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Speaker 2: I had a vision, but it's night.

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Speaker 3: To reach the accent.

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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to for crying out loud. I'm your host,

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Lye Corolla.

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Speaker 3: I'm Stephanie Walter Tiller.

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Speaker 1: Happy Fridays Friday.

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Speaker 3: It's Friday, f July.

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Speaker 1: I know, July third, Yes, Happy fourth of July.

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Speaker 3: Happy fourth of July, everybody.

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Speaker 1: You guys got any plans? We're only laughing because we

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were just talking abound out full fourth of July.

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Speaker 3: Week can be? You heard our Tuesday show? Yeah, you

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know what we're talking about.

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Speaker 1: So so I'll take that as a no. You don't

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have any plans.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what I'm going to be doing yet,

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but I'm sure I will think of something and it's

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going to be fantastic.

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Speaker 1: Is it going to be fireworks?

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Speaker 3: I'm sure it will involve fireworks, Okay, and maybe a

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hot dog. I don't know. Yeah, you don't know what's

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going to happen.

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Speaker 1: You know what stuck with me that story of your

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roommate in that roommates, Who's who's.

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Speaker 3: The guy with the gay lovers? That one? And then

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oh yeah, that was the happy ending, the happy I

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don't know that not because of the happy ending.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why it was. Those were good stories

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you told on the podcast Fourth of July. When I

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was a kid, you know, we were talking last week

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about how Fourth of July, I'm afraid it's just it's

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a long week of just disappointment.

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Speaker 3: We were just talking about that on Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Right, so, like, you know, we have to be the

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cruise director and all that. That's what we were talking about.

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So when I was a kid, Fourth of July, I

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realized Fourth of July was not that great either. It

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was a tough holiday because once again I lived on

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the street. All my friends lived up and down the street.

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We'd go out and play kickball until the sun went down,

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and it was like old school back then. And the

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one time my mom came out with my beloved first

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pet parakeet, mister Bill on her shoulder to tell me

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that dinner's ready, and mister Bell flew away and I

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was is the first time I ever felt devastating, like

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heartbreak around for just crying. I'll never was traumatizing. But

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mister Bill never came. We put the the bird cage

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on the roof, thinking maybe that she'd find her way home.

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Never did. But anyway, fourth of July. Because my parents

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are Italian and strict, they would never let me go

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spend the night, and I would. I was able to

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go to a couple of my friends on the street's

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house only because my parents knew their parents, even though

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you know, there's no difference between them and that. Well,

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my best friend Wendy's mother smoked pot and I wasn't

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allowed to go to her house and she had Doberman's.

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But other than that, I don't know why.

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Speaker 3: They wouldn't live Doverman is such an eighties dog, I know,

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I know, Oh my god. There were people had Doberman's

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on my street too growing.

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Speaker 1: Up, and I was not allowed. My dad was like, you.

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Speaker 3: Well, my parents were the one smoking pot. That's true.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 3: My probably people weren't allowed to come to my house, right,

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So anyways, we did not have Doberman's.

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Speaker 1: I would always look forward to the long weekends to

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be with my friends. But the fourth of July and

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next door, our neighbor Ray and his kids. Every year.

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He has a big camper that parked in our driveway

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that my mom hated and like planted trees to cover.

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They would take everybody in the neighborhood to down to

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the beach and spend the night a couple days down

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to the beach. Was I able to go? No, No,

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I was not. And I have two brothers, one with

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mental illness talking to himself in the bedroom, and the

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other one is gone out of the house, and I'm

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stuck home with my crazy mom and my boring dad,

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and I would have nothing and no air conditioning. By

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the way, in West Hills, California, where it gets to

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temperature sore to one hundred and two, it's like a

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box in the sun just baking, and it would get

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so hot. And we had this one window that was

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tinted in the living room. Why it was tinted yellow.

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never changed it so yellow at three four o'clock and

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the heat with no air conditioning is depressing, just depressing.

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And luckily we did have shad carpet, by the way,

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we did have shad carpet. We had rotary telephones. We

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had no cable.

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Speaker 3: We had shad carpet too.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we had shot cover it. No, we had no

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cable and when everybody else had that on and Select TV,

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and that was high for lootin.

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Speaker 3: For us, even the X Channel, even when I started, Yes.

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Speaker 1: The X Channel, and I started dating Mike Girstine, who

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was who worked for a cable company and he could

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come and like he came and did the wires and

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went back to and it was just so depressing. But

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on fourth of July weekend, Ray would take everybody in

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the neighborhood in his camper with his wife and kids,

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and I was allowed to go. And I remember just

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being so sad and so depressed over those weekends. It

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was so depressing. So fourth of July, well, how about this.

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Speaker 3: My birthday is July fifth, Happy birthday. Thank you? So

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talk about depressing. Nobody was ever around for my birthday,

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and if they were, it was like they were celebrating

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July fourth, and I was like, hello over here, it's

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my birthday is tomorrow, which was sort of fun when

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I got like in teenage years, just because you know,

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we'd go like we would go part in Springfield, Massachusetts.

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We'd all go out to this one area on July fourth,

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like downtown Springfield, and we would drink and whatever, and

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then at midnight I would make people make out with

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me because I was like, it's my birthday, but when

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it for your actual birthday, people are hungover, tired, or

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out of town. So when I was younger, I had

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the double whammy of it being summer so your friends

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aren't around, and it being holiday weekend.

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Speaker 1: It's the worst.

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Speaker 3: I don't remember any birth parties a kid.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I hate to be such a

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dinner when it comes to the fourth.

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Speaker 3: But you're really bumming me out.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: This is just gonna be different. It's gonna be great.

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Speaker 1: It is now now I have my own family, I

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don't have to rely on other people.

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Speaker 3: Wait, get some sparklers, go in the backyard and make

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it fun. Invites some people over it and have just

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a little barbecue.

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Speaker 1: No, no, all right, Well, no, I don't know what

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we're gonna do.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we'll figure it out. I'll figure it out because

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I'm Julie the Cruse director.

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Speaker 3: So what else. What else is happening this week? Both

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my kids went to gymnastics camp. Yeah, both the twins

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went to gymnastics camp. Well great, and Alby's at horseback

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riding camp.

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Speaker 1: I love that horseback riding camp.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for a week. It's in Chatsworth.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like where Charles Manson killed people? Yes, where he lived. No,

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it's not where he killed People's where he's at a ranch? Like,

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Speaker 3: Don't think so.

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Speaker 2: We can?

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Speaker 1: We can. You could watch Aquarius and Fine Randon.

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Speaker 3: Find out where where in the valley Charles Manson lived?

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Will you we look it up from I was to

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pang A Canyon. It's a panga. I don't think it

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was Quorter ranch. See where that ranch was that ranch?

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If it was in we'll find out fast.

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Speaker 1: Look go ahead.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So, uh it's the one week where I have

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all three kids doing engaged and uh so we'll uh,

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I see if I can plan that for another week.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to like sleep away.

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Speaker 3: You think you know, I was just talking to my

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girlfriend about this, so I think that it would be

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an amazing experience for the kids to go ay to

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sleep away camp. But I don't know that, you know,

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I feel like you have to kind of let your

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kids determine whether that's for them or not. I wouldn't

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mind if I'll be wanted to go to camp for

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a couple of weeks. But she's not going to be

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doing that anytime soon. She's just barely gotten back in

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the swing of having a sleepover. But you know what,

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I can't understand, and I'm not judging it at all,

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very Jewish thing. Yeah, but these parents that send their

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kids to the East Coast from LA for six weeks

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to go to camp. I personally know some mobs, and

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I'm like, why would die if I couldn't have one?

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I couldn't live without Alvi for six weeks. I could,

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Speaker 1: But the Jews know something. They're doing something right, Yeah, right,

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because the kids love it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, obviously they're not do loursing them to go.

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Speaker 1: But are they going with each other's friends or are

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they going by themselves?

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Speaker 3: I think they go with friends.

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Speaker 1: They go with their friends probably, right.

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Speaker 3: And then they go year after year and they probably

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Speaker 1: Six weeks is a bit much at this age, all right?

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Speaker 3: Oh sorry, Yuba County, California.

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Speaker 4: Barker Ranch, So it looks like it's in the Death

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Valley National Park. That's where the ranch is.

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Speaker 3: That's a different place, I think.

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Speaker 4: Well, this is his house, which is located in Bennett Canyon,

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which is just north of Beverly Hills. Yeah, that's where

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Speaker 1: Wow, well, I know, watch Aquarius with David Duchovny and

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find out it's on iTunes. Love him? Are you watching

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that show?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I haven't.

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Speaker 4: Well I don't have cable anymore, so yeah, I got

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a pirate.

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Speaker 1: If anybody's watching it, tell me if it's worth sticking with.

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I've watched three episodes. I love him too, that's why

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I'm watching it. And I like Charles Manson, so you know,

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to win win Anyways, I I think at six weeks

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is a bit much. But so people from la are

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sending their kids all the way to the East coast.

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Why not? Is there no good camps on the west coast?

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I don't know, Stephanie, get.

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Speaker 3: Back with I'm thinking, I mean, yes, there are lots

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of good camps here, so maybe there are also people

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that send their kids here, but like, but.

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Speaker 1: Is there a reason?

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Speaker 3: Maybe their families lived back there, maybe they were raised

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back east, and there's camps they know of or that

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they went to when they were kids, so they send

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their their kids there. Who know? I don't know, just because.

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Speaker 1: That to me, that Bravo show of Newly Divorced is

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the new thing. What's that show? You know? That show

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where she's divorced?

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Speaker 3: Odd mom out?

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Speaker 1: Not no, no, the other one where she's divorced. But anyway,

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Speaker 3: That did that get renewed?

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it got renewed. But they're running

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like repeats Girlfriend's Guide to Divorce? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I

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love their promo that they had by the way, where

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they were doing the ad campaign. When they were running,

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she was in bed and I was like, newly, what's

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the name of it, Girlfriend's Guide to Divorce?

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and.

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Speaker 1: I Can'm not going to do a justice But she'd

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guy next to her and she's like and he and

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she said something like, oh, don't don't get it. The

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answering machine will get it. And he's like, what's an

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answering machine and then she's like h smiled like a

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winked at the camera. So no, I lost my train

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of thought thinking about young guy no answering machine.

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Speaker 3: Camp. We were talking about sending your kids to camp.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was talking about in an episode of how

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she went to this certain camp and she said the

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name of it, and Jody, I believe she's in Europe

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or I would ask. I think she went to that

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camp too, and she's Jewish. So it's this Jewish camp

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that's somewhere back east that's supposed to be great, like

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the camp, Yeah, the it camp. So I'm wondering if

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that's it anyways.

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Speaker 3: Camp is part of a lot of kids childhood. Some

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kids go to camp for the whole summer. Every summer.

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They go see their friends and that's their summer. They

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like a week after school ends, they're off the camp

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and then that's their summer. I think it sounds kind

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of genius if your kids are the kind of kids

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that love going to camp. I think the kids would

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be fine. I would be so sad without my kids

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all summer.

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Speaker 1: Well, I couldn't imagine all summer. I mean. The thing

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is is that, of course, I don't think your kid

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at first is going to be excited. I think they're

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going to be scared, of course, like anybody would. But

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they're not gonna know unless they do it. So it

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could be something that I don't know. I don't know.

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I got to get to the bottom. We talk about

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this every summer, like where are kids going to do?

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What are our kids? We camp? Blah blah blah blah

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blah blah blah.

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Speaker 3: Well, ten next summer, she'll be eleven going on twelve.

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Maybe she'll want to go to camp. Then maybe at

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least maybe for like three weeks, I'll be together. They

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would probably love that.

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Speaker 1: I would love that they would. Natalia, well, I'll tell

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you that.

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Speaker 3: I think I would. By next year, ILB will be

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probably wanting to do something like that.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if they would keep them together though because

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of their age, maybe not. I don't know. We'll have

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to find out.

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Speaker 3: I remember being a camp counselor and the kids were

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all like around the same age, close enough, like it

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would be like ten to twelve year olds or but

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I don't Yeah, I guess it probably depends on the camp.

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Speaker 1: I always thought, like, you know, when before I had kids,

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or when my kids were little. I was like, I'm

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old school man. I am not letting anybody watch my kids.

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Like I'm never gonna have the child care service at

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the hotel. I'm never gonna have them go and state

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the camp while we're on vacation. As if we go

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on vacation, they're not going away to camp. None of that. No,

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no babysitters, no nothing. That went right out the window.

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Speaker 3: That's insane.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's the Italian.

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Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna say old school, like I'm

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gonna send them to camp right awayting pre school.

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Speaker 1: Not the Italians. The Italians are the dumb Jews, but

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they're the better looking Jews now Jews, I love juice

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Jews are I love a nerdy Jew guy. Anyways, We're

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all over the map here. But my point is Italians

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they don't let other people raise their kids, or do

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they do everything themselves, or at least old school Italians

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like Jimmy's mom. She when Jimmy was married the first

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time around. I don't know how she is now with

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his second child, but first time around, his kids are wonderful.

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They're grown, they're out of college, I think at least one.

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But anyway, when Gina, she was my BFF back then,

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and she was raising kids. They were like three or

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five or whatever, and I was like, how come you

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don't get a babysitter? How come you she had a babysitter.

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But it's like, how come they don't go to canon? No, no, no, no,

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no no, not the Kimmel family. They wouldn't and did

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they ever because they all but they no, I don't

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think so. I don't think they went to camp because well,

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for one thing that they have going for them is

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that they have there's so many of them. There's Aunt

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Joan and Uncle Jim, and there's so many cousin Sal.

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Not that you'd leave your kid with cousin Sal come

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back a gambling attict, but you know there's so many

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of them that they can all pitch in. You know.

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That's the thing that I argue.

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Speaker 3: About Adam village.

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Speaker 1: That's a village, right, I don't have a village. Like

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when Adam and I get in these arguments and he's like,

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you got a nanny, and you got a nanny. I

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don't have a cleaning lady anymore. But like a cleaning

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lady or a dog walker. We have a dog.

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Speaker 3: Walker yeah, people have to otherwise your dog kicking.

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Speaker 1: No, Adam doesn't like it, and we got an argument

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about it. And then we got in the car to

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go to Sunny's game and the dog walker fucking walks

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up right when we're pulling out, and he's like, uh.

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And Molly was at the vet at the time, and

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he's like, uh, the dog walkers here. You might want

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to tell her the dogs at the vet like great timing, bitch,

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Like I told you when you see the silver car,

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just keep walking, don't come in.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he's a little controlling, li it right, you think, Yeah,

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what's wrong with having a dog walker becuz he thinks

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you have to be.

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Speaker 3: Home all the time to walk the dog.

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Speaker 1: Well no, he says, are you kidding? You can get

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up in the morning and walk the dog, or lock

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the dog when you get back from dropping the kids off,

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or walk the dog, or the kids can start walking

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the dog or whatever. I feel like, between you and

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old and the kids, we don't need a dog walker.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to hire a hamster feeder. See, just

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come over and once a week, not.

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Speaker 1: If you're old Australian.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't get mad. What you can't just put

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some food in the hamster cage. Well, I forget okay,

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Yvet Valdivia.

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Speaker 1: You we Vet. There's a lot of rooms going around.

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Speaker 3: Do you think it's bitchy of me to not ex

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up to date from a guy that works at Chili's

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because he works at Chili's? Oh my god, this might

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already be my favorite question ever. I don't think so,

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but apparently other people think I'm stuck up? Am I

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being a bitch? No? Well, wait, he works at Chili's. Really,

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he couldn't get a job at like hold on, now,

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is he cute? Is he gonna bring you fries?

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Speaker 1: Is he going to school during the day? I mean,

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if he's just going to if he's just chili in

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it up and that's it in his life, then.

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Speaker 4: In his early twenties, then you can probably chalk it

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down to just callege God doing a job, right. But

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if you're going late mid late forties, then maybe.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you want to do well, what you just jumped

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from like eighteen to like mid forties, there's like a

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whole lot of in between the twenties. Then okay, so

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let's just stay.

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Speaker 1: After twenty five. Hey, you know what, By the way,

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all right, let's finish his conversation, and then I want

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to I.

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Speaker 3: Just think I understand that it's not sexy to work

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at Chili's if you're a guy. First of all, you

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have to wear a uniform. Maybe he's the second of all.

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Speaker 1: I like bartenders. I like the bartender at Oaks that place.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Look, if he's hasn't been working there long,

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maybe he was having trouble getting a job and he

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needs some extra money and he's working at Chili's. But

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he's a go getter, that's then you know, sure give

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him a chance. If he's really cute and you like

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his personality. But if he just works at Chili's and

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he's like, yeah, this is a good job. I mean,

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Chili's is a great company. There's benefits. I get all

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the chili fries I can eat. You know, why wouldn't

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I work here? If he doesn't get it, Like if

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he's a little embarrassed himself and he's like, man, you

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are so hot and I really want to date you,

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and like, oh my god, it's just ridiculous that I

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work at Chili's right now. But I just couldn't find

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another job. It's not for long. Then yeah. But if

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he's like, if he's like, hell yeah, I work at Chili's,

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come on down. Let me hook you up with a

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why I'm marguerite at what.

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Speaker 1: I said. As soon as the job opens up at

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the olimn guy, she was busy yapping. Everybody's right about you?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Now listen, I.

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Speaker 3: Would you date a guy who worked at Chili's le.

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Speaker 1: It depends if it's his only gig and he's doesn't

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see it. I mean, I'm sure the guy's young, right,

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I would think he's got to have something on the horizon.

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So it depends. Loves love, you know, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Not saying that a guy can't be broke. Look does

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he could? He teach guitar lessons freelance like guitar lesson

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teacher and be a little that's more romantic, you know,

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it is been working for a corporation like Chili's. Like

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he's gonna come home, he's gonna smell like greasy food

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in his work shoes.

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Speaker 1: Like listen, guitar, I get it smell like greasy foods too.

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Speaker 3: That I'm I feel you, my sister. I don't think

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you're a bitch. I think you're just being honest.

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Speaker 1: Stephanie's bitchy, you're keeping a rail. Let's keep pitching it up, okay,

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Ashley Dushane, Yeah, go ahead. My daughter will be entering

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kindergarten this FOD. I'd love to hear any tips you

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have about making it a smooth transition, stories of your

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own experience as would interest me.

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Speaker 3: We're only going to tell stories today about other people's experiences.

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You know, what kindergarten is so such a crapshoot I

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think for a lot of people. Yeah, Sadie was cried

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every day for a while, and I never would have

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expected that of her. She did not seem like she

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would be sad lb who I would have thought would

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have been very traumatized by starting kindergarten. Was like, see,

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I wouldn't want to be.

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Speaker 1: She wants to get her learn on that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she had a great day every day and never

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looked back. I think. You know, usually kindergarten teachers are

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pretty caring and they're pretty open to like they understand

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that you're kids starting kindergarten. It's a big deal. They're

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pretty open to talking to you and to giving your

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kid a little special like, you know, love if they're

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having trouble transitioning and they're pretty patient.

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Speaker 1: YEP, I agree. I I would maybe if you want

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some advice from us, I would say, go talk to

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the kindergarten teacher maybe ahead of time, and feel her

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out and see what she's got plan on the horizon,

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and then go home and talk to your kid and

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get your kid prepared and explain to your child, missus,

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so and so is going to be doing this this year,

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and she's going to be teaching that this year, or

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you're going to learn this or that, or she's got

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a goldfish in her classroom whatever, yeah, or excited maybe.

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Speaker 3: And one thing that helps too is and maybe I'm

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sure you've already thought of this, but one thing that

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really worked well with my kids is taking them out

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like a week before school starts, to get like their

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backpack and a new lunch box. And I feel like

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with one of the kids, they got something personalized. I

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can't remember, but that's always like it makes them feel

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excited about like you're a big boy or a big

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girl now and you get your your backpack and you're

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new a new one. If they had one for preschool,

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they get a new one, right kindergarten and some pencils,

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and I got them like a little bit of school

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supplies and we kept it at home. And then because

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you're gonna have homework and you know, just play a

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good spin on.

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Speaker 1: It, you're at Target and then they want to go

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to the toy aisle. Yeah, and they're like, all right, now

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on board, let's go to the toy asle buy something.

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Speaker 3: And then you'll sink like ninety dollars into that trip.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Caitlin Hanson, can you talk about the dynamic of discipline?

471
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:46,720
Have you met me and Lynette?

472
00:23:46,799 --> 00:23:50,160
Speaker 1: Have you listened to our show Who Disciplines? In your house?

473
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 3: Do your kids favor one parent over the other or

474
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,839
come crying to the other parent if you try to discipline.

475
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 1: They always go crying to Olga.

476
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:04,559
Speaker 3: You know, O. Discipline is such another very personal some

477
00:24:05,319 --> 00:24:08,440
I feel like not it's not one size fits all,

478
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,759
I know, if you're some kids need a lot of disciplines.

479
00:24:11,839 --> 00:24:13,599
Some kids need no discipline. And you know what, I

480
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,000
don't like parents who discipline their kids when they're not

481
00:24:16,079 --> 00:24:19,279
doing something wrong. Yeah, oh go, you're wasting it on

482
00:24:19,519 --> 00:24:22,200
punish the kid who's actually doing stuff wrong. You know,

483
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:23,880
these parents that are just too hard on their kids

484
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,279
all the time. Yeah, they like are constantly saying no

485
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,559
and constantly like stop doing that, stop fussing with that stuff,

486
00:24:29,559 --> 00:24:31,640
and you're like they're just being a kid, Like, yeah,

487
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,960
this will happen. You'll be in a waiting room, say,

488
00:24:34,319 --> 00:24:36,359
and the kid will just be like maybe walking around

489
00:24:36,519 --> 00:24:39,480
feelings that they put that down. Stop doing that, Just

490
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,880
come over here and sit down like you.

491
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,319
Speaker 1: Kiss three, Like, yeah, let them taddle.

492
00:24:46,599 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 3: I mean, stop saying no and being harsh and strict

493
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:50,640
with a three year old because you're gonna have bigger

494
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:51,680
problems on your hand when.

495
00:24:51,599 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 1: They're save it eight. Yeah, right, pick your battles. Yeah,

496
00:24:57,039 --> 00:25:03,880
i mean disciplinary disciplines in our house. I'm I'm the

497
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:08,119
bitchy one. I'm now getting called Claire because of Modern Family,

498
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,039
because Claire is the bitchy mom on Modern Family. It's

499
00:25:11,079 --> 00:25:16,119
the blonde and Natalia calls me Claire, and uh, I

500
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,519
just can't help it, because you know what I noticed

501
00:25:18,599 --> 00:25:22,680
is that I've lumped my poor Sonny's been lumped into

502
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,240
her his whole life because it's you guys. You guys

503
00:25:26,279 --> 00:25:29,680
better stop, you guys, better listen, you guys better and

504
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:34,000
it's not. We notice it more when she's spending the night,

505
00:25:34,519 --> 00:25:36,640
because when she spends the night and it's just us

506
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:41,799
three at home, it's like, I mean, listen, we miss her,

507
00:25:41,839 --> 00:25:44,279
we really do. We do. We know we do, we do.

508
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,880
We totally miss her. But it is so much easier.

509
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,480
I mean, and I realized that it's a lot of

510
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,319
times it's you guys, you guys, you guys, and it's

511
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,400
not you guys, it's her and I don't but it's

512
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,279
hard because you don't want to be yelling at her constantly.

513
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,960
But she's a push and she likes to push buttons

514
00:26:03,079 --> 00:26:07,000
and she likes to to fuck with people. She does

515
00:26:07,759 --> 00:26:10,240
not really, I don't think she's trying to fuck with people,

516
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:14,640
but she she's a button pusher and she wants to

517
00:26:14,759 --> 00:26:19,839
see how far she can go and she gets, you know, reprimanded.

518
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 3: But so like I was a button pusher when I

519
00:26:22,039 --> 00:26:24,720
was a kid, and you know, I don't think I

520
00:26:24,759 --> 00:26:27,640
was in a family that could handle that. So Natalia's

521
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,920
actually lucky that, you know, Yeah, does it push your buttons? Yeah,

522
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:34,039
she's a button push yourself, pushes your buttons. But obviously

523
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,440
you don't freak out and like write well on a

524
00:26:37,519 --> 00:26:40,039
regular every day. But I mean, you know what I'm saying.

525
00:26:40,079 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 1: You have yeah, no, I know, a happy.

526
00:26:42,799 --> 00:26:45,599
Speaker 3: Family, and you're gonna you have the ability to be

527
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,799
flexible with her aunt to just even if you have

528
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,160
to step back sometimes and just go okay, just the

529
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,480
fact that you can go she's not doing it on purpose,

530
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,240
you know, she's she's just this is the kid I have,

531
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:57,400
and you just.

532
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 1: Deal with my worst moment as a parent.

533
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 3: We've talked, are you trying to choke her with a blueberry?

534
00:27:02,839 --> 00:27:08,079
Speaker 1: No? Oh, that's right. And I was about the blueberry. No,

535
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:16,359
not that one. When I was sick at home, Adam

536
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,960
was out of town. It was a no, no, no no.

537
00:27:19,079 --> 00:27:21,720
It was a Sunday football and Adam was at Jimmy's

538
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,880
and I was at home by myself, sick, and I

539
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,359
was I'm feeling good. And they were like three or four,

540
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,240
and she had this like toy that she was trying

541
00:27:32,279 --> 00:27:34,680
to Uh it was a toy. What was it? It

542
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,359
was something that she was trying to color or build.

543
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:41,240
It was a coloring something or build your own color builder,

544
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:45,480
something color, something creative, a color builder, creative color, or

545
00:27:45,519 --> 00:27:48,680
maybe it was black lego. I don't remember something that

546
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,400
was a little on the educational side. I just remember that.

547
00:27:53,039 --> 00:27:55,160
And she kept coming to me, and I was laying

548
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,000
down and I was saying, honey, not right now. I

549
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,440
can't even lift my head off the pillow. I'll look

550
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,519
at it and in a little while, just let me

551
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,200
rest for ten minutes because I just laid down right

552
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,039
And she's like, but but no, But she kept coming

553
00:28:07,079 --> 00:28:09,440
back and coming back and coming back and coming back

554
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,799
and coming back, and she put it on top of me.

555
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,559
She goes, just do it, and she put it on

556
00:28:13,599 --> 00:28:16,440
top of my chest and I picked it up and

557
00:28:16,519 --> 00:28:18,880
I said no, and I threw it across the room.

558
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:24,720
The thing broke into pieces. And she looked at me like, wow,

559
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,000
this is gonna this is gonna be a long story

560
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,119
and therapy in a couple of years. In a short

561
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,160
couple of years, bitch, I'm gonna be talking about has

562
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:32,920
it ever come up?

563
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:34,839
Speaker 3: I don't remember.

564
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,039
Speaker 1: I think she forgot. I think she forgot about it. Yeah,

565
00:28:37,039 --> 00:28:38,799
because she was a little young on the young side,

566
00:28:38,799 --> 00:28:42,400
thank god. But it was my fine. Wasn't a proud

567
00:28:42,519 --> 00:28:46,640
moment of mine. But you know what it happens.

568
00:28:47,039 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 3: One time. I think I've told you this story before.

569
00:28:49,519 --> 00:28:53,039
One time I was pregnant with the twins, I was

570
00:28:53,119 --> 00:28:55,599
not feeling good. It was at the and LB was

571
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,440
so she was like two and a half and she

572
00:28:57,559 --> 00:29:01,200
was in the back seat. Obviously she was in the

573
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,559
front seat. That would be a bad parent. She just

574
00:29:03,599 --> 00:29:07,839
sit in Shotgun having a beer and she was playing,

575
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,880
We were playing. They were listening to a song that

576
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,599
she wanted to listen to that was by some kid's band.

577
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,279
And I don't know why I'd let her. She loved

578
00:29:16,319 --> 00:29:20,240
this song and it went like this, do you want

579
00:29:20,279 --> 00:29:23,160
to see my boo boo? Tell me? Tell me? Do

580
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,240
you want to see my boo boo? So we had

581
00:29:26,279 --> 00:29:29,519
listened to it already like seventeen times. I had picked

582
00:29:29,519 --> 00:29:32,359
her up from preschool. There was some construction going on

583
00:29:32,359 --> 00:29:35,039
on our house, and uh, we'd had to go to

584
00:29:35,119 --> 00:29:38,240
Low's for something. I'll never forget the whole setup to

585
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:42,000
the situation, because it was hot during the summer. We'd

586
00:29:42,119 --> 00:29:44,000
picked her up at school, we'd gone to Low's, and

587
00:29:44,079 --> 00:29:46,359
she just kept wanting to hear the song over and

588
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,920
over again. And I'd already listened to it a bunch

589
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:52,319
of times. So I finally was like, I can't. We

590
00:29:52,359 --> 00:29:54,920
got to turn on something else and she started crying

591
00:29:55,279 --> 00:29:57,440
and I was like, please stop crying. It's not you know,

592
00:29:57,519 --> 00:29:59,880
it's just and she was like, want to hear it again,

593
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,799
want to hear the song again, want to hear the

594
00:30:02,799 --> 00:30:05,559
boom boo song? And she just started having a freaking

595
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,000
temper tension in the back seat. And I don't know,

596
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:14,440
but like I lost boom my ship. I turned around

597
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:23,279
and I was like ship ship, Like I, oh my god,

598
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,839
I'll never forget I felt. I mean, I just freak

599
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:31,359
out lost it and to it. She's two, and she

600
00:30:31,519 --> 00:30:34,480
started of course, she got scared and started crying. Yeah,

601
00:30:34,519 --> 00:30:38,720
because always fixes it, right, They really shut up, don't

602
00:30:38,759 --> 00:30:41,799
they know? They don't. She started crying, and then I

603
00:30:41,839 --> 00:30:45,039
was like, then I was crying. Then she was crying.

604
00:30:45,279 --> 00:30:47,359
And then we walked in the house and my husband

605
00:30:47,359 --> 00:30:49,240
wasn't home, and it was like there were some workers

606
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,519
there because they were doing construction, and I was just like,

607
00:30:51,599 --> 00:30:56,720
oh my god, I need help. But I mean, you know,

608
00:30:56,839 --> 00:30:57,920
she doesn't remember it.

609
00:30:58,279 --> 00:31:03,519
Speaker 1: That's the best part. Although Natalia though, does remember fix

610
00:31:03,599 --> 00:31:07,079
my pillow, Mommy fixed my pillow, and and and then

611
00:31:07,559 --> 00:31:10,640
she she thinks of it as that she was crying

612
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,880
for because she was sick. She wasn't crying because she

613
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,319
was sick, because she was like, I even threw up,

614
00:31:15,359 --> 00:31:17,720
and I said, no, you didn't, because she was calling

615
00:31:17,759 --> 00:31:22,519
me mommy, and I wasn't going in and I wasn't

616
00:31:22,559 --> 00:31:25,519
feeding into it. And she remembers that she thinks she

617
00:31:25,599 --> 00:31:28,319
was sick because she was going she was crying so

618
00:31:28,359 --> 00:31:35,279
hard that she was doing that. She's trying to pretend

619
00:31:35,279 --> 00:31:37,759
that she was throwing up, even though she's three or whatever.

620
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:40,119
But she wasn't throwing up. I was throwing up.

621
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 3: Sadie has done that a million times.

622
00:31:42,279 --> 00:31:44,519
Speaker 1: You were not throwing up, b you are not. It's

623
00:31:44,599 --> 00:31:45,519
like I and I.

624
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 3: Wish Sadie was a tiny bit older because Sadie and

625
00:31:47,759 --> 00:31:53,160
Italia Elbie loves Italian, Natalia loves Alby. But Sadie and

626
00:31:53,279 --> 00:31:56,920
Italia would be like the BFFs beyond all BFFs. If

627
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,440
Sadie was a.

628
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 1: Little older, they would get a lot of trouble.

629
00:32:00,839 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 3: They would get oh so much trouble.

630
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:05,839
Speaker 1: Maybe they will in the future.

631
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,559
Speaker 3: Sadie used to do that too. Sadie was the one

632
00:32:07,559 --> 00:32:12,119
who would uh streak like a baboon from her crib

633
00:32:12,279 --> 00:32:14,400
and then throw out everything out of her. She would

634
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:18,359
be so angry at bedtime. She would be like screaming

635
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,960
for me to come back in and throw out like

636
00:32:21,039 --> 00:32:23,240
the crib bumpers. She'd get them off the crib. She'd

637
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,359
take off all her clothes, she'd take off all the sheets,

638
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,680
she'd throw all the pillows or whatever. Books. Everything would

639
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:33,720
be in a big pile on the floor. She would

640
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,599
wear us down.

641
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure anybody listens.

642
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 3: And this is right after I quit drinking too. Some

643
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,039
of my worst times were with Sadie and they're refusing

644
00:32:42,119 --> 00:32:45,359
to sleep, and then we went and bought I was

645
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:49,920
so upset and like I wasn't sleeping, John wasn't sleeping,

646
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,480
She wasn't sleeping. And this one point, I think she

647
00:32:52,599 --> 00:32:55,079
was up for like twenty two hours because she just

648
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,119
refused to go to sleep, and then it was like

649
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,759
the morning, and then the other kids were up, and

650
00:32:58,839 --> 00:33:00,880
then she was up and she wouldn't and she got

651
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,319
herself so in such a state, and I was I

652
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:09,400
was blogging at the time, and somebody on my blog suggested, no,

653
00:33:09,519 --> 00:33:13,880
what do you call uh melatonin? H I went and

654
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,880
bought some melotonin from Whole foods in a dropper. Get

655
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,400
put it in a dropper, and I gave her melatonin,

656
00:33:21,039 --> 00:33:23,440
like I looked up the dose on the internet or whatever,

657
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:27,079
and I gave it to her and uh it worked, yeah,

658
00:33:27,119 --> 00:33:29,920
really well. And I did it for two weeks. She did.

659
00:33:31,079 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: She said, don't don't give them the benadryll stuff. Give

660
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,799
him the melatonin because like, you know, when the tide

661
00:33:36,839 --> 00:33:38,319
doesn't sleep, I give her some benadryl.

662
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 3: Just kidding, but yeah, not kidding. Meloton pediatrician told me,

663
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:49,160
first of all, I've given Benadryl works and it's and

664
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:53,599
you know what it's it's not dangerous. And by the way,

665
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,640
my pediatrician, when Matilda was a baby, she was having

666
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,319
some night terrors and my pediatrician was like, give her

667
00:33:59,319 --> 00:34:02,039
Bena drrill every night for ten days, yeah, to get

668
00:34:02,079 --> 00:34:03,839
her her sleep.

669
00:34:05,359 --> 00:34:09,639
Speaker 1: Got older and realized, oh that stuff makes me sleep.

670
00:34:10,119 --> 00:34:11,800
Then she'd go to bed and go, I can't sleep.

671
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:15,639
Give me medicine. Yeah, And I was like no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

672
00:34:15,559 --> 00:34:16,840
my not going down that road.

673
00:34:17,519 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 3: Mine do it too, but Elbie does it well. When

674
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,159
Elbe was having her really bad bout of anxiety, we

675
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,760
absolutely gave her bet when she wouldn't go to sleep.

676
00:34:25,119 --> 00:34:28,320
I gave her ben andjrol for a couple of weeks straight.

677
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,000
I had to give her bed and drol. But stop

678
00:34:31,039 --> 00:34:31,920
and forget to tell you.

679
00:34:32,119 --> 00:34:34,199
Speaker 1: She's just she gets in bed for five minutes and

680
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,559
it's like, I can't give me sleep medicine right right,

681
00:34:36,679 --> 00:34:39,519
that's no, You're not going to turn into mommy and dad.

682
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,679
Speaker 3: Oh my god. We just gave a lot of advice.

683
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,519
I don't know if he answered the discipline question, but whatever,

684
00:34:48,639 --> 00:34:53,320
Liz Blair Glad says, I'm visiting southern California right now

685
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:56,599
with my husband. He's from here, but we live in Belgium.

686
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:01,039
How can you live here? The heat sucks, the traffic sucks,

687
00:35:01,079 --> 00:35:04,159
everything's expensive. How why do you guys do it? Where

688
00:35:04,159 --> 00:35:05,719
would you live? If people live anywhere?

689
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,559
Speaker 1: Show? Of course it sucks. I know, we know. We

690
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,199
don't rub it in, Liz, we know.

691
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 3: But doesn't everywhere suck for one reason or another?

692
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,599
Speaker 1: Yeah? I guess it's hot, it's a lot of traffic,

693
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:19,000
there's graffiti, homeless, it's.

694
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 3: La But you can have a ben affleck sighting. Is

695
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,880
there any better reason to know it never happened? First

696
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,480
of all, Most people who live here are do it

697
00:35:28,519 --> 00:35:31,199
for well. There's a number of reasons to live in

698
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:35,480
LA in southern California. One, uh, yeah, it's hot, but

699
00:35:35,679 --> 00:35:39,239
the heat does suck, but not in Santa Monica. Don't

700
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,400
live in the valley like stupid people like I do.

701
00:35:41,639 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: I hate Santa Monica. Oh do I hate crowded there.

702
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,840
It's so crowded. It's a beautiful place. It's so congested

703
00:35:49,119 --> 00:35:49,719
Santa Monica.

704
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 3: So most people that live in LA live here for work.

705
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,840
Most people do because they're in the entertainment business and

706
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:59,000
they have to live here. Now. I live here because

707
00:35:59,039 --> 00:36:01,559
I was ray. I grew up here and it always

708
00:36:01,679 --> 00:36:04,079
felt it did not feel like home anywhere else. So

709
00:36:04,519 --> 00:36:07,039
this feels like home to me. And because I have

710
00:36:07,079 --> 00:36:09,639
a lot of friends and I know people, and when

711
00:36:09,679 --> 00:36:11,559
I go to Trader Joe's, I'm bound to run into

712
00:36:11,599 --> 00:36:14,679
someone I know. And I just can't even imagine starting

713
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,920
over somewhere else. I can't. I'm just not a person

714
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:21,760
who likes change. But if you do like change and

715
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:26,079
you're living in Belgium, then go to it. Stay there.

716
00:36:26,079 --> 00:36:29,599
It sounds awesome. Where would I live if I could

717
00:36:29,639 --> 00:36:30,480
move anywhere?

718
00:36:30,519 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: Well, see, I could move anywhere, Well, where would you

719
00:36:34,039 --> 00:36:35,239
live if you could live anywhere?

720
00:36:36,599 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 3: I mean, you know what, there's some really pretty like Madison,

721
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:45,960
Wisconsin is really beautiful. I mean if I wasn't me though,

722
00:36:46,159 --> 00:36:47,239
do you know what I mean? Like if I was

723
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,599
somebody who could be happy living in a different city

724
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:51,960
with no one. I know.

725
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 1: Jody's in Paris right while she was in London. Then

726
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,119
she I just facetimed with her and she went to

727
00:36:57,159 --> 00:36:59,079
Paris for a few days now. Granted, Jody is a

728
00:36:59,119 --> 00:37:04,039
single woman with no kids, and she's very pretty, and

729
00:37:04,079 --> 00:37:10,159
she's like, len it Paris is my dream city. It

730
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:15,480
was awesome And I said why and she said, it's

731
00:37:15,559 --> 00:37:20,800
just it's just civilized. It's just civilized. Are you stand

732
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:22,880
on the street, you can smoke a cigarette, you can

733
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:26,840
drink your beer outside? You can. And then she said

734
00:37:27,199 --> 00:37:29,880
she just like are It's just not just Paris. I

735
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,559
think she was talking about English. She was talking about

736
00:37:31,599 --> 00:37:33,360
Europe in general. How it's just so much.

737
00:37:33,599 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 3: It's so I don't know if you can generalize. I

738
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:36,679
loved England.

739
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:42,639
Speaker 1: She she likes England. London it's just too expensive. No,

740
00:37:42,679 --> 00:37:47,000
wait a minute, Paris is too expensive. London, she just

741
00:37:47,079 --> 00:37:52,159
loved Paris and then really said that every guy like

742
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,559
turned their head towards her, and I said, well, hello,

743
00:37:55,639 --> 00:37:57,400
what are you doing then? Are you hooking up or what? No,

744
00:37:57,519 --> 00:38:00,599
of course not because she's Jodie, but she's like like

745
00:38:00,599 --> 00:38:03,400
like good looking. She's like good looking guys, not like

746
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:07,000
the bald headed fat dude and you know, whole foods.

747
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,000
Where I live, it's like you keep walking, buddy. But

748
00:38:10,039 --> 00:38:13,800
now in Paris there's like good looking guys, like hey,

749
00:38:14,119 --> 00:38:16,960
they just treat women different. They just it's just such a.

750
00:38:17,199 --> 00:38:20,519
Speaker 3: Oh my god, they're condescending and well in the city

751
00:38:20,559 --> 00:38:23,119
of Paris. I had such a bad time there. People

752
00:38:23,199 --> 00:38:27,039
are rude. Really, I thought people rude. They're very condescending.

753
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:31,239
Gay's really judgy. And if you like, I'm a tipper,

754
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,360
you know, they get mad at you for tipping too much.

755
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,559
Somehow that's like an insult or something since the tip

756
00:38:37,639 --> 00:38:39,559
is included. I don't know. I couldn't get on. I

757
00:38:39,599 --> 00:38:42,320
was wearing white sneakers. One time. Somebody was snickering at

758
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,599
me about my sneakers because I was wearing sneakers.

759
00:38:44,639 --> 00:38:48,760
Speaker 1: Oh you cannot wear yoga pants, by the way, because in.

760
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 3: A city fucking has an. It has an opinion about

761
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:53,360
what kind of fucking pants you wear.

762
00:38:53,639 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 1: Fuck you, par friend. No, this is London. Jody hooked

763
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:00,039
up with her friend in London, and Jody lives and

764
00:39:00,119 --> 00:39:03,480
yoga pants and she's like, oh, Kate was like no, no, no, no, no, no,

765
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,440
no no no. She's like, unless you have a gym

766
00:39:05,519 --> 00:39:09,800
bag on your shoulder to wear yoga pants.

767
00:39:09,559 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 3: I would have multiple gym bags, take them everywhere I

768
00:39:13,039 --> 00:39:16,360
go sport. I would just carry a yoga mag.

769
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,119
Speaker 1: Just put a backpack. Yeah no, you can't, like, no

770
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:19,880
yoga pants.

771
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:22,760
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not moving there.

772
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,039
Speaker 1: This is why Liz grew up all the way home.

773
00:39:25,119 --> 00:39:28,039
Speaker 3: Why I live in LA because you know why, yoga

774
00:39:28,079 --> 00:39:32,039
pants are perfectly acceptable evening where in Los Angeles it

775
00:39:32,159 --> 00:39:35,800
is on a cute top and you're good to go.

776
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:40,719
Yeah right, oh boy, oh my god. Can I just

777
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:45,119
I'm not I swear to you. I'm not just trying

778
00:39:45,119 --> 00:39:48,679
to plug their show. But I have been listening to

779
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:53,760
watch What Crappens podcast. I'm gonna be guest. I'm guesting

780
00:39:54,159 --> 00:39:54,760
co host.

781
00:39:55,119 --> 00:39:55,639
Speaker 1: When is it?

782
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 3: I forgot it's coming up though, It's like this week Ronnie.

783
00:40:00,199 --> 00:40:02,280
Ronnie asked me to because Ben's going to be out,

784
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:04,840
so I'm going to co host Ronnie and I just

785
00:40:05,039 --> 00:40:08,320
now listen. I only I started listening to watching Secrets

786
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,559
and Wives just so that I could understand, just so

787
00:40:10,599 --> 00:40:12,760
that I could know the characters, so that when so

788
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,880
I have another show for them to recap that I get.

789
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:20,599
And it's just so funny. They're so funny watching I'm

790
00:40:20,599 --> 00:40:23,400
in awe of their Oh my god. But the reason

791
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,519
that I brought it up was because I've been laughing

792
00:40:25,519 --> 00:40:29,000
at the Orange County Housewives at Shannon Badore, because because

793
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,079
I was wondering if you wanted to just if you're

794
00:40:31,119 --> 00:40:35,239
watching OC, because Shannon is so obsessed with her husband

795
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:38,079
who's cheating on her, and she's They do this impression

796
00:40:38,119 --> 00:40:42,480
of Shannon where they're like, David David, David David, where'd

797
00:40:42,519 --> 00:40:45,480
you go? David, David? Are you not interested in me anymore?

798
00:40:45,559 --> 00:40:48,719
David David? Are you cheating on me again? David David David.

799
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:52,039
Speaker 1: Shannon, why don't we have to do this? I just

800
00:40:52,119 --> 00:40:54,480
left the house seriously doing this right now?

801
00:40:55,760 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 3: A girl's voice, I know, Well, he's so afraid of her,

802
00:41:00,079 --> 00:41:03,840
he just doesn't want to. It's like it's the walking

803
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,480
on eggshells. He's just like, don't anger her.

804
00:41:06,559 --> 00:41:10,280
Speaker 1: And is it my imagination or is Heather getting crazy eyes?

805
00:41:11,079 --> 00:41:13,800
Oh she's always had crazy, crazy guys going.

806
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 3: She's just so unapologetic now about her mansion, I know,

807
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,440
her sixty thousand square foot house or whatever. She doesn't

808
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:25,039
even care anymore. That scene where she was laughing about

809
00:41:25,679 --> 00:41:28,280
the cab how the cabinets went one hundred thousand dollars

810
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:30,519
over budget or whatever, and then they were laughing, it

811
00:41:30,559 --> 00:41:33,639
was almost this weird evil, like this evil couple.

812
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 1: They were like, yeah, no, she just she bugs me.

813
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,039
I feel bad for her husband for some reason. I

814
00:41:43,039 --> 00:41:46,159
don't know why. I feel sorry for him because you know,

815
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,639
he's getting like beat up behind closed doors by her,

816
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:52,960
not physically, but just she just seems like such a fucking,

817
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:54,840
raging pain in the ass.

818
00:41:56,159 --> 00:41:58,280
Speaker 3: And they all are. There's no one ever for.

819
00:41:58,519 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 1: The guys, all the guys. It's pretty bad when Brooks

820
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,400
is your favorite character. I don't mind Brooks anymore. Like

821
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,840
he's nice, he's got cancer and everything. He's nice.

822
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:09,679
Speaker 3: I know. No, what do we think about? Do you

823
00:42:09,679 --> 00:42:14,199
think he's faking the cancer? No? You don't know me that. No,

824
00:42:15,039 --> 00:42:17,679
have you ever known anyone that faked cancer? You know,

825
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:18,360
it's like a thing.

826
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: Well I've seen it like on dateline, but I don't

827
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:24,760
know people that have. People do there's a documentary of

828
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:29,239
somebody that faked being a widow of nine to eleven.

829
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 3: Right right, the woman who wasn't there. Oh, great documentary.

830
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,440
But you know, this isn't a lot of people's psyches.

831
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:40,360
It's not really Munchausens because it's just faking. I wonder

832
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,519
if that has a diagnosis.

833
00:42:42,639 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: Faking Cantler illness.

834
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,039
Speaker 3: Yes, but it's a specific kind. It's got to be

835
00:42:47,079 --> 00:42:51,639
a specific kind. Munchausenes by proxy is when you make

836
00:42:51,679 --> 00:42:53,760
your kids sick so that you can get attention for

837
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:58,679
having a sick kid. Munchausens is when you think you're

838
00:42:59,039 --> 00:43:02,760
like when you get so it's prop Munchausen is faking illness.

839
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that means but when you practice, when's your kid?

840
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,239
But if it's just Munchausen, But if.

841
00:43:09,199 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 3: Munch houses a proxy, you're really making your kids sick.

842
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:18,119
You're not lying and saying your kid's sick. Yeah munch.

843
00:43:20,599 --> 00:43:21,159
Speaker 1: Anyways.

844
00:43:21,519 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I don't know is that I don't have

845
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:27,719
you ever known it? I mean, I know of people

846
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,000
who have done it. I knew of a person, you.

847
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,519
Speaker 1: Do, I knew of Yes, what happened.

848
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 3: She was faking cancer and had a huge fundraiser, like,

849
00:43:37,599 --> 00:43:42,440
and then was caught Are you serious? And yeah they

850
00:43:42,559 --> 00:43:45,360
I think they pressed charges. Oh my gosh, ship to

851
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:49,639
give the money back. It was a whole thing. Wow, yeah, dang.

852
00:43:50,039 --> 00:43:52,639
Speaker 1: Nothing like that for exciting ever happens in my life.

853
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,400
Like I would love for Suzanne to just go I'm

854
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:59,480
a fucking CIA agent bitch. Could you imagine like that'd

855
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:04,400
be exciting? Nothing ever happens. I am watching Secrets and

856
00:44:04,639 --> 00:44:08,800
Lies and I got sucked into it. Yeah, kind of.

857
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,639
Speaker 3: It's pretty funny, it is, But I can't keep track

858
00:44:11,679 --> 00:44:14,400
of who's who because they all look so much like

859
00:44:14,519 --> 00:44:17,000
you have to watch multiple episodes to start being able

860
00:44:17,039 --> 00:44:17,719
to tell the difference.

861
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,039
Speaker 1: And then who's married to who.

862
00:44:19,159 --> 00:44:23,679
Speaker 3: There's two that look so much alike, and one of.

863
00:44:23,599 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: The three blondes. All the blondes just look like every

864
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:28,840
town USA blonde.

865
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 3: Yeah. So there's one blonde who's married to like a

866
00:44:32,559 --> 00:44:33,480
plastic surgeon.

867
00:44:34,079 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, the cunt, sorry Gail. Why does she look familiar though?

868
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 3: Because she looks like Camille Grammer is that who she

869
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:42,239
looks like.

870
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, she also looks like an old porn actress that

871
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,519
was in Boogie Nights. Oh really, yes, the old porn

872
00:44:49,519 --> 00:44:51,320
actress that was in Boogie Nights. And I can't think

873
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,719
of her name, but she played herself, Brandon. Can you

874
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:58,559
look up the Boogie Knights cast and there's only like

875
00:44:58,639 --> 00:45:02,039
three of them. There's three re actresses that did porn

876
00:45:02,079 --> 00:45:05,960
in real life, and it'll say as herself and that's

877
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,840
who she looks like. But anyways, in the meantime.

878
00:45:10,559 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 3: I think I know you're talking about Nina Hartley.

879
00:45:12,599 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: Nina Hartley, that's who she looks like. King Nina Hartley.

880
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:23,159
And sure, yeah, maybe pull up Secrets and Wives cast,

881
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:29,239
lady married to the doctor surgeon, plastic surgeon doctor. Then

882
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,719
there's the one that looks like Tamar used to look like, look, look,

883
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:37,880
look all right, that's oh that's Nina Harley. Nina Harley

884
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:41,000
smiles too much, the plastic surgeon's wife. She doesn't smile

885
00:45:41,039 --> 00:45:41,519
that much.

886
00:45:41,679 --> 00:45:43,320
Speaker 3: But you're right, she does look like her.

887
00:45:43,519 --> 00:45:48,639
Speaker 1: Yeah she does. Yeah, yeah, see uh huh, everybody at

888
00:45:48,639 --> 00:45:50,920
home close your eyes and think of Nina Hartley and

889
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:55,840
you don't know what I'm talking about. Then there's the

890
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:59,760
one that looks like Tama Barney from Orange County with.

891
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 3: The yes, that's that's her.

892
00:46:02,199 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 1: Like it looks like her younger little sister.

893
00:46:04,519 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 3: Her name is Cory.

894
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think I like her.

895
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 3: Yeah.

896
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:12,320
Speaker 1: Then there's all right, But then there's the husband who's

897
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,840
mean to. Then there's the one brunette whose husband.

898
00:46:15,519 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 3: Susan, who's got the husband who John He's like, hey,

899
00:46:20,159 --> 00:46:21,920
everybody hears a bunch of bitches.

900
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 1: That's somebody I would have married if I stayed in Cleveland, Ohio.

901
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,760
I bet like instead of married dad.

902
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 3: Hey, you was gonna get some more fries pack going

903
00:46:34,559 --> 00:46:39,159
under your fasts? Hey? Shut up? Yeah he's wow, he's

904
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:44,280
really he's a grass. Yeah. It's so high, it's so watchable.

905
00:46:44,639 --> 00:46:47,800
But now that's a show where if John goes I

906
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:50,079
cannot believe you're watching that, Like if he says that

907
00:46:50,119 --> 00:46:51,880
about the Housewise that, I'm like, shut up, yeah, I

908
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,400
like watching this stuff. But when he's he did say

909
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:57,039
it about Secret Wise, I was like, I know, I'm

910
00:46:57,039 --> 00:46:59,480
only doing it because the watch What Crappens. Guys talk

911
00:46:59,519 --> 00:47:01,159
about it and it makes me laugh.

912
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,199
Speaker 1: I say, I'm doing it because I have to talk

913
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,119
to Stephan about it on our shell.

914
00:47:06,519 --> 00:47:09,639
Speaker 3: So one of the women looks like Jessica Simpson, you know,

915
00:47:09,679 --> 00:47:13,360
the one. Her name is Eliza, and she's getting divorced

916
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,119
and she looks like an old Jessica Simpson. Yeah, losing

917
00:47:16,199 --> 00:47:18,639
her house. And there was a scene from the first

918
00:47:18,639 --> 00:47:21,519
episode where she's talking. She's like, has a fight with

919
00:47:21,639 --> 00:47:24,599
her with him on the phone, and then she's in

920
00:47:24,599 --> 00:47:26,280
the car and then she hangs up and she goes,

921
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:30,320
I'm paralyzed. So the watchert crap AND's guys just do

922
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:33,440
it all the time, just no reason. They're just like paraalized.

923
00:47:34,679 --> 00:47:36,960
And I laughed so hard because I've seen it now

924
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:37,800
because I know what there's I.

925
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 1: Gotta watch it. I gotta listen to them.

926
00:47:39,559 --> 00:47:41,559
Speaker 3: You really should? You want to give you.

927
00:47:41,519 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: Some bottles of angria to bring to them?

928
00:47:43,559 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I don't know if I'm going to see them.

929
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,599
I might be skyping from my house. Oh really, yeah,

930
00:47:48,639 --> 00:47:52,159
they don't. They're not classy like us. Oh yeah, all right,

931
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then never. I don't know how people do that. You

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know a lot of people podcast that way just from

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their house.

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Speaker 1: Why can't they have guests? Then? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I know they're not in a studio.

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Speaker 1: Well, not everybody has a husband that can build lucky me.

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Speaker 3: I know. All right, should we take this last question then? Okay, yeah,

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Nicke Marvin, we'd love to answer your question, but that's

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basically listen to our show.

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Speaker 1: How do you handle conflict in your marriage? Yeah, listen

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00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,719
to our show, Sylvia Vega.

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Speaker 3: Oh, by the way, can I just say one thing

943
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about the fighting when you're married. Don't listen to these

944
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people that say, don't go to bed angry. I say,

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00:48:33,599 --> 00:48:37,199
that's such a such a hooy. Go to bed angry.

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You know why, when it's late at night and you've

947
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:41,199
had a fight, you're not going to solve it. You're

948
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just going to irritate each other. And you're married. If

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you're a boyfriend and girlfriend, maybe I understand, because like

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you don't want to go home, right angry, right, make up?

951
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But if you're married, you're gonna you're not going anywhere.

952
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You're not going anywhere, right, Wait till the morning, and

953
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:58,280
then you feel a little bit better, You get a

954
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,519
little you wake up and you go like, what was

955
00:49:00,559 --> 00:49:02,039
I so mad about? Anyway?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems it's different.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I agree, right a day, you just go that

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was stupid, Whereas at night it feels so much more serious,

959
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Like it feels like this is going to end our relationship. Yes,

960
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:15,000
where am I moving to? I'm gonna move to Madisonia,

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content and start over a nice small town.

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Speaker 1: And I got past that. We used to have those

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that hump that time where we would argue and it

964
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,719
would be like, Okay, it's gonna end a divorce. That's it,

965
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it's over. Like we would go to bed and I

966
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would toss and turn all night and think, am I

967
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gonna do divorce?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: But now it's like we're past that, like a scream

970
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:38,400
and yell. We're like, we know we're not gonna get

971
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,880
an ours, so let me just yell at you as

972
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,280
much as I want and it'll reason and then we

973
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resolve it. But there's no like, you know, right, get

974
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the fucking lawyers on the phone.

975
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Speaker 3: John and I have a joke. We us have a

976
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joke because it would just be funny that we had

977
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a fake divorce attorney that was an imaginary attorney. His

978
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name is Martin Marty Gomez. Marty Gomezay, he's in Tijuana,

979
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and he's like had a mobile. A mobile, okay, a

980
00:50:09,519 --> 00:50:11,639
van he worked out of a van? Like is his

981
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mobile divorce attorney? So so John would just make joke

982
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if we had a big fight sometimes and he was

983
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at work, he'd email me and he'd be like, are

984
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we calling Marty? Did you call Marty?

985
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Speaker 1: Reminds me of HARALDA Rivera whose real name is Jerry Rivers. Right, Okay,

986
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read the last question.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Sylvia Vega, what do you do when your child's

988
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best friend is a brat and her mother thinks she's

989
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an angel?

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Speaker 1: All right, well, you're preaching to the choir, and we

991
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:45,719
don't have enough time to answer that question. Sylvia, Sylva, Sylvia,

992
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We've discussed this nauseum.

993
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Speaker 3: I'm so listen to some old episodes, but in a nutshell.

994
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Speaker 1: And I'm nine years into it, and Susanna and I

995
00:50:56,559 --> 00:50:59,800
are still best friends. We just don't We got over

996
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,159
that too. We tried and tried and tried to get

997
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our kids together and it just didn't work out, and

998
00:51:04,639 --> 00:51:07,400
so we decided that we're better off not getting our

999
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kids together, and we're we're b f that.

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Speaker 3: But this is a little different though. She's saying your

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child's best friend is a brat. So we're not even

1002
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talking about saving the relationship with the parent. Like, it's

1003
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not your friend's kid, it's just your child's friend. I say,

1004
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depending on the age of your child.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we've talked about that too, Yeah we have.

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Speaker 3: But I say, like, it's up to us, you know,

1007
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,960
if you're if their kid's a brat and you don't

1008
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,000
want your kid hanging out with them, then just don't

1009
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,840
make plans with them. Yeah, and it'll go away on

1010
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,800
its own. It'll die off. It will die if you

1011
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,599
don't give it, if you don't give it oxygen and

1012
00:51:41,679 --> 00:51:44,119
give it a blood supply, and they don't see each other.

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00:51:44,039 --> 00:51:46,159
Speaker 1: It's gonna be hard for gus. There's times where she's

1014
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:48,880
your daughters are gonna say, can I can I get

1015
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,559
together with so and so? Can I get together? You know,

1016
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:53,199
so and so is busy? So and so is busy,

1017
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,199
And then after a while, your daughter's gonna think, man,

1018
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:58,519
that's so and so is really busy, and they'll forget

1019
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:00,920
moving on. That's that.

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Speaker 6: So.

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Speaker 1: Like us on our Facebook page, mm hmmm, go there,

1022
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talk to us because we talk to you guys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Follow us on Twitter because sometimes we tweet some

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00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:18,239
funny stuff. Especially Lynette at Lynette Corolla Yeah, and at

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s Wilder Tailor.

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Speaker 1: And also what's your Twitter handle?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

1028
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Speaker 4: I don't have Twitter?

1029
00:52:24,639 --> 00:52:27,519
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, where can people talk to you?

1030
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Speaker 4: Don't worry about me?

1031
00:52:29,679 --> 00:52:33,320
Speaker 3: All right? What's Gary's Gary Patrick Smith?

1032
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Speaker 1: G Pat Patrick Smith? Yeah? He needs to change that,

1033
00:52:37,079 --> 00:52:37,400
all right?

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00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, he needs to be producer Gary. We keep telling

1035
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him that.

1036
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Speaker 1: He needs to stupid ge Patrick Smith. I know who's

1037
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going to remember that.

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Speaker 3: I was going to remember that. Anyway. We love you guys.

1039
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:49,519
Thank you for supporting our show. Thank you for going

1040
00:52:49,559 --> 00:52:51,719
and buying stuff that we talk about on our show

1041
00:52:52,199 --> 00:52:55,320
and be part of our community so we can all

1042
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,159
talk to each other. Yeah, and buy gummy bear should

1043
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not be organic if you think of it. That's right.

1044
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Click through Amazon yep on our page. All right, you're

1045
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a parent, now, don't.

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Speaker 6: Up Joe event. There's a lot of rumors going up.

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Rap it's so bad, baby. You might have to set

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down see something smelling fishing and they say it's you

1049
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or I know what that you're meaning with the whole

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Day improved, they say you're a man in the During

1051
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the movie mascot of the Senior Boy Flock of Rules,

1052
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they said even walked in. There wasn't too much wrap.

1053
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:25,440
A reputation got bigger and so than a gap, because girl,

1054
00:53:25,519 --> 00:53:28,199
your mama should have taught you better. I'm gonna sit

1055
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trying to write.

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Speaker 3: You a long letter, dear.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, bet, I'm glad you ain't myself event again

1058
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if you was, But I have to treat you like

1059
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you as my distance cousin. I'm not a news reporter.

1060
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I don't mean it was sooner. What should I think

1061
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I seen your.

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Speaker 3: Coming after this bathroom?

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Speaker 6: You wasn't in the room long, You wasn't using the phone.

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The door was like for twenty minutes all I hurt.

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Speaker 2: Mon Yeah a bad, Yeah he bad?

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Speaker 6: Yeah a bad, Yeah a bad