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Speaker 1: Madeh decision. Oh peace, sunny, sad on idasione nice so

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nat Hey, what's up everybody? What's hey? How are you?

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I'm good? How are you? I'm doing well? Thank you?

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How are you? Let's say how to our people super fast,

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let's let's let's get her done. Aaron is a dirty

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Sanchez and Sarah Stefano she's our Paisano. Stephanie Stinker Rinker says,

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give some money to plan parenthood. Bitches. That's right, thank you,

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so me you yeah, come on, we're in a situation here,

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yees situation Leslie with the gill, with the coffee, but

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me too, I get I feel you girl. And guess

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what I found out that Leslie is not a costing people.

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She's a coast. She's a coasting. She's a coasting. Uh huh,

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she's coasting. She is Yep, she's just coasting. Good. Yeah,

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that's good. He she can hang out with Katie's rolling

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on e one's rolling one's coasting. Yep. Elizabeth Williamson, she's

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got so many kids, it's adorable. Family photos. Hard to

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squeeze everybody, And though Athena Ginshirt is dancing up a

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storm and Polly is making pancakes and putting hers yrup

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on it. Valerie hits it out of the park and

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Katerina seriously check your molar. We got a talk girl,

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Gabby and Missy Oh I saw him at I saw

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him by the Jersey shore. Oh. I'm one of those,

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you know, checking for like looking for quarters and dimes

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in the sand, one of those peppepepe. Yeah, that's what

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they're doing. Shone Vaje pig back a little bit. Is

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so cute. I love her. Kelly Brandt, she's she's related

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to you, but don't worry about it. Jacob is so

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growley and we I forgot to shout him out last week.

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Did double shout out to you, Jacob, you are so loved.

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I'm sorry. J Errish, no wonder why you're growley. Fucking Stephanie,

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I know I'll get her in line for you. Rita's

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rocking everybody's kids and her Bosanette and uh Nikki call

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your girl? And Aaron who is? And Katie's rolling on

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e and Kelly glad he done, Ashley so chic, and

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Dick is frolicking Jennifer get up, Sandra, it's not easy

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being green. And Christa gets a strap get the strapping girl.

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So I just got back from Jersey. Yeah. Joy, Yeah,

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my shirt. I got the shirt I got at the

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shore store. What does it say? Oh? Everybody, everyone loves

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an Italian girl. I love it. Yeah, I was with

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my people. Well so tell us what. Okay, so you

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you you got rid of you got your money back

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for that other from the other air So how did

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you like the one that you got? So we were

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so we were staying at this hotel. It was in

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Long Branch, Okay, and our family was like an hour

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away down the shore because there's not a lot of

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hotels and you know, I mean there's Airbnb. But after

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that we were like, Wendy and I are good with hotels, Like, well,

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let's just you know, we're not big Airbnb, you know.

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So yeah, it was like an hour away, but she

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we were. We were there just for us to hang out,

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you know. I of course, we spent like a day

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or two with the family because they were all staying

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in one place an hour away. This is Wendy's like

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in laws, extended family, Okay. So they were bringing their

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new her her son, Wendy's grandson to meet the family.

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The extended family, the in laws. So where was Wendy's son.

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They were Anthony, They were Nicholas, Nicholas. Yeah, they were

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down an hour away at a house that they that

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family rented. Okay, so they were closer to the other

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Peak families. So you and Wendy were the only ones

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who were an hour away. Yes, So, but Wendy drove

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from Chicago with Nicholas and the and her his wife

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and the baby. So he drove and then I flew

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met them. Wendy came to my hotel. So anyway, I

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don't know if you've heard, but Hurricane Debbie was happening

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last week. So yes, So on the way out, I

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was on the plane and the plane was taxing, and

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right as it was leaving the gate, the announcement came

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on that all of Newark because I was flying into

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Newark and then all New York City airports were all

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being grounded because of the hurricane. Oh no, yeah, so

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we sat on the plane for three hours before leaving,

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before leaving, so then anyway, so then we get then

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we then we I was supposed to land at like

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eight thirty, nine thirty. We got in at two am,

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New York time, and Wendy was still at the family house,

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so she because I was getting in so late and

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my plane was delayed, she was just like, I'm just

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going to sleep here and I'll meet you at in

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the morning at the hotel. So I was taking so

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once I got to Newark, I got to get into

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an uber, which drove another hour. So I got into

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Newark at like two thirty. By the time I got

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my bag it was like two forty five. Got in

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the uber around three, and then was by myself for

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an hour drive, which is fine, but like, I don't

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know where the hell I am everything. It's pitchboy, Like,

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you know, I know where I'm going, I know the

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direction I'm going in. I've never been a Jersey you know,

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so and this hotel there's not a straight shot. It's

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not off the freeway. So it's like he's going left,

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he's going right, He's going all like through residential areas

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and I'm like, is this And you don't even have

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any way to be like, is this guy is everything? Well,

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I'm looking on my ways app and I'm seeing he

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is going the right way, but I'm like, what is

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what the all these you know, there's just no there's

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no straight shot, there's no get off the freeway and

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you're there, you know kind of thing. It's like you're

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going through residential anyway. Get into the hotel at four. Yeah,

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went to bed at like five, and then Wendy Nicholas

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drove Wendy to the hotel the next morning and then

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we got together and then it was rainy and windy,

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like hurricane winds the whole time we were there. Oh no,

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the whole time. And we were right our hotels, like

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on the beach, you know, like we were looking forward to,

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like going to sit on the beach or going by

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the pool. We're stuck inside the hotel. And by the way,

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this hotel is not great. Like, Okay, the Wi Fi,

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I said, when I checked in, what's the Wi Fi password?

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And she's like, oh, there is no Wi Fi password.

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You just you do the open password, just you know,

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Omni guest or whatever whatever. The hotel just guessed and

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I was like, okay, So I did that. Then I

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get my laptop out, so then I turned the TV on. Okay,

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no Netflix, no HBO, no nothing, no movie channels, just

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straight twenty five channels like CNN, four ESPN channels, Comedy Central, Nickelodeon,

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that's it. And when you hit guide it says unavailable,

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and then you hit menu on the remote unavailable, so

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you can't see what you're You just gotta hit change,

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channel change, channel change, channel change, and you're stuck watching

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whatever is on TV. So then I get my can't

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even go do anything and you can't do anything. So

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then I get my laptop out and I connect to

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the Wi Fi and I have Hulu and I have Peacock. Nope,

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wouldn't let me page unavailable page on it. So then

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I had to connect it to my hot spot on

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my phone. I mean, like had a Jerry rig the

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Wi Fi, I know, like to get just to get

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my fricking Peacock on, you know, and the TV again

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was not nothing. And then it was just like all

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the food was limited. There was not like room service

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was limited because of the storm. Oh, I mean, it

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was just it was just not great. But we made

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the best of it. We made we made the best

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of it. But then did you still have to drive

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an hour both each way to get to Yeah, to

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get to them, So like, you know, there was one

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night where they're like, we're all gonna go have dinner

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and like in Jersey, you know whatever, and you're having

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to drive in a rental car in a storm, in

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a rental car, in an uber oh to uber. And

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a lot of times Nicholas, because he had a rental car,

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would come pick us up, so he would drive an

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hour anius up. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, that's what a

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good boy he is. Yeah, a good mom. Yeah. So

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that was nice. So and then one of the days

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I went to the Jersey I went to the Jersey

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Shore store where where Jersey Shore was filmed, and all

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the rest of her cousins wanted to go, so we

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all went. That was fun, Like I got n Italia

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a bunch of stuff because it's fun because like I

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bonded with Natalia. Want to show they got her all

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these you know, meatball problems T shirts and stuff like that.

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I got Sunny a T shirt that says Chewoch which means,

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you know, like he's a chew ch. I think he's

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gonna wear it, but whatever, And that was fun. I

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got my T shirt. That was funny. My sister in law,

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Raquelle shout out to Roquelle, who's a She's she's super funny.

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She's called people cheoch since like she's from New Jersey,

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so she was born and raised in Marlboro, New Jersey,

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and she's like the original. I'd never even heard of

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that before before I met her school. What's up, chewach?

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What's that cute? Yeah, so you know what that means. Yeah, yeah,

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it's it's it fits sunny perfectly. But anyway, so you know,

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it was we made the best of it and everything.

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Here's a funny thing too. When I was coming home.

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Oh so then Saturday was the day we're all leaving,

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and they were gonna hit the road because they're driving

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back to Chicago. So they left Saturday was beautiful, hot,

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not a cloud in the sky, sunshine. Yeah, yeah, I know, yeah,

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that was it. But so on the flight home, this

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is kind of funny because I thought, I don't know

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why I thought of you. So I get on the

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plane and I sit next to this this you know,

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you're I sit next to this lady, right, and she's

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like got her ponytail on and her like pulled really tight,

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and she's on her laptop and you know, like like

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shit's going down, and I'm sitting on the I'm sitting

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at the window. So I go, I have to climb

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over her. And I go and I said like, sorry,

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I go. I never I never have to get up,

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like I'll probably only get up once. Don't worry, I

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won't like and she's like, she's like doesn't even like

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doesn't even give me the time of day, like uh huh,

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like she's really, you know. And then like we're sitting

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on the run and I'm like, I want to turn

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the TV on. I want to see what movies we got.

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of the like you it's stuck. You know. You push

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the remote and it pops out sometimes, so it won't

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pop out, and I'm trying. I'm trying. I'm trying, and

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I asked the stewardess. I'm like, can you can you

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help me get the remote? So they have to like

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climb over her, you know, and then she won't just

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get up for she when and then the guy goes,

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you're rope. He goes, check check your remote. So she

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couldn't get hers out either, and she goes, she pushed

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it and won't come out. She goes, that's okay, I

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don't need it. I'm not I'm not watching TV. She's

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on her laptop. I'm like, all right, relax, calm down.

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So anyway, the flights I'm watching, I am watching The

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Big Short, right, and I immediately fall asleep and then

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darted bear even on a plane, even on a blank

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I'm jealous. I know, I know, I'm out. I'm so tired.

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So then at one point I wake up, I look over.

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She's watching The Big Short, Like there is one hundred

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movies to watch, and she picked the same one I did,

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And that's kind of interesting. So anyway, I don't know,

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I just thought it was funny if you looked over

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at her computer and her laptop and it's just all

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it says is all work and no play. Makes jillb

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still girl. I work and no play some psycho, some

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psycho as g lpm A. Yeah, I don't know, like

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it was but at least, yeah, at least I slept

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on the way home. But yeah, I mean that was

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That was the trip. And it was nice. A lot

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of good food, Oh my god, the food was so

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good in Jersey, very good. And a lot of people

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are very nice out there, you know. But yeah, the

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hotel wasn't great. It was fine, you know, Wendy and

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I make the best of everything. Yeah, I just hung out,

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but it was fun. Yeah, I had a This is

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not the same thing at all, But so Sadie and

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Xander had. They have a friend that they met doing

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improv in Hollywood at the Groundlings. This girl is she's

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so cute and so so nice. But she lives in

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and this will this will only make sense to people

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who live here. But she lives in Lake Forest, which

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is all which is past Irvine. Yeah, so with traffic, Caylin,

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you know Kaylan's in Long Beach. I'm aware of the traffic, Yes,

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very experienced. So you know from so Long Beach to

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like Irvine? Yeah? Is that equidistance from like Long Beach

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to La No closer? Yeah, Irvine A Long Beach is

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closer to take me probably about twenty twenty minutes no

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traffic to get their twenty twenty five minutes, whereas La

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to Long Beach will take me about forty no traffic. Okay,

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So this trip with traffic is about an hour forty

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five probably hour and thirty six if there's no If

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there isn't traffic, like at night, jeezy what put Yes,

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she lives there now her parents used to drive her

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every week into La to the groundlings, and then one

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time we had her at our house for like a

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couple of nights. Yeah. So, but the problem is they're

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not in groundlings together right now. So Sadie went and

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spent a couple of nights at this girl's house. Recently,

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I drove her down there, but she stayed like three

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nights with the girl and then John went and picked

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her up. Anyway, they were she was having a birthday

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and she wanted to do it at a local karaoke place.

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So John and I agreed that because rap, we almost

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get to the point where we're like, why not just

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go stay down there? But there's nothing to freaking do

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and it's really hot. So the kids wanted to get

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to her house at four o'clock. They were not going

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to go do karaoke until seven, and then that was

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going to be until about midnight. Let's say, so I

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I drove her there, I drove the kids there, I

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get there, I drop them off. She's so far off

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the freeway that my internet wasn't I wasn't getting a signal.

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So and it's so I've never been there before. This

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was just reminding me a little bit of your driving

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with the Uber, so I don't recognize at all where

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I am. It's like fifteen twenty minutes past Irvine. Then

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you go down all these different roads, and then by

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the I get to her house, I drop the kids off,

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I go to tell my Ways or Apple Maps home

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take me home. Can't type it in. It's like there's

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no signal, so it says basically like unavailable. It won't

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And then I'm seeing the like it's trying to like

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rote it and it can't. It can't. It can't. No

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internet connection. I have no clue even which way to, Like,

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I don't have this good sense of direction. It's hard

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to explain. But once you get off of this girl's street,

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you could go right or you could go left. You're

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at like a dead end. I cannot, for the life

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of me backtrack, like figure out did I take a

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left to get to this street or a right? So

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I'm like, I'm just gonna guess, so I take a right.

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Could you have maybe called the mom and asked her

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and tell her I have no can you like? Yeah?

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I probably could have called John and been like, can

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you find me on a map and tell me which

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way to go. But you know, in the moment, I'm

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just like, I'll figure it out, right, I'll just drive

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until I have it, until I have a connection, and

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then I'll then it'll come up on my map. So

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I take a right. I keep going, still not getting

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a connection until I get to a finally, a main street.

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I do not recognize it, but I so then I'm like, okay, well,

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I'm gonna take a left, and I'm just gonna kind

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of go. I'm on a main road. As soon as

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I got a signal, I pull over. I put into

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my I can't get Apple Maps, I cannot get it

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to load. But Ways comes up for me. So I

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bring up ways and I tell it take me home,

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and it says, okay, get on this freeway. Have you

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ever heard of the two seventy one. No, Now, I'm

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gonna sound like an SNL skeet. Take San Vicente to

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the four or five to the Okay, I'm out in

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the in nowhere right nowhere land. Now they're telling me

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to get on a freeway that I've never heard of before.

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So I get on it and then it says you're

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going to take that. You're going to just take this

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two seventy one. So my exit off the freeway way

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far away is the Balboa exit. Okay, Ways tells me

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take the two seventy one and then all the way

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and then the next step is get off the freeway

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at Balboa. That doesn't make any sense. No, okay, but

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now like another Balbo, another vollus somewhere. No, it's not.

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It's because I look at it and it's set. Because

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once you get off at Balboa, the directions are correct

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to get to my house. Then you turn down the street,

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you turn and I'm like, okay, something seems wrong though.

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Now though you know those freeways out in the fucking

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interstate where you're going fast, there's like construction in different areas.

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There's like you got to stay over to the right side,

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and there's like a divide or here. I cannot be

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looking at my phone like i'm and you have to

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go like the speed of the rest of the traffic.

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So everybody's going like seventy you know, I cannot figure

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out and there's nowhere to pull off the freeway like

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and im and I'm trying to eat a chicken sandwich

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do such I was starving. I had gone through the

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Carls Junior drive through. I got myself a chicken sandwich

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and fries for the rest, I got a chicken sandwich

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on my lap. I'm trying to eat. I'm starving. I'm

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trying to eat a fry and now I'm freaking out

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and I'm like, okay, all right, having to literally like

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calm myself. I'm just like, because you know, I get

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the dragon anxiety as it is, so now I'm like,

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I cannot slow down. And you know, when you're in

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these on this freeway in the middle of nowhere and

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you see there's no like, there's no like, oh if

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I just get off here, there's a shell station and

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a Walmart, no, none of that. It's all it's nowhere land.

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And I'm like, oh my god, I could be driving

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and then it's telling me, Okay, you're gonna keep going

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and you're going to You're going to Chino basically. So

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I'm like, I'm starting to have a little bit of panic,

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like I might be driving for because it's telling anyway,

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long story short, I do not call John because I'm like,

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at some point I'm gonna pull over and I'm gonna see, well,

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here's what it was basically I went way far east,

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That's how. But it took the same amount of time,

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it just took me a totally different way. The two

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seventy one turned into the fifty seven, which turned into

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the two ten, which turned into the one thirty four

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I see turned into the one oh one, which took

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me to my house. But all of it was a

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straight shot, like there was I never had to get

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off a freeway. So that's how ways decided to do it.

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Like to some anyway, I was totally panicked for a

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solid hour I've been driving because there was like nowhere

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to get off this whole time, and You're sweating. I'm sweating,

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and you feel like how am I ever going to

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get home? Like I'm never going to get my sandwich?

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Am I gonna end up in palm sps? Just gonna

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end up sleep in my car? Like am I going

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to Willman Frida and just going like, hey, can you

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can you make me some like ex Benedict because I'm hungry.

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I didn't get to you my sandwich. Yeah, So eventually

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I did get home. Yes, So oh so that is

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totally equal to your Jersey trip. Let's talk about something

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their sweaters, the cash for less than fifty dollars. How

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my god, my heart hurts. Yeah, So she leaves on

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the twenty first, she leaves a week from tomorrow. Yeah,

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and so before my trip I got you know, I

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got a bunch of stuff for her, and we started

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packing up her stuff and organizing it and boxing it

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and putting it all like in one spot in the house.

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So like the guest room is like filled with all

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of her clothes and all of her stuff and boxes

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and all. It's just as much stuff is she bringing. Yeah,

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she's gonna tell ya she's got you know, she's got

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to bring stuff for every you know, winter, spring, summer,

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I don't know. And she's only gonna be like less

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than two hours away, right, which I kept telling her,

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but no, but still, like, you know, she's got all

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her stuff, and you know, she has a lot of

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vitamins and all her like supplements that she takes for

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the gym and blah blah blah. So you know, it's

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just walk by that room now and I look at

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that and I'm like, this is your last week here

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in the house. So we have a few more things

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we need to do. I have to take her to

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the DMV this week because she lost her drug's license

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and I went online to try and get it renewed.

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But I don't know if it's because she's a new

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because she they wouldn't let it. They would I have

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to go in. We have to go in there. She

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has to go in there, so we have to do that.

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We have to do a few more things this week,

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so she have to go so to replace the driver's license,

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you go in. Did you get an appointment? I'm gonna, yeah,

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I'm gonna make up appointment. I've tried online, like several times.

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I thought maybe because I'm doing it on my iPhone

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because it's said if you're having problems blah blah blah,

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then I use my laptop. Same thing. It's like I

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can't do it, you know. And also she has a

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change of address too, so we need to like put

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the new address. Oh yeah, that's good. Then yeah, so

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you know, we just have a few more things to

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do this week. But she's she put in her notice

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at work her last two days or this week, and

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then that's it. And then next week we drive down

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like in I'm gonna you know, she's We're gonna load

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up the two cars and drive down there and she

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gets her keys at nine am on Tuesday next week

466
00:26:27,599 --> 00:26:30,599
and move her in. So everybody, all the girls move

467
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:35,680
in the same day. Yeah, yeah, h it's not university

468
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,680
housing though, right, No, it's it's it's a lot of

469
00:26:38,759 --> 00:26:41,519
them are also going to the junior college too, so

470
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,759
it's it's it's but it's all that building is all students,

471
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,279
like it's all and then but it's not provided by

472
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:52,839
the Santa Barbara City College. No. But her unit is

473
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,920
like you know, it's a couple of bedrooms and then

474
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,039
it's like four or five five girls, five girls in

475
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,799
her and they're all students, you know that they match, right,

476
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,200
And they gave her her roommates, her new roommates they introduced,

477
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:09,160
so she met through online. She's met her new roommates

478
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:13,680
and stuff. So it is maybe school housing. I mean,

479
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:19,480
Alby is in an off campus apartment, but it's it's UCLA, yeah, apartments, right.

480
00:27:20,519 --> 00:27:25,400
They they they assigned like LB picked two girls that

481
00:27:25,599 --> 00:27:30,480
she Elbe originally applied to have a dorm, a triple

482
00:27:30,559 --> 00:27:32,759
dorm with these two other girls that she met through

483
00:27:32,799 --> 00:27:36,160
the Instagram account from CLA, but then when they got

484
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:42,160
to sign their housing, they got assigned off campus househartment right. Yeah,

485
00:27:42,319 --> 00:27:45,200
I mean maybe some of these kids are going to

486
00:27:45,279 --> 00:27:48,240
the university. I don't know. It's it's a I know

487
00:27:48,319 --> 00:27:51,160
it's a chain, it's a chain place like I've heard

488
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,640
of it before. Okay, but I think it's in college towns,

489
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:58,000
so I don't know. But okay, interesting, all right, So

490
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,519
she hasn't met a couple of them, then she's met

491
00:28:00,599 --> 00:28:03,359
him online, like she's talked to them and stuff. Yeah. Yeah,

492
00:28:04,039 --> 00:28:07,079
so and then and one of the girls is her friend. Yeah.

493
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,920
Two of the girls that are her roommates are her friends. Okay, yeah,

494
00:28:10,799 --> 00:28:13,880
and one of them was like at the house this weekend.

495
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,960
I got to get to know her a little better.

496
00:28:16,039 --> 00:28:20,039
She's really nice. Yeah. Yeah. So yeah, so she's gonna

497
00:28:20,039 --> 00:28:21,920
be gone, and then it's just gonna be me in

498
00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:25,880
Sonny and then Sonny's gonna be gone the following month.

499
00:28:26,079 --> 00:28:31,559
You've never really experienced, like I've experienced LB being at camp,

500
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,680
like being gone two summers ago. She was gone the

501
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:38,200
whole summer at camp, at camp when she's a counselor, right,

502
00:28:38,559 --> 00:28:41,440
So I've experienced that, But I don't think Italia has

503
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,200
ever been gone for that long. No, my kids never

504
00:28:44,559 --> 00:28:48,240
went to camp like that, like going away camp. And yeah,

505
00:28:48,319 --> 00:28:51,039
I mean yeah, I mean she's gone, like been with

506
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,039
friends for like the whole week. I mean, but no,

507
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,640
I haven't. And she's got on church, but now I haven't.

508
00:28:56,799 --> 00:28:59,519
It's gonna be hard, I know, I know, I can't

509
00:28:59,559 --> 00:29:02,519
even think. It's like oh, like it hit me, like,

510
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,519
you know, I kind of forgot about it on the trip.

511
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,519
Then I come home and I walk past that room

512
00:29:07,599 --> 00:29:10,119
and I'm like oh, and then I'm like looking at

513
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,400
the calendar, like this is her lat this is it.

514
00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:15,440
This is the last week, and Sunny's gonna go with

515
00:29:15,599 --> 00:29:18,119
us next week to drop her off. Oh he is

516
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,359
said he would. Yeah. Yeah. The two of them have

517
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,200
been hanging out a lot too, Like they went to

518
00:29:24,279 --> 00:29:27,119
dinner last night with their dad, which was nice and

519
00:29:27,519 --> 00:29:29,920
because they drove in the same car and spend time together.

520
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,160
And then when they came back, Yeah, we were talking

521
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,519
about next Tuesday and she was like, Sunday, are you

522
00:29:35,559 --> 00:29:39,480
gonna come with us? And he was like yeah, I'll go. Yeah.

523
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:44,799
Oh that's so cute. I know. You know this is

524
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:49,640
so weird cause Sadie and Xander starting junior year, right,

525
00:29:49,799 --> 00:29:52,200
this is the first year since we've been doing this

526
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:57,119
podcast that your kids are not going back to school. School.

527
00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:00,519
I know, it's so weird. Yeah, I see all these

528
00:30:00,759 --> 00:30:03,519
my kids started today. They did they went to school today.

529
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:08,160
Day to school. Yeah, ah, I feel bad for you.

530
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,400
I mean in a way, I'm like, I'm glad that

531
00:30:12,519 --> 00:30:16,039
headaches over. But in another way, I'm like, oh, like,

532
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,240
it's well, that's I mean, for for me, it is

533
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:23,440
weird because I feel like old to have kids still

534
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,519
in high school. But on the other hand, I'm grateful

535
00:30:25,599 --> 00:30:29,759
for it. Yeah. I think I'm finally feeling like, Okay,

536
00:30:30,359 --> 00:30:33,359
I got you fuckers for two more years. You're still mine,

537
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,880
right right, So, but it's it's weird CAUSEDI drives now,

538
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,559
and she's been practicing the route to school. Oh, but

539
00:30:42,079 --> 00:30:43,960
it's a little further than LB used to have to

540
00:30:44,079 --> 00:30:47,240
drive to go to her high school. But we're and

541
00:30:47,359 --> 00:30:50,279
she got a parking pass, so she's going to be driving.

542
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:54,880
And wow, Sander's gonna be so bitch. So she's going,

543
00:30:55,039 --> 00:30:58,079
I know, so she's she hasn't like, did you take

544
00:30:58,119 --> 00:30:59,880
them to school today? No, So John took them to

545
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:03,119
school this morning because we came to do this early.

546
00:31:04,119 --> 00:31:07,680
So I had to walk the dog, which is another

547
00:31:07,759 --> 00:31:10,759
whole weird thing. She wouldn't go for a walk this morning. Really,

548
00:31:10,839 --> 00:31:13,720
she's getting old. I don't know if she wanted she

549
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,640
I don't know if she was sore, but she just

550
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,559
wouldn't go for a walk. Like she went outside, she

551
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,559
peed and then she wanted to come back in the house.

552
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:25,000
I know, I know it's weird, but John's going to

553
00:31:25,079 --> 00:31:27,599
try to take her for a walk. But anyway, so

554
00:31:27,799 --> 00:31:31,039
she didn't want to drive her first possibly few days,

555
00:31:31,799 --> 00:31:34,039
which I totally understand. She was like, I think I'm

556
00:31:34,039 --> 00:31:37,440
going to be too nervous to like also be figuring

557
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,759
out the route and getting into my parking space. She

558
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:44,480
just wanted to be dropped off. So yeah, but yeah,

559
00:31:45,119 --> 00:31:47,880
I mean I won't really be dealing with it. Yeah,

560
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:52,039
So is she driving? Is she gonna gonna share a car?

561
00:31:53,880 --> 00:32:00,240
So it's a little bit of air because god no,

562
00:32:00,359 --> 00:32:03,319
we can't have another car. We own three cars right now.

563
00:32:04,599 --> 00:32:07,920
The thing that I'm thinking, and Albie's not going to

564
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,160
listen to this, I think I'm going to try to

565
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,200
find a way for Elbie to not take the car

566
00:32:12,599 --> 00:32:18,160
to school because and here's why. It's UCLA, it's college town,

567
00:32:18,319 --> 00:32:22,000
it's in Westwood. Where is she going? Yeah, like she's

568
00:32:22,119 --> 00:32:24,680
they're not going anywhere if they hang out on the weekends,

569
00:32:24,759 --> 00:32:27,519
I see, I feel like it'll be local unless she's

570
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,559
already going to be driving back and forth to like

571
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:34,680
our house. I feel like the few times that she

572
00:32:34,799 --> 00:32:38,799
needs to do that, she can uber yeah yeah, because

573
00:32:39,559 --> 00:32:41,720
so that she doesn't get a parking space, So she

574
00:32:41,839 --> 00:32:44,200
has to try to get a parking space, which will

575
00:32:44,279 --> 00:32:46,440
probably be on campus, which will be a bit of

576
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:50,079
a schlep anyway to get to the car. That the

577
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,680
parking is going to be expensive for a parking spot,

578
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:59,079
I believe, or she's going to have to park find

579
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,559
a spot near her apartment. I think I've heard that

580
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,200
parking is really really tough and always be moving her

581
00:33:05,279 --> 00:33:07,640
car and figuring it out and not getting a ticket.

582
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,160
I know it can be done, but I think unless

583
00:33:11,319 --> 00:33:14,519
she has a job, there's no real reason for her

584
00:33:14,559 --> 00:33:17,160
to go through all that, right, Like, why deal with

585
00:33:17,279 --> 00:33:19,319
that when you're basically going to be walking back and

586
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,480
forth every day. She can't drive from her apartment to campus.

587
00:33:24,519 --> 00:33:27,319
There's nowhere to park if she doesn't have a parking spot, right,

588
00:33:28,839 --> 00:33:32,319
So I think that I'm gonna I kind of already

589
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,920
sort of said like, maybe you don't need to take

590
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:40,720
your car, and she was like, she didn't really argue

591
00:33:40,759 --> 00:33:43,519
it that much. Here's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna say,

592
00:33:44,359 --> 00:33:47,079
I feel like, for the first while, you don't need

593
00:33:47,119 --> 00:33:49,359
to have your car. If you get a parking space

594
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:51,880
and you decide that you need a car, then we

595
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,440
can talk about it right now, we're twenty minutes away.

596
00:33:54,559 --> 00:33:57,359
That makes sense. Yes, I agree, I agree. I mean

597
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:01,039
that's logic. And then the kids, Sadie can take our

598
00:34:01,119 --> 00:34:03,519
Prius to school every day because she's used to driving it,

599
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,200
and if one of us needs a car, I'll drive

600
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:09,119
Alby's cars. There you go. I think that makes total sense. Yeah,

601
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:13,599
I think she'll be okay with that. I think she'll

602
00:34:13,639 --> 00:34:15,519
be fine. I mean it's hard to take a car

603
00:34:15,559 --> 00:34:17,880
away from a teenager after they just got it too,

604
00:34:18,119 --> 00:34:20,559
you know, but it does make sense. Where's she going?

605
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,760
You know, everything is right there and parking is a nightmare. Also,

606
00:34:25,199 --> 00:34:28,320
this way I can take her off the insurance. She can.

607
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:30,960
It's I think there's a way I can do kind

608
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,719
of provisional insurance so that she's still insured on the car,

609
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,679
but she's not. She doesn't have the car with her,

610
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,480
so it's only like if she's home. Do you know

611
00:34:40,519 --> 00:34:44,239
what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it makes sense.

612
00:34:45,119 --> 00:34:47,159
I mean we bought the car. The car is in

613
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,119
our name. We didn't buy her a car and put

614
00:34:50,159 --> 00:34:52,800
it under her name and like hand her a pink slip.

615
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:58,119
We got a car for her to drive. So yeah,

616
00:34:58,519 --> 00:35:00,639
I don't know. I think it's a little different. And

617
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,000
I kind of told her listen, and I had told

618
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,599
her originally, depending on where you go, that car might

619
00:35:05,639 --> 00:35:09,719
get handed over to Sadie Xander. Oh okay, And I

620
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:13,039
mean we'll see. I will see. I don't know, but

621
00:35:13,079 --> 00:35:16,039
I'm the same. Sonny had a car and it got

622
00:35:16,519 --> 00:35:20,519
had to be returned. I guess it was a lease

623
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:22,960
that his dad gave him. But the lease is up.

624
00:35:23,159 --> 00:35:26,559
So he had it since Christmas until like a week ago.

625
00:35:27,119 --> 00:35:29,920
Oh and at lease was up. And so now he

626
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:36,599
doesn't have a car. But I, you know, so he's

627
00:35:36,639 --> 00:35:40,639
going to need a car in Oregon. But I don't

628
00:35:40,679 --> 00:35:42,800
know what's I keep asking him, like if you talked

629
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,119
to dad about a car blah blah blah, and he said, yeah,

630
00:35:45,199 --> 00:35:48,000
he's talking about it with me, but we'll see. So

631
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,079
I told him, I said, we should call Adam Lerner,

632
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,599
you know, And I asked him and he's and Sonny's

633
00:35:54,639 --> 00:35:56,599
not picky at all. It's like what kind of car

634
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:58,480
you know? And he's like, I don't care. I don't care.

635
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,039
You know, well, if you call Adam, here's your ad

636
00:36:02,159 --> 00:36:05,320
right now. Yes, if you call Adam, here's what he'll do.

637
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,719
Like he basically he's not like work, so he doesn't

638
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,000
work for a specific dealership. So he will tell you

639
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,760
here's a broker, what the deals are. Here's who's having

640
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,880
deals right now, Subru this company, you know, Like when

641
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:19,840
we got our tig one, he was like, here are

642
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,199
the two cars that I can get you for the

643
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,519
month the money that you feel comfortable spending way in

644
00:36:25,599 --> 00:36:29,800
a month. Go drive a Subru, Go drive a VW.

645
00:36:30,599 --> 00:36:33,800
And so we did and that and then he was

646
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,039
then he those are the two cars. I think he

647
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:39,079
found it for the cheapest price that he could get,

648
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:42,000
which was way cheaper than what we tried to price

649
00:36:42,079 --> 00:36:44,280
it on our own. He got us, he was like, okay,

650
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,280
I got you this at like four something a month,

651
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,440
and he did that. He found the financing and he

652
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,440
pulled up in our driveway with the car. Yes, and

653
00:36:53,519 --> 00:36:55,840
we signed the deal. That's what so I told Sonny,

654
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,800
I said, I know a car broker, like you know,

655
00:36:58,119 --> 00:37:00,119
start thinking about what kind of car you want on

656
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,480
or what like, let's talk to him and let's see

657
00:37:02,519 --> 00:37:04,800
what he's got, let's see what deals he's got. Yeah,

658
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:10,000
so to get him situated with that. But he's also

659
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:14,199
like not that you know, he's sunny is he's either

660
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,960
his friends pick him up or he walks to his

661
00:37:17,039 --> 00:37:19,599
friend's house that they every all of his friends are

662
00:37:19,639 --> 00:37:21,920
in town and they're walking distance. Well, does he want

663
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:24,000
to have a car in Oregon? Oh? Yeah, yeah, he

664
00:37:24,039 --> 00:37:26,639
wants to car. Oh okay, and he's gonna have to

665
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,719
drive it to Oregon. Yeah, he'll have to drive it.

666
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:34,480
Mm hmm. That's going to be interesting for a new driver. Yeah.

667
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,519
I mean he's been driving, you know, but he'll he'll

668
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:39,440
have to get a new car. I'll have to get

669
00:37:39,519 --> 00:37:45,000
used to it. But yeah, so but wait, but Adam

670
00:37:45,039 --> 00:37:48,519
would drive the car or with him? I think? So, yeah,

671
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,079
whatever car he gets Animal drive, will drive and then

672
00:37:51,079 --> 00:37:55,239
Aim will fly home. Yeah that's what I'm thinking. Yeah, Yeah,

673
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,519
how else would it work? Yeah, that's the way it

674
00:37:57,559 --> 00:38:00,519
would work, right, Okay, So he'll have somebody in the

675
00:38:00,559 --> 00:38:02,880
car with them. Yeah, he's not gonna drive by himself

676
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,239
out to organ Okay. Oh, no, no either. I would

677
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:09,760
have gone with him. But right, Dad's going so right, Okay, yeah, hey,

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for ten percent off your first order. Oh my gosh, Lynette,

701
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:46,679
So you're gonna take Natalia and then Adam's just gonna

702
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,159
come take Sonny, and then you're just gonna have to

703
00:39:49,199 --> 00:39:54,159
say by that, how it's gonna go. I know, I

704
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:58,039
know it's just been me and Phil. That's so crazy.

705
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,840
It is weird it is to think about. Yeah, it's crazy.

706
00:40:02,519 --> 00:40:05,079
I was talking a lot about it with my family

707
00:40:05,199 --> 00:40:08,239
and like with Wendy and stuff, and she's been through it,

708
00:40:08,599 --> 00:40:12,000
yeah she has. So you know, I don't know. I'm

709
00:40:12,039 --> 00:40:15,000
trying to think, like I think the next at least

710
00:40:15,039 --> 00:40:18,960
two years, I'm going to stay where I'm at and

711
00:40:19,119 --> 00:40:22,599
see how they do, see if they you know, come

712
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:27,000
back or not come back or whatever, and then you know,

713
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:31,199
I think after that, I don't know. I I just

714
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,599
can't see myself like if they're gone and they're not

715
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,320
coming back, like I don't. I don't see myself living

716
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,840
out here for too long. I might. I think I

717
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,800
want to be around my family in Chicago. I mean,

718
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:47,199
I've got a whole new generation out there, you know,

719
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,960
and luckily podcasting you can do from wherever, right of course,

720
00:40:52,079 --> 00:40:55,920
you know, So you know, I don't know, Well, obviously

721
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,519
I would move to Chicago. You will be with you, yeah,

722
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:06,599
of course, yeah. I just you know, it's just there's

723
00:41:07,039 --> 00:41:10,360
my nephews are having kids, and their kids are young,

724
00:41:10,519 --> 00:41:14,559
and Wendy's there, and I just don't see myself alone

725
00:41:14,679 --> 00:41:18,760
out in like Lacayata, you know what I mean, right forever?

726
00:41:20,039 --> 00:41:22,159
Or I don't know, or I moved to a different

727
00:41:22,199 --> 00:41:25,480
area out here where my other friends are, like but

728
00:41:25,599 --> 00:41:27,440
it's so expensive, Like a lot of my friends are

729
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:31,199
down in Manhattan Beach, Melissa and all of those guys.

730
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:35,360
But it's if that's expensive, But there's other places. Maybe

731
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,480
we're Donda, I don't know, or other around those areas.

732
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,920
So where I'm at now was great to raise kids,

733
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:45,400
but after that, it's like, you know, you don't want

734
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:49,960
to be there forever. But on the other hand, they're

735
00:41:50,159 --> 00:41:53,280
only you don't know what they're gonna do. In two years,

736
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:57,400
because if Sunny goes to University of Oregon, then yeah,

737
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,039
I he'll be there for two years, which is on

738
00:41:59,159 --> 00:42:01,760
this coast, right, But I guess he would could fly

739
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,320
back and forth to Chicago to come to see quote

740
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,599
unquote home. But then Natalia if she's if she ends

741
00:42:08,639 --> 00:42:13,559
up at UCSB, right, then you're going to be moving

742
00:42:13,599 --> 00:42:15,400
to Chicago. Well that's why I have to see the

743
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,639
first two years if that and they and they're coming back,

744
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,840
and you know, I know that the kids are going

745
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,639
to need a home base, I think, especially in California.

746
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,400
So but I do have my I do have my

747
00:42:28,559 --> 00:42:32,599
condo and it's almost it's pretty much paid off. I

748
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:36,559
paid you know, big chunk of it, and so well

749
00:42:36,639 --> 00:42:39,679
I'm getting that out. I'm renting that. But you know,

750
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:41,599
maybe they can come they if they need a place

751
00:42:41,679 --> 00:42:44,679
to stay in La or I'm here in La half

752
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:46,360
the time. I can stay in the condo, I have

753
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,039
a place to be, or I just or I buy

754
00:42:49,079 --> 00:42:50,760
a house I don't know, or I rent a house.

755
00:42:51,039 --> 00:42:55,960
I don't know. But I just have to see what happens.

756
00:42:56,199 --> 00:42:58,760
It's weird to be in limbo. Huh, yeah, it is.

757
00:42:59,679 --> 00:43:02,800
It is so not just even the first two years,

758
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,559
four years, like they're gonna and I bet Natalia is

759
00:43:06,559 --> 00:43:10,039
gonna come home a lot. You know, I can see her,

760
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,119
you know, coming home. You know. The other thing I

761
00:43:13,199 --> 00:43:15,039
think about with Natalia is I can hear this all

762
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:20,039
I know this is coming where like I forgot my prescription?

763
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,239
Or can you just drive it? Can you just drive

764
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,960
I forgot my Can you just drive it down? Like

765
00:43:25,639 --> 00:43:28,079
I'm going to tell her, like I am not driving

766
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,199
shit down. You know, if you want it, you have

767
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,280
a car, you come get it. I'm not gonna be

768
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,519
your butler coming from you know, La, to drop off

769
00:43:35,559 --> 00:43:38,400
shit for you because you need it. But Natalia reminds

770
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:42,079
me a lot of my friend Cecily's daughter Ava, who's

771
00:43:42,119 --> 00:43:46,280
one of LB's besties. And she goes to University of

772
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:50,360
Kansas and her mom has gone out there so many times.

773
00:43:50,519 --> 00:43:53,920
I cannot tell you how many times she's just been like, mom,

774
00:43:54,719 --> 00:44:00,119
can you really well when she gets sick. There's it's

775
00:44:00,119 --> 00:44:01,559
been a couple of times. She once she got the

776
00:44:01,679 --> 00:44:04,519
flu really bad and she just was like not feeling

777
00:44:04,639 --> 00:44:07,440
well and then having to depend on her roommates her

778
00:44:07,559 --> 00:44:10,360
mom that I would die out there get a hotel

779
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,960
get her. You know, a couple of different times that happened.

780
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,519
There were just times where she was just like needed

781
00:44:16,559 --> 00:44:19,440
her mom right, didn't want to she needed me like

782
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:23,000
for if she of course, of course I'm saying like

783
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,280
I forgot my tennis shoes, you know that kind of shit,

784
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,920
Like I'm not doing that. I'm not gonna just because

785
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,599
you're an hour and a half away, I know, but

786
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:36,000
like we spoiled them with the whole dropped by school

787
00:44:36,039 --> 00:44:40,920
and bring you lunch. Yes, exactly exactly, I remember. I mean,

788
00:44:41,119 --> 00:44:44,280
this wasn't that long ago. But the kids forgetting their lunch,

789
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,599
You're like, mama, heart just goes like even though yes,

790
00:44:48,679 --> 00:44:50,840
they fucked up, I'm sure they should just be hungry

791
00:44:51,639 --> 00:44:54,400
and left to their own devices. I'm sure they could

792
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,039
moot some food off one of their friends, and they have.

793
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,320
But when you come home, I've just drove the I mean,

794
00:45:01,639 --> 00:45:04,519
and I see their lunch. Yes, I open the fridgery.

795
00:45:04,559 --> 00:45:06,800
I see their lunch still in the fridge. They didn't

796
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,239
they forgot it. I don't even wait for them to

797
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,239
call it, would just drop it off at the place

798
00:45:11,679 --> 00:45:15,400
and then I text them, you left your lunch. What's

799
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:17,840
no skin? Off of my it's around the block. I know,

800
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:22,599
I know, it's just funny because it's all levels right,

801
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:26,159
because yes, we do that. And there have definitely been

802
00:45:26,199 --> 00:45:27,880
times where I open the fridge and I go, oh,

803
00:45:28,039 --> 00:45:31,719
Sadie forgot her lunch. Xander's the more responsible of the two, right,

804
00:45:32,079 --> 00:45:34,760
So then I'm like, oh god, I got it all right.

805
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,960
Or I'll be like trying to be hard, you know,

806
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,800
and then John I'll be like, I'll drive it over there.

807
00:45:41,039 --> 00:45:43,320
I'm like, no, we're not teaching them anything. And then

808
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:45,039
I'll be like I'll do it. I'll do it. I'll

809
00:45:45,079 --> 00:45:49,199
drive them. But just when I start feeling really bad

810
00:45:49,199 --> 00:45:52,360
about myself, like oh, I am handicapping my kids for

811
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:56,880
their future, then my friend Laura's like, hold my beer

812
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,440
because her kids what if her kids is starting her

813
00:46:00,519 --> 00:46:03,079
second year at Berkeley. That's another one. A Albie's really

814
00:46:03,119 --> 00:46:05,199
good friends. And then her other son is starting his

815
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,599
senior year. Yes, I'm talking her on the phone the

816
00:46:08,639 --> 00:46:11,639
other day and she was like, Daniel, I made you,

817
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:13,800
I made you your breakfast. I toasted you a bag

818
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,440
She's still toasting his ass a bagel and putting cream

819
00:46:16,519 --> 00:46:19,719
cheese on it. And I was like you're we're still

820
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:23,840
be turning eighteen. She's like, I know, I knows, but

821
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:26,440
what she said this, She's like, I know, but I'm here,

822
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:31,199
right am I doing? But exactly so now, buttering as

823
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:36,000
bigel is what you're doing. I know. I know. It's

824
00:46:36,079 --> 00:46:38,639
so funny like now that we're older, like how we

825
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,079
look back at things like, boy, what you know we

826
00:46:41,199 --> 00:46:44,559
were pushovers or whatever. But it's easy to say that

827
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:48,800
now because they're grown and you know they they're responsible kids,

828
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,760
you know, so we didn't like do too bad, you know.

829
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:54,920
I mean that's how I feel. You do things to

830
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,599
your own comfort level. I know, yes, I feel like

831
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:00,639
I was doing better than a lot of my friends.

832
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:04,280
As I've said a million times. Halloween, I was like,

833
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:06,760
let the kids go freaking trick or treating, and then

834
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,360
every other mom was like, no, that's not a good idea,

835
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:13,159
that's a bad I mean I had to. I remember

836
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:16,199
trying to get Elbe to walk around the mall by herself. Yeah,

837
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,920
like I don't know. She didn't have a phone yet,

838
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:21,239
but she did have an iPad, so I was like,

839
00:47:21,679 --> 00:47:25,159
connect the iPad to the mall. If you need me,

840
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,440
you text me. If there's an issue, but I wanted

841
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,760
her to like walk around the mall. The other parents

842
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,920
were like, oh hell no, I'm like, what is going

843
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:37,119
to happen? Yeah, this I don't know if this is

844
00:47:37,199 --> 00:47:39,719
like an LA thing, but I am telling you. Some

845
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,719
of Elbie's friends, the kids were like, We're going to

846
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:47,199
get abducted. I'm like, nobody's abducting you at Sephora Relax,

847
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,880
Like do you know what I'm saying? Like, You're not

848
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,360
going to get sex trafficked at the Gap. It's just

849
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:56,239
not happening. There's employees everywhere, Yeah, cameras. Yes. There was

850
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,920
that one time that I couldn't find one of the kids.

851
00:47:59,119 --> 00:48:02,400
Wasn't it a was I think it was Sadie and

852
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:05,079
ended up member and I was at the Northridge Mall,

853
00:48:05,679 --> 00:48:08,840
could not find her, turned around, she was gone, and

854
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:13,159
then she the employee at the gap called me and

855
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:16,039
was like, I have your kid. Because she didn't have

856
00:48:16,119 --> 00:48:19,360
a phone yet. Oh really, so the gap person called

857
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,280
my phone and I was like, oh, thank God, Okay,

858
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:24,840
I'm coming to get her right. Yeah. But my point

859
00:48:25,039 --> 00:48:29,760
is there's employees everywhere. You're not gonna like nope. So

860
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:32,519
one time Elbie was with her friend, well, I'll tell

861
00:48:32,519 --> 00:48:34,199
you who it was. It was Julie's daughter. She was

862
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:40,159
with Bella, and Bella was so nervous. See, everybody judges me,

863
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:42,800
but like Julie is ten times worse. And she will

864
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:46,199
listen to this and she will totally agree. Julie would

865
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,239
not let her kids play out on her front lawn

866
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,559
when they were like nine because she was literally scared

867
00:48:51,599 --> 00:48:53,480
that somebody was going to swing by and like get

868
00:48:53,519 --> 00:48:56,239
the kids in the car and like take off with them. Okay,

869
00:48:56,719 --> 00:49:00,920
that's fine. But Bella had like fear getting abducted at

870
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:02,960
the mall. So one time she and lb it was

871
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,480
her first time like walking. Elb was like old hat

872
00:49:05,559 --> 00:49:08,199
at walking around the mall, but Bella they were walking

873
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:12,119
around and somebody, I think like at a kiosk, tried

874
00:49:12,159 --> 00:49:14,159
to like straighten their hair or something, you know what

875
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:17,400
I mean. Yeah, yeah, and Bella freaked the fuck out

876
00:49:17,559 --> 00:49:19,480
and thought that she was they were trying to abduct

877
00:49:19,559 --> 00:49:22,840
her and got like super scared. And then I got

878
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:26,119
called and not to like come get them. See, my

879
00:49:26,519 --> 00:49:29,400
kid worked the opposite because I sudden he would go

880
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,280
walking at night since he was like young, and I

881
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,960
hated it and I'd go like sunny, you're you can't

882
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,199
be walking around at night like you have you're only

883
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,199
twelve or thirty whatever, And it was the other way around,

884
00:49:41,199 --> 00:49:42,920
and go, oh, why is a white vang gonna come

885
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,039
and kidnap me? Like? So for me it bet fired

886
00:49:46,519 --> 00:49:49,199
like he's like relax, like and nobody's coming to get

887
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,639
me and locking you out like I'm fine, you know,

888
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,199
I'm like, well, I was really more afraid of like

889
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:57,480
the bears and the coyotes. But all right, I don't

890
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:01,519
you know, so for him backfired, but like you know,

891
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:05,800
I don't know, I guess uh it all worked out first,

892
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,960
it did. Listen, LB does a lot of things for herself.

893
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:13,239
Does she like being parented? Like I think that there's

894
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,800
something I think Elbe could do even more on her

895
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:19,639
own than she does. But she does do a lot

896
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,639
on her own. And I think that if if I

897
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:26,000
was not available, she would get it handled. I think

898
00:50:26,079 --> 00:50:29,039
she likes being able to go mom, yeah you know,

899
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:33,559
I need a mattress topper for my apartment, just about one,

900
00:50:33,679 --> 00:50:35,920
Like she has a mom that is going to go like, okay,

901
00:50:36,039 --> 00:50:38,239
let's go pick you out one well, because and also

902
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:41,119
you and I didn't have a relationship with our moms

903
00:50:41,199 --> 00:50:43,880
like that, yes, and that's why we love it, Like

904
00:50:44,119 --> 00:50:46,159
we want our daughters to be like, you know, hey

905
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,519
you want to go to Target. Of course, you know,

906
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,920
because I didn't have a mom. You didn't have a

907
00:50:51,039 --> 00:50:54,079
mom that we had like piled around with or at

908
00:50:54,199 --> 00:50:56,559
least even went to them and going, hey, I need

909
00:50:56,679 --> 00:50:59,599
clothes for school, Like they're like, yeah, go get it.

910
00:50:59,679 --> 00:51:03,039
You're like, go walk to Fallbrook Mall and get it yourself.

911
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,639
My mom never took me clothes shopping. That is why

912
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:08,800
you and I have such a we get each other

913
00:51:09,079 --> 00:51:13,280
on that level because yeah, I didn't either. Yes, my mom.

914
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:16,119
I don't know if she didn't care. I really don't.

915
00:51:16,199 --> 00:51:19,320
I don't know if she just it just wasn't a priority.

916
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:22,320
But none of that, none of that like let's go

917
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:26,280
get you. Like when I have a rule my kids

918
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:30,679
do not buy their own underwear or bras Welborn bras now.

919
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,679
But like I feel like that's a way that I

920
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,840
can take care of my kids, Like that's like an essential.

921
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,679
So we'll be at the mall and LB will always

922
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:41,920
be like, do you want to go to Pink? And

923
00:51:42,039 --> 00:51:45,400
I'm like, of course. They're always having a seven for

924
00:51:45,559 --> 00:51:48,840
thirty dollars sale. Let's go stock you up on more underwear. Yes,

925
00:51:49,039 --> 00:51:51,360
you know, it's just like a way that but yeah,

926
00:51:51,679 --> 00:51:55,119
but like Sadie yesterday was like, Mom, do you want

927
00:51:55,199 --> 00:51:56,519
do you want to take me to Target? I need

928
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some school supplies? And I was like, yes, I do,

929
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right exactly. You know, it's nice and I only have Natalia.

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Like Sonny's never asking me to go to the mall

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or anything like that nearly. Like Sonny with him will

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like watch a movie or watch UFC fights, or hang

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out in the backyard and talk, you know, and he'll

934
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talk my ear off about more sports like that kind

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of stuff, or go for a walk with Phil. That's

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the kind of stuff I do with Sonny. Well, Sadie

937
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:30,239
is always so grateful for Like Sadie has been into

938
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this thing of she wants to sew and one of

939
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her couple of her friends have sewing machines and she

940
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was like, I'm gonna save up for a sewing machine.

941
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And I can't help myself. I'm always like, I'll get

942
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you a sewing machine, like not a brand new one.

943
00:52:44,159 --> 00:52:47,199
I'm not you know, money bags over here, but like

944
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:50,519
let's go on Facebook marketplace, my favorite. Yeah, I find

945
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you anyway, I ended up she ended up researching and

946
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finding one on eBay or refurbished sewing machine, and she

947
00:52:58,519 --> 00:53:01,199
picked out the one she wanted, and then when I

948
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ordered it for her, she was like, Mom, you don't

949
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have to do that. I was just seeing if you

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thought this was like a good one or whatever. And

951
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I was like, but I want to see. I want

952
00:53:11,599 --> 00:53:13,880
to It makes me feel good to like. But then

953
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she had thanked me like twenty times. You know, yes,

954
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:21,639
they're grateful. That's nice, you know, it's great. Yeah, why

955
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:24,159
should that? Why should she not be allowed to take

956
00:53:24,199 --> 00:53:27,079
care of our kids? Exactly? I don't care. I don't

957
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care if they're like forty, I take care of my

958
00:53:30,079 --> 00:53:35,320
kidn't take care of my But you want to cookies? Hey,

959
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,119
we already talked about Adam Lerner. Go to Adam's got

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a car. Uh. Fern Candle. That's our girl, Kelsey. I'm

961
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gonna hit her up with for some for some more

962
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:51,360
candles for my kids big fall festival. Oh that's nice. Yeah,

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00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,679
you see, if she'll help me out. And you can

964
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:58,079
find her also on Instagram at Ferncandle or go to

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Ferncandle dot com and they make those delicious smelling candles.

966
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Like I said, Also, we have where is it? Oh?

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Our friend Sergio is highlighting now a couple charities that

968
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his friend Aubrey, the one that's the stylist, works with,

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and one is called Kasa Teresa. Oh, that sounds good.

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Casa Teresa t e r e s a dot org

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which is a safe haven for pregnant women in crisis.

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And you have to check out their site to see

973
00:54:31,159 --> 00:54:34,840
what they do. But they help single pregnant women. They

974
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:38,960
started in Santa Anna in nineteen seventy six and now

975
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:43,800
they're in Orange County since the eighty eight. That's really cool.

976
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Thank you, yeah, Kasa Teresa. Also speaking of like charity

977
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kind of stuff, our friend Carrie Kibler wants to raise

978
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awareness for Just Nate k nat e dot com. He

979
00:54:57,679 --> 00:55:00,519
does all those videos helping out the homeless. I was

980
00:55:00,599 --> 00:55:03,360
watching I went down a rabbit hole, uh huh watching

981
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him the other day and I was crying. Also, if

982
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you're running a small to medium sized restaurant and feeling

983
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:13,559
overwhelmed by accounting in hr tesks, our friend Jennifer Posner,

984
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a longtime member of our community wants to take the

985
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stress out of your finances in HR so go to JD.

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Posner posn e R Business Solution No S. Jdposner Business

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Solution dot com and check her out and tell us

988
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,599
about Mike Christine and Mike Girstine. If you have any

989
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plumbing issues, you can eat. If you're in the Maricopa

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County area and Phoenix, you can give him a call.

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You can come out right away. Or if you're not

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in the area and you have questions and you have

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wanted FaceTime with him, he's also available. Go to Phoenix

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Plumbingsolutions dot com. All his information is right there. You

995
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:53,719
can call him, you can text him. He'll get right

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00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:56,280
back to you right away. And just one last one,

997
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,599
let's tell you about Christine Black Storybook World Travel. She's

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been how helping a lot of people from fcol for

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a long ass time. Find her on Facebook or Instagram

1000
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:09,000
or just go to Storybook World Travel. All right, yeah,

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all right, thanks everybody. Thanks Kaitlin, you'rer parent Now, don't

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f it up. Letting