Speaker 1: Made a decision than Sunny Sun on Ihurdasion night. So hey, everybody,
welcome to for Crying out Loud for your pals Stephanie,
Kaylin and Lynette. Yep, that's us. Yep, yeah, what's happening everybody?
Speaker 2: Hey here, we're rolling out. I'm sure you guys saw
the second episode. Thursday episode of FCUL Old School came
out yesterday. I'm even putting one out on Thanksgiving, so
oh good. You know, I'm sure a lot of your
favorite podcasts that come out on Thursday won't be out,
but we will. We'll have an episode for you. And
if you can't listen to it on Thursday, listen to
it on Friday, don'tkay Right? Yeah, So I found I
found more classic episodes. I found the Talkies episode. I
can't believe you found Talkies. I also found I want
to hear that one. Yeah, so somebody was saying on Facebook,
we need to hear the Talkies origin story. We found it.
Whatever our listeners was like, look for it around this
date because she looked. She looked up. Oh no, no, no,
that was a different one. So I found Talkies and
then also found the one where we were talking about
how our kids would come find us, even if you
have Bottom of the Ocean. I love that and that
one people have been asking about forever. Found that one.
So here's what's scheduled in the next I have episodes
scheduled through December through into January. Okay, got the submarine
one might be Okay, so origin story of Mobile Muffin
I believe is the one that was just out yesterday.
Then we've got the submarine. Might oh, then there's a
different one. Might be Steve and I thought we was friends,
or at the mall Sadie getting lost in the oh. Yeah, yeah,
that's I think Thanksgiving week, and we've got the summarine.
We've got us talking about Steve and I thought we
were friends. And then I've got talkies and then yeah,
because Peppu already came out right right, yeah, I found
like that's a mass that's awesome.
Speaker 1: Yeah, good work, Stephanie, of course. Yeah.
Speaker 2: It's so fun to go we to go back, I
know now, it's it.
Speaker 1: I love that we we're doing our old school episodes.
I mean we've been doing it for fourteen years.
Speaker 2: Hell yeah.
Speaker 1: In February of next year, it'll be fourteen of me
and Stephanie. Yes together, Yes, time flies, I know totally does.
Speaker 2: And if and longer than that, if you consider when
I came and was a guest on the show with
you and Teresa, right, and then I was a guest
on the show again with you and Susannah.
Speaker 1: Susanna, Yes, Suzanne, Susannah, Susannah, Susannah, Susannah, Rosanna Danna. Yeah,
her talking about going to the mental institution. Oh yeah,
I remember when she would say, uh, I'll do it
in Rosanna Rosanna's voice, Okay, like she'd say, uh, this
a weekend. I had a heart of time with my kids.
They could drive of me and nuts that I got
it in the car and I just drove and I
checked myself in it to a mental institution?
Speaker 2: Who does that?
Speaker 1: Who says that they just drove? And she was serious
about right, I'm thinking in my head, no, you didn't, right,
what mental institution? You didn't call ahead of a time?
See if they take your insurance? What they're just driving?
Speaker 2: Like a weird thing where she was telling us. I
think it was when I was a guest with you guys,
when she was talking, Well, first of all, she was
doing a lot of stuff that was like not very anonymous,
let's just say, and you felt uncomfortable and you were like,
are we are we supposed to not be like talking
about that, and she was like, it's fine, it's fine.
Right then I think she was talking about like how
much sex she right, But then like very shortly afterwards
they got divorced. Yes, yeah, she was like, oh my god,
like we fucked like four or five times a day.
Speaker 1: Oh, she would talk about it all the time. Yeah,
And I got to the point where like, I don't
I don't know if I believe that you're that much
sex all the time. Well, and also too like no,
no shame to her, I mean, no shade to her,
sweet girl. Yeah, but it was kind of funny like
as she came up to me when she first came
like on her first day, I think at the podcast,
and she's like, don't tell anybody, but I'm flying to
New York to audition for an SNL. I'm going to
be the new SNL member on Saturday Night Live. And
I was like, what what are you doing here? You're
gonna be doing a podcast and then you're gonna be
moving to New York. She's like, well, I'm just I'm
just fine in for an audition, okay, yeah, never heard
never again, right, No, no, no, no.
Speaker 2: I wonder if she did have an audition.
Speaker 1: She I mean, her husband was kind of like kind
of a muckety muck. I guess was an agent manager.
I think, so maybe he had some pull and had
her just, you know, go audition.
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Seems a little old to be auditioning for SNL too.
Aren't they usually young?
Speaker 2: Yes, it's usually.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think she was in the right demographic,
but whatever, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Sure. Yeah. I just remember us having lunch and me
being like trying to tiptoe around, like, okay, but are
things good, and you're.
Speaker 1: Like, no, not at all, not at all.
Speaker 2: I need you. Yeah you yes, I think you had
told her to like shut the fuck up, like shut
up something, and you were like I wasn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you snapped and I wasn't kidding. Yeah, I'd never done.
I'm not proud of that moment, but yeah I did
snap at her. I was like, oh my god, shut up.
Well because she kept it. She kept like interrupting me,
but like trying too hard on too like going hard
on something that I didn't believe was true, and she
kept interrupting me. No, but it's true, like I did.
We did have like whatever it was. I just remember
she kept interrupting me for nothing, you know, and I
just was like, I'm just gonna stop talking. How about
you just continue going. I was so uncomfortable, and Gary's
in the booth going, oh my god, he cut his
head down. It's like snapping a pencil. It's like shaking
his head.
Speaker 2: Wasn't too No, I don't remember.
Speaker 1: Uh maybe no Kathy, yeah.
Speaker 2: Well because she was your producer, but maybe she was
more behind the scenes and Gary Gary was.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. She's just bad combination, Kathy and her.
Oh those are horrible days, I know. But I find
my groove.
Speaker 2: This looks so fun.
Speaker 1: Oh you come in like a buppy dog, like this
is great.
Speaker 2: I could talk all day long.
Speaker 1: On the mic. How do I get one of these podcasts?
Speaker 2: I was so nervous the first time when I came
in with you and Teresa, because I I barely knew
what a podcast was, and I, you know, I had
to learn, oh, it's an internet like radio shows like
radio Sign me up? Yeah. But then I was like, oh,
we have to put on headphones like this is like
like yeah, yeah, you're recording me. And then it was
so fun with you guys, I know, super fun. We
had the best time. We did, the three of us
talking about our vico in and talking about like because
we all had young kids right right, right right, so
that was really fun. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I remember Kathy telling me, you know, because she's always
looking to book authors on our show, and she would
be like, who do you want, Like who's your dream guest?
And I said, well, I read her book Sippy Cups
Are Not for Scharnay and I love that book. And
I thought I would love Stephanie Wilder Taylor, but I
doubt she's going to come on our stupid show, like
she's been like she's been on talk shows on networks,
like she's not going to come on on our show.
And she's like, I'm going to reach out to her,
and she did yeah, and I was like I was
like hell, yes. Then you came and I was like,
oh my god, I love her.
Speaker 2: We had so much fun we did. I was like,
and I knew Teresa. I think I already I knew
did stand up days from a long time before oh,
and she and I have written on some of the
same TV shows, but just at different times. We'd never
actually work together, but I'd met her and I was like, oh,
I like her and she's fun. Yeah, it was a
good vibe.
Speaker 1: It was a good Then she she quit like soon.
Speaker 2: She was only with you for like six months.
Speaker 1: Right, yeah. Then she moved to Arizona where she got
a daytime show, right yes?
Speaker 2: Or did she quit because she went to go do
the Peter Tolden show. I think she.
Speaker 1: Made a full time Oh she did.
Speaker 3: I did.
Speaker 2: She had to quit Adam and You and she went
and do full time radio. Then she moved to Arizona.
But I was I didn't know that you were already
gonna swoop a different hosting Yeah.
Speaker 1: I didn't really do you guys have auditions. I just
remember like Kathy sending me like like bios of people,
and she's like she found Susannah And when Susannah writes,
she's kind of funny and self deprecating and I like that.
And I was like, I like what she writes. I
think she's funny, like her come in. Yeah, and I
think after one show with her, I was like, yeah,
let's go with Susannah like she seemed fine, like she
was funny, right and you know, but then turned into
just a lunatic.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's kind of out there. It wasn't relatable.
Speaker 1: No, it was not really the.
Speaker 2: Message boards because after I came on the show, I
was looking I got curious and was looking at the
message boards and they were like, she's not relatable, but like, unsubscribe, subscribe,
I'm not going to listen anymore. They were getting really mad.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, she was unrelatable and she she she
did talk. I remembered her talking a lot, but not
about it was like kind of nonsense and she would
try and do stick kind of that kind of stuff.
Not relatable talking, more like she would do jokes right right,
and like this is not working out because I'm not
a performer, you know. And I was just like this
is now No, we're a bad combo.
Speaker 2: But interestingly we found the thing where you were like,
this is Susiana's last show. Yeah, and then we talked
about that last week. But and then I just remember
because you guys had some big guests, so I remember
once the weirs started, we were like having like that
was when and I couldn't remember this name last week,
but Mark mcgra Mark McGrath and his wife from Sugar Ray,
and I was like okay, and then Andy Dick came
in and he and I had like kind of a
mock argument. Uh huh, because you forget that Andy Dick
is like a parent, yes, several kids.
Speaker 1: Well, that's right. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think at the time he was living in a
trailer outside of his baby mama's house and trying to
parent from like the trailer down the dirt road or something.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's right. Did you listen to that episode?
Speaker 2: No, but we there was like a it was like
a five minute clip of me trying to say that
I'd been sort of harsh with El, that that LB
had been sassing me. Oh okay, and his he was
basically saying, well, she didn't want to do whatever it was.
He was like on besides right, Yeah, he was like, well,
she didn't want to do it. She didn't want to clean.
It was like something about her cleaning, right, And I
was getting mad at her and saying, well, then I'm
gonna like do something, and he's like, oh, she was
being honest, she just didn't want to clean, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: It was funny.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, the Andy Dick. Yeah, we did. We
had and then finally we were just like, yeah, no,
no more. Guess well, it's because.
Speaker 2: People were getting mad because we were having some really
bad guests at some point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think that we just had better time
just the two of us talking instead of having to
sit there and pretend you know, right.
Speaker 2: Well, I have to give myself credit with the fact
that Kathy was trying to do a thing where she
was trying to sort of curate the topics and if
we weren't going to have guests. She was like, don't
talk about having a nanny. Don't talk about this, And
you were like, what the fuck? I'm mad a professional, Like, then,
what I can't talk about my life? Then I was like,
I remember having an argument. I do remember very early
on with Kathy and being like, I don't think you
should tell Lynnette like what to talk about, right, Like,
I remember that, So what she has a nanny who
cares like that's her life that she's living, Like, how
is she going to tell stories if she can't be honest?
I said, And I think people like it when people
are just telling honestly true. So you were just so basically,
I told you just do what you want to do it,
and you were like, yeah, okay, cool, okay, yeah, and
those were the ones that got the better feedback.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's right, that's true. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then it was really not that long into it
that you were like, okay, so we're gonna split off
with Kathy and do you want to come with me
and do Gary and continue to do this show. And
I was like yes, but yeah name well, at first
we weren't going to have to have a new name, right,
and we were gonna but you were my you were
the co host when she was still the producer. Yeah.
So the way that actually went down is I'd never
signed any kind of contracts or anything. So she was like,
you can sign a contract. I was never getting paid.
It wasn't a job I was. There was no money.
We were reading ads, but things were still getting worked out,
and her thing was like, eventually you'll get paid some
ad money, and I was like, okay whatever. I was
just like, this is a cool thing to do and
it could lead to something or not, but I wanted
to do it. So when she was like, hey, let's
take the show, things aren't working out with the Corollas,
so I'm gonna we can take the show though, and
we can do it like out of my house, Ellie,
and I've got like a zoom, which is not zoom
the teleconferencing, but it's like a thing, a podcast thing,
and she was like, I will take the zoom and
we can just like do it at my house. And
I was like, but Lynette's the reason people listen to
the podcast, and she was like no, no, no, like
people are going to listen to your podcast with you,
and I was like, nether not and she was like no,
I swear to God they will. And I was like,
but that's but the reason I wanted to do it
is because like I couldn't tell her that you and
I had had luncheon you'd ask me to do it, yeah,
and that she You're like, it needs to be kind
of be her idea, so I couldn't really be like, well,
I already was agreed to do the show with Lynette.
So then I was like, well, let me think about it,
you know. She was like or maybe she was like
just think about it, you know. And then things went
down where the lawyers involved and like it, and then
you and Gary very calmly we're like, look, we're gonna
keep doing it. You keep coming to the studio, We'll
just do what we're doing. We'll have the same downloads
and like we'll be fun. It'll be like our own thing.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh okay, yeah, and Gary was like,
let you and Stephanie do whatever you guys want to
talk about, whatever you want to do. It's your show.
Talk about what you want to talk about. Guest or
no guest, whatever you want. And we're like, how fucking Loulia,
Like finally, yes, found our groove.
Speaker 2: Right, So then I told Kathy like I'm gonna do this,
and then she was very mad, but yeah, and then
the and then she fought for the title of the show. Yes,
So then we were like, you know what, that's fine,
let's just come up with another show name. And then
we did. And then I can't remember who our very
first guest was.
Speaker 1: Oh, did we have a guest? Guest?
Speaker 2: I think we had. I think we did have a guest.
We still were using guests a little bit because then
podcast one was forcing guests on us.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah from their other podcasters, right, yeah, yeah, don't
remember who are first sort of fun days, I know,
those were fun days. Yeah, they were, they were. I mean,
but it's a different era now, you know, we're not.
Speaker 2: I mean, it still totally fun days, but it was
just like we didn't know what we were doing, but
we start, you know. Yeah, but the podcast was making money. Yeah,
we had a lot of ads to read, yes, in
those days, yeah, more than we do now. Not a
bad ad in a bad way. We were. I mean,
we'd have like seven ads and then they were we'd
have all those ads, but then they'd also be putting
in the Geico remember Kaylin. There'd be like our ads,
like six or seven ads per episode, but then also
you'd go to listen to it back and it would
be like three Geico ads and then a promo for
other podcasts, and it was.
Speaker 1: Like wow, yeah lot, podcast one is fucking us nowody.
Speaker 2: And then podcast one was taking all the money for
they were putting all of our back episodes. You could
listen back six episodes. The rest of them were behind
the paywall that we did not get paid for. All
that money went to podcast one, right, I know, you
know they kept all the money too. They made us
do promos for other people's podcasts and kept that money.
Then also remember that time that I read an ad
for something and then they used my ad read and
put it in like, used it as a commercial in.
Speaker 1: Other people's shows the show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, other podcast one shows were using my ad read.
Speaker 1: That's right. That was crazy. And then we would do
ads for other people's shows. But how come nobody else
did ads for our show?
Speaker 2: Exactly, yes, all the time. Well it's because Adam the
Corolla Digital was their biggest thing. So it's like those
shows weren't really gonna help us, but they were relying
on our show and Adam's show to help the other shows. Yeah, anyway, yeah,
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fco l. All right, So since I've been down for
the count with this face thing this week, I haven't
been able to go out very much, especially like with
the sun. You know, they like they're like, spf the
fuck out of your face if you're gonna go outside,
blah blah blah. So so I started, like you know,
started what I was like, there's everybody's I reach time.
I'm on the phone with my friends, It's like, what
are you watching? What do you watch? Like, there's nothing
going on, nothing to watch except for New twenty twenty
and Dateline. So, by the way, Dateline, can you just
say something about Dateline? They don't they don't put out
like New. Their stories are so like four steps behind
twenty twenty. Have you noticed that? Yes, they're so they like, Okay,
the Menendez brothers again, we're gonna hear about the Menendez brothers,
like twenty twenty. I already covered that shit in the
first couple of weeks that they came out with new episodes,
you notice like Dateline is kind of stale.
Speaker 2: It is and it is.
Speaker 1: It's it's like, oh, and then the other one, the
woman that backed into her husband. They did that one
and get oh in the Ballerina, the Ballerina.
Speaker 2: Squad, the Blacks one. Yes, we've heard that one million times.
Speaker 1: Yes, all right already.
Speaker 2: And I sometimes I can't tell if I'm like, well,
did twenty twenty or forty eight hours? Just do that one?
Like a few weeks.
Speaker 1: Ago it was twenty twenty because I don't really watch
forty eight hours. Okay, the Blacks one, I figured I
felt like it was last season. I feel like that's
kind of an old story.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Another thing they do that's annoying is every day
you get some update from Dateline, but it's not a
new episode.
Speaker 1: It's like it's like a yes, they repurpose it.
Speaker 2: Or or they go, hey, here's Josh Mankowitz talking about
the case that you just heard about like two days ago,
and it's nothing. It's no new information. It's that like
here's Andrea Canning and Josh Mankowitz. It's like that was
a crazy case. Wasn't it that when we just covered
like two days ago, Like yeah, like that was nuts, right, Yeah,
that was crazy. It was crazy weird. Yeah, that was
a weird investigation, all right. They're like, well, fifteen ads
twenty minutes of that.
Speaker 1: You're like, I know, yeah, oh, before I tell you
it was what I have to take Phil again on
Thursday because where he got his stitches removed, he's now
got another a huge lump in that area. What yeah,
so it needs to be it's like all liquidy. I
guess I don't know. And they said maybe because he's
had too much exercise because he my friend and he
joined her like hiking group because she'll take dogs. She
owns a dog service company and she'll take them on
these trails by my house. So I'm like, yeah, come
get Phil and then he can like socialize with the
other dogs and hang out with these other dogs. And
then I've been giving him lots of walks. And I
guess they said that too much exercise after he had
the stitches removed built up liquid fluid in those areas,
So now he's got to go get it drained again.
Speaker 2: And then will he have to have a cone again tonight?
I hope maybe not. Maybe if they just aspirate it.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm hoping. I hope not, because I don't
need another. And then We're gonna go into Thanksgiving week
and I'm still trying to figure out what I'm gonna
do for things. What do you guys do? You guys
go to your brother's house?
Speaker 2: So we go to my brothers and my sister in
law's with another couple and their daughter. That's every single
year now. We used to get our Thanksgiving meal from Gelsa,
and we just get the whole meal every year, though
Gelson's gets more expensive and the servings somehow get smaller. Now,
Am I sure that the servings are getting smaller? And
it's not just that we're getting older and bigger, right,
the kids are getting older? I don't think so. I
think it looks chintzy the amount you get. And so
this year we decided we're going to do something different.
I'm going to order the turkey already cooked from Ralph's
and then I'm going to get the sides from Costco.
The like the things I'm in charge of. M that's smart, yeah,
And then somebody else makes like a green bean cast
role and somebody else makes that and rolls and appetizers
and yeah, yeah, we bring peopo. Although I'm worried about
her being in a car.
Speaker 1: Oh really, she isn't like being in the car for
too long.
Speaker 2: She's so arthritic, like she you know, she'll be okay,
she'll be fine.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm trying to just well, I haven't
made Thanksgiving dinner in a long time since the divorce.
But uh so, I don't know if I'm gonna just
if I'm gonna cook it myself. So anyway, this this year.
Last year, I think we went out of town. I
think we were in New York.
Speaker 2: Last year.
Speaker 1: I me and the kids. Yeah, this year, I think
they're gonna be with me, and I think I'm gonna
cook the traditional me, really make everything like I used to.
What Well, that's what Wendy talked me and do. She's like,
it'll be nice. I go just for the three of us,
and she's like, yeah, you don't have to buy a
huge turkey.
Speaker 2: Just buy it from somewhere, just do like a do
like a Golson's.
Speaker 1: I like making my turkey. It's the sides that I
hate making, so give by the side I might yeah, well,
at least like yeah, because I would make all the
sides from scratch too. I did everyone do that? Potatoes,
the mashed potatoes, the stuffing.
Speaker 2: I thought about making mashed potatoes, and I looked up
some recipes and I got kind of like excited about
the idea. I was like, a, I'm gonna save a
lot of money, not really, but you know what I mean,
and be like I can put in my own seasonings
and stuff. But then I read like, be careful because
if you matt, if you use like an electric mixer
or whatever, they can get gummy. And as soon as
I heard that, I was like, if they can get gummy,
I will get gummy, you know what I mean. Do
I really want to make a batch of mashed potatoes
for twelve people and have them be shitty, right, and
then have people go they're kind of gummy? Then I'm
gonna be like, oh, I guess I over missed rummy.
Speaker 1: But you can there's ways to fix it so it
doesn't get gummy.
Speaker 2: I don't know. A bunch of recipes I saw were like,
you gotta be careful about the over mixing. I was like,
I'm an overmixer. Yeah, if you know it about yourself,
that's the first step to like getting better. But I
I will mix.
Speaker 1: What about making another dish?
Speaker 2: I was thinking about making butternut squash soup, which is
pretty good. M But you get to a point where
there's just too much food.
Speaker 1: Too much food. Yeah, Like, were you.
Speaker 2: Gonna make a whole turkey for three people?
Speaker 1: Well, I have some friend. I have a friend that
wants to come by because he's not gonna be with
his kids, so he might come by m with a
hang out with us. But so then there would be
that then like the kids can hang out, and then
they'll smell the smell of the house, you know, spelling
up of food. And then I also, I'm pretty sure
they're going to see all their friends because everybody's gonna
be in town for the first time. They're probably gonna
want to, like after they eat, go see their friends.
I guess, I don't know.
Speaker 2: So don't you foresee yourself getting bitter after spending like
all day And then I before in the kitchen and
then they're like, thanks Mom, yeah we're leaving.
Speaker 1: No, because I'll probably make it early in the day,
like I usually make the day around three four o'clock
eat around there, and then Sonny can like hang out
watch football and stuff. And I just like that the
idea of the house smelling good and having leftovers for
the next day, right go out to eat. You don't
get any of that.
Speaker 2: I guess I'm just trying to talk you out of
being like a better work in me, like show.
Speaker 1: Different you you go volunteer and shit, I hate volunteering.
Speaker 2: Well, no, that sounds good.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that's what I'm gonna do. Yeah,
May I'll make the turkey and just get some of
the sides and then make one of the sides really good,
good mass I don't know. Good mashed potatoes are good
sweet potatoes.
Speaker 2: So Robin is the one who turned me onto Costco
because I was just gonna buy it at like Ralph's,
the mashed potatoes. But she was like, oh, we get
these mashed potatoes at Costco and they're really good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good idea, Oh, Robin, that's a great idea.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm gonna get a lot of mashed potatoes
and then just keep them in the fridge for two
days and then I'll go and like heat them up. Yeah,
exactly good, and then you can still add a little
like milk to it, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what about stuffing? You like stuffing?
Speaker 2: I don't like stuffing. You don't know why.
Speaker 3: I love stuff favorite part Thanksgiving, But I only like
stove top stuff. I don't like it. I don't like
any of that homemade.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like the sausage and ship right, people put raisins. Yeah, no,
I make the stovetop stuffing. I like it, and I
always make it on its own. I don't stuff it
in the turkey.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, we've talked about this before, and we all
have our things, and I don't like if you guys,
remember I don't like onions added to stuff or celery, right,
and nobody's making stuffing that's like just the bread parts
stove top is yeah.
Speaker 3: Really yeah, they don't put onions or celery in it.
Speaker 1: Really no, but I do. I put onions in celery
and I and I used to put golden raisins in it.
Speaker 3: Just said I don't like stop, I said.
Speaker 1: But like the other stuff. But I did say the raisins.
But Adam never liked the raisins, so I stopped with
the raisins.
Speaker 2: Raisins ruin everything like you.
Speaker 3: Gets rice putting.
Speaker 2: Yeah, rice pudding is already sweet. Why you gotta put
raisins in that?
Speaker 1: Stuffing is not? Yeah? I know, I know.
Speaker 3: I make a box.
Speaker 1: Just try so good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know you go like a certain amount of
years your whole life not really eating stuffing. There's no
part of me that's like God, I just if I
could just find the right stuffing, like I don't. I
don't feel like I'm missing anything. Do you guys like
sweet potatoes?
Speaker 3: I do?
Speaker 2: If they have a little crumbly on top, right, make.
Speaker 1: It with the with the brown sugar and the maple
syrup and the butter on top.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and bake it.
Speaker 1: I boil them and I cut them in half, and
then I decorate them with all that and I put
them in the oven and bake them. Wow on top.
It's good. You can make those. It's easy. Yeah, why
don't you make that? That's easy?
Speaker 2: Okay? Will you send me a recipe?
Speaker 1: I just gave it to you.
Speaker 2: Do it? Like listen, I'm already at the age of
being a grandma at this point, and I have no skills.
I have no grandma skills. I'm gonna be the worst Grandma, Like,
I'm gonna be happy to see the babies and stuff,
but I'm gonna be like, I don't know, there's not
gonna be like a bowl of candy on the table,
Like I just don't think of shit like that, you know, right,
I know the kids are never going to be like,
oh my god, I love going to Grandma's house because
there's always like you know, M and m's or something.
I'm gonna be like, I didn't think of it, Like.
Speaker 1: I don't really sure costs going get the Eminem's. I
don't have to make it yourself.
Speaker 2: But you know, Grandma shit, yeah, Grandma shit, Like I
don't knowne that that comes naturally to me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, parenting barely comes naturally. I forget, like
I know, doing it all over again, yeah I know. Well,
like with Wendy, I learned a lot of stuff from her.
You know, she raised five kids and now she's doing
it kind of all over again with her grandchildren. But
you know, and yeah, it does come natural to her,
you know, Like Natalia came over the other day and
she's like, I bought all kinds of snacks for her,
so I got her like the hot suprisda Italian salami,
and I get the good breeze bites cheese that she likes,
and the crackers and the grapes and the fruit and
all the making the right right. And so we were watching,
we were hanging out and she's like, I want it
like snacks. Do we have the salamon? I'm like, do
you want me to make a charmutery board? And she's like, yeah,
can you? And I'm like I think I can. And
I just put it all together in a plate and yeah,
it was good. And I just remembered how Wendy did
it when I was with her in Florida, because I
would she would just be like, I'm want a snack,
and then she'd come back with the charcoterie board with
all that shit plus the jam, like the fig jam,
all this stuff cut up, like the bread, the sour
dough bread cut up and little you know, squares and.
Speaker 2: Stuff, all the good stuff. See if that's a grandma shit.
I would never think of that, Like I would be
like in Trader Joe's going like, I don't know, would
this be good there? And then I'd over buy and
then I'd put a forget to put some on there,
and then it would go bad.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so so yeah, so uh I was. I went
on Paramount because I was looking for something different to
watch and I came across Tulsa King, which I didn't
think I was gonna like, but I see so much
of people talking about it online on our on our
page tool Tulsa King with Sylvester s Okay, have it. Yeah,
it's fun, you watch it. Yeah, it's fun and it's
it's silly, but it's it says comedy. Yeah, and I'm like, okay,
but the Bear is the as a comedy too, So
it's one of these new comedies that are like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, not really good comedy.
Speaker 1: It's it's well, I guess it kind of is a comedy.
Speaker 3: It's lighthearted. I mean, it's Sylvester Stallone at seventy five
playing like a gangster, so it's kind of like self aware.
It's okay, and all the side characters are you know,
he plays a gangster and it's all about gangsters and Tulsa,
but all the side characters are kind of goofy and silly.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: It's not like you know, the Sopranos or something.
Speaker 1: It's, yeah, it's hard and fun and yeah, he's he's
a you know, a coppo. He gets out of jail
after being in jail for twenty five years, and then
his crime family from New York sends him to Tulsa
and sends him out of town to start up business there.
And then as soon as he gets in a cab,
he meets like this black kid that's a cab driver
and he's like, you know, like asking about the cell
phone the kids like where have you been?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 1: And then the kid's a character, so he's like quit
you know, and then he starts making money. He's like,
quit your job, you're not running. You're gonna be my
driver from now on. So he hires him. Then he
hires then he like takes over a weed shop, and
the guy that runs the weed shop reminds me of Dylan,
doesn't he he's from Silicon Valley. Yeah, yeah, playing the
same type of character Stoner. Yeah, and then has all
these characters and stuff. But yeah, I watched. I watched it.
I thought it was it was pretty good.
Speaker 2: I'll check it out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what'd show you'd like that? Me and Amy got
back into for the new season as the Mayor of Kingstown.
I was gonna watch, Yeah, you love Mayor of king.
Speaker 2: Sound It's great.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because most of.
Speaker 3: Those Taylor Sheridan shows are really good.
Speaker 1: Okay, So then I started watching lot Land Man, oh yeah,
with Billy Bob Thornton. The two episodes, there's only two
episodes out hooked immediately.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was sick watching that because we watch Yellowston
and then that was on afterwards. But I was sick
and I kind of fell asleep halfway through the first episode.
But it's Billy Bob Thorton, and.
Speaker 1: Billy Bob Thornton as like he's he's got this character
was written for him, and he plays like how he
plays in Bad Santa and shut the fuck up. You know,
he's always like he's got a mouth on him and
he's it's really interesting. Yeah, he plays basically he's like
the go between but between oil companies and.
Speaker 3: The land, the people that own the land that the
layl are trying to buy from.
Speaker 1: So you have a little bit of like gangsters coming
in trying to sell, you know, cartels coming in. They
want like the land to land their planes to get
their cartelent. So it's it's really gritty and and Billy
Bob is great in it. Yeah, it's really good.
Speaker 2: I watched something called Somebody Somewhere. Somebody Somewhere with Bridget
Emirate Everett, who's like a comedian who's known for being
like this big, over the top, like kind of body,
uh stand up comic, but she plays it's like a
dramatic role. But it's cute. It's it's it's comedy. It's
on HBO. Yeah, and it's really good. But there's there's
like three seasons and I found out it. I think
it just got canceled, but I just got it the
other day. Oh it's a series. Yeah, it's a series.
Speaker 1: Okay are you You guys were talking about the series right,
yeah in a movie. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I have a like one story for you though before
we go so so lb mm hmm. So Elbe calls
me or whatever texts me the other day and she's like,
oh my god, guess what I'm doing. And I said what,
And she goes, I'm going to a rave in Joshua Tree,
oh wow, called Snowchella, which is apparently put on by
I don't know. It's a bunch of colleges. It's a
bunch of like ucs and some whatever USC is part
of it too, and it's this is I get this
text from her, like one. She goes and by the way,
the next day was the day so this was Fridays
or Saturday. The next day she was going to have
to work the shift and she was going to be
coming home after she was she goes to Snowchella. She's like, Snowchella,
We're going to drive there this afternoon. I was like
isn't Joshua Tree far? Yeah, it is far, but it's
like a few hours away. She's like, yeah, but the
rave is from six pm to six am. Also, I'm
like also going to be yeah, and so anyway, she's like, yeah,
it's gonna be super fun. I can't wait. And then
what we're gonna do is we're gonna like chill in
the car. Our friend's boyfriend is driving us, and she's like,
and I'm not gonna drink. And then we're gonna drive
home and then I'm going to take a nap and
then you can come get me at like noon, and
then I'll come home and then I'll work my shift.
Speaker 1: That Nay, you can pay me any amount of money
to do that.
Speaker 2: I mean. But so then I guess John checked her
life through sixty and was like, why is Elbie and
Palm Springs? And I said, oh, I guess she was
going to a rave And he's like, what she's doing? What, Like,
isn't just a shift to work tomorrow? And I said yeah,
And I was like, good thing. We never did crazy
shit like that when I was twenty, Like, good thing.
We never just like took off for Vegas with like
no money, nowhere to stay, and like tried to scam
guys out of like poker chips so that we could
like have money, like figured people would buy us, Like
I did the craziest stuff at that actually, so and
not even of age, like just went to Vegas without
I don't know. I think there were times I didn't
even have fake ID. I was like, we'll figure it out.
Speaker 1: We'll figure it out.
Speaker 2: Uh, I mean, yes, those were the days. But so
on the one hand, I'm like that's fine. On the
other hand, I go Life three. I was like, oh,
that's funny that she's already there. So I Life three
sixty and her it says her battery is at zero percent.
So now I'm like, okay, this is like the age
of modern parenting where that actually made me mad, Like
I was like, what is this girl thinking about? How
do you go to Joshua Tree with a battery? That's
and you're at a battery? Couldn't you have like charged
it in the car. So now I'm like, now I'm
also having to go talk myself down from like I'm like, okay, well,
what if like what if something happens and then she
has no phone? And then I'm thinking, Okay, she's with friends,
so they have a phone that's working. So and let's
just say worst case scenarios, she gets separated. I guess
she goes up to a stranger and says, can you
text my mom right? Or calls me. I'm like, okay,
I'm gonna have to stay alert too. If I get
a call from an unknown number, I'm going to answer.
All these things are going through my head. Then I'm like,
this is no way to live. Like now, I cannot
be so dependent on Like, Okay, she went to pomp Springs,
she's with friends. I gotta trust her that she knows
what she's doing. But you know the feeling, right, Oh yeah, absolutely,
I'm like zero percent on her phone. Then I have
one flash of like I believe this has happened with
Sadie's phone before, where it said it was at zero percent,
but then the next time I checked it was at
like sixty percent. So I feel like sometimes when you're
out of range life three sixty can say that there's
zero charge on the phone. So then I just convinced myself.
I'm like, you know what, maybe it was a fluke,
but I'm not going to look again. Right, because that's
gonna upset me if I look at Okay, So I
next morning, I was talking to Julie on the phone
Connor early in the morning, and I was like, hey,
talk me down from this. I was like, elbe went
to Palm Springs last night, and you know Julie, she
also is anxious. So she was like, wait, what why,
I'm like exactly, and then I tell her and and
then the last I checked when she was there, she
had zero percent on her phone. And Julie's like, nowhere,
like you're not helping girl. So she was like, so
I said, well, the thing is like, I'm really scared
to check her phone. Because this was at like eight
o'clock in the morning. I said, so, I know I'm
supposed to pick her up today at one. I was like,
but I'm really scared that I'm going to look and
it's gonna still say zero percent, and that she's going
to be still in Palm Springs or like I don't
know where she is and I'm not gonna and I'm
really nervous. And Julie's like, Okay, I think you should
check and I'll be here like you know, And I
was like, yeah, okay, because even if she was still there,
like maybe you know, maybe her phone, because in my mind,
I'm like, once she's back in the car, she'll charge
her phone, right, But like if she hasn't charged her phone,
then she's stuck in Palm Springs and it's you know, yeah, okay.
So Julie's like, okay, I got you, like check her.
I'm like, okay, here I go. I click Life through
sixty and it comes up and she's been at her
apartment since six am and her phone is fully charged.
Thank god, I told her, and I was like, oh
my god, okay, okay. Then later I told her the story.
I was like, do you want to hear something funny.
I was having a little freak out because your phone
was out of charge. And she goes, that is funny,
She goes, cause my phone was never out of charge.
It was probably I was out of range. And she goes,
and you would have been if you had checked my
phone again, if you had checked again, like ten minutes later,
we went through this one path, sure we didn't have service,
and then we were in in Joshua Tree. We had
fully had service, and my phone was charged to one
hundred percent and I was like, okay.
Speaker 1: Wow, now got a trust her.
Speaker 2: I got a fucking chill.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so hard. It is hard. I know, I know,
I hate it.
Speaker 2: Do we have too much technology? Or am I just
over do I.
Speaker 1: Just times I do wish, like what the technology? I
wish I didn't have the I wish I could just
trust their instincts and know that they're gonna get home
okay or whatever. But still like, no, you know.
Speaker 2: Because you check right.
Speaker 1: Oh all the time? All the time. I check all
the time. Yeah, almost every night before you go to bed,
Right they home? Are they home? Yeah? And then if
they're not, I'm like h And then I'll wake up
in the middle of the night and I'll check see
if they made at home? Right, Yeah, I do, right,
we can't help it.
Speaker 2: Well. Also, we listened to a lot of true crime podcasts. Yes,
I know, we're like, shit can go sideways? Yeah at
parties or whatever. I mean it probably won't, yeah, but
you never know.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: And these girls, you know en boys, uh are pretty
much have support systems and they travel with buddies, and like,
I know that I'm sure they would. Just you know what,
I've always wondered real quick before when people get murdered,
real quick, lighthearted thing just before we show how did
the how did they find the family?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: How is the parents getting notified right away? Like if
I if something happened to me, let's just say I'm
just out somewhere. How they can't get in my phone?
To get in my phone? How do they know who
you are?
Speaker 1: Like that they might get your driver's license and then
go to the DMV.
Speaker 2: And then are most people like if if something happens
to you, are you usually like there with your purse?
Speaker 1: Yeah that's true. Well yeah, no, then you become a
Jane No, I guess until they could figure it out.
Speaker 2: Almost none of these people are ever Jane Doe's right.
They're always like yeah, and then the police called and
they're like, uh so and so's he and you're like,
how did they know?
Speaker 1: Right? Yeah, I don't get I don't know.
Speaker 2: Like if they went in my phone, then they'd find
at the top of my phone, they'd call the first contact. Right,
but they can't get in my phone.
Speaker 1: Right, they can get in my phone.
Speaker 2: They can you don't keep it locked?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, Well I don't even know what they
do before phoned, right, Yeah, how did they find people?
Speaker 1: Maybe their thumb print from the DMV. I don't know,
do you think, Klen?
Speaker 3: I mean, I think people normally walk around with like
their wallets and their IDs on them, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I'm just thinking if you got robbed or murdered,
they wouldn't leave your purse with you, if you're with
your money and your ID. Yeah, all right, something to
think about. Food for thought. Hey, but before we go,
let's tell you about a couple of other shout outs. Okay,
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you are a parent.
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