Speaker 1: Andy, Cancel so high, Cancelgem It's not Sorryogy.
Speaker 2: What's up? Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If
Speaker 2: you're hearing this episode, then you were meant to be here.
Speaker 2: So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we
Speaker 2: will laugh. Other times, baby Girl, we're gonna cry, but
Speaker 2: we will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive
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Speaker 2: On this podcast, we unbecome who we are not so
Speaker 2: we can fully step into exactly who we came here
Speaker 2: to be. Today, we're going to talk about the importance
Speaker 2: of pouring into your self. This was inspired by recent events.
Speaker 2: Last week, I was out and about celebrating Halloween, of course,
Speaker 2: and another man, oh ring the bell, has told me
Speaker 2: he has found his wife in me. I go, oh, really,
Speaker 2: is that true, sir? And he takes out his phone
Speaker 2: and he says, look, I even texted my friend you're
Speaker 2: my wife, and you know what, Lo and behold, Cec
Speaker 2: has still not found her husband. The tale of boys
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Speaker 2: I personally adopted the mindset of you all can eliminate
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Speaker 2: maybe that will be my person. But I'm not combing
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Speaker 1: OK.
Speaker 2: Way too much to do and not enough hours in
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Speaker 2: I've been thinking a lot about you, beautiful human beings,
Speaker 2: and you know I have to call you out. I'm
Speaker 2: not sorry, Nope, not sorry at all. I have to
Speaker 2: call you out because there are mind bending books out
Speaker 2: there written by philosophers, poets, enlightened beings, scientists. There are
Speaker 2: quantum physics books you could be studying right now and
Speaker 2: changing your reality. You could be reading Show Up as
Speaker 2: Her right now and be quantum leaping. But you're worried
Speaker 2: about a man who doesn't even have basic communication skills.
Speaker 1: Hmmm.
Speaker 2: You're worried about a man who doesn't have the decency
Speaker 2: to tell you why he doesn't feel a connection and
Speaker 2: is ghosting. You're worried about a man who can't even
Speaker 2: understand himself and you want him to understand you. Sis.
Speaker 2: That's embarrassing. Okay, that's embarrassing. Stop. Stop, you need to
Speaker 2: have a come to Jesus moment. Okay. There are so
Speaker 2: many things on this planet that you could be becoming
Speaker 2: skilled at to become wealthier, that you could be learning
Speaker 2: because maybe it's something that interests you that you could
Speaker 2: be doing because it's gonna bring you pleasure, And you're
Speaker 2: using your time, your energy, and your focus to worry
Speaker 2: about someone who's literally a nonchalant, bare minimum human being.
Speaker 2: Some people are just, Yeah, what do you want from me?
Speaker 2: I can't That is just the truth. Some people incarnated
Speaker 2: here to be mediocre. They have certain lessons and blessings
Speaker 2: of medicine and that. Do you really think that you
Speaker 2: are meant to be aligned with that person who can't
Speaker 2: text back, who's nonchalant, who doesn't have basic communication skills,
Speaker 2: Because that's really, really, really interesting if that's what you think.
Speaker 2: But guess what, just because you think something does not
Speaker 2: make it true. It means it's a thought. It's a
Speaker 2: passive energy form going through your body. I want you
Speaker 2: to think about all the time, all the energy, all
Speaker 2: the focus you're giving to someone who doesn't deserve it.
Speaker 2: And now I want you to think about what you
Speaker 2: could be doing with that time, energy, focus, awareness, perception.
Speaker 2: If you channeled it back into yourself, perhaps we would
Speaker 2: have many many more millionaires on this planet. Perhaps we
Speaker 2: would have many many more books written by you people,
Speaker 2: Hi everyone, Perhaps we would have more content creators, more
Speaker 2: business owners. If you stopped giving all your energy away
Speaker 2: to people who do not respect it, who do not
Speaker 2: give it back to you, and who do not value you.
Speaker 2: Let's wake up to our own greatness? Shall we? Shall
Speaker 2: we montra moment? The more I pour into myself, the
Speaker 2: more others will want to pour into me too. The
Speaker 2: more I pour into myself, the more others will want
Speaker 2: to pour into me too. Seriously, say this with me.
Speaker 2: The more I pour into myself, the more others will
Speaker 2: want to pour into me too. When you place yourself
Speaker 2: on the pedestal, so will they when you place them
Speaker 2: on the pedestal. They're gonna look down at you. And
Speaker 2: this isn't to play energetic games. This is for you
Speaker 2: to wake up to your own potential. What are you
Speaker 2: doing waiting around for people who are giving you the
Speaker 2: bare minimum? Baby, you're gonna start for the rest of
Speaker 2: your life if you're gonna rely on their bread crumbs
Speaker 2: that's not nutrient dense, and you'll have no energy left
Speaker 2: for yourself. Worrying about the wrong person literally makes you
Speaker 2: uglier up Once again, I'm not sorry for giving you
Speaker 2: the truth of the matter. Why is this? Well, when
Speaker 2: you're so worried about someone who doesn't give you an
Speaker 2: equal energetic exchange, you stop focusing on taking care of yourself,
Speaker 2: doing the workout, going for the wall, doing the meditation,
Speaker 2: connecting to the divine, eating nutrient dense food. The more
Speaker 2: you worry about them, Well, now, you're in your sympathetic
Speaker 2: nervous system, so you're not digesting your food as well,
Speaker 2: so you get bloated. Oh that's not fun. The power
Speaker 2: sympathetic nervous system is literally called rest and digest because
Speaker 2: when we're calm, we're able to digest our food. But
Speaker 2: when we're stressed out about that dude or that girl,
Speaker 2: we're not able to digest, so we get bloated. Then
Speaker 2: what happens, uh oh, we start to break out. Uh oh.
Speaker 2: Now we're either losing too much weight gaining weight. A
Speaker 2: host of physical symptoms begin to manifest when you're focused
Speaker 2: on the wrong thing, because your inner being is trying
Speaker 2: to tell you, hello, you're not focused on yourself and
Speaker 2: you're giving way too much energy to the wrong people,
Speaker 2: and yes they are the wrong people, and therefore your
Speaker 2: physical reality is going to show you. And now you're
Speaker 2: going to break out. And now you're gonna have disruption
Speaker 2: in your digestion, and now you're gonna start to feel nauxious.
Speaker 2: You're not gonna be able to focus on anything, and
Speaker 2: now you're gonna have a host of three D symptoms
Speaker 2: because you are not pouring into yourself. The more you
Speaker 2: pour into yourself, the more others are gonna pour into you.
Speaker 2: The more you abandon yourself, the more they're gonna abandon you.
Speaker 2: This is energetic law. I'm not making this up for fun,
Speaker 2: for shits and gigs. This is just the truth. When
Speaker 2: you understand the laws that you exist within, well, now
Speaker 2: you're able to use them to your advantage. But when
Speaker 2: you ignore them, now you're not in control, but they're
Speaker 2: controlling you. The more you focus on someone else, the
Speaker 2: more you empower them. They're not taking away your power,
Speaker 2: you're willingly giving it up because you're choosing, with your
Speaker 2: free will to focus more on them and what they're doing,
Speaker 2: rather than building yourself up for what purpose. Honestly, one
Speaker 2: day we're all going to be dead. Do you want
Speaker 2: to be at the end of your life thinking Wow,
Speaker 2: if only I didn't give all my energy to Brad,
Speaker 2: I could have a billion dollar business. If only I
Speaker 2: didn't give all my energy to Brad, I could have
Speaker 2: found the person who have actually loved me back. If
Speaker 2: I didn't give all my energy to Brad, I could
Speaker 2: have actually enjoyed my life. Sometimes bringing the mortality of
Speaker 2: being a human being to the forefront of your brain
Speaker 2: will wake you up. I think it's a very very
Speaker 2: important tool. The other day, I was getting a blowout
Speaker 2: and I said that to my hairdresser, and she said, Ceci,
Speaker 2: why would you say such a thing? I said, because
Speaker 2: it motivates me to reach my potential instead of focusing
Speaker 2: on matters or people that simply do not matter to
Speaker 2: me in the long run. I came all the way
Speaker 2: down to this planet and incarnated not to sit around
Speaker 2: and be stagnant and wait for people to understand the
Speaker 2: divinity within themselves so they can understand the divinity within me.
Speaker 2: If you can't see that, that is not my problem,
Speaker 2: that's a you problem. I'm gonna go where I'm celebrated
Speaker 2: and not tolerated. Worrying about the wrong piece, Well, yeah,
Speaker 2: it doesn't make you uglier because it makes your thoughts ugly.
Speaker 2: Then you start thinking, well, what's wrong with me? I'm
Speaker 2: not good enough, I'm not worthy? Why don't they love me?
Speaker 2: Flip the script, Flip the subject and the object of
Speaker 2: your sentence. It's not about why don't they love me?
Speaker 2: You need to ask yourself, why do I want someone
Speaker 2: who doesn't love me? Why do I want someone who
Speaker 2: isn't interested in me? I talk about this in my
Speaker 2: book Show Up as Her, and I really recommend that
Speaker 2: you get this so you can start to understand the
Speaker 2: flip script principle. It's not about the dude, It's about
Speaker 2: the energetic dynamic they're allowing you to replay because it
Speaker 2: reminds you of the dynamic you had with the caregiver.
Speaker 2: You crave love from the most, and you're still trying
Speaker 2: to prove to yourself that you're worthy of love. You're
Speaker 2: still waiting for mommy and Daddy to choose you. You're
Speaker 2: just waiting for them to choose you through Brad. You
Speaker 2: have to stop, and you need to start choosing yourself.
Speaker 2: You don't need to understand all the energy dynamics behind
Speaker 2: this for you to just make a decision right now.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna choose myself even when it's hard. I'm gonna
Speaker 2: choose myself, even when I don't feel like it. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna choose myself because it's never the wrong decision. To
Speaker 2: choose yourself, you need to acknowledge the role you're playing
Speaker 2: in your own misfortune, and when you do that, you
Speaker 2: then gain mastery over your reality. Then you're able to
Speaker 2: reclaim it. But if I just blame Brad for the
Speaker 2: rest of my life, that puts me in the victim energy.
Speaker 2: And when you're in a victim energy, you're saying that
Speaker 2: person has more power than me. That doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 2: Someone else has more power over your reality than you do.
Speaker 2: The math as per usual does not math in that scenario.
Speaker 2: You have the most power in your own reality. You
Speaker 2: get to choose what you give your time, energy, awareness,
Speaker 2: and perception too. You do not Brad. Brad is just
Speaker 2: a floating energy wavelength that has condensed into three D form.
Speaker 2: Who cares? Apparently you do, But you have the power
Speaker 2: to care, or you have the power to refocus on
Speaker 2: you take your awareness back. No one has the same perception,
Speaker 2: awareness focus vessel that you do. No one else exists
Speaker 2: in the body that you exist within. That alone is
Speaker 2: your power. Why are you disrespecting it? Why are you
Speaker 2: assuming that they are more special than you are? And
Speaker 2: you assume that when you give them more of your time, energy,
Speaker 2: and focus than you give to yourself, which is only
Speaker 2: making you uglier. Because your thoughts are getting ugly, your
Speaker 2: body's having three DSE symptoms, and now you feel terrible,
Speaker 2: and now you don't even want to go out because
Speaker 2: you're putting them on your pedestal instead of yourself, which
Speaker 2: empowers them and depletes you. And the funny thing is
Speaker 2: all of this is in your control. I'm the first
Speaker 2: person to say, oh, God is in control, God take
Speaker 2: the wheel. I'm the first person to say that, Okay,
Speaker 2: but this is a dance with destiny, It's a dance
Speaker 2: with divine. We are co creators with God. This part
Speaker 2: is solely in your power. What are you gonna do
Speaker 2: with it? I had three different people ask me to
Speaker 2: hang out on Sunday and I said no. My reason
Speaker 2: was I needed to spend time in prayer, contemplation, and meditation.
Speaker 2: I needed time to be with just the divine because
Speaker 2: if we want answers, we can't just be talking to God.
Speaker 2: We also have to listen. I've realized how important my
Speaker 2: time and energy is because I used to give it
Speaker 2: away for nothing. I used to be completely codependent, very
Speaker 2: anxiously attached, and even when I would want to just
Speaker 2: stay and do a face mask be with God, I
Speaker 2: would say, but this person's asking to hang out, and
Speaker 2: if I don't hang out with them, then I might
Speaker 2: miss the opportunity. And then we might not be able to.
Speaker 2: That was me trying to control everything. That was my
Speaker 2: past programs talking for me, not me consciously in the
Speaker 2: present moment, choosing for myself. I when I used to
Speaker 2: do that, would gain weight because I was so stressed
Speaker 2: out hanging out with people who didn't celebrate me. I
Speaker 2: would break out. I would feel so anxious. I felt
Speaker 2: like a shell of myself because I wasn't spending enough
Speaker 2: time in my own energy. And I actually like my
Speaker 2: energy better than anyone else I've ever met my life
Speaker 2: as I should. I chose to be this energy. I
Speaker 2: chose to come down and incarnate as this energy. I
Speaker 2: should like my own energy. If I didn't, that would
Speaker 2: tell me, Okay, we got to go back to the
Speaker 2: drawing board, date ourselves a little bit more, and find
Speaker 2: out who you are. I used to not like my energy,
Speaker 2: so I would want to hang out with anyone to
Speaker 2: distract myself from it. Now that I've hung out with myself,
Speaker 2: I understand myself. I've molded myself in accordance to God. Well,
Speaker 2: now I actually like myself. So I'm more picky with
Speaker 2: who I allow in my presence and who I share
Speaker 2: my energy with because I know the effect I have
Speaker 2: on other people, and I'm not willing to just give
Speaker 2: that to anyone. Why Because as much as I am divine,
Speaker 2: I'm also a human being, and I only have so
Speaker 2: much energy to give in a given day, and I
Speaker 2: need to make sure I'm using my energy to fulfill
Speaker 2: the potential that God has bestowed upon me. I need
Speaker 2: to make sure I'm using my energy to make God happy,
Speaker 2: not the mere mortals of this planet, because me and
Speaker 2: God have a covenant of my mission and what I
Speaker 2: meant to do here, and that is of the utmost
Speaker 2: importance to me, and no one will distract me from that.
Speaker 2: I don't care who you are. I'm not willing to
Speaker 2: give my time and energy away to just anyone now,
Speaker 2: because I understand how important it is for me to
Speaker 2: channel my energy in the right places. I would love
Speaker 2: for you to start asking yourself, what's my return on
Speaker 2: investment here? Every time I hang out with Billy, he
Speaker 2: gets to be maybe physically fulfilled, and I leave his
Speaker 2: apartment questioning what are we? Not? Only will I not
Speaker 2: give my time and energy in presence to anyone? Oh God,
Speaker 2: Oh God, my body absolutely not, absolutely not. Your body
Speaker 2: is your temple when you go to a holy place
Speaker 2: a temple, it is greatly respected and honored, and it's
Speaker 2: actually an insult in many cultures when someone doesn't bring
Speaker 2: flowers or some sort of offering to that temple. People
Speaker 2: are not only not bringing an offering to your temple,
Speaker 2: they're disrespecting you, and you're still giving them your body.
Speaker 2: I worn against this because it has detrimental effects to
Speaker 2: your psyche, your energy, and to your self esteem. You
Speaker 2: need to realize how special, how important, how divine you are,
Speaker 2: how sacred you are. So many souls have wanted to
Speaker 2: come down to this planet and incarnate during this time,
Speaker 2: and you got to. You got the chance. Honor your body,
Speaker 2: honor this existence, honor your spirit. I personally rather hang
Speaker 2: out with Jesus than give my body away to someone
Speaker 2: who doesn't understand the sacredness that I bring into a space.
Speaker 2: If you don't see me as a sacred portal to
Speaker 2: other dimensions, I really don't want to be near you.
Speaker 2: I find you uninteresting. I find you quite dense. Magnetic
Speaker 2: mindset shift. Nonchalant people are not interesting. I rather date
Speaker 2: the Divine than date a dusty The Divine gives me
Speaker 2: so much again, return on investment. When I plug into meditation, prayer,
Speaker 2: I open the Bible, I read a spiritual text. I
Speaker 2: get so much grace, so much insight, so much love.
Speaker 2: My self esteem rises, my patience builds, I get spiritual
Speaker 2: growth awareness. When I plug into the divine, I am
Speaker 2: equally fed and nourished, if not actually just so much
Speaker 2: more because all they have to do is create some silence,
Speaker 2: some space, and I'm WHOA, I'm fulfilled. WHOA I'm transcending,
Speaker 2: WHOA I'm changing. The divine over fills my cup without
Speaker 2: a doubt every single time. The nonchalant chad what another
Speaker 2: magnetic mindset shift. I talk to women all day, and
Speaker 2: they're so hurt by these nonchalant people. Why are you
Speaker 2: so hurt? They're like eighty percent of the population. They're
Speaker 2: not interesting. While they don't have communication skills, they don't
Speaker 2: have much to say. They maybe work their nine to five,
Speaker 2: afraid of commitment, binge drinks every weekend. Doesn't even like
Speaker 2: what they do for a living. Why are you hurt
Speaker 2: by someone who's completely living an illusion? Blinded by the matrix.
Speaker 2: You see, if someone was a philosopher, poet with the
Speaker 2: mind of a genius and they didn't like me, Perhaps
Speaker 2: I could be like, damn, that kind of sucks. But
Speaker 2: a nonchalant person who has no idea what's going on
Speaker 2: in the world, who doesn't care to learn, who sits
Speaker 2: in front of a television and watches sports every day
Speaker 2: like nothing else matters, why are you insulted that they
Speaker 2: don't like you. They don't like anything of importance. They
Speaker 2: don't appreciate the divine, they don't question if there's et races.
Speaker 2: They aren't opening a Bible the Kabalian, they're not learning
Speaker 2: energetic law. They don't like anything that's sacred or interesting.
Speaker 2: Why are they gonna like you who's sacred and interesting?
Speaker 2: If they like nothing else that is of importance, it
Speaker 2: actually makes perfect sense. And when the nonchalant person doesn't
Speaker 2: find you interesting or doesn't want to plug into you,
Speaker 2: that's a compliment. That's a good thing, because that means
Speaker 2: that they're so different in the vibration that they're broadcasting
Speaker 2: that you are, by energetic law, must be separated from them.
Speaker 2: That's a positive thing. The man who likes nothing of
Speaker 2: importance or interest or of sacredness, not liking you is
Speaker 2: a compliment. Take it as one. Please, for the love
Speaker 2: of God. Take it as one. What's going to give
Speaker 2: you the biggest return on investment? And every time you
Speaker 2: choose what you choose, I also want you to think,
Speaker 2: and what am I giving up? If I choose to
Speaker 2: hang out with Brad again, who won't give me commitment
Speaker 2: when I want commitment? What am I giving up? Time
Speaker 2: that I could be using to align with someone who
Speaker 2: actually will give me commitment. Time I could be spending
Speaker 2: with the divine time I could just be doing a
Speaker 2: face mask. Time I could be using to rejuvenate, in
Speaker 2: charge all of those things. Every time you're choosing what
Speaker 2: you're choosing, Also, what are you giving up? That's something
Speaker 2: you need to bring to the forefront of your mind
Speaker 2: and ask. I'm reading the book The Assignment, and I
Speaker 2: thought this was interesting because I just read this last night.
Speaker 2: Murdoch writes the obsession of Jesus was to finish. He
Speaker 2: wanted to reach the conclusion of his assignment on earth.
Speaker 2: He thought it, he talked it, he lived it. Jesus
Speaker 2: saith onto them. My meat is to do the will
Speaker 2: of Him that sent me and finish his work. I
Speaker 2: am someone who aspires to embody Christ's consciousness. Jesus is
Speaker 2: my greatest just example of who I want to be.
Speaker 2: It makes me emotional when I think of Jesus because
Speaker 2: I truly just love him so much and I see
Speaker 2: him as the greatest teacher on this planet. And I'm
Speaker 2: just so thankful that I am able, just as you are,
Speaker 2: able to connect to him and talk to him and
Speaker 2: feel his presence in my life. And honestly, I find
Speaker 2: it very comforting to know that Jesus existed and he
Speaker 2: was a healthy masculine energy. And if you don't have
Speaker 2: a good role model, a father and uncle, a cousin,
Speaker 2: a friend, a brother, of what a healthy masculine is,
Speaker 2: just ask Jesus to allow you to feel him, allow
Speaker 2: him to come into your life. I don't care what
Speaker 2: religion you are. I don't care if you hate religion.
Speaker 2: I'm not a huge fan of institutionalized religion. It doesn't
Speaker 2: feel good to me. But I love Jesus and Jesus
Speaker 2: is what is important to me, and I just highly
Speaker 2: recommend just ask him to allow you to feel his presence,
Speaker 2: and you will feel him. It will make a difference.
Speaker 2: I want to talk about the dessert principle, and this
Speaker 2: is in my book show up as her on page
Speaker 2: one sixty one. The dessert principle will help you understand
Speaker 2: how to balance your energy if you're out and if
Speaker 2: there's someone you're interested in. I also want to say,
Speaker 2: let's broaden this. This principle will help you understand how
Speaker 2: to protect your own energy so you don't make yourself sick. Okay,
Speaker 2: while dating all connecting with people, and again, this isn't
Speaker 2: about Oh, I want them to like me. I want
Speaker 2: them to be obsessed with me. That's a positive side effect.
Speaker 2: But really, I want you to protect yourself. I want
Speaker 2: you to see your vessel like God sees your vessel.
Speaker 2: I want you to honor your divinity because I'm tired
Speaker 2: of seeing people disrespect their own divinity and then get
Speaker 2: mad when other people disrespect their divinity too. Baby girl,
Speaker 2: it starts with you when you have a slice of
Speaker 2: some fabulous tasting cake that always leaves us wanting more. However,
Speaker 2: if we were to binge on this cake, even if
Speaker 2: it was a fabulous cake, it would make us sick.
Speaker 2: The cake's value does not matter. It could be an
Speaker 2: expensive cake or a cheap cake. Too much of any
Speaker 2: cake would cause us to be ill, regardless of its value.
Speaker 2: Anytime we think of this cake, we ate too much of.
Speaker 2: Even the thought of it alone can make us feel sick.
Speaker 2: Now apply this to energy. When you meet someone and
Speaker 2: you give them a sliver of your attention, connection, focus, energy, personality,
Speaker 2: and of the body, this leaves them wanting more. It
Speaker 2: allows you to stay on your pedestal and not lose
Speaker 2: connection to yourself. However, when you're so nervous about them
Speaker 2: liking you that you ghost your own morals, beliefs, in
Speaker 2: values and give them all your attention, connection, focus, energy, personality,
Speaker 2: and body, this will make them energetically sick and repel them.
Speaker 2: This has nothing to do with your value, and it
Speaker 2: has everything to do with how much energy you're giving out.
Speaker 2: Positive bitch tip frequency over force. Let people get to
Speaker 2: know your authentic energy, Do not force them. Giving a
Speaker 2: sliver of your energy will always leave others wanting more.
Speaker 2: Giving too much of your energy will always repel others
Speaker 2: in the opposite direction. How do you know if you're
Speaker 2: giving a sliver or your whole cake? You know you
Speaker 2: are giving a sliver when you feel good, you're being
Speaker 2: instead of trying to do or get something, and you're
Speaker 2: enjoying the conversation, but not forcing it. You're not manipulating
Speaker 2: yourself to be a version you think they would like,
Speaker 2: and you're able to assess what is in front of you.
Speaker 2: If you feel like you're getting extremely nervous, becoming depleted,
Speaker 2: having to change yourself so they like you, and trying
Speaker 2: to control everything, you are stepping into your wounded energies
Speaker 2: and giving all of your cake a way. I know
Speaker 2: a lot of people are still in the consciousness level
Speaker 2: of how do I get them to like me? How
Speaker 2: do I get them to be obsessed over me? I
Speaker 2: get it? Who cares? Honestly? Who cares? How can you
Speaker 2: stay connected to yourself? How can you remember your divinity?
Speaker 2: How can you act in a way where you feel good?
Speaker 2: That's what's important, not all this other mumbo jumbo. The
Speaker 2: right people will like you? Why are you trying to
Speaker 2: force the wrong people to like you? What a waste
Speaker 2: of this incarnation? What a waste of time? It boggles
Speaker 2: my brain? What no, stop it, stop it, reel it
Speaker 2: back in magnetic mindset shift. The more I spend time
Speaker 2: with myself, the more I'm gonna like myself, Because the
Speaker 2: more I'm gonna get to know myself and the less
Speaker 2: I'm willing to give my presence, time, energy, and body away.
Speaker 2: If you don't know how special your spirit is. No
Speaker 2: one else has your DNA, no one else has your spirit.
Speaker 2: If you don't get that yet, you need to spend
Speaker 2: time with yourself. I didn't like myself because I didn't
Speaker 2: know myself. And it wasn't until I started spending time
Speaker 2: with myself that I could like myself, because then I
Speaker 2: got to know myself. Do you see how it's a cycle?
Speaker 2: It's not that hard. I don't care. If you're just
Speaker 2: doing a face mask, a hair mask, that's still you
Speaker 2: filling yourself up. That's still a good return on investment
Speaker 2: because you're giving to yourself, You're focus on yourself, you're
Speaker 2: giving energy to yourself, and you're putting into here rather
Speaker 2: than over there. Maybe you need to ask yourself the question,
Speaker 2: how does God view me? How does God see me?
Speaker 2: Does he think I should just give my time, energy
Speaker 2: and body to everybody? Or does he see me as
Speaker 2: the royal angel baby goddess that I am. I think
Speaker 2: it's the latter when it comes to others. I am
Speaker 2: enacting the God standard, not the gold standard. Okay, the
Speaker 2: God standard. Would God want this person for me? Would
Speaker 2: God want the nonchalant, uncommunicative, unintelligent person for me? I
Speaker 2: don't think so. I don't think so. I would be
Speaker 2: bored bored? What are you offering me silence? I can
Speaker 2: give that to myself. Don't really care. Consult the divine
Speaker 2: you want to avoid dating burnout? Consult the divine God.
Speaker 2: Would you want this for me? Would you want me
Speaker 2: to be anxiously waiting around for Brad who can't do
Speaker 2: basic math? Is that who you want for me? I
Speaker 2: don't think so. Feeling good and looking good is something
Speaker 2: you get when you pour into yourself. The return on
Speaker 2: investment when you focus on you is you feel good
Speaker 2: and you look good. They feed one another. When you
Speaker 2: feel good, you look good, and when you look how
Speaker 2: good you feel good. Looking good, though, isn't just about
Speaker 2: what you look like physically. It's also about making sure
Speaker 2: your mental space, your spiritual space, is feeling good. This
Speaker 2: is on page fifty two. If showing up as her
Speaker 2: your thoughts are showing. Our thoughts might be held in
Speaker 2: the private space of our own minds, but they are
Speaker 2: felt in the public space of the quantum field. Someone
Speaker 2: does not need to be a mind reader to tell
Speaker 2: whether we are happy or sad. Someone can look at
Speaker 2: another and see the emotional state they're in based on
Speaker 2: body language alone. This is because our thoughts affect how
Speaker 2: we physically show up in the world. Every single thought
Speaker 2: we have creates a biochemical reaction in our body. If
Speaker 2: you've ever been nervous about an interview, an audition, or
Speaker 2: even a date, and you may have noticed your palms
Speaker 2: begin to get clammy or sudden stomach ache develops. Our
Speaker 2: thoughts are in direct communication with our body twenty four
Speaker 2: to seven, and our thoughts aren't shy about telling our
Speaker 2: body how to feel. Thinking fearful thoughts will cause our
Speaker 2: body to slip into a fearful state, and this brings
Speaker 2: us to the resting bitch phenomena. Having a smug look
Speaker 2: on your face or RBF is not just the way
Speaker 2: your face is constructed. If you're having negative thoughts at
Speaker 2: the bar, your body will show this. If you are
Speaker 2: thinking that you're unlovable, or your friends are prettier than you,
Speaker 2: or no one will like you, this will affect how
Speaker 2: you show up, and you do get that resting bitch face.
Speaker 2: You do get that smug face. And then you do
Speaker 2: look unapproachable because your thoughts are affecting your body, and
Speaker 2: your thoughts that you think are private are actually public
Speaker 2: in the quantum field. If you convince yourself that your
Speaker 2: human connections are now being threatened, your body will shift
Speaker 2: from the power sympathetic nervous system or rest and digest
Speaker 2: into the sympathetic nervous system of fight and flight. If
Speaker 2: you want to have big aura energy, if you want
Speaker 2: to magnetize the right people places opportunities towards you, you
Speaker 2: need to be telling yourself positive things about yourself. You
Speaker 2: need to be giving to yourself time, energy, attention, perception awareness,
Speaker 2: and you need to be authentic about who you are.
Speaker 2: A lot of times, when someone doesn't like us, if
Speaker 2: we actually got to know them, we wouldn't like them either.
Speaker 2: Not because it's personal. We're just not in vibrational alignment.
Speaker 2: Who cares? Honestly, not even God could get everyone to
Speaker 2: like him. Not even Jesus could get everyone to like him.
Speaker 2: They have a lot of enemies like damn. So don't
Speaker 2: expect everyone to like you, and do not take it
Speaker 2: personal when someone doesn't like me. I'm like, oh, okay,
Speaker 2: you weren't hit with the intelligence stick. I'm kidding. I'm kidding.
Speaker 2: I mean, am I kidding? I don't know who cares,
Speaker 2: doesn't really matter. The point is I can tell myself
Speaker 2: that and it feels good to me. I just think
Speaker 2: it's funny to have fun with life, and you know
Speaker 2: what being playful someone who's been in their masculine energy
Speaker 2: for most of their life and has an a type
Speaker 2: personality and it has an extreme personality and gets hyper vigilant,
Speaker 2: hyper focus, obsessive. This type of person helloads me. I
Speaker 2: need to make sure I'm having fun, and I have
Speaker 2: fun by telling myself funny narratives. I am so faithful
Speaker 2: in God to bring me the right person that it
Speaker 2: actually allows me even more to be my full self.
Speaker 2: I know if someone's meant for me, they're going to
Speaker 2: stay in my life. And the other day someone asked me, oh, like,
Speaker 2: what's up, and I said, I'm spiraling about ancient Egypt, which,
Speaker 2: just so you know, I often time spiral about ancient Egypt.
Speaker 2: There's so much we don't know. There was a princess
Speaker 2: they recently discovered from ancient Egypt, and her skin cells
Speaker 2: are still alive because they understood how to wrap a body.
Speaker 2: They have the advanced technology knowledge and understanding of how
Speaker 2: to do that. Did you know there's tunnels underneath the
Speaker 2: pyramids and the mathematics of how they created it. It's
Speaker 2: beyond human Anyway, I will go to Egypt at some point,
Speaker 2: manifesting I'm meant to be there. I'm obsessed with EACHYPT.
Speaker 2: I feel like I passed lifetimes in the Egypt. So
Speaker 2: I said that because I think if I scare you away,
Speaker 2: good begone. Beat boop bop, begone. And then I asked
Speaker 2: something along the lines of, well, how do you think
Speaker 2: the Pyramids were built? And they said, well, buy slaves.
Speaker 2: Why would I believe anything else? And I just bam
Speaker 2: bam bam with the bullet points. I'm literally reading you
Speaker 2: my text messages right now because I love you positive bitches,
Speaker 2: and like, this is a moment for us to share
Speaker 2: in giggle because we need to have fun. One Also,
Speaker 2: if he ever listens to this, mind your business, get
Speaker 2: off my podcasts. Anyway. Number One, I love the Bible
Speaker 2: and read it. I also acknowledged that there were too
Speaker 2: many different strains of Christianity, so they compiled it into
Speaker 2: one source aka the Bible and left a lot of
Speaker 2: things out, like reincarnation in parentheses, the Council of Nicia.
Speaker 2: It's a great start, but it isn't the whole story.
Speaker 2: And that's why they tried burning the Gospel Mary Magdalen
Speaker 2: seven different times. And by the way, she was not
Speaker 2: act a prostitute. If you didn't know. Two, just because
Speaker 2: we were unaware of something doesn't mean what we think
Speaker 2: is the absolute truth. There are books like The Chariots
Speaker 2: of Gods that talk about ancient Egypt and overall history,
Speaker 2: the law of one. Or you can just look into
Speaker 2: Billy Carson. He talks about this often. Three. Even when
Speaker 2: you were in school, Oh he's older. Even when you
Speaker 2: were in school, it was still in doctrination. It's a
Speaker 2: slow burn. And the point of school was to take
Speaker 2: children away from their mothers and put them into a
Speaker 2: system that would cause them to hopefully think differently than
Speaker 2: their parents, in align with the government over family. Hello,
Speaker 2: in doctrination. And then I said thank you for coming
Speaker 2: to my ted talk and he goes, I appreciate your insight,
Speaker 2: like that's funny to me. I think this is funny,
Speaker 2: and I just can't help but spread the awareness. You know,
Speaker 2: it's what I came here to do. Positive bitches. This
Speaker 2: is CEC from the future. While I was editing, I
Speaker 2: was thinking, wait, they're probably wondering, CEC. After you said that,
Speaker 2: what ended up happening? He asked me in to dinner,
Speaker 2: and today I think we would have great conversation. Okay.
Speaker 2: My point is that when you're authentic, the right people
Speaker 2: will move towards you, and it just makes life a
Speaker 2: lot easier. So don't be afraid to say the thing,
Speaker 2: or do the thing, or be you. The way I
Speaker 2: think about this is no person is more important than
Speaker 2: me being authentic. No person is more important than my potential.
Speaker 2: No person is more important than my relationship, my covenant
Speaker 2: and my mission with God. That has to be That's
Speaker 2: my north star. And because that's my north star, I
Speaker 2: don't care like I can be my authentic self all
Speaker 2: of a sudden. I don't have mere mortals on the
Speaker 2: pedestal because I'm on my own pedestal, because I know
Speaker 2: what I've done with God. I'm there. It's me. It's
Speaker 2: my life, my awareness, my perception, my mission in honor
Speaker 2: of God. And because I think that way, I'm not pedestoling.
Speaker 2: Oh my God, Brad and Chad and Billy who cares?
Speaker 2: Who cares? Mere mortals? Wow, not interesting. I owe it
Speaker 2: to God, I owe it to myself. I owe it
Speaker 2: to my younger self to do what I was put
Speaker 2: on to this planet to do, and so do you.
Speaker 2: No one is allowed to derail my destiny. No one
Speaker 2: is allowed to steal my passion from me, my projects
Speaker 2: from me, what I am put on this planet to do.
Speaker 2: No one's going to steal my life from me. And
Speaker 2: I'm not going to even let past people who have
Speaker 2: hurt me steal my life. I'm going to alchemize it,
Speaker 2: which brings me to remind you begin join align yourself
Speaker 2: with the art of alchemy. Course, if you want to
Speaker 2: take all of your hurt and turn it into power,
Speaker 2: you have the power to transform your life, but you
Speaker 2: have to make the decision to do so. I love
Speaker 2: you so much. I hope you enjoyed this episode. I
Speaker 2: hope it's brought some giggles, some awareness, some insight to
Speaker 2: sparkle in me as always honors to sparkle in you.
Speaker 2: I love you so much. If you're enjoying this podcast,
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