Speaker 1: Hey everybody, it's Adam Ramsey. Come see me at access party.
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Speaker 1: which is like to fly on brooms slash used said
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Speaker 1: Thank you Cole Connor for that contribution. Check out my
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Speaker 1: Sorry for asking, Sorry for asking. I'm Cole Connor and
Speaker 1: I'm Adam Ramsey. This is where we talk, shop, ask questions.
Speaker 3: Tell stories, and laugh some laughs about being creators as well.
Speaker 2: As consumers of adult content. We love watching too, we
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Speaker 3: We also discuss the impact adult films have had on us,
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Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, welcome back, Welcome back to Sorry for asking.
Speaker 1: I'm Cole Connor, I'm Adam Ramsey, and it is a
Speaker 1: beautiful August day.
Speaker 2: It's beautiful, like yeah, a lot's happened since our last
Speaker 2: recording from Sunny Bourbank, California. Yes, Hello, Hello, Hello, summer
Speaker 2: is summer in.
Speaker 1: It's kind of funny, like I feel like the beginning
Speaker 1: of summer was like so it felt like it was
Speaker 1: so stretched out, and now I feel like we're like
Speaker 1: racing towards.
Speaker 2: The finish line.
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like it just went came and
Speaker 3: went really fast in an hour here in August, now
Speaker 3: here we are.
Speaker 2: You have a very fresh haircut right now, literally is
Speaker 2: an hour. I can see it like that side fade
Speaker 2: is shiny, beautiful. Who did that?
Speaker 3: My friend Jordan at it's called the barber's den, okay
Speaker 3: or the barber den.
Speaker 2: I can't remember if there's an ass on it or not.
Speaker 2: It looks great. Yeah, he's been cutting me for a while.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely need a haircut, which is why I'm
Speaker 1: wearing this hat.
Speaker 2: Yeah, did you get one before your trip? I did
Speaker 2: get one before my trip.
Speaker 1: I'm having a I'm having a predicament with my current barber.
Speaker 2: I want to fuck him. Oh yeah, you and your barbers.
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, that did happen. For quite some time.
Speaker 2: I was in a relationship with the.
Speaker 3: Barber the only time I left this left Jordan, my
Speaker 3: guy at the barber den. He was for uh was
Speaker 3: for yours for a little while.
Speaker 1: Okay, No, this person is somebody who like he's come
Speaker 1: to the Hot Talk a few times and he made
Speaker 1: a pitch to like maybe have like a little barber
Speaker 1: set up barbershop set up at Hot Dog, and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh cool, yeah, and also like I don't know,
Speaker 1: I'm trying new barbers every once in a while. And
Speaker 1: so I went over there and there was like some
Speaker 1: definite chemistry happened a couple of times. And then next
Speaker 1: time he was at Hot Dog, we like full like
Speaker 1: the day of my haircut, like he showed up at
Speaker 1: Hot Dog. I was like, hey, yeah, that was a
Speaker 1: great cut. He was like yeah, it was great having you.
Speaker 1: And then we leaned in and like had this like
Speaker 1: hella makeout. And I was like, oh, okay, so this
Speaker 1: chemistry it does exist. I wasn't just making it up
Speaker 1: in that barber chair whatever.
Speaker 3: I don't know about getting my haircut at Hot Dog though, Nah,
Speaker 3: I mean clippings. I always have to rent it out,
Speaker 3: you know, yes, and you know clippings in my drink.
Speaker 1: You know, people make pictures to me that hot dog
Speaker 1: all the time. Luckily, the best thing I can do
Speaker 1: is just be like, you know what, Mario makes all
Speaker 1: those decisions so great idea, why don't you here's his instagram.
Speaker 1: You can contact him yourself. It's all suggested. I'll give
Speaker 1: him an alert that you are reaching out, and whether
Speaker 1: he responds or not, it is up to him.
Speaker 3: So my hands are clean. Yeah, and then I just
Speaker 3: work here there. He's there in the beginning, and then
Speaker 3: it takes.
Speaker 1: Pretty much yes, yeah, and then I'm the boss for
Speaker 1: It's been really great.
Speaker 2: Talk has been so great. It's always great.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and access is coming. I'm actually doing a little
Speaker 1: side like a satellite party this Saturday. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you're free, but we're going to do like a
Speaker 1: little house party thing like it's like an open air
Speaker 1: house party situation.
Speaker 3: That's going to give me two things that I have
Speaker 3: to go to on Saturday. What's the other a lesbian birthday?
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 3: I mean, I know I haven't rs VP to do
Speaker 3: it yet, but well, this is going to go late.
Speaker 3: Might have to okay, Well, that's I'm probably gonna end
Speaker 3: early because you know, lesbians, we love lesbians, we.
Speaker 2: Love I love you guys. I'll be listening. Lesbians are
Speaker 2: a huge part of my life. Yeah, thank goodness. I know. Wait,
Speaker 2: so let's where do we start? Where do we start? Okay,
Speaker 2: so with mine or yours? With yours? With mine? I mean,
Speaker 2: it's been too long for me to talk about ho dag.
Speaker 2: I don't remember.
Speaker 3: I don't remember all that stuff. I think I already mentioned, Like,
Speaker 3: I mean, it was a really fun time. I'm not
Speaker 3: a huge country music fan, so I didn't really know
Speaker 3: all like who I was watching and all of that.
Speaker 3: I was there for the I was there for the
Speaker 3: good time, not really for the music, and it wasn't
Speaker 3: a good time, and it was a good time. Ryan
Speaker 3: Landers and his boyfriend were great hosts for me, and
Speaker 3: I had a great time. And I think I already
Speaker 3: mentioned I only hooked up oncet threesome at the end. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you mentioned briefly in the Taylor episodes. And surprisingly everyone
Speaker 3: was everyone's butt was clean.
Speaker 2: Sometimes the body just cooperates it just.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess. Yeah, I don't know how it happened. Yeah,
Speaker 1: uh so I had a trip. Everybody I may have mentioned.
Speaker 1: I went to Germany, met up with our good friend
Speaker 1: Colin and we did a weekend at something called Whole Festival.
Speaker 1: I've heard of it. You've heard of it, Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: Whole with a W. But I mean also take your pick.
Speaker 1: You know, Whole Festival. It's just outside of Berlin. So
Speaker 1: imagine an eight thousand, ten thousand person festival with like
Speaker 1: several stages in this beautiful, crazy outdoor venue that like
Speaker 1: had these big, giant, industrial like art pieces.
Speaker 2: I think they were art pieces.
Speaker 1: They look like oil rigs almost, but they were just
Speaker 1: like they were just everywhere. And then it was on
Speaker 1: this like peninsula like three hours south of Berlin and
Speaker 1: there are camping sites, so like burning it's burning man esque. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would say, for sure, but I mean, like, imagine
Speaker 1: a festival of that scale, but like by and for
Speaker 1: queer people.
Speaker 2: It's all queer. It was amazing. It was beautiful.
Speaker 1: There were some logistical nightmares, like in terms of just
Speaker 1: like you know, getting there set up, like you know,
Speaker 1: they have shuttles and stuff, which is great, but like
Speaker 1: there were just a lot of things that I feel
Speaker 1: like they were missing. Like I get really stuck on
Speaker 1: some details, like if you have buses going every ten
Speaker 1: minutes and they're all lined up. Why don't you have
Speaker 1: signage on each bus as to which departure? No, like
Speaker 1: which time departure it is? Do I have to walk
Speaker 1: around and ask everybody in broken English, like which bus
Speaker 1: I should be on?
Speaker 2: God damn it? Yeah yeah. And then like German, you know,
Speaker 2: thankfully everybody in speaks English. They like French where they
Speaker 2: want you to try, they want to see you try.
Speaker 2: I didn't get that vibe.
Speaker 1: I got other vibes, which I'm happy to talk about about,
Speaker 1: like people in Berlin slash Germany.
Speaker 2: German culture is very interesting.
Speaker 1: But also things like, you know, if you're going to
Speaker 1: have like a they had a glamping setup where they
Speaker 1: you know, they had one where it's like open fields
Speaker 1: where you can bring your own camping equipment. But then
Speaker 1: there are also this there's also this section where they
Speaker 1: have like your setup for people who like all you
Speaker 1: do is like you pay for a spot, they give
Speaker 1: it to you. There's betting, there's power and for like
Speaker 1: hundreds of people, they had one check in window and
Speaker 1: we got there early, thankful, and we were thirty people
Speaker 1: and it still took an hour to get our spot.
Speaker 1: And then they gave us a number of a tent
Speaker 1: that didn't even exist, so we had to walk around
Speaker 1: for an hour before we found it. And then we
Speaker 1: came back after resting for a few hours and saw it. It
Speaker 1: was like hundreds of people deep, and people apparently were
Speaker 1: in line for like four or five hours, so there
Speaker 1: were a lot of grumpy people. That aside, the festival
Speaker 1: itself was so beautiful, so sexy. I had so much
Speaker 1: sex and it was very fun. I definitely took my doxy.
Speaker 1: It didn't work.
Speaker 2: Well when in Germany. Girl, you need something stronger than that,
Speaker 2: you know, if you're gonna have a setup like that.
Speaker 1: Like thankfully they had lots of water stations so we
Speaker 1: can like we can well, we can rinse, slash, fill
Speaker 1: up our water bottles. Not a single bottle of hand
Speaker 1: soap or sanitizer insight anywhere anywhere.
Speaker 3: This is the stuff about festivals that I like. It
Speaker 3: makes it not It makes me not want to do it.
Speaker 3: I mean because I'd like, yes, there's amazing other experiences,
Speaker 3: but i just feel like I'm past the point where
Speaker 3: I can put.
Speaker 1: Up with that shit, like just have little hand sanitizer stations,
Speaker 1: like I mean, at least Burning Man is all that.
Speaker 2: Like somebody refills when they run out us. Also, berning
Speaker 2: Man has that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, burning Man has rows and rows of porta potties
Speaker 1: that have sanitizing stations.
Speaker 2: Again, the whole also has been smaller in the past,
Speaker 2: Like my friend Eric that I went to black Speech
Speaker 2: with a couple of weekends ago for San Diego Pride.
Speaker 2: We just went to Blax and back for the day.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I went to Blacks with my friend Eric
Speaker 3: for the Sunday of San Diego Pride. It was super fun,
Speaker 3: so many people, but not like too crowded. But anyway,
Speaker 3: he was the first person that told me about the
Speaker 3: whole festival because he went a couple of years ago
Speaker 3: and told a bunch of people about it, and now
Speaker 3: he was joking about how his friends tease him about
Speaker 3: ruining whole festival. They told too many people about it
Speaker 3: and now it's too many people.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of people, and I you know, I
Speaker 1: definitely saw there was a bit of an attitude towards
Speaker 1: the fact that, like, you know, people like to be
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if woke is the word.
Speaker 1: I hate that fucking word now, but like the fact
Speaker 1: that they like a lot of people who are like
Speaker 1: kind of queerdos and like more alternative.
Speaker 2: There's a term flinta. I heard. I learned flinta as
Speaker 2: a new word. Everybody get ready for it.
Speaker 1: It's basically anything that is not cisca male. So it's
Speaker 1: like female, lesbian, intersex, non binary, trans asexual, like so
Speaker 1: a way to exclude CISK males, a way too differential
Speaker 1: to exclude. I mean, sure, we're awful. That's that's kind
Speaker 1: of like the thing I'm getting at. Like people like
Speaker 1: to say, like, wow, a lot of circuit gaze this
Speaker 1: year where I'm and I was kind of like, wait,
Speaker 1: so is circuit gaze now just being used to like
Speaker 1: define anyone who's just a male with like slightly defined bodies.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's nothing new for people to hate,
Speaker 3: like for gay people to not.
Speaker 1: Circuit it has I mean, this isn't I don't want
Speaker 1: to sound like I'm like complaining, like you know, but
Speaker 1: like there are there does seem to be an attitude
Speaker 1: lately that is just like if you are even remotely
Speaker 1: conventionally attractive, we're gonna talk about you just a little bit.
Speaker 1: You're basic, Yeah, And like I don't know, I don't
Speaker 1: feel basic. I think some people find me at least
Speaker 1: somewhat on the conventionally attracted scale.
Speaker 2: But whatever, nobody treated me poorly.
Speaker 1: It wasn't anything like that. It was just like sometimes
Speaker 1: people like to talk that kind of shit.
Speaker 3: I just think it's funny. People don't want to be labeled,
Speaker 3: but they want to label everyone else. Yes, yes, like
Speaker 3: that's kind of annoying to me. Get over at people, Like,
Speaker 3: it's just this is something that I think we have.
Speaker 2: We have.
Speaker 1: It's fun to like include the conversation, especially because Berlin itself,
Speaker 1: I just felt like there's such an attitude in Berlin.
Speaker 2: I learned.
Speaker 1: Like my takeaway from Berlin was I loved it, but
Speaker 1: I also fucking hated it. I thought it was fascinating
Speaker 1: and beautiful but also so goddamn obnoxious and up its
Speaker 1: own ass in so many ways, but amazing, Like.
Speaker 2: I loved it those things true.
Speaker 1: It's it was totally that the entire time I was there,
Speaker 1: even in its architecture, even the way it presented itself
Speaker 1: that way, like it was just like really old school
Speaker 1: and beautiful but also super modern and like you know,
Speaker 1: of course because like half of it was bombed and
Speaker 1: you know, like there's a lot of history in Berlin,
Speaker 1: and it owns it, it owns.
Speaker 2: It's terrible back paste.
Speaker 1: In like this really respectable and beautiful way, lots of art,
Speaker 1: lots of cool people. The nightlife there is like equally
Speaker 1: amazing and unlike anything else, but also so awful and
Speaker 1: so stupid and and like ninety percent of the music
Speaker 1: there is techno, which like I think, ninety percent of.
Speaker 2: The time is so stupid.
Speaker 1: And I got such flak. I mean, I got a
Speaker 1: lot of agreements on this story post. I did, like
Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw it where I was
Speaker 1: just like I have learned after a three day festival
Speaker 1: in Germany that ninety percent of techno is just very stupid.
Speaker 1: It's just indistinguishable, fast paced bass and drums. Some of
Speaker 1: it was amazing, thankfully, that wasn't all that was at
Speaker 1: these at this festival.
Speaker 2: Or like at the different stages there were different stages.
Speaker 1: There was one particularly that was set in the water,
Speaker 1: the beach stage that was like all deep house and
Speaker 1: some disco, and it was amazing.
Speaker 2: How long were you gone? I was gone about thirteen days?
Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, and you know that's about the day and
Speaker 1: a half of that was travel and and like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I learned a lot that like German culture, a lot
Speaker 1: of them are very like they scoff at ghoshness and
Speaker 1: they kind of are very much pearl clutchy and very like,
Speaker 1: you know, respect the rules, but we're.
Speaker 2: Also very intrigued by rule breakers.
Speaker 1: They're like they're like, hmmm, I don't like that you
Speaker 1: cut the line, but also what can I get for you?
Speaker 2: Like there's a lot of that. Okay.
Speaker 1: I was recognized all over the place, which was kind
Speaker 1: of fun. A lot of people spoke about knowing this podcast,
Speaker 1: which was really cool. Well hello, not everyone from Germany
Speaker 1: or Berlin, and again loved it there loved it, but
Speaker 1: also like to read it a little bit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and when you tease something it means you Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: I was. I was super fascinated. Oh. Spent our last
Speaker 2: day at berg Kine, which I'm sure you've heard of.
Speaker 1: Burg Kine is like the big like no one's ever
Speaker 1: seen pictures of it nightclub and now I know why
Speaker 1: they don't allow that, and it's like very much against it.
Speaker 2: They give you stickers to put on the phone camera.
Speaker 1: That's the way to do it, and anyone who disobeys
Speaker 1: that is an idiot, like, you look like such a
Speaker 1: loser if you do that. So and I can see why.
Speaker 1: I like, nobody, nobody would want to do that, And
Speaker 1: I totally get why it was. There was like one
Speaker 1: dance floor that I felt like I was in space
Speaker 1: mountain like at Disneyland.
Speaker 2: That's what it kind of felt like. Inside.
Speaker 1: It was really cool, so cool, an outdoor space, an
Speaker 1: upstairs space, so many copies to have sex in.
Speaker 2: It was just a little dirty.
Speaker 3: You just gotta be a little careful or not and
Speaker 3: just deal with a repercussion.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah.
Speaker 1: Like you know, when there isn't places to wash your
Speaker 1: hands much, there's.
Speaker 2: Something you know that also that also lessons for me.
Speaker 2: I get it. I get it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, maybe someday. Yeah, Burke was supposed
Speaker 3: to close. Like a while, I thought people talk, we're
Speaker 3: talking about it closing.
Speaker 2: I have no idea, and then I.
Speaker 3: Always like, for years, I feel like I've heard that,
Speaker 3: and then I still hear friends of mine.
Speaker 2: Go, yeah, no, I don't know if. I don't know
Speaker 2: if it's.
Speaker 1: Ever closed or ever will close because it's open all
Speaker 1: day every day. It felt like, uh no, I don't
Speaker 1: know if that's true. But we got We got in
Speaker 1: line Sunday morning of Pride weekend at six am, got
Speaker 1: in at seven fifteen, which is.
Speaker 2: Like not too bad.
Speaker 1: Also saw a ton of people ahead of us get
Speaker 1: turned away, which is a thing, you get turned away
Speaker 1: if they don't like your vibe or your look. They're like, no, sorry,
Speaker 1: you have to get in the back of the line
Speaker 1: and like start over and hope the person at the
Speaker 1: security difference.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, they don't like that. I was nervous
Speaker 3: he got turned away, Like what did they? What was
Speaker 3: what do you think they actually actually was very funny.
Speaker 1: There were like there were a few people like they
Speaker 1: didn't they didn't want basic straight girls, especially on Pride weekend.
Speaker 1: It's not a gay club. It's usually for everybody. But
Speaker 1: on Christopher Street Day weekend, which is like their Pride,
Speaker 1: they're gonna let it mostly gaze.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then there were these two like very kind of
Speaker 1: like elder twinkie looking guys who they didn't like the vibe.
Speaker 2: They're like, no, we don't want you to come in.
Speaker 1: They're like, yeah, but we're we're gay and we're like
Speaker 1: here on Pride weekend. Look, we have lollipop earrings and
Speaker 1: the security. It's still The security guys were hilarious. They
Speaker 1: were like, wow, is this what we've come to. You're
Speaker 1: expressing yourself through lollipop earrings. Get to the back of
Speaker 1: the line, and I was just like right in front
Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, like I'm like, oh shit, oh shit.
Speaker 1: And then like they take a look at me. And
Speaker 1: I was there in line with Emil Jamison and Troy
Speaker 1: Daniels and they pretty much like they looked at all
Speaker 1: three of us and were like, gone in.
Speaker 3: And I was like, that's stressful. It was you were
Speaker 3: in the sweating for sure. I'd be like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: And then we got in and did our thing for
Speaker 2: fourteen hours. That's yeah. And what do you like, do
Speaker 2: you just not eat? You have to bring your own snacks.
Speaker 1: They have, but they have like an ice cream bar,
Speaker 1: I think, and like they might have had another way
Speaker 1: to have snacks, but no, you got to bring your
Speaker 1: own snacks.
Speaker 3: That's the hardest part for me at like being out
Speaker 3: for a long time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta eat at some point. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I had like I brought like six protein bars and
Speaker 1: like a bag of trail mix and two apples, and
Speaker 1: I had that throughout the day until finally around nine pm,
Speaker 1: I kind of looked at them and I was just like, y'all,
Speaker 1: I think I think.
Speaker 2: I got it. I am.
Speaker 3: I imagine a place like that has stations to like
Speaker 3: freshen up.
Speaker 2: Station, like a.
Speaker 3: Little pod or something like in a like in a
Speaker 3: nod sex club.
Speaker 1: No, the only place that had a doucing douching station
Speaker 1: was the camping area at Whole Festival.
Speaker 2: At Verry kind you kind of are on your own.
Speaker 2: You have to figure out on your own.
Speaker 1: And that's why the line for the bathroom stalls was
Speaker 1: always very long, because it's either people getting themselves ready
Speaker 1: to do that, or because people take their friends into
Speaker 1: a bathroom stall. They're so funny. Nobody does bumps of
Speaker 1: drugs because a lot of people were doing drugs at
Speaker 1: this club. Nobody does bumps. What they do is they'll
Speaker 1: take your friend, they'll take you in, and everyone's like
Speaker 1: shuffling these I'm giving away so much. No, they will
Speaker 1: literally take your foot. You take your phone out, and
Speaker 1: you sprinkle a little powder and you get a credit
Speaker 1: card and slowly, because you're still talking about your day
Speaker 1: while your people are watching, you do that in this
Speaker 1: cramped bathroom stall and they use their credit card and
Speaker 1: cut up lines on the top of your cell phone
Speaker 1: and then you do your little line and then you
Speaker 1: go out and like, let the next person who's been
Speaker 1: waiting thirty minutes to use a bab.
Speaker 2: I haven't seen it done on a phone. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 2: I was like picture rare. I was like, just do
Speaker 2: the up on the nounce floor. But like they don't
Speaker 2: like that. They think it's ghosh. Yeah, don't be ghosh,
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Speaker 1: so I had a fantastic time. I came home exhausted.
Speaker 2: It was wild. I'm still kind of tired.
Speaker 1: Lost my bag on the way because like there was
Speaker 1: a flight kriffuffle. Yeah, she took it out of me travel.
Speaker 1: How long have you been back? When did you get
Speaker 1: like a week?
Speaker 2: Oh? Okay, yeah, I thought you just got back.
Speaker 1: I mean I probably I still probably feel like it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just a lot, it was. It took
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 3: Out of me For me, I mean travel, especially overseas,
Speaker 3: it takes me a really long time to get back
Speaker 3: to normal.
Speaker 2: When was the last time he traveled overseas? Probably when
Speaker 2: I went to London and Madrid and twenty three that
Speaker 2: long Oh snip. Oh you're a local girl, you know what?
Speaker 2: Like the States? I don't.
Speaker 3: I'm just like traveling doesn't really interest me as much
Speaker 3: lately because it just takes so much, Like I always
Speaker 3: feel like it takes so much out of me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know, I've traveled a lot. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: maybe I'll get back into it again. Yeah, but I
Speaker 3: just have to I definitely can't. I think I want
Speaker 3: more relaxing travel. Sure, I understand them totally because.
Speaker 2: I'm getting boring.
Speaker 1: Well, you know, we we are at an age now
Speaker 1: where we just value our comfort.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I totally understand that.
Speaker 3: I also don't have and I have have haven't had
Speaker 3: any family around me in LA, so I have to
Speaker 3: travel to go see them. So like I do I
Speaker 3: want to go take five party trips or do I
Speaker 3: want to see fucking people in my family?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Are you doing any like have you done any content
Speaker 1: houses or anything?
Speaker 2: I have?
Speaker 3: The next one is like in November in Canada, Canada,
Speaker 3: like Edmonton.
Speaker 2: Who's who's seen that one?
Speaker 3: Big Boss Bull Josh or Bowl Boss Josh Bull Boss job?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah is by haven't had the pleasure.
Speaker 3: It's a bye content house, which I haven't been doing
Speaker 3: any by content lately. It's just been like not, I
Speaker 3: haven't been making a ton of content. I filmed a
Speaker 3: three way this past weekend. Someone I've worked with in
Speaker 3: in a in a studio thing, a studio scene. Back
Speaker 3: in November, he was in town and hit me up
Speaker 3: and was like, Hey, can I stay with you for.
Speaker 2: Can I crash with you for a few nights?
Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, but I still have to
Speaker 3: do some things and you can say a couple of nights.
Speaker 3: I was like, Friday and Saturday, you can stay. And
Speaker 3: I've made that clear because it's I've been.
Speaker 2: Overstayed before and it's about be of mine. Yeah, I understand.
Speaker 3: So he uh, well, first thing, we went to the
Speaker 3: hot tub ones and it was right after we had
Speaker 3: worked out in the apartment gym. I was already in
Speaker 3: the hot tub and he came from the gym. He
Speaker 3: didn't have a bathing suit. I thought he was just
Speaker 3: gonna he like took his shirt off, like he was
Speaker 3: gonna get in in his shorts, and I looked, I
Speaker 3: like turned my head and then I looked back and
Speaker 3: he was like completely butt naked, like in this courtyard
Speaker 3: pool in my apartment building, which is not okay. I'm
Speaker 3: like and I'm like and then some guy comes around
Speaker 3: the corner sees it. I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 3: no cover. I'm like, no, this is not San Francisco.
Speaker 3: I was like, and he was like, oh oh, I
Speaker 3: like the guy looked pissed, and.
Speaker 2: I didn't. I was just like, I got it.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, if I get in trouble
Speaker 3: for this, yeah yeah, yeah, it was totally just. I
Speaker 3: mean I still would have told him, but your short's
Speaker 3: not gone.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I'm like, kids are out here all the time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's just not that kind of building, right, So,
Speaker 3: and he just did not understand that why that would
Speaker 3: be inappropriate.
Speaker 2: And I was just like.
Speaker 1: Sometimes when you're in a gay bubble, you kind of
Speaker 1: forget these things.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So anyway, it comes Sunday, he went to Universal Studios
Speaker 3: with a friend and he came back like I was
Speaker 3: surprised that he left his stuff there because I thought
Speaker 3: he was leaping like that morning. And then he came
Speaker 3: back when whenever, it was like six or seven, and
Speaker 3: he was just like naked, chilling on my bed and
Speaker 3: I'm like, are you staying here tonight? And he's like,
Speaker 3: oh yeah, yeah, I'm sorry I didn't communicate that to you.
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, so yeah yeah. And then I ended
Speaker 3: up doing I was like working on some other stuff
Speaker 3: like until late, and he he ended up going out
Speaker 3: for a hookup and never came back and came back
Speaker 3: around noon the next day and then was like, I'm
Speaker 3: going to work out. I'm like, I thought you got
Speaker 3: to bust up to San Francisco this morning. Like what
Speaker 3: is going on? How he's still here? Oh my god,
Speaker 3: Oh my god. I was like, gonna fucking murder him. God,
Speaker 3: are you sure he's not listening right now. I don't
Speaker 3: think he's listening. But I was like, no, he was
Speaker 3: trying to tell he was trying to say something about
Speaker 3: I guess he could he is on the spectrum whatever
Speaker 3: you say. He was like, oh, I think you think
Speaker 3: you have a little bit of the tism in you
Speaker 3: and like, W's no.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like.
Speaker 3: He's like He's like I can see it, or like
Speaker 3: I can see it on other I'm like, this is
Speaker 3: just me being an asshole because I'm being annoyed, because
Speaker 3: I'm annoyed, like you said that.
Speaker 2: But I was like, I'm like, no, I'm not. I
Speaker 2: don't have autism at all.
Speaker 3: This is just like when a person is annoyed and upset,
Speaker 3: you look like a person.
Speaker 2: Waiting a minute.
Speaker 1: What a thing to accuse your host of though a
Speaker 1: little like I'm like, this is the goal.
Speaker 2: It was like he came back.
Speaker 3: He came back with the friend that gave him the
Speaker 3: tickets for Universal, who works at Universal, and he was
Speaker 3: like kind of saying it to him, and I was like, uh,
Speaker 3: and well, I said something about I was like, this
Speaker 3: one does whatever he wants to do, yes, like in
Speaker 3: front of like as a and he was kind of
Speaker 3: like wow. I was like, because he's still here and
Speaker 3: he was supposed to be gone like yesterday.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I try and be pretty clear when I need like
Speaker 1: a hard out.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, well next time.
Speaker 3: I mean I thought, like, you can stay here Friday
Speaker 3: and Saturday night, but you gotta leave Sunday.
Speaker 2: It's pretty fucking clear. Yeah. It's like selective hearing on
Speaker 2: these younger boys.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what my my pet peeve in like
Speaker 1: situations like this is the prolonged goodbye when like.
Speaker 2: They're waiting for a car. I mean that's that's like
Speaker 2: a micro version of that, but lighting for a friend
Speaker 2: to pick them up, or it's like them just.
Speaker 1: Just stretching out the like you know, like just like
Speaker 1: the like you know when people take two hours to
Speaker 1: pack and you're kind of just sitting there looking at
Speaker 1: your phone, like just like, wait.
Speaker 2: Weren't they like didn't they start packing like two hours ago?
Speaker 1: Like when I pack, I like, I pack and then
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, thank you so much, I'm out.
Speaker 2: But they pack and they'll talk and they'll you know,
Speaker 2: I usually think like a schedule.
Speaker 3: I usually have like I gotta be at the airport
Speaker 3: at this time, so this is when I'm going to
Speaker 3: leave your place, like yeah, more, yeah, yeah, out right
Speaker 3: then just like and waiting for somebody to pick me up.
Speaker 2: I don't know where they are. We just sound like
Speaker 2: Curmudgeons right now.
Speaker 3: I know where, like the Muddets and the fucking Balcom
Speaker 3: Waldorf Statler or whatever. Oh boy, but yeah, I had
Speaker 3: to tell yeah, I had to vance about this.
Speaker 2: I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, After we're done recording, I am going
Speaker 1: to ask you who you're talking about.
Speaker 3: Because I know I can't say it was in the
Speaker 3: three Way because it will be too obvious.
Speaker 2: Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha? Okay, oh this person was a part
Speaker 2: of that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, the three Way was hot. I got dpeed
Speaker 3: it was and very successfully. Yeah yeah, and it like
Speaker 3: felt good.
Speaker 2: Like it wasn't. It wasn't. It didn't feel like too much.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I mean because I haven't been filming that much,
Speaker 3: I feel like I don't get sucked as much, Like so.
Speaker 2: I was, you haven't been having a lot of personal sex.
Speaker 2: I guess I do.
Speaker 3: More oral and it's like, all suck a dick and
Speaker 3: sure that'll be done.
Speaker 2: Oh, you deserve so much more butt sex th you're having.
Speaker 2: It sounds like. I mean, I still.
Speaker 3: I have a date tomorrow and a separate date Friday,
Speaker 3: like another date with somebody else.
Speaker 2: Like a hang date or like let's go out get
Speaker 2: coffee slash dinner.
Speaker 3: Date dinner on Friday, probably dinner tomorrow, but we've talked
Speaker 3: about that. But that was like a gym crush, Like
Speaker 3: I ran, I was out on Friday.
Speaker 2: Night and I ran into the sky.
Speaker 3: When I used to work out at Equinox Hollywood, I
Speaker 3: would see him all the time. He was a gym crush. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and he's got these big rugby legs. He's super cute
Speaker 3: and I like bumped it, like we ran into each
Speaker 3: other like while we were out and I was like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, hi, and like we started talking and
Speaker 3: I was like You're like you were always my gym
Speaker 3: crush and I just like told him and he's like
Speaker 3: you were mine.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So so here we've been chatting this week.
Speaker 1: But we've talked about this on the podcast a little
Speaker 1: bit before though. But when you have dates like this,
Speaker 1: is their possibility of fucking afterwards or you remember we've
Speaker 1: kind of talked to him first.
Speaker 2: Okay, is that the plan?
Speaker 3: I I don't know. I don't have everything planned out
Speaker 3: for tomorrow. That's what I've got to work on that today.
Speaker 2: Today has been this week, I've also had just like
Speaker 2: I had to take my cat to the vat now
Speaker 2: I have to give him four drops of ear drops
Speaker 2: twice a day. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think it's they're just dirty, like he has he's
Speaker 3: a main coon, so he's got these big ears and
Speaker 3: it's just and he doesn't just catching. It's hard to wipe.
Speaker 3: It's hard to clean his ears because he doesn't really
Speaker 3: let you get like dig in there and clean them.
Speaker 1: Is that like a thing that you have to do
Speaker 1: for main coon just clean their ears every once in
Speaker 1: a while.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, their ears are like just wipes. They're like ear wipes,
Speaker 3: like they're pugs, like maybe or French all he's gonna
Speaker 3: like he's gonna hate me by the end of ten
Speaker 3: days because.
Speaker 2: Ear drops. Yeah, so there's that, and then I'm like,
Speaker 2: my week has been so stressful now it has first
Speaker 2: that fucking twin wouldn't leave, and then just this and
Speaker 2: that keeping us kind of busy. I know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I'm still kind of getting into the swing
Speaker 1: of things. I still sometimes feel like I need an office,
Speaker 1: like because I feel like I do some work at home,
Speaker 1: but then like I'll do like work for a few
Speaker 1: minutes and then I'll distract myself with something.
Speaker 3: Doing work at home is difficult. It can be pretty
Speaker 3: like computer stuff. You have to sit down. Yeah, it's
Speaker 3: very challenging to not get distracted, right, especially when you're
Speaker 3: a multitasker, like both of us.
Speaker 2: Are, yes totally.
Speaker 3: I have like, oh wait, shit, I needed to do that,
Speaker 3: or like somebody text you and get in a fucking conversation, right,
Speaker 3: you know you gotta like.
Speaker 2: Put your phone out of the way. Yeah. Focus.
Speaker 3: I'm so behind on giving content to my content manager.
Speaker 3: I have it, I just need to give it to you.
Speaker 3: You have a backlog stuff? Yeah, Like it's still the
Speaker 3: mind numbingness of like putting branding on it and then
Speaker 3: and then like putting it in the drive, sharing it
Speaker 3: with him, and yeah, it just doesn't seem like it's
Speaker 3: just it's just not as worth it as it used
Speaker 3: to be, right you know. Yeah, and the stuff with
Speaker 3: all the age verification now, yes, is only going to
Speaker 3: make it less profitable.
Speaker 2: You mean with like Twitter stuff, we're OnlyFans stuff everything,
Speaker 2: like everything, There's been stuff past that, like everything, every yeah,
Speaker 2: even you know, even in Europe.
Speaker 1: While I was there, my engagement on Twitter changed because
Speaker 1: apparently while I was there, they passed something where like
Speaker 1: you can't look at adult stuff without.
Speaker 2: Having done an age verification process. Is that here too?
Speaker 2: For Tea? For Twitter as well?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been seeing stuff on Twitter like studio stuff
Speaker 3: that I'm tagged in, like it won't show the clip
Speaker 3: of it that they posted it shows age verification required, Like.
Speaker 1: Well, let me ask you this, do you plan on
Speaker 1: doing the age verification for yourself? Like do you care
Speaker 1: about this stuff being? Yeah, so we should probably just
Speaker 1: do it right so that we can.
Speaker 3: I think every but people that don't do porn are
Speaker 3: not going to feel like that, sure, Like, yeah, I
Speaker 3: people are super there are people that don't even want
Speaker 3: to get don't even want to text me from their number,
Speaker 3: from not a burner number to get a massage from me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, how fucking shameful do you think getting a
Speaker 2: fucking massages? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Like these people are not going to share that they're watching, right,
Speaker 3: there are people are too afraid to be like, well,
Speaker 3: I don't want anybody to know what I'm watching?
Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, the privacy of it all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, as we discussed a lot with Derek Cage in
Speaker 1: his episode What a Weird Time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're under attack.
Speaker 1: Subscribe to our only fans, please please, Well, I do
Speaker 1: have some content that I'm slowly rolling out, which has
Speaker 1: been nice. It's kind of feeling like, especially with like
Speaker 1: kind of my work changes, I want to be a
Speaker 1: little more active with my internet slut activity.
Speaker 2: I have a few shoots coming up. I actually might
Speaker 2: do a studio shoot.
Speaker 1: This weekend, which I'm kind of like, ooh, this is okay,
Speaker 1: exciting and the old school type where it's literally just
Speaker 1: like well lit, well filmed, sex beautiful. I don't have
Speaker 1: to pretend on anybody's stepfather or cop busting some teenager
Speaker 1: or whatever, just just boys and beds. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: just boys love.
Speaker 2: I just want to watch good sex.
Speaker 3: I just want to watch good penetration. I want to
Speaker 3: see a good coum shot. Yes, I want to see
Speaker 3: more than two people. Yeah, not too many people, sure,
Speaker 3: but I need to see.
Speaker 2: One, like more than two bodies.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need just give me one on one good
Speaker 1: connection and beautiful bodies smashing.
Speaker 2: Against each other. Never watch, just do Is that true?
Speaker 2: I never do? Like, as a consumer of adult content consumer,
Speaker 2: I'm like, if there's not a DP, I'm like, what's
Speaker 2: the point. Oh my god? Wow, Okay, I guess I
Speaker 2: did notice about you. Yeah, huh, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean that just goes to show you like
Speaker 1: that is, you know, kind of appropriate from one of
Speaker 1: topic talking about maybe consumers of adult content lately aren't
Speaker 1: as into the standard stuff I know, like, which is
Speaker 1: why so many people are going into like the scenarios
Speaker 1: of it all. Like people are doing like baking content
Speaker 1: and you know, foot content, and you know, like people
Speaker 1: are people are as you've done before, too, are like
Speaker 1: creating scenarios just for their fan sites, much less doing
Speaker 1: it for studios.
Speaker 2: Yeah, even like custom videos.
Speaker 3: Yeah, people want me to fucking put on a construction
Speaker 3: best that I got from Amazon and a helmet and
Speaker 3: a fucking right and then talking.
Speaker 2: A robot voice and whatever.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, you know what, what you offered is
Speaker 3: not enough for me to do this. I'm not doing
Speaker 3: any customs for less than two hundred dollars like it
Speaker 3: has to be and I'm not doing that for sixty dollars.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like no, yeah.
Speaker 3: It takes too long, Like right, right, I couldn't put
Speaker 3: on that I'm into feet for very long. You know,
Speaker 3: I couldn't put make I couldn't make that niche work
Speaker 3: for me, right, you know, once you give them something
Speaker 3: like the by content. After I started doing that, I
Speaker 3: was like, oh, are you going to do just do
Speaker 3: us another with a girl like just you and under girl.
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, well people wanted that from you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, i mean.
Speaker 3: Then I'm a I'm adding more work for myself if
Speaker 3: I'm if I'm going to do that, And I'm like,
Speaker 3: I can't just fuck all the time. I'm sorry, it's boring, right,
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, I'm just not somebody that has the
Speaker 3: sexual energy of someone that like can film multiple times
Speaker 3: in a day every day.
Speaker 1: Do you mean you're just not that you mean like
Speaker 1: multiple in a day or like multiple in a week,
Speaker 1: because you were pretty good for a while about filming
Speaker 1: a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can, I mean I could.
Speaker 3: I guess I just needed a break and I haven't
Speaker 3: found my way back to that kind of schedule.
Speaker 2: Yes, I know, I never will. I barely.
Speaker 1: I'm like barely filming once a week these days, if
Speaker 1: once every two weeks, sometimes not.
Speaker 2: Even once a month. I don't know. I lately seem
Speaker 2: to prefer talking.
Speaker 1: About my experience as in adult films, as evidenced by
Speaker 1: this podcast, But I do want to get back to it.
Speaker 2: I do kind of miss it.
Speaker 3: I was excited about more excited about it.
Speaker 1: Well, take breaks, take breaks. I think taking breaks is
Speaker 1: the best way to do it. And then also like
Speaker 1: if doing other scenarios is what makes it exciting, which
Speaker 1: I think it has for a lot of our fellow
Speaker 1: performers and friends who are in this industry who prefer
Speaker 1: doing these like scenarios, making it a little more exciting
Speaker 1: rather than just boys in beds, as you and I
Speaker 1: tend to sometimes enjoy, even if it's more than one
Speaker 1: boy in said bed. But I am excited, for example,
Speaker 1: about the prospect of this studio shoot this Friday. It's
Speaker 1: with a director I've worked with before who I like,
Speaker 1: and the potential scene partner is sexy and also.
Speaker 2: Like to get.
Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of sometimes nice to rather than
Speaker 1: have to market it yourself to get a paycheck.
Speaker 2: That's exciting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of nice where I just get to
Speaker 1: show up and have some fun for a couple hours
Speaker 1: and then leave with a paycheck.
Speaker 3: As long as it's remember those four hours, as long
Speaker 3: as it's.
Speaker 1: Like no more than four He said it was going
Speaker 1: to be three hours tops, which I'm kind of like.
Speaker 3: Well, that's also the nice thing about the studio stuff
Speaker 3: now is they tend to shoot more than one in
Speaker 3: a d you know. Yeah, so they got to, especially
Speaker 3: if you're the first scene and they they know they
Speaker 3: need to end to wrap you at a certain time
Speaker 3: to start the new one. Yeah, they're the next one, right,
Speaker 3: that's nice. It's nice to be the first one, but
Speaker 3: also it's nice to be the second one because they're
Speaker 3: already like, get the fuck out of here, been there.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Is there anything else happening the rest of the summer
Speaker 1: that you're excited about or something you want to kind.
Speaker 2: Of plug to our audience.
Speaker 3: Oh, there is another date for the improv show Porn
Speaker 3: without the Porn.
Speaker 2: It's on a Thursday, so I couldn't give you to it, okay,
Speaker 2: but we'll get you on the next one. Okay. Drew
Speaker 2: Jogi is going to be in it. Rachel Bloom is
Speaker 2: going to be in it. I don't know who the
Speaker 2: my friend, my partner and setting this up Mono Agapian.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I don't know who the fourth performer is. Okay,
Speaker 3: that's right. There is a great time.
Speaker 1: It sounds like, Yeah, I'm Michael Boston. I feel like
Speaker 1: that would be really funny on stage. Yea more reason, yes,
Speaker 1: for sure.
Speaker 3: But we It's at eight thirty at UCB on the
Speaker 3: twenty first, So you can get your tickets online at.
Speaker 2: Ucb's website UCB LA.
Speaker 1: Amazing, Yeah, awesome, congratulations. I'm actually going to be out
Speaker 1: of town that weekend. I got a little away gig
Speaker 1: in Nashville, which I'm excited about. Yeah, so I'm going
Speaker 1: to do that, and then I might be going a
Speaker 1: month later to Pee Town.
Speaker 2: If anybody is interested.
Speaker 1: This should be a very exciting event in Provincetown on
Speaker 1: the weekend of the twentieth. In September, our friend Colin
Speaker 1: is hosting something at the Gifford House called wright Rite.
Speaker 1: It's basically going to be like a ritual weekend full
Speaker 1: of like workshops and parties and stuff around the Fall Equinox,
Speaker 1: which will be a week later than my Access party,
Speaker 1: which is on the thirteenth. If anybody's in La September thirteenth,
Speaker 1: Adam Ramsey dot com for tickets check it out.
Speaker 2: Are you around in September?
Speaker 3: I am hopefully so hopefully our improv show at the
Speaker 3: end of September or maybe the beginning of October, I
Speaker 3: would love that.
Speaker 2: Try to get that on a Friday or Saturday. Cool. Yeah, awesome.
Speaker 2: That was a lovely little catch up.
Speaker 1: Stay tuned for our next episode when we will have
Speaker 1: a guest.
Speaker 2: We sure well figure out who that is next time.
Speaker 2: All right, Yeah, this has been Sorry for asking to Connor.
Speaker 2: I'm Adam Ramsey. Thank you so much. Bye, this has
Speaker 2: been sorry for asking.
Speaker 1: Be sure to like, comment and subscribe, and until next time,
Speaker 1: stay sexy.