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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Wine and Wine Podcast. I'm Kelsey and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Ellie. This is your dose of friendship, fun and

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<v Speaker 1>figuring life out together. Let's be e besties because life

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<v Speaker 1>is messy. Wine, hopes and whiny is optional.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey guys, welcome to episode two.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, how's it going so good? Look at us? Wed

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<v Speaker 3>it we meet it? Oh my god? Episode two, Episode two.

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<v Speaker 3>Who can say that? I mean a lot of people, actually, everybody, everyone,

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<v Speaker 3>everybody who's moved on.

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<v Speaker 4>To episode two.

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<v Speaker 3>You can say that. But yay, thanks for being back again.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Here we are. Let's go. Let's do this the Wine

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<v Speaker 3>and Wine Podcasts.

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<v Speaker 5>We're your e besties. Unquirk life together.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it. That's that's our tagline.

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<v Speaker 5>That is now our tagline.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's make stickers out of them?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yes, would you guys want stickers?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, yes, we want stickers. We want I don't

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<v Speaker 4>care if you guys want stickers. We want stickers.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that. We're in a sticker like era generation

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<v Speaker 3>these days, like our water bottles.

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<v Speaker 2>Are full of stickers.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you one cannot have enough stickers.

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<v Speaker 5>You can never have enough stickers.

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<v Speaker 3>So noted, Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's do it stickers.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so we're back with another wine. Yes, tell us

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<v Speaker 3>about it, Kelsey.

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<v Speaker 2>So this wine I specifically chose for the label partly

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<v Speaker 2>because we are welcoming in twenty twenty five. It has

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<v Speaker 2>the seven Moons, the phases of the moon.

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<v Speaker 5>It just seems like it fit in my brain.

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<v Speaker 2>So today we're drinking Seven Moons Red Blend. It has

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<v Speaker 2>notes of dark berry, cherry, raspberry, mocha, baking spice, and

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<v Speaker 2>vanilla bean coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting. Yeah, I like the bottle. It has like very cute.

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<v Speaker 3>It has the picture, yeah, like of the moon phases. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Seems very witchy, very like, but perfect for like New

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<v Speaker 3>Year's new start. Yes, because we're talking about resolutions today,

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<v Speaker 3>we're talking about manifesting, manifesting, and you always want to

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<v Speaker 3>manifest on a full moon, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>So AnyWho, okay, okay, So now we're going to check

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<v Speaker 2>for legs, okay, which everybody, yes, figured out what legs? Me?

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me what legs are?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So legs when you swirl your wine glass, legs

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<v Speaker 2>that are thicker and slower moving mean higher alcohol content

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<v Speaker 2>and higher sugar levels. But it does not necessarily mean

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<v Speaker 2>that the wine is high quality or low quality.

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<v Speaker 3>And the legs are basically like the remnants of the

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<v Speaker 3>wine that was swirled.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's trickling down. The are thin and pretty quick moving.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is not a higher alcohol content, if that is.

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<v Speaker 4>To be believed.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, interesting, Okay, so we did the swirling.

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<v Speaker 5>We forgot to do a clink.

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<v Speaker 3>We're doing the clinking, and we're doing that. Okay. I

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<v Speaker 3>can't smell much on this one, Like I can smell

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<v Speaker 3>like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can kind of smell like the barrel.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes it smells woody. Yes, I like it, but

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<v Speaker 3>like like a subtle wood, not like.

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<v Speaker 4>Bark.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, little little what the tongue?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, oh a little right? Okay, Okay, this one is

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<v Speaker 3>has packs more of a punch.

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<v Speaker 5>There is more punch.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to get another sip. Definitely more of a kicker,

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<v Speaker 3>but like a bad way not bad. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I've said this before, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>kind of over like super super sweet wines like I.

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<v Speaker 5>Use sweet wine.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I used to be that girly like in my

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<v Speaker 3>early like twenties when I first started like drinking a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>But now I'm more of like just a nice mix,

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<v Speaker 3>even closer to dry, you know. So all that to

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<v Speaker 3>say is that this is really good.

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<v Speaker 4>This is like, this is pretty good.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this is a good.

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<v Speaker 3>Like dry but with the sweet miss mix and it's

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<v Speaker 3>like a mixed wine. I feel like, yeah, it's a blend.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what the blend is.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't say, Okay, I'm a blend, girly, then I've decided.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a blandnes I do like ones.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just says seven moons Red Blend celebrates the phases

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<v Speaker 2>of the moon with seven enticing flavors that reveal a smooth, fruity,

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<v Speaker 2>easy to drink wine. Uncork a bottle, poor glass, and

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<v Speaker 2>find a connection in the moonlight.

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<v Speaker 3>Ooh, dancing in the moonlight.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody, dude, brat.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think we get in sue it for that one?

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<v Speaker 3>We really are? We really sorry, but okay listen, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm totally here for it. How much was that one?

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<v Speaker 2>This one was I believe twelve ninety nine.

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<v Speaker 3>That is an amazing I'm going to stalk up on

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<v Speaker 3>all these wines that you're grabbing, Kelsey, because.

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<v Speaker 5>Like they've been pretty decent.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, because I'm not gonna lie like I again, like

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<v Speaker 3>I've said before, I'm not super knowledgeable with wines. So

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<v Speaker 3>then when I go to like the liquor store and

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<v Speaker 3>I grab something, I either grab the same thing I

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<v Speaker 3>know I like, or I'm such a cheap ass that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just like, Okay, I guess I'll do this one

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<v Speaker 3>and hope for the best, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>But I love the fact that I know now going

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<v Speaker 3>into it, like, oh my gosh, I've tried this. It's

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<v Speaker 3>really good, and I know it's gonna be twelve ninety nine.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly like I said, everyone's gonna be under twenty four bucks.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm also gonna shoot for under fifteen.

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<v Speaker 4>Ooh, because.

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<v Speaker 5>Broke as bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, listen, we are. It's it's rough out here with

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<v Speaker 3>that inflation. Let me tell you something, y'all. That inflation.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure we are all feeling it. Yeah, it's too much,

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<v Speaker 3>it's too much. Yes, have you been to McDonald's lately?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, don't even get me started.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, it was so funny. The other night

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<v Speaker 3>we like drive by just for some like drinks there

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<v Speaker 3>because apparently the Coca Cola's there is the best. They're

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<v Speaker 3>so Chris, okay, yeah, it's a dollar twenty nine or

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<v Speaker 3>twenty five now for a drink at McDonald's. You know

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<v Speaker 3>how it used to always be like a dollar.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they don't even have a dollar minu anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's that's right too. I remember I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>can I get a spicy a small fry and a drink?

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<v Speaker 3>And they're like, it'll be seven something, and I'm like where.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, where were the days that it was like

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<v Speaker 3>three dollars? You guys? Come on, it's apparently I'm filling it, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>I am filling it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Well with us. But that's totally besides the point. We're

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<v Speaker 3>not here to talk about economics. We are here to

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<v Speaker 3>talk about twenty five, the new year, Yes, and what

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<v Speaker 3>a year.

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<v Speaker 4>Is going to be?

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<v Speaker 3>Happy New Year. This is us like ringing invisible, like

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<v Speaker 3>me trying to make bells you know whatever you think

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<v Speaker 3>roll in your hand, Yeah, yeah, yeah, just imagine that, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Happy New Year, Happy New Year. I hope you guys

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<v Speaker 3>spend it well, yes, with friends or familily at the.

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<v Speaker 5>Bar, or maybe you got a midnight kiss.

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<v Speaker 3>And maybe you didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>When I said that ippointed to me, that was really sad.

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<v Speaker 3>It's fine anyways anyway. Yeah, but yes, we're talking about

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<v Speaker 3>the New Year, yes, and with that comes resolutions, your resolutions. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and I feel like it's a very mixed thing. Yeah right, Kelsey.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, So I do resolutions every year, Okay. Whether I

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<v Speaker 2>stick to them or not, it's a whole nother story.

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<v Speaker 2>Why I do them every year?

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<v Speaker 4>What about you?

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<v Speaker 3>I used to do them a lot way back in

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<v Speaker 3>the day, and then I remember one year, maybe like

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<v Speaker 3>five years ago. I don't know why I have there

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<v Speaker 3>was there was a point in time in my life

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<v Speaker 3>where I was really obsessed with polls and I would

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<v Speaker 3>like post a ton of polls, like on Instagram as

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<v Speaker 3>if I was somebody. But anyways, I was like, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 3>are you guys into New Year's resolutions or not? And

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people weren't. Yeah, and so I was like, hmm, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>So there's a lot of like, I think you take

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<v Speaker 3>it as you want if it if it feeds you

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<v Speaker 3>and it gives you motivation, like I'm so here for it.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're kind of just like, h not into it?

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<v Speaker 3>All right, that's fine, not your.

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<v Speaker 5>Cup of tea.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>So I feel like there's just like a ton of

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<v Speaker 3>different things now, like people do like word of the year, resolutions,

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<v Speaker 3>all the things. All that to say, oh my goodness,

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<v Speaker 3>I know you asked me a question, but all that

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<v Speaker 3>to say is yeah, in the weirdest way, I do

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<v Speaker 3>do resolutions, but I don't call them a resolution. What

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<v Speaker 3>do you call them? I kind of just like it's

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<v Speaker 3>just like a refresher goal setting and like kind of

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<v Speaker 3>just manifestation.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I just just like it.

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<v Speaker 3>Just I feel like everybody's on the same page when

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<v Speaker 3>it feels just new, the new year feels new, that

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<v Speaker 3>you feel so like I'm going to do it. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So whether that's start, yeah, whether you call it a resolution,

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<v Speaker 3>whether you call it like like fast tracking your manifestations,

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<v Speaker 3>whatever it is, like, I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 5>We're here for it.

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<v Speaker 3>And we're here to talk about it. Yes. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 3>so you have resolutions and you do year, let's do

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<v Speaker 3>let's hear it. Let's hear some of yours.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So it took me a little bit of thinking to

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<v Speaker 2>figure out what I wanted to do this year. This year,

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<v Speaker 2>I really want to focus on my mental health and

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<v Speaker 2>my overall help. So my first resolution is I want

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<v Speaker 2>to be comfortable in my own skin again. This last year,

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<v Speaker 2>a year and a half kind of I have not

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<v Speaker 2>felt confident. I've not felt great where I am. I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't I've had a lot of health issues. So I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to feel comfortable about who I am, what

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<v Speaker 2>I appear to look.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, and my mental state again. I just want to

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<v Speaker 5>feel like myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to be comfortable and I want to gain

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<v Speaker 2>my confidence back, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I love that I'm here for it. I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like we all get in those like little phases too,

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<v Speaker 3>where we're like, oh, just not feeling me, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and that's been my last year. Yeah, Like any

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<v Speaker 2>picture I see and like that's not me.

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<v Speaker 2>Back at all those memories and just hate them because

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<v Speaker 3>I remember this one time, I swear I go on

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<v Speaker 3>sad to say, because I just didn't feel like comfortable

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<v Speaker 3>I not in the video? You know? But it's because

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<v Speaker 3>you just weren't feeling it, you know, which exactly fine,

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<v Speaker 3>But it's sad because we put ourselves there and all

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<v Speaker 3>the things, so goddamn society, damn you not you, not you,

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<v Speaker 3>but society, society and the expectations. But I'm glad you're

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<v Speaker 2>And I really hope that as we continue on with

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<v Speaker 2>also help you guys get confident in your own skin too,

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<v Speaker 2>ladies and gentlemen.

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<v Speaker 5>This is our fucking year.

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<v Speaker 3>Five.

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<v Speaker 5>Baby.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds good too, it does. It's a quarter yes,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the twenty five. Sorry, but yeah, it just

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<v Speaker 5>It does sound good.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm so here for it, and yeah I like

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<v Speaker 3>that one, so go Kelsey go. I'm here for well

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<v Speaker 3>funny enough actually though, because that's actually one of mine too,

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<v Speaker 3>and I feel like it's I think a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people like, yeah, and it's important too, Like I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to get into like all these things, but I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>your health is important, and I feel like we we

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<v Speaker 3>are the main characters of our own life, if that

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<v Speaker 3>makes any sense, So of course we're going to think

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<v Speaker 3>one of my like resolutions or manifestations is like in

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<v Speaker 3>this new year, to just be more mindful of how

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<v Speaker 3>I eat, how I feel about myself and like things

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<v Speaker 3>I want to do to like be there so again

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<v Speaker 3>tangent girly here. But lately this literally happened just this

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<v Speaker 3>past week. Actually, I was like, Okay, I want to

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<v Speaker 3>if that makes sense, Like you can be that girl,

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<v Speaker 3>you can be that guy for you, you know, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>but how are like how are you showing up that

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<v Speaker 3>day for that?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>So I used to have this mindset of like I

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<v Speaker 3>need to do this, this this to be where I

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<v Speaker 3>towards going where I knew I wanted to be. But

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<v Speaker 3>then this past week I've had like the biggest mind shift.

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<v Speaker 3>It's crazy. It's not that I have to work to

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<v Speaker 3>be where I want to be. Yeah, I just have

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<v Speaker 3>to do what I know I am exactly if that

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<v Speaker 3>makes any sense.

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<v Speaker 2>You just need to act like you are your own

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<v Speaker 2>main character.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and like that and it will come and that

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<v Speaker 3>you're already there. Whatever goal it is right. So whether

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<v Speaker 3>you want to lose weight, whether you want to feel

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<v Speaker 3>more energized, like whatever it is you want to do,

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<v Speaker 3>be just I wake up now a days and I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>what does Ellie at her highest self like do every day?

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, well, damn, I guess she wakes up

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<v Speaker 3>at six am and she goes to the gym and

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<v Speaker 3>she drinks half a gallon of water by noon, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what i mean. Like it was one of those

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<v Speaker 3>things where I'm like, Okay, this is what she does

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<v Speaker 3>because she's there already there, yes, yes, And it's been

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<v Speaker 3>the biggest mind shift and it has worked so well.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel so good. It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have to try that because I have heard that.

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<v Speaker 2>I have heard that you just have to act like

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<v Speaker 2>your higher self or what you think your dream self

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<v Speaker 2>would be doing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I asked myself.

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<v Speaker 5>I fat like you're already there.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, And it's helped so much, like and I love

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<v Speaker 3>like I love almost like habit stacking too, so like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm at the gym and like I do the red

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<v Speaker 3>light therapy and I'm doing manifestation visualization while I'm in there,

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<v Speaker 3>and then going to the gym helps me drink water.

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<v Speaker 3>Like if I were to skip the gym and then

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<v Speaker 3>just wake up, roll out of bed, go to work,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to drink nearly as much water as

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<v Speaker 3>if I were already at the gym. And I'm like

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<v Speaker 3>working out and I'm thirsty obviously, yes, so I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>drinking water. So it's all these like things into one,

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<v Speaker 3>Like going to the gym helps me move my body,

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<v Speaker 3>helps me get my water intake, helps with my manifestation visualization.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's all these things and I'm just like, okayyay,

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<v Speaker 3>this is what your higher self does.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, I went on a tangent, but.

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<v Speaker 2>That well, honestly, that kind of segues into my second resolution, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's getting my health in check. Ohause, like I

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<v Speaker 2>said with my first one, I've had some health issues

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<v Speaker 2>last year, and after extensive tests and everything, we realized

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<v Speaker 2>that it was not just but it was just high cortisol,

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<v Speaker 2>but like severely high cortisol. And so she offered my

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<v Speaker 2>doctor offered to put me on some medication, but I

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<v Speaker 2>just didn't want to be on yet another medication. So

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to figure out how to do it. Naturally first,

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<v Speaker 2>and after research and everything, doctor TikTok came to their

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<v Speaker 2>rescue and I ended up after doing all this research

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<v Speaker 2>on Google, you know, targeted ads and stuff, I finally

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<v Speaker 2>started seeing all these things. But this cortis all drink,

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<v Speaker 2>and I started taking it. I didn't see any results

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<v Speaker 2>for like a month and a half, so starting it

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<v Speaker 2>to get discouraged.

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<v Speaker 5>I was almost gonna stop drinking it.

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<v Speaker 2>Then finally I started seeing a lot of things happening better.

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<v Speaker 2>I was able to get off my antidepressants. I was

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<v Speaker 2>able to get off my acne medication. I was able

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<v Speaker 2>to regulate my body temperature. All these different things were

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<v Speaker 2>starting to show. However, I still have not seen the

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<v Speaker 2>weight loss. And I'm not like saying I'm like anywhere

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<v Speaker 2>you know, neu obese or whatnot. But I gained almost

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<v Speaker 2>forty pounds in eight months, which for me is an

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<v Speaker 2>awful lot. And that's what really got me on this

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<v Speaker 2>health journey and trying to figure out what was actually

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<v Speaker 2>wrong with me. So I'm starting to get my health

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<v Speaker 2>in check, and I'm going into twenty five, twenty twenty five,

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<v Speaker 2>with things already turning around.

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<v Speaker 5>But I just really want to get back to where

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<v Speaker 5>I was. I want to figure out.

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<v Speaker 2>How to get everything fully in control, lose that forty

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<v Speaker 2>pounds that I gained, and just to be in the

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<v Speaker 2>best health I've been in a few years.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it. I'm here for it. Yes, you got it.

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<v Speaker 5>I am the main character that.

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<v Speaker 3>You are, the man character of your story.

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<v Speaker 5>That main character.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I already yeah, yep, see done done. It's already done.

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<v Speaker 4>It's already done.

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<v Speaker 3>So you wake up every day and you're like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>since it's already done, what are the habits? What are

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<v Speaker 3>the actions that I do? Because it's already done, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's so just manifestation. It's not like the like

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<v Speaker 3>desire and the urge and like the wantingness of it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the fact that you're already in the present moment

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<v Speaker 3>of having it, yes, and feeling so secure in that

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<v Speaker 3>that it's just there, you know. So anyways, I follow

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<v Speaker 3>all these like manifestation goldis and I love them so

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<v Speaker 3>much and they help me, and I'm like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 3>that's so true. But another thing I do actually too.

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<v Speaker 3>So I actually lately have been sleeping with like these

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<v Speaker 3>YouTube videos of just like affirmations every night. Then I

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<v Speaker 3>just fall asleep to them. And I'm just like, you

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<v Speaker 3>seep into my subconscious and you tweak it. Because it's

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<v Speaker 3>all about subconscious, you know what I mean. It's all

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<v Speaker 3>about what you internally, internally think. And I mean your

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<v Speaker 3>mind is so strong that it doesn't know the difference

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<v Speaker 3>between what's fake and what's real. Yes, and since we're

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<v Speaker 3>the creators of our own reality, why wouldn't we create

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<v Speaker 3>the best life for ourselves?

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly?

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<v Speaker 3>And that's my field. Thanks for coming to my ted

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<v Speaker 3>took everybody away.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh good what's your next resolution?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, you call the manifestations?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's see. Oh my goodness, Oh my goodness. You

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<v Speaker 3>know it's not a pretty one. It's not a fun one,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's a necessary one. My finances, you're preaching to

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<v Speaker 3>the guire. I need to get that shut together, don't we?

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<v Speaker 1>All?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>It was all fun and games this year. I like

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<v Speaker 3>traveled for six months. It was all fun and games.

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<v Speaker 3>I did relateiatively well overseas, but I didn't do as

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<v Speaker 3>well as I thought I would because I didn't calculate

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<v Speaker 3>it as well as I should have. And then I

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<v Speaker 3>came home and I got a little depressing. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna lie. There's just like a lot of life changes

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<v Speaker 3>and stuff like that. So then I stopped working, and

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<v Speaker 3>then when you don't work, you don't get paid. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just like, what's happening right now? What is my life?

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<v Speaker 3>What is happening? So it's kind of just being more

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<v Speaker 3>mindful of like how I spend my money, what I

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<v Speaker 3>do with my money. And the one really really big

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<v Speaker 3>thing I need to work on is the scarcity mindset.

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<v Speaker 3>And again that has to go back into like I

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<v Speaker 3>need to manifest that that's no longer in my life

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<v Speaker 3>because it's all it's all about, just like the energy

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<v Speaker 3>with your money, like if you feel like you just

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<v Speaker 3>don't have a healthy relationship with it and you are

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<v Speaker 3>I know this sounds weird, but and I'm not going

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<v Speaker 3>that's not my reality anymore. Like I choose that not

428
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<v Speaker 3>to be. But like at one point in time, like

429
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<v Speaker 3>I was scared of money, Like I would get this

430
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<v Speaker 3>really nice, big paycheck and then I'd be like, oh

431
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<v Speaker 3>my gosh, I'd okay, I don't know what to do it.

432
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<v Speaker 3>So then I'd pay all this and then I'd spend

433
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<v Speaker 3>and it was almost like here, take it, take it,

434
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<v Speaker 3>take a ticket, whereas I need to be so comfortable

435
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<v Speaker 3>in it and be like, you know, like I worked

436
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<v Speaker 3>for this, I'm in this energy to receive it, and

437
00:22:30.519 --> 00:22:35.519
<v Speaker 3>this is how I'm going to like disperse my work basically.

438
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<v Speaker 3>So anyways, I'm working on the mindset of just this

439
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<v Speaker 3>this like just not having that scarcity mindset and just

440
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<v Speaker 3>being more mindful and knowing that money's my friend and

441
00:22:49.039 --> 00:22:52.400
<v Speaker 3>it's just energy and it comes and goes and all

442
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<v Speaker 3>the things.

443
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<v Speaker 5>I'm the primary bread loser of mine.

444
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<v Speaker 3>Shot get I lose, no, get out of here. But

445
00:23:04.119 --> 00:23:07.519
<v Speaker 3>and words are so strong. Words are spells. So we're

446
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<v Speaker 3>not saying that anymore.

447
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<v Speaker 2>That was but that was I did not come up

448
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<v Speaker 2>with that, though I saw it on Instagram the other day.

449
00:23:13.160 --> 00:23:14.240
<v Speaker 4>I thought it was hilarious.

450
00:23:14.279 --> 00:23:15.680
<v Speaker 3>That is hilarious. That is hilarious.

451
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<v Speaker 4>Credit to ever actually thought of No, Yeah.

452
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<v Speaker 3>But anyways, So yeah, all that to say is that's

453
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<v Speaker 3>definitely one of my manifestations resolutions this coming years, that

454
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<v Speaker 3>just being so mindful about it and just having good

455
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<v Speaker 3>like energy with it and just knowing, like you know,

456
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<v Speaker 3>hm that I'm going to get over for this. Fine,

457
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<v Speaker 3>We'll be fine.

458
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<v Speaker 2>You know what, next year, going into twenty twenty six,

459
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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna be looking back and I'll be like, we

460
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<v Speaker 2>did so good with money this year.

461
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<v Speaker 3>Good good, because right now it's that meme where like

462
00:23:51.319 --> 00:23:54.240
<v Speaker 3>the house is burning down, it's fine, and it's fine,

463
00:23:54.559 --> 00:23:56.920
<v Speaker 3>this is fine. I'm fine, Like I'm like.

464
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<v Speaker 4>It really yeah, yeah it's a dumpster fire.

465
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yep, it's fine. I'm fine. I'm fine. It's so fine.

466
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<v Speaker 3>So anyways, those are like my top two though for

467
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<v Speaker 3>sure top two. Do you have any others?

468
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<v Speaker 5>I do? I have one more?

469
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<v Speaker 2>Okay, spill so I've had a really wine yeah still

470
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<v Speaker 2>the wine with an h. So I have had a

471
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<v Speaker 2>great two years of yes years. But that kind of

472
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<v Speaker 2>segues from yours. It costs a lot of money. So

473
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<v Speaker 2>I am going to this year schedule a lot more

474
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<v Speaker 2>mean time. I just honestly learned to fucking say no.

475
00:24:45.000 --> 00:24:47.039
<v Speaker 2>I it's hard, but you've got it. Don't want to

476
00:24:47.119 --> 00:24:51.519
<v Speaker 2>hurt people's feelings. I struggle to set boundaries because, like

477
00:24:51.599 --> 00:24:54.599
<v Speaker 2>you know, I have friends all over the place. It's

478
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<v Speaker 2>hard to schedule time because we have opposite schedules and

479
00:24:56.720 --> 00:24:59.319
<v Speaker 2>this and that. So when they want to do something,

480
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<v Speaker 2>then I'm going to say yes because I haven't seen

481
00:25:02.559 --> 00:25:06.480
<v Speaker 2>them in a while. But it's like it'll be everyone

482
00:25:06.720 --> 00:25:08.359
<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden being like, oh I can do

483
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<v Speaker 2>something today, I can do something tomorrow this or that,

484
00:25:10.440 --> 00:25:12.759
<v Speaker 2>and so then I'm just constantly like okay, yeah, sure whatever.

485
00:25:13.079 --> 00:25:16.599
<v Speaker 2>Then I get burnt out, spend too much money, and

486
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<v Speaker 2>then I'm depressed.

487
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<v Speaker 5>I'm an introvert, so.

488
00:25:20.160 --> 00:25:25.279
<v Speaker 2>Doing too much social stuff too close together really.

489
00:25:25.200 --> 00:25:27.920
<v Speaker 5>Drains my battery. And then I get sick.

490
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<v Speaker 2>And it's just been a couple of years of just

491
00:25:30.680 --> 00:25:35.599
<v Speaker 2>being overwhelmed, overworked, overscheduled.

492
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<v Speaker 5>And sick.

493
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<v Speaker 3>Because I don't know how to say no, the quadruple cycle.

494
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<v Speaker 2>So to all my friends listening, I apologize in advance,

495
00:25:47.279 --> 00:25:50.720
<v Speaker 2>but your girls, please don't take it to heart if

496
00:25:50.759 --> 00:25:52.880
<v Speaker 2>I say no, but I need a break.

497
00:25:53.279 --> 00:25:54.359
<v Speaker 5>I just need a break.

498
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, totally. I hear you. I hear you. It

499
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<v Speaker 3>is a lot to just you know, go go go

500
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<v Speaker 3>all the time. You know, some days you just want

501
00:26:03.039 --> 00:26:05.839
<v Speaker 3>to sit on the couch, yes and watch TV.

502
00:26:06.039 --> 00:26:08.079
<v Speaker 2>And I hate to complain about it because I'm like

503
00:26:08.240 --> 00:26:10.359
<v Speaker 2>I used to be someone the only head like maybe

504
00:26:10.559 --> 00:26:13.400
<v Speaker 2>two three close friends, and now I'm surrounded with a

505
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<v Speaker 2>bunch of friends and I love it.

506
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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm so grateful. So I kind of sound.

507
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<v Speaker 2>Like terrible when I say that, Like I just it's.

508
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<v Speaker 5>Overwhelming because a lot of people don't have that.

509
00:26:26.000 --> 00:26:29.880
<v Speaker 2>I do feel incredibly grateful, but I also just can't

510
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<v Speaker 2>function that way.

511
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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you're not getting all of me if I do that.

512
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I hear you, I hear you. This is definitely

513
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<v Speaker 3>these past couple of years, I slowly have learned to

514
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<v Speaker 3>say no, and it is very much a scary thing

515
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<v Speaker 3>and I.

516
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<v Speaker 5>Just don't want to miss out on experience.

517
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<v Speaker 4>I have fomo, yeah, but I don't do the same time.

518
00:26:51.920 --> 00:26:54.480
<v Speaker 5>I have fomo, but then I also have like.

519
00:26:55.960 --> 00:26:58.400
<v Speaker 2>Fomo from not being at home just vegging.

520
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<v Speaker 5>On my couch.

521
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<v Speaker 3>I have FOMO on big things, yes, not small things.

522
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<v Speaker 5>Yes.

523
00:27:02.559 --> 00:27:05.200
<v Speaker 3>So like somebody was like, listen here, bitch, we're going

524
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<v Speaker 3>on a girl's trip to Nashville for the week or whatever. Bitch,

525
00:27:11.279 --> 00:27:12.440
<v Speaker 3>I'm there, Like.

526
00:27:13.240 --> 00:27:15.880
<v Speaker 5>Problem, that's been my two years.

527
00:27:15.920 --> 00:27:18.839
<v Speaker 2>Everyone's like, yo, we're doing this, We're going there, and

528
00:27:18.880 --> 00:27:20.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, fuck, yes, I'll be there, but I can't.

529
00:27:20.640 --> 00:27:24.039
<v Speaker 3>Afford But I don't have fomo with small stuff. I

530
00:27:24.079 --> 00:27:26.200
<v Speaker 3>don't have fomo with like, hey, we're going out to

531
00:27:26.359 --> 00:27:31.200
<v Speaker 3>like dinner tomorrow night. Sorry I can't. I can't. But

532
00:27:31.319 --> 00:27:33.680
<v Speaker 3>that's probably a bad way to think about it, like

533
00:27:33.720 --> 00:27:36.359
<v Speaker 3>because I'm like, damn, I really be spending that money

534
00:27:36.799 --> 00:27:41.839
<v Speaker 3>going on these trips. Yes, you know, so I helped

535
00:27:41.880 --> 00:27:44.599
<v Speaker 3>you in no way to or formed with this one

536
00:27:45.599 --> 00:27:46.839
<v Speaker 3>because I am of no help.

537
00:27:47.119 --> 00:27:50.880
<v Speaker 4>You're like, okay, so listen, so listen. That was I say.

538
00:27:50.960 --> 00:27:56.200
<v Speaker 3>Yes, that was the most horrible advice. Don't take it

539
00:27:56.240 --> 00:27:58.440
<v Speaker 3>as advice. That was just commentary at this point.

540
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<v Speaker 2>If you have any advice for me on how to

541
00:28:00.799 --> 00:28:03.759
<v Speaker 2>say no and set those boundaries, yeah, please let me know.

542
00:28:04.279 --> 00:28:05.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, it's all up.

543
00:28:05.839 --> 00:28:06.200
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

544
00:28:06.319 --> 00:28:08.519
<v Speaker 2>How do I not feel bad about it? I guess

545
00:28:08.559 --> 00:28:11.079
<v Speaker 2>that's my biggest thing. How do you not feel bad

546
00:28:11.119 --> 00:28:14.400
<v Speaker 2>about saying no? How do I not hurt people people's feelings?

547
00:28:14.799 --> 00:28:17.400
<v Speaker 2>Am I hurting people's feelings? I feel like I am

548
00:28:17.440 --> 00:28:17.920
<v Speaker 2>to my core.

549
00:28:18.799 --> 00:28:20.920
<v Speaker 3>I feel like if you're just like tactful about it,

550
00:28:20.960 --> 00:28:21.519
<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean?

551
00:28:21.759 --> 00:28:22.000
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

552
00:28:22.319 --> 00:28:25.240
<v Speaker 3>Like, and I know you're a tactful person, so that's

553
00:28:25.440 --> 00:28:27.880
<v Speaker 3>not hard, you know what I mean? Yeah, it's just

554
00:28:28.000 --> 00:28:32.160
<v Speaker 3>being like nice and tactful about it. My friend recently

555
00:28:33.359 --> 00:28:36.839
<v Speaker 3>has been really good at saying no and like setting boundaries,

556
00:28:37.079 --> 00:28:39.400
<v Speaker 3>you know. And at first I was like, what in

557
00:28:39.519 --> 00:28:41.799
<v Speaker 3>the fuh? And then I'm like, oh, wait, no, this

558
00:28:41.880 --> 00:28:44.359
<v Speaker 3>is for her good, Like this is for her better self.

559
00:28:44.720 --> 00:28:46.839
<v Speaker 2>I would assume that, like my friends and everybody like

560
00:28:47.440 --> 00:28:48.880
<v Speaker 2>would understand.

561
00:28:48.519 --> 00:28:52.480
<v Speaker 3>If if if And I know you have really good girlfriends.

562
00:28:53.079 --> 00:28:54.839
<v Speaker 3>But all I'm saying in general, like this is just

563
00:28:54.839 --> 00:28:59.039
<v Speaker 3>for the general population, like if you feel like or

564
00:28:59.079 --> 00:29:01.160
<v Speaker 3>it does turn out things, your girlfriends are like what

565
00:29:01.200 --> 00:29:05.880
<v Speaker 3>the fuck? Like come on you, Like your girlfriends should

566
00:29:05.880 --> 00:29:08.119
<v Speaker 3>be understanding, they should be supportive.

567
00:29:08.359 --> 00:29:10.359
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, they understand that you need to work on your

568
00:29:10.400 --> 00:29:10.880
<v Speaker 5>mental health.

569
00:29:11.039 --> 00:29:13.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah that or switch it up like even with me,

570
00:29:13.960 --> 00:29:16.119
<v Speaker 3>like with because I know one of my resolutions is

571
00:29:16.160 --> 00:29:21.319
<v Speaker 3>like finances, Like I'm not hanging out with people who

572
00:29:21.359 --> 00:29:24.119
<v Speaker 3>want to go to dinner all the time and get

573
00:29:24.200 --> 00:29:27.599
<v Speaker 3>drinks and like I'm gonna be like, hey, do you

574
00:29:27.640 --> 00:29:29.599
<v Speaker 3>want to go on a hike, Do you want to

575
00:29:29.599 --> 00:29:30.359
<v Speaker 3>go to the sauna?

576
00:29:30.839 --> 00:29:31.119
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

577
00:29:31.279 --> 00:29:33.000
<v Speaker 3>Do you want to watch a movie at your place

578
00:29:33.079 --> 00:29:36.440
<v Speaker 3>or mine? Exactly? It's going to be it's just all

579
00:29:36.440 --> 00:29:40.839
<v Speaker 3>about switching up the dynamic, the environment and going from there.

580
00:29:41.759 --> 00:29:45.079
<v Speaker 2>Unluckily, my friends were all were completely fine with just

581
00:29:45.200 --> 00:29:47.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, vegging on the couch, having some wine, watching

582
00:29:47.920 --> 00:29:48.319
<v Speaker 2>a movie.

583
00:29:49.400 --> 00:29:52.519
<v Speaker 5>But you know, sometimes it's still.

584
00:29:52.880 --> 00:29:56.559
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, you'll have to let us know how the same,

585
00:29:56.720 --> 00:29:58.680
<v Speaker 3>no goes, have to.

586
00:29:58.880 --> 00:30:00.720
<v Speaker 4>Check in a couple of months, see how it's going.

587
00:30:01.039 --> 00:30:03.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, but no, that's good. Those are really good

588
00:30:03.680 --> 00:30:05.640
<v Speaker 3>resolutions you got going on for yourself.

589
00:30:05.720 --> 00:30:06.119
<v Speaker 5>Thank you.

590
00:30:06.599 --> 00:30:10.319
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's really hard on them.

591
00:30:10.440 --> 00:30:13.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's just execute the full year though, yes, full

592
00:30:13.319 --> 00:30:14.240
<v Speaker 3>send that is.

593
00:30:14.279 --> 00:30:17.960
<v Speaker 2>I think that's where people struggle, is to stick to them. Yeah,

594
00:30:18.680 --> 00:30:21.440
<v Speaker 2>so that's what we're going to be here for. Maybe

595
00:30:21.559 --> 00:30:24.720
<v Speaker 2>let's plan that, like every quarter or something, let's do

596
00:30:24.759 --> 00:30:25.240
<v Speaker 2>a check in.

597
00:30:25.920 --> 00:30:27.519
<v Speaker 3>I love that we can check in with.

598
00:30:27.480 --> 00:30:29.319
<v Speaker 2>Our followers and our e besties.

599
00:30:29.680 --> 00:30:32.799
<v Speaker 3>Yes, to help keep you guys motivated too, Yes, yes, yeses,

600
00:30:32.920 --> 00:30:36.119
<v Speaker 3>whatever you want to call it, whether it's your resolutions

601
00:30:36.759 --> 00:30:41.640
<v Speaker 3>or your manifestations, like where your girl's at in ninety

602
00:30:41.680 --> 00:30:45.400
<v Speaker 3>days or sixty days or whatever it is. You know,

603
00:30:46.000 --> 00:30:49.440
<v Speaker 3>because we're just we're just here evolving into a betterself.

604
00:30:49.480 --> 00:30:56.920
<v Speaker 3>We're going to hold you responsible and drink responsible, just.

605
00:30:58.440 --> 00:31:00.200
<v Speaker 4>As we have not done.

606
00:31:00.400 --> 00:31:03.240
<v Speaker 3>No, not at all. We never know. That's that's definitely

607
00:31:03.279 --> 00:31:04.799
<v Speaker 3>not one of our resolutions.

608
00:31:06.799 --> 00:31:08.279
<v Speaker 4>I mean we have white in the title.

609
00:31:08.400 --> 00:31:11.079
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, that's hilarious. No, but yeah, this is good.

610
00:31:11.119 --> 00:31:14.000
<v Speaker 3>I feel like twenty twenty five will be will be good.

611
00:31:14.039 --> 00:31:17.079
<v Speaker 3>We just gotta keep our mental health in check. Yeah,

612
00:31:17.079 --> 00:31:19.880
<v Speaker 3>so take your hot girl walks.

613
00:31:20.240 --> 00:31:24.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and Liswin to us, take us with you. We'll

614
00:31:24.519 --> 00:31:28.079
<v Speaker 2>be there just twenty thirty forty minutes. Yeah, we'll be

615
00:31:28.119 --> 00:31:30.440
<v Speaker 2>there for you. We'll be there with you.

616
00:31:30.440 --> 00:31:34.119
<v Speaker 3>You got it? Yes, Okay, yay, this has been so fun.

617
00:31:34.200 --> 00:31:35.079
<v Speaker 5>This has been so fun.

618
00:31:35.240 --> 00:31:35.759
<v Speaker 3>I love it.

619
00:31:36.079 --> 00:31:36.559
<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

620
00:31:36.559 --> 00:31:40.119
<v Speaker 3>Episode two, Oh my gosh. But also, like, how about

621
00:31:40.160 --> 00:31:43.640
<v Speaker 3>you share in the comments when we post about this episode,

622
00:31:44.039 --> 00:31:47.599
<v Speaker 3>like what your guys's resolutions or like manifestations.

623
00:31:46.920 --> 00:31:48.240
<v Speaker 5>Are we want to hear them.

624
00:31:48.440 --> 00:31:51.000
<v Speaker 3>Yes, and maybe I'll go on like a tangent on

625
00:31:51.160 --> 00:31:53.559
<v Speaker 3>stories or something, or you know what, we'll probably have

626
00:31:53.599 --> 00:31:56.839
<v Speaker 3>another episode about manifestation. Yes, because there's so much like

627
00:31:57.079 --> 00:31:58.079
<v Speaker 3>I'm so good at it.

628
00:31:58.119 --> 00:32:00.279
<v Speaker 5>She's teaching me how to manifest guys.

629
00:32:00.720 --> 00:32:03.680
<v Speaker 3>Not that I'm like, I'm just saying i feel like

630
00:32:03.720 --> 00:32:06.279
<v Speaker 3>I've manifested so much. But we're all manifestors if you

631
00:32:06.279 --> 00:32:09.240
<v Speaker 3>think about it. So everybody has manifested something. But there's

632
00:32:09.279 --> 00:32:11.519
<v Speaker 3>so many like thoughts in my head as far as

633
00:32:11.599 --> 00:32:13.559
<v Speaker 3>like oh my, gosh, you do this, you can do this.

634
00:32:13.720 --> 00:32:15.839
<v Speaker 3>I oh my, I'll tell you offline because this one's

635
00:32:15.839 --> 00:32:18.559
<v Speaker 3>a secret, and maybe I'll let you guys in on

636
00:32:18.599 --> 00:32:20.599
<v Speaker 3>it in a couple like when we actually talk about it,

637
00:32:20.599 --> 00:32:22.720
<v Speaker 3>hold me to it. I'll tell you guys a secret.

638
00:32:22.920 --> 00:32:25.400
<v Speaker 3>But anyways, it was crazy, so I'll have to tell

639
00:32:25.440 --> 00:32:29.319
<v Speaker 3>you out to this wine. Yeah I will, I will

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<v Speaker 3>fill the wine. But yeah, share in the comments, like

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<v Speaker 3>what your resolutions are or your favorite manifestation tips and

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<v Speaker 3>tricks are, because we want to hear them all.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we want to learn how to stay accountable.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's do it, girlies, and can I call them gilies?

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<v Speaker 3>Girlies and gilies.

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<v Speaker 5>I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>Girlies and gilies are besties. For the rest, write that down.

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<v Speaker 5>We're writing it down.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh goodness, I love it. All right, Well, thanks so

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<v Speaker 3>much you guys, see you next episode. Okay, bye, all

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<v Speaker 3>right e bessies. That's it for this episode of the

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<v Speaker 3>Wine and Wine Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't leave us, hang in like subscribe and follow or

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<v Speaker 2>else we'll drink all the wine without you kidding.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of, and hey, tell a friend they need e

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<v Speaker 3>bessies too. Bye.