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<v Speaker 1>All right, you guys, we're going to go to South Windsor.

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<v Speaker 2>Brittany's on the line, went on a date, getting ghosted,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're going to get some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Brittany, Good morning, a Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about this date you had with Lorenzo.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, my gosh, it was so great.

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<v Speaker 4>It was.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we had an amazing dinner. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 3>honestly want to say it was like the perfect date.

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<v Speaker 3>He was funny, gentlemanly. Okay, it was I was feeling

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<v Speaker 3>I was feeling it, and I you know, I texted

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<v Speaker 3>him the next day and I thanked him, and I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't heard back, and I'm really surprised. I really want

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<v Speaker 3>to know why I'm getting ghosted.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there flirting? Were you guys? Did you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you were flirting with him on this date?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I definitely we were flirting. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>they were just like a really good rapport and it

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<v Speaker 3>felt very comfortable. Definitely felt like there was some movement,

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<v Speaker 3>so you feel like connection, so.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel like the chemistry was really there.

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<v Speaker 3>It was definitely there. So I'm just like, what happened?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you know me?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you drink too much.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, I had a couple of drinks but kept

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<v Speaker 3>it like a to drink, you know, with dinner. So

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think there was anything. Yeah, I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>that there was anything on tour about my behavior or

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<v Speaker 3>my alcohol consumption or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, before are you shaking your head?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it could be the humidity, you know, that

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<v Speaker 4>heat and humidity why he's not calling you. It's sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>it's just too hot to do anything, you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I do not.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't want to make plans because then you're no.

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<v Speaker 4>Then you're sitting All you want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Is just sit in the ac Are guys that fragile?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we really are, Brittany, don't listen to him.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna call Lorenzo and we're going to ask him

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<v Speaker 2>to be honest and tell us about the data.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to find out why you're getting ghosted?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>She sounds nice, sounds like a weird day.

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<v Speaker 6>Sweet girl, seems like a sweet girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Could be the heat. Just throwing that out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh, is Lorenzo there? This is City, Hi Lorenzo, This

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<v Speaker 1>is Courtney.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Lorenzo, It's Walmart Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Lorenzo, it's Savannah.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the

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<v Speaker 2>radio this morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh hey, good morning, Good morning morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're on the radio because you're on second date update,

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<v Speaker 2>which means you went on a first date which was fabulous,

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<v Speaker 2>and now you're ghosting somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Brittany called us, Lorenzo, oh and we're trying to We're

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<v Speaker 1>just trying.

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<v Speaker 2>To get some answers for her, he said, Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she said the day was fabulous, Like you guys had

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<v Speaker 2>a lot in common. You were flirty, she reached out

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<v Speaker 2>to you. But you're a ghostinger.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean yeah, I mean, you know, we did go

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<v Speaker 5>out and he started up like pretty odd.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so it started off awesome. What happened? What happened

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<v Speaker 1>then during the day to turn it around?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean I thought we had a connection until

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<v Speaker 5>at one point she told me that she still lives

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<v Speaker 5>with her ex boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, no, all right, Chuck Boyce.

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<v Speaker 5>It's weird and I don't want anything to do with

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<v Speaker 5>a woman that still lives with her ex boyfriend. That's

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<v Speaker 5>not I'm okay with all that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's hard. That's hard. I mean, why did she say

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<v Speaker 1>why she was still.

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<v Speaker 5>Living with him, something about Elise or something. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, is that.

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<v Speaker 2>The only reason you are ghosting her is because she

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<v Speaker 2>lives with her ex boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that like it?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, yeah, that's kind of a big one.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yeah, Courty, you make it sound like it's

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<v Speaker 4>like a small little Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I mean if you flipped it, would you

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<v Speaker 6>be comfortable dating somebody that still lived with his ex girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>No, But if he was really into her and that

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<v Speaker 2>was the reason, let's bring her on and find out

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<v Speaker 2>when she's moving out, that's my point.

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<v Speaker 1>Bring it on, Brittany.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you there, Hi, Lorenzo?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, so explain to us. Explain to us why

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<v Speaker 2>you're still living with your acts.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, I mean, first off, I brought it up

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<v Speaker 3>on our first day because I was being fully transparent

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<v Speaker 3>and there's nothing to worry about because, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just living with my ex boyfriend. We have a two bedroom.

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<v Speaker 3>It's totally batonic, but we have two months left on

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<v Speaker 3>our leaf and he's actually a really nice guy and

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want him to be sattled, you know, with

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<v Speaker 3>the rent and my name is on the leaf and

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<v Speaker 3>we just agreed to just live separate lives until the

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<v Speaker 3>end of the leaf. So I'm you know, I'm really

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<v Speaker 3>just in the situation for the next two months, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just didn't think it would be that big

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<v Speaker 3>of a deal if I just you know, was open

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<v Speaker 3>and honest about it while things were going good, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I didn't think that that would cost me

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<v Speaker 3>a second date.

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<v Speaker 6>Hold on, hold on, Brittany, is there like even one

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<v Speaker 6>percent of you that hopes that you get back together

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<v Speaker 6>with your Like are you kind of trying to keep

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<v Speaker 6>it on the back burner?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, there is zero percent chance, like if

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<v Speaker 3>it could be in the negative range, that's where it is.

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<v Speaker 3>And I mean he's already dated started dating other people.

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<v Speaker 3>He knows that I date other people. We are literally

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<v Speaker 3>cohabitating like roommates that like total ships of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's we're just agreeing to, you know, fulfill the

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<v Speaker 3>contract agreement essentially.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I contract.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the only contract that's still on the table. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>So emotional relational ones, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>That was my point for Lorenzo. Lorenzo doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 2>date somebody who's living.

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<v Speaker 1>With the X.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it, But if you signed a contract, you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to see it through. You were honest, Lorenzo, would

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<v Speaker 2>you go out with Brittany when she moves out? It's

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<v Speaker 2>you know, would you go on a date with her

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<v Speaker 2>if she was out of that house?

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<v Speaker 5>I tell you what, I did really enjoy our first

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<v Speaker 5>date other than that little uh that, that little snippit.

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<v Speaker 5>But I'll tell you what, whenever you move out, give

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<v Speaker 5>me a call and we can go on another day.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Okay, that's fair, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what else, I'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 2>So once you move out, Brittany, you look me up

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<v Speaker 2>or call us back or reach out whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to pay for that second date.

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<v Speaker 2>Once you move out and you're on your own, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to pick up the tab for you and Lorenzo

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<v Speaker 2>to go out again and try it again.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, that's amazing. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you're welcome. I'm glad you got the answers.

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<v Speaker 3>I am too.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much, Lorenzo, thanks for being honest with us.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you got it. Thank you all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you guys make it to that second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep us posted well,