Speaker 1: Welcome to the Wine and Wine Podcast. I'm Kelsey and
Speaker 1: I'm Ellie. This is your dose of friendship, fun and
Speaker 1: figuring life out together. Let's be e besties because life
Speaker 1: is messy. Wine, hopes and whiny is optional.
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Speaker 3: Who can say that? I mean a lot of people, actually, everybody, everyone,
Speaker 3: everybody who's moved on.
Speaker 4: To episode two.
Speaker 3: You can say that. But yay, thanks for being back again.
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Speaker 3: Let's make stickers out of them?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, would you guys want stickers?
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, we want stickers. We want I don't
Speaker 4: care if you guys want stickers. We want stickers.
Speaker 3: I love that. We're in a sticker like era generation
Speaker 3: these days, like our water bottles.
Speaker 2: Are full of stickers.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you one cannot have enough stickers.
Speaker 5: You can never have enough stickers.
Speaker 3: So noted, Let's do it.
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Speaker 3: Okay, so we're back with another wine. Yes, tell us
Speaker 3: about it, Kelsey.
Speaker 2: So this wine I specifically chose for the label partly
Speaker 2: because we are welcoming in twenty twenty five. It has
Speaker 2: the seven Moons, the phases of the moon.
Speaker 5: It just seems like it fit in my brain.
Speaker 2: So today we're drinking Seven Moons Red Blend. It has
Speaker 2: notes of dark berry, cherry, raspberry, mocha, baking spice, and
Speaker 2: vanilla bean coffee.
Speaker 3: Interesting. Yeah, I like the bottle. It has like very cute.
Speaker 3: It has the picture, yeah, like of the moon phases. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm here for it.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 3: Seems very witchy, very like, but perfect for like New
Speaker 3: Year's new start. Yes, because we're talking about resolutions today,
Speaker 3: we're talking about manifesting, manifesting, and you always want to
Speaker 3: manifest on a full moon, y'all.
Speaker 2: So AnyWho, okay, okay, So now we're going to check
Speaker 2: for legs, okay, which everybody, yes, figured out what legs? Me?
Speaker 3: Tell me what legs are?
Speaker 2: Okay, So legs when you swirl your wine glass, legs
Speaker 2: that are thicker and slower moving mean higher alcohol content
Speaker 2: and higher sugar levels. But it does not necessarily mean
Speaker 2: that the wine is high quality or low quality.
Speaker 3: And the legs are basically like the remnants of the
Speaker 3: wine that was swirled.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's trickling down. The are thin and pretty quick moving.
Speaker 2: So this is not a higher alcohol content, if that is.
Speaker 4: To be believed.
Speaker 3: Okay, interesting, Okay, so we did the swirling.
Speaker 5: We forgot to do a clink.
Speaker 3: We're doing the clinking, and we're doing that. Okay. I
Speaker 3: can't smell much on this one, Like I can smell
Speaker 3: like you.
Speaker 2: Can kind of smell like the barrel.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes it smells woody. Yes, I like it, but
Speaker 3: like like a subtle wood, not like.
Speaker 4: Bark.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, exactly.
Speaker 4: Okay, little little what the tongue?
Speaker 3: Okay, oh a little right? Okay, Okay, this one is
Speaker 3: has packs more of a punch.
Speaker 5: There is more punch.
Speaker 3: I need to get another sip. Definitely more of a kicker,
Speaker 3: but like a bad way not bad. And I mean,
Speaker 3: I don't know if I've said this before, but I'm
Speaker 3: kind of over like super super sweet wines like I.
Speaker 5: Use sweet wine.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I used to be that girly like in my
Speaker 3: early like twenties when I first started like drinking a lot.
Speaker 3: But now I'm more of like just a nice mix,
Speaker 3: even closer to dry, you know. So all that to
Speaker 3: say is that this is really good.
Speaker 4: This is like, this is pretty good.
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is a good.
Speaker 3: Like dry but with the sweet miss mix and it's
Speaker 3: like a mixed wine. I feel like, yeah, it's a blend.
Speaker 5: I don't know what the blend is.
Speaker 3: It doesn't say, Okay, I'm a blend, girly, then I've decided.
Speaker 5: I'm a blandnes I do like ones.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just says seven moons Red Blend celebrates the phases
Speaker 2: of the moon with seven enticing flavors that reveal a smooth, fruity,
Speaker 2: easy to drink wine. Uncork a bottle, poor glass, and
Speaker 2: find a connection in the moonlight.
Speaker 3: Ooh, dancing in the moonlight.
Speaker 4: Everybody, dude, brat.
Speaker 3: Do you think we get in sue it for that one?
Speaker 3: We really are? We really sorry, but okay listen, yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm I'm totally here for it. How much was that one?
Speaker 2: This one was I believe twelve ninety nine.
Speaker 3: That is an amazing I'm going to stalk up on
Speaker 3: all these wines that you're grabbing, Kelsey, because.
Speaker 5: Like they've been pretty decent.
Speaker 3: Yes, because I'm not gonna lie like I again, like
Speaker 3: I've said before, I'm not super knowledgeable with wines. So
Speaker 3: then when I go to like the liquor store and
Speaker 3: I grab something, I either grab the same thing I
Speaker 3: know I like, or I'm such a cheap ass that
Speaker 3: I'm just like, Okay, I guess I'll do this one
Speaker 3: and hope for the best, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: But I love the fact that I know now going
Speaker 3: into it, like, oh my gosh, I've tried this. It's
Speaker 3: really good, and I know it's gonna be twelve ninety nine.
Speaker 2: Exactly like I said, everyone's gonna be under twenty four bucks.
Speaker 2: But I'm also gonna shoot for under fifteen.
Speaker 4: Ooh, because.
Speaker 5: Broke as bitch.
Speaker 3: Listen, listen, we are. It's it's rough out here with
Speaker 3: that inflation. Let me tell you something, y'all. That inflation.
Speaker 3: I'm sure we are all feeling it. Yeah, it's too much,
Speaker 3: it's too much. Yes, have you been to McDonald's lately?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, don't even get me started.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, it was so funny. The other night
Speaker 3: we like drive by just for some like drinks there
Speaker 3: because apparently the Coca Cola's there is the best. They're
Speaker 3: so Chris, okay, yeah, it's a dollar twenty nine or
Speaker 3: twenty five now for a drink at McDonald's. You know
Speaker 3: how it used to always be like a dollar.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't even have a dollar minu anymore.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's that's right too. I remember I was like, yeah,
Speaker 3: can I get a spicy a small fry and a drink?
Speaker 3: And they're like, it'll be seven something, and I'm like where.
Speaker 3: I'm like, where were the days that it was like
Speaker 3: three dollars? You guys? Come on, it's apparently I'm filling it, y'all.
Speaker 3: I am filling it.
Speaker 5: Yes, oh my god.
Speaker 3: Well with us. But that's totally besides the point. We're
Speaker 3: not here to talk about economics. We are here to
Speaker 3: talk about twenty five, the new year, Yes, and what
Speaker 3: a year.
Speaker 4: Is going to be?
Speaker 3: Happy New Year. This is us like ringing invisible, like
Speaker 3: me trying to make bells you know whatever you think
Speaker 3: roll in your hand, Yeah, yeah, yeah, just imagine that, y'all.
Speaker 3: Happy New Year, Happy New Year. I hope you guys
Speaker 3: spend it well, yes, with friends or familily at the.
Speaker 5: Bar, or maybe you got a midnight kiss.
Speaker 3: And maybe you didn't.
Speaker 2: It's fine.
Speaker 3: When I said that ippointed to me, that was really sad.
Speaker 3: It's fine anyways anyway. Yeah, but yes, we're talking about
Speaker 3: the New Year, yes, and with that comes resolutions, your resolutions. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and I feel like it's a very mixed thing. Yeah right, Kelsey.
Speaker 2: Yes, So I do resolutions every year, Okay. Whether I
Speaker 2: stick to them or not, it's a whole nother story.
Speaker 2: Why I do them every year?
Speaker 4: What about you?
Speaker 3: I used to do them a lot way back in
Speaker 3: the day, and then I remember one year, maybe like
Speaker 3: five years ago. I don't know why I have there
Speaker 3: was there was a point in time in my life
Speaker 3: where I was really obsessed with polls and I would
Speaker 3: like post a ton of polls, like on Instagram as
Speaker 3: if I was somebody. But anyways, I was like, hey, guys,
Speaker 3: are you guys into New Year's resolutions or not? And
Speaker 3: a lot of people weren't. Yeah, and so I was like, hmm, okay,
Speaker 3: So there's a lot of like, I think you take
Speaker 3: it as you want if it if it feeds you
Speaker 3: and it gives you motivation, like I'm so here for it.
Speaker 3: If you're kind of just like, h not into it?
Speaker 3: All right, that's fine, not your.
Speaker 5: Cup of tea.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: So I feel like there's just like a ton of
Speaker 3: different things now, like people do like word of the year, resolutions,
Speaker 3: all the things. All that to say, oh my goodness,
Speaker 3: I know you asked me a question, but all that
Speaker 3: to say is yeah, in the weirdest way, I do
Speaker 3: do resolutions, but I don't call them a resolution. What
Speaker 3: do you call them? I kind of just like it's
Speaker 3: just like a refresher goal setting and like kind of
Speaker 3: just manifestation.
Speaker 5: Like I just just like it.
Speaker 3: Just I feel like everybody's on the same page when
Speaker 3: it feels just new, the new year feels new, that
Speaker 3: you feel so like I'm going to do it. I'm
Speaker 3: just gonna do it.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So whether that's start, yeah, whether you call it a resolution,
Speaker 3: whether you call it like like fast tracking your manifestations,
Speaker 3: whatever it is, like, I'm here for it.
Speaker 5: We're here for it.
Speaker 3: And we're here to talk about it. Yes. Okay, So
Speaker 3: so you have resolutions and you do year, let's do
Speaker 3: let's hear it. Let's hear some of yours.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: So it took me a little bit of thinking to
Speaker 2: figure out what I wanted to do this year. This year,
Speaker 2: I really want to focus on my mental health and
Speaker 2: my overall help. So my first resolution is I want
Speaker 2: to be comfortable in my own skin again. This last year,
Speaker 2: a year and a half kind of I have not
Speaker 2: felt confident. I've not felt great where I am. I
Speaker 2: haven't I've had a lot of health issues. So I
Speaker 2: just want to feel comfortable about who I am, what
Speaker 2: I appear to look.
Speaker 5: Like, and my mental state again. I just want to
Speaker 5: feel like myself.
Speaker 2: I want to be comfortable and I want to gain
Speaker 2: my confidence back, you.
Speaker 5: Know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that I'm here for it. I feel
Speaker 3: like we all get in those like little phases too,
Speaker 3: where we're like, oh, just not feeling me, you know.
Speaker 2: Yes, and that's been my last year. Yeah, Like any
Speaker 2: picture I see and like that's not me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5: And I just don't want to look.
Speaker 2: Back at all those memories and just hate them because
Speaker 2: they hate me.
Speaker 3: Yes, I've been in that place for sure before, where
Speaker 3: like I knew I was just like not at the
Speaker 3: place that I wanted to be, so I like never
Speaker 3: wanted to take pictures, if that makes sense. So like
Speaker 3: I remember this one time, I swear I go on
Speaker 3: tangents all the time, so please bear with me, But
Speaker 3: I swear I have a story for every topic we
Speaker 3: talked about. But I remember this one time I went
Speaker 3: to Vegas with my girlfriends and we did a girl's
Speaker 3: trip to Vegas and it was the best time, but
Speaker 3: it was during a time where I just did not
Speaker 3: feel confident about myself. Like I knew I wasn't where
Speaker 3: I wanted to be, and probably took like three pictures
Speaker 3: of myself that that whole weekend, And like even one
Speaker 3: of my girlfriends was like recording us at the pool,
Speaker 3: like just lounging, hanging out, and I had to like
Speaker 3: lean over to her and I was like, Hey, could
Speaker 3: you not get me in the video? And it's so
Speaker 3: sad to say, because I just didn't feel like comfortable
Speaker 3: and confident. And it's one of those things where you're
Speaker 3: going to look back in like years from now, and
Speaker 3: you're like, wait, I wanted to be like why am
Speaker 3: I not in the video? You know? But it's because
Speaker 3: you just weren't feeling it, you know, which exactly fine,
Speaker 3: But it's sad because we put ourselves there and all
Speaker 3: the things, so goddamn society, damn you not you, not you,
Speaker 3: but society, society and the expectations. But I'm glad you're
Speaker 3: you have that and like you're kind of you know,
Speaker 3: like gun ho about like making that effen.
Speaker 2: And I really hope that as we continue on with
Speaker 2: this podcast and we share where we're at with this,
Speaker 2: tips and tricks for it and everything, that we can
Speaker 2: also help you guys get confident in your own skin too,
Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen.
Speaker 5: This is our fucking year.
Speaker 3: Five.
Speaker 5: Baby.
Speaker 3: It sounds good too, it does. It's a quarter yes,
Speaker 3: you know, the twenty five. Sorry, but yeah, it just
Speaker 3: sounds good.
Speaker 5: It does sound good.
Speaker 3: No, I'm so here for it, and yeah I like
Speaker 3: that one, so go Kelsey go. I'm here for well
Speaker 3: funny enough actually though, because that's actually one of mine too,
Speaker 3: and I feel like it's I think a lot of
Speaker 3: people like, yeah, and it's important too, Like I'm not
Speaker 3: going to get into like all these things, but I mean,
Speaker 3: your health is important, and I feel like we we
Speaker 3: are the main characters of our own life, if that
Speaker 3: makes any sense, So of course we're going to think
Speaker 3: about like, okay, like how do I look, how do
Speaker 3: I feel about myself? All the things. So that's Actually,
Speaker 3: one of my like resolutions or manifestations is like in
Speaker 3: this new year, to just be more mindful of how
Speaker 3: I eat, how I feel about myself and like things
Speaker 3: I want to do to like be there so again
Speaker 3: tangent girly here. But lately this literally happened just this
Speaker 3: past week. Actually, I was like, Okay, I want to
Speaker 3: be I want to be like me fully in my
Speaker 3: highest self, where I'm like just that girl for me,
Speaker 3: if that makes sense, Like you can be that girl,
Speaker 3: you can be that guy for you, you know, Like,
Speaker 3: but how are like how are you showing up that
Speaker 3: day for that?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: So I used to have this mindset of like I
Speaker 3: need to do this, this this to be where I
Speaker 3: want to be, and so it was always a work
Speaker 3: towards going where I knew I wanted to be. But
Speaker 3: then this past week I've had like the biggest mind shift.
Speaker 3: It's crazy. It's not that I have to work to
Speaker 3: be where I want to be. Yeah, I just have
Speaker 3: to do what I know I am exactly if that
Speaker 3: makes any sense.
Speaker 2: You just need to act like you are your own
Speaker 2: main character.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like that and it will come and that
Speaker 3: you're already there. Whatever goal it is right. So whether
Speaker 3: you want to lose weight, whether you want to feel
Speaker 3: more energized, like whatever it is you want to do,
Speaker 3: be just I wake up now a days and I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 3: what does Ellie at her highest self like do every day?
Speaker 3: And I'm like, well, damn, I guess she wakes up
Speaker 3: at six am and she goes to the gym and
Speaker 3: she drinks half a gallon of water by noon, you
Speaker 3: know what i mean. Like it was one of those
Speaker 3: things where I'm like, Okay, this is what she does
Speaker 3: because she's there already there, yes, yes, And it's been
Speaker 3: the biggest mind shift and it has worked so well.
Speaker 3: I feel so good. It's crazy.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to try that because I have heard that.
Speaker 2: I have heard that you just have to act like
Speaker 2: your higher self or what you think your dream self
Speaker 2: would be doing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I asked myself.
Speaker 5: I fat like you're already there.
Speaker 3: Oh, And it's helped so much, like and I love
Speaker 3: like I love almost like habit stacking too, so like
Speaker 3: I'm at the gym and like I do the red
Speaker 3: light therapy and I'm doing manifestation visualization while I'm in there,
Speaker 3: and then going to the gym helps me drink water.
Speaker 3: Like if I were to skip the gym and then
Speaker 3: just wake up, roll out of bed, go to work,
Speaker 3: I'm not going to drink nearly as much water as
Speaker 3: if I were already at the gym. And I'm like
Speaker 3: working out and I'm thirsty obviously, yes, so I'm just
Speaker 3: drinking water. So it's all these like things into one,
Speaker 3: Like going to the gym helps me move my body,
Speaker 3: helps me get my water intake, helps with my manifestation visualization.
Speaker 3: Like it's all these things and I'm just like, okayyay,
Speaker 3: this is what your higher self does.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: Wow, I went on a tangent, but.
Speaker 2: That well, honestly, that kind of segues into my second resolution, Okay, okay,
Speaker 2: and that's getting my health in check. Ohause, like I
Speaker 2: said with my first one, I've had some health issues
Speaker 2: last year, and after extensive tests and everything, we realized
Speaker 2: that it was not just but it was just high cortisol,
Speaker 2: but like severely high cortisol. And so she offered my
Speaker 2: doctor offered to put me on some medication, but I
Speaker 2: just didn't want to be on yet another medication. So
Speaker 2: I wanted to figure out how to do it. Naturally first,
Speaker 2: and after research and everything, doctor TikTok came to their
Speaker 2: rescue and I ended up after doing all this research
Speaker 2: on Google, you know, targeted ads and stuff, I finally
Speaker 2: started seeing all these things. But this cortis all drink,
Speaker 2: and I started taking it. I didn't see any results
Speaker 2: for like a month and a half, so starting it
Speaker 2: to get discouraged.
Speaker 5: I was almost gonna stop drinking it.
Speaker 2: Then finally I started seeing a lot of things happening better.
Speaker 2: I was able to get off my antidepressants. I was
Speaker 2: able to get off my acne medication. I was able
Speaker 2: to regulate my body temperature. All these different things were
Speaker 2: starting to show. However, I still have not seen the
Speaker 2: weight loss. And I'm not like saying I'm like anywhere
Speaker 2: you know, neu obese or whatnot. But I gained almost
Speaker 2: forty pounds in eight months, which for me is an
Speaker 2: awful lot. And that's what really got me on this
Speaker 2: health journey and trying to figure out what was actually
Speaker 2: wrong with me. So I'm starting to get my health
Speaker 2: in check, and I'm going into twenty five, twenty twenty five,
Speaker 2: with things already turning around.
Speaker 5: But I just really want to get back to where
Speaker 5: I was. I want to figure out.
Speaker 2: How to get everything fully in control, lose that forty
Speaker 2: pounds that I gained, and just to be in the
Speaker 2: best health I've been in a few years.
Speaker 3: I love it. I'm here for it. Yes, you got it.
Speaker 5: I am the main character that.
Speaker 3: You are, the man character of your story.
Speaker 5: That main character.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I already yeah, yep, see done done. It's already done.
Speaker 4: It's already done.
Speaker 3: So you wake up every day and you're like, Okay,
Speaker 3: since it's already done, what are the habits? What are
Speaker 3: the actions that I do? Because it's already done, you know.
Speaker 3: And that's so just manifestation. It's not like the like
Speaker 3: desire and the urge and like the wantingness of it.
Speaker 3: It's the fact that you're already in the present moment
Speaker 3: of having it, yes, and feeling so secure in that
Speaker 3: that it's just there, you know. So anyways, I follow
Speaker 3: all these like manifestation goldis and I love them so
Speaker 3: much and they help me, and I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: that's so true. But another thing I do actually too.
Speaker 3: So I actually lately have been sleeping with like these
Speaker 3: YouTube videos of just like affirmations every night. Then I
Speaker 3: just fall asleep to them. And I'm just like, you
Speaker 3: seep into my subconscious and you tweak it. Because it's
Speaker 3: all about subconscious, you know what I mean. It's all
Speaker 3: about what you internally, internally think. And I mean your
Speaker 3: mind is so strong that it doesn't know the difference
Speaker 3: between what's fake and what's real. Yes, and since we're
Speaker 3: the creators of our own reality, why wouldn't we create
Speaker 3: the best life for ourselves?
Speaker 5: Exactly?
Speaker 3: And that's my field. Thanks for coming to my ted
Speaker 3: took everybody away.
Speaker 2: Oh good what's your next resolution?
Speaker 5: Yes, you call the manifestations?
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see. Oh my goodness, Oh my goodness. You
Speaker 3: know it's not a pretty one. It's not a fun one,
Speaker 3: but it's a necessary one. My finances, you're preaching to
Speaker 3: the guire. I need to get that shut together, don't we?
Speaker 1: All?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 3: It was all fun and games this year. I like
Speaker 3: traveled for six months. It was all fun and games.
Speaker 3: I did relateiatively well overseas, but I didn't do as
Speaker 3: well as I thought I would because I didn't calculate
Speaker 3: it as well as I should have. And then I
Speaker 3: came home and I got a little depressing. I'm not
Speaker 3: gonna lie. There's just like a lot of life changes
Speaker 3: and stuff like that. So then I stopped working, and
Speaker 3: then when you don't work, you don't get paid. So
Speaker 3: I'm just like, what's happening right now? What is my life?
Speaker 3: What is happening? So it's kind of just being more
Speaker 3: mindful of like how I spend my money, what I
Speaker 3: do with my money. And the one really really big
Speaker 3: thing I need to work on is the scarcity mindset.
Speaker 3: And again that has to go back into like I
Speaker 3: need to manifest that that's no longer in my life
Speaker 3: because it's all it's all about, just like the energy
Speaker 3: with your money, like if you feel like you just
Speaker 3: don't have a healthy relationship with it and you are
Speaker 3: like scared of it. Like because I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 3: I know this sounds weird, but and I'm not going
Speaker 3: to like a test that I have that today because
Speaker 3: that's not my reality anymore. Like I choose that not
Speaker 3: to be. But like at one point in time, like
Speaker 3: I was scared of money, Like I would get this
Speaker 3: really nice, big paycheck and then I'd be like, oh
Speaker 3: my gosh, I'd okay, I don't know what to do it.
Speaker 3: So then I'd pay all this and then I'd spend
Speaker 3: and it was almost like here, take it, take it,
Speaker 3: take a ticket, whereas I need to be so comfortable
Speaker 3: in it and be like, you know, like I worked
Speaker 3: for this, I'm in this energy to receive it, and
Speaker 3: this is how I'm going to like disperse my work basically.
Speaker 3: So anyways, I'm working on the mindset of just this
Speaker 3: this like just not having that scarcity mindset and just
Speaker 3: being more mindful and knowing that money's my friend and
Speaker 3: it's just energy and it comes and goes and all
Speaker 3: the things.
Speaker 5: I'm the primary bread loser of mine.
Speaker 3: Shot get I lose, no, get out of here. But
Speaker 3: and words are so strong. Words are spells. So we're
Speaker 3: not saying that anymore.
Speaker 2: That was but that was I did not come up
Speaker 2: with that, though I saw it on Instagram the other day.
Speaker 4: I thought it was hilarious.
Speaker 3: That is hilarious. That is hilarious.
Speaker 4: Credit to ever actually thought of No, Yeah.
Speaker 3: But anyways, So yeah, all that to say is that's
Speaker 3: definitely one of my manifestations resolutions this coming years, that
Speaker 3: just being so mindful about it and just having good
Speaker 3: like energy with it and just knowing, like you know,
Speaker 3: hm that I'm going to get over for this. Fine,
Speaker 3: We'll be fine.
Speaker 2: You know what, next year, going into twenty twenty six,
Speaker 2: We're gonna be looking back and I'll be like, we
Speaker 2: did so good with money this year.
Speaker 3: Good good, because right now it's that meme where like
Speaker 3: the house is burning down, it's fine, and it's fine,
Speaker 3: this is fine. I'm fine, Like I'm like.
Speaker 4: It really yeah, yeah it's a dumpster fire.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yep, it's fine. I'm fine. I'm fine. It's so fine.
Speaker 3: So anyways, those are like my top two though for
Speaker 3: sure top two. Do you have any others?
Speaker 5: I do? I have one more?
Speaker 2: Okay, spill so I've had a really wine yeah still
Speaker 2: the wine with an h. So I have had a
Speaker 2: great two years of yes years. But that kind of
Speaker 2: segues from yours. It costs a lot of money. So
Speaker 2: I am going to this year schedule a lot more
Speaker 2: mean time. I just honestly learned to fucking say no.
Speaker 2: I it's hard, but you've got it. Don't want to
Speaker 2: hurt people's feelings. I struggle to set boundaries because, like
Speaker 2: you know, I have friends all over the place. It's
Speaker 2: hard to schedule time because we have opposite schedules and
Speaker 2: this and that. So when they want to do something,
Speaker 2: then I'm going to say yes because I haven't seen
Speaker 2: them in a while. But it's like it'll be everyone
Speaker 2: all of a sudden being like, oh I can do
Speaker 2: something today, I can do something tomorrow this or that,
Speaker 2: and so then I'm just constantly like okay, yeah, sure whatever.
Speaker 2: Then I get burnt out, spend too much money, and
Speaker 2: then I'm depressed.
Speaker 5: I'm an introvert, so.
Speaker 2: Doing too much social stuff too close together really.
Speaker 5: Drains my battery. And then I get sick.
Speaker 2: And it's just been a couple of years of just
Speaker 2: being overwhelmed, overworked, overscheduled.
Speaker 5: And sick.
Speaker 3: Because I don't know how to say no, the quadruple cycle.
Speaker 2: So to all my friends listening, I apologize in advance,
Speaker 2: but your girls, please don't take it to heart if
Speaker 2: I say no, but I need a break.
Speaker 5: I just need a break.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, totally. I hear you. I hear you. It
Speaker 3: is a lot to just you know, go go go
Speaker 3: all the time. You know, some days you just want
Speaker 3: to sit on the couch, yes and watch TV.
Speaker 2: And I hate to complain about it because I'm like
Speaker 2: I used to be someone the only head like maybe
Speaker 2: two three close friends, and now I'm surrounded with a
Speaker 2: bunch of friends and I love it.
Speaker 5: Like I'm so grateful. So I kind of sound.
Speaker 2: Like terrible when I say that, Like I just it's.
Speaker 5: Overwhelming because a lot of people don't have that.
Speaker 2: I do feel incredibly grateful, but I also just can't
Speaker 2: function that way.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're not getting all of me if I do that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I hear you, I hear you. This is definitely
Speaker 3: these past couple of years, I slowly have learned to
Speaker 3: say no, and it is very much a scary thing
Speaker 3: and I.
Speaker 5: Just don't want to miss out on experience.
Speaker 4: I have fomo, yeah, but I don't do the same time.
Speaker 5: I have fomo, but then I also have like.
Speaker 2: Fomo from not being at home just vegging.
Speaker 5: On my couch.
Speaker 3: I have FOMO on big things, yes, not small things.
Speaker 5: Yes.
Speaker 3: So like somebody was like, listen here, bitch, we're going
Speaker 3: on a girl's trip to Nashville for the week or whatever. Bitch,
Speaker 3: I'm there, Like.
Speaker 5: Problem, that's been my two years.
Speaker 2: Everyone's like, yo, we're doing this, We're going there, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, fuck, yes, I'll be there, but I can't.
Speaker 3: Afford But I don't have fomo with small stuff. I
Speaker 3: don't have fomo with like, hey, we're going out to
Speaker 3: like dinner tomorrow night. Sorry I can't. I can't. But
Speaker 3: that's probably a bad way to think about it, like
Speaker 3: because I'm like, damn, I really be spending that money
Speaker 3: going on these trips. Yes, you know, so I helped
Speaker 3: you in no way to or formed with this one
Speaker 3: because I am of no help.
Speaker 4: You're like, okay, so listen, so listen. That was I say.
Speaker 3: Yes, that was the most horrible advice. Don't take it
Speaker 3: as advice. That was just commentary at this point.
Speaker 2: If you have any advice for me on how to
Speaker 2: say no and set those boundaries, yeah, please let me know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's all up.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: How do I not feel bad about it? I guess
Speaker 2: that's my biggest thing. How do you not feel bad
Speaker 2: about saying no? How do I not hurt people people's feelings?
Speaker 2: Am I hurting people's feelings? I feel like I am
Speaker 2: to my core.
Speaker 3: I feel like if you're just like tactful about it,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Like, and I know you're a tactful person, so that's
Speaker 3: not hard, you know what I mean? Yeah, it's just
Speaker 3: being like nice and tactful about it. My friend recently
Speaker 3: has been really good at saying no and like setting boundaries,
Speaker 3: you know. And at first I was like, what in
Speaker 3: the fuh? And then I'm like, oh, wait, no, this
Speaker 3: is for her good, Like this is for her better self.
Speaker 2: I would assume that, like my friends and everybody like
Speaker 2: would understand.
Speaker 3: If if if And I know you have really good girlfriends.
Speaker 3: But all I'm saying in general, like this is just
Speaker 3: for the general population, like if you feel like or
Speaker 3: it does turn out things, your girlfriends are like what
Speaker 3: the fuck? Like come on you, Like your girlfriends should
Speaker 3: be understanding, they should be supportive.
Speaker 5: Yeah, they understand that you need to work on your
Speaker 5: mental health.
Speaker 3: Yeah that or switch it up like even with me,
Speaker 3: like with because I know one of my resolutions is
Speaker 3: like finances, Like I'm not hanging out with people who
Speaker 3: want to go to dinner all the time and get
Speaker 3: drinks and like I'm gonna be like, hey, do you
Speaker 3: want to go on a hike, Do you want to
Speaker 3: go to the sauna?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Do you want to watch a movie at your place
Speaker 3: or mine? Exactly? It's going to be it's just all
Speaker 3: about switching up the dynamic, the environment and going from there.
Speaker 2: Unluckily, my friends were all were completely fine with just
Speaker 2: you know, vegging on the couch, having some wine, watching
Speaker 2: a movie.
Speaker 5: But you know, sometimes it's still.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you'll have to let us know how the same,
Speaker 3: no goes, have to.
Speaker 4: Check in a couple of months, see how it's going.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but no, that's good. Those are really good
Speaker 3: resolutions you got going on for yourself.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really hard on them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's just execute the full year though, yes, full
Speaker 3: send that is.
Speaker 2: I think that's where people struggle, is to stick to them. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so that's what we're going to be here for. Maybe
Speaker 2: let's plan that, like every quarter or something, let's do
Speaker 2: a check in.
Speaker 3: I love that we can check in with.
Speaker 2: Our followers and our e besties.
Speaker 3: Yes, to help keep you guys motivated too, Yes, yes, yeses,
Speaker 3: whatever you want to call it, whether it's your resolutions
Speaker 3: or your manifestations, like where your girl's at in ninety
Speaker 3: days or sixty days or whatever it is. You know,
Speaker 3: because we're just we're just here evolving into a betterself.
Speaker 3: We're going to hold you responsible and drink responsible, just.
Speaker 4: As we have not done.
Speaker 3: No, not at all. We never know. That's that's definitely
Speaker 3: not one of our resolutions.
Speaker 4: I mean we have white in the title.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's hilarious. No, but yeah, this is good.
Speaker 3: I feel like twenty twenty five will be will be good.
Speaker 3: We just gotta keep our mental health in check. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so take your hot girl walks.
Speaker 2: Yes, and Liswin to us, take us with you. We'll
Speaker 2: be there just twenty thirty forty minutes. Yeah, we'll be
Speaker 2: there for you. We'll be there with you.
Speaker 3: You got it? Yes, Okay, yay, this has been so fun.
Speaker 5: This has been so fun.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Episode two, Oh my gosh. But also, like, how about
Speaker 3: you share in the comments when we post about this episode,
Speaker 3: like what your guys's resolutions or like manifestations.
Speaker 5: Are we want to hear them.
Speaker 3: Yes, and maybe I'll go on like a tangent on
Speaker 3: stories or something, or you know what, we'll probably have
Speaker 3: another episode about manifestation. Yes, because there's so much like
Speaker 3: I'm so good at it.
Speaker 5: She's teaching me how to manifest guys.
Speaker 3: Not that I'm like, I'm just saying i feel like
Speaker 3: I've manifested so much. But we're all manifestors if you
Speaker 3: think about it. So everybody has manifested something. But there's
Speaker 3: so many like thoughts in my head as far as
Speaker 3: like oh my, gosh, you do this, you can do this.
Speaker 3: I oh my, I'll tell you offline because this one's
Speaker 3: a secret, and maybe I'll let you guys in on
Speaker 3: it in a couple like when we actually talk about it,
Speaker 3: hold me to it. I'll tell you guys a secret.
Speaker 3: But anyways, it was crazy, so I'll have to tell
Speaker 3: you out to this wine. Yeah I will, I will
Speaker 3: fill the wine. But yeah, share in the comments, like
Speaker 3: what your resolutions are or your favorite manifestation tips and
Speaker 3: tricks are, because we want to hear them all.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we want to learn how to stay accountable.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it, girlies, and can I call them gilies?
Speaker 3: Girlies and gilies.
Speaker 5: I love it.
Speaker 3: Girlies and gilies are besties. For the rest, write that down.
Speaker 5: We're writing it down.
Speaker 3: Oh goodness, I love it. All right, Well, thanks so
Speaker 3: much you guys, see you next episode. Okay, bye, all
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