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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome to the Minnesota Goodbye. We have an

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<v Speaker 1>ask for you. Please send us emails, yes, because we're

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit low this week and we have one

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<v Speaker 1>more day where Dave's not going to be on, but

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<v Speaker 1>today we just don't have a ton of emails. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you have sent an email before and Dave hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>read it, feel free to send it again because sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>Dave reads things and forgets about home and we don't

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<v Speaker 1>get to them. Or truthfully, if your email's too long,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't always read those as well, because we just

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<v Speaker 1>needed to be a little bit more concise for this,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're not reading an email for like five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>of the fifteen minute podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>So we'll start with this one.

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<v Speaker 1>It says, hello, Dave, Jenny Bailey, and vant I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you're having a good morning. First off, I have to

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<v Speaker 1>say the obligatory. I absolutely love your show and have

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<v Speaker 1>been listening since I was a kid. Bit Jenny has

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<v Speaker 1>been so fun to listen to you grow over the years,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think you've really come into your own Bailey,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for repping for all of us nerds out here.

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<v Speaker 1>Love your sense of humor and you're fantastic with improv vant.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been awesome having you added to the show and

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<v Speaker 1>listening to you push people's buttons for phonsies is always

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. Now that that's out of the way,

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<v Speaker 1>onto the main reason I'm writing, and Dave, you've been

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<v Speaker 1>like a father figure to me throughout my whole life.

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<v Speaker 1>My own father is still around, but he's not a

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<v Speaker 1>nice person, so you being the steady, level headed male

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<v Speaker 1>influence in my life has meant a lot to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a huge fan of thrift shopping, and I often

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<v Speaker 1>visit the goodwill bins. Some days I walk out empty handed,

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<v Speaker 1>but most days I find little treasures for the people

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<v Speaker 1>I care about. Everything sold by weight, and books are

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<v Speaker 1>priced by height, so it's an affordable way to bring

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<v Speaker 1>to brighten someone's day with a small trinket or surprise.

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<v Speaker 1>On my lunch break today, I came across a nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>seventy two Scout handbook.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Faded but has that charming, well loved look, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>filled with adorable illustrations. As soon as I saw it,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought of sending it to you, Dave. When I

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<v Speaker 1>was younger, I was a girl Scout, but I never

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<v Speaker 1>quite felt like I fit in with the girls. Still

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<v Speaker 1>don't Tellowel. I always wished I could have joined the

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<v Speaker 1>boy Scouts instead, and was always so jealous hearing about

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<v Speaker 1>all the awesome things Car and you did through Scouts.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really glad that today's kids don't have to be

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<v Speaker 1>sorted by gender into different clubs if they'd rather be

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<v Speaker 1>in the other one. You've always been the biggest advocate

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<v Speaker 1>for Scouts, and since Susan always jokes about how you

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<v Speaker 1>have piles of stuff lying around, I thought one more

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<v Speaker 1>book wouldn't hurt.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll blend right in with your newspaper collection. Ha ha.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel free to pass on the offer. It costs me

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<v Speaker 1>about fifty cents, so there's no loss if you're not interested.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for being a constant presence in my life and

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<v Speaker 1>for showing me that not all men are.

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<v Speaker 2>Like my father.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy your kids got to grow up with

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<v Speaker 1>such a loving dad. Happy Early Father's Day, your pal

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<v Speaker 1>from Afar. This comes from Marissa. Now, Marissa, I know

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<v Speaker 1>Dave's not Amus today, however, I will make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>he sees it and gets back to you about the

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<v Speaker 1>Scout book. And I'm kind of like scrolling through these

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<v Speaker 1>photos if you guys want to see it. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's definitely a loved book, a book that definitely

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<v Speaker 1>looks like it's been.

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<v Speaker 2>Around the block of time or two.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you know it says fun things like carrying

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<v Speaker 1>your equipment and help.

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<v Speaker 3>With illustrations that yeah, straight up of like nineteen sixty three.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, how to like roll your bed up and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's fun. Okay, Well we'll let Dave know and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll make sure that Marissa he hears all of your

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<v Speaker 1>email because he will very much appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 3>You should put it in his RV and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>live by it when he's out camping.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he could.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember when I was in third fourth grade. I

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<v Speaker 4>remember we had like boy Scouts girl Scouts come to

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<v Speaker 4>the after school program and yeah, they were teaching us

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<v Speaker 4>how to like tie a knot and shit, and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I want to make fucking cookies and they

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<v Speaker 4>were like, no.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know do they learn that in girl Scouts.

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<v Speaker 4>Make think they just sell well they do so, but

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<v Speaker 4>I think like they were doing like a little seminar

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<v Speaker 4>like at the time, like just to make like, oh

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<v Speaker 4>you want to like diy fin Min's Yeah, I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>this is what I want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I want to diy thin.

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<v Speaker 4>Min's like, I don't want to tie a knot and

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<v Speaker 4>make a tint.

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<v Speaker 3>I never was in any of those like after school

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<v Speaker 3>or you know, group community classes or clubs or anything

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<v Speaker 3>when I was a kid. Like girl Scouts are Scouts

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<v Speaker 3>or Scouts, you know. I took like one babysitting class

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<v Speaker 3>when I was like twelve with my sister, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I never babysat anybody, but I took an entire class.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like Red Cross certified babysitter at age twelve.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's as close to Scouting as I ever got.

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<v Speaker 2>I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a lot of girls took that class because I

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<v Speaker 1>think I was eleven or twelve when I took that

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<v Speaker 1>babysitting I just.

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<v Speaker 3>All I remember from it is how to give mouth

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<v Speaker 3>to mouth to a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Gosh, I don't even remember that. I know I learned it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember their.

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<v Speaker 3>Mouth over their mouth and their nose and then I'll

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<v Speaker 3>blow into both of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Well you really more than you remember.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys know how to swim?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh girl?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, yeah, oh I forget. You don't know how to swim.

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<v Speaker 1>Be like, yes, I mean I grew up my parents

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<v Speaker 1>like before. Well, still my mom has a pool, but

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<v Speaker 1>my parents did build a pool in our backyard growing up,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was a fish. I was always swimming growing up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's something else I learned in after school program.

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<v Speaker 4>I I used to go to the YMCA after be

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<v Speaker 4>four and after school, and there was a there was

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<v Speaker 4>a group of like a guy friends, and there was

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<v Speaker 4>a girl that we all thought was cute, and she

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<v Speaker 4>we had different levels of They were like necklaces red, yellow,

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<v Speaker 4>or green, just based on like how well you could swim.

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<v Speaker 4>And the girl that we thought was cute wore a

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<v Speaker 4>green and I was like, well, I can't be fucking

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<v Speaker 4>out here wearing a red one or a yellow one

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<v Speaker 4>swimming in the little kiddie four inch pool and she's

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<v Speaker 4>going off the diving board. So I taught my ass

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<v Speaker 4>I had to swim.

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<v Speaker 2>Dang, that's exciting.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's so that's so cool. I was too scared,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I took swimming lessons with my sister, and then

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<v Speaker 3>it got to the point where we had to put

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<v Speaker 3>our heads underwater, and I was too scared to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>And man, I don't know why, but the instructors were

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<v Speaker 3>just like, that's okay, you can just set out. And

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<v Speaker 3>so then I sat out enough that I just stopped

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<v Speaker 3>going to class. And then like a year later, my

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<v Speaker 3>sister taught me in a hotel pool how to put

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<v Speaker 3>my hat under the water. But that by that point

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<v Speaker 3>everyone who was in swimming lessons was older, and I

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't about to enter swimming lessons with kids who are

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<v Speaker 3>a year younger than me because I would have been embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 3>So I never learned swim period. You've talked about maybe

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<v Speaker 3>trying to learn, though I would like to, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>like my my issue is, I don't know. I just

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<v Speaker 3>hate being perceived, So I wouldn't want to be in

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<v Speaker 3>a swimsuit with anyone who's like not, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I would want like a forty year old woman named

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<v Speaker 3>Sandra to teach me how to swim, like Dave, No,

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<v Speaker 3>because Dave would Dave would like roast me the entire time.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't want like a hot young lifeguard to

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<v Speaker 3>teach me how to swim, I any gender. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want a hot young person to teach me how to

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<v Speaker 3>swim because I would feel self conscious about how I looked,

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't want a friend to teach me how

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<v Speaker 3>to swim, because I wouldn't want them to judge me

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<v Speaker 3>and be like, wow, Bailey's really lame, she doesn't know

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<v Speaker 3>how to swim. Yeah, I literally over the pandemic like lockdown.

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<v Speaker 3>I learned how to put my head under the water

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<v Speaker 3>without plugging my nose. And that's as far as I've gotten.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's good, So I mean that's a step I

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<v Speaker 1>can do that, A step in the right direction.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I would like to it'd be nice to

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<v Speaker 3>know how I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people just really don't like when you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do swim lessons when you're young.

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<v Speaker 2>They just don't like it. My nephew's so.

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<v Speaker 1>Adventurous, however, he fucking hates swim lessons. Like he he's

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<v Speaker 1>four now, and he my sister would have to walk

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<v Speaker 1>on the edge with him, and he like wouldn't get in,

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be able to be in the pool area anyways.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just so weird because he's so adventurous in

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<v Speaker 1>every other aspect, but he's just not a swimmer, and

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<v Speaker 1>my my mom still has her pool, so the kids

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<v Speaker 1>go over there and swim in the summer a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>But he just like doesn't like to go in very much.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like not his thing. Kind of kind of surprising

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<v Speaker 1>for me, just knowing his personality, to be honest. That's

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<v Speaker 1>like all we have for emails today. There's some old

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<v Speaker 1>ones that I think Dave maybe hasn't read yet, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not entirely positive, so they're at least opened, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if they've been read. However, there is

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<v Speaker 1>one that maybe he hasn't showed you. It says I

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<v Speaker 1>was scrolling through Reddit and came upon this navy ad,

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<v Speaker 1>and the first thing I thought was Vaunt, What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think look at those guy?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think it is his doppelganger? You're a doppelganger?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, there's okay, a picture of a man

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<v Speaker 3>in the navy. Yeah, who kind of looks like Vaunt

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<v Speaker 3>with a different mustache.

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<v Speaker 4>Look like me.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he looks like you a little bit. He does?

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<v Speaker 2>He does? He does? You guys have similar eyes. I

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<v Speaker 2>think his eyes are closed, his eyes are open.

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<v Speaker 4>His name is Jared Richardson. If you. I just want

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<v Speaker 4>to look it up for reference. I don't think he

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<v Speaker 4>looks like me when he is a full beer too.

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<v Speaker 4>He looks good looking, like he could pick up women

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<v Speaker 4>on the street. That is not me. The only thing

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<v Speaker 4>that keeps a lista in my household is the fact

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<v Speaker 4>that I make bomb ribs. The person that people in

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<v Speaker 4>the cities say that I look like a lot is a.

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<v Speaker 4>He's a pastor or. He's like a motivational speaker named

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<v Speaker 4>Ryan Leak. Not only do we have the same last name,

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<v Speaker 4>but he genuinely.

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<v Speaker 2>Looks like he's local to the cities.

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<v Speaker 4>I believe so shaped head and hair and the last name.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's black.

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<v Speaker 2>He is black.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you guys look the same.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't think you guys on the air.

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<v Speaker 1>Very different noses, very different smile.

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<v Speaker 3>He's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know the reason I know. I don't Ryan Leak. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>be cute.

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<v Speaker 3>If you guys did something together and then you could

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<v Speaker 3>be like, you know, what's the leak with the leaks?

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<v Speaker 1>There's there's there's my email that from I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 1>how to say your name, but Natty and a D

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<v Speaker 4>Natty, I love that you felt that you saw that

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<v Speaker 4>email or that picture and you just had to email us.

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<v Speaker 2>Just that that's.

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<v Speaker 4>Great, thank you for that. I'm a terrible uh.

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<v Speaker 2>Host, I guess is the word sure?

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<v Speaker 4>Because yesterday I made food for Bailey. Well, I made

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<v Speaker 4>food for a lot of people, and Bailey came to

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<v Speaker 4>pick hers up and I literally had you outside waiting

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<v Speaker 4>for how long.

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<v Speaker 3>Twenty five minutes. I was waiting for twenty five minutes

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<v Speaker 3>waiting for my food.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a terrible person.

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<v Speaker 2>I realized this was like a drive up situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like to go or side because I so here's

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<v Speaker 4>the situation my girlfriend and my girlfriend listen to we made.

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<v Speaker 4>We started making like plates of food Puerto Rican food,

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<v Speaker 4>and we start selling them in shit and yesterday was

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<v Speaker 4>the first time we ever did it, like paying people

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<v Speaker 4>like people paying us. It was so good. Bailey was

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<v Speaker 4>so helpful and so uh thank you for being so supportive.

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<v Speaker 4>Bailey came to pick up her food and your food

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<v Speaker 4>was literally just about done. But then you had what

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<v Speaker 4>threw me off was you later in the day you

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<v Speaker 4>asked me to make a plate for your sister, and

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<v Speaker 4>me and Alyssa just didn't compute that, so we had

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<v Speaker 4>to go like, oh shit, okay, make another plate. So

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<v Speaker 4>I told you just sit outside, I'll come bring it

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<v Speaker 4>down for you in like five minutes, ten minutes. Then

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<v Speaker 4>maybe twenty minutes goes by and somebody else says, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm about to be downstairs. I was like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 4>just Bailey, she can wait like another ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just Bailey. She's not a priority.

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<v Speaker 4>But thank you for supporting me my small business. Jenny

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't support black businesses.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have a very different financial situation than I

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<v Speaker 1>did two months ago, so even spending fifteen dollars on

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<v Speaker 1>a meal is like out of my budget right now, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>which I know you m question because I know I

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<v Speaker 1>just went out of town this past weekend. But I

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<v Speaker 1>literally packed food the entire time, and I had a

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<v Speaker 1>turkey sandwich the entire fucking trip. Okay, I literally did

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<v Speaker 1>not eat out once, and my friends fed me the

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<v Speaker 1>other nights because they were proper and brought like kebabs

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<v Speaker 1>and hot dogs and shit to grill, and they're like

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<v Speaker 1>I felt, I did feel like such a freeloader because

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<v Speaker 1>I packed enough food to cover me for the weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>but then they had all this extra food. They're like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we brought stuff so you could eat too, and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so sweet, and honestly, like their food was way

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<v Speaker 1>better than what I packed, so I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna eat it then if they're offering it. I

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<v Speaker 1>did leave them a bottle of wine as a thank

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<v Speaker 1>you though. When I left, I did bring because I

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<v Speaker 1>brought some wine and I was like, here you go,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for feeding me this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate you. How much.

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<v Speaker 4>How many friends did you go with?

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<v Speaker 1>It was just one couple, just one couple of friends,

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<v Speaker 1>so they got yeah, I was third wheeling. Yeah, really

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<v Speaker 1>Embracing the third wheel aspect of favorite part is yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I used to do it all the time

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<v Speaker 1>in my twenties. It's a it's a new thing once

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<v Speaker 1>again to me. But I don't know, it's maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>feel the same way, Bailey, But like at this point

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<v Speaker 1>in life, I just I don't really care that much

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<v Speaker 1>about the fact that I'm the third wheel. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like embracing it more whereas I used to be

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<v Speaker 1>super self conscious about it. Yeah, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I one thing I'll say this time around of being

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<v Speaker 1>single again is that there's a lot of other people

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<v Speaker 1>who not A lot most of my friends are in

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<v Speaker 1>marriage or a long term relationship soon to be married,

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<v Speaker 1>but the people who aren't, like I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we can relate a lot to It's okay that we're

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<v Speaker 1>not in a relationship because we want certain things and

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<v Speaker 1>if we're not getting it, we're not going to settle.

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<v Speaker 1>And this has nothing to do with my previous relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying that there's a lot of people out

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<v Speaker 1>there who are also single, and I think at this

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<v Speaker 1>point in life, it's a look debt negatively when you're single. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it's frustrating because it's like, Okay, so I

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<v Speaker 1>could either be in a really unhappy relationship because I

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<v Speaker 1>decided to settle or I wasn't ready or whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 1>And not that that's what most people are, but some

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<v Speaker 1>people are in that, or it could just be single, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And why is that looked at as less then?

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<v Speaker 3>Right now?

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<v Speaker 2>People who are in unhappy relationships, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I think if they're not adding to my life,

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<v Speaker 3>then I don't want them in my life because my

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<v Speaker 3>life is pretty good as it is and they need

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<v Speaker 3>to add to it. And not subtract from it, but

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<v Speaker 3>I will say those single friends that you have, you

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<v Speaker 3>are going to get so much closer to those people

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<v Speaker 3>because now I mean same thing. I have the same

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<v Speaker 3>kind of boat as you, where most of my friends

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<v Speaker 3>are married or in long term relationships, and I have

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<v Speaker 3>two friends who are single, and we are really close.

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<v Speaker 3>Now Katie and Sarah shout out because now we're like, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 3>we're the ones who understand each other's situations and have

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<v Speaker 3>the kind of same experience, and we're the ones who

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<v Speaker 3>can talk about it versus talking about those same experience

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<v Speaker 3>with someone who's been married for like five years, ten

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<v Speaker 3>years or whatever and they're like, oh, well my son

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<v Speaker 3>did this the other day, and I'm like that's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't relate to that, and you don't relate

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<v Speaker 3>to me, and we're having a hard time relating to

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<v Speaker 3>each other. So it is kind of nice to have

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<v Speaker 3>single friends, so lean on those people for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, No, I definitely, I definitely have. But most of

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<v Speaker 1>my friend honestly, there's probably only like two people, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get to see them very often because they're

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<v Speaker 1>very busy. Yeah, that are single. Everyone else is in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship but I don't know. I think I have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of friends that are very independent of their relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's easy to find time to hang out with them.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Tony, who comes on the show with us sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>He is he's been married for like seven years, been

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<v Speaker 1>with his partner for like I don't know, ten, twelve

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<v Speaker 1>years or something, but he they do separate things all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, like he love that. Yeah, Like he's coming

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<v Speaker 1>in tomorrow on the show, and I'm probably gonna be like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing this weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do some things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, out, let's hang out and do some staff. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we are at about our fifteen minute mark, and so

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<v Speaker 1>once again I'm going to beg you guys to send

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<v Speaker 1>us a few emails and so we can read them

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<v Speaker 1>tomorrow on the Minnesota Goodbye, and then Dave will be

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<v Speaker 1>back on Monday.

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<v Speaker 3>Podcast forever until date's gone again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, thanks for listening, Ryan Show at katiewb dot.

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<v Speaker 2>Com for all your emails. Thank you,