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<v Speaker 1>And cancel, so high Ectasa, cancel, it's not sorry and.

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<v Speaker 2>Hot take. Hating on men is not going to help

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<v Speaker 2>you attract a loving good man. What's a positive bitch

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<v Speaker 2>is how are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode,

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<v Speaker 2>then you are meant to be here. So keep listening

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<v Speaker 2>on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling

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<v Speaker 2>our most empowered positive bitch self, that is babe in

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<v Speaker 2>true connection with herself or himself. On this podcast, we

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<v Speaker 2>unbecome who we are not so we can fully step

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<v Speaker 2>into exactly who we came here to be. If you

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<v Speaker 2>want to attract a loving relationship, you're not going to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to do that if you're hating on the

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<v Speaker 2>gender that you want to attract. The thing is, we

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<v Speaker 2>manifest what we really really really want, and we also

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<v Speaker 2>manifest what we really really really don't want. If all

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing day in and day out is gossiping with

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<v Speaker 2>your friends about how all men suck or how all

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<v Speaker 2>women are snakes, that's exactly what you're going to attract.

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<v Speaker 2>Think about it on a daily basis. You are broadcasting

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<v Speaker 2>all women are snakes. Or all men are trash and

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<v Speaker 2>they are terrible, then that is what you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>see in your reality. Every word you speak is instructing

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<v Speaker 2>your subconscious mind. You have something at the base of

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<v Speaker 2>your brainstem called the reticular activating system, and this acts

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<v Speaker 2>as a filter based on your own words and beliefs.

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<v Speaker 2>If you think, if you believe, if you say that

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<v Speaker 2>the only men out there are men who are trash,

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<v Speaker 2>that is what you're going to attract. That's what you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna see in your reality. You can go to a

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<v Speaker 2>party where there are ten amazing men and one trash man.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess who you're gonna start talking to. Guess who's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be attracted to you. Guess who you are going to

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<v Speaker 2>be faced with the trash man because your subconscious mind

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<v Speaker 2>wants to reaffirm to you that what you believe is

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<v Speaker 2>in fact true, So it will filter out all the

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<v Speaker 2>good men and filter towards you, the one man who's

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<v Speaker 2>going to reaffirm what you believe about the world and

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<v Speaker 2>men in general. Your life is quite literally in your

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<v Speaker 2>hands if you want to attract a better man. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I know. It might be so fun for

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<v Speaker 2>you to like the videos on TikTok that are complaining

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<v Speaker 2>about men. It might be so fun for you to

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<v Speaker 2>goss up about men and how they're all trashed with

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<v Speaker 2>your friends. Guess what, it's hurting you. The more you

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<v Speaker 2>say how terrible men are, the more you're affirming that

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<v Speaker 2>in your reality, the more you attract that to you.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, speaking from a woman's point of view,

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<v Speaker 2>but men, hello, this goes for you too. The more

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<v Speaker 2>you speak negatively about women, the more you hate on women,

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<v Speaker 2>the more you're going to attract that type towards you.

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<v Speaker 2>If you have nothing else to talk about, but how

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<v Speaker 2>bad a certain gender is, you need a hobby. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>you're boring. You are boring. I'm not gonna lie to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would I sit here and lie to you. I

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<v Speaker 2>have nothing to lose. You are boring If you have

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<v Speaker 2>nothing else to talk about, but how terrible men are?

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<v Speaker 2>You are boring. If you have nothing else to talk about,

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<v Speaker 2>then how terrible women are? Get a hobby, get a sport,

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<v Speaker 2>learn something new, pick up a book, for example, show

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<v Speaker 2>up as her my book where you can learn how

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<v Speaker 2>to become your most positive bitch self. That's right, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a whole entire curriculum on positive bitology. If you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to read my book, how about take a course

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<v Speaker 2>on how to alchemize your pain into your power. You

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<v Speaker 2>can find the Art of Alchemy chorus in the link

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<v Speaker 2>in the show notes. How about learning how to transmute

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<v Speaker 2>your shadow all the parts of yourself that you deny

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<v Speaker 2>into your golden opportunity and key to open all the

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<v Speaker 2>doors that you wish to walk through. You can take

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<v Speaker 2>the shadow Alchemy course. How about you want to learn

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<v Speaker 2>how to take your Power Back? Get the Calling your

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<v Speaker 2>Power Back workbook. There are so many things for you

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<v Speaker 2>to do, and the links for all that is in

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<v Speaker 2>the show notes. To become a more interesting person, Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>the problem is not that everyone's trash out there. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>you're boring. Maybe you really need something new to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to stop being friends with certain people because

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<v Speaker 2>all they did was talk trash about other people. They're boring.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about how I want to build

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<v Speaker 2>an empire. How there are so much good in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>How to find solutions. If you keep talking about your problem,

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<v Speaker 2>you're never gonna find a solution. Oh, I'm sorry, How

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<v Speaker 2>do you expect to find a solution? When you're still

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<v Speaker 2>broadcasting the same energy as the problem. Oh right, that

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<v Speaker 2>does it makes sense? Hello, Hello, wake up and smell

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<v Speaker 2>the matrix. What are you doing? What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>You manifest what you really really want, and you manifest

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<v Speaker 2>what you really really really don't want. If you're hating

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<v Speaker 2>on men, you're hating on yourself because you are shutting

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<v Speaker 2>doors on good, healthy relationships. Good luck, Charlie. There you go.

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<v Speaker 2>Good luck, Charlie. If you want to attract a loving relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>there are not just millions, there's billions. There's billions of

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<v Speaker 2>people on this planet who are good, who want to

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<v Speaker 2>give you love, who want to show up as your hero.

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<v Speaker 2>The other day I channeled a message for this collective,

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<v Speaker 2>and the song that came through was I want to

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<v Speaker 2>be your hero. There is someone who wants to enter

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<v Speaker 2>into your life or has recently entered into your life,

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<v Speaker 2>and they want to show up for you. They want

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<v Speaker 2>to show you how much work they've done on themselves,

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<v Speaker 2>how much of a provider emotionally, mentally, intellectually, physically they

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<v Speaker 2>can truly be. They want to show up for someone,

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<v Speaker 2>and that someone is you. You have to realize that. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>some people suck. Wow, you're on planet Earth. Not everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be great. And guess who's soul signed.

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<v Speaker 1>Up for that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yours did? Yours did?

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<v Speaker 3>Your soul knew that there's going to be duality on

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<v Speaker 3>this planet. Your soul knew that there is going to

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<v Speaker 3>be polaterity on this planet, and your soul signed up

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<v Speaker 3>to learn, develop and grow from all the different energies

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<v Speaker 3>on planet Earth. So on some level, your soul wants

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<v Speaker 3>to experience what is in your current circumstance and what

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<v Speaker 3>you have gone through. If you keep hating on men,

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<v Speaker 3>hating on women, you're hating on yourself and you're limiting

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<v Speaker 3>your ability to attract a better partner. There are, like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, some people who just suck, and then there

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<v Speaker 3>are people who are amazing who are going to teach

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<v Speaker 3>you how beautiful love can be, who are going to

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<v Speaker 3>teach you how to receive love, who are going to

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<v Speaker 3>shock you that they are even real. You are going

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<v Speaker 3>to experience the type of love where you genuinely appreciate

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<v Speaker 3>how divinity is expressed through this other vessel.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want help manifesting love, I highly recommend getting

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<v Speaker 2>my magnetizing mugs. I have a whole entire love connection

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<v Speaker 2>for divine union. I have two too too. Right here,

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<v Speaker 2>every single morning, when you're drinking your coffee or your tea,

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<v Speaker 2>that is a moment to manifest, to intend what it

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<v Speaker 2>is you wish to call into your reality. Instead of

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<v Speaker 2>listening to the news or looking at Instagram, take a

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<v Speaker 2>second encode what you're about to put into your vessel,

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<v Speaker 2>and then drink it up. This is going to fine

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<v Speaker 2>tune you to be the frequency of divine union. If

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<v Speaker 2>I've attracted you here, if you are listening, you are

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<v Speaker 2>someone who's meant to have divine union in this lifetime.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no doubt about it, or else you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>be here listening right now. Part of your your destiny

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<v Speaker 2>is divine union. Part of your destiny is learning how

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<v Speaker 2>to shed these limiting beliefs so you can see how

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<v Speaker 2>much of a conscious co creator you can really become.

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<v Speaker 2>Part of your destiny is realizing that you are the miracle.

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<v Speaker 2>You are the magic, and you are the master. If

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<v Speaker 2>you want to attract a loving relationship, you want to

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<v Speaker 2>stop hating men. First things First, get a hobby, Get

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<v Speaker 2>something to direct your mind to. Your mind is always

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<v Speaker 2>going to go towards what is loudest in its reality.

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<v Speaker 2>If you keep getting trauma experience after trauma experience, because

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<v Speaker 2>you keep going out and dating but you're not shifting

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<v Speaker 2>your frequency, You're going to compound momentum of negative energies

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<v Speaker 2>and entities. If you keep experiencing men who are inconsistent,

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<v Speaker 2>who don't treat you well, take a beat, take a moment,

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<v Speaker 2>take a seat, because there's something in your energetic field

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<v Speaker 2>that you need a cleanse, that you need to shift,

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<v Speaker 2>that you need to release before you can change your resons.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to go four weeks of isolation. I did

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<v Speaker 2>not go out, I did not see people. I would

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<v Speaker 2>go out to a workout class, I would go to

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<v Speaker 2>yoga and I would work I did not drink. I

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<v Speaker 2>stayed in and after four weeks I felt an energy

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<v Speaker 2>being released from my body. And when I went back

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<v Speaker 2>out there, it was all fine and dandy, and I

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<v Speaker 2>attracted better people. Sometimes it's not the people out there.

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<v Speaker 2>You actually need to take a beat. You need to

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<v Speaker 2>take some time to read a book, to reset, to

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<v Speaker 2>shake off some of the experiences that you have been

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<v Speaker 2>dealing with, because if you keep going out there with

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<v Speaker 2>the same frequency, you're gonna keep getting the same results.

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<v Speaker 2>Give your mind something to focus on besides the trauma

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<v Speaker 2>that you've endured. Give yourself something to be proud about.

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<v Speaker 2>Give yourself something new to talk about. Hey, friends, guess what.

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<v Speaker 2>I just tried this new yoga class and it was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta try it with me. Hey, I just started

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<v Speaker 2>reading this book and it's really changing the way I

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<v Speaker 2>think you might want to read it too. Introduce your

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<v Speaker 2>friends your family to a new way of thinking. Be

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<v Speaker 2>a beat of a light. How about that. The second

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<v Speaker 2>thing you need to do if you want to stop

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<v Speaker 2>hating men, if you want to attract a better relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>is to realize your own power. A healed woman does

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<v Speaker 2>not hate men, She just doesn't entertain the ones that

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<v Speaker 2>aren't on her level. Not all men deserve access to Hugh,

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<v Speaker 2>period full stop. When you allow just anyone and everyone

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<v Speaker 2>into your field and you don't have a high standard,

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<v Speaker 2>you are inviting in low quality experiences. Is it the

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<v Speaker 2>fault of the Brads and the Chads of the world

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<v Speaker 2>that you don't have standards? Is it the fault of

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<v Speaker 2>Joey and Germane that you keep allowing people into your

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<v Speaker 2>life that disrespect you? Whose hands is your life in

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<v Speaker 2>a mind that lives under a bridge and doesn't speak.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that who controls your life? Who controls your life?

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<v Speaker 2>Because if you're not living for you, who are you

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<v Speaker 2>living for? And what are you doing on the planet

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<v Speaker 2>right now? You have to simply raise your standard for

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<v Speaker 2>what you're going to allow in your life. And let

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<v Speaker 2>me just tell you. Every time, and sometimes I was

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<v Speaker 2>scared not gonna lie, But every time I raised my

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<v Speaker 2>standard of what I was willing to allow, I got

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<v Speaker 2>a better person, place, or circumstance every single time. The

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<v Speaker 2>divine does not disappoint. The divine does not disappoint. Say

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<v Speaker 2>it with me, The divine does not disappoint When you say, actually, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not willing to accept that. The electromagnetic field you

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<v Speaker 2>reside within will bend to your will. Your subconscious mind

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<v Speaker 2>will blossom and attract someone who is of a higher caliber.

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<v Speaker 2>But who has to make that decision?

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<v Speaker 3>You? You?

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<v Speaker 2>Only you can do it. The way I think about

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<v Speaker 2>it is, I won't even eat a cupcake. I won't

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<v Speaker 2>even put a cupcake into my body. I'm definitely not

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm not going to allow Chad who is inconsistent

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<v Speaker 2>and disrespects me into my body. I limit how much alcohol,

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<v Speaker 2>how much caffeine, how much everything I put into my body. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm definitely not gonna allow some random person into my vessel?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you allow? Reflective moment Looking back, I definitely

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<v Speaker 2>had times where I would think, why is this person

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<v Speaker 2>like this? I always think of Specimen six f four.

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<v Speaker 2>Get it. You have to understand that I treat my

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<v Speaker 2>it will manipulate the energy around me. So everyone I

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<v Speaker 2>You're also talking to someone who had four hours of

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<v Speaker 2>to science camp. We don't need to go down that

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<v Speaker 2>rabbit hole anyway. Specimen six foot four. Mmmm, he looked

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<v Speaker 2>like a Viking. Yes he did. He treated me terribly. Ooh,

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<v Speaker 2>that man was a sad individual. He just had. He

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<v Speaker 2>and said, ooh, something for me to fix. That's my

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<v Speaker 2>I was walking into it. But out of my own wounds,

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<v Speaker 2>I said, oh, yes, I want that. Out of my

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<v Speaker 2>own people pleaser, martyr wounds. I wanted that. I knew

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<v Speaker 2>full well what I was doing. Your trauma is not

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<v Speaker 2>your fault, but it is your responsibility to heal. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So with Specimen six foot four, what I had to

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<v Speaker 2>start saying to myself is, you know what, I keep

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<v Speaker 2>getting mad at this clown, But why am I not

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<v Speaker 2>taking responsibility over the fact that I keep going to

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<v Speaker 2>the circus. I don't need to go to his apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need to go meet up with him. I

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<v Speaker 2>sandwich he cooked looks good it looks terrible. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>need to do that. Instead of blaming him, why don't

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<v Speaker 2>I take responsibility. As soon as you blame someone else,

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<v Speaker 2>you're saying that your life is in their hands. As

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<v Speaker 2>soon as you blame someone else, you're saying that they

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<v Speaker 2>have more power over your reality. Than you do. If

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<v Speaker 2>you want to do that, go off. Honestly, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>affect me. Have fun. It's not going to serve you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not going to help you. You won't get good results.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to be a victim of planet Earth

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<v Speaker 2>have fun, I can tell you you won't. You won't.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's a fast pass. You won't enjoy it. Take it

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<v Speaker 2>from someone who tried it. It doesn't work. It does

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<v Speaker 2>not work. Whatever you allow you amplify in your own

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<v Speaker 2>disrespect you. If you can people allowing them to never

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<v Speaker 2>make a plan with you and text you at nine

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<v Speaker 2>pm to come over as a booty call, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to get more of. If you never require

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<v Speaker 2>them to take you out to dinner and you act

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<v Speaker 2>like the girlfriend without being paid with the title of

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<v Speaker 2>the girlfriends, you're going to get more of that. You

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<v Speaker 2>have to reclaim your power by first of all taking

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<v Speaker 2>responsibility and stop going to the circus, and secondly by

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<v Speaker 2>having boundaries. Who are boundaries for? Are they for other people?

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<v Speaker 2>Are they for the mystical mime? Under the bridge. No,

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<v Speaker 2>boundaries are actually for you for what you're willing to accept,

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<v Speaker 2>for what you're willing to endure. Did I forget to

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<v Speaker 2>mention that fun is your divine right, that pleasure is

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<v Speaker 2>your divine right, and you don't only have to learn

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<v Speaker 2>through pain. Oh yeah, boundaries are for you to have

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<v Speaker 2>a better life experience. I won't entertain inconsistency or weird,

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<v Speaker 2>shady energy. I simply don't care. No one is that important,

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<v Speaker 2>No one is that important. I came into this world alone,

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<v Speaker 2>and ultimately I'm gonna leave it alone. Do I want

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I love relationships yes? Do I love men and women?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>We love everyone. But I'm not stupid, and neither are you.

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<v Speaker 2>So I won't entertain something that's taking from me more

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<v Speaker 2>than it's giving to me. If you are dealing with

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<v Speaker 2>inconsistency narcissistic energies, all that's trying to show you is

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<v Speaker 2>you don't choose yourself enough. You're still in a people

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<v Speaker 2>pleasing container, and you need to learn how to prioritize yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>If you keep day after day getting inconsistent behavior from

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<v Speaker 2>the men that you're dating, it's showing you that you

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<v Speaker 2>are actually inconsistent with yourself. If men keep ghosting you,

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<v Speaker 2>it's because you are ghosting yourself. If they keep abandoning you,

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<v Speaker 2>it's because you are abandoning yourself. Look at what they're

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<v Speaker 2>doing to you. Because the electromagnetic field is trying to

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<v Speaker 2>show you how you're actually treating yourself. The biggest me

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<v Speaker 2>will be your intimate relationships. They are going to show

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<v Speaker 2>you exactly they're going to amplify how you're treating yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Boundaries aren't for them. It's so you don't lose your shit.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so you can remain on your own pedestal. It's

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<v Speaker 2>so you can require and then have a higher quality

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<v Speaker 2>of life. Boundaries are for you to respect yourself and

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<v Speaker 2>to realize that you have the most power over your reality.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop positively reinforcing bad behavior by people pleasing and just

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<v Speaker 2>doing whatever it is that they want. Because the more

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<v Speaker 2>you entertain the guy who's inconsistent, the more you block

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<v Speaker 2>off the lover guy who wants to give you all

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<v Speaker 2>of his love and be your hero. The more you

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<v Speaker 2>entertain the guy who doesn't really care about you, the

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<v Speaker 2>more you block off the guy who wants to give

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<v Speaker 2>you everything. The more you entertain the clowns of the world,

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<v Speaker 2>the less you're going to receive that prince energy. They

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<v Speaker 2>are there, but you're not going to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>find them. If you're engaging with people who literally don't

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<v Speaker 2>care about you, it's not about them being evil. It's

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<v Speaker 2>about you saying I have to create proximity from them.

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<v Speaker 2>They're showing me how they feel about me through their

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<v Speaker 2>actions of disrespect, and instead of me asking why don't

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<v Speaker 2>they love me? I'm gonna ask myself why do I

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<v Speaker 2>accept this behavior? Flip the script, make yourself the subject

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<v Speaker 2>of your sentence again. Instead of wondering why won't they

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<v Speaker 2>choose me? Why the hell do you never choose yourself?

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<v Speaker 2>Instead of asking yourself, why aren't they attracted to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Ask yourself, why am I attracted to someone who literally

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't care about me. This has nothing to do with them.

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<v Speaker 2>This has to do with you and your own lower

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<v Speaker 2>self worth, your low self esteem. This has to do

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<v Speaker 2>with the fact that you're still trying to prove to

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<v Speaker 2>yourself that you're worthy of love. Your inner child right

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<v Speaker 2>now is screaming, So it's time for you to realize

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<v Speaker 2>that you're not just your innercher. You're also your wives

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<v Speaker 2>inner adults reparent that girl and say, listen, little CC,

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<v Speaker 2>you deserve more. And the only reason you're attracted to

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<v Speaker 2>someone who's inconsistent is because the caregiver you crave love

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<v Speaker 2>from growing up was inconsistent with you. And you're still

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<v Speaker 2>trying to master that dynamic by repeatedly impulsively attracting people

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<v Speaker 2>who remind you of that caregiver.

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<v Speaker 1>No more.

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<v Speaker 2>Instead of trying to convince people to choose me, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to choose myself. What's going to bring me joy?

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<v Speaker 2>What can I improve in my life? What do I

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<v Speaker 2>have dreams of? And how can I make that my

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<v Speaker 2>new north star. Give your mind something to focus on

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<v Speaker 2>so that you're in control of your life. Otherwise your

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<v Speaker 2>mind will find things to worry about. If you don't

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<v Speaker 2>have something to positively obsess about that's going to empower you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like reading a new book, learning a new language, mastering

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<v Speaker 2>your body, mind's spirit, your mind will find something to

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<v Speaker 2>worry about. In the same way you wouldn't positively reinforce

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<v Speaker 2>your dog's bad behavior. Don't positively reinforce their bad behavior

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<v Speaker 2>or yours, because then you're only going to elongate your

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<v Speaker 2>own trauma. Right now, right here, We're gonna make two shifts.

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<v Speaker 2>The first shift is shifting from our inner child of

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<v Speaker 2>why won't they love me? To your wise inner adults,

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<v Speaker 2>Why don't I love myself enough to leave? Why is

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<v Speaker 2>it so hard for me to choose myself? The wrong

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<v Speaker 2>questions will never give you the right answer, So flip

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<v Speaker 2>the script. The second shift you're gonna make is from

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<v Speaker 2>Mary Magdalen to Lilith. Mary Magdalen is a very loving energy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the role of endlessly forgiving, leading with love, washing

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<v Speaker 2>of the feet, being in service. If you are consistently

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<v Speaker 2>being mistreated, you might have been in an overact of

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<v Speaker 2>Mary Magdalen energy of giving, give and giving giving, and

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<v Speaker 2>you actually need to give to yourself. So what are

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<v Speaker 2>you going to switch into Lilith? Lilith was actually, according

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<v Speaker 2>to Jewish folklore, Adam's first wife, and Lilish was banned

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<v Speaker 2>from the Garden of Eden because she decided that she

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<v Speaker 2>did not want to allow Adam to get on top

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<v Speaker 2>of her. She wanted to be on top, and when

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<v Speaker 2>he said no, she left the Garden of Eden and

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<v Speaker 2>she went near the Dead Sea. And then God sent

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of angels to try to convince her to

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<v Speaker 2>come back, and she said no. And when she said no,

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<v Speaker 2>she was basically banned from the Garden of Eden. Lilith

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<v Speaker 2>is an energy who stands up for herself, who speaks

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<v Speaker 2>up for what she wants, who says no, actually I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want you on top of me. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>be on top. Actually no, I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 2>in this space. I want to be over there. You

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<v Speaker 2>want me to come back, Well, you're not giving me

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<v Speaker 2>what I want. So the answer is no. I want

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<v Speaker 2>you to make a conscious shift. From Mary Magdalene, the giver,

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<v Speaker 2>the more martyr, the more people pleas are, the lover,

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<v Speaker 2>the washing of the feet, to Lilith. No boundaries. I

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<v Speaker 2>know what i want. I'm getting what I want. The

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<v Speaker 2>divine does not disappoint me. I'm focused, I'm energized. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>on my own pedestal from inner child to wise inner adults.

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<v Speaker 2>I have boundaries. I respect myself. I understand that the

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<v Speaker 2>higher my standard, the better quality experiences I'm going to get.

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<v Speaker 2>Something that I've spoken about is what I call the

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<v Speaker 2>Harvard principle. These Ivy League schools, they have a really

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<v Speaker 2>high standard and a low acceptance rate. Apply that to

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<v Speaker 2>your own life. Have a high standard for what you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to allow and a low acceptance rate for bs.

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<v Speaker 2>When you see someone can't give you what you want,

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<v Speaker 2>that's not a moment for you to try to prove

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<v Speaker 2>your worth. It's a moment for you to realize, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>they're incapable, but someone else will be capable. Not everyone

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<v Speaker 2>can afford Chanel. Chanel isn't like, oh my god, this

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<v Speaker 2>is so embarrassing that they can't afford me. They're like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>we want someone else, someone else who can afford me.

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<v Speaker 2>Chanell knows if that person can't afford the bag, another

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<v Speaker 2>person will. If someone can't give you what you want,

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<v Speaker 2>someone else will. There is something called the boyfriend effect,

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<v Speaker 2>where people say that when a girl gets into a

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<v Speaker 2>relationship with a guy, the guy gets better looking, better style,

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<v Speaker 2>up either gaining or losing too much weight, they say,

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<v Speaker 2>looking frazzled all the time, doesn't have enough time to

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<v Speaker 2>do or make up her hair. And the way I

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<v Speaker 2>have kind of faced this because I literally thought about

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<v Speaker 2>this and I thought that makes me not want to

417
00:23:30.720 --> 00:23:33.319
<v Speaker 2>have a boyfriend. I know this is so little, but

418
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<v Speaker 2>that really did cross my mind, And if you were

419
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<v Speaker 2>like me, you might have thought about that too. I

420
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<v Speaker 2>just want to say, having the right boyfriend, the right partner,

421
00:23:42.680 --> 00:23:46.119
<v Speaker 2>actually allows you to have like this glow up because

422
00:23:46.160 --> 00:23:48.720
<v Speaker 2>someone is giving you so much compassion, so much love,

423
00:23:48.799 --> 00:23:51.960
<v Speaker 2>so much attention that you feel so safe and grounded

424
00:23:52.039 --> 00:23:55.200
<v Speaker 2>on the planet that you actually glow up even more.

425
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<v Speaker 2>When I thought about people spreading this negative narrative, the

426
00:24:00.200 --> 00:24:03.000
<v Speaker 2>boyfriend effect, when you get into a relationship you get uglier,

427
00:24:03.319 --> 00:24:05.599
<v Speaker 2>I literally thought to myself, I'd rather be single and pretty.

428
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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I don't know what that makes me. It

429
00:24:09.240 --> 00:24:13.160
<v Speaker 2>makes me honest, I'll say that, but yeah, I'm not

430
00:24:13.279 --> 00:24:16.319
<v Speaker 2>trying to be an ugo. So I had to consciously

431
00:24:16.359 --> 00:24:19.480
<v Speaker 2>say to myself, I've reject that narrative of the matrix,

432
00:24:19.720 --> 00:24:21.640
<v Speaker 2>and I had to start telling myself that when you're

433
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<v Speaker 2>in a relationship with the right person, you actually have

434
00:24:24.759 --> 00:24:27.240
<v Speaker 2>a glow up. Now, when you are in a relationship

435
00:24:27.279 --> 00:24:29.599
<v Speaker 2>with the wrong person, you do get anxiety. So that

436
00:24:29.720 --> 00:24:32.920
<v Speaker 2>can cause weight gain, weight loss, it can cause hair loss,

437
00:24:33.039 --> 00:24:35.680
<v Speaker 2>it can cause allergic reactions. When I was in a

438
00:24:35.759 --> 00:24:38.160
<v Speaker 2>relationship for a while that was not the right one,

439
00:24:38.240 --> 00:24:40.400
<v Speaker 2>I was breaking out in hives all of the time.

440
00:24:40.839 --> 00:24:44.240
<v Speaker 2>So being with the wrong person can have a negative

441
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<v Speaker 2>effect on your physical body because you're spending so much

442
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<v Speaker 2>time in your sympathetic nervous system, your fight and flight response,

443
00:24:50.880 --> 00:24:52.960
<v Speaker 2>which means that you're going to be pumping out cortisol

444
00:24:53.039 --> 00:24:55.799
<v Speaker 2>and that's going to have a negative effect on your appearance.

445
00:24:56.240 --> 00:24:59.559
<v Speaker 2>So being with the wrong person can negatively affect how

446
00:24:59.599 --> 00:25:02.039
<v Speaker 2>you look. But let's not call that the boyfriend effect,

447
00:25:02.319 --> 00:25:05.640
<v Speaker 2>because that did affect how I looked at relationships, and

448
00:25:05.720 --> 00:25:07.559
<v Speaker 2>I want to just put that as a side note.

449
00:25:08.039 --> 00:25:09.839
<v Speaker 2>So when you're with the right person, it does make

450
00:25:09.880 --> 00:25:12.000
<v Speaker 2>you prettier, it makes you healthier, it makes you happier.

451
00:25:12.240 --> 00:25:15.559
<v Speaker 2>Being with the wrong person, whether it's a friendship, a coworker,

452
00:25:15.680 --> 00:25:17.480
<v Speaker 2>that's always going to have a negative effect on you

453
00:25:17.559 --> 00:25:20.240
<v Speaker 2>because of your nervous system. You have to start looking

454
00:25:20.599 --> 00:25:24.119
<v Speaker 2>for evidence of what you want to experience. If you

455
00:25:24.240 --> 00:25:27.720
<v Speaker 2>want to experience a good man, look for good men

456
00:25:27.880 --> 00:25:30.599
<v Speaker 2>in your life. Is there a trainer at the gym?

457
00:25:31.000 --> 00:25:34.599
<v Speaker 2>Is there an uncle? Is there a brother? Is there

458
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<v Speaker 2>a friend? Is there a father your friend's dad? Is

459
00:25:37.599 --> 00:25:40.839
<v Speaker 2>there a coach? Is there any man in your life?

460
00:25:40.880 --> 00:25:43.640
<v Speaker 2>That you look at and say, Damn, that's a good father,

461
00:25:43.839 --> 00:25:46.000
<v Speaker 2>that's a good husband, that's a good dad, that's just

462
00:25:46.079 --> 00:25:52.000
<v Speaker 2>a good man. Because the more you highlight and emphasize

463
00:25:52.039 --> 00:25:55.559
<v Speaker 2>the positive qualities that you like in the masculine energy,

464
00:25:55.799 --> 00:25:59.319
<v Speaker 2>the more you're going to attract that towards you and

465
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<v Speaker 2>when you notice it, have a moment of appreciation. Wow.

466
00:26:03.440 --> 00:26:06.400
<v Speaker 2>I really love how that coach talks to the women

467
00:26:06.480 --> 00:26:09.680
<v Speaker 2>that he coaches. He really gives them space to show

468
00:26:09.799 --> 00:26:13.759
<v Speaker 2>up as their most authentic self, whether they're being emotional

469
00:26:14.039 --> 00:26:16.759
<v Speaker 2>having a day, or whether they're feeling really strong that day.

470
00:26:17.160 --> 00:26:19.920
<v Speaker 2>He really allows them space to just be them. Or

471
00:26:19.960 --> 00:26:22.880
<v Speaker 2>I really love how my friend's boyfriend is sweet with

472
00:26:22.960 --> 00:26:25.240
<v Speaker 2>her and sensitive with her, but yet can be really

473
00:26:25.359 --> 00:26:28.480
<v Speaker 2>masculine when he needs to be. I will tell you

474
00:26:28.720 --> 00:26:31.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm in a relationship right now with such a good man.

475
00:26:32.160 --> 00:26:34.680
<v Speaker 2>I've dated other good men. They just weren't my man,

476
00:26:34.799 --> 00:26:37.440
<v Speaker 2>but they were good men. Think about men you dated.

477
00:26:37.680 --> 00:26:40.599
<v Speaker 2>Maybe they weren't the one, but you're like, yeah, they

478
00:26:40.640 --> 00:26:43.400
<v Speaker 2>were really kind, they were really nice. They showed up

479
00:26:43.440 --> 00:26:46.160
<v Speaker 2>for me if I needed something, they were there for me.

480
00:26:46.519 --> 00:26:49.799
<v Speaker 2>I recognize good people everywhere I go because it makes

481
00:26:49.880 --> 00:26:52.519
<v Speaker 2>me feel good and it makes me happy. Start to

482
00:26:52.720 --> 00:26:55.319
<v Speaker 2>recognize the good men that are in your life, or

483
00:26:55.440 --> 00:26:58.680
<v Speaker 2>even just knowing that I currently am in a relationship

484
00:26:58.759 --> 00:27:01.880
<v Speaker 2>with a good man can help you realize that there

485
00:27:01.960 --> 00:27:04.319
<v Speaker 2>are still good men out there. I met this man

486
00:27:04.400 --> 00:27:07.599
<v Speaker 2>about a little over two months ago. All those narratives

487
00:27:07.680 --> 00:27:09.920
<v Speaker 2>that there is no good men left, well, that's a

488
00:27:10.000 --> 00:27:12.200
<v Speaker 2>lie because I just met one two months ago. The

489
00:27:12.400 --> 00:27:14.839
<v Speaker 2>sentiment that there are no good men period, that's a

490
00:27:14.880 --> 00:27:17.319
<v Speaker 2>lie because I'm dating one right now. The sentiment that

491
00:27:17.359 --> 00:27:19.680
<v Speaker 2>there's no masculine men anymore, that's a lie because I'm

492
00:27:19.759 --> 00:27:23.440
<v Speaker 2>dating one right now. The sentiment that there's no emotionally

493
00:27:23.480 --> 00:27:27.519
<v Speaker 2>available guys, that's a lie because I'm dating one right now.

494
00:27:27.839 --> 00:27:29.559
<v Speaker 2>That's actually one of the first things I said to

495
00:27:29.640 --> 00:27:33.599
<v Speaker 2>my boyfriend is WHOA you are so emotionally available. I

496
00:27:33.720 --> 00:27:36.920
<v Speaker 2>was actually shocked that when I went on our first date,

497
00:27:37.319 --> 00:27:40.279
<v Speaker 2>I already deleted my hinge, and so did he, even

498
00:27:40.319 --> 00:27:42.680
<v Speaker 2>though we never spoke about it. He was still so

499
00:27:42.920 --> 00:27:46.519
<v Speaker 2>ready for commitment and a relationship. Now, mind you, before

500
00:27:46.599 --> 00:27:48.440
<v Speaker 2>we met, who deleted hinge?

501
00:27:48.640 --> 00:27:48.680
<v Speaker 1>Me?

502
00:27:49.519 --> 00:27:53.279
<v Speaker 2>I did. On eleven eleven, November eleventh, I deleted hinge

503
00:27:53.319 --> 00:27:55.599
<v Speaker 2>and then on January eleventh, I re downloaded it and

504
00:27:55.680 --> 00:27:59.680
<v Speaker 2>we matched. I knew I could not deal with any

505
00:27:59.720 --> 00:28:01.680
<v Speaker 2>more men, because if I did, I was going to

506
00:28:01.720 --> 00:28:04.240
<v Speaker 2>start to believe the negative things that people said about them,

507
00:28:04.559 --> 00:28:07.720
<v Speaker 2>because not every single relationship or experience I had with

508
00:28:07.799 --> 00:28:10.799
<v Speaker 2>a man was roses and daisies. Some of them were

509
00:28:11.000 --> 00:28:15.200
<v Speaker 2>more difficult, Some were facing me with a lot of

510
00:28:15.359 --> 00:28:18.200
<v Speaker 2>shadow work that I had to do, and I understood

511
00:28:18.200 --> 00:28:20.160
<v Speaker 2>that it was my responsibility to take a beat and

512
00:28:20.319 --> 00:28:22.720
<v Speaker 2>do that shadow work so I could stop attracting the

513
00:28:22.799 --> 00:28:26.240
<v Speaker 2>same experiences. You know what you need to do. You're

514
00:28:26.279 --> 00:28:28.200
<v Speaker 2>hearing these words, and you know what you need to do.

515
00:28:28.599 --> 00:28:31.319
<v Speaker 2>If you're feeling burnt out, delete the apps, stop dating,

516
00:28:31.599 --> 00:28:34.680
<v Speaker 2>and work on yourself. Take the shadow Alchemy course. That's

517
00:28:34.720 --> 00:28:37.440
<v Speaker 2>exactly what I did before I met my current partner.

518
00:28:38.319 --> 00:28:40.480
<v Speaker 2>I knew I needed to take a break, so I did,

519
00:28:40.680 --> 00:28:42.720
<v Speaker 2>and once I took a break and worked on myself,

520
00:28:42.880 --> 00:28:46.759
<v Speaker 2>I then did attract a better person. They are out there.

521
00:28:47.519 --> 00:28:50.599
<v Speaker 2>Start looking for them, because right now, if you're talking

522
00:28:50.640 --> 00:28:52.720
<v Speaker 2>about how all men are trash, that means you're also

523
00:28:52.880 --> 00:28:56.160
<v Speaker 2>looking for men who are trashed. Your particular activating system

524
00:28:56.359 --> 00:28:58.480
<v Speaker 2>is going to do the filtering for you. And if

525
00:28:58.519 --> 00:29:00.359
<v Speaker 2>you're thinking about how all men are tracked, that's what

526
00:29:00.400 --> 00:29:02.279
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna notice. That's what's gonna be highlighted to you.

527
00:29:02.640 --> 00:29:04.519
<v Speaker 2>So you have to start looking for what it is

528
00:29:04.599 --> 00:29:07.240
<v Speaker 2>you want to find. When you start looking for what

529
00:29:07.359 --> 00:29:08.960
<v Speaker 2>it is you want to find, the funny thing is

530
00:29:09.359 --> 00:29:12.279
<v Speaker 2>yet end up finding it. Think about the observer effect.

531
00:29:12.400 --> 00:29:17.359
<v Speaker 2>When scientists observed an electron, it's solidified. It condensed from

532
00:29:17.400 --> 00:29:21.599
<v Speaker 2>a wavelength into a three D particle. This means that

533
00:29:21.799 --> 00:29:25.440
<v Speaker 2>what we look for we will find. When the scientists

534
00:29:25.480 --> 00:29:29.640
<v Speaker 2>looked away, the one solid particle went back into wave

535
00:29:29.799 --> 00:29:33.039
<v Speaker 2>length form. What you look for will be condensed in

536
00:29:33.119 --> 00:29:35.599
<v Speaker 2>your reality. If you're looking and thinking and talking about

537
00:29:35.599 --> 00:29:37.440
<v Speaker 2>how all men are trash, that's what you're gonna find.

538
00:29:37.680 --> 00:29:39.400
<v Speaker 2>But if you look, if you think, if you feel,

539
00:29:39.440 --> 00:29:41.559
<v Speaker 2>if you talk about how there are good men out there,

540
00:29:41.880 --> 00:29:44.359
<v Speaker 2>that's what you're going to find. That's just how your

541
00:29:44.400 --> 00:29:47.000
<v Speaker 2>brain works, It's how the electromagnetic field works, it's how

542
00:29:47.279 --> 00:29:51.079
<v Speaker 2>your subconscious mind works. Let's say you're thinking, CC, I

543
00:29:51.160 --> 00:29:54.160
<v Speaker 2>don't know any good men even look at couples, and

544
00:29:54.240 --> 00:29:57.359
<v Speaker 2>I don't love this, but I'm grasping for straws here.

545
00:29:57.440 --> 00:30:00.400
<v Speaker 2>People even look at people who you think a really

546
00:30:00.440 --> 00:30:03.240
<v Speaker 2>good relationship online and say, I love the way that

547
00:30:03.359 --> 00:30:05.759
<v Speaker 2>boyfriend does this, I love the way that husband does that.

548
00:30:06.039 --> 00:30:08.599
<v Speaker 2>I don't watch like family bloggers or people like that,

549
00:30:08.720 --> 00:30:10.359
<v Speaker 2>so I don't know what's going on on the internet

550
00:30:10.400 --> 00:30:13.400
<v Speaker 2>these days, but there's gotta be someone. So find someone

551
00:30:13.480 --> 00:30:16.200
<v Speaker 2>you like and go for that. If you can't find

552
00:30:16.720 --> 00:30:18.880
<v Speaker 2>anyone in your reality that's a good man, you can't

553
00:30:18.920 --> 00:30:21.000
<v Speaker 2>find someone on the internet that you think is good

554
00:30:21.039 --> 00:30:24.160
<v Speaker 2>to their girlfriend or their wife, call on Jesus, call

555
00:30:24.240 --> 00:30:31.119
<v Speaker 2>on Archangel Michael, call on Archangel Raphael, and use even

556
00:30:31.160 --> 00:30:35.519
<v Speaker 2>a loving ancestor as someone to give you energetic security.

557
00:30:36.000 --> 00:30:37.680
<v Speaker 2>There was a time in my life where I was

558
00:30:37.839 --> 00:30:40.440
<v Speaker 2>just fed up with guys in the masculine energy, So

559
00:30:40.640 --> 00:30:43.359
<v Speaker 2>instead of relying on them in the physical form, I

560
00:30:43.559 --> 00:30:46.720
<v Speaker 2>just started working with Jesus every single day, and knowing

561
00:30:46.799 --> 00:30:49.559
<v Speaker 2>that there was this masculine energy around me that was

562
00:30:49.640 --> 00:30:53.599
<v Speaker 2>supporting me, directing me, protecting me all the time. It

563
00:30:53.759 --> 00:30:57.759
<v Speaker 2>really just gave me that extra blanket of security and

564
00:30:57.880 --> 00:31:01.599
<v Speaker 2>safety that I was wanting from a physical guy, and

565
00:31:01.920 --> 00:31:05.039
<v Speaker 2>I do think ultimately that allowed me to attract a

566
00:31:05.160 --> 00:31:08.599
<v Speaker 2>man who did give me safety. If you want to

567
00:31:08.680 --> 00:31:12.119
<v Speaker 2>attract safety, it's sort of annoying, but you have to

568
00:31:12.279 --> 00:31:15.599
<v Speaker 2>broadcast it before you actually get it out there. So

569
00:31:15.799 --> 00:31:19.519
<v Speaker 2>if you want to attract a masculine partner, start with

570
00:31:19.839 --> 00:31:23.279
<v Speaker 2>working with divinity. Date the divine In the couple of

571
00:31:23.400 --> 00:31:27.440
<v Speaker 2>months between November eleven and January eleven, what was I doing.

572
00:31:27.559 --> 00:31:29.680
<v Speaker 2>I was working with Brother Jesus. I was working with

573
00:31:29.839 --> 00:31:33.000
<v Speaker 2>Archangel Michael. I was working with my divine team of

574
00:31:33.160 --> 00:31:35.480
<v Speaker 2>light beings. I was working with Saint Germain and the

575
00:31:35.599 --> 00:31:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Violet Flame to burn up seeds of karma. I was

576
00:31:39.519 --> 00:31:43.079
<v Speaker 2>doing the energetic work because there's really no pill you

577
00:31:43.200 --> 00:31:45.799
<v Speaker 2>can take to cleanse your energy. You just gotta do

578
00:31:45.920 --> 00:31:49.799
<v Speaker 2>the work. So strap in, take a beat, and do

579
00:31:49.920 --> 00:31:53.119
<v Speaker 2>the energetic work of the shadow work of transmuting your

580
00:31:53.160 --> 00:31:57.359
<v Speaker 2>pain so you can actually attract different experiences. You can

581
00:31:57.440 --> 00:31:59.359
<v Speaker 2>blame men for the rest of your life. It's not

582
00:31:59.400 --> 00:32:01.440
<v Speaker 2>going to change what you attracts. I will remind you

583
00:32:01.599 --> 00:32:03.279
<v Speaker 2>that all the courses are in the show notes. Thank

584
00:32:03.319 --> 00:32:06.839
<v Speaker 2>you so much. Your past does not have to equal

585
00:32:07.000 --> 00:32:10.000
<v Speaker 2>your future. It does not have to equal your present,

586
00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:14.200
<v Speaker 2>and your power doesn't lie in your past nor your future.

587
00:32:14.319 --> 00:32:18.480
<v Speaker 2>It lies in this moment right here to me. It

588
00:32:18.640 --> 00:32:21.240
<v Speaker 2>was really helpful to realize that some of the more

589
00:32:22.079 --> 00:32:25.599
<v Speaker 2>I could label them negative experiences I've had with men,

590
00:32:25.880 --> 00:32:29.039
<v Speaker 2>I now on the other side of that experience, realize

591
00:32:29.559 --> 00:32:34.519
<v Speaker 2>those were destined, Those were here by soul contracts because

592
00:32:34.640 --> 00:32:38.680
<v Speaker 2>I needed to learn through those experiences. My human self

593
00:32:38.799 --> 00:32:43.519
<v Speaker 2>CEC would never have chosen what I've experienced with some men.

594
00:32:43.640 --> 00:32:46.359
<v Speaker 2>I would have never chosen that. CC didn't choose that,

595
00:32:46.519 --> 00:32:49.960
<v Speaker 2>though my soul did. My eternal soul that has had

596
00:32:50.079 --> 00:32:53.559
<v Speaker 2>many lifetimes and that will have many more lifetimes, chose

597
00:32:54.000 --> 00:32:56.960
<v Speaker 2>to have certain men come into my life and trigger

598
00:32:57.079 --> 00:32:59.519
<v Speaker 2>me and a little bit of traumatize me so that

599
00:32:59.640 --> 00:33:02.640
<v Speaker 2>I can learn to develop and grow. I've made peace

600
00:33:02.720 --> 00:33:05.960
<v Speaker 2>with that. I truly know that in my bones that

601
00:33:06.279 --> 00:33:09.799
<v Speaker 2>that was all happening for me, and on some level

602
00:33:10.480 --> 00:33:14.319
<v Speaker 2>I chose it. I am so sorry if something negative

603
00:33:14.640 --> 00:33:17.400
<v Speaker 2>or traumatizing or something really hurtful has happened to you,

604
00:33:18.079 --> 00:33:21.319
<v Speaker 2>and I do want to take this moment to just

605
00:33:21.599 --> 00:33:24.880
<v Speaker 2>honor everything that you have been through, and I want

606
00:33:24.920 --> 00:33:28.160
<v Speaker 2>to honor that you're still kicking and screaming, and I

607
00:33:28.240 --> 00:33:30.440
<v Speaker 2>want to honor that you are still here and I

608
00:33:30.519 --> 00:33:33.839
<v Speaker 2>want to honor that, even though shit has happened, you're

609
00:33:34.039 --> 00:33:37.720
<v Speaker 2>still trying so hard to heal, and you're still trying

610
00:33:37.880 --> 00:33:40.319
<v Speaker 2>so hard to show up as your best self, and

611
00:33:40.440 --> 00:33:43.640
<v Speaker 2>you're still trying to just maybe take the next breath,

612
00:33:43.680 --> 00:33:45.759
<v Speaker 2>and you're still trying to just take the next step,

613
00:33:45.799 --> 00:33:48.000
<v Speaker 2>and you're still trying just to wake up and get

614
00:33:48.039 --> 00:33:50.440
<v Speaker 2>out of bed and go to work. I want to

615
00:33:50.519 --> 00:33:54.960
<v Speaker 2>honor that because that is not easy. That is not easy,

616
00:33:55.519 --> 00:33:59.759
<v Speaker 2>and most people kick the bucket. Most people don't care.

617
00:34:00.240 --> 00:34:02.480
<v Speaker 2>They let their trauma dictate how they're going to live

618
00:34:02.559 --> 00:34:05.119
<v Speaker 2>the rest of their life. And you're not. You're not.

619
00:34:05.640 --> 00:34:08.320
<v Speaker 2>So I know if you're listening to this, then you

620
00:34:08.519 --> 00:34:11.159
<v Speaker 2>have enough will within you, You have enough momentum within

621
00:34:11.239 --> 00:34:14.440
<v Speaker 2>you to realize that maybe, on some level, your soul

622
00:34:14.559 --> 00:34:16.559
<v Speaker 2>chose is to give to you the momentum you need

623
00:34:16.639 --> 00:34:18.639
<v Speaker 2>to move forward and to build the life of your dreams.

624
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<v Speaker 2>I know that on some level, there is an ancient

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<v Speaker 2>part of your soul right now that's itching to break

626
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<v Speaker 2>to break down the barriers you feel other people have

627
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<v Speaker 2>put you in, to break down the box you feel

628
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<v Speaker 2>other people have put you in. There's a part of

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<v Speaker 2>your soul that maybe's listening to me right now and

630
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<v Speaker 2>knows that this is your truth, that you're more than

631
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<v Speaker 2>what has happened to you. You're more than what you've experienced,

632
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<v Speaker 2>and you have this new found maybe anger or resentment

633
00:34:53.199 --> 00:34:55.760
<v Speaker 2>or hurt that you know that you can take this

634
00:34:55.960 --> 00:35:00.280
<v Speaker 2>pain and use it as fuel to create. You ate

635
00:35:00.360 --> 00:35:03.199
<v Speaker 2>that business, or to do the workout, or just to heal,

636
00:35:03.400 --> 00:35:05.159
<v Speaker 2>or just to breathe, or just to go to work.

637
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<v Speaker 2>You can use your pain and transmute it into power.

638
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<v Speaker 2>You are an alchemist. You have the ability to transmute

639
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<v Speaker 2>energy into anything you want. And that's why you're so powerful.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why your soul has led you here today. You're

641
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<v Speaker 2>not listening to this by accident. You're not here by

642
00:35:23.400 --> 00:35:28.480
<v Speaker 2>some random weirdo circumstance. No, this is my divine design

643
00:35:28.960 --> 00:35:31.519
<v Speaker 2>and you designed it. Your soul designed that you would

644
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<v Speaker 2>be listening to me right now. Your soul design that

645
00:35:33.920 --> 00:35:36.199
<v Speaker 2>you would be here so you could get gifted these

646
00:35:36.320 --> 00:35:39.679
<v Speaker 2>codes to up level your life. On some level, maybe

647
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<v Speaker 2>you're realizing that your human self will never be able

648
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<v Speaker 2>to logically understand what you've gone through. Your human self

649
00:35:46.880 --> 00:35:49.559
<v Speaker 2>will never be able to logically connect the dots. Your

650
00:35:49.639 --> 00:35:52.920
<v Speaker 2>human self might not ever be able to understand why.

651
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<v Speaker 2>But what if that's not the point of what has

652
00:35:57.159 --> 00:36:01.000
<v Speaker 2>happened to you? What if the point isn't understand why.

653
00:36:01.440 --> 00:36:04.360
<v Speaker 2>What if the point was just to experience it so

654
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<v Speaker 2>you could cultivate momentum within your body to birth a

655
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<v Speaker 2>new cycle, to birth a new you, to become even

656
00:36:11.760 --> 00:36:16.519
<v Speaker 2>more powerful. What if that pain is just momentum to

657
00:36:16.679 --> 00:36:22.000
<v Speaker 2>push you forward. You don't have to agree with me,

658
00:36:22.880 --> 00:36:26.519
<v Speaker 2>but all I invite you to do is open up

659
00:36:26.639 --> 00:36:31.400
<v Speaker 2>and become curious. What if? What if, on some sol

660
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<v Speaker 2>crazy level, I actually chose this through a soul contract

661
00:36:37.159 --> 00:36:41.559
<v Speaker 2>so that I could become more powerful. I was in

662
00:36:41.639 --> 00:36:45.480
<v Speaker 2>an energy class ones and the teacher Anton was telling

663
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<v Speaker 2>us that this woman was in a really abusive relationship

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<v Speaker 2>for most of her life, and when she got out

665
00:36:54.280 --> 00:36:57.280
<v Speaker 2>of it and started to heal and did past life regression,

666
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<v Speaker 2>she actually found out that in a past life she

667
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<v Speaker 2>was her current abusive partner's abusive spouse. So in a

668
00:37:05.599 --> 00:37:08.400
<v Speaker 2>past life she abused this soul, and then in this

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<v Speaker 2>life she had to pay karmic debt to that soul.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying that to you. I'm not saying that's

671
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<v Speaker 2>what you've been through. I'm not saying that even applies

672
00:37:17.079 --> 00:37:21.239
<v Speaker 2>to you. The reason I bring this up is because

673
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<v Speaker 2>we have to realize that we are not made in

674
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<v Speaker 2>a vacuum. We have past life energies that follow us

675
00:37:29.679 --> 00:37:33.800
<v Speaker 2>into this one. And that means that, yeah, sometimes there's

676
00:37:33.880 --> 00:37:36.280
<v Speaker 2>karma we got to pay up to other souls. That

677
00:37:36.559 --> 00:37:40.599
<v Speaker 2>means that, yeah, we do choose certain experiences to push

678
00:37:40.760 --> 00:37:45.679
<v Speaker 2>us to grow, develop and learn. It means that we

679
00:37:46.039 --> 00:37:50.760
<v Speaker 2>are more than just this current incarnation. I invite you

680
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<v Speaker 2>to become curious instead of furious at what you have experienced,

681
00:37:55.559 --> 00:37:59.320
<v Speaker 2>because in curiosity, you can grow, you can change, and

682
00:37:59.400 --> 00:38:02.800
<v Speaker 2>you can try to better. I highly recommend if you

683
00:38:03.079 --> 00:38:06.559
<v Speaker 2>are dealing with more difficult energy is to join the

684
00:38:06.719 --> 00:38:08.920
<v Speaker 2>Art of Alchemy course because it's going to help you

685
00:38:09.079 --> 00:38:12.800
<v Speaker 2>transmute some of those seeds of karma, but also any

686
00:38:12.880 --> 00:38:16.480
<v Speaker 2>lower vibrational emotion that maybe you're having trouble working through.

687
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<v Speaker 2>I want to remind you that as you're listening just

688
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<v Speaker 2>to this podcast, you are changing on a cellular level,

689
00:38:23.440 --> 00:38:27.039
<v Speaker 2>that you are changing on an energetic level, and walking forward,

690
00:38:27.199 --> 00:38:29.800
<v Speaker 2>you are never going to attract what you have because

691
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<v Speaker 2>it's scientifically impossible. As you shift in vibration, as you

692
00:38:34.239 --> 00:38:36.639
<v Speaker 2>listen to these words, as you learn more about yourself,

693
00:38:37.039 --> 00:38:40.840
<v Speaker 2>your energetic signature is shifting, So what you attract must

694
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<v Speaker 2>shift its energetic law. We have to remember that we

695
00:38:45.360 --> 00:38:48.800
<v Speaker 2>don't just attract what is like a vibration to us.

696
00:38:48.960 --> 00:38:52.039
<v Speaker 2>We attract based on our own beliefs. So if I

697
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<v Speaker 2>believe that all men suck, all bosses suck, that's what

698
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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to attract. I want to remind you some

699
00:38:58.880 --> 00:39:03.000
<v Speaker 2>bosses do suck, some men do suck. Some dogs are violent,

700
00:39:03.199 --> 00:39:06.960
<v Speaker 2>some women are annoying to me, they are. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to remind you that in general, yeah, some people are

702
00:39:12.760 --> 00:39:16.840
<v Speaker 2>not great, but when you generalize that to a whole

703
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<v Speaker 2>entire gender, you hurt yourself. If I allowed past experiences

704
00:39:22.000 --> 00:39:24.920
<v Speaker 2>with women to dictate how I saw all women, I

705
00:39:24.960 --> 00:39:29.039
<v Speaker 2>would be in big old trouble. I had friendships where

706
00:39:29.119 --> 00:39:31.280
<v Speaker 2>people did not really treat me that well. Women did

707
00:39:31.320 --> 00:39:35.079
<v Speaker 2>not treat me well. They low key bullied me, they

708
00:39:35.320 --> 00:39:38.400
<v Speaker 2>isolated me, they let me out. If I was to say, well,

709
00:39:38.440 --> 00:39:40.599
<v Speaker 2>that's how all women are, I would never be able

710
00:39:40.639 --> 00:39:43.800
<v Speaker 2>to have any friends that were women ever. If I

711
00:39:43.920 --> 00:39:46.639
<v Speaker 2>allowed my negative experiences with some of the men to

712
00:39:46.760 --> 00:39:49.719
<v Speaker 2>dictate how I dated in the future, I would never

713
00:39:49.880 --> 00:39:53.920
<v Speaker 2>have been able to attract my current partner. Some chocolate

714
00:39:54.039 --> 00:39:58.599
<v Speaker 2>tastes bitter, some dogs are violent, some men are trash.

715
00:39:59.320 --> 00:40:02.920
<v Speaker 2>But stop saying it's all of them, because that is

716
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<v Speaker 2>limiting what you are able to attract. You have to

717
00:40:07.719 --> 00:40:12.039
<v Speaker 2>open up your thresholds for what you're willing to receive

718
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<v Speaker 2>and what you're willing to believe about the world. If

719
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<v Speaker 2>you don't believe that there are good men out there,

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<v Speaker 2>start to open yourself up by using what if statements.

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<v Speaker 2>What if there are really good men out there? What

722
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<v Speaker 2>if I could attract a partner that is super kind,

723
00:40:29.679 --> 00:40:34.400
<v Speaker 2>super gentle, and yet super masculine. What if my husband

724
00:40:34.559 --> 00:40:39.880
<v Speaker 2>is the hottest, wealthiest, funniest man out there? Have fun

725
00:40:39.960 --> 00:40:42.079
<v Speaker 2>with this. If you want to play a game with

726
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<v Speaker 2>yourself or friends, do the what if game. What if

727
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<v Speaker 2>I attract a partner who is everything I could want

728
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<v Speaker 2>and more?

729
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<v Speaker 3>What if the.

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<v Speaker 2>Universe blesses me with the best person I could even

731
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<v Speaker 2>conceive and think about? What if my relationships just get

732
00:40:55.800 --> 00:40:59.079
<v Speaker 2>better and better and better and better and better. What

733
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<v Speaker 2>if when someone would say that all men suck to me?

734
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<v Speaker 2>Or when I would see something I didn't like in

735
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<v Speaker 2>a man, I would just say to myself, my husband

736
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<v Speaker 2>would ever do that. That man might be doing it,

737
00:41:10.079 --> 00:41:12.039
<v Speaker 2>that man might be a cheater, that man might be this,

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<v Speaker 2>But my husband, Nope, My husband is the sweetest, the kindest,

739
00:41:15.920 --> 00:41:19.079
<v Speaker 2>the most masculine man out there. My husband would never

740
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<v Speaker 2>do that to me. So I don't care if I'm

741
00:41:21.400 --> 00:41:23.719
<v Speaker 2>dating someone in a relationship with someone. I'm just looking

742
00:41:23.760 --> 00:41:26.760
<v Speaker 2>at someone. If they do something I don't like, I'm

743
00:41:26.840 --> 00:41:29.039
<v Speaker 2>going to say my husband would never do that, because

744
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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to hurt my ability to attract the

745
00:41:32.320 --> 00:41:34.079
<v Speaker 2>best of the best of the best of the best.

746
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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, whatever you have experienced, if it

747
00:41:38.599 --> 00:41:42.000
<v Speaker 2>has left your life, just know that it gets better.

748
00:41:42.559 --> 00:41:45.719
<v Speaker 2>It gets better. If something was divinely removed from your life,

749
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<v Speaker 2>it's because there's something better out there. Your past experiences

750
00:41:49.440 --> 00:41:52.119
<v Speaker 2>with men are there for you to learn from. They're

751
00:41:52.199 --> 00:41:54.079
<v Speaker 2>not there to dictate what your future is going to

752
00:41:54.159 --> 00:41:56.519
<v Speaker 2>look like. Your past with men and who you have

753
00:41:56.679 --> 00:41:59.800
<v Speaker 2>dated is there for you to develop from. To you

754
00:42:00.159 --> 00:42:03.119
<v Speaker 2>as a jumping off point, not as a mirror for

755
00:42:03.239 --> 00:42:06.239
<v Speaker 2>what you're going to attract in your future. Let your

756
00:42:06.400 --> 00:42:10.000
<v Speaker 2>past be your past and let it rest in peace.

757
00:42:10.079 --> 00:42:13.119
<v Speaker 2>It has nothing to do with where your going. It

758
00:42:13.280 --> 00:42:17.280
<v Speaker 2>gets better from here. That's how the universe works. It's

759
00:42:17.320 --> 00:42:20.679
<v Speaker 2>constantly rerouting. You think about your GPS. If you go

760
00:42:20.840 --> 00:42:23.760
<v Speaker 2>off track, what does it do. It reroutes you back

761
00:42:23.880 --> 00:42:26.679
<v Speaker 2>onto the correct path. It doesn't bully you about your

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00:42:26.719 --> 00:42:28.559
<v Speaker 2>past and say you have to go back to where

763
00:42:28.639 --> 00:42:31.199
<v Speaker 2>you start to know. It just reroutes you onto another

764
00:42:31.320 --> 00:42:33.519
<v Speaker 2>road to get you where you want to go. If

765
00:42:33.639 --> 00:42:35.800
<v Speaker 2>you know that you want a better partner, you want

766
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<v Speaker 2>better relationships, then that's what you're going to get. But

767
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<v Speaker 2>you might be rerouted. You might have to go through

768
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<v Speaker 2>a breakup. You might have to say no, you might

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<v Speaker 2>have to set a boundary, you might have to shift

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<v Speaker 2>your beliefs, you might have to take the art of

771
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<v Speaker 2>alchemy course. But you're gonna get there. Enjoy the season,

772
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<v Speaker 2>enjoy where you're at, because it gets better from here.

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<v Speaker 2>As always, the sparkling me honors of sparkling you. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sending you so much love. If you've not yet gotten

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<v Speaker 2>your copy of show Up as Her, be shore to

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<v Speaker 2>get that so that you can elevate your frequency and

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<v Speaker 2>therefore your wife. If you did enjoy the book, be

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