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<v Speaker 1>I am something I want to play.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and get your guys's opinion or take on I

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<v Speaker 2>before I play it. This is just somebody's opinion online.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if there's any legality to this, So

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<v Speaker 2>advance on your own feelings. I guess okay, So we'll

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<v Speaker 2>play it. We can stop it if we need to.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a couple of minutes long.

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<v Speaker 3>So you pay a collection well, because you don't owe

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<v Speaker 3>many money. You don't owe the collection agency one dime.

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<v Speaker 3>Before you got a letter or note in a nail,

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<v Speaker 3>you had no idea who LNVN Funding was or Jefferson

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<v Speaker 3>Collection Agency. You had no idea who they were. You

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<v Speaker 3>never bought anything from them, You never entered into any

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<v Speaker 3>agreement with them. You don't owe them any money whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 3>What they did is they bought your debt from the

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<v Speaker 3>original creditor. That creditor has then written off your account

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<v Speaker 3>as a collection. They call it a charge off. The

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<v Speaker 3>collection agency purchases the debt. Then they're going to come

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<v Speaker 3>after you for it. They bought it for pennies on

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<v Speaker 3>a dollar, but they're coming after you for the full amount,

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<v Speaker 3>plus fees and interest in everything else. But the bottom

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<v Speaker 3>line is you don't owe the collection agency.

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<v Speaker 1>At dime, I think.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, he's right, you don't owe the collection agency.

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<v Speaker 4>You owe the company that sold your account to the

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<v Speaker 4>collection agency. But it's the collection agency owns that account now,

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<v Speaker 4>So I mean, I guess technically you do owe them

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<v Speaker 4>because they got to recoup their money somehow.

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't know. I don't know enough about that,

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<v Speaker 1>how that works or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I was always under the impression, like what you

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<v Speaker 2>exactly what you said is that this company bought your

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<v Speaker 2>credit or your debt, and now I owe you that debt.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't know that a collection agency is buying the

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<v Speaker 5>oh yeah, money. I thought it was like usually I

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<v Speaker 5>always thought that, like when it comes to a collection agency,

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<v Speaker 5>it's usually through like a medical bill or something. And

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<v Speaker 5>the way that people are getting around that is well,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, because of HIPPA rules.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, they can't prove you any billion your documentation exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>So he goes into it.

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<v Speaker 1>More so, listen to this more.

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<v Speaker 3>You never signed up with them, you never signed anything

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<v Speaker 3>with them, you never purchased anything with them. You don't

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<v Speaker 3>know them from Adam. If you're going to do that,

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<v Speaker 3>send me the money. Instead, it's foolish. Just don't do it.

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<v Speaker 4>What if they try to take you to court.

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<v Speaker 3>If they try to take you to court, let them

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<v Speaker 3>try to take you to court. This is a litigious world.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody's trying to sue everybody for everything. Becomes a frivolous

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<v Speaker 3>lawsuit because all you have to do is prove that

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<v Speaker 3>you don't owe the collection agency anything. You've never done

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<v Speaker 3>business with them, you've never signed anything with them, you

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<v Speaker 3>never bought anything from them, you never borrowed anything from them.

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<v Speaker 3>And the collection agency has to prove it. They have

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<v Speaker 3>to prove that they bought your debt and that you

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<v Speaker 3>agreed that that was yours to begin with. If they're

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<v Speaker 3>unable to do that, they can't come after you for anything. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>if a judge, if they're somewhere how successful in getting

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<v Speaker 3>you to have to go to court, there's a mediation

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<v Speaker 3>that has to take place first. Then they have to

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<v Speaker 3>prove all kinds of other things, like that they purchased

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<v Speaker 3>the debt, that it was within a statute of limitations.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a myriad of things they have to prove. It's

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<v Speaker 3>almost impossible for them to do it. Don't let them

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<v Speaker 3>bully you. Don't let them threaten you if you have

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<v Speaker 3>any questions about any of the sounds.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, what do you think?

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<v Speaker 4>I think that this guy is just teaching people to

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<v Speaker 4>not pay your debt, which I don't think is right.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you did something, you were expected to pay

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<v Speaker 4>for it, and you're not, so pay your bills.

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<v Speaker 1>Lindsay, yeah, I mean I get that.

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<v Speaker 5>However, also, like like the whole medical thing, if it

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<v Speaker 5>is a medical debt, they can just write it off.

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<v Speaker 5>They're getting they get money.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but that doesn't get around what gimpis saying, though, No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you took a service, right, Any company can write off

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<v Speaker 2>the debts, right they any company in corporation, they have

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<v Speaker 2>a certain amount that they you know, okay, well we

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<v Speaker 2>let's just say fifteen.

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<v Speaker 4>Thousand dollars, right, Well, you know you got fifteen people

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<v Speaker 4>that are one thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>You know they write that. Any company could do that. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>and the to me, the argument of medical right off

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<v Speaker 2>is equal to like home depot having shrinkage, like a

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<v Speaker 2>a license to steal from them. Yeah, we're just having

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<v Speaker 2>a conversation, right, I'm just saying that, Like, I agree

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<v Speaker 2>with you, they do have medical write off but I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's using that as a reason not to pay

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<v Speaker 2>is equal to going to home deeopo and stealing things

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<v Speaker 2>because they have shrinkage, they allow for things to be

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<v Speaker 2>stolen in their line items. Yeah to me, with medical debt,

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<v Speaker 2>you have an always negotiate with them. Yeah, you can

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<v Speaker 2>that they will work it out with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, or they give you a you get on a

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<v Speaker 5>pay plan or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and this guy actually goes on for a couple

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<v Speaker 2>more things.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi, everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, I'd like to thank everybody for the

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<v Speaker 3>overwhelming response I got on the last video of regarding

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<v Speaker 3>pay or not, in this case, not paying a collection

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<v Speaker 3>agency under any circumstance. What I'd like to address today

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<v Speaker 3>is I tried to answer as many questions as I

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<v Speaker 3>possibly could regarding this very subject in the last however,

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<v Speaker 3>as unable to get to everybody. So I'm going to

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<v Speaker 3>answer as many questions as I possibly be can in

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<v Speaker 3>this one, and I hope this really clears us up.

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<v Speaker 3>Under no circumstance should you ever pay a negative account

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<v Speaker 3>that has been turned into collections.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm going to tell you why. It's very simple.

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<v Speaker 3>Once your creditor, whether that's discover Capital, jan American Express

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<v Speaker 3>what have you sells that debt to a collection agency,

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<v Speaker 3>they are no longer entitled to collect any money from

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<v Speaker 3>you whatsoever. The collection agency now has the responsibility of

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<v Speaker 3>attempting to collect that debt from you.

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<v Speaker 6>That doesn't mean that they're going to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Successful, and if you're smart about it, it means that

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<v Speaker 3>they won't be successful.

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<v Speaker 6>And you'll come out a winner. One of the ways

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<v Speaker 6>that we do.

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<v Speaker 2>This is that we challenge the best insult ever, you'll

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<v Speaker 2>be a winner, Like why not channel some of that

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<v Speaker 2>inner child bullshit that your dad didn't love you type

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<v Speaker 2>of thing and be like you're just a las right.

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<v Speaker 3>Collection agency is directly we make them provide to us

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<v Speaker 3>a written verification along with proof including statute of limitation

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<v Speaker 3>and any other kind of verification, including the original contract

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<v Speaker 3>that was signed by you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that I've heard that before.

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<v Speaker 2>That if you're ever questioning a debt or whatever, you

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<v Speaker 2>just say, show me the paperwork. And nine times out

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<v Speaker 2>of ten when they buy debt, they don't buy the paperwork, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and so they can't.

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<v Speaker 1>They just don't have it. But you still have to pay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you are not according to them and not

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<v Speaker 1>according to this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know about that guy. I just buncship your

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<v Speaker 4>credit not paying it. Yeah, it goes to collections. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>it messes up your credit. Yeah, that takes forever to rebuild,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean. So I just I just

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<v Speaker 4>don't think it's a good idea for this guy to

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<v Speaker 4>be out telling people to go ahead, wreck up all

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<v Speaker 4>the debt you want, you don't have to pay it,

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<v Speaker 4>because essentially, that's what he's saying. In a nutshell, that's

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<v Speaker 4>what he's saying. Yeah, you don't have to let it

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<v Speaker 4>go to collections. You don't know how the collections agency anything.

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<v Speaker 4>You're right, I didn't do business with them, but the

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<v Speaker 4>company that I did do business with is so I'm

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<v Speaker 4>still on the hook for you know what X amount

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<v Speaker 4>of dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Just a quick search here.

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<v Speaker 2>Collection agencies can report a debt to a credit reporting

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<v Speaker 2>company if they follow certain rules contacting you, provide validation notices,

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<v Speaker 2>follow credit and reporting laws which a lot of them don't,

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<v Speaker 2>and avoid false information.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So, but when they're calling you and calling you and

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<v Speaker 4>calling you and calling you, that's an attempt to, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>contact you and get you to pay your debt. They

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<v Speaker 4>do send letters in the mail, you know, so, so

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<v Speaker 4>they've got most of those boxes checked to where they can.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but like sending you making sure the information they

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<v Speaker 2>send you is accurate. And if you correspond with them

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<v Speaker 2>going hey, can you provide me with documentation and they

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<v Speaker 2>can that, then that debt becomes nagative not there right that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what they're saying. I agree. It feels

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<v Speaker 2>a little snake medicine to be like snake oil medicine,

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<v Speaker 2>to be like, here's how you don't you get out

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<v Speaker 2>of paying for a service you took.

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<v Speaker 4>You took right, which is not right at all, man.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you fucking did something you should pay for it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I get it. It's hard. I've lived my whole life

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<v Speaker 4>in debt, you know, but it is what it is,

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<v Speaker 4>and deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I am not a believer of not paying your debt.

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<v Speaker 2>You you asked an individual for service and it is

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<v Speaker 2>the right thing to do that. I don't think you

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<v Speaker 2>get judged at the at the PG on whether you

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<v Speaker 2>paid your debt or not. But character plays a part,

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<v Speaker 2>I think, and and your character of paying people for

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<v Speaker 2>services you that is, and being honest, that that is

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<v Speaker 2>a virtue thing I think that JC would probably look at.

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<v Speaker 2>And again I don't know, nobody's consulted me on that,

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<v Speaker 2>but I would think that that's what you should do.

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<v Speaker 4>What if you're trying to get services from somebody else

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<v Speaker 4>and they pull your report right and see that you've

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<v Speaker 4>racked up all this day, you know, and it's gone

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<v Speaker 4>to collection services, and then it's gonna handle your chances

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<v Speaker 4>of getting that service down. Because are you gonna go

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<v Speaker 4>and help somebody out who's fucked everybody else over?

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<v Speaker 2>I would, And people do though, Yeah, I mean there

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<v Speaker 2>are plenty of business people who carry debt don't pay.

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<v Speaker 2>Banks are the worst people to get payment from, right

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<v Speaker 2>They are notorious for being ninety to one hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>twenty days after the ninety one hundred and twenty days,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, because they know what are you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>There's not much you can do.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if you go to court, you're still like they'll

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<v Speaker 2>hold on the money, like all the way to the end.

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<v Speaker 2>So as I get older, I think about like filing,

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<v Speaker 2>you're told to have like this pristine credit right right,

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<v Speaker 2>which I think the whole credit industry is a scam anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>but because you need it to function on certain levels.

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<v Speaker 2>But you also don't, right, you also don't, as you said,

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<v Speaker 2>you're you've dealt with that, You're you're functioning.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, have cars. Absolutely you'd go on road trips. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like I make it happen, right, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I would argue to have good credit just puts you

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<v Speaker 4>One would say that, I mean it helps you get

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<v Speaker 4>that you could with a six fifty credit score, right,

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<v Speaker 4>or you know, with seven hundred credit score.

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<v Speaker 5>It sucks because it should be like they should base

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<v Speaker 1>History, which is your credit history is based off payment history.

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<v Speaker 5>Right right, But it like interest rates are super high

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<v Speaker 5>right now, and it should well, and you can get

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<v Speaker 5>It shouldn't be like that because I have other debts

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<v Speaker 5>or whatever, not me, royal you whatever, But you know,

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<v Speaker 5>it should it shouldn't reward Someone shouldn't be rewarded because

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<v Speaker 1>Buy a house. Yeah, I think it's dog shit.

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<v Speaker 5>Right right and have an eight hundred dollars mortgage payment

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<v Speaker 5>like that doesn't make sense to me, does not make sense.

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<v Speaker 2>as Gimpias pointed out, still has bought things he needed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure, the refrigerators, food cars, truck You found a way, as.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think there's anything shameful, No, there is. It

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<v Speaker 2>is a surface, a service there for you to utilize.

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<v Speaker 4>And that allowed me for all the you know, mistakes

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<v Speaker 4>if shit's paid off, I just found life is better.

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<v Speaker 1>Your stuff's paid for. Yeah yeah, my bikes are paid for.

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<v Speaker 1>My car is paid for.

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<v Speaker 4>Now that'll probably change because I do need a better car, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Now it's just a matter of I don't know what

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<v Speaker 4>Coop Deville fucking land yacht.

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<v Speaker 1>Motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I I you know, you need what you have.

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<v Speaker 2>You need a car that you don't drive it enough exactly,

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<v Speaker 4>And those cars like that they're easy to work on, right,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, affordable to work on. It's not like if

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<v Speaker 4>the shop because you know, computer whatever the case is,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's gonna cost me way more than what it

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<v Speaker 4>would if I got something older, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, dude, I don't know if those parts

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<v Speaker 2>exist at the same time.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah they do. Oh yeah, they're out there. Oh

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<v Speaker 4>they're they're they're out there. eBay's an amazing thing. Also,

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<v Speaker 4>Junkyards too. You know, going down to the dealership, you

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<v Speaker 4>go to fucking auto zone or whatever, you can get

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<v Speaker 4>about anything that you need. You may have to wait

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<v Speaker 4>for a little bit, you know, for them to order one,

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<v Speaker 4>but the fact of it is, and then it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, well do I want to go that route

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<v Speaker 4>or do I want to just get something newer that

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't have to worry about those problems.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's something I'm trying to figure out.

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<v Speaker 2>This car we're just using is anything, but like this

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<v Speaker 2>car you have, you paid barely anything for.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely got a hell of a deal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, great deal on It's served its purpose absolutely, And

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<v Speaker 2>that's She ain't sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>But she fucks yeah, you're absolutely right.

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<v Speaker 4>She fucking has a limp, you know, and a fucking

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<v Speaker 4>lazy eye, you know, and for what she overheats, but.

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<v Speaker 2>For what you use it for exactly it's perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, sure it is.

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<v Speaker 2>It ain't sexy, it isn't there. You're not gonna show

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<v Speaker 2>off in it? No, no, it's not. It'll get me

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<v Speaker 2>to work him back, that's fine, you know. But let's

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<v Speaker 2>say I want to take milady out and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to drive her car, right, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, I know you guys don't take that car. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't take mine anywhere.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, because fucking the the the window doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>want to go, I don't want to stay up without tape.

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<v Speaker 4>The heater only blows, and air conditioner only blows when.

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<v Speaker 1>It wants to, you know what I mean. So that

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<v Speaker 1>makes Yeah, there's a number of things there.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's why I'm like, all right, I just get

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<v Speaker 4>something new where they ain't gonna worry about all those

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<v Speaker 4>or maybe something older than I can fix myself. But

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<v Speaker 4>as I've proven with this car, I'm fucking lazy, and

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<v Speaker 4>don't I'm tired of working on motherfucking cars.

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<v Speaker 2>Manah, my my car has one hundred and ten thousand.

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<v Speaker 2>My car has eighty five thousand, and we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what does that look like?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm of the attitude of I mean short of

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<v Speaker 2>like a really major thing. Let's just say the transmission

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<v Speaker 2>it on, right, because that car, it's still less than

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<v Speaker 2>what a monthly payment would be.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I know what kind of car.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not gonna get a beater, right, We're gonna get

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<v Speaker 2>a car where a car payment's gonna be six hundred,

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<v Speaker 2>eight hundred dollars a month. And I'm like, what why

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<v Speaker 2>that could three or less than a year of those

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<v Speaker 2>payments could pay for new transmission. Oh? Absolutely, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>we'd still not have a car payment. I just don't

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<v Speaker 2>understand how it makes sense to spend that money on

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<v Speaker 2>two cars that look cosmetically fine. Maybe they don't have

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<v Speaker 2>the best you know, widgets, but overall they're fine cars.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's kind of It's a it's a tough decision

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<v Speaker 4>for me to make right now, how I want to go,

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<v Speaker 4>because likewise, do I want five six hundred dollars payment

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<v Speaker 4>a month?

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<v Speaker 1>Not really?

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<v Speaker 4>When I could save up, you know, a couple three,

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<v Speaker 4>four or five thousand dollars get something that's decent. You know, Hell,

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<v Speaker 4>even ten grand will get me something fucking decent, you

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<v Speaker 4>know that looks good, runs good enough to exactly, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's paid for and the window goes down and the

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<v Speaker 4>window goes eater blows. She's a nice lady, right, right, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>So it's it's a it's it's something that I'm working on.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to figure out, you know, how I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to do it. But I'll fucking figure it out like

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<v Speaker 4>I always do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I would argue that if you can't decide,

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<v Speaker 2>that is the decision, right, it's just not meant to

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she'll come around when it's supposed to.

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<v Speaker 2>It should it shouldn't feel like a circle in a square. Absolutely, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 2>you feel like this makes sense? Yeah, and you were

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely on hundred percent right with that. With that car

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<v Speaker 2>that I have, it gets me where I need to go.

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<v Speaker 1>It serves its purpose.

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<v Speaker 4>I only drive it when it's downpouring, raining or snowing outside,

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<v Speaker 4>and outside of that, I'm always on my bike.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're right, You're not under duress to have to

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<v Speaker 2>make a decision, but it would.

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<v Speaker 4>Be nice at some point in time and be able to,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, take my lady out or whatever. And I

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<v Speaker 4>smoke in my car, she doesn't, and I don't smoke

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<v Speaker 4>in hers out of respect or whatever, you know, so

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<v Speaker 4>I would be able to do that, you know, just

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of different little things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, little shit. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We talk about going on vacations and that expense of

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<v Speaker 2>spending money to go on vacations, and like, we just

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<v Speaker 2>went to Austin and we went to New York and

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<v Speaker 2>we saved up for those So although we put everything

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<v Speaker 2>on our car card, when we got back, we paid

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<v Speaker 2>the balance immediately.

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<v Speaker 4>Right right right, you get in the miles and the

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<v Speaker 4>last points on your card.

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<v Speaker 1>And I started doing that five or six years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a better vacation. Yeah, you don't worried about

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<v Speaker 1>like what's hanging over you, right exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>We saved it up for that New York trip for

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<v Speaker 2>like a year, and it's not easy, no, and you

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<v Speaker 1>But if that's something you want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Having those experiences, yeah absolutely, I do that same shit.

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<v Speaker 4>When it comes to our regular vacation. You know, we

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<v Speaker 4>we know at the beginning of the year when we're

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<v Speaker 4>going on vacation, right, because we we all take the

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<v Speaker 4>same time off. You know, we know that we're going

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<v Speaker 4>to be out the week of fourth of July, and

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<v Speaker 4>that's typically when I will take my traveling vacation. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>a week of Thanksgiving not so much, the Christmas break

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<v Speaker 4>not so much. But the fourth of July is my

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<v Speaker 4>traveling vacation. So I start saving for that early. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>whatever extra cash, take that out, put it to the side,

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<v Speaker 4>take that out, put it the side, so that way,

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<v Speaker 4>because them motherfuckers would go in.

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<v Speaker 1>Just to go on vacation or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>I come back and have to play catch up for

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<v Speaker 4>the next year and a half and I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not doing that. I'm not I'm not gonna go through

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<v Speaker 4>that shit because I still need to live in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>So if it's easier if you.

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<v Speaker 4>Just take put it back, take put it back, forget it,

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<v Speaker 4>hide it, get stoned, and forget about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm lucky to live in a really nice neighborhood and

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<v Speaker 2>the house turnover is wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>People buy these nice houses and then they realize they

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<v Speaker 2>can't afford them, and then I have to sell them,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, that's so fucking crazy. When we moved

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<v Speaker 2>into our house, we started saving, like acting like that

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<v Speaker 2>was our house payment a year before to make sure

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<v Speaker 2>we could do it. Yeah, because we didn't. I did

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<v Speaker 2>not want to get caught moving sucks. Sucks, I'll bet.

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<v Speaker 1>And this isn't a knock on Lindsay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll bet she still has boxes unpacked because you just

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<v Speaker 2>can't get it done in time. There are you lose

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<v Speaker 2>something in the process. The whole thing is just like

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00:21:02.119 --> 00:21:03.599
<v Speaker 2>a goddamn nightmare.

426
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<v Speaker 5>I actually don't because I am OCD about that kind

427
00:21:06.480 --> 00:21:08.119
<v Speaker 5>of stuff, Like I have to get it all done.

428
00:21:08.240 --> 00:21:11.480
<v Speaker 5>Like after we moved in, people were like, how long

429
00:21:11.519 --> 00:21:15.279
<v Speaker 5>have you been here? I mean we were what maybe

430
00:21:15.319 --> 00:21:17.599
<v Speaker 5>a month or so, and they thought, oh my gosh,

431
00:21:18.000 --> 00:21:20.720
<v Speaker 5>we thought maybe you lived here for years because you

432
00:21:20.759 --> 00:21:24.519
<v Speaker 5>couldn't tell. I mean, it's it was done. I can't

433
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<v Speaker 5>sleep unless everything gets unpacked. Everything has to be in

434
00:21:28.359 --> 00:21:28.839
<v Speaker 5>its place.

435
00:21:29.039 --> 00:21:31.680
<v Speaker 4>Been in that house a duplex I'm living in for

436
00:21:33.400 --> 00:21:34.480
<v Speaker 4>was this twenty four right?

437
00:21:34.559 --> 00:21:37.480
<v Speaker 1>A while? So by yeah, three years now? Three really

438
00:21:37.480 --> 00:21:39.640
<v Speaker 1>I thought was longer than now because we moved there.

439
00:21:39.680 --> 00:21:42.559
<v Speaker 4>We was living with my brother in twenty twenty with

440
00:21:42.599 --> 00:21:45.200
<v Speaker 4>the pandemic, and we moved over to this house I'm

441
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<v Speaker 4>in now in twenty one almost, if not twenty one,

442
00:21:49.079 --> 00:21:50.160
<v Speaker 4>then almost twenty one.

443
00:21:50.359 --> 00:21:51.759
<v Speaker 1>You lived there before the pandemic.

444
00:21:51.799 --> 00:21:53.640
<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, I was living with my brother at

445
00:21:53.640 --> 00:21:56.519
<v Speaker 4>that time, but I still got.

446
00:21:56.480 --> 00:22:01.279
<v Speaker 1>Boxes and shit. I haven't unpacked, you know, but you

447
00:22:01.359 --> 00:22:01.920
<v Speaker 1>know a lot of it.

448
00:22:02.039 --> 00:22:04.799
<v Speaker 2>Courage theory would be, if you haven't unpacked it, you

449
00:22:04.839 --> 00:22:05.440
<v Speaker 2>don't fucking know.

450
00:22:05.599 --> 00:22:06.640
<v Speaker 1>You're absolutely right.

451
00:22:06.720 --> 00:22:08.519
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there's a lot of shit that I need to,

452
00:22:08.720 --> 00:22:10.440
<v Speaker 4>uh to go through and get rid of.

453
00:22:10.920 --> 00:22:11.160
<v Speaker 1>You know.

454
00:22:11.759 --> 00:22:13.519
<v Speaker 4>Like I looked up in my closet the other day.

455
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<v Speaker 4>If you looked at my top sholf of my closet,

456
00:22:15.240 --> 00:22:17.319
<v Speaker 4>it's stuck full of fucking T shirts that I don't

457
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<v Speaker 4>ever wear anymore. And I'm like, I bet you there's

458
00:22:19.640 --> 00:22:22.720
<v Speaker 4>hoboes out there that would really like these right now,

459
00:22:22.839 --> 00:22:24.680
<v Speaker 4>but I just got hold onto them.

460
00:22:24.720 --> 00:22:27.079
<v Speaker 1>You can never know. I saw a thing this weekend.

461
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<v Speaker 2>This is a really great quote, and it said, when

462
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<v Speaker 2>you're deciding whether to throw something away, and if it

463
00:22:32.839 --> 00:22:36.559
<v Speaker 2>had shit on it, would you clean it off or

464
00:22:36.599 --> 00:22:37.240
<v Speaker 2>throw it away?

465
00:22:37.440 --> 00:22:42.400
<v Speaker 1>That's a good way to look at it, right. That sucks?

466
00:22:42.960 --> 00:22:47.480
<v Speaker 4>Right, I got jeans in there. I'm like, I don't

467
00:22:47.480 --> 00:22:50.160
<v Speaker 4>wear these jeans. They have giant holes in the ass.

468
00:22:50.440 --> 00:22:52.640
<v Speaker 4>Why am I still holding on to them? Because you

469
00:22:52.799 --> 00:22:55.480
<v Speaker 4>never know, Yeah, you might be completely out of jeans

470
00:22:55.480 --> 00:22:57.079
<v Speaker 4>and these are all I got, and well, we'll just

471
00:22:57.119 --> 00:22:58.759
<v Speaker 4>put on a pair of shorts underneath them. You can

472
00:22:58.799 --> 00:22:59.839
<v Speaker 4>see my ass hanging out.

473
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<v Speaker 2>I have a sock drawer that's maybe like half as

474
00:23:02.599 --> 00:23:04.000
<v Speaker 2>deep as the drawers over here, but.

475
00:23:03.960 --> 00:23:07.599
<v Speaker 1>Maybe half full of socks. Bitch, I wear the same

476
00:23:07.799 --> 00:23:11.359
<v Speaker 1>seven socks. Yeah, every fucking week.

477
00:23:11.440 --> 00:23:13.640
<v Speaker 2>That's good to have options, Like, why don't you just

478
00:23:13.680 --> 00:23:16.839
<v Speaker 2>get rid of them? I'm like, ah, so I have

479
00:23:16.920 --> 00:23:18.759
<v Speaker 2>this thing I do when I'm not sure. I just

480
00:23:18.799 --> 00:23:20.880
<v Speaker 2>put it in like a bag and then put to

481
00:23:20.880 --> 00:23:22.359
<v Speaker 2>tie it and put it to the side.

482
00:23:22.680 --> 00:23:24.400
<v Speaker 1>And then those bags starts stacking out.

483
00:23:24.599 --> 00:23:26.720
<v Speaker 2>Well, but then I go, well, I never I never

484
00:23:26.720 --> 00:23:28.680
<v Speaker 2>got in the bag, so goodbye.

485
00:23:28.759 --> 00:23:30.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just get rid of it.

486
00:23:31.039 --> 00:23:33.440
<v Speaker 2>That's a good way to do it, because I don't

487
00:23:33.480 --> 00:23:34.680
<v Speaker 2>know why I have them.

488
00:23:34.759 --> 00:23:37.799
<v Speaker 5>I keep a laundry basket or a laundry bag, like

489
00:23:37.839 --> 00:23:41.039
<v Speaker 5>one of those dry cleaner laundry bags in my bedroom,

490
00:23:41.240 --> 00:23:44.359
<v Speaker 5>and randomly I will put clothes like oh, I'll see

491
00:23:44.359 --> 00:23:46.000
<v Speaker 5>something in my closet hanging that I have not worn

492
00:23:46.000 --> 00:23:48.240
<v Speaker 5>in forever, and I will throw that in that bag.

493
00:23:48.640 --> 00:23:50.640
<v Speaker 5>And then if my kids, if I'm doing laundrym like

494
00:23:50.680 --> 00:23:52.680
<v Speaker 5>this does not fit them anymore. I will put that

495
00:23:52.759 --> 00:23:54.640
<v Speaker 5>in the bag and then that is like a monthly

496
00:23:54.680 --> 00:23:57.920
<v Speaker 5>trip to the reseale shop and I'll drop that stuff off.

497
00:23:58.000 --> 00:23:59.839
<v Speaker 1>And normally, so like you do you trying to make

498
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<v Speaker 1>my off of it?

499
00:24:00.519 --> 00:24:02.319
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, normally when I go in there and drop stuff off,

500
00:24:02.319 --> 00:24:04.359
<v Speaker 5>i'll have like twenty to twenty five dollars.

501
00:24:04.079 --> 00:24:06.880
<v Speaker 1>Wait for me to pick up somebody bought your socks.

502
00:24:07.119 --> 00:24:11.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, yeah, I have fucking white tube socks. Still.

503
00:24:11.279 --> 00:24:13.200
<v Speaker 4>I couldn't tell you the last time I wore white

504
00:24:13.240 --> 00:24:14.119
<v Speaker 4>fucking tube sox.

505
00:24:14.240 --> 00:24:14.559
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

506
00:24:15.160 --> 00:24:17.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm actually this conversation is actually empowering me because I'm

507
00:24:17.440 --> 00:24:19.200
<v Speaker 2>gonna go home and take a bunch of shit and

508
00:24:19.240 --> 00:24:19.720
<v Speaker 2>put it in a.

509
00:24:19.759 --> 00:24:22.160
<v Speaker 1>Bag and just go let's see what happens. Yeah.

510
00:24:22.160 --> 00:24:24.200
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, because my life's gone, so I need something to

511
00:24:24.240 --> 00:24:26.359
<v Speaker 2>keep my mind occupied. Anyway, there you go, And so

512
00:24:26.400 --> 00:24:30.640
<v Speaker 2>I'll just do that, and then uh, I'll say, right

513
00:24:30.640 --> 00:24:33.400
<v Speaker 2>before Thanks Christmas, if i'll just get rid of it,

514
00:24:33.839 --> 00:24:34.279
<v Speaker 2>do you.

515
00:24:34.720 --> 00:24:37.000
<v Speaker 1>Go through and clean your wife stuff up as well?

516
00:24:37.440 --> 00:24:39.839
<v Speaker 1>Or is it just her clothes? Yeah? No, I want

517
00:24:39.839 --> 00:24:40.440
<v Speaker 1>to stay married.

518
00:24:40.559 --> 00:24:46.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was wondering, Fuck no, no, God, no, you.

519
00:24:46.920 --> 00:24:49.440
<v Speaker 1>Haven't worn this green dress. Oh my god.

520
00:24:51.960 --> 00:24:55.599
<v Speaker 2>I can say for certain part of the reason I'm

521
00:24:55.759 --> 00:24:58.559
<v Speaker 2>still married to my wife and we're like, I'm happy,

522
00:24:58.599 --> 00:25:01.559
<v Speaker 2>I hope she is is that I don't talk about

523
00:25:01.559 --> 00:25:02.039
<v Speaker 2>her clothes.

524
00:25:02.240 --> 00:25:02.599
<v Speaker 1>Right.

525
00:25:02.799 --> 00:25:04.480
<v Speaker 2>I may be like, hey, this is cute, can I

526
00:25:04.480 --> 00:25:07.759
<v Speaker 2>buy this for you? But I don't say you shouldn't

527
00:25:07.799 --> 00:25:10.000
<v Speaker 2>wear that. I don't say you shouldn't buy that. I

528
00:25:10.039 --> 00:25:13.680
<v Speaker 2>don't talk about her fucking shoes. Like I'll joke with

529
00:25:13.720 --> 00:25:15.599
<v Speaker 2>her on some of that stuff, but I don't know.

530
00:25:16.240 --> 00:25:18.440
<v Speaker 1>I haven't warned us in six years. I bet it

531
00:25:18.480 --> 00:25:20.960
<v Speaker 1>doesn't even fit anymore. Yeah, but also I don't need to.

532
00:25:21.079 --> 00:25:23.759
<v Speaker 1>My wife is a good perjer yeah as far as

533
00:25:23.759 --> 00:25:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I almost. It's holding on to you. Yeah.

534
00:25:28.599 --> 00:25:34.079
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So maybe she's not a good purg Yeah right, yeah, No,

535
00:25:34.119 --> 00:25:34.640
<v Speaker 2>she's good enough.

536
00:25:34.720 --> 00:25:35.079
<v Speaker 1>I don't need to.

537
00:25:35.200 --> 00:25:38.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah that's smart, right there, smart. Yeah, don't even mess

538
00:25:38.440 --> 00:25:39.759
<v Speaker 4>with it. Let her deal with it.

539
00:25:39.880 --> 00:25:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Like I bought a charger, like a special charger so

540
00:25:44.160 --> 00:25:47.240
<v Speaker 2>when you travel, like it's always hard to find like

541
00:25:47.920 --> 00:25:50.079
<v Speaker 2>USB ports or do you have the right cable or whatever.

542
00:25:50.519 --> 00:25:52.519
<v Speaker 2>So I bought a charger that a friend of mine

543
00:25:52.559 --> 00:25:54.680
<v Speaker 2>who travels a lot told me, And it has all

544
00:25:54.680 --> 00:25:56.920
<v Speaker 2>the ports you need, and it plugs into an outlet

545
00:25:57.079 --> 00:25:58.039
<v Speaker 2>and you just put the cable.

546
00:25:58.160 --> 00:26:02.119
<v Speaker 1>Like so there's four spots, you bring four cables. That's it.

547
00:26:02.200 --> 00:26:04.200
<v Speaker 1>You get rid of all the other fucking cables of

548
00:26:04.200 --> 00:26:04.759
<v Speaker 1>everything else.

549
00:26:05.359 --> 00:26:08.000
<v Speaker 2>Right, So I bought it and the box came and

550
00:26:08.039 --> 00:26:10.480
<v Speaker 2>I put the box on the counter and my wife

551
00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:13.640
<v Speaker 2>was like, eh, what's this. I was like, I told

552
00:26:13.640 --> 00:26:14.880
<v Speaker 2>her what it was. She goes, Okay, why are we

553
00:26:14.960 --> 00:26:17.519
<v Speaker 2>keeping the box? I'm like, well, what if we don't

554
00:26:17.599 --> 00:26:17.880
<v Speaker 2>like it?

555
00:26:18.480 --> 00:26:21.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? She goes, okay, what's your plan. I'm like, the

556
00:26:22.960 --> 00:26:30.440
<v Speaker 1>oh sweating forever. Yeah, ever know, you might have to

557
00:26:30.440 --> 00:26:32.200
<v Speaker 1>take it back six years later.

558
00:26:32.319 --> 00:26:33.880
<v Speaker 2>No, but if I take it put in the attic,

559
00:26:33.960 --> 00:26:36.000
<v Speaker 2>it'll sit there for fucking years. But if I leave

560
00:26:36.039 --> 00:26:38.000
<v Speaker 2>it on the counter and go, uh ah, I'm getting

561
00:26:38.039 --> 00:26:40.640
<v Speaker 2>rid of it. It's been a week, it's been ten days.

562
00:26:41.519 --> 00:26:44.079
<v Speaker 2>That's the plan. Because socks I just shoving a drawer.

563
00:26:44.480 --> 00:26:47.319
<v Speaker 2>They're fucking king Yeah. Yeah, I'm like I need to

564
00:26:47.359 --> 00:26:48.960
<v Speaker 2>clean the sock draw out and then I just continue

565
00:26:48.960 --> 00:26:51.039
<v Speaker 2>on with my fucking day.

566
00:26:51.880 --> 00:26:55.079
<v Speaker 1>Uh purging. That is a beautiful thing. Yeah.

567
00:26:55.160 --> 00:26:58.039
<v Speaker 2>There was a thing I saw earlier too about people

568
00:26:58.079 --> 00:27:03.359
<v Speaker 2>that keep secrets will never tell their partners. Okay, they

569
00:27:03.519 --> 00:27:06.160
<v Speaker 2>that they did, and they're not all nefarious, but like

570
00:27:06.200 --> 00:27:08.079
<v Speaker 2>one of them was. I witnessed my son walking for

571
00:27:08.119 --> 00:27:10.480
<v Speaker 2>the first time about a month before she saw him,

572
00:27:11.440 --> 00:27:14.160
<v Speaker 2>and she was struggling with postpartum and so I never

573
00:27:14.200 --> 00:27:14.839
<v Speaker 2>told her I saw it.

574
00:27:14.880 --> 00:27:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I just let her And I'm like, Okay.

575
00:27:17.960 --> 00:27:20.160
<v Speaker 4>That would kind of make sense. That's a very special

576
00:27:20.200 --> 00:27:20.960
<v Speaker 4>thing for a mother.

577
00:27:22.160 --> 00:27:24.079
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if i'd say sweet, but I hear you.

578
00:27:24.559 --> 00:27:30.039
<v Speaker 2>I hear you, uh, compassionate one day, Okay, I'll buy that, yeah,

579
00:27:30.079 --> 00:27:32.720
<v Speaker 2>one day. But also, you experienced a life thing and

580
00:27:32.759 --> 00:27:34.039
<v Speaker 2>you didn't get to share it with your partner because

581
00:27:34.039 --> 00:27:37.920
<v Speaker 2>their inability to control their emotions because of medical reasons.

582
00:27:38.039 --> 00:27:41.079
<v Speaker 1>I'm not dogging on it. I'm just saying one day.

583
00:27:40.960 --> 00:27:42.519
<v Speaker 2>I woke up with a blocked ear, so I took

584
00:27:42.519 --> 00:27:44.599
<v Speaker 2>a shower and let warm water run into my ear,

585
00:27:44.640 --> 00:27:47.920
<v Speaker 2>and a small spider came out my ear instantly unblocked.

586
00:27:47.920 --> 00:27:50.119
<v Speaker 2>If I told my partner, she'd literally never sleep.

587
00:27:49.960 --> 00:27:52.839
<v Speaker 1>Again, well, yeah, yeah, that's being considerate.

588
00:27:53.839 --> 00:27:54.400
<v Speaker 5>Definitely.

589
00:27:55.319 --> 00:27:57.640
<v Speaker 2>Also, if a spider then clogs her ear and this

590
00:27:57.720 --> 00:28:00.519
<v Speaker 2>happens to her and you're like, yeah, that happened to

591
00:28:00.559 --> 00:28:01.279
<v Speaker 2>me once and you.

592
00:28:01.279 --> 00:28:05.680
<v Speaker 1>Were like, you didn't tell it. That's also a crazy

593
00:28:05.759 --> 00:28:09.799
<v Speaker 1>thing to do. Yeah. Uh.

594
00:28:09.880 --> 00:28:13.279
<v Speaker 2>Another one says that they had an emergency stash, a

595
00:28:13.359 --> 00:28:15.240
<v Speaker 2>gift to stash for their when their partner had a

596
00:28:15.240 --> 00:28:19.039
<v Speaker 2>bad day. Oh wow, and their emergency stash was mostly chocolate.

597
00:28:20.880 --> 00:28:24.519
<v Speaker 2>That's fucking wild to me too, I gotta have an emergent.

598
00:28:25.000 --> 00:28:26.759
<v Speaker 2>What are you at the doctor's office? Like, here's a

599
00:28:26.759 --> 00:28:27.680
<v Speaker 2>fucking lollipop.

600
00:28:28.000 --> 00:28:28.640
<v Speaker 1>How much do you.

601
00:28:28.599 --> 00:28:31.839
<v Speaker 4>Fuck out that you got to have an emergency gifts stash?

602
00:28:31.599 --> 00:28:31.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

603
00:28:31.960 --> 00:28:34.599
<v Speaker 2>Well, this says if their partner has a bad day, exactly,

604
00:28:34.720 --> 00:28:38.640
<v Speaker 2>my job ain't to regulate your emotions or manage them.

605
00:28:39.000 --> 00:28:42.039
<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's their love language, right, energy and emotions.

606
00:28:42.160 --> 00:28:45.680
<v Speaker 4>No gift giving or receiving gifts, you know, and they

607
00:28:45.759 --> 00:28:47.880
<v Speaker 4>know that of and it's like, oh, well, I know

608
00:28:47.920 --> 00:28:49.160
<v Speaker 4>how I can make or feel better.

609
00:28:49.240 --> 00:28:53.160
<v Speaker 1>Here's a here's a score bar whatever, here's a watch

610
00:28:53.160 --> 00:28:57.960
<v Speaker 1>of mccullag. Yeah, here's a fucking kiss watch mccullagus.

611
00:28:58.119 --> 00:29:00.279
<v Speaker 5>Kevin and I will surprise each other with those every

612
00:29:00.279 --> 00:29:00.920
<v Speaker 5>once in a while, But.

613
00:29:00.880 --> 00:29:04.000
<v Speaker 1>Now the new one is the bueno bar? Right have

614
00:29:04.079 --> 00:29:04.400
<v Speaker 1>you had?

615
00:29:04.519 --> 00:29:07.759
<v Speaker 2>If you're not had all my god, it is a

616
00:29:08.079 --> 00:29:11.160
<v Speaker 2>chocolate with like this. It's you know what the little

617
00:29:11.160 --> 00:29:14.039
<v Speaker 2>sticks are like the scoopy chocolate thing and it looks

618
00:29:14.039 --> 00:29:14.440
<v Speaker 2>like an egg.

619
00:29:16.240 --> 00:29:19.799
<v Speaker 1>It's like a kinderregg. Yes, okay, they are chocolate bar

620
00:29:19.880 --> 00:29:20.160
<v Speaker 1>for me.

621
00:29:20.440 --> 00:29:22.720
<v Speaker 2>Okay, but this one says, as my wife figured out

622
00:29:22.720 --> 00:29:25.559
<v Speaker 2>I had a secret chocolate stash for her bad days,

623
00:29:25.559 --> 00:29:28.640
<v Speaker 2>she started having more bad days just to get the out.

624
00:29:28.640 --> 00:29:31.119
<v Speaker 1>And that's what the fuck I'm talking about. Ye ain't

625
00:29:31.160 --> 00:29:31.480
<v Speaker 1>my job?

626
00:29:31.559 --> 00:29:31.680
<v Speaker 6>Yo?

627
00:29:32.920 --> 00:29:33.359
<v Speaker 1>Uh?

628
00:29:33.839 --> 00:29:36.400
<v Speaker 4>If some yeah, you forced me to eat this, it's

629
00:29:36.440 --> 00:29:38.119
<v Speaker 4>all right, Yeah, it's okay.

630
00:29:38.160 --> 00:29:40.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's that great. Yeah, it's just alright.

631
00:29:40.519 --> 00:29:42.319
<v Speaker 1>It's like it's as good as a watch mccullar.

632
00:29:42.519 --> 00:29:44.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess, and watch my culture fine, all right,

633
00:29:45.000 --> 00:29:47.440
<v Speaker 4>fucking I don't really get down on a lot of

634
00:29:47.440 --> 00:29:50.200
<v Speaker 4>the sweets and whatnot like that. And the other day

635
00:29:50.440 --> 00:29:53.880
<v Speaker 4>I got done testing some some judging some of the

636
00:29:54.680 --> 00:29:56.920
<v Speaker 4>reefer from the Cowboy Cup and I got the man

637
00:29:57.000 --> 00:29:58.599
<v Speaker 4>cheese and I was like, I got not the fucking

638
00:29:58.640 --> 00:30:01.039
<v Speaker 4>sweet in here. So I go to the fucking store

639
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<v Speaker 4>and I bought a box of fucking oatmeal cream pies

640
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<v Speaker 4>and a box of Nutter butters. Right, because I couldn't

641
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<v Speaker 4>make up my mind. And and I've had one oatmeal

642
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<v Speaker 4>cream pie out of it.

643
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<v Speaker 1>That's it. Those things are probably gonna sit there forever.

644
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<v Speaker 1>Eat them oatmeal cream pie, microwave warmed sup of ice cream,

645
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<v Speaker 1>all right, dum.

646
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<v Speaker 4>I did get the nut of butter ice cream so

647
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<v Speaker 4>I could. I could shove that on top of there too.

648
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<v Speaker 5>And I picked up yesterday from Waldi the cookie pizza.

649
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<v Speaker 1>Did you try it yet? Oh?

650
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<v Speaker 5>No, no, I've had one before. But the kid I had,

651
00:30:32.480 --> 00:30:34.880
<v Speaker 5>one of the kids with me, and Eli was like, the.

652
00:30:34.839 --> 00:30:36.599
<v Speaker 1>Cookie pizza they got, let's get one.

653
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<v Speaker 2>We do it and put it and put it on

654
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<v Speaker 2>a sheet pan turned upside down and covering ice cream

655
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<v Speaker 2>and chocolate syrup and sprinkles whipped cream.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, no sprinkles, but hell yeah.

657
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<v Speaker 2>It's it's everybody digs in. Yeah, that's fucking awesome.

658
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're so good. They are good. One hundred. Yeah.

659
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<v Speaker 2>It just the idea of like secrets you don't tell

660
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<v Speaker 2>your partners really interesting.

661
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<v Speaker 1>Everyboddy's got them. Everybody's got them in some form of

662
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<v Speaker 1>the other.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, because they don't you don't want to hurt

664
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<v Speaker 4>their feelings or you don't want to be a target.

665
00:31:09.240 --> 00:31:13.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you're potentially a target for being truthful with

666
00:31:13.880 --> 00:31:16.880
<v Speaker 2>your partner, they may not be a great match for you.

667
00:31:16.920 --> 00:31:17.240
<v Speaker 1>Maybe.

668
00:31:17.240 --> 00:31:19.640
<v Speaker 2>So now, if you want to stay married, you don't

669
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<v Speaker 2>care about all that shit, Okay, But I don't know

670
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<v Speaker 2>if it's I don't like the idea of like it's

671
00:31:24.799 --> 00:31:29.200
<v Speaker 2>good healthy marriage to keep secrets. I'm with you, like

672
00:31:29.200 --> 00:31:31.119
<v Speaker 2>everybody's got like a past of things they don't share.

673
00:31:31.160 --> 00:31:33.519
<v Speaker 2>But to have shit happen and then not share, like

674
00:31:33.599 --> 00:31:35.680
<v Speaker 2>in a real time while you're in the marriage, and

675
00:31:35.759 --> 00:31:38.119
<v Speaker 2>not share it, I think that's fucking wild.

676
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<v Speaker 4>If spiders are crawling in your fucking ears, that's something

677
00:31:41.000 --> 00:31:41.640
<v Speaker 4>to be shared.

678
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, fucking it. We got a goddamn problem.

679
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<v Speaker 5>I think if that happened my husband, you are never

680
00:31:45.799 --> 00:31:47.279
<v Speaker 5>gonna believe what just happens.

681
00:31:48.480 --> 00:31:49.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what I want to know?

682
00:31:50.200 --> 00:31:54.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, absolutely, I don't if I find out like a

683
00:31:54.119 --> 00:31:57.920
<v Speaker 2>fucking millipede fucking landed in my mouth and you're like, oh, yeah,

684
00:31:57.960 --> 00:32:00.480
<v Speaker 2>that shit happened to me, Like what.

685
00:32:00.400 --> 00:32:02.559
<v Speaker 1>The fuck are you talking about? Why are you hiding

686
00:32:02.599 --> 00:32:06.359
<v Speaker 1>shit like that? I didn't want you to worry Now

687
00:32:06.480 --> 00:32:08.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm now I want to know what now? But see.

688
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<v Speaker 2>I love this attitude too, because I go with, you

689
00:32:09.880 --> 00:32:11.480
<v Speaker 2>didn't tell me that? What else have you?

690
00:32:11.680 --> 00:32:14.480
<v Speaker 1>Right? Right? Something as minor as a a spider in

691
00:32:14.480 --> 00:32:16.720
<v Speaker 1>the air? Yeah, what other shit?

692
00:32:16.759 --> 00:32:19.440
<v Speaker 2>Don't trust me to tell me minor shit? Either you

693
00:32:19.519 --> 00:32:22.720
<v Speaker 2>think I have a problem or we have a problem. Yeah,

694
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<v Speaker 2>that's fucked up.

695
00:32:23.680 --> 00:32:24.319
<v Speaker 1>I think.

696
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<v Speaker 5>I can't even think of like a secret because Kevin knows,

697
00:32:28.839 --> 00:32:32.799
<v Speaker 5>like he can tell, like even like when I'm like constipated,

698
00:32:32.839 --> 00:32:35.880
<v Speaker 5>Like he can tell like just like by my attitude

699
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<v Speaker 5>or by the way, you know what I mean, Like

700
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<v Speaker 5>he just knows, and I just I can't even I can't,

701
00:32:42.799 --> 00:32:45.960
<v Speaker 5>Like I could just imagine myself saying babe or not.

702
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<v Speaker 1>Finally, I'm going you know what I mean, Like, hey,

703
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<v Speaker 1>by shit right exactly?

704
00:32:51.359 --> 00:32:54.039
<v Speaker 5>I would be an overshare.

705
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<v Speaker 2>My wife and I were shares because I know exactly

706
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<v Speaker 2>how my wife's poop cycles are. Yes, I know if

707
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<v Speaker 2>she's constipated or not.

708
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<v Speaker 1>That's nice.

709
00:33:04.200 --> 00:33:08.920
<v Speaker 4>Still in the new relationships, we haven't across that threshold yet.

710
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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I just believe in my mind it's marriage

711
00:33:12.319 --> 00:33:15.279
<v Speaker 2>as in like a one it's one word, Like it

712
00:33:15.319 --> 00:33:18.480
<v Speaker 2>isn't my marriage, right, it isn't for me it's it's

713
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<v Speaker 2>for the marriage.

714
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<v Speaker 1>So knowing your.

715
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<v Speaker 2>Ship cycle, yeah, it's important because if I can go, okay, well, yeah,

716
00:33:24.880 --> 00:33:30.119
<v Speaker 2>we probably have some corn with dinner. Here's a here's

717
00:33:30.119 --> 00:33:39.160
<v Speaker 2>a here's a here's some sillium husk. Right, what relationship

718
00:33:39.200 --> 00:33:41.599
<v Speaker 2>is different? Two things that nobody ever told me about

719
00:33:41.599 --> 00:33:43.640
<v Speaker 2>getting married and having kids, and one of them was

720
00:33:43.720 --> 00:33:46.319
<v Speaker 2>I would know my fucking partnership cycle. And the other

721
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<v Speaker 2>was I would be cleaning so many boots like children's shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>Mud oh a lot. Nobody ever told me how oft

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<v Speaker 1>would I be doing it? Welcome to life. Speaking of life, our.

724
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<v Speaker 2>Toy drive is coming up, uh and December the fourth

725
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<v Speaker 2>and fifth, it's gonna be a Dave and Busters. Bring

726
00:34:04.200 --> 00:34:06.519
<v Speaker 2>a new unwrapped toy. I just saw Targets doing fifty

727
00:34:06.519 --> 00:34:08.840
<v Speaker 2>percent off board games. Nice.

728
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah this week.

729
00:34:09.719 --> 00:34:12.679
<v Speaker 2>So you can go and get like operation for ten bucks.

730
00:34:13.199 --> 00:34:17.239
<v Speaker 2>And so you could go and get a least like

731
00:34:17.719 --> 00:34:19.360
<v Speaker 2>one hundred dollars worth of toys and that'd be a

732
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<v Speaker 2>pretty good haul of toys to bring for the toy drive.

733
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<v Speaker 2>And you can save that stuff up now and then

734
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<v Speaker 2>bring it on December fourth and fifth at Dave and

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<v Speaker 2>Busters for our annual toy Drive brought to you by

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<v Speaker 2>US Cellular. You guys have a fantastic week.

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<v Speaker 1>See yea, Bye bye
