1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons. Throwing some ice, 2 00:00:03,319 --> 00:00:08,439 mix in some vodka in color a podcast from the 3 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:12,160 Mac of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:32,799 Victor Chrysler Dods Jim Ram. It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, 5 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:35,679 hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on. Thank 6 00:00:35,719 --> 00:00:38,000 you for telling a friend. That's how we spread the 7 00:00:38,039 --> 00:00:42,520 word about the pirates ship. Kevin is here. I don't 8 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,520 know how he's standing. Laura is here, and I'm so 9 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:52,240 happy that Laura is here because no, yeah, I think 10 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,399 we need to talk about adult bullying a little bit. Okay, 11 00:00:55,799 --> 00:00:58,719 because I was at a friend's house recently. Let's call 12 00:00:58,759 --> 00:01:03,759 him Kevin because that's his name. Kevin was on a 13 00:01:03,799 --> 00:01:08,799 mission not to chill, not to vibe. No, Kevin wanted 14 00:01:08,799 --> 00:01:14,319 a full blown suburban rager at his house and if 15 00:01:14,359 --> 00:01:17,359 his friends didn't want to come play with him, too bad. 16 00:01:17,599 --> 00:01:21,200 He called them, He texted them and called them again 17 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:26,040 over and over. One poor guy, who he just referred 18 00:01:26,079 --> 00:01:28,920 to as a saint, is in the middle of painting 19 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:29,480 the tram. 20 00:01:30,599 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 2: He was in the middle of painting, don't even lie. 21 00:01:33,159 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: He was in the middle of painting the interior of 22 00:01:35,239 --> 00:01:38,319 his house. He's mid roll, he's got primer on his hands. 23 00:01:38,359 --> 00:01:41,560 He said, any paint on him? I did, yes, on 24 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,079 his hand, he had it right here. I notice. 25 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:46,519 Speaker 3: Believe me that that was probably cheatlepuff No. 26 00:01:47,879 --> 00:01:51,239 Speaker 1: And Kevin still rang him like a fucking debt collector 27 00:01:51,879 --> 00:01:55,079 all night long. He's like, seriously, you're like a debt 28 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:58,359 collector with a drinking problem. Come on, pussy, come on, 29 00:01:58,560 --> 00:01:59,920 pussy pushing. 30 00:02:00,079 --> 00:02:01,239 Speaker 4: How many times did he show up? 31 00:02:01,239 --> 00:02:03,359 Speaker 1: He would show up for like until finally he showed 32 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:04,799 up for like ten minutes, and then he would go 33 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:08,280 back home, probably holding a paintbrush and praying that the 34 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,680 phone wouldn't ring. And at about an hour later, it's repeat. 35 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 4: You know this covin that you speak of. I normally 36 00:02:14,439 --> 00:02:17,479 get texts later on in the night. What are you doing? 37 00:02:17,879 --> 00:02:23,759 Like not like that, But I'm like, hey, baby, you 38 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:25,759 know I get busy. If you want me to come 39 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,039 over and play cards or hang out in the garagio, 40 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:30,360 you gotta give me a little headway. 41 00:02:30,759 --> 00:02:33,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to know. But Kevin's got this thing. 42 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:36,080 It's drink or be dragged. With Kevin, you're either drink 43 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,479 or you're dragged. He'll drag you through call you all 44 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:39,360 kinds of names. 45 00:02:39,439 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 4: Yes, you do. Because last year I got the text. 46 00:02:41,879 --> 00:02:44,479 I was like, I'm at home with the kids, like 47 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:48,400 baseball got rained out, and you know, I mean. 48 00:02:48,319 --> 00:02:50,719 Speaker 1: It's a good time. He's got a nice setup over there. 49 00:02:50,759 --> 00:02:53,639 I'm calling a voodoo lounge. It's it's comfortably put on 50 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,759 a heater like and I took a nap and he 51 00:02:56,879 --> 00:02:57,759 sits me down. 52 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:00,719 Speaker 4: West side too, Bill zero. 53 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,599 Speaker 1: I went over. I sat in this chair and it 54 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,439 starts massaging me and all this and the next thing. 55 00:03:05,599 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 4: Oh, I didn't get the massage chair gets over. I 56 00:03:09,199 --> 00:03:10,360 got the Dodger laptop. 57 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,159 Speaker 1: I was out. I was out. I took a little nap. 58 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,919 I've had a rough week as you. As you know, there's. 59 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 3: There's audio for Bill. 60 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:23,439 Speaker 1: I was snoring so loud I woke my thumb up twice. Yeah, 61 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,199 but I'm telling you, like the adult bully. You see 62 00:03:26,319 --> 00:03:29,759 a barbecue, I guarantee at your four is it your fortieth? 63 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,479 Speaker 4: But okay, I don't I and I'm the bully. 64 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,479 Speaker 1: No, you won't be the bully. This asshole right here 65 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:36,919 will be calling people pussies. 66 00:03:37,319 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 4: Yeah no, I'm not like that. But I am like, 67 00:03:41,199 --> 00:03:44,599 let's do like shambong. Have you guys ever shambonged before? 68 00:03:45,879 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: What the fuck a shambong? 69 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 4: So shambong is like it's a champagne flute that's like 70 00:03:52,719 --> 00:03:55,560 curved and you pour a little champagne in and then 71 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:58,680 you chug it. It's like you go against people. It's 72 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,199 called shambong. It's like a legit thing. 73 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: So you got to chuck champagne. Yeah, but you're only 74 00:04:03,439 --> 00:04:04,479 doing little bits of it. 75 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,599 Speaker 4: Yeah, but like I'll be like, let's chambong, let's sham. 76 00:04:08,199 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 2: The problem with her party, though, is I can't what 77 00:04:11,319 --> 00:04:14,199 I did yesterday right right because I gotta make it. 78 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:15,639 Speaker 5: Well. 79 00:04:15,639 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 2: I don't even drive that that's an issue. I just 80 00:04:17,959 --> 00:04:19,600 gotta make it the Gregs thing. 81 00:04:19,759 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: Oh Kevin, Kevin turns in. He goes from like party 82 00:04:22,959 --> 00:04:26,399 person to pressure punk in like a minute. And I 83 00:04:26,519 --> 00:04:29,240 started this thinking yesterday on my way home, I go, 84 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:34,519 I wonder if we played bingo? What would be on 85 00:04:35,319 --> 00:04:39,680 the adult Bullying Bingo card? Guilt trip cover that one, 86 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,800 because Kevin had that repeated calls her text after someone 87 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,600 says no, like the person could say no five times. 88 00:04:45,639 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 2: Here's the thing you don't know, Bob No means yes 89 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:52,879 with Bob No, it does not. It absolutely does, because 90 00:04:52,879 --> 00:04:54,720 I don't want like, I don't want him over there, 91 00:04:54,879 --> 00:04:59,160 Bob side, screaming, screaming. 92 00:04:58,600 --> 00:04:59,519 Speaker 4: Bitch neighbor. 93 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 1: He's out there, he's out there, like he goes to me, Hey, 94 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,040 we got new neighbors that moved into this one house 95 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:05,920 on the cul de Sac. 96 00:05:06,399 --> 00:05:07,199 Speaker 3: Kevin goes out there. 97 00:05:07,199 --> 00:05:11,759 Speaker 1: Obviously, you pussy bomb cut the fuck over here, like 98 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,560 it's echoing. You could hear him, like four neighborhoods over 99 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:19,040 I'm like, holy shit, you turn into But here's the thing. 100 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,480 We're calling names to toughen them up. That's on the beach. 101 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:22,120 I know, I know. 102 00:05:22,199 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 2: Bob's across the street drinking by himself. Why drink alone? 103 00:05:26,759 --> 00:05:29,399 Speaker 3: He was painting, he was doing he was drinking alone. 104 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,480 He was he was painting and drinking. 105 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 4: Yes, yep, but that's still that's still. 106 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:35,399 Speaker 1: But he's doing work. And then he's talking about how 107 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,360 proud he was of his wife. His wife was a 108 00:05:37,439 --> 00:05:40,560 nurse working a twelve hour shift. She delivered a baby 109 00:05:40,639 --> 00:05:43,879 by herself, no doctors. Oh wow, yeah, because it came 110 00:05:43,959 --> 00:05:47,560 so quickly, Scott, Yeah, basically, and she did this whole 111 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:48,959 thing by herself. And he's like he was going on 112 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:50,759 about how proud of her, which I which kind of 113 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:52,920 warmed the tockles of my heart, to be honestly, I 114 00:05:52,959 --> 00:05:55,199 thought that was very sweet. Right, and he was making 115 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,319 her dinner, but he couldn't get anything done because the 116 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,800 bully across the street. He was screaming and yelling. It 117 00:06:01,879 --> 00:06:03,759 was the funniest thing. It was like I was highly 118 00:06:03,879 --> 00:06:04,519 entertained by it. 119 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 4: I mean, that's definitely west Side, because east Side, me 120 00:06:07,319 --> 00:06:09,759 and my neighbor we flick our kitchen lights if we wanna, 121 00:06:10,519 --> 00:06:12,639 you know, hang out, and then we just text each other. 122 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,759 Speaker 1: I have a feeling that Kevin doesn't usually go out 123 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,680 and yell like that, but it was a feeling. 124 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 2: Bob yelled back and forth all the time. Oh my god, 125 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:24,480 em and I yelled back and forth all the time. Bob, 126 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,279 by the way, Bob who took three and a half 127 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:27,639 hours the mo was launder to night. 128 00:06:27,759 --> 00:06:29,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm being a little bitch. 129 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: Okay, what I was gonna say is his lawn looks pristine, 130 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,439 like his garage looks immaculate. All this, and not that 131 00:06:36,519 --> 00:06:40,319 you're not I'm not saying that, but like he's like 132 00:06:40,639 --> 00:06:44,120 Bob clearly does things around his house. I don't know 133 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,480 how he gets shipped done with the bully across the street. 134 00:06:47,199 --> 00:06:51,000 You're a bully. Listen, what does Bob do? Bob? 135 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,439 Speaker 2: Bob had made a statement the night before that between 136 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:56,519 twelve and two we were gonna do some fishing business, 137 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,360 and Bob never showed up for fishing business. 138 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: What is fitchy, Bob? 139 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 3: Why don't you use some of those left tanded cigarettes? 140 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,879 Speaker 1: Okay, all right? And he didn't show up. It's Kevin, 141 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,839 Because in Kevin's world, it's like if five no's to 142 00:07:12,959 --> 00:07:16,959 get one yes, and it's not charming, it's it's fucking exhausting, 143 00:07:17,319 --> 00:07:18,959 like you're exhausted by the time you're done. 144 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:22,199 Speaker 3: With His nose are always yes. He always likes to 145 00:07:22,279 --> 00:07:25,160 put up a fight because he's a little. 146 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 4: Bit I just think the two of you sort of 147 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,519 you guys mashed where it's like you can look at 148 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:33,560 each other and just know you're gonna do your Irish 149 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:34,199 car bombs. 150 00:07:34,879 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 3: Oh he loves them. 151 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, because the first time I tried to do one 152 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,279 with both of you, you guys, I had to spin 153 00:07:41,319 --> 00:07:44,839 it out like I could really I couldn't chug as 154 00:07:44,879 --> 00:07:45,360 fast as that. 155 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: Wow, that's such a weird thing for you. 156 00:07:48,199 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, but I was laughing so hard, and 157 00:07:52,759 --> 00:07:54,959 I was like, nope, it's either I spit all over 158 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,519 your garage where I walk outside and spit it out, and. 159 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,959 Speaker 1: He walked outside. Why why? Because you couldn't chug. 160 00:08:00,199 --> 00:08:02,959 Speaker 4: I was laughing at that, trying to chug as quick 161 00:08:02,959 --> 00:08:04,800 as them, and I kind of we had been drinking 162 00:08:04,839 --> 00:08:07,839 at the Bills game, like, so yeah. 163 00:08:07,959 --> 00:08:08,759 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep up. 164 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 3: Oh I forgot about that one. 165 00:08:10,199 --> 00:08:11,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, I forgot. 166 00:08:11,399 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 3: You didn't caramels with me and Bob yep. 167 00:08:14,279 --> 00:08:17,199 Speaker 1: Okay, So I say to Kevin, because there was a 168 00:08:17,279 --> 00:08:20,240 lot of drinking that went on over there yesterday, I thought, 169 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,160 and I said to him, you had to be hungover today, like, 170 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:24,839 I didn't even want to bother you. I was gonna 171 00:08:24,839 --> 00:08:29,920 wait to hear from you. So I'm waiting, and then 172 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,360 he says to me, uh, it was fun. It was fine. 173 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,720 I go. You called me. I'm on the phone on 174 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,840 the way home having a conversation. I go a whole 175 00:08:36,879 --> 00:08:39,240 on a second because he's beeping in, come on back, 176 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,919 the neighbors are back. You gotta turn the car around. 177 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,039 Don't be a pussy, can urt around. I go there 178 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:49,559 he is, he's a bully. Dragged or drink or be dragged. 179 00:08:49,919 --> 00:08:52,919 Speaker 4: Well, I assumed that you guys were just pregaming to 180 00:08:53,039 --> 00:08:56,240 go to the comedy club last night, and so then. 181 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: No, and I had no intention of staying. And then 182 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,519 Kevin's like, you got us, You're staying for dinner. The 183 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:01,799 dinner was amazing, and. 184 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 4: I bet you made Carrie. Did you make Carrie cook? 185 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh, I cooked on the Kevin cooked on the grill. 186 00:09:08,039 --> 00:09:12,159 Carrie was uh no, but Brady did some potatoes things 187 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,559 like it was. It was. It was delightful. It was 188 00:09:14,639 --> 00:09:17,360 absolutely delightful. They all sat down at the table together. 189 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,639 It was nice. I honestly like that was really nice. 190 00:09:21,159 --> 00:09:26,559 But then Kevin's just like you guys, He's like saying 191 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:27,519 it to the kids. 192 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 4: I think they're so used to it with you though. 193 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:30,519 Speaker 1: Nice. 194 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 3: I couldn't kids. 195 00:09:33,039 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 4: When we stopped over last Sunday, like Brady and uh, 196 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:40,000 Tyler were out in the garage, just completely unfazed by 197 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:43,799 Kevin Shenanigan. So as he's making Joe do a chugging 198 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:44,720 contest with him. 199 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 3: I didn't make Joe do anything. I don't make anybody 200 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,000 do anything at all. Oh my god, except for Bob. 201 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,519 Speaker 1: You don't. I don't know that anybody. 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This is from the Cold Open. 249 00:12:35,759 --> 00:12:36,080 This is it? 250 00:12:36,799 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 4: This? 251 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 1: So it's President Trump being played by James Austin Johnson 252 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:46,879 and then mikey Day was playing Stephen Miller, who's kind 253 00:12:46,919 --> 00:12:50,080 of this creepy guy in the White House. But they're 254 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:52,960 signing executive orders Trump's first hunder day. 255 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 4: So this order will make it socially acceptable for a 256 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:59,600 man in his seventies to date a twenty four year old. 257 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 5: That's right, we're calling it the Belichick Law. We're gonna 258 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:08,519 make girlfriends young again. Okay, old men can nowdate far 259 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:12,320 younger women. We like that it's hot, but in reverse, 260 00:13:12,399 --> 00:13:17,200 it's quite disgusting. Right, very dateline. You know, did you 261 00:13:17,279 --> 00:13:18,720 see Belichick's girlfriend? 262 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 4: She's pretty odd, right, yes, she is a beautiful creature. God, 263 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:27,399 you're creepy. This is why we don't hang out outside 264 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:27,759 of work. 265 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 1: Understood, Soon they go want to another order. But I 266 00:13:33,159 --> 00:13:35,799 I how do women feel about the age gap when 267 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:37,919 it's like that? Do women have any I feel like 268 00:13:38,039 --> 00:13:41,960 women have opinions on these things. Oh god, yeah, yeah, 269 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,600 but what do they feel about that age gap? In particular, 270 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:49,519 let's say with Belichick, and it's disgusting. It's disgusting. I mean, hut, 271 00:13:49,639 --> 00:13:50,240 there's no. 272 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 4: Way that it was started off like you know, in 273 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:58,279 a natural platonic state. She knew who he was, she 274 00:13:58,399 --> 00:14:01,120 knew his amount of work. And if you think about 275 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:05,559 like everything that's come out with her saying how controlling 276 00:14:05,639 --> 00:14:08,200 she is. Do you hear that she amasked since they've 277 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:11,000 been dating eight million dollars in real estate properties? 278 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:11,799 Speaker 1: Really? 279 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, like you know, she's in it for the money, 280 00:14:15,039 --> 00:14:17,759 she's trying. They said that she forced her way onto 281 00:14:17,919 --> 00:14:23,399 that dunkin Donuts commercial super Bowl she is playing She's 282 00:14:23,519 --> 00:14:28,159 like the if you think about Chris Jenner as the 283 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:32,759 momoger of the Kardashian she's like the mamoger of Belichick now, 284 00:14:33,039 --> 00:14:37,200 like she is inserting himself herself in every way just 285 00:14:37,519 --> 00:14:39,480 to watch him dying and get someone. 286 00:14:39,639 --> 00:14:42,039 Speaker 2: He's now looking at outside PR firms to help him 287 00:14:42,039 --> 00:14:42,639 with this image. 288 00:14:42,759 --> 00:14:45,159 Speaker 1: Yes, I know, I saw that. I just saw that. 289 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:48,519 It just popped up on some website just as we 290 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,399 were starting the podcast. I saw that, and I figured 291 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:53,759 I'll address that one in the next episode because I 292 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:56,600 didn't didn't know enough about it. But yes, I'm not an. 293 00:14:56,559 --> 00:14:58,759 Speaker 4: Ageis in any way, if it was a twenty four 294 00:14:58,879 --> 00:15:02,720 year old and she's dating forty eight year old, yeah, 295 00:15:03,519 --> 00:15:08,879 that's really questionable. But like seventy three, like what the fuck? 296 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:12,279 Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, I don't know. I think it's discussing how 297 00:15:12,559 --> 00:15:15,840 Nick's eighty, how old is his lady friend she's thirty 298 00:15:16,039 --> 00:15:19,879 nine something. I mean, we're not same different, Yeah, but 299 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:24,440 here's the difference is like, it's not we're not seeing 300 00:15:24,519 --> 00:15:29,279 her interrupt or rule Mick. I think that's the bigger thing, 301 00:15:30,039 --> 00:15:32,120 and we don't see it in our face. Yes, but 302 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,720 you're right, it would be the same thing, Like, you know, 303 00:15:34,799 --> 00:15:38,639 why is that not people calling that out for being gross, just. 304 00:15:38,679 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 2: Like Leonardo DiCaprio breaking up with every girl when she 305 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:41,879 gets twenty five. 306 00:15:42,039 --> 00:15:46,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, but still George, it's just a coin. Yeah, that 307 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:51,480 happens privileged bitch like And I'm wondering if men her 308 00:15:51,559 --> 00:15:53,720 age wouldn't date her because she was such a bitch 309 00:15:54,679 --> 00:15:55,360 that she likes. 310 00:15:56,759 --> 00:16:00,399 Speaker 1: Okay, oh, I mean okay, but that that That's where 311 00:16:00,399 --> 00:16:01,919 I'm trying to take this a little bit, because I 312 00:16:02,279 --> 00:16:04,960 do wonder like when it's you know, you lift all 313 00:16:05,039 --> 00:16:07,320 women up and we should be sporting all women and 314 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:11,039 blah blah, and sometimes I go, is their back? I 315 00:16:11,559 --> 00:16:14,799 feel like women are more competitive with women and maybe 316 00:16:14,879 --> 00:16:18,600 even in the workplace than they are with men. Is 317 00:16:18,639 --> 00:16:19,840 that would that be fair to say? 318 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 4: I'd say it complete Very much depends on your field, 319 00:16:24,279 --> 00:16:29,720 like what your position is, what your office is like 320 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:33,559 like owning my own business. I am part of Rochester 321 00:16:33,679 --> 00:16:36,600 Women's net Work Next Level collective, like a lot of 322 00:16:36,799 --> 00:16:41,799 remen women run business leaderships in Rochester, and we are 323 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:45,000 also supportive of each other, like you know, even the 324 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,600 other professional organizers that I know in Rochester. 325 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: I think, but there's others. Yeah who knew. Yeah, they 326 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:53,759 really are. Yeah. 327 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:57,559 Speaker 4: It's funny because when I first met Greg, Greg was like, 328 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:01,039 oh I heard and I won't see her. About this woman, 329 00:17:01,159 --> 00:17:03,639 I'm like, yes, love her. She's part of NAPO with me, 330 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:09,160 like you know what National Association of Productivity and Organizers. 331 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,319 Speaker 1: Think, Oh, thank you. 332 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 4: But like a lot of the like solo women business 333 00:17:17,039 --> 00:17:20,720 owners that I network with, we are so like supportive 334 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:23,200 of each other. But I'd say, if you go to 335 00:17:24,079 --> 00:17:25,839 well see I'm going to say, like a law office 336 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,400 and there's like four pair of legals, maybe they're like 337 00:17:29,039 --> 00:17:31,680 competitive with one another with who will get the next 338 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:33,079 promotion or something. 339 00:17:33,319 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: Because I was thinking exactly what you said, right, supportive 340 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,680 helping each other. I think that women can. It can 341 00:17:40,839 --> 00:17:45,759 make strong friendships, bond together, help each other through and 342 00:17:45,839 --> 00:17:48,319 then on the other side. A twenty eleven American Management 343 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:51,960 Association found that both men and women sometimes report more 344 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:56,359 difficult relationships with same gender colleagues, but women are more 345 00:17:56,519 --> 00:18:01,319 likely to describe these relationships as emotionally charged, which maybe 346 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:03,519 the men are as well. They just don't know it, ye, 347 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,799 Like guys are dumb. They like, well, here's the thing, 348 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,599 Like I could call Kevin a bullying busted ball, and 349 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:11,960 like even if I was super serious about it, like 350 00:18:12,039 --> 00:18:15,400 you're a dick, we'd be fine in the day. Yeah, 351 00:18:15,559 --> 00:18:17,880 you know where women would be Like, I. 352 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 4: Feel like women get maybe I have feelings, you prick. 353 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:22,160 We probably get frustrated more. 354 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:23,039 Speaker 1: I don't know where they are. 355 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,279 Speaker 4: Yes, I like women get a lot more frustrated, and 356 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:30,240 yeah we are. We get more emotional taxing on us 357 00:18:30,319 --> 00:18:33,000 where guys can let things slide or you know, just 358 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:37,319 move on to the next without having that like emotional 359 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:38,440 thought attached to it. 360 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,039 Speaker 1: Here's the uh, here's a thing I've always thought. I 361 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:43,920 feel like it's harder to be a woman than a guy. 362 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:47,119 Would I really do? I think that it's harder. I 363 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,759 think that women you got to. 364 00:18:49,839 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 3: Look at You can't pee outside. 365 00:18:51,839 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 1: No, the world is your yearine all. I used to 366 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:55,880 teach my sons that, and my wife would get very mad. 367 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:58,079 I used to love it when they would pop out 368 00:18:58,079 --> 00:19:00,279 of the pool, pee in the garden, and the pop 369 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:00,880 back in the pool. 370 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:02,319 Speaker 4: All my kids do that all the time. They have 371 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:06,000 a peing corner and a peeing roum. Yeah, they literally 372 00:19:06,759 --> 00:19:09,400 love to pee outside. Yeah, it's is just a little 373 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,079 boys come somewhere. They'll be sitting inside watching TV, and 374 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,880 then they'll walk outside, go around to the peing corner 375 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:16,400 in the backyard pee and come back in. 376 00:19:16,559 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: But there is this thing where little girls tour. This 377 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:23,640 is where I always go, I'm a big believer and 378 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:27,119 you're born that way. And I only say because I 379 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:31,920 probably somebody bought one of the boys a doll, and 380 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,640 they bought them the Bob the Builder trucks, and the 381 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:36,720 Bob the Builder Trucks is what they played with. Oh 382 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,640 and little boys will run around and just be kind 383 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,480 of crazy wild where girls will sit and they'll color 384 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,960 and they'll be quiet and they do. It's just it's 385 00:19:47,079 --> 00:19:49,240 just a different thing. But then as they get older, 386 00:19:50,039 --> 00:19:53,799 like I feel like it's harder because there's expectations and 387 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,359 it's not fair. Like when everybody's young, used to have 388 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:58,759 little girls on the little league team. Oh yeah, then 389 00:19:58,799 --> 00:20:01,400 when they get older they can't play baseball. But you know, 390 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:03,880 it does become like now the balls are flying at 391 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:06,039 you eighty ninety miles an hour in high school, so 392 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,920 what are we gonna do? Yeah, but I go, god, 393 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:11,119 it seems harder. It's like more pressure. You gotta look 394 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:12,680 a certain way. You gotta be a certain way. You 395 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,759 gotta have the right makeup, you gotta have the right brands, 396 00:20:14,799 --> 00:20:16,359 you gotta have the right this. You gotta have the 397 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:20,400 right fucking drinking water thing. So I know, you know 398 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,720 what I mean, it's Stanley or something. It's like the 399 00:20:22,759 --> 00:20:25,000 big thing because I have a niche she's so yeah, 400 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,240 Well I got my Stanley and my Ugs. I love 401 00:20:27,319 --> 00:20:28,240 to go to Starby's. 402 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 4: Remember I remember out of college. I the first guy 403 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,440 that I dated out of college. He was from Pittsford 404 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:42,119 and he like literally got me ugs north Face and 405 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,279 like Vera Bradley for like our first Christmas because he 406 00:20:45,519 --> 00:20:48,240 thought that I didn't have enough like name brands. 407 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:53,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, because but that's what he ye in his life had, 408 00:20:53,279 --> 00:20:55,920 so I don't think he was trying to know that 409 00:20:56,039 --> 00:20:56,960 was just normal. 410 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:01,759 Speaker 4: I started a bulk at those things now, like I. 411 00:21:01,839 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 2: Do, like whatever whatever, Kevin. 412 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:11,799 Speaker 1: Agaully, But like I. 413 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 4: Bought this, Okay, I bought this eight years ago and 414 00:21:15,079 --> 00:21:15,839 I still use. 415 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 1: Proud of yourself. I mean, Louis vatan is expensive. Wasn't 416 00:21:19,599 --> 00:21:22,680 nice to be able to buy that I had asked 417 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:23,079 for like. 418 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:29,599 Speaker 4: I had asked for, Like contributions for birthday from like 419 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:32,680 people because I knew, like I wanted to spend money 420 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:36,799 on it, you know, but like last night, I wasn't 421 00:21:36,799 --> 00:21:40,279 even I took my kids shoe shopping yesterday, and Lucas 422 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:43,960 will not buy anything that's not like the coolest sneakers now. 423 00:21:44,519 --> 00:21:46,200 And so it's just like to watch a ten year 424 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:49,720 old have to buy air Jordan's and you know, I 425 00:21:50,759 --> 00:21:52,759 it just kills me because we were even saying he 426 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:54,640 was looking at the box to see like he wants 427 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:59,759 the most expensive pair. Really, yeah, it's like, yeah, he 428 00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:02,200 was looking at like Lamellos and those were like one 429 00:22:02,279 --> 00:22:04,599 hundred and five dollars, but then the air Jordan's were 430 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:05,759 like one hundred and thirty. 431 00:22:05,599 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 1: Dollars and yeah, so and to him, it's just the number. 432 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 4: I made him buy these, Oh you did. Yeah. He 433 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:16,880 had gotten a ton of Dick's gift cards for his birthday, 434 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,160 and I was like, if you want your Jordans that 435 00:22:19,279 --> 00:22:21,640 you have still fit you, if you want a new pair, 436 00:22:22,039 --> 00:22:23,640 you can buy them. So he bought them. 437 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:26,319 Speaker 1: Cravy the perfect night out. 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Blah, Blah 476 00:24:53,440 --> 00:25:01,359 OKAY SO i i am wondering if mainstream stuff that, 477 00:25:01,599 --> 00:25:03,920 was taboo things that were taboo in the bedroom that 478 00:25:04,039 --> 00:25:06,559 we didn't, talk ABOUT and i think some people didn't 479 00:25:06,559 --> 00:25:07,240 EVEN really. 480 00:25:08,599 --> 00:25:08,640 Speaker 4: I. 481 00:25:08,759 --> 00:25:14,079 Speaker 1: DON'T know i mean it's all quiet that porn made it, like, okay, 482 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,319 like hey you should, try this because what they're saying 483 00:25:17,559 --> 00:25:23,599 IS that hpv is easier to spread through the butt 484 00:25:23,839 --> 00:25:27,359 than it is in the traditional, sexual manner and that 485 00:25:27,519 --> 00:25:29,279 that you can get higher rates. Of it and then, 486 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,920 they go now you've got women over, sixty five you're seeing. 487 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,680 The INCREASE and, i go PROBABLY because, i think like 488 00:25:35,799 --> 00:25:39,000 in the eighties, and nineties is porn became bigger and 489 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:40,680 bigger and people, are like, oh yeah and then somebody 490 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,799 gets divorced and then they go through their. Horror phases 491 00:25:44,759 --> 00:25:48,039 some ladies have called it what what are you? Laughing 492 00:25:48,079 --> 00:25:50,839 at you Know what. I'm saying i'm JUST saying. I 493 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,759 Do a Journal Of sex research study found that anal 494 00:25:53,799 --> 00:25:57,400 sex has increased significantly across all age groups in the last, 495 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:01,079 two decades partially attributed to visibility. 496 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:01,319 Speaker 4: Of porn and porn. 497 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: Is everywhere. It's prolific i'm, TELLING you i think porn 498 00:26:04,079 --> 00:26:07,440 has a bigger impact on societal norms than we even 499 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:11,599 give it credit to puber cair. Styles everything i'm also. 500 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 4: Going to, add in like rap. AND music i feel 501 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:20,079 like there's so much music that talks. About, sex yes, 502 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,400 you know and there's a LOT of. 503 00:26:24,799 --> 00:26:28,039 Speaker 1: I didn't even, think that, ALL right i didn't even. 504 00:26:28,079 --> 00:26:30,599 THINK that I just i, WAS like i bet this has. 505 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,920 Speaker 4: To do it's just more mainstream. Culture, nowadays yeah to 506 00:26:34,039 --> 00:26:35,920 talk about it like They talk my. 507 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,279 Speaker 1: Grandparents slept in separate beds in the, same bedroom like. 508 00:26:39,599 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 3: They want they want dark side of, the movies you. 509 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 1: Know what i'm saying that that was. 510 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 3: The THING and, i, go boy how quickly. 511 00:26:48,039 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: We've changed if you look at like the progression OF 512 00:26:50,279 --> 00:26:51,759 stuff i THINK about, tv. 513 00:26:51,799 --> 00:26:55,880 Speaker 4: Movies everything like that is all part of entertainment. 514 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,559 Speaker 1: Culture, now yeah but sex is ONE thing i don't 515 00:26:58,759 --> 00:26:59,640 see you think. The. 516 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:04,400 Speaker 4: OTHER absolutely i think it's more talked. About, fluidly yeah 517 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:08,519 like it's a conversation when you talk about. 518 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,279 Speaker 1: You should just Be. THE greeks, i thought. 519 00:27:12,079 --> 00:27:17,119 Speaker 4: Like there's songs about like looking ass and stuff like 520 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:21,000 there are LIKE and i think, it's, wait yeah what's 521 00:27:21,039 --> 00:27:25,880 the one which which they say is like supposed to 522 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:29,119 be a woman in power. EMPOWERMENT song I remember i 523 00:27:29,279 --> 00:27:32,200 used to WATCH this tv Show. Called girls it was 524 00:27:32,279 --> 00:27:36,519 directed And Starred lena dunham and it was a long 525 00:27:36,599 --> 00:27:40,400 time AGO, on hbo and there's one scene where The 526 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:45,319 character marnie standing at the sink and a guy is 527 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,119 kneeling down, behind her and that was like the FIRST 528 00:27:49,319 --> 00:27:52,880 time i ever saw anything like that and kneeling down. 529 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: Behind her, oh, okay yeah well that may be. A 530 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,359 way i just, feel like, you know. 531 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,400 Speaker 4: Stuff like that has talked, about more and it's just 532 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,920 in entertainment CULTURE. 533 00:28:06,519 --> 00:28:10,039 Speaker 1: Because i DON'T think i think some people tech sex 534 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,880 is so sort of taboo in this country, THAT you, 535 00:28:14,519 --> 00:28:19,000 i mean porn almost has become the sex ad in. 536 00:28:19,079 --> 00:28:21,440 A way i don't think that's necessarily a good thing, 537 00:28:21,519 --> 00:28:24,079 At ALL but i think young men are seeing things that, 538 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:29,480 you know. Aren't necessary they think ROMANCE and i, don't 539 00:28:29,519 --> 00:28:30,000 know if you. 540 00:28:30,079 --> 00:28:32,440 Speaker 4: Look Back to sex And, the city it is. SO 541 00:28:32,559 --> 00:28:35,400 crazy i actually rewatched All of sex And the city like, 542 00:28:35,519 --> 00:28:40,079 last year and they were so ahead of the time with. 543 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,920 Some stuff but then it also is, Like funny like 544 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,720 there are a lot of things that Happened in sex 545 00:28:45,799 --> 00:28:49,160 And the city would not, fly nowadays like their language, 546 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,400 and stuff but sexually it was an eye, opening show, 547 00:28:52,599 --> 00:28:54,359 you KNOW and i grew up. On that that was 548 00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,519 like my end of. My teenagers they do was there 549 00:28:57,559 --> 00:29:02,359 anal that big mex right in the stical rug make. 550 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,960 A stream i don't, put it make. A scene i, 551 00:29:05,039 --> 00:29:07,319 DON'T cook i. Don't clean but let me TELL you 552 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,839 i got. The stream, doble meat, swallow meat, trip down 553 00:29:09,839 --> 00:29:11,440 the inside, of meat, jump out but you let it 554 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:12,720 get inside of me and tell him what to put? 555 00:29:12,759 --> 00:29:14,480 It in woul tell THEM when i be brunt down on, 556 00:29:14,599 --> 00:29:14,960 THE pall i have. 557 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:22,759 Speaker 1: A run. THAT'S it i can't say the effort on. 558 00:29:22,839 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 3: The radio but you can, play that? 559 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 1: CAN they i guess. THEY can i. Don't know I'VE 560 00:29:28,759 --> 00:29:31,680 never i don't listen enough of. That stuff, but huh? 561 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:34,640 Who knew keep it spicy in the bedroom with a. 562 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:41,599 Four increase it ain't, no, canker, cancer canker go to. Your. 563 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,839 DOCTORS funny I watched section In. THE city i got 564 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,440 sort of Bored. With section it was on After the SOPRANOS, 565 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,119 on hbo so sometimes if it was on in, the 566 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,880 house you would keep. It ON but, i, DON'T like 567 00:29:54,119 --> 00:29:58,319 i don't remember the. Ain't on there's like one. 568 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 4: Whole episode that's Dedicate to charlotte being like he wants 569 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,200 to lick, my butt like, You know and it's just 570 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:06,920 to think that that was like in the. 571 00:30:07,359 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 1: Did you ever? See? Nine so did you? See that 572 00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:10,839 how old were you? In that? When? 573 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 4: YOU so i probably Started watching sex In the CITY 574 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,640 when i was, like, Nineteen okay and so that's what. 575 00:30:16,759 --> 00:30:18,359 Speaker 1: Did you get, Ideas, of, like hey that. 576 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 4: SOUNDS great i think THAT'S why i saw like masturbation for. 577 00:30:22,359 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: Like that's when you, saw, It yeah like, but OKAY 578 00:30:26,279 --> 00:30:28,880 but i learned. About it that's when you learned about. It, 579 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,640 MORE yeah, i, mean yeah. 580 00:30:31,799 --> 00:30:34,559 Speaker 4: It's just but, then again to rewatch it in my 581 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,559 mid thirties the, OTHER year i, was like, Holy crap 582 00:30:38,759 --> 00:30:40,960 like to see some of the stuff that they were, 583 00:30:41,039 --> 00:30:43,640 talking about like they were really ahead of. Their, TIME 584 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,079 yeah i, Don't KNOW like i think that they opened 585 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:48,599 up a lot of sexual. 586 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 1: They DID and i think some of that stuff is 587 00:30:51,359 --> 00:30:54,480 like it's powerful for women to have control of their 588 00:30:54,559 --> 00:30:57,279 own body and not be judged and all this, stuff, 589 00:30:57,319 --> 00:30:59,720 so yeah. YOU'RE right i think that that's part. Of it. 590 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,200 Just now now it comes with a side dish of 591 00:31:02,319 --> 00:31:02,920 cancer if you're. 592 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,119 Speaker 4: Not, Careful, well samantha who was the token horror in, 593 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,400 the show does. Get, cancer oh. 594 00:31:08,319 --> 00:31:12,119 Speaker 1: Yes, she does but. 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No POINT oh, i know let. 682 00:35:53,599 --> 00:35:54,519 Speaker 2: Me see. 683 00:35:57,039 --> 00:35:59,119 Speaker 4: Oh, my god this is. So coold what are you 684 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:00,679 with clabet and you? 685 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:06,920 Speaker 1: Pull up you would WHERE was i on the? 686 00:36:07,079 --> 00:36:07,280 Speaker 2: Rock? 687 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:12,719 Speaker 1: Side us, you're married having your. SECOND child i, DON'T know, 688 00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,079 I said i don't know Who this, SUNDAY morning i 689 00:36:15,159 --> 00:36:18,679 Wrote all stars in two thousand. And four are you 690 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:19,760 still drunk? FROM yesterday. 691 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:20,079 Speaker 3: I don't. 692 00:36:20,119 --> 00:36:20,920 Speaker 1: I wasn't i don't. 693 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 4: Even know can't think of the Band Steal my sunshine 694 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:24,920 nineteen NINETY nine i. 695 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,199 Speaker 2: Had again it Is Steal my sunshine from when maybe 696 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:28,840 in nineteen. 697 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,679 Speaker 3: Ninety Nine whow lord has? 698 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:35,679 Speaker 1: Crushed it, all right this IS what, I got this 699 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:36,599 IS what. I got. 700 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 3: You need a big you need a big. 701 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:47,599 Speaker 1: Round Here Higher Love steve winwood nineteen. EIGHTY seven I. 702 00:36:47,639 --> 00:36:49,639 Speaker 4: Had, higher LOVE but i didn't, KNOW who I Said 703 00:36:49,679 --> 00:36:50,320 michael bolton. 704 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:54,239 Speaker 2: Ninety two It Is Steve Winwood's higher love from nineteen. 705 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:56,280 Speaker 4: EIGHTY six. 706 00:36:57,679 --> 00:37:04,840 Speaker 1: I got ten, points? Though? Right? Five? FIVE right I 707 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:06,880 know i got this. ONE wrong i know IT is 708 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,199 i this is Probably. LYMP biscuit i wrote Down. Kid 709 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,920 rock It's. NOT lympbiscuit i wrote down. 710 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:12,119 Speaker 6: Kid. 711 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,320 Speaker 1: Rock come let's not kid. 712 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:15,199 Speaker 3: Rock either come? 713 00:37:15,559 --> 00:37:17,239 Speaker 1: With it would? 714 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:20,519 Speaker 4: YOU have i Had corn hacket full. Of. 715 00:37:20,599 --> 00:37:26,320 Speaker 2: Faith negative this is bulls on Parade from rage Against? 716 00:37:26,559 --> 00:37:27,199 Speaker 3: The machine? 717 00:37:27,519 --> 00:37:28,199 Speaker 1: WHAT year? I said? 718 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,800 Speaker 2: Ninety nine nineteen, Ninety, SIX oh i had. Ninety, Seven 719 00:37:33,039 --> 00:37:33,840 okay i've scored. 720 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:34,599 Speaker 1: Ten point. 721 00:37:36,599 --> 00:37:38,760 Speaker 4: I'm, at thirty but we still have a lot. 722 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:43,280 Speaker 1: To go it. DOESN'T matter, I Said Google Dolls better 723 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:44,639 days nineteen, Ninety Eight. 724 00:37:45,039 --> 00:37:47,320 Speaker 4: Google Dolls better days, Ninety Five. 725 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,760 Speaker 3: Goo Dolls better days from two thousand. 726 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:55,719 Speaker 1: And, six, wow Hey now i'm a twenty years right. 727 00:37:55,840 --> 00:38:00,880 About now Funk, soul brother now Funk. 728 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:02,239 Speaker 4: SOUL brother I Had Funk. 729 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,239 Speaker 1: Soul brother it is Not Funk, soul brother, all right 730 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:06,199 THAT'S what i, WROTE too. 731 00:38:07,079 --> 00:38:09,320 Speaker 4: I wrote i wrote two thousand. And one and if 732 00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:10,480 the Movie Is she's, all. 733 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:12,239 Speaker 1: That that's who's. The artist. 734 00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:17,199 Speaker 2: No idea it Is Fat boy Slims The rockefeller stink 735 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:18,079 from nineteen. 736 00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 4: NINETY eight i. 737 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:23,800 Speaker 1: Got nothing. All right this is the ONE where, I 738 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,280 go i'm drawing. A blank WHY can't i call up with? 739 00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:30,440 The pan THIS is I Wrote Gwen, stefani spiderwebs nineteen. 740 00:38:30,559 --> 00:38:33,920 Speaker 2: Ninety eight It Is, gwen stefani but it is Not 741 00:38:34,159 --> 00:38:38,480 one stefani Alone yet it is, no, DOUBT right i wrote, 742 00:38:38,559 --> 00:38:41,119 ninety seven nineteen. Ninety FIVE. 743 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,840 Speaker 1: It's i get five points. For that So now i'm at. Twenty, 744 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,880 FIVE shit i got spanked on. THIS one. 745 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:56,119 Speaker 4: I had no idea THE name i wrote, me good 746 00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:56,599 it's just. 747 00:38:57,159 --> 00:39:01,199 Speaker 1: TWO thousand i wrote nineteen seven nine two one Oh. 748 00:39:01,559 --> 00:39:05,320 Speaker 2: Summer summer This is Hollywood From collective soul in two thousand, 749 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,880 and seven Featured an american idol for, a season and 750 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:10,440 they're sitting all the Players. 751 00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,599 Speaker 1: To, HOLLYWOOD well i got. FUCKING spanked i got, FIFTY 752 00:39:14,079 --> 00:39:16,960 spanked i got, TWENTY five i got calf, Your, Score, 753 00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,239 fuck kevin what do you? GET it i guess it 754 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,480 just shows my old boy am. Fuck MAYBE and i 755 00:39:24,559 --> 00:39:26,920 know all, THESE songs i just don't know THEM like 756 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,360 i don't. Know, them, no no listen to. 757 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,239 Speaker 3: My music we should listen To Damn. 758 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,920 Speaker 4: John Mayer, Oh God john mayer, Is great. 759 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,599 Speaker 1: THANK you i Listened To john mayer channel all. The, 760 00:39:36,639 --> 00:39:38,519 time actually once in A while i'll even Listen To. 761 00:39:38,679 --> 00:39:47,719 Chill pill it's like an. Eighties Balanced it's i'm stuck in. 762 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,679 My age WHAT am i? Gonna do? All, right uh 763 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:52,679 we're all excited for. Your party by, THE way. 764 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 4: I Hope so i'm excited for. My, party yeah this. 765 00:39:56,119 --> 00:39:56,440 Speaker 1: IS good i. 766 00:39:56,519 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 4: TOLD that i told the girl who's doing my cake 767 00:39:58,519 --> 00:40:00,400 to he. FREE range i, was like. 768 00:40:00,639 --> 00:40:03,760 Speaker 1: Free, range yeah who's making your cake? 769 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,960 Speaker 4: Get caked her Name Is. Kelly scott i've known her 770 00:40:08,039 --> 00:40:09,000 for years. 771 00:40:10,559 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 3: Or woman like. 772 00:40:12,079 --> 00:40:17,360 Speaker 1: The, Fools NO but i was, just like family's going to. 773 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:17,480 Speaker 5: Be. 774 00:40:17,519 --> 00:40:20,239 Speaker 4: THERE yeah i, Was, like kelly like you KNOW who, 775 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,880 i am just her. A budget we. 776 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 3: Met, her brother we met. 777 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:28,760 Speaker 4: Her aunt, i'm like just making me, a cake JUST 778 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:29,360 like i, got you. 779 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:34,400 Speaker 1: MABE meat. A cake. Sounds good very excited for That 780 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:38,360 for kevin's. Very excited i'm excited to. TURN forty i 781 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,760 don't know really why most people shy away from the 782 00:40:42,159 --> 00:40:44,480 those years they get a. LITTLE nervous i think like just. 783 00:40:44,559 --> 00:40:46,920 Speaker 4: The start of a new Decade where i'm feeling so 784 00:40:47,199 --> 00:40:50,159 like confident myself And where i'm at. In life, you 785 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:54,760 know the first half of the thirties was having, Two 786 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,440 kids like, YOU know i had my first RATE when 787 00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,119 i turned thirty and my second at, thirty one and 788 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,719 it was raising. Two kids and then the last five 789 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,800 years have been going through, a divorce like getting my 790 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:10,360 life back on track and, you know a lot of learning. 791 00:41:10,519 --> 00:41:12,360 And everything so not. 792 00:41:12,519 --> 00:41:15,719 Speaker 1: To, belabor things but talk to me about the getting 793 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,960 your life back, on track because that IS something i 794 00:41:19,039 --> 00:41:21,679 even find myself saying, A LOT like i Feel like 795 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:26,239 i've it's just Been like i'm tumbling down a hill 796 00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,239 at TIMES and i, can't stop you KNOW what. I 797 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,719 mean it's like. THE momentum i always think like if 798 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,880 you get out in front, of things like if you 799 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,440 put a car at the top of, A hill i 800 00:41:35,519 --> 00:41:37,719 could stop it if it started Rolling and i'm at 801 00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:39,519 the top of, The hill i'm at the bottom of. 802 00:41:39,559 --> 00:41:41,599 The hill i'm gonna get fucking, run, over yeah or 803 00:41:41,639 --> 00:41:42,000 get out of. 804 00:41:42,039 --> 00:41:42,280 Speaker 3: THE way. 805 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:45,599 Speaker 4: I think there's just like so much things when you 806 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:50,239 go through a divorce there in, any partnership in, a 807 00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:52,920 marriage some men take care of, some things women take 808 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,400 care of the. Other things it was like learning all 809 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:59,000 the things that my axe took care of like that 810 00:41:59,559 --> 00:42:02,320 then meeke on me and it was just like a lot, 811 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:07,239 more adulting and it was just STUFF that i hadn't 812 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:10,079 ever really had to take, care of like the housework 813 00:42:10,199 --> 00:42:13,480 and like, you know getting shit like calling to have my, 814 00:42:13,599 --> 00:42:16,159 Driveway sealed like he would always make those calls things. 815 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:21,400 Like that, you know finance is just running like schedule. 816 00:42:21,519 --> 00:42:23,960 Speaker 1: Your, business yeah did you start the business prior, to, 817 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:25,519 yeah okay yeah while you. Were. 818 00:42:25,559 --> 00:42:29,079 Speaker 4: MARRIED yeah i had DONE what i do like for, 819 00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,400 ten years BUT then i had turned it into like 820 00:42:32,599 --> 00:42:35,079 THE whole llc and everything while we were. Still together 821 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,199 but it was it was a lot of, you know 822 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:41,519 and he was, in finance so he handled all all. 823 00:42:41,639 --> 00:42:45,119 Financial STUFF like i never had like payment go right. 824 00:42:45,199 --> 00:42:47,880 To me it went to like our direct account together. 825 00:42:48,159 --> 00:42:51,760 And stuff so it was learning that sort of learning. 826 00:42:52,559 --> 00:42:54,639 Scary budget, oh god. 827 00:42:54,559 --> 00:42:54,880 Speaker 6: It was so. 828 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,039 Speaker 1: Scary, budget yeah it was. 829 00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,199 Speaker 4: So scary and it's still things. That, is like, you 830 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,960 know when our divorce, GOT finalized i got kicked, off 831 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,599 healthcare like having to try and figure out healthcare like 832 00:43:06,199 --> 00:43:09,119 just shit. Like that like it was just it was. 833 00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:12,719 Really tough and it was funny because one of my 834 00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,039 other friends turns forty a few days, before me and she, 835 00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:16,679 was saying, SHE'S like I think i'm gonna go get 836 00:43:16,679 --> 00:43:19,280 a tattooed. This weekend i'm like having this mid. LIFE 837 00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:22,079 crisis i, was like my midlife crisis was from like 838 00:43:22,199 --> 00:43:27,199 thirty six to, thirty eight, you Know because, AT first 839 00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,119 i just FELT like i had that freedom from my 840 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,440 EX that i just wanted to go have fun and 841 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:36,039 like go travel and everything and just not worry about all. 842 00:43:36,079 --> 00:43:37,920 That stuff and then it, was, like, okay TIME like 843 00:43:38,079 --> 00:43:40,960 i have TO like i have, TO plan i have 844 00:43:41,079 --> 00:43:42,519 to pay them out of, MY house i have to 845 00:43:42,599 --> 00:43:45,800 do all these things LIKE that i need to like 846 00:43:46,159 --> 00:43:50,599 fully be aware of. And stuff but so it's been 847 00:43:50,639 --> 00:43:53,159 more of a learning the balance Of getting so. 848 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 1: Is this like you're coming out party like fully a? 849 00:43:59,559 --> 00:44:00,880 Fully fully. 850 00:44:03,079 --> 00:44:06,679 Speaker 4: LIKE what i want is like Everyone that i'm inviting brings, 851 00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:10,199 me HAPPINESS and i just LIKE want i. 852 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:11,599 Speaker 1: DON'T know i was just gonna ask. 853 00:44:12,039 --> 00:44:15,519 Speaker 4: Funny because, last night oh, last, Night no I'M like 854 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:20,960 i started scribbling People watching we're watching basketball with, the 855 00:44:21,039 --> 00:44:23,039 Kids and i'm looking at my phone and, just Laughing 856 00:44:23,199 --> 00:44:26,239 and joe literally goes that Bell or cavin, Texting YEAH 857 00:44:26,519 --> 00:44:28,079 and i was, Like why, he's like because those are 858 00:44:28,159 --> 00:44:31,920 your two. Funny FRIES like i laughed, out loud and 859 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,159 then he said only, One friend danielle is the funniest. 860 00:44:34,159 --> 00:44:38,159 Female friend but like it's JUST like i just wanted 861 00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,519 to be like such a happy ENVIRONMENT and i ACTUALLY think, 862 00:44:40,559 --> 00:44:43,679 i like surround myself with such, good People and i've 863 00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:45,800 cut off ties with people who bring me down or 864 00:44:46,039 --> 00:44:52,119 are just those negative. ENERGY people i think everyone there 865 00:44:52,199 --> 00:44:56,559 will just mhm. Be great like there's a few people 866 00:44:56,599 --> 00:44:59,239 THERE who i don't really love, too MUCH but i 867 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:04,440 have to have have, them THERE and i Will literally 868 00:45:04,639 --> 00:45:06,840 i'll point one out person Out. To kevin i'll, be, 869 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:07,880 like go bully. 870 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,320 Speaker 1: This, BITCH really i. 871 00:45:10,519 --> 00:45:13,719 Speaker 3: Like that i'll Bully a i'll Listen. 872 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:17,159 Speaker 1: To kevin kevin is. A bully, We did we've established 873 00:45:17,199 --> 00:45:17,559 that he's the. 874 00:45:17,599 --> 00:45:19,599 Speaker 3: Neighborhood bully she drink a. 875 00:45:19,679 --> 00:45:20,239 Speaker 1: Good way. 876 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,320 Speaker 2: I'll Drinking. 877 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,639 Speaker 1: For laura's getting ready to forty is this is gonna. 878 00:45:27,639 --> 00:45:29,960 Be great you're don't have to. Have pictures get him on. 879 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:35,400 The Website I'm. Bill moran we'll see. You, tomorrow damn 880 00:45:35,519 --> 00:45:38,400 didn't know what. To do i'm TURNING a tv rule 881 00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:42,639 a letter. To you. In, estate 882 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,480 Speaker 4: See they were looking borrow a candle Back with tennessee