WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.120 --> 00:00:02.799 For thirty five years, Cindy Stumpo has been a female 2 00:00:02.839 --> 00:00:06.280 homebuilder with a passion for design, a mastery of detail, 3 00:00:06.360 --> 00:00:09.160 and a commitment to her crack. With daughter Samantha Stumpo 4 00:00:09.240 --> 00:00:09.960 by her side, I. 5 00:00:09.919 --> 00:00:11.439 Don't need my whole family and I date with me. 6 00:00:11.560 --> 00:00:12.240 That's a good note. 7 00:00:12.320 --> 00:00:13.519 It's God themn weird see. 8 00:00:13.519 --> 00:00:17.199 Stumpo Development is the only second generation female construction company 9 00:00:17.239 --> 00:00:21.320 in the country. You're crazy, You're a wacko, You're insanely 10 00:00:21.920 --> 00:00:24.359 I mean, it just doesn't end together. Cindy and Samantha 11 00:00:24.480 --> 00:00:28.399 welcome guests to explore the world of construction, real estate, development, 12 00:00:28.719 --> 00:00:29.839 design and more. 13 00:00:29.879 --> 00:00:30.519 I'm predictable. 14 00:00:30.559 --> 00:00:32.119 Every time I think I know what you want, you 15 00:00:32.200 --> 00:00:32.759 just switch it out. 16 00:00:32.840 --> 00:00:33.600 But that's what makes. 17 00:00:33.479 --> 00:00:36.359 Your houses all your day. Discuss anything that happens between 18 00:00:36.359 --> 00:00:39.039 the roof and the foundation. Nothing is off limits. You 19 00:00:39.159 --> 00:00:41.679 truly do care about everybody. She can yell at chicken scream, 20 00:00:41.719 --> 00:00:43.880 but when you get her alone, she's the best person 21 00:00:43.920 --> 00:00:56.240 on the planet. Cindy Stumpo is tough as nails. 22 00:00:51.280 --> 00:00:54.799 Toughest nails on WBS News Radio ten thirty and tonight. 23 00:00:54.840 --> 00:00:58.679 This is great because my biggest thing in life is astrology, right, yeah, 24 00:00:58.719 --> 00:01:00.759 and I have a fong astrology. And then my daughter 25 00:01:00.920 --> 00:01:05.079 Samantha stumble that's in the studio. I'm sorry, introduce yourself. Hi, 26 00:01:05.120 --> 00:01:06.120 I'm Laura Compaa. 27 00:01:06.239 --> 00:01:06.760 Okay, Laura. 28 00:01:07.280 --> 00:01:09.079 So the first thing I've kind of do, Laura in 29 00:01:09.079 --> 00:01:13.319 a conversation with clients or anybody, we both did. Well. 30 00:01:13.359 --> 00:01:15.239 You learned it from me because I came first, okay, 31 00:01:15.560 --> 00:01:17.040 and then you took it to a whole nother level. 32 00:01:17.719 --> 00:01:19.760 You know, people born the time the day that this 33 00:01:19.879 --> 00:01:22.640 the bu bu bu. Anyways, the minute I know what 34 00:01:22.680 --> 00:01:24.719 your sign is, I know how I'm going to deal 35 00:01:24.719 --> 00:01:27.239 with you in business, that's right, okay, Yeah, and then 36 00:01:27.280 --> 00:01:29.400 I know if I'm sitting there with a couple and 37 00:01:29.439 --> 00:01:31.640 she might be cancer and he's a Gemini or a Capra, 38 00:01:31.920 --> 00:01:34.640 I know how to handle that client. You want to 39 00:01:34.680 --> 00:01:38.040 be a really good business person, learn people, learn the science. 40 00:01:38.560 --> 00:01:41.400 It will help you. I'm not saying everybody is the same, right, 41 00:01:41.879 --> 00:01:44.400 but it's made me a better business woman because I 42 00:01:44.439 --> 00:01:46.879 can I know how to handle your personality. Yeah, I 43 00:01:46.920 --> 00:01:48.920 know how you're going to come at me. I know 44 00:01:48.959 --> 00:01:51.519 how you're going to deliver, and I know how to 45 00:01:51.599 --> 00:01:54.239 keep your attention and I know if you're a Gemini, 46 00:01:54.280 --> 00:01:57.920 I want to lose you that I'll deliver fast and knowledgeable, 47 00:01:58.120 --> 00:02:01.280 right boom boom boom. So you know the cancer I know, 48 00:02:01.359 --> 00:02:04.439 I got to be more empathetic with. So it really 49 00:02:04.480 --> 00:02:07.319 does help you people in business, right, and even dealing 50 00:02:07.359 --> 00:02:10.400 with your children. So that's it. That's why I'm opening 51 00:02:10.439 --> 00:02:14.000 my show. So tonight's show is what's your sign? You 52 00:02:14.039 --> 00:02:14.400 take it? 53 00:02:14.439 --> 00:02:15.919 I gave her my chart and yours. 54 00:02:16.080 --> 00:02:17.599 Oh you already gave her our shots? 55 00:02:18.360 --> 00:02:18.479 Right? 56 00:02:19.199 --> 00:02:22.120 What does that mean? Okay, she just stuck rushing in 57 00:02:22.120 --> 00:02:24.319 my face. Am I supposed to be able to read this? 58 00:02:24.400 --> 00:02:26.280 You are not supposed to be able to read your art. 59 00:02:26.360 --> 00:02:31.000 That's what we have astrologers for perfect. I love that 60 00:02:31.400 --> 00:02:34.719 you have been intuitively using astrology for your own career, 61 00:02:34.840 --> 00:02:38.840 because that is a life hack that you just instinctively 62 00:02:39.400 --> 00:02:42.159 knew to access. And we would say that's because you're 63 00:02:42.240 --> 00:02:43.520 a Sagittarius rising. 64 00:02:44.879 --> 00:02:46.080 So I'm writing all this stuff down. 65 00:02:46.240 --> 00:02:49.199 Yeah, there's so much more to astrology than just your 66 00:02:49.240 --> 00:02:51.639 sun sign. But as you're saying, your sun sign can 67 00:02:51.719 --> 00:02:55.520 get you so much information about people. But we have 68 00:02:55.560 --> 00:02:58.800 an astrological identity that's based not just on where the 69 00:02:58.879 --> 00:03:01.199 sun was when you were born, but also your moon 70 00:03:01.879 --> 00:03:05.680 and the position of the ascendant, which is the horizon line, 71 00:03:06.120 --> 00:03:09.360 So which planet was rising over the horizon when you 72 00:03:09.400 --> 00:03:13.479 were born incredibly important. And you are not just a 73 00:03:13.560 --> 00:03:17.680 cancer sun. You are a double sagittarius. You are Sagittarius 74 00:03:18.000 --> 00:03:22.919 moon and rising, which means that you have a philosophical nature. 75 00:03:23.039 --> 00:03:28.039 You are adventure some there is, but you are with work, right, 76 00:03:28.080 --> 00:03:31.159 So there's a desire to ask the big questions. And 77 00:03:31.280 --> 00:03:35.280 astrology is an ancient language that helps us answer the 78 00:03:35.360 --> 00:03:36.120 questions of. 79 00:03:37.199 --> 00:03:38.080 Every day in business. 80 00:03:38.439 --> 00:03:38.879 What's up? 81 00:03:38.919 --> 00:03:40.560 You take adventurous risks every day in. 82 00:03:40.560 --> 00:03:43.280 Business, but that doesn't see adventures to me is somebody 83 00:03:43.319 --> 00:03:44.840 that gets out of plane and it goes to China 84 00:03:44.840 --> 00:03:46.439 and goes to India and goes to Italy. 85 00:03:46.560 --> 00:03:48.520 That's your version. That's your version of what you think 86 00:03:48.520 --> 00:03:50.680 adventures is. But every day you gamble up there, that's 87 00:03:50.680 --> 00:03:51.360 adventure for you. 88 00:03:51.919 --> 00:03:54.039 Oh, Sagittarius is a gambling sign. 89 00:03:54.599 --> 00:03:58.759 Oh you think I just explained somebody in this family? Okay, 90 00:03:58.759 --> 00:03:59.960 go ahead, not me, by the way we go. 91 00:04:00.360 --> 00:04:00.680 Yeah. 92 00:04:00.800 --> 00:04:05.199 So, and Sagittarius is connected with knowledge, and astrology helps 93 00:04:05.280 --> 00:04:10.000 us to just unlock our own essential identity and understand 94 00:04:10.439 --> 00:04:13.759 core motivations. Like you're saying how to relate to people, 95 00:04:13.919 --> 00:04:17.120 You're going to relate so differently versus a Gemini than 96 00:04:17.120 --> 00:04:19.920 a Capricorn. And you actually have a ton of Gemini 97 00:04:20.000 --> 00:04:21.519 placements in your chart. 98 00:04:21.639 --> 00:04:22.199 What's that mean? 99 00:04:22.600 --> 00:04:27.879 You have Mars, Mercury, and Venus all in Gemini in 100 00:04:27.920 --> 00:04:30.680 your seventh house of marriage, which means that you have 101 00:04:30.720 --> 00:04:37.040 an orientation towards talking, connecting, asking questions. Sagittarius is the 102 00:04:37.079 --> 00:04:39.959 teacher who says, Okay, why do you think this is? 103 00:04:40.000 --> 00:04:42.480 And Gemini is the student that is so excited to 104 00:04:42.639 --> 00:04:45.959 offer an answer. So you have this natural affinity to 105 00:04:46.079 --> 00:04:47.240 question and answer. 106 00:04:47.360 --> 00:04:47.720 That's all. 107 00:04:47.959 --> 00:04:50.199 That's all you ever did with Papa why you're a great? 108 00:04:50.360 --> 00:04:53.560 So as a kid, if I would ask, okay, why 109 00:04:53.639 --> 00:04:56.079 is the moon round? Uh huh, they'd be twenty more 110 00:04:56.160 --> 00:04:59.560 questions of the moon after to the point where he'd say, 111 00:04:59.600 --> 00:05:01.920 to my mother, can something make her go to sleep now? 112 00:05:02.519 --> 00:05:05.040 So that's the Gemini that we have to know that's very. 113 00:05:04.959 --> 00:05:09.240 Inquisitive, very inquisitive, and also has an affinity for talking 114 00:05:09.279 --> 00:05:12.439 to people. Gemini is kind of like strangers are just friends. 115 00:05:12.480 --> 00:05:15.519 I haven't met yet, and you know, you talk to people. 116 00:05:16.000 --> 00:05:18.920 You sound like my fiance rays very black and white gemini. 117 00:05:18.959 --> 00:05:20.040 Not only a Gemini. 118 00:05:20.240 --> 00:05:20.600 I don't know what. 119 00:05:20.879 --> 00:05:22.360 Your fiance is actually a Gemini. 120 00:05:22.480 --> 00:05:24.079 Yeah, and so is my so is her dad. 121 00:05:24.399 --> 00:05:26.759 But my dad's a very different Gemini's. 122 00:05:27.480 --> 00:05:27.959 That's like a. 123 00:05:27.920 --> 00:05:29.879 Perfect match for you. That's wonderful. 124 00:05:30.240 --> 00:05:32.279 Wait, a Gemini is a perfect match for me. Yeah, 125 00:05:32.399 --> 00:05:33.839 because that's possible. 126 00:05:33.519 --> 00:05:37.680 Because a you, you're as a Gemini. Yes, my mom 127 00:05:37.759 --> 00:05:40.759 is a Gemini. A hugga cancer, Yes, we hug, we 128 00:05:40.839 --> 00:05:41.800 hug you do. 129 00:05:42.120 --> 00:05:43.399 Papa hugs different than right. 130 00:05:43.959 --> 00:05:46.720 Papa is a warm too, because they're not the exact 131 00:05:46.800 --> 00:05:49.040 all three side. Okay, well, most I know they pet 132 00:05:49.040 --> 00:05:50.399 you in the back like this when they hug you. 133 00:05:50.439 --> 00:05:51.240 Because they're Yeah. 134 00:05:51.319 --> 00:05:53.720 Some you know, the air sign can be a little 135 00:05:53.759 --> 00:05:55.839 bit more aloof and detached, but it depends on where 136 00:05:55.879 --> 00:05:59.360 your moon is. And your moon is right on your ascendant, 137 00:05:59.399 --> 00:06:01.959 which means you're leading with a lot of heart, a 138 00:06:01.959 --> 00:06:05.720 lot of warmth, and a lot of heart, compassion and empathy. 139 00:06:05.759 --> 00:06:08.439 Even though it's kind of a fiery moon. Sagittarius is 140 00:06:09.040 --> 00:06:12.680 you know the little sparkles in the sky that likes 141 00:06:12.680 --> 00:06:15.800 to dance and play. So even though you're a cancer 142 00:06:15.920 --> 00:06:19.040 very watery, you have a ton of fire and air 143 00:06:19.199 --> 00:06:21.240 in your chart, and that's going to give you a 144 00:06:21.279 --> 00:06:24.800 lot of spirit and passion and capacity to connect with 145 00:06:24.839 --> 00:06:28.040 people through words and communication. 146 00:06:28.240 --> 00:06:31.600 Okay, so a Gemini is a good sign to have 147 00:06:31.639 --> 00:06:33.839 with a cancer, even though it's so completely different. 148 00:06:34.000 --> 00:06:37.480 A Gemini is a good match for a Sagittarius rising, 149 00:06:37.920 --> 00:06:42.199 especially if you have venus in Gemini, which means that's 150 00:06:42.240 --> 00:06:45.319 your love language. They're going to know how to talk 151 00:06:45.360 --> 00:06:46.639 to you in a way. 152 00:06:46.639 --> 00:06:49.199 They No, he doesn't like he doesn't know how to 153 00:06:49.199 --> 00:06:51.519 talk to me. Now we have different love language. Like 154 00:06:51.600 --> 00:06:54.279 words have meaning to him, right, words have meaning to me. 155 00:06:54.519 --> 00:06:55.519 Action has meaning to me. 156 00:06:55.920 --> 00:07:00.720 Well, Gemini is going to feel your warmth and your love, 157 00:07:00.800 --> 00:07:03.759 whether you're feeling their love and their warmth. Back and 158 00:07:03.800 --> 00:07:07.399 communication is an important part of your love language. So hypothetically, 159 00:07:07.720 --> 00:07:09.959 Gemini should be able to meet you where you want 160 00:07:09.959 --> 00:07:12.639 to be met. Whether this particular Gemini does, we would. 161 00:07:12.399 --> 00:07:14.959 Have well, Geminis have this thing. I don't know why, 162 00:07:15.319 --> 00:07:18.199 everything's great and wonderful, not just right by the way, 163 00:07:18.240 --> 00:07:21.000 And then like four hours later they could go the 164 00:07:21.040 --> 00:07:24.720 world sucks like yeah, but they have two personalities. I 165 00:07:24.720 --> 00:07:28.000 get yeahs one you like and the other one you 166 00:07:28.079 --> 00:07:29.560 go like this, are you need to go away now? 167 00:07:29.639 --> 00:07:31.920 Like always say the way Richard go Now we don't 168 00:07:32.000 --> 00:07:34.560 like you anymore, bring way back. I don't know, like 169 00:07:34.720 --> 00:07:38.720 we have different like words have meaning to him, words 170 00:07:38.759 --> 00:07:40.439 have no meaning to be Like if you say, Sydney, 171 00:07:40.560 --> 00:07:43.839 go up yourself, okay, but blap buh buha, it's over 172 00:07:43.959 --> 00:07:45.879 five minutes. I remember when we first dited getting thirteen 173 00:07:45.920 --> 00:07:48.000 years ago. We had a fight and I said, okay, 174 00:07:48.040 --> 00:07:50.399 want to go for dinner. He goes, what, Like I'm 175 00:07:50.439 --> 00:07:51.920 so mad. I'm going We'll get over it. Like what 176 00:07:51.920 --> 00:07:52.519 are you mad about? 177 00:07:52.560 --> 00:07:57.040 Like, yeah, that's you. You can move on. You have 178 00:07:57.120 --> 00:07:59.920 the kind of a nature that is like onto. The 179 00:08:00.040 --> 00:08:03.199 next one is that it Yeah, And so you know, 180 00:08:03.279 --> 00:08:05.920 Sagittarius is the centire that likes to shoot its arrow 181 00:08:06.000 --> 00:08:06.920 and like keep it moving. 182 00:08:07.680 --> 00:08:11.519 So some sad just on fighters by nature. And then 183 00:08:11.519 --> 00:08:13.439 when the house blows up and they blow up like 184 00:08:13.439 --> 00:08:15.399 three four times ga and the roof comes off the house, 185 00:08:15.480 --> 00:08:17.680 Like that's not how I thought they were. 186 00:08:17.839 --> 00:08:22.439 Well, they can be big optimists or big pessimist depending 187 00:08:22.560 --> 00:08:24.920 on if they're on a winning streak or a losing streak, 188 00:08:24.920 --> 00:08:26.600 but they kind of always tend to think that. 189 00:08:26.560 --> 00:08:27.240 They're going to win. 190 00:08:28.199 --> 00:08:30.920 So you know, it's something of this family that we 191 00:08:31.519 --> 00:08:32.840 all know. Okay, go ahead, I'm listening. 192 00:08:32.919 --> 00:08:36.600 Yeah, but you know, both Gemini and Sagittarius are mutable signs. 193 00:08:36.639 --> 00:08:38.759 They like to move in two directions at once and 194 00:08:38.879 --> 00:08:42.240 dance with possibility. So Sage doesn't want to get pinned 195 00:08:42.279 --> 00:08:43.039 down too much. 196 00:08:43.440 --> 00:08:47.120 Don't don't just ignore him. He does things. Yeah, I 197 00:08:47.159 --> 00:08:48.919 told him, don't stick the clock in my face with 198 00:08:49.120 --> 00:08:50.679 ten seconds out, but no, he's going to come into 199 00:08:50.679 --> 00:08:52.879 fully something seconds yeah, and then mess my brain up 200 00:08:52.879 --> 00:08:54.519 and then I just lost ten seconds of my life. 201 00:08:54.559 --> 00:08:57.240 I'm not getting back on radio. So okay, that's what 202 00:08:57.320 --> 00:08:58.159 that's all about. 203 00:08:58.600 --> 00:08:58.960 Yeah. 204 00:08:59.120 --> 00:09:01.519 So so just to say that your sun sign is 205 00:09:01.559 --> 00:09:05.320 so important, but your moon and your ascendant add essential. 206 00:09:05.039 --> 00:09:07.360 Clues to what's going to give you a happy life. 207 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:08.679 So they're all important, really. 208 00:09:09.399 --> 00:09:13.080 Yeah, And when you study astrology, you figure out why 209 00:09:13.120 --> 00:09:14.279 you have certain orientation. 210 00:09:14.360 --> 00:09:15.919 All right, we got to go to break come back 211 00:09:15.960 --> 00:09:17.960 back from sunny stumple and you listen to toughest nails and 212 00:09:18.080 --> 00:09:18.919 WBC News. 213 00:09:18.799 --> 00:09:21.960 Radio ten thirty sponsored by Floor in Decor, National Lumber, 214 00:09:21.960 --> 00:09:22.879 and Village. 215 00:09:22.519 --> 00:09:36.679 Bank of Times in Twitters aff. 216 00:09:40.399 --> 00:09:43.000 And welcome back to Toughest Nails on WBZ News Radio 217 00:09:43.000 --> 00:09:45.440 ten thirty. And I'm Cindy and I'm here with Sammy, 218 00:09:45.639 --> 00:09:50.120 and I'm here with Laura and I'm getting the reading here. Okay, 219 00:09:50.240 --> 00:09:54.879 that's right. So what's the sign that makes me? 220 00:09:56.799 --> 00:09:58.799 What's the word she's supposed to tell you about you? 221 00:09:59.120 --> 00:09:59.519 Oh? 222 00:09:59.600 --> 00:10:01.159 Okay, Oh shut up. 223 00:10:02.240 --> 00:10:07.320 Well, everyone has different areas where they're naturally inclined and 224 00:10:07.480 --> 00:10:09.879 things that are going to come easier, and then periods 225 00:10:09.919 --> 00:10:12.480 and challenges in life, times that will be a little 226 00:10:12.519 --> 00:10:18.759 bit more difficult. And there's big periods that kind of define. 227 00:10:18.480 --> 00:10:20.360 Thirty years, like your Saturn return. 228 00:10:20.600 --> 00:10:21.039 That's right. 229 00:10:21.159 --> 00:10:24.559 So as you might know, your mom is in her 230 00:10:24.639 --> 00:10:25.960 second Saturn return. 231 00:10:26.159 --> 00:10:29.679 What does that mean? So Saturn return is dying? 232 00:10:30.039 --> 00:10:33.080 No, it is. 233 00:10:33.399 --> 00:10:33.519 Uh. 234 00:10:33.639 --> 00:10:36.519 It reminds me of the word of Satan. Okay, Saturn, 235 00:10:36.720 --> 00:10:37.879 I don't care too much, you'll like it. 236 00:10:37.960 --> 00:10:41.720 It's where Saturday is thirty thirty years, sixty years, nine years. 237 00:10:41.559 --> 00:10:42.279 Of where you were born. 238 00:10:43.440 --> 00:10:45.440 A lot of kids die between those years. 239 00:10:45.600 --> 00:10:47.960 I told you that that's your first Saturn return, that's right. 240 00:10:48.080 --> 00:10:50.799 And so if you are living in a way that 241 00:10:51.080 --> 00:10:53.799 is kind of immature. We have the twenty seven club 242 00:10:53.840 --> 00:10:57.200 in our society, all the celebrities who you know, rip 243 00:10:57.559 --> 00:11:02.000 Amy Winehouse and Heath Ledger and James Dean, Jimi Hendrix. 244 00:11:02.039 --> 00:11:05.399 You know, Saturn brings you the consequences of your actions 245 00:11:05.440 --> 00:11:07.600 because it wants to grow us up and help us 246 00:11:07.639 --> 00:11:12.600 to become the mature people contributing, giving back to our 247 00:11:12.639 --> 00:11:16.879 families and our society. And so around twenty eight Saturn says, okay, 248 00:11:17.480 --> 00:11:20.240 shows over time to be an adult and puts us 249 00:11:20.240 --> 00:11:23.919 through three years of tests and challenges that on the 250 00:11:23.960 --> 00:11:27.399 other side, you're in what's called before that you're in 251 00:11:27.440 --> 00:11:29.720 the age of youth, and then from thirty to sixty 252 00:11:29.759 --> 00:11:32.000 you're in the age of maturity. O. 253 00:11:32.039 --> 00:11:34.320 Great, How long is this thing staying anything? It needs 254 00:11:34.360 --> 00:11:34.799 to move on. 255 00:11:34.879 --> 00:11:35.799 Everyone's a little different. 256 00:11:35.919 --> 00:11:37.039 Yeah, you've got it going. 257 00:11:37.360 --> 00:11:39.840 It started last March, your second Saturn return, and it 258 00:11:39.879 --> 00:11:41.759 will end March twenty twenty six. 259 00:11:42.159 --> 00:11:44.960 So just a little bit longer twenty twenty six. Yes, 260 00:11:45.000 --> 00:11:48.279 but this is the time for you four right too? 261 00:11:48.320 --> 00:11:48.879 What is this? 262 00:11:49.000 --> 00:11:49.519 Yeah? 263 00:11:49.559 --> 00:11:51.480 And what does this have to why, what does it 264 00:11:51.519 --> 00:11:51.919 want for me? 265 00:11:52.159 --> 00:11:55.480 It wants you to think about for your legacy and 266 00:11:55.600 --> 00:11:58.440 to feel proud of your accomplishments. To look back at 267 00:11:58.519 --> 00:12:01.080 the last thirty years of your life, think about everything 268 00:12:01.159 --> 00:12:04.279 you've done, how amazing it is, everything that you've built. 269 00:12:04.360 --> 00:12:05.360 And then also think. 270 00:12:05.200 --> 00:12:09.480 About, Okay, what do I want the next trimester of 271 00:12:09.519 --> 00:12:10.200 my life to be? 272 00:12:12.519 --> 00:12:15.240 Well, if you want to live past ninety, that's great. 273 00:12:15.679 --> 00:12:16.360 No, I don't. 274 00:12:17.240 --> 00:12:19.320 Astrology kind of hops off after that. 275 00:12:19.320 --> 00:12:22.720 Sailey said, when I'm in satin return, yeah or whatever 276 00:12:22.720 --> 00:12:25.399 this thing is, huh, bad things can happen too. 277 00:12:25.960 --> 00:12:28.159 It is a time that wants you to restructure your 278 00:12:28.159 --> 00:12:30.240 life in a particular way. And the second sound in 279 00:12:30.279 --> 00:12:33.519 return can ask us to make health choices that sometimes 280 00:12:33.600 --> 00:12:36.799 are difficult. But you you know, you've got a healthy dinner. 281 00:12:36.840 --> 00:12:43.840 That's great. Smoking but uh, I'm a saying I'm a 282 00:12:43.840 --> 00:12:45.159 part time drinker again. 283 00:12:45.519 --> 00:12:46.360 I only smoke a night. 284 00:12:46.399 --> 00:12:47.240 I only drink at night. 285 00:12:48.320 --> 00:12:49.200 I don't smoke all day. 286 00:12:49.559 --> 00:12:50.639 I don't actually drink. 287 00:12:50.799 --> 00:12:52.759 Really, I've never drink in my life. 288 00:12:52.840 --> 00:12:54.120 Okay, but the smoking's worse. 289 00:12:54.919 --> 00:12:56.679 Well, you gotta do something that fine, I don't care. 290 00:12:57.240 --> 00:12:57.799 That's my fun. 291 00:12:57.879 --> 00:12:59.360 You do have to do something, have fun. 292 00:13:00.240 --> 00:13:01.200 Yeah, I work too hard? 293 00:13:01.480 --> 00:13:01.919 Right right? 294 00:13:01.960 --> 00:13:06.399 So Saturn right now is asking you, what's your game plan? 295 00:13:06.759 --> 00:13:10.200 How much longer do you want to work? And maybe 296 00:13:10.200 --> 00:13:13.200 want to work forever? But what does balance? 297 00:13:13.240 --> 00:13:13.639 He feel? 298 00:13:14.399 --> 00:13:16.080 Shot, that shows me I'm going to get sick in 299 00:13:16.080 --> 00:13:17.639 the next three years. 300 00:13:17.799 --> 00:13:20.320 In the next three. 301 00:13:19.399 --> 00:13:22.240 Accents coming because I really want to start flying and 302 00:13:22.279 --> 00:13:23.080 I have a fear of flying. 303 00:13:23.159 --> 00:13:24.639 Oh you do you have a fear of flying? 304 00:13:24.679 --> 00:13:25.919 Yeah, I go, but it's very hot. 305 00:13:26.519 --> 00:13:26.759 Make it. 306 00:13:27.240 --> 00:13:29.600 Twenty twenty six would be a really nice time for 307 00:13:29.639 --> 00:13:30.320 you to travel. 308 00:13:30.559 --> 00:13:31.440 That would be a great. 309 00:13:31.279 --> 00:13:32.080 Year, twenty six. 310 00:13:32.159 --> 00:13:32.320 Yeah. 311 00:13:32.320 --> 00:13:34.320 If you're like worried, that's you can wait. 312 00:13:34.360 --> 00:13:36.360 You can wait, that'll be three years older. 313 00:13:36.480 --> 00:13:38.279 Right, Well, I mean go now. 314 00:13:38.360 --> 00:13:41.240 But anything that there's anything bad, would you tell me now? 315 00:13:41.360 --> 00:13:42.440 I would tell you. 316 00:13:42.840 --> 00:13:45.039 I think that you should go for it, and you 317 00:13:45.080 --> 00:13:47.320 should go with your fiance because it's going to be 318 00:13:47.360 --> 00:13:48.480 a great year for geminis. 319 00:13:48.559 --> 00:13:49.720 We would expect that to be. 320 00:13:49.799 --> 00:13:53.200 However, they've been lost for the last three really. 321 00:13:52.919 --> 00:13:57.279 Time for your partnership. Yeah, they were going through it. Yeah, 322 00:13:57.480 --> 00:13:59.080 definitely since twenty twenty. 323 00:13:59.279 --> 00:14:02.879 So you when you do, Sammy, I'll just tell you 324 00:14:03.360 --> 00:14:06.080 she needs to stop picking people who she dates whatever 325 00:14:06.120 --> 00:14:09.279 from their signs. That's stupid. Oh it is just all 326 00:14:09.399 --> 00:14:12.440 go fall in love and whatever happens happens. That's my 327 00:14:12.519 --> 00:14:14.720 add to I mean, I I'll listen to signs, but 328 00:14:14.759 --> 00:14:17.559 they're not going to dictate my life completely. Oh I tried, 329 00:14:17.600 --> 00:14:20.519 But I use it as a tool to help me 330 00:14:20.639 --> 00:14:22.080 understand other people's personalise. 331 00:14:22.200 --> 00:14:23.000 That's fantastic. 332 00:14:23.159 --> 00:14:26.360 Since you are the astrologists, I want to ask you 333 00:14:26.360 --> 00:14:31.360 a question. There are things about me that I cannot change. Sure, 334 00:14:31.679 --> 00:14:32.120 I can't. 335 00:14:32.279 --> 00:14:36.200 Your essential nature very hard to change our what's our 336 00:14:36.279 --> 00:14:39.759 essential nature. It's very hard to change what's our essential nature, 337 00:14:39.840 --> 00:14:43.519 the core of who we are and our orientation in 338 00:14:43.559 --> 00:14:47.720 the world. So the astrology chart is really just patterns 339 00:14:47.720 --> 00:14:50.840 and preferences. But most of us do the same thing 340 00:14:51.159 --> 00:14:54.919 every day, right. Astrology is revealing where we have choices, 341 00:14:54.960 --> 00:14:57.279 but we can't always make different choices. 342 00:14:57.399 --> 00:15:01.480 So I see Ray can make changes and adapt into 343 00:15:01.519 --> 00:15:04.279 different situations being in Gemini. See my dad do that. 344 00:15:05.440 --> 00:15:05.519 Me? 345 00:15:06.679 --> 00:15:10.159 I can't do that, like literally, Like my job is 346 00:15:10.679 --> 00:15:14.039 to be a mom, a worker, a daughter, whether it's 347 00:15:14.080 --> 00:15:17.840 a granddaughter, a sister. I take those roles really serious, 348 00:15:18.519 --> 00:15:23.919 Like they mean everything to me. And you might say, well, Cindy, 349 00:15:23.960 --> 00:15:25.399 you got to use tough love of this love, of 350 00:15:25.440 --> 00:15:28.279 that love. You're all great, A given advice, but I 351 00:15:28.360 --> 00:15:32.279 gotta do it my way right, And I can't have 352 00:15:32.360 --> 00:15:35.919 you tell me. I mean, I'm not. I can't explain 353 00:15:36.000 --> 00:15:37.679 it here. I'll try to make it better than that. 354 00:15:39.000 --> 00:15:41.879 Once I love, I love you forever like I'm not 355 00:15:41.919 --> 00:15:44.799 going to end up hating. Your love is going to change. 356 00:15:45.519 --> 00:15:48.759 I don't hate for me to hate. I don't even 357 00:15:48.759 --> 00:15:50.200 think I hate anybody like, I don't know. 358 00:15:50.279 --> 00:15:51.159 It's beautiful, but. 359 00:15:51.320 --> 00:15:53.159 So actually who less people that are not allowed to 360 00:15:53.159 --> 00:15:53.440 come to. 361 00:15:53.720 --> 00:15:59.759 Because because they're haters. I don't hate them. They're funeral 362 00:16:01.080 --> 00:16:03.399 to go to hell of heaven and get the hashbosh 363 00:16:03.440 --> 00:16:04.519 on top of it all. They even give me the 364 00:16:04.600 --> 00:16:07.480 hashbosh since it's mainly men in my business. Whatever reason 365 00:16:07.480 --> 00:16:11.360 they're I don't know why. They also a girl woman 366 00:16:11.440 --> 00:16:14.440 builder almost said me in But the point is what 367 00:16:14.480 --> 00:16:18.720 I'm trying to say is I want to say I'm done. 368 00:16:18.919 --> 00:16:21.639 I mean it when I say I'm done, but I'm 369 00:16:21.639 --> 00:16:22.159 never done. 370 00:16:22.360 --> 00:16:22.840 You just saw a. 371 00:16:22.919 --> 00:16:24.600 Meme that a cancer will do something for her and 372 00:16:24.639 --> 00:16:27.200 thirty five times. But once they're actually done, they're done. 373 00:16:27.720 --> 00:16:30.000 Yeah, it's so hard for them to think. It takes 374 00:16:30.039 --> 00:16:30.799 a lot of right though. 375 00:16:30.960 --> 00:16:34.840 That's the family ties that bind, and cancer is about 376 00:16:34.919 --> 00:16:38.759 keeping the family together. It's the sign of the great 377 00:16:38.840 --> 00:16:41.960 Mother and the ocean. Everyone is in the ocean. Everyone 378 00:16:42.200 --> 00:16:45.080 you know has a place in the family. So cancer 379 00:16:45.519 --> 00:16:48.120 is very loyal and it doesn't cast people out that 380 00:16:48.200 --> 00:16:49.159 it's like a heartbreak. 381 00:16:49.600 --> 00:16:53.080 I can't hurt people like. My delivery can really stink 382 00:16:53.120 --> 00:16:55.679 at times most of the time. But my intent is 383 00:16:55.720 --> 00:16:59.159 always from the heart. But you might not like my delivery. 384 00:16:59.240 --> 00:17:03.399 But I think that's your cancer has the hoof and mouth, Yeah, 385 00:17:03.919 --> 00:17:05.599 what's the hoof? And most like you put your little 386 00:17:05.640 --> 00:17:07.920 foot in your mouth and sad just says it bluntly. 387 00:17:08.039 --> 00:17:09.319 Oh no, I don't put my foot in my mouth. 388 00:17:09.359 --> 00:17:11.480 I jam it down my throat and it's up to 389 00:17:11.519 --> 00:17:12.319 my knee. Okay. 390 00:17:12.480 --> 00:17:14.000 Yeah, I tell you that all the time, that it's 391 00:17:14.000 --> 00:17:16.440 not your cancer, that's your sadge. That's quick like that 392 00:17:16.480 --> 00:17:17.319 and jumps at you. 393 00:17:17.960 --> 00:17:20.720 So cancers on quick sag is a quick Yeah, cancer 394 00:17:20.839 --> 00:17:21.519 is not quick. 395 00:17:21.599 --> 00:17:23.759 It's the little crab that kind of scuttles side. 396 00:17:23.960 --> 00:17:26.480 But you're not that person, but you do that and 397 00:17:26.480 --> 00:17:27.839 then all of a sudden, Okay, can we go to 398 00:17:27.839 --> 00:17:29.319 dinner now at six o'clock after you just told me 399 00:17:29.359 --> 00:17:30.160 to go f myself. 400 00:17:31.039 --> 00:17:33.559 Yeah, it's just words. They have no meaning. Seriously, they don't. 401 00:17:33.720 --> 00:17:34.319