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<v Speaker 1>Minnesota. Goodbye, Let's get started. Kristen writes in and says,

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<v Speaker 1>I was listening to Monday's episode and laugh when Dave

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<v Speaker 1>spoke about doctor Harder, because my wife goes to a doctor,

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<v Speaker 1>and I believe it's a woman. Her name is doctor Harder,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I just, of course, because I'm, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a twelve year old boy with a sense of humor

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<v Speaker 1>of that kid, doctor Harder, Doctor Harder, Doctor Harder, and

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<v Speaker 1>it makes me laugh. So, Kristen says, I currently run

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<v Speaker 1>a surgery center in San Diego and one of my

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<v Speaker 1>urology surgeons is named doctor Dix. D I c k s.

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<v Speaker 1>I always wanted to ask if the name led to

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<v Speaker 1>them picking that surgical specialty or is it just a

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<v Speaker 1>coincidence doctor Dix. I mean, think about it. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>growing up with a name like Mike Dix, then somebody

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<v Speaker 1>would be like, you ought to become like a urologist or.

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<v Speaker 2>A porn star one or the other.

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh, I'm I'm glad, you know, because porn star's uh

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<v Speaker 1>number one. At some point you're going to be embarrassed

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<v Speaker 1>because your kid's going to be like, yeah, everybody knows

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<v Speaker 1>you're a porn star. And also one day you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get old and they'll be like, oh yeah, look at that.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't you meet a porn star? Jenny? True story? You

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<v Speaker 1>met a nineteen seventies porn star somewhere, Dave who told

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<v Speaker 1>me this story. I know Viking's game or a Twins

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<v Speaker 1>game or something. You met his seventies porn star.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I did, And now I don't remember what the

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<v Speaker 3>story is though, you just like unlocked a random memory.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know the story.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, that's okay, maybe it'll come to you sometime. Next

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<v Speaker 1>email is for Jenny. Jenny, I love an W. They

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<v Speaker 1>are crazy. Those boys you work with, they know I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason this came out because we did the fast

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<v Speaker 1>food brackets and Jenny wanted to put ann W in

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<v Speaker 1>there is one of the Tasty sixteen and we did

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<v Speaker 1>not include it because we couldn't include everybody, and Jenny

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<v Speaker 1>was a little bit bitter about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just feel like there were certain fast food restaurants,

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<v Speaker 3>like I've never ate out of Popeyes. I'm not I

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<v Speaker 3>know it's in the top two right now, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not a Chipotle person.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not a chipotlet.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like I would fuck with it. I would,

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm just saying, like, I don't choose to go

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<v Speaker 3>to Chipotle. If you put that up against ANW I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to ANW.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I kind of get that. If I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>the food coort, I get I like anw Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>here's a little behind the scenes thing. So I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>Colorado and I do the show via the Internet and

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<v Speaker 1>it works fine until it doesn't. Then it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>sound like this and it's very frustrating. So we tried

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<v Speaker 1>to reset it and the connection seems to work, but

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, it's kind of like slow Wi Fi.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know why it doesn't work very well.

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<v Speaker 1>I know radio shows all over the country that do

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<v Speaker 1>their show remotely. Sometimes they don't even come into the

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<v Speaker 1>radio station. They just do. I know a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>works in Las Vegas, good friend of mine. He does

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<v Speaker 1>his show from Seattle, like six months out of the year,

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<v Speaker 1>and they have no technical problems. They have no It

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<v Speaker 1>works seamlessly, And I don't know why our we have

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<v Speaker 1>trouble with ours? Do you think I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if it's Do you think it's because you're ugly

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<v Speaker 1>day or well, that's cruel, but you know it is

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<v Speaker 1>a possibility.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, I I want to pick up your voice.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand it. I don't get it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if we have antiquated equipment or or what. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. But let's move on to the next email.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Becky again. Now, remember she wrote a few

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<v Speaker 1>weeks ago about her sister who is dating another married man. Oh, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we said, we remember that. She said, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what to do. I don't know what to hand, how

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<v Speaker 1>to handle it. And I think I said, well, just

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<v Speaker 1>step back, pull yourself out of that relationship a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, I took your advice. For some weeks, I

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<v Speaker 1>stopped replying and communicating with her. Then I left her

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<v Speaker 1>a voicemail let her know my feelings towards the situation. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>our relationship is damn beyond repair. However, I'm glad others

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<v Speaker 1>could validate my feelings on the situation via group therapy.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, my entire family has met this man,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will soon meet him at my brother's wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure how I should act or treat him.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think? He is still not divorced and

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<v Speaker 1>it's living with his wife and child. It's truly going

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<v Speaker 1>to take everything in my soul to be the bigger

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<v Speaker 1>person and not make a comment or face at him.

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<v Speaker 1>Love you guys, do not make a scene, Do not

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<v Speaker 1>make a comment. Just it's when at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, it's not your problem, m hm. So don't

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<v Speaker 1>make it your problem. I know it sucks, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know it's very tempting to be you know that person,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's nothing wrong with feeling the way you do.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't make it any more of a problem

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<v Speaker 1>for you because right now it doesn't affect your life.

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<v Speaker 4>I would disagree though, because I can go ahead.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it can affect your life because you don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to be surrounded by shitty people you look at

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<v Speaker 3>like your inner circle of friend Those people are a

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<v Speaker 3>reflection of who you are. I wouldn't want that person

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<v Speaker 3>in my circle. So I do think it does affect

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<v Speaker 3>her life. I agree to not make a scene. She

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<v Speaker 3>shouldn't be like going out and calling out the situation

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<v Speaker 3>in front of people. But I also can see her

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<v Speaker 3>point of view of like, I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 3>around this person.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I totally get that, but I think that it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't really, I don't know. Don't make it more of

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<v Speaker 1>a problem for you than it needs to be. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>say that I knew that Bailey was dating a married man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, Bailey, you can do better than this.

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<v Speaker 1>But Bailey, my persuasion is not going to change Bailey

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<v Speaker 1>dating a married man. So why make it my problem?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I love Bailey for what she is, and

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<v Speaker 1>I might be disgusted and not feel the same way

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<v Speaker 1>about her, but I don't want to make it my problem.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I wonder if.

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<v Speaker 1>They're dating a married man, you're offully.

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<v Speaker 2>Quiet, not anymore. I wonder if he's separated from his

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<v Speaker 2>wife and they still live together and they're just not

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<v Speaker 2>divorced yet. I guess I don't know the I don't

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<v Speaker 2>remember the details of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't either. It sounds like it sounds like it's

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<v Speaker 1>just openly he's dating, and maybe he thinks everybody thinks that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he thinks nobody knows. So next one, we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about how when my daughter Allison was born, we

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<v Speaker 1>got a letter from Hannah who said, basically, that is

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what we did. So the email is is a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit detailed, but it's really interesting. So they changed

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<v Speaker 1>the baby's name from Pace, which was the baby's name

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<v Speaker 2>I cute Mac.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's got great names for the babies. She's got

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<v Speaker 1>four babies, Duke, Mac, Leona, and Minna as in Minnesota.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I like Leona. Leona's really pretty too.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it spelled am i nne am I n na?

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<v Speaker 1>So if you spell that m I n n e,

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<v Speaker 1>they'd say any.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's what I say.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so they're saying Minna, Hannah, thank you. And

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<v Speaker 1>she put adorable pictures of her kids on there too.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go with somebody who wrote this a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks ago, and we did not answer it. So

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get there. They're persistent, you guys. Jamie wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know Number one, Dave, I missed the banter between you

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<v Speaker 1>and Fallon. Would either of you ever do a show

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<v Speaker 1>together again or a podcast episode? It would be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Never say never, But I don't see it happening in

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<v Speaker 1>the future. This is the thing with Fallon. She grew

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<v Speaker 1>or twelve, she was just like an inexperienced, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>little growing, budding baby DJ and then on our show.

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<v Speaker 1>Our show has done this for many, many, many people,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm really proud of this when our show has

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<v Speaker 1>helped people develop and you know, everybody from Lena to

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<v Speaker 1>intern John to Chrisco to Angie Taylor have gone on

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<v Speaker 1>to become big deals. Fallon included. So she doesn't need

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<v Speaker 1>me anymore. So I don't know that that would ever

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<v Speaker 1>come about. But if she ever approached me and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to do this, or I ever said

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<v Speaker 1>to her, yeah, we might, but I don't see. She

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't need me anymore. It's kind of like your kid

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<v Speaker 4>A that make you sad?

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<v Speaker 1>That makes me sad? That doesn't make me sad at all. No,

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<v Speaker 1>Fallon's doing great on her own, so and it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>Next okay, next one. What is Zach Dillon's role on KATIEWB?

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<v Speaker 1>Now I sometimes hear him on the weekends, Jenny answer

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<v Speaker 3>So there is somebody who actually schedules our music. So

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<v Speaker 3>he is still the music director, so he's in charge

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<v Speaker 3>He is in charge of that. But then he also

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<v Speaker 3>does still do some on air shifts on the weekends,

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<v Speaker 1>Number three, How does the Night Girl Kayla record the show?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a recording or is it live? I know

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<v Speaker 1>you say it's syndicated. Can you explain what that means?

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for all the inside Baseball appreciate you all. From Jamie,

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<v Speaker 1>I can help, but I might need a little help

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<v Speaker 1>with this. So it's not syndicated. There's a difference between syndication,

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<v Speaker 1>which is where they take your show and they air

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<v Speaker 1>it as it is in another market live. That is syndication.

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<v Speaker 1>So for example, like Ryan Seacrest is not syndicated necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>because he's not live in the midday show. Elvis Duran,

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<v Speaker 1>on the other hand, is syndicated because his show is

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<v Speaker 1>live in New York City, where it originates, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>Denver and Chatta Nucci and all you know what, it's

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<v Speaker 1>syndicated show. Kayla's show is bill admirable because she's good

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<v Speaker 1>enough to be voice tracked in another market. Explain Jenny

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<v Speaker 1>really simply what voice tracking is and the difference between

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<v Speaker 3>If you hit play on something and you recorded yourself talking,

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<v Speaker 3>So she can basically pre record whenever she can to

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<v Speaker 3>katiewb Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, that's voice tracking, and it's still honorable to be

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<v Speaker 1>If they took little parts of our show and replayed

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<v Speaker 1>it in Des Moines or in Duluth. That's voice tracking,

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<v Speaker 1>so still cool. But yeah, no, Kayla's really good and

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<v Speaker 2>Dang Vant does a handful too, He does some.

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<v Speaker 1>like other markets. I don't know what markets. But otherwise,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah. Right. So yeah, radio changed a lot. It

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<v Speaker 1>another market. Oh okay, Bailey, I was listening to today's

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and I couldn't help but empathize with you when

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<v Speaker 1>too lost a best friend and the friendship ended in

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<v Speaker 1>because I was in a relationship and he didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>my new partner. We're married now, but it still hurt

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<v Speaker 1>because it was just there one day and then done.

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<v Speaker 1>The friend also did the same thing to another friend,

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<v Speaker 1>But from what I've been hearing about your life on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio, it sounds like it's more her loss than

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<v Speaker 1>it is your loss, and low key. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to do some online stalking or sleuthing, let me know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well. Thank you for reaching out. In general, it seems

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<v Speaker 2>like a lot of people have the same experience, which

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I've not heard about like my personal

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<v Speaker 2>because I know we definitely get on kind of the

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<v Speaker 2>path of saying, hey, if you have a bad friend,

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<v Speaker 2>drop them, and like power to you, which like I

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<v Speaker 2>totally get, like power to you, drop your friends if

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<v Speaker 2>they're being toxic to you. But I do think in general,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if since it's happened to me, I would

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<v Speaker 2>like an explanation of why you're dropping that, because I

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<v Speaker 2>would feel better if I had an explanation. Because she

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<v Speaker 2>she also blocked my mom, I assume she blocked my sister,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm still friends with her mom and her sister,

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<v Speaker 2>so I wonder if she cut out like a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people like her family, and I mean, since we

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<v Speaker 2>were friends for so long, she was my family, so like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know, And it's really nice when people say, like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>she's missing out because you seem so fun and like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure, but she was my whole world. So like I,

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<v Speaker 2>it's really hard for me. And she's not necessarily like

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<v Speaker 2>a great person for doing this to me, and I

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<v Speaker 2>recognize that, and she's just in general kind of sand papery,

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<v Speaker 2>but that's her personality and I learned how to deal

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<v Speaker 2>with it over twenty years and she was still everything

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<v Speaker 2>to me. So yeah, it's a bummer and I will

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<v Speaker 2>probably be in the dark for the rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 2>I do have some people who are still friends with her,

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<v Speaker 2>some mutuals, and I told them to just keep tabs

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<v Speaker 2>on her because I do want to know when she

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<v Speaker 2>gets married or if anything big happens in her life.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to keep tabs on her.

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<v Speaker 1>Get take care Dad, Yeah, yeah, I get that. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>that sucks. When you said you think about her every

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<v Speaker 1>day multiple times, like that really hit home for me

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<v Speaker 1>because I think we all have somebody like that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that we think about a lot. Jenny. Yeah, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for being the glue that holds this ridiculously funny show together,

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<v Speaker 1>because without you it would probably wouldn't be as good.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though Dave always says the show will go on

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what. I'm young enough. I'll still be listening

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<v Speaker 1>when Dave eventually tells us he's leaving for greener pastures,

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<v Speaker 1>even if it's another thirty years from now. So I

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<v Speaker 1>will look forward to Jenny in the Morning Zoo making

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<v Speaker 1>its second debut on the radio.

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<v Speaker 2>God, imagine Dave, like super Old still on the radio.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like one hundred and seven.

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<v Speaker 4>It's got a life.

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<v Speaker 3>He wants to live Still, You've got a whole other

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<v Speaker 3>life ahead of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I think that there's you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing this show for so long and it's

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<v Speaker 1>been such a wonderful experience and such a blessing. But

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, does any one job deserve more

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<v Speaker 1>than thirty two thirty three years of your life? You

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<v Speaker 1>know there's a defention I want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, are you going to work in like a fishery?

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<v Speaker 2>You think after this, like your sun Set job?

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<v Speaker 1>The term is hatchery, your hatchery. Hatchery.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was fish fishery. I knew what she

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<v Speaker 1>Fishery. It's a hatchery.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you could be a fan.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we're I'm going to be wearing a big rubber

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<v Speaker 1>pants and getting in the pool with the salmon and

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<v Speaker 1>feeding the salmon.

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<v Speaker 2>And having them mate with one another, and you have

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<v Speaker 2>to force it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're making me horny.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're going to take part of farm raised salmon?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, wow? You disgusting?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that disgusted to watch?

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<v Speaker 3>I watch Fresh because you're putting them in environments that

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<v Speaker 3>they didn't choose to be in, making them hats.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, they also didn't choose to die, so whenever you

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<v Speaker 1>eat something, you didn't choose to die, so.

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<v Speaker 3>You're at least they got to live their life in

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<v Speaker 3>the wild. I only eat wild salmon.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know wild catching the salmon sheets, I use

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<v Speaker 2>big old pause a bear.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, the last paragraph of this very wonderful email, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you all for making the show what it is. If

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't listen to the show, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>I would do with myself. Sorry for the long read,

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<v Speaker 1>but I appreciate the content nonetheless, and that comes from

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<v Speaker 1>Chris in Miami, So thank you, Chris. I really appreciate that,

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you very much. Next email, Hey guys, it's

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<v Speaker 1>from Cessna. He says, it's been forever since I've emailed,

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<v Speaker 1>but don't worry I still listen to every show and

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<v Speaker 1>every Minnesota Goodbye. I want to talk about an app

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<v Speaker 1>that I've been super into lately. I want you guys

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<v Speaker 1>to check out. It's called Too Good to Go, Too

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<v Speaker 1>Too Good to Go. This app helps reduce food waste

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<v Speaker 1>by allowing businesses to post a mystery grab bag of

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<v Speaker 1>day old goodies, a bunch of gas stations like Circle K,

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<v Speaker 1>but tons of other businesses pop up all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>The selection constantly changes, can be anything from restaurants, bakeries,

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<v Speaker 1>butcher's coffee ops, candy stores, anything you can think of

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<v Speaker 1>as a possibility being on the app. I live in Nashville,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll have a different assortment of options, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>even a mushroom store in my area. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>raise awareness for this app and recommend to everyone, no

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<v Speaker 1>matter where you live, to check it out. If your

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<v Speaker 1>area doesn't have a lot, when you download, give up,

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<v Speaker 1>keep checking a couple of times a week and see

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<v Speaker 1>what shows up. I've included some screenshots of my Nashville options,

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<v Speaker 1>so here's one. I don't know exactly how the app works,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can come by and pick up day old

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<v Speaker 1>vegetables or mushrooms or food or baked goods for a

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<v Speaker 1>deep discount, a deep discount, not free, but a deep discount.

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<v Speaker 1>For here's one, for example, a place called Molly's Cupcakes.

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<v Speaker 1>You could pick up but looks like a dozen cupcakes

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<v Speaker 1>for eighteen dollars, but they've reduced the price to a

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<v Speaker 1>five ninety nine. Now here's one Meatville, which sounds interesting me,

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<v Speaker 1>Meatville population me. You can pick this pack of meat

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<v Speaker 1>up for five ninety nine. Really interesting. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything more about it than you just heard right now,

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<v Speaker 1>but I will repeat the name of the app again

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<v Speaker 1>and you might want to check this out. Too Good

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<v Speaker 1>to Go, Too Good to Go.

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<v Speaker 4>I used to have it. I like it app downloaded.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that it was available in the Twin

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<v Speaker 3>Cities yet, so because I had heard about it honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>probably like a couple of years ago now. But now

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<v Speaker 3>it looks like it does work in the Twin Cities

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<v Speaker 3>because I just re downloaded it and it looks like

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<v Speaker 3>there's a So you do have to pay for the food.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not just free, yeah, it just makes sense discounted, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So like.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder you have to claim it? Like if Jenny

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<v Speaker 1>and I both go oh I want those muffins. Do

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<v Speaker 1>I have to claim it and then run over there,

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<v Speaker 1>because I can't. You know, you can't just say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's there and then forty minutes later go by and

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<v Speaker 1>expect it to be there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So no, you can reserve it. So right now,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a surprise to she beg from sushi train which

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<v Speaker 3>I've been to the one. It is the one in Outtown.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's nine ninety nine. It's had originally thirty dollars

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<v Speaker 3>on it, but nine ninety nine for a surprise sushi bag.

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<v Speaker 3>And you can hit reserve. It looks like there's two left,

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<v Speaker 3>it says, So it looks like you can hit reserve

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<v Speaker 3>and then you would be able to go get it.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes sense. Hey, check it out. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything more about it than what you just heard, but

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<v Speaker 1>I love the variety of stuff that we get on

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<v Speaker 1>the Minnesota Goodbye. I think this is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>cool things about this podcast. Last email, longtime listener, first

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<v Speaker 1>time writer. I feel the need to share with someone.

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<v Speaker 1>A few weeks ago, you guys did a segment about

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<v Speaker 1>what to say to a friend who's going through a miscarriage.

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<v Speaker 1>At that point, I was about seven weeks pregnant with

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<v Speaker 1>for the first time ever a few days prior. Listening

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<v Speaker 1>to that segment about miscarriage, I got this horrible feeling

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<v Speaker 1>and I started hyperventilating and crying at the thought. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I had to turn the radio off because

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't compose myself. Oh, don't apologize. I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 1>I've obviously heard miscarriage talk before, but it really hurt

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<v Speaker 1>close to home at that point. Fast forward to this

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<v Speaker 1>past Monday, and I learned we lost our baby. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. Weirdly enough, they discovered that the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>The day the baby's heart stopped beating was the day

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<v Speaker 1>that you did that segment about helping a friend through

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<v Speaker 1>a miscarriage. I don't know if it was a subconscious

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<v Speaker 1>feeling on my part, assigned from the universe, or what,

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<v Speaker 1>but I will never forget that moment. I am currently

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<v Speaker 1>sitting here devastating and angry that my husband and I

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<v Speaker 1>are going through this, but I'm trying to remind myself

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<v Speaker 1>there is nothing I could do. My friends and family

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<v Speaker 1>have all been very supportive, and I'm currently torn between

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<v Speaker 1>wanting people to reach out and not wanting to talk,

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<v Speaker 1>but also wanting to scream and cry and rant to

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<v Speaker 1>the world. Grief is overwhelming and i feel permanently changed,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm terrified this could happen again to me in

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<v Speaker 1>the future. But I'm trying to take it one day

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<v Speaker 1>at a time. I love your show. It's been comforting

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to you these past few months to have

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<v Speaker 1>a sense of normalcy. If you have any advice to

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<v Speaker 1>get through grief, I'm all ears. I'm going to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you my story that doesn't even compare to your story

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<v Speaker 1>of losing your baby, but I will tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>when I lost Josie last weekend, what I really appreciated

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<v Speaker 1>was people reaching out, not once, but again and again.

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<v Speaker 1>Because my friends would reach out, and I love my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>They would reach out and go, oh, my gosh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry about Josie. How are you doing? And that

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<v Speaker 1>was wonderful and very comforting. But when a friend would

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<v Speaker 1>reach out again later in the weekend, or later in

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<v Speaker 1>the day or three days later and say, hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>checking up on you again, are you doing Okay, that

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<v Speaker 1>really was comforting, like consistent, consist And so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have any advice for you, but I would say, if

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<v Speaker 1>you know somebody who has suffered a loss, don't reach

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<v Speaker 1>out just once, reach out again and again. Though.

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<v Speaker 2>That's something that I definitely really care ask for too.

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<v Speaker 2>So if somebody does say something to you, like what

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<v Speaker 2>can I do for you, like asking for consistent check

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<v Speaker 2>in checking in? Why is yeah? Because I don't know either.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know how to. I'm really good at compartmentalizing,

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<v Speaker 2>so like I deal with grief in a way where

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<v Speaker 2>I just say, okay, well I'm going to go do

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<v Speaker 2>something else. But that's not something that everybody can do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not always the best thing. Yeah, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever works for you, and we all have our different ways.

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<v Speaker 1>But again, I'm so sorry, and you know, maybe remind

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<v Speaker 1>your friends, hey, you know what, check on me again

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<v Speaker 1>and again because that really does help. Yeah, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's really going to do it. For the Minnesota goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a couple that we didn't get to. But I

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<v Speaker 1>still need more, always looking for more. And we love variety,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what we don't want just skittles. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>want just skittles. We want m and ms. We want

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<v Speaker 1>an almond Joy, we want a milky Way. We want

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<v Speaker 1>a heath bar once in a while. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>got a weirdo topic that you want to bring up,

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<v Speaker 1>send us that heath bar. Oh my gosh, analogies.

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<v Speaker 4>Heath bars are only good in blizzard. Stop with the

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<v Speaker 4>heath bars.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't agree with that ideal. That's that's the beauty

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<v Speaker 1>of it.

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<v Speaker 4>He can get stuck to your teeth.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the beauty of it because you enjoy it for

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<v Speaker 1>a good fifteen minutes. You're too dull, You're so dum okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm quirky. Bailey's quirky is rubbing off on me, and

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta make it stop, all right?

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<v Speaker 3>That is it.

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<v Speaker 1>Send us whatever is on your mind the heath bar

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<v Speaker 1>of the day. We'll look for that tomorrow morning. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>see you tomorrow on the Minnesota Goodbye. Send it to

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Show at KDIWB dot com.
