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<v Speaker 1>Hello, everybody, listen. It's me Stephanie Wilder Taylor. I'm here

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<v Speaker 1>with Cecily Nobler and we have a little special treat

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I shouldn't. I don't want to raise your

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<v Speaker 1>expectations sky high because I don't know what's going to happen,

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<v Speaker 1>because we're trying something a little bit different. Mmm. What

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing here, I'm gonna I'm gonna lay it out

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<v Speaker 1>for you. What we're doing here is we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about I want to talk about Love is Blind UK,

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<v Speaker 1>but Cecily does not like Love is Blind. I may

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<v Speaker 1>talk her into the next US, I will tell you

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Watching this with such a like, oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>thank god I didn't watch this. I like so good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really really good. I think it's such a great

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<v Speaker 1>character study, and I think there's a lot of things

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<v Speaker 1>about it that Cecily likes. She just doesn't know she likes.

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<v Speaker 1>So I will talk her into it. Don't don't you

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<v Speaker 1>guys worry you're pretty.

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<v Speaker 2>Long going through a canyon. I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I could.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet you cut out for like a second.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember that from Larry Sanders though, It's like what canyon

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<v Speaker 3>comes off Melrose Bullshake canyon. You're not going to get

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<v Speaker 3>that another Love is Blind recap podcast. No, you aren't

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<v Speaker 3>going to get rip horn Bob Odenkirk joke.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, such good stuff. God, that was a

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<v Speaker 1>good show.

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<v Speaker 3>Now what kind of canyon comes off of Melroe bullshake canyon?

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, I would have thought. I would have thunk

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<v Speaker 1>that Cecily would love Love is Blind UK because she loves, loves,

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<v Speaker 1>loves all things British. That's true. Do you love the

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<v Speaker 1>Brits loves British man, She loves a British show, she

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<v Speaker 1>loves British things. I do. I love a brit so

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<v Speaker 1>very much. Watch BBC watch all day just to hear

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<v Speaker 1>the accents. You're an Anglo file? Is that what they

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<v Speaker 1>call it? I think a lot of us are. I agree?

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. So I was surprised when she had zero

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<v Speaker 1>interest in watching Love is Blind UK. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I watched it just for pleasure, which is rare. It's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to get a show where you just like, go,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just going to watch this because I want to

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<v Speaker 1>watch it. And I didn't have to feel guilty that

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<v Speaker 1>I like fast forwarded through the weddings. So what I

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<v Speaker 1>did which is I don't want to say ingenious, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know what's the faller an ingenious and just genius?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, is my answer, and I refuse to look.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, sometimes I'd just rather not know. It's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>genius that I said, Hey, here's an idea. Why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you just watch the reunion and then we'll do an

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<v Speaker 1>episode where we discuss and I tell you, I'll have

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<v Speaker 1>a backstory all the lore about these couples and what

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<v Speaker 1>I think. And I do have a lot of thought,

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<v Speaker 1>and I see I read a lot of stuff on

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<v Speaker 1>Reddit and I'm like, no, I don't agree, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm too chicken to put my own opinion out there

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<v Speaker 1>because people will just come for me. But then I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I don't need to I have a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, that's right.

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<v Speaker 3>So now I did watch it, and I'm just the

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<v Speaker 3>idea was that I'm going to give like very I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't want to call them hot takes, yeaht takes. Really

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<v Speaker 3>they're cold takes because I, yeah, came in cold, didn't

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<v Speaker 3>know anybody. But I still have very strong opinions about

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<v Speaker 3>what I saw. And ironically, I took notes and Stephanie didn't. No,

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<v Speaker 3>I did not take notes. I took pretty meticulous notes actually,

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<v Speaker 3>but only because I didn't understand really was Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's what we're going to do. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>go through the cast for a second, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if this is I'll skip over men that we

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<v Speaker 1>don't care about, but I'm going to tell you about

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<v Speaker 1>the and then i'll tell you who they ended up with.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm going to explain to you, like what happened

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<v Speaker 1>with them, what you need to know, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>give me your hot takes. I promise you this won't

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<v Speaker 1>take super long. But okay, So first up is Billy

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<v Speaker 1>and Billy. As you saw in the reunion, Billy ended

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<v Speaker 1>up with Ashley. But here's a little bit about Billy.

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<v Speaker 1>Billy's thirty five. He's an army physical trainer. He's from

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<v Speaker 1>Byett Island. That's not it from okay the look of

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<v Speaker 1>the olysh He'syland. Yeah, so this this says, uh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is his about which because we're going to find out

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<v Speaker 1>he's a bunch of bullshit. But Billy's ready to meet

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<v Speaker 1>a woman who makes his heart saying preferably any song

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<v Speaker 1>by Michael bluebla. I'll let you know that nothing like

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<v Speaker 1>this comes up. There's no talk of karaoke, there's no Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Though he got divorced five years ago after a quote

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<v Speaker 1>whirlwind romance, Oh yeah, Billy is still a strong believer

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<v Speaker 1>in marriage. He loved being a husband and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>find a life partner who will accompany him on group

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<v Speaker 1>dates with his married friends, enjoy a point of guinness,

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<v Speaker 1>and build a family with him. Point point point. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't stop until we move on from Billy. No. I

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<v Speaker 1>love it. That family will of course include his beloved

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<v Speaker 1>dog Allie. Oh okay, so then Charlie, we don't care

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<v Speaker 1>about him, so we're just one of the guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys say we do him and then Ashley, and then

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<v Speaker 3>we talk about that because I took the notes of

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<v Speaker 3>them together as couples that as they went through.

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<v Speaker 1>The Okay, But I also need to tell you about

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<v Speaker 1>this guy Thoughla, you don't know about that that much. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So there was this couple, Katisha who you saw because

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<v Speaker 1>there was a guy named Jovin. Yeah, I remember them. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So so basically what you need to know is that

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<v Speaker 1>there was this guy named Dumola. Okay, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you a little bit about Demola's thirty financials. He's

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<v Speaker 1>from England, Essex, old school gentleman. He's been marriage minded

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<v Speaker 1>from a young age. He fantasized about the details of

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<v Speaker 1>his wedding as a boy. Well, he wears his heart

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<v Speaker 1>on his sleeve. His most recent relationship ended after eight

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<v Speaker 1>years because he didn't feel comfortable being vulnerable. So, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so Domola kind of connected with this girl, Katisha. They

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<v Speaker 1>saw Yeah, okay, so Katisha seemed at first glance like

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<v Speaker 1>pretty adorable makeup artist. Also, I'm going to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>something that strikes me as odd is Katisha's things said

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<v Speaker 1>that she was a model and a makeup artist. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, okay, so if you get to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>your job, which they do in the pods, when you

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<v Speaker 1>go like, well, I'm a model, isn't that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like well, how is love? Love is blind? Well, there's

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<v Speaker 1>not really a lot of ugly models. So you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>to a girl and she goes, well, my job is

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a model. That is so unfair, right, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>interact That's so true.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's not fair.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would they cast her like worst case scenario she's

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<v Speaker 1>a model. That's a Katy Garret and she's a supermodel.

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<v Speaker 1>But like that's yeah, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Not love is blind.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so stupid.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, yeah, I'm a model, I'm one of the

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<v Speaker 3>top models.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a hadid. I'm not supposed to say.

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<v Speaker 2>That, Like what you can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that. I would not have called that

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<v Speaker 1>for her, but I mean she's very cute. I liked her,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're not getting into that, right. Yeah, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>here's what you need to know before we even get

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<v Speaker 1>into the reunion. So Demola was super into her, and

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<v Speaker 1>she I think she was like she's a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>like us in the way that like he just came

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<v Speaker 1>on too strong, you didn't okay. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>argued with me about this online. I did earlier in

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<v Speaker 1>the season comment a little bit on Reddit, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I think the problem isn't that she just

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<v Speaker 1>can't like a nice guy, it's that this guy was

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<v Speaker 1>like too nice. He was too yeah, like I'm ready,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to marry you, and it was too soon

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, you don't even know me. Right then,

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<v Speaker 1>people argued with me online, They're like, well, who knows

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<v Speaker 1>anybody it's love is blind. It's like okay, but still

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<v Speaker 1>if the guy right, you know after like the second

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<v Speaker 1>time you meet him in the Pods, is like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this. I'm totally into you. You're gonna be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure. Meanwhile, this guy, Jovin didn't like her

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<v Speaker 1>that much. Well, he was very and she kept going like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you're not that vulnerable, like you're not

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<v Speaker 1>really you don't seem like you're into me, which of

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<v Speaker 1>course is Catnipped the ladies. So she's starting to like

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<v Speaker 1>him a lot. But meanwhile Demola is like, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>totally into you that all her friends are like girl like,

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<v Speaker 1>Domola is the guy, like he's so nice, and she's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I usually go for these guys that don't treat me

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<v Speaker 1>that well, like I usually go for this type, which

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<v Speaker 1>is Javin, which is they don't really open up to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to I have to work for it too hard,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to prove myself and like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So then she meets with Demola and she's like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I'm going to change things up. I'm into you.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to just tell Jovin it's not him, so like,

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<v Speaker 1>but you have nothing to worry about, Okay. So then

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<v Speaker 1>she goes and talks to Jovin and he starts to realize,

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<v Speaker 1>oh shit, but she told him before. She was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>Demola's really into me. There's this other guy and he's

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<v Speaker 1>making the big gestures and he's totally into me. So

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<v Speaker 1>Jovin very clearly just wanted to be on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's like, he goes for his last date with

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<v Speaker 1>her in the pod, she's going to break up with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, I'm totally into you, but not even

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<v Speaker 1>selling it that hard, not even like I thought about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just scared before. No, He's just like, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm into you. I know I like you, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>like you do my gosh. Okay, So he proposes. Then

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<v Speaker 1>she goes and has to tell Domola like you know, sorry, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I changed my mind. I went to the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that was a little more hard to get. Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>got what she got, yes, okay, which which which you

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<v Speaker 1>saw a bunch of what happened on the reunion. That

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<v Speaker 1>guy Javin ended up being a dick. So he ended

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<v Speaker 1>up at the big when they have like the mixer

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<v Speaker 1>leaner after everybody's been living together with their couples when

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<v Speaker 1>they're back home, and then they all have the mixer,

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<v Speaker 1>and then jab and went and flirted with all these girls.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know how much of it they showed

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<v Speaker 1>in the like a, here's what happened. But he's home

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<v Speaker 1>with Katisha. He's never acting like he's that into Katisha.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he goes They come home from the mixer

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, Okay, I'm gonna go to bed, and

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<v Speaker 1>he goes, well, I'm gonna go back out and she's

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<v Speaker 1>like seriously, and he goes yeah, and she goes okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So she goes in her bedroom and just starts crying

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<v Speaker 1>and he does not give a fuck. He's like bye,

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<v Speaker 1>he goes potokate, Yes, So he goes back out to

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<v Speaker 1>the mixer. He starts fully, fully flirting with Sophie, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>as you said.

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<v Speaker 3>Sophia, I'm just gonna tell you right now, not a fan.

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<v Speaker 3>If I'm thinking of the right person. Sophie was in

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<v Speaker 3>the audience. She's insane, and I just want to remind

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<v Speaker 3>people cold take. I'm only basing this on one episode

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<v Speaker 3>where I didn't watch the entire thing. So I think

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<v Speaker 3>I've done pretty well so far.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So Sophie's bad and in

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<v Speaker 1>the Pods she was also really bad. She was she

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot like that girl Jessica, who was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna choke, You're gonna need an EPI pen. She

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<v Speaker 1>just kept making comments like, yeah, a lot of guys

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<v Speaker 1>like me and real like if you saw me, like

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<v Speaker 1>like I am so super pretty, Like you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>so mad if you don't pick me. But I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to fit. Yeah, the most fit of all the lads. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So she wasn't really flirting with Java though. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>when they went to the mixer, he was flirting with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Then he flirted with all these other girls. He's just

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<v Speaker 1>a dick. But the one that Sophie was really trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get with was the guy Kieren, who ended up

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<v Speaker 1>with that girl Megan with the red hair. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a lot to say about Meghan and Karen,

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<v Speaker 2>but I know we're not there.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we gonna We're not there? We're not there. Just

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<v Speaker 1>I really like Kieren. I don't know how I feel

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<v Speaker 1>about Megan. She's great. She's really great and you would

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great. I had a then I missed under.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, she's amazing, just a lot. She was a lot. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she's amazing. She's just really outgoing, but she's she's really nice,

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<v Speaker 1>super fun and she's a fucking girls girl. So she

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<v Speaker 1>was at the mixer. She ended up going over to

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<v Speaker 1>Katisha's apartment and she was like, Katisha, like, I need

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you that. Jovin came back to the mixer

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like all over a bunch of the women.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's right, and Meghan doubles down on that. She's like,

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<v Speaker 3>would you do it again? She's like absolutely, that is

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<v Speaker 3>my truth. Yeah, and he was, I mean we all

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<v Speaker 3>saw it. It was terrible, and Jovin is a total

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<v Speaker 3>gaslighter asshole, like was like, I don't know what you

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<v Speaker 3>thought you saw, but I was I didn't do anything wrong,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like we all saw you. And Megan was

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<v Speaker 3>went and she brought Kieren with her and he was

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<v Speaker 3>like yeah, sorry man, like we did see you and

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<v Speaker 3>oh okay, So what happens is. Katisha is very upset

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<v Speaker 3>and she's like are you sure, and Meghan's like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so sorry, but like, yeah, it was bad. He was

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<v Speaker 3>like all over a lot of the girls, and then

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<v Speaker 3>they went into this photo booth. So then jo So

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<v Speaker 3>then Katisha tells Jovin like what the fuck? This is

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<v Speaker 3>what I found out? And he's like, who told you that?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna go and then so she's like, Megan told

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<v Speaker 3>me that. So he goes over and so then Jovin

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<v Speaker 3>goes to confront Meghan and Kieren and it's super uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 3>because he's like, what would you say that, mate? It's

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<v Speaker 3>not true.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't and he's super argumentative and it was ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>So that ends that.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of it's from memory, like you're literally able, this

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<v Speaker 3>is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, no, it was really good, like I watched

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<v Speaker 1>the ship out of all these episodes. Okay. So then okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So basically Billy and Ashley in the pods, they are

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<v Speaker 1>they're really into each other. It seems super cute. She's

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<v Speaker 1>a they call him a cabin it's basically as she's

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<v Speaker 1>a flight attendant. They call him something else though, cabin crew. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>cabin crew. Okay, So he says early on Billy, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really love that job because then you're like

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<v Speaker 1>traveling a lot. But meanwhile he travels colling. He's controlling,

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<v Speaker 1>super controlling. So there was a scene where they went

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<v Speaker 1>grocery shopping and he was like trying to make her

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<v Speaker 1>buy like only super healthy foods, and she's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>like to have some treats in the house, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like nah. She's like, yeah, I want to have

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<v Speaker 1>he's super rigid. Yeah, so he's super rigid, but she's

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet. She was really sweet. She was really like.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay, like we can make this work.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So anyway, those two were together, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>want to find you the other couple. Other couples. The

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<v Speaker 1>other couple is Kel.

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<v Speaker 3>His name is Cal okay and Cal and Serova so okay,

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<v Speaker 3>but I wrote Soretto, so I was close.

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<v Speaker 1>First, I want to tell you though about Jed and Barta.

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<v Speaker 1>So Jed and Barta. Barta was the little blonde cutie

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<v Speaker 1>girl and she was like, yeah, you changed, which I

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<v Speaker 1>So Jed and Barda seemed really cute and they seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like they were absolutely gonna get married, and they just

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<v Speaker 1>like no problems the whole time. In fact, her mom

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm not I'm not really sure. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>haven't had any fights, and she's like no, and then

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<v Speaker 1>right towards the end they start having some fights because

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<v Speaker 1>she's very independent wants to pay for herself, and they

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<v Speaker 1>go out to dinner and he's like, I'm paying and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like then she pulls out her credit card and pays.

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<v Speaker 1>And it turns out that he didn't like that very much,

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<v Speaker 1>which we're on his side on this because they'd obviously

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<v Speaker 1>had some kind of talks.

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<v Speaker 3>About it, and she agreed that she was going to

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<v Speaker 3>let them hit the ring. She was weird about the ring.

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<v Speaker 3>This was another thing. And I was like, what the fuck?

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<v Speaker 3>So you're all this like fit you know, okay, I

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<v Speaker 3>can pay for it. I'm no, man needs to take care,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'll keep that ring.

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<v Speaker 1>Although he did pay for the ring, does he do

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<v Speaker 1>they pay for it to just love his blind paper

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<v Speaker 1>blind for it? I think, oh, well, then keep it. Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck that. Of course I wouldn't keep it if I

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<v Speaker 1>was breaking up with a guy, if it didn't work

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<v Speaker 1>out with a guy, I would give probably the ring

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<v Speaker 1>back unless he was a total dick, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>would sell it. Yeah, but if production's paying for it, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course you did this show, you did the time. Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>that is true. Okay, so those two did not. She did.

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<v Speaker 1>She said no at the altar, so they did. So

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<v Speaker 1>they did not get married, but he later said he

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<v Speaker 1>would also have said no had he thought about it.

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<v Speaker 3>He was gonna say yes. But then when he's glad,

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<v Speaker 3>right that he didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. But let's talk about this guy Cal that you

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<v Speaker 1>brought up, and that's the worst one, Sarah ver. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's get into it. Cal's got that like Greek

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<v Speaker 1>haircut with the weird like microbangs. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well a couple of them had that. So did the

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<v Speaker 3>last guy, Kieran. I was like, what the hell Karen

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<v Speaker 3>they called?

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<v Speaker 1>I know he was much cuter before. He looked like

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<v Speaker 1>such a dork. It's not for us, horrible, No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's like a new thing. He looked like he

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<v Speaker 1>was wearing like a disco like a costume you get

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<v Speaker 1>at party city, as like some disco guy.

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<v Speaker 3>But the hair was so And I want to say

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<v Speaker 3>this about the woman, that Cal was with, Like, she

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<v Speaker 3>was gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 1>So pretty. Okay, so those two, he knows that she's

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<v Speaker 1>not like white when they're in the pods because she

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<v Speaker 1>tells him that she's not white, you know, basically, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh, I usually go for like blonde white

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<v Speaker 1>girls basically, but when he meets her, he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're not my typical type. So it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit uncomfortable right from the get go. But

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<v Speaker 1>then everybody was sort of rooting for them. The guy

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<v Speaker 1>is a douchebag. First thought was awful. I wrote awful.

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<v Speaker 1>He's awful. He's a day trader, you know, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's nuts snuts. Yeah, he's nuts. He's a total avoidant. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>sucked with her completely, and she's lovely, so like she

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<v Speaker 1>was my favorite woman on the show. She's great, she's

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<v Speaker 1>so sweet, her family's so nice, and like, towards the

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<v Speaker 1>very end, he was basically saying to camera or to

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<v Speaker 1>his brother, he's like, yeah, well, first of all, he's

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<v Speaker 1>never been in a long term relationship. He gets the

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<v Speaker 1>grossed out feeling real faster at like three months. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, he goes, well, I know she's good

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<v Speaker 1>for me. He's like, but I'm really hoping that, like

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<v Speaker 1>a few months into the marriage, I don't just go

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<v Speaker 1>cold on her. So this is before the wedding scene,

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<v Speaker 1>So of course I'm watching that and I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>then you are for sure going to go off of her.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to get cold, and she's not gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>any idea what she did wrong. Please say say no

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<v Speaker 1>at the altar. Please later sure like he can't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>So he said yes at the altar, and she was

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<v Speaker 1>so happy, and I was praying that he would have

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<v Speaker 1>said no at the altar, knowing that he was going

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<v Speaker 1>to lose interest. Why not say no? But say because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm worried about myself and my pattern and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do that too. So let's just see. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just date and see what happens. Right, right, he should

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<v Speaker 1>have He should have, but he didn't, and I love

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<v Speaker 1>So let's start with that, because that's if that's what

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<v Speaker 1>we need to know, that's the reunion. That's where it starts.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay with those two, I mean, we're not just starting,

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<v Speaker 3>We're just gonna pop through this. But she initial thoughts

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<v Speaker 3>that loved her, thought he was a total Dick immediately

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<v Speaker 3>got the whole thing when her mom started talking when

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<v Speaker 3>they turned, because she said the thing that you just said,

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<v Speaker 3>where she was just like, what did I do?

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<v Speaker 1>What changed?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it? The cultural difference? Like what changed? And he

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<v Speaker 3>just wouldn't. And also the George, what I assume is

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<v Speaker 3>a Jordy accent. His accent was so nonxious to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't I know that that's not what we're talking

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<v Speaker 3>about here, but I couldn't even really understand him.

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<v Speaker 1>I can really tell the difference, and I know it

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<v Speaker 1>just sounds so like uneducated with me. But everybody either

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<v Speaker 1>sounds one way or like they're on Oliver, Oh, you

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<v Speaker 1>mean like something a little London, like little Cotney.

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<v Speaker 2>The other ones are like a little nold on nold

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<v Speaker 2>on England.

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<v Speaker 3>And then there's a Jordy thing where you can't really

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<v Speaker 3>understand them at all, and it's kind of similar to

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<v Speaker 3>Scottish sounding.

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<v Speaker 1>It's real like Lost Stock and two Smoke and Barrels,

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<v Speaker 1>which I sat through and almost lost my mind because

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't understand any.

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<v Speaker 3>Of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And so then they turned to her, sweet mom.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the one right where the mom was like, why

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<v Speaker 3>did you drag my daughter, which is what you said.

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<v Speaker 3>They they cover that, they kind of leave it. And

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<v Speaker 3>what made me sad, there's not really much to say,

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<v Speaker 3>but me sad was when she gave this beautiful speech

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<v Speaker 3>and she's like, you weren't the one, but I will

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<v Speaker 3>find him. I will find him. And then everyone clapped fuleheartedly,

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<v Speaker 3>and then he also did a weird clap where he

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<v Speaker 3>kind of held his hands up like very performative, you

413
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<v Speaker 3>know what I mean.

414
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<v Speaker 1>Like clap clap, clap, clap, but like up in the

415
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<v Speaker 1>air in this weird way like he was at a

416
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<v Speaker 1>Greek wedding. Yes, And I just like was like, fuck you, dude,

417
00:21:45.839 --> 00:21:48.279
<v Speaker 1>don't you don't need to clap for her. Yeah, it's fine,

418
00:21:48.319 --> 00:21:50.799
<v Speaker 1>she's absolutely fine. You will, you would.

419
00:21:51.400 --> 00:21:53.000
<v Speaker 2>You're not gonna do even.

420
00:21:52.880 --> 00:21:55.480
<v Speaker 1>Half as well as that. No, And his own brother

421
00:21:55.720 --> 00:21:59.400
<v Speaker 1>was like, listen, if it's not her, it's honestly nobody.

422
00:21:59.519 --> 00:22:02.079
<v Speaker 3>That's right, And it's sad. It's actually kind of sad,

423
00:22:02.119 --> 00:22:05.119
<v Speaker 3>but like one day he'll wake up one day, but

424
00:22:05.359 --> 00:22:07.720
<v Speaker 3>she will be gone and she will be fine.

425
00:22:07.960 --> 00:22:10.359
<v Speaker 1>But he was the thing that he said he was

426
00:22:10.400 --> 00:22:13.279
<v Speaker 1>gonna do, he did so hard, like when he was like, yeah,

427
00:22:13.279 --> 00:22:15.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go cold on you and just be a

428
00:22:15.960 --> 00:22:19.000
<v Speaker 1>total asshole. And it couldn't have been more right, Like

429
00:22:19.039 --> 00:22:22.160
<v Speaker 1>he was so mean. He was just like, yeah, I

430
00:22:22.200 --> 00:22:26.119
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I just didn't like you anymore. She's like,

431
00:22:26.200 --> 00:22:28.799
<v Speaker 1>but what was the thing, and he goes, no thing,

432
00:22:28.839 --> 00:22:30.640
<v Speaker 1>you didn't do anything, you were, you were just you.

433
00:22:30.799 --> 00:22:34.160
<v Speaker 1>I just that's it. I just don't like you. It's

434
00:22:34.240 --> 00:22:37.599
<v Speaker 1>too different. And she's like, but we're not different. He's like, yeah,

435
00:22:37.640 --> 00:22:43.079
<v Speaker 1>I just I don't know, just not into it. Just lost, painful, painful.

436
00:22:43.279 --> 00:22:45.759
<v Speaker 1>We ben times have you been. I was just gonna say,

437
00:22:45.799 --> 00:22:48.319
<v Speaker 1>it's like that. There's no worse feeling than when you're like,

438
00:22:48.440 --> 00:22:50.960
<v Speaker 1>but yesterday you were totally into me.

439
00:22:51.640 --> 00:22:52.119
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

440
00:22:52.160 --> 00:22:53.519
<v Speaker 3>I mean I've been there so many times, and I

441
00:22:53.559 --> 00:22:56.039
<v Speaker 3>always find myself it's so terrible in this day and

442
00:22:56.079 --> 00:22:59.680
<v Speaker 3>age because I'm just calmbing through texts trying to see

443
00:22:59.720 --> 00:23:02.559
<v Speaker 3>like it's that one word that was different, one emoji

444
00:23:02.599 --> 00:23:05.319
<v Speaker 3>that he didn't use or did use, Like it's so

445
00:23:05.559 --> 00:23:08.200
<v Speaker 3>fucked up, and I don't even think that's like the

446
00:23:08.240 --> 00:23:10.880
<v Speaker 3>person that's on the other end of that that's blindsided,

447
00:23:10.920 --> 00:23:14.319
<v Speaker 3>isn't necessarily unhealthy or an anxious attacher.

448
00:23:14.559 --> 00:23:16.920
<v Speaker 2>People that do that, like, that's a mind fuck.

449
00:23:17.920 --> 00:23:20.279
<v Speaker 1>It's especially bad for people who are anxious, but it's

450
00:23:20.319 --> 00:23:23.559
<v Speaker 1>like a mind fuck for anybody I don't like. So

451
00:23:23.759 --> 00:23:25.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm yeah, I'm not a fan, not a fan. But

452
00:23:26.000 --> 00:23:29.680
<v Speaker 1>the thing is like that also makes it difficult from

453
00:23:29.720 --> 00:23:33.559
<v Speaker 1>his perspective, is that when you've gone off of somebody,

454
00:23:34.079 --> 00:23:35.640
<v Speaker 1>and I've been on the other side of it too,

455
00:23:36.000 --> 00:23:39.720
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing, there's no you can't just stay cause you're

456
00:23:39.759 --> 00:23:43.119
<v Speaker 1>just grossed out. Like you're like, I don't, I can't.

457
00:23:43.200 --> 00:23:45.759
<v Speaker 1>I've lost all feeling. So you know, when you wake

458
00:23:45.880 --> 00:23:48.319
<v Speaker 1>up and it's happened to you and it's happened to me,

459
00:23:48.480 --> 00:23:50.720
<v Speaker 1>and you're just like, oh god, I just don't like

460
00:23:50.759 --> 00:23:53.279
<v Speaker 1>this person anymore. I don't know what I saw on them,

461
00:23:53.319 --> 00:23:56.240
<v Speaker 1>but that feeling is gone. So the mom's like, well,

462
00:23:56.240 --> 00:23:58.079
<v Speaker 1>why couldn't you have just stayed with her and tried

463
00:23:58.119 --> 00:24:00.119
<v Speaker 1>to work it out or you know, people ask in

464
00:24:00.160 --> 00:24:03.119
<v Speaker 1>that and he was like, well I just couldn't. You're like, yeah,

465
00:24:03.279 --> 00:24:05.279
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't going to make himself. He just was like,

466
00:24:05.319 --> 00:24:08.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm done. Bye. I don't I don't often have that.

467
00:24:08.440 --> 00:24:10.759
<v Speaker 3>I get the ick very early, so I don't often

468
00:24:10.799 --> 00:24:12.880
<v Speaker 3>get the ick after I've like dated someone for three

469
00:24:12.920 --> 00:24:14.880
<v Speaker 3>months or I've slept with that, you know, like it

470
00:24:14.960 --> 00:24:17.160
<v Speaker 3>goes the other way. I get the ick for the

471
00:24:17.240 --> 00:24:20.359
<v Speaker 3>dumbest like SEINFELDI things like he eats his peas one

472
00:24:20.359 --> 00:24:21.920
<v Speaker 3>p at a time. You know, just that you know

473
00:24:21.960 --> 00:24:22.440
<v Speaker 3>how I am.

474
00:24:22.519 --> 00:24:24.519
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but what if you've already slept with the person

475
00:24:24.559 --> 00:24:25.960
<v Speaker 1>and then they eat their peas that way?

476
00:24:26.640 --> 00:24:28.119
<v Speaker 2>I probably wouldn't sleep with them.

477
00:24:28.119 --> 00:24:28.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm not.

478
00:24:28.400 --> 00:24:30.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm honestly, I'm sure that there have been times that

479
00:24:30.319 --> 00:24:32.079
<v Speaker 3>I have, but I most likely wouldn't.

480
00:24:32.200 --> 00:24:40.240
<v Speaker 1>What if you were drunk. I'm never drunk. I just

481
00:24:40.319 --> 00:24:42.480
<v Speaker 1>go for what I do. I'm like, yeah, but what

482
00:24:42.519 --> 00:24:44.119
<v Speaker 1>if you were so what if you're in a blackout.

483
00:24:44.240 --> 00:24:46.200
<v Speaker 1>What if you're in a blackout your crack did crack.

484
00:24:46.680 --> 00:24:48.519
<v Speaker 1>What if he did crack in a crackhouse and you

485
00:24:48.599 --> 00:24:50.720
<v Speaker 1>got like a super blackout and you've fucked a bunch

486
00:24:50.759 --> 00:24:52.559
<v Speaker 1>of guys and then you woke up and you're like,

487
00:24:52.559 --> 00:24:55.359
<v Speaker 1>I have the ick about you? Not you you like

488
00:24:55.440 --> 00:24:59.599
<v Speaker 1>eight of them? What if you were so cracked out

489
00:24:59.720 --> 00:25:03.000
<v Speaker 1>and drunk and then you're driving and you just like

490
00:25:03.079 --> 00:25:04.759
<v Speaker 1>you don't like the way the guy like the guy

491
00:25:04.799 --> 00:25:08.400
<v Speaker 1>takes off his shoes and puts him on the dashboard.

492
00:25:08.160 --> 00:25:10.119
<v Speaker 3>And you're like, uh, that's that, and you're bringing your

493
00:25:10.160 --> 00:25:13.759
<v Speaker 3>cracked out so you don't really totally remember, but.

494
00:25:13.720 --> 00:25:15.799
<v Speaker 1>You remember the next day, like if you make it

495
00:25:15.880 --> 00:25:19.000
<v Speaker 1>home safely without crashing, you're like, I feel like that

496
00:25:19.160 --> 00:25:22.039
<v Speaker 1>guy because did he take a shoot that you have

497
00:25:22.079 --> 00:25:25.319
<v Speaker 1>to call somebody and go I don't really remember much

498
00:25:25.319 --> 00:25:27.400
<v Speaker 1>of last night. Did that guy take his shoes off?

499
00:25:29.440 --> 00:25:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, my thing is that I never get to

500
00:25:31.480 --> 00:25:31.720
<v Speaker 1>the thing.

501
00:25:31.839 --> 00:25:33.960
<v Speaker 3>So guys get mad at me a lot where, you know,

502
00:25:34.079 --> 00:25:37.200
<v Speaker 3>especially online dating, where like I just won't go like

503
00:25:37.200 --> 00:25:38.720
<v Speaker 3>we'll have a couple back and forth, and then I

504
00:25:38.799 --> 00:25:42.119
<v Speaker 3>kind of for whatever reason, I'm like, nope, absolutely not nope.

505
00:25:42.519 --> 00:25:44.400
<v Speaker 2>And then they tried, They're like, but what I thought.

506
00:25:44.440 --> 00:25:46.079
<v Speaker 3>We had such a good conversation and we had a

507
00:25:46.200 --> 00:25:48.200
<v Speaker 3>date planned, and I'm just like no, But I think

508
00:25:48.279 --> 00:25:50.960
<v Speaker 3>the way I do it is still better than having

509
00:25:50.960 --> 00:25:52.759
<v Speaker 3>sex with him a bunch of times.

510
00:25:53.400 --> 00:25:55.480
<v Speaker 2>Right, and then dating them and making them think that that.

511
00:25:55.480 --> 00:25:58.200
<v Speaker 1>I really am marrying them, like saying yes at the

512
00:25:58.240 --> 00:26:01.319
<v Speaker 1>altar like Tom or Tom loose, you know, making them

513
00:26:01.319 --> 00:26:04.000
<v Speaker 1>sign a contract and having a kid with them and

514
00:26:04.119 --> 00:26:08.519
<v Speaker 1>staying for ten years, right, Yeah, confusing, And I think

515
00:26:08.759 --> 00:26:10.559
<v Speaker 1>I think, just to be serious for a minute, I

516
00:26:10.599 --> 00:26:12.839
<v Speaker 1>think that's what Sarah Verr was saying, was like, is

517
00:26:12.920 --> 00:26:16.440
<v Speaker 1>really confusing that you said yes, yeah exactly, and he

518
00:26:16.640 --> 00:26:19.000
<v Speaker 1>and but in my mind, I'm like, but girl, he

519
00:26:19.160 --> 00:26:22.839
<v Speaker 1>told you, he told you I get grossed out by people.

520
00:26:23.039 --> 00:26:25.200
<v Speaker 1>A few months into it, I am like.

521
00:26:25.200 --> 00:26:26.799
<v Speaker 2>Super grossed out, he said.

522
00:26:26.920 --> 00:26:30.960
<v Speaker 1>He said, I go cold, like I lose feelings. Oh,

523
00:26:31.440 --> 00:26:35.119
<v Speaker 1>He's like, I lose feelings like sometimes like six months

524
00:26:35.200 --> 00:26:36.839
<v Speaker 1>in and then it's like I'm done.

525
00:26:36.839 --> 00:26:39.759
<v Speaker 3>Like I just go cold. I mean, I can't tell

526
00:26:39.759 --> 00:26:42.400
<v Speaker 3>you how many times that's happened. Well, not that many times,

527
00:26:42.400 --> 00:26:44.720
<v Speaker 3>but when it does at like about the three month mark,

528
00:26:44.759 --> 00:26:47.000
<v Speaker 3>where guys have done that to me, I am you

529
00:26:47.000 --> 00:26:49.119
<v Speaker 3>know the thing people say but you don't realize it

530
00:26:49.119 --> 00:26:50.960
<v Speaker 3>at the time, is that like you're so much better

531
00:26:51.000 --> 00:26:53.240
<v Speaker 3>off because if it had been six months, it'd be

532
00:26:53.240 --> 00:26:55.400
<v Speaker 3>a lot worse. For a year or a merit, you know,

533
00:26:55.519 --> 00:26:57.480
<v Speaker 3>like all those things. And that is what she was

534
00:26:57.519 --> 00:26:58.960
<v Speaker 3>trying to say, like, why did.

535
00:26:58.880 --> 00:27:01.240
<v Speaker 1>You also like you got into they got into a

536
00:27:01.279 --> 00:27:04.839
<v Speaker 1>fight on their honeymoon. Did he never let go? Which

537
00:27:04.880 --> 00:27:07.359
<v Speaker 1>is what she was trying to refer to. She was like,

538
00:27:07.880 --> 00:27:10.720
<v Speaker 1>but we were married, Like we had a little minor

539
00:27:10.759 --> 00:27:14.440
<v Speaker 1>disagreement I think about like their hotel, and he's like, yeah,

540
00:27:14.480 --> 00:27:16.759
<v Speaker 1>well but I lost interest at that point. So three

541
00:27:16.759 --> 00:27:19.400
<v Speaker 1>months later he broke up with her, and he was like, yeah,

542
00:27:19.400 --> 00:27:21.279
<v Speaker 1>but I already had had an argument with you on

543
00:27:21.319 --> 00:27:24.240
<v Speaker 1>our honeymoon. She was like, but that was three months

544
00:27:24.279 --> 00:27:27.519
<v Speaker 1>before and we're married. That's crazy. We just had one

545
00:27:27.599 --> 00:27:31.200
<v Speaker 1>little fight. Yeah, Fuck that guy, fuck cow of her.

546
00:27:31.680 --> 00:27:34.799
<v Speaker 3>So then they move on to Jed who you mentioned

547
00:27:34.960 --> 00:27:37.319
<v Speaker 3>that was the no Jed and what's her name? What's

548
00:27:37.359 --> 00:27:41.920
<v Speaker 3>the woman's barta? Okay, uh, he let's see. He would

549
00:27:41.920 --> 00:27:43.880
<v Speaker 3>have been a yes, but not one hundred percent. So

550
00:27:43.960 --> 00:27:46.359
<v Speaker 3>later he was happy. They tried to hook up after

551
00:27:46.400 --> 00:27:49.880
<v Speaker 3>the fact, uh, and they only it was like there.

552
00:27:50.000 --> 00:27:51.599
<v Speaker 3>So the hosts were like, well, how long did you

553
00:27:51.599 --> 00:27:53.759
<v Speaker 3>guys hook up or after the whole thing, and they're

554
00:27:53.759 --> 00:27:54.680
<v Speaker 3>like three weeks.

555
00:27:54.880 --> 00:27:59.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then they lived together. Yeah for three weeks. Okay,

556
00:27:59.880 --> 00:28:02.960
<v Speaker 1>So they lived together for three weeks and then apparently

557
00:28:03.000 --> 00:28:05.960
<v Speaker 1>they went to the gym, so she says, so she

558
00:28:06.160 --> 00:28:09.559
<v Speaker 1>was feeling really bad that she said no at the altar,

559
00:28:10.440 --> 00:28:12.960
<v Speaker 1>so it seemed clear that he was going to say yes,

560
00:28:13.000 --> 00:28:15.480
<v Speaker 1>and he does. He didn't want people to know, yeah

561
00:28:15.519 --> 00:28:15.880
<v Speaker 1>he was.

562
00:28:16.039 --> 00:28:18.400
<v Speaker 3>She was like, okay, I'll keep the ring on because

563
00:28:18.440 --> 00:28:20.920
<v Speaker 3>he didn't want to be embarrassed with his friends. But

564
00:28:20.960 --> 00:28:22.799
<v Speaker 3>then he wanted her to take it off because his

565
00:28:22.880 --> 00:28:26.079
<v Speaker 3>ex girlfriend was at the gym. I was so confused

566
00:28:26.079 --> 00:28:26.960
<v Speaker 3>by that storyline.

567
00:28:26.960 --> 00:28:29.839
<v Speaker 1>That was so weird. It's like, okay, so, I mean

568
00:28:29.920 --> 00:28:33.720
<v Speaker 1>she had a right to be annoyed by that, right, Yeah,

569
00:28:33.759 --> 00:28:37.240
<v Speaker 1>for sure. I think I couldn't get a read on her.

570
00:28:37.559 --> 00:28:39.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I loved her either. I mean

571
00:28:39.359 --> 00:28:43.720
<v Speaker 1>she was fine, No, there was something was off about her.

572
00:28:44.799 --> 00:28:46.519
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then they're like, well, where are you now,

573
00:28:46.519 --> 00:28:49.119
<v Speaker 3>and she's like in Dubai. I just went to Dubai,

574
00:28:49.319 --> 00:28:50.079
<v Speaker 3>never left.

575
00:28:50.079 --> 00:28:53.279
<v Speaker 1>Like okay, and why is that? Like we're not from

576
00:28:53.359 --> 00:28:56.359
<v Speaker 1>that part of the world, so we're just like okay.

577
00:28:56.440 --> 00:29:00.279
<v Speaker 1>But everybody else was like what, Like okay, I mean

578
00:29:00.319 --> 00:29:03.440
<v Speaker 1>she moved. I don't know. Yeah, I mean it's just

579
00:29:03.480 --> 00:29:04.640
<v Speaker 1>a wealthy place.

580
00:29:04.799 --> 00:29:08.440
<v Speaker 3>Oh maybe she met a very wealthy person who knows

581
00:29:08.599 --> 00:29:09.599
<v Speaker 3>wealthy businessman.

582
00:29:09.720 --> 00:29:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay. So that was fine because that was not

583
00:29:14.039 --> 00:29:18.200
<v Speaker 1>shocking because they said no at the altar, right, So

584
00:29:18.240 --> 00:29:20.400
<v Speaker 1>it was probably more shocking that they ended up living

585
00:29:20.440 --> 00:29:22.079
<v Speaker 1>together for a time for.

586
00:29:22.079 --> 00:29:25.519
<v Speaker 3>Three weeks, right, was a little boring. So they moved

587
00:29:25.559 --> 00:29:28.160
<v Speaker 3>quickly on to Ashley and Billy. I immediately, at first

588
00:29:28.160 --> 00:29:30.359
<v Speaker 3>I thought Billy was cute. I really did, And then

589
00:29:30.400 --> 00:29:33.519
<v Speaker 3>I immediately once I saw how rigid he was, I

590
00:29:33.559 --> 00:29:36.519
<v Speaker 3>was like, oh no, oh no, no, no, okay.

591
00:29:36.559 --> 00:29:39.240
<v Speaker 1>So when they first got together, they were this is

592
00:29:39.279 --> 00:29:42.079
<v Speaker 1>the thing about him, and this is what we need

593
00:29:42.119 --> 00:29:45.960
<v Speaker 1>to discuss. So when we first saw him on the show,

594
00:29:46.240 --> 00:29:49.799
<v Speaker 1>it was seemed really cute. He was really into her,

595
00:29:50.279 --> 00:29:53.039
<v Speaker 1>and you know when they meet after like after they

596
00:29:53.039 --> 00:29:56.039
<v Speaker 1>come out of the pods. I know, you hate the pods,

597
00:29:57.200 --> 00:29:58.960
<v Speaker 1>but when they came out of the pods, he was like,

598
00:29:59.240 --> 00:30:01.759
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, because she's so cute, and he was

599
00:30:01.839 --> 00:30:04.680
<v Speaker 1>just like, oh my gosh, like I'm so in love

600
00:30:04.720 --> 00:30:06.880
<v Speaker 1>with you, and she was so in love with him.

601
00:30:06.960 --> 00:30:09.079
<v Speaker 1>It seemed real clear that those two were going to

602
00:30:09.160 --> 00:30:12.920
<v Speaker 1>make it. Then, Like this was many episodes in. They

603
00:30:12.920 --> 00:30:15.279
<v Speaker 1>had the weird thing at the grocery store, so it

604
00:30:15.319 --> 00:30:17.799
<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, that was kind of weird. That was

605
00:30:17.839 --> 00:30:20.319
<v Speaker 1>the first time that we saw he was being really rigid,

606
00:30:20.920 --> 00:30:23.640
<v Speaker 1>but he would be very weird at the grocery store.

607
00:30:23.640 --> 00:30:26.920
<v Speaker 1>He was very much like She's like, look, you don't

608
00:30:26.920 --> 00:30:29.039
<v Speaker 1>have to eat it, but like, oh, He's like, while

609
00:30:29.200 --> 00:30:31.400
<v Speaker 1>I eat the same thing for dinner like every single night,

610
00:30:31.480 --> 00:30:35.240
<v Speaker 1>like a piece of chicken breast and like mince, like

611
00:30:35.440 --> 00:30:38.720
<v Speaker 1>mince and something and something. And she goes, okay, but

612
00:30:38.839 --> 00:30:40.920
<v Speaker 1>like I'm not going to eat that like every night.

613
00:30:41.640 --> 00:30:43.200
<v Speaker 1>And he's like and she goes, well, what was it

614
00:30:43.279 --> 00:30:45.559
<v Speaker 1>like with your ex wife? And he's like, well, we

615
00:30:45.680 --> 00:30:48.559
<v Speaker 1>just ate our own stuff for dinner every night. She's like, okay,

616
00:30:48.559 --> 00:30:49.920
<v Speaker 1>well we're not going to do that.

617
00:30:51.799 --> 00:30:53.480
<v Speaker 2>Does it say where she's from? Do you have her

618
00:30:53.519 --> 00:30:54.160
<v Speaker 2>bio up?

619
00:30:54.519 --> 00:30:54.839
<v Speaker 1>I didn't.

620
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<v Speaker 2>I think I didn't like her accent either, And I'm

621
00:30:56.799 --> 00:30:57.359
<v Speaker 2>just curious.

622
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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't let me see see I'm not I'm not

623
00:31:02.960 --> 00:31:06.039
<v Speaker 1>sure because I just oh, okay, I have the right.

624
00:31:06.279 --> 00:31:07.920
<v Speaker 2>It's high it's hi women.

625
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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, I'll tell you, Okay, I have her up.

626
00:31:15.759 --> 00:31:17.599
<v Speaker 1>She's from Surrey, England.

627
00:31:17.839 --> 00:31:21.720
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, okay, what's Sillery. I think that's like that's

628
00:31:21.759 --> 00:31:23.960
<v Speaker 3>near London. I'm gonna look that up. But yeah, I

629
00:31:24.039 --> 00:31:26.000
<v Speaker 3>was having a hard time understanding her. I think maybe

630
00:31:26.000 --> 00:31:29.440
<v Speaker 3>that's kind of like I don't know. Okay, so that

631
00:31:29.640 --> 00:31:31.680
<v Speaker 3>was just he just kind of read as cold.

632
00:31:31.799 --> 00:31:34.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but also like they work. They should have made

633
00:31:34.720 --> 00:31:39.640
<v Speaker 1>it together because she was an army cadet. Oh yeah, yeah,

634
00:31:40.160 --> 00:31:42.920
<v Speaker 1>and she was real happy that he was from the army,

635
00:31:43.160 --> 00:31:47.559
<v Speaker 1>like she was all about him. He did not deserve her, Okay.

636
00:31:47.599 --> 00:31:51.160
<v Speaker 1>So after the grocery store thing happened, he he was

637
00:31:51.279 --> 00:31:54.119
<v Speaker 1>so mixed signals. He was like, no, but I really

638
00:31:54.160 --> 00:31:56.319
<v Speaker 1>really love you. We'll make it work. Then all of

639
00:31:56.359 --> 00:31:58.279
<v Speaker 1>a sudden, he did the thing that a lot of

640
00:31:58.319 --> 00:32:00.119
<v Speaker 1>guys do where he just all of a sudden and

641
00:32:00.240 --> 00:32:02.799
<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, I'm just oh. She went to go

642
00:32:02.920 --> 00:32:05.240
<v Speaker 1>meet his family and visit, and all of a sudden,

643
00:32:05.279 --> 00:32:08.119
<v Speaker 1>he started acting weird, and he was like, well, yeah,

644
00:32:08.200 --> 00:32:10.559
<v Speaker 1>I'm just not one hundred percent like I just I

645
00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:12.839
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I'm having doubts. And she was like what,

646
00:32:13.559 --> 00:32:16.480
<v Speaker 1>like since when, Like she was the one making all

647
00:32:16.480 --> 00:32:19.319
<v Speaker 1>the concessions. So then she was like, okay, well I

648
00:32:19.359 --> 00:32:22.720
<v Speaker 1>hope you like come around because like I'm super into

649
00:32:22.759 --> 00:32:24.799
<v Speaker 1>this and I know we can make it work. So

650
00:32:24.920 --> 00:32:29.079
<v Speaker 1>they get up there on the wedding day and she says, yes,

651
00:32:29.599 --> 00:32:32.519
<v Speaker 1>and then he says yes, and she's like, oh my god.

652
00:32:32.599 --> 00:32:34.440
<v Speaker 1>And then she goes, what made you change your mind

653
00:32:34.519 --> 00:32:37.799
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and he says, well, I realized it was

654
00:32:37.880 --> 00:32:41.440
<v Speaker 1>just fear, and I didn't want to like give in

655
00:32:41.480 --> 00:32:44.000
<v Speaker 1>to fear and like miss out on like the love

656
00:32:44.039 --> 00:32:48.079
<v Speaker 1>of my life, like I love you so obviously, what

657
00:32:48.200 --> 00:32:50.920
<v Speaker 1>the fuck? Like, So he says yes, and he gets

658
00:32:50.960 --> 00:32:52.599
<v Speaker 1>over his fear, and then he breaks up with her

659
00:32:52.640 --> 00:32:55.960
<v Speaker 1>a few months later, and he and that other fucking

660
00:32:56.000 --> 00:32:58.759
<v Speaker 1>guy Cow were in coots with this and came up

661
00:32:58.799 --> 00:33:01.279
<v Speaker 1>with the way that that was also in the reunion,

662
00:33:01.599 --> 00:33:03.839
<v Speaker 1>and they both talked and figured out what they were

663
00:33:03.839 --> 00:33:05.759
<v Speaker 1>going to say to the women to get out of

664
00:33:05.799 --> 00:33:09.400
<v Speaker 1>the marriage. Right, Yeah, that was weird. That was fun.

665
00:33:09.559 --> 00:33:11.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean these are This is part of the

666
00:33:11.359 --> 00:33:13.960
<v Speaker 3>reason I don't like this show, though, because so much

667
00:33:13.960 --> 00:33:16.440
<v Speaker 3>of it only there's only really ever a couple that's

668
00:33:16.480 --> 00:33:18.559
<v Speaker 3>sort of like, okay, yeah, I believe this one. But

669
00:33:18.640 --> 00:33:20.480
<v Speaker 3>so much of it is just influencers trying to go

670
00:33:20.519 --> 00:33:22.839
<v Speaker 3>on a show. That's why I like the original Love

671
00:33:22.880 --> 00:33:24.720
<v Speaker 3>is Blind. I like the first couple of seasons. They

672
00:33:24.720 --> 00:33:28.599
<v Speaker 3>were not your most attracted. You know, you're traditionally attractive people.

673
00:33:28.640 --> 00:33:31.559
<v Speaker 3>That was the point. Now it's all just people like

674
00:33:31.640 --> 00:33:34.119
<v Speaker 3>the hottest people they can find for the most part,

675
00:33:34.480 --> 00:33:36.119
<v Speaker 3>so they're all just like full of shit.

676
00:33:36.279 --> 00:33:37.319
<v Speaker 1>Like that's my issue.

677
00:33:37.559 --> 00:33:39.559
<v Speaker 3>They if they go back to the roots and really

678
00:33:39.599 --> 00:33:42.640
<v Speaker 3>make the show the show, I would enjoy it.

679
00:33:42.720 --> 00:33:43.720
<v Speaker 2>Even with the guy Zach.

680
00:33:43.799 --> 00:33:46.359
<v Speaker 3>Remember when Zach was on it and that Irena I

681
00:33:46.359 --> 00:33:49.279
<v Speaker 3>think was her name, she was just terrible to him. Yeah,

682
00:33:49.359 --> 00:33:51.640
<v Speaker 3>they were just like real people and they got along

683
00:33:51.759 --> 00:33:54.079
<v Speaker 3>even though he was so cheesy and like sang songs

684
00:33:54.079 --> 00:33:54.599
<v Speaker 3>and stuff.

685
00:33:54.720 --> 00:33:58.359
<v Speaker 1>But remember the guy from the last season where he

686
00:33:58.400 --> 00:34:00.960
<v Speaker 1>looked like, oh, this is because I have to make

687
00:34:01.000 --> 00:34:03.680
<v Speaker 1>a point about the fact that with like with Jed

688
00:34:03.720 --> 00:34:05.880
<v Speaker 1>and Barta, they talked about how much they were fighting,

689
00:34:05.880 --> 00:34:08.119
<v Speaker 1>they never showed it. But remember when they had that

690
00:34:08.119 --> 00:34:11.960
<v Speaker 1>guy that looked like he was from the band De Barge. Yeah, girl,

691
00:34:12.639 --> 00:34:14.800
<v Speaker 1>and they were showing all their fights and then they

692
00:34:14.840 --> 00:34:17.440
<v Speaker 1>showed him basically breaking up with her and her like

693
00:34:17.519 --> 00:34:20.920
<v Speaker 1>laying on the floor crying. Remember that we need more

694
00:34:20.960 --> 00:34:23.719
<v Speaker 1>of that. Like, if you're going to have these couples

695
00:34:24.079 --> 00:34:27.599
<v Speaker 1>like have actual problems, show them. You've got hidden cameras,

696
00:34:27.599 --> 00:34:31.079
<v Speaker 1>You've got cameras in the room. That's just lazy editing.

697
00:34:31.159 --> 00:34:34.960
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, producing I agree, Yeah, I agree. So okay,

698
00:34:35.159 --> 00:34:39.280
<v Speaker 1>so this was like he's cheesy, let's yeah. The last

699
00:34:39.320 --> 00:34:48.519
<v Speaker 1>couple was Kiara. More so there's Jevin. Is that right, Javin? Yeah,

700
00:34:48.519 --> 00:34:50.760
<v Speaker 1>we talked about him, We talked about him. He was

701
00:34:50.800 --> 00:34:53.840
<v Speaker 1>the one who was really who was going because they

702
00:34:53.880 --> 00:34:56.519
<v Speaker 1>go into that where she's like, you know the whole

703
00:34:56.559 --> 00:34:59.599
<v Speaker 1>thing with Sophie, hold on, let me just see uh

704
00:35:00.119 --> 00:35:02.920
<v Speaker 1>of arguments, let me see what I wrote here? Oh

705
00:35:03.280 --> 00:35:05.119
<v Speaker 1>is this one? So the host who by the way,

706
00:35:05.119 --> 00:35:08.519
<v Speaker 1>the hosts kind of bothered me. Yeah, they're annoying. Okay,

707
00:35:08.559 --> 00:35:09.880
<v Speaker 1>thank you, I'm glad I got that right.

708
00:35:10.159 --> 00:35:12.360
<v Speaker 3>But then they're like, okay, they went to the audience

709
00:35:12.360 --> 00:35:15.159
<v Speaker 3>for somebody and they were sort of doing one offs

710
00:35:15.239 --> 00:35:17.039
<v Speaker 3>right after they did them, and they're like, I did

711
00:35:17.039 --> 00:35:17.920
<v Speaker 3>a whole thing about.

712
00:35:17.719 --> 00:35:20.400
<v Speaker 1>You're a liah, You're a liah.

713
00:35:20.599 --> 00:35:22.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so there was somebody who just kept saying that

714
00:35:22.440 --> 00:35:23.519
<v Speaker 3>and made it into a song.

715
00:35:23.920 --> 00:35:27.800
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So basically, there's this girl and let me find

716
00:35:27.800 --> 00:35:30.920
<v Speaker 1>her name for you. Who was in the audience.

717
00:35:31.320 --> 00:35:33.039
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she was in the audience, and they made they

718
00:35:33.039 --> 00:35:34.559
<v Speaker 3>were trying to make it really cute and I was like,

719
00:35:34.639 --> 00:35:35.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm not having it.

720
00:35:35.559 --> 00:35:37.079
<v Speaker 1>I want to say that. Her name was like, oh,

721
00:35:37.119 --> 00:35:42.159
<v Speaker 1>her name is Anew. So Anew was a singer and

722
00:35:42.199 --> 00:35:44.360
<v Speaker 1>she was with this guy that you really missed out

723
00:35:44.400 --> 00:35:49.639
<v Speaker 1>on named Patrick, who talked all about his he seems

724
00:35:49.639 --> 00:35:51.480
<v Speaker 1>like he's in a cult. A lot of people on

725
00:35:51.519 --> 00:35:53.840
<v Speaker 1>read it were talking about it seems like some kind

726
00:35:53.880 --> 00:35:58.000
<v Speaker 1>of almost it's like coaching life coaching kind of thing

727
00:35:58.280 --> 00:36:02.000
<v Speaker 1>and it's all about listening to your lean. Oh that's right,

728
00:36:02.039 --> 00:36:05.239
<v Speaker 1>they said that. Okay, it was so weird. So he's

729
00:36:05.559 --> 00:36:09.000
<v Speaker 1>liking this girl Anw and she's liking him, but then

730
00:36:09.280 --> 00:36:12.639
<v Speaker 1>he goes cold on her when like, honestly, this guy

731
00:36:12.679 --> 00:36:14.880
<v Speaker 1>did not deserve her. I know, she's like really over

732
00:36:14.920 --> 00:36:16.719
<v Speaker 1>the top, but she was a singer and he goes,

733
00:36:16.880 --> 00:36:19.760
<v Speaker 1>what we'll sing for me, and it's sort of like

734
00:36:19.800 --> 00:36:22.400
<v Speaker 1>how we're comedians. But if you were like went on

735
00:36:22.440 --> 00:36:23.800
<v Speaker 1>a date with a guy and he was like, Okay,

736
00:36:23.880 --> 00:36:26.440
<v Speaker 1>we'll do some comedy. Tell me a joke, any joke.

737
00:36:26.800 --> 00:36:29.239
<v Speaker 1>What do you open with? Right? So she was like, uh,

738
00:36:30.559 --> 00:36:32.519
<v Speaker 1>I don't really feel comfortable, like I'm not going to

739
00:36:32.599 --> 00:36:34.679
<v Speaker 1>just start singing. And he was like, oh, well, I

740
00:36:34.679 --> 00:36:36.880
<v Speaker 1>don't know then maybe you're not really a singer, or

741
00:36:37.320 --> 00:36:38.760
<v Speaker 1>he was just a dick about it.

742
00:36:39.079 --> 00:36:40.239
<v Speaker 2>He gave a message.

743
00:36:40.280 --> 00:36:42.199
<v Speaker 3>He gave a note and said because he got a

744
00:36:42.239 --> 00:36:44.199
<v Speaker 3>girlfriend and got someone pregnant real quick.

745
00:36:44.239 --> 00:36:46.239
<v Speaker 1>So people are like that dude before he came on

746
00:36:46.280 --> 00:36:46.719
<v Speaker 1>the show.

747
00:36:47.199 --> 00:36:50.480
<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, so he made some statement. He's like, no,

748
00:36:50.639 --> 00:36:52.800
<v Speaker 3>I really was looking for love, but I'm very happy

749
00:36:52.840 --> 00:36:54.760
<v Speaker 3>for my next step in my journey in life.

750
00:36:54.800 --> 00:36:55.800
<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh no.

751
00:36:56.400 --> 00:37:01.800
<v Speaker 3>And then the guy Demola I say, I was sitting

752
00:37:01.840 --> 00:37:05.000
<v Speaker 3>next to Anu. They were like, why don't you guys

753
00:37:05.039 --> 00:37:07.559
<v Speaker 3>just date? And he was like, oh hell no. He

754
00:37:07.639 --> 00:37:11.360
<v Speaker 3>basically yes, he's like my like a very annoying little sister.

755
00:37:11.440 --> 00:37:14.119
<v Speaker 3>And that in stride. I would have cried. I would

756
00:37:14.159 --> 00:37:16.519
<v Speaker 3>have burst into tears. I was like, she took that,

757
00:37:17.039 --> 00:37:18.119
<v Speaker 3>she took that, well.

758
00:37:18.119 --> 00:37:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I deserve that. But was sweet. She was

759
00:37:22.079 --> 00:37:24.320
<v Speaker 1>a lot too, And but she never should have been

760
00:37:24.400 --> 00:37:27.159
<v Speaker 1>with that Patrick guy. He was a joke. What did

761
00:37:27.159 --> 00:37:31.039
<v Speaker 1>he looked like, I don't know, like a football player,

762
00:37:31.920 --> 00:37:34.400
<v Speaker 1>like buff, like a big like a big buff guy.

763
00:37:34.440 --> 00:37:39.880
<v Speaker 1>But he was just football, I mean footy American football, football, football,

764
00:37:39.960 --> 00:37:45.000
<v Speaker 1>American so not soccer like no, so he was like

765
00:37:45.039 --> 00:37:47.519
<v Speaker 1>a Dick, and he just was like, oh, my spleen

766
00:37:47.760 --> 00:37:52.000
<v Speaker 1>is telling me like like I I can't, like, I'm

767
00:37:52.000 --> 00:37:53.719
<v Speaker 1>not going to make this work. And she so she

768
00:37:53.880 --> 00:37:56.480
<v Speaker 1>comes in on the last day and she's written him

769
00:37:56.480 --> 00:37:58.119
<v Speaker 1>a song and she's going to sing it for him,

770
00:37:58.119 --> 00:38:00.840
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, yeah, I can't do it. I'm just

771
00:38:01.000 --> 00:38:03.639
<v Speaker 1>nod into it. My spleen told me no, and she's.

772
00:38:03.480 --> 00:38:05.760
<v Speaker 2>Like her he cringed out.

773
00:38:06.360 --> 00:38:09.000
<v Speaker 1>But she should have been cringing out long before because

774
00:38:09.039 --> 00:38:10.199
<v Speaker 1>he was ridiculous.

775
00:38:10.280 --> 00:38:11.320
<v Speaker 2>Had she seen him yet?

776
00:38:11.800 --> 00:38:14.559
<v Speaker 1>No, No, no, they did. He never proposed to her

777
00:38:14.679 --> 00:38:18.760
<v Speaker 1>because he thought that she was being like wishy washy

778
00:38:18.760 --> 00:38:22.000
<v Speaker 1>because she wouldn't sing. He was mad that she wouldn't sing.

779
00:38:22.039 --> 00:38:25.760
<v Speaker 1>It was so ridiculous. Okay, so let's just get you

780
00:38:25.800 --> 00:38:27.840
<v Speaker 1>what did you have something else to say about Jovin?

781
00:38:28.000 --> 00:38:28.599
<v Speaker 2>That's all I have.

782
00:38:28.760 --> 00:38:32.719
<v Speaker 3>Last one is Megan and Kieran. Yeah, and I thought

783
00:38:32.800 --> 00:38:35.199
<v Speaker 3>I loved there. I mean, like I get a little

784
00:38:35.199 --> 00:38:38.320
<v Speaker 3>annoyed just because of like the TikTok, Like everything's a

785
00:38:38.400 --> 00:38:39.119
<v Speaker 3>TikTok video.

786
00:38:39.159 --> 00:38:41.199
<v Speaker 2>Everything's like, look at us, We're so right.

787
00:38:41.199 --> 00:38:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I think they make them do that, though after they

788
00:38:43.840 --> 00:38:48.519
<v Speaker 1>get married, they want they want videos of like their lives, right.

789
00:38:48.599 --> 00:38:51.079
<v Speaker 3>I mean they were cute, like there's no question that

790
00:38:51.119 --> 00:38:54.320
<v Speaker 3>they seemed to be a really sweet, secure, healthy couple.

791
00:38:54.440 --> 00:38:56.840
<v Speaker 1>Yep, he was so nice right from the get go.

792
00:38:57.119 --> 00:38:59.639
<v Speaker 1>And guess what, he made the right decision because the

793
00:38:59.679 --> 00:39:03.239
<v Speaker 1>girl that really wanted him was that girl, Sophie. And

794
00:39:03.599 --> 00:39:07.199
<v Speaker 1>even though she was like, don't worry, I'm so pretty,

795
00:39:07.519 --> 00:39:11.519
<v Speaker 1>he was like okay, but like Megan is, Megan was

796
00:39:11.599 --> 00:39:17.679
<v Speaker 1>just very very secure, like not jealous, like she was

797
00:39:17.719 --> 00:39:21.920
<v Speaker 1>like okay, like you'll make your own decision. And you know,

798
00:39:22.039 --> 00:39:24.639
<v Speaker 1>when he picked her, she was like super happy and

799
00:39:24.679 --> 00:39:27.039
<v Speaker 1>they were just really like a cute couple from the

800
00:39:27.760 --> 00:39:28.559
<v Speaker 1>just from the beginning.

801
00:39:29.519 --> 00:39:30.280
<v Speaker 2>Well you could see that.

802
00:39:30.320 --> 00:39:32.360
<v Speaker 3>You could see Sophie immediately because they kept cutting to

803
00:39:32.400 --> 00:39:35.159
<v Speaker 3>her and she looked like her lip was quivering, you know,

804
00:39:35.280 --> 00:39:37.079
<v Speaker 3>she was like half and then when they talked to her,

805
00:39:37.159 --> 00:39:39.960
<v Speaker 3>she's like, yeah, no, I'm really very happy for them.

806
00:39:40.119 --> 00:39:43.639
<v Speaker 3>They seem great, like she's not. And then she did

807
00:39:43.639 --> 00:39:46.000
<v Speaker 3>say she's like I am now in therapy as everyone

808
00:39:46.079 --> 00:39:46.800
<v Speaker 3>said I should be.

809
00:39:47.920 --> 00:39:51.079
<v Speaker 1>She acknowledged whatever. She seemed very sad, like I will

810
00:39:51.119 --> 00:39:54.079
<v Speaker 1>give her that. She didn't seem yeah, super comfortable in

811
00:39:54.119 --> 00:39:57.039
<v Speaker 1>her skin, so yeah, but she was pretty bad at

812
00:39:57.079 --> 00:40:00.920
<v Speaker 1>like that mixer, like just flirting with job. But I

813
00:40:00.960 --> 00:40:04.280
<v Speaker 1>thought it was also kind of cool that the Katisha

814
00:40:04.719 --> 00:40:07.719
<v Speaker 1>was like, well, listen, you weren't the one who was married.

815
00:40:08.039 --> 00:40:11.199
<v Speaker 3>Right, he was so right, I'm not mad at you girl.

816
00:40:12.320 --> 00:40:14.599
<v Speaker 3>Then well they finished out sort of like what what

817
00:40:14.639 --> 00:40:16.400
<v Speaker 3>were some of the nose for you? At first for

818
00:40:16.480 --> 00:40:18.719
<v Speaker 3>Megan and she's like, I'm not really a gamer. I

819
00:40:18.719 --> 00:40:20.840
<v Speaker 3>don't really like the gaming guys, and.

820
00:40:20.800 --> 00:40:21.480
<v Speaker 1>That's his thing.

821
00:40:22.000 --> 00:40:23.800
<v Speaker 3>So that turned out to be really cute or I

822
00:40:23.840 --> 00:40:25.880
<v Speaker 3>was like, well that's what he does, so she likes

823
00:40:25.920 --> 00:40:28.480
<v Speaker 3>it now, Yep, it's all good.

824
00:40:29.480 --> 00:40:31.519
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was the you guy.

825
00:40:31.760 --> 00:40:33.559
<v Speaker 1>How did I do? How did I do? You did

826
00:40:33.760 --> 00:40:36.159
<v Speaker 1>really well? Like, here's the thing. The thing that was

827
00:40:36.239 --> 00:40:38.639
<v Speaker 1>kind of fun about it was that, look, these two

828
00:40:38.639 --> 00:40:41.119
<v Speaker 1>of these people got Two of these couples got married

829
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<v Speaker 1>and then broke up, which we haven't really seen, right,

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<v Speaker 1>We usually see them break up before, but these two

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<v Speaker 1>both were like happy ever after. Yay they got married,

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<v Speaker 1>and now boom they're both divorced. So only one couple

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<v Speaker 1>came out of it.

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<v Speaker 3>But I mean that's a lot if you think about

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<v Speaker 3>the odds of just meeting blindly. I mean, they cheesily

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<v Speaker 3>keep calling it an experiment, but it is. It is

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<v Speaker 3>an experiment, yea, and so it is kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that the producers make them say. There's certain

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<v Speaker 3>things they have to say. It's like bachelor speak, but

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<v Speaker 3>for love is blind. Yes, I guess that's why I

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<v Speaker 3>get agitated, because it's like, oh, just have your own thing, yeah, real,

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<v Speaker 3>be a real deal. I would not last a minute

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<v Speaker 3>in those parts. I would just be like, you're not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna pick me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I would talk every guy out of it and

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<v Speaker 1>be like, O, this other girl's really pretty.

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<v Speaker 2>You should totally do that, and then cry because he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't pick me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, yeah, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>Whenever the opposite of it. I'm the opposite of a

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<v Speaker 3>pick me girl? What would that be? And don't don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Make don't make me girl, don't take me, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Deep down pick me. But I kind of want to

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<v Speaker 1>be picked yeah, but definitely pick me, but don't pick me,

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<v Speaker 1>but don't pick me, like, honestly, no, you'll be better

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<v Speaker 1>off with somebody else, But I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Pick me, sure to pick me, but like, okay, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'll write a poem about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just want to be sad and write about

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<v Speaker 1>in my journal about how you're not going to pick me. Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a real thing. Yeah, people live in it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>one of them. All right, everybody. That was fun. What's

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<v Speaker 1>this going up? Oh? This is going up on Tuesday morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to this and then uh, Bachelor in Paradise

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<v Speaker 1>is airing tonight. So we're gonna play you that tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, we're gonna play you that that. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to record that for you and Wednesday and Mona and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play it for you live.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll be live and we're gonna sing. And this is

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<v Speaker 3>a new thing that we're doing. We're writing songs for

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<v Speaker 3>how we feel. Yes, yes, it's something we're doing. So

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<v Speaker 3>all right you bye bye.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you guys. Bye bye.

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<v Speaker 2>Please
