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hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on. Thank
you for telling a friend. That's how we spread the
word about the pirates ship. Kevin is here. I don't
know how he's standing. Laura is here, and I'm so
happy that Laura is here because no, yeah, I think
we need to talk about adult bullying a little bit. Okay,
because I was at a friend's house recently. Let's call
him Kevin because that's his name. Kevin was on a
mission not to chill, not to vibe. No, Kevin wanted
a full blown suburban rager at his house and if
his friends didn't want to come play with him, too bad.
He called them, He texted them and called them again
over and over. One poor guy, who he just referred
to as a saint, is in the middle of painting
the tram.
Speaker 2: He was in the middle of painting, don't even lie.
Speaker 1: He was in the middle of painting the interior of
his house. He's mid roll, he's got primer on his hands.
He said, any paint on him? I did, yes, on
his hand, he had it right here. I notice.
Speaker 3: Believe me that that was probably cheatlepuff No.
Speaker 1: And Kevin still rang him like a fucking debt collector
all night long. He's like, seriously, you're like a debt
collector with a drinking problem. Come on, pussy, come on,
pussy pushing.
Speaker 4: How many times did he show up?
Speaker 1: He would show up for like until finally he showed
up for like ten minutes, and then he would go
back home, probably holding a paintbrush and praying that the
phone wouldn't ring. And at about an hour later, it's repeat.
Speaker 4: You know this covin that you speak of. I normally
get texts later on in the night. What are you doing?
Like not like that, But I'm like, hey, baby, you
know I get busy. If you want me to come
over and play cards or hang out in the garagio,
you gotta give me a little headway.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to know. But Kevin's got this thing.
It's drink or be dragged. With Kevin, you're either drink
or you're dragged. He'll drag you through call you all
kinds of names.
Speaker 4: Yes, you do. Because last year I got the text.
I was like, I'm at home with the kids, like
baseball got rained out, and you know, I mean.
Speaker 1: It's a good time. He's got a nice setup over there.
I'm calling a voodoo lounge. It's it's comfortably put on
a heater like and I took a nap and he
sits me down.
Speaker 4: West side too, Bill zero.
Speaker 1: I went over. I sat in this chair and it
starts massaging me and all this and the next thing.
Speaker 4: Oh, I didn't get the massage chair gets over. I
got the Dodger laptop.
Speaker 1: I was out. I was out. I took a little nap.
I've had a rough week as you. As you know, there's.
Speaker 3: There's audio for Bill.
Speaker 1: I was snoring so loud I woke my thumb up twice. Yeah,
but I'm telling you, like the adult bully. You see
a barbecue, I guarantee at your four is it your fortieth?
Speaker 4: But okay, I don't I and I'm the bully.
Speaker 1: No, you won't be the bully. This asshole right here
will be calling people pussies.
Speaker 4: Yeah no, I'm not like that. But I am like,
let's do like shambong. Have you guys ever shambonged before?
Speaker 1: What the fuck a shambong?
Speaker 4: So shambong is like it's a champagne flute that's like
curved and you pour a little champagne in and then
you chug it. It's like you go against people. It's
called shambong. It's like a legit thing.
Speaker 1: So you got to chuck champagne. Yeah, but you're only
doing little bits of it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but like I'll be like, let's chambong, let's sham.
Speaker 2: The problem with her party, though, is I can't what
I did yesterday right right because I gotta make it.
Speaker 5: Well.
Speaker 2: I don't even drive that that's an issue. I just
gotta make it the Gregs thing.
Speaker 1: Oh Kevin, Kevin turns in. He goes from like party
person to pressure punk in like a minute. And I
started this thinking yesterday on my way home, I go,
I wonder if we played bingo? What would be on
the adult Bullying Bingo card? Guilt trip cover that one,
because Kevin had that repeated calls her text after someone
says no, like the person could say no five times.
Speaker 2: Here's the thing you don't know, Bob No means yes
with Bob No, it does not. It absolutely does, because
I don't want like, I don't want him over there,
Bob side, screaming, screaming.
Speaker 4: Bitch neighbor.
Speaker 1: He's out there, he's out there, like he goes to me, Hey,
we got new neighbors that moved into this one house
on the cul de Sac.
Speaker 3: Kevin goes out there.
Speaker 1: Obviously, you pussy bomb cut the fuck over here, like
it's echoing. You could hear him, like four neighborhoods over
I'm like, holy shit, you turn into But here's the thing.
We're calling names to toughen them up. That's on the beach.
I know, I know.
Speaker 2: Bob's across the street drinking by himself. Why drink alone?
Speaker 3: He was painting, he was doing he was drinking alone.
He was he was painting and drinking.
Speaker 4: Yes, yep, but that's still that's still.
Speaker 1: But he's doing work. And then he's talking about how
proud he was of his wife. His wife was a
nurse working a twelve hour shift. She delivered a baby
by herself, no doctors. Oh wow, yeah, because it came
so quickly, Scott, Yeah, basically, and she did this whole
thing by herself. And he's like he was going on
about how proud of her, which I which kind of
warmed the tockles of my heart, to be honestly, I
thought that was very sweet. Right, and he was making
her dinner, but he couldn't get anything done because the
bully across the street. He was screaming and yelling. It
was the funniest thing. It was like I was highly
entertained by it.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's definitely west Side, because east Side, me
and my neighbor we flick our kitchen lights if we wanna,
you know, hang out, and then we just text each other.
Speaker 1: I have a feeling that Kevin doesn't usually go out
and yell like that, but it was a feeling.
Speaker 2: Bob yelled back and forth all the time. Oh my god,
em and I yelled back and forth all the time. Bob,
by the way, Bob who took three and a half
hours the mo was launder to night.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm being a little bitch.
Speaker 1: Okay, what I was gonna say is his lawn looks pristine,
like his garage looks immaculate. All this, and not that
you're not I'm not saying that, but like he's like
Bob clearly does things around his house. I don't know
how he gets shipped done with the bully across the street.
You're a bully. Listen, what does Bob do? Bob?
Speaker 2: Bob had made a statement the night before that between
twelve and two we were gonna do some fishing business,
and Bob never showed up for fishing business.
Speaker 1: What is fitchy, Bob?
Speaker 3: Why don't you use some of those left tanded cigarettes?
Speaker 1: Okay, all right? And he didn't show up. It's Kevin,
Because in Kevin's world, it's like if five no's to
get one yes, and it's not charming, it's it's fucking exhausting,
like you're exhausted by the time you're done.
Speaker 3: With His nose are always yes. He always likes to
put up a fight because he's a little.
Speaker 4: Bit I just think the two of you sort of
you guys mashed where it's like you can look at
each other and just know you're gonna do your Irish
car bombs.
Speaker 3: Oh he loves them.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because the first time I tried to do one
with both of you, you guys, I had to spin
it out like I could really I couldn't chug as
fast as that.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's such a weird thing for you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, but I was laughing so hard, and
I was like, nope, it's either I spit all over
your garage where I walk outside and spit it out, and.
Speaker 1: He walked outside. Why why? Because you couldn't chug.
Speaker 4: I was laughing at that, trying to chug as quick
as them, and I kind of we had been drinking
at the Bills game, like, so yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep up.
Speaker 3: Oh I forgot about that one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I forgot.
Speaker 3: You didn't caramels with me and Bob yep.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I say to Kevin, because there was a
lot of drinking that went on over there yesterday, I thought,
and I said to him, you had to be hungover today, like,
I didn't even want to bother you. I was gonna
wait to hear from you. So I'm waiting, and then
he says to me, uh, it was fun. It was fine.
I go. You called me. I'm on the phone on
the way home having a conversation. I go a whole
on a second because he's beeping in, come on back,
the neighbors are back. You gotta turn the car around.
Don't be a pussy, can urt around. I go there
he is, he's a bully. Dragged or drink or be dragged.
Speaker 4: Well, I assumed that you guys were just pregaming to
go to the comedy club last night, and so then.
Speaker 1: No, and I had no intention of staying. And then
Kevin's like, you got us, You're staying for dinner. The
dinner was amazing, and.
Speaker 4: I bet you made Carrie. Did you make Carrie cook?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh, I cooked on the Kevin cooked on the grill.
Carrie was uh no, but Brady did some potatoes things
like it was. It was. It was delightful. It was
absolutely delightful. They all sat down at the table together.
It was nice. I honestly like that was really nice.
But then Kevin's just like you guys, He's like saying
it to the kids.
Speaker 4: I think they're so used to it with you though.
Speaker 1: Nice.
Speaker 3: I couldn't kids.
Speaker 4: When we stopped over last Sunday, like Brady and uh,
Tyler were out in the garage, just completely unfazed by
Kevin Shenanigan. So as he's making Joe do a chugging
contest with him.
Speaker 3: I didn't make Joe do anything. I don't make anybody
do anything at all. Oh my god, except for Bob.
Speaker 1: You don't. I don't know that anybody. You're right, I
think most people are willingly, I got it.
Speaker 2: See Bob's problem is Bob can't say no. And I've
had this conversation with his wife because I'll get a
text everyone. So would you to my husband today?
Speaker 1: Yes? Exact. I'm like, your husband does know how to
say no? No, because you know what he says to
me before he goes. I think that Joe no, I
mean Bob, excuse me? Is my Damien? And I go no,
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Speaker 1: I'm surprised, Bill Belichick. This is from the Cold Open.
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Speaker 4: So this order will make it socially acceptable for a
man in his seventies to date a twenty four year old.
Speaker 5: That's right, we're calling it the Belichick Law. We're gonna
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younger women. We like that it's hot, but in reverse,
it's quite disgusting. Right, very dateline. You know, did you
see Belichick's girlfriend?
Speaker 4: She's pretty odd, right, yes, she is a beautiful creature. God,
you're creepy. This is why we don't hang out outside
of work.
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I how do women feel about the age gap when
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women have opinions on these things. Oh god, yeah, yeah,
but what do they feel about that age gap? In particular,
let's say with Belichick, and it's disgusting. It's disgusting. I mean, hut,
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Speaker 4: Way that it was started off like you know, in
a natural platonic state. She knew who he was, she
knew his amount of work. And if you think about
like everything that's come out with her saying how controlling
she is. Do you hear that she amasked since they've
been dating eight million dollars in real estate properties?
Speaker 1: Really?
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you know, she's in it for the money,
she's trying. They said that she forced her way onto
that dunkin Donuts commercial super Bowl she is playing She's
like the if you think about Chris Jenner as the
momoger of the Kardashian she's like the mamoger of Belichick now,
like she is inserting himself herself in every way just
to watch him dying and get someone.
Speaker 2: He's now looking at outside PR firms to help him
with this image.
Speaker 1: Yes, I know, I saw that. I just saw that.
It just popped up on some website just as we
were starting the podcast. I saw that, and I figured
I'll address that one in the next episode because I
didn't didn't know enough about it. But yes, I'm not an.
Speaker 4: Ageis in any way, if it was a twenty four
year old and she's dating forty eight year old, yeah,
that's really questionable. But like seventy three, like what the fuck?
Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, I don't know. I think it's discussing how
Nick's eighty, how old is his lady friend she's thirty
nine something. I mean, we're not same different, Yeah, but
here's the difference is like, it's not we're not seeing
her interrupt or rule Mick. I think that's the bigger thing,
and we don't see it in our face. Yes, but
you're right, it would be the same thing, Like, you know,
why is that not people calling that out for being gross, just.
Speaker 2: Like Leonardo DiCaprio breaking up with every girl when she
gets twenty five.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but still George, it's just a coin. Yeah, that
happens privileged bitch like And I'm wondering if men her
age wouldn't date her because she was such a bitch
that she likes.
Speaker 1: Okay, oh, I mean okay, but that that That's where
I'm trying to take this a little bit, because I
do wonder like when it's you know, you lift all
women up and we should be sporting all women and
blah blah, and sometimes I go, is their back? I
feel like women are more competitive with women and maybe
even in the workplace than they are with men. Is
that would that be fair to say?
Speaker 4: I'd say it complete Very much depends on your field,
like what your position is, what your office is like
like owning my own business. I am part of Rochester
Women's net Work Next Level collective, like a lot of
remen women run business leaderships in Rochester, and we are
also supportive of each other, like you know, even the
other professional organizers that I know in Rochester.
Speaker 1: I think, but there's others. Yeah who knew. Yeah, they
really are. Yeah.
Speaker 4: It's funny because when I first met Greg, Greg was like,
oh I heard and I won't see her. About this woman,
I'm like, yes, love her. She's part of NAPO with me,
like you know what National Association of Productivity and Organizers.
Speaker 1: Think, Oh, thank you.
Speaker 4: But like a lot of the like solo women business
owners that I network with, we are so like supportive
of each other. But I'd say, if you go to
well see I'm going to say, like a law office
and there's like four pair of legals, maybe they're like
competitive with one another with who will get the next
promotion or something.
Speaker 1: Because I was thinking exactly what you said, right, supportive
helping each other. I think that women can. It can
make strong friendships, bond together, help each other through and
then on the other side. A twenty eleven American Management
Association found that both men and women sometimes report more
difficult relationships with same gender colleagues, but women are more
likely to describe these relationships as emotionally charged, which maybe
the men are as well. They just don't know it, ye,
Like guys are dumb. They like, well, here's the thing,
Like I could call Kevin a bullying busted ball, and
like even if I was super serious about it, like
you're a dick, we'd be fine in the day. Yeah,
you know where women would be Like, I.
Speaker 4: Feel like women get maybe I have feelings, you prick.
We probably get frustrated more.
Speaker 1: I don't know where they are.
Speaker 4: Yes, I like women get a lot more frustrated, and
yeah we are. We get more emotional taxing on us
where guys can let things slide or you know, just
move on to the next without having that like emotional
thought attached to it.
Speaker 1: Here's the uh, here's a thing I've always thought. I
feel like it's harder to be a woman than a guy.
Would I really do? I think that it's harder. I
think that women you got to.
Speaker 3: Look at You can't pee outside.
Speaker 1: No, the world is your yearine all. I used to
teach my sons that, and my wife would get very mad.
I used to love it when they would pop out
of the pool, pee in the garden, and the pop
back in the pool.
Speaker 4: All my kids do that all the time. They have
a peing corner and a peeing roum. Yeah, they literally
love to pee outside. Yeah, it's is just a little
boys come somewhere. They'll be sitting inside watching TV, and
then they'll walk outside, go around to the peing corner
in the backyard pee and come back in.
Speaker 1: But there is this thing where little girls tour. This
is where I always go, I'm a big believer and
you're born that way. And I only say because I
probably somebody bought one of the boys a doll, and
they bought them the Bob the Builder trucks, and the
Bob the Builder Trucks is what they played with. Oh
and little boys will run around and just be kind
of crazy wild where girls will sit and they'll color
and they'll be quiet and they do. It's just it's
just a different thing. But then as they get older,
like I feel like it's harder because there's expectations and
it's not fair. Like when everybody's young, used to have
little girls on the little league team. Oh yeah, then
when they get older they can't play baseball. But you know,
it does become like now the balls are flying at
you eighty ninety miles an hour in high school, so
what are we gonna do? Yeah, but I go, god,
it seems harder. It's like more pressure. You gotta look
a certain way. You gotta be a certain way. You
gotta have the right makeup, you gotta have the right brands,
you gotta have the right this. You gotta have the
right fucking drinking water thing. So I know, you know
what I mean, it's Stanley or something. It's like the
big thing because I have a niche she's so yeah,
Well I got my Stanley and my Ugs. I love
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Speaker 4: Remember I remember out of college. I the first guy
that I dated out of college. He was from Pittsford
and he like literally got me ugs north Face and
like Vera Bradley for like our first Christmas because he
thought that I didn't have enough like name brands.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because but that's what he ye in his life had,
so I don't think he was trying to know that
was just normal.
Speaker 4: I started a bulk at those things now, like I.
Speaker 2: Do, like whatever whatever, Kevin.
Speaker 1: Agaully, But like I.
Speaker 4: Bought this, Okay, I bought this eight years ago and
I still use.
Speaker 1: Proud of yourself. I mean, Louis vatan is expensive. Wasn't
nice to be able to buy that I had asked
for like.
Speaker 4: I had asked for, Like contributions for birthday from like
people because I knew, like I wanted to spend money
on it, you know, but like last night, I wasn't
even I took my kids shoe shopping yesterday, and Lucas
will not buy anything that's not like the coolest sneakers now.
And so it's just like to watch a ten year
old have to buy air Jordan's and you know, I
it just kills me because we were even saying he
was looking at the box to see like he wants
the most expensive pair. Really, yeah, it's like, yeah, he
was looking at like Lamellos and those were like one
hundred and five dollars, but then the air Jordan's were
like one hundred and thirty.
Speaker 1: Dollars and yeah, so and to him, it's just the number.
Speaker 4: I made him buy these, Oh you did. Yeah. He
had gotten a ton of Dick's gift cards for his birthday,
and I was like, if you want your Jordans that
you have still fit you, if you want a new pair,
you can buy them. So he bought them.
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in entertainment CULTURE.
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At ALL but i think young men are seeing things that,
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to lick, my butt like, You know and it's just
to think that that was like in the.
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how old were you? In that? When?
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when i was, like, Nineteen okay and so that's what.
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mid thirties the, OTHER year i, was like, Holy crap
like to see some of the stuff that they were,
talking about like they were really ahead of. Their, TIME
yeah i, Don't KNOW like i think that they opened
up a lot of sexual.
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like it's powerful for women to have control of their
own body and not be judged and all this, stuff,
so yeah. YOU'RE right i think that that's part. Of it.
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the show does. Get, cancer oh.
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spanked i got, TWENTY five i got calf, Your, Score,
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time actually once in A while i'll even Listen To.
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we're all excited for. Your party by, THE way.
Speaker 4: I Hope so i'm excited for. My, party yeah this.
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to he. FREE range i, was like.
Speaker 1: Free, range yeah who's making your cake?
Speaker 4: Get caked her Name Is. Kelly scott i've known her
for years.
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Speaker 5: Be.
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i am just her. A budget we.
Speaker 3: Met, her brother we met.
Speaker 4: Her aunt, i'm like just making me, a cake JUST
like i, got you.
Speaker 1: MABE meat. A cake. Sounds good very excited for That
for kevin's. Very excited i'm excited to. TURN forty i
don't know really why most people shy away from the
those years they get a. LITTLE nervous i think like just.
Speaker 4: The start of a new Decade where i'm feeling so
like confident myself And where i'm at. In life, you
know the first half of the thirties was having, Two
kids like, YOU know i had my first RATE when
i turned thirty and my second at, thirty one and
it was raising. Two kids and then the last five
years have been going through, a divorce like getting my
life back on track and, you know a lot of learning.
And everything so not.
Speaker 1: To, belabor things but talk to me about the getting
your life back, on track because that IS something i
even find myself saying, A LOT like i Feel like
i've it's just Been like i'm tumbling down a hill
at TIMES and i, can't stop you KNOW what. I
mean it's like. THE momentum i always think like if
you get out in front, of things like if you
put a car at the top of, A hill i
could stop it if it started Rolling and i'm at
the top of, The hill i'm at the bottom of.
The hill i'm gonna get fucking, run, over yeah or
get out of.
Speaker 3: THE way.
Speaker 4: I think there's just like so much things when you
go through a divorce there in, any partnership in, a
marriage some men take care of, some things women take
care of the. Other things it was like learning all
the things that my axe took care of like that
then meeke on me and it was just like a lot,
more adulting and it was just STUFF that i hadn't
ever really had to take, care of like the housework
and like, you know getting shit like calling to have my,
Driveway sealed like he would always make those calls things.
Like that, you know finance is just running like schedule.
Speaker 1: Your, business yeah did you start the business prior, to,
yeah okay yeah while you. Were.
Speaker 4: MARRIED yeah i had DONE what i do like for,
ten years BUT then i had turned it into like
THE whole llc and everything while we were. Still together
but it was it was a lot of, you know
and he was, in finance so he handled all all.
Financial STUFF like i never had like payment go right.
To me it went to like our direct account together.
And stuff so it was learning that sort of learning.
Scary budget, oh god.
Speaker 6: It was so.
Speaker 1: Scary, budget yeah it was.
Speaker 4: So scary and it's still things. That, is like, you
know when our divorce, GOT finalized i got kicked, off
healthcare like having to try and figure out healthcare like
just shit. Like that like it was just it was.
Really tough and it was funny because one of my
other friends turns forty a few days, before me and she,
was saying, SHE'S like I think i'm gonna go get
a tattooed. This weekend i'm like having this mid. LIFE
crisis i, was like my midlife crisis was from like
thirty six to, thirty eight, you Know because, AT first
i just FELT like i had that freedom from my
EX that i just wanted to go have fun and
like go travel and everything and just not worry about all.
That stuff and then it, was, like, okay TIME like
i have TO like i have, TO plan i have
to pay them out of, MY house i have to
do all these things LIKE that i need to like
fully be aware of. And stuff but so it's been
more of a learning the balance Of getting so.
Speaker 1: Is this like you're coming out party like fully a?
Fully fully.
Speaker 4: LIKE what i want is like Everyone that i'm inviting brings,
me HAPPINESS and i just LIKE want i.
Speaker 1: DON'T know i was just gonna ask.
Speaker 4: Funny because, last night oh, last, Night no I'M like
i started scribbling People watching we're watching basketball with, the
Kids and i'm looking at my phone and, just Laughing
and joe literally goes that Bell or cavin, Texting YEAH
and i was, Like why, he's like because those are
your two. Funny FRIES like i laughed, out loud and
then he said only, One friend danielle is the funniest.
Female friend but like it's JUST like i just wanted
to be like such a happy ENVIRONMENT and i ACTUALLY think,
i like surround myself with such, good People and i've
cut off ties with people who bring me down or
are just those negative. ENERGY people i think everyone there
will just mhm. Be great like there's a few people
THERE who i don't really love, too MUCH but i
have to have have, them THERE and i Will literally
i'll point one out person Out. To kevin i'll, be,
like go bully.
Speaker 1: This, BITCH really i.
Speaker 3: Like that i'll Bully a i'll Listen.
Speaker 1: To kevin kevin is. A bully, We did we've established
that he's the.
Speaker 3: Neighborhood bully she drink a.
Speaker 1: Good way.
Speaker 2: I'll Drinking.
Speaker 1: For laura's getting ready to forty is this is gonna.
Be great you're don't have to. Have pictures get him on.
The Website I'm. Bill moran we'll see. You, tomorrow damn
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