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True Murder with 55 00:02:40.680 --> 00:02:56.120 your host, journalist and author Dan Zufanski, Good Evening. In 56 00:02:56.199 --> 00:03:02.080 February twenty fourteen, Aspen socialite Nancy Fister was murdered in 57 00:03:02.159 --> 00:03:06.319 her own home, brutally bludgeoned, wrapped in a sheet, and 58 00:03:06.400 --> 00:03:11.120 stuffed inside a locked closet. Fewer than twelve hours after 59 00:03:11.159 --> 00:03:14.280 her body was found and without any evidence, police decided 60 00:03:14.680 --> 00:03:17.879 a married couple from Denver had killed her. Within a 61 00:03:17.879 --> 00:03:22.000 few days, they arrested and charged Nancy Styler, a friend 62 00:03:22.000 --> 00:03:24.759 of Fisters who had a falling out with her after 63 00:03:24.800 --> 00:03:28.599 a business deal went sour, and doctor Trey Styler, Nancy's 64 00:03:28.639 --> 00:03:32.919 disabled husband, who recently lost a family home, his medical 65 00:03:32.919 --> 00:03:35.719 practice in any hope of a peaceful retirement for himself 66 00:03:35.719 --> 00:03:41.159 and his wife. Eleven days later, police charged Kathy Carpenter, 67 00:03:42.120 --> 00:03:47.159 Fister's underpaid and overworked personal assistant and closest friend. Months later, 68 00:03:47.360 --> 00:03:50.240 Trey Styler, who was slowly losing his grip on realities 69 00:03:50.240 --> 00:03:54.759 he battled with mental illness, confessed to the crime. Rampant 70 00:03:54.759 --> 00:03:58.319 speculation spread about whether he was involved at all, or 71 00:03:58.360 --> 00:04:00.319 if his confession was that of a man on his 72 00:04:00.360 --> 00:04:04.000 deathbed because a medical condition appeared to have left him 73 00:04:04.000 --> 00:04:07.319 barely able to walk, much less carry out such a 74 00:04:07.319 --> 00:04:10.719 heinous crime. And then the only interview before his death, 75 00:04:11.319 --> 00:04:15.240 Trey gives his account of that faithful day. New York 76 00:04:15.280 --> 00:04:19.160 Times bestselling author Dayleen Barry covers this compelling story from 77 00:04:19.160 --> 00:04:22.560 the inside, following the Stylers from their fairy tale life 78 00:04:22.600 --> 00:04:26.319 in Denver to the morning of their simultaneous arrest, to 79 00:04:26.439 --> 00:04:30.120 Nancy's release from jail and her attempt to rebuild her 80 00:04:30.199 --> 00:04:33.040 shattered life. The book that we're featuring this evening is 81 00:04:33.079 --> 00:04:36.680 Guilt by Matrimony with my special guest, journalist and author 82 00:04:37.120 --> 00:04:39.560 Dayleen Berry. Welcome back to the program and thank you 83 00:04:39.600 --> 00:04:44.920 for a Greenness interview, Dayleen Berry, Thank you Dan, Thank 84 00:04:44.959 --> 00:04:49.160 you Dayleen. Incredible story. Like I say, it never ceases 85 00:04:49.279 --> 00:04:52.759 to surprise me, some of these stories, so and this 86 00:04:52.800 --> 00:04:56.040 one is very very surprising. So let's get right to 87 00:04:56.560 --> 00:04:59.759 as we as I spoke to in the introduction. Let's 88 00:04:59.800 --> 00:05:04.600 talk talk about first about Nancy Styler and a little 89 00:05:04.600 --> 00:05:06.680 bit of her life. And she has a sister named 90 00:05:06.720 --> 00:05:09.319 Cindy and her mother's name Tess. So tell us a 91 00:05:09.319 --> 00:05:13.639 little bit about her life, and before we talk about 92 00:05:13.639 --> 00:05:19.759 how her and Trey met and ventured into this life 93 00:05:19.800 --> 00:05:22.480 that we will we'll talk about in this and you 94 00:05:22.560 --> 00:05:24.920 do so well in this book. So tell us a 95 00:05:24.959 --> 00:05:28.079 little bit about Nancy Styler before she met her husband, Trey. 96 00:05:29.600 --> 00:05:33.959 She was educated in the Boston area and started working 97 00:05:35.040 --> 00:05:40.439 at a makeup counter at an upscale department stour when 98 00:05:40.600 --> 00:05:44.560 she was sixteen. And then she went to college in 99 00:05:44.600 --> 00:05:48.720 France and was educated there as an anesthesist. Now in 100 00:05:48.839 --> 00:05:52.600 France she would have had the equivalent of a medical degree, 101 00:05:52.720 --> 00:05:56.480 but when I believe it was the Gailier you got 102 00:05:56.480 --> 00:05:59.199 all the American students, she was forced to return to 103 00:05:59.240 --> 00:06:02.279 the US sence she finished her studies here in the 104 00:06:02.360 --> 00:06:07.279 US and became an anste zeologist an instructor in the 105 00:06:07.319 --> 00:06:12.959 antesiologist program in Colorado, and that's where she met Trey Styler. 106 00:06:17.319 --> 00:06:20.920 Now, tell us a little bit about Trey Styler and 107 00:06:21.279 --> 00:06:22.680 his life before they met. 108 00:06:24.240 --> 00:06:30.000 Well. Trey came from the Oklahoma area, and he was 109 00:06:30.040 --> 00:06:33.560 born into a family that had made a good bit 110 00:06:33.600 --> 00:06:37.240 of money. They seemed to have money, but Nancy said 111 00:06:37.240 --> 00:06:40.360 that through his father's business that they made more money. 112 00:06:40.800 --> 00:06:44.879 Trey also said that before he died, and his mother 113 00:06:45.079 --> 00:06:49.439 was pretty frugal and was able to build make a 114 00:06:49.480 --> 00:06:51.560 lot more money out of what she had saved, and 115 00:06:51.639 --> 00:06:54.079 they had put into stocks and bonds. So he came 116 00:06:54.120 --> 00:06:58.079 from a pretty wealthy family. And the other important thing 117 00:06:58.120 --> 00:07:01.399 about the family is that they had a serious problem 118 00:07:01.439 --> 00:07:04.959 with depression. His mother, his brother, and Trey himself and 119 00:07:05.160 --> 00:07:09.240 the younger brother actually committed suicide, and when the police 120 00:07:09.279 --> 00:07:12.759 found his brother, they called Trey to come and identify 121 00:07:12.839 --> 00:07:15.839 the body because their parents were in Texas on a 122 00:07:15.879 --> 00:07:17.360 business trip at the time. 123 00:07:19.279 --> 00:07:25.240 Right, now, tell us about his successful rise in his profession, 124 00:07:25.839 --> 00:07:28.680 and then you can tell us about how the two met. 125 00:07:30.240 --> 00:07:34.920 Well. Trey was at first not a great college student 126 00:07:35.120 --> 00:07:39.279 and he actually his father because he wanted to party. 127 00:07:40.600 --> 00:07:42.519 He took him out of college and said, you need 128 00:07:42.519 --> 00:07:44.600 to go to work because I'm not paying for college 129 00:07:44.600 --> 00:07:47.079 if this is how you're going to spend my money. 130 00:07:47.120 --> 00:07:49.040 And so Trey went to work for a while and 131 00:07:49.120 --> 00:07:51.720 while he was working, I believe it's an orderly in 132 00:07:51.759 --> 00:07:54.800 a hospital. And he decided he liked that field, and 133 00:07:54.839 --> 00:07:58.360 so he applied to medical school and eventually he was 134 00:07:58.439 --> 00:08:04.079 accepted and became a de and he from that went 135 00:08:04.120 --> 00:08:07.839 into the field of anesthesiology. And what was so interesting 136 00:08:07.839 --> 00:08:11.759 about his work is that he was so gentle and 137 00:08:11.959 --> 00:08:18.240 kind that there were patients, not only fellow people in 138 00:08:18.519 --> 00:08:20.879 the professional field he worked in, like nurses and other 139 00:08:20.959 --> 00:08:24.839 doctors that sought out his services as an anesthesiologist, but 140 00:08:25.199 --> 00:08:29.399 he had a lot of patients who were pretty wealthy 141 00:08:29.560 --> 00:08:32.639 and they would request him, even from other hospitals. At 142 00:08:32.679 --> 00:08:36.120 times they refused to let anybody else do their anesthesia, 143 00:08:36.960 --> 00:08:40.879 and he just had this air of compassion and empathy 144 00:08:40.919 --> 00:08:44.200 and reassured the patient that he would take good care 145 00:08:44.240 --> 00:08:49.159 of them. And in addition to that, he was adept 146 00:08:49.360 --> 00:08:53.279 at understanding that if a person was afraid, that could 147 00:08:53.320 --> 00:08:56.879 actually lead to a case of being scared to death, 148 00:08:57.000 --> 00:09:01.000 literally being scared to death, and so he was really 149 00:09:01.240 --> 00:09:04.919 good at keeping them relaxed and talking them out of 150 00:09:04.919 --> 00:09:07.360 the fear before they had surgery, so much to the 151 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:11.159 point where people who had previously been so afraid and 152 00:09:11.279 --> 00:09:13.879 refused to ever have surgery again, he was able to 153 00:09:13.919 --> 00:09:16.320 talk them back into that and they after that was 154 00:09:16.360 --> 00:09:18.200 never using never excsiologists. 155 00:09:20.399 --> 00:09:24.720 Now you talk about the gentle man that Trey Styler 156 00:09:24.919 --> 00:09:30.679 was in his again unusual treatment of patients, and that 157 00:09:30.720 --> 00:09:33.759 was very endearing to a lot of people, including Nancy. 158 00:09:34.159 --> 00:09:39.679 So tell us how they met and again her first reaction, again, 159 00:09:39.720 --> 00:09:42.639 her reaction of Trey. When she did meet him. 160 00:09:43.840 --> 00:09:48.639 She was teaching in the anesthesia department and he was 161 00:09:48.720 --> 00:09:52.519 a resident and so he was technically her student. And 162 00:09:52.639 --> 00:09:56.320 the first time she interacted with him, she heard him 163 00:09:56.399 --> 00:09:59.879 tell a female patient exactly what would be going on 164 00:10:00.080 --> 00:10:02.919 during the procedure and how he would be taking care 165 00:10:03.000 --> 00:10:04.799 of her, and he walked her through stuff by step, 166 00:10:04.799 --> 00:10:08.960 and Nancy said that he was just so gentle and caring. 167 00:10:09.120 --> 00:10:11.840 It was unlike many other of the residents that she 168 00:10:11.879 --> 00:10:15.519 had seen, who would just simply put the mask over 169 00:10:15.559 --> 00:10:19.799 the patient and then count backwards without telling them anything 170 00:10:19.840 --> 00:10:21.960 that they were going to do, and she was very 171 00:10:21.960 --> 00:10:24.759 impressed by that. So over the course of about a 172 00:10:24.879 --> 00:10:29.440 year they started going out, and then eventually they were 173 00:10:29.440 --> 00:10:32.240 separated for a while because story had a rotation in 174 00:10:32.320 --> 00:10:35.399 another part of the state in Colorado, and then they 175 00:10:35.399 --> 00:10:38.559 got back together several months later and started dating and 176 00:10:38.600 --> 00:10:40.919 then ended up getting married a year or two later. 177 00:10:43.759 --> 00:10:47.440 What was the characteristic She found him very gentle in 178 00:10:47.559 --> 00:10:52.759 terms of him professionally, what was leading up to the 179 00:10:52.799 --> 00:10:56.440 marriage and all indications of from the beginning that they met. 180 00:10:56.879 --> 00:10:58.679 What was his character like. 181 00:11:00.039 --> 00:11:03.120 Well, he was very kind and he was also very gentle. 182 00:11:03.240 --> 00:11:07.279 That was Those were the two adjectives that she used 183 00:11:07.320 --> 00:11:11.960 to describe him over and over again. And actually many 184 00:11:12.000 --> 00:11:14.440 of the professional people at the hospital he worked at 185 00:11:14.440 --> 00:11:18.519 where he eventually became the chief of anisthesiology in his department, 186 00:11:19.279 --> 00:11:21.639 they said the same thing, that they had never seen 187 00:11:21.759 --> 00:11:26.120 him backed in a way that was angry or caused 188 00:11:26.120 --> 00:11:28.519 any alarm or concern. He was just a very gentleman. 189 00:11:29.000 --> 00:11:34.919 In fact, Nancy was on the back end of a divorce. 190 00:11:35.039 --> 00:11:37.559 Her first marriage had ended and she and her first 191 00:11:37.639 --> 00:11:42.279 husband divorce, and when she met Trey he joked that 192 00:11:42.600 --> 00:11:47.559 she he really appreciated her first husband because he kept her, uh, 193 00:11:47.639 --> 00:11:50.639 Nancy as a playfolder. He kept he kept a playfolder 194 00:11:50.639 --> 00:11:52.759 so that Trey could flipped in. And Trey never looked 195 00:11:52.759 --> 00:11:56.240 at himself with somebody that would win a woman like 196 00:11:56.320 --> 00:12:00.799 Nancy's heart, because he was booking. She was a geek. 197 00:12:00.960 --> 00:12:03.600 He didn't, you know, stand out in any way except 198 00:12:03.679 --> 00:12:06.000 this gentle kind character that he had. 199 00:12:08.960 --> 00:12:13.360 Now we talk about they being married. They met, they married, 200 00:12:13.399 --> 00:12:16.840 and they also have plans for a child. So within 201 00:12:16.960 --> 00:12:18.759 three years they have a child. So tell us a 202 00:12:18.799 --> 00:12:21.919 little bit about what their decision is as a couple 203 00:12:22.440 --> 00:12:25.200 to do now that they do have the child, and 204 00:12:25.279 --> 00:12:30.200 so tell us how things change as a result. 205 00:12:30.279 --> 00:12:35.120 Well, they changed in the fact that Nancy had been 206 00:12:35.159 --> 00:12:39.240 doing work with patients and she felt like it was 207 00:12:39.279 --> 00:12:42.919 not safe to continue doing that pregnant. She didn't want 208 00:12:42.960 --> 00:12:46.000 to put her child at risk, and so they decided 209 00:12:46.039 --> 00:12:49.759 together that she would leave her profession in medical field. 210 00:12:50.200 --> 00:12:52.320 And that was something she wanted to do because she 211 00:12:52.360 --> 00:12:54.360 wanted to be a full time mother. And at that 212 00:12:54.519 --> 00:13:00.440 time she began getting into botany, and she became very 213 00:13:00.480 --> 00:13:03.840 skilled in the field of botany, fell in love with 214 00:13:03.879 --> 00:13:07.440 a flower called the Victoria lily, which has an eight 215 00:13:07.799 --> 00:13:13.919 foot in circumference their diameter excuse me, lily pad. And 216 00:13:14.039 --> 00:13:17.960 these are typically grown in the Amazon rainforest in Brazil, 217 00:13:18.039 --> 00:13:20.480 and so she fell in love with its flower and 218 00:13:20.720 --> 00:13:23.519 on a trip to Amazon at that time they could 219 00:13:23.519 --> 00:13:26.440 bring some home. Since then it's become illegal, but they 220 00:13:26.440 --> 00:13:29.919 brought home some seedlings basically and started planning them there. 221 00:13:30.120 --> 00:13:34.960 And before long their home had become what the Denver 222 00:13:36.679 --> 00:13:43.039 Botanical Society called UH jokingly, I believe uh Denver Botanical 223 00:13:43.120 --> 00:13:47.240 West because their whole garden, their whole garden in the 224 00:13:47.240 --> 00:13:51.240 backyard was built and designed to cultivate these Victoria lilies. 225 00:13:51.600 --> 00:13:53.799 And it was in that setting that she and her 226 00:13:53.879 --> 00:13:57.720 husband raised their son Trey, continued working at the head 227 00:13:57.759 --> 00:13:59.320 of the antistesiology department. 228 00:14:01.480 --> 00:14:04.440 Now, is this the home that they built that you 229 00:14:04.480 --> 00:14:06.440 talk about and you show a photo in the book 230 00:14:06.480 --> 00:14:08.519 of the two point two million? Were they at that 231 00:14:08.559 --> 00:14:12.240 point where they built this dream home, including these incredible 232 00:14:12.759 --> 00:14:15.480 gardens that she had become this master gardener. 233 00:14:16.519 --> 00:14:18.679 Yes, And the gardens were built over a period of 234 00:14:18.679 --> 00:14:20.879 several years. She kept adding to them every year, and 235 00:14:20.879 --> 00:14:23.879 the home was that two point two million home which 236 00:14:24.000 --> 00:14:27.279 was exclibit just it had, you know, everything you can 237 00:14:27.320 --> 00:14:31.960 want can front, including it into a waterfall. At that time. 238 00:14:32.000 --> 00:14:35.600 They had a theater room, which was uncommon at that time. 239 00:14:36.559 --> 00:14:40.320 It's more common nowadays with some homes. Just a lot 240 00:14:40.360 --> 00:14:42.279 of amenities and that beautiful home. 241 00:14:44.360 --> 00:14:48.320 Now in terms of lifestyle, it was there anything other 242 00:14:48.399 --> 00:14:54.279 than this, again, the appearance of normalcy behind the scenes, 243 00:14:54.679 --> 00:14:58.799 raising their son Daniel, and tell us a little bit 244 00:14:58.840 --> 00:15:04.919 about again organics in her interest in organic agriculture and horticulture. 245 00:15:05.080 --> 00:15:08.360 So tell us if there was anything beyond this veil 246 00:15:08.399 --> 00:15:10.440 of normalcy behind the scenes. 247 00:15:12.159 --> 00:15:16.840 Well, at first there was not. The only thing that 248 00:15:17.080 --> 00:15:20.399 was going on in the early years when their son 249 00:15:20.559 --> 00:15:26.759 was growing up was Nancy had become such an adept expert. 250 00:15:26.799 --> 00:15:30.960 I mean, she really excelled at gardening, and before long 251 00:15:31.039 --> 00:15:33.559 she was teaching gardening classes. She was traveling around the 252 00:15:33.559 --> 00:15:38.799 country speaking to different conservatories. And in addition, she and 253 00:15:38.919 --> 00:15:44.639 Trey and their son Daniel were cultivating these Victoria lilies 254 00:15:44.759 --> 00:15:48.240 which they would then send either the seedlings or the 255 00:15:48.240 --> 00:15:51.440 plants around the country and sometimes even the well every 256 00:15:51.480 --> 00:15:55.600 year they said them around the world to different conservatories, 257 00:15:55.960 --> 00:15:59.000 and they would a lot of times, they didn't even 258 00:15:59.120 --> 00:16:01.399 charge for them. The way it was like a gift 259 00:16:01.799 --> 00:16:05.320 to the world, and everybody that knew their work and 260 00:16:05.639 --> 00:16:09.039 the extent of how much volunteerism was involved in it 261 00:16:09.120 --> 00:16:15.320 was just amazed at how just gracious and generous they were. 262 00:16:15.879 --> 00:16:20.559 Now, let's talk a little bit about some of the 263 00:16:20.600 --> 00:16:23.440 bad times that begin to happen, and so let's talk 264 00:16:23.480 --> 00:16:28.159 about Trey's health and what eventually does happen to him. 265 00:16:28.159 --> 00:16:29.399 In terms of his health. 266 00:16:30.240 --> 00:16:35.600 Well, in nineteen ninety nine, he started developing He'd had 267 00:16:35.639 --> 00:16:38.919 foot problems for quite a while, but nobody really knew 268 00:16:39.039 --> 00:16:42.600 that it was a symptom of anything. Nancy said, his 269 00:16:42.679 --> 00:16:46.240 feet just looked weird. But he started having problems in 270 00:16:46.320 --> 00:16:49.960 nineteen ninety nine, and that was when he was having 271 00:16:50.000 --> 00:16:54.240 trouble basically walking and making his legs work. He noticed 272 00:16:54.240 --> 00:16:58.639 some muscle symptoms, things that he thought were problematic with 273 00:16:58.679 --> 00:17:01.399 his muscles, and so he went to one doctor after another, 274 00:17:01.960 --> 00:17:07.200 and the first diagnosi is that he received was not 275 00:17:07.359 --> 00:17:12.680 actually the correct one, Nancy believes, but he ended up 276 00:17:13.680 --> 00:17:17.119 the illness. The symptoms kept getting worse, and so the 277 00:17:17.200 --> 00:17:20.920 doctors were prescribing one medication after another just to try 278 00:17:20.920 --> 00:17:23.400 to help him function so that he could continue working 279 00:17:23.400 --> 00:17:25.880 and have a normal life. And it was during this 280 00:17:25.920 --> 00:17:28.240 time that he got so bad that he was having 281 00:17:28.240 --> 00:17:31.400 to use a scooter to get around because he would 282 00:17:31.440 --> 00:17:33.599 just be worn out from walking very far. He figured 283 00:17:33.640 --> 00:17:35.960 out one time that he was walking an average of 284 00:17:36.000 --> 00:17:39.200 seven miles a day on his medical rounds to see 285 00:17:39.240 --> 00:17:43.920 all his patients. And so what the turning point finally 286 00:17:44.079 --> 00:17:49.319 came when he couldn't remember whether he had given a 287 00:17:49.440 --> 00:17:53.759 patient the medicine that he needed before the patient was anesthesized, 288 00:17:54.319 --> 00:17:58.079 and he realized in retrospect that it was a life 289 00:17:58.119 --> 00:18:00.519 or decision and it was a mistake that he just 290 00:18:00.559 --> 00:18:03.799 couldn't live with. So he at that time gave up 291 00:18:03.839 --> 00:18:04.319 his job. 292 00:18:05.799 --> 00:18:11.279 So how did that change their life at that moment. 293 00:18:12.480 --> 00:18:15.680 Well, for a while it was it was okay because 294 00:18:15.680 --> 00:18:19.960 they had a lot of money in savings, but then 295 00:18:20.000 --> 00:18:23.519 it turned out that the insurance that he had been 296 00:18:23.599 --> 00:18:28.559 paying for wasn't It wasn't as much as they thought 297 00:18:28.599 --> 00:18:30.960 it was going to be. In addition to that, he 298 00:18:31.039 --> 00:18:33.960 had been in the process of trying to develop this 299 00:18:34.119 --> 00:18:37.319 piece of computer software and he was a part of 300 00:18:37.359 --> 00:18:41.599 this antisseusiology group that had formed their own corporation, and 301 00:18:41.640 --> 00:18:45.319 they actually hired him to finish that software, and he 302 00:18:45.400 --> 00:18:48.400 brought on a computer program programmer to do that, to 303 00:18:48.400 --> 00:18:50.960 help him do that. And then somehow during the course 304 00:18:50.960 --> 00:18:54.400 of the next several years, what happened was it looks 305 00:18:54.440 --> 00:18:56.359 like that, well it doesn't look like this is actually 306 00:18:56.400 --> 00:19:01.240 what happened. The Antistesiology group claimed software is their own, 307 00:19:02.039 --> 00:19:05.079 and Trey tried to take them to court to fight it, 308 00:19:05.559 --> 00:19:12.160 and in the ensuing lawsuit, he basically ran the family dry. 309 00:19:13.240 --> 00:19:17.000 He paid this attorney eight hundred thousand dollars to fight 310 00:19:17.079 --> 00:19:21.960 this case, and the attorney actually was guilty in no 311 00:19:22.079 --> 00:19:24.599 practice because he didn't even do what he was hired 312 00:19:24.640 --> 00:19:28.160 to do. So with the money gone then, of course, 313 00:19:28.799 --> 00:19:31.400 by then his job was gone. They had to give 314 00:19:31.480 --> 00:19:35.759 up their home and you know, moved to a smaller place, 315 00:19:35.960 --> 00:19:39.759 and by then they were living on Trey's disability and 316 00:19:40.279 --> 00:19:42.480 what little bit of money Nancy was bringing in, which 317 00:19:42.519 --> 00:19:43.039 wasn't much. 318 00:19:45.720 --> 00:19:50.160 We mentioned you mentioned earlier about the history of his 319 00:19:50.279 --> 00:19:55.799 family with depression. Tell us about what ensues in terms 320 00:19:55.839 --> 00:19:57.920 of again we might be jumping a little bit ahead, 321 00:19:57.960 --> 00:20:04.480 but what this Prussian manifests in terms of a threat 322 00:20:04.519 --> 00:20:08.359 to the family of his again the suicide. So let's 323 00:20:08.440 --> 00:20:12.759 let's talk a little bit about just this depression leading 324 00:20:12.799 --> 00:20:17.200 to Tray's whether it's it's not very serious, but it 325 00:20:17.279 --> 00:20:18.920 is a threat of suicide. 326 00:20:19.400 --> 00:20:23.400 Yes, yes, And actually that started when he stopped working 327 00:20:24.240 --> 00:20:26.480 until the time when he was While he was working, 328 00:20:26.559 --> 00:20:29.160 even though he was ill, he was he seemed to 329 00:20:29.200 --> 00:20:33.039 be okay. But then when he had to give up 330 00:20:33.039 --> 00:20:38.759 his job, he started becoming very introspective and kind of 331 00:20:38.759 --> 00:20:41.640 pulling away from people. He would have angry outbursts, nothing 332 00:20:42.000 --> 00:20:46.119 to the point of violently striking anyone, but he would 333 00:20:46.160 --> 00:20:49.599 just have these frustrated fits of anger where he was 334 00:20:50.400 --> 00:20:53.039 upset over his condition and he said he'd be better 335 00:20:53.079 --> 00:20:55.480 off dead. And that seemed to be the first of it, 336 00:20:55.519 --> 00:20:58.160 and Nancy didn't take it very seriously. But then over 337 00:20:58.240 --> 00:21:02.440 time from the illness, he became more and more depressed. 338 00:21:02.920 --> 00:21:06.480 And as the lawsuit progressed and he ended up giving 339 00:21:06.599 --> 00:21:09.440 this attorney so much money, that was part of the 340 00:21:09.480 --> 00:21:13.519 depression too. You know, what came first and what the 341 00:21:13.799 --> 00:21:16.680 end result was can be debatable. Whether it was the 342 00:21:17.440 --> 00:21:20.319 depression and then that led to his bad decisions with 343 00:21:20.359 --> 00:21:22.759 the attorney or whether it was the attorney's actions and 344 00:21:22.759 --> 00:21:25.400 then you know that led to the depression. We don't know. 345 00:21:25.960 --> 00:21:28.680 But what we do know is that he was being 346 00:21:28.720 --> 00:21:32.200 treated for this depression and he was taking several drugs 347 00:21:32.200 --> 00:21:34.799 by that time, both for what they thought was then 348 00:21:35.359 --> 00:21:38.880 some type of a similar form of Blue Garrett's disease 349 00:21:38.960 --> 00:21:41.960 at the time and the depression he was being treated 350 00:21:41.960 --> 00:21:44.240 for all that those problems. 351 00:21:45.759 --> 00:21:48.480 Now you talked about the two point two million dollar home, 352 00:21:48.519 --> 00:21:50.160 and it's a beautiful home and you have a great 353 00:21:50.160 --> 00:21:52.880 photo of it in the book. They had to sell 354 00:21:52.920 --> 00:21:55.759 for eight hundred and forty thousand. So we've already outlined 355 00:21:55.799 --> 00:21:59.400 the conditions that these people are not in great condition 356 00:21:59.599 --> 00:22:06.079 financially whatsoever, in physically, and so their luck has turned 357 00:22:06.119 --> 00:22:10.640 to say the least. Now with the selling of that home, 358 00:22:11.440 --> 00:22:14.000 they are looking for a fresh start. So what do 359 00:22:14.119 --> 00:22:16.920 they where do they look to and what do they 360 00:22:16.960 --> 00:22:19.480 do in this bid for a fresh start. 361 00:22:21.000 --> 00:22:27.200 Well, they actually they actually rented a couple of different 362 00:22:27.240 --> 00:22:30.000 homes before they went to Aspen, and during that time 363 00:22:30.000 --> 00:22:33.160 they tried a couple of businesses, one which was a 364 00:22:33.200 --> 00:22:36.880 printing business, the other I don't remember off the top 365 00:22:36.920 --> 00:22:39.480 of my head. But neither one of those lasted very 366 00:22:39.559 --> 00:22:43.720 long for different reasons, nothing that was essential to the 367 00:22:43.720 --> 00:22:45.720 outcome of the story. 368 00:22:45.359 --> 00:22:45.799 In the book. 369 00:22:45.839 --> 00:22:50.519 But what they did decide, and this is Nancy's idea, 370 00:22:50.799 --> 00:22:55.000 She wanted to open up a medical spa because she 371 00:22:55.079 --> 00:22:57.720 felt that with her training that she received in France 372 00:22:57.759 --> 00:23:04.880 and her knowledge of and as an aspetition, she felt 373 00:23:04.920 --> 00:23:09.000 that she could provide people with beauty treatments such as 374 00:23:09.039 --> 00:23:13.200 botox and different things like that. 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