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Speaker 1: I made a decision I'll pace Sunny sund on.

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Speaker 2: I had a visions night.

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Speaker 1: Heyybody, what's up.

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Speaker 2: It's for crying out loud and uh it's a fuckers,

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it's up.

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Speaker 1: Fuckers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a rainy day in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: It's rain.

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Speaker 2: I missed it that the storm came in the day

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I left to go see Sunny and Oregon, which I'll

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tell you about, and uh, it was just it's just

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starting to come in and Sunny was telling me it

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was raining like all week leading up and we're going

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to the football game. I flew in on Friday morning

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and the football game was Friday evening and Sunny was like,

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it could be raining at the game. So I'm like,

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I got my raincoat and everything. I get to Oregon.

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Beautiful weather, sun out, no no rain the whole time

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I'm there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was beautiful. Wow, that's incredible. Yes, it's so

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ironic that La is getting all the rain right, you know,

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it never rains in southern California. Never rains in southern California.

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Name the artist.

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, I just was. Wendy was just saying this

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thatad song when she was here.

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Speaker 1: Who is it? I think it's JD. Souther. I would

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have never guessed it. I think now I have to

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look it up, but go on. Yes, but it's it's

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ironic that Oregon where it always right, not raining California.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so yeah, it was. I had a great

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time with studying.

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Speaker 1: It was don't don't, don't just skip through it. Yeah

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from the beginning. Okay, so you go there.

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Speaker 2: So I got two shows to fill I know, no,

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I uh, I got some I.

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Speaker 1: Got some story. So well, first of all, let me

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back up.

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Speaker 2: So before I went on Friday, I went down to

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Santa Barbara on was it Thursday?

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Speaker 1: Yes, when I texted you at one point and then

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I was like, oh wait are you and Santa Barbara right? Yes?

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Speaker 2: Yes, so Wednesday, Yes, So Wednesday we had we had

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errands to run, which is why I went down there.

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We had, yeah, we were going to go to the bank,

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and so I was like, okay, I'm gonna get there

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at one o'clock and we're gonna go do our errands.

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So I get up in the morning. It's like a

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two and a half hour drive down there. So I'm

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getting ready. I get a call. So my friend Jen Jennifer,

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she has a dog walking business.

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Speaker 1: And she's usually in my area a lot.

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Speaker 2: She calls me eight thirty in the morning and her

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car is broken down on the side of the road,

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has to be towed, and she's got five dogs in

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our car with her.

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Speaker 1: So and she's like twenty minutes away.

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Speaker 2: Now, I charged my car the night before, so it

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was all charged up. I went to say to Barbara

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once recently I went there and a full charge and

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back didn't even have to charge it when I was there,

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So I was hoping that's what I was going to

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do this time. So had it all charged up. Jen

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calls me, She's about fifteen twenty minutes away from my house.

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So what am I going to say? Call an uber

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with your five dogs?

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Speaker 1: Good luck? Good luck with that. My name's Paul.

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Speaker 2: Now, so anyway, I'm like, okay, I'll come get you,

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bring you guys and all of you guys back to

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my house. Pill the dogs can run around the backyard.

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I'll get ready, you take my car, drop off all

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the dogs, and then you can uber home and I'll

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leave as soon as you get back after dropping off

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the dogs.

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Speaker 1: So that happens.

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Speaker 2: So she drops off all the dogs, she comes back

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and I noticed my battery is now like at it's

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like ten percent less, it's like at eighty percent or whatever,

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still a good charge. I drive to Santa Barbara, and

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it all depends on how fast you're going and whatever,

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but basically I'm now noticing my batteries going down down.

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I'm gonna have to charge it when I get there.

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But I get there and I have enough battery. So

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we go do our errands and then Natalia is, like

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her roommate who I love, is working and she gets

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off at six and there's a restaurant next door. Let's

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go to visit her. She works in Monacito. Let's go

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to Minsito, which is about a twenty five thirty minute

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drive from where Natali is. But it's on the way

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back to La back to my house.

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Speaker 1: Oh it is, and then her roommate would give her

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a ride back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then yeah, we took two cars and then

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I'll just leave from there.

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Speaker 1: Oh I see. So we go, we eat dinner.

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Speaker 2: We're done at like nine o'clock and there's charging places

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around there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we.

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Speaker 2: Finished dinner, they get the girls leave. I go to

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the charging place that's right there. Turns out it's not

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a charging place. It's a frickin hotel. And that's the thing.

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It's like, you know, the thing with the Tesla is

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that it had it right on my dashboard, Like where's

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the closest charging station with this car? I have to

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go on the app blah blah blah. So I go

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on the app, but it's like it tells you like

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these ev charging stations, but they don't tell you it's

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a hotel. So then I have the same thing on

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my phone yet right out right, but you got so

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I go with misleading. It is miss like sometimes have

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you noticed like certain places that you know, for a factor,

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charging places just suddenly like don't show up and you're like.

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Speaker 1: They don't they don't come up there on the on

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the app. Yeah, because there's one that's at the Ralphs

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near my house. Always like okay, and it will tell

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you how many are in use, right, right, So I'll

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go to that one and every once in a while

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just it just doesn't exist.

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Speaker 2: Right and what I know it does? Yeah, yeah, okay,

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so go on. So you get to the hotel and

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I'm like, my car okay. It's also there's a lot

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of construction in Monacito, and my WiFi wasn't working very good.

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So I'm like, I pull up to them and I said,

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can I charge my car? And they're like, no, you

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have to be a guest. So then I'm like, oh fuck.

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So then I'm sitting with them and I'm looking up. Okay,

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I have enough to get back on the freeway towards LA.

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There's one place off the freeway. So then I.

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Speaker 1: Tried to what's your charge at at this point? See,

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it's hard to tell.

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Speaker 2: I know that I was talking to the guy and

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he looked at my charge and it said how many

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miles I have to go? And then how much battery

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I had left?

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Speaker 1: But that's that's mislead. It is miss leading. It'll say

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you have one hundred miles right then you'll literally drive

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two miles and it'll say now you have eighty yeah

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exactly whoa Towards the end, it's almost like with gas car,

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where later it starts dropping quicker for no reason.

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Speaker 2: Right right, So yeah, yeah, So okay, so guys like you,

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you're not going to make it. You'll have like maybe

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one percent by the time you get home, probably or

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something like that. So I'm like, okay, I, and I

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knew I did. I didn't even want to risk it.

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the freeway on my way. So then I go to

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find the So then I put it in my ways

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to get back on the freeway, and it's taking me there.

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There was construction and the freeway on ramp was closed.

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the freeway. I'm like, no, bitch, it's closed. So where's

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the other where? Now where do I go? So now

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I'm driving around these dark streets and hones seed. I

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can't there's no there's my WiFi and my phone is

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body the ways it keeps giving, putting me.

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Speaker 1: In a circle.

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Speaker 2: With all this construction anyway, I start to really start

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to panic.

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Speaker 1: I get on the freeway and I start to drive,

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and I.

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Speaker 2: Call Mike Girsty and I'm like, Mike, I'm dropping a pin.

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This is where I am. Can you help me find

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a charging station on my way? So he's like, okay,

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get off the freeway, pull over, like you just stop

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for a second. Let's let me look it up. He

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finds it, He's like, Okay, there's this place, there's this

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He goes, no, go to this place, No scratch that,

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go to this place because this is closer to the freeway. Anyway,

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I get back on the freeway. It's like ten thirty

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now at night. I get back on the freeway and

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I drive. I get off and like Ventura, I find

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the place. I get there and there's four stalls and

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three of them are out of use, and the one

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is the car in use. It's just the nobody's at

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that car, like they parked their car and they went shopping.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, motherfuck.

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Speaker 2: So then I was about to call Mike, and then

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this guy, the guy got into his car and he leaves.

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So then I get my car plugged in and then

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I'm like okay. So that was my whole day Thursday.

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I would have had enough, but because of the situation

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in the morning with the dogs and Jen taking my car,

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I had to have like that. Anyway, But I had

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a great time with Thetalia. It was really fund we

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had it was walked and like took what we walked

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to some of our errands.

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Speaker 1: It was really nice. I had a great time with her.

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Did you get her banking done. I got her banking done. Yes, yes,

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so all of the air. I was just curious though,

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what happened with Jen? Did she get she dropped? Did

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she get her car? Her car?

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Speaker 2: They fixed her back brakes went out, They fixed her brakes. Yeah,

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so she had to get car toad. She had her

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car towed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. So did she watch Phil for you? No,

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she couldn't have. What'd you do with Phil? So Phil?

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Speaker 2: Phil just he was fine because he was hanging out

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with those dogsout throughout the day and he was okay,

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like he just hung out at home.

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Speaker 1: It was it was okay.

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Speaker 2: So he was fine because I was having Olga come

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on the weekend to watch Phil for when I went

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to Sonny, right, so okay, So that was that day.

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Then Friday I left. I left in the morning. So

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Sonny was like, we've been talking about this game. He

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was like, we should go to the game together. That

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would be fun. My friend Melissa was going to come

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with me, but she couldn't. It was, you know, like

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people have seen in the news, Cleto, Jimmy's band leader

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passed away, so she had a funeral to go to

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and stuff. So so anyway, I was going regardless if

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she was going. But so I get in and Sonny had.

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So the game was Friday night. But then on Saturday

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there was college football stuff he was going to be doing,

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and there was a UFC fight, so he was going

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to be busy. So it was a quick trip, right,

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So I got a hotel room or did you? Yeah?

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I got a hotel. Yeah, no, his place is too

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tiny for me to stay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so I got a hotel. And did he

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stay with you in the hotel? No?

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Speaker 2: Do you just now my hotel was like five minutes

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from his place, so you just got to see him just.

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Speaker 1: Friday, just Friday, Yeah, Friday, and then Friday night and yeah,

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left from your hotel. Yes, I left from my hotel

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Saturday morning. You're a good mom. That was fun.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it was so much fun. I'm so glad

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I went. He loved it. You know, we walked over

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to the stadium. It's like a half hour walk from

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his place. But it's fun because you're walking with all

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the crowd, you know, and it's like and he's telling

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me all about the football play. This guy's a freshman,

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and this guy's been all their careers in football and

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Who's Who.

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Speaker 1: And it was so much fun.

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Speaker 2: And you know, in the stadium, they they do they

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always sing I Left my Heart in Oregon they sing

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that song and then at halftime they do or after

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halftime or between whatever, I don't know, they sing shout,

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you know. And so I posted that on my Instagram

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Speaker 1: Saw the picture you posted with Sonny and you look gorgeous.

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You look like you were like nineteen.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, thank you. I was like, I felt

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my hair is a mess. Like I was just like,

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oh my god, traveling so pretty. It's really pretty. Thank you,

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thank you. Well he's a little pale, so next to me.

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Everybody was saying, how burgeous you looked, Thanks, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Thirst Trap. Did you see the video I posted with it.

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I didn't see. Oh there's a video with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and the foot they're all saying, they're all dancing

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on the field to shout.

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Speaker 1: And it was just it was so much fun. And then.

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Speaker 2: And the game was over at like nine thirty, and

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then we walked. By the time we got back to Sunnies,

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it was like ten o'clock. And then I went upstairs

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and folded his laundry and cleaned his bathroom. Oh yeah,

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it was nice. And then yeah, and then I got

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up the next morning and uh, and I left and

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and then I got home and then Natalia was texting

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me while I was there, and she's like, I'm with

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a bunch of my friends and we all want to

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come down to spend the night at my at my

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house on Saturday. It's a friend's birthday and we're gonna

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go have birth They're gonna go to a birthday dinner.

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So then I come home to like five of our

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friends hanging out at my house Saturday, and I was

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dead tired. I just wanted to like chill. And it's like,

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oh great, come on over, you know, and they're like

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it was it was really nice though. I like some

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friends I haven't met before, a couple guys, a couple girls,

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and we hung out Saturday night and then they went

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out to dinner, you know, they always do like pregame

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hangout kind of thing. Then they then they went to

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dinner late, and then I went to bed. And then

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Sunday morning, I woke up and they're all like flopped

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out in my on my couch, and uh, Phil gets

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out of my room and he starts licking their face

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in the morning and they love Phil and uh, and

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then we hung out yesterday was rainy day, and then

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they watched Natalia just watched pulp Fiction. She saw it

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when she was younger, but she didn't remember, and she

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was like she wanted to show them, like, you guys

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got to watch pulp fiction.

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Speaker 1: They they've never seen it. They were like, is it

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like Greece because of John Travolta. Oh my god. I'm like, no, dude,

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It's just like Greece Grease with aroin and rape and

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I know.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, you guys gotta watch you guys gotta

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watch it. So I'm like in my room they're watching it,

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and I hear the scene where Samuel Jackson is like

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in the beginning with the big Kahuna burger and the

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guy comes out shooting. They start, and I come out

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of my room going like, right, like, eh, what.

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Speaker 1: A scene that was.

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Speaker 2: I walk out there's six of them sound asleep on

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the couch.

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Speaker 1: No, they're all just asleep even to time.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck? You guys missed the Like okay,

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and they're still at my house. They yeah, yeah, they're

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going back this afternoon. Yeah, because it was raining and stuff,

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so they hung out. We had Sunday night hang out

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last night, and it was nice.

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Speaker 1: It was It was a.

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Speaker 2: Big jam packed weekend with the kids for sure, and uh.

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Speaker 1: It is so nice. It really is.

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Speaker 2: When you to have adult kids, and especially when you

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don't get to see them very often anymore. To hang

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out with them is just so, you know, getting all

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the gossip and stuff, like drama going on and at

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their place, at Natali's place, doing this roommate and that

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roommate and you know, like and it just was so

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much fun, you know, and hanging out with Sonny and

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see his friends and stuff at the game.

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Speaker 1: It was just great. It was just such a great weekend.

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It was really nice, especially when you've like mourned being

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an empty nester, but then you see the kids more

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than you expected to. Yes, yeah, right, I know.

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Speaker 2: I mean I always like when she comes home, but

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like that day, I mean, it was just a whirlwind

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of a weekend and it's like, yeah, me and my

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friends are coming down all right. But yeah, it was great.

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We had a good time. It was It was a

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nice weekend. It was great with the rain and stuff.

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Speaker 1: And Sonny's doing well, like he has friends and yeah, yeah,

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be and integrated.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, he's got a bunch of like places that

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he hangs out now watching football and stuff. Yeah, he's

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enjoying it. They're both enjoying their their time at their school. Yeah,

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so good. And then they're coming home in like a week. Well,

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Natalianly has that Thanksgiving weekend off. That's it really, Yeah,

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she has to She has school up until the Wednesday

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before Thanksgiving and then she's coming home that night and

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then she has to be back the monday after.

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Speaker 1: Wow. But Sunny gets a week okay, but also she'll

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get a long break during Christmas and they have Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Then she said that they have a really long break,

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like three weeks or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so my kids, my seniors have three weeks.

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They've always had three weeks. Oh, afy get one week spring,

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three weeks over winter break.

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Speaker 2: That's nice. Yeah, that's great. They're in the home stretch

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your seniors, I know, I know. Yeah, And did't Xander

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have his play? And how would that add that go?

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Speaker 1: First, I'll tell you though, that LB turned twenty one.

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That's right, Yeah, that's right, so crazy, Yeah, twenty one

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year old, it's still wild. I know, I was trying

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to make it like as special as possible, you know,

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but she is grown and she has all these roommates

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that want to celebrate with her too. But a few

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days before her birthday, so it must have been over

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that weekend, Ilbi was like, I'm just feeling kind of

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off and I just want to come home, right, And

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I was like, come on home. Yeah, So that was

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she doesn't have class on Friday. I think she came

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home Thursday night, and then she stayed home Thursday night,

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Friday night, Saturday night, maybe Sunday night because the day

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before her birthday was Veterans Day, oh right, so she

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did school from home. So she was home for a

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while for like a long time. But she also works

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like more towards our house in her school right in Calbasas,

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so she was also she worked a few shifts and

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then she just like hung out, like and I think

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she went out with friends a couple of times. Yeah,

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it was so nice just to have her then. So

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maybe she didn't even go back to school. No, Wednesday

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she had she had classes. So she went back to

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school like maybe Tuesday night. She had class Wednesday, then

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she came home then we went for dinner, so we

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all went up for Sushi's nice. I let her eat

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like so much. It was really funny because she's just like,

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it's my birthday, bitches, I'm having another orn right, like okay,

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keep up coming. Yeah. It was really cute too, because like, oh,

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you know, it was funny because she wasn't going to

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drink because she was going to have to drive home

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that night because she had class in the morning. But

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then she decided that she wasn't driving home that night,

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so then she she was like, I'm going to have

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a drink or whatever. But then she was like, I'm

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just gonna have lemonade. Oh that's nice. I know. Well,

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I think she wasn't that excited. She doesn't like beer,

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and the idea of sake wasn't like that great to her.

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And I had said, I was like, we can go

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somewhere else where you can get a cocktail for your

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twenty first birthday, and she was like that's fine, yeah,

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which made me happy. That's nice. But she's been doing

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i think, quite a bit of drinking. The next night,

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so we did that. We gave her her presence. I

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bought the twins gift cards. I know we're not supposed

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to say the twins. Sorry, I because Xander's been really busy.

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So I bought, like, well, I let each of the

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kids buy like a couple hundred dollars in gift cards,

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well like one hundred and fifty, like three fifty dollars

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gift cards of places that she loves. Oh that's nice,

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that's sweet. So they gave her that, and then we

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gave her her headphones. And then like she like her headphones,

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Oh my god, loves them, loves them. Was so excited.

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She's just a very grateful kid. Yeah, doesn't take a

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lot to like be really happy. Nice. Yeah. And then

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she went back to school the next day, and then

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she went out with her roommates that night, and I

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think they that's when insanely took her out. They took

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her out, no more fake id and she I'm sure

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she got drunk, but I will say the next day

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I texted her and I was like, here's hoping you're

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not like throwing up all day to day and it's

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like you're able to function, and she was like, mom,

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I feel fresh as a daisy. Oh nice, fine, that's great.

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It's so much fun. That's so nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was her birthday and then the twins.

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Speaker 1: Now I have the twins' birthday coming up. Oh my god,

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I don't like it's kind of a lot. Okay, let

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me ask you this a little bit off topic, but

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it is regarding the birthday. So Sadie wants a tattoo

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for her eighteenth birthday. Right now, I don't have a

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lot of experience with tattoos because I have one tattoo

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that I got when I was doing parental discretion, right, so.

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Speaker 2: I didn't have anything to do with buying it, you know.

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And what is your tattoo and where it is? It's

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a bird on my ankle.

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Speaker 1: Right, It's cute. It's okay. It's not like if I

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had to do it again, I think I would have

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been more picky. Yeah, and made him. But they picked

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the tattoo artist writing to film, and this is what

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he came up with, and I was like, whatever, cool,

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I don't care, you know what I mean. And listen,

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it's been like I got the tattoo when I was

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like forty two forty three days, so it's been a while. Right.

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My point is, I don't know how much they're supposed

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to call all I can do is ask al online? Yeah,

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our boyfriend? Yeah, our boyfriend. Well, I guess that would

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just be AI anyway, and okay, I'm not podcasting, well

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right now, that's okay. So Sadie wants a tattoo. I

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told her she could have a tattoo for her eighteenth

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and I would take her. She's really into it, you know,

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she's very artistic, yes, and she kind of knows what

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she wants. Now. I got a couple of names of

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referrals from people who I know have a lot of tattoos,

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and she was looking through their Instagram feeds and she

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was like, then she found a tattoo artist in West

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Hollywood that she like. She was like, Mom, this is

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the style. This is exactly the style I want. This

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is like so me and I wish I could have her.

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I'll try to get it so I can send you

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guys everybody the Instagram and for the guy I can't

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remember it now, but anyway, I was like, okay, well,

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why don't you ask him? She was like, I don't

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know what you say to tattoo artist. So I was like,

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I don't know. I would ask him, like what the

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deal is, like, if you want a tattoo that's in

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his style, like what he charges? You know? Yeah? What

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she has to do? Does she send him like an

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idea or does he you know? How does it? Does

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it work right? And she was like can you can

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you send the text for me? It's like yes, but

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from your phone. I'm not going to be like hi

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from my account. I'll do it from your account and

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you and she's like, okay, that's fine. Yeah. So I

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was basically like, hey, I'm getting a tattoo for my

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eighteenth birthday. I love your style of tattoos. Don't know

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how this works whatever. The guy writes back, Yeah, just

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tell me like placement, how big you want it, where

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the placement is, and what's your budget? And I'm like,

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what's your budget? That's like a car dealers, like what's

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your No, you tell me what you charge? Yes, yeah,

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what if you Yeah exactly. So anyway, I said to her,

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just ask him, just say like maybe a four inch

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tattoo or whatever she wants like a and you want

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it kind of on your side right or she wants

470
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:15,000
it like right above her waistband, but like on her side,

471
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,960
And so she writes that, So he tells her seven

472
00:24:18,039 --> 00:24:21,799
hundred and fifty dollars and I was like, zam, wow,

473
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:26,599
it's really high. But here's the thing. So I'm like,

474
00:24:27,079 --> 00:24:28,880
she was like, well, what were you thinking it was

475
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,640
going to be. I was like, I don't know, I

476
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,480
thought four hundred was like a lot. Yeah. Yeah, it

477
00:24:33,519 --> 00:24:35,640
seemed to expect me too. I don't know how much

478
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,000
tattoos go. Well, that's the thing. So then I look

479
00:24:38,039 --> 00:24:41,720
it up and it says it really varies. It's like

480
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,240
it depends like this size, like a two inch to

481
00:24:44,279 --> 00:24:47,079
four inch tattoo can run you like up to five

482
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,279
hundred dollars. So I was like, well, and then it

483
00:24:49,319 --> 00:24:52,519
depends on how complex it is and how much detail.

484
00:24:53,599 --> 00:24:56,359
So I was like, I don't know if that's way

485
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,680
too much. But of course I was like I don't

486
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,400
want to be spending seven hundred fift dollars on a tattoo, right,

487
00:25:02,319 --> 00:25:05,680
But then you know, she was like, well, you know,

488
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,240
I would help pay for it, because like, I just

489
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,440
really really liked this style and I haven't seen anything

490
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,559
and it is forever, that's the thing. So then I

491
00:25:15,599 --> 00:25:17,960
started thinking like, well, maybe do I offer to pay

492
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,400
like five hundred of it and make her pay? Right?

493
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:26,440
The rest fifty. I'm like, it is forever, which is

494
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:30,000
also just like shit, it's forever. Do you want like

495
00:25:30,079 --> 00:25:32,599
you know you want this like this moment, but you know,

496
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,680
but then I had. We were talking about it and

497
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,880
she was like, mom, you know, I've never regretted, like

498
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,960
you know, I've made some kind of drastic appearance decisions, right,

499
00:25:43,079 --> 00:25:45,920
and I've never gone back on it, right, Like when

500
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,359
she was at young, when she was really young, she

501
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,640
decided she wanted to chop off all her hair. Do

502
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:57,240
you remember this because she was only like six and

503
00:25:57,319 --> 00:26:00,680
she had long hair. I remember, I want to cut

504
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,559
it really short. And I was like really, are you sure? Yeah,

505
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,119
because that's a big change. And I always think of

506
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,920
like especially young girls, Yeah, love their hair and they

507
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,359
want to do you know. She was like, yep, I

508
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,839
want it all off. And I was like, okay, like

509
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,240
to your shoulder. She's like, no, I want like a

510
00:26:18,319 --> 00:26:23,000
short haircut. Wow. And I was like, I mean, I

511
00:26:23,039 --> 00:26:24,920
just I'm worried that you're going to regret it, like

512
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,559
right after you do it, and she's like I'm not.

513
00:26:27,079 --> 00:26:29,160
We went we got our haircut really short, and she

514
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,160
was like hey, and she was fine with it. Totally fine,

515
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,079
and she still remembers that. She's like, mom, remember when

516
00:26:35,079 --> 00:26:37,200
I wanted to cut all my hair off? Yeah? And

517
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,519
then she also was the first one to like color

518
00:26:39,559 --> 00:26:44,759
her hair. I remember that permanent like pink colored. Was

519
00:26:44,839 --> 00:26:46,880
then she was the one who wanted a nose piercing

520
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:51,400
right earlier. But I'm like, okay, still all those things

521
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:52,759
are not permanent.

522
00:26:52,519 --> 00:26:56,759
Speaker 2: Right, that's true. Yeah, getting the haircut short glad of

523
00:26:56,799 --> 00:27:00,880
girls like for me. I remember just there was a

524
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,440
time I think I was It was like in my

525
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,920
late twenties early thirties, and I was like, I really

526
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,880
want my hair cut short and have it like flip

527
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,079
right right above my shoulder and have it like flip

528
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,480
up you know that kind of like cute. But I

529
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,599
don't have the hair for that. But I was like,

530
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,400
I think I could man it. I think I know

531
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,119
how to straighten it. I'm pretty good at and I

532
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,440
was like, I'm gonna do it. I did it, and

533
00:27:23,519 --> 00:27:26,319
I regredit it like two days after I did it,

534
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,960
because I can't. It was I just looked like a

535
00:27:29,039 --> 00:27:32,640
mushroom led like I could not keep my hair straight

536
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,359
as it's supposed to be. So in theory, it all

537
00:27:35,519 --> 00:27:37,880
like sounds good, and then you do it, and then

538
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,720
you're like what the now you got to live with it.

539
00:27:40,039 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 1: I mean eventually it grows back. But well, let's not

540
00:27:43,799 --> 00:27:46,519
forget my story that I've told a lot of times

541
00:27:46,559 --> 00:27:49,039
because we've been podcasting for a long time of when

542
00:27:49,079 --> 00:27:52,519
I decided I wanted that chin length Bob yet with

543
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:58,000
things like Natalie Portman and the professional right, she was twelve, right,

544
00:27:58,039 --> 00:27:59,559
But I thought I was going to really be able

545
00:27:59,599 --> 00:28:03,079
to pull that off, and I went to and to

546
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:06,599
be fantastic. Sam's Oh I remember, do you remember who

547
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:13,359
was my hairdresser? Oh, the Armenian comedian. That's right, the

548
00:28:13,519 --> 00:28:15,720
Armenian comedian. Yeah, it was.

549
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 2: Big here in Los Angeles. He was on k Rock

550
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:19,279
Radio too.

551
00:28:19,839 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I had mind who he was he was. Remember

552
00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:24,279
he told me, I'm the Armenian comedian.

553
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 2: Yemer, this wacky guy that cut hair in the valley

554
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:28,599
at Fantastics.

555
00:28:28,599 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 1: At Fanta I called himself the Armenian Comedians. Yeah, this

556
00:28:31,799 --> 00:28:35,720
was I want to say this was in Santa Monica

557
00:28:35,759 --> 00:28:38,759
because I wasn't. It was like right before I met

558
00:28:38,839 --> 00:28:43,559
John too. Anyway. I didn't have like a hair straightener

559
00:28:43,759 --> 00:28:46,160
or anything. I just like had a blow dryer, right,

560
00:28:46,559 --> 00:28:49,160
biggest disaster in my life. Cried all the time. I

561
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,759
feel like you could with your hair rad note, well,

562
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,279
my hair right now is fully straightened with the straightening.

563
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,680
Oh I have su I have hair more like yours,

564
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,240
like wavy curly, wavy curly that if you don't do

565
00:29:00,319 --> 00:29:03,839
something about it, it will right kind of kind of puffy. Yeah,

566
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,000
so I look like a mushroom head like you. Yeah.

567
00:29:06,599 --> 00:29:09,759
And the bangs forget about it. Oh, the banks everywhere.

568
00:29:09,799 --> 00:29:12,480
Oh my god, the bangs. I did that too.

569
00:29:12,599 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna everybody had banks and remember

570
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:19,039
the Rachel haircut too, and it's like and then yeah,

571
00:29:19,039 --> 00:29:20,839
I got bangs, and it's like the banks would just

572
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,279
go every which way, but but the right way.

573
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: Uh huh. It just kind of did its own.

574
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,599
Speaker 2: Thing, like and then I just realized in my thirties,

575
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,200
like I can't fuck with my hair. I just got

576
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,279
to keep the same. I just have to know what

577
00:29:33,319 --> 00:29:35,640
I can do with it. Wendy taught me at an

578
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:39,640
early age, I mean this was in the eighties, how

579
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,200
to straighten your hair because she has hair like me too,

580
00:29:42,759 --> 00:29:45,440
so she got this. Like back in the day they

581
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,839
had these hot tool blow dryers that had the comb.

582
00:29:48,559 --> 00:29:50,359
It was not even a brush, it was a comb.

583
00:29:51,279 --> 00:29:54,319
And so like she taught me how to use hot comb.

584
00:29:54,359 --> 00:29:57,279
It was like a hot comb. Yes, yeah, and even

585
00:29:57,359 --> 00:30:00,720
then it's like what like it kind of straight, but

586
00:30:00,759 --> 00:30:03,640
it was still frizzy. All it did was frizz it.

587
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:07,000
It didn't really make it straight. It just frizzed it out.

588
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,799
And then my hair also expands in the in the

589
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:15,119
like wet weather, it gets not only curly, but it expands.

590
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:18,799
It gets like you know, like like.

591
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: Like a jew fro or something.

592
00:30:19,799 --> 00:30:22,839
Speaker 2: So I just I but then I started, you know,

593
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,559
and then as tools got better, I started learning how

594
00:30:26,559 --> 00:30:30,160
to use regular blow dryers and hair blow dry So

595
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,160
now use the Revlin thing like we talked about a

596
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:32,920
couple of weeks ago.

597
00:30:33,559 --> 00:30:38,799
Speaker 1: But yeah, anyway, so no, I mean I had terrible

598
00:30:38,839 --> 00:30:42,119
look with hair. I remember when I was young. I

599
00:30:42,119 --> 00:30:46,039
guess my hair was more you know what happened. I'll

600
00:30:46,079 --> 00:30:48,920
chase this back. I did have pretty straight hair when

601
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,240
I was really young. Right then I got a perm

602
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,920
when you're and it never it changed the texture of

603
00:30:55,960 --> 00:31:01,720
my hair permanently. Really remember those like Tony Homper. Yeah, yeah,

604
00:31:01,759 --> 00:31:04,160
I got a permanent was really the worst decision of

605
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:08,240
my life. It was a super super curly o super

606
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:13,359
curly like poodle. Oh no, I never quite was the

607
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:14,240
same after that.

608
00:31:14,519 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, but what but puberty too, when you go

609
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,160
through puberty. Yeah, I got my hair. I got a

610
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,079
perm the opposite I was. You know, when I went

611
00:31:25,119 --> 00:31:28,640
to the Valley Alternative Magnet school that I went to.

612
00:31:28,759 --> 00:31:31,680
I went to my friends that lived in downtown LA

613
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:36,519
to my black friend's mom, like she she like ironed

614
00:31:36,559 --> 00:31:39,160
my hair. She put all this these chemicals to make

615
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,440
my hair straight. I remember that smell to this day,

616
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:46,880
Like that smell stuck with me for months, that chemical smell.

617
00:31:46,799 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: Like a Brazilian before they had Brazilian.

618
00:31:49,079 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, but it was like she had all these

619
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:56,759
weird tools and all this like smelly permanent solution and

620
00:31:56,799 --> 00:32:00,240
stuff to straighten the hair, and it just fried. My

621
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,039
My hair was just a mess. I just had the

622
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,440
worst hair when I was growing up, and everybody in

623
00:32:05,519 --> 00:32:09,480
my school had that beautiful like fairy facet, you know flip,

624
00:32:09,559 --> 00:32:13,599
Like everybody had like nice straight or wavy hair. I

625
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:17,559
was just this fucking Italian kid with this fucked up hair.

626
00:32:18,359 --> 00:32:20,839
It was just a nightmare.

627
00:32:21,039 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: I always had terrible hair too.

628
00:32:23,079 --> 00:32:26,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, and my hair would like curl, curl like a

629
00:32:26,319 --> 00:32:28,039
poodle when I was really young.

630
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, when I was like middle school and I had

631
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:35,680
moved to Washington State, even though like it was weird

632
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:39,480
because I lived in Spokane, people didn't have like a

633
00:32:39,519 --> 00:32:42,319
lot of money, but somehow everybody had more money than

634
00:32:42,359 --> 00:32:47,160
we did somehow, so everybody had the right jeans. Everybody

635
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,119
had and there was I want to say they were

636
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,720
called like bareback or bear brus kind of jeans that

637
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,960
I can't remember the name, but my mom wouldn't buy

638
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,599
them for me. Every girl had these jeans, and every

639
00:32:58,599 --> 00:33:02,079
girl had a stacked perl. So they all looked kind

640
00:33:02,119 --> 00:33:05,440
of the same, and I looked so different because we

641
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,759
weren't gonna she wasn't gonna get me that kind of

642
00:33:07,759 --> 00:33:11,720
perm right, which in retrospect probably did me a favor. Yes,

643
00:33:12,599 --> 00:33:15,759
So I just had this really random like So I

644
00:33:15,839 --> 00:33:18,680
remember I would try to achieve the look a little

645
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,079
bit of the look of the stock PM by crimping

646
00:33:21,119 --> 00:33:24,759
my hair, remember crimped crimping. Yes, So the way I

647
00:33:24,839 --> 00:33:28,920
crimped was I just made like pretty tight braids, oh yeah,

648
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:29,880
and slept in them.

649
00:33:30,039 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you take it out and it would

650
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,880
like look like like you crimped it.

651
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, which was not a good I know.

652
00:33:38,079 --> 00:33:40,599
Speaker 2: I mean, and my friends would crimp their hair too,

653
00:33:40,799 --> 00:33:42,480
and I'm like, I don't need to crimp my hair.

654
00:33:42,559 --> 00:33:45,880
My hair is naturally crimped. Yes, it was just oh,

655
00:33:46,119 --> 00:33:49,119
it was the worst. Remember those And I remember my

656
00:33:49,279 --> 00:33:52,720
I wanted jeans. I just wanted regular jeans, like like

657
00:33:52,799 --> 00:33:55,880
a shremendoufurs and stuff like that. Yeah, and my mom

658
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,960
would make me wear my brother's jeans.

659
00:33:58,359 --> 00:34:00,359
Speaker 1: They hand me and my.

660
00:34:00,119 --> 00:34:03,599
Speaker 2: Mom we didn't have a dryer at some point, so

661
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,960
she would wash the clothes and she would hang the

662
00:34:06,079 --> 00:34:10,119
jeans on the fence in the baking sun. And these

663
00:34:10,119 --> 00:34:14,639
were thick, like thick Levi, really thick denim and that,

664
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,280
but it wasn't Levi. And she would hang them on

665
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,840
the fence outside in the San Fernando Valley in the

666
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,400
summer and then give them to me to wear. It's

667
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:27,119
like putting a cardboard box on. It was the worst

668
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:30,679
feeling to wear those jeans. And in the summer I

669
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:35,760
hated it. I hated those jeans. What like fade them too,

670
00:34:36,079 --> 00:34:38,880
oh yeah, oh yeah, like the inside would be like

671
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,360
the dark, but then the outside would be like faded

672
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:44,000
and not faded jeans in the right way, Like they

673
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,119
weren't supposed to be faded. It was supposed to be

674
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,800
dark denim, and they were just faded in all different

675
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:49,239
fucked up.

676
00:34:49,559 --> 00:34:51,599
Speaker 1: It was just awful. It was just I was a mess.

677
00:34:52,119 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 2: It was not a good I could not get I

678
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,119
didn't I didn't really figure out how to like style

679
00:34:57,199 --> 00:34:59,039
myself and get my hair done until I was like

680
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,480
in high school, because you know, I couldn't control my hair.

681
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:05,559
Speaker 1: Uh, it just was.

682
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,199
Speaker 2: I was just and then my brother's jeans and I

683
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,360
was always wearing like my mom would take me to

684
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:11,360
Zodi's remembers.

685
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: Do you remember Zode? We would go to Zodies store.

686
00:35:14,599 --> 00:35:18,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, and buy like the shitty clothes, the knockoffs and stuff.

687
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:22,119
Speaker 1: Ugh, just a mess. What was the one that we

688
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:26,960
used to go to Fedco? Do you remember? I don't remember.

689
00:35:27,039 --> 00:35:29,719
It was like a department store too, and yeah, you

690
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:33,960
could get some real shitty clothes. Spears and Rollbuck. It's

691
00:35:34,039 --> 00:35:37,719
kind of like a JC penny like Sears Ullworths. Oh

692
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,840
my god. I mean I dressed only from Sears catalog

693
00:35:41,119 --> 00:35:45,199
when I was a kid. Just the goofiest looking clothes. Yeah,

694
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:50,159
my mom just did not care about fashion or you know.

695
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,400
My mom was a super kind of hippie, right, and

696
00:35:53,599 --> 00:35:56,039
like I said, like I've said before, did not shave

697
00:35:56,039 --> 00:35:59,000
her armpits, didn't shave anywhere. It was like kind of

698
00:35:59,079 --> 00:36:02,280
naked around the house. And she had like so much

699
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:06,840
pubic hair like everywhere, you know. And I do remember,

700
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,119
I mean I've told you this before too, but I

701
00:36:09,159 --> 00:36:11,840
remember going camping and we went to this place and

702
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,760
it was like we're all going to get in the

703
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,039
pool or a hot springs or something, and my mom's

704
00:36:16,039 --> 00:36:18,480
wearing a bathing suit and there's just hair all the

705
00:36:18,519 --> 00:36:22,000
way down her. Oh my god. Think were feeling so

706
00:36:22,079 --> 00:36:27,519
embarrassed and just like why like what you know? Yes, yeah,

707
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,280
I know I was well old enough to just feel

708
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,199
self conscious about my family.

709
00:36:32,639 --> 00:36:36,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, my friend's moms were like that. My mom, you know,

710
00:36:36,639 --> 00:36:39,360
my mom, she was always like, you know, in tank

711
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:43,000
tops and short shorts and the like white pumps from

712
00:36:43,119 --> 00:36:46,920
penny Less. She call them, she'd call the store. It

713
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,360
was Payless. Yes, I bought these are shoes at the

714
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:54,960
penny Less. They own The costamia eight dollars. She wear

715
00:36:55,039 --> 00:36:58,079
those white pumps and so she walked around. It was

716
00:36:58,159 --> 00:37:03,400
so embarrassing. Shaved, and she did shave, but she had

717
00:37:03,519 --> 00:37:05,679
she had kind of frizzy hair too, but she had

718
00:37:05,679 --> 00:37:08,920
that like she dyed her hair red, but then she

719
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,119
never kept up with it, so it'd be like half

720
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:14,519
gray and then you know, then red, and then she'd

721
00:37:14,519 --> 00:37:17,079
do it again and then it was bright red. And

722
00:37:17,119 --> 00:37:18,840
then she'd be like, whoa, I just stood in my

723
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:23,639
hair and she'd lay in the sun again. I'm gonna

724
00:37:23,679 --> 00:37:26,039
get a tan and the linnette that you need to

725
00:37:26,039 --> 00:37:28,440
fix of your hair. You need to put some makeup on,

726
00:37:28,559 --> 00:37:31,000
and like, don't go out and looking like a like

727
00:37:31,039 --> 00:37:33,679
a homeless up person, Like you need to fix it yourself.

728
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,159
Put do some awake up on And where's your lip

729
00:37:36,159 --> 00:37:38,760
a stick? That's what she'd say. Put some ellipstick on.

730
00:37:39,119 --> 00:37:42,639
That's all you would really need, like I. And then

731
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,599
it was she hated when I had my hair in

732
00:37:44,599 --> 00:37:47,679
a ponytail. And I've told this before, but Natalia, when

733
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,800
Natalia was little, before she could even talk, she would

734
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,440
sit in the car seat behind me and she'd pull

735
00:37:52,519 --> 00:37:54,920
my hair out of the ponytail and she'd fluff my hair.

736
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,239
She'd always want me to look pretty She even said

737
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,039
it today. She's like, we're on our way. We're gonna

738
00:37:59,039 --> 00:38:01,000
be there in thirty minutes. Can you look nice?

739
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? Oh my god, my kids are so used

740
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:11,920
to me looking scraggly, like wearing clothes three days running.

741
00:38:12,559 --> 00:38:15,199
I'm like a new mom in the way that, like

742
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,519
I will wake up and literally not look in the

743
00:38:19,559 --> 00:38:23,159
mirror sometimes unless I have a reason to, Like, I

744
00:38:23,199 --> 00:38:26,679
will just be in my glasses my hair's a mess

745
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,960
or whatever. I mean, because I'll shower sometimes and then

746
00:38:31,039 --> 00:38:33,000
not do my hair, like I'll wet it and then

747
00:38:33,079 --> 00:38:35,079
just let it dry. And then I wake up, I'm

748
00:38:35,119 --> 00:38:36,960
still in sweats and a T shirt. And then I

749
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,840
go out like that and I haven't even had a

750
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,440
look in the mirror. Yeah, It's like I was when

751
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,320
I was a brand new mom and I was so tired.

752
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,599
What's my excuse now?

753
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 2: Right?

754
00:38:45,119 --> 00:38:47,800
Speaker 1: What is this? I've lost interest?

755
00:38:49,119 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 2: Well that's the That's the thing too, is sometimes when

756
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,360
I wash my hair, I don't want to blow dry it,

757
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,679
so I just like let it air dry or whatever,

758
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,239
and I put some stuff in it and just call

759
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,920
it a day. So I know when she's like she's like,

760
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,719
don't have your hair like a mess, you know, like

761
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:06,639
get the straightening iron.

762
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:10,519
Speaker 1: Out, well, like if you're going somewhere. I know, I know.

763
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,480
My kids are so used to it they would never ever,

764
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:17,360
Like they don't even say, like, Mom, are you still

765
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,960
wearing You were wearing that two days ago? Listen, if

766
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,159
I haven't been to the gym, no need to change,

767
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:28,559
or I have actually taken off whatever I'm wearing sweats

768
00:39:28,559 --> 00:39:32,320
and a sweatshirt, which I'm wearing right now, Go to change,

769
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,920
go to the gym, come back, take a shower, put

770
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,199
back on the I'm like, well, they're not dirty. See

771
00:39:38,199 --> 00:39:39,519
that's the thing I always said.

772
00:39:39,559 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 2: There should be a purgatory like hamper where it's not

773
00:39:44,599 --> 00:39:46,960
dirty yet, where you have to wash it right, but

774
00:39:47,039 --> 00:39:49,639
you can still floor next time. Yah, it's tell the

775
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,079
chair in your bedroom right right.

776
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then I'll go back to that well like

777
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,440
a few more times. Yeah. I'm like, I guess I

778
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:00,800
could wash it right now if only my kids would

779
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:05,039
do that, because I swear to God, my kid's hampers

780
00:40:05,039 --> 00:40:08,079
are like magical because I will do all the laundry

781
00:40:08,159 --> 00:40:09,960
and then come back a day later and it's filled

782
00:40:10,079 --> 00:40:14,519
full again. Like how right? That's a natalia tale.

783
00:40:14,559 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 2: That's her Sonny, you'll wear the same things a few

784
00:40:17,079 --> 00:40:20,559
days in a row probably, But Natalia, you know, she'll

785
00:40:20,599 --> 00:40:23,039
try something on and then decide not to wear it

786
00:40:23,079 --> 00:40:25,920
and put it in the hampers.

787
00:40:26,119 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: Backs Sadi too, Sadi two. I'll be like, Sadie, I

788
00:40:30,199 --> 00:40:32,760
just did all your laundry, how are these jeans like

789
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,599
in the hamper? And she'll be like, well, but I

790
00:40:34,679 --> 00:40:38,079
wore them yesterday. I'm like, for a half hour, then

791
00:40:38,119 --> 00:40:41,519
you change to go somewhere else. Yeah, right, how do

792
00:40:41,599 --> 00:40:43,519
you think your jeans are dirty that you wore for

793
00:40:43,559 --> 00:40:45,920
a half hour. And She'll be like, no, I know

794
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,480
I wore them once before that, like just something. And

795
00:40:48,519 --> 00:40:51,400
I'm like, no, you did it, liar. So she gonna

796
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:56,239
get the tattoo. She's definitely getting a tattoo. Okay, it's

797
00:40:56,320 --> 00:41:00,239
coming down to do I want to fork out. I'm

798
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,159
not made of money, Like it's a big excitven.

799
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 2: Hundred dollars, it's a lot. That's a lot plus tip.

800
00:41:06,559 --> 00:41:07,480
You gott to tip them.

801
00:41:07,519 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 1: You gotta tip these outs. Oh really yeah? But then

802
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,840
it's okay. So my thinking is like, okay, if I

803
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:19,480
would have spent at the outside, like, let's just say,

804
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,280
I thought it was going to be four hundred, but

805
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,840
it's like a nice tattoo, and it's a little complex,

806
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:27,400
so I have to go five hundred. Do I squabble

807
00:41:27,519 --> 00:41:29,800
over another two point fifty for something that's going to

808
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,039
be on her body forever? Or make her go somewhere

809
00:41:33,119 --> 00:41:39,480
cheaper maybe or yeah, people are probably going to say, well,

810
00:41:39,519 --> 00:41:41,960
why don't you check with a couple of other artists, right,

811
00:41:42,119 --> 00:41:45,119
that's one I sent her. I don't know how much

812
00:41:45,199 --> 00:41:48,440
they charge, but she's like not as into them, she's

813
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,639
not excited. This was the first one before she knew

814
00:41:51,639 --> 00:41:53,639
the price that she was like, oh my god, this

815
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:57,760
is exactly I've looked at so many. Yeah, she spent

816
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:01,519
a whole evening scrolling through like Pinterest and looking at

817
00:42:01,559 --> 00:42:04,599
all these like tattoos, and she was like, this is

818
00:42:04,639 --> 00:42:07,639
the first one that's like exactly kind of what I

819
00:42:07,679 --> 00:42:11,559
picture in my mind right right, Well, maybe she could

820
00:42:11,639 --> 00:42:16,119
pitch it chip in yeah, yeah, and maybe money pay

821
00:42:16,159 --> 00:42:18,199
it and then have her pay you back or something

822
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:22,199
too little Biola, I don't know, Yeah, I don't know.

823
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,239
Then I have got to give you something kind of

824
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:24,920
grand for.

825
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 2: Eva was just gonna say that's what Then freaking Christmas

826
00:42:29,519 --> 00:42:29,880
is coming.

827
00:42:30,159 --> 00:42:33,559
Speaker 1: I know, I know. Do you know what I tell her?

828
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:37,320
And I can't. I know that there I could be like, okay,

829
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,760
but this is also part of your Christmas gift too.

830
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:42,519
You know, by the time it's Christmas, I'm not going

831
00:42:42,599 --> 00:42:44,800
to be like, well, nothing really under the tree. I

832
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:46,679
know that's the thing, and it's on your body.

833
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 2: That's the thing that kids go, well, Christmas is it

834
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:52,199
can be my Christmas present. It's like, oh, okay, that

835
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,800
always works out. Yeah, your Christmas present in August. Just

836
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,199
remember so in December when you don't get anything that

837
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,400
was your Christmas breath like, that never works.

838
00:43:01,159 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 1: Out, right. So I did have her go back to

839
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,639
the say to the guy, okay, but what if I

840
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:11,239
did something kind of more, a little simpler and smaller

841
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,039
than and he said still seven fifty.

842
00:43:14,199 --> 00:43:18,519
Speaker 2: Really yeah, But he asked her her budget. Why doesn't

843
00:43:18,519 --> 00:43:20,559
she can she say, my budget's five hundred.

844
00:43:20,599 --> 00:43:26,559
Speaker 1: What can you do? I mean, I guess so, But

845
00:43:26,599 --> 00:43:29,199
then do you want him going like, well, not going

846
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,440
to be going to be not what you want. I

847
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,800
don't know. I'm going to ask my other I have

848
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:38,280
a couple of friends, the one who recommended one of

849
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:41,320
the guys to me, who is good? Who seems good?

850
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:47,440
I'm going to ask her if she thinks that's reasonable, yeah,

851
00:43:47,599 --> 00:43:52,039
in the ballpark, send her a picture of what Sadie wants. Yeah, yeah,

852
00:43:52,079 --> 00:43:55,199
and then what are you getting Xander? See, I don't.

853
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:59,039
I have no idea. It's really kind of criminal that

854
00:43:59,079 --> 00:44:01,519
their birthdays are so close to it. It is. I

855
00:44:01,559 --> 00:44:04,280
feel so bad for the parents, like yours are so

856
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,199
spaced out. I mean Une to December, right, I know

857
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,920
it's Perf's got like a whole six months to like, yeah,

858
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:10,920
save up. I know.

859
00:44:11,039 --> 00:44:12,800
Speaker 2: I thought about that when it meant where they were

860
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,920
born or I was like, okay, this is pretty good.

861
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,800
Speaker 1: I got like, yeah, I got six months in between. Yeah,

862
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:22,400
we're there here. I got LB November twelve, that twins

863
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,920
November twenty six, So I've literally got four weeks between

864
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:29,480
their birthday and you know that's crazy. Yeah, and they

865
00:44:29,559 --> 00:44:33,800
still want a party with a fucking musician, I mean magician, Like,

866
00:44:34,639 --> 00:44:39,039
did you find the magician? Not yet, because I reached

867
00:44:39,079 --> 00:44:42,639
out to one and uh, he doesn't. He won't do

868
00:44:43,519 --> 00:44:46,480
Thanksgiving weekend, And I was like, that's probably going to

869
00:44:46,519 --> 00:44:50,119
be a problem for a lot of them. Plus I

870
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,079
just don't know if I want to be arranging that

871
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:58,840
the Saturday of after their birthday. So their birthday is

872
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:03,039
on so Thanksgiving Thursday. Their birthday is Wednesday. That's Saturday.

873
00:45:03,079 --> 00:45:07,119
I'm going to uh Yachtlee Crue. Oh wow, yacht rock show?

874
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:13,320
You what? Really? Yeah? So my friend Cecily not podcast partner,

875
00:45:13,599 --> 00:45:18,239
my mom. Friend Cecily uh got tickets for her birthday.

876
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,400
Her husband gave her four tickets to this a big show.

877
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:25,320
It's like downtown real, like the YouTube Theater. It's at

878
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:30,079
one of those bs and so it's yeah, it's me Laura,

879
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,480
my friend Sharon, and Cecily, and it's been planned. He

880
00:45:34,519 --> 00:45:36,679
bought her the tickets like a long time ago. Wow,

881
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:40,199
that's gonna be so fun. I know, I'm very much

882
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:41,079
looking forward to it.

883
00:45:41,159 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 2: Like, what are the bunch of bands that are just

884
00:45:43,599 --> 00:45:44,920
it's just all yacht rock.

885
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's the band Yachtlee Crue who does the

886
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:53,880
big show. They sing all like late seventies eighties songs, right,

887
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,719
and they dress up in like the yacht hat o saddy.

888
00:45:58,079 --> 00:46:00,440
It's a it's a show. Like I went to see

889
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:07,840
them with Robin at in Burbank. No you know Agora Okay,

890
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:09,239
it's an Aga okay.

891
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I know what

892
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:13,079
you're talking about.

893
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: The freeway, yes, yeah, Oh my god, why can't I

894
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:21,559
remember it? Their thing is where music meets the soul.

895
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,920
If you go to their website, they have a bunch

896
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:24,239
of them.

897
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 2: But anyway, yeah, like Pat Benattar's played out there.

898
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, so I've seen them out there before

899
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:36,360
and now they're that's so fun. They're at a bigger venue.

900
00:46:36,599 --> 00:46:38,880
They're very how are you going to do a party? Well,

901
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,079
so I'm not going to do it that. I'm definitely

902
00:46:41,159 --> 00:46:43,360
not going to do it that Saturday. I don't want

903
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,760
to do it the friday right after Thanksgiving people might

904
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,480
be out of town. So the kids were thinking maybe

905
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,880
they would do it the following weekend like early December. Okay,

906
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,039
but so then I got to get money to pay

907
00:46:55,079 --> 00:46:58,360
a magician and pay for like a little party, right,

908
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,519
A lot, I know, I know feel for you.

909
00:47:03,079 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 2: The fact that all three of your kids have birthdays

910
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:09,840
so close together in November, right before Christmas, that's a lot.

911
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so I will tell you about I have

912
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:18,159
some other stories for you for Friday's episode, but let's

913
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:19,880
do shouts.

914
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:24,599
Speaker 2: How about want to shout Hip Johanne up and shout,

915
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:31,400
Stephanie Stinker Wrinker shout, Christmas Drew Show shout, Ben Green shout.

916
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,800
Jennifer and Aaron and Leslie make me want to shout

917
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,480
a little bit louder. Now shout a little bit soft

918
00:47:37,519 --> 00:47:38,280
and now.

919
00:47:38,159 --> 00:47:43,199
Speaker 1: Leslie White cough makes me want to cough. Alicia as

920
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,400
Galante and Kelly Britton, Rebecca Lubin and Ishan fog Pey

921
00:47:46,679 --> 00:47:50,559
and Missy and Gabby, we want to shout the haels

922
00:47:50,639 --> 00:47:54,840
up and shout. Katerina, Katerina and Valerie Buba Fenwick and

923
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:59,440
Polly Butterfield and Rita Bassiett and Elizabeth, Nikki Collier and

924
00:48:00,159 --> 00:48:00,880
Dick Frolicker.

925
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:04,679
Speaker 2: You make me want to shout. Good hands, come on

926
00:48:05,039 --> 00:48:06,119
a little bit loud and.

927
00:48:06,119 --> 00:48:10,159
Speaker 1: Now oh, I wanted to tell you guys this now.

928
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,519
So my lady, okay, I'll give you an update on

929
00:48:13,559 --> 00:48:18,519
my GLP jourky too. She's going great, so, my lady,

930
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:24,000
my GLP lady said she's been so many people from

931
00:48:24,039 --> 00:48:27,159
the podcast have reached out to her. Really, I swear

932
00:48:27,199 --> 00:48:29,920
to you. She decided she wants to reward everybody and

933
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:32,679
she's going to do a twenty five percent off. It

934
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,559
already only costs like one hundred and twenty five dollars

935
00:48:35,599 --> 00:48:39,199
for ten milligrams, but she's going to offer twenty five

936
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,480
percent off between now when you're listening to this and

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like December first, Wow, Wow, reach out to me. If

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you already have her info, then you can tell her

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you want your for crying out loud discount. But if

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you haven't, you can reach out to me and I'll

941
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give you herd that's great, iteel weird just giving her

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phone number? Yeah, well whatever, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I

943
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could post it on our Facebook page. She's on in

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our Facebook. Oh okay, name's Karen Ford all right. Anyway,

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so that got a little add She's not even doing

946
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a shout out. It's just like, right, she's not doing

947
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a shout You make me want a shout out, Katie Coleman.

948
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She is doing ELF on the shelf kits for Christmas.

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You know what a pain in the fucking ass trying

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00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,079
to move the ELF I think of stuff. So this

951
00:49:28,159 --> 00:49:30,320
is this kit comes with twenty four days of ELF

952
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:34,119
setups and props and customizable letters so you don't have

953
00:49:34,159 --> 00:49:37,960
to think of something that's cute. A genius idea. Yeah,

954
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:43,320
you can find it on Etsy by searching Little Merry Moments. Nice.

955
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:47,559
Then another good gift idea, Courtneymore with I e Embroidery.

956
00:49:48,119 --> 00:49:52,639
They do the hats and polos and personalized stuff. That's

957
00:49:52,639 --> 00:49:55,679
a great gift. Yeah, so on she's on Facebook. I

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e Embroidery. And then we've got our girl, Kaylie Pettis,

959
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who is licensed marriage and family therapist. She's out of Seattle.

960
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She can see you personally in Seattle or virtually across

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all of Washington State. And she helps high achieving women

962
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who feel really confident in every area except their love lives.

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She's really good with that, so go to Emerald Bloom Therapy. Also,

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my friend I will not say her name, but she

965
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has a medium account medium dot com and it's at

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Unbecoming Stories and a little bit later this month, she's

967
00:50:32,159 --> 00:50:38,679
just gonna let loose with some craziness. She can't legally

968
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do it just yet. Oh interested, there's some good stories

969
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:46,079
coming your way. Also, Family Skeptical podcast about raising kids

970
00:50:46,079 --> 00:50:51,559
without religion, So if you're any non believer type, you're

971
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welcome listen to their podcast. Will Meanfrida Palm Springs, Palm Desert.

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Get your grub on yuh me go see them mentioned

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fcol Get a latte or a mimosa that a gift

974
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idea Basic Becky she'll do design a T shirt anyway

975
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you want, or a mouse pad or a mug. Go

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to just Basic Becky dot com. Maren is Sugar Skull,

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a small bakery and gift shop on the island of Kawhi.

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If you're vacationing, go get a cake. Yeah, would you?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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00:51:24,159 --> 00:51:27,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? Don't be dumb. Go to their Instagram page at

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Sugar Skull eight eight and fall give them a follow

982
00:51:31,199 --> 00:51:35,000
and to get there, why not use waves and wonder chable,

983
00:51:35,199 --> 00:51:40,320
it's our friend Christine. She's Christine Concierge travel planner on Facebook.

984
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Or go into our group and go where's the travel bitch?

985
00:51:44,119 --> 00:51:48,480
And then ACL you fighting the good fight? Oh are

986
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they ever? They're taking it. They're taking it to court

987
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:57,960
and especially for LGBTQ rights, immigrant rights. So please give

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00:51:58,000 --> 00:51:59,880
a little money if you can afford it to the ACL.

989
00:52:00,079 --> 00:52:06,559
You and Heather Hoyt just through the rest of November,

990
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so maybe she'll get one more shout out after this.

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The Holder Wide Foundation in honor of the boys killed

992
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:17,199
in the Borderline shooting. To donate, go to holder wide

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00:52:17,559 --> 00:52:20,760
dot org and click the donate tab. So that's a

994
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:24,320
really really important Yeah, they do a lot of good things.

995
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And also Adam Lerner, Adam's got a car. If you

996
00:52:28,519 --> 00:52:30,719
need a car, he's a car broker. He'll take all

997
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,519
the pain out of shopping for cars. And you know what,

998
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I have one more so I'm just going to do

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it right now. Ferncandle another gonna get Yes. Yes, she

1000
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runs the business out of her home. She makes yummy

1001
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smelling candles like tobacco, sage, lavender, sandalwood. Also she's on

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Instagram at Ferncandle nice. Wow. All right, thanks everybody. We'll

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see you guys on Friday. All right bye. You're a

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parent now, don't if it up. I take that angle.