Speaker 1: There are people in your life right now who cannot
Speaker 1: be trusted, not because they wear it on their face,
Speaker 1: not because they hurt you loudly, but because they hide
Speaker 1: their danger behind charm, helpfulness, and subtle manipulation. Carl Jung
Speaker 1: didn't just study the mind, he studied what people hide,
Speaker 1: and he made it clear the most dangerous people are
Speaker 1: not the loud ones, but the quiet distortions who blend
Speaker 1: in pretending to care while quietly dismantling you from the inside.
Speaker 1: They don't always shout, they don't always abuse. Sometimes they smile.
Speaker 1: That's what makes them dangerous. That's why you keep missing
Speaker 1: the signs. That's why Jung made it his life's work
Speaker 1: to understand not just the persona, but the shadow. Because
Speaker 1: people don't show you who they are. They show you
Speaker 1: what they think will work, and if you're not aware,
Speaker 1: you'll give your time, energy, trust, even love to someone
Speaker 1: who is never safe to begin with. So Jung laid
Speaker 1: out six patterns, six psychological masks, six personality types that
Speaker 1: feel harmless at first but quietly destroy you if you're
Speaker 1: not awake. Let's begin one the chronic victim. This is
Speaker 1: the person who never takes responsibility everything that happens to
Speaker 1: them is someone else's fault. They are always suffering, always attacked,
Speaker 1: always done wrong. On the surface, you feel bad for them,
Speaker 1: You empathize, you help, You become emotionally invested in their recovery.
Speaker 1: But Jung saw this clearly. People who live in permanent
Speaker 1: victimhood are often hiding deep manipulation because if you are
Speaker 1: always the victim, you never have to be accountable, you
Speaker 1: never have to change, you never have to confront your
Speaker 1: own darkness. The chronic victim uses their pain as a weapon.
Speaker 1: They guilt trip, they twist reality. They pull sympathy out
Speaker 1: of you and turn it into obligation. You don't help them,
Speaker 1: you end up carrying them. And the worst part, they
Speaker 1: don't want healing, They want control. Young warned us. When
Speaker 1: someone is always a victim, they have likely fused with
Speaker 1: their shadow, the part of them the thrives on emotional
Speaker 1: manipulation under the disguise of helplessness. These people will never
Speaker 1: change because to change would be to lose the only
Speaker 1: power they have, your pity. And if you don't distance
Speaker 1: yourself from them, you'll start to feel guilty for not
Speaker 1: being broken yourself. Two. The charming mirror Jung called this
Speaker 1: the persona trap. Someone who reflects back to you exactly
Speaker 1: what you want to see. They're agreeable, supportive, they laugh
Speaker 1: at your jokes, they admire your dreams, They validate your insecurities.
Speaker 1: At first, they feel like your biggest supporter, but slowly
Speaker 1: you notice something strange. You don't actually know who they
Speaker 1: are because they're not showing you anything real. They're mirroring
Speaker 1: you to gain trust. Jung wrote that when a person
Speaker 1: over identifies with their persona, they become a mask, and
Speaker 1: the real self stays hidden, protected, untouched, and unaccountable. The
Speaker 1: charming mirror is dang injurious because they feel safe. But
Speaker 1: what's behind the mask Nothing no substance, no stability, no
Speaker 1: consistent values, only the ability to adapt to mimic to impress.
Speaker 1: They're not loyal to you. They're loyal to your approval,
Speaker 1: and the moment you stop admiring them, they vanish or worse,
Speaker 1: turn against you. You didn't meet them, You met your
Speaker 1: reflection in their performance, and trusting someone like that is
Speaker 1: like shaking hands with smoke. Three the passive aggressive enabler.
Speaker 1: This one is subtle. They don't openly criticize. They don't
Speaker 1: fight you directly, They let you speak, and then they suggest,
Speaker 1: They hint, they undermine. This person will nod when you
Speaker 1: share your dream and later say something like that's ambitious.
Speaker 1: I just don't want you to be disappointed, or you're
Speaker 1: so brave for trying that. I don't think I'd ever
Speaker 1: risk failing. Like that sound supportive, right, but it isn't.
Speaker 1: Young described this dynamic as the hidden shadow of the helper.
Speaker 1: These people don't attack your decisions. They slowly erode your
Speaker 1: confidence through emotional suggestion. They present doubt as concern, they
Speaker 1: present fear as logic, they present judgment as maturity, and
Speaker 1: if you're not conscious, you'll internalize their limitations as your own.
Speaker 1: Young believed that this type is especially dangerous because they
Speaker 1: pretend to empower you while quietly making sure you never
Speaker 1: outgrow them, because if you succeed without them, they lose
Speaker 1: their invisible grip, they lose relevance, and for the enabler,
Speaker 1: that's a silent ego death. So they clip your wings
Speaker 1: before you ever take flight and call it support. Four.
Speaker 1: The secret competitor. This person isn't competing with the world.
Speaker 1: They're competing with you, but not openly. They pretend to
Speaker 1: be your friend. They applaud your success, they act like
Speaker 1: they're happy for you, But every time something good happens
Speaker 1: for you, they find a way to make it about them.
Speaker 1: They minimize it, They redirect the attention. They tell their
Speaker 1: own story, slightly better, slightly more impressive. Young believed that
Speaker 1: this type is driven by unconscious inferiority. They don't hate you,
Speaker 1: they resent what you reflect back at them, their own inadequacy,
Speaker 1: and instead of owning that feeling and growing from it,
Speaker 1: they compete secretly. They copy your ideas and pretend they
Speaker 1: were theirs. They offer backhanded compliments. They only celebrate you
Speaker 1: when they're ahead, never when you're above. You feel it
Speaker 1: in the tension, in the forced praise, in the subtle shifts,
Speaker 1: and if you ignore it, you'll keep pouring trust into
Speaker 1: someone who sees you as a threat, not a friend.
Speaker 1: And here's the twist. When you fail, they'll feel relief,
Speaker 1: but they won't say it. They'll just say I was
Speaker 1: afraid this might happen. I tried to warn you. This
Speaker 1: person is not a teammate. They are a mirror competitor
Speaker 1: who plays the role of support just to stay close
Speaker 1: enough to batage you emotionally. Young warned, never trust someone
Speaker 1: who can't clap when it's not their turn to win.
Speaker 1: Four out of six revealed, each one more subtle than
Speaker 1: the last, each one more dangerous the longer they go undetected.
Speaker 1: Now we'll expose the final two, the manipulative wise one
Speaker 1: and the seductive mpath who hides control under compassion plus
Speaker 1: how Carl Jung believed these types form through early trauma
Speaker 1: and unintegrated shadow, and Young believed these two were the
Speaker 1: hardest to spot because they often appear wise, helpful, or
Speaker 1: even healing. They don't control you through force, They control
Speaker 1: you through your need for love, growth, or clarity. Let's
Speaker 1: continue five. The spiritual narcissist, the wise one. This is
Speaker 1: the person who presents themselves as enlightened, mature, grounded, emotionally advanced.
Speaker 1: They speak softly, They quote philosophy, They reference healing, alignment,
Speaker 1: shadow work, and mindfulness. They present themselves as above conflict,
Speaker 1: above ego, but in truth, they're deeply attached to being
Speaker 1: seen as superior. Young would call this a split psyche,
Speaker 1: where the conscious mind clings to spiritual identity while the
Speaker 1: unconscious shadow leaks out as quiet superiority. Control and judgment
Speaker 1: the danger. They don't dominate you by arguing. They dominate
Speaker 1: you by always being the calm one, making you feel emotional, unhealed,
Speaker 1: or spiritually infes. Anytime you push back, they say things like,
Speaker 1: sounds like a trigger you haven't dealt with yet. I'm
Speaker 1: just holding space. It's not my responsibility to fix your projection.
Speaker 1: You're still reacting. You have inner work to do. It
Speaker 1: sounds wise, but it's really a power play. They use
Speaker 1: emotional language to invalidate your reality. You can't win an
Speaker 1: argument because they'll never admit to one. You can't confront
Speaker 1: them because they'll reframe your anger as a flaw in you.
Speaker 1: And the more conscious you try to become, the more
Speaker 1: they shift the frame to stay above you, silently, spiritually untouchable.
Speaker 1: Young warned about this, especially because the wise one often
Speaker 1: builds their persona out of unintegrated ego. They didn't kill
Speaker 1: their ego, They just gave it robes and crystal. They
Speaker 1: buried it under concepts and called it transcendence. And the
Speaker 1: more you trust them to guide you, the more power
Speaker 1: they gain. Not by helping you grow, but by keeping
Speaker 1: you small, confused, and always needing their clarity. They don't
Speaker 1: want equals, they want students. They don't want healing, they
Speaker 1: want authority. And if you're not careful, you'll mistake their
Speaker 1: emotional stillness for depth, when in fact it's just performance.
Speaker 1: Six the EmPATH who always ends up in control. Young
Speaker 1: wrote often about projection, how people assign their own needs, wounds,
Speaker 1: and intentions onto others unconsciously. And the sixth type is
Speaker 1: a master of this, the empathic controller. They feel everything,
Speaker 1: They sense energy, They pay up on moods, body language, tension, subtext.
Speaker 1: They cry easily, They comfort you often. They make you
Speaker 1: feel deeply seen. At first, this seems like a gift,
Speaker 1: it feels like connection, but over time it becomes something else. Control.
Speaker 1: Through sensitivity, you start adjusting your behavior so you don't
Speaker 1: disturb them. You suppress your reactions so you don't hurt them.
Speaker 1: You hesitate to express frustration because they'll say that energy
Speaker 1: really affects me, And before you realize it, you're not
Speaker 1: expressing yourself at all. You're managing them because they've convinced
Speaker 1: you their pain is your fault. Young warned about this
Speaker 1: subtle danger that many people who claim to be highly
Speaker 1: sensitive are actually projecting unhealed chaos outward and demanding the
Speaker 1: world organize itself around their wounds. This is where the
Speaker 1: mpath becomes toxic. They don't want connection, they want emotional
Speaker 1: safety at your expense, and if you fail to meet it,
Speaker 1: they break down and you become the bad guy. Suddenly
Speaker 1: you're insensitive, you're cold, you're unstable. You're responsible for their spiral.
Speaker 1: But it's not your spiral, it's theirs, and they've never
Speaker 1: learned to hold it, so they place it on you.
Speaker 1: And if you're not careful, you'll spend months, even years,
Speaker 1: trying to regulate someone who never took responsibility for themselves.
Speaker 1: You'll mistake emotional chaos for depth, You'll mistake sensitivity for purity,
Speaker 1: You'll mistake control for closeness, and by the time you
Speaker 1: realize it, your identity will be wrapped around someone else's
Speaker 1: emotional storm. That's not love, that's psychological submission. And Young's
Speaker 1: advice walk away because this kind of person will never
Speaker 1: say they're dangerous. They'll say they're just feeling too much.
Speaker 1: And unless you are deeply rooted in yourself, you will
Speaker 1: start to believe them. You'll believe their pain is your fault.
Speaker 1: They're chaos is your burden. Their breakdowns are your responsibility,
Speaker 1: but they're not. You didn't break them, You just got
Speaker 1: too close the deeper warning. Now that you've heard all
Speaker 1: six types, you might ask why do these people exist?
Speaker 1: Why do they move this way? And Young's answer is
Speaker 1: brutally clear, because they never met their s shatto, so
Speaker 1: now they make you carry it. They never faced the
Speaker 1: part of them that's manipulative, so they project it onto you.
Speaker 1: They never admitted their need for control, so they control
Speaker 1: people in the name of love, support, or guidance. They
Speaker 1: never took responsibility for their pain, so they made it
Speaker 1: your job to fix. These people aren't rare, They're everywhere,
Speaker 1: and they thrive in spaces where people don't know how
Speaker 1: to defend their energy. Jung believed the only protection was
Speaker 1: self awareness, to spot the mask, to see through the kindness,
Speaker 1: to hear what's not being said, and walk away before
Speaker 1: you need proof, because once you see it, you can't
Speaker 1: unsee it. Now we'll go beyond the list into how
Speaker 1: you stop attracting these people, why your shadow makes you
Speaker 1: tolerate them, and how to permanently become someone they can't manipulate, use,
Speaker 1: or break by now you've seen them. The six people,
Speaker 1: Carl Jung said, you should never trust, not because they're
Speaker 1: always evil, but because they're deeply unaware of themselves. And
Speaker 1: when someone has no awareness of their own shadow, they
Speaker 1: make you live in it. They become the chronic victim,
Speaker 1: the charming mirror, the quiet enabler, the hidden competitor, the
Speaker 1: spiritual narcissist, the empathic controller. They don't always come to
Speaker 1: destroy you. They come to feed from you. To Jung,
Speaker 1: this wasn't moral failure. This was a psychic pattern, a
Speaker 1: survival system of the unconscious trying to hold itself together
Speaker 1: by externalizing pain, control and emotional confusion. And if you
Speaker 1: don't recognize the pattern, you'll think it's just bad luck.
Speaker 1: You'll think you keep attracting bad people. You'll think you're
Speaker 1: being punished. But Jung would say, you're not being punished,
Speaker 1: you're being mirrored. Because here's the real warning. Most people
Speaker 1: miss you attract what you haven't integrated. Let that sink in.
Speaker 1: If you're always attracting manipulators, there's a part of you
Speaker 1: that's still afraid to stand in your own truth. If
Speaker 1: you're always surrounded by victims, there's a part of you
Speaker 1: that needs to be needed in order to feel valuable.
Speaker 1: If you're constantly betrayed by charming people, you're still worshiping
Speaker 1: external approval more than internal clarity. That's why this video
Speaker 1: isn't just about who to avoid. It's about why you
Speaker 1: tolerated them in the first place. And Jung believed the
Speaker 1: answer always lives in one place, your shadow. The shadow
Speaker 1: attracts the mask. Jung taught that the shadow is everything
Speaker 1: you've repressed. The parts of you you were told were
Speaker 1: too much or too selfish, or too intense or not lovable,
Speaker 1: so you buried them. You became nice, you became helpful,
Speaker 1: you became agreeable, you became emotionally intelligent. You became whatever
Speaker 1: would get you accepted. But here's the trade off. You
Speaker 1: lost your edge, You lost your instincts, You lost your
Speaker 1: barrier to harm, because when you repress your anger, you
Speaker 1: tolerate disrespect. When you repress your intuition, you ignore red flags.
Speaker 1: When you repress your self protection, you keep letting in
Speaker 1: the people who pretend to love you and then slowly
Speaker 1: consume you. Jung didn't want you to become cold. He
Speaker 1: wanted you to become whole and to do that. You
Speaker 1: have to stop pretending that your love is limitless, that
Speaker 1: your patience is eternal, and that your trust should be
Speaker 1: freely given, because it shouldn't be. Not everyone deserves access
Speaker 1: to you, especially not the people who live unconsciously. Because
Speaker 1: here's the brutal truth. Some people are not learning. They're
Speaker 1: just repeating. They've been the same for ten years. They're
Speaker 1: not doing shadow work. They're not evolving, they're not growing
Speaker 1: with you. They're just adapting their language to hide their
Speaker 1: same old patterns. And unless you become the kind of
Speaker 1: person who values inner alignment over outer harmony, you will
Speaker 1: keep bending for people who wouldn't stretch an inch for you.
Speaker 1: What to do now? If this video hit you hard good,
Speaker 1: it means something in you is waking up. It means
Speaker 1: you're done being easy to manipulate. It means the old
Speaker 1: version of you, the one who needed to be liked,
Speaker 1: needed to fix, needed to feel good, is finally tired.
Speaker 1: So here's how you move forward. One audit your circle.
Speaker 1: Start asking who drains me? Who confuses me? Who am
Speaker 1: I constantly explaining myself to If someone constantly needs context
Speaker 1: just to treat you right, they're not confused they're avoiding accountability.
Speaker 1: Let them go silently without guilt. Young believed withdrawal is
Speaker 1: one of the strongest acts of consciousness, not because you
Speaker 1: hate them, but because you've stopped abandoning yourself to keep
Speaker 1: the peace. Two. Let your shadow speak. Stop trying to
Speaker 1: be perfect, Let yourself say no, Let yourself get angry.
Speaker 1: Let yourself question people's intentions. Your shadow isn't evil, it's protective.
Speaker 1: It's the part of you that remembers who you are
Speaker 1: when you're being emotionally gas lit into forgetting. Let that
Speaker 1: part rise, Jung said. One does not become enlightened by
Speaker 1: imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.
Speaker 1: If you want peace, stop performing for it. Integrate the
Speaker 1: part of you that can walk away, that can set
Speaker 1: a boundary, that can say I'm not available for this anymore. Three.
Speaker 1: Stop explaining. The people who deserve your energy won't need
Speaker 1: you to justify your boundaries. They'll feel them, they'll respect them,
Speaker 1: and they'll match you with their own clarity. But the
Speaker 1: toxic ones, they'll demand explanations, they'll guilt trip you, they'll
Speaker 1: paint you as the problem. Let them. Young didn't believe
Speaker 1: in convincing unconscious people to see your light. He believed
Speaker 1: in becoming so grounded in yourself that their confusion no
Speaker 1: longer slows you down. Four, Trust what you felt the
Speaker 1: first time. Most people aren't confused, they're just hoping they're wrong.
Speaker 1: But you weren't. That moment you felt the energy shift,
Speaker 1: that moment you hesitated before trusting, that moment your gut
Speaker 1: said something's off here. That wasn't paranoia. That was your
Speaker 1: subconscious reading patterns before your mind caught up. Start listening
Speaker 1: to it. Because the people Young warned us about don't
Speaker 1: show up with warning signs. They show up with flattery,
Speaker 1: They show up with emotional stories. They show up with
Speaker 1: alignment and vulnerability and healing talk. But time always tells,
Speaker 1: and when it does, you better be far enough away
Speaker 1: that it no longer costs you anything. The final word,
Speaker 1: Carl Jung didn't want you to fear the world. He
Speaker 1: wanted you to stop fearing your own knowing. The more
Speaker 1: shadow you integrate, the fewer toxic people get close, not
Speaker 1: because you're you're hiding, but because you're energy no longer
Speaker 1: gives them entry. You stop explaining, you stop fixing, You
Speaker 1: stop justifying your standards and without ever raising your voice.
Speaker 1: You become someone no manipulator can reach, no narcissist can fool,
Speaker 1: no competitor can rattle. Because you are now the person
Speaker 1: Jung wanted you to be, awake, whole, and impossible to trick.