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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Wine and Wine Podcast. I'm Kelsey and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Ellie. This is your dose of friendship, fun and

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<v Speaker 1>figuring life out together. Let's be e besties because life

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<v Speaker 1>is messy, Wine hopes.

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<v Speaker 2>And whining is optional. Hi e besties. Hi guys, welcome back,

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I haven't seen you in forever.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, we haven't been able to get together for

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<v Speaker 2>a minute. No, we kind of did a bulk record

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<v Speaker 2>last time we did. We did.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like July has just been really busy for

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<v Speaker 3>both of us, so hectic, so we're like, where what

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<v Speaker 3>is life and why is it already the end of July?

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<v Speaker 3>Like wasn't it the beginning of July just the other day?

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<v Speaker 2>Where did it go? For real? Though, I'm like still

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<v Speaker 2>trying to regroup, insane.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like these days and weeks have just like blurred, biting,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a blur.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>If I didn't have my Google calendar, I literally would

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<v Speaker 3>be like they'd be like, what'd you do this month?

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<v Speaker 3>And I'd be like, oh, literally, no idea, no idea.

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<v Speaker 3>I probably just like laid in bed and worked and

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<v Speaker 3>that's probably it. But realistically you were like not home.

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<v Speaker 2>But besides like two days.

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<v Speaker 3>But actually, literally I've lived a thousand lives, so I

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<v Speaker 3>just yeah, it's it's been a lot. But yeah, well

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<v Speaker 3>I'm excited to chat with you, I know about life

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<v Speaker 3>updates for real. But yes, before we get into that, wait,

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<v Speaker 3>do we do the one on one first? Wine the

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<v Speaker 3>wine first?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? So Ellie is taking care of the wine and

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<v Speaker 2>the wine one on one this week.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys, all right, help me, somebody'll please. Okay. So we

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<v Speaker 3>got a cab solve. Did I do that right? Yep?

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<v Speaker 2>Nice?

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<v Speaker 3>So we have that today, and it's called aptitude, and

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<v Speaker 3>let's see it says back here a dark, fruit driven

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<v Speaker 3>quintessential Rutherford cabernet that is lush and pleasing in every sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Black plum aromas are complemented with refined, toasty oak, sweet vanilla,

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<v Speaker 3>and tobacco firm yet balanced tannings tannin's. Okay, you've talked

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<v Speaker 3>about that before complete the journey while leaving oneself satisfied

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<v Speaker 3>and longing for more.

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<v Speaker 2>You did that so seductively. I was sitting over here, like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 2>it's been a lot in here.

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<v Speaker 3>For me.

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<v Speaker 2>A little clink link, clink link. Okay, we're gonna give

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<v Speaker 2>me a tall glass. I'm too scared to swirl. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I did give you a lot. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Kelsey's get drunk. I even poured today, y'all, And I'm like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 3>I think I gave Kelsey at beautiful, beautiful leggies the

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<v Speaker 3>legs be legging. It smells good. Maybe it's been a

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<v Speaker 3>while since we've drink. I had a lot of I

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<v Speaker 3>thought about that afterwards. I'm like, actually, red.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm yep, it tastes exactly like it smells. That's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of weird that it tastes like literally, yeah, it's very like.

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<v Speaker 3>Bold in the beginning, but like then it it's a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit harsh at the end, which makes me a

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<v Speaker 3>little sad. Here, let me take another, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Hmm, the second like it, but yeah, you're right, it

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<v Speaker 2>does kind of finish a little harsh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the second sip didn't do it any favors though,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I liked it less the second.

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<v Speaker 2>This is one that has for sure be a sip,

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<v Speaker 2>a small one, more sip, oh my fuck no, but

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<v Speaker 2>it needs to be a little bigger sip than that.

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<v Speaker 2>That is literally just bitter. Yeah, why is it getting worse?

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<v Speaker 2>This reminds me of my first story. We're like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>yeah now, and I'm like, whoa.

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<v Speaker 3>It reminds me of like one of those guys that

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<v Speaker 3>you go on a date on like with, and they're

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<v Speaker 3>like they talk a big game. I don't know, yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and then you're disappointed.

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<v Speaker 2>By the end of the night. Okay, but I do

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<v Speaker 2>have a I do have a thought. Okay, I'm wondering,

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<v Speaker 2>just you know, I'm just trying to help it out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>when you opened it, it was an extra soft cork

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<v Speaker 2>and it broke. I'm wondering if the cork like maybe

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<v Speaker 2>it's a little rancid already too soft.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll have to do a wine one o one regarding

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<v Speaker 3>cork works next week.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm gonna be very wrong on that, but that's

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just, you know, I'm just trying to help it Out's.

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<v Speaker 3>A good theory. Let I'm gonna do one more sip.

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<v Speaker 3>I just drink water hopefully this like honestly, because that's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Like the aftertaste I'm getting is almost like it's a

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<v Speaker 2>bottle that's been open a little too long.

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<v Speaker 3>But but I mean, I hear you, but also like

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<v Speaker 3>it has the the seal over it though too, but

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<v Speaker 3>I guess the seal does also have like two holes

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<v Speaker 3>poked in it all the time, so I think eventually, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel it could definitely be worse if it was actually rancid.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's the only reason I'm saying that because that's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of what it tastes like. It's like, you know

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<v Speaker 2>when you have a bottle of red that's like been

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<v Speaker 2>open for like five days, where still drinkable, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>a little harsh. It's not to the vinegary stage yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I kind of what I'm getting. It just

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<v Speaker 3>made me sad because that first sip was good. It

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<v Speaker 3>smells so good. That first sip was smell like the plump. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm telling you, this reminds me of one of

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<v Speaker 3>those guys.

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<v Speaker 2>That wondering it says it's got the tobacco. Maybe that's

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<v Speaker 2>the flavor we're not liking because it smells like the plump.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it's tasting bitter because maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>Back Maybe Yeah, I'm gonna I gotta I gotta go

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<v Speaker 3>with three on this, Yeah, I gotta go. I like

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like a douche maybe even saying a two five,

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<v Speaker 3>But maybe I'll just it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Hard because like like we said it smells really good,

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<v Speaker 2>and it started okay, but it just kept getting worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Each sip we take it gets worse and worse.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and the bottles just like classic. It's just like

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<v Speaker 3>a classic bottle. So I mean, yeah, she would be like,

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<v Speaker 3>I hate to do that, but two seven five two

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<v Speaker 3>seven five, this is probably one of the lowest rating.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so sad because it really started so strong that

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<v Speaker 3>and I will say, I want to say it like

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<v Speaker 3>it even leaves like.

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<v Speaker 2>A weird there's a film in my oh my tongue

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<v Speaker 2>almost well, I want to like even just google compare

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<v Speaker 2>to everyone else's notes to it. Well, just the.

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<v Speaker 3>Price on it. Oh, yeah, because I want to say

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't it was a bit more expensive than the

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<v Speaker 3>wine I bought that we talked about last week, you know. Yeah, shoot,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to say it was around like twenty bucks.

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<v Speaker 2>It was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was in the mid twenties. I want to say,

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<v Speaker 3>Allied I laid, I think it was like thirteen bucks.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, because I'm googling it too. It looks honestly, just

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<v Speaker 2>depends on where you look, because I'm seeing anywhere from

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<v Speaker 2>twelve ninety nine up to twenty four dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I think it was probably on the cheaper side

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<v Speaker 3>because I got it at Costco in Colorado.

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<v Speaker 2>So but I'm looking at reviews too, and it's like

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<v Speaker 2>averaged three point five.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so we're not off completely off. We're not off.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just a little less.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, so high.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, part of me kind of wants to

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<v Speaker 2>give it another try, like with a different bottle, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and see if.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the cork okay or not, or maybe I

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<v Speaker 3>just sucked at opening the wine because I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>Kelso always opens the wine and today I decided to

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<v Speaker 3>open and then that happened to me, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>apparently I don't know though, Yeah I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, it is what it is. It is what

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<v Speaker 2>it is. We're sorry, Aptitude. We'll still love it. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>we'll try another one of your wines to give you

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<v Speaker 2>a second chance.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe maybe, but uh, this was I mean, we're

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<v Speaker 3>not gonna love all the wines, right, and we have.

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<v Speaker 2>It almost seems like we're biased because we seriously have

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<v Speaker 2>liked every single one.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, we get one other.

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<v Speaker 2>We get so freaking hyped when we've had so many

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<v Speaker 2>that were like fours four and a half.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so this is just our real hot time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 3>It's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, life is not perfect, especially after this update.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, what are we talking about today? Maybe your wine

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<v Speaker 2>one on one would have helped the wine probably.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what's so funny is before, I hope after

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<v Speaker 3>I give us a new poor after your wine one

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<v Speaker 3>on one?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh maybe with the aeriator.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we can pause and let go and then come

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<v Speaker 3>back or should I talk about it and then we'll pause,

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<v Speaker 3>okay and we'll come back. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>So the wine one on one today is about aerators.

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<v Speaker 3>So basically the purpose of an aeriator is to speed

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<v Speaker 3>up a process that would normally take hours. So they

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<v Speaker 3>instantly quote unquote open up wine by exposing it to oxygen,

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<v Speaker 3>enhancing flavors and softening tannins in just seconds. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>giving your wine a quick spot a instead of making

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<v Speaker 3>it sit in its canter all evening. So bonus is

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<v Speaker 3>that some wine lovers say using an aeriator on a

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<v Speaker 3>cheap bottle can make it taste like a much price.

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<v Speaker 3>You're poor, so let's let's give us try let's use

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<v Speaker 3>an aerator on this and see if it changes.

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<v Speaker 2>We can get a little higher.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, br b, Okay, we are back.

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<v Speaker 2>We gave it a little aeration. Yep, so we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>actually okay, which again I don't actually Still it still

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<v Speaker 2>smells good. It smells good, smells the same, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I didn't do a whole lot. No, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>it tastes less bad, but it's still not just bitter

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<v Speaker 2>on the like in the fish. Yes, but it's still not.

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<v Speaker 2>I still wouldn't drink it again. No, it's getting damn.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like it's like it gets worse with every sip,

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<v Speaker 3>which makes it even like sadder.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it burns, burns my throat.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think we're still keeping that rating, aren't we?

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<v Speaker 2>So sorry? We tried, We really tried rough. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>you win some, you lose something exactly what you can't

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<v Speaker 2>like everyone we tried, no, which everyone already thinks that

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<v Speaker 2>we're just like we don't give two ships about what

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<v Speaker 2>we're drinking. No, we we care, we do. We just

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<v Speaker 2>happened to be trying a lot of good ones.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's always a win when it's good, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>like a really good price because your girl's on a

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<v Speaker 3>budget exactly, so it's always a win. And so I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>well that was sad. That's thirteen dollars down the drain.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what. Side note, Yeah, one that like I've

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<v Speaker 2>actually been using as one of my regular like reds

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<v Speaker 2>lately is that Lapis Luna that Crystal brought us. Really

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<v Speaker 2>I buy the Lapis Luna redland. You know what I

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<v Speaker 3>And this is the should I say, And I'm always like, Kelsey,

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<v Speaker 3>we need to do this, and then four Kelsey is

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<v Speaker 3>but I swear I can help you with this one.

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<v Speaker 3>But we should create like a spreadsheet. And I think

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<v Speaker 3>behind the scenes. It's all a spreadsheet, but also just

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<v Speaker 3>cabs off, you know, blend, whatever, whatever, But then all

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<v Speaker 3>the wines that we've drank so far will like list

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<v Speaker 3>them in hierarchy based off like our ratings, and then

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<v Speaker 3>So then it's kind of like an easy access Like

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<v Speaker 3>I know it's nice for like our followers to just

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<v Speaker 3>on link tree. Yeah, and then it could kind of

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<v Speaker 3>be like an easy just like real quick like yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I love that. Wouldn't that be so nice for everybody

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<v Speaker 3>because then, like I think it's fun. I mean, we've

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<v Speaker 3>easy to be like, Okay, I need a red Blend. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I need a good rating on it, and like what's

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<v Speaker 3>the price?

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<v Speaker 2>I love it? Let's do it. Let's do it super easy.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Yeah, well et on one that's coming out because

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<v Speaker 3>I literally just spitball that out of my house, so.

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<v Speaker 2>So Elsie. But uh yeah, I think that I would

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<v Speaker 2>take like on all of like a couple of minutes

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<v Speaker 2>to create because I still from doing the social media

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<v Speaker 2>part of it. I still have all of that information saved,

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<v Speaker 2>but it should be pretty easy just to transfer it along.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I think that'd be so like, yeah, like

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<v Speaker 2>nice for everybody to agree too. I agree. I like that,

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<v Speaker 2>And then I can also like maybe another just side

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<v Speaker 2>note column being like Kelsey purchases this one regularly or

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<v Speaker 2>something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye yeah, a little like fun fact tidbits or whatever. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>let's do it. Let's do it. Okay, Well, we're just

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<v Speaker 3>gonna jump right into freaking life updates, not me having

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<v Speaker 3>to like go to my Google calendar because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>what what even happens? What even happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Do you want to go first? Should I go first? Totally?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you would think we would talk about this beforehand.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, we just kind of just start talking and

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we kind of just wing it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care to swing it. Here's just probably a

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<v Speaker 2>little more chaotics. You don want me to go first

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<v Speaker 2>to get it over with.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you can die right in not me telling

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<v Speaker 3>kelso like literally for this, I was like, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I cried like all day Thursday and all day Saturday.

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<v Speaker 2>So she literally has lived like ten lives this month.

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<v Speaker 2>I really have, I really have. Okay, yeah, we'll just

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<v Speaker 2>we'll get there. When we get there, I guess, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>mine's mine's not quite that hectic, so I can go

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<v Speaker 2>first and then you can finish off. Okay, sounds good.

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<v Speaker 3>So my July.

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<v Speaker 2>Started with my annual Fourth of July party. Will and

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of got roped into this thing. Now it's

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<v Speaker 2>just an I love that. It's such a tradition.

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<v Speaker 3>It is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so much fun and it's like the most like

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<v Speaker 2>white trash freaking party. Like we have bullet pools. Some

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<v Speaker 2>times we'll put out like a water slide. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's so like, and it's anybody can come, whatever type

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<v Speaker 2>of thing, family, kids, dogs, like you'll have well have

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<v Speaker 2>like trillion dogs.

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<v Speaker 3>And just gorillas exactly for real.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically feels like that. But I always just have like

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<v Speaker 2>everyone like like I'll provide sides and snacks and stuff

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<v Speaker 2>like that, but everyone kind of just byobs brings something

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<v Speaker 2>like we can light them off in my neighborhood and

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, you know, they're not cheap. So Will I

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<v Speaker 2>can't be from that the whole the whole shipbang right,

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<v Speaker 2>but we'll get like I don't know, it depends on

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<v Speaker 2>the year, but like twenty to thirty people, including like

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<v Speaker 2>little kids and stuff like that. So it's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of fun. But yeah, it's like it's kind of just

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<v Speaker 2>the thing. Now, Yeah, how was it? It was a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of fun, It really was. I think this was

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<v Speaker 2>probably one of my favorite. However, we did end up

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<v Speaker 2>having some drama with one of one of Will's friends

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of it. He just got a little

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<v Speaker 2>a little too drunk and started like yelling at everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>He kept losing his phone, but he kept blaming it

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<v Speaker 2>on everybody else and then getting mad at everybody else,

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<v Speaker 2>even though he would literally just be in his chair

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<v Speaker 2>shut up, but he would be throwing an absolute fit,

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<v Speaker 2>like did he think that somebody like took it and

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<v Speaker 2>I have literally no idea. He just starts screaming because

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<v Speaker 2>he couldn't find his phone and like blamed on everybody else,

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<v Speaker 2>even that it was him. Did he realize his actions

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<v Speaker 2>the next day and apologized like, I'm so confusing? Not really,

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<v Speaker 2>he was too drunk. He claims he doesn't remember what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Does he usually get like this, I'm so he doesn't. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>He's he's not a huge drinker. He's he gets high

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<v Speaker 2>a lot. He doesn't drink that much, so when he does,

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<v Speaker 2>it gets kind of chaotic.

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<v Speaker 3>Are we giving him a pass then because he doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>drink that much? Or are we kind of like because

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<v Speaker 3>we're grown already he needs.

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<v Speaker 2>To give for sure, me and a couple of my

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<v Speaker 2>friends pretty big apology because he was an absolute ass

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Did anybody call him out on a ship? Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Both I did and Hillary also we both got

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<v Speaker 2>in his face because he was being an absolute dickhead?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, good good for you guys for like standing

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<v Speaker 3>your ground.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we obviously knew he was littly titty, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was like, but also, does it doesn't give you a

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<v Speaker 3>Did he like say the rest of the night. Then like, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you're too nice.

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<v Speaker 2>I will get the fun. Will's other friends and ship

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<v Speaker 2>just thought it was funny because you're like, well, that's

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<v Speaker 2>just how A use other people. So that's why he's enabled. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he's definitely enabled. Yeah whatever. Besides that, it was a

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<v Speaker 2>great site.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's always there's always something in the mix. I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like when when you have like a large gathering

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<v Speaker 3>with a Alco hall, like it kind of you never

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<v Speaker 3>know what's gonna you just never know what's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 2>So but besides that, it was a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We had a little bit of a rough day the

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<v Speaker 2>next day, just like hangover wise.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh my gosh. Yeah, but it was fine.

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<v Speaker 2>It was fine. And then the next weekend, Will and

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<v Speaker 2>I we were gonna just go up to Bear Lake.

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<v Speaker 2>It's on the border of Utah and Idaho for anyone

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<v Speaker 2>that doesn't know, We're just gonna go up for the

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<v Speaker 2>day on Saturday. And then Will was talking to his

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<v Speaker 2>boss who's also his buddy, just telling him, yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna goup for the day, YadA YadA, yadda, and his

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<v Speaker 2>buddy was like, well, we're not using our place this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you guys want to use it? We're like yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So we ended up like literally with at like four

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<v Speaker 2>pm on Friday, We're like, let's well hurry unpack and

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<v Speaker 2>get her asses up there. So we did that and

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<v Speaker 2>then stayed the night. We went and had some food

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<v Speaker 2>in town. The next day, played at the beach the

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<v Speaker 2>whole day, got coold crissy, so fun. And then we

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<v Speaker 2>were going to drive home after the bee because I

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<v Speaker 2>had book club the next morning. And then he had

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<v Speaker 2>also had a tea time during book club because he's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>what am I going to do while you're at book

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<v Speaker 2>club whatever? You know. Yeah, but we're like, let's just

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<v Speaker 2>stay one more night and leave early in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's what we did. We ended up just staying

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<v Speaker 2>one more night, and I'm glad we did. It was

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<v Speaker 2>such a good night. And then yeah, leaving early next morning,

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<v Speaker 2>got home in time to hurry and shower and get

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<v Speaker 2>my ass to book club.

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<v Speaker 3>All good for you for still going to book club.

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<v Speaker 3>I would have been maybe tempted to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I was so tempted, but I was also like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>like the whole point of leaving early so I can

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<v Speaker 2>still make it exactly that I'm the one that chose

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<v Speaker 2>to spend one more night.

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<v Speaker 3>Well that and like I feel like you still have

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<v Speaker 3>like your whole day too, even after like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>I sometimes like coming back home from somewhere like early

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<v Speaker 3>on a Saturday Sunday, so then you still kind of

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<v Speaker 3>feel like you're home hanging out before the workday on

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<v Speaker 3>my day.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, we still had time to like after I

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<v Speaker 2>ran to book club and he went to his tea,

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<v Speaker 2>time still had time to get home and do more

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<v Speaker 2>laundry and just chill for the rest of the evening.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it wasn't like an inconvenience or thing. But

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<v Speaker 2>that sounds so fun though weekend, I know, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was like so spurred the moment and everything and so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you guys take your paddle boards up there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we took We took our paddle boards. We only inflated

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<v Speaker 2>Will's just because I didn't want to worry about both.

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<v Speaker 2>We did take Sophie. She's not a huge fan of

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<v Speaker 2>the water. That was the other reason why we didn't

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<v Speaker 2>inflate the second board. She also we discovered she doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>mind being on a board with me. We I've already

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<v Speaker 2>known that she's not like being on the board with Will's. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm not with her, she freaks out. So we

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<v Speaker 2>kind of just took turns, like he'd go out on

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<v Speaker 2>the paddle board and I'd still on the beach with Sof,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I'd go out and just float on a tube.

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<v Speaker 2>And then he hung out with Sof, but I couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>go very far because Sophie would start freaking out. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we had cooked hot dogs in the beach and it

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it like crazy busy barely has gotten so bad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and right now there's like the water is so high,

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<v Speaker 2>which is good, but there's like no beach, you're on rocks.

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00:21:19.359 --> 00:21:22.319
<v Speaker 2>It's just the funnest either it hurts. Yeah, yeah that

423
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<v Speaker 2>makes sense, but that's fine. We still, like I said,

424
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<v Speaker 2>it was still really fun and.

425
00:21:27.000 --> 00:21:29.400
<v Speaker 3>It's just pretty and the water is so nice.

426
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<v Speaker 2>So yes, so nice. I'm glad you had that. It

427
00:21:33.559 --> 00:21:35.519
<v Speaker 2>was nice. We needed I feel like we needed it

428
00:21:35.559 --> 00:21:38.039
<v Speaker 2>because he's been gone so much, you know, all of

429
00:21:38.119 --> 00:21:40.160
<v Speaker 2>you listening, compared to my June update where he was

430
00:21:40.200 --> 00:21:43.960
<v Speaker 2>basically gone all of June, so excuse me.

431
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<v Speaker 3>It was like yeah, yeah, I'm sure this was like

432
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<v Speaker 3>a good It was nice and much needed.

433
00:21:48.039 --> 00:21:49.759
<v Speaker 2>It was even though it was a getaway and we

434
00:21:49.799 --> 00:21:51.920
<v Speaker 2>could have just spent the weekend at home, it was

435
00:21:51.960 --> 00:21:56.599
<v Speaker 2>still relaxing. Like I came home refreshed from it, you know. Yeah,

436
00:21:57.240 --> 00:21:58.599
<v Speaker 2>it was nice to have some quality time.

437
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, cute, that sounds like.

438
00:22:03.720 --> 00:22:07.640
<v Speaker 2>But then the next weekend he was gone again, which

439
00:22:07.720 --> 00:22:10.359
<v Speaker 2>was fine, but luckily it was his last trip for

440
00:22:10.400 --> 00:22:13.359
<v Speaker 2>a while. But while he was gone, I had a

441
00:22:13.400 --> 00:22:16.160
<v Speaker 2>little girl's night, had some friends go o where we

442
00:22:16.200 --> 00:22:19.680
<v Speaker 2>hung out with the patio, dranks some drinks, and had

443
00:22:19.720 --> 00:22:21.200
<v Speaker 2>some Taboo pizza, my favorite.

444
00:22:21.519 --> 00:22:25.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh so good? Have you eaten down there on the

445
00:22:25.799 --> 00:22:29.640
<v Speaker 3>Washington one? Still so busy but it's Yeah, where did

446
00:22:29.720 --> 00:22:30.400
<v Speaker 3>you pick up from?

447
00:22:30.680 --> 00:22:33.200
<v Speaker 2>Or did you guys eat at Taboo Pizza? No? We

448
00:22:33.319 --> 00:22:35.640
<v Speaker 2>picked up, but I was doing to go by the

449
00:22:36.319 --> 00:22:39.759
<v Speaker 2>Ogden High Okay, because you can get different size pizzas.

450
00:22:39.880 --> 00:22:42.720
<v Speaker 2>The one on Taboo is just the one, yeah, the

451
00:22:42.880 --> 00:22:46.200
<v Speaker 2>Washington location. It's just it's just the personal pizza. Yeah,

452
00:22:47.119 --> 00:22:49.319
<v Speaker 2>isn't it so good? It's my favorite? I have? So

453
00:22:50.079 --> 00:22:53.400
<v Speaker 2>the to go one opened, like I want to say,

454
00:22:53.440 --> 00:22:58.279
<v Speaker 2>it opened like right before COVID maybe but yeah, I

455
00:22:58.359 --> 00:23:00.319
<v Speaker 2>got we got like flyers on our doors because we're

456
00:23:00.359 --> 00:23:02.759
<v Speaker 2>kind of in that neighborhood m hm, and so we're like, oh,

457
00:23:02.839 --> 00:23:05.839
<v Speaker 2>let's go try it whatever. So freaking good.

458
00:23:06.000 --> 00:23:09.559
<v Speaker 3>I love their what it's a freaking called it's it's

459
00:23:09.599 --> 00:23:12.400
<v Speaker 3>their cheesy boy. But it's the one with Halopenos. Is

460
00:23:12.440 --> 00:23:13.160
<v Speaker 3>it naughty Boy?

461
00:23:13.279 --> 00:23:17.680
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I don't remember. I don't. Oh. I also think

462
00:23:17.720 --> 00:23:21.079
<v Speaker 2>that they have literally the best Margarita pizza their Sinatra.

463
00:23:21.519 --> 00:23:25.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh I've never liked Margarita pizza. It is to die for.

464
00:23:25.480 --> 00:23:27.559
<v Speaker 3>Okay, now I want pizza.

465
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<v Speaker 2>I know, gosh damn it. Pizza was so good Stable

466
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<v Speaker 2>Anyhao Tabo you want spots just kidding, Taboo, we love

467
00:23:38.920 --> 00:23:42.519
<v Speaker 2>you Ian tag them in this when it goes live.

468
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<v Speaker 2>Please it is so good. It's so good. Yeah.

469
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<v Speaker 3>Well, and then random fun fact as I remember when

470
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<v Speaker 3>they opened up their Washington location, like that first week,

471
00:23:53.960 --> 00:23:56.240
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I like getting out of the house and working,

472
00:23:56.839 --> 00:23:58.319
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I want to go try out

473
00:23:58.359 --> 00:24:01.119
<v Speaker 3>the Taboo here, and so anyway, we figured out wi

474
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<v Speaker 3>fi there just because I need to have like a

475
00:24:02.720 --> 00:24:05.240
<v Speaker 3>secure login whatever whatever, But yeah, I.

476
00:24:05.359 --> 00:24:09.039
<v Speaker 2>Worked, and I ate pizza such a vibe. I got

477
00:24:09.200 --> 00:24:12.039
<v Speaker 2>like a beer and I got my cheesy boy whatever.

478
00:24:12.839 --> 00:24:15.039
<v Speaker 2>I love it. It was a vibe. Oh thank you,

479
00:24:15.200 --> 00:24:17.000
<v Speaker 2>shout out too. I guess we need to have a

480
00:24:17.079 --> 00:24:18.559
<v Speaker 2>girl's night and go get some taboo.

481
00:24:18.759 --> 00:24:20.519
<v Speaker 3>Let's do it. Okay, let's see it.

482
00:24:22.799 --> 00:24:28.680
<v Speaker 2>And then that Saturday I went to the rodeo with

483
00:24:28.880 --> 00:24:30.960
<v Speaker 2>my friend Alexa. I love that.

484
00:24:31.039 --> 00:24:31.960
<v Speaker 3>You love the rodeos.

485
00:24:33.200 --> 00:24:35.880
<v Speaker 2>So it's kind of just like it's a it's it

486
00:24:36.039 --> 00:24:38.559
<v Speaker 2>is a lot of fun. But so in Utah we

487
00:24:38.720 --> 00:24:43.279
<v Speaker 2>have Pioneer Days. Oh yeah, and the Ogden Pioneer Day

488
00:24:43.359 --> 00:24:46.200
<v Speaker 2>rodeo is every year from the nineteenth of July to

489
00:24:46.240 --> 00:24:49.960
<v Speaker 2>the twenty fourth of July, and my friend Alexa and

490
00:24:50.000 --> 00:24:52.559
<v Speaker 2>I have gone every single year since we were like

491
00:24:52.799 --> 00:24:56.440
<v Speaker 2>able to drive. This is really sixteen because my dad

492
00:24:56.519 --> 00:25:00.759
<v Speaker 2>gets us like sponsorship tickets and stuff because his company sponsors. Yeah,

493
00:25:00.799 --> 00:25:03.079
<v Speaker 2>we've gone every single year since we were like sixteen,

494
00:25:03.240 --> 00:25:06.039
<v Speaker 2>besides the couple of years she lived in Ireland. So

495
00:25:06.160 --> 00:25:08.359
<v Speaker 2>it's just like a tradition. We go every year. We

496
00:25:08.480 --> 00:25:11.200
<v Speaker 2>can't not you know, same thing every year, but it's

497
00:25:11.240 --> 00:25:12.880
<v Speaker 2>so much fun. We have a we have a good time.

498
00:25:13.759 --> 00:25:14.880
<v Speaker 3>Maybe I'll go one day.

499
00:25:15.119 --> 00:25:18.240
<v Speaker 2>I just am not a big. Honestly, am not like

500
00:25:18.359 --> 00:25:21.440
<v Speaker 2>it's not my thing. It's just fun because it's like tradition.

501
00:25:22.000 --> 00:25:24.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, but we also get it for tradition.

502
00:25:24.400 --> 00:25:26.680
<v Speaker 2>We also get it for free. Yeah. I think it'd

503
00:25:26.720 --> 00:25:28.119
<v Speaker 2>be different if like we were paying for it.

504
00:25:28.480 --> 00:25:29.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that makes sense.

505
00:25:29.559 --> 00:25:31.880
<v Speaker 2>So and if my dad's working a booth and we

506
00:25:31.960 --> 00:25:33.960
<v Speaker 2>also get free beers, so yeah, the whole things free.

507
00:25:34.119 --> 00:25:37.039
<v Speaker 3>Hell yeah, that's amazing thing. That's great.

508
00:25:37.240 --> 00:25:42.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and the drinks hell yeah yeah. But uh yeah,

509
00:25:42.720 --> 00:25:44.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I've only been there like a handful

510
00:25:44.680 --> 00:25:47.519
<v Speaker 2>of times. But yeah, well maybe next year you can

511
00:25:47.559 --> 00:25:50.519
<v Speaker 2>come with it. We do have fun, Okay, it does.

512
00:25:50.599 --> 00:25:52.440
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I feel like with a good crowd,

513
00:25:52.599 --> 00:25:56.000
<v Speaker 3>like with the good just need like company. I think

514
00:25:56.039 --> 00:25:58.240
<v Speaker 3>it'll be a vibe, you know, and who knows, maybe

515
00:25:58.279 --> 00:26:00.200
<v Speaker 3>some of the guys right in the I there are

516
00:26:00.279 --> 00:26:03.400
<v Speaker 3>some good looking cowboys you know, you know, yeah.

517
00:26:03.960 --> 00:26:07.279
<v Speaker 2>Noted, noted?

518
00:26:07.720 --> 00:26:07.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

519
00:26:09.440 --> 00:26:14.960
<v Speaker 2>And then yeah, so then last weekend, well on the

520
00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:19.319
<v Speaker 2>twenty fourth, since that was Utah's actual holiday, I took

521
00:26:19.359 --> 00:26:21.440
<v Speaker 2>the day off because we don't get it off we're

522
00:26:21.440 --> 00:26:25.759
<v Speaker 2>a national company. But I took it off and Will

523
00:26:25.799 --> 00:26:29.079
<v Speaker 2>and I went golfing with two of our friends, and

524
00:26:29.119 --> 00:26:31.559
<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of fun because I've never golfed with

525
00:26:31.720 --> 00:26:34.279
<v Speaker 2>this couple before, even though we hang out with them

526
00:26:34.279 --> 00:26:37.240
<v Speaker 2>all the time. But she's like a similar level to me.

527
00:26:38.240 --> 00:26:41.519
<v Speaker 2>And then the boys are the same amazing golfers. But

528
00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:43.359
<v Speaker 2>it was fun to go with someone that's like a

529
00:26:43.480 --> 00:26:46.160
<v Speaker 2>similar level because I golf with Will and his friends

530
00:26:46.160 --> 00:26:48.319
<v Speaker 2>all the time, but it's never with another woman, first

531
00:26:48.319 --> 00:26:51.119
<v Speaker 2>of all, but also someone that's my level because Will

532
00:26:51.160 --> 00:26:53.240
<v Speaker 2>and all his guy friends are like stupid good at it,

533
00:26:53.319 --> 00:26:58.519
<v Speaker 2>and it's they're very patient, but it's very intimidating. Oh yeah,

534
00:26:58.680 --> 00:27:01.079
<v Speaker 2>I hear you. So I really played probably the best

535
00:27:01.160 --> 00:27:03.519
<v Speaker 2>round of golf I've ever played because we were like

536
00:27:04.799 --> 00:27:06.680
<v Speaker 2>giving each other so much confidence. It's like if she

537
00:27:06.880 --> 00:27:08.400
<v Speaker 2>hit and it was a good hit, and I'd be like,

538
00:27:08.440 --> 00:27:10.279
<v Speaker 2>oh you know, monkey see, monkey do, is what we

539
00:27:10.400 --> 00:27:14.400
<v Speaker 2>kept saying. It was true, but like, yeah, I did

540
00:27:14.480 --> 00:27:16.599
<v Speaker 2>really well, Like I hit all my drives solid. The

541
00:27:16.680 --> 00:27:19.039
<v Speaker 2>only thing I need to work on is chipping, but

542
00:27:19.799 --> 00:27:22.480
<v Speaker 2>my putts were good and my drives were good, So yeah,

543
00:27:22.519 --> 00:27:24.240
<v Speaker 2>I felt really good about it. It was so much fun.

544
00:27:24.559 --> 00:27:29.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah. And then the next day we left

545
00:27:29.440 --> 00:27:33.000
<v Speaker 2>for McCall Idaho to go to my cousin's wedding. That

546
00:27:33.079 --> 00:27:36.119
<v Speaker 2>looks so pretty and so pretty. If you've never been

547
00:27:36.160 --> 00:27:38.599
<v Speaker 2>to McCall, it really is such a fun little town.

548
00:27:38.960 --> 00:27:41.720
<v Speaker 2>The lake is Piot Lake, but the town's called McCall.

549
00:27:42.400 --> 00:27:44.440
<v Speaker 2>How close is that to Sun Valley? Do you know,

550
00:27:46.279 --> 00:27:51.839
<v Speaker 2>like freaking four hours? Oh okay, so it's six hours. No,

551
00:27:51.960 --> 00:27:54.799
<v Speaker 2>it's seven hours from here from Ogden to McCall.

552
00:27:55.440 --> 00:27:58.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, that's a dry and then but like just because.

553
00:27:58.240 --> 00:28:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Of the different sides of the state, McCall to Sun

554
00:28:01.119 --> 00:28:03.079
<v Speaker 2>Valleys like almost four hours because we looked it up.

555
00:28:03.200 --> 00:28:05.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, okay, because I was curious too.

556
00:28:05.880 --> 00:28:07.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's funny.

557
00:28:07.359 --> 00:28:08.960
<v Speaker 3>I just have a girls shrip there next month.

558
00:28:09.039 --> 00:28:11.319
<v Speaker 2>Someone I love. I love Sun Valley. I've never been.

559
00:28:11.440 --> 00:28:12.039
<v Speaker 3>It's so long.

560
00:28:12.400 --> 00:28:15.440
<v Speaker 2>They have such fun like breweries and stuff like that.

561
00:28:15.519 --> 00:28:20.200
<v Speaker 2>There's all some really cool thrift stores. Funny anyway, Yeah.

562
00:28:20.160 --> 00:28:22.440
<v Speaker 3>No, okay, I heard it's the park city of like Idaho.

563
00:28:22.599 --> 00:28:26.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but like this is this is a tangent because

564
00:28:26.000 --> 00:28:28.359
<v Speaker 2>it has nothing to do with anything. But when I

565
00:28:28.440 --> 00:28:30.279
<v Speaker 2>was in Sun Valley last time, we went into one

566
00:28:30.319 --> 00:28:34.440
<v Speaker 2>of a thrift's stores and there was this like seventies

567
00:28:34.519 --> 00:28:37.599
<v Speaker 2>vintage product skirt and I'm like, oh my gosh, I

568
00:28:37.680 --> 00:28:40.599
<v Speaker 2>am dying. And so the guy was like that runs

569
00:28:40.640 --> 00:28:42.640
<v Speaker 2>the store. He's like he's like I have been sitting

570
00:28:42.720 --> 00:28:44.519
<v Speaker 2>on this for a while. Now He's like, if it

571
00:28:44.559 --> 00:28:47.920
<v Speaker 2>fits you, you can have fifty bucks. It fit me,

572
00:28:48.400 --> 00:28:50.319
<v Speaker 2>So now I have a seventies Viches broad a skirt

573
00:28:50.400 --> 00:28:53.079
<v Speaker 2>that I got for fifty bucks. No shit, you never

574
00:28:53.200 --> 00:28:56.960
<v Speaker 2>told me that it's pretty sick. I was like, Wade

575
00:28:57.200 --> 00:29:00.000
<v Speaker 2>and stuff. I'll have to take a picture. It's super fay.

576
00:29:01.440 --> 00:29:03.200
<v Speaker 2>Do you love it? I do. I don't wear very

577
00:29:03.240 --> 00:29:06.000
<v Speaker 2>often because it's kind of hard to style, okay, but

578
00:29:06.079 --> 00:29:07.119
<v Speaker 2>I'm never gonna get rid of it.

579
00:29:07.880 --> 00:29:09.559
<v Speaker 3>And now I need to see a picture because now

580
00:29:09.559 --> 00:29:11.599
<v Speaker 3>I'm like inspired to be like, well this is how

581
00:29:11.640 --> 00:29:12.279
<v Speaker 3>you can style it.

582
00:29:12.400 --> 00:29:14.440
<v Speaker 2>I know, not that I have I find like the

583
00:29:14.640 --> 00:29:17.519
<v Speaker 2>right top because like you don't want anything crazy for

584
00:29:17.680 --> 00:29:20.839
<v Speaker 2>with it. But it's like such a weird like an

585
00:29:20.920 --> 00:29:25.359
<v Speaker 2>odd colored beige. It's not even beige. I don't even

586
00:29:25.400 --> 00:29:27.319
<v Speaker 2>know what it is. But it's just a really hard

587
00:29:27.359 --> 00:29:29.000
<v Speaker 2>thing to find a top the match just like white

588
00:29:29.160 --> 00:29:34.759
<v Speaker 2>is too stark, can or black, and then trying to

589
00:29:34.799 --> 00:29:37.160
<v Speaker 2>even kind of like find another type of brown that

590
00:29:37.720 --> 00:29:38.759
<v Speaker 2>it's like it's it's hard.

591
00:29:40.359 --> 00:29:42.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'll have to see it. I'm soy.

592
00:29:42.440 --> 00:29:45.839
<v Speaker 2>The thing would be like a cream top. But then again,

593
00:29:46.319 --> 00:29:48.039
<v Speaker 2>you don't wantnything too fancy because then it takes away

594
00:29:48.039 --> 00:29:50.200
<v Speaker 2>from the skirt. But it can't be too casual either

595
00:29:50.279 --> 00:29:53.400
<v Speaker 2>because the skirt's too fancy, like it's hard. Well, what

596
00:29:53.519 --> 00:29:57.400
<v Speaker 2>if you do just another color like m because this

597
00:29:57.559 --> 00:30:00.240
<v Speaker 2>has like two different types of like weird brown. One

598
00:30:00.279 --> 00:30:02.039
<v Speaker 2>of them is kind of like a greenish brown, and

599
00:30:02.079 --> 00:30:05.119
<v Speaker 2>then there's orange. But if you match the orange, it's

600
00:30:05.240 --> 00:30:07.319
<v Speaker 2>too much. What if you do like that too?

601
00:30:07.519 --> 00:30:08.759
<v Speaker 3>What if you do a dark brown?

602
00:30:09.960 --> 00:30:12.400
<v Speaker 2>It would clash? Like it's it's a hard skirt.

603
00:30:13.000 --> 00:30:14.359
<v Speaker 3>I want to see a picture of it now. I'm

604
00:30:14.400 --> 00:30:16.759
<v Speaker 3>so curious. It's almost like a challenge.

605
00:30:16.799 --> 00:30:19.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, it really is, Like literally the best

606
00:30:19.160 --> 00:30:20.519
<v Speaker 2>thing I've found to go with it is cream.

607
00:30:21.319 --> 00:30:25.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so I'm excited now to see this post it

608
00:30:25.559 --> 00:30:26.799
<v Speaker 3>on the IG story too.

609
00:30:28.119 --> 00:30:30.440
<v Speaker 2>You guys can help me find so, I know, I

610
00:30:30.519 --> 00:30:32.680
<v Speaker 2>actually do. I don't even own cream, so I need

611
00:30:32.759 --> 00:30:35.759
<v Speaker 2>to find a cream top or two. I don't know.

612
00:30:36.920 --> 00:30:39.200
<v Speaker 3>Cream is hard to find though, Well.

613
00:30:39.119 --> 00:30:40.920
<v Speaker 2>It's also just hard to find a cream that like

614
00:30:41.039 --> 00:30:45.200
<v Speaker 2>doesn't make me look pasty. It's just not really my color.

615
00:30:45.640 --> 00:30:48.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and that's the other challenge, the freaking color matches.

616
00:30:49.039 --> 00:30:52.039
<v Speaker 3>Have you ever done those? Yeah? Oh my hell yeah.

617
00:30:52.279 --> 00:30:54.319
<v Speaker 3>I had chatchey t do it for me and I'm like,

618
00:30:54.359 --> 00:30:56.440
<v Speaker 3>oh my gosh, that's me, and then I send it

619
00:30:56.480 --> 00:30:59.000
<v Speaker 3>to all my girlfriends and then they did it too,

620
00:30:59.119 --> 00:31:01.440
<v Speaker 3>and then they all got the same results. But we're

621
00:31:01.480 --> 00:31:03.839
<v Speaker 3>all like starkly different, and I'm like, what the fuck

622
00:31:03.960 --> 00:31:06.319
<v Speaker 3>that's so weird. I'm like, then then this isn't right

623
00:31:06.519 --> 00:31:07.880
<v Speaker 3>and we're all the same color.

624
00:31:08.119 --> 00:31:08.839
<v Speaker 2>Like, how'd you do it?

625
00:31:10.599 --> 00:31:14.359
<v Speaker 3>You got to take like a selfie, no makeup, natural light,

626
00:31:14.599 --> 00:31:17.359
<v Speaker 3>hair pulled back, and then you upload it to chat

627
00:31:17.440 --> 00:31:19.160
<v Speaker 3>shept and you say, hey, can you do a color

628
00:31:19.240 --> 00:31:20.480
<v Speaker 3>match on my face? Oh?

629
00:31:20.720 --> 00:31:22.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, based on my I did. Well, I've done

630
00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:24.440
<v Speaker 2>a professional one, but it wasn't when I was in

631
00:31:24.720 --> 00:31:29.240
<v Speaker 2>middle school. Oh do you think it's still legit? Maybe

632
00:31:29.559 --> 00:31:31.519
<v Speaker 2>I think it's still the same, but I still And

633
00:31:31.640 --> 00:31:34.200
<v Speaker 2>I say that because I also did mine through chat GPT,

634
00:31:34.799 --> 00:31:37.680
<v Speaker 2>but instead of uploading a photo, what I did was

635
00:31:37.720 --> 00:31:40.079
<v Speaker 2>I took a three like the way it had me

636
00:31:40.200 --> 00:31:42.039
<v Speaker 2>do it was I did three swatches on my skin

637
00:31:42.759 --> 00:31:45.400
<v Speaker 2>in different lighting, and then I did a swatch of

638
00:31:45.799 --> 00:31:49.000
<v Speaker 2>two swatches of my eyes in different lighting, and then

639
00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:50.920
<v Speaker 2>a swatch of my hair, two swatches of my hair

640
00:31:50.960 --> 00:31:51.519
<v Speaker 2>in different lighting.

641
00:31:51.640 --> 00:31:52.839
<v Speaker 3>And what do you mean by swatches?

642
00:31:53.640 --> 00:31:55.880
<v Speaker 2>Like, so, yeah, you have your selfie, but then in

643
00:31:56.000 --> 00:31:59.079
<v Speaker 2>like paint, the paint app you go through and do

644
00:31:59.200 --> 00:32:01.720
<v Speaker 2>like the color drop m and it had me do

645
00:32:02.200 --> 00:32:04.680
<v Speaker 2>my forehead, my cheeks, and then my chin That's why

646
00:32:04.759 --> 00:32:09.839
<v Speaker 2>three and then the eyeballs. It wanted like dark lighting

647
00:32:09.920 --> 00:32:11.960
<v Speaker 2>and then natural lighting. And same with the hair, it

648
00:32:12.000 --> 00:32:15.279
<v Speaker 2>wanted dark like this lighting and then natural lighting. And

649
00:32:15.519 --> 00:32:17.440
<v Speaker 2>so instead of being a picture of me, it was

650
00:32:17.559 --> 00:32:21.559
<v Speaker 2>like the color swatches interesting and it came the same

651
00:32:21.599 --> 00:32:23.319
<v Speaker 2>as when I had it professionally in middle school. So

652
00:32:24.000 --> 00:32:27.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm an autumn. I'm a true autumn to a warm Yeah,

653
00:32:27.480 --> 00:32:28.559
<v Speaker 2>to a warm autumn.

654
00:32:29.480 --> 00:32:32.759
<v Speaker 3>Okay, maybe I need to do that then, yeah, because

655
00:32:32.799 --> 00:32:35.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh, why did it give us all the

656
00:32:35.240 --> 00:32:39.119
<v Speaker 3>same thing. Yeah, that's weird, weird, weird. Anyway, that was

657
00:32:39.160 --> 00:32:40.640
<v Speaker 3>super random. We're talking about McCall.

658
00:32:40.680 --> 00:32:47.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, we're the worst. Well, I love our tangents anyway,

659
00:32:47.759 --> 00:32:52.319
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, we went to McCall, Idaho, and we started

660
00:32:52.400 --> 00:32:54.519
<v Speaker 2>like when we got up there, it's freaking yes, seven

661
00:32:54.559 --> 00:32:56.920
<v Speaker 2>hour drive, got up there, just some time for dinner.

662
00:32:58.319 --> 00:32:59.920
<v Speaker 2>But we had a bunch of like family in town

663
00:33:00.079 --> 00:33:02.599
<v Speaker 2>that we haven't seen in a while, so we all

664
00:33:02.640 --> 00:33:07.119
<v Speaker 2>went to besides like the bride and her family, like

665
00:33:07.200 --> 00:33:09.519
<v Speaker 2>Man's and uncle's there. They didn't come obviously, said they

666
00:33:09.559 --> 00:33:11.960
<v Speaker 2>rehearsal dinner, but the rest of us all met at

667
00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:16.279
<v Speaker 2>like the saloon for dinner and it was a lot

668
00:33:16.319 --> 00:33:22.160
<v Speaker 2>of fun nic seeing everybody. After dinner, me, Will, my

669
00:33:22.240 --> 00:33:27.000
<v Speaker 2>cousin Katie, and then my aunt Cindy, Katie's mom. Wait,

670
00:33:27.039 --> 00:33:29.680
<v Speaker 2>decided we're gonna do freaking pub crawl out of nowhere.

671
00:33:30.920 --> 00:33:32.799
<v Speaker 2>There's only three more bars besides, so when we were

672
00:33:32.799 --> 00:33:34.599
<v Speaker 2>at so we walked to three more bars, had to

673
00:33:34.680 --> 00:33:37.279
<v Speaker 2>drink at each one. It was a great old time.

674
00:33:37.359 --> 00:33:44.400
<v Speaker 2>We had so much fun. Definitely got got pretty but

675
00:33:44.519 --> 00:33:48.599
<v Speaker 2>it's okay. And then the next day, Saturday, was the

676
00:33:48.640 --> 00:33:52.799
<v Speaker 2>wedding day, but obviously, you know, we still have most

677
00:33:52.799 --> 00:33:55.000
<v Speaker 2>of the day, so we went to town, kind of

678
00:33:55.000 --> 00:33:58.519
<v Speaker 2>looked around, had some lunch, and then Will and I

679
00:33:58.640 --> 00:34:02.119
<v Speaker 2>came back early because we were so tired to try

680
00:34:02.160 --> 00:34:04.799
<v Speaker 2>and just like not even nap because I can't really nap,

681
00:34:04.960 --> 00:34:08.400
<v Speaker 2>but like just to kind of sit like chill, Yeah,

682
00:34:08.760 --> 00:34:11.199
<v Speaker 2>just to relax, be with the dogs because with Courtney

683
00:34:11.199 --> 00:34:13.360
<v Speaker 2>and I brought our dogs, so we wanted to hang

684
00:34:13.360 --> 00:34:14.679
<v Speaker 2>out with them for a minute. They were gonna be

685
00:34:14.679 --> 00:34:18.400
<v Speaker 2>home alone for a while with the wedding. And then yeah,

686
00:34:18.440 --> 00:34:21.159
<v Speaker 2>then we got ready for the wedding, which was so pretty.

687
00:34:21.760 --> 00:34:26.800
<v Speaker 2>It was on my cousin, my cousin's family, her dad's side.

688
00:34:26.800 --> 00:34:29.000
<v Speaker 2>The family has property up there, so it was on

689
00:34:29.079 --> 00:34:33.320
<v Speaker 2>their private beach. It was stunning. It was so pretty,

690
00:34:33.400 --> 00:34:36.639
<v Speaker 2>and yeah, we danced the night away. Will's always a

691
00:34:36.719 --> 00:34:39.119
<v Speaker 2>really good wedding date because he loves to just go

692
00:34:39.199 --> 00:34:41.000
<v Speaker 2>out there and be a goofball and the dance floor.

693
00:34:41.760 --> 00:34:45.320
<v Speaker 2>Literally after dinner, when the dancing started, He's like, Okay, well,

694
00:34:45.400 --> 00:34:48.440
<v Speaker 2>do you want to go embarrass ourselves now? And I'm like, yep,

695
00:34:48.760 --> 00:34:53.360
<v Speaker 2>yes I do. That is the best. And then it

696
00:34:53.440 --> 00:34:55.320
<v Speaker 2>was kind of magical because like toward the end, like

697
00:34:55.360 --> 00:34:57.239
<v Speaker 2>there was only like a couple songs left, like maybe

698
00:34:57.280 --> 00:34:59.440
<v Speaker 2>like a half hour left before we had to leave,

699
00:35:00.199 --> 00:35:03.079
<v Speaker 2>and it started raining. But it was like it was

700
00:35:03.159 --> 00:35:05.760
<v Speaker 2>the end. So it's almost like it was so magical,

701
00:35:06.480 --> 00:35:08.760
<v Speaker 2>like even the brides out there and her like like

702
00:35:08.840 --> 00:35:12.000
<v Speaker 2>her reception outfit and like she's having a great all

703
00:35:12.079 --> 00:35:14.760
<v Speaker 2>time dancing in the rain like the girls like it

704
00:35:14.920 --> 00:35:17.840
<v Speaker 2>was just so much fun. And then we all loaded

705
00:35:17.920 --> 00:35:20.039
<v Speaker 2>on the on the shuttle because there's a shot we

706
00:35:20.119 --> 00:35:21.360
<v Speaker 2>had to take a shuttle. We all loaded on the

707
00:35:21.400 --> 00:35:24.719
<v Speaker 2>shuttle looking like drowned rats. Oh god, it was a

708
00:35:24.760 --> 00:35:27.480
<v Speaker 2>great night. Great. Wait did you kiss in the rain

709
00:35:28.679 --> 00:35:32.679
<v Speaker 2>a little bit? It wasn't like it wasn't like what

710
00:35:32.800 --> 00:35:34.920
<v Speaker 2>I want on my like the bucket list that it's not.

711
00:35:36.559 --> 00:35:40.039
<v Speaker 2>It wasn't like a romantical like pouring rain kiss because

712
00:35:40.039 --> 00:35:41.679
<v Speaker 2>it also felt kind of weird doing it in front

713
00:35:41.679 --> 00:35:43.559
<v Speaker 2>of all of my extended family. Well, and it was

714
00:35:43.599 --> 00:35:47.639
<v Speaker 2>probably maybe just like a drizzle maybe like it wasn't pouring. Okay,

715
00:35:47.880 --> 00:35:52.320
<v Speaker 2>so so I mean baby tips, baby steps. It was

716
00:35:52.639 --> 00:35:58.480
<v Speaker 2>still something. It was still something cute. But yes, that

717
00:35:58.599 --> 00:36:01.840
<v Speaker 2>was fun. And then Sunday we just spent at the beach,

718
00:36:02.599 --> 00:36:05.679
<v Speaker 2>well kind of on the lawn right next to the

719
00:36:05.719 --> 00:36:08.320
<v Speaker 2>beach because the dogs can't go on the sand. Wait why,

720
00:36:08.679 --> 00:36:12.559
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Just their rule. So we just had

721
00:36:12.599 --> 00:36:14.960
<v Speaker 2>our chairs plopped on the grass, which was probably better

722
00:36:15.000 --> 00:36:16.840
<v Speaker 2>for the dogs anyway. They like that more. But like,

723
00:36:16.920 --> 00:36:18.519
<v Speaker 2>how do you tell a dog not to get on

724
00:36:18.599 --> 00:36:20.559
<v Speaker 2>the sand? Oh, they have to be leashed, so they

725
00:36:20.599 --> 00:36:24.880
<v Speaker 2>can't go on unless you let them. Oh the public

726
00:36:24.960 --> 00:36:28.239
<v Speaker 2>beach and a lot of public beaches require leashes. That's crazy.

727
00:36:28.280 --> 00:36:30.159
<v Speaker 2>So we had them like chained, you know, those like

728
00:36:30.480 --> 00:36:32.960
<v Speaker 2>screw chains into the ground. Yeah, so we just had

729
00:36:33.000 --> 00:36:36.199
<v Speaker 2>them on those. But they were fine. They kind of

730
00:36:36.360 --> 00:36:36.719
<v Speaker 2>laid there.

731
00:36:37.360 --> 00:36:39.119
<v Speaker 3>Do you think it's because like they don't want the

732
00:36:39.159 --> 00:36:41.440
<v Speaker 3>dogs to shit on the sand. I'm confused.

733
00:36:41.559 --> 00:36:45.119
<v Speaker 2>I don't really know. Maybe that and I don't I

734
00:36:45.239 --> 00:36:48.199
<v Speaker 2>don't know, because Bear likes the same way too. For

735
00:36:48.719 --> 00:36:52.679
<v Speaker 2>EF we're going to like one of their like paid beaches,

736
00:36:52.840 --> 00:36:55.480
<v Speaker 2>you can't have dogs, So I don't know.

737
00:36:55.960 --> 00:36:56.719
<v Speaker 3>It's interesting.

738
00:36:57.280 --> 00:36:59.280
<v Speaker 2>Maybe it could just because they don't want the waste

739
00:36:59.360 --> 00:37:01.199
<v Speaker 2>in case someone accidentally forgets to pick it up and

740
00:37:01.199 --> 00:37:03.039
<v Speaker 2>then someone steps in it in the sand, because it

741
00:37:03.079 --> 00:37:05.280
<v Speaker 2>would get buried in the sand versus on grass, right,

742
00:37:05.519 --> 00:37:06.880
<v Speaker 2>But I don't know. I don't really know, to be

743
00:37:06.920 --> 00:37:13.000
<v Speaker 2>honest with you. But it was fine, And then half

744
00:37:13.039 --> 00:37:15.480
<v Speaker 2>our family went home Sunday, but we stayed till Monday,

745
00:37:16.119 --> 00:37:18.400
<v Speaker 2>so we just cooked burgers back at our place. The

746
00:37:18.480 --> 00:37:21.599
<v Speaker 2>family that was still in town came over, and yeah,

747
00:37:21.599 --> 00:37:24.599
<v Speaker 2>we just hosted everyone for burgers and some wine. Had

748
00:37:24.599 --> 00:37:28.119
<v Speaker 2>another fun night, and then yeah, did the seven hour

749
00:37:28.239 --> 00:37:32.320
<v Speaker 2>trek the next day. Oh my gosh, got home. What

750
00:37:32.440 --> 00:37:33.239
<v Speaker 2>time did you leave?

751
00:37:34.880 --> 00:37:39.719
<v Speaker 3>Like ten thirty in the morning. Yeah, So got home

752
00:37:39.840 --> 00:37:40.599
<v Speaker 3>a long day.

753
00:37:40.840 --> 00:37:42.559
<v Speaker 2>I know, I was in so much pain because I

754
00:37:42.599 --> 00:37:45.159
<v Speaker 2>can't like my I have a bad back singing car

755
00:37:45.280 --> 00:37:47.800
<v Speaker 2>for that long. It's not fun time. Yeah yeah, yeah,

756
00:37:48.159 --> 00:37:49.760
<v Speaker 2>so yeah, but it was fine. We got home in

757
00:37:49.800 --> 00:37:54.440
<v Speaker 2>time for dinner. I don't even know what we freaking

758
00:37:54.880 --> 00:37:57.320
<v Speaker 2>did for dinner. Oh I didn't eat because we had

759
00:37:57.360 --> 00:37:59.119
<v Speaker 2>had taco bell for lunch and I was like ugh

760
00:38:00.079 --> 00:38:02.480
<v Speaker 2>for it. Yeah, so I didn't have anything for dinner.

761
00:38:02.559 --> 00:38:07.400
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, and then I just took yesterday off to recoop.

762
00:38:08.280 --> 00:38:10.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I feel like you always need a vacation from

763
00:38:10.480 --> 00:38:11.000
<v Speaker 3>your vacation.

764
00:38:11.119 --> 00:38:13.320
<v Speaker 2>I should have taken today off tudo, to be honest, because,

765
00:38:13.360 --> 00:38:16.599
<v Speaker 2>like I was telling you earlier, like I haven't had

766
00:38:16.679 --> 00:38:19.920
<v Speaker 2>enough time to catch up on sleep. Oh yeah, because yesterday,

767
00:38:20.119 --> 00:38:23.440
<v Speaker 2>while I regrouped, I can't sleep in I'm not asleep.

768
00:38:23.480 --> 00:38:25.400
<v Speaker 2>I can't do that. Yeah, So I couldn't catch up

769
00:38:25.400 --> 00:38:27.880
<v Speaker 2>on sleep that way, and so I tried a nap,

770
00:38:27.960 --> 00:38:30.679
<v Speaker 2>but then SOF just was annoying when I was trying

771
00:38:30.679 --> 00:38:32.760
<v Speaker 2>to nap, So I ended up just like I was

772
00:38:32.800 --> 00:38:35.440
<v Speaker 2>doing laundry cleaning, like all the other random crap that

773
00:38:35.519 --> 00:38:38.039
<v Speaker 2>has to be down that we didn't do. And then

774
00:38:38.599 --> 00:38:40.519
<v Speaker 2>hung out with Will till way too late last night

775
00:38:40.559 --> 00:38:42.800
<v Speaker 2>because he wanted to hang out until he had to

776
00:38:42.880 --> 00:38:44.960
<v Speaker 2>leave for to pick up his front from the airport.

777
00:38:45.840 --> 00:38:50.000
<v Speaker 2>And then waking up this morning was so hard. It

778
00:38:50.119 --> 00:38:50.880
<v Speaker 2>sounds rough.

779
00:38:51.079 --> 00:38:51.679
<v Speaker 3>It was rough.

780
00:38:51.800 --> 00:38:53.320
<v Speaker 2>So I should have taken one more day, and I

781
00:38:53.440 --> 00:38:56.360
<v Speaker 2>really wish I would have, but oh, well, what do

782
00:38:56.440 --> 00:38:56.599
<v Speaker 2>you do?

783
00:38:56.960 --> 00:38:59.079
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, hopefully this weekend is chill for you where you

784
00:38:59.119 --> 00:38:59.880
<v Speaker 3>can like recoop.

785
00:39:00.119 --> 00:39:01.920
<v Speaker 2>We don't have anything planned, okay.

786
00:39:01.800 --> 00:39:04.000
<v Speaker 3>Go And I'm like I told well, I'm like, this

787
00:39:04.199 --> 00:39:07.119
<v Speaker 3>is what you need, is like a no plan weekend

788
00:39:07.159 --> 00:39:10.000
<v Speaker 3>where you just like fucking chill all weekend at home. Yeah.

789
00:39:10.079 --> 00:39:12.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm sure we'll go do something, but nothing

790
00:39:12.480 --> 00:39:16.079
<v Speaker 2>like a big plan because we can't just like bum it.

791
00:39:16.840 --> 00:39:18.320
<v Speaker 3>Really, he can't bum it for the weekend.

792
00:39:18.559 --> 00:39:21.480
<v Speaker 2>Not really. Oh, I love a good boy too. He

793
00:39:21.719 --> 00:39:24.320
<v Speaker 2>just feels like antsy. Really he can't like and it

794
00:39:24.440 --> 00:39:27.079
<v Speaker 2>drives me insane. He can't he can't just relast for

795
00:39:27.159 --> 00:39:29.159
<v Speaker 2>a couple of days. Yeah, he has to do something.

796
00:39:30.639 --> 00:39:33.679
<v Speaker 2>I yeah, And I mean like I don't like obviously,

797
00:39:33.800 --> 00:39:35.159
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm like, I don't want to sit on the

798
00:39:35.239 --> 00:39:37.960
<v Speaker 2>couch for forty eight hours, but like we can go

799
00:39:38.039 --> 00:39:40.760
<v Speaker 2>on a walk or like even grab food or something,

800
00:39:40.880 --> 00:39:43.320
<v Speaker 2>but like I just don't want. Yeah, I don't want

801
00:39:43.360 --> 00:39:45.480
<v Speaker 2>a late night of drinking. I don't want this or

802
00:39:45.519 --> 00:39:47.920
<v Speaker 2>that or whatever, you know. So it's like, yeah, like

803
00:39:48.000 --> 00:39:50.199
<v Speaker 2>even if we went golfing, that's different, like but not

804
00:39:50.400 --> 00:39:53.280
<v Speaker 2>like I just yeah, I don't want. You don't want

805
00:39:53.320 --> 00:39:55.760
<v Speaker 2>like I've had. I've had a bunch of back to

806
00:39:55.840 --> 00:39:58.840
<v Speaker 2>back weekends of like even if it was at my house,

807
00:39:59.159 --> 00:40:01.440
<v Speaker 2>it was still late night of drinking and I'm like,

808
00:40:01.519 --> 00:40:03.960
<v Speaker 2>I just don't don't want it. I want to go

809
00:40:03.960 --> 00:40:06.800
<v Speaker 2>to bed early, yeah, and I want to wake up

810
00:40:06.840 --> 00:40:08.840
<v Speaker 2>when I want to wake up. Yeah, that's all I

811
00:40:08.880 --> 00:40:11.639
<v Speaker 2>want this weekend. That's not too much to ask for,

812
00:40:11.840 --> 00:40:14.280
<v Speaker 2>damn it. I think he would honestly probably be in

813
00:40:14.320 --> 00:40:16.679
<v Speaker 2>the same boat though, because he's been like he's been

814
00:40:16.760 --> 00:40:20.280
<v Speaker 2>gone a lot. So yeah, I hear you.

815
00:40:20.760 --> 00:40:23.719
<v Speaker 3>That was a fun filled July.

816
00:40:24.119 --> 00:40:24.480
<v Speaker 2>It was.

817
00:40:25.000 --> 00:40:27.039
<v Speaker 3>I'm so glad you did like a lot of outdoorsy

818
00:40:27.280 --> 00:40:30.159
<v Speaker 3>like you know, bear Lake and then the call like

819
00:40:30.480 --> 00:40:32.400
<v Speaker 3>just like a lot of water stuff. I think that's

820
00:40:32.480 --> 00:40:33.000
<v Speaker 3>so ideal.

821
00:40:33.079 --> 00:40:38.119
<v Speaker 2>Summer like like prime summer time, you know, quintessential summer summer,

822
00:40:38.239 --> 00:40:42.599
<v Speaker 2>summer summer time. However, now I'm ready for fall. Oh

823
00:40:42.719 --> 00:40:44.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm so fucking over summer. Oh for sure.

824
00:40:44.920 --> 00:40:48.920
<v Speaker 3>I want once you got summer, let's fucking go.

825
00:40:49.400 --> 00:40:52.199
<v Speaker 2>Be able to wear sweater. Yeah. I want to be cool.

826
00:40:52.360 --> 00:40:54.079
<v Speaker 2>I want I want to be able to sit inside

827
00:40:54.119 --> 00:40:55.800
<v Speaker 2>with like a tea and my books.

828
00:40:56.159 --> 00:41:01.719
<v Speaker 3>I want a sweater. Yes, I want the brisk air

829
00:41:01.920 --> 00:41:06.280
<v Speaker 3>when I open the door. I want the leaves to

830
00:41:06.440 --> 00:41:12.239
<v Speaker 3>crunch underneath my feet. And I want pumpkin spice latte

831
00:41:12.480 --> 00:41:13.880
<v Speaker 3>injected through an ivy.

832
00:41:15.599 --> 00:41:17.800
<v Speaker 2>Is that too much to ask you? I never gotten too,

833
00:41:17.800 --> 00:41:20.760
<v Speaker 2>the pumpkin spicy. I can't do it, but I love

834
00:41:21.039 --> 00:41:25.440
<v Speaker 2>like apple. It's like cider or like freaking Starbucks does

835
00:41:25.960 --> 00:41:29.199
<v Speaker 2>an apple coffee and it sounds disgusting, but it is

836
00:41:29.440 --> 00:41:31.639
<v Speaker 2>so f I've never had it. I've never had it.

837
00:41:31.679 --> 00:41:32.400
<v Speaker 3>I'll have to try it.

838
00:41:32.679 --> 00:41:34.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's so freaking I literally will.

839
00:41:34.960 --> 00:41:39.280
<v Speaker 3>Pound pumpkin spice like the day they announced, like okay,

840
00:41:39.320 --> 00:41:42.280
<v Speaker 3>we're now, which is probably in like two weeks, probably

841
00:41:42.400 --> 00:41:44.920
<v Speaker 3>because I literally I know it's such a limited time

842
00:41:45.079 --> 00:41:48.519
<v Speaker 3>thing that I like run, yeah, push people out of

843
00:41:48.519 --> 00:41:48.920
<v Speaker 3>the way.

844
00:41:48.960 --> 00:41:50.519
<v Speaker 2>That's what I know. And now that I discovered this,

845
00:41:50.679 --> 00:41:53.760
<v Speaker 2>like Apple Crisp, latte, whatever, it is the same way. Yeah,

846
00:41:54.239 --> 00:41:57.840
<v Speaker 2>and follows just my favorite season. I'm such a Fall girly.

847
00:41:58.039 --> 00:42:01.559
<v Speaker 2>I'm such a Fall girl. And Halloween, yes, but then

848
00:42:01.599 --> 00:42:02.360
<v Speaker 2>it get vibes.

849
00:42:02.719 --> 00:42:04.960
<v Speaker 3>It gets cut off too soon by winter though, and

850
00:42:05.039 --> 00:42:07.519
<v Speaker 3>it makes me so sad. Yeah, I'm like, Winter, can

851
00:42:07.599 --> 00:42:10.800
<v Speaker 3>you fucking chill? Yeah, Like I don't mind winter now

852
00:42:10.840 --> 00:42:12.719
<v Speaker 3>that I ski, but I still just Fall.

853
00:42:13.119 --> 00:42:14.840
<v Speaker 2>Yes, it just I feel like it.

854
00:42:15.400 --> 00:42:17.360
<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's that girl who tries to take

855
00:42:17.360 --> 00:42:20.480
<v Speaker 3>the spotlight away from the girl, and I'm like, Winter,

856
00:42:20.719 --> 00:42:23.280
<v Speaker 3>you will have your time, yeah, but Fall needs to.

857
00:42:23.320 --> 00:42:25.960
<v Speaker 2>Shine, I know, you know. Yeah, I could have Fall

858
00:42:26.039 --> 00:42:28.880
<v Speaker 2>for like six months. Oh and it'd be happy, like

859
00:42:29.840 --> 00:42:32.360
<v Speaker 2>like October fall, early October fall.

860
00:42:32.960 --> 00:42:39.239
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like my dream would be like long fall, long spring,

861
00:42:39.679 --> 00:42:42.559
<v Speaker 3>a little bit of summer. Yeah, and maybe like a

862
00:42:42.639 --> 00:42:45.000
<v Speaker 3>week or two of winter during like Christmas time, but

863
00:42:45.280 --> 00:42:47.599
<v Speaker 3>that's just because I don't scare snowboard and I know

864
00:42:47.679 --> 00:42:49.239
<v Speaker 3>a lot of other people would be like the fuck

865
00:42:49.320 --> 00:42:49.840
<v Speaker 3>is wrong with you?

866
00:42:50.159 --> 00:42:53.440
<v Speaker 2>But that's my ideal. Mine would be like, yeah, fall

867
00:42:54.679 --> 00:42:57.559
<v Speaker 2>and then like spring and winter can like split a

868
00:42:57.559 --> 00:42:59.199
<v Speaker 2>little bit more time, and then maybe just like one

869
00:42:59.280 --> 00:43:02.480
<v Speaker 2>month of summer. Yeah. I love summer, don't get me wrong,

870
00:43:02.760 --> 00:43:05.159
<v Speaker 2>but not to I hate the heat. Yes, and you

871
00:43:05.239 --> 00:43:08.639
<v Speaker 2>can still do summer activities when it's like early fall

872
00:43:08.800 --> 00:43:11.880
<v Speaker 2>and late spring. Yeah, totally. I agree, where you're not

873
00:43:11.960 --> 00:43:15.360
<v Speaker 2>fucking that's like eighty degrees versus one hundred degrees.

874
00:43:15.480 --> 00:43:17.760
<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, yeah, I agree. I agree.

875
00:43:17.840 --> 00:43:20.440
<v Speaker 2>Let's go fucking full. I know, well, we just wanted

876
00:43:20.440 --> 00:43:22.559
<v Speaker 2>a whole another dance, but that was a whole nother tangent.

877
00:43:22.960 --> 00:43:24.800
<v Speaker 3>I feel like we haven't seen each other forever. I know.

878
00:43:25.159 --> 00:43:30.559
<v Speaker 2>It be our longest life update ever. I love I

879
00:43:30.880 --> 00:43:33.039
<v Speaker 2>keep forgetting we're even doing a podcast right now. We're

880
00:43:33.119 --> 00:43:34.920
<v Speaker 2>just gabbing for real. Well.

881
00:43:35.039 --> 00:43:37.320
<v Speaker 3>I love that we were like, hey, yeah, Kelso go first,

882
00:43:37.360 --> 00:43:39.480
<v Speaker 3>because like, Elie's lived a million lives this month and

883
00:43:39.519 --> 00:43:42.400
<v Speaker 3>apparently I did too. It's like I'm looking at the

884
00:43:42.400 --> 00:43:43.960
<v Speaker 3>time and I'm like, yeah, we've been on here for

885
00:43:44.159 --> 00:43:46.719
<v Speaker 3>forty three minutes now, which is totally fine.

886
00:43:46.719 --> 00:43:48.719
<v Speaker 2>I feel like it is what it is. We had

887
00:43:48.760 --> 00:43:49.320
<v Speaker 2>a busy month.

888
00:43:49.400 --> 00:43:50.800
<v Speaker 3>We had a busy month, damn it.

889
00:43:50.920 --> 00:43:52.920
<v Speaker 2>Next month might be only a twenty minute life up there.

890
00:43:52.920 --> 00:43:54.360
<v Speaker 2>You know it might be short.

891
00:43:54.440 --> 00:43:58.199
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I feel like maybe like you're included in

892
00:43:58.280 --> 00:44:00.000
<v Speaker 3>this too, But I feel like we've lived so much

893
00:44:00.079 --> 00:44:02.880
<v Speaker 3>much in July that our August life update's gonna be

894
00:44:02.960 --> 00:44:05.639
<v Speaker 3>like yeah, and then we like, I just chilled. I

895
00:44:05.800 --> 00:44:08.519
<v Speaker 3>just watched the movie and I finished this book and anyway,

896
00:44:08.599 --> 00:44:11.840
<v Speaker 3>so well to see you guys next week, you know exactly.

897
00:44:13.119 --> 00:44:14.840
<v Speaker 3>I feel like we had to live a lot to

898
00:44:15.079 --> 00:44:16.840
<v Speaker 3>just fucking chill this next month.

899
00:44:16.960 --> 00:44:21.639
<v Speaker 2>I agree. So anyway, all least turn oh, load and loaded.

900
00:44:21.760 --> 00:44:25.679
<v Speaker 3>You know what's so funny is uh there was I

901
00:44:26.519 --> 00:44:30.480
<v Speaker 3>knew we were doing a life update. Whoa kelso just

902
00:44:30.559 --> 00:44:32.480
<v Speaker 3>tried the wine again and her face I kind of

903
00:44:32.559 --> 00:44:35.760
<v Speaker 3>just forgot that it was bad. Like, do you want

904
00:44:35.800 --> 00:44:37.679
<v Speaker 3>to go get another drink? Like from the fridge?

905
00:44:37.800 --> 00:44:39.679
<v Speaker 2>Should I? No, you're good, you just talk.

906
00:44:39.760 --> 00:44:41.800
<v Speaker 3>I'll be bad, guys, Okay, sounds good. It's gonna be

907
00:44:41.800 --> 00:44:43.920
<v Speaker 3>weird me talking about well, I guess I'm not. I mean,

908
00:44:44.280 --> 00:44:46.880
<v Speaker 3>I guess people are actually listening to this when it's

909
00:44:47.440 --> 00:44:51.559
<v Speaker 3>out into the world. But no. Yeah, I was actually

910
00:44:51.679 --> 00:44:54.800
<v Speaker 3>talking to Kelso before we started recording, and I was

911
00:44:54.880 --> 00:44:58.320
<v Speaker 3>just like, I just yeah, there was a lot that

912
00:44:58.400 --> 00:45:01.320
<v Speaker 3>I was gonna leave out because it's just been such whoa,

913
00:45:01.559 --> 00:45:06.239
<v Speaker 3>Kelso's back hi and she's just staring at the wall. Yeah,

914
00:45:06.239 --> 00:45:07.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm just like staring at the wall, like talking to

915
00:45:07.840 --> 00:45:13.000
<v Speaker 3>the wall, and I'm like, so anyway, but there was

916
00:45:13.079 --> 00:45:14.960
<v Speaker 3>just kind of a lot that I was gonna leave

917
00:45:15.039 --> 00:45:17.320
<v Speaker 3>out ish, just because it was kind of like still

918
00:45:17.440 --> 00:45:20.920
<v Speaker 3>too raw, and like, I don't know, so I think

919
00:45:21.000 --> 00:45:25.840
<v Speaker 3>whatever just flows into this microphone is what will flow

920
00:45:25.880 --> 00:45:28.519
<v Speaker 3>into this microphone. I'm just usually very just a regular

921
00:45:28.559 --> 00:45:31.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm over here. Yeah, well, and I'm super like unedited.

922
00:45:31.320 --> 00:45:33.000
<v Speaker 3>I feel like like I will just say what I

923
00:45:33.079 --> 00:45:35.880
<v Speaker 3>need to say and so we'll just kind of see

924
00:45:35.880 --> 00:45:37.679
<v Speaker 3>how it goes. But I did tell Kelso I was

925
00:45:37.719 --> 00:45:39.679
<v Speaker 3>going to open up about something and we'll just kind

926
00:45:39.719 --> 00:45:40.960
<v Speaker 3>of just see how it goes from there.

927
00:45:41.079 --> 00:45:45.239
<v Speaker 2>But AnyWho, and I whoa, Yeah, I'll just get into it.

928
00:45:45.519 --> 00:45:47.960
<v Speaker 2>I'll just it's just so much but Tea.

929
00:45:49.239 --> 00:45:52.599
<v Speaker 3>Honestly, though, July was such a fun month, but also

930
00:45:53.280 --> 00:45:55.239
<v Speaker 3>it was it was probably one of the most fun

931
00:45:55.639 --> 00:45:59.639
<v Speaker 3>Julys I've had that I can think of, but it

932
00:45:59.679 --> 00:46:02.480
<v Speaker 3>was one of the worst ones as well. Like I've

933
00:46:02.480 --> 00:46:06.880
<v Speaker 3>had a roller coaster. Yes it's been like severe far

934
00:46:07.039 --> 00:46:08.440
<v Speaker 3>this way and severe far that way.

935
00:46:08.599 --> 00:46:10.199
<v Speaker 2>Like it's just a lot.

936
00:46:10.280 --> 00:46:13.360
<v Speaker 3>But anyway, I honestly, I was looking at my calendar

937
00:46:13.559 --> 00:46:16.360
<v Speaker 3>today actually, and I've only been home for like maybe

938
00:46:16.400 --> 00:46:18.559
<v Speaker 3>a week and a half total for the month of July,

939
00:46:18.880 --> 00:46:21.880
<v Speaker 3>Like I've just not been home. So I started the

940
00:46:21.960 --> 00:46:25.400
<v Speaker 3>month out in Denver, Colorado, and I stayed we actually

941
00:46:25.440 --> 00:46:29.000
<v Speaker 3>extended our trip like another couple of days, so we

942
00:46:29.119 --> 00:46:32.199
<v Speaker 3>were there for almost two weeks, like shy of two weeks.

943
00:46:32.840 --> 00:46:35.760
<v Speaker 3>And it was me and my friend Cameron, and we

944
00:46:35.840 --> 00:46:37.719
<v Speaker 3>actually just went to go like just hang out in

945
00:46:37.800 --> 00:46:43.920
<v Speaker 3>Denver and house it and just like we both work remotely,

946
00:46:44.119 --> 00:46:46.079
<v Speaker 3>so we were just kind of hanging out working during

947
00:46:46.119 --> 00:46:49.320
<v Speaker 3>the day, like going out.

948
00:46:49.239 --> 00:46:50.400
<v Speaker 2>To the bar at night.

949
00:46:50.760 --> 00:46:53.920
<v Speaker 3>Not every night, but just like you know, vib just

950
00:46:54.320 --> 00:46:58.039
<v Speaker 3>vibin like you're in a different city. Honestly, you guys

951
00:46:58.119 --> 00:47:00.960
<v Speaker 3>have you guys work remotely and you have an and

952
00:47:01.440 --> 00:47:03.559
<v Speaker 3>if you want to travel and you want to do

953
00:47:03.639 --> 00:47:06.199
<v Speaker 3>it at an affordable like price, you should totally check

954
00:47:06.199 --> 00:47:10.199
<v Speaker 3>out Trusted house Sitters. I've talked about it before, but anyhow,

955
00:47:10.400 --> 00:47:13.119
<v Speaker 3>it's just great, Like you get to hang out with

956
00:47:13.199 --> 00:47:16.400
<v Speaker 3>pets and like make sure they're taking care of while

957
00:47:16.400 --> 00:47:18.960
<v Speaker 3>their owners are away. But then you also have to

958
00:47:19.199 --> 00:47:21.000
<v Speaker 3>you have a free place to stay, so it's just

959
00:47:21.079 --> 00:47:23.280
<v Speaker 3>like a win win, you know. And some of the

960
00:47:23.360 --> 00:47:25.559
<v Speaker 3>houses are really nice and it's just super chill.

961
00:47:26.079 --> 00:47:27.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, You've done a lot of tours of those houses

962
00:47:27.880 --> 00:47:28.719
<v Speaker 2>and they're stunning.

963
00:47:29.519 --> 00:47:32.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it's really cool. Anyway, So we did that

964
00:47:33.079 --> 00:47:35.719
<v Speaker 3>and Denver was just fun. Denver was just a good time.

965
00:47:35.960 --> 00:47:41.400
<v Speaker 3>I mean, there's there's there's maybe some things I still

966
00:47:41.639 --> 00:47:45.920
<v Speaker 3>like I'm trying to process and maybe eventually I'll, like say,

967
00:47:45.960 --> 00:47:46.599
<v Speaker 3>in the field.

968
00:47:46.360 --> 00:47:48.079
<v Speaker 2>I think we'll get there when you get there. Well,

969
00:47:48.119 --> 00:47:48.599
<v Speaker 2>and I think we.

970
00:47:48.639 --> 00:47:50.639
<v Speaker 3>Talked about this a couple like months ago. How Like

971
00:47:50.719 --> 00:47:53.159
<v Speaker 3>sometimes when you're in the middle of something, you're just like, uh,

972
00:47:53.360 --> 00:47:56.840
<v Speaker 3>it's so hard to like hard to articulate it. Yeah,

973
00:47:57.000 --> 00:47:59.480
<v Speaker 3>So anyway, but all that to say though, is like

974
00:48:00.360 --> 00:48:03.519
<v Speaker 3>Denver was a bit of a disappointment, but also like

975
00:48:04.039 --> 00:48:06.840
<v Speaker 3>really really fun and it was nice to get out

976
00:48:06.880 --> 00:48:11.039
<v Speaker 3>of town and just like hang out with a friend

977
00:48:11.199 --> 00:48:14.400
<v Speaker 3>in a different setting and a different and it was

978
00:48:14.480 --> 00:48:19.840
<v Speaker 3>just a freaking vibea. Anyway, So I did that, Like

979
00:48:20.000 --> 00:48:23.000
<v Speaker 3>the first half of July was just like in Denver,

980
00:48:23.280 --> 00:48:27.639
<v Speaker 3>and then it was crazy because I got back in

981
00:48:27.760 --> 00:48:30.880
<v Speaker 3>on like a Tuesday, and by that Saturday, I was

982
00:48:30.920 --> 00:48:34.480
<v Speaker 3>flying out to Florida. So same thing goes there. My

983
00:48:34.800 --> 00:48:38.159
<v Speaker 3>other friend works remotely and she has a timeshare and

984
00:48:38.239 --> 00:48:40.480
<v Speaker 3>she was like, do you want to just come and

985
00:48:40.719 --> 00:48:44.119
<v Speaker 3>like hang out in Florida and we can play pickleball

986
00:48:44.280 --> 00:48:47.519
<v Speaker 3>and we can like work during the day. I'm like,

987
00:48:47.639 --> 00:48:53.480
<v Speaker 3>you had me at pickleball in Florida, Say lol, let's.

988
00:48:53.239 --> 00:48:54.000
<v Speaker 2>To fucking go.

989
00:48:54.960 --> 00:48:59.320
<v Speaker 3>So anyhow, we we went, and it was so fun,

990
00:48:59.400 --> 00:49:02.639
<v Speaker 3>and we were kind of a little nervous hesitant because

991
00:49:02.800 --> 00:49:06.199
<v Speaker 3>like July and Florida like hi, kill me now, like

992
00:49:06.360 --> 00:49:09.920
<v Speaker 3>it's just blazing hot. But we got there and it

993
00:49:10.079 --> 00:49:12.480
<v Speaker 3>wasn't really that bad at all, Like it was like

994
00:49:13.239 --> 00:49:16.280
<v Speaker 3>perfect weather. And I don't know, I do not do

995
00:49:16.400 --> 00:49:18.280
<v Speaker 3>well with humidity either, Like I will.

996
00:49:18.199 --> 00:49:20.039
<v Speaker 2>Die my hair does, the rest of me does not.

997
00:49:20.199 --> 00:49:20.599
<v Speaker 2>My skin.

998
00:49:20.760 --> 00:49:23.519
<v Speaker 3>My skin really likes it because it feels very moisturized.

999
00:49:23.880 --> 00:49:25.840
<v Speaker 3>But like if there's too much humidity in the air,

1000
00:49:26.000 --> 00:49:27.800
<v Speaker 3>like I feel like I can't bring it claustrophobic.

1001
00:49:27.920 --> 00:49:30.159
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'm likees like I'm like deep breathing.

1002
00:49:30.199 --> 00:49:32.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, wait, can I breathe right now? Yeah?

1003
00:49:32.440 --> 00:49:36.719
<v Speaker 2>Same, But the humidity was not bad. Oh, the temp

1004
00:49:36.880 --> 00:49:37.480
<v Speaker 2>was not bad.

1005
00:49:37.639 --> 00:49:38.639
<v Speaker 3>It just felt perfect.

1006
00:49:38.719 --> 00:49:41.599
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh my gosh. We even yeah, we even

1007
00:49:41.679 --> 00:49:44.119
<v Speaker 2>try to extend our like stay because we didn't say

1008
00:49:44.199 --> 00:49:44.559
<v Speaker 2>that long.

1009
00:49:44.599 --> 00:49:46.320
<v Speaker 3>I think it was like four days vibe.

1010
00:49:47.880 --> 00:49:48.239
<v Speaker 2>Anyway.

1011
00:49:48.360 --> 00:49:50.119
<v Speaker 3>Oh, we try to extend and they're like, yeah, it'll

1012
00:49:50.159 --> 00:49:53.559
<v Speaker 3>be another three hundred dollars, like the flight change. Oh,

1013
00:49:54.079 --> 00:49:56.400
<v Speaker 3>and we're like, okay, we don't want to say that bad.

1014
00:49:56.559 --> 00:49:56.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

1015
00:49:56.840 --> 00:49:59.880
<v Speaker 3>So we kind of just came back when we like

1016
00:50:00.440 --> 00:50:03.639
<v Speaker 3>needed to, you know, so it was like whatever, and

1017
00:50:03.800 --> 00:50:06.519
<v Speaker 3>so anyhow, it was just like it was it was

1018
00:50:06.800 --> 00:50:09.360
<v Speaker 3>it was just fun to just be there when it

1019
00:50:09.559 --> 00:50:12.559
<v Speaker 3>was like perfect weather, even though we thought we were

1020
00:50:12.599 --> 00:50:15.920
<v Speaker 3>gonna die and we ended up not dying. So anyhow,

1021
00:50:16.079 --> 00:50:19.440
<v Speaker 3>that was like the five four or five days there,

1022
00:50:20.079 --> 00:50:23.360
<v Speaker 3>and then when I came back that Saturday, we my

1023
00:50:23.960 --> 00:50:26.880
<v Speaker 3>other group of girlfriends did like a brunch. We did

1024
00:50:26.920 --> 00:50:28.920
<v Speaker 3>a brunch again. We do a brunch like every six weeks.

1025
00:50:28.960 --> 00:50:30.920
<v Speaker 3>I think I talk about this all the time, and

1026
00:50:31.039 --> 00:50:33.840
<v Speaker 3>that was really fun. And I actually brought up that

1027
00:50:34.119 --> 00:50:37.519
<v Speaker 3>like that my other group of girlfriends we do that

1028
00:50:37.639 --> 00:50:40.280
<v Speaker 3>wafful Wednesday where we'd like update everybody on like our

1029
00:50:40.360 --> 00:50:43.039
<v Speaker 3>week and stuff. I was telling my girlfriends, my other

1030
00:50:43.079 --> 00:50:45.159
<v Speaker 3>group of girlfriends that do brunch, I'm like, we need

1031
00:50:45.239 --> 00:50:47.760
<v Speaker 3>to do something like that because like I just feel

1032
00:50:47.800 --> 00:50:50.039
<v Speaker 3>like sometimes we get so busy in life, and like

1033
00:50:50.760 --> 00:50:53.079
<v Speaker 3>you just need to set a girlfriends to like encourage

1034
00:50:53.119 --> 00:50:55.360
<v Speaker 3>you or motivate you, or like just kind of support

1035
00:50:55.400 --> 00:50:58.280
<v Speaker 3>you in whatever you're going through. And I know, like

1036
00:50:58.559 --> 00:51:01.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm not alone when I say, like there's a lot

1037
00:51:01.519 --> 00:51:03.960
<v Speaker 3>of people out there struggling right now, like with their

1038
00:51:04.000 --> 00:51:07.480
<v Speaker 3>mental health, like just in life in general thing, you know.

1039
00:51:08.119 --> 00:51:10.239
<v Speaker 3>And so anyway, I'm like, guys, we.

1040
00:51:10.400 --> 00:51:12.280
<v Speaker 2>Just need like a really good support system.

1041
00:51:12.440 --> 00:51:15.239
<v Speaker 3>And so we started talking about it, and I'm like, Okay,

1042
00:51:15.320 --> 00:51:18.239
<v Speaker 3>my girlfriends do my other girlfriends do a waffle Wednesday.

1043
00:51:18.320 --> 00:51:20.880
<v Speaker 3>What if we do something like on another day and

1044
00:51:21.000 --> 00:51:23.800
<v Speaker 3>we like name it something else and I'm like, what

1045
00:51:23.920 --> 00:51:25.920
<v Speaker 3>if we do Taco Tuesday?

1046
00:51:26.199 --> 00:51:27.039
<v Speaker 2>And then my friend.

1047
00:51:26.960 --> 00:51:31.280
<v Speaker 3>Natalie was like, what if we do hot talk oh Tuesday?

1048
00:51:31.360 --> 00:51:34.639
<v Speaker 3>So now it's yes, love it. Yes, now it's literally

1049
00:51:34.800 --> 00:51:39.360
<v Speaker 3>called talk oh oh Tuesday. So now I have Taco

1050
00:51:39.480 --> 00:51:42.800
<v Speaker 3>Tuesday and I have Waffle Wednesday. And it's just like

1051
00:51:43.039 --> 00:51:46.599
<v Speaker 3>updating your girlfriends on life. So like if you guys

1052
00:51:46.679 --> 00:51:48.719
<v Speaker 3>still have not done this, I need you guys to

1053
00:51:48.760 --> 00:51:51.159
<v Speaker 3>get on it because like even just we started it,

1054
00:51:51.760 --> 00:51:53.719
<v Speaker 3>so our brunch was on Saturday, but we started it

1055
00:51:54.440 --> 00:51:58.239
<v Speaker 3>yes surday for like my other group of girlfriends and

1056
00:51:59.320 --> 00:52:00.400
<v Speaker 3>it's been great already.

1057
00:52:00.480 --> 00:52:02.280
<v Speaker 2>Like am you just getting like a group chat or

1058
00:52:02.360 --> 00:52:03.320
<v Speaker 2>do you get on like a call?

1059
00:52:04.119 --> 00:52:07.239
<v Speaker 3>So it's a voice memo. So for for the original ones,

1060
00:52:07.320 --> 00:52:10.159
<v Speaker 3>like the Waffle Wednesday girlies with my squad squad group,

1061
00:52:10.559 --> 00:52:12.599
<v Speaker 3>we do it on our Instagram group chat, so we

1062
00:52:12.679 --> 00:52:15.119
<v Speaker 3>have a group chat there. But then my dbb's the

1063
00:52:15.199 --> 00:52:19.039
<v Speaker 3>ones that do the Taco Tuesday, we have a Facebook

1064
00:52:19.159 --> 00:52:21.480
<v Speaker 3>Messenger group chat, so we just do it there and

1065
00:52:21.519 --> 00:52:22.639
<v Speaker 3>they're just voice memos.

1066
00:52:23.000 --> 00:52:25.159
<v Speaker 2>So you don't have to like all like get every

1067
00:52:25.199 --> 00:52:25.880
<v Speaker 2>same time.

1068
00:52:25.800 --> 00:52:27.719
<v Speaker 3>Yep, just whenever you can throughout the day, like you

1069
00:52:27.760 --> 00:52:30.599
<v Speaker 3>can just be like, hey, I'm starting taco Tuesday, waffle Wednesday.

1070
00:52:30.639 --> 00:52:30.880
<v Speaker 2>Whatever.

1071
00:52:31.280 --> 00:52:33.039
<v Speaker 3>They're like, this is my week, blah blah blah blah blah.

1072
00:52:33.039 --> 00:52:34.639
<v Speaker 3>And then whenever you get a chance to just listen

1073
00:52:34.679 --> 00:52:36.960
<v Speaker 3>to it while you're doing whatever, and then you just

1074
00:52:37.119 --> 00:52:37.840
<v Speaker 3>do your own thing.

1075
00:52:38.000 --> 00:52:39.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then it's just so cool.

1076
00:52:39.480 --> 00:52:41.920
<v Speaker 3>And because like even just yesterday I was like, oh,

1077
00:52:42.039 --> 00:52:44.519
<v Speaker 3>I didn't know that about so and so or like

1078
00:52:44.719 --> 00:52:46.400
<v Speaker 3>one friend reminded me. She was like, Hey, I'm doing

1079
00:52:46.440 --> 00:52:48.840
<v Speaker 3>this fundraiser for my kid, Like if you guys have

1080
00:52:48.880 --> 00:52:51.639
<v Speaker 3>anything around the house, Like I'm like, oh my gosh, yes, perfect,

1081
00:52:51.719 --> 00:52:54.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm cleaning out my garage this Saturday or whatever.

1082
00:52:54.440 --> 00:52:55.039
<v Speaker 2>Love it, you know.

1083
00:52:55.239 --> 00:52:57.920
<v Speaker 3>So it's just really that was really really cool to

1084
00:52:58.119 --> 00:53:02.679
<v Speaker 3>like kind of establish that with them. But AnyWho, So,

1085
00:53:04.039 --> 00:53:08.519
<v Speaker 3>so overall July was just the highlight was definitely just

1086
00:53:08.679 --> 00:53:11.159
<v Speaker 3>like the traveling and the just going out there, like

1087
00:53:11.679 --> 00:53:13.719
<v Speaker 3>going to Denver, going to Florida and just hanging out

1088
00:53:13.719 --> 00:53:16.119
<v Speaker 3>with friends and just having a good time. But then

1089
00:53:16.239 --> 00:53:20.000
<v Speaker 3>like the low like yeah, the really low light was

1090
00:53:20.239 --> 00:53:23.360
<v Speaker 3>just like it was just crazy, Like.

1091
00:53:25.440 --> 00:53:26.039
<v Speaker 2>It was funny.

1092
00:53:26.119 --> 00:53:28.960
<v Speaker 3>I told Kelsey again, I don't think I was I

1093
00:53:29.119 --> 00:53:32.119
<v Speaker 3>honestly was not planning on talking about this even earlier

1094
00:53:32.239 --> 00:53:34.719
<v Speaker 3>this week. I was like, fuck we have we have

1095
00:53:34.880 --> 00:53:38.559
<v Speaker 3>life updates On Wednesday, I'm not talking about this, but

1096
00:53:38.760 --> 00:53:42.039
<v Speaker 3>I actually was today. I feel like so much better. Well,

1097
00:53:42.119 --> 00:53:43.840
<v Speaker 3>I actually did hop A the other day and I'll

1098
00:53:43.840 --> 00:53:45.199
<v Speaker 3>have to tell you guys about that in a bit.

1099
00:53:45.320 --> 00:53:49.599
<v Speaker 3>But any long story short, I literally and the I'm

1100
00:53:49.679 --> 00:53:53.320
<v Speaker 3>so casual about this right now because I did Hoppy

1101
00:53:54.079 --> 00:53:56.000
<v Speaker 3>and so all that to say though, like I was

1102
00:53:56.079 --> 00:54:00.360
<v Speaker 3>an emotional wreck last weekend, but basically I really got

1103
00:54:00.400 --> 00:54:04.960
<v Speaker 3>my heart broken and like I've never like I've never

1104
00:54:05.519 --> 00:54:10.559
<v Speaker 3>that's literally never happened to me before. And it's funny though,

1105
00:54:10.559 --> 00:54:12.840
<v Speaker 3>because I'm like I hardly ever cry, like I hardly

1106
00:54:12.880 --> 00:54:15.079
<v Speaker 3>ever ball, and I feel like that's kind of like

1107
00:54:15.159 --> 00:54:18.320
<v Speaker 3>a trauma thing, I think, or just like an issue

1108
00:54:18.360 --> 00:54:19.960
<v Speaker 3>I need to work on. I feel like sometimes I

1109
00:54:20.079 --> 00:54:23.639
<v Speaker 3>try to self soothe too quickly and be like everything's okay,

1110
00:54:24.239 --> 00:54:27.239
<v Speaker 3>Like I'm almost lokay a little bit toxic positivity, you

1111
00:54:27.320 --> 00:54:29.079
<v Speaker 3>know what I mean, where it's like, bitch, it's okay

1112
00:54:29.119 --> 00:54:32.280
<v Speaker 3>to be sad, you know. And so AnyWho, long story short,

1113
00:54:32.719 --> 00:54:35.760
<v Speaker 3>I tell my girlfriends this all the time. I'm like, guys,

1114
00:54:35.920 --> 00:54:38.599
<v Speaker 3>I need a good fucking cry. I have not cried

1115
00:54:38.719 --> 00:54:40.960
<v Speaker 3>in like the longest time, like a good, good cry,

1116
00:54:41.079 --> 00:54:44.559
<v Speaker 3>you know. And so AnyWho, all that to say is

1117
00:54:44.760 --> 00:54:49.360
<v Speaker 3>I I I'm gonna try to condense this so much

1118
00:54:49.440 --> 00:54:52.679
<v Speaker 3>because there's just so much to it. But if if

1119
00:54:52.760 --> 00:54:54.960
<v Speaker 3>y'all want to ever go out for drinks with me,

1120
00:54:55.199 --> 00:54:58.760
<v Speaker 3>I will tell you all the details. But AnyWho, I

1121
00:54:58.880 --> 00:55:02.519
<v Speaker 3>actually started talking this guy while I was in Colorado

1122
00:55:02.719 --> 00:55:06.119
<v Speaker 3>and he was in Salt Lake, and like he is

1123
00:55:06.199 --> 00:55:09.239
<v Speaker 3>from Salt Lake, and it was just like, this is

1124
00:55:09.360 --> 00:55:11.360
<v Speaker 3>kind of the analogy. I told one of my girlfriends

1125
00:55:11.400 --> 00:55:13.320
<v Speaker 3>the other day. It was like I was when I

1126
00:55:13.440 --> 00:55:15.519
<v Speaker 3>was dating, I was just I was just hanging out

1127
00:55:15.559 --> 00:55:18.119
<v Speaker 3>on the shore, Like that's just where I was. I

1128
00:55:18.239 --> 00:55:21.039
<v Speaker 3>was comfortable the shoreline. That's as far as I got

1129
00:55:21.159 --> 00:55:24.760
<v Speaker 3>with guys emotionally. This guy literally took me to the

1130
00:55:24.880 --> 00:55:28.519
<v Speaker 3>depths of the ocean like I'd never been there before.

1131
00:55:29.039 --> 00:55:32.639
<v Speaker 3>I'd never explored experienced the depths of what the ocean

1132
00:55:32.719 --> 00:55:37.639
<v Speaker 3>could provide. So when I went into this with him,

1133
00:55:38.400 --> 00:55:42.000
<v Speaker 3>it was literally so mind blowing. Like we matched on

1134
00:55:42.079 --> 00:55:45.039
<v Speaker 3>a Tuesday, started talking on the phone on a Friday.

1135
00:55:45.079 --> 00:55:47.400
<v Speaker 3>That Friday, night, we talked for five hours. The next

1136
00:55:47.480 --> 00:55:50.639
<v Speaker 3>night four hours, the next night three, the next night two,

1137
00:55:51.079 --> 00:55:53.320
<v Speaker 3>and so every night after that we would talk for

1138
00:55:53.400 --> 00:55:55.760
<v Speaker 3>at least two hours. And we would always joke around

1139
00:55:55.760 --> 00:55:58.280
<v Speaker 3>and say like, oh we should like gosh, we need

1140
00:55:58.320 --> 00:56:00.320
<v Speaker 3>to get better at this. We're like we're just yeap

1141
00:56:00.400 --> 00:56:02.320
<v Speaker 3>in a way, like we can't stop talking to each other.

1142
00:56:02.679 --> 00:56:06.480
<v Speaker 3>Like anyhow, we talked about everything. We talked about our flaws,

1143
00:56:06.519 --> 00:56:09.199
<v Speaker 3>our insecurities, our dreams, like what we look for in

1144
00:56:09.239 --> 00:56:15.239
<v Speaker 3>a person, like marriage, kids, like everything deep deep, deep,

1145
00:56:15.280 --> 00:56:19.079
<v Speaker 3>deeply and really quickly. And it's crazy because it, I mean,

1146
00:56:19.159 --> 00:56:21.639
<v Speaker 3>maybe that saying is true. If you go to quickly

1147
00:56:21.760 --> 00:56:24.760
<v Speaker 3>as quickly as it burns, it's as quickly as it'll

1148
00:56:24.920 --> 00:56:28.400
<v Speaker 3>like die, you know. And so anyho, I think that

1149
00:56:28.559 --> 00:56:31.880
<v Speaker 3>was definitely a life lesson to learn though, because I

1150
00:56:31.960 --> 00:56:35.480
<v Speaker 3>mean I ended up seeing him when I came back

1151
00:56:35.559 --> 00:56:39.199
<v Speaker 3>from Colorado. We went on a date and then the

1152
00:56:39.440 --> 00:56:44.280
<v Speaker 3>next that so I came back on that Tuesday whatever

1153
00:56:45.519 --> 00:56:47.880
<v Speaker 3>date on Wednesday, Thursday, and then I had to fly

1154
00:56:48.000 --> 00:56:51.559
<v Speaker 3>out to Florida on that Saturday. So we kept talking

1155
00:56:52.360 --> 00:56:55.960
<v Speaker 3>then when I was in Florida, and then that following

1156
00:56:57.559 --> 00:57:01.159
<v Speaker 3>to Wednesday, when I was flying back home, is kind

1157
00:57:01.159 --> 00:57:03.199
<v Speaker 3>of when I got just a bit of a whiplash

1158
00:57:03.360 --> 00:57:07.000
<v Speaker 3>and he was just like, yeah, I gotta step away

1159
00:57:07.000 --> 00:57:07.199
<v Speaker 3>from this.

1160
00:57:07.360 --> 00:57:07.840
<v Speaker 2>It's not you.

1161
00:57:08.159 --> 00:57:12.199
<v Speaker 3>It's the classic, it's not you, it's me like you, yeah,

1162
00:57:12.559 --> 00:57:16.079
<v Speaker 3>like you just I have a lot of work to

1163
00:57:16.239 --> 00:57:19.400
<v Speaker 3>do on myself and you deserve somebody so much better.

1164
00:57:19.920 --> 00:57:22.840
<v Speaker 3>And it was just crazy though, because I remember the

1165
00:57:23.840 --> 00:57:26.760
<v Speaker 3>deep conversations we would have about like, hey, we would

1166
00:57:26.760 --> 00:57:29.239
<v Speaker 3>talk about this, right if we like ever like you know,

1167
00:57:30.239 --> 00:57:33.079
<v Speaker 3>wanted like fell off or wanted to walk away from this,

1168
00:57:33.320 --> 00:57:35.880
<v Speaker 3>and we both agreed we would. And so I texted

1169
00:57:35.960 --> 00:57:38.079
<v Speaker 3>him back and I was like, hey, I'm never gonna

1170
00:57:38.159 --> 00:57:42.719
<v Speaker 3>like force anybody to stay. I don't chase, but do

1171
00:57:42.800 --> 00:57:44.760
<v Speaker 3>you want to let like, let's talk about this. I

1172
00:57:44.840 --> 00:57:49.119
<v Speaker 3>want to fully understand you and I'll respect anything you decide.

1173
00:57:49.559 --> 00:57:49.840
<v Speaker 3>And so.

1174
00:57:51.679 --> 00:57:53.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we decided to see each other the next day

1175
00:57:54.639 --> 00:57:57.159
<v Speaker 2>and he didn't show.

1176
00:57:57.679 --> 00:58:03.400
<v Speaker 3>He did not show, and so I was devastated. Yeah,

1177
00:58:03.440 --> 00:58:09.519
<v Speaker 3>as you should be devast I was bawling upstairs in

1178
00:58:09.679 --> 00:58:13.599
<v Speaker 3>my bed, like balling. But you know what's so crazy,

1179
00:58:13.639 --> 00:58:16.639
<v Speaker 3>and this is where like my fucking toxic positivity comes

1180
00:58:16.719 --> 00:58:20.719
<v Speaker 3>out I'm literally balling. My heart is broken, Like I cannot,

1181
00:58:20.880 --> 00:58:24.239
<v Speaker 3>like balling to the point of like hyper ventilating. You're like,

1182
00:58:25.440 --> 00:58:27.800
<v Speaker 3>you know, and I like, after I would ball, i'd

1183
00:58:27.840 --> 00:58:30.480
<v Speaker 3>be like, thank you God, I'm so grateful for.

1184
00:58:33.920 --> 00:58:41.079
<v Speaker 2>You guys. In between you yeah, I'm like you guys,

1185
00:58:41.320 --> 00:58:45.599
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, it's crazy, how like I just am so.

1186
00:58:45.840 --> 00:58:48.280
<v Speaker 3>Grateful that I was able to feel feelings, Like I

1187
00:58:48.519 --> 00:58:52.000
<v Speaker 3>was grateful to feel sadness and like actually cry. I

1188
00:58:52.079 --> 00:58:55.360
<v Speaker 3>feel like my body needed that path so bad and

1189
00:58:55.519 --> 00:58:58.320
<v Speaker 3>it was a really good release. Like I really just

1190
00:58:58.519 --> 00:59:01.400
<v Speaker 3>let it go and just like cried. And so I

1191
00:59:01.519 --> 00:59:04.920
<v Speaker 3>emailed my boss that night at like midnight, and because

1192
00:59:04.920 --> 00:59:06.480
<v Speaker 3>the next day was Friday, and I was like, I

1193
00:59:06.679 --> 00:59:09.719
<v Speaker 3>can't come into work tomorrow. I just know I won't

1194
00:59:09.760 --> 00:59:12.920
<v Speaker 3>be productive. And he was really nice, obviously, he was like, yeah,

1195
00:59:13.000 --> 00:59:15.320
<v Speaker 3>take the day. So I went up to Park City

1196
00:59:15.440 --> 00:59:17.599
<v Speaker 3>to visit a friend. We had lunch, and then I

1197
00:59:17.679 --> 00:59:19.440
<v Speaker 3>went to like Trader Joe's and so like I just

1198
00:59:19.519 --> 00:59:21.880
<v Speaker 3>did a day out of it, went to Costco, you know,

1199
00:59:22.159 --> 00:59:24.920
<v Speaker 3>just like got out. But I mean I did obviously

1200
00:59:25.000 --> 00:59:29.159
<v Speaker 3>still cry like intermittently throughout the day, and I was like,

1201
00:59:29.280 --> 00:59:31.199
<v Speaker 3>my heart was really heavy over the weekend, and I

1202
00:59:31.280 --> 00:59:34.800
<v Speaker 3>was like, Ash, this really fucking sucks, you know. And

1203
00:59:35.519 --> 00:59:38.920
<v Speaker 3>it's just like it's weird because time was like, so

1204
00:59:39.039 --> 00:59:42.800
<v Speaker 3>I write poetry and so I've actually written about this before.

1205
00:59:43.400 --> 00:59:46.960
<v Speaker 3>But it's really I feel the same way, like when

1206
00:59:47.039 --> 00:59:50.880
<v Speaker 3>I'm in those settings with guys that I feel such

1207
00:59:50.920 --> 00:59:54.119
<v Speaker 3>a connection with time is non existent for me. So

1208
00:59:54.199 --> 00:59:56.039
<v Speaker 3>there's no such thing as like, wait, you only talked

1209
00:59:56.039 --> 00:59:58.800
<v Speaker 3>to him for two weeks and you're fucking devastated. I'm like, no, no,

1210
00:59:59.079 --> 01:00:01.360
<v Speaker 3>you don't get it. Though it wasn't just two weeks. Yeah,

1211
01:00:01.559 --> 01:00:05.840
<v Speaker 3>we lived a lifetime together. Like everything we talked about.

1212
01:00:05.960 --> 01:00:09.639
<v Speaker 3>The time we spent together was not you can't measure

1213
01:00:09.719 --> 01:00:12.440
<v Speaker 3>that by hours or minutes or days like that is

1214
01:00:12.599 --> 01:00:17.079
<v Speaker 3>measured within, like the the soul entanglement of it all,

1215
01:00:17.360 --> 01:00:21.519
<v Speaker 3>you know. But I think it's so true.

1216
01:00:21.559 --> 01:00:23.320
<v Speaker 2>It's like, well, it's like what you guys talked about

1217
01:00:23.360 --> 01:00:25.639
<v Speaker 2>and how deep you went. Most people don't even go

1218
01:00:25.760 --> 01:00:26.159
<v Speaker 2>that deep in.

1219
01:00:26.199 --> 01:00:30.639
<v Speaker 4>Two years, Like it's like you guys literally deep deep deep,

1220
01:00:31.440 --> 01:00:34.000
<v Speaker 4>like like like I said earlier, like I was swimming

1221
01:00:34.039 --> 01:00:35.800
<v Speaker 4>in the shoreline and he took me out to the

1222
01:00:35.880 --> 01:00:42.480
<v Speaker 4>depths of the ocean and like that completely like got

1223
01:00:42.639 --> 01:00:45.559
<v Speaker 4>me so good, and I was like, holy fuck.

1224
01:00:45.880 --> 01:00:49.639
<v Speaker 3>And honestly, like I'm talking about this so chill right now,

1225
01:00:49.840 --> 01:00:53.320
<v Speaker 3>Like I am so chill about it right now, because

1226
01:00:53.559 --> 01:00:57.039
<v Speaker 3>I my friend God, I love her Mike, And she

1227
01:00:57.440 --> 01:01:02.679
<v Speaker 3>actually reached out to me yes thurday or the night

1228
01:01:02.719 --> 01:01:07.039
<v Speaker 3>before I already forgot, but she she gave me hoppy.

1229
01:01:07.199 --> 01:01:08.840
<v Speaker 3>And I don't know if you guys know what hope is,

1230
01:01:09.320 --> 01:01:13.039
<v Speaker 3>but it's basically like indigenous people use it, and it's

1231
01:01:13.119 --> 01:01:17.559
<v Speaker 3>tobacco mixed with other herbs, and it's like it's it's

1232
01:01:17.719 --> 01:01:20.960
<v Speaker 3>more of like a like Shamans use it for like yeah,

1233
01:01:22.199 --> 01:01:26.960
<v Speaker 3>ceremonies and stuff, and just it's very uh intentional use

1234
01:01:27.039 --> 01:01:29.639
<v Speaker 3>to like open your heart and really connect with the

1235
01:01:29.719 --> 01:01:32.880
<v Speaker 3>divine or like whatever your beliefs are, whatever your higher.

1236
01:01:32.719 --> 01:01:34.599
<v Speaker 2>Power, God, et cetera.

1237
01:01:35.119 --> 01:01:38.960
<v Speaker 3>And so and I've done hope before and I felt

1238
01:01:39.000 --> 01:01:43.639
<v Speaker 3>things before, but hope this week was like on a

1239
01:01:43.719 --> 01:01:44.719
<v Speaker 3>whole nother level.

1240
01:01:44.880 --> 01:01:47.639
<v Speaker 2>So she like kind of like an ayahuasca but not

1241
01:01:47.719 --> 01:01:49.639
<v Speaker 2>a purging experience kind of a situation.

1242
01:01:50.000 --> 01:01:53.679
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, not as crazy, not yet, not as crazy

1243
01:01:53.840 --> 01:01:57.519
<v Speaker 3>because it like it'll wear off in like thirty minutes whatever,

1244
01:01:58.159 --> 01:01:59.960
<v Speaker 3>but like you'll still feel the goodness of it all

1245
01:02:00.280 --> 01:02:02.360
<v Speaker 3>throughout the days to come, if that makes sense. But

1246
01:02:02.840 --> 01:02:05.880
<v Speaker 3>can I try some Yes, yes, she would love that.

1247
01:02:06.199 --> 01:02:09.400
<v Speaker 3>She would honestly love that. She's so because I'm always like,

1248
01:02:09.480 --> 01:02:11.119
<v Speaker 3>thank you, Mike, and for doing that. She's like, it's

1249
01:02:11.199 --> 01:02:13.639
<v Speaker 3>not me, it's the medicine. I'm like, okay, thank you

1250
01:02:13.719 --> 01:02:15.960
<v Speaker 3>for being a vessel, like you know what I mean.

1251
01:02:16.159 --> 01:02:20.400
<v Speaker 3>Like so, and it's it's kind of rough, and it's

1252
01:02:20.960 --> 01:02:23.800
<v Speaker 3>because it's like this powder form and they put it

1253
01:02:23.880 --> 01:02:25.800
<v Speaker 3>in this like kind of like this wooden tube and

1254
01:02:25.880 --> 01:02:28.239
<v Speaker 3>she has to blow it up your nose. Oh yeah,

1255
01:02:28.360 --> 01:02:30.360
<v Speaker 3>it's kind of intense and you have to like close

1256
01:02:30.400 --> 01:02:32.079
<v Speaker 3>the back of your throat so it doesn't go down

1257
01:02:32.119 --> 01:02:35.320
<v Speaker 3>your throat. Interesting, and but it likes and she does

1258
01:02:35.400 --> 01:02:38.880
<v Speaker 3>both nostrils, so it's a whole thing. But after that happens,

1259
01:02:38.960 --> 01:02:42.440
<v Speaker 3>you immediately feel well. I think everybody's experience is different,

1260
01:02:42.519 --> 01:02:45.960
<v Speaker 3>so I won't speak on everybody's behalf, but like from

1261
01:02:46.039 --> 01:02:49.480
<v Speaker 3>my experience, like you just feel this whoosh of like

1262
01:02:50.159 --> 01:02:52.559
<v Speaker 3>energy and like all of a sudden, you're just very

1263
01:02:52.639 --> 01:02:56.079
<v Speaker 3>heart centered. And so I literally after she did that,

1264
01:02:56.239 --> 01:03:01.079
<v Speaker 3>I was fucking bawling. Yeah, like just bawling, and I'm like,

1265
01:03:01.239 --> 01:03:04.440
<v Speaker 3>oh my god, oh my god, like I'm crying. It

1266
01:03:04.559 --> 01:03:06.400
<v Speaker 3>is kind of like a purge because I never really

1267
01:03:06.480 --> 01:03:09.400
<v Speaker 3>even like like I almost felt sick to my stomach,

1268
01:03:09.480 --> 01:03:12.280
<v Speaker 3>like I wanted to throw up. But it's because like

1269
01:03:12.400 --> 01:03:14.400
<v Speaker 3>there was just so much emotion coming up for me,

1270
01:03:15.119 --> 01:03:17.880
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I was like, I'm so sorry,

1271
01:03:18.079 --> 01:03:20.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm so sorry, Like I just I just kept saying

1272
01:03:21.000 --> 01:03:23.719
<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, and I kept saying like I love you

1273
01:03:24.519 --> 01:03:28.559
<v Speaker 3>and AnyWho. So the experience I got like kind of

1274
01:03:28.639 --> 01:03:30.960
<v Speaker 3>a message because it's kind of like you go into

1275
01:03:31.079 --> 01:03:33.599
<v Speaker 3>it with an intention and you get a message out

1276
01:03:33.599 --> 01:03:35.599
<v Speaker 3>of it. And so the message that I got from

1277
01:03:35.679 --> 01:03:40.039
<v Speaker 3>it is like, honestly, like this guy was a reflection

1278
01:03:40.239 --> 01:03:43.400
<v Speaker 3>of you, Ellie, and I'm like wait what, I'm like,

1279
01:03:43.480 --> 01:03:46.920
<v Speaker 3>oh that, But it was like he was meant to

1280
01:03:47.119 --> 01:03:52.239
<v Speaker 3>show you the parts that you yourself are and you

1281
01:03:52.360 --> 01:03:55.000
<v Speaker 3>don't see, yeah, and that you still have to love

1282
01:03:55.480 --> 01:03:57.639
<v Speaker 3>through it all, if that makes any sense. So I'm like,

1283
01:03:58.199 --> 01:04:00.880
<v Speaker 3>oh my gosh, he was me and I was him,

1284
01:04:01.480 --> 01:04:04.440
<v Speaker 3>and I had to experience him. Therefore, I had to

1285
01:04:04.519 --> 01:04:09.639
<v Speaker 3>experience myself in like another setting to help me open

1286
01:04:09.760 --> 01:04:12.760
<v Speaker 3>up more because I think we've joked about this to

1287
01:04:12.920 --> 01:04:15.559
<v Speaker 3>him like kind of like emotionally unavailable.

1288
01:04:15.239 --> 01:04:15.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know.

1289
01:04:16.079 --> 01:04:20.440
<v Speaker 3>And so this has made me become like one step

1290
01:04:20.519 --> 01:04:23.760
<v Speaker 3>closer to being more emotionally available. I wouldn't say I'm

1291
01:04:23.840 --> 01:04:26.480
<v Speaker 3>like fully there, but like it has been you can

1292
01:04:26.920 --> 01:04:33.320
<v Speaker 3>and have those emotions absolutely, yes, yes. And so again

1293
01:04:33.440 --> 01:04:37.719
<v Speaker 3>I was like completely devastated before I had Hoppy, and like, honestly,

1294
01:04:37.760 --> 01:04:40.039
<v Speaker 3>if I hadn't had Hoppy, I probably would not have

1295
01:04:40.880 --> 01:04:43.239
<v Speaker 3>would not open up to you guys about this like

1296
01:04:43.320 --> 01:04:45.559
<v Speaker 3>at all, because it would be still so raw for me,

1297
01:04:45.719 --> 01:04:48.079
<v Speaker 3>and like I would still be so emotional about it,

1298
01:04:48.079 --> 01:04:50.880
<v Speaker 3>if that makes sense. But like Hope pulled me into

1299
01:04:50.920 --> 01:04:53.519
<v Speaker 3>a place to say, like, hey, like I know this

1300
01:04:53.800 --> 01:04:56.159
<v Speaker 3>sucks that you had to go through this, but just

1301
01:04:56.400 --> 01:04:58.960
<v Speaker 3>know that you needed to go through this. This was

1302
01:04:59.000 --> 01:05:03.159
<v Speaker 3>a life lesson for to show you who you can

1303
01:05:03.320 --> 01:05:05.920
<v Speaker 3>be when you open up your heart and know that

1304
01:05:06.039 --> 01:05:09.159
<v Speaker 3>you're like a step closer to like finding who you

1305
01:05:09.320 --> 01:05:12.960
<v Speaker 3>really need to be with, you know. And so it

1306
01:05:13.079 --> 01:05:16.239
<v Speaker 3>was crazy because like even while I was in Hot Bay,

1307
01:05:16.440 --> 01:05:19.159
<v Speaker 3>like in that we call it medicine, right or in

1308
01:05:19.360 --> 01:05:22.800
<v Speaker 3>just like that ceremony practice, I was like praying and

1309
01:05:23.000 --> 01:05:26.960
<v Speaker 3>like just feeling sorry for other people. So like I

1310
01:05:27.119 --> 01:05:30.039
<v Speaker 3>was feeling sorry for him, and like just the conversations

1311
01:05:30.079 --> 01:05:32.760
<v Speaker 3>I had with my girlfriends over the weekend, like everybody struggling,

1312
01:05:32.880 --> 01:05:35.639
<v Speaker 3>so I wanted to pray for them. And the medicine

1313
01:05:35.719 --> 01:05:38.880
<v Speaker 3>was like, hey, this is for you, Yeah, this is

1314
01:05:38.960 --> 01:05:41.559
<v Speaker 3>for you. I need you to stop thinking about other

1315
01:05:41.599 --> 01:05:44.400
<v Speaker 3>people right now, and I need you to cry for yourself,

1316
01:05:45.320 --> 01:05:47.760
<v Speaker 3>like because I feel like sometimes I overly do it

1317
01:05:47.840 --> 01:05:50.119
<v Speaker 3>with other people and I don't take care of myself.

1318
01:05:51.039 --> 01:05:53.840
<v Speaker 3>And so I was just like okay, okay, So I

1319
01:05:54.000 --> 01:05:56.239
<v Speaker 3>like was like, okay, let me cry for little me,

1320
01:05:56.639 --> 01:05:58.840
<v Speaker 3>you know. So then Mike and she's such a good

1321
01:05:58.880 --> 01:06:03.800
<v Speaker 3>facilitator and she like came over and she like saged

1322
01:06:04.360 --> 01:06:07.639
<v Speaker 3>and like like put her hand like on my head

1323
01:06:07.800 --> 01:06:09.880
<v Speaker 3>and like just kind of massaged my head and she

1324
01:06:10.039 --> 01:06:12.199
<v Speaker 3>was like she's like cry for a little Ellie, like

1325
01:06:12.280 --> 01:06:14.840
<v Speaker 3>give her love, like you're in her child. Like it

1326
01:06:14.960 --> 01:06:19.719
<v Speaker 3>was such an intentional, like beautiful, like just ceremony we

1327
01:06:19.840 --> 01:06:22.280
<v Speaker 3>had there. She was playing the drums at one point,

1328
01:06:22.480 --> 01:06:25.039
<v Speaker 3>Like it was just so good and so intentional and

1329
01:06:25.239 --> 01:06:28.320
<v Speaker 3>like all I'm saying is you guys, if you guys

1330
01:06:28.400 --> 01:06:31.199
<v Speaker 3>have not had hopay, what are you doing?

1331
01:06:32.280 --> 01:06:32.880
<v Speaker 2>Get over there.

1332
01:06:33.400 --> 01:06:35.920
<v Speaker 3>But also if you're in in the area, like if

1333
01:06:35.960 --> 01:06:39.320
<v Speaker 3>you're in the Ogden area or wherever northern Utah, like,

1334
01:06:39.599 --> 01:06:44.000
<v Speaker 3>legit hit me up, because honestly, that's Miken's passionate. Like

1335
01:06:44.519 --> 01:06:46.920
<v Speaker 3>I think, honestly that's her life calling, to be honest,

1336
01:06:47.000 --> 01:06:50.360
<v Speaker 3>but she does that, and I'm I know she would

1337
01:06:50.400 --> 01:06:52.599
<v Speaker 3>just love it if somebody was like, hey, blah blah blah, we.

1338
01:06:52.639 --> 01:06:54.840
<v Speaker 2>Should see if she'd spons like not sponsored, but like

1339
01:06:55.239 --> 01:06:58.920
<v Speaker 2>host a cute little wine and wine. Yeah, treat yeah,

1340
01:06:58.960 --> 01:07:01.840
<v Speaker 2>I treat like a day many of our followers want

1341
01:07:01.880 --> 01:07:03.760
<v Speaker 2>to come with you have a cute little ceremony?

1342
01:07:03.920 --> 01:07:07.639
<v Speaker 3>No, totally, totally. We should first do one and then

1343
01:07:07.840 --> 01:07:12.039
<v Speaker 3>open it up or whatever. But it is so so good,

1344
01:07:12.199 --> 01:07:14.440
<v Speaker 3>Like you guys, what I'm literally.

1345
01:07:14.199 --> 01:07:16.320
<v Speaker 2>Saying so healing, and I feel like everybody needs that.

1346
01:07:16.599 --> 01:07:20.679
<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, like a thousand percent. Like I said, I

1347
01:07:20.840 --> 01:07:23.920
<v Speaker 3>would not be sharing the story like this whole guy

1348
01:07:24.159 --> 01:07:27.480
<v Speaker 3>experience story if I did not have hot Bay earlier

1349
01:07:27.559 --> 01:07:31.719
<v Speaker 3>this week, because my heart would still be completely shattered devase.

1350
01:07:31.880 --> 01:07:33.719
<v Speaker 3>I don't think I would even be able to like

1351
01:07:33.920 --> 01:07:36.679
<v Speaker 3>talk through it because I'd get too emotional, Like I

1352
01:07:36.800 --> 01:07:39.000
<v Speaker 3>was getting emotional with my friends just talking about it

1353
01:07:39.079 --> 01:07:43.440
<v Speaker 3>before that, and so anyhow, it was just the medicine

1354
01:07:43.480 --> 01:07:45.880
<v Speaker 3>speaks to you, and it kind of just tells you,

1355
01:07:46.280 --> 01:07:50.840
<v Speaker 3>like like if you ask questions, it'll just answer in

1356
01:07:50.920 --> 01:07:54.400
<v Speaker 3>that way and and you just know ultimately, like it's

1357
01:07:54.480 --> 01:07:57.920
<v Speaker 3>all love and it's all part of this life experience.

1358
01:07:58.440 --> 01:08:00.360
<v Speaker 3>And I feel like now I'm.

1359
01:08:00.199 --> 01:08:00.760
<v Speaker 2>At that place.

1360
01:08:00.880 --> 01:08:03.639
<v Speaker 3>I know, maybe too soon, but I'm so grateful to

1361
01:08:03.719 --> 01:08:06.440
<v Speaker 3>have had that experience, to have had that experience of

1362
01:08:06.559 --> 01:08:09.360
<v Speaker 3>like feeling all those feelings, going to the depths of

1363
01:08:09.440 --> 01:08:15.039
<v Speaker 3>the ocean and experiencing new sites, sounds, conversations, and then

1364
01:08:15.400 --> 01:08:18.680
<v Speaker 3>that being yanked for me was so hard. But knowing

1365
01:08:18.800 --> 01:08:21.159
<v Speaker 3>that it's out there, that it's still there and I

1366
01:08:21.239 --> 01:08:23.880
<v Speaker 3>can still tap into the depths of the ocean, it's

1367
01:08:23.960 --> 01:08:26.399
<v Speaker 3>just not going to look the same and that's okay, okay,

1368
01:08:26.560 --> 01:08:30.479
<v Speaker 3>and that's okay. So anyway, I'm like, ah, I know,

1369
01:08:30.680 --> 01:08:33.800
<v Speaker 3>I just rambled about hope, but it's true, and like

1370
01:08:33.960 --> 01:08:34.800
<v Speaker 3>it's so cool though.

1371
01:08:35.079 --> 01:08:37.600
<v Speaker 2>I find that stuff so interesting and I'm so curious

1372
01:08:37.600 --> 01:08:38.760
<v Speaker 2>about it. Oh my gosh.

1373
01:08:38.960 --> 01:08:42.479
<v Speaker 3>No, yeah, we can, like we should, Yeah, let's too hoppy,

1374
01:08:42.600 --> 01:08:45.560
<v Speaker 3>and then we can talk, we can have an episode

1375
01:08:45.600 --> 01:08:49.319
<v Speaker 3>about our experiences. Because like just a quick little like

1376
01:08:49.439 --> 01:08:51.720
<v Speaker 3>side note to Hoppy's. I remember once I did hop a.

1377
01:08:53.079 --> 01:08:55.039
<v Speaker 3>I think it was like earlier this year, one time

1378
01:08:55.079 --> 01:08:57.199
<v Speaker 3>with Mike and for sure, and I was going through

1379
01:08:57.239 --> 01:08:59.600
<v Speaker 3>a really hard time and I forgot why I was

1380
01:08:59.640 --> 01:09:03.000
<v Speaker 3>going through time. But anyhow, I just felt alone. I

1381
01:09:03.039 --> 01:09:06.880
<v Speaker 3>felt really alone in life in general, and so she

1382
01:09:07.079 --> 01:09:09.159
<v Speaker 3>gave me Hoppy. And then the first thing I thought of,

1383
01:09:09.199 --> 01:09:12.199
<v Speaker 3>because I everybody can get intentional in their own way,

1384
01:09:12.239 --> 01:09:14.279
<v Speaker 3>I get intentional with God because I still have that

1385
01:09:14.399 --> 01:09:16.720
<v Speaker 3>belief in God, and so I'm like, God, I just

1386
01:09:16.800 --> 01:09:19.560
<v Speaker 3>feel so alone. I feel so alone. And right as

1387
01:09:19.640 --> 01:09:21.800
<v Speaker 3>I said that, it was the weirdest thing. My eyes

1388
01:09:21.840 --> 01:09:26.039
<v Speaker 3>were closed and I felt this like warm energy circle

1389
01:09:26.720 --> 01:09:29.199
<v Speaker 3>surrounding me, and it was almost like an energy hug

1390
01:09:29.319 --> 01:09:31.720
<v Speaker 3>like like and I just felt and I knew that,

1391
01:09:31.920 --> 01:09:34.439
<v Speaker 3>like my you weren't alone. I was not alone, like

1392
01:09:34.560 --> 01:09:38.880
<v Speaker 3>there are It's just like a spiritual like lineage ancestors,

1393
01:09:38.960 --> 01:09:41.239
<v Speaker 3>whatever you want to call it, spiritual team was just

1394
01:09:41.319 --> 01:09:42.880
<v Speaker 3>there and they were like, hey, we love you and

1395
01:09:42.960 --> 01:09:46.880
<v Speaker 3>we're here. You might not see us physically. Yeah, it

1396
01:09:47.039 --> 01:09:52.159
<v Speaker 3>was so so powerful. So anyhow, yeah, that was my month,

1397
01:09:52.319 --> 01:09:55.520
<v Speaker 3>you guys, was just like crazy, just the like the

1398
01:09:55.680 --> 01:10:00.239
<v Speaker 3>highest of the highest, an emotional rollercoaster. Yes, yes, having

1399
01:10:00.399 --> 01:10:04.079
<v Speaker 3>so much fun with friends, traveling to like the depths

1400
01:10:04.319 --> 01:10:04.560
<v Speaker 3>of the.

1401
01:10:04.680 --> 01:10:11.560
<v Speaker 2>Lowest ocean of the ocean trench girl. Yeah, oh my gosh.

1402
01:10:11.640 --> 01:10:14.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah it was it was rough, but it was definitely needed.

1403
01:10:14.520 --> 01:10:18.640
<v Speaker 3>And I'll I'll just I'll just take it from here,

1404
01:10:18.920 --> 01:10:20.560
<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean. I'll just take it from

1405
01:10:20.600 --> 01:10:24.159
<v Speaker 3>here and and go from there. So anyhow, all that

1406
01:10:24.319 --> 01:10:27.760
<v Speaker 3>to say though, too, is I was so fully in

1407
01:10:28.039 --> 01:10:31.720
<v Speaker 3>and so fully invested to this that I actually deleted

1408
01:10:31.840 --> 01:10:34.760
<v Speaker 3>my dating apps. And I've never done that, you guys

1409
01:10:34.920 --> 01:10:35.680
<v Speaker 3>like it's crazy.

1410
01:10:35.840 --> 01:10:36.800
<v Speaker 2>I've always just.

1411
01:10:36.920 --> 01:10:39.840
<v Speaker 3>Like snoozed them and then uninstalled so that I can

1412
01:10:39.880 --> 01:10:40.680
<v Speaker 3>easily get back in.

1413
01:10:40.960 --> 01:10:43.319
<v Speaker 2>That with Jayden. Like you said, You've never You've always

1414
01:10:43.319 --> 01:10:43.840
<v Speaker 2>just pausitive.

1415
01:10:44.319 --> 01:10:46.119
<v Speaker 3>And remember I was like, wait, should I delete it?

1416
01:10:46.159 --> 01:10:49.720
<v Speaker 3>And they're like hey, and I'm like no, Yeah. Anyhow,

1417
01:10:49.960 --> 01:10:54.760
<v Speaker 3>I deleted my fucking apps for this guy because I

1418
01:10:54.880 --> 01:10:56.680
<v Speaker 3>thought it was just we're done.

1419
01:10:56.760 --> 01:10:59.920
<v Speaker 2>This is it? This is excited. I Yes, I I

1420
01:11:00.199 --> 01:11:02.319
<v Speaker 2>saw you when I was like on that high, you know,

1421
01:11:03.000 --> 01:11:05.039
<v Speaker 2>and any who.

1422
01:11:05.159 --> 01:11:08.640
<v Speaker 3>But I think honestly though too, that was also like

1423
01:11:08.880 --> 01:11:11.119
<v Speaker 3>life telling me like, hey, I need you to do this,

1424
01:11:11.680 --> 01:11:14.800
<v Speaker 3>and I need you to put pause on dating right now.

1425
01:11:15.000 --> 01:11:18.159
<v Speaker 3>So I mean next month, you guys probably won't like,

1426
01:11:18.239 --> 01:11:20.640
<v Speaker 3>I probably won't have a dating life update for you

1427
01:11:20.840 --> 01:11:24.920
<v Speaker 3>because fine, yeah, I probably need to fucking chill yes

1428
01:11:25.439 --> 01:11:27.800
<v Speaker 3>on that side of things, you know, and just kind

1429
01:11:27.840 --> 01:11:32.279
<v Speaker 3>of really hone into my energy and just focus on

1430
01:11:32.439 --> 01:11:37.920
<v Speaker 3>me girl. But any who, Yeah, I know that was

1431
01:11:38.079 --> 01:11:42.079
<v Speaker 3>kind of a little a law as far as but AnyWho,

1432
01:11:42.239 --> 01:11:42.439
<v Speaker 3>it was.

1433
01:11:42.560 --> 01:11:42.760
<v Speaker 2>It was.

1434
01:11:42.960 --> 01:11:46.520
<v Speaker 3>It was good and all the best ways and horrible

1435
01:11:46.640 --> 01:11:47.680
<v Speaker 3>and all the best ways.

1436
01:11:47.960 --> 01:11:50.439
<v Speaker 2>Yes, that was yeah.

1437
01:11:51.039 --> 01:11:55.199
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So AnyWho, anyhow, let's end it with saying we

1438
01:11:55.439 --> 01:11:56.399
<v Speaker 3>need to do hopping.

1439
01:11:56.640 --> 01:12:00.399
<v Speaker 2>Yes. When we don't, we'll report back, yes, and we'll just.

1440
01:12:00.479 --> 01:12:01.920
<v Speaker 3>We'll have a hoppy episode.

1441
01:12:02.399 --> 01:12:04.800
<v Speaker 2>Does this count like as a drug on a drug test?

1442
01:12:05.600 --> 01:12:07.479
<v Speaker 3>No? You know what's so funny is I actually thought

1443
01:12:07.479 --> 01:12:09.520
<v Speaker 3>about that this week too. I was like, wait, if

1444
01:12:09.560 --> 01:12:11.640
<v Speaker 3>it works listening, am I going to get in trouble? Yeah?

1445
01:12:11.680 --> 01:12:12.960
<v Speaker 2>No, you know, it's so funny.

1446
01:12:13.000 --> 01:12:14.920
<v Speaker 3>I thought the same thing. I'm like, wait, shit, is

1447
01:12:15.000 --> 01:12:16.960
<v Speaker 3>this like considered an illegal drug.

1448
01:12:17.279 --> 01:12:17.880
<v Speaker 2>But no, it's not.

1449
01:12:18.000 --> 01:12:21.720
<v Speaker 3>It's too bad it's and it's not for like, it's

1450
01:12:21.800 --> 01:12:24.720
<v Speaker 3>not for like, oh, not getting high. Yeah, yep, it's

1451
01:12:24.880 --> 01:12:28.720
<v Speaker 3>like honestly like a medicine to help you tap into

1452
01:12:28.920 --> 01:12:33.680
<v Speaker 3>like your spiritual side of life and just really you know.

1453
01:12:34.199 --> 01:12:38.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, so great, not illegal at all at all whatsoever.

1454
01:12:38.800 --> 01:12:41.760
<v Speaker 3>The government does not consider this illegal perfect, so we're

1455
01:12:41.920 --> 01:12:43.319
<v Speaker 3>we're good on that part for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>But you guys, thanks for like bearing with us as

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<v Speaker 2>we talk about probably our longest episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're like at an hour twelve wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeap. Hopefully you guys lasted. Yeah, we had a good time,

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<v Speaker 2>just gabin just catching up. Yes, we really needed this. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>thanks for listening. Thanks guys, We'll see you next week.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll see you next week. By bye. All right e bessies,

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<v Speaker 2>that's it for this episode of the Wine and Wine Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't leave us hanging, like, subscribe and follow or else

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<v Speaker 1>we'll drink all the wine without you, kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of, And hey, tell a friend they need be

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<v Speaker 2>besties too. Bye
