59:13.159
<v Speaker 6>Well, that your pain makes sense and there are answers

1100
00:59:13.199 --> 00:59:16.280
<v Speaker 6>to that pain. And one of the places, you know,

1101
00:59:16.280 --> 00:59:17.880
<v Speaker 6>I could talk to you about the science all day,

1102
00:59:17.880 --> 00:59:19.679
<v Speaker 6>but one of the places this most fell into place

1103
00:59:19.760 --> 00:59:24.519
<v Speaker 6>for me was in this incredible place that I went

1104
00:59:24.599 --> 00:59:26.320
<v Speaker 6>to where I learned so much. It was in Berlin.

1105
00:59:26.360 --> 00:59:27.840
<v Speaker 6>How much time do we have done? Because I don't

1106
00:59:27.880 --> 00:59:29.320
<v Speaker 6>think I've got time to tell this story properly.

1107
00:59:30.519 --> 00:59:33.039
<v Speaker 8>We have as much time as we need, oh great, perfect.

1108
00:59:33.320 --> 00:59:39.039
<v Speaker 6>So in the summer of twenty eleven, a woman called

1109
00:59:39.159 --> 00:59:43.519
<v Speaker 6>Nuria chengis quite religious Muslim woman in Berlin, put a

1110
00:59:43.679 --> 00:59:47.000
<v Speaker 6>notice in her window. She lived on a big, anonymous

1111
00:59:47.000 --> 00:59:49.360
<v Speaker 6>housing project where no one knew each other, and the

1112
00:59:49.480 --> 00:59:53.000
<v Speaker 6>notice said something like, I'm getting evicted next Thursday night

1113
00:59:53.639 --> 00:59:55.559
<v Speaker 6>from my apartment because i can't pay the rent anymore.

1114
00:59:56.599 --> 00:59:59.760
<v Speaker 6>So on Wednesday night, I'm going to kill myself. And

1115
01:00:00.400 --> 01:00:02.519
<v Speaker 6>you know, this was a housing project and slightly weird

1116
01:00:02.559 --> 01:00:04.960
<v Speaker 6>it's It was a quite poor part of Berlin for

1117
01:00:05.039 --> 01:00:07.360
<v Speaker 6>a long time, and basically people who lived there were

1118
01:00:07.400 --> 01:00:12.159
<v Speaker 6>either recent Muslim immigrants, gay people, or punk squatters who,

1119
01:00:12.239 --> 01:00:13.679
<v Speaker 6>as you can imagine, looked at each other with a

1120
01:00:13.719 --> 01:00:17.760
<v Speaker 6>lot of you know, incomprehension, right, and no one knew

1121
01:00:17.800 --> 01:00:20.480
<v Speaker 6>Nuria on this housing project. But people saw this sign

1122
01:00:20.519 --> 01:00:22.320
<v Speaker 6>in her window and they started to knock on her door,

1123
01:00:23.119 --> 01:00:24.840
<v Speaker 6>and she was like, They were like, do you need

1124
01:00:24.840 --> 01:00:26.159
<v Speaker 6>any help, and she was like, screw you, I don't

1125
01:00:26.159 --> 01:00:28.360
<v Speaker 6>want an help. I'm going to kill myself. And some

1126
01:00:28.440 --> 01:00:31.159
<v Speaker 6>people started talking in the kind of outside her apartment

1127
01:00:31.239 --> 01:00:34.239
<v Speaker 6>and they were like, you know, there's this big thoroughfare

1128
01:00:34.280 --> 01:00:36.480
<v Speaker 6>that runs into the center of Berlin that goes through

1129
01:00:36.559 --> 01:00:39.320
<v Speaker 6>this this project is called Kotti, And they were like,

1130
01:00:39.880 --> 01:00:41.840
<v Speaker 6>maybe if we just blocked the road for a day

1131
01:00:42.599 --> 01:00:44.360
<v Speaker 6>and we protested because a lot of them were really

1132
01:00:44.400 --> 01:00:46.440
<v Speaker 6>angry that their rents were going up so much as well.

1133
01:00:46.480 --> 01:00:50.000
<v Speaker 6>We just protested and we wheeled Nuria out. Maybe there'll

1134
01:00:50.039 --> 01:00:53.480
<v Speaker 6>be some media coverage, you know, maybe they'll you know,

1135
01:00:53.599 --> 01:00:56.239
<v Speaker 6>let her stay in her apartment. So they decided to

1136
01:00:56.320 --> 01:00:58.199
<v Speaker 6>do it. So one Saturday, they blocked the road and

1137
01:00:58.239 --> 01:00:59.880
<v Speaker 6>they wheeled Nuria out. She was like, well, I'm going

1138
01:00:59.920 --> 01:01:01.480
<v Speaker 6>to kill myself anywhere, and may as well do this.

1139
01:01:02.199 --> 01:01:03.800
<v Speaker 6>And they did get quite a lot of media coverage

1140
01:01:03.800 --> 01:01:06.199
<v Speaker 6>that day in Berlin, you know, the local news came

1141
01:01:07.039 --> 01:01:08.639
<v Speaker 6>and at the end of the day the police turned

1142
01:01:08.719 --> 01:01:10.679
<v Speaker 6>up and they basically said, okay, you've had your fun,

1143
01:01:11.119 --> 01:01:14.199
<v Speaker 6>take it down. And the people there said, well, hang

1144
01:01:14.239 --> 01:01:17.280
<v Speaker 6>on a minute. You haven't told Nuria she can stay here,

1145
01:01:17.559 --> 01:01:20.079
<v Speaker 6>and actually we want a rent freeze for all of us, right,

1146
01:01:20.599 --> 01:01:23.679
<v Speaker 6>so we'll take this down when we've been guaranteed that.

1147
01:01:24.400 --> 01:01:26.320
<v Speaker 6>But they knew that the minute they left this barricade

1148
01:01:26.320 --> 01:01:28.440
<v Speaker 6>the police would just tear it down anyway. So there

1149
01:01:28.519 --> 01:01:29.920
<v Speaker 6>was one of the people who live in Cottie, one

1150
01:01:29.960 --> 01:01:33.840
<v Speaker 6>of my favorite people there, called Tanya Gartner, who she's

1151
01:01:34.079 --> 01:01:36.440
<v Speaker 6>one of the punks there. She wears tiny mini skirts

1152
01:01:36.480 --> 01:01:41.760
<v Speaker 6>even in Berlin winters, which shows real dedication Tanya. Tanya

1153
01:01:41.800 --> 01:01:43.519
<v Speaker 6>had in her apartment one of those things that makes

1154
01:01:43.559 --> 01:01:46.119
<v Speaker 6>a really loud noise for soccer matches or clackson. So

1155
01:01:46.239 --> 01:01:47.559
<v Speaker 6>she went and got it and she put it down

1156
01:01:47.599 --> 01:01:49.440
<v Speaker 6>and she said, Okay, what we're going to do. We're

1157
01:01:49.480 --> 01:01:52.320
<v Speaker 6>going to draw up a timetable to man this barricade

1158
01:01:52.760 --> 01:01:54.599
<v Speaker 6>and if the police come to take it down, let

1159
01:01:54.639 --> 01:01:56.679
<v Speaker 6>off the clackson. We'll all come out of our apartments

1160
01:01:56.679 --> 01:01:59.639
<v Speaker 6>and we'll stop them, right, So people who don't know

1161
01:01:59.679 --> 01:02:02.320
<v Speaker 6>each other all over COTTI start signing up to do

1162
01:02:02.400 --> 01:02:05.719
<v Speaker 6>the night shift. Right, Tanya and Nuria were paired together

1163
01:02:05.800 --> 01:02:07.440
<v Speaker 6>to do the night shift. You cannot imagine what a

1164
01:02:07.599 --> 01:02:10.000
<v Speaker 6>likely combination of people. Nuria, as I say, is a

1165
01:02:10.079 --> 01:02:14.280
<v Speaker 6>very religious Muslim and a headscarf. Tanya is the opposite, right,

1166
01:02:14.760 --> 01:02:17.199
<v Speaker 6>and they're paired. I think they had the Thursday night shift,

1167
01:02:17.239 --> 01:02:19.800
<v Speaker 6>if I remember rightly. And the first few nights they

1168
01:02:19.840 --> 01:02:21.920
<v Speaker 6>sit together, it's just super awkward. They don't know what

1169
01:02:22.039 --> 01:02:24.599
<v Speaker 6>to say. They think they've got nothing in common. Then

1170
01:02:24.599 --> 01:02:27.599
<v Speaker 6>they started talking about their lives. Turns out they had

1171
01:02:27.639 --> 01:02:31.800
<v Speaker 6>something extraordinary in common. Nuria had come to Berlin when

1172
01:02:31.880 --> 01:02:34.519
<v Speaker 6>she was seventeen years old from her village in Turkey.

1173
01:02:35.119 --> 01:02:37.519
<v Speaker 6>She came with her two kids, and the idea was

1174
01:02:37.519 --> 01:02:39.679
<v Speaker 6>that she would make enough money so she could then

1175
01:02:39.760 --> 01:02:41.880
<v Speaker 6>send back the money to her husband, who would come

1176
01:02:41.920 --> 01:02:44.559
<v Speaker 6>and join her. After she'd been in Berlin for a

1177
01:02:44.639 --> 01:02:47.239
<v Speaker 6>short time, she received word that her husband had died.

1178
01:02:48.320 --> 01:02:50.559
<v Speaker 6>She'd always told people that her husband had died of

1179
01:02:50.599 --> 01:02:53.920
<v Speaker 6>a heart attack. She told Tanya something she'd never told anyone,

1180
01:02:53.960 --> 01:02:57.199
<v Speaker 6>that actually her husband had dieded tuberculosis, which was seen

1181
01:02:57.239 --> 01:02:59.880
<v Speaker 6>as a disease of poverty. She'd been really ashamed as that,

1182
01:03:00.440 --> 01:03:03.519
<v Speaker 6>so she'd found herself alone in Germany, not knowing anyone

1183
01:03:03.760 --> 01:03:07.320
<v Speaker 6>to young children. Tanya told Nui or something about her life.

1184
01:03:07.360 --> 01:03:09.599
<v Speaker 6>She'd been thrown out at home when she was fifteen.

1185
01:03:10.000 --> 01:03:11.639
<v Speaker 6>She found her way to live in a squat for

1186
01:03:11.760 --> 01:03:15.079
<v Speaker 6>punks in Kotti. She got pregnant when she was fifteen.

1187
01:03:15.119 --> 01:03:18.599
<v Speaker 6>They'd both been alone in this frightening place with young children.

1188
01:03:18.639 --> 01:03:21.320
<v Speaker 6>When they were still teenagers themselves. They realized they had

1189
01:03:21.400 --> 01:03:24.400
<v Speaker 6>so much in common. All over Kotti there were these

1190
01:03:24.559 --> 01:03:26.880
<v Speaker 6>pairings of people who would never have spoken to each other.

1191
01:03:27.199 --> 01:03:29.800
<v Speaker 6>There was a young Turkish German lad called Mehmet who

1192
01:03:29.880 --> 01:03:32.679
<v Speaker 6>was seventeen, loved hip hop, kept being nearly thrown out

1193
01:03:32.719 --> 01:03:35.639
<v Speaker 6>of school because they said he had ADHD. Got paired

1194
01:03:35.679 --> 01:03:38.800
<v Speaker 6>with a seventy year old, grumpy white German guy who

1195
01:03:38.880 --> 01:03:42.159
<v Speaker 6>loved stalin right. The old German guy started helping him

1196
01:03:42.199 --> 01:03:44.920
<v Speaker 6>with his homework when they did their shift right. And

1197
01:03:45.159 --> 01:03:48.199
<v Speaker 6>this was happening all over Kotty. Opposite the housing project,

1198
01:03:48.239 --> 01:03:51.079
<v Speaker 6>there's a gay club called Zudblock, which run by guy

1199
01:03:51.119 --> 01:03:53.960
<v Speaker 6>I love called Rickard Stein and to give you a

1200
01:03:54.039 --> 01:03:56.880
<v Speaker 6>sense of the previous club that Rickard owned was called

1201
01:03:57.039 --> 01:04:01.199
<v Speaker 6>Cafe Anal. So these are pretty cop guys, right. And

1202
01:04:01.280 --> 01:04:03.400
<v Speaker 6>when they first opened the club, you can imagine there's

1203
01:04:03.440 --> 01:04:05.320
<v Speaker 6>a lot of religious Muslims who live there. They'd smashed

1204
01:04:05.320 --> 01:04:07.960
<v Speaker 6>the windows. There've been a lot of opposition to this club.

1205
01:04:08.199 --> 01:04:10.599
<v Speaker 6>The zudblock. The gay club started saying. When the protests began,

1206
01:04:10.679 --> 01:04:13.440
<v Speaker 6>they gave loads of their furniture to the protest. They said,

1207
01:04:13.480 --> 01:04:14.880
<v Speaker 6>after a while, they said, you know, you guys could

1208
01:04:14.880 --> 01:04:16.440
<v Speaker 6>come and have your meetings for free, and we'll give

1209
01:04:16.480 --> 01:04:19.239
<v Speaker 6>you food and drinks in this gay club. And at

1210
01:04:19.280 --> 01:04:21.760
<v Speaker 6>first even the kind of lefties in Kotti were like, look,

1211
01:04:21.800 --> 01:04:23.320
<v Speaker 6>we're not going to get these Muslims to come and

1212
01:04:24.559 --> 01:04:26.880
<v Speaker 6>sit under posters for fifting like Claub, but you know,

1213
01:04:27.239 --> 01:04:30.800
<v Speaker 6>meetings about our protests. But actually everyone took these small

1214
01:04:30.840 --> 01:04:33.800
<v Speaker 6>steps to begin to understand each other. After the protest

1215
01:04:33.840 --> 01:04:36.519
<v Speaker 6>had been going on for about six months, a guy

1216
01:04:36.639 --> 01:04:40.000
<v Speaker 6>turned up one day at the protest camp called tun

1217
01:04:40.079 --> 01:04:43.519
<v Speaker 6>Kai and Tunkai has he's in his early fifties, was

1218
01:04:43.559 --> 01:04:45.559
<v Speaker 6>in his early fifties at the time. He has kind

1219
01:04:45.599 --> 01:04:47.920
<v Speaker 6>of cognitive difficulties, as you can tell when you meet him.

1220
01:04:47.920 --> 01:04:50.360
<v Speaker 6>He'd been living homeless. Then he started saying, can I

1221
01:04:50.440 --> 01:04:52.559
<v Speaker 6>help out, and everyone in the camp loved him. Tunkai

1222
01:04:52.639 --> 01:04:55.880
<v Speaker 6>has this great energy about him, and he was really

1223
01:04:55.920 --> 01:04:58.119
<v Speaker 6>popular with all three groups, the Muslims, the gays and

1224
01:04:58.159 --> 01:05:00.679
<v Speaker 6>the punks. And he began living. You know, they'd actually

1225
01:05:00.760 --> 01:05:06.360
<v Speaker 6>turned this barricade into a permanent structure, and they said

1226
01:05:06.400 --> 01:05:08.000
<v Speaker 6>to him, you know, you could start sleeping here if

1227
01:05:08.039 --> 01:05:09.280
<v Speaker 6>you want. You know, he wanted to be sleeping on

1228
01:05:09.320 --> 01:05:11.760
<v Speaker 6>the street, especially in Berlin it gets really cold, so

1229
01:05:11.800 --> 01:05:13.559
<v Speaker 6>he started sleeping there. He became one of the great

1230
01:05:13.639 --> 01:05:16.400
<v Speaker 6>fixtures of the protest movement. And after he'd been there

1231
01:05:16.440 --> 01:05:18.599
<v Speaker 6>for about six months, one day the police came. They

1232
01:05:18.639 --> 01:05:22.159
<v Speaker 6>would do these inspections and Tunkai doesn't like it when

1233
01:05:22.199 --> 01:05:25.320
<v Speaker 6>people argue. He thought the police were arguing, so he

1234
01:05:25.400 --> 01:05:27.320
<v Speaker 6>went to hug one of them. They thought he was

1235
01:05:27.360 --> 01:05:29.800
<v Speaker 6>attacking them, so they arrested him. That was when they

1236
01:05:29.840 --> 01:05:32.440
<v Speaker 6>discovered Tung Kai had been shut away in a psychiatric

1237
01:05:32.559 --> 01:05:36.559
<v Speaker 6>hospital for twenty years, often in a literal padded cell.

1238
01:05:36.639 --> 01:05:39.960
<v Speaker 6>He'd escaped and he'd found his way to Kotti, so

1239
01:05:40.079 --> 01:05:41.960
<v Speaker 6>they took him back. The police took him back to

1240
01:05:42.039 --> 01:05:45.159
<v Speaker 6>this psychiatric hospital, and suddenly the whole of the Kotti

1241
01:05:45.239 --> 01:05:48.559
<v Speaker 6>protest movement turned into a kind of free Tung Kai movement.

1242
01:05:48.599 --> 01:05:52.440
<v Speaker 6>They descended on this psychiatric hospital in the suburbs of Berlin,

1243
01:05:52.519 --> 01:05:54.800
<v Speaker 6>and the psychiatrists they are like, what the hell is this.

1244
01:05:54.880 --> 01:05:58.599
<v Speaker 6>They suddenly got all these Muslims, gaze and punks demanding

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<v Speaker 6>the release of this person who they'd kept shut away

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<v Speaker 6>for twenty years. And I remember Uli, one of the protesters.

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<v Speaker 6>They're saying to them, you know, but he doesn't belong

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<v Speaker 6>with you, He belongs with us. We loved him, we

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01:06:10.599 --> 01:06:12.679
<v Speaker 6>want him back. It took him a long time, but

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<v Speaker 6>they got tun Kai released. He now lives in Koti.

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<v Speaker 6>Many things happened at Koti. The kind of most important

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<v Speaker 6>headline I guess is they got a rent freeze, not

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<v Speaker 6>just for their entire housing project, but they launched a

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<v Speaker 6>referendum initiative that got the largest number overwritten signatures in

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<v Speaker 6>the history of the city of Berlin. But the last

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<v Speaker 6>time I went to see Nuria, the woman who had

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<v Speaker 6>been suicidal, had put this notice in her window, had

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<v Speaker 6>started this whole protest. Nuria said to me, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm really glad I got to stay in my apartment.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a great thing, but I gained so much more

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<v Speaker 6>than that. I was surrounded all along by these amazing people.

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<v Speaker 6>And I never knew another. One of the Turkish Gairman

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<v Speaker 6>women in there. A woman called Nehreman said to me

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<v Speaker 6>that when she was a kid and she grew up

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<v Speaker 6>in Turkey, she learned that what you call home is

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<v Speaker 6>just your what you call home is your whole village, right,

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<v Speaker 6>that the village is home. But then she came to

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<v Speaker 6>live in Germany and she realized that what you're meant

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<v Speaker 6>to call home is just your four walls in the

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<v Speaker 6>Western world, right. And then this whole protest began, and

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<v Speaker 6>she said, we got to know each other, and this

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<v Speaker 6>whole place became my home. And she said she realized

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<v Speaker 6>that all this time she'd been living in the Western world,

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<v Speaker 6>she had been in some sense homeless. That we need

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<v Speaker 6>to feel we belong and our sense of home in

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<v Speaker 6>the West is too small to meet our sense of belonging, right,

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<v Speaker 6>And I kept thinking about I mean, I learned so

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<v Speaker 6>many things in Kotti. I think they think I'm crazy

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<v Speaker 6>because I would just turn up every few months to

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<v Speaker 6>listen to them and just cry because I felt it

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<v Speaker 6>so moving. But one of the things is those people

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<v Speaker 6>didn't need to be drugged. They needed to be together.

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<v Speaker 6>That so many problems that seem insoluble when you are

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<v Speaker 6>an isolated individual becomes soluble when you have a when

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<v Speaker 6>you have a group. You know, Nuria was suicidal, Tonguai

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<v Speaker 6>was shut away in an actual padded cell. That young

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<v Speaker 6>lad of Memet kept being nearly thrown out of school

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<v Speaker 6>because they said he had ADHD. Right, all these problems

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<v Speaker 6>they've been insoluble when they were alone, were perfectly soluble

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<v Speaker 6>when they were part of a tribe of people who

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<v Speaker 6>cared about them and wanted to help them solve their problems.

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<v Speaker 6>And to me, that's one of the most important things

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<v Speaker 6>I learned that if we carry on just being broken

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<v Speaker 6>up and isolated, you know, we might we'll find some

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<v Speaker 6>patchwork solutions here and there, But the key is we

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<v Speaker 6>need to reconnect. We need to build a sense of

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<v Speaker 6>home together. We need to because I guarantee anyone listening

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<v Speaker 6>to this who is depressed and anxious, you are surrounded

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<v Speaker 6>by people who are depressed and anxious, and they have

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<v Speaker 6>the same longings for connection, for reconnection, for meaning to

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<v Speaker 6>be seen and heard that you have, and we've got

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<v Speaker 6>to begin that process of a deep reconnection. So obviously

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<v Speaker 6>there are many solutions to depression and anxiety that I

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<v Speaker 6>talk about Lost Connections, but to me, that's the beating

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<v Speaker 6>emotional heart of the most important one.

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<v Speaker 8>It's a wonderful book, Johan. I want to thank you

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<v Speaker 8>very much for coming on and talking about Lost Connections

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<v Speaker 8>and covering the real causes of depression and the unexpected solutions.

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<v Speaker 8>It's been an absolute pleasure.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you very much for those Just say to my publishers,

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<v Speaker 6>tell me off if I don't say this anyone who

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<v Speaker 6>wants any more information about the book, or to find

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<v Speaker 6>out the kind of crazy mixture of people who've praised

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<v Speaker 6>the book, from Hillary Clinton to Tucker Carlson, the top

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<v Speaker 6>rated Box News host to Russell Brand, Arianna Huffington, Glenn Greenwild,

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<v Speaker 6>Bj Novak, who wrote the office, a huge range of

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<v Speaker 6>different people. And also if you want to take a

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01:09:47.119 --> 01:09:49.520
<v Speaker 6>quiz to see how much you know about the real

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<v Speaker 6>causes of depression of anxiety, go to the Lost Connections

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<v Speaker 6>dot com. You can also hear audio interviews with loads

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01:09:56.840 --> 01:09:58.399
<v Speaker 6>of the people we've been talking about, and some of

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<v Speaker 6>the best experts in the world, all those people in

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<v Speaker 6>Cottie and a load of other other great people who

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<v Speaker 6>spoke to me said the book.

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<v Speaker 8>That's wonderful. I was going to ask for that, so

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<v Speaker 8>thank you for doing that. Thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 6>When I did an interview recently where at the end

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<v Speaker 6>of the interview they said to me, you know, what's

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<v Speaker 6>your Twitter, what's your Facebook, what's your Instagram? And anybod

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<v Speaker 6>who wants any of that, they can go to the

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<v Speaker 6>books the Lost Connections dot com. But at the end

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<v Speaker 6>they were like, and what's your Snapchat? And I said,

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<v Speaker 6>I am a thirty nine year old man. I will

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<v Speaker 6>do a lot of things to promote my work. I

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<v Speaker 6>draw any thirty nine year old man on Snapchat is

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<v Speaker 6>probably a pedophile, right, you should be very suspicious of them.

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<v Speaker 6>So fortunately you did not ask with my snaptat because

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<v Speaker 6>I would have had to give a horrified answer.

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<v Speaker 8>Ah. That's fantastic. Thank you very much, Johann. This has

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<v Speaker 8>been wonderful. It's a wonderful book, Lost Connections. Thank you

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<v Speaker 8>very much for taking the time to call us all

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<v Speaker 8>the way from London to this program. Thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 8>Have a great evening, and thank you again.

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<v Speaker 6>It's always a joy to talk to you. Thanks so much.

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<v Speaker 6>Cheers Bye, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 8>Cheers by

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<v Speaker 7>M HM
