WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.320 --> 00:00:04.480 Hey everybody, it's Adam Ramsey. Come see me at access party. 2 00:00:04.919 --> 00:00:08.279 We're calling it Sweep this time. It's broom themed. It's fall, 3 00:00:08.880 --> 00:00:12.640 which is like to fly on brooms slash used said 4 00:00:12.679 --> 00:00:16.399 brooms to sweep away the dust and old leaves of 5 00:00:16.640 --> 00:00:19.399 summer and the cobwebs and the cobwebs. 6 00:00:19.640 --> 00:00:20.480 You know that too. 7 00:00:20.719 --> 00:00:23.879 Thank you Cole Connor for that contribution. Check out my 8 00:00:23.920 --> 00:00:26.800 website Adam Ramsey dot com for tickets and hope to 9 00:00:26.800 --> 00:00:28.440 see you there September thirteenth. 10 00:00:29.120 --> 00:00:33.719 Enjoy the show you're listening to. 11 00:00:34.000 --> 00:00:37.799 Sorry for asking, Sorry for asking. I'm Cole Connor and 12 00:00:38.000 --> 00:00:42.439 I'm Adam Ramsey. This is where we talk, shop, ask questions. 13 00:00:42.039 --> 00:00:45.840 Tell stories, and laugh some laughs about being creators as well. 14 00:00:45.719 --> 00:00:49.000 As consumers of adult content. We love watching too, we 15 00:00:49.079 --> 00:00:49.719 certainly do. 16 00:00:50.280 --> 00:00:53.719 We also discuss the impact adult films have had on us, 17 00:00:53.759 --> 00:00:55.560 on our guests. 18 00:00:55.000 --> 00:00:59.799 And on the LGBTQ community. So strap on and strap 19 00:00:59.880 --> 00:01:01.759 it in and here we go. 20 00:01:11.120 --> 00:01:15.280 Hi, everybody, welcome back, Welcome back to Sorry for asking. 21 00:01:15.560 --> 00:01:19.400 I'm Cole Connor, I'm Adam Ramsey, and it is a 22 00:01:19.519 --> 00:01:21.359 beautiful August day. 23 00:01:21.760 --> 00:01:25.200 It's beautiful, like yeah, a lot's happened since our last 24 00:01:25.200 --> 00:01:31.840 recording from Sunny Bourbank, California. Yes, Hello, Hello, Hello, summer 25 00:01:31.920 --> 00:01:32.480 is summer in. 26 00:01:32.599 --> 00:01:34.120 It's kind of funny, like I feel like the beginning 27 00:01:34.120 --> 00:01:35.959 of summer was like so it felt like it was 28 00:01:36.000 --> 00:01:38.359 so stretched out, and now I feel like we're like 29 00:01:38.599 --> 00:01:39.599 racing towards. 30 00:01:39.319 --> 00:01:40.159 The finish line. 31 00:01:40.280 --> 00:01:42.280 I mean, I feel like it just went came and 32 00:01:42.319 --> 00:01:44.359 went really fast in an hour here in August, now 33 00:01:44.439 --> 00:01:44.959 here we are. 34 00:01:45.000 --> 00:01:47.920 You have a very fresh haircut right now, literally is 35 00:01:47.959 --> 00:01:51.439 an hour. I can see it like that side fade 36 00:01:51.480 --> 00:01:54.159 is shiny, beautiful. Who did that? 37 00:01:54.280 --> 00:01:58.799 My friend Jordan at it's called the barber's den, okay 38 00:01:59.000 --> 00:01:59.760 or the barber den. 39 00:01:59.840 --> 00:02:01.560 I can't remember if there's an ass on it or not. 40 00:02:01.840 --> 00:02:04.879 It looks great. Yeah, he's been cutting me for a while. 41 00:02:05.040 --> 00:02:06.920 Yeah, I definitely need a haircut, which is why I'm 42 00:02:06.920 --> 00:02:08.080 wearing this hat. 43 00:02:08.520 --> 00:02:11.120 Yeah, did you get one before your trip? I did 44 00:02:11.120 --> 00:02:12.319 get one before my trip. 45 00:02:12.639 --> 00:02:15.840 I'm having a I'm having a predicament with my current barber. 46 00:02:17.479 --> 00:02:20.919 I want to fuck him. Oh yeah, you and your barbers. 47 00:02:21.159 --> 00:02:26.719 I mean, yes, that did happen. For quite some time. 48 00:02:26.879 --> 00:02:28.000 I was in a relationship with the. 49 00:02:28.000 --> 00:02:33.080 Barber the only time I left this left Jordan, my 50 00:02:33.159 --> 00:02:37.919 guy at the barber den. He was for uh was 51 00:02:37.960 --> 00:02:39.199 for yours for a little while. 52 00:02:39.240 --> 00:02:44.840 Okay, No, this person is somebody who like he's come 53 00:02:44.879 --> 00:02:46.560 to the Hot Talk a few times and he made 54 00:02:46.560 --> 00:02:49.240 a pitch to like maybe have like a little barber 55 00:02:49.280 --> 00:02:51.759 set up barbershop set up at Hot Dog, and I 56 00:02:51.800 --> 00:02:53.520 was like, oh cool, yeah, and also like I don't know, 57 00:02:53.560 --> 00:02:56.199 I'm trying new barbers every once in a while. And 58 00:02:56.240 --> 00:02:57.800 so I went over there and there was like some 59 00:02:57.879 --> 00:03:00.120 definite chemistry happened a couple of times. And then next 60 00:03:00.120 --> 00:03:03.159 time he was at Hot Dog, we like full like 61 00:03:03.199 --> 00:03:05.360 the day of my haircut, like he showed up at 62 00:03:05.400 --> 00:03:06.759 Hot Dog. I was like, hey, yeah, that was a 63 00:03:06.759 --> 00:03:08.319 great cut. He was like yeah, it was great having you. 64 00:03:09.240 --> 00:03:11.039 And then we leaned in and like had this like 65 00:03:11.120 --> 00:03:14.000 hella makeout. And I was like, oh, okay, so this 66 00:03:14.120 --> 00:03:17.240 chemistry it does exist. I wasn't just making it up 67 00:03:17.240 --> 00:03:20.439 in that barber chair whatever. 68 00:03:20.639 --> 00:03:23.400 I don't know about getting my haircut at Hot Dog though, Nah, 69 00:03:23.520 --> 00:03:27.360 I mean clippings. I always have to rent it out, 70 00:03:28.319 --> 00:03:31.159 you know, yes, and you know clippings in my drink. 71 00:03:31.280 --> 00:03:32.879 You know, people make pictures to me that hot dog 72 00:03:32.919 --> 00:03:35.159 all the time. Luckily, the best thing I can do 73 00:03:35.280 --> 00:03:36.840 is just be like, you know what, Mario makes all 74 00:03:36.879 --> 00:03:41.120 those decisions so great idea, why don't you here's his instagram. 75 00:03:41.280 --> 00:03:45.159 You can contact him yourself. It's all suggested. I'll give 76 00:03:45.240 --> 00:03:48.000 him an alert that you are reaching out, and whether 77 00:03:48.039 --> 00:03:49.599 he responds or not, it is up to him. 78 00:03:49.680 --> 00:03:52.560 So my hands are clean. Yeah, and then I just 79 00:03:52.599 --> 00:03:54.520 work here there. He's there in the beginning, and then 80 00:03:54.560 --> 00:03:55.199 it takes. 81 00:03:55.080 --> 00:03:58.080 Pretty much yes, yeah, and then I'm the boss for 82 00:03:59.000 --> 00:03:59.800 It's been really great. 83 00:04:00.080 --> 00:04:02.639 Talk has been so great. It's always great. 84 00:04:02.919 --> 00:04:05.919 Yeah, and access is coming. I'm actually doing a little 85 00:04:05.960 --> 00:04:08.360 side like a satellite party this Saturday. I don't know 86 00:04:08.360 --> 00:04:10.280 if you're free, but we're going to do like a 87 00:04:10.319 --> 00:04:12.680 little house party thing like it's like an open air 88 00:04:12.680 --> 00:04:13.719 house party situation. 89 00:04:13.960 --> 00:04:15.919 That's going to give me two things that I have 90 00:04:16.000 --> 00:04:18.639 to go to on Saturday. What's the other a lesbian birthday? 91 00:04:19.399 --> 00:04:20.000 Wow? 92 00:04:21.040 --> 00:04:23.319 I mean, I know I haven't rs VP to do 93 00:04:23.360 --> 00:04:25.480 it yet, but well, this is going to go late. 94 00:04:25.600 --> 00:04:28.000 Might have to okay, Well, that's I'm probably gonna end 95 00:04:28.040 --> 00:04:35.639 early because you know, lesbians, we love lesbians, we. 96 00:04:35.639 --> 00:04:39.639 Love I love you guys. I'll be listening. Lesbians are 97 00:04:39.680 --> 00:04:44.160 a huge part of my life. Yeah, thank goodness. I know. Wait, 98 00:04:44.279 --> 00:04:47.800 so let's where do we start? Where do we start? Okay, 99 00:04:47.839 --> 00:04:50.560 so with mine or yours? With yours? With mine? I mean, 100 00:04:51.680 --> 00:04:54.519 it's been too long for me to talk about ho dag. 101 00:04:54.920 --> 00:04:55.639 I don't remember. 102 00:04:55.879 --> 00:04:59.720 I don't remember all that stuff. I think I already mentioned, Like, 103 00:05:00.160 --> 00:05:02.519 I mean, it was a really fun time. I'm not 104 00:05:02.639 --> 00:05:05.319 a huge country music fan, so I didn't really know 105 00:05:05.720 --> 00:05:08.079 all like who I was watching and all of that. 106 00:05:08.240 --> 00:05:09.680 I was there for the I was there for the 107 00:05:09.720 --> 00:05:12.360 good time, not really for the music, and it wasn't 108 00:05:12.399 --> 00:05:15.279 a good time, and it was a good time. Ryan 109 00:05:15.360 --> 00:05:21.079 Landers and his boyfriend were great hosts for me, and 110 00:05:21.399 --> 00:05:24.600 I had a great time. And I think I already 111 00:05:24.600 --> 00:05:28.680 mentioned I only hooked up oncet threesome at the end. Yeah, 112 00:05:28.720 --> 00:05:32.240 you mentioned briefly in the Taylor episodes. And surprisingly everyone 113 00:05:32.439 --> 00:05:36.040 was everyone's butt was clean. 114 00:05:36.639 --> 00:05:39.399 Sometimes the body just cooperates it just. 115 00:05:39.519 --> 00:05:42.240 I mean, I guess. Yeah, I don't know how it happened. Yeah, 116 00:05:43.360 --> 00:05:46.959 uh so I had a trip. Everybody I may have mentioned. 117 00:05:47.160 --> 00:05:50.040 I went to Germany, met up with our good friend 118 00:05:50.120 --> 00:05:55.160 Colin and we did a weekend at something called Whole Festival. 119 00:05:55.519 --> 00:05:57.560 I've heard of it. You've heard of it, Yes, yes, 120 00:05:57.680 --> 00:06:00.600 Whole with a W. But I mean also take your pick. 121 00:06:00.800 --> 00:06:04.079 You know, Whole Festival. It's just outside of Berlin. So 122 00:06:04.240 --> 00:06:07.920 imagine an eight thousand, ten thousand person festival with like 123 00:06:08.000 --> 00:06:12.439 several stages in this beautiful, crazy outdoor venue that like 124 00:06:12.519 --> 00:06:15.480 had these big, giant, industrial like art pieces. 125 00:06:15.519 --> 00:06:16.560 I think they were art pieces. 126 00:06:16.560 --> 00:06:18.759 They look like oil rigs almost, but they were just 127 00:06:18.839 --> 00:06:21.480 like they were just everywhere. And then it was on 128 00:06:21.519 --> 00:06:25.040 this like peninsula like three hours south of Berlin and 129 00:06:26.000 --> 00:06:31.279 there are camping sites, so like burning it's burning man esque. Yeah, 130 00:06:31.360 --> 00:06:33.839 I would say, for sure, but I mean, like, imagine 131 00:06:33.839 --> 00:06:37.560 a festival of that scale, but like by and for 132 00:06:37.839 --> 00:06:38.439 queer people. 133 00:06:39.120 --> 00:06:43.199 It's all queer. It was amazing. It was beautiful. 134 00:06:43.480 --> 00:06:46.759 There were some logistical nightmares, like in terms of just 135 00:06:46.800 --> 00:06:48.519 like you know, getting there set up, like you know, 136 00:06:48.560 --> 00:06:50.399 they have shuttles and stuff, which is great, but like 137 00:06:50.759 --> 00:06:52.160 there were just a lot of things that I feel 138 00:06:52.160 --> 00:06:54.319 like they were missing. Like I get really stuck on 139 00:06:54.360 --> 00:06:58.399 some details, like if you have buses going every ten 140 00:06:58.439 --> 00:07:00.959 minutes and they're all lined up. Why don't you have 141 00:07:01.120 --> 00:07:05.000 signage on each bus as to which departure? No, like 142 00:07:05.120 --> 00:07:07.959 which time departure it is? Do I have to walk 143 00:07:08.000 --> 00:07:12.319 around and ask everybody in broken English, like which bus 144 00:07:12.360 --> 00:07:13.000 I should be on? 145 00:07:13.160 --> 00:07:16.759 God damn it? Yeah yeah. And then like German, you know, 146 00:07:16.800 --> 00:07:20.480 thankfully everybody in speaks English. They like French where they 147 00:07:20.759 --> 00:07:22.519 want you to try, they want to see you try. 148 00:07:23.439 --> 00:07:24.680 I didn't get that vibe. 149 00:07:25.040 --> 00:07:27.720 I got other vibes, which I'm happy to talk about about, 150 00:07:27.800 --> 00:07:29.759 like people in Berlin slash Germany. 151 00:07:30.040 --> 00:07:31.720 German culture is very interesting. 152 00:07:32.720 --> 00:07:34.519 But also things like, you know, if you're going to 153 00:07:34.600 --> 00:07:37.800 have like a they had a glamping setup where they 154 00:07:37.879 --> 00:07:40.680 you know, they had one where it's like open fields 155 00:07:40.680 --> 00:07:43.199 where you can bring your own camping equipment. But then 156 00:07:43.240 --> 00:07:45.000 there are also this there's also this section where they 157 00:07:45.079 --> 00:07:47.399 have like your setup for people who like all you 158 00:07:47.439 --> 00:07:49.360 do is like you pay for a spot, they give 159 00:07:49.360 --> 00:07:53.879 it to you. There's betting, there's power and for like 160 00:07:54.000 --> 00:07:58.560 hundreds of people, they had one check in window and 161 00:07:58.680 --> 00:08:00.959 we got there early, thankful, and we were thirty people 162 00:08:00.959 --> 00:08:02.600 and it still took an hour to get our spot. 163 00:08:02.680 --> 00:08:05.000 And then they gave us a number of a tent 164 00:08:05.040 --> 00:08:06.680 that didn't even exist, so we had to walk around 165 00:08:06.680 --> 00:08:09.079 for an hour before we found it. And then we 166 00:08:09.120 --> 00:08:11.439 came back after resting for a few hours and saw it. It 167 00:08:11.439 --> 00:08:13.600 was like hundreds of people deep, and people apparently were 168 00:08:13.600 --> 00:08:16.199 in line for like four or five hours, so there 169 00:08:16.240 --> 00:08:20.319 were a lot of grumpy people. That aside, the festival 170 00:08:20.319 --> 00:08:25.040 itself was so beautiful, so sexy. I had so much 171 00:08:25.480 --> 00:08:32.200 sex and it was very fun. I definitely took my doxy. 172 00:08:32.720 --> 00:08:34.159 It didn't work. 173 00:08:35.480 --> 00:08:39.200 Well when in Germany. Girl, you need something stronger than that, 174 00:08:39.399 --> 00:08:41.759 you know, if you're gonna have a setup like that. 175 00:08:41.840 --> 00:08:43.960 Like thankfully they had lots of water stations so we 176 00:08:44.000 --> 00:08:46.840 can like we can well, we can rinse, slash, fill 177 00:08:46.919 --> 00:08:49.960 up our water bottles. Not a single bottle of hand 178 00:08:50.000 --> 00:08:53.519 soap or sanitizer insight anywhere anywhere. 179 00:08:54.279 --> 00:08:58.480 This is the stuff about festivals that I like. It 180 00:08:58.519 --> 00:09:00.720 makes it not It makes me not want to do it. 181 00:09:00.799 --> 00:09:04.240 I mean because I'd like, yes, there's amazing other experiences, 182 00:09:04.279 --> 00:09:08.039 but i just feel like I'm past the point where 183 00:09:08.080 --> 00:09:08.600 I can put. 184 00:09:08.519 --> 00:09:13.679 Up with that shit, like just have little hand sanitizer stations, 185 00:09:14.360 --> 00:09:16.559 like I mean, at least Burning Man is all that. 186 00:09:16.639 --> 00:09:19.559 Like somebody refills when they run out us. Also, berning 187 00:09:19.639 --> 00:09:20.200 Man has that. 188 00:09:20.360 --> 00:09:23.159 Yeah, burning Man has rows and rows of porta potties 189 00:09:23.399 --> 00:09:24.879 that have sanitizing stations. 190 00:09:25.000 --> 00:09:28.399 Again, the whole also has been smaller in the past, 191 00:09:28.759 --> 00:09:31.600 Like my friend Eric that I went to black Speech 192 00:09:31.679 --> 00:09:34.559 with a couple of weekends ago for San Diego Pride. 193 00:09:34.559 --> 00:09:36.960 We just went to Blax and back for the day. 194 00:09:37.679 --> 00:09:40.120 So yeah, I went to Blacks with my friend Eric 195 00:09:40.799 --> 00:09:45.240 for the Sunday of San Diego Pride. It was super fun, 196 00:09:45.559 --> 00:09:48.399 so many people, but not like too crowded. But anyway, 197 00:09:48.440 --> 00:09:50.279 he was the first person that told me about the 198 00:09:50.279 --> 00:09:52.120 whole festival because he went a couple of years ago 199 00:09:52.759 --> 00:09:55.039 and told a bunch of people about it, and now 200 00:09:55.240 --> 00:09:57.960 he was joking about how his friends tease him about 201 00:09:58.039 --> 00:10:01.440 ruining whole festival. They told too many people about it 202 00:10:01.480 --> 00:10:03.000 and now it's too many people. 203 00:10:03.840 --> 00:10:06.240 It's a lot of people, and I you know, I 204 00:10:06.279 --> 00:10:09.600 definitely saw there was a bit of an attitude towards 205 00:10:10.360 --> 00:10:12.799 the fact that, like, you know, people like to be 206 00:10:14.440 --> 00:10:16.080 I mean, I don't know if woke is the word. 207 00:10:16.120 --> 00:10:19.159 I hate that fucking word now, but like the fact 208 00:10:19.200 --> 00:10:20.840 that they like a lot of people who are like 209 00:10:21.120 --> 00:10:23.279 kind of queerdos and like more alternative. 210 00:10:23.519 --> 00:10:26.480 There's a term flinta. I heard. I learned flinta as 211 00:10:26.519 --> 00:10:29.399 a new word. Everybody get ready for it. 212 00:10:29.399 --> 00:10:33.360 It's basically anything that is not cisca male. So it's 213 00:10:33.399 --> 00:10:39.360 like female, lesbian, intersex, non binary, trans asexual, like so 214 00:10:39.440 --> 00:10:43.200 a way to exclude CISK males, a way too differential 215 00:10:43.519 --> 00:10:49.559 to exclude. I mean, sure, we're awful. That's that's kind 216 00:10:49.559 --> 00:10:51.559 of like the thing I'm getting at. Like people like 217 00:10:51.679 --> 00:10:53.879 to say, like, wow, a lot of circuit gaze this 218 00:10:54.000 --> 00:10:57.080 year where I'm and I was kind of like, wait, 219 00:10:57.200 --> 00:10:59.919 so is circuit gaze now just being used to like 220 00:11:00.960 --> 00:11:04.720 define anyone who's just a male with like slightly defined bodies. 221 00:11:05.159 --> 00:11:09.799 Yeah, I mean it's nothing new for people to hate, 222 00:11:10.200 --> 00:11:11.720 like for gay people to not. 223 00:11:12.120 --> 00:11:14.600 Circuit it has I mean, this isn't I don't want 224 00:11:14.600 --> 00:11:17.600 to sound like I'm like complaining, like you know, but 225 00:11:17.720 --> 00:11:20.679 like there are there does seem to be an attitude 226 00:11:20.759 --> 00:11:23.639 lately that is just like if you are even remotely 227 00:11:23.759 --> 00:11:27.200 conventionally attractive, we're gonna talk about you just a little bit. 228 00:11:27.559 --> 00:11:30.879 You're basic, Yeah, And like I don't know, I don't 229 00:11:30.960 --> 00:11:34.840 feel basic. I think some people find me at least 230 00:11:34.840 --> 00:11:37.080 somewhat on the conventionally attracted scale. 231 00:11:37.679 --> 00:11:39.639 But whatever, nobody treated me poorly. 232 00:11:39.840 --> 00:11:41.639 It wasn't anything like that. It was just like sometimes 233 00:11:41.679 --> 00:11:42.919 people like to talk that kind of shit. 234 00:11:43.000 --> 00:11:47.240 I just think it's funny. People don't want to be labeled, 235 00:11:47.399 --> 00:11:51.440 but they want to label everyone else. Yes, yes, like 236 00:11:51.840 --> 00:11:56.080 that's kind of annoying to me. Get over at people, Like, 237 00:11:56.120 --> 00:11:57.559 it's just this is something that I think we have. 238 00:11:57.759 --> 00:11:58.000 We have. 239 00:11:58.600 --> 00:12:04.120 It's fun to like include the conversation, especially because Berlin itself, 240 00:12:04.279 --> 00:12:07.120 I just felt like there's such an attitude in Berlin. 241 00:12:07.399 --> 00:12:07.960 I learned. 242 00:12:08.240 --> 00:12:12.240 Like my takeaway from Berlin was I loved it, but 243 00:12:12.279 --> 00:12:15.480 I also fucking hated it. I thought it was fascinating 244 00:12:15.519 --> 00:12:19.120 and beautiful but also so goddamn obnoxious and up its 245 00:12:19.120 --> 00:12:22.720 own ass in so many ways, but amazing, Like. 246 00:12:22.679 --> 00:12:24.519 I loved it those things true. 247 00:12:24.679 --> 00:12:27.919 It's it was totally that the entire time I was there, 248 00:12:27.960 --> 00:12:31.360 even in its architecture, even the way it presented itself 249 00:12:31.399 --> 00:12:34.399 that way, like it was just like really old school 250 00:12:34.440 --> 00:12:37.399 and beautiful but also super modern and like you know, 251 00:12:37.440 --> 00:12:39.240 of course because like half of it was bombed and 252 00:12:39.399 --> 00:12:41.679 you know, like there's a lot of history in Berlin, 253 00:12:41.799 --> 00:12:43.320 and it owns it, it owns. 254 00:12:43.360 --> 00:12:45.639 It's terrible back paste. 255 00:12:45.360 --> 00:12:49.320 In like this really respectable and beautiful way, lots of art, 256 00:12:49.879 --> 00:12:53.720 lots of cool people. The nightlife there is like equally 257 00:12:54.679 --> 00:12:58.200 amazing and unlike anything else, but also so awful and 258 00:12:58.279 --> 00:13:02.440 so stupid and and like ninety percent of the music 259 00:13:02.440 --> 00:13:06.159 there is techno, which like I think, ninety percent of. 260 00:13:06.080 --> 00:13:07.840 The time is so stupid. 261 00:13:08.440 --> 00:13:11.080 And I got such flak. I mean, I got a 262 00:13:11.120 --> 00:13:13.600 lot of agreements on this story post. I did, like 263 00:13:13.600 --> 00:13:14.879 I don't know if you saw it where I was 264 00:13:14.919 --> 00:13:17.279 just like I have learned after a three day festival 265 00:13:17.360 --> 00:13:20.679 in Germany that ninety percent of techno is just very stupid. 266 00:13:21.480 --> 00:13:25.759 It's just indistinguishable, fast paced bass and drums. Some of 267 00:13:25.799 --> 00:13:29.440 it was amazing, thankfully, that wasn't all that was at 268 00:13:29.480 --> 00:13:31.279 these at this festival. 269 00:13:31.120 --> 00:13:33.519 Or like at the different stages there were different stages. 270 00:13:34.000 --> 00:13:36.120 There was one particularly that was set in the water, 271 00:13:36.240 --> 00:13:38.559 the beach stage that was like all deep house and 272 00:13:38.639 --> 00:13:40.440 some disco, and it was amazing. 273 00:13:40.879 --> 00:13:43.879 How long were you gone? I was gone about thirteen days? 274 00:13:44.159 --> 00:13:47.360 Wow, Okay, and you know that's about the day and 275 00:13:47.399 --> 00:13:51.879 a half of that was travel and and like, yeah, 276 00:13:51.919 --> 00:13:54.440 I learned a lot that like German culture, a lot 277 00:13:54.440 --> 00:13:58.720 of them are very like they scoff at ghoshness and 278 00:13:58.759 --> 00:14:01.759 they kind of are very much pearl clutchy and very like, 279 00:14:02.519 --> 00:14:04.320 you know, respect the rules, but we're. 280 00:14:04.159 --> 00:14:06.279 Also very intrigued by rule breakers. 281 00:14:06.879 --> 00:14:09.159 They're like they're like, hmmm, I don't like that you 282 00:14:09.200 --> 00:14:10.960 cut the line, but also what can I get for you? 283 00:14:11.679 --> 00:14:15.279 Like there's a lot of that. Okay. 284 00:14:17.159 --> 00:14:20.759 I was recognized all over the place, which was kind 285 00:14:20.759 --> 00:14:24.080 of fun. A lot of people spoke about knowing this podcast, 286 00:14:25.200 --> 00:14:31.200 which was really cool. Well hello, not everyone from Germany 287 00:14:31.320 --> 00:14:35.080 or Berlin, and again loved it there loved it, but 288 00:14:35.200 --> 00:14:36.759 also like to read it a little bit. 289 00:14:36.879 --> 00:14:41.120 Yeah, and when you tease something it means you Yeah, no, 290 00:14:41.240 --> 00:14:44.240 I was. I was super fascinated. Oh. Spent our last 291 00:14:44.320 --> 00:14:46.200 day at berg Kine, which I'm sure you've heard of. 292 00:14:46.600 --> 00:14:49.360 Burg Kine is like the big like no one's ever 293 00:14:49.399 --> 00:14:51.679 seen pictures of it nightclub and now I know why 294 00:14:52.279 --> 00:14:55.000 they don't allow that, and it's like very much against it. 295 00:14:56.639 --> 00:14:59.679 They give you stickers to put on the phone camera. 296 00:15:00.200 --> 00:15:04.080 That's the way to do it, and anyone who disobeys 297 00:15:04.120 --> 00:15:06.600 that is an idiot, like, you look like such a 298 00:15:06.639 --> 00:15:08.799 loser if you do that. So and I can see why. 299 00:15:09.000 --> 00:15:12.279 I like, nobody, nobody would want to do that, And 300 00:15:12.279 --> 00:15:14.919 I totally get why it was. There was like one 301 00:15:15.000 --> 00:15:16.679 dance floor that I felt like I was in space 302 00:15:16.720 --> 00:15:18.360 mountain like at Disneyland. 303 00:15:18.559 --> 00:15:20.279 That's what it kind of felt like. Inside. 304 00:15:20.480 --> 00:15:23.879 It was really cool, so cool, an outdoor space, an 305 00:15:23.919 --> 00:15:26.879 upstairs space, so many copies to have sex in. 306 00:15:27.200 --> 00:15:30.200 It was just a little dirty. 307 00:15:30.519 --> 00:15:33.519 You just gotta be a little careful or not and 308 00:15:33.559 --> 00:15:34.960 just deal with a repercussion. 309 00:15:36.399 --> 00:15:40.039 Yeah, but yeah. 310 00:15:38.799 --> 00:15:42.240 Like you know, when there isn't places to wash your 311 00:15:42.240 --> 00:15:43.600 hands much, there's. 312 00:15:43.399 --> 00:15:51.399 Something you know that also that also lessons for me. 313 00:15:51.720 --> 00:15:53.200 I get it. I get it. 314 00:15:54.000 --> 00:15:57.720 Yeah, I don't know, maybe someday. Yeah, Burke was supposed 315 00:15:57.720 --> 00:16:00.679 to close. Like a while, I thought people talk, we're 316 00:16:00.679 --> 00:16:01.679 talking about it closing. 317 00:16:01.799 --> 00:16:03.720 I have no idea, and then I. 318 00:16:03.639 --> 00:16:06.120 Always like, for years, I feel like I've heard that, 319 00:16:06.200 --> 00:16:08.799 and then I still hear friends of mine. 320 00:16:08.600 --> 00:16:10.480 Go, yeah, no, I don't know if. I don't know 321 00:16:10.480 --> 00:16:10.919 if it's. 322 00:16:10.759 --> 00:16:13.240 Ever closed or ever will close because it's open all 323 00:16:13.320 --> 00:16:15.519 day every day. It felt like, uh no, I don't 324 00:16:15.519 --> 00:16:18.559 know if that's true. But we got We got in 325 00:16:18.639 --> 00:16:22.639 line Sunday morning of Pride weekend at six am, got 326 00:16:22.679 --> 00:16:24.879 in at seven fifteen, which is. 327 00:16:24.799 --> 00:16:26.360 Like not too bad. 328 00:16:26.799 --> 00:16:30.440 Also saw a ton of people ahead of us get 329 00:16:30.480 --> 00:16:33.360 turned away, which is a thing, you get turned away 330 00:16:33.919 --> 00:16:36.879 if they don't like your vibe or your look. They're like, no, sorry, 331 00:16:36.960 --> 00:16:38.320 you have to get in the back of the line 332 00:16:38.320 --> 00:16:40.200 and like start over and hope the person at the 333 00:16:40.279 --> 00:16:41.320 security difference. 334 00:16:41.559 --> 00:16:45.759 Yeah, yeah, no, they don't like that. I was nervous 335 00:16:46.039 --> 00:16:48.799 he got turned away, Like what did they? What was 336 00:16:49.480 --> 00:16:51.639 what do you think they actually actually was very funny. 337 00:16:51.639 --> 00:16:53.240 There were like there were a few people like they 338 00:16:53.240 --> 00:16:57.559 didn't they didn't want basic straight girls, especially on Pride weekend. 339 00:16:57.759 --> 00:17:00.360 It's not a gay club. It's usually for everybody. But 340 00:17:00.480 --> 00:17:05.039 on Christopher Street Day weekend, which is like their Pride, 341 00:17:05.319 --> 00:17:08.079 they're gonna let it mostly gaze. 342 00:17:08.440 --> 00:17:08.759 Yeah. 343 00:17:08.799 --> 00:17:11.240 And then there were these two like very kind of 344 00:17:11.279 --> 00:17:15.960 like elder twinkie looking guys who they didn't like the vibe. 345 00:17:15.960 --> 00:17:17.359 They're like, no, we don't want you to come in. 346 00:17:17.400 --> 00:17:20.160 They're like, yeah, but we're we're gay and we're like 347 00:17:20.240 --> 00:17:24.079 here on Pride weekend. Look, we have lollipop earrings and 348 00:17:24.519 --> 00:17:28.839 the security. It's still The security guys were hilarious. They 349 00:17:28.839 --> 00:17:31.799 were like, wow, is this what we've come to. You're 350 00:17:31.839 --> 00:17:35.799 expressing yourself through lollipop earrings. Get to the back of 351 00:17:35.839 --> 00:17:39.079 the line, and I was just like right in front 352 00:17:39.119 --> 00:17:42.119 of you. Yeah, like I'm like, oh shit, oh shit. 353 00:17:42.279 --> 00:17:43.880 And then like they take a look at me. And 354 00:17:43.920 --> 00:17:46.359 I was there in line with Emil Jamison and Troy 355 00:17:46.440 --> 00:17:49.119 Daniels and they pretty much like they looked at all 356 00:17:49.119 --> 00:17:50.480 three of us and were like, gone in. 357 00:17:50.519 --> 00:17:54.839 And I was like, that's stressful. It was you were 358 00:17:55.839 --> 00:17:58.559 in the sweating for sure. I'd be like, I don't know. 359 00:17:59.119 --> 00:18:01.640 And then we got in and did our thing for 360 00:18:01.759 --> 00:18:05.559 fourteen hours. That's yeah. And what do you like, do 361 00:18:05.599 --> 00:18:08.279 you just not eat? You have to bring your own snacks. 362 00:18:08.680 --> 00:18:11.720 They have, but they have like an ice cream bar, 363 00:18:12.039 --> 00:18:14.480 I think, and like they might have had another way 364 00:18:14.519 --> 00:18:15.799 to have snacks, but no, you got to bring your 365 00:18:15.799 --> 00:18:16.359 own snacks. 366 00:18:16.440 --> 00:18:19.880 That's the hardest part for me at like being out 367 00:18:19.920 --> 00:18:21.039 for a long time. 368 00:18:21.240 --> 00:18:23.680 Yeah, I gotta eat at some point. Yeah. Yeah. 369 00:18:23.720 --> 00:18:26.000 I had like I brought like six protein bars and 370 00:18:26.079 --> 00:18:27.960 like a bag of trail mix and two apples, and 371 00:18:28.000 --> 00:18:30.680 I had that throughout the day until finally around nine pm, 372 00:18:30.720 --> 00:18:32.480 I kind of looked at them and I was just like, y'all, 373 00:18:32.519 --> 00:18:33.960 I think I think. 374 00:18:33.799 --> 00:18:34.680 I got it. I am. 375 00:18:35.519 --> 00:18:38.720 I imagine a place like that has stations to like 376 00:18:38.839 --> 00:18:39.640 freshen up. 377 00:18:41.400 --> 00:18:42.680 Station, like a. 378 00:18:43.920 --> 00:18:47.000 Little pod or something like in a like in a 379 00:18:47.279 --> 00:18:50.079 nod sex club. 380 00:18:50.279 --> 00:18:52.759 No, the only place that had a doucing douching station 381 00:18:53.000 --> 00:18:54.680 was the camping area at Whole Festival. 382 00:18:55.279 --> 00:18:58.160 At Verry kind you kind of are on your own. 383 00:18:58.200 --> 00:18:59.319 You have to figure out on your own. 384 00:18:59.799 --> 00:19:02.759 And that's why the line for the bathroom stalls was 385 00:19:02.799 --> 00:19:05.759 always very long, because it's either people getting themselves ready 386 00:19:05.839 --> 00:19:11.480 to do that, or because people take their friends into 387 00:19:11.559 --> 00:19:15.359 a bathroom stall. They're so funny. Nobody does bumps of 388 00:19:15.480 --> 00:19:17.799 drugs because a lot of people were doing drugs at 389 00:19:17.799 --> 00:19:20.920 this club. Nobody does bumps. What they do is they'll 390 00:19:20.920 --> 00:19:23.440 take your friend, they'll take you in, and everyone's like 391 00:19:23.839 --> 00:19:27.680 shuffling these I'm giving away so much. No, they will 392 00:19:27.720 --> 00:19:30.880 literally take your foot. You take your phone out, and 393 00:19:30.920 --> 00:19:33.160 you sprinkle a little powder and you get a credit 394 00:19:33.200 --> 00:19:36.279 card and slowly, because you're still talking about your day 395 00:19:37.359 --> 00:19:39.440 while your people are watching, you do that in this 396 00:19:39.559 --> 00:19:41.960 cramped bathroom stall and they use their credit card and 397 00:19:42.000 --> 00:19:45.400 cut up lines on the top of your cell phone 398 00:19:45.880 --> 00:19:48.400 and then you do your little line and then you 399 00:19:48.440 --> 00:19:50.440 go out and like, let the next person who's been 400 00:19:50.440 --> 00:19:53.480 waiting thirty minutes to use a bab. 401 00:19:54.279 --> 00:19:57.119