WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.120 --> 00:00:06.839 From Morecast Connect and aj Benze fame. Uh, he'd liked 2 00:00:06.839 --> 00:00:09.119 to be walked on a leash and play really dirty 3 00:00:09.279 --> 00:00:12.519 kinky sex games. Is uh the guy put the cock 4 00:00:12.800 --> 00:00:17.600 in the peacock network. Okay, bitch, Hey, everybody aj Benzi 5 00:00:17.679 --> 00:00:19.679 here with fame is a bitch. This is your daily 6 00:00:19.760 --> 00:00:24.679 Unfiltered podcast for December third, twenty twenty five. One two three, 7 00:00:24.879 --> 00:00:30.000 two oh two five. We're moving and grooving and yes, 8 00:00:30.160 --> 00:00:36.240 I was kind of right about my emotions. The Great 9 00:00:36.399 --> 00:00:39.320 Zeeva Palmer texted me a little while ago and said 10 00:00:40.000 --> 00:00:43.920 it is a full moon, well sort of. She showed 11 00:00:43.920 --> 00:00:46.560 me a picture and she says she's not herself either. 12 00:00:47.079 --> 00:00:49.520 A few of you have texted me today saying the 13 00:00:49.560 --> 00:00:53.280 same thing. I just dragging my ass today. I didn't 14 00:00:53.280 --> 00:00:55.640 do politics the bitch again. Don't get mad at me. 15 00:00:55.759 --> 00:00:58.079 I had a lot to do today. We did relationships. 16 00:00:58.119 --> 00:01:00.560 I had to drive to Woodland Hill to give my 17 00:01:00.560 --> 00:01:03.840 fucking landlord the rent check. I hate that I'm gonna 18 00:01:03.920 --> 00:01:06.280 drive to give him this check. He won't accept zell 19 00:01:06.480 --> 00:01:08.879 or a wire, so it's just like, come on, man, 20 00:01:09.480 --> 00:01:12.200 it's a you know, forty five minutes drive back and 21 00:01:12.200 --> 00:01:16.959 fluffs to pain in the ass. But just excuse me 22 00:01:17.040 --> 00:01:18.920 for being a little draggy. I didn't even feel like 23 00:01:19.000 --> 00:01:23.159 cooking tonight, so you know that that's not like me. 24 00:01:23.439 --> 00:01:26.359 I run into the kitchen to cook. I made a 25 00:01:26.400 --> 00:01:29.560 little chicken with peppers and onions sorocco, had a little 26 00:01:29.599 --> 00:01:33.879 bit of a little bowl for myself, but you know, 27 00:01:34.599 --> 00:01:37.079 not enough that I want to eat too much more. 28 00:01:37.359 --> 00:01:40.400 And Kyote is still here. Didn't feed it, but it's 29 00:01:40.560 --> 00:01:44.239 making the rounds around the block like it owns the place. 30 00:01:44.239 --> 00:01:47.599 It's unbelievable. I don't know what's gonna happen to this thing. 31 00:01:47.959 --> 00:01:50.239 It must be it's gotta be eaten somewhere, must be 32 00:01:50.359 --> 00:01:55.120 killing cats and dogs somewhere. This is crazy. But what 33 00:01:55.159 --> 00:01:57.959 are you gonna do? What can you do? Know what 34 00:01:58.000 --> 00:02:01.560 I did today? I took the time to begin to 35 00:02:01.599 --> 00:02:06.799 watch the p Diddy documentary on Netflix that just just began, 36 00:02:07.000 --> 00:02:11.439 just dropped today. And if you don't, I mean, look, 37 00:02:11.919 --> 00:02:14.000 we all know what's been going on with Diddy in 38 00:02:14.080 --> 00:02:17.240 his personal life and his prison sentence, et cetera. And 39 00:02:17.439 --> 00:02:20.719 we've seen pictures of him looking like Grady from Sanford 40 00:02:20.719 --> 00:02:22.759 and some with the gray hair of the gray beard 41 00:02:24.120 --> 00:02:26.039 that's what prison I'll do to you. Man, You don't 42 00:02:26.080 --> 00:02:28.759 get to get all the good stuff that you got 43 00:02:28.759 --> 00:02:33.120 when you were the positive sixty seventy eighty one hundred, 44 00:02:33.199 --> 00:02:35.759 two hundred million dollars into your bank account when he 45 00:02:35.800 --> 00:02:40.199 was rising to the top. But there are never before 46 00:02:40.240 --> 00:02:47.000 seen videos in this in this documentary that are pretty alarming. 47 00:02:49.479 --> 00:02:50.919 I mean, you could see him on the phone with 48 00:02:50.960 --> 00:02:53.919 a lawyer, on his phone with a lawyer saying, we're losing, 49 00:02:53.960 --> 00:02:55.719 We're losing. We got to get better, we got to 50 00:02:55.719 --> 00:03:00.400 get stronger. We just going bananas. And then there's videos 51 00:03:00.400 --> 00:03:03.520 of him when he was younger, as he was rising 52 00:03:03.639 --> 00:03:08.360 up the ranks at Bad Boy Entertainment, screaming in the 53 00:03:08.400 --> 00:03:11.319 office about I gotta get shipped done. If I fucking 54 00:03:11.360 --> 00:03:15.280 want it done, let's get done, scream a maniac. And 55 00:03:15.319 --> 00:03:17.280 of course there's all the stories about who got punched 56 00:03:17.319 --> 00:03:19.280 in the face, who got smacked in the head, even 57 00:03:19.319 --> 00:03:22.280 his mother. He even smacked his mother, Janice at some point. 58 00:03:24.479 --> 00:03:26.039 But a lot of these guys that are talking on 59 00:03:26.080 --> 00:03:31.520 the doc I've never heard say anything before. And it's 60 00:03:31.599 --> 00:03:34.919 really interesting. I got one more episode to go, I'll 61 00:03:34.919 --> 00:03:38.759 watch it before bed. But you know, this kid who 62 00:03:38.879 --> 00:03:42.479 I never liked, although I did like his music when 63 00:03:42.479 --> 00:03:45.800 he started to really hit his stride. I remember being 64 00:03:45.800 --> 00:03:49.039 at Robert Evans's house the same day that I tell 65 00:03:49.120 --> 00:03:52.560 this story that Nicholson and Baty and Evans came to 66 00:03:52.639 --> 00:03:55.800 the door at my guest room because I had just 67 00:03:57.319 --> 00:04:00.479 written an email to Carra because you know, we not 68 00:04:00.599 --> 00:04:03.120 together so to speak, or we weren't gonna be together soon. 69 00:04:03.199 --> 00:04:05.879 And I didn't think it was gonna be a breakup. 70 00:04:05.919 --> 00:04:08.759 But Evan said, she dropped your kids, she dropped you. 71 00:04:09.479 --> 00:04:11.599 Trust me. I was dropped by Lana Turner and Ava 72 00:04:11.639 --> 00:04:14.879 Gardner before I was twenty two. She dropped you. And 73 00:04:15.000 --> 00:04:19.000 Jack had the cocaine on his nose and Warm was 74 00:04:19.000 --> 00:04:21.639 holding a bowl of grapes. It was like I've said, 75 00:04:21.639 --> 00:04:24.040 the three Wise Men just at my door. And then 76 00:04:24.079 --> 00:04:27.720 we watched pulp fiction in the projection room, which he 77 00:04:27.759 --> 00:04:32.480 had a special copy of. But that same day I'm 78 00:04:32.480 --> 00:04:35.000 in the room and I put on I guess MTV 79 00:04:35.120 --> 00:04:38.160 of VH one, but All about the Benjamins came on, 80 00:04:38.839 --> 00:04:43.319 and man, when that video came out on him and Mace, 81 00:04:43.720 --> 00:04:46.600 what you want to do? Wanted to be ballers shot 82 00:04:46.720 --> 00:04:50.759 called as the video was shot so great and so different, 83 00:04:51.079 --> 00:04:55.120 and the beat was tremendous, The song was great. You 84 00:04:55.120 --> 00:04:57.519 need You know, there's something that there's something very special 85 00:04:57.519 --> 00:05:00.399 about people who know how to make music. There's a 86 00:05:00.480 --> 00:05:02.680 knack for it. This is there's a certain talent that 87 00:05:02.720 --> 00:05:06.680 they can just hear a beat and know immediately that's 88 00:05:06.680 --> 00:05:09.759 the hit song. Well, that's gonna be your song that 89 00:05:09.839 --> 00:05:14.920 makes you forever money. Or like Jimmy Iveen told, uh, 90 00:05:15.519 --> 00:05:19.360 what's your name? Uh? Gwen? Uh, what's your name? Gwen? 91 00:05:19.439 --> 00:05:22.040 You know what the fuck I mean? Gwen Stefani when 92 00:05:22.079 --> 00:05:24.199 she had a couple of songs for him and he 93 00:05:24.360 --> 00:05:26.639 liked him, he said, give me six more. She said, 94 00:05:26.720 --> 00:05:28.759 what he goes, you need at least six more songs 95 00:05:28.759 --> 00:05:31.600 when get in the studio and finishing. And she did, 96 00:05:31.639 --> 00:05:34.160 of course, and she became a huge star. But they 97 00:05:34.199 --> 00:05:38.439 have this knack you know. Uh, it's like that with 98 00:05:38.680 --> 00:05:43.040 writers too. People if people in business have a knack 99 00:05:43.160 --> 00:05:45.839 for what's gonna make money, what's not gonna make money, 100 00:05:46.040 --> 00:05:48.279 and they can do it in in a split second. 101 00:05:48.439 --> 00:05:51.480 And when I showed Evans the video and Jack and 102 00:05:51.519 --> 00:05:53.319 Lauren were there too, and they was like, oh, this 103 00:05:53.439 --> 00:05:56.160 this is good this is really good. This is good, 104 00:05:56.439 --> 00:05:59.800 you know, And that means it affected my ears, their ears, 105 00:05:59.839 --> 00:06:04.160 and countless other people younger than me. And then it's 106 00:06:04.199 --> 00:06:06.439 just something. You know it when you hear it or 107 00:06:06.519 --> 00:06:12.879 read it or see it instantly. But excuse me, I'm 108 00:06:12.920 --> 00:06:17.319 looking at his He had such a determination to move 109 00:06:17.399 --> 00:06:21.920 up the ranks, and not to draw any kind of 110 00:06:21.920 --> 00:06:25.079 comparison between him and I, there is none. I mean, 111 00:06:25.120 --> 00:06:28.720 he ascended to tremendous heights that a few people can 112 00:06:28.800 --> 00:06:33.319 dream of. But I remember when I was divorced and 113 00:06:33.360 --> 00:06:36.000 living with Chico and Johnny Diaz and his son in 114 00:06:36.040 --> 00:06:39.079 our house, my house on the island, and I just 115 00:06:39.600 --> 00:06:42.000 I couldn't get shit rolland I was still working it 116 00:06:42.040 --> 00:06:46.079 for newsdays sports, and I was able to keep the 117 00:06:46.120 --> 00:06:49.279 house at I worked at a publishing company writing sports, 118 00:06:49.360 --> 00:06:52.360 high school sports and college sports at night, so I 119 00:06:52.399 --> 00:06:54.360 was making a living, but I knew I needed to 120 00:06:54.399 --> 00:06:56.519 do better, and I knew I should be writing in 121 00:06:56.560 --> 00:06:59.000 New York City for the Daily News or the Post 122 00:06:59.120 --> 00:07:01.800 or something, and I couldn't get it done. And I 123 00:07:01.879 --> 00:07:04.439 just remember being in the kitchen that night telling those 124 00:07:04.480 --> 00:07:07.360 two guys, I'm going to sell this house. I got 125 00:07:07.360 --> 00:07:09.399 to get to Manhattan. I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna 126 00:07:09.399 --> 00:07:11.920 get where. I'm not gonna go to Ohio or South 127 00:07:11.959 --> 00:07:14.920 Carolina and work on a newspaper for twenty six thousand 128 00:07:14.959 --> 00:07:17.680 dollars of starting salary. I'm not doing it. I'm New 129 00:07:17.759 --> 00:07:21.560 York that don't want me, and they didn't doubt me, 130 00:07:22.160 --> 00:07:24.160 and I laid everything out, and I've told you this 131 00:07:24.399 --> 00:07:26.199 stuff before. I want to live in the city. I 132 00:07:26.199 --> 00:07:28.800 want to live in the village. I want to be 133 00:07:28.839 --> 00:07:30.839 in movies. I want to I want to write books. 134 00:07:30.920 --> 00:07:33.399 I want to write a column. I mean, I was 135 00:07:33.720 --> 00:07:37.399 adamant about it. And that's the only part of the 136 00:07:37.439 --> 00:07:41.199 documentary that reminds reminds me of him, or reminds him 137 00:07:41.199 --> 00:07:45.920 of me, because there's something about that grit and determination 138 00:07:46.279 --> 00:07:48.839 and hustle that I don't think I would have had 139 00:07:48.839 --> 00:07:50.560 it if my mom and dad were still alive. I 140 00:07:50.639 --> 00:07:54.240 think I would have cruised a little bit slower through 141 00:07:54.279 --> 00:07:57.199 life and not hit the pedal to the metal. Was hard, 142 00:07:57.639 --> 00:08:00.240 but I did. I got rid of everything. I did 143 00:08:00.279 --> 00:08:02.399 find that place in Manhattan, and we did live in 144 00:08:02.480 --> 00:08:04.000 the village, and I did all the things I said 145 00:08:04.040 --> 00:08:07.120 I was gonna do, including befriending Mickey Rourke, which happened 146 00:08:07.120 --> 00:08:11.360 completely by accident, but I manifested it, not to mention 147 00:08:11.519 --> 00:08:14.120 working with stallone and countless other things. How it's done, 148 00:08:14.240 --> 00:08:16.399 you name it, but that's the way did he was 149 00:08:16.439 --> 00:08:20.519 when he was younger, and you know, he grew up 150 00:08:20.519 --> 00:08:23.480 without a father. His father was a hustler, a drug 151 00:08:23.519 --> 00:08:27.199 dealer out of Harlem who had brain's blown out on 152 00:08:27.279 --> 00:08:30.600 a shooting in Central Park West, and his mother raised him. 153 00:08:30.680 --> 00:08:33.240 His mother had odd jobs, including working at an after 154 00:08:33.320 --> 00:08:37.600 hours and serving the fella's drinks and you know, audishing 155 00:08:37.639 --> 00:08:40.240 out drugs to local people who wanted to get high 156 00:08:40.320 --> 00:08:43.039 late at night, and who knows what else she had 157 00:08:43.080 --> 00:08:46.159 to do to support, you know, a kid. I don't know, 158 00:08:46.279 --> 00:08:52.559 but it when you grew up without a parent or 159 00:08:52.639 --> 00:08:56.600 two parents, or at a certain age you lose them, 160 00:08:56.799 --> 00:09:00.759 it could either ruin you or push you to do 161 00:09:00.840 --> 00:09:05.600 great things. And I think in our circumstances, of course 162 00:09:05.720 --> 00:09:09.559 him more than me, it motivated us and moved us 163 00:09:09.679 --> 00:09:16.559 to get shit done. And as sad as that is, 164 00:09:16.759 --> 00:09:20.480 it's also kind of glamorous to a young boy to 165 00:09:20.480 --> 00:09:22.840 to not have your dad or your mom not us 166 00:09:23.120 --> 00:09:27.759 not glamorous but there's something in there that just makes 167 00:09:27.799 --> 00:09:33.720 you move. And he watched you know, and again another comparison, 168 00:09:33.759 --> 00:09:37.519 he grew up watching blaxploitation movies like Superfly and The 169 00:09:37.600 --> 00:09:41.519 Mac and Shaft, and you know, I grew up on 170 00:09:41.759 --> 00:09:45.960 Main Streets and The Godfather, and you know, same kind 171 00:09:46.000 --> 00:09:49.480 of shit. Mine was Italian gangster shit. His was blank 172 00:09:49.639 --> 00:09:54.279 black gangster shit. And in those movies, I think we 173 00:09:54.360 --> 00:09:58.039 both saw a way to become known or I don't 174 00:09:58.080 --> 00:10:00.879 want to say powerful in my case, but certainly in 175 00:10:00.919 --> 00:10:03.399 his case. I mean, when he's on the phone with 176 00:10:03.440 --> 00:10:07.480 a girl facetiming some girlfriend, his last girlfriend, telling her 177 00:10:07.480 --> 00:10:09.679 he's going to go depositing two hundred million in the 178 00:10:09.679 --> 00:10:12.360 bank and he's smoking a joint in the back of 179 00:10:12.360 --> 00:10:16.399 a limousine, it's like, okay, he clearly made it, Jesus Christ. 180 00:10:17.960 --> 00:10:23.080 But as they say, like we read an Animal Farm, 181 00:10:23.600 --> 00:10:26.879 the only part of Animal Farm, I remember, power corrupts, 182 00:10:26.879 --> 00:10:32.600 but absolute power corrupts absolutely, And you know he took 183 00:10:32.679 --> 00:10:36.360 that power and did bad things with it. And you 184 00:10:36.399 --> 00:10:40.559 know it's it was a driving force in his body 185 00:10:42.000 --> 00:10:45.120 and mind. Pick it up and move and in your 186 00:10:45.159 --> 00:10:48.559 mind you become unstoppable. But in his case, he just 187 00:10:49.399 --> 00:10:52.720 everything became about money and sex and power and greed. 188 00:10:53.919 --> 00:10:55.480 And you know, he grew up with a mother who 189 00:10:55.519 --> 00:10:57.480 said if you if somebody hits you, you better hit 190 00:10:57.559 --> 00:11:00.000 him harder. My father would tell me, if you don't 191 00:11:00.080 --> 00:11:02.480 throw the first punchry better throw the second or third. 192 00:11:03.600 --> 00:11:05.720 And I'm a little boy going to school. My father's 193 00:11:05.759 --> 00:11:08.519 words would echo in my ears, and I would try 194 00:11:08.519 --> 00:11:11.840 to be as tough as my father. I wasn't as 195 00:11:11.879 --> 00:11:14.399 a young kid. I was kind of timid. You know, 196 00:11:14.480 --> 00:11:18.480 I got sick. I got sick when I was a 197 00:11:18.519 --> 00:11:21.360 young kid. Toms Tom selected me and I had this 198 00:11:22.200 --> 00:11:24.600 shit that happened to my teeth with this medicine called 199 00:11:24.639 --> 00:11:28.480 deck Lamisin, which was outlawed, but it turned my teeth 200 00:11:28.559 --> 00:11:32.080 like dark. It was bad. They were baby teeth. But 201 00:11:33.200 --> 00:11:36.919 you know, the point is, says, I don't care how 202 00:11:36.960 --> 00:11:40.519 old you are. You always hear your parents' words long 203 00:11:40.559 --> 00:11:43.799 after they'd gone. And I'm sure he kept hearing his 204 00:11:43.840 --> 00:11:46.919 mother talk about if someone punches you, punch them harder. 205 00:11:47.679 --> 00:11:50.080 And I'm sure he thought about his dad, who was 206 00:11:50.120 --> 00:11:52.279 a hustler, and that's why his friends were hustles. And 207 00:11:52.320 --> 00:11:54.879 he hung around with people like that, and you know, 208 00:11:56.240 --> 00:12:01.559 kids are sometimes shaped by pain as much as there's 209 00:12:01.559 --> 00:12:07.279 shape by love. Same thing with comedians. There's not many 210 00:12:07.320 --> 00:12:09.720 comics that are funny who had a wonderful upbringing and 211 00:12:09.960 --> 00:12:12.600 a sweet life, who were born wealthy or well born 212 00:12:12.600 --> 00:12:14.919 into a wealthy family. You don't see that too often. 213 00:12:15.559 --> 00:12:18.200 Most kids who were grow up to be comics who 214 00:12:18.320 --> 00:12:21.120 kind of pour you know, three to a bedroom, two 215 00:12:21.159 --> 00:12:24.080 to a bed, mom worked two or three jobs dad. 216 00:12:24.120 --> 00:12:27.080 You know, it's just one of those things. You find 217 00:12:27.200 --> 00:12:32.200 humor and eventually you find power from it and it 218 00:12:32.440 --> 00:12:38.320 moves you. But this documentary really lays out the possibility 219 00:12:38.919 --> 00:12:43.240 that it could have been Diddy that laid out the 220 00:12:43.279 --> 00:12:49.159 plans to have Tupac and the Notorious Big murdered so 221 00:12:49.200 --> 00:12:52.080 he could have sent to the top spot. And you know, 222 00:12:52.120 --> 00:12:54.679 I have my theories and who pulled the trigger, etc. 223 00:12:55.000 --> 00:12:57.559 There's all sorts of theories out there. Who killed Tupac, 224 00:12:57.600 --> 00:13:01.879 who shot Biggie? But did He's fingerprints are on both 225 00:13:01.919 --> 00:13:05.399 of those things for sure. The East Coast West Coast 226 00:13:05.480 --> 00:13:09.759 rivalry and rap was kind of manufactured. And you know, 227 00:13:09.799 --> 00:13:11.919 I was there for it at the Source Awards when 228 00:13:11.919 --> 00:13:14.799 it really kicked off and I thought guns were going 229 00:13:14.879 --> 00:13:17.879 to be drawn. They probably were, but no one shot, 230 00:13:18.000 --> 00:13:22.039 but people were packing. But yeah, you look at this 231 00:13:22.559 --> 00:13:27.159 documentary and his fingerprints are on it. And I remember 232 00:13:27.240 --> 00:13:31.399 when me and Joey, I took Joey to see did 233 00:13:31.440 --> 00:13:34.759 he do the tour he did after Biggie died that 234 00:13:35.000 --> 00:13:39.080 hole I'll be Missing you bullshit. That song based on 235 00:13:39.200 --> 00:13:43.159 Prince's song Every Breath You Take, and it just didn't 236 00:13:43.240 --> 00:13:47.159 ring true to me. I felt like he's doing this 237 00:13:47.200 --> 00:13:49.759 for himself. I don't think he misses Biggie that much. 238 00:13:49.799 --> 00:13:53.720 I think this is all for his sake, for his pockets. 239 00:13:54.360 --> 00:13:56.919 It just it didn't seem real to me. And again, 240 00:13:57.000 --> 00:13:59.600 that's that thing I have that many other people have, 241 00:13:59.720 --> 00:14:03.840 that just a knack for now. I smell shit. I 242 00:14:03.879 --> 00:14:08.519 smell shit just like Jesse Smolett, who's still saying to 243 00:14:08.559 --> 00:14:11.279 this day he was jumped. I mean, that's just a 244 00:14:11.320 --> 00:14:16.159 crazy bastard to still repeat this story on TV. And 245 00:14:16.200 --> 00:14:18.000 I think he has a special on Netflix. I don't 246 00:14:18.000 --> 00:14:19.840 even want to watch it or Amazon. I won't watch it. 247 00:14:19.879 --> 00:14:21.879 But I can't look at someone who lies like that. 248 00:14:22.000 --> 00:14:26.320 It's crazy. But you should check the documentary out and 249 00:14:26.360 --> 00:14:29.240 sheds a lot of new light, and you really get 250 00:14:29.240 --> 00:14:33.960 a chance to see just how beautiful Cassie is and was, 251 00:14:34.080 --> 00:14:37.039 and god, what he did to her in that hallway 252 00:14:38.080 --> 00:14:41.120 with a towel around his waist. You know, it's one thing, 253 00:14:41.200 --> 00:14:43.879 and it's an awful thing to hit a woman, But 254 00:14:44.120 --> 00:14:46.519 if you want to, if it means you have to 255 00:14:46.600 --> 00:14:49.200 leave the hotel room in a towel around your waist 256 00:14:49.200 --> 00:14:54.440 to do it, you're fucking crazy. You're crazy, and clearly 257 00:14:54.519 --> 00:14:57.639 he is. And I still think he's not going to 258 00:14:57.720 --> 00:14:59.679 serve his full time in prison. I think he's gonna 259 00:14:59.679 --> 00:15:02.840 get out than maybe another year or so year in 260 00:15:02.879 --> 00:15:05.879 two months, that's what I think. I think there are 261 00:15:05.919 --> 00:15:09.519 backroom deals going on. I think Biddy's always been somebody 262 00:15:09.519 --> 00:15:13.639 who's worked with the Feds and drop names on people, 263 00:15:13.679 --> 00:15:19.200 and I think those favors will be returned in the 264 00:15:19.240 --> 00:15:24.080 coming year. We'll see. But yeah, it's worth a watch. 265 00:15:25.039 --> 00:15:27.039 And I got to talk about Amy Schumer again because 266 00:15:27.080 --> 00:15:31.279 now Amy Schumer is coming out saying that well, she's 267 00:15:31.320 --> 00:15:34.559 saying that nothing's wrong with her marriage, but really, if 268 00:15:34.600 --> 00:15:38.600 you're paying attention, there was something she said back in 269 00:15:38.639 --> 00:15:41.440 April of twenty twenty two on the Ellen Degenerate show, 270 00:15:41.480 --> 00:15:45.240 and she was basically talking about how lackluster a sex 271 00:15:45.320 --> 00:15:50.120 life she had with her husband, Chris Fisher. And now 272 00:15:50.159 --> 00:15:54.600 they resurfaced this interview, and you know, there was a 273 00:15:54.639 --> 00:15:56.879 lot of awkward silence in the room in the audience 274 00:15:57.840 --> 00:16:00.360 because she said, you know, when you're married, it's hard 275 00:16:00.399 --> 00:16:02.960 to have sex when you're married. Who the fuck ever 276 00:16:03.000 --> 00:16:06.960 said that? Okay, because like that's your family, you know 277 00:16:07.000 --> 00:16:09.720 what I mean. Not many people knew what you meant. 278 00:16:10.360 --> 00:16:13.480 She goes, like, that's my emergency contact. I guess you 279 00:16:13.519 --> 00:16:15.840 thought that was a funny joke. I'm not gonna just 280 00:16:15.879 --> 00:16:19.519 have sex with them. That's disgusting. And you can't really 281 00:16:19.519 --> 00:16:22.360 talk dirty anymore if you're married, because he knows me 282 00:16:22.399 --> 00:16:25.080 too well. I can't be like, I'm gonna do this 283 00:16:25.159 --> 00:16:28.279 to you. And he would say, no, you're not. Your 284 00:16:28.320 --> 00:16:31.080 back hurts. You're not gonna do that to me. You know, 285 00:16:31.080 --> 00:16:33.039 we're not gonna have sex that way. It just look 286 00:16:33.120 --> 00:16:37.120 like a very sad way to talk about a marriage. 287 00:16:37.600 --> 00:16:40.200 And that was a few years ago. And of course 288 00:16:40.240 --> 00:16:43.679 she said we did a lot of role playing, because well, 289 00:16:43.759 --> 00:16:46.080 she said role playing, I always picked the same role. 290 00:16:46.159 --> 00:16:48.600 I always go Okay, I'm gonna be in a coma, 291 00:16:48.799 --> 00:16:52.320 and then she'd lay down and just be unresponsive. Well, 292 00:16:52.320 --> 00:16:55.279 who the hell wants to have sex with that that's 293 00:16:55.320 --> 00:16:58.120 even true? But of course, yes, the other day I 294 00:16:58.159 --> 00:17:02.159 mentioned they had to schedule sex, and you know, all 295 00:17:02.200 --> 00:17:04.000 we have were kids. We have to seki. No, you know, 296 00:17:04.799 --> 00:17:07.440 we had sex with our kids in the bed. If 297 00:17:07.480 --> 00:17:09.799 there's a will as a way, you got to be quieter. 298 00:17:10.839 --> 00:17:13.000 You know. One time Roxy was in the bed with us. 299 00:17:13.000 --> 00:17:15.599 She was like two, and she woke up in the 300 00:17:15.599 --> 00:17:17.000 middle of it and she put her hand in my 301 00:17:17.079 --> 00:17:20.200 face and said, no, Daddy, No. She knew something was 302 00:17:20.240 --> 00:17:24.319 going on that was a little different, but she couldn't 303 00:17:24.359 --> 00:17:26.880 know what really was happening, but she just knew this 304 00:17:26.960 --> 00:17:29.759 is not typical. Maybe I was wrestling mommy, I don't know, 305 00:17:30.920 --> 00:17:33.160 but yeah, to do to talk about we have birthday 306 00:17:33.240 --> 00:17:39.880 sex on birthdays and adversary. Come on, nobody survives marriages 307 00:17:39.920 --> 00:17:41.519 like that, or if you do, you just kind of 308 00:17:41.559 --> 00:17:44.759 you're playing out the string. And she said, there's never 309 00:17:44.920 --> 00:17:47.759 like a vibe where it just happens. Do people do that? 310 00:17:48.480 --> 00:17:52.279 Oh my god? Just asking that question or to tell 311 00:17:52.279 --> 00:17:54.480 you everything you need to know, about this marriage but 312 00:17:54.880 --> 00:18:00.599 obviously divorced. Speculation is swirling around them. Not only she 313 00:18:00.720 --> 00:18:03.759 slimmed down and I hate to say it looking good. 314 00:18:04.319 --> 00:18:06.799 I hate to say it, but she does. But who 315 00:18:06.799 --> 00:18:09.400 the fuck takes pictures of themselves in a yellow dress 316 00:18:09.440 --> 00:18:13.759 on their staircase like she did. I'm sure they weren't 317 00:18:13.759 --> 00:18:15.960 professionally shot, but they might as well have been. But 318 00:18:16.079 --> 00:18:19.079 did her husband shoot those pictures? I don't know. But 319 00:18:19.400 --> 00:18:21.799 she's all splayed out on the step. Could you imagine 320 00:18:21.839 --> 00:18:25.759 all mother's doing this? Hey han, hey han, asking your 321 00:18:25.759 --> 00:18:27.599 father take a picture of me on the stairwell. I 322 00:18:27.640 --> 00:18:29.680 want I want to wear this yellow dress and look 323 00:18:29.759 --> 00:18:33.240 good for it. It's so, it's such a different world. 324 00:18:33.279 --> 00:18:37.680 We grew up with such different better people. I'm driving 325 00:18:37.720 --> 00:18:40.920 back for the landlord today and I'm at a red 326 00:18:41.000 --> 00:18:43.359 light and in front of me he's a guy on 327 00:18:43.400 --> 00:18:44.880 a bike. I didn't know it was. A guy had 328 00:18:44.920 --> 00:18:48.000 a long pony table with about five different rubber bands 329 00:18:48.000 --> 00:18:51.440 in it. It went down to halfway down his back, 330 00:18:52.400 --> 00:18:55.839 and he had a little faggy bike helmet on. I'll 331 00:18:55.880 --> 00:18:57.920 never get overseeing a man with a bike helmet. I 332 00:18:58.000 --> 00:18:59.799 just I can't. I know it's soon you should do it. 333 00:18:59.839 --> 00:19:03.440 But come on, I'd rather not ride a bike and 334 00:19:03.559 --> 00:19:06.920 put a helmet on and elbow pads. What am I playing? Football? Guy? 335 00:19:07.200 --> 00:19:11.440 It's a bike ride. But all of a sudden, he 336 00:19:11.519 --> 00:19:13.680 just puts his fingers in his ears. I'm like, what 337 00:19:13.720 --> 00:19:16.039 the fuck's he doing? Because I had the music on it, 338 00:19:16.079 --> 00:19:19.799 so I loaded music. There was an ambulance coming, and 339 00:19:19.839 --> 00:19:22.119 the sound of the ambulance was too loud for this 340 00:19:22.240 --> 00:19:25.960 man's ears. He had to plug them up. These are 341 00:19:25.960 --> 00:19:28.359 the men that are out there now. These are the 342 00:19:28.400 --> 00:19:30.680 men that possibly take pictures of their wife on the 343 00:19:30.720 --> 00:19:37.519 stairwell for Instagram likes and hits. But she's I don't 344 00:19:37.559 --> 00:19:39.960 care what she says. By the way, she wasn't wearing 345 00:19:39.960 --> 00:19:43.519 her wedding ring in the pictures. And you would think, 346 00:19:43.559 --> 00:19:45.799 if your husband has taken the picture, or your husband's 347 00:19:45.799 --> 00:19:48.200 gonna see it, that'd be the first thing I say, 348 00:19:48.480 --> 00:19:51.799 which right, where's your rent? But a guy like him 349 00:19:51.839 --> 00:19:55.240 is gonna say that because he's a pussy. I'm not 350 00:19:55.279 --> 00:19:58.079 gonna put his foot down. Shares all the money. I 351 00:19:58.079 --> 00:19:59.640 don't even know what the hell he does. But she's 352 00:19:59.680 --> 00:20:03.319 the money and she makes a good living. But she's 353 00:20:03.480 --> 00:20:08.400 very skinny now, and she's trying to tell people no, no, 354 00:20:09.000 --> 00:20:13.039 even though I deleted Chris from Instagram, you know, and 355 00:20:13.079 --> 00:20:16.119 I got this thin. I got this thin because I 356 00:20:16.240 --> 00:20:19.119 was very ill with this disease she had that made 357 00:20:19.119 --> 00:20:23.480 her face chubby. And she said that's been fixed through 358 00:20:23.519 --> 00:20:27.480 medication and her undemetriosis is better. Blah blah blah, you 359 00:20:27.519 --> 00:20:30.240 know the rest. And I tried thozempic, but that's not 360 00:20:31.240 --> 00:20:34.640 why I did it to get thin. Bullshit. Why can't 361 00:20:34.640 --> 00:20:37.960 they just cop to it? Who would be mad if 362 00:20:37.960 --> 00:20:42.240 they cop to it? Look, whatever you're suffering from in 363 00:20:42.279 --> 00:20:45.279 life and being overweight and out of shape and unhealthy 364 00:20:46.000 --> 00:20:48.319 is kind of just as bad as walking around with 365 00:20:48.319 --> 00:20:51.599 an illness if you don't treat it. So is there's 366 00:20:51.640 --> 00:20:54.640 a magic pill or a dejection to take Who's gonna 367 00:20:54.640 --> 00:20:58.720 tell you? Don't take it? Take it? Get better, feel better, 368 00:20:58.799 --> 00:21:03.480 look better. Life is short, man, So she's trying to 369 00:21:03.480 --> 00:21:06.960 convince everybody that we're fine. She put up a new 370 00:21:07.000 --> 00:21:10.279 post of her son, which this is weird. Her son 371 00:21:10.400 --> 00:21:12.640 is giving a tour of his room and his toys, 372 00:21:13.160 --> 00:21:17.640 and she wrote a long thing on her Instagram post 373 00:21:17.720 --> 00:21:19.799 saying how happy they are and this is why I 374 00:21:19.839 --> 00:21:21.720 did this, and this is why I lost weight, and 375 00:21:21.759 --> 00:21:26.039 this don't believe a fucking word of it. They were 376 00:21:26.079 --> 00:21:30.480 all hypocrite lawyers in Hollywood, all of them, most of 377 00:21:30.519 --> 00:21:36.079 them just like Ariana Grande. You know, this chick is 378 00:21:36.240 --> 00:21:41.720 looks so puny and anorexic. It's like when we were kids. 379 00:21:41.720 --> 00:21:44.680 Remember there used to be a fund for people in Biafra. 380 00:21:45.480 --> 00:21:47.680 I don't even know what that is. There's still there's 381 00:21:47.720 --> 00:21:50.519 no more Biafra. Right What part of Africa was Biafra? 382 00:21:51.359 --> 00:21:54.240 I don't know. I don't know, but there was Like 383 00:21:54.440 --> 00:21:57.039 you'd see commercials as kids with these little black kids 384 00:21:57.039 --> 00:22:00.160 would flies on their face and drinking dirty water and 385 00:22:00.200 --> 00:22:02.200 people will give me money to me, that's the kind 386 00:22:02.240 --> 00:22:05.319 of body she has, Arianna. And she's a beautiful girl, 387 00:22:06.400 --> 00:22:13.039 multi talented, and I think the people there's a conspiracy 388 00:22:13.079 --> 00:22:16.000 out there that the people who work on Wicked, something 389 00:22:16.079 --> 00:22:19.119 really weird happened to her. At Cynthia Arriva. They look 390 00:22:19.559 --> 00:22:22.920 completely different than they did before they made Wicked. The 391 00:22:22.960 --> 00:22:25.680 Two Wickeds, I hate to say the second movie is 392 00:22:25.720 --> 00:22:30.799 doing well, but it is, which shocks me. But Aria 393 00:22:31.000 --> 00:22:33.559 is getting mad at people don't talk to me about 394 00:22:33.559 --> 00:22:37.000 my weight. I can look how I want to look. No, honey, no, 395 00:22:37.720 --> 00:22:40.160 And that's why you're not going to be with that 396 00:22:40.559 --> 00:22:44.079 ginger boy too much longer. That's about to end to 397 00:22:44.839 --> 00:22:47.920 all these people. It's so easy to go with the 398 00:22:48.039 --> 00:22:52.039 under in Hollywood marriages. You know, they say NFL running 399 00:22:52.039 --> 00:22:55.640 backs career is an average of three to four years. 400 00:22:55.640 --> 00:22:58.039 Maybe I think every NFL player the average is like 401 00:22:58.079 --> 00:23:00.400